OCTOBER 2019
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CONNECT OCTOBER 2019
FEATURES
6 FAMILY FAVORITES
WITH A BLENDED TWIST
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If you are raising picky eaters, there’s a cooking technique that makes some of kids’ favorite foods – like burgers and nachos – more nutritious while still tasting delicious.
SETTLERS HOSPITALITY COLORS FALL Settlers Hospitality celebrates harvest time in the Pocono Mountains by serving up a bounty of events that capture the sights, sounds and flavors of the season.
WINES THAT MATCH 10 SELECT YOUR STYLE For a novice, simply distinguishing a wine preference – white or red, sweet or dry – may be the extent of his or her comfort level. However, a more experienced wine enthusiast knows there is an entire world to explore when it comes to discovering interesting wine styles.
12 A NIGHT FOR THE CURE
On Sunday, October 20, 2019, Woodloch Pines Resort, an all-inclusive resort in Pennsylvania’s Pocono Mountains, will host the 12th Annual A Night for the Cure. The tricky-tray fundraiser benefits Susan G. Komen Greater Pennsylvania as part of BK Hope Cures.
COLUMNS 5 Cover image and this image, courtesy of Settlers Hospitality.
WORDS FROM THE TEAM
24 BOOK REVIEW
14 DISASTER BLASTER
26 POCONO SECRETS
16 LIVING GREEN
28 OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS
18 MRS. DOGOOD
30 PETS
20 PRISON REFLECTIONS
32 BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
22 MONEY
34 AREA EVENTS
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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risks and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.
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In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007
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WORDS FROM THE TEAM
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Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go. –Unknown
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pooktacular things are in our October issue! It’s our favorite time of year here at CM! The days are still warm, full of color & the nights are cool. Our area has tons of Good Stuff to do! October is our food & drink issue. Try some new healthy recipes for you and your family or go out and treat yourself to some delish fall menus at our local eateries. Dine at one of the many properties of Settlers Hospitality and enjoy amazing cuisine like the crab stuffed shrimp scampi on our cover! Looking to try some new wine? How about trying one that matches your style? Plus, October is Breast Cancer Awareness month; don’t miss the Night for the Cure, Sunday, October 20th at Woodloch Pines Resort. This tricky-tray fundraiser is sure to be a blast and benefits the Susan G. Komen for the Cure as part of BK Hope Cures. Happy Halloween! CM Team 570.647.0085 cmag@ptd.net
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FAMILY FAVORITES
Blended Mushroom Nachos Recipe courtesy of Chef Evan Robinson Servings: 4
Family Favorites with a
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f you are raising picky eaters, there’s a cooking technique that makes some of kids’ favorite foods – like burgers and nachos – more nutritious while still tasting delicious. Mushrooms, with their inherent umami flavor, are a perfect addition to blend into meals to increase both flavor and nutrition. Chefs kicked off the trend by blending finely chopped mushrooms with meat for burgers that are flavorful, healthy and earth-friendly, and now blended burgers are showing up in school cafeterias, supermarket meat counters and fast food drivethrus. “Blended entrees like burgers are a win-winwin for families wanting to eat better,” said Dayle Hayes, registered dietitian and founder of School Meals That Rock. “Mushrooms add delicious umami flavor, reduce fat and sodium in many popular dishes and kids love them.” Another fan of blending is MasterChef Junior finalist and teen chef, Evan Robinson. Robinson likes to blend with multiple varieties of mushrooms in family favorites such as tacos, burgers and stuffed peppers.
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shiitake mushrooms white button mushrooms clove garlic cup chopped onions tablespoon Mexican meat seasoning ounces ground turkey
Cheese Sauce: 1 tablespoon butter 1 tablespoon flour 1 cup milk 1 1/4 cups Mexican blend shredded cheese tortilla chips salsa (optional) guacamole (optional) kale (optional) romaine lettuce (optional) tomatoes (optional) cilantro (optional) diced red bell peppers (optional) In blender or food processor, pulse mushrooms, garlic and onions. In large saute pan over medium-high heat, mix finely chopped mushroom mixture with seasoning and cook 2 minutes. Add ground turkey, breaking into fine crumbles until completely cooked through. Set aside. To make cheese sauce: In medium saucepan over medium-high heat, melt butter then add flour and whisk constantly, breaking up lumps. Stir 2 minutes then add milk and continuously whisk. Stir in cheese and mix with wooden spoon. Assemble chips on serving platter; spread mushroom-meat crumble on top. Add cheese sauce and toppings like salsa, guacamole, kale, romaine lettuce, tomatoes, cilantro and diced red bell peppers, if desired.
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Pizza Burgers Recipe courtesy of Chef Evan Robinson Servings: 4 1 1 2-3 1/2 1/2 2 8
“I find that blending mushrooms into some of my go-to recipes helps increase the flavor while reducing the amount of fat and sodium,” Robinson said. If you’re ready to start blending at home, it can be a simple process for introducing foods to even the pickiest of eaters. Recruit kids as kitchen helpers to tackle tasks such as wiping mushrooms clean and using their hands to blend the meat and mushrooms together. For more family-friendly, blended recipes, visit Blenditarian.com.
tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil medium portabella mushroom, finely chopped white button mushrooms, finely chopped small onion clove garlic teaspoons Italian-style herb seasoning ounces ground beef salt, to taste pizza or marinara sauce shredded mozzarella cheese hamburger buns
In large pan over medium-high heat, saute extra-virgin olive oil, mushrooms, onions, garlic and herb seasoning approximately 5 minutes until vegetables are soft. Set aside and let cool to room temperature. Blend mushroom mixture with ground beef. Season with salt, to taste. Form into four patties and cook in same pan as mushroom mixture to preferred doneness. Top with dollop pizza sauce and mozzarella cheese. Cover pan to melt cheese then carefully transfer to buns.
A Cooking Technique You Need to Know:
Blending
Blending involves mixing finely chopped mushrooms with ground meat for more nutritious, but still delicious, burgers, tacos, meatballs and more. 1. Chop your favorite mushroom variety to match the consistency of the ground meat. This can be done with a knife or food processor.
2. Blend the chopped mushrooms with the ground meat. 3. Cook with Mexican seasoning mix for tacos, marinara sauce for meaty ragu or salt and pepper for juicy, flavorful burgers.
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FALL FOOD EVENTS
Settlers Hospitality
Colors Fall with Fun & Flavorful Events
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ettlers Hospitality celebrates harvest time in the Pocono Mountains by serving up a bounty of events that capture the sights, sounds and flavors of the season. The Settlers Inn, Silver Birches Resort, Ledges Hotel and Hawley Silk Mill boast a roster of events that make the most of fall in the Lake Region. Festivities in October get underway with Chile vs Argentina Wine Dinner at The Settlers Inn on October 4. The elegant meal is paired with a blind tasting of wines selected by the Inn’s Sommelier Claude Briere. That’s a prelude to Hawley Harvest Hoedown and a signature event- Rocktoberfest. The fall favorite celebration on October 5 at The Hawley Silk Mill features the food, music and merriment of a traditional Okto-
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berfest. The $15 entrance fee includes beer samples from more than 20 craft breweries. A la carte Oktoberfest foods, soup samplings, soup-to-go and live music by Eric Rudy and O & Co round out the offerings. Bike, Brew and Brats lets visitors combine the festivities with a fall foliage tour. Join Sawmill Cycles for a scenic bicycle ride then return to the Hawley Silk Mill and enjoy free admission to Rocktoberfest. Visitors can really sink their teeth into Steak Week, October 16-20. Week-long specials at Glass- wine.bar.kitchen at Ledges Hotel will spotlight various cuts of beef, from filet mignon and sirloin to rib eye and tri-tip. Delicacies of the sea are featured during Lobsterfest at The Dock on Wallenpaupack. From October 21-November 27, the
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restaurant at Silver Birches Resort creates an assortment of savory entrees starring the crustacean. Just in time for hunting season, Chef Kate Woehrle will share her talents for preparing venison. Oh Deer, It’s That Time of Year on October 18 will feature five ways to cook deer. The fun and informative cooking class in the Boiler Room at the Hawley Silk Mill includes a full dinner. Storytelling Dinner at The Settlers Inn is one of the most highly anticipated events of fall in Hawley. For two nights, October 25 and October 26, storyteller Sandy Gabrielson will offer captivating tales while guests enjoy a family-style seasonal meal. The Undercroft Room overflows with hand-carved pumpkins that illuminate the space and set a festive tone. Go from boo to salud! An Italian Wine Dinner at The Settlers Inn on November 8 boasts a farm-to-table menu of Italian entrees perfectly paired with some of Italy’s finest wines. Settlers Hospitality offers five ways to celebrate Thanksgiving Day. On November 27 gather at Glass- wine.bar.kitchen at Ledges Hotel for Friendsgiving on Thanksgiving Eve. Enjoy drinks, dinner and live music with John Curtin in a cool, casual setting. For a traditional Thanksgiving meal of farm-totable favorites, make a reservation for Thanksgiving Dinner at The Settlers Inn on November 28. It’s a holiday feast of your choosing during the Thanksgiving Buffet at The Waterfront at Silver Birches on November 28. Fuss-Free Thanksgiving at The Dock on Wallenpaupack offers a family style Thanksgiving meal in a casual setting. Stay home and enjoy a Thanksgiving dinner with none of the cooking. The Settlers Inn offers Thanksgiving Dinner to Go featuring turkey and all the trimmings. Thanksgiving meals ready to heat may be picked up on November 28 from 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Orders must be placed by November 26. Whether it’s a relaxing getaway, memorable meal or unique special event, Settlers Hospitality crafts the finest offerings of the season into exceptional experiences. About Settlers Hospitality Settlers Hospitality, boutique multi-concept hospitality in Hawley, PA, consists of The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort, Hotel Anthracite, Sayre Mansion, The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Glass- wine.bar.kitchen, Kol Steakhouse, Cocoon Coffeehouse and Bakery, Lake Region Fitness and Art on the edge. For more information, check out SettlersHospitality.com
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WINE STYLES
Select Wines that Match Your
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or a novice, simply distinguishing a wine preference – white or red, sweet or dry – may be the extent of his or her comfort level. However, a more experienced wine enthusiast knows there is an entire world to explore when it comes to discovering interesting wine styles. For example, winemakers in the Spanish wine regions of Ribera del Duero and Rueda draw on hundreds of years of history perfecting the art of winemaking. Together, these regions produce an array of flavorful, full-bodied reds and crisp, refreshing white wines. Recently, these regions have garnered attention for their wines’ value and versatility, making them solid choices for someone looking to explore and develop his or her palate without breaking the bank. “The wines of Ribera del Duero are generally made in a more generous, international style that would make them a natural transition for a traditional drinker of Cabernet Sauvignon,” said Brahm Callahan, master sommelier and Ribera del Duero y Rueda ambassador. “The same can be said for Rueda. The wines have bright, ripe fruit, great weight and texture, and offer an excellent alternative for someone who likes Sauvignon Blanc.”
Ribera del Duero There are 300 wineries in Ribera del Duero, which surrounds the Duero River for 100 miles across the region. The semi-arid terrain and climate create optimal ripening conditions for the Tempranillo grapes that define the region’s wines’ distinctive character. If you like Cabernet Sauvignon or Merlot, the big, rich, bold red wines of the region may be to your liking. • For the party host: A highly rated red that is soft, juicy, and impressively flavorful is sure to impress guests. Encourage guests to explore beyond their go-to with a Tempranillo from Ribera del Duero.
Style
• For the gift-giver: For a special occasion (either as a reward for yourself or someone else), the critically acclaimed Vega Sicilia Unico is a quality choice. This wine boasts the perfect proportion of fruit (plums and berries), tannins and acidity for a true splurge. • For the casual wine drinker: A clean, bright blush rosé with notes of raspberries and strawberries is an enjoyable option throughout the day, from brunch to cocktail hour and onto the patio at twilight.
Rueda One of the hallmarks of Rueda’s refreshing white wines is versatility. With just the right amount of fruit and a refreshing finish, wines from Rueda are clean, bright and complex, yet effortlessly drinkable. The region is home to 70 wineries clustered on the plateau of Castilla y Leon at a high altitude of about 2,300-2,600 feet above sea level. The difficult growing environment, mineral-filled gravel soils and abundance of sunshine help create a crisp white wine with character. • For the environmentalist: If organic and sustainable winemaking appeals to you, Menade Verdejo is well-known as a flavorful wine made with the environment in mind. These fifth-generation sibling winemakers are pioneers in organic viticulture with an organic certification for their winery and vineyard. • For the bubble lover: Light bubbles are perfect alone or paired with fish and fruits, and a varietal featuring the Verdejo grape is a less common but delightful way to enjoy a little bubbly. • For the warm weather enthusiast: A crisp, refreshing glass of an option like Beronia Verdejo offers minerality and intense fruit flavors to unveil an intense palate with a refreshing acidity that is ideal for a hot day. Learn more about the region and its wines at riberaruedawine.com. Photo courtesy of Getty Images
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n Sunday, October 20, 2019, Woodloch Pines Resort, an allinclusive resort in Pennsylvania’s Pocono Mountains, will host the 12th Annual A Night for the Cure. The tricky-tray fundraiser benefits Susan G. Komen Greater Pennsylvania as part of BK Hope Cures. Originally established 20 years ago by Bob Kiesendahl (BK), coowner of Woodloch and leukemia survivor, the organization’s mission is to raise awareness and funds in the fight against cancer. Last year’s event sold out, attracting more than 500 attendees and raising over $21,000, 100% of which benefits Susan G. Komen for the Cure. 50% of the dollars raised stay right here in Pennsylvania for education, screening and treatment grants, and 50% goes towards cancer research. Held in the Heritage Nightclub at Woodloch Pines from 5 to 8 PM, the family-friendly evening will feature over 150 items donated by local individuals and businesses, as well as wine and beer tastings, chair massages, face painting for
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children, hors d’oeuvres, a dessert table, and a 50/50 raffle. Guests will enjoy live entertainment and have the chance to win dining gift certificates, unique gift baskets, and overnight stay packages at the area’s leading resorts and hotels. Admission costs $10, and 100% of the proceeds are donated. The dress code is casual, and attendees are encouraged to wear pink in support of the cause. “It’s a wonderful night to get together with friends, show our support for the survivors, and raise money for the cause. We’re now in our 12th year, and the event just continues to get better and better! We are extremely grateful to the local businesses and individuals who donate their time and talents to make A Night for the Cure spectacular. All of this hard work and generosity is truly making a
difference in the battle against cancer,” said Bob Kiesendahl. In addition to A Night for the Cure, Hope Cures also holds two other fundraising events each year, which include both a golf tournament and a 5K run/walk. These funds benefit cancer research and patient care at several worthy facilities and foundations.
During the past 20 years, Hope Cures has raised over $1.2 million For more information about Hope Cures and this October’s great event, please visit: www.bkhopecures.org/ trickytray. Additionally, table and room reservations can be arranged by calling Woodloch Resort at 570-685-8002.
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TIPS FOR YOUR HOME
What Should be in Your
Emergency Kit? Provided by Disaster Blaster
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Life is unpredictable, and often major events are entirely unexpected. Whether it’s a flood, a fire, or a zombie apocalypse, some preparation now can make a huge difference should the unforeseen ever occur.
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Emergency Supplies
But what should be in your emergency preparedness kit? Important Documents Losing important documents can make a bad situation all that much worse. In order to protect your important documents during an emergency, we recommend placing them in a ziptop bag and keeping this in your emergency backpack or duffel bag. Some documents you should protect during an emergency are: • Identification cards • Social Security cards • Birth certificates • Marriage certificates • Important contact information
Food Following an emergency, you may not be able to make it to nearby stores. Even if you are, they may be closed or their shelves empty. For this reason, no emergency preparedness kit is complete without food and water. • Bottled water (Enough for at least several days) • Nonperishable food (Enough for at least several days) • Pet food (Rotate regularly to ensure emergency supplies are always in date) • Silverware and a can opener
First Aid You never know what could happen in an emergency, and medical care may not be immediately available. Here’s what you need to address minor injuries: • Any medications that you or anyone in your family needs • A well-stocked first aid kit (bandages, bandaids, antibacterial ointments, tweezers, super glue, etc.)
Following a disaster, you may feel cut off from the rest of the world. Cell phone towers may be down, landlines may not be functional, and roads may not be traversable. Stock your emergency kit with these important supplies: • Flashlight or lantern and plenty of batteries (They also make flashlights that you can power manually by shaking or through a crank) • A radio (Preferably crank-powered) • Ponchos for the entire family • A rope (50ft nylon) • A tarp • Multi-tool with knife, scissors, pliers, etc. • A waterproof lighter or matches • Candles
Should you evacuate? Evacuation orders are not given lightly. If your municipality, state, or government has announced an evacuation, it’s important to do so. In every disaster there are people who choose to stay behind that get trapped or hurt. Even though you may be prepared to ride out a disaster, it is strongly recommended that you not attempt to do so if you don’t need to. While we hope you never need any of your emergency preparedness supplies, we hope this helps you prepare in the event a disaster ever strikes your area.
About Disaster Blaster Disaster Blaster is an indoor environmental firm serving the Northeastern PA Area. We have been providing our local area with unparalleled mold remediation, water damage mitigation, radon mitigation, asbestos abatement, and fire / smoke restoration services for decades, and are proud to have been named The World’s Greatest Indoor Environmental Firm. For more about Disaster Blaster, as well as more helpful tips, please visit our website at: www.disasterblaster.com or call our office at (570) 963-1123.
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Nature for Women’s
HEALTH Spending time in nature is critical to overall healthy and well-being.
By Craig Lukatch, Lacawac Sanctuary Environmental Education Center
In our hectic lives, we all desire a little peace. It turns out we need not look further than our own backyard, according to a growing body of research that confirms that time spent in nature can improve our self-esteem and mood and induce a sense of awe and wonder.
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New research indicates that time spent in nature is more than therapeutic—it’s necessary. Researchers from Arizona State University found that time spent in nature inspires a sense of connectedness and awe. The value of the sense of awe is that it tends to direct attention away from the self and toward the environment. This produces a calming effect and helps make everyday stress and anxieties feel more manageable. If you’re searching for a sense of peace and connection, get outside. The sights, sounds, and smells of nature are soothing to the senses. Spending time near water or rustling trees can promote a deep sense of relaxation, which allows the mind to wander and recharge.
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• Take your workout outdoors. Running along a busy urban sidewalk will still provide more of a nature connection than the treadmill at the gym. • Sit outside. Eat dinner on the porch. Drink your morning coffee in the backyard. Spend time outside soaking up the natural light.
Even if you’re not an outdoor enthusiast, there are still ways to connect with nature: • Visit a park. Read, take a picnic, or simply sit on a bench and breathe. • Dig in the dirt. If you don’t have space for a large garden, even small container gardens can provide a sense of connection to nature. • Walk along a river or creek. Even the most urban settings typically have short nature paths scattered throughout town.
Craig Lukatch is a Hazleton native, currently residing in Moosic PA who has extensive experience with more than 15 plus years in nonprofit administration and fundraising most recently working as the CEO of the Greater Pittston YMCA and the Director of Development at Wyoming Valley Children's Association, Forty Fort. He is a graduate of the University of Scranton with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Philosophy and Theology. Lukatch has served on various boards of nonprofits from the NEPA chapter of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, to the Hazleton YMCA and the Community Services for Sight organization in Hazleton. Over his tenure he has raised over $5 million for capital projects for local nonprofits.
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MRS. DOGOOD
A WAY OF LIFE By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood
Dear Editor, Every day. That’s when I realize that things are changing. Some changes bring comfort and some don’t. The don’t part was brought home to me very dramatically when Conrad Thistle came to see me. He is 37, married with two children, is the fourth generation dairy farmer at Thistle Bridge Dairy Farm, and is a member of my congregation. I am the senior pastor at The First Church of God’s Love in the farming hamlet of Halo, Pennsylvania. We sat in my parlor. He reluctantly drank the green tea but he very much enjoyed the homemade oatmeal and raisin cookies. After some gossipy talk, he explained why he had come to see me. Change. He could no longer continue his family’s life as a dairy farmer. He had sold his cows and had taken a job as a milk-tank driver with Moo-Haul, Inc. Conrad’s demeanor changed when he began to tell me why he had come. He sat forward in his chair looking down at the floor. I heard his voice get deeper and softer. He spoke more slowly. Confessing a failure creates emotion and makes one sad. I saw salty emotion in his eyes. “Dairy farming as a way of life is changing. In some cases it’s disappearing. Last year approximately 100 dairy farms packed it up in Pennsylvania. You can’t earn a living. For one thing it’s the selling price of milk. It goes up and down like a roller coaster. I couldn’t even break even the last two years given the price of milk and the cost of production. And I have a family. A dairy cow used to sell for about $2,000. Now they go for between $400 and $500 dollars. If it’s an old cow it’s sold for hamburger meat.” “Is driving the milk-truck a permanent solution?” I full well knew the answer. “No. I have to drive to eight farms beginning at 2:30 am to get enough milk to try to fill the 6,000 gallon tanker. The owner of the Moo-Haul trucking company is a former dairy farmer who couldn’t make it either. Eventually with dairy farms disappearing at the rate of about 2% a year, the trucking business doesn’t look hopeful either.” “What will you do?” “Although there are 5,000 fewer cows in the Commonwealth than there were three years ago,
the milk production is actually growing due to improvements in nutrition, breeding and collection. So I am working with a few other farmers and investors to build a bulk yogurt manufacturing facility here. None exists. Driving is temporary.” His mood became hopeful as he spoke about the yogurt plant. He sat back in his chair and his shoulders softened. And then he paused. He was coming out of his sadness. And then he smiled a beautiful big grin: “Do you know about Lot Lizards?” I didn’t. “When you pull into a rest area with your truck, it becomes another world. In the bigger rest stops that hold thirty or forty trucks and are open 24/7, you can get a hot meal. Even take a shower. But then there’s more. Some trucks have beds in them; mine doesn’t. The long-haul trucks do. So there are these entrepreneurial women who offer their services to you. One of the guys I met left his long-haul truck unlocked by mistake when he went to the bathroom. When he got back there was a woman in his bed. They’re called Lot Lizards.” “I hope you’re sticking to yogurt!” I said. He laughed and said he was. He went on to explain why he came to see me. His children are in my church’s Sunday school, and his wife is on my fund-raising committee. He wanted me to know so I could be aware of their situation in case they needed any additional support during these transitional times. When Conrad left, I thought about how clever and hardworking he is to manage the change in his life. Would that we are all as blessed! Amen.
The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love
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Prison Reflections
“Blood Moon”Part I By Terry Mooney
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his story is told by a very successful, local restaurant owner. The candor and emotion that comes through his narrative is truly touching. This man has a light emanating from him, a testimony to his determination to fight his demons and come out with a five star rating, just like his pizza!
My Story My grandfather and his brothers were star athletes in football, baseball and boxing. His ancestors came from Greece and settled in Maine, the attraction being the mountains and the ocean, but the real opportunities were in New York, bright lights, big city, so they moved there. When World War II broke out, they all enlisted. Thankfully, they came back in one piece and started their families in Brooklyn, New York. This was the Greek side of the family. They were all chefs in local restaurants, and eventually started their own diners. They were the workaholics. The Italian side is my mother’s, originally from Italy and settling in New York’s Little Italy, eventually moving to Brooklyn. They were mostly bar owners and blue collar, but some were white collar with “connections.” They were the alcoholics. After my father was discharged from the navy, he started his own construction company. My mother managed his business and focused on raising my little brother and me. I went to Catholic school from kindergarten through high school. I was molested by an older female cousin and her boyfriend when I was three years old. Then it happened again around the age of five. She was a teenager and already a substance abuser. Eventually, she overdosed on heroin and died. This was the 1970s. For years, I was ashamed of myself, unable to take off my clothes in front of people like in the locker room or even at home if anyone was around. To this day, I am jumpy around people and don’t like to be touched. Every day, I was learning about God in school and didn’t understand why He let me be molested. I was full of shame and guilt and too scared to go to the bathroom because at my little age someone would have to walk me. I would wet my pants so as not to raise my hand to go. Then there were the beatings. My father was beaten as a child and watched his father beat his mother. So, he beat us. It got to the point where I would take the blame for everything to spare my little brother and so I wouldn’t have to hear his screams. Then I started hitting my father back. My grades began to suffer. I was twelve. One night, my parents went to a funeral and left me and my brother home alone. I grabbed the largest glass I could find, went to the bar and poured from every bottle back there, gin, whiskey rum, bourbon, vodka, you name it, I mixed it all together and drank it right down like it was chocolate milk. I remember washing the glass and putting it back on the shelf to hide the evidence, and went to bed. I didn’t wake up for a day and a half. I’d finally found a way to have peace. (To Be Continued)
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Life Insurance
Thinking A b o u t G e tt i n g
Life Insurance 5 Things Same-Sex Couples Should Know
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ame-sex couples can take advantage of life insurance for their financial and estate planning needs. In fact, according to a recent study of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community, more LGBT Americans now own a life insurance policy than a savings account.1 Life insurance can be an effective way to provide a surviving spouse with the funds to help make up for lost income due the death of his or her spouse. That money might be important, too, for paying for other financial commitments such as children’s educations or paying off a mortgage. And due to anti-discrimination laws, there should be no underwriting differences for LGBT individuals compared to heterosexuals.2 However, like many aspects of wealth planning in today’s evolving LGBT environment, there are several elements of the life insurance discussion that warrant special attention for same-sex couples, whether married or not.
1} Group policy caveats
More than half of U.S. employers offer employees the opportunity to buy life insurance on their spouse through a group policy. This is good news for legally married couples—as long as the group policy is covered by the federal Employee Retirement Income Security Act (ERISA). Also, some employers extend group policies to domestic partnerships.
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Your employer’s Human Resources department should be able to give you details.
estate tax exclusion 2} Federal and unlimited marital deduction Due to the unlimited marital deduction, legally married same-sex couples can transfer an unlimited amount of assets between each other during their lifetime or upon death. In addition, these couples now have access to a total of $22.8 million in combined federal estate tax exclusions ($11.4 million per spouse in 2019) if they wish to transfer assets either outright or in trust for children or other beneficiaries. Since most couples’ assets, including a life insurance policy death benefit, would be less than that threshold, federal estate taxes may not be a concern. You should check with your tax advisor about your situation. The unlimited marital deduction benefits, however, are not available to civil unions or domestic partnerships, and state estate and gift tax rules may still be a consideration.
3} Insurable interest
Same-sex couples without a legal marriage certificate may still be able to get life insurance with their partners as beneficiaries if they can demonstrate an “insurable interest.” In general, an insurable interest means that one person would be dealt a substantial financial blow if the
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other person dies.2 Insurable interest rules vary by state, but in many instances, if a couple owns a home together, that may be enough to prove insurable interest.
speak with your tax, legal, and financial advisors about your unique financial needs and challenges.
How much do you need?
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Business continuity
If the members of a same-sex couple are business partners, life insurance should also be considered as a business succession and continuity planning tool. In this instance, life insurance could be used for a buy-sell agreement or to simply provide the liquidity needed to continue the business when a key person has died. For example: If business partner A dies, and business partner B has a policy on the life of partner A, the policy gives cash to partner B to pay the heirs of partner A for A’s percentage of the business.
life insurance 5} Irrevocable trusts For unmarried same-sex couples, there is also still the option used for years in estate planning for same-sex couples—creating an irrevocable life insurance trust.2 The insurable interest rules still apply. Ask your financial advisor for a copy of our free report “Irrevocable Life Insurance Trusts” for a detailed discussion of how this type of trust might fit within your estate plan.
Not sure where to start? There are many different kinds of life insurance, and the details can be complex, especially as tax laws change. So be sure to
Every situation is different when it comes to how much life insurance you should have—and policy purchases should be based on specific needs. To learn more about determining your life insurance needs, request a free copy of our report, “How much life insurance is enough?” from us. Wells Fargo Advisors does not offer tax or legal advice. 1. The LGBT Financial Experience, 2016-2017 Prudential Research Study 2. “New Strategies for Same-Sex Life Insurance: Samesex couples tend to be younger, more affluent and buy low-cost term insurance,” by Alan Lavine, WealthManagement.com, posted July 15, 2014, http://wealthmanagement.com/insurance/new-strategies-same-sex-lifeinsurance, accessed May 12, 2015 Insurance products are offered through our affiliated non-bank insurance agencies. This article was written by Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network and provided courtesy of Michael J Krupa, Financial Advisor, Krupa Wealth Management, Honesdale, PA 570-253-0121 Investments in securities and insurance products are: NOT FDIC-INSURED/NOT BANK-GUARANTEED/MAY LOSE VALUE Investment products and services are offered through Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC (WFAFN), Member SIPC. Krupa Wealth Management is a separate entity from WFAFN. © 2019 Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC. All rights reserved.
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Book Review YOU HATE TO ADMIT IT.
friendship and the monster mosquito found in China. Find out about crocodile teeth, The truth is, though, you got bored a shark teeth, beaver teeth, and a lion with a few times this past summer. Not a lot, and bad toothache. not on purpose, but there were times when And then there are the things you saw you found yourself with nothing to do. The this summer that were unique, unusual, or good news is that there are two good newsplain old weird. Read about more: bog bodes: one, school is back in session now. And ies, paper made of “poo,” a squirrel that two, you can find the new book “Ripley’s paints pictures, dances that scare ghosts, Believe It or Not! Beyond the Bizarre!” money made from rocks, strange jewelry, So you spent a little time this summer cold cities, hot games, and an island for on your bike and women only. How that was cool, but bizarre is you can’t do that all “Ripley’s Believe It or Not! totally that? the time, right? So Remember Beyond the Bizarre” why not grab this how delicious it “Ripley’s” book and was when you knew read about the bike something nobody graveyard in China, else knew? You’re or the first bike you never too old to could ride on land enjoy when that or water? Or learn happens; with “Ripabout what it would ley’s Believe It or take to ride a 5-ton Not! Beyond the tank bike, or a 135Bizarre,” your child year-old tricycle. will know that glee. You might Starting this have worked on book with the your video game basics, young readskills in the past ers will learn about few weeks, so the Robert Ripley and time is now to read the artwork that about the woman launched a 100-year who “married” a fascination. From Tetris game, and the there, kids are treatcollector who owns ed to some old classome 2,000 items sics – things you associated with may’ve read when Zelda. Or maybe Reviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer you were their age – you’d like to read sprinkled between about the 13-yearold who’s a professional gamer, or the Sea of new jaw-droppers and OMGs that are written without sensationalism. That real-life Thieves human cannonball. aspect makes this book fun for your child, Doing crafts is always a great way to like taking an around-the-globe trip filled spend a summer, and “Ripley’s Believe It or with photographs; fascinating, funny, scary Not! Beyond the Bizarre!” is a good way to stories; and locales that will open their eyes read about them. Find out about the “tree” to the world. made of tractors, or the 28-foot-tall robot Middle-school kids will enjoy this that shoots sponge balls. Learn about digital book, as will high-schoolers who like readportraits, colorful temples, butter sculping about oddities, strangeness, and the tures, and elaborate crochet costumes. ghoulish. You’ll love “Ripley’s Believe It or If you spent time with pets and Not! Beyond the Bizarre,” too. It’s okay, wildlife while you were off, good for you! admit it. You’ll love reading about the eel-and-seal
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Unlearning
Unlearning by Bike By LA Guzda
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was fortunate to be included in a very special pop-up gallery event in Stamford, CT over the summer, “Palette of Sisterhood”. It consisted of women who met through public art projects in Stamford. Part of our responsibility was to create one or two events – workshops, demonstration or lectures/talks that focused on amazing women. I was introduced to several amazing women. But one stood out to me, Nicole Heker. Nicole is a young woman who spent a semester studying in Asia. She was so deeply impacted by the experience that she returned after graduation from Penn State. She became the Director of Development for an organization called, Happy Kids Center, in Nepal. Happy Kids Center’s mission is to break the cycle of poverty, child labor
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and child marriage within their community through the creation of safe spaces focused on empowering Bhaktapur’s at risk youth through creative play, education, skill building and health programming. Their vision is a world where Happy Kids can realize their dreams through hard work and dedication despite the prejudices and oppressive societal expectations they often face. But something amazing happened to Nicole. She began questioning her own societal expectations. What did Nicole do? To raise funds for the Happy Kids Center and to answer some of her own questions, Nicole set out, alone on a bicycle, to unlearn everything she’d been taught. “I never thought I would be one to do this. Wild camping alone by a river that cuts through a valley, surrounded by
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mountains, laying back under the trees by a fire I made on my own in the middle of Macedonia. I started cycling alone from Chiang Mai, Thailand on March 8, 2018– the international day of the woman. Slowly but surely, I have inched my way west towards Spain, over mountain passes, through lush jungles and arid steppe. This has been a journey of a lifetime–a way to see the world and myself differently, more honestly maybe.” This journey is being experienced through the framework of “Unlearning” a concept introduced to me in 2015 by a sociology professor. It means to me, that we need to make ourselves aware of the stories we have been told about how the world works and what our place is within that framework. In my community, that story is that you need to go to school, get a secure job, get a house, get married, retire and then you’re allowed to enjoy. It’s that the world outside the States is scary, especially for a woman
alone. The stories I told myself centered around a series of “I can’t’s” or “I’m not’s.” My purpose throughout this trip and throughout life is to unlearn these stories, strip myself of that which does not serve me or belong to me, and see what’s left when all else falls away. “It’s been over a year since I started this journey. I’ve gone through 17 countries, much of which I did alone, though I’ve had the pleasure of meeting others along the way who joined me for a time. I live outside, camping most nights under the stars, bathing in rivers, cycling along the folds and crests of the Earth. And I have unlearned a lot along the way.” You can follow Nicole at @NicoleHeker or @UnlearningByBike – To donate go to: happykidscenter.org https://youtu.be/xtsG8F67_GM Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PoconoSecrets Visit www.LAGuzda.com or www.PoconoSecrets.com for past articles.
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Outdoor Ramblings
Autumn The Full Spectrum of
By Bill Deaton | williamjdeaton@yahoo.com
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all may have come a bit early this year. Below normal rainfall and clear, chilly nights ramped up the forest’s foray towards winter, slightly. Huckleberry and striped maple near the wetlands have already gone brown or shed their leaves completely. However, as the season progresses, a lot of the trees are still on schedule. Most fall foliage models place peak for the Poconos this year around October 12.
The more varieties of tree species in the mix, the chances are the more colorful that area will be. This is because the color of leaves is dependent upon the type of tree. With almost certain accuracy, a specific kind of tree will yield a specific fall hue.
• Yellow and gold hues come from a wide variety of trees. Aspen and persimmon give off deeper hues while hickories, most birch species, sugar maples, and tulip poplars are lighter. • Chestnut oak, a very common tree in NEPA, trends orange while beech trees go bronze. In the same color family, basswood trees often develop a russet shade. • Brighter reds come from scarlet oak, black gum, and dogwood. Sassafras will turn scarlet but can be orange and even yellow. Deeper reds will show up in sumac, red maple, black cherry, and in red oak and black oak. The oaks are generally among the last trees to turn color. • The deepest colors, almost purple, come from white ash and white oak.
Experiencing the fall palette means getting out. Whether you seek to wander under the colorful canopy or take in the prismatic panorama from atop a ridge, it generally means a day well spent. Supplement your leaf peeping by the mirror imagery along a lake shore or add some natural splendor from waterfall. Enjoy the peak from a peak or gently glide by it all paddling down a river. www.connections-magazine.com
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Pets
Euthanasia of a Beloved Pet Part III Aftercare Options There are several options for aftercare for your pet’s body. These are always influenced by financial and personal considerations, or religious beliefs. Most veterinarians will inform you of the choices, as they generally have a financial relationship with a nearby crematory or pet cemetery. Cremation or burial is the most common preference. A tiny percentage of pet owners may prefer more unconventional options, such as taxidermy or freeze-drying. We recommend that they investigate fully how that is accomplished, before deciding. There are some details and aftereffects that may deter the choice, or have unhappy effects later. Cremation: This option enables you to keep your pet’s ashes in an urn or other special container in your home, bury them — or even scatter them later, in a location that will be meaningful to you. And there is no time pressure on you to make any of these decisions. You can have your pet’s body cremated, either with other pets, or individually. In the less expensive group cremation, there is no guarantee that the cremains that are returned (if requested) will be those of your pet. With individual cremation, the ashes are generally returned in an inexpensive box, to keep and deal
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with at your discretion. They will generally try to sell you an expensive urn. But usually owners can find something they greatly prefer later. At this point, there is no rush to do that. Usually, your veterinarian will be glad to make the arrangements and notify you when you can expect to have the ashes returned. Generally, pet owners are surprised at the small quantity of cremains that are returned. For example, a 75-pound dog’s ashes will fill a space equivalent to about half a shoe box. Burial: Burial at a pet cemetery is also a common choice. Each has its own requirements, and any specifics should be worked out in advance, between you, your vet, and the cemetery. Although somewhat costly, it also has a sense of permanence and respect that many pet owners appreciate. Some pet cemeteries or animal shelters also offer less expensive communal burial. Burial at home is preferred by many, but may not be practical, or permitted, in your area. Be sure to check your local zoning restrictions. Also, this option is not an option for those who live in a city, or rent. Your veterinarian may have this information for you. If it is allowed, and you decide to bury your pet in the yard, keep in mind that one day you may relocate to a new home. There is a special section on the APLB website: Aftercare, with listings of pet cemetery and cremation facilities, according to geographic location.
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Whatever choices are made, you may want to bring a few personal items with you, to be buried or cremated with your pet’s body. This may be a special toy, coat, flower, poem, picture, etc. Also, you may appreciate clipping and saving a bit of your pet’s fur. Many pet owners take comfort in having this special remembrance.
Pets Bereaving Pets Losing a pet affects not only the people but can also upset other pets in the home. The makeup of your family has changed with the loss of your pet, and you may notice that your surviving ones may also experience grief. Sometimes you will observe crying, loss of appetite, looking for the missing pet, oversleeping, housesoiling mistakes, even disobedience. The adjustment to a new hierarchy within the home can also be a cause of change in behavior. If you feel the surviving animal is bereaving, offer a special treat, a new toy — and most of all, extra attention from you. The grief should diminish over time, as does our own. It has been observed that the distress of pets is almost invariably made easier and briefer if they can observe and sniff the body of the deceased companion.
Grover Very sweet 2 year old male cat who is good with other cats, dogs, children, and is housetrained.
Some Final Thoughts We get much love and delight from our beloved pets in life, and we grieve deeply for them when they die. Because of the unique enhancement they give to our lives, they become a treasured part of us, forever. When a dear pet’s life ends, more dies than just a cherished friend and companion. Since we make them into living symbols of our own innocence and purest feelings, a treasured secret part of each of us also dies. This can be reborn as we slowly pick up our shattered emotional pieces and move on. Our dear ones bless us, just as we do them, and they enrich and prepare us for our moving on in life. The loving memories become a permanent part of who we are, and they live on, in our hearts. Our continuing and improving lives can be our best memorials to them.
Ziggie Very sweet and playful 5 year old pit mix who would do best in a home with older children.
From: Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement
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BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE
Comorbidity & Mental Illness
“The attempt to escape from pain is what creates more pain.”
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s described by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), Dual Diagnosis is a term that is applied to an individual with a mental disorder and an alcohol or drug problem. There are four mental disorders that are associated with a drug or alcohol problem in statistically higher numbers: Depression, Anxiety, Schizophrenia, and Personality Disorders. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, comorbidity describes “two or more disorders or illnesses occurring in the same person.” These disorders can occur at the same time or one after the other. It is also important to note that there is an interaction between the co-existing disorders than can “worsen the course of both.” Considering the extent of substance abuse and drug addiction, which is regarded as a mental illness, it is important to understand that addiction will have a significant impact on the functioning of one’s brain. The inability to recognize a “hierarchy of importance,” reflects one symptom. This can apply to an individual who is dependent on drugs, which can cause a weakened impulse control, resulting in an inability to control negative behaviors, such as stealing to acquire drugs. This often leads to legal consequences, which can include incarceration. Many do not ordinarily think about the consequences of incarceration. Jails are
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generally regarded as institutions that are necessary. Punishment is often considered as justified owing to the crime, but there are other issues that should also be considered. In an article titled “Care of the Mentally Ill in Prisons: Challenges and Solutions,” published in the Journal of the American Academy of Psychiatry and the Law (December 2007, vol.35 no.4 406-410) written by Anasseril E. Daniel, M.D., the author writes about the phenomenon of the mentally ill in the prison population. As described in the article, it is estimated that the U.S. prison population is approximately 2.2 million people. In this population, as described by the author, “approximately 70% had primary or comorbid substance abuse disorder.” The author also describes a study (2006) by the U.S. Department of Justice which found that more than half of all prison and jail inmates have a mental health problem compared with 11% of the general population. The following fictional clinical vignette is presented to highlight the issue of comorbidity or dual diagnosis and its impact on the individual and family. JT is a 47 y/o married man. He is a teacher by profession but has not worked in this capacity for twenty years. He is on disability as a result of his mental illness, which had been diagnosed as Schizophrenia and Polysubstance Abuse. As a young man, JT was regarded as highly intelligent
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and having a bright future. He attended a prestigious college. His parents were highly optimistic about his future and thought he had great potential. JT chose to be a high school science teacher and greatly enjoyed the opportunity to reach young minds, as he often stated. But JT had a dark side. He would later say that he “wrestled with demons,” trying to quell his growing use of drugs. He began using marijuana. Later, he developed a dependence on alcohol and then heroin. Early on, he was able to keep his drug use a secret from his wife and parents. At the age of 27, he experienced a psychotic episode, experiencing paranoia and auditory hallucinations. He was voluntarily hospitalized and responded well to antipsychotic medications, such as Risperdal or risperidone and Zyprexa or olanzapine. His substance abuse was regarded as a contributing factor to his psychosis, and he was further diagnosed as having a dual diagnosis- substance abuse and Schizophrenia. He was cautioned by his doctors to avoid using drugs. Initially JT did well, even returning to work. But he also returned to drugs, which was followed by repeated psychotic episodes and eventually involuntary psychiatric hospitalization. JT’s mental state gradually deteriorated. His life took a drastic turn for the worse when he was arrested for shoplifting. JT did not share with his family that he had been shoplifting for some time. He needed money to support his drug habit, which now included heroin. JT was incarcerated for the first time in his life at the age of 35. Over the course of the next twelve years, he was repeatedly incarcerated for shoplifting and stealing, often under the influence of drugs, and most seriously for the charge of selling drugs to an undercover officer. JT received mental health treatment while incarcerated, which largely involved counseling and maintenance on an antipsychotic medication. His family continued to support him, advising him that he was emotionally stable, in the absence of drugs. After his most recent bout with drugs and incarceration,
JT’s wife told him that he could not return home unless he remained drug free. With his family’s encouragement and support, JT was referred to AOT or Assisted Outpatient Treatment. This is a program which focuses on individuals who have a history of mental illness and incarceration associated with multiple hospitalizations and prior arrests. This program is designed to make certain that the individual receives the necessary treatment; substance abuse counseling, random drug tests, therapy and maintenance medication. JT is currently living in a halfway house for patients with Dual Diagnosis. He has been drug free for three months. His mental state has improved to the extent that he has expressed an interest in volunteer teaching. His wife continues to be supportive. JT promises, as he has repeatedly in the past, to abstain from drugs and alcohol. This time he acknowledged that it was hard to do, but he was going to focus on remaining drug free “one day at a time.” His wife remains hopeful. Visit CM’s website for more on Comorbidity & Mental Illness.
The following references are provided for the informed consumer. MedlinePlus-U.S. National Library of Medicine / National Institutes of Health: Dual Diagnosis https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/dualdiagnosis.html National Institute on Drug Abuse: Drug Facts: Comorbidity: Addiction and Other Mental Disorders http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/drugfacts/comorbidity-addiction-other-mental-disorders Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration - SAMHSA Substance Use and Mental Health Estimates from the 2013 National Survey on Drug Use and Health http://www.samhsa.gov/data/sites/default/files/ NSDUH-SR200-RecoveryMonth-2014/NSDUH-SR200RecoveryMonth-2014.htm
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Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, PA.
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EVENTS
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ENTERTAINMENT
ARTS
RECREATION
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THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF
C O N N E C T E D
Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467.
Ongoing Events
WEDNESDAYS DAILY
Art-a-Pelago D.J. Harvey Agency and The Bodhi Tree Art School & Studio, Honesdale. One art gallery in two locations (Paros-Anafi). Open on Second Saturdays 6–9 p.m. & regular business hours of each location. Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY
Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Honesdale & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work.
Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Milford Branch Library, Milford. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. WEDNESDAYS
Story Time 10:30–11:30 a.m. Pleasant Mount Public Library, Pleasant Mount. Bring your young children & grandchildren to the library for a fun-filled story time. Included will be crafts, games, songs &, of course, a story. Info: 570-448-2573 or www.waynelibraries.org.
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Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. WEEKLY
Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net. TUESDAYS
Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Dingman Township Branch Library, Dingman Twp. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. TUESDAYS
Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@gmail.com. TUESDAYS
Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m.
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Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. THURSDAYS
Pike County Workforce Development Agency 10 a.m.–Noon. Newfoundland Public Library, Newfoundland. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909. THURSDAYS
Live Music with John Curtin 6 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. THURSDAYS
Live Music with John Curtin 6 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com.
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Live Music 6–9 p.m. Kol Steakhouse, Hotel Anthracite, Carbondale. Info: 570-536-6020. FRIDAYS
Pike County Workforce Development Agency 1–3 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. A workforce professional will be available to help you apply for jobs or refine your resume. No appointment necessary. Free. Info: 570-296-2909.
story, followed by a fun craft for the whole family to enjoy. Info: 570-253-1220 or www.waynelibraries.org. SATURDAYS
Madrigal Choir 3–5 p.m. Farm Arts Collective invites male & female singers to participate in Madrigal Choir, an ensemble that is learning ancient 15th Century choral music. No experience necessary. Madrigal Choir will perform this summer in Farm Arts Collective’s performance events. Info: Tannis, 917-566-7698 or www.farmartscollective.org.
FRIDAYS
Hawley Farm Market 2–5:30 p.m. Bingham Park, Hawley. Produce, meats & poultry, baked goods, maple syrup & honey, fruits, milk & ice cream, art,
THROUGH OCT. 26
Carole Loeffler Alliance Gallery, Narrowsburg, NY. Info: 845-252-7576.
THURSDAYS PUB-O-LYMPICS 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. A combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with your team to win a gold medal, gift certificate & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-4388.
crafters & foot reflexology. Rain or shine. Info: 570-336-1644. FRIDAYS
Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-4388 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. FRIDAYS
Live Music at Tannery Room 8–11 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. SATURDAYS
Wayne County Farmers’ Market 9:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Willow Avenue next to Dave’s Super Duper, Honesdale. The selection of produce changes with the season, but there is always a wide variety of locally made household items, baked goods & decorative items. Rain or shine. Info: 570-488-5435. SATURDAYS
Drop-in Family Story Time 11 a.m.–Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Join Miss Melanie for a
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Gregory Curry Loft Gallery, Narrowsburg, NY. Info: 845-252-7576. THROUGH NOV. 8
John Willard Raught: Beauty Lies Close At Home Hope Horn Gallery, The University of Scranton. Raught was an artist & writer who was born in Scranton, Pa., studied & traveled in New York City, NY & Paris, France. He returned in his later years to live & work in NEPA. Exhibition provides an overview of Raught’s work. Info: 570-941-4214.
October 4– October 9 OCT. 4
Farmers Market Explorer Departs Honesdale station at 1 p.m. Step off the train in Hawley & stroll to Bingham Park for Hawley’s Farmers’ Market, full of local produce & products. Then stroll down Main Ave., with four blocks of something for everyone. Train departs Hawley at 3:30 p.m. to return to Honesdale. 3.5-hour round trip, with 2 hours in Hawley. Restrooms available
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EVENTS on the train. Info: 570-470-2697 or info@thestourbridgeline.net. OCT. 4
Halloween Cruise at AutoZone 5–8 p.m. AutoZone Auto Parts, Carbondale. Info: Joann Spalnick, 570-876-4034. OCT. 4
Art Gallery Reception 6 p.m. Hope Horn Gallery, The University of Scranton. For the exhibit “John Willard Raught: Beauty Lies Close at Home.” Held in conjunction with downtown Scranton’s First Fridays event. Free. Info: 570-941-4214 or darlene.miller-lanning@scranton.edu.
OCT. 5 Hawley Harvest Hoedown
OCT. 4
Chile vs Argentina Wine Dinner 7–9 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Put your taste buds to the test as you try wines from the Chilean & Argentinian regions expertly paired with an elegant farm-to-table cuisine. Reservations & info: 570-226-2993. OCT. 5
Fall Foliage Hike 10–11:30 a.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Lacawac Sanctuary is a great place to witness autumn at its best. Come & enjoy the foliage while learning a little about why fall is such a special time of year. Wear comfortable footwear. All ages welcome, registration appreciated. Free program. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. OCT. 5
Comic Gesture Drawing with Arielle Sekula 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. A whirlwind tour of live model gesture drawing. Class is dedicated to taking your life sketches & altering them for fantasy character designs. Bring supplies: paper, pencils, pens, erasers, etc. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. OCT. 5
Bridge the Gap: PEEC Bike Outing 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Join a bike ride along the McDade Trail. All equipment & transportation provided. Bring a water bottle & wear sturdy footwear. Extra water & snacks available. Space limited. Free. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. OCT. 5
Good News Music Foundation 6:30–9 p.m. Ladore Performing Arts Center, Waymart. Free concert of Gospel music by Christian recording artist Randy Simpson. A
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10 a.m.–4 p.m. In & about Downtown Hawley. Celebrate fall in the charming town of Hawley with a great weekend packed full of brews, contests, demos, horse-drawn hayrides, petting zoo, street performances, vendors, crafts, day & night entertainment, fresh locally grown foods, local maple syrup, pies, local business specials & deals & so much more. The finale is a high-energy bluegrass & folk show at 8 p.m. at the Ritz Theater (tickets required). Info: 570-226-4074 or hawleyharvesthoedown.com. great evening of entertainment — comedy & Christian music for the whole family. Info: 570-488-6129. OCT. 5
Spare Parts 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Traditional bluegrass band, formed over 30 years ago by NY state bluegrass legend, Gene Clayton. After his passing in 2017, the guys in his band decided to continue to carry on his legacy, playing under the Spare Parts name. BYOB. Reservations & info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.
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EVENTS OCT. 5
Owl Prowl 7–8:30 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. PA is home to a number of different species of owls. There are a handful of different species that live around PEEC. You may not see any, but you can definitely hear them. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. OCT. 5–31
Art Exhibit: Joan Lech, “Wood’s Hidden Treasures” Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Joan uses reclaimed wood from nature to create usable items & works of art through woodcarving & woodturning.
October 10–October 19 OCT. 10
Canoe/Kayak Trip at the Bog 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. A paddling trip into the Bog Preserve on Cranberry Creek. Participants must provide their own kayak or canoe. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. OCT. 11–14
Columbus Family Camp Weekend Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Experience PEEC in the splendor of autumn. Animal presentations,
OCT. 11 Comedy Night 8–11 p.m. Boiler Room at the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Hosted by Dennis Rooney, featuring John Ziegler, winner of 2016 “Funniest Comic on the East Coast” & headliner Tim Krompier from Gotham Comedy Live & Fifty Shades of Fatherhood. Call Ledges Hotel to reserve: 570-226-1337. Info: 570-390-4440. Opening reception Oct. 5, 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
canoeing & kayaking, nature hikes, crafts, campfire & more. Ages 3 & under free. Info: 570-828-2319.
OCT. 6
OCT. 12
Signs of Fall Hike 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Take a hike with us and discover the science behind the wonderful season of fall. Discuss changing animal behavior, why leaves change color, & why it’s the best season to be out and about.Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
Wet-on-Wet Painting with Rick Weber 10:30 a.m.–1 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn the “wet-on-wet” technique of painting with oils & go home with a completed landscape, painted by you. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.
OCT. 6
Ecozone Discovery Room! 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. No registration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
Harvest Festival 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Celebrate fall at PEEC’s 9th annual Harvest Festival with animal presenters, arts & crafts, handson activities, conservation exhibits, live music, local food, old-timey activities, & more. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
OCT. 9
OCT. 12
Hiring Event 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Pike County Workforce Development Agency, Shohola. Local employers will be conducting on-the-spot interviews. Info: 570-296-2909.
Countdown to Halloween Teen Movie Series Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Ages 13–17. Get ready for Halloween with 3 creepy movies. Today: “Lights Out” (PG-13). Info & registration: 570-253-1220.
OCT. 12
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EVENTS OCT. 12
“Paint & Sip” with Arielle Sekula 5–7 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Paint a “fall” image. A great evening out with friends or family or both. BYOB. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. OCT. 12
Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Happening filled with music, art, comedy & community support. Info on Facebook.
Public Library. Author talk & book-signing with Bibi Gaston, whose new book Gifford Pinchot and the Old Timers brings forward a treasure-trove of stories from the early years of the US Forest Service. It is a fascinating & inspiring history of extreme hardship, fearless struggle, confrontations with cattlemen, miners, loggers, & the challenge of turning confrontations into cooperation & gratitude. Light refreshments & beverages served. No reservations required. Proceeds support the library. Info: 570-253-1220. OCT. 16
OCT. 12
Nefarious Musical accompaniment to the classic 1922 silent film: NOSFERATU 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project & Canaltown. Also featuring the Spookyfest Poster Exhibition, presenting poster designs created by local artists for the 6th annual Canaltown Short Spooky Movie Festival. Free entry. BYOB. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. OCT. 13
Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental educators explain the bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. OCT. 13 & 14
Gettysburg & National Apple Harvest Festival Bus Trip Wayne County Area Agency on Aging. Info: Debbie, 570-630-2385.
Indoor Yard Sale 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Ladore Lodge and Conference Center, Waymart. Spaces available. Info: 570-488-6129. OCT. 16
Learn the Birds: Birding Identification Series 7–8:30 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Join Pocono Avian Research Center to learn some new tricks or hone some old skills at identifying raptors. All ages welcome. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. OCT. 17
Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Play from a selection of games or bring your own game to share & teach. All ages welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. OCT. 18
OCT. 15
Gifford Pinchot and the Old Timers 2 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Presented by The Friends of the Wayne Cty.
Fall Photography Workshop with Steven Cook Full-day fall foliage waterfall workshop at Ricketts Glen State Park. Pre-registration required. Info: TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.
OCT. 12–13 Harvest & Heritage Days Downtown Honesdale. Main St. is alive with the sound of street music, craft vendors, old-fashioned horse-drawn hayrides, pumpkin painting, antique cars, Wayne Cty. Historical Society Museum exhibits, “Pets on Parade” costume competition, shops, food & services as Historic Honesdale rolls out pumpkins, hay bales & fall colors for its annual festival. Info: 570-253-5492 or ghp@visithonesdalepa.com. 38 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
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EVENTS OCT. 18
Project Owlnet Saw-whet Owl Banding 8–10 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Participants learn more about the Northern Saw-whet Owl, Project Owlnet, & may have a unique opportunity to see one of the most secretive birds in the eastern US. Preregistration suggested. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. OCT. 18–21
OCT.19 Car Cruise “Halloween” 3–6 p.m. Honesdale National Bank lot, Rte. 6 Plaza, Honesdale. Halloween Cruise & final one of the season. Bring your classic car, truck or motorcycle. Music by Ricky Z. Rain dates: Oct. 26 & Nov. 2.
Fall Photography Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Capture the beautiful fall colors of the Delaware Water Gap. Geared towards DSLR type cameras. A tripod is recommended, but not required. Commuter rates available. Info: 570-828-2319. OCT. 19
Basic Photo Composition Workshop 10–11:30 a.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Whether you are taking photos on your phone or your DSLR camera, this basic composition workshop gives you the tools you need to take your images to the next level & create strong, compelling images. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
OCT. 18
OCT. 19
Oh Deer, It’s That Time of Year! Venison Cooking Class 7–9 p.m. Boiler Room at the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Chef Kate Woehrle demonstrates five techniques to cook what you have hunted. Enjoy a full meal & a complementary signature cocktail as she both entertains & educates on the art of cooking one of Northeast PA’s most popular game meats. Call Ledges Hotel to reserve: 570-226-1337. Info: 570-390-4440.
Countdown to Halloween Teen Movie Series Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Ages 13–17. Get ready for Halloween with 3 creepy movies. Today: “Darkness Falls” (PG-13). Info & registration: 570-253-1220.
OCT. 18
The Metal Showcase featuring Threatpoint, Sonic Salvation, and Brotality 7:30–10 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Energetic rock & metal performed by local musicians. Brotality is a metal band committed to spreading a message of hope through music, lyrics & performance. Threatpoint is a Thrash/Groove Metal band based in Scranton, Pa., with strong writing skills & creative input. Sonic Salvation is a 3-piece hard rock/metal band living in the shadows of some of the biggest bands in the NEPA area from the past 5+ years. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.
OCT. 19
Canaltown Short Spooky Movie Festival 7–11 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. 6th annual Spookyfest, featuring spooky moving pictures from the world over & our own back yard. Info: 570-253-2020.
October 20–October 31 OCT. 20
6th Annual Lake to Lake 8K Trail Run, Woods Walk and Dog Wag Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Registration, 8 a.m. Starts 9:30 a.m. Sections of the course are technical, rocky & steep. No dogs or strollers on 8K course; both are welcome on Woods Walk. Awards for 8K Trail Run. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. OCT. 20
River Vibes: David Roth 5 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale.
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EVENTS Presented by The Cooperage Project & River Vibes. David Roth strikes many chords, hearts & minds with his unique songs, offbeat observations, moving stories, sense of the hilarious & powerful singing & subject matter. BYOB. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperage. OCT. 21–NOV. 27
Lobster Fest 11:30 a.m.–9 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Daily specials including lobster chowder, lobster, shrimp & avocado napoleons, whole broiled lobsters & more. Full menu also available. Info: Silver Birches, 570-226-4388 or SilverBirchesResortPA.com. OCT. 24
Unique Pathways Program Series 5:30 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Travis Rivera, owner of Black and Brass Coffee Roasting Co. in Honesdale, will speak about the path that led him from California to NE PA & his commitment to the community. Free. Light refreshments served. Info: 570-226-4620. OCT. 25
A Contra Dance 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Live music by Cherry Orchard, with caller Laurie B. Beginners welcome, no experience necessary. Caller Laurie B. will do a beginner lesson starting at 7:15 p.m. Kids under 15 free. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. OCT. 25
Project Owlnet Saw-whet Owl Banding 8–10 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. See description at Oct. 18. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. OCT. 25 & 26
Storytelling Dinner 6–9 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Enjoy a farm-to-table, seasonal meal with enchanting stories featuring Sandy Gabrielson in the Undercroft, set aglow with carved pumpkins. Prix fixe menu. Reservations required: 570-226-2993. OCT. 26
Girl Scout Badge Festival Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Various programs & overnight options available for all ages. Call for more info: 570-828-2319.
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Annual Bird Seed Sale 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. OCT. 26
Countdown to Halloween Teen Movie Series Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Ages 13–17. Get ready for Halloween with 3 creepy movies. Today: “Happy Death Day” (PG-13). Info & registration: 570-253-1220. OCT. 26
Halloween Bash 7–10 p.m. The Cooperage Project, Honesdale. Wayne County Arts Alliance annual adult dance party & costume competition. Info: 570-729-5740 or waynecountyartsalliance.org. OCT. 27
DIY Bat Box 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Our local bats have been having a hard time these last few years. Give them a hand by building them a nice little house to sleep in during the day & winter. Info: 570-828-2319. OCT. 27
Ecozone Discovery Room! 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. See description at Oct. 6. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. OCT. 29
Halloween Parade 5–9 p.m. Main Street, Honesdale. Rain date, Oct. 31. Honesdale Jaycees’ annual parade. Info: info@honesdalejaycees.org or honesdalejaycees.org. OCT. 31
Halloween Trick or Treating 3–5 p.m. Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Familyfriendly event. Travel store to store at indoor free event. Info: 570-390-4440 or HawleySilkMill.com. OCT. 31
The 17th Annual Lackawanna & Wayne County Senior Expo 9:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Ladore Lodge and Conference Center, Waymart. Show devoted to information for those 50+ & it’s all free: information, exhibitors, free seminars, free health screenings & free refreshments. Lunch reservations or info: 570-488-6129.
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