Cream No 24 by Cream City Magazine

C I T Y M A G A Z I N E

founder & publisher fernando de haro

NO 24

april • may 2014

copy editor joana santillana

C I T Y M A G A Z I N E

design & production publisher

elcome to our 24th April/May edition. We are extremely excited to share the stories and unforgettable moments that we will cherish forever, such as the article we dedicated to all mothers, but especially those young, hip mommas out there! A huge shout-out and warm hug goes out to every single one of them as we celebrate their special day! April is Autism Awareness Month, and our pages are graced with four distinguished Autism Awareness and Education Foundation of Laredo ambassadors who are representatives of the cause. The accompanying piece is definitely a must-read! Let’s all spread the word and become educated and actively involved in this noble cause.

Ever since we first launched Cream almost four years ago, we have stood out for being the main source of showcasing the richness in art and culture of our beautiful city. A while back, I had the opportunity to meet an incredibly talented woman, with a wonderful personality and an inventive mind, and I have always been amazed by her artistic creations. It wasn’t until I saw her artwork “Karl,” that I could not stop admiring such impressive work of color and geometry that I was more enamoured than ever! In this edition, Analy Diego shows us her masterpiece in the cover of our publication and talks about her style and inspiration! Thank you to all our loyal readers for being a part of the Cream family!

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Are We What We Watch?

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Speak Listen

Ponder

ESMERALDA ESTEVIS GONZÁLEZ An accomplished businesswoman

PENNY VLAGOPOULOS A creative, dreaming soul

ALEJANDRA ÁVILA The face of youth and determination

Meet three dynamic achievers who contribute to the development of both Laredos. They are flying high on Cream’s radar.

ESMERALDA ESTEVIS GONZÁLEZ

Speech-Language Pathologist and Owner, Safari Kids Rehab

I began my career 12 years ago working at a local hospital treating adults with swallowing and speaking difficulties. I was fresh out of graduate school and ready to change the world, one client at a time. During my first year working at a hospital, I was bitten, slapped, spit on, and shoved by my adult patients. Then, in my first year when I went to work with children I was also bitten, slapped, spit on, and shoved by them too. I realized that they were not mean and aggressive people. What they wanted was to communicate and that was their only means to do it since their verbal abilities were impaired. I knew my profession was going to be the one to help them learn to communicate again to their loved ones and family members. As a business owner, you wear many hats and you have to adjust to the constant changes. One minute I can be introducing a nationally recognized stuttering specialist to a room full of speech pathologists and next minute explaining to a teen parent the appropriate bottle feeding techniques for their baby with a developmental delay. Having worked with adults and children, I found that communication is what makes us who we are as an evolved species.

Having the inability to communicate can rob us of who we are and what we stand for as a person. Anyone who chooses to go into this career will find that it is the most rewarding job in giving back to the community. I would say to them to keep focused and don’t let anyone hold you back. And don’t forget to come back to Laredo to serve our community!

PENNY VLAGOPOULOS

Assistant Professor of English, Texas A&M International University

of moments like these. These ideas that we toss around in the classroom leave lasting marks and have profound effects.

I am told that I am a dynamic, passionate person, and I think these qualities serve my profession well. When students see an engaged, enthusiastic professor, their intellectual curiosity is ignited. I am always grateful for what I have but I never become complacent. I am a bit of a free spirit and need new experiences in order to thrive. I hope always to improve my craft and to grow as a person. It is an extremely difficult time to be an academic in the humanities, which are increasingly under attack, but those of us who make a living reading and writing and sharing ideas are lucky. To have a career that rewards integrity and promotes the capacity to remain wonderstruck is as good as it gets. My most important goal is to make a real difference for others and to be a better human being.

ALEJANDRA ÁVILA

Law Student, University of Texas at Austin

My college experience was very international; I studied abroad twice, was part of Model United Nations, and led the Association of International Students. I always knew I wanted to pursue a public interest career and do good things for people, but I never imagined life would open so many incredible doors for me throughout the journey. These experiences have changed my life. I never thought someone like me –young, from a small Texas town, with very little experience, and zero connections – could end up working next to some of the most powerful and successful people in public service. Taking up the challenge of working at these places has been very inspiring and self-fulfilling. I’ve accomplished some goals, but there’s no stopping point in life, especially when you’re young and continue to recreate yourself professionally. The end of law school is really just the beginning of my legal career. I have many other things yet to achieve.

After learning to read at age three, I was happiest wandering through imaginary literary worlds and began creating my own in poems and short stories. Through my love of literature and my experiences as a teacher, scholar, and writer, I have been able to evolve in so many ways. From a very young age, I had a sense that I had a calling for this life. Words have always intrigued me.

Everybody can teach you something. I find people inspirational because they’re a daily reminder of what a small piece of a giant puzzle we are in this world, yet how every individual can make a difference in other people’s lives.

I received my Ph.D. in English and Comparative Literature from Columbia University in 2008 and joined the TAMIU community in fall 2009. One of my best students wrote me a moving letter, in which she thanked me for leading her to a politicized Chicana identity—a worldview that she planned to impart to her daughter. On days when our work feels thankless, I think

I’ve been able to develop incredible friendships and mentoring relationships around the country and abroad. My experiences have also given me the opportunity to develop client-attorney bonds, which are really gratifying and a big responsibility. Lastly and most importantly, I love seeing my parents happy and proud of the things I’ve accomplished. It’s a rewarding feeling. cream april / may 2014

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Are We What We Watch?

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The month of January is quite boring. There are hardly any businesses open for the first couple of weeks and social events are at a minimum either because people are tired from the gatherings that take place in November and December, or because the cold weather makes people want to stay in. My fiancée and I have, for years, opted to make an effort to watch every film nominated for Best Picture in the Academy Awards in order to have a somewhat “informed” decision when it comes to the actual ceremony. Sounds pretty dull, I know. But what else are you going to do every Sunday night after eating Chinese food?

Movies play a very large role in pop culture. Call us bored nerds who overanalyze things all you want, but it’s interesting to see what themes or acting abilities moved the American public on any given year. A quick analysis of previous winners will display certain predilections that will make anyone scratch their heads. For example, 2006 can very well be labeled the year of the “gay Oscars.” Both Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal were nominated for Brokeback Mountain, a film which garnered a Best Director win for Ang Lee. Furthermore, the late Philip Seymour Hoffman took home the award for Best Actor for his portrayal of Truman Capote and Felicity Huffman was also nominated for her role as a transgender male in Transamerica. 2008 saw a collection of films that led many to label the event as “the dark Oscars.” Films such as No Country for Old Men, Atonement, Michael Clayton, and There Will Be Blood, were all top contenders in the race. Films full of greed and deceit were the ones bringing in the most in terms of box office numbers. It was also labeled the “international Oscars” since the four top acting categories were won by non-American actors and actresses. Although only one black actress won an acting award in 2010, that year saw an increase in recognition very well deserved by African Americans in the film industry. Both Gabourey Sidibe and Lee Daniels were acclaimed for their work as Best Actress and Best Director, respectively, for the film Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire. The Academy even went so far as to have Oprah Winfrey present the award for Best Actress and also paid their respects to Morgan Freeman by nominating him for his portrayal of Nelson Mandela in the movie Invictus. It’s safe to say that moviegoers applaud a certain theme every now and then, so what happened in 2013?

have movies become the barometer to what we are and what we need out of life?

In 2010, the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences decided to change the number of possible nominees from five to ten. This meant two things: there was more talent to be recognized, and we had even more homework. We spent a considerable amount of time analyzing the nominees, so let’s begin.

We start off with yet another story of greed and deceit: The Wolf of Wall Street. Scorsese’s adaptation of Jordan Belfort’s activities did extremely well in portraying this unwanted, yet common characteristic in people. So did American Hustle, a film that revealed the lengths people will go to in order to succeed and survive regardless of the cost. Speaking of survival, little is left to the imagination when it comes to this issue with films such as Captain Phillips, Dallas Buyers Club, Gravity, and 12 Years a Slave. Be it in scenarios entirely different from one another,

BY RUBÉN BAZÁN III THERUBENINDEX@GMAIL.COM

they all tell stories that capture the need to continue being alive. A captain on a ship being threatened by murderous pirates, an HIV-positive man desperately seeking the medication needed to live more than thirty days, a first-time astronaut floating in space with no help whatsoever, and a free black man forced into slavery for 12 years all share the need to survive. They all share a sense of intense desperation that was not in their plans. We move on to Best Picture nominees Her, Nebraska, and Philomena; films which tell the story of someone in desperate search of something else regardless if that entity comes in the form of a faceless yet readily-available operating system with a sweet voice, a long-awaited monetary prize which may never come to fruition, or a long lost son. The themes are there. Yet, does this mean that the American moviegoer is compiled of a population desperately aching to share their struggle for survival? Or could it be that we are becoming aware of how lonely and helpless we can be at times? It may be something to consider.

The need to be heard is nothing new, but it does raise the following question: have movies become the barometer to what we are and what we need out of life? All were great films with impressionable screenplays and stupendous acting and directing. However, if these themes are what made the most money at the box office, there may be issues we may need to personally deal with. They may be “just movies,” yet there is a reason why they resonated with us so deeply, and it gives my love and I something to talk about after digesting ungodly amounts of butter-soaked popcorn. I’ll see you at the movies!

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aster is my favorite holiday. I get to spend an entire leisure and sunny day barbecuing with my family. There’s nothing better than that. Let’s not forget to mention, I get the once a year opportunity to smash Easter eggs on all my family members. It’s the fight of the year, when the strongest take advantage of the weakest and shove confetti-filled Easter eggs down their pants. Everyone has to be extra careful not to be the next victim. It’s the scene of a lifetime; watching middle aged adults running around like children and everyone covered in confetti is priceless. Another fun tradition we do is hide a $50 bill in a plastic Easter egg. My grandmother hides it in the garden and both adults and kids participate in “the hunt.” It’s all really exciting, however, the best part of Easter festivities has to be the food made and brought by each of my 5 aunts. From creamy potato salad, to ribs and borracho beans, the array of dishes are abundant and delectable. But, no matter how good the food is, nothing beats my grandmother Mamina’s Arroz con Leche (also commonly known as rice pudding). It’s considered a sin not to have at least one serving. It’s a dessert she has perfected over the years and it’s delicious beyond what words can explain. I indulge in this exquisite dessert every Easter and in every other occasion I have the delicious privilege to savor it.

...no matter how good the food is, nothing beats my grandmother Mamina’s Arroz con Leche. It’s considered a sin not to have at least one serving. The perfect dessert to offer at any party or gathering, Arroz con Leche is a traditional recipe most Latino families cherish. Eat it warm or cold, it will always be an extraordinary A+ comfort food. This dessert is the perfect combination of creamy and sweet with a touch of cinnamon to tie it all together. I can’t get enough. BY MAITA FERNÁNDEZ

Maita has had a passionate relationship with food for as long as she can remember. As a chef and restaurant owner, she seeks to put a smile on people’s faces by creating original dishes.

Mamina’s Arroz con Leche ingredients

4 ½ cups water 3 tablespoons butter • 2 cups long-grain white rice • 2 small cinnamon sticks • ½ cup sugar • 1 12oz. can evaporated milk • 1 14oz. can condensed milk • ½ cup whole milk only if needed • Ground cinnamon for dusting • •

instructions

Put the water and cinnamon sticks in a medium-size saucepan and set over medium-high heat. Once the water comes to a soft boil, add the butter and rice. Let boil over medium-high heat, uncovered, for 15 minutes or until the rice is tender. Stir in the sugar, evaporated and condensed milk and continue to cook until the mixture comes to a boil. Reduce the heat to low and cook, stirring occasionally, until the rice is thick, about 10-15 more minutes. Remove from heat and let cool for 15 minutes. If the rice turns out a little dry, add some milk to make it creamier. Transfer to serving bowls and dust with cinnamon to serve.

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Mom

Modern

Being a mother is a precious gift that women all around the world hold dear to their hearts. It entails more than changing diapers and singing along to kiddie songs; it means that we have a new priority in our lives, something bigger than a social life, a polished image, and sometimes even a decent sleep cycle. Despite all hardships and bumps along the road, nothing compares to holding that little person in your arms at the end of the day. Motherhood is a selfless, and often thankless, job; but for all you nonmothers out there, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m going to let you in on a little secret, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not really about how much you have to give and sacrifice, but about all that you receive in return. Happy Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day!

Confidence The thing that has surprised me the most about motherhood is just how secondary everything else is. Sophia Ella, my first born, is now 4 years old...she’s the best little girl a mommy could ever ask for and a little sister could look up to. She gifted me my first experience as a mother, and her heart and mind captivate me every day. Stella Alyssa, my 6 month old daughter, is following in her big sister’s footsteps; she’s tiny, but fierce, and ready to take on the world! Being a mom comes with its obvious life changes, like lack of sleep and minimal social excursions, but it also enhances your self-confidence; you learn that you can take on quite a lot and make it all work.

Kristelle Sophia García

Love

Being a mother isn’t something that is easy to describe in words, so I’ll just use one: “LOVE.” It is lifechanging, world altering, ground shaking, love. It seems I’ve become oblivious to the world around me and all my senses are focused on this little human we’ve created. To think ten months have come and gone since the birth of Sergio Alonzo really puts things into perspective. Watching him reach each milestone in his short, wonderful life puts an overwhelming feeling of excitement into each new day. One more thing, this kid’s smile! It’s a smile that makes me be grateful for all the gifts in my life and appreciative of every speed bump and fork in the road that led me to this beautiful place I’m in now.

Sonia G. Vidal

Miracle The feeling of becoming a mother was life-changing. My body and my mind, not to mention my life, have been turned upside down and to be quite honest, it has not been easy to adjust to this new life. That being said, there is absolutely nothing I have done in my life that has made feel as proud as having Ponchito. Although I have just started this journey, and I may not know yet what lies in store for me as a mother, I know that creating a human being allowed me to experience and witness my very own miracle.

Valeria Barcel贸-Casso

Motherhood is a wonderful journey that brings out the best in you. It comes with lots of love, laughter, tears, and fears, but it is by far the greatest gift from God. It means being the best role model for the lives you have brought into this world. My two daughters, Ella and Natalia, mean the world to me, and I wouldn’t change anything about them. They are a true blessing. As a mother, you need to love, educate, and slowly prepare your children for their future. It’s a lot of hard work, but it comes with lots of joy and unforgettable moments.

Elisha González

Laughter

Guidance All throughout my life, God has bestowed upon me a multitude of blessings, one of which is the most wonderful event of my life, becoming a mother. My daughter has brought meaning to my life and has turned it upside down. It hasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t been easy, because nobody is born knowing how to be a good mother; the only thing I know is that I want to be a great mom in order to guide her, look over her, and love her. It is an incredible experience, and I have learned that it requires dedication, patience, the giving of oneself, but above all, love. Motherhood has been the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I will always strive to keep my daughter on the right path.

Melissa Urteaga de VĂĄzquez

Creatividad, frescura y pasión es lo que distingue cada una de las obras de ésta talentosa artista, ya sea con un pincel o con un teclado y mouse, va creando su propio estilo y pintando un futuro muy prometedor. POR FERNANDO DE HARO

Platícanos a que te dedicas actualmente. Soy profesora de arquitectura, diseño gráfico y diseño de interiores en The Art Institute en San Antonio, TX.

¿Cómo surge en ti el amor al arte? Siempre he estado rodeada de personas que aman el arte, empezando por mi abuelo, quien fue una gran influencia en mi forma de interpretar la vida por medio de mis pinturas. Desde niña me introdujo al mundo de Frida Kahlo, Diego Rivera, Pablo Picasso, Gustav Klimt, así como otros grandes del arte. Su influencia y la de grandes arquitectos, incluyendo Charles y Ray Eames, Frank Lloyd Wright, entre otros, me han ayudado a encontrar mi propia identidad como diseñadora y artista. ¿Cómo defines tu estilo? Definitivamente ecléctico. Como mencioné, encuentro inspiración de muchas fuentes diferentes y trato de interpretarlas de una manera que me identifique a mí y a mis creencias como persona y artista. ¿Qué te inspira? La respuesta es simple: las personas y mis experiencias. Puede ser un vestido colorido que vi en una revista o el trabajo de uno de mis alumnos, un paisaje, o simplemente alguien o algo que haya dejado huella en mi vida de cierta manera. 5 cosas que necesitas en tu día antes de empezar a crear. Lápiz, papel, música, café y lo mas importante, inspiración.

¿Sientes alguna evolución en tu manera de expresarte a través de tus obras? Claro, creo firmemente que el día en que un artista deje de evolucionar es el día en que su carrera termina. Siempre busco técnicas nuevas, temas actuales, así como esquemas de colores que expresen mi humor en ese momento. ¿Cuál ha sido una de tus máximas satisfacciones hasta hoy en tu carrera como artista? El haber creado mi propio sitio en internet es una de ellas, al igual que el participar en varias exhibiciones de arte locales, pero más que nada, ver la reacción de mis clientes al obtener una de mis piezas no tiene precio. Por último, el haber sido reconocida por Shakira en Twitter e Instagram fue un gran logro para mí. El saber que alguien como ella reconoce mi trabajo y lo comparte con el mundo en su sitio oficial fue un sentimiento de satisfacción inigualable. ¿Cómo ha influido en ti el uso de la computadora en el arte? La computadora es para mi casi igual de importante que el lápiz, la pintura y el papel. Siento que como artistas modernos, debemos adaptarnos a las tecnologías actuales y encontrar la manera de ser creativos en tanto ámbitos tradicionales como modernos.

¿Cómo nace la obra de “Karl”? Karl siempre ha sido para mi una persona interesante. Admiro su personalidad y logros, así como la calidad de su trabajo. El diseño de esta ilustración fue inspirada por él y por Isaac Newton. Actualmente estoy dando clase de teoría del color en la universidad. Isaac Newton fue una persona muy importante no solo en la física, sino en el arte, ya que descubrió el origen de los colores. Quise combinar mis estudios de armonías de color, geometría y dibujo técnico, y contrastarlas con Karl, que es reconocido por vestir de blanco y negro generalmente. ¡Ese diseño me tomó aproximadamente 13 horas y varias aspirinas! ¿Qué significa para ti que hoy sea la portada de Cream City Magazine? ¡Es un honor para mí que mi trabajo pueda ser parte de Cream! No solo por el hecho de que la gente pueda ver mis obras y leer un poco sobre mi forma de pensar y trabajar, sino porque me encanta y admiro la creatividad y calidad de esta revista.

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La escritura, uno de los elementos más importantes en la evolución de la historia del ser humano, nos trajo una forma de expresarnos muy especial, la cual hasta el día de hoy ha traspasado las barreras del tiempo. Ahora, con el avance de la tecnología, la manuscrita empieza a desvanecerse lentamente tanto en nuestras casas como en las escuelas y a convertirse en algo del pasado. En Cream nos dimos a la tarea de abordar el tema y conocer las opiniones de personas que aún escriben lo que ahora podríamos considerar como un arte...

¡la letra cursiva!

a r u t i r c s E a L L

a expresión escrita ha sido una costumbre y hábito de la humanidad a través de muchos siglos. Ha tenido diversos modos de establecer signos a partir de los cuales los seres humanos se comunican. Una de las primeras maneras de formalizar la comunicación escrita han sido los alfabetos. Éstos identifican los sonidos de expresión de las diversas lenguas. Sin tomar en cuenta la escritura antigua, como sería la cuneiforme de Mesopotamia, los jeroglíficos de Egipto, los ideográficos de los países Orientales o los Códices de Mesoamérica. Es menester tener en cuenta que los principales alfabetos vigentes hasta el día de hoy son también el hebreo, el griego, el latino y el cirílico. Todos ellos forman parte de la expresión escrita de la humanidad.

En español, como en muchos otros idiomas, es el alfabeto latino el que sirve para la escritura, con diferencias de tiempo, lugar y características propias de cada idioma, como puede ser el uso de acentos también llamados tildes. En toda la escritura sobresalen dos elementos técnicos muy importantes como son la caligrafía y la paliografía. Esta última es una ciencia auxiliar de la historia que los especialistas conocen para leer textos antiguos que aun estando en su propio idioma parecen ilegibles. Un texto de Hernán Cortés tiene caracteres muy propios que ya no usamos el día de hoy. Por otra parte, la caligrafía enseña a elaborar un texto manuscrito de la manera más bella posible, y que al mismo tiempo sea legible. En el siglo XIX mexicano se puso mucho interés en hacer una caligrafía clara, eficiente y bella, como se puede observar en los textos de la época. Por otra parte en el siglo XX en algunos países se difundió el Método Palmer que intentó estandarizar la escritura de modo que fuera legible, clara y que no perdiera

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¿Cree Ud. que el arte de escribir en letra cursiva se ha ido perdiendo? ¿Por qué?

Creo que se ha ido perdiendo porque en las escuelas y los hogares ya no se le da tanta importancia como antes y también por el uso del teclado de las computadoras y la prominencia de la tecnología hoy en día. También por el hecho de que no se escriben cartas para enviar por correo ya que es más fácil y rápido escribir electrónicamente. ¿Qué factores han contribuido a que cada vez menos personas practiquen esta forma de escribir? Los factores determinantes son la correspondencia electrónica y el hecho de que la sociedad no le da tanta prioridad a la buena escritura. Se le da más valor al poder hacer muchas cosas a la vez y no al hacer una o dos tareas bien. Hay personas adultas que no han terminado sus estudios secundarios, a los que apenas se les entiende la letra de molde y no pueden escribir con letra cursiva porque se lleva un esfuerzo de dedicación y tiempo el practicar las letras. Muchos padres y otros familiares no tienen tiempo para guiar a los chicos a que hagan sus letras y otros ejercicios necesarios para la buena escritura... el arte de la letra cursiva. ¿Dónde se usa la letra cursiva con más frecuencia? ¿Por qué? Yo uso la letra cursiva todos los días. Escribo en un diario,

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manuel ceballos ramírez historiador la belleza propia de una escritura correcta. Perduró hasta bien entrada la segunda mitad de ese siglo. Aún así hubo varios tipos de letra Palmer, sin embargo el más común era el usado en las escuelas de educación primaria y media. Algunas letras eran muy características de este Método, por ejemplo la Q, que se semejaba un número dos; la F que era elaborada de forma diferente a la de las imprentas, etc. Años más tarde esta letra fue reemplazada por la comúnmente llamada “de molde” o Script, todas estas letras eran de uso común en las escuelas. Sin embargo había calígrafos profesionales que hacían diferentes tipos de letra manuscrita, siguiendo los modelos preestablecidos. Esto siguió siendo muy típico en los títulos profesionales, certificados de honor, etc.

También hay que tener en cuenta que cada persona que aprende a escribir de modo manual tiene un tipo de letra diferente, de la misma manera que la voz y las huellas digitales. Es muy difícil encontrar personas con la misma voz, que no sean imitadores, o con la misma escritura que no sean falsificadores. El día de hoy la escritura manuscrita ciertamente tiende a desaparecer por el uso desde hace mucho de las máquinas de escribir, y actualmente por el uso generalizado de tecnologías automatizadas como la computadora, iPad, etc. Sin embargo la escritura manual deberá seguir enseñándose pues es parte fundamental del desarrollo del ser humano, ya que es expresión de la personalidad, a tal grado que hay ciertas corrientes de la psicología que interpretan la personalidad a través de la letra por medio de la grafología.

minita leal diseñadora creativa cartas ocasionalmente y claro, al firmar. Aparte, continúo estudiando otro idioma y copio la lección a mano para retenerla y entender cómo fluye el idioma. Y lo más importante, porque me gusta mi letra cursiva. ¿Cómo nació en Ud. el gusto por escribir en letra cursiva y ser ahora una exponente de este género? Para mí siempre fue importante tener buena letra porque es una extensión de mi personalidad, de mi presentación social y de mi negocio. Mis maestras y mi familia siempre mostraban interés en mi progreso con este arte perdido. ¿Cuál cree que sea el futuro de esta forma de escritura? Me da pena y mucha tristeza decirlo, pero creo que seguirá disminuyendo el interés por tomar el tiempo de escribir, especialmente con letra cursiva, porque los valores de la sociedad han cambiado. ¿Cómo podemos ayudar a que esta forma de escritura siga vigente? Creo que cada persona debería de poner de su parte para que este arte tan lindo no se pierda. Debemos detenernos y empezar a enfocarnos en todo lo que hacemos y promover la importancia de que todo lo que uno hace es como “una tarjeta de presentación” de uno mismo y eso incluye la escritura en letra cursiva.

s a n u a s o m a t y pregun opinión amigas sul tema... acerca de 1.¿Dónde aprendiste a escribir en letra cursiva? Desde Platícanos un poco sobre tu experiencia.

Chiquis

que era pequeña veía a mi mamá que escribía en cursiva cuando hacía su lista para ir al mandado. Llegué a pensar que tal vez ella lo hacía para que yo no entendiera lo que escribía. Después, cuando entré a la escuela, aprendí a escribir en cursiva y fue entonces que me di cuenta que existía ese tipo de letra. Al principio batallé para entender pero con práctica y dedicación comencé a escribirla. El día de hoy no practico las reglas exactas de la cursiva pues pienso que con los años cada quien va formando su propio sello Yo de escribirla que lo hace parte de tu personalidad. aprendí a escribir la letra cursiva desde mis primeros años de colegio. En aquel tiempo no se usaba la letra de molde, e incluso solía haber concursos para premiar al que tuviera la letra más Aprendí a leer y escribir en letra bonita y más clara. cursiva cuando estaba en la primaria aquí en Laredo. Recuerdo claramente como llevaba mi tableta “Chief ” y escribía cada letra una y otra vez. Mi maestra siempre nos decía, “desde la línea de arriba hasta la línea de abajo, desde arriba hasta abajo”. Ella era muy estricta en su forma de enseñar, pero aprendí todas las letras del alfabeto, una por una, y nunca se me han olvidado. Aprendí a escribir en letra cursiva en la escuela de las Ursulinas. La escuela era católica y mis maestras fueron Sor Magdelita y Sor Cornelia. En ese entonces, escribir cursiva no era opción sino la regla. Practicamos diferentes ejercicios para obtener este talento. Empezando con las famosas páginas y páginas de rueditas escritas dentro de las líneas. Otros ejercicios eran jugar con plastilina y vestir a las muñequitas. Todo esto ayudó a formar habilidades motrices gruesas, las cuales facilitaron el aprendizaje de la letra cursiva y la hicieron más práctica.

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Rebecca

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2. ¿Cuándo sueles usar más la letra cursiva? (Escuela, En trabajo, diario, escritura personal, etc.)

Chiquis

realidad para mí la letra cursiva es parte de mi vida diaria; la uso absolutamente para todo. Aunque actualmente la verdad uso mucho más el mensaje de texto o la computadora para escribir. Uso la letra cursiva siempre que escribo una carta de tipo personal, algún mensaje para alguien querido, alguna invitación y sobre todo cuando me da por escribir algún poema. ¡Siento que Ya que aprendí es mucho más romántica y más bella! a escribir en cursiva desde tan pequeña, tiendo a usar solamente letra cursiva. Durante el transcurso de los años, todos hemos modificado el arte de la letra cursiva y creamos nuestro propio estilo. Tanto en el trabajo como en la casa, es muy raro que escriba con letra de molde. Se me dificulta más escribir en molde que Muy buen pregunta. Antes de mandar con letra cursiva. estas respuestas por internet, las escribí en letra cursiva. Si no estoy “escribiendo” en máquina, escribo en letra cursiva. Aunque hay excepciones. Soy maestra y tengo 23 años enseñando. Antes cuando enseñaba era obligatorio que las niñas escribieran en letra cursiva. Con la tecnología y la presión de enseñar material para los exámenes del estado, no hay tiempo ni necesidad para enseñar escritura formal. Los niños ahora tienen la opción de escribir en letra cursiva, letra molde o usar una tableta electrónica.

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Rebecca

Maga

3. ¿Le enseñarás a tus hijos a escribir en letra cursiva? Claro que sí, me encantaría poder tener ¿Por qué?

Chiquis

esa oportunidad algún día porque siento que al escribir en cursiva uno puede expresar más sus emociones y sentimientos, puesto que

Chiquis Hinojosa (28) maestra bilingüe de primaria Nora Barceló (63) cirujano dentista Rebecca King (52) gerente de empresa petrolera Maga Hall Alarcón (47) maestra de primaria Nora Rebecca

Sí, por las mismas razones que dije la escritura es fluida. antes. Incluso mi hija rotuló ella misma sus invitaciones de boda con este tipo de letra. Mis tres hijos (ya todos adultos) también pueden escribir en cursiva. La escritura en cursiva se ha ido usando menos y es muy triste ya que puede ser algo hermoso si lo aprendes de la manera correcta. Estoy contenta de que mis hijos puedan escribir de ambas formas; tal vez ellos puedan ayudarme a inculcarle este tipo de escritura a las próximas generaciones. Mis hijos escriben en letra cursiva. Ellos estudiaron cuando no tenían otra opción. Ahora casi todo lo que “escriben” es en computadora o tableta electrónica. Mis estudiantes (hijos prestados por un año) escriben en la forma que se les facilita más y que les proporciona los mejores resultados.

Maga

4. ¿Cuáles son algunas de las ventajas y desventajas de escribir en cursiva? Algunas ventajas al escribir

Chiquis

cursiva es que para mí en lo personal me expreso mejor y mis emociones fluyen más fácilmente pues no tengo que hacer pausa al escribir letra por letra. Por otro lado, al usar la letra molde pauso mucho mis sentimientos y me canso mucho al escribir. Por lo general la escritura es algo que refleja nuestros sentimientos. Al ver la escritura podemos darnos cuenta del humor de la persona. Es por eso que para mí la cursiva es mucho más bonita pues al escribirla con fluidez se permite ver la felicidad o la tristeza que uno refleja. Las ventajas, me parecen, que además de ser mucho más elegante, ahora es además original ya que no muchas personas la usan. Las desventajas podrían ser que es más lenta, mas difícil y un poco complicada. Las ventajas de escribir en letra cursiva es que puedo escribir más rápido, se me facilita más y además lo disfruto. Me parece que es un arte que se ha ido perdiendo con el paso de los años. Una de las desventajas de escribir en letra cursiva es que a veces cuando ando apurada es muy difícil entender lo que escribí. Las ventajas son obvias. Se les cansa la mano menos porque la pluma, lápiz etc., fluye con menos fuerza y es más rápido. Algunas desventajas son que no todos pueden leer la letra cursiva y no todos tienen las habilidades motrices gruesas para formar las letras legibles.

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5. ¿Cuál crees que sea el futuro de esta forma de escritura? Me gustaría que no se perdiera, pero con

Chiquis Nora

la tecnología creo que cada vez somos menos las personas que la usamos. Sinceramente, creo que poco a poco ha ido perdiendo importancia. Pero todavía hay quienes la usan; conozco jóvenes que tienen una letra cursiva preciosa y la usan con orgullo. Desafortunadamente las nuevas generaciones no están usando la letra cursiva como su modo principal de escritura. Creo que es muy importante saber escribir en molde y en cursiva. Con toda la tecnología moderna, el escribir a mano en si ya es muy raro, ya que no es necesario cuando tenemos nuestros iPads, computadoras portátiles y teléfonos celulares. La escritura a mano, ya sea cursiva o de molde, debería de ser practicada y enseñada tanto en la casa como en la escuela a niños de todas las edades. Si se les enseña desde jóvenes, nunca lo olvidarán. Yo creo que el futuro de este tipo de escritura va a ser algo del pasado. La tecnología va avanzando tan rápido, que ya hasta hay máquinas que “escriben” al oír palabras dictadas. Lo único que puede salvar a la letra cursiva es la tipografía que usa la máquina. La letra cursiva va a terminar siendo considerada como una forma de arte, un recuerdo del pasado y una víctima más de la tecnología moderna.

Rebecca

Maga

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1. David González, M.A.,CCC-SLP from Wiggles Children’s Rehab 2. Yvette González Ogando, M.S., CCC-SLP from ECI Project Niños 3. Melissa V. Ramírez, CCC-SLP from Back In Action / Action Kids Rehab 4. Laura Narvaez, M.S., CCC-SLP from 1st Choice Therapy 5. Virgilio Vázquez-García, M.S., CCC-SLP from Epic Health Services 6. Cynthia Chalane Cruz, M.S., CFY-SLP from Safari Kids Rehab 7. Rick Ramos, M.S., CCC-SLP from Laredo Kids Advanced Therapy / Sunshine Therapy Services

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roviding a remarkable varied range of communication disorder services, speechlanguage lathologists will celebrate lpeech and learing lonth in lay. Cream City Magazine will participate in this nationwide celebration to honor speech therapists from various local clinics. The love and dedication provided to every child and adult while they receive therapy is inexplicable. These dedicated professionals do not only attempt to better the quality of life of others, but actively participate in the oversight of therapy agencies as both practitioners and owners.

With outstanding dedication and passion, these individuals obtained a masterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s degree from various Communication Disorders programs all around the United States. They always strive for the best assessment, diagnoses, and treatments, to prevent disorders in language, swallowing, and fluency. May is a tribute month to raise awareness and help all those who experience problems with hearing, understanding, and speaking. In order to go beyond speech therapy, these licensed pathologists work along many Speech-Language Pathology Assistants to help children and adults produce sounds, modify accents, have a speech rhythm, a better memory, solve the harsh and pitch voice, and much more.

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uch introspective reflection is inevitable at this time of year, and I have a front row seat. Two of my children are graduating this May, a daughter from high school and a son from graduate school; and though I am not a teacher myself, my wife, sister and several close friends are, so I also see it from their side. But I didn’t need this unique perspective, because as far back as 1967 when it was released, the movie To Sir, with Love starring Sidney Poitier set me straight about teachers. They are gods and goddesses worthy of our eternal obeisance, and yes, all of it delivered with love.

Based on the 1959 autobiographical novel of the same name by Guyanaborn E.R. Braithwaite, the film now feels dated and burdened by the pop culture anachronisms inevitable over time when “the youth” are represented, as evidenced by the tagline for the movie poster, “A story as fresh as the girls in their minis, and as cool as their teacher had to be.” Faring better is the movie theme song of the same title sung by British pop singer Lulu portraying a student paying wellearned homage to her teacher, Poitier, on the last day of school. The song lyrics reach deep through their simple youthful sincerity, “The time has come for closing books and long last looks must end. And

as I leave, I know that I am leaving my best friend, a friend who taught me right from wrong and weak from strong. That’s a lot to learn. What can I give you in return?” What indeed. I wasn’t the easiest student. My mother tells me that from the earliest age I questioned everything, that I was convinced I knew everything, so I worried about everything, including how little of anything I felt others, especially adults, knew. But I remember how my 4th grade teacher at Heights School, Mrs. Borchers, handled it. When I expressed my usual irritation at the sheer folly of humanity from my own 8 year old perspective, she would answer, “I know, you are so right, but everything will be fine in the end,” then she would serenely continue grading papers while I kept her company. I kept her company because she was pretty and smelled good, but mostly because she listened and she was right. But she wasn’t the only one. I have had such teachers in my life that I could write a novel of my own about them. Mrs. Borchers, now my friend Celita, stands in my memory, but also Mrs. Pérez, Miss Zapata, Rosa Martínez, Miss De La Chica, Gloria Flores, Coach Adame, Ramon Villafranca, Ed Bueno, Manuel Castañeda, Diana Czar, R.B. Dallin, Brother Joe Herrera, Rita Domínguez, Adriana Barrera, Coach Batey, and others I may have forgotten to mention, though I will never forget what they taught me.

Teachers, good and bad, teach us well beyond the lessons in books, but it is the great ones that make our hearts remember and our souls sing, “…If you wanted the moon, I would try to make a start, but I would rather you let me give my heart...” As the teachers on your list look toward their own tomorrows, before you move on, find them; look them in the eye with the love that time will reveal they deserved, and say “thank you.” There is the greatest likelihood that they will well deserve it.

BY JOE ARCINIEGA ARCINIEGAJOE@GMAIL.COM

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There’s not a person on this earth that doesn’t own a pair of denim jeans (hats off, Mr. Levi). Better yet, I dare you count all the pairs that have been called your own throughout your lifetime. Lost count? I thought so. And I don’t blame you; in fact, I salute you. It is the most stable and faithful item that will ever hang in your closet. So of course, they are deserving of an article. Proceed by filing under uniform dressing.

hen we come into our daily routines of selecting our clothes, there is an 85% chance we might pick out a pair of denim jeans; they may take you to work, run errands, lunch with girlfriends, date nights, road trips –list goes on and on, they are the perfect chameleon to what we want to be/do that day. Here is where these faithful pairs become more astonishing and underrated piece of clothing, they come with us everywhere and have evolved to fulfill our lifestyle needs.

The boyfriend jeans The most relaxed of cuts. Slouchy around the waist, rugged and comfortable, it’s made to give an effortless look maintaining that thoughtless vibe for which they have earned the throne of the fashionista’s choice. My rule when wearing these is to pair with a structured top to balance out proportions to help look put together.

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These are my favorite; hemmed the right way, they allow you to hide a chunky wedge that adds on a few inches and make a leg run for days. Made popular in the 70’s, they are best when worn in a bohemian way. Give out good vibes with a tunic and colorful necklaces.

Wide leg jean

Skinny jeans

A girl next door approach never fails and it’s the most appropriate for work. Tuck in a crisp white button down or a dainty crochet top for a feminine feel. I added pops of leopard print because we all know it’s a neutral and a wide belt that helps accentuate the waist.

Some say they’re on their way out, but I digress. Don’t miss out on keeping these awesome jeans for they are versatile and look great in heels or chucks, like shown on the outfit. I went with a casual look, something I’d normally wear, with a favorite tee and tweed jacket.

Embellished jeans

The last look is for all the girls who like their jeans with a little sparkle (*raises hand). Due to its strong fabric, jeans have been patched, painted, distressed, you name it, all in the name of fashion and paying for a holefilled-falling-apart-jeans might not always make our peers proud, but we do it anyway. I found these embellished jeans and never looked back. I created a look for a party going outfit, thanks to the witches that came down the Saint Laurent runway, I am completely obsessed with the bow and tux trend. Jeans win for the most trusted and comfortable item that merits the investment or thrift of a lifetime, and taking the risk of sounding like an infomercial, I recommend you try them all and find the kind that’s right for you. There are many styles and cuts of jeans that flatter and fit every body type; extensive research has been done that will back me up. Do you think Kim K. really has that back end? Let’s hope not.

Michelle is a street fashion blogger living in Laredo, Texas. Follow her blog at nicethingsandstuff.blogspot.com

BY MICHELLE COOK GUTIÉRREZ

cream february / march 2014

BY FERNANDA MALDONADO

Challenges

hen I heard the word diet, images of all my beloved weekend marathons of Netflix and pizza and random post-workout Chocolateka trips (counterproductivity at its finest) I would no longer have anymore began brimming through my mind as if my life was flashing before my eyes. As luck would have it, the Posh challenge is truly not one’s typical diet. Instead, it’s that enlightening moment when you realize you can lead a healthy eating lifestyle WITHOUT having to sacrifice taste. Naturally, as any other slightly introverted person, I was quite dubious of displaying my weight for the world to see on a daily basis for two whole weeks; although, what I found was that the encouragement brought on by various commenters kept me extremely motivated and aided in the process. Not that it was necessary when everything on the menu was spectacularly delectable. It might’ve felt strange going into Posh every day and not ordering my usual Paradise Roll; however, I was delightfully surprised to find that one day that was ACTUALLY a part of my menu (sans cream cheese, of course). With a menu consisting of grilled salmon with avocado and asparagus, ceviche, and chicken tepanyaki, amongst other absolutely mouthwatering meals, it became easy to forget that my lunch consisted solely on items based on a dietetic regimen.

So we decided to ask the owner of Posh himself, Gerardo Villarreal, not to mention a healthy living and exercise aficionado, exactly what was behind the fantastic Posh challenge and how it came about.

What made you decide to start the Posh diet? G. I wouldn’t really call it the Posh diet, as much as I would call it the Posh challenge in order for people to get an understanding that eating both healthy and delicious is just not a sacrifice. Who advised you on the meal plans and portions? G. First, I spoke to my cousin Dr. Gustavo Villarreal, who specializes in diabetes, and then I had a talk with a nutriologist, Sara Vásquez. What was the general response of the Posh challenge from the public? G. We’ve been doing the challenge for a year and people enjoy seeing the changes in others, more specifically the before and after, and we’ve had much success selling the dishes included in the Posh challenge.

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Quite frankly, I feel everyone should try this amazing challenge at some point. Whether you’re already a health nut or you’re just like me and simply worship food. Even for those of you who can recreate it at home (honestly, who has the time though?). I was always the kind of person who started a diet and would end up cheating within three days, due to both my painfully weak will-power and how I just simply did not like the food; however, when I tried the Posh challenge I was blown away by how surprisingly easy it was. Not only did I lose weight, but the absolute best part was that I just had all this energy I didn’t even know I harbored. As a matter of fact, I would also like to include a big shout out to our friends at CrossFit Laredo who offered a free two weeks for anyone who was doing the challenge. They were also so incredibly helpful and helped me push my stamina and strength to places I didn’t even know I could go (I was sore for weeks). So from your friends at Cream, who give the Posh challenge a big shiny medal of certification, do yourself (and your health) a favor and give it a shot! 36

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Which one is your favorite meal from the Posh challenge? G. Salmon with asparagus and avocado. Who would you recommend does the Posh challenge? G. I would recommend it for anyone, my idea was that everyone should have healthy eating habits, drink a lot of water, cut back on bread and tortillas, etc. I had a conversation with my cousin that remains very present in my memory where he asked me if I know what I’m doing; I responded that I did know, it was something very popular amongst women and would bring a lot of success to my business and he responded, “no, what you’re doing is prolonging people’s lives if they keep practicing these good habits,” and I just thought to myself WOW! I never really saw it that way!

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afternoon with my guitar Francisco Bribiesca’s musical talent and melodic gifts were on display as he delighted the Laredo audience in attendance to his performance in Laredo Community College. The virtuoso guitarist visited our city as part of his “Después de Todo” world tour.

golf lovers Women’s City Club of Laredo announced the 11th Annual Juvencio de Anda Memorial Day Golf Tournament. This year’s honoree will be the late Rubén Bazán Vásquez. The event will take place at the Laredo Country Club on May 31, starting at 8:00 a.m. We hope to see you there and ready to play golf!

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Checkthis out! BY FERNANDA MALDONADO

ating all the way back to 1900 B.C. in Mesoamerica and closely associated with the Aztecs, yet perfected by the Europeans with its finest distributors in Belgium and Switzerland, it seems as though various nations can agree that “all you need is love, but a little chocolate every now and then doesn’t hurt.” Luckily for us Laredoans (and soon San Antonians), we don’t have to travel all the way to Brussels to acquire premium Belgian chocolate, but it can be found and relished in any of the two Chocolateka locations that have been established in Laredo since 2008.

Whether you need to mend a broken heart or satisfy your craving for sweets, to freshen up from Laredo’s notoriously brutal heat or simply because it is too darn “I-don’t-need-an-excuse” good, Chocolateka is the place to be. Versatile with their wide range of sweet or salty items in the menu for any occasion, there is absolutely no place in our city where you will find these ingenious concoctions made. Every bite is like the 4th of July for your taste buds.

From your friends Cream, don’t forget a little indulgence is good for the soul!

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a e s u C BY SANDY LUGO

Autism and Awareness Education Foundation President Lisa Morales-Hinojosa spoke about the organization’s strong desire to promote awareness and support those who are affected by autism, a neurological disorder which currently has no cure, and which inspired her, Claudia, Lorena, and Janet to form AAEF in February 2012. With the hopes of providing a better understating of autism to the public, and with great enthusiasm and an open heart, they lend a helpful hand to every one of their 135 members. If you’d like to join their mission, contact them at (956) 324-8903. Describe the meaning behind this organization. The meaning of our organization is HOPE. We’d like to ensure that all those affected by autism know that there are various resources available to aid each individual/ family and their special circumstances. By spreading awareness and promoting education, this gives way to allow each person who experiences the disorder to flourish throughout their scholastic journey and the rest of their lives. How does this organization help reach the goals of each autistic child? To help assist these children, we raise funds in an attempt to support them in their need-based areas. We offer scholarships towards various programs for those families that are underprivileged. Offering moral support is imperative so that not one person is made felt inferior. They must know they are not alone in this journey. Anything is possible for these children as the possibilities are endless.

Lisa Morales-Hinojosa President Claudia J. Uribe Vice-President Lorena Martínez-Fernández Secretary Janet Sánchez-Enriquez Treasurer

What is the most challenging aspect of a child with autism? It is said, “Once you’ve met a child with autism, you’ve met ONE child with autism.” Because autism varies in degree, the challenges may differ from one parent/family to another. Raising a child with autism is a long and emotional experience that no one could ever possibly be prepared for. With early detection and intervention, these individuals may lead fulfilling lives and become productive citizens of society. Tell us about a fun anecdote you’ve experienced in the foundation. I became known as “The Autism Lady.” This happened as a result of me sporting “electric blue” hair at a few of the events that our organization has held. People instantly began to recognize me because of it! I wore the color blue because it’s the signature color for autism as the ratio is 1 in 54 boys and 1 in 252 girls.

What do you think is the most serious issue to combat in autism? The ignorance amongst society to accept an individual with autism may be one of the most serious battles autistic children face. Their integration into society is a difficult one because many are misinformed or simply do not fully comprehend autism and all it entails. How has your professional background shaped your experiences as an advocate for many children? Acquiring a Master’s Degree in Special Education in the Fall of 2013 has allowed me to further understand autism. By gaining additional knowledge in this area and being the mother of an autistic child, I am able to incorporate all I’ve learned towards the cause of our foundation.

rob dawe BY ANGIE SIFUENTES

Exceeding expectations like it’s easy, singer/songwriter Rob Dawe proves to the world that dreaming big is rewarded with unique and unforgettable experiences. At the age of 21, he has achieved what he most desired – a hot, new single and performing before crowds of cheering fans. Cream got the fantastic opportunity to chat with him about the wonders of show business before he runs off to fulfill another goal. Here’s what he had to say!

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OW DOES IT FEEL TO HAVE A SONG

It feels amazing and surreal at the same

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YOU EXPECTED? I think I’ve accomplished

some of my goals, but I’m not quite there yet. I like to keep challenging myself and dream big. DID YOU HAVE TO SACRIFICE

having some time with them while performing. WHAT HAS BEEN THE BEST ADVICE YOU HAVE EVER GOTTEN? To know and respect myself. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE BALANCE? I did have to sacrifice a lot of PEOPLE WHO WANT TO REACH THEIR GOALS? To overcome their fears and work hard. things like my social life, because when WHAT MUSICAL GENRE IS YOUR PRIMARY INFLUENCE? Pop, K-pop, and EDM. WHAT’S you get serious about something, you have YOUR BIGGEST DREAM? Get to perform in many places of the world in front of a lot of to commit more than people. WHAT’S YOUR GO-TO a hundred percent to SONG? Safe and Sound by “I wrote Libéralo thinking about freeing it. At the end you’ll Capital Cities. WHO WOULD yourself from fear and hesitation, having a know it was worth YOU LOVE TO PERFORM OR it. WHICH SINGER DO good time, and letting go with the moment.” WORK WITH? Ellie Goulding YOU ASPIRE TO BE would be awesome! WHAT’S LIKE? I’d love to have a career like Justin YOUR MOST PRIZED MUSICAL POSSESSION? The super 55 Shure Deluxe Microphone. Timberlake or Enrique Iglesias. They’re FIVE YEARS AGO, DID YOU IMAGINE BEING WHERE YOU ARE NOW? Not really, but I knew always on top of their game. IS THERE I had to be doing something related to music. WHAT IS THE CRAZIEST THING YOU WANT A STORY BEHIND THE LYRICS OF YOUR TO DO AND STILL HAVEN’T? Going on an adventure all by myself. HOW IMPORTANT IS SINGLE? Of course! I wrote “Libéralo” FAMILY SUPPORT? The top priority in my life. WHAT IS THE THING YOU MISS THE MOST? thinking about freeing yourself from fear Being a kid. WHAT ELSE DO YOU LIKE TO DO FOR FUN? I love to watch videos on YouTube, and hesitation, having a good time, and cooking, reading, and learning about all kinds of stuff. HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR letting go with the moment. WHAT DO MUSIC STYLE? As a combination of rhythms, flavors, and a trip to your imagination. IN YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT YOUR PROJECT? WHAT MOMENT DID YOU REALIZE THAT THIS WAS WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO? When I got Knowing that I could make people happy to sing in a restaurant in front of a lot of people when I was little. The feeling I got was through my music, and also get to enjoy the best I could ever imagine. THINGS FOR MUSIC OR WAS THERE A

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ABOUT PATY Paty is a dedicated mother and a home/floral decor with a passion for jewelery design.

PATY FIGUEROA & ROCKY

A Maine Coon named rocky. HOW OLD IS YOUR PET AND HOW LONG HAVE YOU HAD IT? He’s 14 years old. He became a part of our family when he was about 3 months old. WHEN AND HOW DID YOUR HAT TYPE OF PET DO YOU OWN?

INTEREST IN THIS SPECIES AND RACE SPARK YOUR INTEREST?

My whole life I had been a dog person until I got married. My husband had previously owned a cat and thought that would be a great choice to have as our first pet. DO YOU OWN ANY OTHER PETS? IF YES, WHAT ARE THEY? Yes. We own a total of 5 pets, including Rocky. One is a male French Bulldog named Chunk. Two female Shih-tzus, Paris and Bella. We also own a female cat that our daughter adopted in San Antonio, Nina. WHAT DOES YOUR PET MEAN TO YOU? Every single pet we own is like our child. They each have their own personality. WHAT TYPE OF SPECIAL CARE DO YOU HAVE FOR YOUR PET? Our cat has been extremely healthy all of these years, so some simple tender love and care is all he needs. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ACTIVITY WITH YOUR PET? When he climbs on up to the bed and sleeps right in the middle of my me and my husband.

"Every single pet we own is like our child. They each have their own personality" PATY FIGUEROA

IS YOUR PET TRAINED? HOW DIFFICULT WAS IT TO TRAIN THEM?

Yes, he is. They all are. Rocky was the least difficult to train. Cats are very low-maintenance when it comes to training. TELL US YOUR FAVORITE ANECDOTE WITH YOUR PET. My favorite story is of the first day we got him. It was New Year’s Eve 1999, and we were on our way to San Antonio to pick him up. He was our first pet as a family so everyone was just dying to meet him. When we finally got him, my daughter immediately fell in love with him. Like I said, pets are like children to us, so our family grew by one that day. It was so heartwarming. COULD YOU GIVE US SOME TIPS FOR WHEN CHOOSING A PET? Whether you adopt or purchase by a breeder, one must always think ahead. Will I have enough time for them? Will they be neglected? Do I have the means to support them? Dogs and cats in the end all just want the love that they unconditionally give us, so if you don’t have the time to give them any of those things, don’t get a pet. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT PEOPLE WHO MISTREAT ANIMALS? I think it’s a shame. The way animals live their lives is just as important as the way we live ours. IF YOU WERE AN ANIMAL, WHICH WOULD YOU BE AND WHY? Definitely a cat! Cats are so smart! I would probably love to be my cat Rocky, mostly because all he does is eat and sleep all day. What a carefree life!

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Your outfit is only as good as the shoes you’re wearing. Never forget. The right stiletto can accentuate your curves and give you the extra height you’ve always wanted. For boys, wearing something other than sneakers can get you very far both professionally and romantically. Trust. If you’re one of those people who are #blessed with the freedom to splurge every now and then, why now treat yourself to a new pair of Louboutins? You know, the iconic shoes with the red soles. You’ve probably seen really famous people wearing them before and wondered if you could ever walk a mile in their shoes. You probably won’t. Not trying to be shady. I just mean that if you can afford to buy these shoes you can probably afford a personal driver too. Who walks in this Laredo heat anyway? Certainly not you, mama. Treat yo’ self! You deserve it.

birkin bag

You’ve got the look. You’ve got the attitude. And now you’ve got the shoes. But what’s missing? That’s right- the perfect bag. A Birkin bag by Hermès. Good luck getting your hands on one of them, though. It was once reported that people waited up to six years to receive theirs. But I mean, who wouldn’t want to wait that long for a bag like that? Each one of them is unique and handmade. The leather they use is supplied by various vendors in France, and often times the animal it comes from is something wildly exotic... like an ostrich or a saltwater crocodile. There are no logos on it, but it is easily one of the most recognizable bags in the world. Keep that in mind next time you feel tempted to buy another Coach bag with the logo all over it. How much for a Birkin bag, you say?

black card

Don’t worry about it. Just put it on the Black Card. What do you mean you don’t have one? Oh yeah... I forgot it was invitation only. Sorry about that. But look. Just because I like you and because you’re reading this, I’m going to tell you exactly how to get your very own card. First, find a job that pays you at least one million dollars a year. Then, clean up your credit. But not before you buy yourself a yacht, or something. They need to see that you’re a big spender. Go on a shopping spree and look fabulous all the time. You need to have the right kind of strut to hold a card with this much power. Submit an application to The Rich Kids of Beverly Hills and pray for a call back. Do that and in no time you will be receiving an invite. Maybe? Idk. BY MEMO JIMÉNEZ ILLUSTRATIONS RICARDO A. GUERRERO III

Memo is a pop culture blogger from Laredo, Texas living in Austin, Texas. Follow his blog at dirtycult.com

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YOGApose of the month If you’ve ever wanted to try Hot Yoga, but never really understood how static postures can actually be a workout, you’ve got to try Trikonasana or Triangle Posture.

Model: Patricia McBain

he apex of the Hot Yoga series, this posture has more benefits than you can count on all 10 fingers! Despite being a static posture, it is an excellent cardiovascular workout. Not only does it lengthen the spine, open the torso to promote proper organ function in the chest, and help regulate hormone levels, but it also opens the hips for an intense stretch. Equally valuable is the fact that it works all of the major muscle groups at the same time! A beginner’s mistake is to take too short of a stance; proper set up means taking a 4-5 foot step and then engaging the inner thigh muscles to prevent slipping. Focus on pushing the outer edge of your back foot into the mat and lifting your inner arch. Lastly, make sure you have no weight in the bottom hand as you press your elbow into your knee and reach for the sky with your top hand. That’s all there is to it…now change and repeat on the other side! Try to hold each side for eight to ten breath cycles.

Remember that Bikram says,

“When you improve your triangle, you improve your life 360 degrees.”