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FEATURES ROOTS & RHYTHM HEADLINER: THE SADIES

The cover of The Sadies’ new album is a powerful image of the northern lights made by photographer David Kilabuk in Pangnirtung, Nunavut, a sight few of us will ever get to behold with our own eyes. Yet the awe-inspiring natural beauty and mystery captured in the photo are an ideal reflection of the music contained within.

PARKINSON’S: A CHILD’S PERSPECTIVE

ADDICTION IS LIKE AN AMUSEMENT PARK

Michael J. Fox and Muhammed Ali have become the faces of Parkinson’s Disease since their diagnoses. Yet approximately one million Americans suffer from PD, and this number is expected to double in the next fifteen years. Like Fox and Ali, all people suffering with this horrific disease have a story filled with their own triumphs and tribulations of PD, but without a celebrity platform, their stories remain unheard. The kids went to the amusement park because someone told them about it. The suggestion came from a friend’s older brother, or sister, or neighbor, or their own parent. They all gave it great reviews and how the kids would love it.

COLUMNS Cover Photo: Bobby Kyle & The Administers set to perform at Honesdale Roots & Rhythm – June 16th.

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WORDS FROM THE TEAM MUSIC IN THE PARK ARTS & ANTIQUES SHOW ARTISTS’ STUDIO TOUR DISASTER BLASTER LIVING GREEN MRS. DOGOOD ROOTS & RHYTHM SPREAD PRISON REFLECTIONS MONEY

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BOOK REVIEW BUSINESS PROFILE POCONO SECRETS CLASSIC CARS OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS PETS BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE LASER VISION AREA EVENTS

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president • publisher • editor in chief deborah bailey production manager meica drake account representatives barry weiss • dwight gregory editorial correction services kay marks assignment writer allison mowatt contributing writers fred cicetti, The Healthy Geezer terry mooney, Reflections of a Prison Inmate arthur middleton, MD, FAPA, Behavioral Medicine michael krupa, Finance josh sheard, Finance terri schlichenmeyer, Book Review la guzda, Pocono Secrets arnie milidantri, Classic Cars bill deaton, Outdoor Ramblings pike/wayne conservation partnership, Living Green

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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risks and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.

In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007

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WORDS FROM THE TEAM

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Life is one grand, sweet song, so start the music. –Ronald Reagan

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une is the month of music in our area. And CM loves music! So in this issue we bring you an array of all the GREAT TUNES our area has to offer. From the Honesdale Roots & Rhythm Music & Arts Festival to the Milford Music Festival and all the ones in between, they will surely fill your summer with entertainment, excitement and lots of family fun. Other highlighted events include the Wayne County Arts Alliance's Studio Tour and the Honesdale Women’s Club Art & Antique Show & Sale. Plus don’t miss two great articles for your home, everything you need to know about asbestos and OMG–Odor, Mold & Germs. And a Pocono secret... check out Old School Farm for some pizza and music. Hope to see you around tappin’ your toes and whistling a tune! CM Team 570.647.0085 cmag@ptd.net

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R&R HEADLINER

â&#x20AC;&#x201C;By Jason Schneider

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Headliner Set for Honesdale Roots & Rhythm Music & Arts Festival – June 16th The cover of The Sadies’ new album is a powerful image of the northern lights made by photographer David Kilabuk in Pangnirtung, Nunavut, a sight few of us will ever get to behold with our own eyes. Yet the awe-inspiring natural beauty and mystery captured in the photo are an ideal reflection of the music contained within. No further embellishment seems necessary. That’s been the essence of The Sadies’ story ever since the quartet comprised of singer/guitarists Dallas and Travis Good, bassist Sean Dean and drummer Mike Belitsky first exploded onto the North American scene 20 years ago. Back then there was still something called “alt-country,” a catchall for artists striving to carry on traditions with punk rock attitude. The Sadies certainly fit that description, but the breadth of their skills and musical knowledge was unparalleled since a group of fellow Torontonians left Ronnie Hawkins in the mid-‘60s to take a job backing Bob Dylan. As the aurora borealis shifted with each album The Sadies made, the overall picture took on more defined colors. On top of that was the incredible list of collaborations—Neko Case, R&B legend Andre Williams, The Mekons’ Jon Langford, Jon Spencer, Robyn Hitchcock, John Doe, Buffy Sainte-Marie, Gord Downie, Neil Young—each one pushing The Sadies’ own sound into new, unmapped territory. Eventually, more time was taken in between albums as focus shifted to their original songwriting, and what was once the best live band in Canada became the best band in Canada, period. Is it fair then to call Northern Pas-

sages their masterpiece? Yes, at least until the next album comes along. With “Riverview Fog” setting a haunting tone off the top, the sense of time collapsing is palpable. The psych-folk touches are no mere homage; this is the sound of our inscrutable world, and how we manage to survive in it. The song began as a letter to their friend Rick White, whose contributions, both musical and visual, have played a huge role in The Sadies’ story. Although White wasn’t involved with Northern Passages, embedded within “Riverview Fog” is hope that White will return to the fold. Conversely, other friendships are on display, specifically the track “It’s Easy (Like Walking),” sung by Kurt Vile who became a convert after touring in support of The Sadies years ago. Without a second thought, he laid down his vocal part in the midst of his own grueling tour schedule. It’s one of the album’s standouts to be sure, but resides in the shadow of Northern Passage’s centrepiece, “The Elements Song.” Perhaps never before has everything The Sadies do best been harnessed in the span of five minutes. And perhaps fittingly, it was the starting point for Northern Passages when the band convened at the home of Dallas and Travis’ parents north of Toronto to record throughout

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R&R FEATURE HEADLINER STORY the winter of 2015, with Dallas once again handling production duties. “That was the first song I wrote for this album, and it was completely an extension of our last record, Internal Sounds,” Dallas Good says. “It took the longest to write and took the longest to record, so in a way it gave the record this daunting feeling.” However, Dallas is quick to note that Northern Passages contains several humourous moments, albeit of the extremely dark variety he’s known for. One is the album’s most overt “country” song, “God Bless The Infidels,” a scathing takedown of religious hypocrisy perfectly suited to our current social climate. Although Dallas has never proclaimed any political allegiances in his work, there are times like now when reality checks such as this are absolutely necessary. As Dallas has found his songwriting voice over the last several albums, so too has Travis on Northern Passages. That’s evident on the tracks “Through Strange Eyes,” “Questions I Never Asked” and “As Above, So Below,” some of Travis’ strongest material yet. “I always want to hear Travis perform songs that show what he’s capable of,” Dallas says. “He did that all over this record, especially the three songs on which he sings lead.” The overall group mentality of huddling in a basement for several months, Big Pink-style, actually led to some parallels to the 2004 project The Unintended with Rick White and Blue Rodeo’s Greg Keelor. Northern Passages’ hazy

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instrumental “The Noise Museum” would have fit nicely alongside that record’s deep woods psychedelia, while closing track “The Good Years” (containing among other killer lines, “He haunted her before he was dead”), is a prime example of the “northern gothic” approach The Sadies have all but patented. Despite the eclecticism at the heart of The Sadies’ sound, Northern Passages’ main strength is a cohesiveness that gives it a more consistent feel overall. Dallas credits this in part to recording with no time restrictions or distractions, and, significantly, by returning to the same space where he and Travis first started playing in bands. “We had nothing to lose by trying to make the record down there, and we weren’t sure if anything good would come out of it,” he says. “But removing any unfamiliar elements allowed us to focus a lot better. My parents’ basement turned out to be my favorite studio yet.” Given all their associations and tireless touring regimen, it can seem at times as if The Sadies are everywhere, all the time. Yet they are a band that fans cling to like a closely guarded secret, with each new release fulfilling the promise to reach further, for all of our sakes, not just their own. With Northern Passages, the time has come to make room for more on this wild acid-folkcountry-punk trip, and trust me, we’ll be better off because of it.

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WCCAC FEATURE STORY

hat do the close harmonies of a men’s chorus, the swing time memories of a big band, fiddle music and some old time rock ‘n’ roll have in common? They all are to be seen and heard on the Wayne County Creative Arts Council’s stage this summer. For the 51st year the WCCAC will be presenting free entertainment and music for friends, neighbors and visitors in Honesdale’s Central Park. Beginning on June 11th the concerts will fill the park with a diverse lineup of entertainment every Monday and Thursday at 7:30 until the last week of July The traditional kickoff to the season is the Northeasters Barbershop Chorus, whose nostalgic harmonies may bring back a few memories. Big band tunes may also touch a chord with those of us oldsters in the audience. For a more modern take on music the Jazz Assassins will riff on some familiar and some not so well-known tunes. Always a crowd pleaser, Fiddlin Around, a splinter group from The Old Time Fiddlers, brings some bluegrass and country tunes to life. The Wayne Choralaires has some of Wayne County’s finest voices serenading us under the stars. Black Sage and Bob Tellefsen share the stage on June 28th. Both are new to WCCAC’s lineup.

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Independence Day will be celebrated a little early on Monday, July 2nd with two bands, food, novelty and craft vendors and activities for the children. The festivities begin early at 6:30 with the Dixieland All-Stars and at 8pm the Crystal Band of Scranton lead us into the fireworks around 9:30. The fireworks are in conjunction with the Greater Honesdale Partnership. The rain date will be Friday, July 6th at the same time. The second half of the concert season includes The Barn Cats, the perennial favorites, the Irish Balladeers, Wayne County’s own The Pharm, and Rock and Rollers Flashback. Better get to the park early for a good seat for the popular Old Time Fiddlers on July 19th. July 23’s band will be announced soon. Joe Stanky and the Cadets finish off the season. Food and beverages, as well as homemade ice cream will be available. So come early, bring a chair or blanket and prepare to relax and enjoy an evening under the stars in beautiful Central Park. In case of inclement weather, listen to the local radio station for the rain location. Information will also be posted on the Wayne County Creative Arts Council’s Facebook page.

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ART & ANTIQUES

Women’s Club of Honesdale 56th Annual

Art & Antiques Show & Sale

or the 56th year on the weekend of July 14 and 15, 2018, the Women’s Club of Honesdale is sponsoring a wide array of antique dealers selling jewelry, silver, linens, cut glass, coins, primitives, fine porcelain, pottery, furniture and all types of unique collectibles. Also regional artisans will be selling and demonstrating their art work. On Saturday Lyle Turner will be entertaining with his player piano. On Saturday and Sunday Harry DeVries will be working at his caning and Robert Lehmann will be on site to do repair work on any type of glass, old or new. Again this year Maggie Winchester from Winchester Auction in South Sterling, PA will be providing her appraisal services; limit five items at $5 per item.

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The show is held at the Wayne Highlands Middle School, 482 Grove Street, Honesdale, PA, on Saturday, July 14 from 10-5 and on Sunday from 10-4. Admission is $6 or $5 with copy of the ad or flyer per person. There will be slices of homemade pie available to purchase along with sandwiches, quiche, hot dogs and assorted beverages. The Wayne County Hospital Auxiliary will again be selling items at the Attic Treasures, and the Salvation Army Ladore Camp and Conference Center will be presenting information on their facility. All proceeds from this event are used to support the club’s scholarship program and donated back to the community to local organizations. For more information please visit www.womensclubofhonesdale.com or call 570 224-6240.

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WCAA STUDIO TOUR

Artists' Studio Tour T

he Wayne County Arts Alliance is excited to invite all to attend our 2018 WCAA Artistsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Studio Tour on July 6,7.8 at studios around Wayne County and our headquarters at The Cooperage Project 1030 Main St. Honesdale. Free and open to the public July 6, 7, 8 10am - 6pm each day. This is our 16th annual Artistsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Studio Tour. The tour provides an opportunity to meet Wayne County's established and emerging artists in their studios. Something for everyone! Paintings, sculpture, jewelry, lamps, stained glass, ceramics, collage, photography, and more original artwork of all kinds. We encourage you to start your tour at our headquarters at The Cooperage Project, 1030 Main St. Honesdale, where you can view a sample of art from each tour artist and talk with our docents to help you plan your tour. Visit one or all 13 locations. Our studio tour artists for 2018 are: Bill Westmoreland, Alan Wood, Naomi Teppich, Ellen Silberlicht, Matt Povse, Paul

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Plumadore, Richard Miller, Bozena Janiszewski, Suzannah Hadorn, Korilynn Grady, Sue Stephan Foster, Chip Forelli, Alan S. Forde, Denis Folz, Elaine Flynn, Jerry DeCrotie, H. Dennis Christie, Elizabeth Castellano. The Artists Studio Tour is the premier event which was the catalyst for establishing the WCAA. The tour gives the public a rare opportunity to visit with the professional artists who call this area their home. Here is your chance to meet the artists and discuss their philosophies, inspiration and working techniques while viewing their most recent collections of artwork. And if you see something you want to own, take advantage of the artist's studio pricing. Don't miss this opportunity to visit Wayne County's diverse and talented artists right in their own studios. Our 2018 WCAA Studio Tour Brochure with map and detailed artist information is available at The Cooperage Project and other area businesses and visitors centers, and online at waynecountyartsalliance.org.

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PARKINSON’S

–By Sophia Solano

ichael J. Fox and Muhammed Ali have become the faces of Parkinson’s Disease since their diagnoses. Yet approximately one million Americans suffer from PD, and this number is expected to double in the next fifteen years. Like Fox and Ali, all people suffering with this horrific disease have a story filled with their own triumphs and tribulations, but without a celebrity platform, their stories remain unheard. Parkinson’s Disease is is a neurodegenerative disorder that affects predominately dopamine-producing neurons in an area of the brain called the substantia nigra. By attacking motor skills, PD affects nearly every area of daily life, from basic tasks like writing and cooking to relationships with friends and family members. Receiving a Parkinson’s diagnosis does not only change the life of the patient – it molds a new perspective for every person who loves that patient. PD certainly can strain relationships, but in spite (or maybe because) of the trials it brings, many children of parents diagnosed with the disease feel their parental relationships have improved.

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“If it’s possible, we are closer. I am closer with my mom, and I am closer with my dad,” said the daughter of a mother with PD. “We fight together. We help each other through the obstacles and hurdles that are thrown to my mom. But this is her battle. We are her supporters!” Children of people with Parkinson’s face personal battles alongside their parents – different battles, but certainly not less complicated ones. A father was diagnosed with Parkinson’s when his daughter was seven years old. “Back when he drove, my dad would drive me to school,” she said. “I remember the other kids made fun of the way he walked and shook. They would call him names.He often forgot where he was and who people were. I remember listening to him scream at night and shake all the time.” “At first I was scared and upset,” said a man whose mother is a “Parkinson’s warrior”. “It seemed like one of the strongest people I knew was ‘sick’. I didn’t know how to address it, or if to address it.” Many children have noted that their first step in handling their parents’ disease was

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research. “After I digested the diagnosis, I read a lot to find out as much as I could. I know my mom; she was doing the same thing. Knowledge is power.” Another important step to acceptance (for family members, friends, and people with PD themselves) is finding a venue in which honest and helpful discussions are held. There are now two Parkinson’s support groups in the area: Milford area Parkinson's support group in Port Jervis, NY and Good ShepherdWayne Memorial Inpatient Rehabilitation Center in Honesdale, PA. There are also countless online support groups on the Web sites of the national Parkinson's disease organizations, as well as state and local support group sites. There are many treatment options for symptoms of Parkinson’s, ranging from dance classes to the most common medication, levodopa. There is, however, not currently a cure for Parkinson’s. As a community, one of the best ways to aid the fight against Parkinson’s is to donate to research organizations. The 4th Annual Pocono FoxTrot 5K for Parkinson’s Research will be held on Saturday, June 16, 2018, at Ann Street Park in downtown Milford, PA. This year’s goal is to raise $50,000 for the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research. Immediately after the run, there will be an after-party with free food, music, and a gift basket raffle. Visit the resource fair and learn about local resources for Parkinson's patients and caregivers. Register for the run/walk, donate online, or send checks payable to Pocono FoxTrot 5K, Box 2776, Gold Key Lakes, Milford, PA 18337. If you or a family member suffers from Parkinson’s Disease, remember you are not alone in your fight. As more people are diagnosed, the larger the PD community grows, and the closer we are to a cure. And the best advice from the child of a mother with Parkinson’s Disease? “Make jokes. Keep it light. Learn as much as you can. Make Jell-O. Don't let them take the photos.”

4th Annual Pocono FoxTrot 5K Saturday, June 16, 2018 Ann Street Park, Milford, PA.

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ADDICTION

Addiction Is Like An Amusement Park By Kyle Dubensky

he kids went to the amusement park because someone told them about it. The suggestion came from a friend’s older brother, or sister, or neighbor, or their own parent. They all gave it great reviews and how the kids would love it. Once there, inside the amusement park, the ride closest to the entrance looked mild and fun. Simple. Usually free of charge. The kids loitered about in indecision, thinking the whole thing over. They had heard that somewhere in this place was the dragon rollercoaster, but that it is way in the back someplace far off. The kids get on the ride. It’s a small ride, but some of them end up sick, and a few of them leave the park. The others have such a laugh that they do it again. When they are on the ride, they don’t think much of anything. “It feels good to spin around and feel alive,” they say. The ride operator reminds them they can leave at any time. The kids say, “We’re having such a good time. Any other fun rides here?” The ride operator smiles and sizes them up one by one. He tells one to check out the gun blast game, one to check out the dancing lady show, and one to try the next ride. The kids go their way. They are a bit nervous and a bit excited. They go deeper into the park. They can leave at any time, but now they don’t want to. They stay all night. One ride after another. One show after another. One game after another. They meet for some cotton candy and swap stories. They boast and belittle each another’s feelings. Then more rides. Different rides. They stick together now because they have heard stories about this place. Bad sto-

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ries. But those bad things only happen in the very back of the park, usually on the dragon rollercoaster. “We will only go so far as we can still see the exit gates of the park,” they vow to one another. They do the biggest ride they can find while still remaining in sight of the exit. The ride proves frightening. They decide to leave. As they get closer to the exit, they find the gates are locked. “Well, no matter. We’ll hang out on the first ride like we used to until the gates open,” one of them says. And so they spin on the ride, but it’s just not as fun anymore. They ask the ride operator, “Is this all the ride can do?” The ride operator says, “Yes, but the rides in the back are where the real fun is at.” “Isn’t that where the dragon rollercoaster is?” they ask. “Yes,” replies the ride operator. “But you kids are probably too young and yellow-bellied for that.” “No, we’re not,” the kids reply. “And besides, if we don’t like it we can always leave.” The ride operator smiles. Morning has come and the gates to the amusement park are now open. However, the kids are now thinking about the rides in the back. “Let’s stay awhile longer and try the remaining rides. We might as well do them all before we leave,” says one of the kids. “All except the dragon rollercoaster for me,” says another.

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“I’m going home,” says the third. And he does. But as he walks away through the exit, he hears over his shoulder the ride operator say, “You’ll be back. They all come back.” A few years pass. The kid who left the amusement park grew up. He had gone to school and had saved money by working an honest job. One day, he received a call. It was one of his old friends. The old friend said, “Remember the three of us, long ago, having fun at the amusement park?” “Yes,” he replied. “I wish we would have left with you that day,” said the old friend. “I wish we never went there in the first place,” he replied. “Remember our other friend?” “Yes.” “He’s dead. He wouldn’t get off the dragon rollercoaster, and now he’s dead.” “And you? How are you? Did you ever make it out?” “Sort of. I am a ride operator now, but I don’t go on the rides. There are always new rides coming out and lots of new kids in line for them.” “You should tell them to go home to their parents and do school and work.” “I never tell them anything. I let them do as they please.” “But kids don’t know what’s best for themselves. We didn’t. We thought we did, but we didn’t and now one of us is dead.” “Are you ever coming back?” “No.” “Not even for a visit? Just one ride?” “No. I live a good life today and it started the day I left the amusement park.”

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TIPS FOR YOUR HOME

Where Do You Find

Asbestos? Provided by Disaster Blaster

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Almost everyone has heard of asbestos, but do you know what it is? Do you know if you have asbestos in your home? Do you know where to look?

What Is Asbestos? Asbestos is a naturally occurring fibrous mineral that has been used in construction materials ranging from siding to acoustical texture, and though no longer used in most consumer products, it was commonly used in building components up until 1989. Homes built before 1989 could have some form of asbestos.

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Where Do You Most Commonly Find Asbestos? Though asbestos has been used in many building materials over the years, for the sake of this story, we are focusing on 3 of the most common areas where we find asbestos in residential properties. Vermiculite Insulation â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Vermiculite itself is not asbestos, however in some

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cases, asbestos was mistakenly mined along with the vermiculite itself, resulting in some vermiculite being tainted with asbestos. Floor Tile – Asbestos was used in both the floor tile itself as well as the black "mastic" glue used when installing these tiles. Asbestos tiles were commonly 9" x 9", but were also available as 12" x 12" tiles. Generally black "glue" under the tiles is a good indicator of asbestos in either the tiles themselves, the mastic glue, or both. Tiles in good shape may not need to be removed, however be wary of tiles that are breaking apart, deteriorating, or otherwise becoming friable. Pipe Wrap – In basements, asbestos is very commonly found in the form of pipe wrap, which was used to insulate pipes, or a thermal spackle-like compound used on boilers and other high-heat components. Over time, these types of asbestos insulation tend to fall apart, allowing the asbestos fibers to become airborne. Any Asbestos Pipe Wrap or TCM (Asbestos Thermal Spackle) in poor condition should be professionally removed to prevent

inhalation of these unhealthy fibers.

Can Just Any Contractor Remove Asbestos? No. Most states, including Pennsylvania, require that contractors removing asbestos or asbestos containing materials be properly licensed by the state. Licensing ensures that those performing this work have undergone proper training and are able to take the necessary precautions to prevent exposure to occupants. A list of Licensed Asbestos Abatement Contractors is available on The State of Pennsylvania’s DEP site. About Disaster Blaster Disaster Blaster is an indoor environmental firm serving the Northeastern PA Area. Licensed by The State of Pennsylvania to perform Asbestos Abatement (License #: C0693A), we have been provided our local area with unparalleled water damage mitigation, mold remediation, asbestos abatement, and radon mitigation services for decades, we are proud to have been recently named The World’s Greatest company providing such services. For more about Disaster Blaster, as well as more helpful tips, please visit our website at: www.disasterblaster.com or call our office at (570) 963-1123.

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SPOTTED LANTERNFLY: Look Before You Leave By Sarah Hall-Bagdonas, Program Manager, Northern Tier Hardwood Association

After a long winter, there is no better time to get outside and enjoy the outdoors. Whether you are hitting the trails locally, or traveling to your favorite camping spot or waterbody, it’s important that you “look before you leave.”

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With spring also comes the emergence of the usual pesky insects, but there is a new threat to consider. People in southeastern Pennsylvania are bracing for infestations of spotted lanternfly, an invasive pest from Asia that appeared for the first time in the United States in Berks County, PA nearly four years ago.

Risks and Reactions At stake are Pennsylvania's grape, treefruit, hops, hardwood and nursery industries, which generate agricultural crops and forest products worth more than $18 billion annually. The spotted lanternfly also causes damage to high-value ornamentals in home landscapes and can affect quality of life for area residents. After its discovery in 2014, the PA Department of Agriculture imposed a quarantine regulating the movement of plants, plant-based materials, and outdoor household items out of the quarantine area. Originally covering parts of Berks County, the quarantine now encompasses

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Spotted Lanternfly

13 counties, including Monroe County and points south. There are several universities and agencies studying the insect, developing control strategies, and educating local leaders, growers and the public about what to do if they find spotted lanternflies or their eggs. The goal is to stop the pest's spread, and ultimately to eradicate it. Enlisting the public is crucial to controlling lanternfly populations.

Information and Cooperation We need to work together to ensure that citizens and businesses don't unwittingly carry lanternflies or their eggs to other areas. Spotted lanternflies are great hitchhikers, and they will lay eggs on a multitude of outdoor objects, such as cars, RVs, campers, plant materials, and other items that could be transported out of the quarantine area. To raise awareness, agencies are using the slogan, “Look before you leave,” emphasizing the need to inspect vehicles and other items before traveling out of a quarantined area.

Knowing what the insect and egg masses look like and destroying any that are found is an important control tactic. The pest does not attack fruit or foliage, but uses its piercing-sucking mouthparts to feed on the woody parts of plants, such as grape vines and the trunks and branches of trees. It excretes a substance known as honeydew and inflicts wounds that weep with sap. The honeydew creates fungi such as sooty mold, which can stunt growth. Plants with heavy infestations may not survive. This pest is complex and takes a multitude of approaches to control, so it’s important to “look before you leave” as you enjoy the outdoors.

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For more information or to view an event schedule for upcoming lanternfly informational meetings, please contact the Northern Tier Hardwood Association at 570-265-7753 or nthardwoods.org.

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MRS. DOGOOD

MISS UNDERSTANDING By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Dear Editor, My husband Dr. William A. DoGood is a brilliant musical scholar and organist having earned his Ph.D. at Bellingshire University in Sussex, England. However, Willie, as I call him, is incompetent when it comes to making flyers to promote his concerts at our church. But I still love him. He is the organist and choir master at The First Church of God’s Love in the farming hamlet of Halo, PA and I am the senior pastor. Every story has a beginning. This one begins when my thirteen year old son Toby DoGood was signed up to be a model with the international modeling agency US Limited. Toby is extremely handsome with his dark hair, ocean-deep blue eyes, fine features and athletic physique. He was discovered one weekend when a principal of the New York City agency was visiting friends in Halo, PA which is only two and a half hours from the city. Toby was mowing the church’s lawns on our tractor when he was discovered. Willie and I thought deeply about whether we should allow Toby to become a model. After several family meetings we agreed. Toby wanted to do it, and we thought any money he might earn would help pay for his education. It became time for his first photographic session. I agreed to take Toby into the city. I was taking him to US Limited’s headquarters in Midtown to meet the executive vice-president and partner who discovered him. After that we would go to another floor to have pictures taken. Finally we would go downstairs to their M&A department where we would meet the very creative professionals who would develop the agency’s marketing and advertising opportunities for Toby. The timing was perfect. I could bring flyers into the city to promote Willie’s upcoming concert at our church. Willie loves Henry Purcell, the English seventeenth century baroque composer who is considered by many to be one of England’s greatest. The work Willie most admires is Purcell’s The Fairy Queen, a semi-opera which is an adaptation of Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream. Working with an early-music band from our local university, Willie was presenting excerpts from the opera for the first time in our county, maybe even in the state. Willie’s flyer simply read “Let’s Celebrate The Fairy Queen, Saturday April 14th, 7:00 pm,

Refreshments, The First Church of God’s Love, One Paradise Lane, Halo, PA” I posted the flyers everywhere: the parking garage in Chelsea; all of the bulletin boards on three floors of US Limited; the deli on 8th Avenue where Toby and I had lunch and quite a few parking meters on 9th Avenue. The night of the concert arrived. I stood at the double doors of the church to greet the audience. I watched as many zipcars from NYC parked in our parking lot and on the church’s lawns. “My goodness, Manhattanites like Purcell.” Women in their finest and most outlandish outfits emerged from the NYC rental cars. But only women. Big and tall women. “Where’s the party?” I was asked by a beautiful NYC woman in sequins and six inch heels. “It’s not a party. It’s a concert.” “But the flyer said we were going to celebrate fairy queens. With refreshments.” “This is a performance of excerpts from Purcell’s opera The Fairy Queen.” After discussing it with her friends, all of the New Yorkers decided to stay. The following morning even though I was exhausted I held Sunday church services as usual. After the service, Miss Myhill, a long time parishioner and cat lover, pulled me aside. “Last night I sat next to a nice woman from NYC. She had a strange name; I think it was Ms. Cinnamon Spread. She said she was ‘pre-op’. What does that mean?” I told her. “Cinnamon enjoyed the concert and wants to come back.” Willie’s flyer was brilliant after all. One can purchase CDs of Purcell’s music but one can’t purchase fellowship, respect and community. We invited and welcomed new people to our congregation, and they want to return. Amen.

The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love

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Prison Reflections

“Down the Rabbit Hole” By Terry Mooney

Part I

his young man carries a bright, pleasant expression that immediately engages others. He has a fresh face and open demeanor that masks an early life of untold physical pain and despair, yet he is determined to realize his dreams.

My Story I was born in New Jersey but moved to the Poconos as an infant. One of six kids, I’m next to the youngest. All told, there were an even three girls and three boys. I looked up to my mom more than anyone. That’s because my dad, even though he owned his own fencing business, would drink all day and continue at night. So he really did not interact with the family. My mom worked at a school for special needs all day, then came home and took care of us. She also went to college at night, once my older siblings could watch us. For the most part, all of us did sports like the swim team, and my brothers and I did really well in football. I started working as soon as I could, getting my driver’s permit at the age of fifteen. I got a job as a life guard, rotating from pools to the beaches. One day my partner and I were sitting on the lifeguard post watching the water when I noticed a ten year old boy bobbing up and down, choking and spitting and waving his arms. I yelled “Oh my God, that kid is drowning!” Throwing off my shirt and whistle, I grabbed the buoy, jumped in the water and pulled him back onto shore. I felt great. They even put it in the local paper! I always had a job, so I always had money. Once I got my driver’s license, I bought my own car, paid for the insurance and everything. When I was about seventeen, my father was in a hospice, but I got to see him before he died at only fifty-six. He had been a Marine, and while he was drinking he would tell me stories about being overseas and meeting different people, the uniforms and medals, and his sheer pride in being “Number One.” So at seventeen, I enlisted. After boot camp in Parris Island where I learned to do the “3 Ss” in about 250 seconds, I was shipped off to Camp Lejeune where I was in the school infantry, waiting to be deployed to Hawaii. I was part of a team called Mortar Man Assist, carrying an 80 pound base plate and firing tube, extremely heavy equipment. This went on for about five months when suddenly I started bleeding internally that also involved severe abdominal pain. I was sent to a field hospital where they diagnosed me with ulcerated colitis. One day, I ate a burger bun with sesame seeds and an hour later I thought I was going to die. So after about eight months as a Marine, they had to medically discharge me because it is an incurable condition. I couldn’t even fathom not getting better, but I wasn’t. I couldn’t eat; I couldn’t leave the house; I could barely move. I had to crawl to the bathroom and even slept on the floor by the toilet. Each time I went to the hospital, they hooked me up to an I.V. filled with Delaudid. That’s the only time the pain subsided. Eventually, I became hooked, being given it from February to July. Since the steroids and antibiotics were not helping, they put me on a really toxic cancer medication called Mercaptopurine with serious side effects, but miraculously it was the one thing that put it in remission. Since I’d lost all my savings, lost a really good job and lost my fiancée, I also lost all hope for the future. I was in a hole I believed I could never crawl out of, so I just (To be continued) decided to stay there.

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Money

The Heightened Importance of Beneficiary Naming Four steps same-sex couples should take to help ensure your intentions are honored

o one enjoys thinking about the day when they or a loved one will pass away. But if you care how your estate will be dispersed after you’re gone, it’s a topic you need to consider. And for same-sex couples, it can be more complex than for others. Fortunately, there’s a way to ensure that your intentions to leave your assets to your partner are honored — regardless of where you live or your relationship status: Clearly name your beneficiary.

How to take action If you’re concerned about your account beneficiaries, the following are a few steps you can take for increased peace of mind. #1) Talk to your bank about making your accounts pay-on-death (POD). You can choose to make any banking account — typically checking, savings, and certificates of deposits (CDs) — a POD account. This step ensures that the only person to receive the assets from your accounts after your death is the person you name as the POD beneficiary. It’s a straightforward process that involves completing a bank-provided form. Usually, there are no fees for this and no limitations on the amount of money that can be designated POD.2 #2) Contact your Financial Advisor about transfer-on-death (TOD) securities registration. Nearly every state has adopted a law

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based on the federal Uniform Transfer-onDeath Securities Registration Act. Like the POD process, this allows you to name the person you want to inherit your brokerage accounts, stocks, and bonds.3 Your financial advisor can guide you through TOD registration. Then, be sure to regularly review your beneficiaries to determine if changes are needed. That review is especially important since TOD or POD beneficiaries trump any distribution that might be listed in a will, according to Deborah Lauer, Wells Fargo Advisors vice president, wealth planning strategist, and Certified Financial Planner™ practitioner. Lauer also cautions that the TOD option may not always be the right strategy. “This option should be addressed with your estate planning attorney, who can discuss your goals, net worth, types of assets, and specific beneficiary needs,” she says. “And it’s always important to coordinate estate planning documents, asset titling, and beneficiary designations.” #3) Check your retirement accounts. When you first opened your retirement accounts, such as a 401(k) or IRA, you probably completed a beneficiary designation form. However, this step can be overlooked, particularly during retirement plan account transfers between employers. So it’s essential to review all paperwork to make sure it’s complete. If you need to make a change, notify the account administrator. It’s also a good idea to stay abreast of changing beneficiary designation rules. For instance, the 2013 Windsor decision changed how qualified retirement plans must treat legally married same-sex cou-

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ples. Now, if one partner in the marriage wants to leave a 401(k) or pension to a nonspouse beneficiary, such as a child from a previous marriage, the current spouse must provide written consent. #4) Reach out to experts. Inheritance rights can be a complex issue. That’s why it’s a good idea to reach out to financial professionals who have studied the nuances. An excellent resource is our company’s team of financial advisors. Our firm does not offer legal or tax advice. 1. Inheritance Law and the Evolving Family, by Ralph C. Brashier, Temple University Press, published January 2004 2. “Pros and Cons of Payable on Death Accounts,” by Adam Vukovic, LegalMatch.com 3. A Legal Guide for Lesbian & Gay Couples, by Denis Clifford, Emily Doskow and Frederick Hertz, NOLO Publications, June 2014, 17th Edition This article was written by/for Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network and provided courtesy of Michael J Krupa, Krupa Wealth Management, LLC. In Honesdale, PA 570-253-0121 Investments in securities and insurance products are: NOT FDIC-INSURED/NOT BANK-GUARANTEED/MAY LOSE VALUE Investment products and services are offered through Wells Fargo Advisors Financial Network, LLC (WFAFN), Member SIPC. Krupa Wealth Management, LLC. is a separate entity from WFAFN. WFAFN uses the trade name Wells Fargo Advisors. © 2015-2017 Wells Fargo Financial Network, LLC. All rights reserved. 1216-02848 [99166-v2]

Naming matters To further safeguard your interests, it’s also important to: Create a written will, which legally defines who should inherit your property and other assets that do not have beneficiary designations.1 Execute durable powers of attorney for financial matters and healthcare decisions. These documents give whomever you choose the legal power to act in your place for financial and healthcare issues should you become unable to — especially critical if you are not legally married.2 You should also consider executing a living will, outlining your wishes for life-sustaining medical treatments. More information: American Bar Association, http://www.americanbar.org and Caring Connections, http://www.caringinfo.org, a program of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization.

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Book Review YOUR NECK BONE’S CONNECTED TO YOUR BACK BONE.

the mystery surrounding Abraham Lincoln’s assassination. You’ll see if Vincent Van Gogh And that’s a good thing. You want to be the really chopped off his own ear. You’ll read most together person around, in more ways about how old hair follicles offer new clues than one. No sense in having your body parts to disease and genetics. Find out why you lying scattered when you really need them all should be glad you never dined with William in one place. Disconnection could be a probBuckland; why people might collect body lem, as you’ll see in “They Lost Their parts; how vampire killers were basically Heads!” by Carlyn Becright in their weird cia. ideas; why bumpy So you’ve lost your heads were once imporplace in a book before. tant indicators of moral You’ve lost your character; and how you thoughts in class. You can gaze today upon might’ve lost your the face of a woman glasses or gloves, but What Happened to Washington’s who died more than have you ever lost your Teeth, Einstein’s Brain, and Other 120 years ago… arm or leg or worse? Before you hand Famous Body Parts” Throughout history, it’s “They Lost Their happened, and it wasn’t Heads!” to your teen, pretty. there’s one thing you Take, for instance, need to do: turn to page George Washington. 69 and read the footWhen he was a note at the bottom. The young man, Washingwarning is a little late, ton was prescribed but heed it if your child medicine that was bad has tender feelings and for his health, and his a weak stomach. teeth all fell out. These You’ll be glad you weren’t baby teeth that did because, while this would be replaced; they book is funny and as were adult teeth, and so lighthearted as the subhe had to have denject can get, it’s not for tures. Legend says his the squeamish. Instead, new teeth were woodauthor Carlyn Beccia en, but the truth is tells page after page of much more disgusting. don’t-read-this-beforeAnd then there’s Ines lunch tales that will de Castro, a beauty who gross a right-minded fell in love with the kid out so delightfully wrong guy. She lost her well that he’ll absolutelife, but she got the ly have to come back throne anyway, years for more. Skulls, magBy Carlyn Beccia after her death. gots, and skeletons rule Reviewed by Once, there was a here, but so do historiTerri Schlichenmeyer time when it was cool cal events and authento have someone’s skull tic science. sitting around in your living room, and misBe mindful that, while they don’t diminish takes were made when putting that noggin the eeeeeuuuwwww factor, edgier footnotes back with its rightful owner. Accidents hapin this book lean it more toward big-kid readpen, too, just as they did with Phineas Gage, ers. So beware, but know that if your 11-towho had an iron rod blasted through his cra16-year-old loves that which is gruesome, nium. “They Lost Their Heads!” will make him lose In this book, you’ll read about odd burials his mind. and strangely-used coffins. You’ll learn about

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The Gunny system attacks the mold with a powerful spray and breaks through and kills molds like Cladosporium, Penicillium, Alternaria, Aspergillus in minutes. The final step is to take preventive measures to ensure it will not return with our mold resistant paint. This approach has earned us many endorsements for saving customers thousands of dollars to eliminate mold, germs and viruses. Years after the hurricane disaster flooding of the Susquehanna area, our customers are reporting no mold has returned. Our faithbased partners that we assisted in the clean-up report our products saved close to a billion dollars in homes. In addition to our five star rated services, we offer DO-IT-YOURSELF KITS. The kits were developed to tackle smaller mold issues and to rid the home or work place of germs, especially during cold and flu season. The DIY kits are economical and come with our hospital grade disinfectant cleaner. Most come with a battery powered sprayer and a Rita’s magic bullet odor controller. The kits and products are available at www.OMGKIT.com Native American Environmental Technologies, LLC has the solution for all of your mold, odor & germ problems. Call today at 570-8579494. Reference to any commercial entity or product or service on this page should not be construed as an endorsement by Connections Magazine, its products, or its services. All information included in this article was supplied by the manufacturer.

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Old School

K i ck i n ’ I t O L D SCHOOL By LA Guzda

ne of my favorite finds last year was Old School Farm. I heard a few folks talking about it, so when I had company visiting for the weekend, I thought we’d check it out. We loved it so much, I took more company the following two weekends! What is the Old School Farm? Well, it’s a farm. But it’s a farm that built an earthen oven and on Friday nights – beginning in May and through October, they offer wood-fired artisan pizzas. The menu presents three or four different pies with a choice of crust, including spelt and gluten-free. All the sauces and topping ingredients come from the farm. They are grown organically in a fertile river-bottom soil that produces some amazingly intense flavors. The oven

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was made from local raw materials and is fired with local hardwoods for optimum flavor. They provide live music, seating under the pavilion or under the stars around the bonfire. It’s very family friendly. You are welcome to bring your own appetizers and drink of choice. They plan to serve salads, soups and desserts this year, which will be their third year. They also have produce and flowers from the farm available for purchase, when available. It’s a charming location even if it’s a little bit of a challenge to find on your first-time visit. But it is well worth the effort. Pies cost $12 ($13 for spelt), and they are the size of a dinner plate. Pizza is available between 5:30 – 9:30pm. Reservations are not necessary but plan to be patient,

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especially at peak times (6p-8p). It’s an experience. Kick back, relax, drink in the fresh air, enjoy the music and gaze up at the stars. It reflects the clean, green natural environment we live in, along with socializing with good folks. Old School Farm dates to the 1800's and was a family dairy and vegetable farm for generations. They chose their name for two reasons: The previous owner of the farm was a teacher at the single room school house that once stood across the Dyberry Creek, and they believe in doing things in an "old school" old-fashioned way. They are located at 303 Upper Woods Road in Honesdale. I love this place so much I was reluctant to write about it because I don’t want it to get too busy. But it’s too good to keep secret, and I hope they thrive and keep doing it for years to come. Perhaps they will add Saturday nights and even Sunday afternoons? It’s also a great venue for your wedding, private party, corporate gathering or whatever reason you need to meet for a great shared event. You can find them on Facebook @oldschoolfarmpizza or at www.OldSchoolFarm.com.

Other Events this Month: The Pocono Mountains Music Festival is expanding into Honesdale, June 15, 7:30pm, at The Cooperage with NY’s award-winning cabaret, You’ve Got A Friend: Music of the Brill Building. Visit www.PoconoFest.org for details. Growing Lackawaxen is hosting, TAKE A WALK ON THE WILDSIDE with Nathaniel Whitmore. Saturday, June 16th - 10a - 11:30a. www.LackawaxenTownshipPA.gov Follow us on Instagram @PoconoSecrets and on Facebook @PocoPike. Visit www.LAGuzda.com or www.PoconoSecrets.com for past articles. Do you have a Pocono Secret to share? Send an email to: PoconoSecrets@aol.com

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Classic Cars

1941

Buick

Convertible Phaeton By Arnie Milidantri

If you’re a car enthusiast the summer months are a special time! The opportunities to attend several car shows or participate in well-planned cruises are usually the prime events for the season. However, one of the less formal and fun things to do is gather your sweetheart or grandkids and head to your favorite “ice cream “ stand. You may be the only car or meet up with a couple of other classic owners, but it is always great fun and an excuse for a cool treat! On a recent hot night during my Florida trip, I stopped at a local ice cream stand and came upon a group of ice cream-seeking car owners. There were about 8 or 9 of them. I was told they meet at a different ice cream stands throughout the year to both socialize and talk cars. The excitement of this evening’s meet was the first-time showing of the latest purchase of one of the group members, Chuck Johnson, a beautifully restored black 1941 Buick 4 door convertible Phaeton. The car was purchased only the week before from an estate by Chuck and is featured in this month’s article. 36 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |

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Background

Featured Car

1941 was the last year for the 4 door convertible phaetons made by all the car makers. Originally introduced in the mid-1930’s as a more comfortable alternative to the open touring car, the convertible sedan soon faded from public favor. After 1940, the model all but disappeared, except at General Motors. In 1941, GM offered them in three marque lineups, Oldsmobile, Buick and Cadillac. They were based on a common understructure but given marque-specific sheet metal where necessary to preserve each product line’s unique targeted market. They were a rare breed, disappearing after World War II halted production. Not until Kaiser and Frazer’s tentative effort in 1949 to 1951, did the convertible sedan return, reaching significant levels only with the legendary Lincoln Continentals of 1961-67. Based on low market demand, GM reduced the number of available Buick convertible sedan phaeton models in 1941 to the Super model 51C and Roadmaster model 71C. Production was limited to 467 domestic Supers and 312 Roadmasters. About 50 others were shipped overseas. Priced at $1,550.00 and $1,750.00 respectively, they were $300.00-$400.00 more than the 2 door convertibles or the closed models. To help justify the cars’ high price, the convertible sedans came with all the options; leather interior, radio with vacuum fender antenna, under seat heater, defroster and white sidewall tires. Supers were powered by the 248 cubic inch 125 hp straight eight Fireball Buick engine. The big news at Buick in 1941 was compound carburetion. Standard on upper series and optional on Specials, it used a pair of two-barrel carburetors. The front carburetor functioned all the time, each barrel feeding four cylinders. The rear carb with only a float system and jets came into play during acceleration and at high speeds, when its barrels worked in parallel with those of the front carb. The system was used in 1941 and 1942 only. The power passed smoothly through a threespeed manual transmission (column mounted shifter to give unobstructed legroom for three up front), coil spring independent front suspension, live rear axle with coil spring suspension and four-wheel hydraulic drum brakes. A 126’ wheel base added to a very smooth ride. A new unique feature was a two-way hood that could be opened from either side or easily removed completely.

The beautifully restored black 1941 Buick Super 51C convertible sedan Phaeton is one of only 467 produced. The car’s gorgeous ebony black paint, brilliant chrome and trim, stunning red leather interior, perfect black hartz cloth top, smooth 248 cu in 125 HP straight eight with the rare compound (dual) carburetors, AM radio with power antenna, fender skirts, rare oval fog lights, bumper guards, bumper ends, dual side view mirrors, wide whitewall radial tires, give witness to a truly outstanding professional restoration. I am told the car runs and drive as beautifully as it looks! Chuck’s Buick is an excellent example of a special time in of country’s automotive history.

Owner Chuck Johnson retired to the sunny state of Florida in 2008 after a career at Chrysler Corporation. Florida offers car enthusiasts one great benefit, “year round cruising and shows”. Chuck has always loved cars and has owned several classics throughout the years. He enjoys his car and the camaraderie of the hobby. If you happen to be in central Florida and visiting the Villages community, you just might bump into Chuck, at either an ice cream stand, at one of the monthly community car shows or just cruising around enjoying the sun and his great car!

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Outdoor Ramblings

Annual Odyssey on the River By Bill Deaton | williamjdeaton@yahoo.com

he Delaware River, over last decade, has given me an abundance of adventure. In one style of watercraft or another, from drift boats to paddleboards, I’ve traversed that waterway from Lordville to Shawnee and a few other spots as well. Nothing, however, is quite like the Delaware River Sojourn. Now in its 24th year, the eight-day trek encompasses sections of the Upper Delaware Scenic & Recreational River, the Delaware Water Gap National Recreation Area, parts of the Lehigh River and Canal, and ends with stretch near Easton. Sojourners pitch camp each night beginning in Equinunk, then move downstream, ultimately ending up in Bordentown NJ. Each leg of the trip varies in distance, and there are several programs held in conjunction with the stops. Some sojourners spend just a day, others a weekend, and some are in for the whole. Any way one chooses to participate, it’s a unique experience. Taking into the unofficial commencement, the annual river clean-up leg, the Sojourn is actually a nine-day event. This year’s trip starts a bit further upriver than in some years past and will take voyagers through some great sections.

Friday, June 15: 1 PM to 5 PM Volunteer River Cleanup: Buckingham to Lordville (4 mi) Camp opens Friday Evening at NEWE Campground, Equinunk, Pa. Saturday, June 16: NEWE Campground to Callicoon, Pa. (9 mi) Sunday, June 17: Callicoon to Narrowsburg, N.Y. (13 mi) Monday, June 18: Lackawaxen River, Pa. Tuesday, June 19: Worthington State Forest, N.J. to Driftstone on the Delaware Campground, Mt. Bethel, Pa. (11.4 mi) Wednesday, June 20: Driftstone to Talen (PPL) Martins Creek, Pa. through Foul Rift Rapid (9.2 mi) Thursday, June 21: Riegelsville, N.J. to Giving Pond Recreation Area, Upper Black Eddy, Pa. (9 mi) Friday, June 22: Giving Pond Recreation Area to Bulls Island, N.J. (10.4 mi) Saturday, June 23: Crosswicks & Watson Creeks & the Delaware River at Bordentown, N.J. (8 mi)

At $80/day for adults (over 15) and $50/day for children (15 & under), the Sojourn may seem pricey. However, a paddler gets guides, two or three good catered meals a day, the shuttle service, and camping each night. Add to that daily programs along the way or in camp, it’s a bargain if one can go with the flow of 75+ paddlers and the schedule. While most participants choose to use their own craft, boat rentals are actually included in the price as well. With one livery charging $64 for a kayak rental, shuttle, and campsite, put into perspective $80 for that plus the guides, food, and programming, the Sojourn is a good deal. For more information and registration visit www.riversojourn.com or phone 646205-2724. www.connections-magazine.com

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Pets

8Day Trips Unique Pet Friendly

in Pennsylvania

s one of America's oldest and historic states, Pennsylvania is full of culture and adventure. Home to small mountain towns and huge industrial cities, PA delivers the best of both worlds to anyone looking for a fun and unique day trip. Since trips are always better with a fourlegged companion or two, we put together a list of 10 trips you and your pooch can do together in Pennsylvania!

Promenade Shops, Center Valley Everyone loves a good shopping trip, so take your four-legged friend along and make it a great day! The Promenade Shops are pet friendly in all community areas, and dogs are welcome in all stores marked with their bright red "Dogs Welcome" sticker. After a day full of shopping, fill up at Melt during summer and spring months to enjoy lunch on their covered outdoor patio.

Beau's Dream Dog Park, Lancaster Beau's Dream Dog Park truly is a dream for you and your pooch. Separated into areas for

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smaller and larger dogs, both sides offer a full day of fun. Beau's has water fountains, tunnels, and even a tree that launches tennis balls for fetch! After working off all that energy in Lancaster, head down to the Lancaster Brewing Company for dinner on their petfriendly outdoor seating.

Bushkill Falls, Bushkill Bushkill Falls or the "Niagara of Pennsylvania" is a great adventure you can share with your pup! With 8 beautiful falls and trails for hiking, you and your pooch can get lost in all of the beauty they have to offer. Once you conquer all the trails, take a trip to neighboring Stroudsburg and enjoy a meal together at Jock and Jill's Irish Pub.

Black Moshannon State Park, Philipsburg A beautiful state park located in central Pennsylvania which offers pet friendly campsites, trails, and even canoe and kayak rentals. Most pet friendly areas are marked with paw prints and the park supplies clean up bag along trails. When you finish exploring Black Moshannon State Park together grab lunch at the parks Camp Store and concession stand and eat on their pet friendly picnic tables outside.

Liberty Bell National Park, Philadelphia Roam around historic Philadelphia and visit memorable sites such as the Liberty Bell.

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The Liberty Bell National Park is pet friendly at all of its outdoor areas, and an awesome experience to learn some history with your pup. Grab lunch after your day at the Continental Mid-Town on their outdoor seating.

Lehigh Gorge Railway, Jim Thorpe A scenic train ride through the beautiful wild of Pennsylvania is what Lehigh Gorge Railway has to offer. The trip is pet-friendly, and on some rides, they have special guests or treats for your to enjoy! When the rides over grab a brew and some food at Molly McGuire's Pub and Steakhouse.

Crossing Vineyards, Newtown

Jamie 12 year old Miniature Pinscher. She is very sweet and spunky for her age and gets along with other dogs. She would love a comfy couch to snuggle up with someone every night.

Everyone loves a good wine tasting, especially if the winery is award winning! But what makes all that better is Crossing Vineyards welcomes you to bring your pooch along for the day. Wine and your four-legged friend is a win win situation for a day trip. When you've learned all you can about the wines, travel 15 miles to Doylestown and enjoy some lunch on the pet friendly patio at Honey.

Gettysburg National Military Park, Gettysburg Stroll around the historic lands of the Gettysburg National Military Park with your four-legged companion. Dogs are welcome on the grounds, excluding cemeteries. Soak up all the history and enjoy the day learning about the famous battles with your pooch. After your day, share an ice cream at Bruster's Real Ice Cream in Gettysburg at their outdoor seating. About TripsWithPets.com TripsWithPets.com is the premier online pet friendly travel guide -- providing online reservations at over 30,000 pet friendly hotels & accommodations across the U.S. and Canada. When planning a trip, pet parents go to TripsWithPets.com for detailed, up-to-date information on hotel pet policies and pet amenities. TripsWithPets.com also features airline & car rental pet policies, pet friendly activities, a user-friendly search-by-route option, as well as pet travel gear.

Puss In Boots 4 year old orange male tabby cat. He is good with cats, dogs, children and is litter box trained. He has been here for over a year and is very affectionate and would love a forever home of his own!

Available for adoption at Dessin Animal Shelter! Call 570-253-4037.

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BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE

Work-Life Imbalance and...

Stress! By Arthur Middleton, M.D., FAPA

“We live longer than our forefathers, but we suffer more from a thousand artificial anxieties and cares. They fatigued only the muscles; we exhaust the finer strength of the nerves.”

~Edward George Bulwer-Lytton

tress is defined by the MerriamWebster Dictionary as “a force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part.” However, we generally associate stress with the definition that we have all experienced: “a physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension and may be a factor in disease causation.” There is also a general association to issues that are commonly related to stress; financial pressures stemming from unemployment, work, or chronic illness as examples. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, in March of 2014, the number of unemployed Americans was 10.5 million or 6.7%. There is no question that unemployment is a major stressor that can result in a significant psychological impact that affects the mental health of those so affected. The inability to find gainful employment in order to support oneself or a family disrupts the emotional stability of both. Recent tragic events have also led to a heightened focus on stress that is caused by specific circumstances. The NIMH (National Institute of Mental Health) has highlighted the psychological consequences of the Gulf oil spill, which occurred on April 20, 2010 in the Gulf of Mexico. The NIMH identified three different types of stress that result in physical and mental health risks. There is routine stress, which we can all identify with; pressures of work, family and other daily responsibilities. A second type of stress is the result of a sudden negative change, such as losing a job, divorce, or illness. A third type of stress occurs in which there is traumatic event, such as a car accident, with loss of life, war, or a natural or man-made disaster which

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results in complete disruption of one’s life. The Gulf oil spill continues to impact those who have not been able to return to work as their livelihood was forever affected. The NIMH has noted that widespread loss is associated with significant distress and serious mental health conditions. While there are work settings that provide financial and emotional satisfaction, there are many individuals who experience both stress and unhappiness in their work. The following fictional clinical vignette is presented to highlight another aspect of stress related to work. JT is a 57 y/o married mother of two teenaged children. She is a registered nurse. Her husband is a physician. JT has worked in settings that have involved care to elderly patients for much of her professional career. Most recently she was a nurse supervisor in a long-term geriatric unit in a hospital. She enjoyed her work and was committed to working long hours but always managed to spend quality time with her family. Her husband, a physician, is a primary care doctor in private practice. Most recently JT had to take a leave of absence to care for her elderly father, who has dementia. Her mother died of cancer several years ago, and her father, now in his eighties, deteriorated in his ability to care for himself. JT felt the need to become his primary caregiver so he could remain in his own home as long as possible. Money has not been a problem. JT decided to care for her father five days a week, during the day, hiring part-time health aides for the evenings and weekends. Initially this worked out, and JT felt that she was doing what her mother would have expected of her. But after five months, she found the situation to be draining and unfulfilling. JT had always been a perfectionist. She felt

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that she had to keep her father’s home clean, so in addition to the physical care she provided for her father, she also spent a fair amount of her time cleaning and cooking. Increasingly, she began to find it difficult to comprehend how she had taken on this enormous responsibility. Her father’s dementia worsened to the extent that he frequently did not recognize her and never expressed any appreciation for the work and sacrifice that she was making, at the expense of quality time with her own family, to care for him. When her father would sleep during the day, JT would often become bored. She acknowledged that she was unhappy and at times didn’t like her father, afterwards feeling guilty for these thoughts. While her husband was busy in his own practice, she rejected any recommendations he made with regard to placing her father in a nursing home. JT felt she had to fulfill her mother’s expectations that she would always care for her father. She began to feel that if she didn’t take care of her father, she was a bad daughter. JT became increasingly isolated, spending weekends at her father’s home and taking on more responsibilities for the care of her father. When her father’s dementia worsened, she began to stay overnight. Her husband was concerned about his wife’s behavior and emotional well-being, insisting that she cut back her hours, and again encouraged his wife to consider nursing home placement. JT began to lash out at her husband, accusing him of being insensitive. Her husband grew increasingly concerned as he had never seen this side of his wife. Recognizing the impact of the stress, he encouraged his wife to see a psychiatrist. As it turns out, JT was thinking about this as well. On her own, she found a psychiatrist. As a nurse, JT had a preconception in regard to what the psychiatrist would do, believing that a psychiatrist would simply prescribe either an antidepressant or an anti-anxiety medication. However, JT was surprised when the psychiatrist told her that it was his opinion that she was experiencing “job burnout,” a condition that is a special type of job stress. JT did not realize it, but over the course of time, she had lost sight of what was expected of her. While she had good intentions in caring for her father, she had gradually succumbed to a situation that had resulted in a significant work-life imbalance. As her psychiatrist told her, she did not need medication; she needed to make some choices in regard to the care of her father and a “refocus” on what was important in her life.

Her therapy led to some changes in her husband’s work schedule as well. Watching his wife become completely absorbed into her “job” as a caregiver for her father was an eye opener to her husband. JT learned to deal with the guilt she felt in regard to not being a perfect caregiver for her father. As she and her husband had the resources, she made the decision to place her father in a senior care facility. While her father has experienced continued cognitive decline and no longer recognizes her, JT has a renewed focus on the importance of “balance,” and now she and her husband both work less and as a result, enjoy work more. Job burnout is a more common phenomenon than one would think. As the focus on the economy highlights the number of Americans who are unemployed, there is also emphasis on those who have jobs and want to keep them; working harder fearing they are expendable. Apart from dissatisfaction with work, leading to job burnout, there is also a lack of control. Fearful of losing one’s job, individuals might find themselves doing more than they had previously been hired or trained to do, resulting in a poor job fit. If the job consumes more of your day, leaving you exhausted by the end of your workweek, the result is a work-life imbalance. Job burnout can result in stress, fatigue, insomnia, and depression. Not surprisingly, this can lead to problems with substance abuse in addition to problems with general medical health, as well as an increased risk for suicide. Visit CM’s website for more on Stress. The following references are provided for the informed consumer: National Caregivers Family Association: Caregiver Action Network – http://caregiveraction.org/ Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration: Getting Through Tough Economic Times http://www.samhsa.gov/economy/ U.S. National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health: Managing Stress – http://www.nlm.nih.gov/ medlineplus/tutorials/managingstress/htm/index.htm Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania.

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Laser Vision

HERE’S LOOKING AT YOU By Dr. Frank A. Bucci, Jr.

{ LASIK now? If not, when? } D

on’t create excuses in order to postpone a life-altering experience. Many people assume they’re not candidates for LASIK because they’ve heard a variety of myths or are confused about the procedure or may not understand their own visual challenges. LASIK has been approved by the FDA since 1998. ( that’s 20 years ago!). Thanks to modern medical advancements, today, most people are candidates for LASIK, or other surgical options, such as premium lens implants. Why delay the potential to enhance your vision when a free, fully dilated, LASIK evaluation performed by Dr. Bucci, will determine if you are a candidate? Many chose to have LASIK to improve their appearance, free themselves from the inconvenience of glasses and contacts, improve their selfesteem, as well as correct their vision. While everyone appreciates seeing clearly, certain lifestyles and careers significantly benefit from clear vision without relying on glasses and contacts: Critical personnel: military, police, correctional officers, EMT and firefighters Active lifestyle: Snowboarders, surfers, rock climbers, mountain bikers, hunters and water sports. Contacts are not FDA approved for use in the water as they pose a risk of infection due to potential contamination from bacteria and other microorganisms.

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Parents and Caregivers: the peace of mind being able to respond quickly to assist your child or loved one. In addition to learning if the procedure is right for your vision, there are also options to pay for your procedure. These include financing through a health care financing company, or using a flex spending account. Some financing plans give you up to five years to pay off the procedure, others offer 24 months interest free financing to those who qualify. The IRS considers LASIK to be a taxdeductible medical expense. While you might have to exceed a certain percentage of your income, the procedure may help you reach that amount. So don’t let your fears or financial considerations keep you from investing in your quality of life. LASIK can deliver great vision, making activities more enjoyable and eliminating the worry and frustration of losing glasses, as well as potential eye irritation and infections related to contact lens use. Have more questions or concerns? Now’s the time to attend one of Dr. Bucci’s educational seminars or simply schedule your free LASIK evaluation by call 1-877-DR-BUCCI.

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EVENTS

Y O U

ENTERTAINMENT

ARTS

RECREATION

a+r+e JUN ’18

THE AREA’S GOOD STUFF

C O N N E C T E D

TUESDAYS

Ongoing Events DAILY

Art-a-Pelago Loose Leaf Pages, Black & Brass Coffee Co., & D.J. Harvey Agency, Honesdale. One art gallery in three locations (Thasos-LesvosParos). Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY

Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Dime Bank & Wayne Bank, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Harvey Insurance, Honesdale, & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work monthly. DAILY

Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. DAILY

Kids Art Display Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Artwork created by students from all over Monroe County is featured in a month-long exhibit. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.

Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467. WEDNESDAYS

Wednesday Bog Walk 10 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life & more. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. WEDNESDAYS

Story Time 10:30–11:30 a.m. Pleasant Mount Public Library, Pleasant Mount. Bring your young children & grandchildren to the library for a fun-filled story time. Included will be crafts, games, songs &, of course, a story. Info: 570-448-2573 or www.waynelibraries.org. WEDNESDAYS

Lego Club 4:30–5:30 p.m. Pike County Public Library, Milford. Create, share ideas, make new friends. Free & open to the public, registration requested. Info: www.pcpl.org or Facebook. Registration: 570-296-8211. THURSDAYS

Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net.

Writer’s Retreat 10:30–11:30 a.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Writing seminar — share ideas, memories & life experiences in written words. Limited to 12 participants. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org.

TUESDAYS

THURSDAYS

WEEKLY

Teen Club 3:30–5:30 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Hang out, play games, socialize. Info: 570-226-4620 or www.waynelibraries.org. TUESDAYS

Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@qmail.com.

Thursday Night with John Curtin 6–9 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Classic guitar playing & musical stylings. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com. THURSDAYS

Pub-O-Lympics 8–10 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. A combination of trivia & physical

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EVENTS challenges. Compete with your team to win a gold medal, gift certificate & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-4388. FRIDAYS

Job Search and Resume Assistance 1–3 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. A professional from Pike County Workforce Development is available. Info: 570-226-4620 or www.waynelibraries.org. FRIDAYS

Summer Sounds 7–10 p.m. Carbondale Grand Hotel, Carbondale. Live tribute bands every Friday Info: 570-536-6020.

JUN. 2

FRIDAYS

Money Grows on Trees

Live Music on the Deck 8–11 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com.

10 a.m.–Noon. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Hike to a recent timber harvest at the Sanctuary. Learn how you can manage your woodlot for ecological & financial benefits. After, enjoy light refreshments & learn about funding opportunities for land management & conservation. Wear sturdy hiking shoes & dress for the weather. Free. Registration appreciated. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org.

SATURDAYS

Saturday Family Story Time 11 a.m.–Noon. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Join Miss Melanie for a story, followed by a fun craft for the whole family to enjoy. Info: 570-253-1220 or www.waynelibraries.org. SATURDAYS

FREE Tastings and Demos Noon–2 p.m. Mill Market, in the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Info: 570-390-4440. SATURDAYS

Live Music 9 p.m.–1 a.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. SUNDAYS

Blues, Brews & BBQs 5–9 p.m. Glass-wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. Featuring a local craft brewery, lives blues music & BBQ-Style Outdoor Dining. Info: 570-226-1337 or ledgeshotel.com.

June 1– June 9 JUN. 1

Annalyse & Ryan 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Americana husband & wife duo combining deep Kentucky storytelling roots & the epic movements of the Atlantic Ocean in their songs. BYOB. Reservations & info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.

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JUN. 1–28

Art Exhibit: Nancy Pitcher, “The Beauty of the Natural World” 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Nancy has hiked, climbed & paddled a great deal in the mountains, deserts & rivers. Through her travels she has always appreciated the beauty of her natural surroundings, & shares that beauty with her oil & watercolor paintings. Opening reception: Jun. 2, 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Info: 570-629-3061. JUN. 2

Red Cross Blood Drive 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. To register or learn more about American Red Cross blood drives, visit redcrossblood.org or call 1-800-RED CROSS. Info: Barbara, 570-629-3060.

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Introduction to Blacksmithing 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Interested in learning about the trade of blacksmithing? Join William Barrett, of the New Jersey Blacksmiths Association, for a look at the history & basics of blacksmithing. Program includes live demos over a forge. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 2

Lard Dog 2 p.m. Tusten Theatre, Narrowsburg, NY. Lard Dog and his 6-piece Band of Shy perform an all-ages musical extravaganza that promotes positive messages of creativity,

Ariel. Free face painting for kids. Adults get free raffle ticket for basket of goodies. Info: 570-698-6154. JUN. 3

“Paint & Sip” Wine Glasses with Lauren Cernek 2–4 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn how to paint flowers onto a wine glass for later use. BYOB. Materials included in fee. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. JUN. 5

“Creative Watercolor Class” with Cynthia Hanson 2–4 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. All skill levels welcome. Mate-

JUN. 3 6th Annual Hawley Spring Run — A Race Against Suicide 5k Run/Walk Bingham Park, Hawley. 11:30 a.m. registration, 1 p.m. start. Timed 5k: trophies, medals. Music, refreshments, raffles, suicide prevention material available. Register online: eventbrite.com. Paper registrations available at Hawley Public Library & Scranton Running Co. Info: 570-689-3345. acceptance, & frivolity — with massive amounts of absurdism thrown in. Kids under 12 free with adult. Info: 845-252-7276 or delawarevalleyartsalliance.org. JUN. 2

Italian Terrace Party 6–10 p.m. Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. A popup restaurant in the Boiler Room of the Silk Mill. Seatings at 6 p.m. & 8 p.m. Reservations: 570-226-1337. JUN. 2

RiverFolk Concert: Marc Black’s History of the 1950’s & 60’s 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by RiverFolk Concerts. New York Blues Hall of Fame inductee takes you on a musical tour through these two historically defining decades, including a slideshow that’s sure to slide you right back in time. BYOB. Reservations & info: 845-252-6783 or riverfolkconcerts@frontier.com. JUNE 2–3

Jethro Giraffe’s Birthday Celebration Claws ’N’ Paws Wild Animal Park, Lake

rials included in fee. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. JUN. 5

Our Happy Hour 5:30 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Jest for the health of it. There are over 14,000 things to be happy about. Got a joke to tell or a funny story to share? A happy heart is sure to heal what ails “you more.” Info & registration: Elizabeth, ewilson@waynelibraries.org or 570-253-1220. JUN. 6

Taste of Wayne County 11 a.m.–2 a.m. Bluestone Bar & Grille, Honesdale. Open for lunch & dinner. Your meal supports the Wayne County Historical Society. Large groups encouraged to make reservations. Info: 570-253-0338. JUN. 9

Bird Fest 8 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Learn about what makes birds so special. Lots of fun

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EVENTS activities, games & bird walks, banding demos & the bird call competition. Info: 570-629-3061. JUN. 9

Arts & Crafts Fair 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Bingham Park, Hawley. Approximately 100 artists & crafters with truly unique handcrafted items, including jewelry, baked goods, pet treats, clothes, fine art, photos, seasonal décor, candles, soap, face painting, hair bows, tutus, quilted items & much more. Live music in the park’s Gazebo from 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Food available. Free admission. Rain or shine. Info: 570-226-3191.

JUN. 9

Dave Brown & The Dishonest Fiddlers

JUN. 9

Bridge the Gap: Pond Paddle 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Paddle around PEEC ponds. Beginners welcome – learn everything you need to know. Dress appropriately; you may get wet. Free. Call to reserve a boat: 570-828-2319.

7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Up & coming Americana/Folk group from NE Pa featuring a fresh front-porch sound, clever & poignant original songwriting & plenty of pickin’ & grinnin’. BYOB. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.

JUN. 9

Sullivan Arts Grants Award Showcase 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Tusten Theatre, Narrowsburg, NY. Features four of the 22 local arts organizations grantees presenting excerpts of their funded programs, including film, music & performing arts. Free & open to the public. Reception follows the presentations, at the DVAA, Narrowsburg. Info: 845-252-7272. JUN. 9

Ecozone Discovery Room 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. No registration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 9

Mini Photo Sessions 11 a.m.–2 a.m. Gina Lenz Photography, Honesdale. 20-min. session includes 8" x 10" portrait. Benefits Wayne County Public Library. Call to schedule: 570-253-4040. JUN. 9

Italian Dinner 4–8 p.m. St. Pat’s Church Annex, Milford. Penne ala vodka, chicken marsala, sausage & peppers, lasagna & ziti, meatballs marinara, spaghetti & sauce. Mini Tricky Tray drawing at 8 p.m. Children under 5 eat free. Proceeds benefit Pike County Humane Society. Info: 570-296-7654 or pikecountyhs@gmail.com.

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JUN. 9

Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Festivaltown happening filled with music, art, comedy & community support. Info on Facebook. JUN. 10

Summer Sketches: An Afternoon Concert Fundraiser with Bill Mays 2 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project & WJFF Radio Catskill 90.5FM. Mays is one of the top jazz musicians in the world & a prolific composer & arranger; his career spans the last 55 years & includes a multitude of musical endeavors. Proceeds benefit WJFF Radio. Concert tickets & patron tickets (including a reception with the artist) are available: wjffradio.org or brownpapertickets.com or 845-482-4141.

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June 10–June 19 JUN. 10

Frog Frolic 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Spend the afternoon at the PEEC ponds & streams. Learn about some of our frog friends as you gently catch & release the hopping amphibians. Wear boots & plan on getting wet & muddy. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 10

Sunday Bog Walk 1–3 p.m. Tannersville Bog, E. Stroudsburg. Environmental Educators explain the Bog’s formation, its interesting plant & animal life, & the role the local Preserve Committee & the Nature Conservancy play in its continued protection. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required & limited. Registration & info: 570-629-3061.

Travel the World with Food: Middle Eastern 5:30 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Culinary Book Club 2018: share recipes, food tastings, book discussions, food blog, surprises. Info & registration: Elizabeth, ewilson@waynelibraries.org or 570-253-1220. JUN. 13 & 14

SEEDS Presents: 2-Night DIY Solar Workshop 6–8 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. How it works & what it costs. On-site demo & hands-on practice. Includes an actual installation at Lacawac Sanctuary. All welcome. No experience required. Registration required. Info & registration: www.seedsgroup.net. JUN. 14

Stourbridge Pie: A Market Gathering Place 4–7 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Event

JUN. 11

Northeasters Barbershop 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Main rain locations: Grace Episcopal Parish Hall, The Cooperage or Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674 or Facebook. JUN. 10

Glass Paint & Sip Fundraiser 1–4 p.m. Dingman Township Fire House, Dingmans Ferry. Raffles, snacks, drinks, vendors. Proceeds benefit Pike County Humane Society. Pre-registration required. BYOB. Info: 570-296-7654 or pikecountyhs@gmail.com. JUN. 10

“The Carnival’s in Town” 2 p.m. Tusten Theatre, Narrowsburg, NY. The Sullivan County Chamber Orchestra performs Camille Saint-Saëns’ family-friendly The Carnival of the Animals, a humorous suite with fourteen movements, each representing a different animal. Kids under 12 free with adult. Tickets & info: 845-252-7272 or delawarevalleyartsalliance.org.

series strives to provide the greater Honesdale community with access to superb local agricultural products, artisanal goods, locally produced art & live entertainment. Live music by Janet Burgan. Free entry. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. JUN. 14

Romping Radishes 4 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. A healthy snack will be provided. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. JUN. 14

The Little Big Band 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Main rain

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EVENTS locations: Grace Episcopal Parish Hall, The Cooperage or Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674 or Facebook.

Wear comfortable footwear & bring your own equipment. Beginners welcome. Registration appreciated. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org.

JUN. 16

Pocono Fox Trot 5k for Parkinson’s Research Ann Street Park, Milford. Check in, 9 a.m.; starts 10 a.m. 5k run/walk, 1-mile walk, kids’ dash. After-party with food, music, raffles & resource fair. Registration & donations: PoconoFoxTrot5k.com. Benefits Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research. Info: PoconoFoxTrot5k@gmail.com.

Spectacular Precision: Duo Noire 5:30 p.m. Grey Towers N.H.S., Milford. Comprised of award-winning American classical guitarists Thomas Flippin & Christopher Mallett, the acclaimed duo plays classical & contemporary compositions. Info: 570-409-1269 or www.kindredspiritsarts.org.

JUN. 16

Bridge the Gap: Pond Paddle 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. See description at Jun. 9. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.

Bridge the Gap: River Paddle 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Paddle down the Delaware. Bring a lunch, a water bottle & don’t forget to dress for the weather. Extra water & snacks provided. Choose between a canoe or kayak. Preregistration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 16

Edible & Medicinal Plant Walk 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Nature provides food & natural remedies for us in the form of many plants. Join a hike focused on wild edible & medicinal plants. No collecting will be done within the park. Free. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 16

Nature Photography Workshop & Hike 1–3 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Learn the tricks of the trade & search for the perfect shot while joining professional photographer Michael Cuff on a leisurely hike.

JUN. 17

Ecozone Discovery Room 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. See description at Jun. 9. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 17

Spectacular Precision: Duo Noire 4 p.m. Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Comprised of award-winning American classical guitarists Thomas Flippin & Christopher Mallett, the acclaimed duo plays classical & contemporary compositions. Info: 570-409-1269 or www.kindredspiritsarts.org. JUN. 18

Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild — New Location 6:30 p.m. Honesdale Community Church, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters all ages &

JUN. 16

13th Annual Honesdale Roots & Rhythm Music & Arts Festival Honesdale. Free music & arts event features Sour Bridges, The Whiskey Killers, Bobby Kyle & headliner The Sadies in Central Park starting around 1:30 p.m. Opens at 10:30 a.m. with local bands along Main St., then moves to Central Park, where you can enjoy arts, crafts, games & food. Bring a blanket or chair. Info: 570-253-5492 or ghp@visithonesdalepa.com or honesdalerootsandrhythm.com.

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EVENTS entirely acoustic. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. JUN. 21

Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Play from a selection of games or bring your own game to share & teach. All ages welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. JUN. 21

Wayne Choralaires Concert: “Sing! Sing” 7:30 p.m. Ladore Conference Center, Waymart. Show tunes, spirituals, patriotic songs. Info: 270-253-2782.

JUN. 21 Custom “Paper Trees” with Carol McManus 10:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Learn to think “out-of-the-box” in this class of paper folding & make a unique, decorative “paper tree.” Materials included in fee. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com. JUN. 18

Jazz Assassins 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Main rain locations: Grace Episcopal Parish Hall, The Cooperage or Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674 or Facebook.

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JUN. 21

Fiddlin’ Around 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Main rain locations: Grace Episcopal Parish Hall, The Cooperage or Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674 or Facebook. JUN. 22

BioBlitz 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Glen Run Preserve, Stroudsburg. Part contest, part festival, part educational event & part scientific endeavor that brings together scientists & the public in a race against time to count species of plants & animals that live at Glen Run. All activities at the BioBlitz are free. Registration & info: 570-629-3061. JUN. 22

Salute to Summer 4:30 p.m. Dorflinger-Suydam Wildlife Sanctuary, White Mills. Fundraising dinner on the grounds to honor Jim & Donna Labar. Museum & gift shop open until 5:45 p.m. Buffet dinner at 6 p.m. Cash bar. Silent auction all evening. Reservations: 570-253-1185 or suydam@ptd.net or shop.dorflinger.org. JUN. 22

Spring Wine Dinner The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Info & reservations: 570-226-2993. JUN. 23

JUN. 20

Acoustic Bluegrass Jam 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Led by Ron Penska. All levels of players are welcome. All instruments are welcome, too, but leave your amps at home — this jam is

Geology Hike 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Hike on the Fossil Trail with Paul Kovalski, aka Dr. Dinosaur, as he discusses the geology of our area & what makes the park unique. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.

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EVENTS JUN. 24

Frog Frolic 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. See description at Jun. 10. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 24

Wayne Choralaires Concert: “Sing! Sing” 6 p.m. B.V.M. Queen of Peace Church, Hawley. Show tunes, spirituals, patriotic songs. Info: 270-253-2782. JUN. 25

Wayne Choralaires Concert: “Sing! Sing” 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Show tunes, spirituals, patriotic songs. Bring seating. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Rain location: Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: 270-253-2782 or Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674. JUN. 28

Unique Pathways Program Series 5:30 p.m. Hawley Public Library, Hawley. Michael Levine has worked as a garden designer in the public & private sectors for over 30 years, from celebrity clients to the Bryant Park restoration at 42nd St. in NYC to the gardens at the Settlers Inn in Hawley. He agrees with the Thomas Jefferson quote, that “Though I am an old man, I am still a very young gardener.” Hear about the path that led him to this fulfilling career. Info: 570226-4620 or www.waynelibraries.org. JUN. 28

Black Sage & Bob Tellefsen 7:30 p.m. Central Park, Honesdale. Wayne County Creative Arts Council 51st Summer Festival. Refreshments available. No alcohol allowed. Bring a blanket or chair. Main rain locations: Grace Episcopal Parish Hall, The Cooperage or Central United Methodist Church. No admittance fee. Info: Mitzi Kielar, 570-785-3674 or Facebook. JUN. 29 & 30

Annual Rummage Sale 9 a.m.–2 p.m. Damascus Manor United Methodist Church, Damascus. Sponsored by the United Methodist Women. Lunch available. Info: 570-224-4535. JUN. 29–JUL. 1

Celebration with a Bang Family Camp Weekend Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Bring friends & family to experience the best of what PEEC has to offer. Nature hikes, animal presentations,

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Milford Music Festival 11 a.m.–8 p.m. The tree-lined streets of Milford will be filled with the sound of music. Borough-wide sidewalk event offers music, shopping, dining & fun all over town. Thirty+ businesses participate, giving vistors a reason to experience Milford from one end of town to the other. Free. Info: milfordpa.us or milfordmusicfest@gmail.com. swimming, canoeing, fireworks, campfire & more. Child, commuter & day rates available. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. JUN. 30

Afternoon Paddle 2–4 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Enjoy a scenic afternoon canoe paddle on Lake Lacawac. Boats, paddles & life jackets all provided. Personal life jackets may be used. All ages welcome. Reservations required as spaces are limited. Meets at the Carriage House. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. JUN. 30

Pushing Creativity via Fast Sketch Illustration 2–4 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Arielle Sekula teams up with comic model, Ben Schack, for an “out-ofthe-box” creative art & quick-thinking sketch class. Materials included in fee. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com.

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