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Countdown to IYAF with

ANIELA ZABA

Kingston Artists Open Studios

– creative brain of

carnivals & festivals

Two art-filled weekends in June

MARY PORTAS's fashionable charity shop is right up Teddington High Street

130 summers

of WIMBLEDON TENNIS

TOP PLACES

to eat and drink this summer

BEAUTY and the

BEACH

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editor’s letter

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Dear Darling reader,

COVER: ANIELA ZABA Photography by Cythare Cooper www.cythare.com Makeup by Rachel Barclay

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I've really enjoyed putting this summer issue together, and getting caught up in the anticipation of Kingston’s art-filled summer. Kicking off with Kingston Artists Open Studios where 70 artists show and sell their work at fabulous prices. We’ll be spoilt for choice in July when the International Youth Arts Festival comes to town for the eighth year, bringing us young, talented performers from around the world. To get into the festival spirit, Rose Theatre is putting on Ignition Dance Festival the weekend before. Hampton Pool summer concerts are not to be missed either. There is still time to get beach ready with the help of local fitness, beauty and hair experts. For your relationship questions, turn to Grania, our new ‘agony aunt’ - you can also send in your questions to be answered in the next issue. Other top stories to enjoy; 130 summers of Wimbledon Tennis, Mary Portas’s Living & Giving Shop at the heart of Teddington High Street, what local businesses say about the EU referendum and Lyndsay Russell’s Point Of View on the new Game of Stones in Kingston. Marja-Leena Toseland Editor | kingston@darlingmagazine.co.uk CONTENTS 3 4 7 8 9 12 14 16 17 19 20 21 23 24 29 30 35 37 39 42 43 44 45 46

Editor's letter Carnivals and Festivals are Aniela Zaba's forte Kingston University is turning out top fashion designers What do local business leaders make of the EU Referendum? Where to eat and drink this summer It's that time of year again - the Open Studios month of June Summer’s beauty and hair edit Why I recommend gym-based resistance exercise Beach body blitzing for the summer Netball is more than just a game A garden with a 360-degree story Straight talk! Ask Grania Mary's Living and Giving shop in Teddington 130 summers of Wimbledon tennis Next stop: Geneva Out and about in and around Kingston Girl power is changing lives in Iraq Absolute Abode Riverside living in the summertime Cook's Corner: chocolate for summer Feeding time at the garden What's on? Paul Mendelson's bridge column Lyndsay Russell's point of view

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inspiring woman

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Carnivals are Aniela Zaba’s forte

niela is back, after a two year break, working as part of the artistic team at the Creative Youth, who are the organisers of the International Youth Arts Festival. She was the festival’s Creative Director since its inception in 2009 until 2014.

As if this wouldn’t keep her busy enough, she is also a Director of two other companies; Surbiton based, The Community Brain, which aims to give communities a renewed sense of importance and pride, and The Creative Brain, an innovative artist led production company. Aniela has a passion for large scale celebratory arts which take over buildings, streets and green spaces and inspire passion, chaos and beauty for participants and audiences alike and works as a producer, production manager and stage manager on festivals and celebratory events both nationally and internationally. We met at the Rose Theatre for our photoshoot and interview. As one of the main venues of the IYAF, what could be a more fitting place?

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Festivals By Marja-Leena Toseland

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IYAF is the biggest arts event in Kingston, now in its eighth year, running from the 8th until 17th of July. Where did the idea to stage such a massive festival in Kingston come from? “It’s intrinsically linked with this building. The dream of making Rose Theatre a home for young people, and a place to celebrate and bring on new talent, was there right at the conception of the idea to build the theatre 30 years ago. When it opened its doors in 2008 it wasn't looking likely that there would be a youth company or theatre attached to it right away, as its priority had to be to survive commercially, but I’m pleased to add that the Rose has an incredible youth programme now. However, some of the original trustees decided to put on a youth theatre festival. I got a phone call out of the blue because my external moderator on my final piece at drama school, who happened to be a Kingston University lecturer, had heard that the trustees, including Robin Hutchinson, were looking for someone to run the festival and he recommended me. I had never even heard of Kingston before then. I came for a chat with Robin and Colin Bloxham, who was the Principal Arts Officer at the borough at the time, and Frank Whateley, who was Head of Drama at Kingston University. I said that I would love to run the festival but only as an arts festival, not just a theatre festival. I could really see it taking over the whole town and celebrating a lot of different forms of art. I thought I’d be here

a year or two helping to set up the festival but it became my life really and I’m still here, living in Surbiton. We had to make a decision on whether to wait 18 months for the first festival or just go for it and run the first with just six months to get it done. We went for it and it was absolutely wonderful with groups from South Africa and America attending. It was then a seven day festival and it has just grown from there.” Being part of the artistic team at the festival must be amazing. How much input do you have in deciding what goes on stage during the festival?

“Certainly during the first six years when I was the festival director, the artistic vision was led by me but I very quickly learned that the best thing about the IYAF was listening to young people’s ideas. I started as a young person, being a mere 23 in the first year. It’s exciting working with students from Kingston College and the university, getting them to come up with ideas. Our focus is more in teaching them project management skills and how to make their ideas reality. As long as you are listening to young people’s ideas you will always have the most fresh, exciting and diverse festival as they come up with barmy things but don’t necessarily know how to make these happen and our job is to help.

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Visit artists in their studios and buy affordable art direct painting, drawing, printmaking, sculpture, ceramics, glass, photography, digital art, textiles, paper art and mixed media. More than 70 artists, designers and makers in 13 venues in Kingston. For further information: search Open Studios Kingston www.kingstonartistsopenstudios.co.uk/Show

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..................... Even with Andy Currums as the festival director this year, I’m still quite involved, curating and managing three different events. One is a big music night at the theatre. I haven’t got the weight of having to be involved in everything, like producing the brochure, on my shoulders any more so I can just dip in and do things I really want to do.” IYAF has a royal president and other celebrity patrons. How important is their support for the festival? The Earl of Wessex, Prince Edward, has been amazing. He’s been on board from year one and that was really important at the start as the gravitas of him and other high profile patrons, such as Sheridan Smith and Tom Holland, really helped to establish the festival and encourage high quality artists to be part of it. Prince Edward comes to our black tie dinner every year. That is one of the most important events in our fundraising calendar and guests are more likely to attend if there is royalty there. He also attends the gala night which is on July 13th this year. He's great at fighting our corner and persuading sponsors and businesses to back the charity and the young people we work with. Our patrons come to fundraisers as well and they’ve donated auction items and are actively involved, not just lending their name to the festival. You were only 23 years old when leading the artistic direction for the very first IYAF. What has got you where

you are today and what advice would you give to young wannabe stage and production managers? “I feel very lucky that I became interested in back-stage early and didn’t want to be an actor. That was the most fortuitous decision I have made as being an actor is so competitive and there isn’t enough work to go round. This led to me going to drama school to study stage management and I very quickly became production and people manager. I really like bringing people together to make things happen. The drama school I attended, Rose Bruford College, was good at encouraging students to set up their own companies and make things happen, not to wait for the phone to ring for someone to offer you a job. I set up my own carnival company when I was 18 and ran it until I was 23. We did big outdoor processions, large scale puppetry, festival work and community work linking communities to outdoor celebratory art.

The advice I would give to young people in this industry is not to go into the creative sector thinking that work will simply come to you because of your talent. Believe in yourself and have the confidence to make your idea happen. Learn project management skills so that you know how to manage the business side of things otherwise you won’t survive.”

DARLING COMPETITION: TWO PAIRS OF TICKETS TO BE WON Raise the Roof on July 8th, 7:30pm, Rose Theatre Kingston The International Youth Arts Festival will open with Raise the Roof - a variety night showcasing the best shows coming up over the following nine days. Closing date 1st July. For your chance to win a pair of tickets, email: press@creativeyouthcharity.org

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politics .........

What do local business leaders make of the

EU REFERENDUM?

Mike Lloyd went out and asked

nationwide referendum asking whether Britain is to remain in the European Union (EU) or leave will be held on Thursday, 23 June.

The last time we had a referendum was in 1975, when the country decided to remain in what was then the Common Market. Stay or leave? What are the main points today? • Immigration - new arrivals will not be able to claim tax credits right away • Child Benefit – migrant workers will still qualify for child benefit. But if they send it to their home country it will be paid at the rate that applies over there • The Prime Minister has promised to keep the Pound and we will never join the Euro • City Financial centres will be protected from Eurozone regulations • Britain is exempt from ‘ever closer union’ with other EU states What do local business groups make of that Leave or Remain? Louise Punter from Surrey Chamber of Commerce, with 1,500 members ranging from the one man business to giants like BP, says ‘some have strong views, and that often depends on their size, sector and interest in exporting.’

With regard to employment, there are a number of issues to consider including employing workers from overseas in relation to specific job roles and salary levels and legislation that is in favour of employees introduced as a result of the EU, and the effect that has on local job hunters. Sarah Cornes, a board member of Kingston Chamber of Commerce, told us, much like the other Chambers, that they do not have a view on how to vote, other than to encourage members to engage in lively discussion. And finally, Sue Reeves from Business Biscotti, a networking organisation that is reaching out beyond London, reports strong feelings expressed about the Government leaflet. Most people see this as a sign of mismanagement as people want to hear a balanced view. “Small businesses say they are not being heard and that the government is so far removed from the people running small businesses. Some members say they are keen to take back control of our borders. Britain is able to stand on its own.” What do the polls tell us ? If you take away the ‘Don’t Knows’ from the six most recent polls, the share of the votes for ‘Leave’ and ‘Remain’ is even 50:50. So the final decision may come down to one vote - and that could be yours.

‘The Chamber takes the view that their job is to gather as much data as possible to keep members informed and enable them to make a well informed decision.’ Diana Sterck Chief Executive of Merton Chamber of Commerce says two big issues concerning members relate to international trade and HR. With more and more firms trading online internationally the implications for staying or leaving are in the detail. 8

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Mike Lloyd is a local writer, speaker and blogger on politics www.yourpoliticscourse.co.uk www.surrey-chambers.co.uk www.mertonchamber.co.uk www.kingstonchamber.co.uk www.businessbiscotti.co.uk

Where to EAT and DRINK this summer? You'll be spoilt for choice! Bella Italia Newly opened Bella Italia in Kingston offers fabulous Italian inspired food, great service and beautiful river views. From breakfast, with unlimited hot drinks, to lunch or dinner of pizzas and pastas from £7.95, Bella is perfect for any occasion. The kids will love Bella too! The innovative award-winning menu offering different sizes for different ages was recognised by Mumsnet in 2014. The sunny riverside terrace is a great place to enjoy a fresh Insalata Verde, while you watch the boats pass by.

52A High Street, Kingston KT1 1EU www.bellaitalia.co.uk tel: 0208 439 1002

Fratelli Delicatessen Fratelli is a little piece of Italy in the heart of North Kingston. A perfect place for a coffee or delicious lunch prepared by the owner, Antonio, who has years of experience as a chef at London’s top Italian restaurants. As well as creating fantastic food, he can suggest the perfect ingredients and give great advice for all your cooking queries. Alongside the variety of food available from our Deli counter we also offer a broad range of wines including some of the finest vintage Italian wine. 10% off for a case of 6 bottles - offer valid until 31 July. 57 Park Road, Kingston KT2 6DB www.fratellidelicatessen.com tel: 020 85498021

Hawkers Bar and Brasserie at the DoubleTree by Hilton Opening later this year, Hawkers Bar and Brasserie will pay homage to Kingston’s extensive contribution to the history of Aviation. Named after the Sopwith Aviation Company’s chief test pilot Harry Hawker, Hawkers Bar and Brasserie will boast a trend-setting menu with a selection of contemporary dishes to complement its vast choice of beer, wine and spirits, some of which will be locally sourced. Whether you are gathering with friends and family for cocktails or enjoying our signature Afternoon Tea, our unique dining options offer a distinct and unforgettable experience as part of your visit to the DoubleTree by Hilton in Kingston.

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Jack’s Kitchen at Holiday Inn - Kingston South Jack’s Kitchen is a chic and stylish restaurant, which not only offers culinary delights to its revellers but a well rounded experience with its carefully crafted Modern Menu of the World. Signature dishes like Jack’s Dry Aged Porterhouse steak, Smoked Scallops and Nova Scotia Lobster are at hand to sample plus a delectable summary cocktail selection and Boutique Whiskeys of the world. And you should definitely taste the Signature Dessert – Jack’s Creative Mess. Apart from being creative, £1 goes to local Creative Youth Charity each time the dessert is sold. Take advantage of the Great introductory offers with 2 or 3 courses at £14.99 & £19.99; Happy Hour from 12 noon to 7pm and 25% discount on à la carte menu Portsmouth Road, Surbiton KT6 5QQ with a glass of wine or Prosecco. www.hikingston.co.uk tel: 020 8786 6565

JinJin Chinese Restaurant JinJin Chinese Restaurant is a contemporary Chinese Restaurant, situated by the River Thames in Kingston, within an easy walking distance from the town centre. JinJin Restaurant is an ideal venue for lunchtime meetings, socialising and fun-filled dinner parties. Opened in February 2014, we offer our guests an all-day grazing experience, specialising in authentic Sichuan and North China cuisine with a twist. Unit 8, Charter Quay, 2 Wadbrook Street, Kingston KT1 1HR www.jinjinkingston.com tel: 020 8549 6638

The King’s Head A stone’s throw from the Thames and Bushy Park, The King’s Head has cosy snugs and log fires for chilly days and a wonderfully sheltered courtyard for warmer ones. Serving French brasserie fare alongside pub classics our lovely chefs use the best seasonal ingredients to create truly delicious dishes for our à la carte menu and excellent value set menu. With a carefully chosen wine list and cracking selection of guest ales and beers we are the perfect destination whatever the occasion. 123 High Street, Teddington TW11 8HG teddington@whitebrasserie.com tel: 020 3166 2900

The Park Hotel & Bar Re-discover great food with The Park Restaurant & Bar, Teddington. Not only do we have a fresh, flavoursome and fabulous new menu but there’s also some new faces. Manager Andrew Mackie joins us from our sister hotel in Chertsey. The lovely Natalia has been promoted to Deputy and our new Head Chef Konrad is ready to show off his skills. To celebrate all our new arrivals we’ve got some amazing offers! Visit our website for 50% off food and other spectacular promotional savings. Park Road, Teddington TW11 0AB www.parkhotelteddington.com tel: 020 8614 9700

Retro Bistrot in Teddington With a warm welcome and all-pervading bonhomie, this comfortable yet elegant bistrot has everything you could want from a top local restaurant – fine food, genial service and a great sense of fun! AMAZING VALUE SET MENU: £10.50 FOR LUNCH £19.50 FOR DINNER Look out for our summer cafe/lounge opening in July. 114-116 High Street, Teddington TW11 8JB www.retrobistrot.co.uk tel: 020 8977 2239

Meet, eat, relax and enjoy yourself by Riverside Walk, Kingston Riverside Walk is an oasis hidden away in Kingston which boasts amazing views of the river and overlooks Kingston Bridge. You’ll find an abundance of eateries at Riverside Walk offering mouth-watering cuisine with a range of restaurants (Comptoir Libanais, CAU, Cote Brasserie, Busaba and Bill’s) – all offering a great place to relax with friends and family as you enjoy al fresco along the many outdoor seating areas. If you are shopping in Kingston, visiting the theatre or looking for the perfect place for a business lunch, Riverside Walk will provide the ideal location. Riverside Walk, Kingston KT1 1QN www.riversidewalkkingston.co.uk

Stein’s – The Bavarian Experience Stein’s Kingston is a Bavarian restaurant with a wonderful river terrace overlooking the Thames. Our upstairs function room has got its own terrace too! Staff dress in traditional Dirndl and Lederhosen serving Bavarian beer in big steins. Our Schnitzels and sausages are real winners with our customers, but vegetarians are also catered for with delicious salads and cheese Spätzle. Or come and enjoy the sun on an afternoon with homemade German cake and coffee! 56 High Street, Kingston KT1 1HN www.stein-s.com/kingston tel: 020 8546 2411

The Willow 'Food as Medicine' Restaurant Our dining experience is specially crafted with nutritional expertise, thought and care to promote naturally-enriched living. Plates that are both delicious and nutritionally balanced. Award winning gluten-free beers and ciders, organic/biodynamic wines and powerful, nutrient-loaded coffees. Come in and give your taste buds a healthy treat and your body an experience it will thank you for.

16 The Triangle, Norbiton KT1 3R www.yourwillow.co.uk tel: 020 3034 2424

It’s that time of year again – th By Cressida Borrett, ceramics artist and Chair of KAOS, Kingston Artists Open Studios

or the 6th year running, artists all over Kingston will be opening their homes and studios to the public. It’s time to tidy up and put the finishing touches to our work - ready for the two open weekends in June, 11-12 and 18-19. This year there will be over 70 painters, printmakers, photographers, sculptors, ceramicists, textile artists, glass artists, and many others, taking part. Open Studios is a

growing national movement, with towns all over the UK taking part at different points in the year, and is an opportunity for us artists to share what we do with each other - and of course the general public. Working alone in my studio for most of the year, it’s great to spend two relaxing weekends sharing ideas and meeting customers. It is also an opportunity to show a wider range of work than we can in fairs and galleries, where space is limited.

Kingston’s Young Artists KAOS is welcoming fresh talent and has launched a new annual art competition, aimed at finding Kingston’s best up and coming artists. The competition is for 16-19 year olds (mainly art foundation and sixth form students) and is designed, in particular, to encourage those thinking of a career, or pursuing a degree in art or design. Artists of all ages are known for finding fault with their own work, and we wanted to give a handful of promising young artists the recognition they deserve and the confidence to exhibit alongside established professional artists. Six winners and 12

runners-up will be taking part in Open Studios in June. Even though we are in our first year, Young KAOS received a wide variety of high quality entries, from photography to sculpture, multimedia to watercolour - you name it! In fact, the work was so varied, judging it was very difficult. However, after much deliberation, the winners were chosen. In first place is AS level art student at Tiffin Girls, Raghvi Arya. In Second Place, Coombe Girls School’s Juliyana Robinson, currently taking her A2 exams. Third place was Sophie Kean, also at Tiffin Girls. Due to the high level of work, it was agreed by

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By Kendra Quinn

he Open Studios month of June Most of us sell our work and take commissions, and much of it is surprisingly affordable. You can buy a unique work of art - preferably for yourself – from a few pounds for cards and ceramics, to several hundred for original paintings. Some of us also sell our “seconds” and old work off cheaply.

Many of our artists are very successful, taking part in major exhibitions all over the world, including the prestigious Summer Exhibition at the Royal Academy, so as well as something you would love on your wall you may even be buying a future investment!

2016 is our biggest event yet, with 13 different venues opening their doors, including a ‘taster exhibition’ throughout the week of June 11th, held in the upstairs art space at Cass Art, in Kingston town centre. Providing you live in the area, you will receive a flyer through your door, or alternatively you can pick up a catalogue at Kingston Museum, the library, Cass Art, Pullingers or one of the many cafés around town. Our trail map is included, or can be downloaded from: kingstonartistsopenstudios. co.uk/show So, come and see us – if you visit at least 4 venues, you’re in with a chance to win £100 worth of art. We’re open on all four days from 11-5pm.

KAOS’ judging panel that three further artists would be certified as highly commended; Asha Dodhia, Anna Sogomonian and Janaki Mistry’s work were also loved by the judges and will be exhibited alongside the winners.

Left: Competition winner, Raghvi Arya from Tiffin Girls' School Above: Artwork by Coombe Girls School’s Juliyana Robinson Right: Sophie Kean, also from Tiffin Girls

gest yet, featuring over 70 artists in homes and studios across the borough. Visit the KAOS website to see Open studios trail map, and to discover more about your local arts group: kingstonartistsopenstudios. co.uk

The winners will receive Cass Art vouchers of £100, £75 and £50 respectively, along with getting the opportunity to exhibit at this year’s open studios on the weekends of June 11th/12th and 18th/19th. The highly commended applicants will also be participating. This year’s open studios event is KAOS’ bigdarlingmagazine.co.uk | june – aug 2016

SUMMER 2016 beauty

acations are for unwinding, not worrying about waterproof mascara, shaving rash or whether you are toned enough for your bikini. We’ve selected essential pre-vacation salon treatments and a rapid results exercise that guarantee you to look gorgeous from sun-lounger to sunset…

A low-maintenance beauty routine is often a result of a lot of groundwork, especially in preparation for a summer escape. But while multiple salon and gym visits may seem like too much hard work and expense for you, these will not only help whip you into shape before you go, but will minimise your regime once you’re on holiday. The result? Less time in front of the mirror, more time on the beach…

Archie’s Hair By 1 Natural looking hi-lights are an instant way to get that sun-kissed look without sun damage. Archie’s Hair By 1 is an independent salon with a great atmosphere and friendly staff.

Special summer offer: hi-lights, cut and blow-dry for £70. 79 Maple Road Surbiton KT6 4AW tel:020 8339 9939

Training to achieve that beach body doesn't have to be a long slog The EMS device, Miha Bodytec, is the most effective body shaping, weight loss and muscle strengthening technology currently available on the market. The Body Shape Studios in Surbiton are offering the opportunity for you to experience and benefit from this revolutionary way of training. A total body 20 minute work-out that is the equivalent to 1.5 hours of conventional training! Get in contact to see how we can get you ready and confident to hit the beach this summer. 69 Brighton Road, Surbiton KT6 5NF tel: 0203 659 1098 www.thebodyshapestudios.com

Seabreazy Hair Shield your hair from sun damage, halt humidity hair 'mares or get some sexy sea breezy texture with Bumble and Bumble Foam Wash Shampoo and Creme Rinse Conditioner. The idea of the Surf collection is to give your hair volume and a natural beachy wave without using products and just letting your hair dry naturally.

& hair edit Summer Makeup As a makeup artist I'm always asked what my tips are for summer. My answers: • Use water-based primers to keep skin hydrated • Ditch the foundation for a BB cream, it's lighter and usually has a high SPF • Swap your current mascara for a waterproof version • Invest in a setting spray to fix make up for a long-lasting look • A blue eyeliner instead of black will make the whites of your eyes brighter • Lastly, stay hydrated

If you would like a fresh summer look, contact me: Rachel Barclay rachel99barclay@hotmail.com tel: 07801 611840 twitter.com/rachel99MUA

Tan...in the shower The St. Tropez in-shower gradual tanner lets you get tan without interfering with your routine — no airbrushing, dry time or awkward naked moments required. And it's crazy-fast: Just slather on the formula like a body lotion while your skin is still wet, wait three minutes, then rinse it off. With the new, deeper shade, a golden tan develops over eight hours, and it gets darker with daily use.

Lycon Waxing for summer smooth skin Waxing isn’t just about getting rid of unwanted hair. Waxing services at The Spa Boutique, also remove the top layer of dead skin cells, making way to smoother, healthier skin. After just a few treatments, hair begins to grow in lighter and less noticeable. It’s about treating, pampering and about taking care of yourself for a great year on the beach.

The Spa Boutique, 3 Coombe Road, Kingston KT2 7AB tel: 020 8549 8103 thespaboutique.webs.com Get beach beauty ready with summer-loving semi-permanent makeup! Eyebrows that frame your face and won’t smudge. Your eyebrows are one of the most important elements your make-up routine and can transform your face with the right angle of the arch and the deepness of the hue. Blushed lips that only need a slick of balm. Semi-permanent blushed lips give you a perfect pout with a shade specifically chosen to complement your skin tone. Eyeliner that guarantees wide awake, superbly pretty eyes. Semi-permanent eye-liner is the pièce de résistance of beach ready beauty (even when you’ve indulged in one Sangria too many).

An exclusive Darling reader offer of 20% off the above treatments in June - August. Zara Eliott Beauty tel: 020 8935 5061www.zaraelliottbeauty.com

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NETBALL is more than just a game Bringing valuable lessons to girls whilst they are playing the sport they love

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Netball provides girls with an opportunity to be part of a team. There are important life lessons learnt by playing a team sport and you get to have fun with your friends whilst learning them.

Healthy habits It doesn’t feel good when you are struggling to keep up with a game or your opponent. By playing netball from a young age, girls are taught to look after themselves and this becomes a habit, a lifestyle choice that isn’t consciously made - I want to play well and so need to train and eat well. It gives them a healthy concept of body image in an increasingly pressured society.

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A GARDEN with a 360-degree story to find a cure - the charity’s annual costs are £500. Already the charity is making a difference. A final series of trials it has funded will hopefully conclude that an existing and safe anti-malarial drug is an effective treatment for colorectal cancer.

owel Disease is a tiny charity and was started in 2007 by Raynes Park based, Crohn’s disease sufferer, Gary Douch, from his hospital bed. Since then Bowel Disease UK, which has no staff, has raised over £400,000 to fund direct research into IBD (Inflammatory Bowel Disease) and Bowel Cancer at St George's University Hospital led by Professor Kumar. Unlike many charities, every penny raised by donors and supporters goes directly into funding research

Professor Devinder Kumar is a leading bowel disease surgeon and consultant. A trustee of the charity Bowel Disease UK, he lives in Surrey and works at St George’s University of London. Professor Kumar is also a proficient gardener who first learned about gardening from a neighbour. Today he has a large garden and his particular interests are his fruit trees, over 300 roses, tree peonies, alstroemeria and the medicinal value of spices. He grows seasonal vegetables in summer and is keen to learn from other gardens he sees when travelling abroad. An ambassador of the charity, Andrew Fisher Tomlin,

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from Fisher Tomlin & Bowyer, award-winning garden designers and landscapers are recognised as one of the top UK garden designers. They have designed a city garden for this year’s Hampton Flower Show. It’s called ‘Garden for Crohn’s Disease’ and is hoped to raise the profile of this tiny charity amongst a much wider audience including: sufferers who will benefit from the research; those who want hope and who could respond by fundraising for the new crowdfunding appeal to raise £150k to study the impact of a novel drug and targeted diets in patients with Crohn's disease; any other potential donors and fundraisers. You can see the garden at the world’s largest flower show: RHS Hampton Court Palace Flower Show Tue 5 to Sun 10 July 2016 One in six of the 3000-6000 cases diagnosed each year in the UK are sufferers aged 16 or under. It can be life-threatening. Treatment is expensive and becomes more complicated over time. Young sufferers will have it for the rest of their lives but, with the right care, can learn to live with it. www.boweldisease.org.uk

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Mary Portas has given charity shops a fashion makeover

by Marja-Leena Toseland

new kind of charity shop was opened just over three years ago at the heart of Teddington High Street. It's a special place in many ways and even occupies the oldest building on the street, dating back to 1730s. Mary's Living & Giving Shops for Save the Children aren’t simply about shopping, they are a retail concept based on Mary Portas’ philosophy that generosity and the collaboration of people’s ideas, beliefs and values can bring a heart to the community while raising significant funds to support the global work of charity, Save the Children. Proving that fashion does save lives and shopping can actually be guilt free, the 15 shops offer a unique retail experience with a charitable twist. Living & Giving is no ordinary charity retailer as interior design, quality finish, customer service and exclusive events all receive as much attention as the new and pre-loved pieces donated by individual donors as well as luxury brands and retailers. Living & Giving shops are the fashion industry’s choice for ‘giving back’ as the shops’ intention is to create a ‘new charity shop experience’ and attract an audience who would not normally shop with a charity. Living & Giving remains at the heart of their neighbourhoods by having a welcoming local volunteer team in every shop that both ensures personal retail service and hosts community activities and events in store. “We have volunteers from all walks of life and, for some of them, the shop has been a real life-line through their difficult times”, says Jackie Beedle, Shop Manager in Teddington.

While carefully edited for the shop floor, absolutely every one of the 1,000,000 donations (so far received by the shops) have been used to raise many millions of pounds to help Save the Children positively impact the lives of children around the world. 100% of monies made in the Mary’s Living & Giving shops go to Save the Children, therefore providing a platform that balances a high end fashion offering with a social consciousness. Mary's Living & Giving Shops for Save the Children are based on acts of kindness and generosity – be that giving products, time or skills for the benefit of others – thus making it very ‘Cool to be Kind’.

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WHAT WHAT HAPPENS HAPPENS WHEN WHEN EYE INJURIES IN SURGERY YOU’RE GONE? YOU’RE GONE? Hart Brown’s Sanders has somesets insights Rachael Brady, Trust Estates Lawyer out Rachael Brady,Gerard Trustand and Estates Lawyer sets outHart HartBrown’s Brown’s top topten tentips tipsto toprotect protectyour yourloved lovedones ones

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88 Inheritance Inheritancetax tax

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130 SUMMERS IN SW19 WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’RE GONE?

Tennis historian Richard Jones tells the story

Rachael Brady, Trust and Estates Lawyer sets out Hart Brown’s top ten tips to protect your loved ones

THE 2016 WIMBLEDON TENNIS CHAMPIONSHIPS are the 130th since the event was first held at the All England Club’s original grounds in Nursery Road, halfway between Wimbledon and Raynes Park. “Wimbledon,” as the tournament quickly became known, has since been the scene of many historic moments and celebrated a number of important milestones, none of which could have been foreseen by the group of pioneers who organised the first tournament to raise funds to repair the club’s pony-roller.

There have been four distinct phases in Wimbledon’s history, each with its own colourful personalities and defining moments. The first was the garden-party era, when the game was played mainly by gentlemen and ladies of leisure, and the trophies were nearly all won by British players. This started with the first Wimbledon tournament in 1877, when just twenty-two men took part, and continued through to the eve of World War I in the summer of 1914. Of the thirty-eight Gentlemen’s 1 Make Singles a willChampionships during this period, thirty-two were won by British and Making a will adds both certainty and Irish players. Leading players included William security forRenshaw your loved ones. If you not and Ernest in the 1880s, and do Laurie make a will, your estate go where and Reggie Doherty in themay first not decade of the twentieth century. Between them,a these four you expect it to. For example, surviving British greats won does a totalnot of seventeen spousetennis or civil partner automatically singles titles. first receiveand thetwenty-six whole of doubles your estate onThe your Wimbledon Ladies’ Singles Championship death. An unmarried partner will receive was held in 1884, and the title was won by nothing! nineteen year-old Maud Watson from Harrow. This ground-breaking event did a huge amount Children from a first marriage to2speed up the quest for fair treatment for women late-Victorian Britain and across If you in have children from a previous the world. you should consider protecting marriage,

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often we see relationships between step-parents and step-children breaking down after the death of the parent and, unless your will has been made to protect them, your children could be disinherited if your partner changed their will after your death.

3 Your partner remarrying after your death Linking to tip 2, another potential risk is that your partner remarries after your death and their will is amended to leave their estate to their new partner. That new partner may cut your children out of their will altogether and your children may receive nothing.

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TheAuthorised inter-war years from 1919 to 1939 saw and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority Wimbledon change from being a purely domestic affair to become a global sporting event, and with this expansion British successes became few and far-between. Countries such as America and Australia had the advantage of better climates for year-round play, and they began to dominate. In 1922 the All England Club moved to a new purpose-built tennis complex in Church Road, and in 1926 a parade of past champions was held on the Centre Court to mark fifty years of the Wimbledon Championships. In the 1930s Great Britain saw a brief return to past glories as Stockportborn Fred Perry won three consecutive titles, and4hisDivorce countryman Bunny Austin, himself a Wimbledon shockedcan spectators Outrightsingles gifts tofinalist, beneficiaries be in in 1933 by wearing shorts on the Centre Court. danger if that beneficiary gets divorced. Any

assets left outright to that beneficiary will After War II as thepart age of of their jet travel changed beWorld considered assets when the reaching face of Wimbledon, with reduced a divorce settlement andjourney your hardtimes allowing players from earned funds could passmany intomore the hands of the countries compete in Theloved Championships. persontodivorcing your one. Australia and the USA tightened their grip on Wimbledon’s trophies, winning thirty-seven of 5 Financial irresponsibility the forty-four Ladies’ and Gentlemen’s singles If your beneficiary is between not responsible championships contested 1946 andwith money, any outright to them could be 1967. The leading players gift of this era included Through yourMaureen will youConnolly can still Lewwasted. Hoad, Ken Rosewall, andprovide Maria Bueno. for your loved one but add a level of

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Professional players had been excluded more trustworthy people chosen byfrom you. Wimbledon and the world’s other great tournaments from 1927 to 1967, butincapacity the start 6 Mental or physical of the Open Tennis era in 1968 enabled exiled If your beneficiary suffers from a mental or former champion Rod Laver and a host of physical incapacity, they may be entitled to other professional stars to again compete at state Proper provision the means-tested world’s number onebenefits. tournament. In 1977 in your will can ensure that yourand assets Wimbledon celebrated its centenary, are Elizabeth properly managed for visit theirtobenefit but Queen II paid a rare SW19 to present the Venus Rosewater Dish to popular without affecting their benefits. British champion Virginia Wade.

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Open tennisbeneficiaries spawned a line charismatic If your areofmore elderly, there Wimbledon champions including Bjorn may be more likelihood that they will require Borg, Martina Navratilova, John McEnroe, care, either at home or in a care or nursing Steffi Graf, Andre Agassi and Boris Becker. If your fundshas areseen left stars to them Thehome. twenty-first century like directly, your assets may be used up in paying Roger Federer, Rafael Nadal and Venus and for theirWilliams care. You protection Serena takecan theadd game to a new in your so that funds your loved levelwill of excellence, theare likeavailable of whichfor could but are protected from being taken by not ones have been imagined by the twenty-two flannel-trousered gentlemen the local authority to paywho for first care.took to Wimbledon’s lawns back in 1877.

WIMBLEDON MILESTONES 1877 The First Wimbledon Championships 1884 The First Wimbledon Ladies’ Championship 1907 Norman Brookes - First Overseas Champion 1922 All England Club Moves to Church Road Rachael Brady 1926 50 Years of Wimbledon - Parade of Champions

1933 Bunny Austin Wears Shorts on Centre Court 1968 Allowed 8 Professionals Inheritance taxto Enter The Championships

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at 40% on your assets over your tax free 1977 Wimbledon’s Centenary

allowance. Through careful planning in your will and your investments, you can avoid 2009 Centre Gets inheritance a Closing Roof paying thisCourt onerous tax and protect your assets for your loved ones. 1986 The 100th Wimbledon Championships

2013 Andy Murray - Britain’s First Male Champion for 76 Years

9 Who will inherit if your loved ones have died?

tennisgallerywimbledon.com 020 8715 8866 As well as thinking about who you would

want to inherit, you should consider who should inherit if your first choice beneficiaries have died before you. Would you want your estate to go to other family members, friends or charity? Make a will so that your wishes are fulfilled.

10 Protect your own financial stability Whilst it is very important to consider and protect your loved ones when you are gone, it is essential to make sure that you yourself are financially stable to provide for them. Consider taking independent financial advice about your investments. Also consider making a lasting power of attorney to cover the position if you lose capacity to deal with your own financial affairs. Before taking any steps in relation to any of these tax planning options, you should take professional advice. The options mentioned are based on the current tax rules which may be subject to change.

Call Rachael directly on 0208 971 0478 at our Wimbledon Village office. hartbrown.co.uk

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Next Stop: GENEVA

By Alan Bissell

punctures, the biggest problem was low bridges.

Setting off from Twickenham for Luxembourg and Trier in August 1966

n 7th February 1964, a classified advertisement appeared on the front page of The Times. It read: "Young people over 18. See Europe in a double-decker bus. July 25 - Aug 16. 6 countries. Student-run. £28 absolute maximum. Probably less. Phone POP 1841." Tim Lewis, a 22-year-old law student from Twickenham, had got the idea after seeing the Cliff Richard film “Summer Holiday” and bought an old and obsolete bus from London Transport for £375. On 25 July 1964 the bus set off from Twickenham with 23 girls and 17 boys on board – mostly students from all over Britain. It took them on a three week camping holiday across Europe - a round trip of about 2,000 miles. "Those were the days when, if you met another British vehicle you waved," says Tim. "People in France were astonished to see

a red London double-decker bus meandering through their town or village. That first trip was a huge success and the bus attracted public curiosity and press attention wherever it went. In Germany it even had a police motorcycle escort to guide it through the main towns. In 1965 the Double Decker Club (DDC) was set up and over the next six years the bus embarked on several continental holidays to France, Germany, Luxembourg, Denmark, Switzerland and Spain. "The fact that we were in a red London bus added everything to the holidays," says Kevin McCormack. "We had only to stop to fill up with diesel at a garage, and a French television film crew would appear."

Romances were part of the trips and a number of marriages resulted from them. Tim met his wife on the Basel trip in1965 but doubts that anyone joined with the intention of actively seeking romance. As he put it, “the girls were coming for a cheap holiday - a social time and an opportunity to let their hair down”. The holidays were just immense fun and many of the friendships that were made have lasted half a lifetime”. The Bus affectionately known as ‘Lulu’ The bus, an RTL 1050, also had one unique feature – all four of The Beatles had autographed the top deck ceiling. Their autographs were lost forever when the bus ceiling was repainted later. Below: A puncture (one of many) at Oulchy-le-Chateau in Picardy, northern France

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people out and about in and around Kingston On the On thescene Scene .............................. The Victoria Foundation's Love Lunch at the Bingham Hotel in Richmond

ON THE SCENE L-R: Jan Meek, guest speaker and triple Guiness Record holder, Annette Cruiziat and Tasleem Mulhall

L-R: Stephanie Lippiatt and Julie Fordham

L-R: Jan Meek, Isabel Neuwirth and Cathy Tole

Kingston Chamber of Commerce enjoyed The Herbal Bed at Rose Theatre

KINC exhibition of photos by homeless

Sarah Richardson, Russell-Cooke Solicitors with Robert O'Dowd, CEO of Rose Theatre

L-R: Paul Mowatt, Christine Phayre and Ben Mole

Antje Moor, IQinIT; Guy Holloway, Headmaster of Hampton Court School and Roxanne Norman, Bella Italia

L-R: Paul Fern, Bee Smith and Sarah Taylor L-R: Dave Goodman, Utility Warehouse; Imshan Jamal and Lorna Giffin both from DoubleTree by Hilton

Kingston Chamber of Commerce President's Ball at Holiday Inn L-R: Angie Willman, Adrian Roades, Ann Hutchinson, Robin Hutchinson, Sara Whitman, Alex Whitman-Chamber President, Hattie Field, Mayor and Mayoress Roy and Manisha Arora, Gareth Lee, Fish and Sonia Grout

L-R: Adam and Lucia Neil from Riverside Cleaning with Cheryl Carter from Every Home Matters

The Mumpreneurs Networking Club on tour; Kingston Market

At the annual Surbiton Food Festival and Sardine Festival

Ann and Robin Hutchinson, The Community Brain

Preet Gata-Aura and Nisha Patel from Natural Health Star

L-R: Helen McGuire, Nikki French, Nicky Chisholm and Sara Guiel

L-R: Lisa Lindsey, Kavit Manro, Amber Widdett and Ash Chandola - Festival sponsors from Surbiton Veterinary Hospital

Tatsu Ozaki from Ippuku Tea Caz Owen, Dani Crebban, Karen Baker, Armelle Madelin, Lucy Edwards and Svetha Sethumadhavan

Tina Dezart, festival volunteer with Simone Kay, artist

IYAF programme launch at Rose Theatre

L-R: Sarah Hodgson-press office at IYAF, Andy Currums-IYAF festival Director, Sorrel Parsons-Love Kingston and Des Kay

Macmillan Coffee Morning with Captain Tortue fashion at Zara Elliott Beauty

Jackson Longe Solicitors raised a record amount for Will Aid

L-R: Zara Elliott, beauty and semipermanent makeup; Carole Ann Geddes, image, style and colour consultant; Olivia Kate Parry, Healthily Olivia and Helen Cowleard, mobile nail technician

At the John Lewis new Home Design Studio L-R: Amaka Jackson, Managing Solicitor and Allec Foley

Mary's Living and Giving in Teddington turned three

L-R: Andrea Vida, Jenny Bell and Karen Powell

L-R: Marine Williams, Eleanor Broad, Jackie Beedle; Shop Manager, volunteers Clodagh McGrath and Mariella Saunders with Dantastic L-R: Andrew Collins; John Lewis, Alex Moore, Jerry Irving, CEO Chamber Of Commerce and Alex Whitman, Chamber President

L-R: Antje Moor, Michelle King, Sue Evans and Louise Wood

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Kingston lighting of Queen's 90th birthday Beacon

Mayor and Mayoress, Roy and Manisha Arora with Darling editor Marja-Leena Toseland

Kingston's creatives meet up at NoNo

L-R: Jessica Bailey, Jenny Tyler, Nina O'Sullivan, Lyndsay Russell , Darling columnist and Michelle Kirk from BeCurious creative agency

L-R: Sarah Taylor, Gordon Smith, Magda Pniewska and Cllr Hilary Gander

The Great British Cake Off at The Best of British Market in Surbiton

Market volunteers: Jenny Meers, Natalie Kontarsky, Julian Meers, Robyn McAllister and Aviva Stein

Amateur winner Georgia Adams

Pro winner Fabienne Jaimes

Children's winner Charlotte McKenzie

Iraqi Women Association Fund's fabulous fundraising dinner at Raivens Ait

Co-founder Raja Al-Mousawy with Zena Al-Ugaily, Chairwoman Commitee members: Omayma Kubba, Lara Shallal, Amira Hindi, Jinan Kirwi, Areez Hussain, Reem Twaij, Zena Al-Ugaily and Shatha Imara L-R: Zev Fehmi, Salwa Baghdadi, Ban Kamala and Zainab Khayat

L-R: Avis Kirwi, co-founder, Shatha Ali with husband, artist Mahdi Al-Shammary

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Riverside restaurants getting ready for the summer; tasting evening

L-R: Aga Brodowicz, Bernardo Trancoso, Niamh Martin and Katalin Koltai; the CĂ´te Restaurant

L-R: Nik, Emma Barrett from Surreykitchen. com and Ejaz, manager at Comptoir Libanais

L-R: Zara Elliott, Greg Miles from Riverside, Ushma Patel and Louise Wood

Speednetworking at Richmond Gate Hotel

L-R: Ruxandra Oprea, Ilenia Thevenot, Olivia Flattery and Rob Holmes from the organisers Business Biscotti

Want to be seen?

L-R: Ann Gibbon, Gail Fogarty, Marie Turner and Sonia Sarais

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GIRL POWER is changing lives in Iraq By Zena Al-Ugaily, IWAF Trustee and Chair

raqi Women Association Fund is a non-religious non-sectarian charity. It was founded by British women of Iraqi descent in 1990, after the second Gulf war, in order to help Kurdish families and others, who were displaced by the war. Its main work today is to help the poor, particularly widows and orphans, in Iraq. Although the main reason for Iraq’s plight, Saddam Hussain, was removed from power in 2003, the situation in Iraq had deteriorated and still not improved much. How does the IWAF support people? By providing medical aid, clothing, accommodation in the form of camp tents, heaters and blankets, food, education, tuition for illiterate mothers and children, most of whom are living in desperate poverty. IWAF has teamed up with other organisations including the christian charity The United Way, the Red Cross and a British scouts group, The Foundation for Aid and Development of the Iraqi Child, Umm Abeeha Charity, to teach basic reading and writing

skills, run sewing courses and fund small projects such as starting a home bakery business. These courses are mostly taught by women to victims of terror acts, bombings, and those displaced on racial and ethnicity grounds. We also support activities for children such as enrichment lessons for those who are struggling at school, organising children’s play groups during holidays and providing emotional support to orphans and those exposed to terror attacks. We strongly believe that education is the only way out of poverty. We therefore try to keep the children in school by working with educational charities and supporting sponsorship programmes. This also helps in reducing child labour. A member of our charity visited Kafil Al-yateem orphans’ school five years ago and was greatly

saddened to see children fainting during assembly time due to hunger and starvation. Children there may go without food for two days at a time as the school has access only to bare basic necessities. Her visit prompted us to start a school meals programme based on our model here in Kingston, by teaming up with a local organisation. Proudly this has caught up there and other humanitarian groups are now participating in this project as well. Fundraising for school uniforms, school bags and stationary and lobbying the Iraqi Ministry of Education is ongoing work for us as are bigger projects, such as raising funds for two school buses after we found out that some of the children walk up to five kilometres each way to get to and from school. Please don’t hesitate to contact us if you would like to support our fundraising efforts or for any other enquiries: iraqiwomenfoundation@ gmail.com

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Recipes by CHOC Chick

CHOCalicious summer smoothie and Raw chocolate ice cream

ooray! Summer’s lazy days are nearly here and what better way to chill and enjoy the weather than with a cool raw chocolate smoothie or some raw chocolate ice cream?

dairy or soya or rice milk • Handful of ice *Makes 2 large glasses Method

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Place the banana (and other fruit), millk/water and ice in a blender Blend well and add the tahini (or nut butter) and cacao powder and whizz till smooth Add 1tbsp Sweet Freedom or agave and blend. Taste and add more sweetener for a sweeter taste Pour into glasses and enjoy! •

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Feeding time at the garden

f I had a penny for every time I brought up the subject of feeding plants, I’d be very rich indeed. Just as the human body needs the right food for health and vitality, so do your garden lovelies. In the food world, we have become quite used to reading pack labels to establish ingredients –low fat, salt content, etc. I’m now advocating that you do the same with plant fertilisers. First let’s take a brief look at the three major nutrients that are vital to a plant to guarantee it a healthy life. Understanding this will take you a long way to success. Nitrogen (N) This is the plant’s leaf maker, and is a major component of chlorophyll - the stuff that makes leaves green. Plants that will have the greatest need for nitrogen are those vegetables grown for their leaves and lawn grasses. If your plant’s lower leaves are turning yellow, but the growing tip remains reasonably green, your plant is calling out for nitrogen. Iron is needed when the upper leaves look mottled green/yellow. However, if your flowering plant is producing lovely leaves, but it isn’t flowering then the chances are you are feeding it too much nitrogen and not enough potassium.

Phosphorus (P) Often described as the plant’s root-maker. It’s a component of DNA and regulates the rate of growth and reproduction of cells at the plant’s growing tip (and this includes the growing roots too) and germination of seeds. In a nutshell, no phosphate, no plant growth! Potassium (K) Potassium is needed by the plant to set flower buds, which then go on to give the plant sufficient energy for the buds to open to then set fruit and seeds. If your flowering plant is either not flowering at all, or getting to the point of producing flower buds that fail to open, then the nutrient needed is potassium. All plant fertilisers must declare their nutrient content on the label. It’s expressed as a ratio, giving the values in a block of three numbers. For example, the plant food that I

always recommend for flowering plants – a slow release granule product where one application will last for six months – the NPK ratio looks like 12:7:19. This reading tells me that there is a higher ratio of potassium to nitrogen (with tomato food this will be twice the amount) and therefore perfect for all plants but the grass. Slow release v liquid Unless you can guarantee that your soil is well hydrated at all times, I would choose granules to scatter around the base of each plant.

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What's on? Hampton Court Palace Festival Music Festival Wed 8 June - Thurs 23 June hamptoncourtpalacefestival.com Rose Theatre Kingston Colour Blind, an exhibition of photography by Jeremy Gee Mon 2 June - Mon 4 July Frame: The London Dance Film Festival Thu 9 June - Sun 12 June Presented by Balletboyz in association with Dance Screen 2016 Kingston Onstage 2016 Sat 18 June Kingston University presents a one-day festival of creative live performance Ignition Dance Festival Sat 2 - Sun 3 July Work by four of UK’s finest choreographers selected from a national competition IYAF - International Arts Youth Festival Fri 8 - Sun 17 July A showcase of the very best of youth arts, turning Kingston into an extravagant artist's playground. Multiple venues Tickets 020 8174 0090 or iyafestival.org.uk

of speakers; inspirational words from our headline speaker; refreshments, a delicious buffet lunch and a Benefit Cosmetics goodie bag!! JLL, 30 Warwick Street W1B 5NH funnywomen.com Normansfield Theatre, Teddington Sat 11 June, 7:30-9:30pm A Summer Garland presented by Teddington Summer Music Sun 12 June, 7:30pm La Traviata Sat 18 June, 7:30-9:30pm String serenade performed by Teddington Summer Music langdondowncentre.org.uk/ normansfield-theatre Landmark Arts Centre, Teddington International Art Exhibition, contemporary art. Thurs 9–Sun 12 June Teddington Village Fair Sun 27 June, 12pm-5pm A fabulous free family friendly day Udney Hall Gardens landmarkartscentre.org Communicating with Confidence; The Really Helpful Club event 15 June, 9:15am-12 noon £35 to include refreshments New Malden, venue TBC when booking Caroline@reallyhelpfulclub.com

Dinosaur Zoo Sat 30 Jul - Mon 1 Aug A fun filled family show which promises to leave you on the edge of your seat! Summer Shopping on the Terrace Sun 26 June, 11am-4pm The Hollywood Special Effects Show Holistic Aromatherapy gifts, jewellery, silk Sat 6 Aug - Sun 7 Aug designs and art gallery. An interactive and explosive family show Teddington, for venue details; that takes you behind the scenes of your douetilholistic@gmail.com or favourite films 07757 030791 rosetheatrekingston.org Handel’s Solomon Sat 2 July, 7:30pm [Open Rehearsal KAOS - Kingston Artists Open 2:30pm] Studios Kingston Parish Church, Sat 11-Sun 12 June, Sat 18-Sun 19 June Market Place KT1 1JP KCS is joined by the Purcell Orchestra Accidental Conference: Funny and some of Britain’s finest young Handel Money. By Funny Women singers for the superb oratorio Solomon. Sat 11 June, 9:30am-5:30pm Tickets: Adults £15 Concessions £13 UnTickets £130, includes a choice of four workshops facilitated by an eclectic range der 18s £5 tel: 020 8977 4801 kingstonchoralsociety.org or at the door 44 june – aug 2016 | darlingmagazine.co.uk

Hampton Court Palace Flower Show Royal Horticultural Society Tues 5 July - Sun 10 July For tickets go to rhs.org.uk Kingston Rotary Dragon Boat Challenge Sun 17 July Canbury Park Gardens, Lower Ham Road KT2 5AU kingston.gov.uk The Kids' Bike Camp Mon 25 July - Fri 19 Aug, 9:30am12:30pm Teaching your children to cycle safely. From complete beginners to experienced riders, all primary school aged children are welcome. Grey Court School, Ham Street, Richmond, Surrey TW10 7HN Price: £125 per child per week thekidsbikecamp.co.uk Canbury Garden Concerts Free Summer concerts at the Bandstand in Canbury Gardens, Kingston. On selected Sundays. For details go to kingston.gov.uk/events Grumpy Old Women: Fifty Shades of Beige Thurs 7 July Richmond Theatre atgtickets.com/venues/richmondtheatre Hampton Pool Summer Concerts Fri 15 - Sat 30 July Programme and tickets at hamptonpool.co.uk Hampton Hill Summer Fair Sat 16 July lovehamptonhill.com/events TW12 Jazz Festival Thurs 21 - Sun 24 July Programme and tickets at tw12jazzfestival.co.uk Surbiton Farmers’ Market Saturdays; 18 June, 16 July and 20 Aug - 9am-1pm Maple Road, Surbiton KT6 surbitonfarmersmarket.co.uk

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By Lyndsay Russell

Anyone for a GAME OF STONES? and the elf knew the right logarithms, codes and levers to make it actually work on a phone. All I had to do was lay the trail and work out the talismans. Easier said than done. Day after day working out the best route to weave around the town and the right bars to take part. Then I hit on the insane idea of making every clue rhyme. Once started, eight clues later it was too late to stop. Twenty-five in all! It would have been quicker to build The Wall. Sorry, those of you who have avoided the addiction to Game Of Thrones, it’s a 700 ft high wall of ice, 300 miles long.

have a dark confession to make. When I was a teenager I played Dungeons & Dragons with the avatar of Damocles - Warrior Queen. Not surprising, therefore, that the TV series Game Of Thrones appeals to the myth and magic in my soul. Apparently, judging by the massive success of the sixth series, I might not be alone in this. Spurred on by dragons, kings and Daenery’s blonde locks, a thought hit me last spring. How about creating an ancient, mysterious treasure hunt in modern day Kingston? More than anything, how could I resist the pun ‘Game of Stones’ - as in Kingston. But how to do it? I knew it was possible these days to use a mobile instead of a sheet of paper for clues. Alas, my technical know-how was limited to adjusting the temperature on my hair tongs. Asking the Universe to help out on this, mystery started to swirl, because literally the next night, I found myself in a café sitting next to Michael, a technical, geeky guy. I told him my idea,

This insider knowledge, however, isn’t necessary to play our game. We didn’t want to exclude friends who hadn’t seen the show - and, more importantly, get sued by HBO. What is necessary will be a sense of fun, adventure and a readiness to stop off at a few select watering holes to get your next clue. We are looking for volunteers to trial the game. You can start any day any time from 11am to 8pm (takes about 3-4 hours, starting on the steps of the Town Hall). First six teams that contact www. gameofstones.events will get a FREE pass worth £25 (up to five people per team). The challenge is on. Be quick, because ‘Winter is Coming...’ www.gameofstones.events

june – aug 2016 | darlingmagazine.co.uk

Leaving a legacy for your community

Remember Love Kingston in your Will By leaving a gift in your will you could help local people get the right support, at the right time. Sometimes that's all it takes. Love Kingston gives grants to charities and community projects that reach people in need in the Royal Borough of Kingston upon Thames. Gifts in Wills are already helping us to build a legacy fund that will support the changing needs of our communities for generations to come.

A gift that keeps giving Once you have provided for your loved ones, please consider making a gift to Love Kingston to transform the lives of residents. Even a very small percentage of your estate could make a big difference. There are many ways to give, including establishing your own Fund, specifying which projects to give to and nominating your loved ones as successors. We are happy to discuss your needs in detail.

For more information about leaving a gift in your Will to Love Kingston please contact sorrel@londoncf.org.uk or call 020 7582 5117. LvKingston

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Love Kingston is a fund of The London Community Foundation, registered charity number 1091263, working in partnership with Kingston Voluntary Action.

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