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FEATURES STAYING FIRE SAFE IN A HOTEL The kids are excited. It’s time for the long awaited trip to Grandma’s town. Or maybe it’s that meeting or conference in an exotic city. Holidays, vacations, business trips; they are all times when a hotel stay may be part of the equation. KEEP THE DOOR CLOSED It’s a phrase that makes the hair stand up on the back of your neck. The door almost became a character in that horror movie or perhaps the one about Zombies you watched last night. DO YOU HAVE A FIRE ESCAPE PLAN? Unfortunately, many people don’t realize how quickly a fire can spread through their homes. According to the National Fire Protection Association, only 1 of every 3 American households has developed and practiced a Fire Escape Plan. VETSTOCK: WHO WOULD’VE THOUGHT SOMEONE WOULD DONATE A HOUSE The keys to a house were officially presented to VetStock's founder Tom Ryan at Senator Mario Scavello's office in Tannersville by David Wengerd the donator of the house. STUDENTS FACE HEAVY ISSUES Opioids, bullying, suicide. Healthy relationships, yoga, career and personal readiness. All these topics were addressed head-on in this year’s Together for Health School Program for 7th and 9th graders in three area school districts.
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WORDS FROM THE TEAM EVERYTHING FIRE SAFETY MAPLE CITY JAZZ FEST DIABETES TASTE-IN MRS. DOGOOD PRISON REFLECTIONS LIVING GREEN MONEY BOOK REVIEW
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BRIDAL SPOTLIGHT POCONO SECRETS OUTDOOR RAMBLINGS CLASSIC CARS PETS BEHAVIORAL MEDICINE LASER VISION AREA EVENTS GOOD STUFF... TOWNS
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WHAT A DILEMMA To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk rejection. To place your visions before the crowd is to risk ridicule. To love is to risk not being loved in return. **To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. We may avoid suffering and sorrow, but we cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love or know GOD. Chained by our own self-assurances, we are a slave. We have forfeited our freedom. Only the person who dares to take risk and to trust in their GOD will ever be made FREE.
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In 1997, Rev. Edwin E. Bailey, father of the editor, gave this poem to his daughter 8 days before he had a stroke and 3 weeks before he died. The poem was adapted from works by Leo Buscaglia. Edwin hand wrote this on a scrap of paper and gave it to his daughter, Deborah, saying the words, “Someday you’ll understand these words and use them. God bless sweetheart.” **These words were used in making the decision to purchase Connections Magazine in 2002. CONNECTIONS COPYRIGHTED 2007
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WORDS FROM THE TEAM
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Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
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his time of year, it is hard not to think about all the things for which one is thankful. The staff here at CM have a long list of what we’re grateful for this Thanksgiving Season, but we can’t let the month pass without mentioning some of them. First, we are so truly thankful for everyone’s response to our new design and format for Connections. From the passing comments to phone calls and emails and even to a beautiful bouquet of flowers congratulating us, they all mean so much. As with any change, it can be scary, but we are so happy to know that our readers and advertisers alike appreciate the hard work and dedication we put into Connections each month. Second, we would like to thank all Veterans and their families who have sacrificed so much for our freedom. Freedom isn’t free! In this issue, we introduce Vetstock to our pages. We look forward to bringing all the Good Stuff done locally to help our Veterans and our veterans' organizations serving our communities throughout the coming issues! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your families! The CM Team
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HOTEL FIRE SAFETY
Staying
FIRE SAFE in a Hotel
By Gary Ryman
The kids are excited. It’s time for the long awaited trip to Grandma’s town. Or maybe it’s that meeting or conference in an exotic city. Holidays, vacations, business trips; they are all times when a hotel stay may be part of the equation. Enjoyment and convenience are the first two items we hope for when we check in, but fire safety should be right behind them on the list.
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Annually, there are approximately 3,900 hotel or motel fires which result in 15 deaths, 150 injuries, and $76 million in property damage. The National Fire Protection Association (NFPA) reports that on an annual basis, one out of every twelve hotels report a structure fire. They tell us that when sprinklers were present, they were effective 91% of the time. The fires, caused mainly by smoking, cooking, malfunctioning electrical equipment, or arson, can turn a carefree trip into a night mare. There are a few ways to help reduce the odds of being on the bad side of the statistics. Before your visit is the time to conduct the simplest and most important check of the hotel you plan to stay at, and it takes nothing more than a phone call or check of the Internet. When making the reservation, find out if the facility has complete sprinkler protection and smoke detection. If not, you may want to reconsider your choice. These alone swing the pendulum of safety in your direction. Upon arrival, there are some additional safeguards you can check and preparations you can make. Check the escape plan
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Be safe when traveling… Choose a hotel/motel that is protected by both fire sprinklers and smoke alarms. guidance, which should be on the back of the door to your room. Go out into the hall and find the exits. Count the number of doors between yours and the exit. Check the exits. Fire doors blocked open are a significant problem. Worse yet is if you find them locked. Make sure the exit lights are illuminated. Report any problems you find to the front desk. If the fire alarm activates during your stay, treat it as real; don’t assume it’s a false alarm. Check the hallway and if safe to do so, use the exit route you planned. Don’t use the elevators. These can fail, trapping occupants, and shafts can fill with smoke. Take your room key with you, but don’t stop for your bags or possessions. If you can’t exit, create an area of refuge within your room. Seal the cracks around the door with wet towels. Don’t break the window. Fire and smoke can enter from the outside. Open it a crack if you need air, and hang a towel out to show the room is occupied. Call 911 and report your situation and room number. If smoke does begin to enter your room, stay low and get down on the floor beneath it. Never disable or cover the smoke detector in your room, and don’t use the sprinkler to hang your wet bathing suit or anything else. If you break the bulb or link on the sprinkler, you’ll get a very wet surprise. No one expects a fire when they travel, and hopefully, it will never happen to you. With these basic safeguards and a few minutes of groundwork, you’ll be much better prepared if a fire does strike.
When you check in, ask the front desk what the fire alarm sounds like. When you enter your room, review the escape plan posted in your room. Take the time to find the exits and count the number of doors between your room and the exit. Make sure the exits are unlocked. If they are locked, report it to management right away. Keep your room key by your bed and take it with you if there is a fire. If the alarm sounds, leave right away. Close all doors behind you. Use the stairs — never use elevators during a fire. If you must escape through smoke, get low and go under the smoke to your exit.
If you can’t escape ... Shut off fans and air conditioners. Stuff wet towels in the crack around the doors. Call the fire department and let them know your location. Crack the window and hang a towel out to let the fire department know the room is occupied.
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FIRE SAFETY
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KEEP DOOR
CLOSED It’s a phrase that makes the hair stand up on the back of your neck. The door almost became a character in that horror movie or perhaps the one about Zombies you watched last night. An unusual vague and simple phrase. You wouldn’t think it had life or death implications, except perhaps in Hollywood, but it does. It’s not to protect against robbers, villains, or zombies; it’s a simple way to protect against a faster and more dangerous threat: fire.
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Because of the changing fuel load in our homes, the amounts of synthetic and plastic materials versus the metal, wood, and cotton of previous times, the speed at which fire develops has accelerated. Studies show, fire development in those earlier times left individuals or families as much as seventeen minutes in which to escape. Today, that has been reduced to three minutes or less. The “open concept” designs of newer homes and the lightweight construction materials in use today are contributing factors. The first line of defense is and remains smoke detectors. Early warning allows you the maximum available to time to escape. But what if you can’t. That simple ordinary bedroom door becomes your best friend. Keeping that door closed can provide a survivable environment for the extra time needed to possibly find a second way out, through a window, perhaps, or allow the fire department the necessary time to arrive and assist. Will the door last forever under fire conditions? Absolutely not; the time is measured in minutes, but those minutes may be enough.
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aids in the escape process. Many people, parents in particular, argue they won’t hear their children at night if the doors are closed, and this is a valid concern. The use of an inexpensive baby monitor can easily resolve this issue. The National Fire Protection Association (NFPA) reports that in 2015, there were 1,345,500 fires reported in the United States. These fires resulted in 3,280 civilian deaths, 15,700 civilian injuries, and $14.3 billion in property damage. Picture a raging fire rolling through a Of the total, 501,500 were structure house with viscous black smoke and fires, causing 2,685 civilian deaths, unsurvivable temperatures reaching 1000 degrees F outside that closed door. 13,000 civilian injuries, and $10.3 billion in property damage. Not surprisResearch has shown that within the ingly, more than half the reported room behind that door, limited smoke deaths occurred at night. and an uncomfortable but manageable That conventemperature of tional bedroom 100 degrees can door, already be maintained hanging there for a few minin the frame, utes. provides a great This knowlpartner with edge is leading your smoke many fire detectors in departments to helping to strongly recomreduce the mend we all deaths and sleep with injuries from closed bedroom fire. Click it doors. Again, Gary Ryman is the author of the novels closed tonight this is not Mayday! Firefighter Down & Fire in His when you go to intended to Bones as well as the memoir, Fire Men: bed and sleep replace properStories From Three Generations of a Firely installed and safely. fighting Family. All three books are available maintained For more informain paperback and ebook versions from tion, particularly for smoke detecAmazon.com. For more information, visit children, visit tors. It supplewww.closeyourdoor.org. www.fire-men-book.com. ments them and
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ESCAPE PLAN
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nfortunately, many people don’t realize how quickly a fire can spread through their homes. According to the National Fire Protection Association, only 1 of every 3 American households has developed and practiced a Fire Escape Plan. With available response time being so limited, having a Fire Escape Plan in place and practicing it with your family can make a huge difference!
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is the easiest way to save lives. In fact, 3 out of 5 home fire deaths resulted from fires in homes with no smoke alarms or no working smoke alarms. Smoke detectors should be installed on every level, in all sleeping rooms, and in high risk areas such as basements and garages. Make sure to check the batteries regularly, to change the batteries when you turn your clocks forward or back, and that your smoke alarms aren’t expired. NFPA 72 National Fire Alarm Code requires interconnected smoke alarms through the home. Interconnected smoke alarms provide additional early warning, as when one sounds, they will all sound throughout the home. Ionization smoke alarms are generally more responsive to flaming fire, while
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photoelectric smoke alarms are generally more responsive to smoldering fires. For the best protection, both types of alarms or combination ionization and photoelectric alarms are recommended.
Ways to help emergency personnel In the event that you do have a fire at your home, it’s important that emergency personnel be able to find your home quickly. If your street number is not clearly visible from the street, consider installing a house number where emergency personnel will be able to see it. It’s also very important that every member of the family memorize the phone number for your local fire department. That way any member of the household can call from a neighbor’s home or a cellular phone once safely outside.
require assistance in the event of an emergency. It is easiest to assign someone to assist them as this will ensure that everyone’s responsibilities are clear and there is no confusion related to who is doing what. If your home has two floors, every family member (including children) must be able to escape from the second floor rooms. You may consider purchasing and storing escape ladders near windows to provide an additional escape route. Be prepared for a real fire. When a smoke alarm sounds, get out immediately and stay out. Under no circumstances should you ever go back into a burning building. If someone is missing, inform the fire department dispatcher when you call, as Firefighters have the skills and equipment necessary to perform a rescue.
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Designing your escape plan
home fire deaths resulted Practicing your from fires in homes with escape plan Be sure to practice your no smoke alarms or no Escape Plan twice a year, working smoke alarms. making the drill as realis-
When designing an Escape Plan, it’s important to take into consideration the location of all windows and doors and consider which may be a possible exit in an emergency. As commonly used exits, such as doorways, may be blocked or inaccessible, it is always recommended to plan multiple exits from each room. Households with children should consider drawing a floor plan of the home and marking the exits and meeting place. This is a great thing to keep on the fridge! Choose an outside Meeting Place (a neighbor’s house, light post, mailbox, etc.) a safe distance from your home where everyone should meet once they get out of the building. Once outside of the home, no one should go back in for any reason. Infants, older adults, and family members with mobility limitations will likely
tic as possible. Keep in mind that speed will be of the essence during a real fire, so watch for obstacles that may be an issue and address them. While you should always choose the safest escape route in an emergency, smoke can fill rooms quickly. It’s important to practice getting low and going under the smoke to your exit. Make sure that children understand why this may be important also. Closing doors on your way out slows the spread of the fire, giving you more time to safely escape. While we hope that you will never have a need for your Fire Escape Plan, we hope you found this information useful. If there’s something that YOU want to hear about, please e-mail us at news@disasterblaster.com.
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VETS HELPING VETS
WHO WOULD’VE THOUGHT SOMEONE WOULD
DONATE A HOUSE That’s GOOD STUFF!
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he keys to a house were officially presented to VetStock's founder Tom Ryan at Senator Mario Scavello's office in Tannersville by David Wengerd the donator of the house. Pictured left to right: Susan McKean (Mt. Bethel Abstract, Inc), David Wengerd (Classic Quality Homes), Rich Diaz (Vetstock, American Legion Post 139# Milford), Janet Farole (Classic Quality Homes), Senator Mario Scavello (Senate District 40), Tom Ryan (VetStock), Attorney Kelly Gaughan (VetStock), Dave Chant (Davis R. Chant Realtors). This open, roomy and bright, large Colonial is located in Blue Mountain Lake Club in East Stroudsburg, PA. The home features more than 2,700 sf of finished living space, two stone fireplaces, Master Bedroom & Bath on main level, and an attached 2 car garage. VetStock is a local 501c3 organization whose name is synonymous with an unparalleled passion and tireless volunteer efforts to improve the lives of our local for-
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mer and present Armed Services men, women and families. Founded in 2012, its sole mission is to raise funds in order to support those veteran organizations that have not developed strong local fundraising capabilities in Pike, Wayne, Monroe counties. Deeply committed to our motto,“Vets Helping Vets,” the non-profit VetStock only donates monies to legitimate veteran organizations that have been thoroughly vetted in order to ensure that all funds raised go directly to veterans, their families and to those organizations servicing veterans.
Visit www.VetStockAmerica.com for all details on VetStock! If you are interested in more information on the house contact Dave Chant of Davis R. Chant Realtors in Milford, PA at 570-493-0995.
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FEATURE STORY HEAVY ISSUES
Students Face
Heavy Issues with Together for Health Program Opioids, bullying, suicide. Healthy relationships, yoga, career and personal readiness. “such as ‘go back ll these and sit your mothtopics er down to listen were to you’ and the addressed headresults were amazon in this year’s ing.” Together for The PittsburghHealth School based Saltworks Program for 7th Theatre group’s and 9th graders in “Off Script” presthree area school entation kicked off districts. Together Together for for Health, initiatWallenpaupack Players from Wallenpaupack High School Health (TFH) with ed more than a Advanced Theatre I and II classes taking questions from Wayne a drama about opidecade ago by Highlands seventh graders at Wayne Highlands Middle School about changing the outcome of a drama about suicide. oid/drug abuse. Wayne Memorial The three-part proHospital’s Comgram also included interactive yoga, a session munity Relations Department, is a joint effort with schools and local social service agencies on Drugs and Alcohol, Readiness Planning, Healthy Relationships, and Volunteering. to help students make healthy lifestyle choicDecker said student comments, which es. included statements, such as “I feel like I A highlight of the program was a drama by learned something new” and “it was a good The Wallenpaupack Players, a young theatre group from Wallenpaupack Area High school, talk about marijuana usage,” indicated many students were listening. “And that’s good;” about a student who chooses to kill herself she added, “these years are a formative time after a series of events with family, school for young people. We want to keep them officials, and peers. Seventh graders in engaged.” Wayne Highlands, Western Wayne, and WalThe TFH program involved many outside lenpaupack Area middle schools were asked agencies this year, including representatives “If you were the victim, what would you do from Yoga International, Victims Intervention differently?” Program, Wayne County Drugs and Alcohol, “The students had answers that the Players American Red Cross, and Penn State Cooperacted out,” said Donna Decker, RN, manager ative Extension. of WMH Community Health and co-organizer of the Together for Health School Program,
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Performance line up is as follows:
T he Cooperage Project is hosting Honesdale's first ever jazz festival the weekend of November 17-19. Enjoy four different performances, including the Andy Milne Trio, Lone Duck featuring Rowan Lynch, Bob Wilson and Bob Ventrello, The Matt Hoffman Quintet, and Impromptu: An Intimate Exploration of the Art of Improvising featuring Kazzrie Jaxen, piano and vocals and Don Messina, double bass. 18 | CONNECTIONS MAGAZINE |
Friday, November 17 | Andy Milne Trio 7:30 p.m. | doors at 7:00 p.m. Suggested donation: $15 with advance reservation, $20 at the door For more than twenty years, pianist/composer Andy Milne has demonstrated boundless versatility, collaborating with dancers, visual artists, poets, and musicians spanning jazz, classical, pop, folk, and world music. At the piano, he skillfully blends poetic gravitas with a playful sense of order. Milne composed and produced the scores for seven documentary films by acclaimed director, William Shatner, and has released nine recordings as a leader or co-leader. He is the recipient of numerous awards and commissions, including the prestigious Civitella Fellowship. In addition to his mul-
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MAPLE CITY JAZZFEST tiple projects, Milne is a sought-after educator, balancing teaching positions at The New School, New York University, Columbia University, and as the Assistant-Director at The School for Improvisational Music. Milne draws inspiration from politics, philosophy, homeopathy, comedy, and science fiction, with musical influences that bridge Thelonious Monk, Art Tatum, Herbie Nichols, Bela Bartok, Joni Mitchell, and Stevie Wonder. Mark Helias is a renowned bassist and composer who has performed throughout the world for more than three decades. A prolific composer, Helias has written music for two feature films, as well as chamber pieces and works for large ensembles and big bands. His orchestra piece, “Stochasm,” was premiered by the American Composers Orchestra in June of 2011. He has produced many recordings for other artists, including Ray Anderson, Tony Malaby, Bobby Previte, Jerome Harris, and Mark Dresser. David Jimenez was born in the Dominican Republic and raised in Queens, New York. His love and passion for music started in church. At an early age, he impressed church members and was given the position as their main drummer. It was then that his hunger for music truly began. David began exploring different styles of music and became involved in Classical music at fourteen when he auditioned and was accepted to a two-year program at The Juilliard School. He later received a full scholarship as percussionist in the Interschool Orchestra of New York. Saturday, November 18 | Lone Duck 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. During the Main Street Farmers' Market Lone Duck is a trio featuring Rowan Lynch on alto saxophone, Bob Wilson on acoustic bass, and Bob Ventrello on drums and various handmade instruments and noisemakers. Lynch, Wilson, and Ventrello will offer up their own treatments of jazz standards, as well as explore the side of the genre known as “free jazz.” Influences include Wayne Shorter, Thelonious Monk, Eric Dolphy, and Charles Mingus.
Saturday, November 18 | Matt Hoffman Quintet 7:30 p.m. | doors at 7:00 p.m. Suggested donation: $15 with advance reservation, $20 at the door Matt is a Wayne County native and phenomenal musician who has made jaws drop for decades in our community. Enjoy a lovely evening of toe tapping jazz from these very talented musicians. Sunday, November 19 | Impromptu: featuring Kazzrie Jaxen, piano and vocals and Don Messina, double bass 5:00 p.m., doors at 4:30 p.m. Suggested donation: $15 with advance reservation, $20 at the door Kazzrie Jaxen and Don Messina love the raw energy and true fun of pure improvisation. Having both spent their musical lives cultivating the joy of present-moment creation, they strive to make each performance a transformative experience, a leap into the unknown. Rooted in tradition, sharing a love of jazz swing, their duets become inquiries: how far to the outer limits of melody and harmony can they stretch? How deep into the interiors of feeling can they go? How creative can they be, juxtaposing the traditional with the abstract? And how can they impart the thrill and freedom of improvisation to their listeners? Standard tunes, jazz lines, original compositions, and totally free improvisations are woven into their performances through the contrapuntal voices of piano, bass, poetry, and song — always unique and surprising, always Impromptu. For reservations, email info@thecooperageproject.org or call 570.253.2020. Enjoy a weekend of Jazz in beautiful, historic Honesdale! All evening performances are BYOB.
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DIABETES TASTE-IN
Oral Health & Diabetes
Come to a Taste-In Sunday, November 5th
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hen it comes to food, the holidays can be especially challenging if you have diabetes. Tips—with tastings! – will be offered at this year’s Diabetes Taste-In on Sunday, November 5th at Ladore Lodge, 287 Owego Turnpike, Waymart from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Registered dietitians and certified diabetes educators from Wayne Memorial Hospital and the Northeast PA Local Networking Group of the American Association of Diabetes Educators will provide healthy treats to sample, advice, and recipes. Additionally, the event will offer a special presentation by Periodontist Bryan J. Frantz, DMD, MS, PHDI (Perio and Dental Health Implants). Dr. Frantz will focus on dental issues which often go untreated. Learn how diabetes can affect your teeth and gums and overall oral health! Dr. Franz, who works closely with diabetes educators like Carol Kneier of Wayne Memorial Hospital, will offer information and tips to help you keep your healthy smile. “People with diabetes are at special risk for periodontal disease, an infection of the gum and bone that hold the teeth in place,” says Kneier, MS, RD, LDN, CDE, a co-organizer of the Taste-In. “Dry mouth, often a symptom of undetected diabetes, can cause soreness, ulcers, infections, and tooth
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decay. Come hear Dr. Frantz and bring your questions!” The Taste-In will showcase vendors and businesses that can help people with diabetes maintain the best overall health possible. “During the holidays, you don’t have to starve yourself to stay healthy.” Kneier continues, “There are many low-fat, lowcarbohydrate dishes you can have that are really tasty. Our goal at the Taste-In is to help you stay on track while you celebrate the season.” The event is free and will offer tastings of appetizers, a main entrée, side dishes, and desserts. Space is limited, so pre-registration is requested. Call 570-253-8149 and leave your name, phone number, and number of people attending.
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MRS. DOGOOD
THE RELUCTANT EXORCIST By The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Dear Editor, Exorcism is not for everyone. I should know. I am the Senior Pastor of The First Church of God’s Love in Halo, Pennsylvania. When Mrs. Baxter, the most powerful volunteer at my Church, asked me to perform an exorcism on her 17-year-old son, I wanted to refuse but I didn’t dare. She would have made my life very difficult with my congregation. Nathan, her son, lived with her and always reminded her of her divorced husband. He looked just like him and he had the same walk. It drove her crazy. Besides, he kept a messy room, didn’t do his homework, cursed, and she caught him smoking. He got drunk after his high school’s basketball games and was lazy. She hated that Nathan enjoyed killing animals; his favorite expression was, “I enjoy thinning out the herd.” Mrs. Baxter went to visit her sick sister in Buffalo for a week and gave clear instructions to Nathan to both feed her darling cat, Cleo, and to take care of her six chickens that she kept in a makeshift coop next to her house. She loves farm-fresh eggs for omelets and baking. Arriving back home, she became frantic because she couldn’t find her loving house cat. But then she did. Cleo was dead, strangled in yarn in her third bedroom that she used for sewing. Crying, she rushed out of the house only to find her six chickens lying dead in a dirty coop. “How could my son do this to me?” she said to me. “I want you to do an exorcism on him because he is evil.” I tried to explain that the cat probably hung itself playing with the yarn and that the chickens died of the local disease affecting all of our chickens. “No. I want him normal.” Some of my best ministerial ideas come to me when I am cooking. I call it my over the stove ministry. Nurturing my family is like nurturing the souls of my congregants. Soon after she asked for the exorcism, I mistakenly poured too much pepper into a large pot of vegetable soup I was making. So, I made another whole pot of soup with no seasoning and combined them to dilute the spiciness. That was the answer. I have to dilute Nathan’s evil spirit.
I purchased a six-foot-long sleeping bag that was totally waterproof. I went to our local butcher, a congregant, and filled it with water and had him freeze it in his commercial freezer. It was ready to be placed next to Nathan in his bed. It would act like my second pot of soup. As Evil is burning in Hell, the bad spirit would jump from Nathan to the frozen host where it would be more comfortable. Nathan’s selfishness would be diluted. Nathan lay on his bed next to the frozen host and I did the rest. By the way, Nathan agreed to perform this exorcism because if he didn’t, he couldn’t use his mother’s car. I was ready. Mrs. Baxter told me that Nathan was afraid of the dark and that witches scare him. We darkened his bedroom, and I had dressed up as a scary witch with a snake-like wig, deadly makeup, and a misshapen black robe. I repeatedly jumped out from behind a screen and in a holy way screamed, “Booo.” I would scare Nathan’s evil out of him and into the awaiting frozen host. The very next day, Nathan moved out of his mother’s house and went to live permanently with his aunt in Buffalo. The following week, his aunt called Mrs. Baxter. “He’s so helpful around the house and with my medication. He signed up for school and I bought him a car.” Mrs. Baxter is very happy living alone. She tells everyone at my Church how successfully I performed the exorcism. I have written this Letter to the Editor in humility. Sometimes the oddest things can bring about change that creates “goodness.” For this, I am thankful. Amen.
The Reverend Mrs. Silence DoGood Senior Pastor Executive Director President Chairman Choir Master (part-time) The First Church of God’s Love
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Prison Reflections
“Today I Choose Life” By Terry Mooney
Part II
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his young man is a bright light here at the Pike County Correctional Facility. Working diligently in the facility kitchen, he shares his tools for recovery with other inmates. His struggle is evident, yet so is his resolve. And his deep love for his little son will help him conquer every demon.
My Story Every morning I smoked weed in the school parking lot. Right through all of the partying, I continued to go to school and was very popular. Six days after I graduated from high school, I went to jail for assault. Some guy grabbed my girlfriend and said sexual things to her, so I broke his jaw. While in jail, I got into a fight because some guy was talking while everyone else was trying to sleep. I got two weeks in the hole. Never giving my life a thought, I didn’t have a plan. I never cared about dying. Once the drugs took hold and I could legally drink, it was all I cared about. I started talking to a girl on My Space that I went to high school with and never before had the courage to ask out. When she gave me her phone number, we would talk for hours and got to know each other really well. That continued for three months and then I moved in with her and her mom. She finished high school and I continued working in construction. We started going to parties together and drinking. One night, a friend of mine gave me one Oxycontin and said you’ll really like this. So, she and I split it, getting really high. It was a great feeling at the time, so I tried one more, then one more after that, and then I wanted ten more. We did this for a while until the pharmaceutical company made it into a gel so it couldn’t be crushed and abused. Heroin was cheaper anyway, and easier to get. One day, this kid that was giving us the heroin was shooting it in front of us. I had been absolutely appalled at needles and shooting anything into my body. But I was so far gone at this point that I’d do anything to get that initial high again, which you never really do. We were both functioning addicts, I in construction and she a nurse’s aide, but we both had to use as many times as we could to get through the day. I told myself I worked better high, but it was one big lie. Our families found out and then rehab started for both of us. I’ve been to six rehabs in all. The last one, I finally came back to God. The only way to be clean is to be open and honest about wanting to use, and telling someone before I actually do it, not doing sneaky behaviors, I feel the change and growth happening. They say one day at a time. I ruined my life for twelve years one day at a time, so I will need to put it back together the same way. There’s no quick fix. We are both clean and going on our tenth year together. We have a handsome three-year-old son who deserves better than to lose his father to jail and addiction, and I will never let it happen again. When I hear the devil’s voice, I can feel the wrong thoughts and I can feel what’s not right. Going against this evil is instinct from God and will save me from living in hell. Today, I choose life.
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Attracting Wintering Birds in Your Backyard By Kelley Stewart – Forest Specialist, Wayne Conservation District
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iving in the Northeast allows us to experience the joy of all four seasons. As we start gearing up for winter, I find myself looking forward to weekend mornings drinking my coffee and watching the birds taking turns at the feeder. Winter would not be the same without those snowy branches and black-capped chickadees! Tufted titmouse, white breasted nuthatch, dark-eyed junco, northern cardinal, blue jay, house finch, and American goldfinch are some of the other bird species I enjoy seeing as well.
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Cold and windy winter days coupled with dormant insects and lack of vegetation make finding food a difficult task for wintering birds in our area. With a little planning, you can turn your backyard into a welcoming habitat that will provide birds with excellent nutrition and help make your winter more enjoyable!
Tips for welcoming the winter birds
BIRD FEEDERS Clean Monthly - Many diseases can be spread by contact with a contaminated feeder. Clean out old stuck on food, mildew and mold, and disinfect feeder with a bleach solution, making sure to rinse thoroughly. Location and Placement – Vary locations and heights near shrubs and trees making sure to protect birds against predators such as cats, dogs, and hawks. Don’t forget to place some seed on the ground! Seed & Food Choices – Black-oil sunflower seeds provide high fat content and are packed with nutrition. Because the shells are easily opened, you will find that this seed attracts the most amount of bird species. Striped sunflower seeds are also a good choice, but they may not attract as many bird types because they are not as easy to crack. White proso millet will be readily eaten by finches, sparrows, blackbirds, pigeons and doves.
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Nijer or thistle seed is a preferred choice for small finches to indulge. Safflower is well liked by chickadees, titmice, nuthatches, finches and cardinals but not squirrels! Whole peanuts will be popular with many species including woodpeckers. Suet cakes and peanut butter are high-energy foods that will attract chickadees, titmice, nuthatches, jays and woodpeckers. As temperatures fall, these fat choices are beneficial by providing a high-energy food. Fresh fruit and soaked dried raisins or currents offer a nice treat for all birds and may attract birds you do not often see at the feeder including waxwings. Cracked corn should only be given in small amounts if at all. It will likely attract more wildlife such as bears, raccoons and deer. Water – Birds need water all year round. They will get what they need from snow. By providing fresh water for them, it will reduce the energy they would need to expend eating snow.
Native Bushes with Berries –winterberry, viburnum, staghorn sumac Native Vines – American bittersweet Creating Shelter – Brush piles create protection from predators and weather, and leaf litter gives an environment for insects.
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Photo 2: Blue Jay - Photo Credit: Pat Kavanagh https://www.flickr.com/photos/the_kav/4531314012/
Evergreen Species – bayberry, cedar, fir, hemlock, holly, huckleberry, juniper, pine, rhododendron, and spruce will provide food (seeds, nuts, berries), water, shelter, and nesting material/cavity.
If you are interested in learning more about winter bird feeding, check out Cornell Lab of Ornithology at https://feederwatch.org. Kelley Stewart is the Forest Specialist for Wayne Conservation District located in Honesdale. Wayne Conservation District provides assistance to the public for the purpose of conserving Wayne County’s natural resources through technical assistance and education. For more information about the district, please contact Kelley by phone at (570)253-0930, email: kstewart@waynecountypa.gov. Photo 1: Northern Cardinal, American Goldfinches, Dark-eyed Junco, and House Finches at a feeder, by Stephen & Judy Shelasky. Obtained from: https://www.allaboutbirds.org/analysis-do-bird-feedershelp-or-hurt-birds/—- The Cornell Lab of Ornithology
Photo 3: Black-capped chickadee © Jerry Acton, Berkshire, New York, February 2007 – Obtained from: https://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/Black-capped_ Chickadee/id —- The Cornell Lab of Ornithology
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Money
Your Retirement Plan
Quadruple Your Retirement Savings Provided by Jonathan “Josh” Sheard, Sage Investments, LLC
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f you had the chance to double—or even quadruple—your retirement savings, you’d probably be ready to grab hold of that opportunity, right? Well, there’s one simple change you can make today that’s sure to boost your retirement savings.
What’s the secret? We thought you’d never ask... Quadruple Your Retirement Savings? Really? An HSBC study of worldwide retirement saving habits discovered that people who devise a financial plan have more than twice as much in their nest egg than those with no plan at all. And savers who take it one step further by working with an investing advisor to put their plan to paper? Their average nest egg was a whopping 445% bigger than nonplanners.
Be Confident About Your Retirement Why is a retirement plan so potent? Because it gives you a clear path to success. And that’s all many folks need to spur them
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into action. So, let’s create a retirement plan for your future! This savings plan will have three phases, and you can forecast your financial situation for each one today. Think of it the same way you do your budget. You’re making a plan for your money before you actually have it, based on projections for your income and expenses. It’s important to start with a solid financial foundation, so the first phase begins as soon as you are debt-free and have saved three to six months of expenses in your emergency fund.
Phase One: Simply Save In the first phase, you’ll invest 15% of your income in good growth stock mutual funds through tax-advantaged retirement savings plans such as your employer’s 401(k) and a Roth IRA. It may not sound like much, but if you don’t follow through on this step, you won’t have any savings to make decisions about down the road. Your goal is to consistently invest for retirement as you focus on other financial obligations such as funding college for your kids and buying or paying off your home. A couple with the household median income of $56,000 could have $900,000–1.2 million for retirement after 25 years.
Phase Two: Dig Into the Details Now it’s time to envision what your retirement savings will look like by calculating the income your nest egg will bring. This is where an investing advisor comes in handy. Ideally, you should be able to live off the growth of your retirement savings rather
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than depleting your nest egg. An investing advisor can run projections based on your monthly contributions and expected retirement age, making sure to account for inflation and any taxes or fees that may apply down the road. You should also develop a backup plan in case life throws you a curveball along the way. With careful monitoring and some modest adjustments in years with low returns, you can be confident that you can retire with savings that will last throughout your golden years.
Phase Three: Retirement Savings Reality Using your monthly budget, compare your expenses to your retirement savings projections to see where you stand. With an empty nest and a paid-for home, you can plan to ramp up your retirement savings if necessary. Based on your forecasts, you can answer several questions: Will you need (or want) to continue working? Will you sell your home? What will you do for fun? What about medical expenses and long-term care? Remember, too, at age 60, most people will need to purchase long-term care (LTC) insurance. LTC insurance will protect the
money you’ve saved for retirement by helping pay for the expenses of a nursing home or in-home care if you need it. Keep that in mind as you estimate your retirement budget.
There’s Power in a Retirement Plan While there is no guarantee that a retirement plan will make you a millionaire or give you a perpetually rosy outlook, it certainly won’t hurt your chances for a confident future. © Lampo Licensing, LLC. All rights reserved. Josh is a Dave Ramsey Endorsed Local Provider for this area. He specializes in retirement income strategies, investments strategies, as well as additional financial strategies. His focus is on lifelong financial guidance and his commitment is to place clients first and provide unmatched customer service. He would be glad to answer any questions regarding the content of this article as well as any others. Call today at 570-7291020 or email Josh at sage@cfiemail.com. You can also visit www.sageinvestments.net. Jonathan Sheard offers securities and advisory services through Centaurus Financial, Inc. member FINRA and SIPA and a registered investment advisor. This is not an offer to sell securities, which may be done only after proper delivery of a prospectus and client suitability is reviewed and determined. Information relating to securities is intended for use by individuals residing in PA, NY, AR, VA, FL, NC, GA, CT. Sage Investments, Dave Ramsey and Centaurus Financial Inc are not affiliated.
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Book Review THE END.
was only seventeen, almost an adult, a milestone he’d never make. The vast majority of us don’t know when He couldn’t let his friends watch him it will come, and though it’s life’s Last Big die, and so, just after Peck called the cops Surprise, we don’t like to think about it. to report the assault, Rufus bolted. Spend Yes, you will die, but what if you knew it his final hours in jail? No way, so he was coming – today? Would you reach for downloaded the Last Friend app. Maybe your family or, as in the new novel, “They someone could show him where the “old Both Die at the End” by Adam Silvera, Rufus” was. would you make a new one? The match came a The phone call came little after 3 a.m. shortly after midnight. Rufus had a bike. Mateo wasn’t expectMateo had a few doling it – but then, who lars. expects a call from the Neither had much Death-Cast, anyhow? time… He thought about not And telling you any answering the phone, more than that would but there was no getruin this futuristicallyting out of it: his time plausible tale. No, you was up. He was going need to read “They to die, and the worst Both Die at the End” for part was that he was yourself. going to die without Of course, you know talking to his dad first. what happens: the title Mateo’s father was in doesn’t lie, but what a coma, and if he ever occurs between call and woke up, someone else end is phenomenal stowould have to tell him rytelling. Author Adam that Mateo was gone. Silvera takes a bleak And that was that: he’d idea and spins it into a spent all his time with tale of friendship and his dad and his gamer caution-throwing, and stuff, and he didn’t because other characexactly have any true ters are like spokes of a friends he could count Mateo-and-Rufus on. No, Mateo Torrez wheel, we also see how was going to die, just small actions resonate eighteen years old, By Adam Silvera in other lives through alone, in a tiny apartReviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer casual connections that ment. But first, he are almost as meaningdownloaded the Last Friend app. ful as the purposeful ones. For sure, that’s The phone call came just after 1 a.m. heartbreaking, but it’s also darkly funny Rufus was beating the heck out of his exand oddly uplifting. girlfriend’s new boyfriend then, and everyThere’s also a certain “what if…” that body figured Death-Cast was calling Peck. lingers for a long time after you’ve closed No, it was Rufus’ phone that was ringing. the covers, which makes “They Both Die at Rufus was going to die. the End” a thought-provoker for anyone He’d been through this before: four ages 14-to-adult. Start it, and you’ll be months prior, his parents and his sister had hooked all the way to... all gotten the call on the same night. He’d The End. been in an orphanage since then because he
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n August 26th, Ashley Wood and Josh Tedesco and their families were able to not only celebrate their wedding at Fox Hill Farm, but share the fruits of their bounty, literally. The Wood family, owners of Wood Winery, had many types of their locally made wine on hand for guests to enjoy. Their generosity to local farms and businesses went far beyond Fox Hill Farm. Ant Hill Farm Kitchen, with help from Andy Dean’s beautifully roasted pig, Beach Lake Bakery, Calkins Creamery, and Hardler's Farm were just a few local businesses represented and enjoyed. Ashley, Josh, and their parents decorated the barn with love and attention to details, such as collected bottles for centerpieces, enamelware for serving and flower vessels, maps of Wayne County and their honeymoon destinations. And to keep the party going, fantastic music by the Jeffrey James Band. Even before the wedding began, Josh and his grooms were outfitted with all the necessary supplies for a special ‘pre-game’ toast! And by the end of the night, guests left with the satisfaction of a magical celebration from start to finish. Congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Tedesco and families!
Photos courtesy of Danielle Coons Photography.
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The Paper Caves
The Paper Caves through November 30th By LA Guzda
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rom the first time I walked into Basin and Main as a PopUp Store, I was a fan. I have yet to attend a dinner or music event, but only because my schedule has not cooperated. So, I was naturally curious when I learned about this art installation called, The Paper Caves. It is a magnificent creation! With 2400 square feet of rolled pages into a hidden framework, it is delightfully inspiring. You are awe struck as you enter. It is worthy of an exhibit in Paris or New York. And here we are in sweet, little Honesdale with this extraordinary gift in our midst. You feel as though you are exploring a cave, complete with stalactites. But, as you delve into the detail, one section looked like the skin of a dragon, next to a honeycomb, just above the Calla Lillies. The artist, Samuelle Green, grew up in Honesdale. She was educated in Philadelphia and New York and has traveled the world as an artist. She is a visionary. She is origi-
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nal. And, we are very fortunate to have her as our neighbor. Why this project? The Paper Caves reflects her passion for the intimate detail in nature that we encounter regularly but often fail to acknowledge — the intricate objects like nests, anthills, spider webs, feathers, and so much more. She draws on related natural forms and exhibits them on an immersive human scale. The Paper Cave is on view at Basin and Main, 564 Main Street in Honesdale through November 30, Saturdays 1 p.m. – 4 p.m. and by appointment or chance. Don’t miss it! I will be exhibiting, India Inspired, at Roots Yoga, November 3-12. Opening reception is Friday, November 3rd at 6 p.m., Main Street in Hawley. Photographs - reflecting the amazing color, texture, and people of India. For more information contact Laurie@LAGuzda.com. PS: On our way to visit the Paper Caves with friends, we passed and stopped at the Dorflinger Glass Worker Factory Museum. I again encourage you to visit this meticulously curated museum that educates, engages, and thoroughly entertains. Follow us on Instagram @PoconoSecrets and on Facebook @PocoPike. Visit www.LAGuzda.com or www.PoconoSecrets.com for past articles. Do you have a Pocono Secret to share? Send an email to: PoconoSecrets@aol.com.
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For information on how Little Creek Lodge can help you or someone you know with substance abuse, visit their website, www.littlecreekrecovery.org or call 877-689-2644.
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Outdoor Ramblings
Wild Paths to Recovery with Little Creek Lodge By Bill Deaton |
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We need the tonic of the wilderness, to wade sometimes in the marsh where the bittern and the meadow hen lurk, and hear the booming of the snipe; to smell the whispering sedge where only some wilder and more solitary fowl builds her nest, and the mink crawls with its belly close to the ground. -Henry David Thoreau
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here is a duality of the concept of “The Wilderness” in human history. On one hand, it has been viewed as a place to be feared- a place where witches gather around bonfires and where monsters lay in wait to attack unwary travelers. On the other hand, it is also seen as a place of renewal and revelation. From the founders of major faiths to the Transcendentalists of the 19th Century, many sought answers in the secluded reaches of the wilds. Today, adventure-based recreation and education is used in many aspects, and for the past decade, Little Creek Lodge in Lake Ariel, Pennsylvania, has used the outdoors as a major element in its approach to help men struggling to overcome substance abuse. I was first introduced to Little Creek shortly after its founding when guests used the challenge course and climbing wall at the scout camp where I volunteered. The program, founded by Andy and Barbara Pace, who saw a need for treatment beyond traditional methods, was still in its infancy. The group dynamic and personal growth challenges our course offered helped them to understand how to work together to achieve goals. Another individual who became involved with Little Creek early on is local, long-time outdoor guide, Paul Mang. On one occasion, I was able to join him and some lodge guests at Prompton State Park, where we hiked and did some trail work. Just recently, I was able to join Paul and Matt Bartos, an LCL alum who now serves as its Residential Care Director, on a kayaking trip down the Upper Delaware River. Matt explained the program and his experiences. “We go out three days a week, all year, in any weather, “Matt stated. “We hike, kayak, bike, and use the climbing wall at Camp Watonka in the warmer months and go to Summit climbing gym, ski, and go snowshoeing in the winter.” Matt, who is soon due to earn a master’s degree in social work, fell in love with snowshoeing as a guest at Little Creek. He recalled the difficulties he faced hiking up the icy terrain of Tusten Mountain. Realizing he could overcome physical challenges laid in front of him helped him discover ways to deal with his addiction and work past it. Now, as a staff member, he’s teaching others through the lessons he’s learned. “When they are outdoors, people learn to look at themselves differently,” Matt explained, “and outside is where the changes occur. When people complete their stay at Little Creek, they leave with the tools they need to succeed.” www.connections-magazine.com
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Classic Cars
1932
Ford
Roadster By Arnie Milidantri
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’m always on the lookout for unique cars that may appear at a local gas station, a large auto show or cruise night, or a small gathering of neighbors who share the love of cars. I was tipped off by the community manager of the Tanglewood Lake Estates, Mr. Ralph Graf, that a group of the community residents were having a late summer show featuring some their loved vehicles. I stopped by for an hour and enjoyed the camaraderie of the residents and talking about their cars. One of the cars that caught my eye and is featured in this month’s article is a timeless classic 1932 Ford Roadster Street-Rod owned by Dennis Samuelsen of Greentown, PA. The car is a beautiful example of perhaps one of the most sought after old school street rods, a head turner with great style, sound, and stance!
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Background The 1932 Ford Model B had a much improved 201 cu in, 50 hp four-cylinder Model A type engine, and the Model 18 was the first low-priced, mass-marketed car to have a 221 cu in 65 hp V8 engine (a $10 option). The introduction of the Ford V8 is considered an important milestone in American automotive history. The 1932 Ford was considered the first performance car a working man could afford, with looks swiped straight from Duisenberg. This car is one of the core elements of our American automotive history and is still one of today’s most highly collectible cars. Returning WW II veterans used their skills and creativity to frequently alter Model B’s and 18’s into unique hot-rods. Little did they know they started a trend that would continue through today. Roadsters and coupes are the most popular and sought-after body styles for street rods and hot rods; unmodified examples have become very rare. Because of the popularity of these cars, 1932 bodies have been reproduced either in fiberglass or lately in steel, helping those who have the vision and the talent to create and preserve these great cars. They may be considered expensive toys to some, but whoever said toys are bad probably never got the toy they real-
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ly wanted! The 1932 Ford, whether restored or transformed into one of a kind hot rod, continues its appeal to all generations of car enthusiasts who can appreciate its beauty and a time when life seemed simpler.
Featured Car This beautiful red 1932 Ford roadster was built over thirty years ago by the Phoenix Rodshop. The Westcott fiberglass body sits on a custom chrome and stainless steel frame. The car’s engine is a small block 350 cu in Chevrolet V8 equipped with a mild cam and 4 two barrel Weber carburetors with angled magneto drive and is coupled to a turbo 350 automatic transmission that brings the power to a Ford 9 inch rear with drum brakes. The car has a 6 inch dropped front axle and split wishbone front end and is equipped with disc brakes. The custom headers and Abarth exhaust give the car a rich tone. The car’s rumble seat and interior are done in tan leather and features custom gauges and a custom steering column/wheel. The finishing touches include a louvered steel hood and Kelsey Haines wheels. The marriage of the car’s original unmolested body style and the updates to modern mechanical and speed components make Dennis’s 1932 an outstanding example of a classic street rod.
Owner The 1932 Ford has been owned for thirty years by Dennis Samuelsen of Greentown, PA. He is a retired mechanical contractor who permanently moved to PA in 2014 from Monmouth County, NJ. He has been a car guy all his life and has had several Model A and Model T Fords. In addition to his great 1932 Ford Roadster, his current collection includes a 1937 Ford Cabriolet, a 2000 Corvette roadster, a 1967 Corvette coupe, and his latest project, a 1956 Ford F100 pickup. Dennis enjoys the challenge of the build, his cars, talking with fellow enthusiasts, and sharing his love of the hobby. www.connections-magazine.com
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Pets
Thanksgiving
Pet Travel Tips
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hanksgiving marks the beginning of the busy Holiday travel season. Time to start planning your Holiday getaway - whether it be to the in-laws, Grandma’s, or somewhere in between. Before you hit the road, it’s important to plan ahead for pet travel and always keep the best interests of your furry sidekick in mind. Traveling with your pet can be a wonderful and bonding experience or a not so pleasant one. It’s all a matter of proper planning and preparation.
Top tips to ensure your Thanksgiving getaway with your pet is a safe one: No Heads Out the Window Although many pets find that sticking their head out the window is the best part of the road trip, it’s not safe. Your pet can easily be injured by flying debris. This should go without saying, but NEVER travel with a pet in the back of a pickup truck. Some states have laws restricting such transport, and it is always dangerous.
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Frequent Pit Stops Always provide frequent bathroom and exercise breaks. Most travel service areas have designated areas for walking your pet. Be sure to stay in this area particularly when your pet needs a potty break, and of course, bring along a bag to pick up after your pet. When outside your vehicle, make sure that your pet is always on a leash and wearing a collar with a permanent and temporary travel identification tag.
Proper Hydration During your pit stops, be sure to provide your pets with some fresh water to wet their whistles. Occasionally, traveling can upset your pet’s stomach. Take along ice cubes, which are easier on your pet than large amounts of water.
Watch the Food Intake It is recommended that you keep feeding to a minimum during travel. Be sure to feed them their regular pet food and resist the temptation to give them some of your fast food burger or fries (that never has a good ending!).
Don’t Leave Them Alone Never leave your pet unattended in a parked vehicle. On warm days, the temperature in your vehicle can rise to 120 degrees in minutes, even with the windows slightly open. In addition, an animal left
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alone in a vehicle is an open invitation to pet thieves.
Practice Restraint Be sure that your pet is safely secured in your vehicle. Utilizing a pet safety harness, travel kennel, vehicle pet barrier, or pet car seat are the best ways to keep your pet safe. They not only protect your pet from injury, but they help by keeping them from distracting you as you drive. A safety harness functions like a seatbelt. While most pets will not have a problem adjusting to it, you may want to let them wear the harness by itself a few times before using it in the vehicle. If your pet prefers a travel kennel, be sure it is well ventilated and stabilized. Many pet parents prefer vehicle barriers, particularly for larger pets. Vehicle pet barriers are best suited for SUVs. Smaller pets are best suited for per car seats. The car seat is secured in the back seat using a seat belt and your pet is secured in the car seat with a safety harness. In addition to its safety features, a pet car seat will prop up your smaller pet, allowing them to better look out the window. No matter what method you choose, back seat travel is always safer for your pet.
Miss Kitty Young adult momma cat who entered the shelter with her 5 kittens. She is now ready for her forever home (and so are her kittens!)
Safe and Comfortable Whatever method you choose to properly restrain your pet in your vehicle, be sure to make their comfort a priority. Just as it’s important for your “seat” to be comfortable for your long road trip, your pet’s seat should be comfortable, too. Typically, their favorite blanket or travel bed will do the trick. There are also some safe and very cozy pet car seats available that your pet may find quite comfy. Careful preparation is the key to ensuring that you and your pet have a happy and safe Thanksgiving getaway! About TripsWithPets.com TripsWithPets.com is the premier online pet friendly travel guide — providing online reservations at over 30,000 pet friendly hotels & accommodations across the U.S. and Canada. When planning a trip, pet parents go to TripsWithPets.com for detailed, up-to-date information on hotel pet policies and pet amenities. TripsWithPets.com also features airline & car rental pet policies, pet friendly activities, a user-friendly searchby-route option, as well as pet travel gear. For more information, please visit http://www.tripswithpets.com.
City 3 year old female Border Collie / Pit mix who entered Dessin as a stray. She's very friendly, loves people but is not a fan of cats!
Available for adoption at Dessin Animal Shelter! Call 570-253-4037.
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Behavioral Medicine
What Is
BipolaDisorder? r II
Today I felt pass over me A breath of wind from the wings of madness.
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n today’s pressured society, we have become accustomed to a constant influx of data and information. The inability to deal with the daily stresses of life sometimes leads to the development of anxiety, depression, and increasingly the thought that something might be wrong with one’s ability to control his or her moods. The use of the term “mood swings” has become a commonly recognized and often misinterpreted term, especially as it refers to symptoms which describe the clinical condition Bipolar Disorder. This disorder and the symptoms that are associated with it are typically addressed by health professionals in a wide variety of clinical settings with patients who believe that their “mood swings” are indicative of Bipolar Disorder. Increasingly, owing to the demands of their patients, and on the basis of the “symptoms” that their patients describe, many are being treated with medications, often with results that suggest that the diagnosis was not correct. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has identified “Frequent Mental Distress,” or FMD, identifying “stress, depression and problems with emotions” over the course of thirty days as a measure of mental health. Poor mental health is considered to be present if FMD is present for foruteen or more days out of a typical month. The CDC estimated that 9.4% of U.S. adults experienced FMD during the periods 1993-2001 and 2003-2006. While depression, using 2004 statistics, was the “third most important cause of disease burden worldwide,” bipolar disorder was considered the “most expensive
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behavioral health care diagnosis costing more than twice as much as depression per affected individual.” The cost has been attributed to the indirect costs of lost productivity as well as the costs of inpatient hospitalization. The CDC reported that the inpatient hospitalization rate for patients who were diagnosed with bipolar disorder was 39.1%, which was significantly higher than the 4.5% rate for hospitalization that included all other patients with behavioral health diagnoses: depression, anxiety and Schizophrenia as examples. We all experience changes in mood. We experience sadness, happiness, and anxiety, as well as periods of agitation throughout our daily lives. What type of “mood swing” identifies the individual with bipolar disorder? The following fictional clinical vignette is presented to highlight the issues associated with bipolar disorder. JT is a 29-year-old single woman who is employed as a school guidance counselor. She is well regarded by her peers but is noted to be mercurial in her moods; at times quite demanding with respect to the quality of work that she performs and her expectation of others. JT recently returned to the high school where she has worked for the past three years. She had been on medical leave for six weeks, in order to be treated for depression, which did not require hospitalization but was severe enough to warrant a medical leave. JT has a supportive family and a boyfriend of two years who encouraged her to take the time off as the number of antidepressants that had been tried appeared to be unsuccessful in treat-
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ing the severity of her depression. JT had shared with her family that she had experienced suicidal thoughts but had no plan or intent to harm herself. She was frustrated by her inability to feel consistently happy, feeling that her antidepressant medications would “stop working,” despite an initial period of improvement. When she resumed her work, she had been able to cope with her chronically depressed mood. However, over the course of the next week and thereafter, she began to experience persistent agitation and irritability that was difficult to manage. Her irritability was obvious to friends and co-workers who began to avoid her. JT viewed herself as more important in her work and felt that her co-workers were probably jealous of her status. She frequently interrupted her co-workers at meetings and was increasingly easily distracted. Her sleep decreased to the point that she was sleeping only three hours each night, and she attributed her irritability to her sleep disturbance. She was asked to see her supervisor who told JT that her change in mood was quite noticeable and gently encouraged her to see her doctor. Up to this point, JT had seen her primary care doctor and was maintained only on an antidepressant. She did see her doctor who was actually surprised at the change in her behavior, finding her to be easily irritated to the extent that JT demanded that she be prescribed a different medication to treat “her nerves,” or she would walk out of his office. Her primary care doctor did prescribe an anxiolytic, in this instance diazepam or Valium. But her primary care doctor also insisted that JT see a psychiatrist. Previously, she had refused to do so stating that her mother was treated for many years for a psychiatric illness, believed to be Schizophrenia, but at the age of 50 took her own life. JT stated that she did not trust psychiatrists and for this reason did not wish to be seen by one. However, her primary care doctor insisted, telling JT that she needed more specialized care. JT reluctantly agreed to see a psychiatrist. When seen by the psychiatrist, who obtained a detailed history, JT was surprised when the psychiatrist diagnosed her condition as Bipolar II Disorder. JT said she was familiar with Bipolar Disorder, but had never experienced a manic episode and did not feel that she had this condition. However, the psychiatrist explained to JT that it was his clinical opinion that her mood irritability was a “hypomanic episode,” as dis-
tinguished from a manic episode; distinguishing hypomania as a condition in which the level of instability that was typically seen in a full manic presentation was not present. The psychiatrist recommended that JT be started on a mood stabilizer, lamotrigine or Lamictal. This medication was started at 25 mg daily and increased by 25 mg every two weeks. JT did not miss work, and over the course of the next several weeks was noted by her co-workers to be significantly improved. JT decided to accept the recommendation for psychotherapy. She has been able to work through the issues that she had with her mother and now understands that in all likelihood, her mother had Schizoaffective Disorder, which was characterized by depression and a thought disorder. One year later, JT is still doing well. Her mood instability has resolved and she has been stable. Visit our website for more on Bipolar II Disorder. References are provided for the informed consumer: Types of Bipolar Disorder (Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance) http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/PageServer?pagename=education_bipolar_types Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: Burden of Mental Illness http://www.cdc.gov/mentalhealth/basics/burden.htm MedlinePlus: Impact and Response to Mental Illness http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/podcast/transcript081213.html Dr. Middleton is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry & Neurology, and a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. He received his undergraduate training at New York University and an MD degree from Rutgers Medical School. Dr. Middleton completed his psychiatric residency at St. Vincent’s Hospital & Medical Center, in NYC. He is on the honorary medical staff (retired) of Hackensack University Medical Center in NJ, where he is also Chairman Emeritus of the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine. Dr. Middleton has been on the voluntary teaching faculty of Mount Sinai School of Medicine and Brown Medical School. He is currently a Clinical Associate Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. Dr. Middleton is retired as an Associate in the Department of Psychiatry in the Geisinger Health System formerly practicing at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center in WilkesBarre, Pennsylvania. Dr. Middleton lives in Dingmans Ferry, PA, and Manhattan, NY.
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Laser Vision
HERE’S LOOKING AT YOU By Dr. Frank A. Bucci, Jr.
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mental state, desire to live longer, and feeling healthier. Health is multifaceted; not only does it stem from physical activity, but also our overall well being throughout our lives. Having poor vision affects our ability to stay active, both physically and mentally, as the things we love to do are made difficult with unclear vision without glasses or contacts. By having a regular eye exam performed by an Optometrist, or talking with an Ophthalmologist about your surgical options and choosing the right path for your unique eyes, you, too, can be a part of this Generation Active. Visit Dr. Bucci, the founder and a leading Ophthalmologist at Bucci Laser Vision, so you can get active this fall without those pesky glasses or irritating contact lenses holding you back. Whether it’s to enjoy your workout or cook your favorite meal, enjoy your active lifestyle knowing your eye health is in tip top shape!
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Art-a-Pelago Loose Leaf Pages, Black & Brass Coffee, & D.J. Harvey Agency, Honesdale. One art gallery in three locations. Info: waynecountyartsalliance.org. DAILY
Public Art Displays Nature’s Grace, Dime Bank & Wayne Bank, Wayne Memorial Hospital, Harvey Insurance, Honesdale, & Pocono Lake Region Chamber of Commerce, Hawley. Wayne County Arts Alliance artists display their work monthly. DAILY
Public Art Display REMAX Wayne, Honesdale. Art displays of local artists all year long. Info: 570-253-9566. DAILY
Kids Art Display Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Artwork created by students from all over Monroe County is featured in a month-long exhibit. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. WEEKLY
Table Tennis in Honesdale Lakeside Elementary School, Honesdale. Join a group of table tennis enthusiasts who play weekly. Info: John Babyak, 570-253-4379 or jbabyak1@ptd.net. TUESDAYS
Bingo American Legion Post 311, Hawley. Doors open 10:30 a.m., games begin at Noon. Info: legionpost311@qmail.com. TUESDAYS
Bingo Texas #4 Fire Company, Honesdale. Doors open 5:30 p.m. Games start at 6:30 p.m. Plenty of parking. Info: 570-253-5467.
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Lego Club 4:30–5:30 p.m. Pike County Public Library, Milford. Create, share ideas, make new friends. Free & open to the public, registration requested. Info: www.pcpl.org or Facebook. Registration: 570-296-8211. WEDNESDAYS
Jazz on the Deck The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Cool music & great food. Info: 570-226-2993 or desk@thesettlersinn.com. THURSDAYS
Writer’s Retreat 10:30–11:30 a.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Writing seminar — share ideas, memories & life experiences in written words. Limited to 12 participants. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org. THURSDAYS
Pub-O-Lympics 8 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Hilarious combination of trivia & physical challenges. Compete with teams to win a gift certificate, gold medal & bragging rights. Info: 570-226-2124. FRIDAYS
Live Music Friday 8–11 p.m. Glass — wine. bar. kitchen. at Ledges Hotel, Hawley. No cover charge. Info: info@ledgeshotel.com or 570-226-1337. FRIDAYS
Live Music 8 p.m.–Midnight. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. SATURDAYS
Main Street Farmers’ Market 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Farm to table eats from Anthill Farm Kitchen, locally grown produce & other artisanal goods. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
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FREE Tastings and Demos Noon–2 p.m. Mill Market, in the Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Info: 570-390-4440.
Research: Methods & Real Life Model 5:30–7 p.m. Stourbridge Project, Honesdale. Open to the public. RSVP requested but not required. Light refreshments served. Info: Jess Wolk, jwolk@wpworkforce.org or 570-390-7613.
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Live Music 9 p.m.–1 a.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Great drink specials, delicious food & live music. Info: 570-226-2124 or silverbirchesresortpa.com. THROUGH NOVEMBER
The Paper Caves basin and main @ lot 21, Honesdale. Art installation. Gallery hours: Sat., 1–4 p.m. or by appointment, or by chance. Info: samuelle@basinandmain.com or 917-703-2739.
November 1– November 9 NOV. 1
Lunch and Learn: Veterans’ Benefits Noon–1 p.m. Wayne County Public Library, Honesdale. Frank Muggeo of the Veterans Affair speaks about benefits available to vet-
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First Friday Scranton 6–9 p.m. Scranton. Artwalk featuring over 25 venues, local, regional & nationally recognized artists, live music & more. Admission & trolley between venues free. Info & monthly map: www.firstfridayscranton.com. NOV. 3
RiverFolk Concert: Susie Vinnick & The Kennedys 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Roots, blues & gospel tunes. Reservations & info: Jill, 845-252-6783 or riverfolkconcerts@frontier.com. NOV. 3
Project Owlnet Saw-whet Owl Banding 8–10 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Open to public.
NOV. 3–4
Beer Lover’s Weekend 6–11 p.m. Pocono Manor Resort & Spa, Pocono Manor. Weekend packed with various craft beers from the award-winning Devil’s Backbone Brewing Co. Two different four-course beer-pairing dinners (6 p.m.) on Fri. & Sat. Cooking demo show, Paint Your Pint Contest, meet & greet tastings with DB brew masters & more. Must be 21 or older to participate in events or attend dinners. Info: 800-233-8150 or reservations@poconomanor.com. erans. Lunch is included. Info & registration: Elizabeth, 570-253-1220 or ewilson@waynelibraries.org. NOV. 1
Tannersville Cranberry Bog Walk 1–3:30 p.m. Tannersville Cranberry Bog, Tannersville. Wear appropriate footwear. Pre-registration required. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. NOV. 2
Pancake Supper 4:30–7 p.m. Bethany United Methodist Church, Bethany. Purchase tickets at the door or from a church member. Info: 570-253-6564.
Learn about the Northern Saw-whet Owl, Project Owlnet & have an opportunity to see one of the most secretive birds in the eastern US. Preregistration suggested. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. NOV. 4
Fire Building 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Ages 10+. Make fire without matches by learning techniques that involve sparks & found or prepared tinder. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
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Art Opening: Stephanie Spotts 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Spotts’ explorations in art take her out of the usual & land her smack dab in the middle of what’s next. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org. NOV. 4
Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs 3 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Donations collected at door. For kids of all ages. Disney-themed costumes encouraged & welcome. Snacks & drinks available to purchase. Kids’ activities before & after film. Snow White might even make an appearance. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 4
Roast Beef Dinner 4:30–7 p.m. First Presbyterian Church Chapel, Honesdale. Roast beef, mashed potatoes, gravy, green beans, carrots, bread & dessert. Dine in or take out. Tickets available from: any Troop 1 Scout; Vicky Bryant, HNB Corporate Ctr., Main St.; Mike, Lehutsky Law Office, Main St.; Dirlam Brothers; at the door the day of the dinner. NOV. 4
Honesdale Rotary’s International Flavors Dinner 5:30–7:30 p.m. Honesdale High School, Honesdale. A sumptuous buffet of dishes from around the world cooked up by local restaurants & Rotarians — Mexican, French, Italian, Indian & more. Supports Honesdale Rotary charities. Tickets available from local Rotarians. Info: Honesdale Rotary on Facebook. NOV. 4
Tempest of the Heart with Ilya Yakushev 7:30 p.m. Milford Theater, Milford. Pianist performs Beethoven’s “Tempest” sonata, works by Tchaikovsky & Liszt as well as Rachmaninov’s beloved cello sonata in a duet with Kindred Spirits’ Yosif Feigelson. Info: 570-409-1269 or www.kindredspiritsarts.org.
NOV. 5
Lenape of the Eastern Woodlands 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Ages 10+. Learn about the day-to-day activities of the Lenape culture. The food, clothing & shelter of the local hunter gatherers will be presented, along with handmade artifacts. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 5
Bethany Library Fundraising Dinner 4–7 p.m. The Barn at Boyds Mills. Guest speaker: Charlie Gibson, former “ABC World News Tonight” anchor & co-host of “Good Morning America.” Live auction of unique donated items including artwork, jewelry, gift certificates to local restaurants, a package of yoga classes, & a load of mulch for your garden or backyard. Rexervations & info: Kate Baxter, 570-253-4349 or Jane Bollinger, 570-253-5711. NOV. 9
Business Plan Boot Camp 5:30–7 p.m. Stourbridge Project, Honesdale. Open to the public. RSVP requested but not required. Light refreshments served. Info: Jess Wolk, jwolk@wpworkforce.org or 570-390-7613. NOV. 9–12
Flying Needles — Fiber Arts UFOs Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Join other crafters for a weekend of fun & productivity as you devote time to finishing. Cost includes lodging & meals. Commuter rates available. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
November 10–November 19 NOV. 10
Italian Wine Dinner 7 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Sample fine Italian wine & expertly prepared Italian cuisine during. Reservations required. Info: 570-226-2993 or desk@thesettlersinn.com. NOV. 10–11
NOV. 5
Wildlife Signs at Quiet Valley 1–3 p.m. Quiet Valley Living Historical Farm, Stroudsburg. November brings colder temperatures & with it numerous animals are making their final preparations for winter. Outdoor hike to learn how to ID the signs they leave behind. Dress to walk out-
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side. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
Children’s Books & More Sale Community Library of Lake & Salem Townships, Hamlin. Fri., 3–6 p.m. Sat., 9 a.m.–2 p.m. New children’s books, puzzles, games, & novelties – most at 50% off or more. Proceeds benefit the library. Info: 570-689-0903.
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Artist “Meet & Greet” 1–4 p.m. The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Local artist Lisa Hannick, a fabulous oil painter in the style of the old Dutch Masters. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. NOV. 11
Second Saturday Honesdale 6–9 p.m. Downtown Honesdale. Festivaltown happening filled with music, art, comedy & community support. Info on Facebook. NOV. 11 & 12
Victorian Winter Weekend Sale 10-5 p.m. Past Impressions, Hamlin. Holiday shopping in a beautifully decorated Victorian home. Décor, gifts, clothes, jewelry and so much more. Everything will be 15% off! Info: 570-689-4123.
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Romping Radishes 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Geared to students K–2, but all children are welcome. Taste fresh produce & practice Thankfulness. A healthy snack will be provided. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
NOV. 11
Veterans Day Hike 10 am.–Noon. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Leisurely hike to Lake Lacawac on a crisp autumn day. Wear comfortable shoes. All are welcome. Registration appreciated. Free. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. NOV. 11
Naturally Beautiful Beading 10 a.m.–Noon. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Learn to identify stones such as jasper, geodes, agate or turquoise & the process used to colorenhance the stones. Instructions on how to create a bracelet & earrings, or a necklace, to take home. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
NOV. 12
Introduction to Orienteering 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. How to use a map & compass on the orienteering course. Learn the basics before you try & find all the points. Space is limited. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 12
Weekend of Chamber Music presents Gloria Cheng in recital: Garlands for Steven Stucky 5 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Chamber musicians in a program with Gloria Cheng of short works for piano by friends & students of Steven Stucky, a beloved American composer & mentor. BYOB. Reservations: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 14
Film Screening: SOLD 7 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. To raise awareness & begin a discussion about sex trafficking, Yoga International hosts a screening of the movie, “SOLD,” about a young girl sold into sexual slavery in India & the dangerous mission to rescue her. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit & a call to action for audiences worldwide. Donations benefit Courageous Girls and Taught Not Trafficked, a ChildReach International campaign. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org.
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Acoustic Bluegrass Jam 7–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Presented by The Cooperage Project. Guitarstrummin’, banjo-pickin’, close-harmony singin’ open jam led by Ron Penska & Buckshot Jenkins. All levels of players welcome. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 16
Game Night 6–9 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Board games, brain games, card games, more. Bring your own game or choose from the collection. Info: 570-253-2020 or thecooperageproject.org. NOV. 16
Third Thursday 6–9 p.m. Downtown Scranton. Actors, writers, musicians, & improvisational groups perform at various venues. Info & monthly map: www.firstfridayscranton.com.
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NOV. 17–19
Maple City Jazz Fest(ival) The Cooperage, Honesdale. Honesdale’s first ever jazz festival. Four different performances throughout the weekend. Nov. 17, 7:30 p.m.: Andy Milne Trio. Andy Milne, Mark Helias & David Jimenez, talented musicians on the piano, bass & drums. Nov. 18, 11 a.m.: Lone Duck. Trio offers up their own treatments of jazz standards as well as explores the side of the genre known as “free jazz.” Nov. 18, 7:30 p.m.: Matt Hoffman Quintet. Toe-tapping jazz from a Wayne Cty. native & his quintet of very talented musicians. Nov. 19, 5 p.m.: Impromptu: An Intimate Exploration of the Art of Improvising. Standard tunes, jazz lines, original compositions & totally free improvisations are woven into their performances. Evening performances are BYOB. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. NOV. 18
Brodhead Watershed Association’s Water Wiser Program 10:30 a.m.–Noon. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Kids & their grownups can test their knowledge of good old H2O. How does water carry things? Absorb things? Change things? How does water “hold together”? Suitable for elementary-age children, who must be accompanied by parent or guardian. Free, but registration required: 570-839-1120 or 570-6292727 or email info@brodheadwatershed.org.
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Maple City Jazz Fest(ival): Lone Duck 11 a.m.–1 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Free entry. Live jazz during the Main St. Farmers’ Market with Rowan Lynch, Bob Wilson & Bob Ventrello. See description at Nov. 17. Info: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. NOV. 18
Ecozone Discovery Room 1–4 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Explore the indoor discovery room & enjoy hands-on exhibits on natural history, sustainability & the local environment. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 18
Game Dinner 6–8 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. PEEC’s 7th annual dinner features local game & seasonal harvests. 5 p.m., reception in the Ecozone. 6 p.m., dinner in the Dining Hall. Call early to guarantee a seat. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
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Holiday Tea and Tour 2–4 p.m. Lacawac Sanctuary, Lake Ariel. Enjoy a variety of baked goods & finger foods with seasonal tea in Lacawac’s historic 1903 Watres Lodge, dressed for the Christmas season. Experience the beauty of the estate & lodge with a guided tour. Register in advance; seating limited. Info: 570-689-9494 or info@lacawac.org. NOV. 18
Maple City Jazz Fest(ival): Matt Hoffman Quintet 7:30 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. See description at Nov. 17. BYOB. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020. NOV. 19
Little Eco Explorers: Bears 1–2:30 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. A fun handson program for young children with a story, craft & activity focusing on black bears. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org. NOV. 19
Maple City Jazz Fest(ival): Impromptu: An Intimate Exploration of the Art of Improvising 5 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Kazzrie Jaxen & Don Messina. See description at Nov. 17. BYOB. Reservations: info@thecooperageproject.org or 570-253-2020.
November 20–November 30 NOV. 20
Wayne Highlands Quilt Guild 6:30 p.m. Community Room, Chamber of Commerce, Honesdale. Welcoming quilters all ages & skill levels. Make new friends who share your passion for quilting. Show & Tell & refreshments. Info: Deb, 570-224-4914 or debszoo@gmail.com. NOV. 22
Friendsgiving on Thanksgiving Eve 8 p.m.–Midnight. Glass - Wine.Bar.Kitchen, Hawley. Celebrate the holidays with friends. Festive evening features live music by Eric Rudy. Free admission; food & beverages additional. Call for reservations. Info: 570-226-1337 or info@ledgeshotel.com. NOV. 23
Waterfront Thanksgiving Buffet Noon–4 p.m. The Waterfront at Silver Birches, Hawley. Traditional buffet meal including all your holiday favorites. Call for reservations. Info: 570-226-4388 or info@silverbirchesresortpa.com. NOV. 23
Fuss-Free Thanksgiving Noon–6 p.m. The Dock on Wallenpaupack, Hawley. Enjoy a family-style Thanksgiving meal. Reservations & info: 570-226-2124 or info@silverbirchesresortpa.com. NOV. 23
NOV. 19
Monica with Ginuwine 9–11 p.m. Cove Haven Resort, Lakeville. R&B stars headline a throwback performance. Both artists put out hit after hit in the ’90s & continued to find success in the 2000s in solo & collaborative efforts. Info: 888-963-3052 or poconoromance@covepoconoresorts.com.
Grand Thanksgiving Buffet Noon–6 p.m. Pocono Manor Resort & Spa, Pocono Manor. All the traditional trimmings of the holiday plus a delicious seafood bar. Reservations & info: 800-233-8150 or reservations@poconomanor.com.
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Tr a d i t i o n a l T h a n k s g i v i n g Fe a s t Noon–6:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Celebrate with a farm-to-table feast. Thanksgiving dinner to go available for pickup from 9 a.m.–1 p.m. on Thanksgiving Day. Orders accepted through Nov. 21. Reservations & info: 570-226-2993 or desk@thesettlersinn.com.
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“Shop Local & Save” 10 a.m.–6 p.m The Art Factory of White Mills, White Mills. Many of the artists will be discounting some of their artwork. Info: 570-251-1181 or TheArtFactoryofWhiteMills.com. NOV. 29
Glass Sip & Paint 6–8 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. Unleash your creative side & discover your artistic ability. Participants will have the choice of 2 glasses: mason jars, stem or stemless wine glasses, & be guided through the process with simple techniques. No experience necessary. You are welcome to bring drinks & snacks. Donation must be made in advance. Space limited. Reservations & info: 570-618-3080.
NOV. 26
December 1–December 8
Holiday Bows & Boughs 1–3 p.m. Pocono Environmental Education Center, Dingmans Ferry. Create your own holiday decorations using natural materials. Evergreen boughs & materials to make wreaths provided. You can also bring your own supplies & decorations. Music, drinks & snacks. Preregistration required. Info: 570-828-2319 or www.peec.org.
DEC. 1
First Friday Scranton 6–9 p.m. Scranton. See description at Nov. 3. Info & monthly map: www.firstfridayscranton.com. DEC. 1 & 2
Big Shot with Mike DelGuidice: The Ultimate Billy Joel Experience 8:30–10 p.m. Cove Haven Resort, Lakeville. The only Billy Joel show endorsed by Billy Joel. DelGuidice is a brilliant vocalist & master of several instruments, including bass guitar, rhythm guitar, piano & drums. Info: 888-963-3052 or poconoromance@covepoconoresorts.com. DEC. 1–3
NOV. 24–25
Candlelight Christmas Dinner 6–9:30 p.m. The Settlers Inn, Hawley. Share a farm-to-table feast by candlelight. The dining room will be decked for the annual dinners. Evenings feature a special holiday menu & live entertainment. Reservations required. Reservations & info: 570-226-2993 or desk@thesettlersinn.com.
Honesdale for the Holidays Downtown Honesdale. Experience holiday hospitality with many fine stores hosting events for shoppers’ browsing pleasure. Annual Santa Parade & tree lighting, & plenty of seasonal fun to be found. Free. Info: 570-253-5492 or DEC. 2 www.visithonesdalepa.com. LTVFD Ladies Auxiliary Annual Holiday Craft Fair NOV. 25 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Lackawaxen Fire DepartA Contra Dance 7:15–10 p.m. The Cooperage, Honesdale. ment, Lackawaxen. Food & homemade soup Live music by Laura Cartright & Craig available. Vendors, half-hourly door prizes. Plenty of parking. Snow date Dec. 9. Gehrig, with caller Laurie B. Info: 570-685-7330. Info: 570-253-2020 or info@thecooperageproject.org.
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DEC. 8–10
Art Opening: Photo Contest & Gingerbread Feeder Display 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Kettle Creek Environmental Education Center, Stroudsburg. Enjoy the entrants in the Monroe County Natural resources Photo Contest. Winners revealed & the top 12 photos will be available on a 2018 calendar. Proceeds from calendar sales benefit Environmental Education programs at Kettle Creek. Gingerbread birdfeeders also on display. Info: 570-629-3061 or www.mcconservation.org.
Hawley Winterfest Downtown Hawley. Event-filled weekend sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Tour historic homes decorated for the holiday season, listen to carols by the internationally acclaimed Virgin Consort, enjoy memorable culinary experiences & jazz performances, see ice-carving demonstrations, shop around town, & take the beer tour. There’s much to enjoy at the annual celebration. Info: 570-226-4064
DEC. 3
Live Music in the Paper Caves 7:30 p.m. basin and main @ lot 21, Honesdale. The Suitcase Junket performs. Donations at the door. BYOB. Info: samuelle@basinandmain.com or 917-703-2739. DEC. 8
Holiday Pop-Up Restaurant The Boiler Room, Hawley Silk Mill, Hawley. Seatings at 6 p.m. & 8 p.m. Step out for a special holiday dining experience. Call for reservations. Info: 570-226-1337.
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3rd Annual Hunger and Homelessness Awareness Event
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alling All Angels Mission would like to welcome the Safe Haven of Pike County as a co-host for our 3rd Annual Hunger and Homelessness Awareness Event, November 11, 2017, to be held at Jen Murphy Fitness Studio in Milford, PA. Calling All Angels partners with all the local charitable organizations, churches and government agencies in Pike County to try to make sure we reduce, and one day eliminate, the homelessness and food insecurity of our friends and neighbors in Pike County and the surrounding areas. Among these partnerships is a relationship with the Safe Haven Pike County. As a community, we are always looking at the human faces of hunger and homelessness. One of the populations that is hard to put a face to is those who suffer from abuse, in its many forms. Mostly because of the fear involved in being public about this troubling issue. We help where we can and offer Safe Haven assistance in their mission. In the past, one or two of our “stories� shared at the event come from these people who find they can no longer
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stay in their home or environment. In those instances, the names are changed but the situations are real. We will have music provided by Joe Craig, Mark Ferguson, Mr Lenny Miller, and Olivia Zinn, as well as possibly one or two more performers. There will be food. We are looking for local businesses to possibly donate some of the food, snacks and beverages. Otherwise, as we did last year, the Mission will supply the food for the evening. A tricky tray will be held with items we have set aside in the thrift shop, and those donated by our partners, local businesses and individuals. Tickets will be $5 and $1 each. We have a call out for more items to be donated for this raffle as well, so there will be a good variety. There will be speakers, stories and a frank discussion on how to recognize and combat the difficulties of homelessness and food insecurity facing our nation, our state, our communities. In the past, we have focused on the general topic of recognizing the faces of homelessness and introducing / pushing through legislation that can help
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alleviate and end these two facets of our society. This year, we intend to focus on the issue of Veteran Homelessness. Hopefully we can all get together and solve these issues. Neighbors helping neighbors. As of the writing of this press release, we will be once again partnering with the Ecumenical Food Pantry, the Pike County Humane Society and Pike County Hands of Hope, as well as the addition of the wonderful people at Safe Haven of Pike County. Tickets for the event are available at the door for a suggested donation of $10. We will also be accepting donations for the organizations involved on the night of the event – a bag of clothes, a box of food (not expired canned or dry goods as well as pet foods), Walmart (or other local stores) gift cards or some blankets. The event will be held November 11th from 6:30-9:30 PM at Jen Murphy Fitness Studio located at 113 W Harford Street in Milford, PA. A clarification is warranted about the price of admission. The $10 donation is “suggested”. As an awareness raising event, we are more interested in getting information out there. But cash donations allow us all to continue the work of our missions, so are always greatly appreciated.. “If someone cannot afford the $10, we do not want this to keep them from coming”, says Mission Secretary and event organizer Charles Reynolds. “They can bring some items or unexpired food items, in lieu of the cash. Or if they can't afford it at all, just come. The more people understand the situations their neighbors face, that the 'face' of hunger and homelessness has changed. In order to find solutions to these tragic situations people in our communities face, we need to understand the 'why'.” For more information, to find ways of volunteering for this or other events, or to make a donation of cash or food or raffle items, contact Charles at the thrift shop either by phone (570-409-6055) or email (callingallangelsmission@gmail.com). Or simply stop by the shop at 214 E Harford Street in Milford, PA. To stay updated on the information, make sure you keep visiting our Facebook Event at https://www.facebook.com/ events/1484876254931056/.
Alzheimer’s Educational Series
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o you have questions about caring for a senior loved one? Belle Reve Senior Living Community has the answers! Join Belle Reve every month for an Alzheimer’s Educational Series about caring for your family members. The next presentation will be held on Thursday, Nov. 9 from 6-7 p.m. Join Belle Reve and guest speaker Travis Martin, NHA to talk about “Caregiver Burnout.” Learn what causes caregiver burnout and how you can recognize the signs and symptoms. If you feel you are experiencing caregiver burnout or are interested in prevention, then this is the seminar for you! If you can’t make it to this meeting but are interested in learning more about caring for your senior loved one, next month’s meeting will be held on Thursday, Dec 14. The series will be held on the second Thursday of each month. The meetings are free and open to the public and light refreshments will be provided. Please RSVP by calling 570-4099191. Belle Reve is an award-winning senior community that has been providing seniors with the best Personal Care, Memory Care and Skilled Nursing services for 15 years. Senior living services are offered on an affordable month-tomonth lease with no buy-in fees. We invite you to visit our community and see what makes Belle Reve a great place to live! For more information, please call 570-409-9191 or visit www.bellereveseniorliving.com.
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