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COUNTRY SIDEWALKS Shoppers flock to the area for holiday browsing in these historic towns. The sidewalks shine brightly, welcoming residents and visitors to explore and experience all they have to offer. There are many unique boutiques and novelty shops along luminescent corners specializing in the perfect gift. AN ODE TO THE CRANBERRY â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Tis the season for...cranberries! The tangy scarlet fruit is used in many ways during the holiday season, from decorating to drinking. Cranberries can be enjoyed all year long, of course, but we traditionally start seeing the fruit around the holidays... GLOWING TRADITION CONTINUES Each year around Christmas time, the Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary invites the public to honor or remember loved ones with lights hung on several trees at Wayne Memorial Hospital. At night, the lights glow and twinkle and remind all passersby that love lives. PET HOLIDAY SAFETY Holly, Jolly and Oh-So-Safe! Of course, you want to include your furry companions in the festivities, pet parents, but as you celebrate this holiday season, try to keep your pet's eating and exercise habits as close to their normal routine as possible.

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WORDS FROM THE TEAM

30 MONEY

16 HOLIDAY FLAVORS

32 BOOK REVIEW

19 COOKIE CORNER

34 POCONO SECRETS

22 DISASTER BLASTER

36 OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS

24 LIVING GREEN 26 MRS. DOGOOD

38 BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE 40 SCARECROW WINNERS

28 PRISON REFLECTIONS

42 AREA EVENTS

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resident • publisher • editor in chief deborah bailey production manager meica drake account representatives barry weiss • dwight gregory editorial correction services kay marks assignment writer allison mowatt contributing writers fred cicetti, The Healthy Geezer terry mooney, Reflections of a Prison Inmate arthur middleton, MD, FAPA, Behavioral Medicine michael krupa, Finance josh sheard, Finance terri schlichenmeyer, Book Review la guzda, Pocono Secrets arnie milidantri, Classic Cars bill deaton, Outdoor Ramblings pike/wayne conservation partnership, Living Green

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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risks and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.

In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007

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WORDS FROM THE TEAM

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The holiday season is a perfect time to reflect on our blessings and seek out ways to make life better for those around us. –Terri Marshall

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is the season to enjoy all the festive things our December issue has to offer. Our country sidewalks are filled with lots of fun activities that will light up your family's holiday spirit. It’s one of our favorite times of the year. Join us for this year’s ornament hunt in Honesdale's Central Park, Saturday, Dec 8th at 10 a.m. Children can ‘hunt’ for ornaments for a chance to win prizes. Whether you're decking your "halls", sipping the spirits, or baking a favorite cookie, we’ve got all the Good Stuff to make your holiday bright! Each year around Christmas we share many traditions, including remembering those loved ones who have left us. The Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary invites the public to honor or remember loved ones with lights hung on several trees at Wayne Memorial Hospital. At night, the lights glow and twinkle and remind all passersby that love lives. From all of us at CM, we wish you and yours the merriest of holiday seasons filled with love and peace.

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he quaint village is three miles north of downtown Honesdale on Route 670. • Annual Christmas in the Village: This free event, held on December 1st, features holiday open houses from 2 to 4 p.m. at E.Kellogg Bed & Breakfast and James Manning House. The Honesdale High School Chamber Choir will sing seasonal carols at the James Manning House. Other surprises are in store as well as seasonal treats and goodies at both locations. In addition, starting at 2 p.m. at the Bethany Public Library, Mrs. Claus will visit from the North Pole to help children write letters to Santa. Cookies and hot chocolate will be served. Tours of the library and historical society are from 2 to 4 p.m. Plus, enjoy “A Keepsake Christmas for Families” at the Bethany United Methodist Church, a tree lighting at 3:30 p.m. at the Bethany Village Senior Living Center and a tricky tray with drawings at 4 p.m. “A Journey through Bethlehem” Bethany Presbyterian Church’s Living Nativity is from 4:30 – 6:30 PM, Saturday and Sunday. • On Christmas Eve, luminaries will be lit along Bethany’s streets. For more information about Christmas in the Village, call Janet at the James Manning House (570) 253-5573.

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here is plenty to do throughout December for people of all ages from holiday open houses to train rides. Shop till you drop and then head to these businesses for festive fun. • The 27th Annual Holiday Open House at Highlights for Children: December 8th from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., complete with treats, entertainment, storytelling, an art show, craft room, puppetry, and more. • 23rd Annual Ornament Hunt: December 8th at 10 a.m in Central Park. Children can “hunt” for ornaments for a chance to win prizes. • Holiday Craft Fair: December 8th from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Ladore Lodge, Ladore Pavilion and Carousel & Staff Lounge Building in Waymart. Enjoy handmade items, baked goods, maple products, homemade soaps, jewelry, refreshments, and more.

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• Holiday Artisans Market: On December 9th from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Cooperage, showcasing the work of many talented artisans of the Upper Delaware Region. You’ll find a selection of unique handcrafted gifts for friends & family. • Annual Chorus and Band Holiday Concert: On December 18th at 7 p.m., the Honesdale High School Chorus and Band will perform holiday favorites in the high school auditorium on Terrace Street. • Luminaries on Main: On Christmas Eve, enjoy 300 luminaries lining historic Main Street. • Throughout the month, Santa Express train rides on the Stourbridge Line will be available. Kids will receive a present from Santa and candy cane. Call (570) 470-2697. For more information about these and more December events, visit www.visithonesdalepa.com.

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troll along the streets and alleys and step into antique stores, unique restaurants, coffee shops, art galleries, a historic theater, and specialty shops. There are also historic architectural structures including Grey Towers, the former home of America’s first forester Gifford Pinchot; and The Columns Museum, where the Pike County Historical Society is with historical artifacts and memorabilia including the famous “Lincoln Flag.” Both buildings are open to the public. Other than its historical claims, Milford is considered a destination based on its shopping and dining alone with eateries satisfying every palette from authentic Vietnamese to gourmet French dishes. • Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony: Milford resembles something out of a picture book as the entire downtown twinkles with lights and the big star on the cliff glows from a distance. The free event is held December 1st at 6 p.m. on the lawn of the Community House at the corner of Broad and Harford Streets. In addition to the tree lighting, people can enjoy a visit from Santa, cookies, and cocoa. • Craft Store Holiday Open House: On December 7th, the Pike County Developmental Center hosts an open house from noon to 2 p.m. Find hand-crafted gifts for all occasions. Enjoy complimentary refreshments. The center is at 107 West Ann Street. For more details, call (570) 296-6319. • Girls’ Night Out: December 6th from 5 to 8 p.m., Milford Presents hosts another event with downtown businesses open featuring sales, refreshments, and fun. For more information, visit www.milfordpa.us. • Holiday Tours at Grey Towers National Historic Site: Beginning December 3rd through the 16th. Guided tours of all three floors with each room beautifully decorated for the holidays are available at 1 and 3 p.m. • Holiday Art Exhibit and Sale at Grey Towers: In addition to the tours, enjoy plein air paintings and a juried show of photographs, all depicting Grey Towers and the surrounding landscape. For more information on Grey Towers, visit www.greytowers.org. • Winter Lights Festival/Celebrating the Arts: This 11th annual event takes place Saturday, January 19th and Sunday, the 20th 2019. The festival celebrates the beauty of winter, as well as the opening of the ice rink in Ann Street Park for the season. Plus, the much anticipated Mac-n-Cheese and Chili contest which will be bigger and better this year. For additional information and updates, “like” the festival on Facebook.

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n just a few days, Hawley will be celebrating the 20th Anniversary of Hawley Winterfest. The celebration will take place starting Friday, December 7th and running through Sunday, December 9th. Winterfest kicks off on Friday night with a celebration of music featuring the internationally acclaimed organist and conductor Kyler Brown and the melodic talents of his Virgin Concort. Saturday, visitors will be treated to a variety of activities including a horse and carriage ride, pictures with Mr. and Mrs. Claus at B. Madigan’s, special sales at our downtown shops, and local authors at the Hawley Library. Be sure to stop by the library for a fresh cup of homemade soup contributed by the Library board of directors. And while you’re strolling down Main Street, be sure to stop in at our Festival of Lights. The historic town of Hawley is nestled in the beautiful Pocono Mountains lake region and is home to vibrant local shops, lodgings, restaurants, and entertainment. Sunday will feature the delights of children’s theatre at the Ritz Playhouse and a special presentation by Bob Eckstein on his newly revised book, The History of the Snowman, at the Hawley Library. No Winterfest would be complete without taking part in our House Tour. This year is extra special and will feature homes from a different era and all representing

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the rich history of our area. In addition, you can enjoy ice carvings, a beer tour, a cookie walk, exhibits, contests, demonstrations, giveaways, and much more for the entire family. “I am so proud to be co-chairing this event with Jeanne Genzlinger. We have an amazing committee of talented and committed volunteers working hard to bring this event to life,” says Kate Hayes. Hawley Winterfest is presented by the Downtown Hawley Partnership and is made possible by the efforts and generous contributions of our sponsors and donors. All levels of sponsorship are welcome and appreciated. Proceeds from this event are used to support ongoing community projects. Please visit hawleywinterfest.com for more information on events and how you can support this event. You are welcome to join our Facebook page for updates: facebook.com/hawleywinterfest

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LOVE LITES

GLOWING

TRADITION CONTINUES A Reminder to Reflect in a Busy Season

ach year around Christmas time, the Wayne Memorial Hospital Auxiliary invites the public to honor or remember loved ones with lights hung on several trees at Wayne Memorial Hospital. At night, the lights glow and twinkle and remind all passersby that love lives. The lights cost $5 each and the names of those honored are placed in a memory book displayed in the hospital’s lobby from early December until mid-January. The book can also be found on the hospital’s website. “It’s really a heartwarming tradition,” says Love Lites co-coordinator Diane Fox. “Hundreds of people contribute each year, so the tree is truly lit up. At a time of year that’s so busy—the holidays—it’s a way for people to have a moment of reflection about loved ones. No fuss, no big packages to buy or carry, just a little light on a tree that glows all through the season.” “I try to do it most years to remember people I love,” says Carol Kneier, Pleasant Mount. “I work at Wayne Memorial so I can see the lights every day during the season—it’s nice.”

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Love Lites originated in 1991 as an auxiliary fundraiser but also as a service to the community. The night of the lighting, this year December 10th at 6:30 p.m., includes a ceremony that brings together a variety of community groups. St. Tikhon’s Choir and the Honesdale High School chorus both perform songs appropriate to the season and the event. A member of the clergy offers a blessing. Hospital staff, auxilians and members of the public who perhaps purchased a light are all invited to participate. To participate, fill out the coupon found at www.wmh.org by Friday, December 7th. Make your check payable to the WMH Auxiliary for $5 for each Love Lite and mail to Diane Fox, 435 Wanoka Rd., Honesdale, Pa 18431. Coupons can also be found in the hospital lobby and at various locations in the area. For more information call Diane at 570-253-4378 or Kathie Carlson at 570-226-8115.

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Soft Christmas Sugar Cookies

Italian Christmas Cookies

Ingredients 3 3/4 cups all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking powder 1/2 teaspoon salt 1 cup margarine, softened 1 1/2 cups white sugar 2 eggs 2 teaspoons vanilla extract

Ingredients – Cookies 4 eggs • 1 cup sugar 1/2 cup butter • 2 tsp. vanilla 3 1/2 cup flour • 4 tsp.baking powder Ingredients – Icing 2 cup sifted confectioner’s sugar 2 tsp. vanilla • 6 tsp. water

Directions Sift flour, baking powder, and salt together, set aside. In a large bowl, cream together the margarine and sugar until light and fluffy. Beat in the eggs one at a time, then stir in the vanilla. Gradually blend in the sifted ingredients until fully absorbed. Cover dough, and chill for 2 hours. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F. Grease cookie sheets. On a clean floured surface, roll out small portions of chilled dough to 1/4 inch thickness. Cut out shapes using cookie cutters. Bake 6 to 8 minutes in the preheated oven, or until edges are barely brown. Remove from cookie sheets to cool on wire racks.

Directions – Cookies In a bowl sift together the flour and baking powder , set aside. In a large mixing bowl, cream together the butter and sugar. Add the eggs, one at a time, mixing well. Mix in the vanilla. Add in the flour mixture. Knead until dough is firm and not sticky, adding more flour if necessary. Refrigerate 1 hour. Cut off small amount of dough and roll on floured surface into 6 inch strips. Twirl into shape and place on greased cookie sheets. Bake at 375 degrees for 8-10 minutes (the bottom should be lightly browned but the tops should remain light). Remove cookies to wire rack and cool completely before glazing. Directions – Icing Combine the icing ingredients in a bowl until just smooth. You want it more thick than thin, but still runny. Dip the tops of the cooled cookies into the glaze, then return to the wire rack, allowing the glaze to drip down the sides of the cookie. Top with sprinkles, while glaze is still wet.

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Pets

Pet Holiday Safety H

olly, Jolly and Oh-So-Safe! Of course, you want to include your furry companions in the festivities, pet parents, but as you celebrate this holiday season, try to keep your pet's eating and exercise habits as close to their normal routine as possible. And be sure to steer them clear of the following unhealthy treats, toxic plants, and dangerous decorations:

O Christmas Tree Securely anchor your Christmas tree so it doesn't tip and fall, causing possible injury to your pet. This will also prevent the tree water—which may contain fertilizers that can cause stomach upset—from spilling. Stagnant tree water is a breeding ground for bacteria, and your pet could end up with nausea or diarrhea should he imbibe.

Tinsel-less Town Kitties love this sparkly, light-catching "toy" that's easy to bat around and carry in their mouths. But a nibble can lead to a swallow, which can lead to an obstructed digestive tract, severe vomiting, dehydration and possible surgery. It's best to brighten your boughs with something other than tinsel.

No Feasting for the Furries By now you know not to feed your pets chocolate and anything sweetened

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with xylitol, but do you know the lengths to which an enterprising fur kid will go to chomp on something yummy? Make sure to keep your pets away from the table and unattended plates of food, and be sure to secure the lids on garbage cans.

Toy Joy Looking to stuff your pet's stockings? Choose gifts that are safe. Dogs have been known to tear their toys apart and swallow the pieces, which can then become lodged in the esophagus, stomach or intestines. Stick with chew toys that are basically indestructible, Kongs that can be stuffed with healthy foods or chew treats that are designed to be safely digestible. Long, stringy things are a feline's dream, but the most risky toys for cats involve ribbon, yarn, and loose little parts that can get stuck in the intestines, often necessitating surgery. Surprise kitty with a new ball that's too big to swallow, a stuffed catnip toy, or the interactive cat dancer— and tons of play sessions together.

Forget the Mistletoe & Holly Holly, when ingested, can cause pets to suffer nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Mistletoe can cause gastrointestinal upset and cardiovascular problems, and many varieties of lilies can cause kidney failure in cats if ingested. Opt for just-asjolly artificial plants made from silk or plastic, or choose a pet-safe bouquet.

Leave the Leftovers Fatty, spicy, and no-no human foods, as well as bones, should not be fed to your

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furry friends. Pets can join the festivities in other fun ways that won't lead to costly medical bills.

That Holiday Glow Don't leave lighted candles unattended. Pets may burn themselves or cause a fire if they knock candles over. Be sure to use appropriate candle holders, placed on a stable surface, and if you leave the room, put the candle out!

Wired Up Keep wires, batteries, and glass or plastic ornaments out of paws' reach. A wire can deliver a potentially lethal electrical shock, and a punctured battery can cause burns to the mouth and esophagus, while shards of breakable ornaments can damage your pet's mouth.

Pita Adult male Akita. He would do best in a home with teens and older and is good with cats and most dogs he meets.

House Rules If your animal-loving guests would like to give your pets a little extra attention and exercise while you're busy tending to the party, ask them to feel free to start a nice play or petting session.

Put the Meds Away Make sure all of your medications are locked behind secure doors, and be sure to tell your guests to keep their meds zipped up and packed away, too.

Careful with Cocktails If your celebration includes adult holiday beverages, be sure to place your unattended alcoholic drinks where pets cannot get to them. If ingested, your pet could become weak, ill, and may even go into a coma, possibly resulting in death from respiratory failure.

A Room of Their Own Give your pet his own quiet space to retreat toâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;complete with fresh water and a place to snuggle. Shy pups and cats might want to hide out under a piece of furniture, in their carrying case, or in a separate room away from the hubbub.

Bellamy 2-3 yr old male. Very sweet & loveable. Acts like a dog. Good indoor lap cat.

New Year's Noise As you count down to the new year, please keep in mind that strings of thrown confetti can get lodged in a cat's intestines, if ingested, perhaps necessitating surgery. Noisy poppers can terrify pets and cause possible damage to sensitive ears.

Available for adoption at Dessin Animal Shelter! Call 570-253-4037.

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TIPS FOR YOUR HOME

Tips for

BUYING A HOME in the Winter Provided by Disaster Blaster

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While spring and summer are the most popular seasons to purchase a house, home sales in the winter are becoming increasingly common. Cold weather and inclement conditions can change the home buying process in a number of ways, however.

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Instead of taking a break from the house hunt, take advantage of the winter weather! Fewer homes may be on the market While some sellers may take their homes off the market in the winter, that doesn’t mean you won’t find the perfect home during the winter months. As more and more buyers house hunt during the winter, fewer and fewer sellers are ignoring this market. You never know when you may find the home of your dreams, so why stop looking just because it got cold? As an added bonus, there are often fewer buyers as well, which means less competition!

You’ll need to use your imagination a bit more Northeastern PA can be a bit dreary during the winter, so it’s important to imagine what that house will look like when the sun is shining, the trees are full of leaves, and the grass is green. You may be looking at a yard full of snow now, but don’t forget that spring will be here in no time!

Radon test results will often show the worst case Radon levels naturally fluctuate from day to day and month to month. The frozen ground, sealed up houses, and active heating systems, however, mean radon levels are often highest during the winter months. This means your radon test results will generally reflect the worst conditions you can expect, allowing you to address any issues your property may have.

Contractors generally are not as busy Do you have some minor projects you would like completed before you move in? Contractors and handymen are often slower during the winter than other months. That doesn’t just mean you may be able to have the work completed quicker, but often cheaper as well!

You will need to start winter maintenance right away Once you move into the house, you will need to immediately begin winter maintenance. From shoveling sidewalks to having the heating system and chimney serviced, you’ll want to make sure your home is ready! There’s no need to put your dreams on hold just because the temperature dropped! You can not only find the perfect home for you and your family during the winter, you can use the season to your advantage!

Inspections can be more thorough Is the home well insulated? Are the windows drafty? Does the heating system work, and is it adequate? These things are all much easier to determine in the winter, so you and your home inspector will be better able to locate potential issues and consider what will be necessary to resolve them.

Disaster Blaster is an indoor environmental firm serving the Northeastern PA Area. We have been providing our local area with unparalleled mold remediation, water damage mitigation, asbestos abatement, and radon mitigation services for decades, and are proud to have been recently named The World’s Greatest Indoor Environmental Firm. For more about Disaster Blaster, as well as more helpful tips, please visit our website at: www.disasterblaster.com or call our office at (570) 963-1123.

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Giving is Good.

SMART

Giving is Great! For many, the final season of the year is a time to count your blessings and to give back. It’s no wonder it’s often called the“ giving season.” In fact, 40 percent of charitable donations are made during the last half of the year. With this in mind, we would like to offer some tips that will help you make the most of your year-end giving and maximize the impact of your charitable investment. –By Craig Lukatch 24 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |

1. Keep it simple Most organizations offer a wide variety of ways you can make a difference. Overwhelmed by all the options? Not sure what you’re passionate about? If you want the simplest choice for maximum impact, consider choosing to give where there is the most need.

2. Give someone else’s money Hundreds of companies across the country match employee contributions to nonprofits. That doubles your donation and impact without you giving another cent! It’s easy to check and see if your employer will match your donations and find out how it works.

3. Forget your checkbook Generosity comes in many forms. Donating valuable personal property such as equipment, royalties, and even jewelry is an innovative way to turn

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your non-cash assets into life-transforming gifts. What do you have to give?

4. “Double” your tax break Did you know you can “double” your tax break by donating appreciated assets such as stock or real estate? If you have stock that has grown in value, you can donate it and receive a charitable deduction for the current value as well as eliminate capital gains tax on the appreciation.

5. Remember the deadline Your gifts must be completed by midnight on December 31, 2018, in order to receive a charitable deduction for the 2018 tax year. Keep in mind that gifts of stocks or other securities may take two to three weeks to process at year-end.

Craig Lukatch has excelled in development and leadership positions in the nonprofit sector for nearly 15 years. Lukatch is a Hazleton native, currently residing in Moosic PA, who has extensive experience in nonprofit administration and fundraising most recently working as the President of Lacawac Sanctuary Environmental Education Center, CEO of the Greater Pittston YMCA, and the Director of Development at Wyoming Valley Children's Association, Forty Fort. He is a graduate of the University of Scranton with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Philosophy and Theology. Lukatch has served on various boards of nonprofits from the NEPA chapter of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, to the Hazleton YMCA, and the Community Services for Sight organization in Hazleton. Over his tenure, Lukatch as effectively lead, managed, supervised and worked with staff, board members and volunteers in the area of fundraising and marketing/communications especially in the area of annual support campaigns, capital campaigns, and the development of fundraising plans.

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MRS. DOGOOD

A REBUTTAL By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood

Dear Editor, As you know, I write letters to the editor as part of my ministry as senior pastor of The First Church of God’s Love in the farming hamlet of Halo, PA. It is integral to my mission of both creating and teaching goodness; I want my congregation to overcome the fear of living and the fear of dying. My letters are first published in the Teller’s Gate. It is our local bi-weekly newspaper established by Mr. George S. Teller over a century ago. He was a local farmer and entrepreneur who wanted his neighbors to learn about each other. Our hamlet is small but it is a microcosm of the world, and the Gate allows us to enter it all. Luckily through subscriptions and advertising, the newspaper is thriving. Mrs. Swenson is our current publisher. My letters are reprinted here. Some time ago, I wrote a letter to the Gate asking for contributions to my church’s new capital campaign. We created a capital campaign that I called Quelling the Thunder. We were raising funds to purchase thick-sound-absorbing cushions for our pews. While they would function as aesthetic improvements to our somewhat monastic church, we also needed them to solve a problem caused by a few of our older parishioners. Mr. Oliver, at 83 years of age, creates the most frequent problem. Loud flatulence. The kind that badly disrupts my sermons. I must say the response was overwhelming. We raised the funds and have ordered the thickestsound-absorbing cushions available. My congregation, and in particular my advisory board, were delighted we had solved the problem. Or so we thought. But then, one afternoon I took a break to read the Gate. I always read my published letter to see how I can make the next one better. I was sitting in my sun-filled parlor at home with a cup of tea when I saw it. An angry and anonymous letter to the editor about me. I quote it below so you can understand my shock.

church was asking for money. Was the money to be used for feeding the hungry? Housing the homeless? Educating the stupid? No. The money was to be used for deadening the sounds of farts in her church. I would say that there are too many echoing rafters in the church and not enough rafters in DoGood’s head. My cows fart but you don’t see me putting pretty velvet cushions under their butts. My family and I sometimes fart. So what. You move on. We talk louder and speak over them. It’s what polite society does. But if she doesn’t want to do that, I have the solution. Unlike her I’m not possessed by the Devil so I can see clearly. She should stand in the vestibule of her church, in her robe, every Sunday, before the service, and she should personally hand every parishioner a GasEnd tablet with activated charcoal in it. I give it to my cows. There. Amen to that. I enjoy your newspaper and will continue to read it. I hope my suggestion is helpful.

“Dear Mrs. Swenson, Have you lost your mind publishing her letter? Has the First Church of God’s Love been taken over by the Devil? What fiend is running the church? Her name is Silence and so should she be! I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read that the

The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love

Sincerely, (Name withheld at the request of the writer.)” The church is more than a building. We are a community of diverse people gathered together to unwrap and strengthen the light in each of our lives. It is my mission to fuel those flames of grace considering each person’s uniqueness. We handled a situation with compassion not mockery. When we come to church in the future, we will sit on lovely, well-padded maroon cushions in peace and quiet, creating a true sanctuary. When we leave the church we will bring our goodness and grace into the world. Amen.

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Prison Reflections

“Enough is Enough” By Terry Mooney

Part I

young mother in her late twenties, this is her first time in jail. From a good home, she has constantly gravitated to the bad boys, and tolerated habitual abuse from them. Now she is maturing and realizing she is worth much more than that.

My Story I was born in January of 1990. My mom had my older brother when she was eighteen and me by the time she was nineteen. My father was two years older and a partier, and had moved away and taken up with another woman by the time I was born. In and out of our lives over the years, he was more in my brother’s life than in mine. Let’s put it this way, when we look back on our baby albums, there are more pictures of my dad in my brother’s album than there are in mine. He was unable to hold a job, so my mom did everything. She worked, took care of us and, if it weren’t for her, we wouldn’t have made it. When I was three, my mother met my stepdad and things have been great ever since. I consider him my real father. He has always been there for us; he’s a real hardworking man. He walked me down the aisle. He offered to adopt us when my biological dad wanted to sign over his parental rights, but my mom believed he should continue to have them. My life’s dream was to have a family of my own. At eighteen, I married my high school sweetheart. As soon as he graduated, he joined the Navy. We were stationed in the Portsmouth naval shipyard in New Hampshire. I was working on the base for the government, and for a while things were okay. Five hours away from my family, I was constantly homesick. What I didn’t tell anyone was he was already abusing me. Although my stepdad was so good to us, I was still affected by the loss of my biological father. He favored my brother and ultimately our half brother but had no use for me. As a result, I think my self esteem was low, and on some level I felt not worthy of love and respect. In any case, over time the abuse escalated. Thankfully, we did not have children. My husband was about to be honorably discharged from the Navy after four years when he failed a random drug test. They gave him a General “Under Honorable” discharge because he had done a good job for them, but because of zero tolerance for substance use he had to go. We moved back to New York, and his drug use got worse. He was working in a factory, but ultimately the substance abuse got him fired from every job. It was left to me to support us. He began stealing from me to buy drugs, and when I refused to give him my paycheck, he threw me down on the floor and began choking me. He was six feet two, two hundred twenty pounds. If my aunt hadn’t pulled him off me, I’d be dead. It got to the point where I would deposit my paycheck in our joint account, and we’d have nothing left for the rent. We were evicted. Moving in with my mother, we were able to hide his addiction and abuse of me because our paths rarely crossed. One day he started a fight with me, threatening to kill me and my entire family. I called his father who worked in a jail and asked him to come get him or I would call the cops. A couple of days later he called me crying and asked me to pick him up. I believed he was the love of my life, and I wasn’t ready to give up on him. So I drove over, and he got in the car. It was the biggest mistake of my life. (To Be Continued)

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Money

Health C a r e Your Investment Port folio

ealth care makes up roughly 18% of the U.S. economy and is expected to grow 5.6% per year through 2025.* In fact, experts anticipate ongoing expansion in this sector no matter what happens with the broader economy — thanks at least in part to the millions of aging baby boomers. “One of the things we jokingly say about health care is, ‘Whether or not there’s a recession, people still sneeze,’” says Michael Colón, First Vice President and Equity Sector Analyst with Wells Fargo Advisors. When financial advisors look at investing decisions, Colón says, they often start with health care stocks. About 14.5% of the S&P 500 Index, which is often used as a proxy for the overall stock market, is health care companies. Within that 14.5%, the biggest subindustries are drugmakers, biotech companies, medical device manufacturers, and managed care companies. Wells Fargo Investment Institute now recommends that investors overweight their portfolios in the health care sector, Colón says. That’s because an aging population is a major factor driving growth in the sector. But there are still unknowns. One of the big ones is what might happen in Washington. An adaptable sector. “In our opinion,

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the Affordable Care Act definitely created some headwinds the way it was written,” Colón says, noting the law increased fees and taxes on some health care companies. At the same time, it also expanded the number of people with health insurance, which in turn can mean higher sales of drugs, medical devices, and medical services. In the time since it was enacted, however, insurance companies and other health companies have adapted to the new health care marketplace — especially the bigger, diversified managed care companies, Colón says. So far, efforts to “repeal and replace” the Affordable Care Act in Congress have been unsuccessful, but there is still plenty of talk in Washington about making changes to — or eliminating entirely — the law. “Just the idea of something happening without a concrete direction or actual plan creates uncertainty,” Colón says. “Uncertainty is one of the biggest things the market doesn’t like.” Other legislation in Washington, though, could be a boon for some segments of the health care economy. For instance, if tax reforms encouraged companies to repatriate dollars from overseas — perhaps through temporary lower tax rates on those earnings — it could spark more mergers and acquisitions

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among biotech, pharmaceutical, and medical device companies. Investment opportunities. Health care is often seen as a defensive investment, Colón says — perhaps a good place to consider regardless of market and economic conditions. After all, people still get sick no matter what the economy is doing. While health care is a large and diverse sector, not every investment is appropriate for all people. “Investing in biotech would not be a very good idea for a very conservative, income-oriented investor,” Colón says. “Biotech firms tend to be a lot more speculative in nature than your more established large pharmaceutical companies.” Health care investment opportunities can also help meet other portfolio goals, such as international exposure. *https://www.cms.gov/research-statistics-data-and-systems/statistics-trends-and-reports/nationalhealthexpenddata/nhe-fact-sheet.html Sector investing can be more volatile than investments that are broadly diversified over numerous sectors of the economy. Some of the risks associated with investment in the health care sector include competition on branded products, sales erosion due to cheaper alternatives, research & development risk, government regulations and government approval of products anticipated to enter the market. Additionally, companies can be exposed to cuts in Medicare reimbursements as well as uncertainty surrounding healthcare reform efforts in the U.S. These risks can have a significant effect on investment in the industries within this sector and negatively affect a portfolio’s pursuit of its investment objectives. Foreign investing entails risks not typically associated with investing domestically including currency, political, economic, and the risks associated with different accounting standards. Wells Fargo Investment Institute, Inc. is a registered investment adviser and wholly-owned subsidiary of Wells Fargo Bank, N.A., a bank affiliate of Wells Fargo & Company.

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Book Review A KID’S GOTTA DO WHAT A KID’S GOTTA DO.

saw his kindness when he helped her navigate life with almost nothing. His friendship was one of the good If it’s your responsibility – real or perthings Nora held tightly when bad things ceived – you need to make things happen. happened, like when Mama used her launYou must take charge because doing so is dry wages to play Mah Jongg, a gambling an excellent sign of a good person and a game that she apparently wasn’t very good good sign you’re growing up. Or, as in the at. Gambling, as Nora knew, wasn’t being new book “Everlasting Nora” by Marie smart with money. And when her mother Miranda Cruz, it’s a matdisappeared one ter of life or death. evening and didn’t Aside from her return, Nora learned Papa, a soft bed was the that, with the wrong thing Nora missed the partners, gambling most. could also be dangerBut when you live ous… in a mausoleum – a tiny Were it not for a house that protects a slightly simpler plot and grave – there is no room children at its core, for a bed or a kitchen or “Everlasting Nora” much at all. At least she could have easily been a and Mama had a dry novel for adults. home and food once or That’s a warning – twice a day. For that, and a recommendation. Nora was grateful. On the latter, Last year, before author Marie Miranda the fire and Papa’s Cruz offers readers a tale death, before losing all of warmth and friendtheir money to Lola ship that quietly conFely, before fleeing to ceals a thriller that will the cemetery, Nora had leave you breathless, a bed, toys, and she even though you know even went to school. (spoiler alert!) things She really missed will turn out just fine. school, too. Kids in the They’re the kinds of cemetery were someplotlines that make even times taught by a kind nail-biting grown-ups man who came with a tempted to skim and By Marie Miranda Cruz wagon of books and lesskip ahead because they Reviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer sons, but it wasn’t the are just that exciting – same. and therein lies the warning. Early parts of Nora dreamed of having her old life this story are sweet and excellently told but back. Meanwhile, she helped Mama wash that beginning is absolutely driven by a laundry for women in the city, she sold thread that can become pretty intense – dried flower garlands for small money, and maybe sometimes too intense for its intendshe kept busy helping others around the ed audience. cemetery. Many people lived there, people That audience is ages 9-to-12 but who couldn’t afford to live anywhere else, maybe not every child in that range. Sensiand that included Nora’s best friend, Jojo. tive kids, no, but if yours can handle a When she and Mama first moved to heart-pounder, then she’ll love “Everlasting the cemetery, Nora didn’t like Jojo much. Nora.” He was too opinionated, but she eventually

“Everlasting Nora”

Reading it might be what that kid’s gotta do.

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Pencils NEPA

PenNcEilPsA By LA Guzda

Are you a writer or a wannabe writer? Want to have a little more fun writing your holiday cards? Maybe it’s your New Year resolution. Whatever the reason, if you want to write, then you want to know about Pencils NEPA. 34 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |

Carol McManus is the creator of Pencils NEPA. She is an accomplished author, marketer, consultant, radio personality and speaker, working throughout the TriState area and nationally. She began the Hawley group in April of 2017 with three people – a neighbor, a man with great intellect recovering from a physical ailment, and a published writer who hadn’t written in a while. It wasn’t long until the group attracted a number of others - all by word of mouth.

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While the Hawley group meets the first and third Wednesday, 10 a.m. at the Hawley Library; an additional group was created in September 2017 that meets the second and fourth Wednesday evenings, 6:00 p.m. in Honesdale at the Stourbridge Project. Why a writers’ group? They give POSITIVE feedback. That doesn’t mean they won’t challenge you and your choices, but the input is supportive, insightful and will keep you inspired to write more. They hold you accountable in a safe, fun environment - FUN being the keyword in that sentence. A variety of genres are expressed drama, comedy, poetry, documentary, autobiographical - for books, internet, stage and screenwriting. Exposure to others’ writings will help you hone your own craft. These stories entertain, engage and educate. Carol McManus is a force of nature. Her kindness and passion is constant as she leads these groups. If you are interested in creating your own group, she is happy to guide and provide support. In the meantime, here is her…

perfect. Let the words move through you. 6. JOIN a group - writing is a lonely process. By committing with like-minded people, the faster you’ll achieve your goals. You can learn more by visiting www.PencilsNEPA.com Now sharpen those pencils and start writing. Remember, waiting for inspiration to write is like standing at an airport waiting for a train. Start with a simple question, “What if?” Happy Holidays. Be happy. Be safe. Be hopeful. Follow us on Instagram @PoconoSecrets and on Facebook @PocoPike Visit www.LAGuzda.com or www.PoconoSecrets.com

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Outdoor Ramblings

The Skiing

Breakdown By Bill Deaton | williamjdeaton@yahoo.com

eteorologically speaking, December is a “winter” month. Depending on the cooperativeness of Mother Nature, generally the only places we see a hefty dose of the white stuff sticking to the ground are at the ski areas where the snow farmers have been hard at work pushing out the powder. With luck, hopefully there will be freshies on the wooded trails and fields for everyone who enjoys crosscountry as well. Some folks call cross-country skiing “Nordic Skiing”, but that’s actually an improper use of the term. Skiing all breaks down to two types, Alpine and Nordic. If your heel is affixed to the ski through a binding while going downhill, it’s Alpine. If the heel is free while descending, it’s Nordic. The pantheon of Nordic skiing encompasses a wide range of disciplines. • Cross Country…which is further subdivided and categorized by form and equipment – Skate skiing done on a prepared surface using shorter skis and skating motion. – Classic skiing done on a prepared surface using longer skis and a kick and glide motion. – Backcountry skiing done on unprepared surfaces using edged skis and classic form. * Backcountry skiers may use removable skins for extra uphill traction. • Ski Jumping…Unattached heels, it’s Nordic. • Telemark Skiing…Telemark is actually the type of turn Nordic skiers use in descending. However, many people refer to skiing downhill on wider, edged skis using a heavy plastic or leather boot and a specialized binding as “Telemark.” Telemark skiers can be found riding lifts at resorts or skinning up mountains in the backcountry. Some Nordic skiers stick to one discipline, others do more. The Nordic Combined competition seen in the Olympics is where skiers are timed on a cross-country run and judged on a ski jump. Biathlon is really a shooting sport but involves skiing from station to station where one shoots targets. There’s a lot involved with choosing the right equipment for your Nordic needs. With the lack of cross-country areas that have groomed trails, locally, most XC skiers in Northeastern Pennsylvania would do well to consider a waxless base touring or backcountry ski that will perform well in the various conditions and unmaintained trails typically found on the public lands of the area. Of course, without a good base, most XC skiers will be opting for a trip north or sitting it out, so think snow!! www.connections-magazine.com

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BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE

What Is Emotional

Intelligence? By Arthur Middleton, M.D., FAPA

Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.

~ Aristotle

he Miriam Webster dictionary defines fear as “an unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger.” As recent events in the news would suggest, fear is easily experienced and often made worse by misinformation. It is frequently associated with anger, which is another commonly experienced emotion. The ability to control an emotion, like fear or anger, also raises the issue of the mind-body connection and the impact of our emotions on our physical health. As an example, it is not unusual for a stressful situation to lead to gastrointestinal distress like diarrhea or constipation. The World Health Organization (WHO) defines mental health as “a state of wellbeing in which an individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and is able to make a contribution to his or her community.” Going further, it is important to recognize that mental health is not simply the absence of mental illness. A key feature of mental illness is impaired functioning. Mental health is a function of one’s brain chemistry, life experiences, and genetics. The benefits of good mental health should not be sur-

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prising. Having good or positive mental health would be seen in individuals who demonstrate the ability to cope with stress and are generally productive and have the capacity to recognize their innate ability to achieve their full potential. While the term emotional intelligence may not be commonly recognized, it should be evident that emotional well-being is associated with the ability to deal effectively with stress as well as having the insight to recognize when it might be necessary to ask for help. The following fictional clinical vignette is presented to highlight the issue of emotions and mental health as it relates to “emotional intelligence.” JT is a 29-year-old divorced man. He has a 3-year-old son whom he sees on weekends. He and his ex-wife have tried to maintain a degree of civility with one another with respect to their parenting responsibilities, but JT has not been able to deal effectively with his anger and feelings of resentment that followed a bitter divorce. He works as a certified accountant and earns well. Alimony and child support payments have impacted his financial status significantly, making it necessary for him to move back to his parents’ home.

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JT is living in his old room, which is filled with pictures to remind him of his experiences at school, which were not always pleasant. Following his parents’ divorce when JT was 10 years of age, he began to experience difficulty controlling his behavior in class. JT would throw things at classmates when they didn’t listen to him. His parents became accustomed to calls from the school as he was frequently pulled out of class. JT saw a therapist on several occasions, and for a period of time was prescribed Ritalin or methylphenidate to treat what was believed to be Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder or ADHD. However, the medication was not effective and was discontinued over the course of several months. While his behavior did appear to come under control with therapy, JT could never resolve the anger he had towards his parents for getting divorced. At the same time, he also had problems developing close relationships with others, fearing that he would be rejected. JT was known as a bright individual, but also temperamental and at times not easy to be with. He did not develop longstanding friendships, often ending them abruptly if there was some disagreement. JT was successful academically and went on to graduate school and then to work in a wellestablished accounting firm. He had an onoff again relationship with his girlfriend, whom he eventually married. After two years of marriage, his wife filed for divorce. She often told him that he was hard to live with. The birth of their son was unplanned and only added to their marital difficulties. While JT was not physically abusive to his wife, she told him she was worried about his temper and did not feel it was good for her son to be around him. She often told him he was gifted with respect to his math and academic skills but “stupid with respect to his emotions.” Following the divorce, JT resisted recommendations that he see a therapist. But after his wife filed papers that would not allow JT

to see his son without supervision, he reluctantly agreed to see someone, deciding to see a psychologist for therapy. To his surprise, JT found therapy to be beneficial. He gained in insight and recognized that his inability to control his emotions, in particular his anger, was interfering with his work, his social life and his relationship with his son. Further, he found that he was feeling better physically. Previously, he had been experiencing fatigue, which he felt was a result of his inability to sleep. He learned the importance of “emotional awareness,” and came to the conclusion that it was important to be more relaxed and easy going with people in general. As a result, he is feeling better emotionally and physically. He has been able to resume his visits with his son and is working to maintain a good relationship with his ex-wife. He is trying to be more self-aware. Visit CM’s website for more on emotional intelligence.

The following references are provided for the informed consumer: Department of Health and Human Services: What is Mental Health? http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/ article/001530.htm Family Doctor.org: Keeping Your Emotional Health http://familydoctor.org/familydoctor/en/ prevention-wellness/emotional-wellbeing/ mental-health/mental-health-keeping-youremotional-health.printerview.all. html National Institutes of Health: The Mind-Body Connection Emotions and Health http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/magazine/ issues/winter08/articles/winter08pg4.html Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania.

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EVENTS

Y O U

ENTERTAINMENT

RECREATION

ARTS

a+r+e DEC ’18

THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF

C O N N E C T E D

Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061.

Ongoing Events DAILY Art-a-Pelago Black & Brass Coffee Co., The Bodhi Tree, & D.J. Harvey Agency, Honesdale. One art gallery in three locations (Thasos-Lesvos-Paros). Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Honesdale & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work. DAILY Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. WEEKLY Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net. TUESDAYS Teen Club 3:30–5:30 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Hang out, play games, socialize. Info: 570-226-4620 or www.waynelibraries.org. TUESDAYS Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@gmail.com. TUESDAYS Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467. WEDNESDAYS Wednesday Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear.

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WEDNESDAYS Story Time 10:30–11:30 a.m. Pleasant Mount Public Library, Pleasant Mount. Bring your young children & grandchildren to the library for a fun-filled story time. Included will be crafts, games, songs &, of course, a story. Info: 570-448-2573 or www.waynelibraries.org. WEDNESDAYS Lego Club 4:30–5:30 p.m. Pike County Public Library, Milford. Create, share ideas, make new friends. Free & open to the public, registration requested. Info: www.pcpl.org or Facebook. Registration: 570-296-8211. THURSDAYS Thursday Night with John Curtin 6–9 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. THURSDAYS Pub-O-Lympics 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. A combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with your team to win a gold medal, gift certificate & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-4388. FRIDAYS Job Search and Resume Assistance 1–3 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. A professional from Pike County Workforce Development is available. Info: 570-226-4620 or www.waynelibraries.org. FRIDAYS Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. FRIDAYS Live Music at Tannery Room 8–11 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com.

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EVENTS SATURDAYS (EXC. DEC. 29) Main Street Farmers’ Market 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. A vibrant & friendly gathering of exemplary local producers & enthusiastic consumers, connecting through a mutual appreciation for each other & for our regional foodscape. Enjoy farm-to-table eats from Anthill Farm Kitchen, locally grown produce & other artisanal goods. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. SATURDAYS Saturday Family Story Time 11 a.m.–Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Join Miss Melanie for a story, followed by a fun craft for the whole family to enjoy. Info: 570-253-1220 or www.waynelibraries.org.

December 1– December 9 DEC. 1 Blowout Book Sale 9 a.m.–Noon. Manchester Community Library, Equinunk. Help clear some room on the shelves for donations which come in over the winter, & score incredibly low prices: Hardcovers, 4/$1; paperbacks, $.05 each. Well-supplied with barely used paperbacks good enough for gift giving. Info & directions: 570-224-8500. DEC. 1 Eagle Watch Volunteer Training Day 9 a.m.–1 p.m. The Lackawaxen Inn, Lackawaxen. Overview of the volunteer Eagle Watch program, continental breakfast & training session, followed

THURSDAYS Writer’s Retreat 10:30–11:30 a.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Writing seminar — share ideas, memories & life experiences in written words. Limited to 12 participants. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org.

SATURDAYS FREE Tastings and Demos Noon–2 p.m. Mill Market, in the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Info: 570-390-4440. SATURDAYS Live Music 9 p.m.–1 a.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. THROUGH DEC. 14 Library Exhibit: “The World’s Best Penman — The Artistic and Business Career of Charles Paxton Zaner, 1864–1918.” Heritage Room, Weinberg Memorial Library, The University of Scranton. Free during library hours. Info: 570-941-6341 or michael.knies@scranton.edu. THROUGH DEC. 23 Art in Sixes Alliance Gallery, Delaware Arts Center, Narrowsburg, NY. Group exhibition of small works. Free. Gallery hours: Tues.–Sat., 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Info: 845-252-7576 or delawarevalleyartsalliance.org.

by visiting the eagle viewing areas. Registration & info: info@delawarehighlands.org or 570-226-3164. DEC. 1 LTVFD Ladies Auxiliary Christmas Craft Fair 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Lackawaxen Fire House, Lackawaxen. Lots of vendors, hourly door prizes. Food & homemade soups available. Large parking lot. Info: 570-685-7330. DEC. 1 Wreath Making Workshop 11 a.m.–5 p.m. Adam’s Hardscape/Excavation & Christmas, Honesdale. Come to the barn and learn to make your own wreath. Cost includes grapevine wreath, greens & a bow. Each session starts on the hour. BYOB. Must RSVP to 570-2510050 or adamshardscape@gmail.com with number in your party & time you request to attend. DEC. 1 Holiday Bows and Boughs 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Create your own holiday decorations using natural materials. Evergreen boughs & materials provided for you to make wreaths, swags, & table decor. You can also bring your own supplies & decorations. PEEC brings the

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EVENTS music, drinks & snacks. Preregistration required: 570-828-2319. DEC. 1 Christmas on the Square 4–8 p.m. Town Square, Hancock, NY. Food & vendors, s'mores, cookies & cocoa, caroling & games. Info: 607-637-2870. DEC. 1 Performance Music: “51st Annual Noel Night” 8 p.m. (prelude begins at 7 p.m.) HoulihanMcLean Center, The University of Scranton. Concert featuring The University of Scranton Singers with guest harpist Marg Davis. Prelude by String Orchestra and Chamber Ensembles. Free. Info: 570-941-7624 or music@scranton.edu. DEC. 1 & 2 Candlelight Christmas Dinner 6–9:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn Restaurant, Hawley. See description at Nov. 30. The Bradley Bunch entertains Sat.; on Sun. enjoy Robert Kopec & The Honesdale HS Choir. Reservations: 570-226-2993. DEC. 1, 2018–JAN. 31, 2019 Art Exhibit: Photo Contest Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Enjoy the entrants in the Monroe County Natural Resources Photo Contest. Winners will be revealed & the top 12 photos will be available on a 2019 calendar. Proceeds from calendar sales benefit environmental education programs at Kettle Creek. Opening reception Dec. 1, 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Info: 570-629-3061. DEC. 1 & 2 Journey Through Bethlehem, A Living Nativity Bethany Presbyterian Church, Bethany. Celebrate the first Christmas as you travel to witness the birth of the Savior. Enjoy the vision of angels, the strength of kings & the humility of shepherds tending their flocks. Refreshments served. Info: 570-253-6316. DEC. 2 Free Photos with Santa 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Adam’s Hardscape/Excavation & Christmas, Honesdale. Bring your own cameras & snag your very own photos with Santa in his authentic antique sleigh. Hot cocoa, Christmas carolers & face painting provided at the event. Info: 570-251-0050 or adamshardscape@gmail.com. DEC. 2 Hamlin Fire & Rescue Handgun Bingo Noon–5 p.m. Hamlin Fire and Rescue 582, Hamlin. Info: 570-689-9193. DEC. 2 4th Annual Holiday Tea at the Watres Lodge 2–4 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station & Environmental Education Center, Lake Ariel. The his-

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DEC. 1 “Christmas in the Village!” 2–6 p.m. Bethany. All ages. Open House, HHS Chamber Choir singing seasonal carols, Tricky Tray & tree lighting, appearance by & letters with Mrs. Claus, family Christmastide story with craft, Living Nativity & more. Seasonal foods & drinks. No admission fee. Info: 570-253-5573. toric 1903 Watres Lodge will be dressed for the upcoming Christmas season while you enjoy a variety of baked goods & finger foods with seasonal tea. Experience the beauty of the summer estate & hunting lodge with a guided tour. Register in advance; seating limited: 570-689-9494. DEC. 2 Wayne Choralaires concert “Caroling, Caroling!” 2:30 p.m. Queen of Peace, Hawley. Sacred & secular holiday songs. No admission fee. Freewill offering accepted. Info: 570-253-2782. DEC. 2 RiverFolk Concert: Ryanhood 3 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by RiverFolk Concerts. Duo Ryan Green & Cameron Hood make up an award-winning two-man altfolk rock band, known for their acoustic blend of folk, rock, & pop influences. Their cross-generational sound is equally at home in colleges, coffee-houses, concert halls, churches & living rooms. BYOB. Reservations & info: 845-252-6783 or riverfolkconcerts@frontier.com. DEC. 4 Transformation and Empowerment through the Tarot: Demystifying the Tarot 5:30 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. The tarot acts as a mirror of situations you are currently dealing with & can be a useful tool

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EVENTS of self-discovery. Used in meditations, visualizations & readings that deepen your inquiry & provide clarity to the situations at hand. Info & registration: Elizabeth, ewilson@waynelibraries.org or 570-253-1220. DEC. 6 Fun, Food, Fitness with Special EFX 3:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Rapping About Prevention delivers a high-energy performance using facts, humor, personal experience, teamwork exercises, a live rap & dance performance and audience participation. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 6 Wet-on-Wet Painting with Rick Weber 6:30–9 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn to paint in the “wet-on-wet” style — instead of waiting days for oil paint to dry, paint with layers, applying wet paint into wet paint. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.

DEC. 7–9 Sculpted Ice Bar Cocoon Coffee House, Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Specialty cocktails served during Hawley Winterfest on a handcrafted ice bar created by Sculpted Ice Works. Complimentary samples available. Info: 570-226-6130. DEC. 8 Cookie Walk & Victorian Luncheon 9 a.m.–2 p.m. First Presbyterian Church of Hawley, Hawley. Info: 570-226-4835. DEC. 8 DIY Birdfeeders 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Spend the morning putting together your own unique & custom bird feeder from a variety of recycled materials. PEEC provides everything you need, but you are welcome to bring your own supplies. Registration & info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.

DEC. 6 Girls’ Night Out 6–9 p.m. Milford. Have a fun evening out with friends as businesses extend their hours, staying open from 5 until at least 8 p.m., to offer product samplings, free classes, complimentary refreshments, prize drawings & special sales in stores. Info: milfordpa.us/event-directory/. DEC. 6 Wayne Choralaires concert “Caroling, Caroling!” 7:30 p.m. Ladore Conference Center, Waymart. Sacred & secular holiday songs. No admission fee. Freewill offering accepted. Info: 570-253-2782. DEC. 7 PCDC Craft Store Holiday Open House Noon–2 p.m. The Pike County Developmental Center, Milford. Hand-crafted gifts for all occasions. Complimentary refreshments & desserts served. Proceeds benefit The PCDC participants. Info: 570-296-6319 or pcdc14@gmail.com. DEC. 7–9 20th Annual Hawley Winterfest Hawley. A grand & beloved celebration of the season for all ages. Numerous activities & events. Hawley’s homeowners, innkeepers & shopkeepers alike display their small-town holiday spirit & finery. Info: 570-226-4064 or hawleywinterfest.com or Facebook.

DEC. 8 Deck the Halls Holiday Lodge Tour 10 a.m.–Noon. Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station & Environmental Education Center, Lake Ariel. Celebrate the season with a hike to the Adirondack Great Camp. Afterward enjoy hot cocoa at the historic Watres Lodge. Wear comfortable shoes & dress for the weather. All ages welcome. Registration appreciated. Info: 570-689-9494. DEC. 8 Centerpiece Workshop 11 a.m.–5 p.m. Adam’s Hardscape/Excavation & Christmas, Honesdale. Come to the barn to create your own holiday centerpiece. Cost includes assortment of mixed greens, berries & pine cones, & base for 1 large centerpiece. Each session starts on the hour. BYOB. Must RSVP to 570-251-0050 or adamshardscape@gmail.com with number in your party & time you request to attend. DEC. 8–9 Christmas Campfire Noon Sat.–3 p.m. Sun. Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Get cozy by the lake for s’mores, hot

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EVENTS chocolate (kid & adult version), & music. Free s’mores to kids 12 & under. Info: 570-226-4388. DEC. 8 Holiday Music 1–3 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Celebrate the season with holiday favorites performed by Andy Anderson. Info: 570-226-4620. DEC. 8 Ecozone Discovery Room! 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. No registration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. DEC. 8 Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Festivaltown happening filled with music, art, comedy & community support. Info on Facebook. DEC. 8 Milford After Dark Downtown Milford. Extended shopping hours, gallery events, live music & diverse dining options. Info: www.milfordpa.us. DEC. 8 Open House Holiday Party 6–11 p.m. The Waterfront at Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Enjoy dinner & dancing. Reservations: 570-226-4388. DEC. 8 Square Dance 7–9 p.m. Pine Mill Community Hall, Equinunk. The Pine Mill Stump Jumpers provide live music for a square dance. Beginners are welcome. Info: 570-224-8500. DEC. 8 Ugly Sweater Party 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Fun, festive Ugly Sweater Party with live music & prizes for the best of the worst ugly sweaters. No cover.

DEC. 8 & 9 Holiday Artisans’ Fair 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Art on the Edge hosts the juried arts fair as part of Hawley Winterfest. Info: 855-795-7455 or hawleysilkmill.com. DEC. 9 Winter Ecology Hike 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Learn how different plants & animals survive the winter. Hike & experience PEEC in the wintertime. All ages welcome. DEC. 9 Holiday Brunch with Santa & Show 11 a.m.–4 p.m. The Waterfront at Silver Birches Resort, Hawley. Brunch with Santa & a show. Reservations: 570-226-4388. DEC. 9 “Print & Sip” with Carol Mainardi 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Will teach you how to use mono-color to create your own, personalized cards. Bring friends & BYOB for a fun time. Take home cards that you can share with your family & friends. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. DEC. 9 Shake Up Your Holidays — Cooking Class 2–4 p.m. Boiler Room, Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Mill Market Bakery’s new cooking class series. Shake Up Your Holidays during Hawley Winterfest with demos of five original & unique holiday cocktails with food pairings. Hands on mixology includes cocktails. Reservations & info: 570-390-4440. DEC. 9 Wayne Choralaires concert “Caroling, Caroling!” 2:30 p.m. Central United Methodist, Honesdale. Sacred & secular holiday songs. No admission fee. Freewill offering accepted. Info: 570-253-2782. DEC. 9 Performance Music: “Empty Stocking Fund Benefit Concert” 7:30 p.m. Houlihan-McLean Center, The Universi-

DEC. 8 Annual Cookie Walk and Craft Fair 9 a.m.–2:30 p.m. Jefferson Township Vol. Fire Co., Mount Cobb. Homemade cookies sold at $7.99/pound. Proceeds benefit the volunteer fire company. There will be plenty of craft items for sale as well. Info: 570-689-2829.

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EVENTS DEC. 12 Travel the World with Food: Irish 5:30 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Culinary Book Club 2018: share recipes, food tastings, book discussions, food blog, surprises. Info & registration: Elizabeth, ewilson@waynelibraries.org or 570-253-1220. DEC. 13 Chaos Wire Wrapping with Bernice Craft 3–5 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn how to “chaos” wire wrap. Create your own unique pieces of jewelry. Bring jewelers pliers (no teeth). Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.

DEC. 9 7th Annual Holiday Artisans’ Market 11 a.m.– 4 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Showcases the work of many talented artisans of the Upper Delaware Region. You’ll find a selection of unique handcrafted gifts for friends & family. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.

ty of Scranton. Featuring The Scranton Brass Orchestra, The University of Scranton Singers & the Scranton Prep Cavalyrics. Admission: one new unwrapped toy, new toiletry items or a cash donation. Info: 570-941-7624 or music@scranton.edu.

December 10–December 19 DEC. 10 Breakfast with Santa 8 a.m.–1 p.m. Lake Ariel Fire Hall, Lake Ariel. Breakfast buffet & omelette station. Info: 570-698-5340. DEC. 10 Holiday Movie Night 4 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. With cookies & cocoa. Info: 570-253-1220. DEC. 11 Watercolor Workshop with Cynthia Hanson 2–4 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. All skill levels welcome. Participants learn style & technique, & leave with a one-of-a-kind painting. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.

DEC. 14 Sheila Jordan 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. An evening of lovely jazz as the legendary Jordan wows listeners with over 40 years of musical expertise. BYOB. Reservations & info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 15 Deck the Halls Holiday Lodge Tour 10 a.m.–Noon. Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station & Environmental Education Center, Lake Ariel. See description at Dec. 8. Info: 570-689-9494. DEC. 15 Chocolate & Beer Tasting with Moka Origins & Wallenpaupack Brewing Co. 4 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Must be 21+. Take a break from the hustle & bustle of the holidays for a special evening sampling luxury chocolate & craft beer. Reservations required: 570-253-2020 info@thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 16 River Revels — A Winter Solstice Event 1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Delaware Valley Opera. Be part of a new holiday event along the river. A Revels Pageant-performance based on the winter solstice traditions of Medieval times. Bring the kids & sing along. Tickets available online or by calling 845-887-3083. DEC. 17 Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild 6:30 p.m. Honesdale Community Church, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters all ages & skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com. DEC. 19 Acoustic Bluegrass Jam 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Led by Ron Penska. All levels of players are welcome. All instruments are welcome, too, but leave your amps at home —

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EVENTS this jam is entirely acoustic. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.

December 20–December 30 DEC. 20 Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Play from a selection of games or bring your own game to share & teach. All ages welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 21 Professor Louie & The Crowmatix Holiday Party 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Beginning as the studio backing band for Aaron “Professor Louie’s” musical productions for the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Inductees, their repertoire is steeped in American roots music. Reservations & info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 22 A Contra Dance 7:15 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Live music by Poison Love, with caller Laurie B. Beginners welcome, no experience necessary. Caller Laurie B. will do a beginner lesson starting at 7:15 p.m. Kids under 15 free. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. DEC. 27 Vacation Nature Camp: Snow Survival 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Grades 3–5 only. Animals survive, can your camper? Learn the secrets to winter shelters & fire building. Registration & info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. DEC. 27 & 28 Winter Wanderers Nature Camp 9:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary Field Station & Environmental Education Center, Lake Ariel. Ages 7–10. Learn how the living things survive the winter while having fun in the great outdoors. Bundle up to hike through the snow looking for signs of life, play cooperative games with winter themes, & warm up with cocoa & exciting interactive projects & crafts. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. DEC. 28 Vacation Nature Camp: Winter Wings 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Grades 3–5 only. It’s fight or flight for our feathered friends. Campers will search for winter snow birds & create bird feeders for home. Registration & info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.

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DEC. 27 “Paint & Sip” with Arielle Sekula 6:30–9:30 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. “Paint & Sip” on slate a special winter scene. BYOB & friends for a fun-filled evening. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.

DEC. 29 Alcohol Ink with Jane Brennan 1–3 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Work with alcohol ink to create three very unique tiles. Check sign up page for additional paints. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. DEC. 31 NYE Masquerade Ball 8 p.m.–1 a.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Ring in 2019 with a New Years Eve Masquerade Ball. Live music in The Undercroft & farm-to-table stations. Bring your mask or use one of theirs. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993. DEC. 31 NYE Dinner at Settlers 8 p.m.–1 a.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Ring in 2019 with the traditional holiday dinner. The dining room will be elegantly set. Live music by Dan Bradley. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993.

New Year’s Day JAN. 1, 2019 New Year’s Day Brunch 11 a.m.–2:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Prix fixe menu. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993.

Happy New Year from all of us at CM!

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