Contributors&Publisher’s Letter
founder & publisher fernando de haro
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april • may 2019
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This issue of Cream is one of the most special editions of the year for us! Ever since the magazine’s origins, we’ve celebrated our Modern Moms in our own way. As we’ve done since 2012, we spoke to four exemplary mothers who shared their emotional and inspiring experiences of motherhood.
high end retouching paola denyce badouin production + video assistant katya peña
Writers joe arciniega, michelle cook, victor hugo garcía, elyssa canales-villarreal, and monica delgado.
We also had the chance to speak with Elizabeth Alonzo-Villarreal, founder of Laredoans Against Drunk Driving. She spoke to us about the genesis of the organization. Get to know the great work LADD does day in and day out to bring awareness to the community on the dangers of drinking and driving. Bravo LADD on your effort and dedication!
Something that has always been very important to us at Cream has been culture, art and education. Our city has a first-class learning center whose growth we have witnessed. They are constantly evolving to bring the best learning practices and styles to Laredo families. And of course, I am referring to Sunshine Learning and Enrichment Center, that recently opened its doors to a second location. We spoke to the center’s founder, Tania Galindo, about the different programs they have to offer. We are very happy with how packed this edition turned out. We also have our recurring sections from San Miguel de Allende and Paris, France! Cream is always at the forefront of all things trending and the latest in fashion. We thank you, readers, for continuing to be by our side. I promise the next edition will be one worth looking out for!
See you in our 9th anniversary edition! Coming really soon. Fernando De Haro
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Mommy & Me Cream Style
CREAM Fashion Editorial
Contents 6
Spring Notes Styled By Michelle
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El sabor de la primavera en SMA
Victor Hugo en SMA
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Today I Turn 30. The 4 Is Silent.
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Monochrome
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Love and (Purple) Passion on Capitol Hill
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Houston Treasures: Buffalo Bayou
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Modern Mom
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Dulce Paris Ooh la la, carbs!
Mommin’ Made Chic
Arciniega Eyes
Houston, TX
Paris, Francia
Styled By Michelle Editorial
Spring Notes M
an, was it a long winter or was it a long winter? So happy to be finally whipping out these Spring colors and fabrics! As an ode to this statement, I will talk to you all about the flowy, airy and breathable fabrics -- that in our town -- are so underestimated. I’d go so far as to describe them as life-saving! So before we regret saying goodbye to fall and the weather temperatures skyrocket, let’s go over some themes that will play a big role in our survival and keep us cute as well. There will always be a matching set or two featured in this article. I love how versatile these pieces are and better yet, easy to combine. They’re the Jack to my Rose; I’ll never let go.
This set highlights THE print of the season: stripes. Baby blues and an easy chiffon sheer top to pair, my go-to chunky kitten heels and two key hot accessories: gold, dainty shell hoops and a bucket bag with acrylic chain handles.
Last year, we saw the revival of the ‘90s-era combat boot. Designers were quick to tackle the trend and these chunky lace ups made their way into our closets. I polished them up with a contrasting delicate set. A cotton blended white bustier crop with puffy sleeves and high waisted culottes -both popular silhouettes this spring. The cherry on top is also a throwback to our childhood. A colorful, beaded bag. I wasn’t kidding when I said stripes will be the biggest print this season. Here in a vintage-inspired red and off-white dress with cool accents like the buttons running along the middle. Linen will come in all shapes and forms, and I love how we will see them in more dressy shapes than the usual like this dress.
Things to highlight: play around with vintage-inspired trends, pearl barrettes, beaded bags. Wear all the stripes you find and most importantly, take a deep breath because that is exactly what these fabrics should let you do -- breathe. It’s gonna get hot mama!
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The Meet two dynamic achievers who contribute to the development of both Laredos. They are flying high on Cream’s radar.
Karina Gabriela Mendoza
Brenda Tiffee Garcia
Purchasing Manager at UISD
Retired bookkeeper / Active Women’s City Club member
I graduated from TAMIU with an MBA wanting to dedicate myself to my community. I began as Director of Quality Management for our local mental health center. Shortly thereafter, I was offered a position with UISD. Purchasing was new to me, but embracing change and taking on new challenges is what keeps me going. I oversaw the procurement of our main United High School. This 437,449 square foot facility was a multimillion dollar investment in construction, furniture and equipment. Being responsible for each dollar invested was a priceless experience. I’m honored that my team and I were trusted with this endeavor and that we were able to deliver an amazing school to our community.
Every day you go to work and try to make each contribution, even those that seem insignificant, stack up to something bigger. Ultimately those little stacks end up becoming large structures meant to help our city’s kids and their education. What could be more rewarding than that? I take my fitness very seriously. I like to run half-marathons, and I teach some Zumba classes in my spare time at a local gym. I think all those healthfocused projects outside of work bring some ingenuity and creativity to my daily life and workday. If you feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside and ultimately everything contributes to the wellness of you and your workplace. Work hard at impressing yourself, and don’t worry about the distractions life will throw at you. 8 CREAM
I find inspiration in so many things: a painting from my daughter, my grandson’s laughter and in the sage advice of my friends. I’m more of a listener than a talker. I prefer sitting and listening to conversation flow around me. I can just sit in a corner and people watch. Reading is my absolute favorite pastime. I am never without a book.
I began my career as a bookkeeper when my husband and I bought the Bordertown Flea Market back in 1989. We sold the Flea Market two years ago and I was able to retire -- thank goodness! However, my life is busier now than when I actually worked. 25 years ago my sister-in-law, Betty Flores, convinced me to join Women’s City Club. That decision completely changed my life; those women put me to work immediately! First, I was Chairperson of the Telephone Committee (remember, no cell phones in those days). Later, I was the Ways and Means Chairperson -- that was more than an actual job! I’ve never worked so hard in my life! I have been President of this wonderful organization three times. Women’s City Club does more for this community than its citizens will ever know. For the last three years, the organization has given more than $200,000 to Laredo each year. Not for nothing -- but, we are a group of amazing women! I think at my age, I can look back and wonder at the choices that I made when I was younger. I know that all of us, if given the choice, would go back in time and change decisions that were made in haste or in anger.
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Celebrating the legacy of
Arturo N. Benavides Sr. On February 26, the Eastwoods subvision park adopted a new name, the Arturo N. Benavides Sr. Memorial Park. The City of Laredo honored the late prominent philanthropist on what would have been his 81st birthday. The new name is in addition to several upgrades such as a dog park, walking trail, soccer nets and basketball courts, making it something for the community to enjoy -- a fact that Mr. Benavides’ family said would surely have made him smile.
Mommin’ Made Chic Editorial
Today I Turn 30. The 4 is Silent.
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pril is finally here! I’m turning 34 this month and unlike birthdays in my 20s that were 1000% self-
indulgent… Why lie? This year may also be celebrated with a trip or two! Maybe three. I had the privilege of exploring various parts
1. Make time for yourself because self-care is not a luxury. It’s completely necessary.
of Mexico, from the beautiful beaches of
2. Travel; take the scenic route. Roam and just explore!
Punta Mita to the metropolitan Mexico City. Personally, travel for me always evokes thought
3. Your mind is always far more powerful than you think! Focus, do the work and the rest is magic!
Birthdays always have a weird way of sneaking
4. Sleep fixes everything! If you’re hungry, bored, tired, or aging, the answer is always: sleep!
things. Typically, we reflect on what happened
5. Confidence, if used correctly, it can act as an unstoppable force field.
and in this case, my impending birthday. up on us and forcing us to deeply reflect on in the past year, what our plans and hopes are
for the next, our future goals, and sadly also our failures. This year, however, I’m going to spare
6. You do you! Just be yourself, and allow others to be themselves. 7. When it comes to friendship -- quality over quantity, ALWAYS!
you the self-loathing and focus on what I have
8. It’s easier to be nice than bitchy. So ask, don’t demand. Be friendly and never cold. Say hello and smile because everyone has their own daily struggles.
with 10 life lessons I’ve acquired in my years!
9. Be flexible in life but uphold a to-do list. Simply said, go with the flow, understand that shit happens, but carry on with your day-to-day goals.
accomplished by welcoming my special day
10. Manifest your dreams, and speak whatever you want to happen into existence! Nine times out of ten, this theory is a solid win!
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I realize that a lot of us don’t necessarily love the idea of getting older, but so far, every year I’ve been blessed to live has been far greater than the previous one. Finally, I will leave you with one more bit of wisdom from a humble thirty-something year old… Today is all that we really have. We can certainly hope for tomorrow, but truly there are no guarantees! So play on, playa!
Arciniega Eyes Editorial
Love and (Purple) Passion on Capitol Hill April in Paris has nothing on Washington D.C., though perhaps one could argue that one is Paris and the other is not. But though spring bestows its seasonal glory upon both, in the first days of April, the “shining city upon a hill” is beauty with a cause, and that gives her the edge. “Today, best day for the cherries,” my Iranian cab driver said as we pulled out of Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport. “I’m sorry?” I was reading my texts, but caught enough to think that he was offering me a snack. As I looked up, I saw that his black eyes were fixed forward, as the accordion of cars in front of us demanded. Then I noticed that his right hand was crooked toward the passenger window. With winter only just retreated, most of the trees were still brown or bare. Only a lime green glow around their crown promised the foliage to come. Encouraging (or taunting) the trees to hurry, were bouquets of buttery trumpets on short green stalks randomly gathered at their roots. They made me smile, as daffodils always do. Then I saw them, “the cherries,” or rather, the cherry trees. Showy bunches of pale pink popcorn exploded atop dark woody trunks. A few would be impressive enough, but what my driver meant were the rows upon rows of them on the very day of the year that they are known to have reached their zenith of splendor. From my moving cab, finally broken free of the inching traffic, they now appeared like puffs of rosy smoke floating above the craned heads of their admirers. I couldn’t join them; I had a different reason for my visit, and so did over a thousand others from around the country. On the last weekend of March 2019, as an Ambassador for the Alzheimer’s Association of San Antonio and South Texas, I travelled to Washington D.C. for the 31st annual Alzheimer’s Impact Movement Advocacy Forum. This gathering of over 1000 volunteer Ambassadors and Advocates from around the country, joined me at our own expense to spend two spectacular spring days in cold boxy hotel meeting rooms to learn more about Alzheimer’s disease from organization professionals, research scientists, physicians, and even sufferers of this plague upon our people. We were preparing ourselves to then spend another day in cramped reception rooms and hallways of government offices on Capitol Hill. But we remained unbowed, because after our lessons, updates, tutorials, and role play sessions, we were inspired and more determined than ever to share, to educate, to cajole, and yes, to lobby our United States Congressmen and Senators for funding and legislation to fight and end Alzheimer’s disease. The facts and figures that we learned from the Alzheimer’s Association are stunning; 5.8 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s disease, and by 2050 this number is projected to rise to nearly 14 million; every 65 seconds someone in the United States develops Alzheimer’s; it is the BY JOE ARCINIEGA | arciniegajoe@gmail.com 12 CREAM
6th leading cause of death in the United States, killing more than breast cancer and prostate cancer combined; and it is the only one in the top 10 for which there is no cure, no treatment for its symptoms, no way to slow its progression, and as of yet, there are no survivors. Sadly, for pretty much all of us there, Alzheimer’s disease is much more than science, medicine and statistics. I have yet to meet another person working with us in this fight that does not have a deeply personal story about how Alzheimer’s disease entered their lives and profoundly affected them and their families, beyond claiming their beloveds. As we “suit up” for our charge upon Capitol Hill wearing purple Alzheimer’s Association sashes, purple accented business attire, and comfortable shoes, we are all armed with compendiums of information. But the most critical weapon in our arsenal is our personal story. Each of us fights in someone’s name. She saw her 57 year old CEO husband lose his ability to write; another heard his elegant grandmother use profanities that he couldn’t imagine she even knew; another had her doting mother accuse her of abuse and theft; his devoted wife looked at him blankly and only spoke to others; my father said his beloved sister was trying to poison him, and that I, his proud oldest son and namesake, displaced him. Holding my hand just three days after his 79th birthday, he died because he could no longer swallow. Each of us is encouraged to introduce our personal stories into our encounters to ensure that we most comprehensively represent this scourge on the people of their congressional districts. And though that means the scars we bear can never fully heal while we are in this fight, we know it is what we must do. Often there are tears in these meetings, and sometimes those tears are returned in kind. And when the time is right, we make our plea, which is more money for critical research, appropriation of funds already hard won and committed, and sponsorship of new desperately needed legislation. Year after year, we go to Capitol Hill to end Alzheimer’s now. And as we do, we hope for the moon, we celebrate the stars, and we pray for a break.
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As Laredo’s only Catholic high school, St. Augustine gives students the tools they need to succeed after their studies. The students create strong bonds with each other that last for decades after graduation. Together, they walk the same hallways and follow the same faithbased, college prep curriculum that shape their lives forever.
Success Starts At St. Augustine
Miriam Guajardo Buyer at Joe Brand
How has your education at St. Augustine influenced the person you are today? After attending St. Augustine for thirteen years, I am tremendously grateful for all of the fruits in my life that are the result of my Catholic education. St. Augustine planted the seeds of faith, knowledge and service within me. I sincerely attribute a large portion of my work ethic to my supportive teachers, who pushed me to do my best and work hard.
Describe your favorite St. Augustine tradition. The yearly tradition of bringing skits to life for Halloween was my personal favorite! The entire campus awaited the performances with entertaining dances and storylines. This time created an indescribable unity amongst students, teachers and parents like none other. What high school moment at St. Augustine stands out to you? The Senior Farewell Mass was definitely an unforgettable moment! Although many tears were shed, there was plenty of laughter as the senior class took a look back at our years together. It was a memorable day filled with fun and friends that you knew would last a lifetime.
What advice would you give to prospective students or parents looking to enroll their children at St. Augustine? Please know your child will be offered a secure and supportive learning experience! St. Augustine is a place that can bind faith, knowledge and service together to develop a whole person. Without this type of education and environment, I would not have the same morals, the same faith or the same strength as I do today. St. Augustine spells success in today’s world!
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Walking On It’s never too early to start learning! At just six months old, kids at Sunshine Learning and Enrichment Center are being prepared to excel in a classroom. Tania Galindo, the academy’s founder, spoke to us about what the school is all about and how they help develop young minds.
Ever since Sunshine first opened its doors summer of 2015, there has been a big evolution! What are some of the areas that have grown the most since then? We are now in two locations, offering the same programs and curriculum at both of our institutions. One of our goals is to offer an enrichment curriculum full of fun and amazing activities. That’s why we added more sports to our curriculum; we included basketball and soccer for the children to develop their gross motor skills. We added Mandarin lessons for our children that are with us for the full day program. We are now a TSR Certified School (Texas School Ready), which means we prepare children cognitively for school.
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Tell us about the programs offered at Sunshine. We are a multicultural learning center. Our classes are in English and Spanish, and our students now have the opportunity to take a third language in the afternoon: Mandarin. There is an early stimulation program for infants from six months to 18 months of age at our McPherson location; an early childhood development program for kids aged 18 to 35 months; a prekindergarten program for kids between 3 and 4 years old; and a Summer Camp program, where your kids can enjoy arts & crafts, cooking lessons, science exploration, Lego building and physical education classes such as Zumba, yoga and basketball.
What are the ages for enrollment? We are now enrolling infants from six months old to prekindergarten students (four year-olds). During the summer, we take students all the way to 12 years of age and get them involved in one of our different summer camp programs: science and technology, arts and crafts or cooking. Tell us more about the recently opened new location. We opened our doors at our new location August 2018. We have had a great response on our enrollment throughout the year, and we are expecting to have a full capacity for next 20192020 school year. If you are planning to enroll, today is the day to do it!
We offer programs for infants which focus on developing their gross motor skills along with their vocabulary and social skills. It is amazing what infants can do when they are well-guided.
With our Pre-K program, our focus is to get them ready for grade school: socially, academically, emotionally and mentally. What are some of the events that Sunshine organizes for students and parents during the year? One of our biggest events open to the public is our annual Scholastic Book Fair. Knowing that reading is fundamental for our children’s academic development, we do everything we can to invite parents and kids from the Laredo community to separate some time to come and read together. A child is never too young to enjoy a good book, and as a parent, it is vital that this habit is well-cultivated.
We are currently enrolling for our school year 2019 – 2020 and Summer Camp.
How do you and the teachers prepare to be at your best every day? Sunshine Academy is an institution that wants to see their children and families grow. For this reason, we hire people that love their job and are passionate about fulfilling their calling.
Throughout the year we continue to educate our teachers with diverse resources through training. While our little ones are at home during the holidays, we make time to train our staff so that our teachers can be equipped with the necessary tools regarding child care. We make sure to have training with specific topics to help the children development and their families. There is always something new to learn regarding how to be a better teacher and help your student develop.
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As the phrase goes, “Like mother like daughter.” Modern Moms know their style is reflected in their little ones. They choose to be more like what they’d like their daughters to be when they are older. From a young age, little girls notice their mom’s sense of fashion and want to grow up to be just like their active and fierce mamas!
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Denise H. Benavides Hoy en día ser mamá moderna significa tener tiempo para ti, tu profesión y tu familia. Creo que a base de ejemplo es la mejor arma de educación que podemos dejarles, busco siempre que me vean activa, con metas propias y ganas de salir adelante. Soy de la idea de educar niñas llenas de amor a sí mismas, haciéndolas mujeres fuertes para cualquier obstáculo que se les presente en donde no siempre vamos a poder protegerlas. Montzerrat y Dominika, amo ser su mamá.
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Rafael J. Dueñas, 22, is a multi-faceted, multitalented powerhouse! He is currently the Executive Director at Remco Group Inc., and his plans don’t end there. For him, this is just the beginning. Remember his name. We bet you’ll be seeing it a lot more in the future! 22 30 CREAM CREAM
Can you tell us a little bit about yourself? I am a first-generation American, and I have a vision, to raise up leaders who can make a positive impact in our local government, business community and church community. Where were you born and what did you study? I was born and raised in Laredo. After graduating from United High School, I received my Bachelor’s in Biblical Studies from Christ for the Nations Institute in Dallas. I have taken courses on leadership, business administration and international trade. Do you play any instruments? How important is music to your daily life? I play the guitar, bass, piano and drums. Music has the ability to feed or completely change my mood. I use it to my advantage. Given your expertise in commerce and economics, how is Laredo in a position to grow economically? Laredo is at a pivotal moment to develop and thrive as a destination city because of its geographical location for international trade, the education it provides and because the private and public sector have united here to diversify the economy.
What made you want to delve into local politics last year? I still believe in good government and see it is a tool to serve others. Throughout history we have read of young influential leaders who, accompanied by great character, accomplished great things. I decided to be that person. Tell us a little bit about your work with the Economic Development Advisory Committee with the City of Laredo. We use various tools to help empower our micro and macro economy. We want to ensure our local businesses thrive, but we also want to attract foreign investors to expand our economy and entertainment options. Are you involved in any sports activities? Or you prefer watching TV? Throughout my school years I played soccer, basketball and football. Nowadays, I just workout at the gym 3 to 5 days a week to maintain selfdiscipline. How do you think international commerce shapes Laredo? International commerce is the blood flow of the city. With 14,000 to 17,000 trailers crossing through the World Trade Bridge, we are the largest inland port in the country. International commerce is responsible for at least 15,000 jobs in our city! What is your favorite restaurant in Laredo? Carnes Asadas La Palma. What do you see yourself doing in 5 years? Expanding my service in international trade. Continuing to be involved in government and the local church. Hopefully, opening or investing in a few local businesses. Do you believe in God? How does this shape who you are? My faith in God is the foundation of my life. From that, I decided on the principles I’d pursue in my life and do my best to live by. What I do is from Him, through Him and for Him. What book are you currently reading? I’m re-reading How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. What is the movie you are most looking forward to see in 2019? The new Avengers movie! What is a song that you can’t get out of your head? “Thank U, Next” by Ariana Grande. Bezos, Jobs or Gates and why? Jobs, because I can’t live without my iPhone! What are some causes that you are passionate about? Childhood cancer and drug rehabilitation. What is a word or phrase that you use almost all the time? “BOLAS!” and “The rest of my life will be the best of my life!” Describe yourself in 5 hashtags. #Blessed #BeLight #LetsThrive #TumbaLaCasa #YaEsViernes. Top 3 cities to visit? Tell us one word about each one! San Miguel de Allende - Art, Dubai - Future, Mexico City - Culture. What is a way that Laredo can thrive? Laredo thrives when we support our friends the way we support celebrities. We thrive when we support local businesses the way we support and fantasize over chain restaurants and commercial stores. Laredo citizens have high quality products. #ShopLocal.
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This is
My
Place
The color blue can have a dual effect. It can make us feel relaxed and at ease, as if we were floating away down a cool stream. However, it can also be electric; it stimulates our creativity and heightens our senses. Ceci RodrĂguez says her blue room is the perfect setting for all types of life experiences, whether it be enjoying the solitude of reading on a rainy day in or catching up and entertaining family and guests.
Ceci RodrĂguez
Housewife, mother and proud grandmother
My favorite place is my blue room. It is where we gather and enjoy our treasures. My husband has been collecting things since his childhood. This room is filled with his favorite books and antiques.
I am a patient, caring and happy person. I feel especially happy here when my family comes together to spend special occasions and make beautiful memories. My dear friend, Yaya, whom with her excellent taste and affinity for style, has brought together this perfect setting for my family.
If I could describe this place in 3 words they would be: elegant, inviting and relaxing. Others have told me this place is just delightful to be in. When I’m in here, I feel at peace. Sometimes, my husband and I settle in to read a good book or we will talk about his love for antiques. I enjoy seeing how beautifully they combine with more modern furniture and accessories. The most special feature of this place would have to be the joy, love and warmth we feel as we realize we are blessed to have not only a house but a place we call home.
For many of us who aren’t mothers, we cannot begin to imagine what it must be like to grow someone inside you and bring them into the world, and have them thrive. If it sounds extraordinary, it’s because it is! We rarely contemplate how magnificent our moms truly are. We have Mother’s Day, but we at Cream would like to invite you, dear reader, to think about how awesome your mom is and let her know today! We been recognizing Laredo Moms since 2012, and each year we have new faces and stories to share!
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Everything changes the second you learn you will become a mother. You are full of illusions, yet plagued by the uncertainty of what is to come. Nothing can prepare you for the gargantuan change that will take place once your baby is in your arms. If human history teaches us anything about motherhood, it is that unconditional love is its central axiom. Glennon Doyle said it best: “…a mother’s love is forever tries. We never run out of love. We never run out of tries.” Perfection and expectation can ruin the beauty of the never-ending cycle of tries. The late nights, the tantrums, the makeshift projects whipped up the night before they are due, the unending questions, never having a moment to yourself… just keep trying. And don’t forget to cut yourself a little slack.
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Lucy S. Hastings Being a mom allows me to experience life in a way most people forget or “outgrow.� Through the eyes of my children, I continue to view life as shiny and new. The world continues to be full of possibility and wonder as I watch my boys grow into young men. With rarely a dull moment, I have experienced more adventure than I could have ever dreamed of. It seems impossible to define what motherhood means to me in a few short words. But if I must, motherhood is my life, my joy, my passion and ultimately, my greatest achievement.
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Arlene Leal
Being a mother, to me, means being a positive role model, cheerleader and to demonstrate unconditional love to Natalia, my wonderful 3 year-old daughter. Being a mom is an incredible gift and privilege, and I wouldn’t change anything in this world, even with all the ups and downs that go with it. There are many pleasures and privileges in my personal life, my marriage and being a mom -- but nothing beats the feeling of teaching Natalia to be a strong, independent and fearless young girl that knows she is capable of doing anything she sets her mind to. I thank God every day for giving me the opportunity to be a mother; there is no other feeling like it.
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Service Above Self The Laredo Rotary Club selected local humanitarian, Anna B. Galo, as a Paul Harris Fellow for 2019. In addition to setting up a TAMIU scholarship for students with dyslexia and being selected by Governor Greg Abbott to serve as a Parks and Wildlife Commissioner, Galo somehow still finds the time to give back to the local community. The Rotary Club’s motto of, “service above self ” has been one that she has been living by since an early age. A banquet was held on April 2 to honor her, as well as Dr. Francisco Cigarroa.
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Andrea featured artist
Ramos Vazquez I decided to call this piece "Inside the Mind of an Artist" because I find beauty in the disturbing. Every time I talk to an artist, I am amazed at how a simple piece of art is transformed into a beautiful story or used as inspiration. When everyone else is just looking at a piece of artwork, artists are feeling emotions. I think that being an artist is knowing that there is no right or wrong and that art is pure emotion -- and I love that feeling. My favorite teachers Arturo Noche Buena from Laredo and Angela Fox from Incarnate Word instilled that knowledge and love for art in me and are definitely responsible for shaping me into the artist I am today.
title of your art piece: inside the mind of an artist
Acrylics, Mixed Media.
About the artist: I was eight years old when my mother signed me up for my first art class. Ever since then, I’ve enjoyed painting. When it comes to describing my style, I always say I’m at two extreme ends of the spectrum. Sometimes I like painting in just black and white and other times, I like to put in as much color as possible. However, texture is something I always include in my paintings. I was born in Laredo in 1995. I’m a triplet, and I have an older brother. I attended St. Augustine High School. I graduated in December 2018 from the University of the Incarnate Word in San Antonio where I studied Marketing and Art. I sold my first painting in 2012 and have been selling my works or custom made pieces ever since. I have also recently started selling painted jackets and handbags. I’m grateful to God and to my family for always supporting my artistic endeavors.
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Let’s Meet...
Jorge “JD” Delgado
34, Entrepreneur How do you combine what you love with what you do? The old cliché of, “if you love what you do, you don’t work a day in your life” seems to resonate in my passion for doing what I do everyday of my life in my personal and business life. What are your recent projects and/or accomplishments? This year, I was elected by the citizens of Laredo to represent them as one of their newest Board of Trustees for Laredo College. I am looking forward to supporting our college to offer critical educational programs to the community. What are 3 words that best describe you? Trustworthy, loyal and dependable.
What is your ultimate goal? My ultimate goal is to be a servant leader to my community. I strive to unify all industry sectors to work collaboratively with one another in order to advance our youth through educational opportunities.
College Life Grüß dich from Deutschland! Aranza Obscura, 19, is majoring in English at William Gottfried Leibniz Universität Hannover in Germany and is here to tell us all about herself and her academics overseas! Tell us about yourself: I encompass a bubbly personality that consists of a deep love for all cuisine, ice cream, running, books, travel and adventures. What is the most challenging part of having a college life? I truly believe the most difficult part of college has been finding the balance and strength to be a diligent, involved and adventurous student all at the same time. Is attending school in a different country something distressing or exciting? It is definitely exciting! I believe the immense change that comes with moving to a foreign environment where you know no one and can’t speak the language gives you the push to find who you really are and most importantly -- what you’re capable of! How do you feel about the changes that can happen during college? I always expected a change to occur during college because that’s what everyone hears! I was afraid of it at the beginning, but once I forced myself out of my comfort zone, my adventures began. All change is intimidating, but I have found that scary transitions make way for change, personal growth and resiliency. Do you feel like these coming years will impact your life goals? Yes! I have found several interests that will influence my studies. I would have never discovered these interests had it not been for studying abroad. I want to continue diving into different cultures and letting that further develop my academic and professional pursuits. How has your family life been affected now that you are in another city? The long distance between my family and I definitely makes me miss them -- especially my dog -- but being so far away has surprisingly connected me more to my roots. I have developed a much deeper appreciation of my culture and country all together. Have you made any serious decisions already? With it being my first time living on my own, serious decisions are a part of everyday life now. I feel confident enough to say that I prefer the responsibility, and I believe it will benefit me significantly throughout my career. Let’s get back to the fun stuff now: is college life all it’s cracked up to be or were you taken by surprise? It certainly requires much dedication because the workload is higher. However, I have made so many long-lasting friendships and unforgettable memories. College is the time to check everything off your bucket list and find the fun in what you’re studying. Okay, let us in on the college student life secrets, what is the guilty pleasure you indulge in most? For most students, coffee is their main source of energy, but mine is definitely ice cream. Sometimes I get really lucky and find some ice cream parlors that have student discounts! Anything else you want to share with us? Growing up, I was taught to not trust strangers, but one of the most important things I have learned so far is that your next possible best friend could be the stranger sitting next to you on the bus. Strike a conversation with anyone, anywhere and it might change your life.
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El sabor de la primavera
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e repente la primavera-verano llegan y con ello las ganas de algo fresco, dulce y al aire libre. Con mi gusto de tener un final feliz después de una buena comida, no podía resistirme a la tentación de compartirles mi postre favorito de la temporada. Sí, mis gustos en postres cambian con cada temporada, y con cada novedad que pruebo en este pueblo es difícil tener un solo postre favorito. Por el momento, el que me robó el corazón es este fresco y delicioso cheesecake de mandarina sobre tres bolas de sorbete (también de mandarina), servido con tierra de galleta que Arturo Sandoval, chef de mi restaurante local preferido ‘Atrio’, prepara desde hace un año y medio.
“El postre tiene que ser espectacular, porque llega cuando el gourmet ya no tiene hambre”. Alexandre Grimod Todo hecho artesanalmente desde su cocina, esta original creación tiene todo lo que me gusta en un postre de temporada de calor: dulzura y acidez bien balanceadas, texturas contrastantes, cremoso pero ligero, ¡un festín sorpresivo a la vista! No se lo pierdan la próxima vez que visiten San Miguel de Allende, me lo van a agradecer. ‘Atrio’ es un negocio familiar de comida internacional con sutiles influencias asiáticasmediterráneas-peruanas-catalanas que ha cautivado mi paladar desde que abrió sus puertas hace casi dos años. Se darán cuenta también que su entorno y vista son insuperables; su decoración e impecable atención lo ponen en el top de lugares para compartir con amigos y familia, y por ende mi recomendación número uno cuando me preguntan a dónde ir a comer bien en esta bella ciudad. ¡Provecho! POR VICTOR HUGO GARCÍA | IG: @victorhugo956 34 CREAM
Fotografía: Juan Manuel Cruz Espinoza | IG: @lakatronick
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José Antonio Barrenechea Cuadra
The tide is high and Jose Antonio is holding onto his favorite wine! Crisp, bubbly and fresh. This wine will have you want to board a yacht on the Bay of Biscay. Intrigued? Let him tell you all about it! Name of your favorite wine: Txakolí Basque Wine, a very light, semi-sparkling white wine typical of the mountains, woods and coasts of the Basque country. Why do you like it? This wine has become a family tradition. It’s a great apéritif during the summer. Txakolí Blanco is made from a variety of Hondarrabi Zuri grapes. It is a rare wine, but it can be found at gourmet and speciality stores in Mexico City, such as La Naval. It is recommended to drink very cold, and it pairs well with seafood and cheese. What makes it special? I come from a family whose origins are from the Basque town of Mundaka, located in Northern Spain. It’s a fisherman’s port and actually a surfer’s paradise with one of the tallest surfing waves in the world. My great-grandfather, Fernando Barrenechea, was born in 1875 and arrived in the Port of Tampico in Mexico. There he started a custom broker business in 1917, and it’s still running 101 years later. My grandfather arrived in Laredo in 1942 and brought his business over. Now, my father and I are partners.
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Javier
Guzman 32, Attorney & Entrepreneur
How do you combine what you love with what you do? I love competing. I was never a sore loser growing up playing sports; but, I didn’t enjoy losing. I always prepared tirelessly, and I learned from the losses. Now, I “compete” on a daily basis in the courtroom, and I’m always well-prepared.
#MBFW MEXICO SPOTLIGHT:
Lydia Lavín
con colaboración de Rob Castillo
What are your recent projects and/or accomplishments? I started my career as a prosecutor where I handled many jury trials and won most of them. I opened Guzman Law Firm PLLC in 2018. I recently won a jury trial defending a client who was accused of committing a felony. What are 3 words that best describe you? Relentless. Intuitive. Compassionate.
What is your ultimate goal? I want to make Laredo a better place to live. Too often I hear about injustices occurring in our community, but many people with the power to change the status quo are afraid to act. I am not afraid.
La pasada edición de la Mercedes Benz Fashion Week México estuvo llena de nuevas propuestas de diseño tanto de diseñadores de renombre como de quienes complementaron los outfits de las pasarelas. Un claro ejemplo es la diseñadora Lydia Lavín, quien presentó su colección otoño-invierno 19/20 llamada “América Árida”. Con el Frontón México como sede, la destacada diseñadora mostró una colección inspirada en la región de Aridoamérica, que abarca parte del territorio norte de México y de la frontera sur de Estados Unidos.
Inspirada en la indumentaria, recursos naturales y manifestaciones artísticas de la zona, cada una de las siluetas que se presentaron en la pasarela lo hicieron bajo una paleta de colores vivos, vestidos en columna, bordados étnicos y olanes en algunas piezas. Para esto, se contó con la colaboración en calzado del gran diseñador Rob Castillo, originario de Tijuana. Predominó el calzado tipo botín con aplicaciones de telar chiapaneco tejido a mano; cada una de estas piezas fueron elaboradas de forma artesanal, complementando así de forma magistral la colección de la brillante diseñadora. POR MANUEL DELGADO
Fotografía: Abraham Neri para Factory Fashion Mexico IG: @osoneri_photographer | @Factory_FMX
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Laredo Theater Guild International hosted their 10th anniversary gala where they honored seven theater titans and dubbed them, “Icons of the Arts.� Cream contributor, Joe Arciniega, was among those recognized. It was an honor to cover such a star-studded event. Laredo is filled with talent, and this gala is a testament to its existence and willingness to recognize it. Here are some pictures of the event that took place.
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Houston Treasures: Buffalo Bayou Wanna have a fun day in Houston for free? Whenever you feel like having a great time, breathe some fresh air and not spend too much, there are a few options in Houston that will entice you. I’m gonna tell you about my favorite free spot in the city.
Buffalo Bayou Park is a place when you will find several green spots to have some rest and enjoy (according to yours truly) one of the most beautiful views of Downtown Houston. It’s a unique place where you’re able to view an urban landscape in a natural, outdoors setting -- the best of both worlds. Concerts are also held on the south side of the bayou. The slow-moving river itself is 52 miles in length. All along it, you will find little opportunities to explore it even more. There are all kinds of trails: hiking, biking, canoe and kayaking trails. If you aren’t the athletic type, there are also some boat tours, where you can enjoy the sound of the water as you float down it and relax after a long day of sightseeing.
If you’re into art (or just into finding cool, Instagram-worthy spots) look no further than Buffalo Bayou Cistern. This is Houston’s hidden treasure. Built in 1926, the cistern was built to function as a reservoir for the city’s drinking water. It has now been repurposed as serves as a space for art installations. The architecture itself is beautiful, but when the space is filled with art, it takes your breath away.
From biking and jogging to having a yoga class with an amazing view or just spending a great time outside with family and fantastic surroundings, Buffalo Bayou Park is one of my favorite free spots and one you need to visit when in Houston.
BY MONICA DELGADO Follow her on social media: Instagram: @monicadelgadof • Website: Larosavitablog/Blog
Park photos by Felipe Gerardo
Shoes: @martesanassv Scarf: @zara T-shirt: @lulusimonstudio Blogger: @monicadelgado
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Bidi Bidi Bom Beer 24 years ago, we lost a legend. Now, all are we left with are fotos y recuerdos. Her name was Selena Quintanilla-Pérez, Tejano superstar. Her music was neither guilty pleasure nor amor prohibido. Selena’s voice has gotten us through heartbreaks and accompanied us at endless weddings and quinceañeras. What better way to honor her memory than by bailando esta cumbia at Cultura Beer Garden’s Second Annual Bidi Bidi Bom Beer Pachanga? Laredo got muy excited and danced the night away. Beer, food, music, art and dance — anything for Salinas!
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LADD Laredoans Against Drunk Driving Elizabeth Alonzo-Villarreal, Founder & President of Laredoans Against Drunk Driving, says, “Drive sober before it’s over.” The organization works within the city to increase awareness on the dangers of drunk driving, but for her, the issue is personal.
Why did you start LADD? LADD was founded in memory of my son Derek R. Treviño who was killed by a drunk driver on Thanksgiving Day November 24, 2011. I felt there was a great need to create awareness in the community on the dangers of drunk driving and how it leaves the victim’s family with a great loss that affects us for the rest of our lives. LADD was also founded as a non-profit organization and all donations remain in Laredo to help in a charitable manner. What does LADD do? How does one become a member? We provide presentations at schools, courtrooms and anywhere we are needed. We also provide humanitarian assistance to victims’ families with free professional counseling services, scholarships, hospital equipment for victims who survived a crash and more. Our mission is to create awareness on how it affects everyone, even the offender. LADD will never tell anyone not to drink and drive. That is an individual’s choice, but we do want to make them aware of the consequences it can bring. Can you tell us a little bit about the Sk-8 Competition? How and why did you decide on this annual event? Five years ago, Derek’s friends asked me if we could organize a skateboarding competition in his memory to create more awareness in the community. Derek loved to skateboard. He won first place in a competition when he was about 11 years old. The event is free to the public. It’s a bittersweet event for my family and I -- especially me -- because I keep wishing it was my son skating. But because of a drunk driver, my son will never have the chance to skate again. Have you gotten involved in creating policies related to drunk driving? We do take a stand with policies pertaining to underage drinking or alcohol being made available in inappropriate places. I must give credit to our local government. We work very well together in promoting safe driving. Our board has had discussions that in order to really combat drunk driving, the punishments must be more severe. Nowadays, people can get away with just a slap in the hand. What would you tell someone that thinks driving “tipsy” is O.K. NOBODY GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO DRINK AND DRIVE. I don’t care if you’re “tipsy.” IT IS NOT OKAY. I credit this phrase to our beloved Rosy Gregory, the late Vice President of LADD. You may think you’re okay, but if you take a breathalyzer test, it will say you are not okay to drive. Blood alcohol content does not lie; either you are drunk or not. .08 is when you are legally drunk and should not drive because it is against the law. Drinking alcohol is your choice and if you choose to drink then just make sure you don’t get behind the wheel to drive. There is Lyft and Uber and is so accessible at the touch of a button on your cell phone.
Don’t take a chance even if you think you are just “a little tipsy.” You could be taking the life of an innocent victim. I will never get to see the man my son was to become, and a drunk driver is to blame. What can we do to practice safety when driving and looking out for drunk drivers? Be aware of your surroundings at all times. If you see a car swerving, get out of the way and report it, you may be saving a life. Practice what you teach. Children often do what we do, so teach them early about the dangers of drunk driving. Have an honest conversation with them and even allow them to call you out if they see you are “tipsy” and can’t drive. Can you tell us a little bit about Derek? Derek loved nature. From a very young age he always wanted to be outside playing. He learned to ride his bike when he was three years old and soon after, he began skateboarding. At 19, he was going to be promoted to assistant manager at his job, but a drunk driver took his life. He had opened a landscaping business and bought all electric landscaping equipment including a special lawnmower because he did not want unnecessary fumes to get into the environment. He even made me a garden before passing. Citizens wishing to apply for board membership or want to be an advocate member can contact LADD at contactladd@gmail.com for an application. CREAM 43
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Cecy R. Alcocer
&Yuyita
Cecy R. Alcocer Madre y proprietaria de bienes raíces.
¿Qué tipo de mascota tiene? Una perrita Shih tzu y se llama Yuyita. ¿Cuántos años tiene su mascota y por cuánto tiempo la ha tenido? Tiene 3 años y la tengo desde que tiene 2 meses. ¿Que significa su mascota para usted? Mi perrita significa todo para mi, pues es una hija más. Los perritos son como los bebes, tienes que cuidarlos, alimentarlos, vacunarlos, etc. Yuya significa mucho -- tanto para mi como como para mi familia. La tratamos como una reina y siempre que le hablamos, hace caso. ¿Qué tipo de cuidado especial requiere su mascota? Tiene muchos cuidados especiales. Por ejemplo, no la llevamos de paseo en correa, tiene su carreola especial. También la llevamos con su estilista para que la bañen y no con un veterinario. No la tenemos en el patio y siempre está bien vestida y bien peinada y así es como todos la conocen. ¿Cuál es la actividad favorita con su mascota? Pasear en el carro. ¡Le encanta andar conmigo y me la llevo a todos lados! ¿Está su mascota entrenada? ¿Qué tan difícil fue entrenarla? Yuya está entrenada para hacer sus necesidades en un pañal y así nos la dieron entrenada. Nosotros la enseñamos a que se sentara y nos diera la patita con treats. Cuéntenos su anécdota favorita con su mascota. Me encanta que ella siempre escoge sus vestidos. ¡Se vuelve loca! Le gusta mucho vestirse y siempre está muy bien arreglada. ¿Podría darnos algunos consejos para elegir una mascota? Un tip es que realmente estés dispuesto a cuidar de un perrito como un bebe y no como un animal. Busca razas pequeñas y tranquilas, te darán mucho amor; pero todo depende para que lo necesites. Los perritos siempre serán grandes compañeros de vida. Si fuera usted un animal, ¿cual sería y por que? Si fuera un animal sería un león, siempre he sido líder. Un líder siempre sabe aconsejar y motivar a los demás. Siempre he buscado la manera de ayudar a todos, a la par que soy de carácter fuerte y siendo siempre honesta con lo que digo y hasta con lo que no me parece; no me quedo callada si algo me molesta. Así como el león que es libre, siempre está acompañado de su pareja y de gente leal como lo es mi familia.
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Golondrina Food Park Golondrina Food Park has off icially had their grand opening! You know us -- we wouldn’t pass up the opportunity to be there! Cream attended the ribbon cutting ceremony along with city officials and customers alike! The place is fantastic. It is a perfect place to gather with friends, family or a date. We highly recommend that all our readers check it out this weekend!
BY GABRIELA A. TREVIÑO
Scooter Revolution
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In a city with a sea of traffic, such as Mexico City, you may want to consider some alternative options for getting around town. After all, on vacations, time is of the essence. So if you can save some time by not getting stuck in traffic, that is more time you can spend eating tacos!
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hree monosyllabic companies have dominated the scooter market in CDMX: Bird, Grin and Lime. Seemingly, out of nowhere, these compact two-wheeled wonders showed up overnight and made life a little more easy, breezy and beautiful.
If you grew up in the ‘00s, scooters are nostalgic; they remind us of a time in our lives when we didn’t have to think about bills or meal prepping -- when our only worry was missing the latest episode of Lizzie McGuire. Now imagine feeling the cool wind through your hair whilst exploring a new city in an exciting way. You glide through the ginormous metropolis, slow enough to enjoy the sights, sounds and smells, and fast enough to cut your travel time in half. You swish through the purple jacarandas, catch the aroma of maiz sizzling on a nearby comal. Your five senses are stimulated as you create this amazing memory.
These scooters are ubiquitous and available in some of the most tourist-heavy areas of the city. They are unlocked via a phone app, and you can park them at designated spots once you’re done riding. It’s kind of a “self check-out” version of Uber or Lyft. Bird scooters are available in other cities such as Brussels, Paris and Vienna. You might have also seen them in Austin! Grin is a Mexican startup slowing taking over the market. Lime scooters can be found in US cities such as NYC, D.C. and Los Angeles. They can also be found internationally in Berlin, Madrid and Zurich, to name a few. All these options are very similar and located within the same vicinity. Pro tip though: your first three rides on Grin are free!
It is quite easy to use, but let’s walk through the process:
• First you will need to download the app. Bird, Grin and Lime are all available on Android or iOS. Once you’ve downloaded the app, register. They will ask for your name, number and credit card info. • Next, you will have to add some credit onto your app to use the scooters. I would recommend starting off with about $50 pesos (about $3 US dollars), see how you like it and add more as you use it.
• The app will tell you where the nearest scooter is located. Walk there and scan the QR code on the scooter with the app open. • Ride on for as long as your heart desires!
• Park the scooter at a designated location, and lock it up! And that’s it! You’ve just been a champion at being eco-friendly and had a new experience in one neat package. Now, about those tacos...
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Dulce París Ooh la la, carbs!
i pensamos en una escena romántica de película, con una deliciosa cena, un buen vino y claro con una caminata por la ciudad, muchos de nosotros pensaríamos en París. Siendo una de las ciudades europeas más visitadas, y teniendo uno de los lugares más Instagrameable del planeta (la torre Eiffel), considerada capital de la moda, la ciudad se convierte en el spot ideal para un viaje de ensueño. Su gastronomía es sin lugar a dudas uno de los atractivos más importantes y deliciosos que nos ofrece la ciudad del amor. Desde noviembre del 2010, la gastronomía francesa fue incluida en la lista del Patrimonio Cultural Inmaterial de la Humanidad, y a pesar de ser extremadamente variada, hoy les presentaremos una lista de recomendaciones de nuestros postres favoritos. Boulangerie et Pâtisserie. Visitar una panadería o pastelería francesa es toda una experiencia, ya que la mayoría cuenta con un diseño clásico, un aroma espectacular y una innumerable variedad. Una de las piezas más representativas de la ciudad son los famosísimos baguettes, elaborados con solo 5 ingredientes: agua, harina de trigo, levadura, masa madre y sal, son el acompañamiento para la mayoría de los platos franceses. Para nosotros los visitantes, el ver un pan largo (aproximadamente de 85 cm), es sinónimo de baguette. Sin embargo existe una clasificación dependiendo del tamaño: una versión más fina es llamado la flûte, mientras que un pan más gordo es conocido como bâtard. Los croissants son el desayuno favorito de las personas locales. Aunque sus orígenes provienen de Austria, por su popularidad, la población francesa los ha adoptado como propios.
Los coloridos macarrones pueden ser encontrados por toda la ciudad, no solo en panaderías, si no en salas de té, restaurantes y tiendas de prestigio. Además, están en la lista de los souvenirs más comprados por turistas. La combinación de clara de huevo, almendra molida y distintos tipos de azúcar, comenzó en el siglo XVI al formar solo una pequeña galleta. Esto evolucionó hasta llegar a lo que conocemos en la actualidad: 2 partes unidas por un delicioso relleno.
El Éclair, un postre cuyo registro de elaboración data hasta 1850, está hecho a base de pasta choux y huevo en forma rectangular. Cuenta también con un suave relleno y una capa glaseada en su superficie.
Las panaderías y pastelerías son tan populares en París, que podemos encontrar decenas en nuestros recorridos. Hay un registro aproximado de 350 mil establecimientos en la ciudad. Se caracterizan por conservar recetas familiares, excelente servicio y una presentación de maravillosos empaques en todos los tamaños y colores, listos para satisfacer hasta a los más exigentes paladares. Así que si estás preparando tus próximas vacaciones de verano, no olvides poner en tu lista a la bella ciudad de París, y déjate seducir por todas sus delicias culinarias.
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