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CONNECT NOVEMBER 2019
FEATURES
6 SMOKE DETECTORS AND TEN YEARS... WHAT’S SO SPECIAL?
You know that smoke detector in the hallway? Yeah, the one you (hopefully) change the battery in once a year—the one that has been there for, oh, it seems like forever. If it’s over ten years old, and it probably is, that smoke detector may not work when you need it most.
& SOUND 10 SAFE As parents, one of your top priorities is the safety and well-being of your children. With all the potential pitfalls of day-to-day life, however, navigating the risks can be difficult.
12 SALUTE TO VETERANS
The properties of Settlers Hospitality are proud to honor United States service members with special offers and programs to commemorate Veterans Day. The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort and Hotel Anthracite will offer complimentary lodging to veterans on November 11. Reservations are required. Another Hawley resort, Tanglwood, will also offer complimentary rooms to veterans.
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WORDS FROM THE TEAM
24 BOOK REVIEW
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FIRE SAFETY
25 SCARECROW CONTEST
14 DISASTER BLASTER
26 POCONO SECRETS
16 LIVING GREEN
28 OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS
18 MRS. DOGOOD
30 PETS
20 PRISON REFLECTIONS
32 BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
22 MONEY
34 AREA EVENTS
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esident • publisher • editor in chief deborah bailey production manager meica drake account representatives barry weiss • dwight gregory editorial correction services kay marks contributing writers terry mooney, Reflections of a Prison Inmate arthur middleton, MD, FAPA, Behavioral Medicine michael krupa, Finance josh sheard, Finance terri schlichenmeyer, Book Review la guzda, Pocono Secrets arnie milidantri, Classic Cars bill deaton, Outdoor Ramblings pike/wayne conservation partnership, Living Green disaster blaster, Home Tips mrs. dogood, Letters
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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risks and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.
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In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007
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Be thankful for what you have. You’ll end up having more.
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ooo, there is a chill in the air! Our November issue will heat things up. This month’s issue is all about safety & rescue, from fire to children to pets, we’ve got something for everyone! Enjoy all the Good Stuff inside. This Thanksgiving season, it is hard not to think about all the things to be grateful for! The CM team has a long list of things we’re grateful for, here are just a few! We are so grateful for, YOU, our readers. Thank you for picking us up each month and enjoying all our pages have to offer. We are so grateful for our advertisers, for without you we would not be able to publish each month. Thank you for trusting us to get your message out! We are so grateful to the brave men and women who have fought for our freedom. Happy Veteran’s Day! We salute you! From our family to yours, Happy Thanksgiving! CM Team 570.647.0085 • cmag@ptd.net
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FIRE SAFETY
You know that smoke detector in the hallway? Yeah, the one you (hopefully) change the battery in once a year—the one that has been there for, oh, it seems like forever. If it’s over ten years old, and it probably is, that smoke detector may not work when you need it most. Smoke detectors were never intended to last forever, and now new models designed for a ten-year life with sealed batteries which never need to be (and can’t be) changed are readily available. Some states now require the use of these “10-Year” smoke alarms. Maryland recently implemented a law that will require all apartments and homes to have this type of detector by 2018. These new style detectors come with sealed lithium batteries which eliminates the need to get the ladder, kitchen chair, or stool out for that annual replacement. If you’re like many folks, it’s only the irritating beeps of the low battery alarm that remind you of the need for a new battery in any case. The 10-year detector batteries are non-replaceable, which forces the resident to replace the entire unit when the battery eventually expires. So why should I buy one of those ten-year detectors? There’s nothing wrong with my existing smoke alarm. I even saw new 10-year batteries on line and at the local home center that I can use in my present detector. Problem solved. Well, not really. The National Association of State Fire Marshals has an answer. “Just like any electrical appliance, the components of smoke alarms wear out over time. When a smoke alarm reaches ten years of use, the potential of failing to detect a fire increases substantially.” They note this applies to both hardwired and battery operated detectors. The National Fire Protection Association agrees, recommending replacing all smoke alarms at least every ten years. So how many detectors should a home have and where should they be located? The answer can differ depending upon the home and local or state codes. National standards recommend that for new homes, a smoke
alarm is provided in each bedroom, and at least one outside the bedroom area, but near enough to be heard in the bedrooms with the doors closed. In addition, there should be at least one detector on each floor level of a home, including basements. This is so regardless of where a fire starts, inside or outside a bedroom, the occupants receive prompt warning. For existing homes, the National Fire Protection Association (NFPA) recommends a detector outside the bedrooms and at least one on each level of the structure. Both they and the National Association of Fire Marshals agree that more is better, and providing the numbers called for in new construction is best. There are two types of detection, photoelectric and ionization. They each look for different signs that combustion, a fire, has started, and both have advantages. Photoelectric detectors more readily pick up signs of a smoldering, slow developing fire. Ionization units are better for fires with open flames. The NFPA recommends homes have a combination of both installed. You can buy detectors of either type or dual sensor units, which use both technologies in a single detector body. For those with hearing disabilities, special smoke alarms are available. These units use strobe lights and can have supplementary vibration devices to alert residents. Where should detectors be mounted? Since smoke rises, high on ceilings or walls is best. On ceilings, detectors should be at least four inches from the closest wall. If installed on a wall, the detector should be at least four inches down from the ceiling, but no more than one foot. If your ceilings are pitched, the high point is the preferred location. Near doors or windows where air flow can interfere with their operation should be avoided, and never paint a detector. Paint, stickers, or other decorations can prevent the unit from functioning. Still not sure what to do? Some fire departments have programs to assist homeowners with obtaining and installing detectors. At a minimum, your local department can be a source of good advice. For questions, call the local fire department non-emergency phone number. Statistics vary, but all show that a frightening number of homes in which smoke detectors are installed have non-operational units. Installing 10-year sealed battery smoke detectors can help ensure functioning alarms are present and ready to help reduce the chances of tragedy.
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CHILD SAFETY
Safe & Sound 5 Ways To Reduce Safety Risks for Children
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s parents, one of your top priorities is the safety and well-being of your children. With all the potential pitfalls of day-to-day life, however, navigating the risks can be difficult. These everyday safety tips can help you navigate everything from car seat safety to baby-proofing and safe sleep, keeping your child out of harm’s way as much as possible from birth through his or her toddler years.
Car Seat Safety • Always use a valid (typically less than 6 years old), federally approved car seat in motor vehicles. • Ensure the seat is properly installed. Refer to the instruction manual with any questions.
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• If you use an infant carrier, strap your child in on the floor, never a counter or tabletop. • For at least the first two years of your child’s life, the car seat should be rear-facing. • The safest location for a car seat is in the middle of the back seat.
Choking Prevention • Avoid giving your child nuts, popcorn, hard candies, hot dogs and raw fruits and vegetables, such as grapes or carrots, that may present a choking hazard. • Never prop up a bottle and leave your baby unattended. • Inspect toys often to ensure they’re not broken and do not have small pieces that could easily become detached.
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• Be cautious of strings and buttons on clothing.
Safe Sleep • The safest place for your baby to sleep is on his or her back, which reduces the risk for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). • Avoid placing anything in the crib or bassinet that may suffocate your child, such as pillows, blankets or bumpers. • Keep your child’s room at a moderate temperature and dress him or her appropriately to avoid overheating. • Never leave your baby alone on a bed, couch, changing table, swing or infant seat.
Water Safety • Set your hot water heater no higher than 120 F. • Test the temperature of bath water before setting your baby in the tub. • Never leave your baby unattended in the bathtub. • Keep toilet lids down and consider installing toilet lid locks.
Baby-Proofing • Install smoke and carbon monoxide detectors on every level of your home and in every sleeping area. • Secure cords on blinds and drapes out of reach. • Keep sharp objects, such as knives, scissors and tools, and other hazardous items, like coins, beads and pins, in a secure place out of baby’s reach. • Store cleaning products and medications in locked cabinets. Never store potentially toxic substances in containers that could be mistaken for food or drink. • Cover all electrical outlets. • Cushion hard edges and sharp corners of furniture and decor. • Secure cords to electrical items along baseboards using electrical tape. • Attach heavy or tall furniture to the wall and avoid placing items that could fall, like electronics or lamps, on top of dressers or shelves. • Install safety gates with straight, vertical slats securely in front of all stairwells. Find more tips and ideas to keep your children safe at home and on the go at eLivingtoday.com. Photo courtesy of Getty Images www.connections-magazine.com
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VETERAN THANKS
Salute to Veterans
The properties of Settlers Hospitality are proud to honor United States service members with special offers and programs to commemorate Veterans Day. The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort and Hotel Anthracite will offer complimentary lodging to veterans on November 11. Reservations are required. Another Hawley resort, Tanglwood, will also offer complimentary rooms to veterans.
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On November 12, Hotel Anthracite in Carbondale will host a Veterans Day breakfast, free to the public at 9 a.m., first come, first serve. In addition to a presentation by Camp Freedom, the program will feature Brigadier General Wilbur E. Wolf III as the keynote speaker. As director, Joint Staff- (PA) Joint Force Headquarters (JFHQ), Pennsylvania National Guard, General Wolf oversees the programs and operations for 19,000 members of the Pennsylvania National Guard. He also assists the adjutant general in coordinating the Department of Veterans Affairs, Facilities and Engineering and the Office of Administration. His other responsibilities include serving as Deputy Commanding General, Army National Guard, United States Army Intelligence Center of Excellence and Fort Huachuca, Arizona. In that role, General Wolf represents the equities of the National Guard in the Army intelligence community and the greater Department of Defense and Federal Intelligence Enterprise. General Wolf is a distinguished military graduate of West Virginia University where
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he received a regular army commission in the aviation branch in 1985. In nine years of active duty, he served as a dual-rated army aviator (fixed and rotary wing) and dual-branch (aviation and military intelligence) qualified officer. He has held key command and staff assignments as an aviation, military intelligence and infantry officer including military intelligence battalion command and heavy brigade combat team command for the Rhode Island and Pennsylvania National Guard. His most recent assignment was assistant division commander- maneuver, 28th Infantry Division, Pennsylvania National Guard. General Wolf has held numerous leadership posts at bases throughout the United States as well overseas in Germany and Bosnia. His many awards and decorations include the Meritorious Service Medal, Joint Service Commendation Medal, Pennsylvania Meritorious Service Medal, Pennsylvania Service Ribbon, Pennsylvania General Thomas J. Steward Medal, Commendations Medals from the Army and Air Force and an Army Achievement Medal. As a civilian, General Wolf is co-owner and senior partner with Aquila Strategy and Operations Group LLC, owner of Wolf Creek Associates Consulting and Director of Marketing for Acclaim Systems, Inc. Sponsorship opportunities are available for the Veterans Day breakfast. Contact 570-536-6020 or email csimpler@settlershospitality.com if interested. At The Settlers Inn, guests can enjoy a wine and cheese fireside chat on Monday, November 11 from 4-6 p.m. The casual gathering will feature a guest speaker from Vetstock. The local non-profit works closely with The Settlers Inn as a partner in this event. Vetstock works to improve the lives of past and present members of the U.S. military and their families. The date also marks the opening of a special exhibit in The Undercroft Room at the inn. “The Art of Survival: The Vietnam War Through the Eyes of An Artist and Soldier- Joe Connor” features 36 hand drawn sketches. Connor was a resident of Milford, PA and Private First Class who
served in the Vietnam War from 1966-1967. He volunteered for combat duty, was attached to the First Infantry Division and chronicled the images before him on his sketchpad. Connor stepped in to become the official combat photographer/journalist of his division when the previous person was killed in the line of duty. The images he captured highlighted the daily life of the soldier, battle scenes and the Vietnamese people. Connor’s war photos and combat reports were published in military newspapers, civilian publications, military magazines and multiple history books on the Vietnam War. From the 200 plus sketches Connor made during his tour of duty, many were chosen for inclusion in the war collection of The National Archives in Washington D.C., while his photographs are part of the permanent archives of The Smithsonian Institution. Connor served with distinction, even earning the Bronze Star Medal for Valor awarded for his actions in ground operations against hostile forces. His call to public service continued after he left the military with numerous positions in municipal government that included a term as mayor of Stillwater, NJ. The public can view the exhibit at The Settlers Inn from November 8-12, 10 a.m.-8 p.m. “We’re honored to salute our military men and women with these programs and free lodging,” said Justin Genzlinger, CEO/Owner of Settlers Hospitality. “We wanted to take this opportunity to thank them for their service and acknowledge their sacrifices in defense of our freedoms.” For more information, visit SettlersHospitality.com
About Settlers Hospitality Settlers Hospitality, boutique multi-concept hospitality in Hawley, PA, consists of The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort, Hotel Anthracite, Sayre Mansion, The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Glasswine.bar.kitchen, Kol Steakhouse, Cocoon Coffeehouse and Bakery, Lake Region Fitness and Art on the edge. For more information, check out SettlersHospitality.com
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TIPS FOR YOUR HOME
How To Get Your Home
Ready for Winter Provided by Disaster Blaster
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As the temperatures drop, and the fall weather slowly transitions to snow and ice, many homeowners don’t realize what they could be doing now to prepare their home for winter. In fact, a little preparation now can dramatically reduce the likelihood of damage and lower your seasonal energy costs!
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Here’s what you can do now to prepare your home for winter weather! Service your furnace Furnaces and heating systems that are well serviced run more efficiently, cost less to operate, and require less maintenance. This means that your home will be kept warmer while using less fuel. In addition to the potential cost savings, a furnace technician will ensure that your furnace is operating safely and not releasing carbon monoxide or other hazards into your home.
Have your fireplace serviced Over time, creosote can build up on the inside walls of your fireplace. This doesn’t just obstruct airflow and encourage downdrafts, it can be a serious fire hazard. Avoid these potential issues and safety risks by having a qualified chimney sweep inspect and clean your chimney before you start using it for the season.
Order fuel (firewood, oil, etc.) Whether you have a fireplace or an oil furnace, deliveries can be delayed during the winter. Instead of being left out in the cold (literally), ordering fuel in advance will ensure that you’re well prepared when the temperatures drop. To avoid running out, we recommend reordering when you have at least 2 weeks of supply left.
Seal gaps and drafts A drafty door or window may not seem like a major problem, but they can
allow a tremendous amount of heat out. If you suspect you have a draft, installing weather stripping along the inside of your doorway / window opening can keep the heat inside where it belongs. If you’re not sure if you have any drafts or not, moving a candle or incense stick across doorways and windows can point out potential issues – if the flame or smoke moves, you have a draft.
Insulate pipes Water supply lines, particularly those in basements and crawlspaces, can freeze and break during periods of low temperatures. This can cause significant damage inside your home that will require a professional water damage mitigation firm to properly address. In many cases, these broken pipes can be avoided by better insulating water supply pipes with pipe insulation or heat tape.
Prepare for snow Whether you need to have your snow blower serviced or just need to stock up on rock salt, getting these things out of the way now can save you a lot of stress later. While most of us may try to avoid thinking about snow until it’s in the forecast, that’s exactly when everyone else starts thinking about it, too! Instead of being at the mercy of the stores and small engine repair services, prepare now and avoid the rush. About Disaster Blaster Disaster Blaster is an indoor environmental firm serving the Northeastern PA Area. We have been providing our local area with unparalleled water damage mitigation, mold remediation, radon mitigation, asbestos abatement, basement waterproofing, and fire / smoke restoration services for decades, and are proud to have been named The World’s Greatest Indoor Environmental Firm. For more about Disaster Blaster, as well as more helpful tips, please visit our website at: www.disasterblaster.com or call our office at (570) 963-1123.
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Volunteering for
EAGLES By Bethany Zarnowski, Communications and Development Manager for the Delaware Highlands Conservancy
Imagine it. It’s January, and you’re outside in a small, uninsulated wooden shed. The wind whips through the open windows, bringing the temperature down to about 15 degrees. Is this where you want to be?
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If you’re an eagle watch volunteer for the Delaware Highlands Conservancy, the answer is a resounding YES! Each weekend in January and February, the Conservancy’s eagle watch volunteers bundle up in their warmest clothes, grab binoculars and scopes, and head to eagle observation areas along the Upper Delaware River. They’ll spend the day looking for eagles and helping visitors to the observation areas do the same, teaching them about these magnificent birds, their habitat, and “eagle etiquette.” Our region is home to two distinct populations of bald eagles. Breeding eagles remain in the area year-round, building nests and raising young, while hundreds of wintering eagles migrate here annually from points north—some up to 900 miles away—in search of open water, food sources, and safe and protected habitat. Mitch Opresnick has been a winter eagle watch volunteer for more than twenty years. “I never get tired of seeing the eagles—it is just grand,” Mitch explains. “But my favorite part is seeing the reac-
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tions of the people when they see [the eagles] for the first time out in the wild. It’s great to be able to share that, especially with kids.” In addition to helping visitors see eagles in the wild, eagle watch volunteers fill an important role—educating the public on “eagle etiquette.” Eagles are extremely sensitive to human presence. The volunteers help visitors view them safely without disturbing them—disturbances force the eagles to use precious energy they need to survive in the winter months. The cold weather doesn’t deter the volunteers, either. They see it as the perfect excuse to get out of the house during the winter—breathing the fresh air, enjoying
nature, and meeting new people. Visit www.DelawareHighlands.org to get tickets for the Conservancy’s winter 2020 guided eagle watch bus tours, download a map to the eagle observation areas and plan your own driving tour, or learn more about becoming an eagle watch volunteer. The Conservancy’s annual eagle watch volunteer training day is scheduled for Saturday, December 7th in Lackawaxen, PA.
Bethany Zarnowski is the Communications and Development Manager for the Delaware Highlands Conservancy. Founded in 1994, the Conservancy has protected more than 15,000 acres of working farms and forests, clean waters, and wildlife habitat throughout the Upper Delaware River region and coordinates educational events and community programs throughout the year. For more information, visit www.DelawareHighlands.org, call 570-226-3164 or 845-583-1010, or email info@delawarehighlands.org.
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MRS. DOGOOD
MY OWN WOMAN By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood
Dear Editor, When I told my mother-in-law that I spoke with her deceased husband, The Reverend Mr. Silas Patriot DoGood at a séance, she wasn’t very happy. It was several months ago when my best friend Alice Bright Light, a full-blooded Chippewa Indian and evidentiary medium, held a séance for me. She held it in the yellow school bus where my father-in-law founded The First Church of God’s Love. Alice invited the deceased Reverend Silas to join us, and he did. He told me two things. First he told me I should assume his former title of pastor which I had declined to use out of respect for him. I am now the only minister, but I still use the title of senior pastor at his church. It is the same title I used when he was alive and ministering to his congregation. He also told me I should study and become a Doctor of Theology; I have a Master’s Degree in art history. His advice made me stop and think about my future. Who am I and what do I want out of my life? With these fundamental questions before me I began to question who I am. Or more accurately who I had become. Now I am wife to my darling husband Willie. And I am mother to my cherished children: my daughter Sarah with an H and my son Toby. And I am the sole minister at The First Church of God’s Love in Halo, PA. But in truth, aren’t they just labels? Yes they define my relationships to others, but who is the woman underneath? Who is the woman in those relationships? Who am I? Crossword puzzles. To answer who I am, I would often sit at home at night in my dimly lit parlor, drink a cup of green tea and think. Thinking was a little easier late in the evening because everyone else had gone to bed. I forced myself to ask difficult questions. Why did I do certain things? What were my emotions? What was I thinking? I began to realize my life was like a crossword puzzle. As I filled in the blanks for one question, that answer would intersect with the answer to another question. Why did I marry? Because I love Willie. Why
did I have children? Because I love Willie and want to create a community of love … my family. Why do I want to minister to my congregation? As a child I loved planting flowers. I was fascinated by it. I would plant a seed in the earth, water it and soon the soil would spread open and a tiny green stem would begin to appear. Where did the power come from to make this happen? It couldn’t come from the seed itself because it would have already come to life. I realized that the power to bloom came from the earth. I realized that our globe is a silent mystery upon which we all reside. It somehow contains the power to give life. My answers began to intersect in a way that I could begin to understand myself. In a very meager way I wanted to be like the earth, bringing forth good things. All of my congregants had seeds of goodness in them, and my job was to make them flourish. Having come to this realization, it became clear that it didn’t matter whether I was called pastor or senior pastor. So I’m keeping senior pastor. The name which most defines who I am is my surname: DoGood. It is the name which became mine when I married Willie, the son of the Reverend Silas DoGood. When I told my mother-in-law about the séance, she said I had committed a terrible sin. “You have no right to interfere with nature. There are two worlds, and they should never meet.” However, as I was leaving she held open her door and said “Why didn’t you invite me?” Amen.
The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love
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Prison Reflections
“Blood Moon”Part II By Terry Mooney
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his story is told by a very successful local restaurant owner. The candor and emotion that come through his narrative is truly touching. This man has a light emanating from him, a testimony to his determination to fight his demons and come out with a five star rating, just like his pizza!
My Story I walked on egg shells from the age of six to twelve. Then one day something happened on the field while I was playing baseball. I saw how people reacted to me. For once in my life, I had the approval of others, something I’d never felt from my parents. The irony is that my dad was my sports coach, and I lived in his shadow. He was tough on me, and to him I was never good enough. When other coaches began recruiting me and made me catcher, I won against my father’s teams. I’d separated the man from the boy. You know how they say “fake it ‘til you make it?” From then on I was determined to be great at everything I would ever do. I just don’t ever let go. But I’m always one step ahead of that pain. One day I was getting off a bus, jumped over a pile of snow, slipped and tore up my knee. After my surgery, it was the end of playing sports. I started drinking socially with my friends but then took it to another level. Still I never gave up. As young as my teens, I worked in restaurants. I could walk through a kitchen and know immediately where everything was. I have this machine inside me that’s always going. I take two hour naps. I never sleep through the night. I’m always working, always thinking, always worried. The reason I go to alcohol is to shut it down for a time, just like I did when I was a young boy. I am a work machine, a guilt machine and a shame machine. At one point, I was drinking every day. I would put myself in dangerous situations hoping someone would take me out. I would start fights so it might be the end of incessant suffering. At 37, I looked in the mirror and knew I was ready for detox. I checked into St. Christopher’s Inn which is a rehab and homeless shelter. It truly was a holy place. Run by the Franciscan monks, they explained spirituality in a way I finally could understand it. We attended mass every Sunday and could even join a choir if we wished. Everyone worked somewhere. I worked in the kitchen and also the gift store, and, of course, was the manager of both. Every day around 3p.m., we went into a room and had our rehab programs. We called each other brother. They don’t send anybody away. They feed you, cloth you and give you work. I spent ninety days there. For the first time, I felt safe and nurtured. My whole life I begged God for a sign that He really existed. I wondered where He was while I was being beaten and molested as a helpless child. Then I learned to just block out the pain with alcohol. One night, I looked up at the sky and saw one of the blood moons that had been prophesied. It was magnificent! I knew it was the sign from God that I’d always craved. Life was beginning to change for me. I can’t just play victim to my past. Ultimately, good is going to win out. If you stay in the solution, the problems are an opportunity. If I feed into the problems, more are created. Staying solution-based, the problems are solved. Keeping God in sight, I’ll stay sober and in peace.
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Saving
Fro m A g e 1 6 t o 6 0 Yo u r
Christmas Budget Giving gifts never gets old.
It’s always fun to see a loved one’s eyes light up as they open a special Christmas gift you snagged just for them. You can’t help but smile too. While your enjoyment of the season doesn’t change as you get older, how you spend your money definitely does. It’s a lot like the 7 Baby Steps, actually. You start small, and as you’re able, you pour more of the resources God’s given you into generous giving. That’s why we think Christmas only gets better with age. Now we know Christmas is still a couple months away, but it’s never too early to start saving for Christmas! But first, you have to know what your budget will be. Just for fun, we made a list of Christmas budgets from your teen years to your retirement years. Wherever you are right now, we wish you the sweetest of celebrations for the upcoming Christmas season!
pay for the duplex you’re splitting with three other people. Way to be an adult. It’s safe to say you’re not exactly bringing in the big bucks. Your roomies may get a homemade card if they’re lucky—and the heating bill doesn’t go up.
30s: Christmas is all about the kids now: your kids, your sister’s kids, your brother’s kids, your friend’s kids. But you have to draw the line with the amount of gifts you can buy and give! Your young family is still in the planning stages of life and expenses are high (read: kids). But there’s nothing quite like watching wide-eyed little ones tear into wrapping paper. So worth it.
40s: Christmas is still about the kids, but instead of teddy bears and Tonka trucks, your tweens and teens want cell phones and laptops. Good thing your income is keeping up with their maturing taste— unless that taste includes a new car. That’s so not happening.
Teens: You’re focused on buying clothes and gadgets for your BFFs. You don’t have a care in the world because bills aren’t in the picture yet, and your part-time job provides a constant stream of fun money. Christmas is just another excuse to spend a few extra hours at the mall with your pals.
20s: Ah, this is a weird time when it comes to money. You’re working full-time trying to
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50s: Family time is your focus now. With the kids away at college most of the year, you love spending time together at Christmas. Gifts become less about stuff and more about sharing experiences, like renting a cozy cabin or heading out on a holiday lights tour. This is the good stuff. And it’s what you’ve been missing as they’ve been off studying (at least you hope they have!).
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60+: Let’s be honest: Kids are great, but grandkids are stinking awesome. Who can resist those cuddly fat rolls and first steps? They just melt your heart. Now that you’re retired, or thinking about retirement, you have some extra time and cash again to spoil your grandbabies with toys, trips and treats. And you wouldn’t have it any other way. You’re absolutely smitten. No matter which season of life you will be in this Christmas, give as generously as your budget allows. And remember to slow down and focus on those sweet smiles and precious memories. They’re the best.
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Book Review YOUR TEACHER SAYS “NO FIGHTING ON THE PLAYGROUND.”
that practice and pretend came in handy when a real bully came after Ira. Gordy stepped into the fray because he knew Joe No pushing, no smacking, and defiLouis wouldn’t let Ira fight alone, but hitnitely, no hitting. It’s not nice, he says. ting someone in anger made him sick. Was That’s what bullies do, you know. But as that how Joe Louis felt? That evening, Ira you’ll see in “A Fist for Joe Louis and Me” and his father came over to listen to Joe by Trinka Hakes Noble, illustrated by Louis versus Max Schmeling on the radio. Nicole Tadgell, sometimes fists and gloves For years to come, it would be called The equal a fistful of friendship. It was the best Fight of the Century, but in the end, it of traditions: every Friday evening, right wouldn’t last long: just a little over two after work, Gordy’s minutes. Its effect dad gave Gordy on two little boys, boxing lessons. however, would last After that, they’d for many years… eat dinner together Considering all and listen to the that’s happened in fights on the local the recent past, “A radio station. It was Fist for Joe Louis especially good and Me” couldn’t when Joe Louis was be more timely. in the ring. But Using as a backdrop then “times got an event that made hard”, people starthistory nearly nineed talking about ty years ago, author Germany, and Trinka Hakes Noble Gordy’s dad lost his tells a story of a job. The Friday young African night tradition American boy and stopped for awhile, his friendship with and Gordy’s mom a Jewish boy. It’s a had to take in some tale set during the tailoring to pay for Depression when the family’s groanti-Semitism and ceries. One night, racism made poverwhen Mr. Rubinty seem a little bit stein, whose family sharper, but Noble’s left Germany to characters don’t escape the Nazis, By Trinka Hakes Noble complain. Instead, stopped to drop off Illustrated by Nicole Tadgell they face problems the work, his son, Reviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer together, which Ira, came along. leaves behind the idea that we can find That was when Gordy learned that other common ground and mutual interest, if kids admired Joe Lewis, too. But Ira didn’t we’re open to them. That, and artwork by know the first thing about boxing! He didNicole Tadgell, make it an appealing mesn’t even know what “dukes” were, so sage for any age. Gordy had some teaching to do. Every time This book is meant for gradeschoolers, Mr. Rubinstein dropped off some work for but be sure to go over the author’s note Gordy’s mom, Gordy and Ira practiced boxwith your child, found at the end. It adds ing out in the alley. Gordy taught Ira how meaning to the story inside “A Fist for Joe to keep from getting hit too hard and they Louis and Me”, and it makes this a book had fun pretending. They even made up your child will fight to own. boxing names for themselves. Weeks later,
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Documentary
In My Wildest
DREAMS Jeanne Genzlinger By LA Guzda
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have the good fortune to work with some very special and talented folks. One is Henry Skier, a true visionary who is passionate about people, community and creativity. Henry has created a program called, In My Wildest Dreams, that features mini documentaries of successful people and the challenges they’ve faced. It is inspirational and insightful. I had the pleasure to interview the formidable Jeanne Genzlinger. Jeanne along with her husband of fifty years, Grant
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Genzlinger, was the proprietor of The Settlers Inn, The Sayre Mansion, Cocoon Coffee House as well as influencers in The Silk Mill, Ledges and Glass Restaurant, and Silver Birches Resort. I have always had great respect for Jeanne. She is a strong, smart and savvy businessperson. She is also highly creative with an impeccable talent for design and detail. The Settlers Inn is my favorite place for breakfast (as well as any meal as they offer the best wine list in the area!) Sitting in this authentic
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1920’s arts and crafts lodge makes me feel like I am somewhere in the English countryside. Everything you see has a story. That is the magic of Jeanne. She is relentless in her research and her ability to acquire the perfect piece for just the right place. Everybody has a story. Jeanne’s is a love story. How many people celebrate fifty years together? Not only living together but working together too! She and Grant have great affection for good food, good drink and good company. That’s a great recipe for excellence in hospitality. Jeanne is also a trailblazer for women. She is the first woman to serve as the chair for the Pocono Mountains Visitors Bureau and the first woman to serve on The Dime Bank Board of Directors. She helped create the Downtown Hawley Partnership among many other contributions to our community. I invite you to visit www.InMyWildestDreams.org and watch Jeanne’s
video. We had the privilege of working with Peter Freed as the director of photography and editor. Peter is a nationally acclaimed talent known for his celebrity photography and interviews. I hope you take a moment to view some of the other videos. And, I hope they serve to inspire you and your dreams. We are all dreamers. To quote Richard Branson, “If your dreams don’t scare you, then you’re not dreaming big enough.”
Dream Big. Be Thankful. Create something special. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PoconoSecrets Visit www.LAGuzda.com or www.PoconoSecrets.com for past articles.
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Outdoor Ramblings
Staying Put When
Getting Lost By Bill Deaton | williamjdeaton@yahoo.com
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hile the summer brings people into the woods by droves, the autumn sees its fair share of wilderness visitors, too. By and large, those that trek out in warmer times typically stick to the trails; however, hunters are more likely to be found in the bush. Consequentially, calls for search and rescue teams come with greater frequency in the fall.
Plan to Get Lost • While it would be great if everyone carried a survival kit that contained emergency blankets, ponchos, tarps, and water purification tablets, keeping a few essentials such as a disposable lighter, a pocket knife, and a whistle on your person might be the difference between staying safe and becoming a statistic. • Planning to get lost can substantially decrease the chance that you will get lost as well as increase the chance that you will be found relatively warm, dry, and in good condition. • Tell someone where you are going and when you plan to return.
Hug a Tree • Once realizing you are lost, stop, as long as you are in a safe location. If not, find a place that is safe and preferably offers some sort of shelter from the elements such as a sizable boulder, an evergreen tree, or even a large blowdown. A thicket of laurels or rhododendron can work too. • Man-made noises, the sounds of roads or civilization, and streams might lead you in the correct direction to safety, but they could be miles away or take you into unnavigable terrain. • It’s best to stay where you are and start blowing the whistle in bursts of three blows. You can blow a whistle for a lot longer than you can yell. If rescuers call out, answer, but keep blowing, too. • If you have the means, start a campfire. • Dry leaves can be stuffed into clothing for added insulation. You can also burrow under a pile of leaves for warmth. Constructing a shelter takes some know-how and burns calories that you need. Unless there is precipitation, the time and effort put into making one isn’t usually worth it.
Points to Ponder • Anybody, regardless of their level of woodcraft skill, can get lost. • Weather, darkness, dehydration, intoxication, fatigue, and unfamiliarity of the terrain can all be major factors that cause disorientation. • These symptoms compound the process and getting un-lost becomes all that more problematic. • Remaining calm is the most essential thing. Bad decisions are made when panic sets in. • If you can contact 9-1-1, give them as much information as you can about where you began, what your route was, and note anything you can see, hear, or smell about the location you are at. By no means is this a comprehensive list of “what to do” or “how to survive”. If precautions are taken before leaving, most “lost” subjects are “found” in a matter of hours or the following day after being reported. The key is having someone know you are lost, so let someone know where you are going and when you plan to be back. www.connections-magazine.com
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Pets
Tips To Help Ensure Pet Safety
Emergency Preparedness Preparing for an emergency can be a challenge. It oftentimes is hard to foresee when disaster will strike and how to properly prepare before it occurs. When it comes to managing pet safety during an emergency, the unpredictable can make the preparation process even more difficult. Regardless of a pet’s size or demeanor, a disaster can take a toll on a pet without proper planning. Keep in mind that all pets are different, particularly when the unexpected occurs. From accommodating their nervousness to tracking their food or medication requirements, understanding the
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needs of your pets can make a difference in the handling of an emergency. Consider these tips from PetSmart Charities to help create a preparedness plan for you and your pets.
Pack in Advance Arranging emergency supplies ahead of time can be a helpful first step when creating a pet preparedness plan. Essentials for packing include bowls for food and water, basic first aid items, lists of vaccinations and medications and a spare leash and collar. Consider adding the pet’s
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name and your phone number to the collar to ensure you can be contacted if you become separated from your pet. Keeping these items close will be essential if you’re able to stay in your home, but if there comes a time to leave your home, bring along a week’s supply of food and water, labeled pet medication and a crate to provide a safe space for pets that may feel nervous or frightened. “Plastic or wire crates will not only safely contain and transport pets, but they also condition relaxed behavior,” said Amanda Landis-Hanna, DVM, senior manager of veterinary outreach at PetSmart Charities. “Using a crate can provide a familiar reference point for pets during times of fear, uncertainty and anxiety.”
Dodger 6 year old bulldog mix who is friendly with people. He is selective on some dogs and cats.
Pick a Safe Location Knowing where to turn in the case of a crisis can be tricky when bringing pets along. Try locating an array of safe places that allow pets and keep the list on-hand in the event of an emergency. Locations range from the homes of friends and relatives to hotels and disaster shelters; however, be sure the accommodations are petfriendly and do not have restrictions on specific animals or breeds. If those locations won’t suffice, check with your local humane society or Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (SPCA) to see if they offer facilities during disasters or can provide recommendations.
Ready Yourself When disasters take place, try to maintain as much of a ready-to-go mindset as possible. With items packed in advance and locations in mind, it can be beneficial to have details and items sorted, like a toothbrush and other easily overlooked necessities. Although the needs of your family members, whether they are fourlegged or two-legged, are at the forefront of your mind, it can put you at ease knowing your needs are in check.
Copper Very friendly 1 year old cat. He is good with other cats and loves to lounge around and ask for attention.
For more tips to prepare you and your pets for an emergency, visit petsmartcharities.org. Photo courtesy of Getty Images
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BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
What Is
BipoDisorder? lar II Today I felt pass over me A breath of wind from the wings of madness.
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n today’s pressured society, we have become accustomed to a constant influx of data and information. The inability to deal with the daily stresses of life sometimes leads to the development of anxiety, depression, and increasingly the thought that something might be wrong with one’s ability to control his or her moods. The use of the term “mood swings” has become a commonly recognized and often misinterpreted term, especially as it refers to symptoms which describe the clinical condition bipolar disorder. This disorder and the symptoms that are associated with it are typically addressed by health professionals in a wide variety of clinical settings with patients who believe that their “mood swings” are indicative of bipolar disorder. Increasingly, owing to the demands of their patients, and on the basis of the “symptoms” that their patients describe, many are being treated with medications, often with results that suggest that the diagnosis was not correct. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has identified “Frequent Mental Distress,” or FMD, identifying “stress, depression and problems with emotions” over the course of thirty days as a measure of mental health. Poor mental health is considered to be present if FMD is present for fourteen or more days out of a typical month. The CDC estimated that 9.4% of U.S. adults experienced FMD during the periods 1993-2001 and 2003-2006. While depression, using 2004 statistics, was
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the “third most important cause of disease burden worldwide”, bipolar disorder was considered the “most expensive behavioral health care diagnosis costing more than twice as much as depression per affected individual”. The cost has been attributed to the indirect costs of lost productivity as well as the costs of inpatient hospitalization. The CDC reported that the inpatient hospitalization rate for patients who were diagnosed with bipolar disorder was 39.1%, which was significantly higher than the 4.5% rate for hospitalization that included all other patients with behavioral health diagnoses: depression, anxiety and Schizophrenia as examples. We all experience changes in mood. We experience sadness, happiness, and anxiety, as well as periods of agitation throughout our daily lives. What type of “mood swing” identifies the individual with bipolar disorder? The following fictional clinical vignette is presented to highlight the issues associated with bipolar disorder. JT is a 29-year-old single woman who is employed as a school guidance counselor. She is well regarded by her peers but is noted to be mercurial in her moods; at times quite demanding with respect to the quality of work that she performs and her expectation of others. JT recently returned to the high school where she has worked for the past three years. She had been on medical leave for six weeks, in order to be treated for depression, which did not require hospitalization but was severe enough to warrant a medical leave.
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JT has a supportive family and a boyfriend of two years who encouraged her to take the time off as the number of antidepressants that had been tried appeared to be unsuccessful in treating the severity of her depression. JT had shared with her family that she had experienced suicidal thoughts but had no plan or intent to harm herself. She was frustrated by her inability to feel consistently happy, feeling that her antidepressant medications would “stop working,” despite an initial period of improvement. When she resumed her work, she had been able to cope with her chronically depressed mood. However, over the course of the next week and thereafter, she began to experience persistent agitation and irritability that was difficult to manage. Her irritability was obvious to friends and co-workers who began to avoid her. JT viewed herself as more important in her work and felt that her co-workers were probably jealous of her status. She frequently interrupted her co-workers at meetings and was increasingly easily distracted. Her sleep decreased to the point that she was sleeping only three hours each night, and she attributed her irritability to her sleep disturbance. She was asked to see her supervisor who told JT that her change in mood was quite noticeable and gently encouraged her to see her doctor. Up to this point, JT had seen her primary care doctor and was maintained only on an antidepressant. She did see her doctor who was actually surprised at the change in her behavior, finding her to be easily irritated to the extent that JT demanded that she be prescribed a different medication to treat “her nerves,” or she would walk out of his office. Her primary care doctor did prescribe an anxiolytic, in this instance diazepam or Valium. But her primary care doctor also insisted that JT see a psychiatrist. Previously, she had refused to do so stating that her mother was treated for many years for a psychiatric illness, believed to be Schizophrenia, but at the age of 50 took her own life. JT stated that she did not trust psychiatrists and for this reason did not wish to be seen by one. However, her primary care doctor insisted, telling JT that she needed more specialized care. JT reluctantly agreed to see a psychiatrist. When seen by the psychiatrist, who obtained a
detailed history, JT was surprised when the psychiatrist diagnosed her condition as bipolar II disorder. JT said she was familiar with bipolar disorder, but had never experienced a manic episode and did not feel that she had this condition. However, the psychiatrist explained to JT that it was his clinical opinion that her mood irritability was a “hypomanic episode,” as distinguished from a manic episode; distinguishing hypomania as a condition in which the level of instability that was typically seen in a full manic presentation, was not present. The psychiatrist recommended that JT be started on a mood stabilizer, lamotrigine or Lamictal. This medication was started at 25 mg daily and increased by 25 mg every two weeks. JT did not miss work, and over the course of the next several weeks was noted by her co-workers to be significantly improved. JT decided to accept the recommendation for psychotherapy. She has been able to work through the issues that she had with her mother and now understands that in all likelihood, her mother had Schizoaffective Disorder, which was characterized by depression and a thought disorder. One year later, JT is still doing well. Her mood instability has resolved and she has been stable. Visit CM’s website for more on Bipolar II Disorder
The following references are provided for the informed consumer: Types of Bipolar Disorder (Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance) http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/PageServer?pagename=education_bipolar_types Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: Burden of Mental Illness http://www.cdc.gov/mentalhealth/basics/burden.htm MedlinePlus: Impact and Response to Mental Illness http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/podcast/transcript081213.html
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Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, PA.
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EVENTS
Y O U
ENTERTAINMENT
ARTS
RECREATION
a+r+e NOV ’19
THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF
C O N N E C T E D
Ongoing Events DAILY Art-a-Pelago D.J. Harvey Agency and The Bodhi Tree Art School & Studio, Honesdale. One art gallery in two locations (Paros-Anafi). Open on Second Saturdays 6–9 p.m. & regular business hours of each location. Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Honesdale & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work. DAILY Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. WEEKLY Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net. TUESDAYS Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Dingman Township Branch Library, Dingman Twp. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. TUESDAYS Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@gmail.com. TUESDAYS Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467.
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WEDNESDAYS Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Milford Branch Library, Milford. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. WEDNESDAYS Story Time 10:30–11:30 a.m. Pleasant Mount Public Library, Pleasant Mount. Bring your young children & grandchildren to the library for a fun-filled story time. Included will be crafts, games, songs & of course, a story. Info: 570-448-2573 or www.waynelibraries.org. THURSDAYS Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Newfoundland Public Library, Newfoundland. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. THURSDAYS (EXC. NOV. 28) Live Music with John Curtin 6 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. THURSDAYS Live Music 6–9 p.m. Kol Steakhouse, Hotel Anthracite, Carbondale. Info: 570-536-6020. THURSDAYS Pub-O-Lympics 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. A combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with your team to win a gold medal, gift certificate & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-4388. FRIDAYS Pike County Workforce Development Agency 1–3 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. FRIDAYS Hawley Farm Market 2–5:30 p.m. Bingham Park, Hawley. Produce, meats & poultry, baked goods, maple syrup &
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EVENTS honey, fruits, milk & ice cream, art, crafters & foot reflexology. Rain or shine. Info: 570-336-1644. FRIDAYS Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-4388 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. FRIDAYS Live Music at Tannery Room 8–11 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. SATURDAYS Wayne County Farmers’ Market 9:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Willow Avenue next to Dave’s Super Duper, Honesdale. The selection of produce
Choir will perform this summer in Farm Arts Collective’s performance events. Info: Tannis, 917-566-7698 or www.farmartscollective.org. THROUGH NOV. 8 John Willard Raught: Beauty Lies Close At Home Hope Horn Gallery, The University of Scranton. Raught was an artist & writer who was born in Scranton, Pa., studied & traveled in New York City, NY & Paris, France. He returned in his later years to live & work in NE Pa. Exhibition provides an overview of Raught’s work. Info: 570-941-4214.
November 1– November 9 NOV. 1 Sounds Like Teen Spirit 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. An opportu-
THROUGH NOV. 27 LOBSTER FEST 11:30 a.m.–9 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Daily specials including lobster chowder, lobster, shrimp & avocado napoleons, whole broiled lobsters & more. Full menu also available. Info: Silver Birches, 570-226-4388 or SilverBirchesResortPA.com. changes with the season, but there is always a wide variety of locally made household items, baked goods & decorative items. Rain or shine. Info: 570-488-5435. SATURDAYS Drop-in Family Story Time 11 a.m.–Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Join Miss Melanie for a story, followed by a fun craft for the whole family to enjoy. Info: 570-253-1220 or www.waynelibraries.org. SATURDAYS Main Street Farmers Market 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Strives to provide the greater Honesdale community with access to superb local agricultural products. A vibrant & friendly gathering of local producers & enthusiastic consumers, connecting through a mutual appreciation for each other & for the regional foodscape. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020. SATURDAYS Madrigal Choir 3–5 p.m. Farm Arts Collective invites male & female singers to participate in Madrigal Choir, an ensemble that is learning ancient 15th Century choral music. No experience necessary. Madrigal
nity to showcase the talent of our community’s youth. School-aged students are encouraged to share their performing art on stage: guitar, rap, stand-up comedy, poetry, singing, juggling or keyboards. All ages invited to watch & enjoy. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 2 Boy Scout Badge Festival 9:30 a.m.–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Various programs & overnight options available for all ages. Call for more info: 570-828-2319. NOV. 2 Romping Radishes: Maybe Something Beautiful 11 a.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. What makes community beautiful? Make vibrant art to brighten the day. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. A healthy snack is provided. Parents/ guardians must stay with their children for duration of the class. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 2 Tricky Tray Noon. Delaware Valley High School, Milford. DV Music Dept. Booster Club’s annual event. Calling begins promptly at 2 p.m. 50/50 raffle & door
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EVENTS prizes, together with snacks & drinks for sale throughout the event. Admission is free. Snow date Nov. 3. Info: dvmusicboosterclub@gmail.com. NOV. 2 Turkey Party 7–11:45 p.m. Ledgedale Vol. Fire Co., Lake Ariel. First spin at 7 p.m. Great prizes, free refreshments. Info: 570-689-9457. NOV. 2 Who Killed Leclair? Infusion Baroque 7:30 p.m. Good Shepherd Episcopal Church, Milford. A lively investigation into the murder of JeanMarie Leclair (1697–1764) by a consummate ensemble of Baroque flute, violin, cello & harpsichord. Program also includes music of Leclair’s rival, composer Jean-Pierre Guignon. Info: 570-409-1269 or www.kindredspiritsarts.org. NOV. 2–DEC. 2 Art Exhibit: Nancy Hopping, “Living with Wildlife” Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Award-winning wildlife photography. Nancy captures the beauty of Pocono wildlife & captures what she sees & feels in her photography. Opening reception Nov. 2, 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. NOV. 3 Greene-Dreher Vol. Fire Assoc. All You Can Eat Breakfast Buffet 8:30–11:30 a.m. Greene-Dreher Vol. Fire Assoc., Newfoundland. Eggs, potatoes, sausage, bacon, ham, corn beef hash, pancakes, sausage gravy over biscuits, toast, homemade French toast & all drinks. Info: 570-676-4207. NOV. 3 Fire Building 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Ages 10+. Learn some primitive & modern fire-making skills. Try your hand at a flint & steel & more. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 3 Beginner Conservation Photography 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Learn some beginner techniques on how to frame a picture & then apply those skills on PEEC’s trails. Great for children & those starting from scratch. Participants need a camera for pictures; even a phone camera will do. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 3 Autumn Tea Party 2–4 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Autumn & tea go hand in hand with the stormy weather, gorgeous fall colors & seasonal occasions to gather, creating a warm & memorable gathering that
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NOV. 2 Honesdale Rotary’s International Flavors Dinner 5–7 p.m. Honesdale High School, Honesdale. A sumptuous buffet of dishes from around the world cooked up by local restaurants & Rotarians. Tickets available from local Rotarians & branches of The Honesdale National Bank, Wayne Bank, Dime Bank, & at the door. Info: Facebook. will be remembered throughout the cold days of winter. Info: 570-689-9494 or www.lacawac.org. NOV. 5 Annual Election Day Bake Sale Noon–8 p.m. Unity Grange Hall, Damascus. Proceeds help support Tri-Gal 4-H Club community service projects. Large variety of items for sale. You do not have to vote at this polling place to enjoy the bake sale. Info: 570-224-4536 or stjune07@aol.com. NOV. 6 Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental educators explain the bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061.
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EVENTS NOV. 6 HYPE, Healthy You, Positive Energy 3:45 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Free to attend. Rapping About Prevention & Special EFX delivers a high-energy dance & rap performance. “Healthy You, Positive Energy” is emphasized, covering good nutrition, drinking water & keeping active, all while having an amazing time. Upbeat music covers a wide range of genres, for grades K–12. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 6 Dinner & “Paint & Sip” with Barbara DeMauro 5–8 p.m. Holy Crepes, Milford. Enjoy a crepe dinner, then create an “autumn” painting. Fee includes dinner & painting session. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.
packing their products for resale through grocery stores, farm markets or restaurants. Register: extension.psu.edu/food-for-profit. NOV. 8 Italian Wine Dinner 7–9 p.m. The Settlers Inn Restaurant, Hawley. Enjoy an Italian farm-to-table menu, expertly paired with wine. Prix fixe menu. Reservations suggested: 570-226-2993. NOV. 9 Honesdale High School Band Craft Show 10–4 p.m. Honesdale HS, Honesdale. Benefits the band. Kids 12 & under free. Over 80 local vendors showcasing wreaths, jewelry, ornaments, home decor, soaps, photography of all types, items for children, pet items & more. Lunch available at the Hornet Cafe or snack on homemade baked goods. Raffle baskets & door prizes. Info: Facebook,
NOV. 8 Penn State Night at the Races 6 p.m. Tafton Fire Company, Rte. 507. Must be at least 21 years old with proper ID. Admission includes horse entry, food, beer & soda. Cash-only event. Bring your own liquor &/or munchies to enjoy at your table. Proceeds benefit Wayne-Pike Penn State Scholarship Fund. Cash prizes. Info: Casey McGhie, 570-352-6870 before Nov. 4 or Facebook: waynepikepsualumni. NOV. 7–10 Flying Needles – Fiber Arts UFOs Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Join other crafters with Patti Shreiner while finishing your knitting, crocheting, quilting or other fiber art works-in-progress (WIPs). Or, start a new project if you are short on Un-Finished Objects (UFOs). Includes lodging & meals, or call for day rates: 570-828-2319.
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NOV. 8 Entrepreneurship Institute Conference Lackawanna College, Scranton. Explores key business drivers for entrepreneurs, early-stage firms & established organizations through a mix of keynote presentations, panel discussions, breakout learning sessions & hands-on workshops. Info: www.tecbridgepa.org/2019-entrepreneurship-institute/.
NOV. 9 Authorfest: The New Road to Publishing 2–7 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Annual event brings talented writers & curious readers together. On tap for 2019 are three programs sure to inspire: 2 p.m., Writer’s Road Map: Discover the Joys of the Writing Adventure; 3 p.m., Learn the Back Door Secrets for Putting Amazon to Work for You; 4:15 p.m., The Road to Publishing Your Book. Wine & cheese reception at 5:30 p.m. At 6 p.m. there will be an open mic opportunity for the audience to share a short piece from their own writing. Published authors, aspiring authors, journalists, playwrights, screenwriters, amateur writers, & readers are all encouraged to attend. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
NOV. 8 Food for Profit 8:30 a.m.–3 p.m. Stourbridge Project, Honesdale. Penn State Extension in partnership with the Stourbridge Project. Workshop takes you step by step through the information necessary to start & run a small food product business & is especially directed to individuals who will be making &
NOV. 9 Wet-on-Wet Painting with Rick Weber 10:30 a.m.–1 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn the “wet-on-wet” technique of painting with oils & go home with a completed landscape, painted by you. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.
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EVENTS NOV. 9 Paupack UMC Spaghetti and Meatball Supper 4–6 p.m. Paupack United Methodist Church Fellowship Hall, Paupack. Meals served on a first come, first served basis. Take-out available until the food is gone. Free-will offering. Info: 570-857-1141.
NOV. 13 Dinner & Wet-on-Wet Painting with Rick Weber 5–8 p.m. Holy Crepes, Milford. Enjoy a crepe dinner & a “Wet-on-Wet” painting workshop with Rick Weber. Fee includes dinner & painting session. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.
NOV. 9 Milford After Dark 5–8 p.m. Downtown Milford. Milford shops & art galleries stay open late to welcome visitors & locals alike to shop, stroll, listen to music or just people-watch. Info: milfordmusicfest@gmail.com or 570-832-1381.
NOV. 13 Learn the Birds: Birding Identification Series 7–8:30 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Join Pocono Avian Research Center to learn some new tricks or hone some old skills at identifying sparrows. All ages welcome. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
NOV. 9 Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Local businesses teaming up & joining together with engaged community members to build a day filled with music, art, comedy, movies, food, drink, games & community support. Info on Facebook: 2ndSatHonesdale.
November 10– November 19 NOV. 10 River Vibes: Craig Bickhardt 3 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project & River Vibes. Bickhardt steps onto the stage accompanied by the stories of a lifetime, vividly translated into words & melody. Dreams, heartaches & hard-earned lessons have fed his creativity, yielding eloquent, often bittersweet songs. BYOB. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 13 Hiring Event 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Pike County Workforce Development Agency, Shohola. Local employers will be conducting on-the-spot interviews. Info: 570-296-2909.
NOV. 14 Pre-Festival Film Screening: What Happened, Miss Simone? 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Kick off the Maple City Jazz Festival by attending a free screening of “What Happened, Miss Simone?” Using never-before-heard recordings, rare archival footage & her best-known songs, this documentary is about the life of Nina Simone, an American singer, pianist, & civil rights activist. BYOB. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 15 Maple City Jazz Festival: Hal Galper Trio 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Hal Galper, John Bishop & Jeff Johnson. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. NOV. 16 Wellness Workshop 10–11:30 a.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Learn how to support your body naturally through the use of essential oils. Make rollers & sprays to incorporate into your daily wellness routine & sail through the season merrily. Cost includes materials. Preregistration required. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
NOV. 11 Veterans Appreciation 8 a.m.–10 p.m. The Undercroft at The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Fireside chat with wine & cheese tasting from 4–6 p.m. at The Settlers Inn. Vietnam photo exhibit displayed at The Undercroft that week, 10 a.m.–8 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel & Silver Birches will honor our veterans with a night of complimentary lodging on Nov. 11. Reservations required: Settlers Inn, 570-226-2993; Ledges Hotel, 570-226-1337; Silver Birches, 570-226-4388. 38 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
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EVENTS PEEC’s 9th annual game dinner. Dinner features local game & seasonal harvests. Bring friends & family to enjoy a cozy evening. Call early to guarantee a seat. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 16 Maple City Jazz Festival: Thurman Barker Quartet 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020
NOV. 16 Spaghetti Dinner 4–8 p.m. Beach Lake Fire Hall, Beach Lake. Proceeds help the Future Health Professional students at Honesdale HS attend the State Leadership Competition in Phila. in April. Tickets can be purchased at the High School or at the door. There will also be a basket raffle. Info: 570-253-2046. NOV. 16 Romping Radishes: Apple Delight Cooking Class 11 a.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Making an apple pie is as simple as dip, sprinkle, roll & bake. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. A healthy snack is provided. Parents/ guardians must stay with their children for duration of the class. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 16 Alcohol Ink with Agnes Lippi-Johnson 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Decorate an extremely unique, original piece & go home with items for your walls or tabletops. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. NOV. 16 Ecozone Discovery Room 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. No registration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 16 Game Dinner 6–8 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Reception at 5 p.m. in the Main Building. Enjoy the bounty of the season at
NOV. 16 & 17 Wallenpaupack High School Band & Colorguard Annual Craft Fair 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Wallenpaupack High School, Hawley. Over 70 vendors. Huge basket raffle. Kids 12 & under admitted free. Info on Facebook: AnnualWallenpaupackCraftFair. NOV. 16–DEC. 23 DVAA’s 15th Annual “Art in Sixes” Alliance Gallery, Narrowsburg, NY. Delaware Valley Arts Alliance’s annual small works show, with artwork that can be no larger than 6 inches in any direction, available for sale. Opening reception held Nov. 16, 1–5 p.m. Info: 845-252-7576. NOV. 17 Guided Interpretive Hike 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Take a hike with knowledgeable staff & learn a little bit more about PEEC’s forests. You never know what exactly you’ll find out there, so don’t be afraid to ask plenty of questions. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 17 Maple City Jazz Festival: Andy Milne & Unison (featuring La Tanya Hall) 4 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Andy Milne & Unison: La Tanya Hall, vocals; Andy Milne, piano; Noah Garabedian, bass; Clarence Penn, drums. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. NOV. 18 Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild 6–8 p.m. First Presbyterian Church, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters of all ages & skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments, & sometimes more. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com. NOV. 19 College Financial Planning Night 6 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project & College Coaching Pros. Free & informational College Financial Planning Workshop developed for parents of high school students. All parents of college-bound students are welcome. Seating limited.
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EVENTS Registration required: 570-878-3222 or collegecoachingpros@gmail.com.
November 20– November 30 NOV. 20 Lunch & Learn Noon. Julia Ribaudo Extended Care Center, Lake Ariel. Free lunch & educational seminar. Presentation provided by Residential Healthcare & hospice. Topic: Parkinson’s. RSVP/questions to Michele Townsend 570-698-5647 or 570-417-0164 by Nov. 13. Space is limited. NOV. 20 Dinner & “Alcohol Ink” with Agnes LippiJohnson 5–8 p.m. Holy Crepes, Milford. Enjoy a crepe dinner, then have fun & go home with at least three beautifully finished pieces of art. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. NOV. 20 Acoustic Bluegrass Jam 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Led by Ron Penska. All levels of players are welcome. All instruments are welcome, too, but leave your amps at home — this jam is entirely acoustic. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 21 Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Play from a selection of games or bring your own game to share & teach. All ages welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 22 Disney’s Frozen Jr. 7 p.m. Honesdale High School Performing Arts Center, Honesdale. Based on the 2018 Broadway musical, the show features all of the memorable songs from the animated film, plus five new songs. Recommended for ages 4 & up. Info: 570-251-9831. NOV. 22 Film Screening: Moving Stories 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Moving & inspiring documentary of six diverse dancers from the acclaimed Battery Dance company traveling the world, working with young people who’ve experienced war, poverty, sexual violence & severe trauma as refugees, to teach them so they can tell their stories through dance. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 23 Acrylic Pour with Agnes Lippi-Johnson 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn techniques for using acrylic paint to
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do “pours.” Create special one-of-a-kind effects & get your hands dirty while having a blast. Do not wear your “Sunday best.” Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. NOV. 23 Maestro Khan’s East Meets West 8 p.m. Tusten Theatre, Narrowsburg, NY. Trio gives an energetic & exciting performance that blends Indian, Classical & Folk on sitar, tabla, & vocals, flamenco, pop, guitar, keyboards & western percussion. Kids 12 & under free. Info: 845-252-7576. NOV. 27 Friendsgiving on Thanksgiving Eve 8–11:59 p.m. Glass-wine.bar.kitchen at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Celebrate the holiday with friends & live music with John Curtin. No cover. Reservations: 570-226-1337. NOV. 28 Thanksgiving Dinner Noon–6:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn Restaurant, Hawley. Celebrate the holidays at with a traditional farm-to-table feast. Reservations required: 570-226-2993. NOV. 29, 30 Winter Wonderland Downtown Honesdale. Enjoy “Honesdale for the Holidays” with shopping & dining opportunities in the town, followed by the Annual Santa Parade starting at 6 p.m., which proceeds along Main St. & ends at Central Park for the lighting of the Dick Smith Memorial Star on Irving Cliff & the Christmas tree in Central Park. Saturday is Small Business Saturday & the locally owned & operated small businesses will make your day special. In addition, there are Indoor Holiday Vendor Markets this year. The downtown trolley will transport you between locations so you won’t have to carry your bags too far. Info: 570-253-5492 or visithonesdalepa.com. NOV. 30 Romping Radishes: Let’s Get Moving. 11 a.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Take a time out to move about & have fun with friends. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. A healthy snack is provided. Parents/ guardians must stay with their children for duration of the class. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 30 Catharsis Trio 8 p.m. Tusten Theatre, Narrowsburg, NY. Ryan Keberle’s Catharsis Trio is a pared-down & intimate version of his Catharsis, which brings together elements of chamber music, South American folk, indie rock, & jazz to form a unique & intimate sound of “indie jazz.” Kids 12 & under free. Info: 845-252-7576.
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