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FEATURES HOLIDAY GOOD STUFF Shoppers flock to the area for holiday browsing in these historic towns. The sidewalks shine brightly, welcoming residents and visitors to explore and experience all they have to offer. There are many unique boutiques and novelty shops along luminescent corners specializing in the perfect gift. WINTER CHARM IN HAWLEY, PA The holiday season is almost upon us, and the folks at Settlers Hospitality have a line up of great events for locals and visitors alike. PICKING THE RIGHT CHRISTMAS LIGHTS W hen decorating for the holidays, like most people, you probably get out the twinkly lights and decorations. Before you do, though, it’s important to make sure that those lights are safe to use. GAMIFIED DIETING FOR A HEALTHIER, WEALTHIER HOLIDAY & NEW YEAR E ven during the gluttonous holidays and into the New Year “diet resolution” season, weight loss doesn’t have to be a difficult or costly endeavor. It can actually be quite profitable. WASHING AWAY THE WINTER BLUES W inter means many things at Woodloch Pines, a four-season, all-inclusive resort located in Pennsylvania’s Pocono Mountains that offers something unique with each change of the weather.
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34 36 WORDS FROM THE TEAM 37 38 WINTERFEST SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS 40 42 TRAVELING WITH KIDS 44 COOKIE CORNER 46 MRS. DOGOOD 48 PRISON REFLECTIONS 56 LIVING GREEN MONEY
BOOK REVIEW POCONO SECRETS BRIDAL SPOTLIGHT OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS CLASSIC CARS PETS BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE HEALTHY GEEZER AREA EVENTS GOOD STUFF... TOWNS
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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risk and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.
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In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007
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Ho! Ho!!... Merry Christmas! We love our area and want to tell the world about it. In our December pages, we showcase all the great towns, festivals, open houses, and lots of other Good Stuff. Sit back with your copy of this issue and make a plan to visit at least one, if not all, of our beautiful quaint hometowns. They are an easy drive! The CM team hopes that you, your family, and friends will enjoy all the festivities our area has to offer for the Holiday Season. One fun event CM has sponsored for years and where we would love to see you is the 22nd Annual Ornament Hunt on December 9th at 10 a.m. in Central Park. Children can “hunt” for ornaments for a chance to win prizes. Now, that is Good Stuff! Wishing you lots of Good Stuff in your home and under your tree! Thanks for being a part of our ‘family’. Here’s to 2018! The CM Team
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hoppers flock to the area for holiday browsing in these historic towns. The sidewalks shine brightly, welcoming residents and visitors to explore and experience all they have to offer. There are many unique boutiques and novelty shops along luminescent corners specializing in the perfect gift. There are plenty of other holiday events, festivals, tree lightings, parades, holiday feasts, caroling and other seasonal activities. So bundle up, gather friends and loved ones, and be sure to keep it local in our beautiful region this holiday season.
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he quaint village is three miles north of downtown Honesdale on Route 670. • Annual Christmas in the Village: This free event, held on December 2nd, features holiday open houses from 2 to 4 p.m. with seasonal food and beverages at the James Manning House, the Bethany Public Library, Bethany United Methodist Church, and the Mansion at Noble Lane. At the James Manning House, the Honesdale High School Chamber Choir will sing carols, and local author Will Wyckoff will be available for book signings. The Methodist Church will offer a bake sale and ornament making. In addition, starting at 2 p.m. at the Bethany Public Library, Mrs. Claus
will visit from the North Pole to help children write letters to Santa. Tours of the library and historical society are from 2 to 4 p.m. The library will hold a raffle for an antique quilt with the winning ticket drawn at 4 p.m. Enjoy a tree lighting at 3:30 p.m. at the Bethany Village Senior Living Center and a tricky tray with drawings at 4 p.m. Information for a self-guided walking tour to see Bethany’s historic architecture will also be available. • On Christmas Eve, luminaries will be lit along Bethany’s streets. For more information about Christmas in the Village, call Janet at the James Manning House (570) 253-5573.
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HONESDALE here is plenty to do throughout December for people of all ages from holiday open houses to train rides. Shop till you drop and then head to these businesses for festive fun.
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• Holiday Artisans Market: On December 10th from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Cooperage, over 30 talented artisans from the Upper Delaware region will showcase unique, handmade gifts, live music. Hot lunch and snacks.
• The 26th Annual Holiday Open House at Highlights for Children: December 9th from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., complete with treats, entertainment, storytelling, an art show, craft room, puppetry, and more.
• Annual Chorus and Band Holiday Concert: On December 19th at 7 p.m., the Honesdale High School Chorus and Band will perform holiday favorites in the high school auditorium on Terrace Street.
• 22nd Annual Ornament Hunt: December 9th at 10 a.m in Central Park. Children can “hunt” for ornaments for a chance to win prizes. • Holiday Craft Fair: December 9th from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Ladore Lodge, Ladore Pavilion and Carousel & Staff Lounge Building in Waymart. Enjoy handmade items, baked goods, maple products, homemade soaps, jewelry, refreshments, and more.
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• Luminaries on Main: On Christmas Eve, enjoy 300 luminaries lining historic Main Street. • Throughout the month, Santa Express train rides on the Stourbridge Line will be available. Kids will receive a present from Santa and candy cane. Call (570) 470-2697. For more information about these and more December events, contact the Greater Honesdale Partnership at (570) 253-5492 or visit www.visithonesdalepa.com.
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troll along the streets and alleys and step into antique stores, unique restaurants, coffee shops, art galleries, a historic theater, and specialty shops. There are also historic architectural structures including Grey Towers, the former home of America’s first forester Gifford Pinchot; and The Columns Museum, where the Pike County Historical Society is with historical artifacts and memorabilia including the famous “Lincoln Flag.” Both buildings are open to the public. Other than its historical claims, Milford is considered a destination based on its shopping and dining alone with eateries satisfying every palette from authentic Vietnamese to gourmet French dishes. • Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony: Milford resembles something out of a picture book as the entire downtown twinkles with lights and the big star on the cliff glows from a distance. The free event is held December 2nd at 6 p.m. on the lawn of the Community House at the corner of Broad and Harford Streets. In addition to the tree lighting, people can enjoy a visit from Santa, cookies, and cocoa. • Craft Store Holiday Open House: On December 8th, the Pike County Developmental Center hosts an open house from noon to 2 p.m. Find hand-crafted gifts for all occasions. Enjoy complimentary refreshments. The center is at 107 West Ann Street. For more details, call (570) 296-6319. • Girls’ Night Out: December 10th from 5 to 8 p.m., Milford Presents hosts
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another event with downtown businesses open featuring sales, refreshments, and fun. For more information, visit www.milfordpa.us. • Holiday Tours at Grey Towers National Historic Site: Beginning December 4th through the 20th. Guided tours of all three floors with each room beautifully decorated for the holidays are available at 1 and 3 p.m. • Holiday Art Exhibit and Sale at Grey Towers: In addition to the tours, enjoy plein air paintings and a juried show of photographs, all depicting Grey Towers and the surrounding landscape. For more information on Grey Towers, visit www.greytowers.org. • Winter Lights Festival/Celebrating the Arts: This 10th annual event takes place Saturday, January 20th and Sunday, the 21st 2018. The festival celebrates the beauty of winter, as well as the opening of the ice rink in Ann Street Park for the season. Some of the highlights include the anticipated Mac-n-Cheese and Chili contest at the Dimmick Inn from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., followed by the featured performance, Merlin Awakens, on ice in the park from 2 to 2:45 p.m. This free ice show will feature skaters, actors, and puppetry. During intermission, the winners of the Mac-n-Cheese and Chili contest will be announced. Following the show, the rink will officially be open to the public for free skating and will remain open, weather permitting. On Sunday, enjoy a repeat of the Merlin Awakens performance. For additional information and updates, “like” the festival on Facebook.
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Advance Tickets Available for Popular Activities
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ark your calendars! The 19th Annual Hawley Winterfest arrives on Friday, December 8th for a busy three-day festival packed full of activities for the whole family. Local businesses have put together a wonderful series of events, including many of the most popular annual favorites: the Virgin Consort, the Historic House Tour, the show at The Ritz, horse and carriage rides, author book signings, the Artisan Fair, the Painting Raffle, and much more. On Friday, December 8, the "Virgin Consort" will present a newly arranged elegant blend of traditional and Victorian carols sung by a professional ensemble of eight a cappella voices from New York City under the dynamic direction of Hawley resident, Kyler Brown. The concert will take place at the Hawley United Methodist Church beginning at 8 p.m. Advance ticket sales are available at The Settlers Inn, the front desk at Silver Birches, and the Hawley Library. On Saturday, December 9, the Historic House Tour will be an unprecedented opportunity to view four privately owned Delaware and Hudson Canal Lock Houses dating from the 1820's. This one-day only, self-guided tour will begin at Lock House 31 with a map and directions. Tickets are $20 and are available for advance purchase at the Hawley Silk Mill, Lake Wallenpaupack Visitors Center, the
Hawley Library, Teeter’s Furniture, and the Wayne County Historical Society in Honesdale. Create a new holiday tradition with nostalgic horse drawn carriage or wagon rides from noon to 4 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday. Board the carriages at Miss Elly’s Antiques on Church Street; carriage rides are $8 per person and wagon rides are $5. For laughs and merriment, take in the annual Christmas show at The Ritz Company Playhouse on both Saturday and Sunday from 2:30 to 4 p.m. This is a free children’s holiday play full of music, colorful costumes, and good cheer. Take a chance at winning this year's original artwork painted by local artist resident, Barbara Briden. This year's painting is a vibrant framed watercolor of "The Hawley Victorian Ladies," three exquisitely restored Victorian homes on Church Street. The painting is a seasonal joy and can be seen at the Hawley Library. Raffle chances are available at the Library, Doodles & Such, Teeter's Furniture and the Visitor Center. For more detailed information, call the Lake Wallenpaupack Visitors Center at (570) 226-2141 or pick up a Hawley Winterfest rack card. For a complete schedule of events and continuous updates, visit www.HawleyWinte rfest.com or follow Hawley Winterfest on Facebook.
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awley is decked out in holiday splendor resembling a Victorian town. Historic inns, bed and breakfasts, candy shops, novelty stores, a historic company playhouse, a yoga studio, boutiques, and antique shops line the streets, beckoning shoppers with the promise of warmth and wonder. A must-see landmark is the historic Hawley Silk Mill, a large bluestone structure built in the 1800s. Once an operating silk factory, the Mill is now open to the public featuring a community college, a fitness center, Art on the Edge, the Mill Market with locally sourced produce and other items for sale, art galleries, clothing boutiques, and more. When visiting the Hawley Silk Mill, be sure to stop in the Cocoon Coffee House situated in front of the building for a steaming beverage and gourmet treats ranging from luscious quiches to mouth-watering muffins.
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• 19th Annual Hawley Winterfest: December 8-10th. Get ready for winter and the upcoming holiday with an old-fashioned festival celebrating the pre-holiday season and Hawley’s historic roots. The town twinkles with holiday cheer, and the cold, fluffy snow provides the perfect backdrop for cookie decorating, holiday theater, horse and carriage rides, author book signings, live musical entertainment, a living nativity, train rides, open houses, holiday feasts, arts and craft shows, historic house tours, a beer tour, and art exhibits. For more info, see the previous page and visit www.hawleywinterfest.com. • Holiday Pop-Up Restaurant: On December 8th in the Boiler Room within the Hawley Silk Mill, people can indulge in a special holiday dining experience. Seatings are at 6 and 8 p.m. Call for reservations. (570) 226-1337.
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WINTER CHARM
Winter Charm in Hawley, PA
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The holiday season is almost upon us, and the folks at Settlers Hospitality, which includes The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort and the Hawley Silk Mill, have a line up of great events for locals and visitors alike.
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oin the tradition and splendor at The Settlers Inn for their Candlelight Christmas Dinner on Dec. 1st, 2nd & 3rd. This annual tradition includes a seasonal farm to table feast, holiday music by the Bradley Bunch Fri & Sat, and Sunday will feature Robert Kopec and The Honesdale High School Choir. Take a horse and carriage ride and embrace the season with the beautifully decked halls of the inn. Reservations are required for this memorable event in its 30th year!
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Ready to celebrate? Check out the Open House Holiday Party at the Waterfront at Silver Birches. This great holiday party is perfect for small businesses or individuals . They’ll take care of the details so you can just sit back and relax. Dec. 9th is the dinner and dancing and Dec. 10th is brunch with a holiday show. What would the holiday season be without Hawley Winterfest? Come home to Hawley for this signature event Dec. 8th-10th that combines Christmas cheer, winter activities, and more. The Settlers
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Inn will host their Winterfest Brunch; The Dock will be hosting their first Ugly Sweater Party; and Silver Birches will have a lakeside Christmas Campfire. You also won’t want to miss the Hawley Silk Mill with their Sculpted Ice Bar, Holiday Pop-Up Restaurant, and Artisans Fair. Top off your year at one of four great New Year’s celebrations in Hawley. The Settlers Inn offers New Year’s Eve two ways at The Settlers Inn with a special menu and the option to enjoy it in the dining room with Dan Bradley on piano or with dancing and the Gypsy Jazz Quintet in the Undercroft. Glass-wine.bar.kitchen at Ledges Hotel is offering two seatings for their New Year’s Eve Extravaganza including hors d’oeuvres, champagne, and a decadent tasting menu with live music and a champagne toast at midnight. The Waterfront at Silver Birches offers yet another option in Hawley with their
New Year’s Eve Bash. The party includes a decadent buffet, DJ music and dancing, complimentary champagne, and balloon drop at midnight. No matter how you plan to celebrate the holidays, Settlers Hospitality has something for everyone. Join them this season with lovely holiday décor at all their properties at The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort, and The Hawley Silk Mill. For more information, check out TheSettlersInn.com, LedgesHotel.com, SilverBirchesResortPA.com, or HawleySilkMill.com or call any of the front desks at 570.226.2993/570.226.1337/570.226.4388 /570.390.4440. About Settlers Hospitality Settlers Hospitality is a family run hospitality group in Hawley, PA consisting of The Settlers Inn, Ledges Hotel, Silver Birches Resort, The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Glass-wine.bar.kitchen, Cocoon Coffeehouse, Lake Region Fitness, The Mill Market, and Art on the Edge.
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LIGHT SAFETY
Picking the right
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hen decorating for the holidays, like most people, you probably get out the twinkly lights and decorations. Before you do, though, it’s important to make sure that those lights are safe to use.
Here are a few things to keep in mind: Indoor or outdoor? Most homeowners don’t realize, but there is a big difference between lighting that is rated for indoor use and lights rated for outdoor use. Lights rated for outdoor use, for example, are permitted to get much hotter than lights intended for indoor use. Likewise, lights intended for indoor use are not designed to protect against rain and snow. As this can be a fire hazard, lights should only be used for their intended purpose.
Inspect your lights When unboxing your lights, inspect each strand for frayed or bare wires, cracked sockets, or loose connections. Throw away any lights that show any signs of damage. When purchasing light strings, extension cords, or timers, ensure that they have been certified by an accredited certification organization such as CSA International or Underwriters Laboratory (UL).
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Plugging light strings together Light string manufacturers will specify a maximum number of light strings that can be connected together safely. Never exceed the recommendations for your lights (for most lights this is three light strands), and never plug other things into your light strings.
LED vs Incandescent LED Christmas Lights use about 10% of the electricity that incandescent bulbs use and also produce far less heat (which reduces the chance of fire). While early LED bulbs where known for having a “blue hue,” the technology has improved significantly, making this less of an issue now. LED bulbs also last much longer than your average incandescent bulb. Incandescent Christmas Lights are loved by traditionalists and generate a “warmer” light. While they use more electricity, they also tend to be brighter than LED bulbs. This also means that they produce more heat and can pose a greater fire risk.
Don’t leave them on Now that you’ve picked out the perfect light strings and have your house decorated, we know the last thing you want to do is turn the lights off. As pretty as those lights are, though, safety is always a priority. This is why the National Fire Protection Association (NFPA) recommends turning off your lights when you go to bed or whenever you’re not home. We hope this information was helpful and wish everyone a Happy Holiday Season! About Disaster Blaster Disaster Blaster is an indoor environmental firm serving the Northeastern PA Area. For more about Disaster Blaster, please visit their website at: www.disasterblaster.com.
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PROFITABLE DIETING
Gamified Dieting for a
Healthier, Wealthier
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ven during the gluttonous holidays and into the New Year “diet resolution” season, weight loss doesn’t have to be a difficult or costly endeavor. It can actually be quite profitable. One organization founded on much obesity and incentivization research, HealthyWage.com, has found a way to help dieters overcome their short-term financial woes and spur weight loss from the start by applying “double-incentivization” methodology.
By Merilee Kern, ‘The Luxe List’ Executive Editor
The company’s diet-for-dollars program allows participants to make a wager upfront ranging anywhere from $20 a month to as much as $500. Participants then commit to a specific amount of weight loss in a specific time frame, for which they’ll receive a cash prize payout if they achieve their goal in the allotted time. Company reps cite that the average participant wagers $60 per month for nine months and roughly triples their investment if they are successful at achieving their goal. The financial upside potential is impressive. Through its website, HealthyWage.com shares an array of inspirational success stories of both women and men who gained financially for their pound-shedding achievements using the company’s unique gamification approach. Jessica C. in Clearwater, Florida, won $1,938.70 for losing 67 pounds in 6 months; Mat E. in High Point, North Carolina, won $2,952.00 for losing 73.8 pounds in 9 months; Mykerah Z. in Stevens Point, Wisconsin, won $2,935.06 for losing 77 pounds in 18 months; Jessica W. in Bellmawr, New Jersey, won $1,308.29 for losing 40.2 pounds in 6 months; and Kerry B. in Lindenhurtst, New York, won $1,399.09 for losing 51 pounds in 6 months. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. The 100-plus club is even more impressive with Kristin W. having lost 114 pounds and winning $4,000 in a 12-month HealthyWa-
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ger contest. She subseeffective than the opporquently lost another 14 tunity to win somepounds for a total thing of equal value. loss of 128 pounds, That’s precisely why nearing half her we advocate that starting weight of program partici279. Nancy W. lost pants ‘pay to play’ 101 pounds in a 12and make an investmonth “HealthyWament out of their own ger” contest and won pocket in order to win $4,000 as well, and then rewards—in our case large went on to lose 14 more pounds cash prizes—for losing weight in HealthyWage’s Summer Jackpot contest, and getting more active in the program.” winning another $105, resulting in total So if you’re looking for a fun and competwinnings of $4,105. Her starting weight itive diet program that proffers cash incenwas 312, and she got down to 152 with tives, social and expert-based support, HealthyWage for a whopping online tools and resources, 160 pound total weight More than 200,000 goal-setting and tracking loss—more than half of her and other helpHealthyWage.com technologies, starting weight. Then there’s ful support mechanisms to Danielle S. who lost 127.5 participants across better assure your pound pounds and won $1,323 in a shedding success (and moneAmerica have 9-month HealthyWager contary earnings related thereto), test, and Ben C. who lost a collectively lost over HealthyWage.com just may solid 100 pounds and won be for you. After all, the 10 million pounds company was founded in $1,509 in a 9-month HealthyWager contest of his own. response to academic and gained over Reportedly overall, more research proving that even $2.5 million than 200,000 Healthysmall cash rewards triple the Wage.com participants across effectiveness of weight-loss in cash prizes America have collectively programs; that people are lost over 10 million pounds more effective at losing and gained over $2.5 million in cash prizes weight when their own money is at risk; for their success. To me, the fact that so and that social dynamics play a large role in many participants have actually lost over the spread of obesity and will likely play a 100 pounds with this money-driven prolarge role in reversing obesity. You can take gram exemplifies the power and efficacy of that to the bank. this weight wagering methodology. This fact coupled with more and more studies As a branding pundit, wellness industry veteran, consumer health advocate, and substantiating the financially-induced diet influential media voice, Merilee Kern model both at home and in business among spotlights noteworthy marketplace employee groups. innovations, change makers, movers In fact, results from one study published and shakers. Also a two-time fitness champion, her ground-breaking, awardin the Annals of Internal Medicine indicatwinning “Kids Making Healthy Choices” ed that “‘Loss Incentive’ Motivates EmploySmartphone APP for children, parents/caregivers, and ees to Take More Steps,” finding that finaneducators is based on her award-winning, illustrated cial incentives framed as a loss were most fictional children’s book, “Making Healthy Choices – A Story to Inspire Fit, Weight-Wise Kids.” Merilee may be effective for achieving physical activity reached online at www.LuxeListReviews.com. Follow goals. her on Twitter at www.twitter.com/LuxeListEditor and “This study, and throngs of others, reiterFacebook at www.Facebook.com/TheLuxeList. ates the importance of the ‘stick’ in the Some or all of the accommodations(s), experience(s), design of a wellness incentive program,” item(s) and/or service(s) detailed above may have been notes HealthyWage.com co-founder. “Many provided or arranged at no cost to accommodate this studies have demonstrated that the threat of review, but all opinions expressed are entirely those of Merilee Kern and have not been influenced in any way. losing something of value is much more
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FEATURE STORY GRIEF SUPPORT
Surviving the Holidays after Loss
The holidays can be especially difficult when a loved one who was usually there is gone.
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free support group to help people cope with the upcoming holiday season after the loss of a loved one will be offered at Wayne Memorial Hospital. The six-week session will provide support and focus on grief as a normal part of an individual’s transition through life. The sessions will be held Tuesday evenings, November 28, 2017 through January 2, 2018 from 6:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in Conference Room #4 on the second floor of Wayne Memorial Hospital, 601 Park Street, Honesdale. “The holidays can be especially difficult when a loved one who was usually there is gone,” explains Anna M. Walsh, social worker with Wayne Memorial Hospice. “Grief is experienced by each individual very differently,” she said. “There is no ‘right or wrong’ way, but sharing the experience often helps us understand our own losses more clearly. It makes us aware we are not alone in our feelings.”
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During each session, participants will be encouraged to explore their own solutions to the challenges of living without their loved ones and dealing with the many changes that follow a loss, particularly during a holiday season. The support group will be facilitated by Rev. Edward K. Erb, Wayne Memorial Hospital and Hospice Chaplain, and Ms. Walsh. The group will provide a safe place in which individuals can sort out their feelings and share as they are able and willing. No one will be required to share. Neither will anyone be required to attend – or sit through – all sessions, although “your experience will be enhanced by attendance at all the sessions,” said Ms. Walsh. For more information or to register call 570-241-2685 or 570-253-8384 or email edwardkerb@aol.com.
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Business Spotlight Pat’s Country Restaurant Located in Hamlin, PA (Down the hill from CVS) Open 7 days a week Breakfast – Lunch – Dinner 570-689-9400
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he Shelly family just recently re-opened the location that they had to close back in June 2017. Unfortunately, the couple both faced health issues in the past year with Patrick having had breast cancer, which is rare in men, and Denise suffered a foot injury that required surgery and has limited her ability to work for several months. The couple had several inquiries about leasing the building, but those plans fell through. After being closed for two months, and frankly as Patrick says, “I was finding it difficult to get a job having been self-employed for twenty years,” the couple knew that if they wanted to re-open, they would have to do a restaurant impossible. Having met Robert Irvine from the TV show on the Food Network, they were inspired to launch an effort to save the restaurant location. They launched a campaign on Facebook looking for a small group of investors. “Our first two investors came rather quickly, but it wasn’t enough to do what we needed to do.” The couple was able to secure the funds in August. They worked 10-12 hours a day, ripping out carpet, painting, cleaning, new carpet, new furniture, wallpaper, and replacing worn equipment. Going with a Country theme, as Pat explained, “We live in area that has deer, bear, and farms.” What couldn’t be more country than that? They relaunched September 1, and overall, business has been better. “We shortened our days down to 12-13 hours, offering fresher options and focusing on a smaller menu. All of our produce is fresh, and we make many of our items to order.” They also gave up some of their seating area to sell craft seasonal items. “We are trying to offer items like Cracker Barrel.” Part of the country décor old barn wood was donated by The Shaffer family, and Pat custom-built barn doors and an American Flag, adding to the country charm. The couple is very thankful that they were given a second chance by the community. If you are in the area, stop in and check out the restaurant. They offer daily specials and on Sundays have a breakfast buffet. Their menu can be viewed on their website, and they have a loyal Facebook following with over 2000 people.
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HOLIDAY TRAVEL
Smart Tips for Traveling with Your Kids This Holiday Season Provided by Finn + Emma
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he holidays are fast approaching! And when it comes to holiday travel with kids, a little helpful advice is wonderful if it makes the trip go a lot smoother
Plan Ahead The smartest thing you can do to help ensure your travels go without a hitch is to plan ahead. The two days before and after the actual holiday are usually the busiest travel-wise. See if you can schedule your trips to avoid the craziness. Flying? Buy your tickets well in advance and request seating in the bulkhead (divider that separates the sections of a plane) for plenty of legroom. Driving? Plot your trip ahead of time, print off driving directions in the event your phone’s GPS isn’t working, plan plenty of stops, research fun or interesting places to take a break with the kids. The holidays are a busy time, so book your hotels and rental cars in advance. If you’re looking for a more homey stay, with more room for the kids and amenities like washing machines and pools, consider Airbnb or VRBO. Grab an umbrella stroller for little ones. They fit easily in the trunk of your car and can be checked when you board the plane at the airport.
Pack Like a Pro Make a check list of all the things you’ll need for each person in your family. Then add things like childproofing supplies (if needed), first aid kit, medicines, toys and activities, extra pacifiers, formula, snacks
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for travel and a car emergency kit. Keep tickets and ID’s in a travel folder so everything is in one place and include important health/emergency information to keep with you while you travel. Scan your other travel documents and email to yourself (I.D.’s, passports, etc.). If you write out all the necessities, right down to the very basics, you’re more likely to remember the things you genuinely need to travel.
Invest in a GPS Locator If your holiday travel takes you through busy airports or crowded attractions, it’s a smart idea to invest in a child GPS locator. The child wears the watch-like gadget and you’re able to track their location through the connected app on your phone. Some models allow the child to call you as well. Look for styles like the LG GizmoPal Wireless GPS Track Call Child Wearable Smartwatch that can be worn on the wrist or attached to clothing.
Comfort is Key When traveling, comfort is essential, especially when you’re a child. A comfortable kid is a happier kid. Pack ultra soft outfits for long days in the car or plane, while taking in local sights where you’re visiting, and for days spent with family playing. Always consider ease of diaper changes while traveling. Look for outfits that are designed to make changing a breeze no matter where you are.
Travel is an (App)licable Time for Technology Old school coloring supplies and books are great for travel, but let’s be honest, tablets are the perfect resource for kids spending hours on the road or in the air. It passes the time faster and can be educational if the tablet is loaded with learning apps. There are also apps specific to travel that can help the kids learn about the different cities and states they're visiting. And don’t forget the headphones. If there’s ever a great time for technology, holiday travel is the time!
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SUGAR COOKIES: 1 1/2 cups butter, softened 2 cups white sugar 4 eggs 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 5 cups all-purpose flour 2 teaspoons baking powder 1 teaspoon salt
JAM BARS: 1 cup margarine or butter softened 1/2 cup sugar 1/2 cup packed brown sugar 1 egg 1 tsp vanilla 2 1/2 cups flour 1 tsp baking powder Jar of your favorite jam
KOLACHKI: 1/2 pound cream cheese (at room temperature) 1/2 pound butter (at room temperature) 3 cups all-purpose flour 1 pound finely ground walnuts 1 large egg 1 cup granulated sugar water
In a large bowl, cream together butter and sugar until smooth. Beat in eggs and vanilla. Stir in the flour, baking powder, and salt. Cover, and chill dough for at least one hour (or overnight). Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C). Roll out dough on floured surface 1/4 to 1/2 inch thick. Cut into shapes with any cookie cutter. Place cookies 1 inch apart on ungreased cookie sheets. Bake 6 to 8 minutes in preheated oven. Cool completely.
Combine all ingredients, except for jam, to make the dough, divide into eight balls. Shape each ball into strips 8 x 1-1/2 inches on an ungreased cookie sheet. Make a slight indentation down the center of the strip. Fill the indent with jam--any flavor you like! Use about 1 tsp of jam per strip. Bake at 350 for about 10 to 12 minutes until the edges brown. Cool slightly. Drizzle with powdered sugar icing, which is made with powdered sugar, milk and vanilla.
Preheat oven to 375o F. Mix butter and cream cheese until smooth. Add flour, and mix again until smooth. Roll dough into 3 balls. Refrigerate dough to keep it from drying out. Roll out 1 ball at a time and flour lightly. Roll dough out in flour or granulated sugar so it doesn’t stick. Cut dough into squares or circles using cookie or biscuit cutter. Make the filling by mixing together the walnuts, egg, and sugar and adding just enough water to obtain a stick consistency. Add about a teaspoon of filling to each piece of cut dough. Roll squares into logs. Fold circles over and seal with fork. Bake for 10-15 minutes or until lightly browned.
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WOODLOCH PINES
at Woodloch Pines Resort Pocono Mountains Family Resort Features Array of Seasonal Winter Activities to Keep Guests Busy in the Cold
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inter means many things at Woodloch Pines, a four-season, all-inclusive resort located in Pennsylvania’s Pocono Mountains that offers something unique with each change of the weather. As the autumn colors leave the trees and mild temperatures make way for frosty weather, the spirit of the approaching holiday season can be felt in the air. With seasonal offerings such as Yule Log Hunts, festive decorations, a plethora of holiday-themed family games and contests, and carriage rides through an illuminated nature trail complete with light shows, there is no shortage of merry good cheer at this Poconos resort.
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After the holiday season comes to a close, however, Woodloch continues to fully embrace the freeze, transforming itself into a winter wonderland and going so far as to make snow so that guests can enjoy cold weather favorites even when Mother Nature does not cooperate. Snow tubing, snowshoeing, ice fishing, and ice skating are among the most popular outdoor activities offered. This year, Woodloch will not only feature skating on the property’s very own lake but also on its brandnew ice skating rink where guests can coast under a canopy-covered 9,000 square feet of ice. The pavilion will feature the EZ Glide 350 synthetic ice that will afford a four-season skating experience outdoors.
Other seasonal activities include: Winter Olympics Get ready for some mountain bowling, snow shovel passing, and snow tube switch-a-rooing in the quest for a coveted Woodloch gold medal.
Winter Archery Tag Friends become targets in this game set amongst the resort’s stunning Pocono backdrop.
A Brand-New Escape Room This team-building adventure game has groups of 8 to 10 players solving a series of puzzles during a set amount of time in order to unveil the secret plot and “escape” from the setting. Some of the family resort’s popular amenities – Enjoy a zip-line and climbing wall, go-karts, bumper cars, game shows and trivia, a Broadway-style
theme show, and the Indoor Pool Complex complete with slide and splash zone. If all of that is not enough, Woodloch Pines is the official resort for Ski Big Bear at Masthope Mountain. Located only eight miles from Woodloch, the partnership allows guests a 50% discount on lift tickets Ski Big Bear is known for their family-friendly atmosphere and is the perfect place to learn with their personalized ski instruction and user-friendly trails. “We hold winter close to our hearts here at Woodloch Pines,” explains John Kiesendahl, owner and president of the Poconos resort. “The snow makes our property look even more beautiful, falling like powdered sugar on the treetops and the lake. Some of our guests race outside, wanting to be the first one down the snow tube run or skating across the ice. And then we have others who prefer to stay inside, enjoying hot chocolate along with some of our homemade baked goods while they cozy up by the fireplace. It’s perfect because there’s something for everyone, and it’s all right here for the taking.” As an added bonus, winter weekends feature some of the family resort’s lowest prices of the season with allinclusive rates starting at $190 per adult, per night. To obtain more information or to book a stay, please visit www.woodloch.com, or call 1-800Woodloch. About Woodloch Pines Resort: Creating a magical experience for families since 1958, Woodloch Pines Resort’s signature warm hospitality keeps guests returning year after year and offers a truly unique all-inclusive family vacation experience fitting for everyone’s taste. An award-winning family resort, championship golf course, and sister property featuring a luxury destination spa is just 95 scenic and convenient miles from New York and Philadelphia nestled in the Pocono Mountains Lake Region. For more information call 800-966-3562 or visit woodloch.com.
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THE HORSE AND THE COW By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Dear Editor, Living in Halo, PA, is like living in heaven- not the spiritual one that I urge my congregants to achieve, but one filled with graceful beauty. When I am out and about driving to help my congregants or just shopping for my family, I see rolling hills, beautiful lakes, private ponds, Black Angus cows moving like sculptures on farms, sheep moving to different pastures to eat the freshest grass … and a dog chasing after its master. As the Senior Pastor of The First Church of God’s Love, I sometimes feel as though I am living in a pastoral-graphic novel. But then one sees something that makes one ponder … the horse and the cow. Betsy is a widow who runs her farm by herself except for occasional farm hands. Her hard work gives her joy as do her animals. Mostly sheep. All organic. Betsy is not a member of my church, but I know her from the years of attending John Whitsand’s Christmas Eve parties. His homemade fruitcake that he soaks in brandy for over a year is always delicious. Although each year John’s antique home is lit by only two fireplaces and candles, I always noticed the deep crevices on Betsy’s face reflecting her difficult life. They reminded me of the mud roads that lead to her house. Her hair was always combed, but like the outside of her house that looks like it is falling down, it needed attention. I like and respect Betsy because she makes each day count. Last Christmas, we spoke about buttermilk. Driving to town, I always pass Betsy’s one hundred acre farm and see her Palomino horse and donkey grazing together about fifty feet apart. However, one day there was only the Palomino. Where is the donkey? Our post office is like our community bulletin board. The tiny building on a rural road was built to be an ice cream parlor, but when the business failed, the Federal Government leased it to deliver our mail. Gwyneth, our part-time post mistress, works four hours a day, six days a week, and knows everything that goes on in Halo. She knows who’s getting a divorce even before the couple realizes it themselves.
“What happened to Betsy’s donkey?” I asked. Without hesitation Gwyneth told me, “It died.” I was sad. My landscape was dramatically changing. But then my life took over as I thought about the groceries that I had to buy, my son’s report card, my daughter’s diet. “What movie is playing for my husband and me to see?” My Sunday sermon and, “Oh, I need gas.” As I drove back from town that day, I saw the Palomino grazing by itself. I stopped the car. I wondered if it was lonely. I wondered if Betsy would buy another donkey. I wondered if she could afford it. And then it happened. Driving to town two weeks ago today, I saw the Palomino horse and Betsy’s new brown and white cow grazing together no more than fifty feet apart. I pulled over to the side of the road, turned off my car, and stared at them. I felt that it was a tableau from which I had to learn a lesson. Is this a parable? What does it mean? The hundreds of Betsy’s sheep never grazed with the horse. Why the cow? I thought about the people with whom I eat. Do I choose them by size? By color? By what we eat? The sheep eat grass just like the cow. Every day for the past two weeks, I drove to Betsy’s farm, turned off my car, and watched the horse and the cow grazing together. Finally, the parable revealed itself. When the horse looks at the cow, he sees a little bit of “horseness.” When the cow looks at the horse, she sees a little bit of “cowness.” Though different, they are the same. My sermon is ready for Sunday. Amen
The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love
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Prison Reflections
“Lost Innocence” Part I By Terry Mooney
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his woman is quiet and reserved. She has volunteered to do programs and is a facility tailor. Her story tells of some major trauma she has had to process, starting at a young age, but she doesn’t give up.
My Story I was born in Jersey City, New Jersey, in a rough neighborhood. When I was seven, we moved to Orange County, New York. At the time, it was very country, very quiet. I was glad to move, even though every single weekend we went back to see my grandparents. I have a really large family, aunts, uncles, cousins. We celebrated everything together, all of the holidays. We lived the farthest away, but we made it to every event no matter what. My Aunt Carol always shoved cake in everybody’s face. It was kind of a tradition and always started cake fights. She still does it to this day. The worst thing that happened to me was the day before Father’s Day and I was twelve. My best friend came over and said that her brother was missing. He was fourteen at the time and had been missing most of the day. He never showed up at his baseball game, which was odd because we all walked everywhere and nothing bad ever happened. I went with her to look for him, in the local parks, walking all around the neighborhood. Then we went on a trail in a small stretch of woods in between two neighborhoods. In about two or three minutes out of the five it would have taken us to walk the whole thing, we saw a tree that had blood all over it. The ground was also covered in blood. We saw something that looked like rumpled up clothing. We knew it was bad, so we turned around and ran straight back to her mother’s house. They called the police. The next morning I found out that it was her brother lying there in a heap. He’d been stabbed twelve times as well as sodomized. A couple of days later, a guy tried to hang himself from a tree in the park. The police saw him and cut him down. At first, he made up a bogus story that the killer had attempted to hang him, to kill him too. So the police took him in for questioning. It turned out that he was in our local high school. We neighborhood kids would make fun of him because we thought he was weird. We stole his bike once; we basically tortured him. He finally confessed to killing Danny. So, it could have been anyone of us that he killed for revenge, just Danny was the unlucky one that he got a hold of. He went to prison for a long time, then was deported back to Guatemala. My parents never let us out again. We stayed on the front porch, or else. Anyway, I was scared to go anywhere. Even when my friends wanted to sneak out, I didn’t. At about this time, my parents’ marriage began to disintegrate. I’d heard the word divorce many times before they actually did, so I didn’t believe it until it happened. Meanwhile, I was at the top of my DARE class in the fifth grade and had researched cocaine. I even got a medal for it. That’s how I recognized the signs in my own parents, that they were huge cocaine users. I also recognized pot leaves in my dad’s plants by comparing them to my DARE booklet. It was a real shock, but it explained what eventually would happen. (To Be Continued.)
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Best Local E Nonprofits for Nature Lovers’ Holiday Donations By Craig Lukatch, President, Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station and Environmental Education Center 30 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
very year at Christmastime, my mother chooses and champions a cause. In lieu of fruitcakes, popcorn tins and kitschy socks, she sends out donations to what she considers the best nonprofit organizations in our honor. It’s not that she isn’t festive or doesn’t believe in Christmas traditions, but when it comes to gift-giving, she assumes that the bulk of recipients have handled their own food, drink, and décor. Instead, she gives something that embodies the true spirit of the holidays. Since she started this tradition, many friends and relatives have followed suit. Our Christmas gifts now carry much more meaning because they’re more personally reflective than any sweater or box of chocolates I’ve ever received. They are gifts from the heart that also help to make the world a better place. So perhaps this year, in a time when both national and international philanthropy seem crucial, others might be interested in picking up this charitable giving habit.
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Nonprofits
Whether it’s nature/wildlife conservation or the rights of women, children, racial minorities, the LGBTQ community and/or indigenous people, we can all find causes we believe in to support. While I would encourage others to adopt my mother’s philanthropic approach to the holidays, I’d also advise researching charities before you donate. Even the best nonprofit organizations have to pay people to run them, but most people prefer that the majority of their money go towards the causes themselves rather than questionable administration costs. For those who are in some way affiliated with small grassroots efforts (my mother has donated to charities I’ve worked with on multiple occasions), the decision is a no-brainer. But this story is for those who might be newer to this sort of endeavor. First of all, congratulations and thanks for giving back! Secondly, let me suggest a couple of local environmentally conscience nonprofits to choose from and worthy of your hard-earned cash and heartfelt sentiments.
Some of the Best Local Non-Profit Organizations for Nature Lovers to give back to this holiday season include: Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station and Environmental Education Center; Delaware Highlands Conservancy; Northeast Pennsylvania Audubon Society; and the Pinchot Institute for Conservation. Only you can make a difference! About Lacawac Sanctuary and the Author: Five hundred and fifty acres on the shore of Lake Wallenpaupack in the Northern Poconos, Lacawac Sanctuary is a mix between an environmental education center, nature center, and biological field station, provides visitors with an opportunity for outdoor education and exposure to a blend of diverse habitats, including wetlands, open fields, forests, and lakes. To fulfill our mission of Research, Education and Preservation, Lacawac offers environmental education and public programs to the community, educating environmental stewards by communicating the core values of environmental responsibility, citizenship, inclusiveness, and the pursuit of knowledge; undergraduate research and research partnerships with a consortium of colleges and universities; and over 8 miles of hiking trails open to the public, free of charge, from dawn to dusk year-round. Craig Lukatch, President Craig.lukatch@lacawac.org 570-689-9494 • Lacawac.org
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Money Your Age, Your Money:
How to Spend, Save and Invest Right Now Provided by Jonathan “Josh” Sheard, Sage Investments, LLC
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say it all the time: Anyone can retire a millionaire. It just takes discipline and attention to a few commonsense concepts like living on a budget, paying down debt, and saving like crazy. But what does that actually look like in your 20s, 40s, or even 60s? Here’s my list of the best money moves to make at every age. And if you feel a little behind in the game, use it as fuel to work harder and smarter to get to where you want to be. It’s never too late.
Be Confident About Your Retirement. 20s — Build a Solid Foundation • Newly married or about to be? Go ahead and get on the same page about money. Good communication now will pay off in spades later. • Avoid debt. That means no credit cards, car payments, or financed furniture. • If you have student loans, pay them off ASAP! Sallie Mae is not your bestie.
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• Buy good medical insurance. A single hospital stay can bankrupt you in a heartbeat.
30s — Shift to a Family Focus • If you’re having kids soon, rework your budget for diapers, daycare, cribs, and car seats. You’ll have a little less money, but you’ll have a whole lot more love. • Buy enough term life insurance to cover your family should anything happen to you or your spouse. We recommend getting ten times your income. • Build up your emergency fund to three to six months of expenses. Sooner or later, you’re going to need it. • With children in the picture, you may be thinking about home ownership. Just make sure you can put 10–20% down at a 15year fixed interest rate. (And keep your house payment to less than 25% of your take-home pay.)
40s — Shovel the Savings • You’re at the top of your career, and your kids are finally out of daycare (or at least out of diapers). That means a little more money in the bank to invest. Go with a good growth stock mutual fund and be sure you’re contributing 15% of your household income toward retirement. • Ramp up the kids’ college funds only after you’ve secured your own future. Your kids can get scholarships, but nobody gives scholarships for the retirement years. • Keep your home well maintained to avoid paying huge repair bills down the road.
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50s — Look Forward but Stay Focused • You’re starting to look forward to a life without that daily commute. It’s okay to be excited. But don’t cash in your retirement savings just yet—keep investing a full 15%. • Now’s the time to pay off your mortgage. With the kids out of the house, maybe you can even downsize and pay cash for your next place. • If you have some spare change, you may want to invest in rental real estate for some extra income.
60+ — Enjoy the Fruits of Your Labor • It’s time to retire. But that doesn’t mean sitting on your couch all day watching documentaries. Be proactive and tweak your budget. And find ways to stay active! • The day you turn 60, buy long-term care insurance. A few years of long-term care can deplete your entire life savings. So prepare for this possibility now. • Enjoy yourself! Without a house payment or a growing family to support, you can focus on fun: Travel abroad, visit the grandkids, and give generously to your community. Winning with money is a marathon, not a sprint. It takes hard work over the long haul. So set your goals, stay focused, and keep moving forward. Your million-dollar payday awaits! © Lampo Licensing, LLC. All rights reserved. Josh is a Dave Ramsey Endorsed Local Provider for this area. He specializes in retirement income strategies, investments strategies, as well as additional financial strategies. His focus is on lifelong financial guidance and his commitment is to place clients first and provide unmatched customer service. He would be glad to answer any questions regarding the content of this article as well as any others. Call today at 570729-1020 or email Josh at sage@cfiemail.com. You can also visit www.sageinvestments.net. Jonathan Sheard offers securities and advisory services through Centaurus Financial, Inc. member FINRA and SIPA and a registered investment advisor. This is not an offer to sell securities, which may be done only after proper delivery of a prospectus and client suitability is reviewed and determined. Information relating to securities is intended for use by individuals residing in PA, NY, AR, VA, FL, NC, GA, CT. Sage Investments, Dave Ramsey and Centaurus Financial Inc are not affiliated.
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Book Review general store near her Alabama home. She loved words. She loved them so much that Your teacher says that all the time in she gained a reputation for being her class’s class. Your parents might say it as a best reader, which won her a hundred penreminder because sometimes, writing nies and “a library full of books.” things down can be important. And as J.K. Rowling wrote her “first adventure you’ll see in the new book, “Kid Authors” story” at age seven. Poet Langston Hughes by David Stabler, illustrated by Doogie endured a “massive earthquake” while livHorner, written words can also be magic. ing in Mexico as a boy, before meeting his For as long as you can remember, grandmother, who told him family stories you’ve loved books. of abolitionists, racism, They take you forward and possibilities. and backward in time, Charles Schulz to places you’ve never was a published carbeen, with new people toonist at age 15. And and new adventure. Beverly Cleary loved Books contain awebooks, but the creator of some stories – and so Henry Huggins was a do the lives of the “struggling reader.” authors of those books. “Everybody loves a Take, for instance, good story,” says author Edgar Allan Poe. David Stabler – and that Poe was the midincludes your bookish dle child of three, born child. So what better in early 1809 to parway to read about the ents who were perstory-behind-the-storyformers. Because they telling than with “Kid were gone a lot, baby Authors”? Edgar was mostly Open these covers, cared for by other peoand you’ll see a good ple; at age two, that representation of literabecame permanent ture throughout the when his father abancenturies. That’s good doned the family and for you, but your child his mother died. Says will find something By David Stabler Stabler, Poe was a soeven better here: each Illustrated by Doogie Horner so student and he was of the fifteen mini-biogReviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer bullied as a boy. Was raphies and most of the that the reason he back-of-the-book “funwrote such scary stories? facts” are about authors your child will recAnd then there was Laura Ingalls ognize, and Stabler makes them relatable. Wilder, who grew up on the prairie where Chapters are accompanied by illustrations family often slept out in the open – this by Doogie Horner, but that’s still not all: ohwas the 1800s, after all – and bugs, weathso-subtly, there’s encouragement in these er, and fire were big concerns. So were the tales. If Stan Lee or Maya Angelou can local Indians, who were not at all happy become a famous writer, your child can do that the Ingalls had built on Osage land. it, too. As the tale goes, Zora Neale Hurston Kids ages 8-to-12 will devour this book, especially if was a baby when a wild hog wandered into they’re hungry readers. Parents can love it, too, because her mother’s kitchen. That was the first “Kid Authors” will teach your child to do the write story of her life; later ones included those thing. she heard from the men who hung out at a
“WRITE THAT DOWN.”
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Holiday Toy Drive
Toy Drive for Pike & Wayne Counties By LA Guzda
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his year THE HOLIDAY TOY DRIVE is brought to you by The Zipper Junction Project™ in partnership with “The Wayne County Ford & Bold Gold Media Holiday Toy Drive Challenge.” THE HOLIDAY TOY DRIVE replaces a previous toy drive and has the support of both Wayne and Pike officials, businesses, school districts, other toy drives, and the community. This program strives to ensure that each and every one of the three thousand plus children previously supported by past efforts in Wayne and Pike Counties is served by this local community effort. “Hosting a holiday toy drive fills a void to bring happiness to those less fortunate, and our goal is to provide gifts to as many children as we can,” said Jim Zumpone, Chief Visionary and Founder of The Zipper Junction Project™. The Zipper Junction Project™ needs the help of many volunteers to Leverage Skills to successfully accomplish this huge event. Igniting Passions in people, within our community, is the kind of thinking needed to ensure we are Building Futures that are
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happy, meaningful, bright, and positive for our kids AND our communities. If you are interested in applying for toys, volunteering, partnering to include Toy and Gift Collection Boxes at your Fundraising Event, or if you wish to make a monetary donation, please visit www.ZipperJunction.org. Look for the boxes with THE HOLIDAY TOY DRIVE logo. Together, let’s all make a difference in the lives of our community’s children! About The Zipper Junction Project™ The ZIPPER JUNCTION Project™ is a local non-profit organization made up of a very unique and diverse group of individuals who are driven by the common belief that we can do better as a community through hands on experiences, project based learning, and physical activities. We are driven to bring a place called ZIPPER JUNCTION™ to life. When a society has people focusing their efforts on tasks that they are truly passionate about, while simultaneously attaining, at minimum, a sustainable living wage, many of the socio-economic problems currently being faced would disappear over time. Helping someone discover their passion in life is the single most important thing, and this is to be supported and cultivated.
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eptember 30th was a cold day here in northeastern Pennsylvania, but Shawn and Bonnie's wedding celebration left guests feeling nothing but warmth and happiness. After dating for fourteen years, the excitement was palpable. The sound of Aviva Strings during the ceremony at the top of the hill was stunning, as was the bridal party and the shiny 1972 Dodge Charger in which the newlyweds drove down to the cocktail hour. Shawn and Bonnie's party was truly a community event as friends from near and far contributed to make it all the more special. Crum Catering worked their culinary magic throughout the event, serving meat which the Carey and Utegg families lovingly raised. Dave Nonnemacher from Nonnemacher Acres contributed vegetables; Cora Jones of Cora's, the wedding cake; and all the flowers were grown right here on the farm. The culminating party led by long time friend, DJ Luis, and local celebrity band, Steppin' Eddy, was off the charts. And to really top it off, Big D's Fireworks gifted an amazing display to the Uteggs, which, believe me, everyone enjoyed. Witnessing friends and family gather to celebrate the union of two people is a wonderful thing. The love and dedication the Uteggs received to make their wedding come together was a reflection of their love and dedication to each other and their family and friends. Cheers to all!
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Outdoor Ramblings
Prepping for the Slopes By Bill Deaton |
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f a new ski package or a fresh snowboarding setup is something you’re securing for the upcoming season, great! Good for you. Enjoy your swank stuff. However, if you happen to be one of the unlucky (like me) forced to forge through another winter with some less-than-mod accoutrements, you’re going to want to give your paraphernalia a good once-over before you hit the slopes. Perhaps you are diligent about your kit. You cleaned it all and checked everything for damages or wear and tear before you stashed it away for the summer. I used to be that guy. Now, like a lot of people, I’m guilty of stowing my skis in the corner of the garage and tossing my boot bag on a shelf, never to be seen until the day before I make my first tracks. So, before you take to the hill, here are some things that may need an inspection and preventative maintenance.
your base and edges. If they are really messed up, they may 1} Check need professional work, but surface rust and minor gouges can be fixed at home. A pocket edger and some P-Tex are really all you need.
2} Hot wax!
If you don’t know how to do it, learn…it’s therapeutic.
sure your ski brakes aren’t bent. 3} Make oil at the springs.
Give them a shot of 3-in-1
over your bindings. Look for loose or missing screws. Riders 4} Go should inspect the buckles and ratchets; skiers take note of worn or damaged release points. Check your DIN settings. for damage on your boots. Riders may want to replace laces; 5} Look skiers should give the buckles and microadjusters a little lube. You can extend a packed-out boot’s life for a while longer by replacing the insoles. your accessories for marring and mutilation. You may 6} Scan encounter a busted zipper, or re-discover the blownout seam you swore you wouldn’t neglect to fix way back in April, or find the remnants of the half-eaten energy bar you ate during your chair ride on your last day. anything you previously duct taped, super glued, or fixed 7} Inspect with bailing wire in the field and still don’t have the shekels to replace. www.connections-magazine.com
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Classic Cars
on weekends drive on the local dirt tracks (the birthplace of today’s NASCAR Stock Racing).
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The open wheel fender of the 20’s gave way to the new “fat fender” style introduced in the mid 30’s and was a big hit in the marketplace. The 1937 Fords featured a more rounded look with fine horizontal bars in the convex front and hood-side grilles. The front grille was V-shaped. New “faired-in” headlights were a major modernization found on both the Standard and DeLuxe trim versions. A larger water pump was used to help aid in cooling of the two optional V8 engines (either a 60 hp or an 85 hp). Ten body styles were offered including coupes, sedans, convertibles, a station wagon, and a pickup. Of all the models, the coupes were the favorite of early racers and are today a favorite of collectors and street rodders.
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he 1937 coupe is one of the classic “fat fender’ body styles that was a favorite of salesman crossing the country selling their products, along with other Ford coupes through 1940. It was also one of the favorite choices of bootleggers running moonshine throughout the back roads during the Depression. The car was great as a runner; its V8 engine could be easily souped-up, and it had a big trunk that was perfect for holding the “product.” The car’s success in outrunning the authorities led to its second contribution to our history, “Stock Car” racing. It was not unusual for drivers to drive their 1937 Fords running moonshine during the week and
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Featured Car This month’s featured car is a beautiful black 1937 Ford Deluxe coupe
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owned by Mr. Carl Brucher of Carbondale, PA. The Ford Coupe was purchased by Carl in 1958; he installed a big Buick V8 in it and was off to the drag races. The 1937 was retired from racing as Carl built and raced a series of other drag cars throughout the years. In 2000, Carl transformed the old drag car into a “Resto Rod” (a car that looks stock from the outside but has been mechanically updated for performance, safety, and comfort). Carl reengineered the car’s chassis and installed a Mustang II front end, 9 inch Ford rear with custom suspension, and power disc brakes all around. The engine is a reworked 5.0 liter Lincoln V8. A “top-loader” and a fourspeed transmission gets the power to the rear. Custom headers and exhaust give the car its great sound. The flawless body work, a beautiful black paint job, and American Mag wheels give the car its great stance. The custom grey interior, Stewart Warner gauge dash, vintage AC, and a Udidit tilt steering column and wheel complete the package. This is one very special, one of a kind, 1937 coupe!
Owner Carl Brucher is a retired machine operator. He has loved cars and drag racing for as long as he can remember. Carl, a true do-it-yourself guy, builds all his own engines, transmissions, and chasses. He started drag racing in the early 1960’s with his 1937 Ford and is still at it. He is a soft-spoken gentleman who enjoys the camaraderie of the car hobby. He has great car stories, and if you are lucky, you might get him to tell you a few. If you’re at a local Northeast PA cruise/show and see a beautiful black 1937 Ford coupe, stop and say hi to Carl; you just might learn something.
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Pets
Pet Holiday Safety H
olly, Jolly and Oh-So-Safe! Of course, you want to include your furry companions in the festivities, pet parents, but as you celebrate this holiday season, try to keep your pet's eating and exercise habits as close to their normal routine as possible.
And be sure to steer them clear of the following unhealthy treats, toxic plants, and dangerous decorations: O Christmas Tree Securely anchor your Christmas tree so it doesn't tip and fall, causing possible injury to your pet. This will also prevent the tree water— which may contain fertilizers that can cause stomach upset—from spilling. Stagnant tree water is a breeding ground for bacteria, and your pet could end up with nausea or diarrhea should he imbibe.
Tinsel-less Town Kitties love this sparkly, light-catching "toy" that's easy to bat around and carry in their
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mouths. But a nibble can lead to a swallow, which can lead to an obstructed digestive tract, severe vomiting, dehydration, and possible surgery. It's best to brighten your boughs with something other than tinsel.
No Feasting for the Furries By now you know not to feed your pets chocolate and anything sweetened with xylitol, but do you know the lengths to which an enterprising fur kid will go to chomp on something yummy? Make sure to keep your pets away from the table and unattended plates of food, and be sure to secure the lids on garbage cans.
Toy Joy Looking to stuff your pet's stockings? Choose gifts that are safe. Dogs have been known to tear their toys apart and swallow the pieces, which can then become lodged in the esophagus, stomach, or intestines. Stick with chew toys that are basically indestructible, Kongs that can be stuffed with healthy foods, or chew treats that are designed to be safely digestible. Long, stringy things are a feline's dream, but the most risky toys for cats involve ribbon, yarn, and loose little parts that can get stuck in the intestines, often necessitating surgery. Surprise kitty with a new ball that's too big to swallow, a stuffed catnip toy, or the interactive cat dancer— and tons of play sessions together.
Forget the Mistletoe & Holly Holly, when ingested, can cause pets to suffer nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Mistletoe can cause gastrointestinal upset and cardiovascular problems, and many varieties of lilies can cause
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kidney failure in cats if ingested. Opt for just-asjolly artificial plants made from silk or plastic, or choose a pet-safe bouquet.
Leave the Leftovers Fatty, spicy, and no-no human foods, as well as bones, should not be fed to your furry friends. Pets can join the festivities in other fun ways that won't lead to costly medical bills.
That Holiday Glow Don't leave lighted candles unattended. Pets may burn themselves or cause a fire if they knock candles over. Be sure to use appropriate candle holders, placed on a stable surface, and if you leave the room, put the candle out!
Phoenix
Wired Up Keep wires, batteries, and glass or plastic ornaments out of paws' reach. A wire can deliver a potentially lethal electrical shock, and a punctured battery can cause burns to the mouth and esophagus, while shards of breakable ornaments can damage your pet's mouth.
3 year old Pit mix, very playful and sweet. She loves to play fetch and go for long walks.
House Rules If your animal-loving guests would like to give your pets a little extra attention and exercise while you're busy tending to the party, ask them to feel free to start a nice play or petting session.
Put the Meds Away Make sure all of your medications are locked behind secure doors, and be sure to tell your guests to keep their meds zipped up and packed away, too.
Careful with Cocktails If your celebration includes adult holiday beverages, be sure to place your unattended alcoholic drinks where pets cannot get to them. If ingested, your pet could become weak, ill, and may even go into a coma, possibly resulting in death from respiratory failure.
A Room of Their Own Give your pet his own quiet space to retreat to—complete with fresh water and a place to snuggle. Shy pups and cats might want to hide out under a piece of furniture, in their carrying case, or in a separate room away from the hubbub.
New Year's Noise As you count down to the new year, please keep in mind that strings of thrown confetti can get lodged in a cat's intestines, if ingested, perhaps necessitating surgery. Noisy poppers can terrify pets and cause possible damage to sensitive ears.
Chris Kringle Short haired 3 year old male cat. Chris gets along with kids, cats, dogs, and is housetrained.
Available for adoption at Dessin Animal Shelter! Call 570-253-4037.
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Behavioral Medicine
Fear That
Overwhelms To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.
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–Bertrand Russell
he experience of fear that is debilitating is not an everyday occurrence. We may avoid situations that we might recognize as dangerous, crossing a busy intersection as an example. Or we might avoid a large dog that seems threatening. But recognizing the possible consequences of these circumstances does not necessarily cause fear. Rather, the individual exercises judgment to avoid a situation without emotional distress. The Oxford Dictionary defines fear as “an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.” For some, the experience of fear is a daily phenomenon, often frustrating the individual, as well as causing emotional distress that interferes with daily living. Quite often, these individuals seek treatment in a variety of health settings, which include mental health providers in addition to primary care physicians. A “Phobia” describes the fear that some individuals have in regard to an object or situation that actually does not pose a real danger. The anxiety that it provokes in these individuals is out of proportion to the perceived threat. Many are familiar with common phobias. Claustrophobia is a fear of enclosed spaces. Agora-phobia describes a fear of open spaces. It can occur after the individual experiences a sudden onset of debilitating anxiety, in a specific setting, such as a store or an elevator. This can be followed by the recurrent fear of a particular setting, which is subsequently avoided. In this instance, however, the individual can sometimes understand how the fear came to be attached to the particular setting. What if the fear is unexplainable and severe? The following fictional vignette is presented to highlight the features of a particular
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kind of phobia. JT is a 32-year-old man. He is single and has few friends. He does not socialize. He works as a computer programmer. This is the first job that he has been able to maintain. Previous efforts to obtain work were not successful. If he was able to make it to an interview, he did poorly; unable to maintain good eye contact, appearing distressed, sweating profusely, and clearly eager for the interview to end. His current job, however, was obtained purely because of his computer skills. He dropped out of high school during his last year because he was lonely, unhappy, and unable to enjoy the social setting the school provided. His parents thought he was simply shy and introverted. Despite the fact that he had dropped out of high school, he was able to complete his studies at home through an internet home study program. After he obtained a high school diploma he was able to take on-line college courses, focusing on computer programming, to which he demonstrated a unique affinity. His current job was obtained entirely online. He submitted his credentials and was interviewed though a webcam on his computer at home. He was given the opportunity to do his work from home, and therefore, never had to leave the house. He continued to live at home with his parents. The company he worked for was in another state. However, the situation changed when his company informed him that it was relocating to his state and it would be expected that he become part of the office team that would service a number of large companies in the area. This would mean that he would have to work with his colleagues and spend his time with others in an office setting. The very thought of this resulted in fear. How would JT do this? He remembered being in high school and having the constant feeling of embar-
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rassment when around his classmates. He was so anxious that he could not have lunch in the cafeteria. He never told his parents that he couldn’t use the public restroom at the school. His behavior was perceived as “weird” by his classmates and he was shunned. He had no friends at school. The very thought of reliving this experience led to another behavior that he confronted previously. At one point in time, he had a problem with alcohol; he could only go to a social function if he drank. Previous job experiences had been associated with drinking to decrease his anxiety. JT found that the experience of talking in a group setting was simply overwhelming. Ironically, he felt he had to drink before going to an AA meeting. JT felt that he had essentially lost his job because he knew he could not go to an office setting. With fear and trepidation, he sat at his computer webcam and met with his supervisor to tender his resignation. To his surprise, however, his supervisor was quite supportive and would not accept his resignation. His supervisor suggested that he seek medical help, recognizing that he had a competent worker that he did not want to lose. JT was able to find a psychiatrist, with the help of the Human Resources Department of his company. It was with great anxiety that he met with the psychiatrist. To his surprise, however, his psychiatrist had little difficulty in identifying the symptoms that JT had, explaining to him that he had Social Anxiety Disorder or Social Phobia. His psychiatrist explained that individuals with Social Anxiety Disorder, or SAD, often used alcohol to self-medicate the anxiety and that loneliness and social isolation were functions of this disorder. His doctor began a medication; paroxetine or Paxil, which is an FDA (U.S. Food and Drug Administration) approved antidepressant medication to treat SAD. In addition, JT began to see a therapist who used Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or CBT to work with JT to increase his understanding of the connection between his thoughts and the experience of anxiety. When he was ready, JT began group therapy, which helped him to begin to work on the types of social skills that would help him to become less isolative. Finally, his therapist was able to use “Systematic Desensitization” therapy, also called “exposure therapy,” to help him to deal with the kind of situations that he would encounter at work that typically contributed to
his fears and anxiety. In this instance, he had the opportunity to work with a therapist who had the skills and the ability to actually expose JT to real-life situations that he would encounter at work. With the help and support of a very understanding supervisor, JT has been able to work in an office setting. As a computer programmer, he actually works in a cubicle but sits with his co-workers in the staff lunch room. JT continues in therapy and remains on the antidepressant, paroxetine or Paxil. JT excelled at work and was given a promotion. Although it has been a slow process, JT is now dating and can actually go to a movie. Visit our website for more on Fear That Overwhelms. The following references are provided for the informed consumer: National Institute of Mental Health: Brain Imaging Predicts Success in Patients with Social Anxiety Disorder http://www.nimh.nih.gov/news/science-news/2013/ brain-imaging-predicts-psychotherapy-success-inpatients-with-social-anxiety-disorder.shtml Social Phobia (Social Anxiety Disorder): Always Embarrassed http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/ social-phobia-social-anxiety-disorder-alwaysembarrassed/index.shtml National Institute of Mental Health: Anxiety Disorders http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/ anxiety-disorders/index.shtml Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. He received his undergraduate training at New York University and an MD degree from Rutgers Medical School. Dr. Middleton completed his psychiatric residency at St. Vincent’s Hospital & Medical Center, in NYC. He is on the honorary medical staff (retired) of Hackensack University Medical Center in NJ, where he is also Chairman Emeritus of the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine. Dr. Middleton has been on the voluntary teaching faculty of Mount Sinai School of Medicine and Brown Medical School. He is currently a Clinical Associate Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania. Dr. Middleton lives in Dingmans Ferry, PA, and Manhattan, NY.
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Fever
The Healthy
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Gee er By Fred Cicetti
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If I have a fever, at what temperature should I go to the doctor?
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n oral temperature above 100 degrees Fahrenheit or a rectal or ear temperature above 101 F is considered a fever in the majority of adults. If your temperature reaches 103 F, you should contact a physician. Another alarm bell is a fever that lasts more than three days.
In addition, get to a doctor immediately if you have a fever with any of the following: Unrelenting vomiting, trouble breathing, a strong headache, confusion, pain when urinating, swollen throat, skin rash, sensitivity to light, stiff neck, chest pain, extreme listlessness or irritability, or abdominal pain. A fever usually means your body is fighting an infection from bacteria or a virus. In older adults, the immune system doesn’t function as efficiently as it does in younger people. The body's fever response to infection is not always automatic in elderly people. More than 20% of adults over age 65 who have serious bacterial infections do not have fevers. Body temperature fluctuates during the day between 97 F and 99 F. When you wake up, your temperature is at the low end of the range; it increases as the day progresses. The common standard for a “normal” temperature is 98.6 F. However, the range of
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normal is about a degree above or below 98.6. Use a high-quality thermometer to check your temperature. Thermometers today are high-tech electronic gizmos with beeps and digital readouts. Those mercury-filled glass thermometers are out because they are environmental hazards. Tympanic thermometers that get a quick read from the ear are good for older adults. Symptoms that can accompany fever include headache, perspiration, shivering, aches, diminished appetite, dehydration, and malaise. A fever higher than 103 F can cause seizures and hallucinations. If you get a fever, it’s important to take in enough liquids to prevent dehydration. Physicians often recommend ibuprofen, acetaminophen, or aspirin to lower a high fever. Taking medicine to lower a fever is especially important for older adults with heart conditions that might be affected by the stress of fever. But don’t take any drugs without medical supervision. Over-the-counter medicines can be harmful if you take too much of them. If you have a fever below 102 F, medicine isn’t usually recommended to lower your temperature. Low-grade fevers may be your body’s way of fighting an infection. Take a tepid bath. Wear lightweight clothes. All Rights Reserved © 2017 by Fred Cicetti.
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EVENTS
Y O U
ENTERTAINMENT
ARTS
RECREATION
a+r+e DEC ’17 THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF
C O N N E C T E D
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Ongoing Events DAILY
Art-a-Pelago Loose Leaf Pages, Black & Brass Coffee Co., & D.J. Harvey Agency, Honesdale. One art gallery in three locations (Thasos-LesvosParos). Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY
Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Dime Bank & Wayne Bank, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Harvey Insurance, Honesdale, & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work monthly.
Lego Club 4:30–5:30 p.m. Pike County Public Library, Milford. Create, share ideas, make new friends. Free & open to the public, registration requested. Info: www.pcpl.org or Facebook. Registration: 570-296-8211. THURSDAYS
Writer’s Retreat 10:30–11:30 a.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Writing seminar — share ideas, memories & life experiences in written words. Limited to 12 participants. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org. THURSDAYS
Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566.
Pub-O-Lympics 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Hilarious combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with teams to win a gift certificate, gold medal & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-2124.
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FRIDAYS
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Kids Art Display Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Artwork created by students from all over Monroe County is featured in a month-long exhibit. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. WEEKLY
Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net.
Live Music Friday 8–11 p.m. Glass — wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. No cover charge. Info: info@ledgeshotel.com or 570-226-1337. FRIDAYS
Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. SATURDAYS (EXC. DEC. 30)
Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@qmail.com.
Main Street Farmers’ Market 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Farm to table eats from Anthill Farm Kitchen, locally grown produce & other artisanal goods. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
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Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467.
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FREE Tastings and Demos Noon–2 p.m. Mill Market, in the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Info: 570-390-4440.
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Live Music 9 p.m.–1 a.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. THROUGH DEC. 8
Exhibit: “Scranton and World War I” Weinberg Memorial Library, The University of Scranton. Free during library hours. Info: 570-941-7002 or archives@scranton.edu. THROUGH DECEMBER
The Paper Caves basin and main @ lot 21, Honesdale. Art installation. Gallery hours: Sat., 1–4 p.m. or by appointment, or by chance. Info: samuelle@basinandmain.com or 917-703-2739.
watch & enjoy. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 1
“Do You Hear What I Hear” Christmas Cantata 7:30 p.m. St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Sandyston, NJ. Delaware Valley Choral Society presentation. Info: hdfornoff@gmail.com. DEC. 1 & 2
Big Shot with Mike DelGuidice: The Ultimate Billy Joel Experience 8:30–10 p.m. Cove Haven Resort, Lakeville. The only Billy Joel show endorsed by Billy Joel. DelGuidice is a brilliant vocalist & master of several instruments, including bass guitar, rhythm guitar, piano & drums.
DEC. 1-3
Candlelight Christmas Dinner 6–9:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Share a farm-to-table feast by candlelight. The dining room will be decked for the annual dinners. Evenings feature a special holiday menu & live entertainment. Reservations required. Reservations & info: 570-226-2993 or desk@thesettlersinn.com.
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Winter Tea Tastes 6 p.m. Loose Leaf Pages Inc., Honesdale. Warm up this winter with a new favorite tea. Try all the new winter season blends. Enjoy a full cup or simply pour yourself a sip. Those 21+ can also enjoy a hot toddy. Live music & light snacks. Info: 570-253-0907 or Facebook. DEC. 1
First Friday Scranton 6–9 p.m. Scranton. See description at Nov. 3. Info & monthly map: www.firstfridayscranton.com. DEC. 1
Sounds Like Teen Spirit 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Open mic night provides an opportunity to showcase the talent of our community’s youth. School-aged students are encouraged to share their performing art on stage: guitar, rap, stand-up comedy, poetry, singing, juggling or keyboards. All ages invited to
Info: 888-963-3052 or poconoromance@covepoconoresorts.com. DEC. 2
Tree Trimming Party The Velvet Maple, Honesdale. Bring your old decorations to put on display or make new ones at the craft table. Eggnog & cookies served. Info: 570-251-7900. DEC. 2
Eagle Watch Volunteer Training Day 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Upper Delaware Visitor Center. Lackawaxen. Overview of the Eagle Watch program followed by visits to actual monitoring sites. Program runs Jan. & Feb. on weekends. Volunteers cover morning or afternoon shifts, collect data on wintering eagles & resident pairs, educate the public, help staff booths, do workshops & other eagle-related events. Registration required: info@delawarehighlands.org or 570-226-3164. DEC. 2
Winter Ecology Hike 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Edu-
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EVENTS cation Center, Dingmans Ferry. Learn how different plants & animals survive the winter. Join a hike & experience PEEC in the wintertime. All ages welcome. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
Library with cookies & hot chocolate, antique quilt raffle drawing, tour the library, Historical Society & the “Fireproof” room. Info: 570-253-5573 or Facebook.
DEC. 2
Milford’s Annual Tree Lighting Celebration 5 p.m. Milford Community House, Milford. Free cookies, caroling & a visit from Santa Claus. Info: www.milfordpa.us.
Craft Fair 10 a.m.–3 p.m. The Lackawaxen Township Volunteer Fire Dept. fire house, Lackawaxen. Free parking. Many vendors, hourly prizes & food available for purchase. Snow date Dec. 9. Info: 570-685-7330. DEC. 2
Art Opening: Photo Contest & Gingerbread Feeder Display 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Enjoy the entrants in the Monroe County Natural resources Photo Contest. Winners revealed & the top 12 photos will be available on a 2018 calendar. Proceeds from calendar sales benefit Environmental Education programs at Kettle Creek. Gingerbread birdfeeders also on display. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
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DEC. 2
Hunters Bingo 7–9 p.m. Ecker-Haupt VFW Post 5635, Lackawaxen. Proceeds go to the U.S. Marine Corps’ Toys for Tots program, helping thousands of kids each year. Refreshments & snacks. Call Frank Impastato with questions or to make a donation at 570-685-4940. DEC. 2
Louie Setzer 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Just listen to a few tunes from Louie & the Boys to realize that this is the real thing: genuine bluegrass from Louie‘s heart & soul. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 2
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Pictures with Santa — With or Without Your Pet Noon–3 p.m. Fins and Feathers, Honesdale. Household pets welcome, as well as children & families. Snacks & refreshments. Specials all day long. Info: 570-253-3132. DEC. 2
Ecozone Discovery Room! 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Climb into a bald eagle’s nest, crawl into a bat cave, explore a beaver lodge, and dig in a fossil pit. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
“50th Annual Noel Night” 8 p.m. (prelude begins at 7 p.m.) Featuring the University of Scranton Singers & Chamber Ensembles with special appearances by guest artists & alumni. Houlihan-McLean Center, The University of Scranton. Free. Info: 570-941-7624 or music@scranton.edu. DEC. 2 & 3
“A Christmas Carol” Grey Towers National Historic Site, Milford. Dramatic reading of the holiday classic by Joe Plummer, Jr. & Therese Plummer. Now in its 37th year. Info: 570-296-9625 or www.greytowers.org. DEC. 3
“Do You Hear What I Hear” Christmas Cantata 2 p.m. Drew United Methodist Church, Port Jervis, NY. Delaware Valley Choral Society presentation. Info: hdfornoff@gmail.com.
Sip and Craft Fundraiser Noon & 2 p.m. GAIT Therapeutic Riding Center, Milford. Materials provided to make a horse head wreath, candy cane wreath, or traditional wreath. Cider & donuts available. Call to reserve your time & wreath frames. Info: 570-409-1140.
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DEC. 2
Christmas in the Village 2–4 p.m. Celebrate the season in Bethany. Open houses, Chamber Choir of Honesdale HS singing carols, book signing by local author Will Wyckoff, write letters to Santa with Mrs. Claus at the Bethany Public
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Deck the Halls Tour 1–3 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Get into the holiday spirit with a hike to the Adirondack Great Camp. Afterwards enjoy hot cocoa at the Watres Lodge. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org.
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Live Music in the Paper Caves 7:30 p.m. basin and main @ lot 21, Honesdale. The Suitcase Junket performs. Donations at the door. BYOB. Info: samuelle@basinandmain.com or 917703-2739. DEC. 6
Tastes of Wayne County 5–10 p.m. Fiesta on Main, Honesdale. Mexican restaurant. Proceeds benefit The Wayne County Historical Society. Call for times, menu & details: 570-352-3700. DEC. 6
DEC. 7 Girls Night Out: Sip, Shop & Stroll Milford Milford. Fun evening as downtown shops stay open from 5–8 p.m., offering free classes, complimentary refreshments, product samplings, prize drawings, trunk shows & sales. Eateries offer special menu items & drink specials, some locations with live music into later hours. Free to attend. Info: www.milfordpa.us.
DEC. 3
Supper Club: An Interactive Meal 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Attendees meet & help prepare dinner, a side dish or salad & dessert with a lesson & some hands-on participation: homemade meatloaf, macaroni & cheese, brussels sprouts & a seasonal pie. BYOB. Space limited. Reservations required: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. DEC. 7
Home School Program: Birds of the Poconos 2–4 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Learn about a Citizen Scientist program called Project Feederwatch that Kettle Creek EE Center is part of. Bird identification & activities will be part of this program. Ages 5–10, 2–3:30 p.m.; ages 11–18, 4 p.m. Pre-registration required by Dec. 1. Info & pre-registration: 570-629-3061.
“Do You Hear What I Hear” Christmas Cantata 2 p.m. Milford United Methodist Church, Milford. Delaware Valley Choral Society presentation. Info: hdfornoff@gmail.com.
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DEC. 3
DEC. 8
Wayne Choralaires Concert: “One Holy Night” 2 p.m. Queen of Peace Church, Hawley. Sacred & secular holiday songs. No admission fee. Freewill offering accepted. Info: 570-253-2782 or 570-253-2104. DEC. 3
RiverFolk Concert: Jann Klose 5 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Awardwinning pop singer–songwriter. Reservations & info: Jill, 845-252-6783 or riverfolkconcerts@frontier.com.
Miracle on 34th Street: The Musical The Music Box Dinner Playhouse, Swoyersville. Times & info: 570-283-2195 or www.musicbox.org. PCDC Craft Store Holiday Open House Noon–2 p.m. The Pike County Developmental Center, Milford. Hand-crafted gifts for all occasions. Complimentary refreshments available. Proceeds benefit Pike County Developmental Center participants. Info: 570-296-6319. DEC. 8
Ugly Sweater Christmas Party 4–9 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Wear your favorite ugly sweater for a fun night with live music, & prizes for the best of the worst ugly sweaters. No cover. Info: 570-226-2124.
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Holiday Pop-Up Restaurant The Boiler Room, Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Seatings at 6 p.m. & 8 p.m. Step out for a special holiday dining experience. Call for reservations. Info: 570-226-1337. DEC. 8
Holiday Hilarity 8 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Honesdale’s IMPROV DOT BIZ presents the 3rd Annual “Holiday Hilarity,” a laugh-filled extravaganza of sketch & improv comedy & plenty of holiday cheer. Featuring skits inspired by local holiday lore & improv based on audience suggestions. This is a BYOE (bring your own eggnog) show. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 8–10
Hawley Winterfest Downtown Hawley. Event-filled weekend sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Tour historic homes decorated for the holiday season, listen to carols by the internationally acclaimed Virgin Consort, enjoy memorable culinary experiences & jazz performances, see ice-carving demonstrations, shop around town, & take the beer tour. There’s much to enjoy at the annual celebration. Info: 570-226-4064. DEC. 9
26th Highlights for Children and Boyds Mills Press Holiday Open House 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Highlights for Children, Honesdale. Treats, entertainment, art show, mime, storytelling, puppetry, sing-alongs & craft room for the kids. Face painting & balloon animals. Children choose a surprise from the giant grab bag under the Christmas tree. Free drawing. Info: 570-253-1080. DEC. 9
Ladore’s Holiday Festival & Craft Fair 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Ladore PARC Pavilion and Carousel, Waymart, at the Camp Ladore entrance. Enjoy a day out at one of the area’s nicest craft fairs. Snack bar available. Info: 570-488-6129 or ladore.org. DEC. 9
Ornament Hunt Central Park, Honesdale. 23rd Annual Children’s Ornament Hunt. No child leaves empty-handed. Info: 570-253-5492 or ghp@visithonesdalepa.com. DEC. 9
Romping Radishes 11 a.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Geared
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Pet Photos with Santa Noon–3 p.m. Honesdale National Bank, Hawley. Receive an instant photo with Santa. Benefits the Wayne/Pike Animal Response Team. Enter to win the raffle basket. Info: 570-226-8300.
to students K–2, but all children are welcome. Taste fresh produce & learn ways to shine bright during the winter months. A healthy snack will be provided. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 9
Winterfest Brunch 11 a.m.–2:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Enjoy brunch with family & friends. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993. DEC. 9
Victorian Christmas Tea 1–4 p.m. The 1875 Rectory at Grace Church, Honesdale. Teas, cookies, sweets, appetizers, Victorian decorations, collector dolls, silent auction & more. By reservation only. Reservations by Dec. 2: 570-241-2684 or suerb@aol.com.
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Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Festivaltown happening filled with music, art, comedy & community support. Info on Facebook.
Winterfest Brunch 11 a.m.–2:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Enjoy brunch with family & friends. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993.
DEC. 9
“Empty Stocking Fund Benefit Concert” 7:30 p.m. Houlihan-McLean Center, The University of Scranton. Featuring The Scranton Brass Orchestra with special guests The Scranton Preparatory School Cavalyrics. Admission: one new toy or piece of children’s clothing or cash donation. Info: 570-941-7624 or music@scranton.edu.
Milford After Dark 5–9 p.m. Milford. Free events & extended hours in Milford galleries & specialty shops. Several downtown businesses celebrate new exhibits this month. Info: www.milfordpa.us. DEC. 9
DEC. 10
Awakening Creative Voices Open Mic Frisky Goat Coffeehouse, Milford. 6:30 p.m., reception/sign up. 7 p.m., performances: poetry, stand-up, spoken word, oratory, storytelling, crooning, belting. Info: 570-409-4848.
DEC. 10, 14–17
DEC. 9 & 10
Christmas at Ladore Camp Ladore, Waymart. Includes four nights, 11 meals, all entertainment & activities. Scholarships available, based on income. Reservations & info: 570-488-6129.
Open House Holiday Party The Waterfront at Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Celebrate the holidays with area businesses & friends. Dinner & dancing Sat., 6–11 p.m. & Brunch with Holiday Show Sun., 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Reservations required: 570-226-4388. DEC. 9 & 10
Christmas Campfire Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Get cozy by the lake s’mores, hot chocolate (kid & adult versions) & music. Free s’mores to kids 12 & under. Info: 570-226-4388.
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Hawley Winterfest Downtown Hawley. See description at Dec. 8. Info: 570-226-4064.
Miracle on 34th Street: The Musical The Music Box Dinner Playhouse, Swoyersville. Times & info: 570-283-2195 or www.musicbox.org. DEC. 11–15
DEC. 13
Travel the U.S. with Food: Southern Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Culinary Book Club 2017: share recipes, food tastings. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org. DEC. 14
Professor Louie & the Crowmatrix with the Barn Cats 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Midweek blues concert. Starting off the evening right is Honesdale’s very own Barn Cats. Followed by Professor Louie & The Crowmatix, whose repertoire is steeped in Amer-
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Sixth Annual H o l i d ay A r t i s a n s ’ M a r ke t 11 a.m.–4 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Showcases the work of many talented artisans of the Upper Delaware Region. You’ll find a selection of unique handcrafted gifts for friends & family. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
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EVENTS DEC. 16
A Contra Dance 7:15–10 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Live music by Laura & Craig Gehrig, with caller Laurie B. Beginners welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 17
Night of the Father’s Love 6 p.m. Tabernacle Bible Church, Honesdale. The awe & mystery of God is with us — a musical celebration. Info: 570-253-0720 or www.tabernaclebiblechurch.org. DEC. 18
DEC. 22
Robinson & Rohe 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Liam Robinson & Jean Rohe bring their folk-music roots & contemporary sensibilities to songs new & old, & go deep into the Christmas repertoire: the mystical, the melancholic, the soulful, the sublime. Reservations & info: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020.
Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild 6:30 p.m. Community Room, Chamber of Commerce, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters all ages & skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com.
December 20–December 31 DEC. 20
Acoustic Bluegrass Jam 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Guitarstrummin’, banjo-pickin’, close-harmony singin’ open jam led by Ron Penska & Buckshot Jenkins. All levels of players welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
ican roots music. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
DEC. 21
5:30 p.m. Milford Theater, Milford. Soprano Jessica Fishenfeld & tenor Scott Joiner, accompanied by pianist Eric Sedgwick, take you on an exciting, happy journey through popular & less known operetta music by Offenbach, Lehar, Strauss, Kalman, & Bernstein, as well as traditional holiday songs. Info: 570-409-1269 or www.kindredspiritsarts.org.
DEC. 31
Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. All DEC. 16 ages welcome. Board games, brain games, Book Signing: Will Wyckoff 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Loose Leaf Pages Inc., Hones- card games & more. Bring your own to share dale. Meet local author of three titles: Rabbit & teach, or choose from the collection. Info: Trails, Birds on a Wire & Slow Fire Burning. 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. Buy a copy or bring your own to have Will DEC. 25 sign it. Ask him any questions you have Community Christmas Day Breakfast about his works or just stop by & say hello. 8 a.m. Fresh Food Company, DeNaples CenInfo: 570-253-0907 or Facebook. ter, The University of Scranton. Free. No reservations necessary. Info: 570-941-7401 DEC. 16 or info@scranton.edu. Operetta Holiday Concert
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New Years Eve Bash 8:30 p.m.–1 a.m. The Waterfront at Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Decadent Buffet, DJ music & dancing, & a champagne toast with balloon drop at midnight at the Waterfront. Info: 570-226-4388.
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Smart Tips for Traveling... Continued from page 56.
The Dime Bank Celebrates
12 Months of Giving T
he Dime Bank is further connecting with community by introducing a 12 Months of Giving social campaign on its Facebook page. Every month for 12 months, The Dime Bank will give away a gift to a Facebook follower who engages with the bank’s social campaign. The Dime Bank is inviting the community to like its Facebook page. When followers visit their page from now through October 2018 a new gift for the month will be announced. As users engage on the post and respond to The Dime Bank’s monthly campaign with a like, reaction, or comment they will automatically be entered to win the gift of the month. The bank is giving away 12 gifts over the course of this period. Users can respond every month, but the same person can’t win more than once. The Dime Bank officials are using this social campaign as a platform to engage with customers and strengthen relationships, while reminding the community that The Dime Bank is here to do what it can to support people and make lives a little brighter. “During the holidays, we like to celebrate the people we care about, and we really care about our customers and our community, so we thought this would be a fun way to reach out and spread a little joy all year long,” said President and Chief Executive Officer Gary C. Beilman. “As a community bank, our mission is to give all customers the gift of financial wellness. We’re vested in the success of our communities and committed to helping people and businesses achieve their financial goals and become financially stronger.” In addition to this social campaign, The Dime Bank intends to use Facebook to regularly communicate tips for financial literacy, community events and activities, and news about the bank, its sponsorships and employees.
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Travel Toys & Activities For car travel, do yourself a favor and pick-up an organizer that hangs from the back of your seat. It allows tots to grab their toys easily and provides a place to keep them stored. It can also hold a sippy cup and snacks. A travel organizer that sits between kids on the seat is also great find. For air travel, a roomy backpack with a lot of compartments is ideal for all the baby and kid stuff. For little ones, pack a few small, easy-to-secure toys. Bring the toys that keep them entertained the longest and are small-sized so they are easy to travel with. For toddlers and older kids, bring color books, crayons & washable markers, stickers, small puzzles, Play-doh, craft kits, card games, travel size versions of board games, and books to read.
Plan Travel Time Around Sleep Time Since children are naturally excited and anticipatory about your travel plans, it can make it hard to them to sleep while traveling. Try to plan your departure and arrival times around naps as much as possible. If your child still naps in the morning, then plan to leave after the morning nap, not before. If at all possible, try to arrive at your destination in time for the usual bedtime. Once you arrive to your destination, try to keep kids in their usual schedule as much as possible—it helps kids sleep better and feel some sense of control while in a new environment. About Finn + Emma: Finn + Emma are the perfect match for the modern tot in your house. You’ll find contemporary, whimsical and sophisticated designs with anabundancy of fresh prints and heirloom quality construction. All Finn + Emma designs are made with the finest 100% organic cotton, eco-friendly dyes, and all natural, untreated Indian wood. Visit the site at https://www.finnandemma.com.
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