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Celebrating women this spring This spring issue is dedicated to women in celebration of International Women’s Day on March the 8th. We asked four very different women’s organisations what IWD means to them and how they are celebrating.
Cover Girl Mary Portas
Publisher Darling Magazine UK Ltd Karine Torr & Marja-Leena Toseland
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When women are involved in decision making, better outcomes follow for everyone. The Kindness Economy is a great example of this and it’s changing the way businesses are run says Mary Portas, our Inspiring Woman and cover girl. Mary is also a pioneer when it comes to pre-loved fashion and speaks to us about why it’s the trend to follow. Local pre-loved designer boutiques Misty & Claridge and Phoenix Style totally agree and are delighting with their carefully curated wares. Have a read
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Spring and summer events are fully back on and we bring you our top picks: the combo of food and music festivals is a fantastic day out and we’ve got two amazing festivals to join - Pub in the Park, Wimbledon Park in May and The Foodies Festival, Syon Park in June. Hampton Court Festival impresses once again with their line-up of pop royalty in June, and Ham Polo Club welcomes non-members to Sunday games and Friday night parties. Enjoy our guides to non-invasive beauty treatments and top prep schools in our area. Editors Karine & Marja-Leena
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Exclusive interview with the visionary Mary Portas Freshen your look with our spring styles Going sustainable – the pre-loved movement Women’s groups for International Women’s Day Women to Watch: be inspired! Tackling waste for a purpose - Oath Home White Rose, rethinking funerals Our spring prep schools guide Darling Diary picks Good vibes at Pub in the Park Festival Beauty: best non-invasive treatments for you How diet may help - Cancer Centre London New Victoria Hospital launches women’s webinars Sound divorce guidance from Russell-Cooke Reinvigorating your relationship? Pam Custers Carole’s spring salad on Cook’s Corner Change negative thought patterns with Emma Parr Bold new kitchen trends. A new eco era Best buy to let property advice Bridge with Paul Mendelson What’s hot at David Lloyd Raynes Park Shopping until dropping, Kate?
INSPIRING WOMAN
Mary Queen of Shops
Find out how one woman is making a world of difference by Abbey Bamford
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ary Portas is perhaps best known as the straight-talking retail consultant who made British high street businesses take stock and shape up in her TV series Mary Queen of Shops, What Britain Bought and Mary Portas: Secret Shopper. She is a self-made woman whose career in retail started by chance at John Lewis when she had to start work to support herself and her younger brother. In her early life, Mary made many sacrifices and even turned down a place at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts, but it was not in vain. John Lewis was a springboard to Harrods and later Topshop where she made her mark as a much admired and sought-after display manager. Her big break came when she got the coveted role as the creative director at Harvey Nichols. As a mother of three children, she knows what sacrifices women must make to have a career they want and deserve. This is brilliantly put
in her book Work Like a Woman: A Manifesto for Change. Mary is a woman with vision and the determination to bring it to life. She was chosen to lead David Cameron’s Government’s review into the future of the British high streets. She has launched a successful chain of Save the Children charity shops called Mary’s Living & Giving Shops, runs a creative agency Portas and is also the brains behind the concept of the Kindness Economy.
Q. What is the Kindness Economy? A. “Effectively it means that we need to think and be generous and kind in the way that we approach business so that we create an economy that puts people and the planet before profit. “We come from a highly consumerist society where we don’t think about the impact read more at darlingmagazine.co.uk spring 22
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INSPIRING WOMAN that industry has on our planet. There are two fundamental changes that need to happen. One: the business world needs to change how products are made. Two: we as people need to think about how and what we buy. “It’s still an economy because businesses need to make a profit to keep going, but it’s an economy with a heart and a conscience.”
Q. You are known as a retail guru of the British high streets. What’s your vision for their future? A.“We have an opportunity now to make our
high streets central to what I call the Kindness Economy. We’ve come to learn that what is in our local community is vital to our social structure and sense of wellbeing. That’s what I found when I did my high street report 10 years ago. “One of my visions is that everything is within cycling or walking distance of our needs. If we get that right I’ve got every hope that people will be feeding into the social progress of their community.”
Q. We’ve done phenomenally well in narrowing the gender career/pay gaps in recent decades but there is still a way to go. What is needed now to get women on par with men in economic terms and finally close that wealth gap? A. “Read my book, Work Like a Woman – it’s
all in there. I’ve written so intensely about it and it’s absolutely central to this debate. We need to put the feminine values as the caregivers of society back into business and we need men picking up these traits too. “In my book I write about the fashion industry (of which I’ve been a part) where 60% of the workforce within it are women, but only 10% sit on boards. Clearly we’ve got a huge way to go but the more we talk about the power in the way that women work – through understanding humanity and people – the greater the chance of these values being put back into business.”
Q. You are known as a woman with endless ideas, always tackling new projects, and you’ve recently published another book - Rebuild: How to thrive in the new Kindness Economy. Where do you find your inspiration and is there anything in the works at the moment?
A. “Central to my inspiration is my love for
understanding the cultural frequency and knowing what’s happening in the world. If you’re connected to that, things just happen. Ideas come to you. “I’m back to doing my podcast, ‘The Kindness Economy’. I’m also just becoming one of the Co-Chairs on something very important called the Better Business Act, which will start to change policy at government level. That is one of the most important things I’ll be doing this year. “A vital part of the act is Section 172 of the Companies Act. We want it changed to set minimum expectations for businesses, so they don’t just think about profit, but about purpose and their responsibility to their directors, their community and to society. That should be the role of business.” FOR MORE GO TO
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Being a fashionista can now be truly sustainable as Guildford welcomes Misty & Claridge, its first pre-owned designer women’s consignment boutique
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isty & Claridge’s owner Kim Collins is devoted to style and sustainability. She has over 25 years of international and UK retail experience as a fashion buyer, designer, merchandiser and stylist, gaining her luxury expertise at Louis Vuitton, Versace and Dolce & Gabbana. More recently, her concern for the impact of the fashion industry on the environment motivated the launch of her preloved, designer boutique. “Luxury designer clothes are created with the best fabrics and beautiful tailoring and if looked after, 10
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will last for years. This allows these classic designs to be bought and sold many times, giving each owner the chance to wear the very best at a snip of the original price, without impacting the environment” she explains. The shop interior is stunning, with shop fittings recycled from Harrods Chloé boutique. Alongside the pre-owned pieces, Kim has carefully curated new fashion from well-known designers to up-andcoming, independent labels. n Coming soon: a club night for women with expert talks on a multitude of subjects. To find out more or get on the list, visit the store or email office@mistyandclaridge.com | #mistyandclaridge
FASHION
Saving the planet one outfit at a time Everyone loves buying stylish clothes for half the price that the big brands sell them at, so why not halve your carbon footprint while you’re at it? Expert retail consultant Mary Portas chatted to Abbey Bamford about why buying second-hand is the sexiest fashion trend yet Many people think buying second-hand means compromising on quality. Mary’s Living & Giving for Save the Children stores, have a more upmarket image where all funds raised go to help change children’s futures in the UK and across the world. How can we break the stigma around buying pre-loved fashion? “It’s needs to come from people doing it and making it sexy constantly. If sustainable, modern business is talked about as being cool and sexy, it makes those dinosaurs that are just pumping out sh*t look like they’re not the cool brands to be with. It’s a big, big marketing job. “You need to be putting pressure on businesses, which I’m doing through the Better Business Act, ensuring that they are thinking about our planet and our people. No brand is totally sustainable yet, but we are on that journey.”
The natural enemy of pre-loved fashion is fast fashion. What are your views on fast fashion and how can we encourage people to move away from it? “This throw-away society is still being promoted through social media, where you’ve got this ‘buy now’ mentality being forced on you. This is the biggest ship we need to sink. We need
to keep shouting out about this and make it deeply unmodern. “It’s the younger generations that need to shift the dialogue. We need to be posting on social media about what this is doing to the planet. “People want to think they’re doing the right thing and not just in the earnest way but also in the right, cool, cultural way. I’m on this across as many platforms as possible, as is the fashion industry, but the truth is we need to make policy on this.”
What are you doing to kick-start the global discussion about eco-conscious fashion? “I’ll cover this on Mary Portas: On Style on Radio 4, which comes out in April. I’m also part of the World Hope Forum, run by Lidewij Edelkoort, where we work with fashion designers and innovators worldwide to look at how we can change the production of fashion. “Then I have my Mary’s Living & Giving for Save the Children shops which are all about recycling and upcycling”. “In everything I do I’m saying, ‘We can create a better, kinder society: who wants to join?’” read more at darlingmagazine.co.uk spring 22
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The Ties of Sisterhood International Women’s Day is celebrated around the globe on the 8th March. Emma Green spoke to women’s groups in the area about how they mark this momentous day and why IWD is so important to them as women, and as a community
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nternational Women’s Day (IWD) has been commemorated annually on the 8th of March for well over a century now, with the first IWD gathering taking place in 1911. IWD has become a day of celebrating the cultural, political, and socioeconomic achievements of women around the world, as well as being a focal point for highlighting issues such as gender inequality, reproductive rights, and violence against women. This year’s IWD campaign theme is #BreakTheBias, which focuses on empowering everyone to call out gender bias, discrimination, and stereotyping and to embrace a gender-equal world where difference is both valued and celebrated.
South London Women Artists The South London Women Artists (SLWA) is a critically acclaimed group of visual artists living and working in South London and has exhibited across the UK as well as internationally. This March sees them hosting an exhibition at The AMP Gallery in Southwark, aptly titled ‘I AM WOMAN, HEAR ME ROAR’ in celebration of International Women’s Day. Inspired by Helen Reddy’s 1971 hit song, ‘I am Woman’, the exhibition will form a tribute to the extraordinary creativity of women, past, present, and future, and of their remarkable strength, power, and resilience.
Curated by Alice Lenkiewicz, Jennifer Merrell, and Natalie Webb, thirty of SLWA’s talented members will be displaying their work in response to the question, ‘What drives us to make art, and what are the reasons we as women, choose visual media to project our views and opinions?’ With the artists’ choice of materials ranging from moving images and photography to painting and sculptures, the group hopes that the exhibition will prove to be a conversation starter in improving the visibility of women in the arts, as well as introducing their work to a wider audience. “International Women’s Day is very important to us”, says Lenkiewicz, Secretary and Acting Chair for SLWA. “As a group of read more at darlingmagazine.co.uk spring 22
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artists, we feel it provides a voice for women on an international level, allowing us the opportunity to express ourselves as women while connecting with each other, discovering, and learning about women’s experiences today.” Previous years have seen the group showcase work at a number of galleries and events in celebration of IWD, including for ‘The Women of the World (WOW) Festival’ at the Royal Festival Hall in 2014. For further details on the group or their upcoming event, please see their website, South London Women Artists, or send an email to info@slwa.co.uk
The Korean Women’s International Network The Korean Women’s International Network (KOWIN) is a global association made up of women of Korean descent who are leaders in their respective sectors. They organise networking opportunities and discussions on issues concerning members within their local communities, as well as enabling women to find success in their chosen fields. KOWIN’s UK branch hosts seminars every March regarding women’s rights and equality. Many of the attendees are local to New Malden, which has been lovingly At a war memorial event in Gloucestershire
dubbed ‘London’s Little Korea’ due to its large Korean population and an estimated 20,000 residents living in the suburb and its surrounding area. The group’s last seminar took place in March 2019 where their guest speaker Yoon Jung Lee, an expert in Korean history, spoke about the Samil Independence Movement, which saw a series of protest demonstrations take place throughout the country for Korean National Independence from Japan. With 2019 marking the 100th anniversary since the movement began, the speaker also told the story of one young girl who played a leading role in the uprising, Kwansoon Ryu, and who would tragically lose her life to the cause. Due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, the group has been unable to host any faceto-face seminars since then, but an online conference was held in March 2021 to discuss the contributions of some of history’s most influential women such as Emily Pankhurst, Melanie Wollstonecraft, and Virginia Woolf, along with Korea’s ‘first feminist’, Ms. Hyesuk Na. This year, KOWIN hope to run a cultural day with costume and food in celebration of International Women’s Day at New Malden’s HAN restaurant where they will be inviting other similar UK-based organisations with members originating from the Philippines, China, and India, to also take part in the festivities. For further details on the group or its upcoming event, please contact Jakki Park by email at jakkipark@hotmail.com
The ConveHERsation Network The ConveHERsation Network was established in 2017 by Priscilla Oshunremi to empower and amplify the voices of both women and non-binary people. Having attended other events designed specifically for women, Priscilla found these to be quite stuffy and so she decided to create a community that would enable more interaction and conversation between its members. The network is currently based in London, but other hubs will be opening across the
For more details on events or how to become a member, follow them on Instagram@theconvehersationnetwork or contact Priscilla at hello@theconvehersation.com
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country this summer. They currently have a new residency at The Stratford (Hotel in East London) where they will be hosting their first face-to-face event since the COVID-19 pandemic began on 5th March, just in time for International Women’s Day. Details are yet to be confirmed, but the event will involve a mixture of stalls, speed networking, and a panel discussing women who have defied the odds, as a nod to this year’s IWD theme, #BreakTheBias. Although the group hosts monthly events, Priscilla sees International Women’s Day as a powerful time of year to hold events on a much larger scale, and to create an even bigger impact within their community. “IWD is so important because sometimes the world forgets to acknowledge and celebrate the input women and non-binary people have to our societies,” she says. “We forget to discuss the disparities that exist in order to help us find ways to close these gaps.”
Lisa Taddeo
Figs in Wigs:Little Wimmin
Each year, to mark International Women’s Day on 8 March, world-class speakers, activists and performers come together for WOW – Women of the World festival at London’s Southbank. The 2022 festival will take place from 11th to 13th of March and will deliver many unmissable events in true WOW fashion. Book ahead to avoid disappointment. Here are some of the highlights: Black Lives Matter co-founder and former Executive Director Patrisse Cullors talks about her new book; How to Fail broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day; bestselling writers Lisa Taddeo and Pandora Sykes; Lucy Kirkwood’s searing, timely play Maryland; and the riotous Figs in Wigs: Little Wimmin - a brilliantly satirical adaptation of the Louisa May Alcott classic. You can also see bestselling author Marian Keyes, poet Warsan Shire, comedian Deborah Frances-White, activist Suhaiymah Manzoor-Khan, as well as The Urgent Conversation, a panel on the most pressing gender equality issues. A digital programme will be accessible to all worldwide. southbankcentre.co.uk/whats-on/festivals-series/ wow-women-world?tab=events
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Women to Watch Inspiring stories by amazing women Anna Allington Oath Home
Lucy Jane Atkinson Theatre Director
Anna, founder of Oath Home, works with companies that face huge quantities of unused endof-project fabric. She provides an alternative solution to disposal or destruction from industries such as interior design, hotel refurbishment, film and network production, fabric manufacturing, and even retail. Anna and her team create handmade pieces with this fabric. Oath Home donates its profits to the charity Step-by-Step. We asked Anna why this charity was chosen? “Our first fabric donation was from a home refurbishment for foreign royalty. It made sense to use the offcuts from luxury houses to raise money for those who don’t even have a home”.
Think of me as a therapist for imaginary people. As a new writing director and dramaturg, I help writers and actors figure out how their characters think. At heart my job is to help writers express the purest version of their idea, then translate that truthfully and imaginatively to the stage. I am passionate about creating inclusive work. This year I have 3 projects which centre disabled characters and creatives, with the aim of making the theatrical experience accessible to all audiences. My work has won awards on both sides of the Atlantic, but I feel blessed to be from London, the world capital of new writing.
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Anita Feron Clark multi-awardwinning Stylist
Jo Holland is an Artist, Curator, and a qualified Meditation Teacher
Anita runs a successful image consultancy business Feron Clark Style which aims to inspire women to look and feel fabulous everyday with their own tool kit of colour and style advice. She offers daily tips and tricks to her followers on Instagram. Anita tailors her services to accurately reflect what each woman needs to enable them to transform their lives and boost their confidence. Whether that’s through colour, style, wardrobe or menopause guidance. She has worked in the fashion industry for over 27 years, and over those years she’s worked with over 4,700 women.
Jo’s artwork redefines photography in a way that engages people’s perspectives by creating timeless, transformative pieces. With nature as her muse, she blends the realms of analogue and digital processes, often without a camera or film, to produce work that is both impactful yet versatile. Intuitively exploring creativity through meditation and yoga, her mindful processes bear fruit to art that stimulates the viewer to reconnect with the oneness of self and their surroundings, celebrating beauty and grace. Currently exhibiting at The Bingham Riverhouse, Richmond
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Cynthia Valianti Corbett, Director and Curator, Cynthia Corbett Gallery & Young Masters Art Prize
Jane Evans and Carol Russell championing women in midlife
She launched Young Masters Art Prize in 2009, a unique not-for-profit initiative which celebrates artistic skill and innovation. The Young Masters Ceramics Prize was created in 2014 and in 2017 saw the addition of the Young Masters Emerging Women Artist Award. Her most recent art project Focus on the Female aims to support women artists at a critical moment in art history.
Jane and Carol are two trailblazers hell-bent on championing the accomplishments and unlocking the potential of midlife women. Their inspirational manifesto Invisible to Invaluable celebrates midlife women’s skills and empowers readers to achieve their goals. Coming from the first generation of dedicated career-women, advertising guru Jane and screenwriter Carol faced professional erasure as they approached midlife. Not on their watch. Through their manifesto and Jane’s Uninvisibility project, they are increasing representation of midlife women in mainstream media and beyond. Together, they are rewriting the narrative for midlife women everywhere and showing the world how invaluable they truly are.
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Cynthia opened her art gallery in 2004 after training as an art historian at Christie’s Education. Prior to that she was an international economist specialising in emerging markets. Her career in art has been equally impressive. She was awarded the 2020 Tufts University Alumni Award with a Career Service Citation in recognition of her achievements and contribution to the international art world.
Lulu & Emily Beard Lulu B Jewellery
Joanna Sanderson Creative Director of Zena & Rose
The motherdaughter dream team seized the opportunity of Covid-19 by joining forces and transforming Lulu B Jewellery from a pop-up on the fair circuit to lulub.co.uk; a one-stop-jewellery-shop catering for all women of all ages! Lulu launched Lulu B in 2002, with the vision of curating an affordable collection of timeless jewellery which transcends fashion. 20 years on the business is growing from strength to strength with Lulu and Emily harnessing their complementary skill sets. Lulu, formerly a buyer for M&S, predominantly deals with suppliers, fair organisers, and the product, and Emily has joined the team full-time to head-up e-commerce, marketing, and PR opportunities.
Zena & Rose is a design studio retailing collections of patterned homeware and licensing designs. The hero products are cushion covers and lampshades, with plans to expand into fabrics and wallpaper.
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Joanna’s knowledge of interior design history is the foundation of her business, which she acquired working for 10 years in the museum and heritage sector. Her mission is to make original products influenced by interior design heritage, yet making them appeal to contemporary tastes. Zena & Rose’s values are based on environmental sustainability, achieved through careful selection of suppliers and materials.
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Riding with Ali Lindeman Busy mum of three Ali Lindeman first used indoor cycling as a remedy for her own physical and mental health after she felt lost in the daily slog of life at home with small children. At age 38 Ali retrained as an instructor, hoping to share the same confidence, strength and empowerment she felt in the studio with others. Today Ali teaches both performance and rhythm-based cycling classes.“I am blessed. This work brings me so much joy and fits around the demands of my growing family,” she says. For Ali, indoor cycling is more than exercise, it is about community, encouragement and working towards a common goal, regardless of age or ability. Ride with Ali is at Bounce Cycling Studio in New Malden. The first of its kind in the area, this pay-as-you-go studio offers great music, industry leading Stages bikes and software, and a variety of class types is perfect from the beginner spinner to the pro cyclist.
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Sara Wilcox Founder of Pathways Through Dementia My inspiration to found a charity helping people to navigate the legal and financial complexities of the dementia journey arose through these personal experiences: my mother having to give up work to care for my grandmother who had Alzheimer’s disease; a call I received in 2003 from a HR manager who wanted someone to give a talk to her employees on Dementia and Planning Ahead and my extensive and varied professional experiences with people living with dementia and their carers.
Julianna Heale & Caroline King Founders of CIRCLE Preloved Fashion Boutique As well as discovering uncanny connections, in their personal lives and careers, Julianna & Caroline both shared a lifelong dream of having a shop one day. Never did they imagine, when they were introduced four years ago, that they would become such great friends and fulfil their mutual ambition together. Both former shopaholics with careers in retail, from buying to management, their dream came true in February when CIRCLE opened its doors in Haslemere, Surrey. The boutique has had an overwhelming response with local support for their carefully curated preloved pieces. Their aim is to advocate a more sustainable way of buying and enjoying fashion by encouraging circularity and buying preloved. Shop at CIRCLE Haslemere
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Marileen Koppenberg Life and Career Coach After nearly two decades in the corporate world, Marileen, mother of two, retrained as a life and career coach. Warm, compassionate and intuitive, she connects easily with her clients and co-creates an atmosphere of trust and partnership.
In response to the need for clear information about dementia and the law, I registered my charity, Pathways Through Dementia, in 2013.
Through bespoke coaching, her clients not only get clarity on themselves, on their deep longing, be it personal or professional but also on what really stands in the way. They develop a vision of what is possible, from the inside out. Marileen fosters with her clients a sense of self trust and conscious choice. Shifts and changes start to happen and take shape. As a coach, it is a true gift and honour to witness.
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Carly Webb - Founder of Vitus Wellbeing Carly’s highly regarded solo psychotherapy practice began in South-West London, supporting adults and adolescents with their mental health. Over the years, requests to see her increased significantly, exacerbated by the pandemic and the sharp decline in the nation’s mental health. Concerned about a lengthening waiting list, Carly founded Vitus Wellbeing in April last year. She pulled together a trusted team of expert practitioners and now offers therapy to many more children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. With expertise in working with stress, depression, anxiety, bereavement, abuse, relationship difficulties and more, her Fulham-based team serve the residents of SouthWest London and beyond. Clients can choose between face-to-face or online sessions, at daytime or evening. info@vituswellbeing.com
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Natasha Mahtani Divorce Coach Post-divorce life does not have to be as hard or as difficult as you imagine it. Getting over your divorce doesn’t need to take years and the life of your dreams is closer than you think, because YOU have the ability to create it, here and now.
Emma Post and Nicki Beale Specialist Family Lawyers Emma and Nicki have combined family law experience of 40+ years. “We launched our firm, NE Family Law, in November 2021. Having worked together for many years, we decided to launch a practice focussing on what matters to us - building trust and working with clients as a team - to navigate them through highly challenging times.” Emma lives in Richmond and is kept on her toes with two young sons and Cockerpoo, Monty. Nicki lives in West Sussex and has two daughters, the youngest nearing the end of her university education, and both looking to forge their own careers. ne-familylaw.co.uk
Dr Charlotte Rayner Cancer Specialist
If you’re ready to heal, to level up and to create your second act, then I’d love to invite you to book a free call with me to explore how 1:1 coaching can help you. thrive@natashamahtani.com
Having achieved a high success and national recognition for her patient-centric and holistic approach, Dr Charlotte Rayner has performed a large number of successful procedures for cancer treatment. She now works solely in private practice and is the responsible officer for Aspen Healthcare Ltd. She runs a rapid access service at Parkside Hospital, Wimbledon, that includes acute admissions and clinics for patients presenting with both general medical and respiratory symptoms including possible cancer. She works closely with the oncology team both on the ward and in the Cancer Centre providing expert general medical and respiratory assessment and treatment advice.
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As an accredited divorce coach, I help my clients create a shortcut to manifesting their post-divorce dream life by working on three main things: selfworth, energy and mindset.
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Lynsey Coleman Senior Marketing Manager, Centre Court Lynsey, originally from Sussex, with a degree in politics and a passion for marketing, is the marketing manager for Centre Court during it’s transition from a 90’s shopping centre to a community hub. Her job is integral to the revival of Centre Court and how the people of Wimbledon are inspired to revisit a place that was once much loved but has faded over the years. As part of the Romulus team, Lynsey puts the community at the forefront of the plans for the Centre and as a long-time Wimbledon local is invested in the success of the redevelopment for the benefit of the town. Her creativity and dedication keeps the centre alive with a feast of sustainable but fantastical events to come throughout the year.
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Sara Challice award-winning Author & Speaker Sara cared for her husband for many years, after he became severely disabled from a brain tumour. Due to the stress and burden of caring for him, she fell ill herself, but then discovered new ways in which to look after herself and enjoy life, as she continued to care. Sharing her insight, wisdom and stories, she inspires carers globally to look after their own health and enjoy life. Her Carers Masterclass course is out now, and she also gives talks to the those in the care sector on how carers can be best supported. “I am passionate in transforming the lives of carers and raising the value of care.” You can order her book ‘Who Cares?’ on Amazon. https://bit.ly/whocaresbook
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Nicci Dhamu Jewellery Designer London based and Kenya born designer Nicci founded Sohavi online in 2015. Sohavi means beautiful in Gurmukhi. It’s Jewellery with soul that embodies grace, style and the alchemy of philosophical ideas, imbued into metals. Responsibly sourced, skilfully crafted in sterling silver and with 22K Gold Vermeil, by artisans in Jaipur India. Sohavi also has a natural gemstone Mala bead collection with signature luxurious silky tassels, designed from the heart, finished by hand. We’re showcasing eclectic design with heritage influences connecting today with a modern twist on iconic ancient designs which express the brand ethos of positive energy and oneness.
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Professor Sarah Barman - Kingston University A computer science expert whose research could lead to potentially lifesaving early and better diagnosis of certain cancers and heart disease. Professor Barman was named the second annual winner of the Kingston University Woman in STEM Award. She was nominated for the award by colleagues in recognition of the impact of her research, being an ambassador for research excellence and inspiring colleagues and academics around the world. The annual accolade, recognises a woman academic or professional staff member whose outstanding work has made a real difference in their field. “It’s important that women like me, researching and working in STEM subjects, are more visible so that it normalises women being in science’ Professor Barman tweeted.
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ath Home was started after the founder, Anna Allington, was approached by a family member who was retiring after 30 years in the soft furnishing business. There was a storage space filled with part and full rolls of unused fabric that would have gone to landfill if no use could be found for it. Anna came up with the idea to make cushions and Christmas stockings from the luxurious, interior fabric and since the fabric was from the houses of foreign royalty, it made sense to donate some of the profits to those who don’t even have a home. The “Oath” in Oath home stands for Offcuts Assisting the Homeless. Word spread quite
quickly about the new startup and soon the company was receiving donations from network productions, costume departments, hotels after refurbishments, film sets, fabric designers, interior designers, curtain makers, and even a huge online retail company. This resulted in an expansion of the product range as the design team worked to ensure that as much fabric as possible could be used. The range now includes cushions, Christmas stockings, lavender pouches, farmers’ market tote bags, clothing (men’s, ladies’ and children’s), doorstops, throws, facemasks, napkins, table runners and children’s soft toys. n
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Pre-paid Funeral Plans - are they the answer? How a family chat prompted a re-think
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hree years ago when we launched White Rose Modern Funerals, my parents, then in their early 80’s, informed my sister and I that the previous year they had purchased funeral plans as they did not want to leave us with any unnecessary burden at the time they died.
plan would not have covered the full cost of their preferred crematorium, and there would be no flexibility for my sister and I to deviate from the sombre, traditional coffin and transport ‘package’ that we would never have chosen for them. My parents upon realising this, cancelled the plans.
Plenty of family banter then ensued that they should have held on - they now had their own family funeral directors! What was interesting to us, armed with our insider knowledge, was the small print of my parents’ funeral plans, purchased from a provider that regularly advertises in the mainstream media.
Talking about death is a conversation that many of us don’t want to have. The chat with my parents would not have happened if it hadn’t been for us entering the industry. Having now organised funerals for 100’s of local families, if there is one comforting factor we observe, it is a family feeling a sense of control when they know their family member’s wishes.
We discovered that they were assigned to a funeral director they had not heard of, who was not even local to where they lived. Furthermore, the
Just to clarify, funeral plans vs funeral wishes. A funeral plan pre-pays set funeral costs
in advance. Be cautious that plans are often sold on the premise that funeral costs will continue to rise - this is misleading as the industry is changing. We can organise a dignified no-fuss attended funeral for less than £2k, which is far below the cited average of £4k +. To have a conversation about funeral wishes, the best place to start is to ask what a family member would not want. It’s a question worth finding out. For a chat about funeral plans or wishes, please call us, we’re here to help. n
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SW London and Surrey Schools Guide Our pick of top independent prep schools in our area Hall School of Wimbledon co-educational for ages 7 to18 Occupying a magical campus in the heart of Wimbledon, Hall School Wimbledon (HSW) is a non-selective, co-educational independent school for pupils aged 7 to 18. Under new leadership, led by experienced Headmaster and educational author, Andrew Hammond, HSW delivers a contemporary and inclusive education in a caring environment, empowering all pupils to flourish and become independent learners. An outstanding pastoral care system supports pupils’ health and self-worth, while an exciting and tailored curriculum, delivered by characterful teachers, encourages intellectual curiosity and the building of lifelong learning skills. Open Mornings: Wednesday 16th March and Saturday 21st May.
17 The Downs, Wimbledon, SW20 8HF | hsw.co.uk | admissions@hsw.co.uk
Holy Cross Preparatory School girls aged 3 to11 A compassionate, vibrant community, working together to inspire a true love of learning. The school now boasts a fantastic purpose built pre-school for 3- year old girls. Their state-of-the-art facilities are set in eight acres of beautiful, historic grounds, with plenty of outdoor space for the girls to explore. Holy Cross Prep is perfect for girls who want to enjoy school life and achieve excellence. Their pupils are happy, curious individuals, encouraged to nurture their natural inquisitiveness and a healthy attitude towards learning. Please book a personal tour of the grounds with the Headteacher. Our virtual tour is also available on our website. Spring Open Morning 1st March. Open Afternoon 27th April.
George Road, Kingston upon Thames, KT2 7NU holycrossprepschool.co.uk/admissions | admissions@holycrossprep.com
Newland House School
prep school and nursery: co-ed aged 3 to 13 Newland House’s extensive and engaging curriculum fosters a sense of self-confidence and provides opportunities for children to reach their full potential whilst traditional standards remain very important. Pupils have excellent academic outcomes, securing places and awards at a broad range of excellent senior schools. The school’s broad range of subjects, progressive but nurturing learning environment and reputation for exceptional pastoral provision means that it is a natural choice for many local families. The last ISI inspection judged that ‘Throughout the school, the quality of the pupils’ achievements and learning is excellent’. Find out more and join the Welcome Morning on 18th March 2022.
Waldegrave Park, Twickenham TW1 4TQ | admissions@newlandhouse.net | newlandhouse.net
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Parkside School boys aged 2 to 13, with new all year round co-educational nursery Parkside is a wonderful environment where children’s curiosity is awakened. Set in 45 acres of beautiful countryside where talents and passions are nurtured and developed, and pupils are encouraged to take responsibility for their learning. The school delivers a dynamic and innovative curriculum that lights that inquisitive spark. Academic excellence and outstanding sporting achievements are underpinned by exceptional pastoral care. Parkside pupils flourish and are valued as individuals; happy and confident as they move to their Senior School. Register your interest by e-mailing admissions@parkside-school.co.uk or call 01932 862749.
The Manor, Stoke D’Abernon, Cobham KT11 3PX | parkside-school.co.uk
Rowan Preparatory School girls aged 2 to 11 Rowan Preparatory School in Claygate, is a vibrant, friendly and nurturing community, with traditional values and a forwardthinking approach to education. For girls aged 2 to 11, Rowan offers a broad and adventurous curriculum. The school has excellent sport facilities and a highly developed arts programme spanning both creative and performing arts. All the girls progress to outstanding senior schools of their choice, equipped with life skills and knowledge for the next stage of their learning journey. Come and visit us on our Spring Open Morning Friday 18th March 2022
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The Study Prep girls aged 4 to 11 The Study is a well-established independent school for girls aged four to eleven in the heart of Wimbledon Village. We are a creative and progressive school, always nurturing and proud to be non selective. Our four core values, compassion, curiosity, creativity and courage, encapsulate what it really means to be a Study girl. Our annual school Open Morning will take place on Saturday 1 October 2022 and offers families the chance to come and look around our school and its wonderful facilities, to meet our staff and some of our pupils. Please get in touch to book a place as numbers are limited. Camp Road, Wimbledon Common, SW19 4UN | thestudyprep.co.uk read more at darlingmagazine.co.uk spring 22
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What’s on in London and Surrey Foodies Festival in Syon Park 3-5 June: Claimed to be the largest food festival in the UK, this three day event of food stalls, cookery demonstrations, culinary workshops, live music and other entertainment is a must for foodies. foodiesfestival.com/syon-park-food-festival/ Pub in the Park comes to Wimbledon 27-29 May: Join Tom Kerridge and other favourite chefs on the biggest UK food and music festival tour. Expect award-winning and Michelin-starred eateries, and charttopping acts including Craig David, TS5, Rag’n’Bone Man, Kaiser Chiefs, Professor Green, Sister Sledge, Supergrass, General Levy and many more! pubintheparkuk.com Ham Polo Club season runs May-September: the last remaining polo club in Greater London welcomes non-members to their Friday night parties (over 18s only) of polo, food, drinks and a DJ. Sundays are for everyone to enjoy a lunch whilst watching a few exciting games. 17th June is Learn to Play Day. hampoloclub.com Hampton Court Palace Festival 11-23 June: with UK pop royalty McFly, Grammy award-winning Kacey Musgraves and 80s legends The Human League. Other stars taking to the historic stage include Elbow, Jack Savoretti, Crowded House and George Benson. Expect spectacular fireworks and exquisite culinary experiences so do go early to enjoy a picnic in the palace gardens ahead of the music. hamptoncourtpalacefestival.com
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Food lovers Festival, Pub in the Park is coming to Wimbledon! Wimbledon Park, 27th – 29th May 2022
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or the first time ever, the UK’s largest touring food and music festival, Pub in the Park, will be coming to Wimbledon. They will be bringing a serious selection of legendary chefs, Michelinstarred pubs and restaurants, delicious food and drink and of course fantastic music. Award-winning pubs, delicious food, chart-topping music, food demos from world-class chefs – Pub in the Park is guaranteed to be the leading music and food event of the summer!
best food in the country… their pub line-up includes King of Indian cuisine, Atul Kochhar Restaurants, the legendary Andrew Pern’s The Star Inn, from the Great British Menu, Stephen Terry’s very own The Hardwick, Joshua Moroney & Mursal Saiq’s Cue Point celebrating the best in British Afghan fusion BBQ, Cyrus Todiwala’s award winning Café Spice Namaste and more!
Come along to enjoy seeing some of the hottest new talent in the food world, your TV favourites and some highly acclaimed Michelin-starred names. Celebrity chef, Simon Rimmer, will be one of the stars hosting the new leg of the tour along with local foodie heroine, Leyla Kazim and Saturday Kitchen’s very own Matt Tebbutt!
They’re also treating you to some great music acts who will undoubtedly get your feet and hips moving and grooving! Music line-up includes Faithless DJ Set & Sophie Ellis Bextor (Friday evening), Soul II Soul (Saturday afternoon), Basement Jaxx DJ Set (Saturday Evening) and Toploader (Lazy Sunday session), as well as performances from Björn Again, Huey Morgan DJ Set, Stereo MCs, The Brand New Heavies and Bob Marley Revival. n
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Spring Selfie Ready? It takes more than weight loss to feel confident in a swimsuit
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f spider veins, shaving rashes, skin tags, stretchmarks and stubborn fat pockets are knocking your confidence then this article might be for you. Dr Kim Prescott describes treatments to help get you selfie ready for summer.
Trim & tone Technologies such as Lipofirm and Emsculpt Neo combine muscle toning and fat reduction and are highly effective for anyone struggling to lose resistant weight around their middle or who wants to lift and tone their buttocks. During an Emsculpt Neo treatment radiofrequency warms the muscles in advance of supramaximal contractions, preparing them for an intense workout. In less than 4 minutes, the temperature in the subcutaneous fat layer can reach a level that leads to apoptosis, permanent damage to the fat cells that leads to them being removed from the body. Clinical studies show an average of 30% reduction in subcutaneous fat and up to 15% reduction in inflammatory visceral fat around the organs.. Radiofrequency also leads to skin tightening helping to manage skin laxity or stretch marks in the treatment area. High intensity focused electromagnetic (HIFEM) 28
energy bypasses the brain’s limitations to contract muscles at an intensity not possible during a workout. A 30 minute Emsculpt Neo treatment on the stomach is the equivalent of doing 20,000 stomach crunches at 100% capacity (or 20,000 squats after a buttock treatment). This extreme stress forces the muscles to adapt, resulting in an increase in the number and growth of muscle fibres and cells. Clinical studies demonstrate an average of 25% increase in muscle volume 3 months after a course of 4 treatments.
Smooth & firm Cellulite programmes tend to include multiple modalities and homecare regimens. Technologies to manage cellulite are advancing rapidly and specially formulated products really do help to firm the skin, reduce the fluid
accumulation and improve the appearance of cellulite. LipoFirm PRO Cellulite Erase treatments combined with the BTL Emsculpt Neo fat reduction and/or buttock lifting protocols are used in the Penrose Clinic along with a home treatment regimen using clinically proven ingredients and techniques.
Removal of hair & veins Laser treatments have had a resurgence in popularity with the introduction of the new generation of medical lasers, and have an important role to play in your preparations for summer. The top of the range lasers have integrated cooling systems to ensure the treatment is comfortable even in the most sensitive of skins, and are adjustable to be suitable for all skin and hair types. Medical lasers that incorporate Mixed Technologies (both alexandrite and Nd Yag) are highly effective for the management of spider veins, cherry red spots, benign skin lesions and permanent hair reduction. Certain lasers can also be used to treat skin tags, but precision cryotherapy is another popular option. n
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Time to hit the refresh button on your skin Have you noticed tech neck after spending time hunched over your laptop? Or the threat of Zoom doom skin? MicroNeedling might be the answer
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quick and efficient SkinPen Precision appointment will awaken the fibroblast cells in your skin to stimulate and grow new collagen thus helping to reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, skin imperfections and acne scarring. It re-plumps and gives a fresher more youthful appearance. The joy is that it is minimally invasive and quick. You can get straight back to work (in person or on screen!) and there will be little evidence of anything having been done.
Who is suitable for MicroNeedling? The SkinPen Precision treatment is safe for all skin tones and types. At Nakedhealth MediSpa one of the highly experienced aesthetic therapists will discuss your skin goals during a thorough consultation. Alternative or
complementary treatments such as HydraFacial, Microdermabrasion or light therapy will also be outlined and could enhance your results. High tech options such as PRP (Plasma Rich Platelets) or specialist serums could benefit you too. Your treatment plan will be customised so that you achieve the best outcome.
Is MicroNeedling safe?
What happens in the Skin Needling treatment?
How many sessions do I need?
SkinPen Precision is a mechanical device which creates thousands of microchannels or tiny injuries in the deep layers of the skin. This stimulates your body’s natural wound healing process, while minimising cellular damage. This rejuvenates your skin from the inside out. The overall skin structure is not affected but it is strengthened.
As few as three sessions, a month apart. Improvements are visible a month after the first session.
The magical effect of wound healing is stimulated by piercing the skin. This triggers the immune system to cause inflammation, increase blood flow, naturally cleanse and begin to create new tissue. The wound is rebuilt with fresh cells and a new network of blood vessels develops. Collagen and elastin production is at its peak and makes a big difference to the plumpness and quality of the skin.
SkinPen Precision is FDA cleared for safety and efficacy. Results have been clinically proven. With Plastic Surgeon David Gateley in charge at Nakedhealth the strictest hygiene procedures are in place; the clinic is CQC registered ensuring high safety and hygiene standards.
If you want to have great skin for a special event, then plan a few months in advance so you are prepped and glowing for the big occasion. If you just want better more glowing skin BOOK IN NOW! n
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Nurturing hair the natural way Sheen, an award-winning organic hair salon in Richmond, is on a mission to protect your hair and health with natural products, and to help the environment along the way and products which allow them to transform your hair the organic way. These head-spa treatments improve circulation, excessive oiliness, hair loss, dry flaky skin and dandruff, and sensitive, irritated and reddened scalps.
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A healthy happy scalp means healthy glossy hair The journey begins with a personalised consultation where a stylist listens to your needs, desires and lifestyle as well as your hair goals for the year ahead. This is followed by hair, skin and scalp analysis and tests. Lifestyle choices and what you put on your hair and skin are so important for achieving luxurious locks. Sheen have selected a range of treatments 30
Beautiful colour naturally A range of natural colour services are also available to complement your lifestyle. Sheen curate personalised colours for you whether you want a touch up, soft natural look, edgy bold colour or a balayage. They use high performance hair colours with organic ingredients, fewer chemicals and are ammonia-free making their treatments gentler on the hair whilst adding extra conditioning to help hair shine. Tips and advice on styling and maintaining hair is part of the process along with guidance on products to continue nurturing hair at home. If you are mindful about what you put on your hair and scalp and are looking for a salon-spa experience to transform your hair the organic way, contact Sheen sheensalon.com n
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etting older is a fact of life, but there are treatments available to help you slow down the ageing process. Non-surgical facial aesthetic treatments are a non-invasive and effective way to improve how you look and feel without the need for surgery. The most popular wrinkle reduction treatments are botulinum toxin and dermal fillers. Both treatments are administered by injection therapy.
BOTOX Botulinum toxin acts by blocking the nerve impulses directed towards the muscles in which it is injected. These injections improve your
appearance by relaxing muscles that cause wrinkles. Botulinum toxin is also used to treat medical conditions such as migraines, bruxism (teeth grinding) and excessive sweating (hyperhidrosis). Procedure time is 20-30 minutes. Full effects take 10-14 days and lasts on average 3-4 months.
Dermal fillers contain hyaluronic acid (HA), a natural compound found in our body. There are a range of dermal filler products used to enhance facial features, plump up thin lips, soften facial creases and reduce folds, as well as plump up more broad areas with volume loss. Procedure time is 20-30 minutes with immediate visible results. Natural long-lasting results last from 6 -12 months. So, when your appearance no longer reflects how you feel inside, it’s time for change! Dr Nadine Skipp is an expert facial aesthetic practitioner and offers a wide range of nonsurgical treatments for your face, neck, hands and skin. n
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Nutritional support for people with cancer If you have cancer, eating a healthy, balanced diet can Sofia help to improve your strength, energy levels and wellbeing. Sofia Bertolino, the Senior Clinical Dietitian at Cancer Centre London, explains how a dietitian service can benefit people living with cancer
How cancer can affect your diet
Reasons to see a dietitian
Cancer and the side effects of treatment can make it hard to get all the nutrients that your body needs. You may:
If you are living with cancer, there are many reasons to see a dietitian. They can:
• lose your appetite
• help you to understand the evidence and myths about diet and cancer
• be less able to eat certain foods
• support the treatment of specific cancers
• eat smaller portion sizes than before
• help you to manage the side effects of treatment, such as taste changes, nausea (feeling sick), diarrhoea, constipation, a sore mouth, difficulty in swallowing or a poor appetite
These issues can contribute to weight loss and low energy. Some cancer treatments, such as chemotherapy, steroids and hormone therapies, can cause weight gain. If you feel very tired during cancer treatment, you may also be less active than usual and gain weight as a result.
The dietitian service at Cancer Centre London Cancer Centre London has a specialised dietitian service for people with cancer. The dietitian can give you advice to strengthen and support your body before, during and after cancer treatment. A balanced diet can help to prevent inflammation, improve your body’s defences and reduce the risk of cancer returning when your treatment is finished. The dietitian can work directly with your doctor and make sure that treatment is adapted to your needs.
• recommend a specific meal plan after treatment to reduce the risk of further cancer, rebuild your strength and aid recovery • prescribe dietary supplements and give you advice about them • support you if you have lost weight as a result of your diagnosis or treatment • help you if you want to lose weight in a safe and sensible way after treatment The dietitian carries out a nutritional assessment. They then prepare a personal nutrition care plan, which suits your medical needs and is based on up-to-date evidence. n To book an appointment with the dietitian at Cancer Centre London, please telephone 020 8247 3379. read more at darlingmagazine.co.uk spring 22
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Don’t suffer in silence New Victoria Hospital to host free Women’s Health Webinar series in March 2022
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ith elective gynaecological surgeries being cancelled or delayed and limited access to women’s health services during the pandemic, many patients are now in need of specialist care. Southwest London based New Victoria Hospital will dedicate a new online event series for Women’s Health to be held on Zoom in March.
Victoria Hospital will host two new Patient Webinars dedicated to women’s gynaecological and urological health.
New Victoria Hospital’s Women’s Health Webinars with interactive Q&A sessions
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Specialist Consultants will cover different topics, including menopause, urinary incontinence, UTIs and endometriosis, and will answer questions that patients can submit anonymously during their registration for the event.
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Patient Webinars dedicated to women’s health, we are hoping to help many patients who are currently in pain or have seen their quality of life affected by the pandemic.” n
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Women’s Health Webinar dates 2022 The Webinars will be held on the 9th and the 15th of March, with one gynaecology and one urology topic covered in each session How to access New Victoria Hospital’s Patient Webinars To access the Patient Webinars, you need to register for each event you are interested in on Eventbrite newvictoriahospital.eventbrite.co.uk Select the event you would like to join and follow the instructions: • Click on the Register button • Complete the registration form with your details • At the end of the form, you will have an opportunity to ask any questions that the Consultant will answer during the webinar • Once registered, you will receive a confirmation email with a Zoom link to the webinar
At the time of the event, click on the link provided in the confirmation email. You will automatically join the online event from the comfort of your home. If you are struggling with symptoms or have questions about therapies and treatments available for menopause, incontinence, UTIs or endometriosis, this is an excellent opportunity to receive free medical advice from New Victoria Hospital’s highly specialised Gynaecology and Urogynaecology Consultants.
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Let’s talk about menopause with Consultant Gynaecologist, Ms Diana Fleming.
My bladder is bugging me - Urinary Tract Infections in Women with Consultant Gynaecologist and Urogynaecologist, Miss Rhiannon Bray.
Sweats, flushes, brain fog, aches, pains, dry, itchy; all words used to describe some of the things women might feel as they transition through the menopause. How can a specialist help you to get through this time? What hormones are needed and why? How can they be taken? For how long and what are the benefits and possible risks? Ms Diana Fleming will answer questions on this normal but troublesome time in a woman’s life.
Urinary Incontinence: what can be done when you can’t hold it with Consultant Gynaecologist and Urogynaecologist, Professor Stergios Doumouchtsis. Urinary incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse are common conditions and affect millions of women worldwide. Many women suffer in silence as they find it embarrassing to talk to a specialist. Prof Stergios Doumouchtsis will talk about conservative and surgical treatments that can dramatically improve women’s symptoms, quality of life and, most importantly, prevent from longterm consequences.
UTIs are a debilitating condition that can affect women of all ages. Recurrent infections can be especially challenging to treat. Miss Rhiannon Bray will discuss the common causes of Urinary Tract Infections, as well as novel theories and preventative measures and treatments.
Endometriosis, the invisible painful illness with Consultant Gynaecologist, Mr Zaid Hasafa. One out of ten women has endometriosis, while half of women with subfertility could have the disease. There are around 1.5 million women suffering from endometriosis in the UK. Despite the large number of patients and the painful symptoms, the average delay in achieving the diagnosis is eight years. Mr Zaid Hasafa will help you understand the disease and learn how to deal with it.
LEGAL PROMO
Introduction of no fault divorce Will this bring an end to A Very British Scandal?
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the Court of Appeal, and refused a divorce to Mrs Owens based on her allegations of unreasonable behaviour, which Mr Owens contested. The court agreed that Mr Owens’ alleged behaviour towards his wife did not amount to behaviour so unreasonable that a reasonable person could not be expected to live with him. Expressing regret at not being able to grant Mrs Owens a divorce, the court urged Parliament to act.
Any marriage breakdown is a highly emotive time in any couple’s life. Currently, couples have to prove one of the five grounds for divorce, which could result in parties playing the ‘blame game’ and increasing conflict before the divorce process has begun. This leads to excessive involvement from solicitors and inevitably higher expenses to be paid in the long run towards legal costs. Following the decision in Owens v Owens there was even more concern about ensuring examples of behaviour were carefully crafted even though the reasons set-out in any divorce petition rarely make a difference to any financial matters that need to be agreed. After years of campaigning for a change in the law, Parliament did act and on 25 June 2020 The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 received Royal Assent. It was hoped that it would come into force in Autumn 2021, but due to issues with the court service IT systems and the delays caused by the pandemic it was pushed back to 6 April 2022. The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 will herald the biggest reform of divorce law in 50 years. It will mean that couples will no longer have to make allegations about their partner’s behaviour to obtain a divorce. This change will also apply to civil partnership dissolution. No fault divorce will become a reality in England and Wales. Under the new law “irretrievable breakdown” will remain the sole reason for divorce but the need to give a reason will be removed. Couples will be able to make a joint application where they both agree the relationship has broken down or, alternatively, one person can apply. There will be a minimum of 20 weeks between issuing the petition and reaching the first stage of the divorce to give a period of reflection and the possibility of reconciliation or allow both parties time to agree practical arrangements surrounding the separation. Thereafter there will be an additional six week period before a final order is granted, severing the marriage or civil partnership.
The ability to defend the divorce will also be removed save for very specific circumstances. The language of divorce is also changing; ‘Decree Nisi’ will become a ‘Conditional Order’, ‘Decree Absolute’ will become a ‘Final Order’ and ‘petitioner’ (the person submitting the application) will become the ‘applicant’. These changes remove the legal jargon to make it more accessible for those wanting to achieve their divorce or dissolution without the assistance of lawyers in all areas of the process. This long-awaited reform to the law will enable couples and their lawyers to focus on positive uncoupling rather than allocating blame, especially when parting of ways is a mutual decision and there are children involved. Children undoubtedly cope better with a separation when their parents are not in conflict and can see a joined-up approach to their parenting. By removing the need to blame one party, it is intended that the new Act will help increase the likelihood of resolving divorce matters outside of court, providing a more efficient and collaborative approach between couples and solicitors, with less confrontation. A good divorce lawyer will listen to what is important to you and work with your spouse and their lawyer, as well as other professionals you may need to support you along the way. If you have any questions about the legal aspects raised above or would like help, please contact the Russell-Cooke family team. n
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This is your time to build a stronger, connected relationship over the course of four date nights, in four weeks, and all from the comfort of your home. Research shows that on average, couples wait 3 years from the first sign of problems before they seek help. That’s almost 1000 days of being unhappy or unfulfilled.
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Please don’t wait – there’s just four conversations between you and a more nurturing, intimate and happier relationship. n
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You will get: • 4 weekly INTERACTIVE date nights packed full of information and activities and led by Gottman leader and relationship therapist, Pam Custers • The ability to ANONYMOUSLY ask questions during the sessions to get insight into your individual situation • Heaps of additional videos and content to support your journey • A downloadable workbook to support the activities and give you space to write down your thoughts
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Method In a small bowl, whisk together olive oil, lime juice, minced garlic and salt. In a large serving bowl, combine watermelon, cucumber, feta, red onion, and mint. Pour over dressing, tossing to combine. Garnish with more mint and flaky sea salt.
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Drop the ‘shoulds’ and change your negative thinking, says therapist Emma Parr
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nother new year and with that the pressures of New Year’s resolutions, the idea perhaps of a ‘new you’; to be fitter, thinner, stronger – better. Social media carries this message as do those around us. The media talks about better mental health, but what if some of the ways we speak to ourselves and each other continue negative patterns we aren’t aware of. A pattern I see among mothers with children of the same age is a pressure they put on themselves and each other without realising it. Is the baby sleeping through the night? Are we back to our pre-pregnancy weight? We can feel despondent, less than and start to take on other’s expectations or views that are actually about themselves. A common term in our language is ‘should’ and when we receive comments like: “you should breast feed”, “you should try exercising”, it can feel like an order and it leaves no room for choice.
Emma Parr is an experienced therapist who works with individuals covering a range of issues, but specialises in mothers and babies. MA. MBACP, PG Dip Couns. DBS Certificate emma@emmaparr.net emmaparr.net
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Substitutions help us think in a different way. If I recognise the word ‘should’ makes me feel without choice, what would it be like to say ‘could’? As soon as we use the word ‘could’, there is immediately a pause which allows us to make an active choice: “I could breast feed or use the bottle”. Using the word ‘could’ also connects us to our internal compassion, “I could exercise but today I am exhausted”, giving us permission to choose what is right for us. If you feel you would like support changing negative thought patterns, please do get in touch. n
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Latest kitchen trends – BE BOLD Darling chats to Agnes Zmijewska, designer at Kitchen Revolutions
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a light filled room. For large but slightly darker rooms, choose a lighter colour door front, such as RotPunkt’s Daylight grey and accent it with a texture, in this instance, RotPunkt’s Tin Filled Oak finish.
We’re all reducing our carbon footprint. Some more religiously than others but one thing is fact – almost every extension or house renovation includes Bifold doors, glass corner ceiling to floor windows or skylights. We are instinctively inviting the outside in.
Something to be mindful of is that if you ever want to freshen up your kitchen space with another spark of colour, allow your kitchen accessories to do this for you. By this I mean that you should think very carefully before choosing a brightly coloured glass splashback you later regret. It is easier to change the colour of a t-towel, Nutribullet, light fittings, a few kitchens implements and your bar stools than it is to remove a green splashback.
Naturally, our living environment becomes lighter, so we gravitate to bolder and matt colours – various shades of greens, blues and autumn shades accentuated with textured wood. Gone is the gloss finish on anything, which is not eco-friendly either, so good riddance! Everything has become way more esoteric; if you love black – go black! That is a real trend right now, but don’t go there unless you have bifold doors, skylights or plenty of light as you may spiral into depression. Mix it up. Be bold. We are living in a bold era. If you have a large open space with natural light, you can use darker colours. This RotPunkt kitchen is a mixture of fingerprint resistant Fenix Green and a textured wood effect called Sherwood Black. Both are bold colours but make a beautiful statement in 42
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With splashbacks – I recommend taking your worktop up the wall. Keep it simple. A few years down the line, you will thank me. Porcelain worktops (commonly referred to as Dekton, Neolith and X-Tone) are all the rage and again leaning towards a greener world. Porcelain is a great deal more versatile than Quartz. In summary, be bold – do the colours you love – bring the outside in and chose a manufacturer that has a dedicated “Green” ethos like RotPunkt. Reduce your carbon and stand proud. Bold is the new kitchen revolution. n kitchenrevolutions.co.uk 020 3302 6266
PROPERTY PROMO
The story of a small buy to let house
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“As difficult as it has been there are a few tender memories: the genuine friendships with our neighbours, your staff have been super great and I believe they genuinely care - this isn’t just a business for them. We think we will leave next week, providing the Covid tests are negative … it’s like the most suspenseful storyline narrative ever, isn’t it! “Will they stay or will they go?””
How did you come to be staying in one of our properties?
The owner of Blair’s serviced and furnished home has been earning twice as much in rental, has the warm fuzzy feeling of providing a muchneeded home and has a hassle free, flexible investment. For more interviews of our other guests, investors and to discover more about our business, please visit buytolethunter.com n
“We sold our house in June, on the very day we put it up for market! We were relocating as a family to the States and for that to happen, my husband needed a visa. Due to Covid his application was delayed. We found ourselves in a total pickle – we were advised to stay in an Airbnb and wait. We had no idea it would be for six months!”
Can BTLH help you find the perfect property? Get in touch and have a chat: 020 7550 9396 or hello@buytolethunter.com
How has the experience with BTLH been? “This has been a major life transition for us and being able to feel at home, welcomed by the neighbours and supported by the BTLH team has made it so much easier than staying in a hotel. You have shown us flexibility and genuine care, giving so much more than a roof over our heads: honestly, it has made all the difference! This great set-up provides the perfect stop gap for those who are stuck between life stages, a true safe place for us to be in the midst of stress and turmoil.”
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Spring bridge with Darling guru, Paul Mendelson Old wives’ tales are generally misleading at the green baize. This week, a firm lady waved a piece of shortbread at her partner and quoted a famous bridge aphorism – and it would have made all the difference.
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Le click, c’est chic! By Kate Greenhalgh
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because my children say I would embarrass myself, by which they mean embarrass them.) I used to work in an advertising agency, back when we employed ladies in bikinis to promote unreliable cars by lying uncomfortably across their bonnets, so I consider myself to be a fairly sophisticated consumer. To start with print media. Apart from lovely magazines such as Darling, I am also a big fan of bus sides. I always seem to like whatever is advertised on bus sides. And outdoor billboards. I think if something is honest enough to be worth the trouble of getting big sheets of paper printed about it and put in place by people on ladders with glue brushes, then fair do’s - buy it. As for word of mouth - everybody I know has good taste, so again, fair do’s, buy it. This leaves pop-ups, as are irritating
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the bejeezus out of me on my screen as I type. I just bought that blasted handbag - why are you blitzing me with pictures of it? And now a beautiful French woman in a jumper in Paris....oh wait on...hullo...she looks so cool...click, click, click. This is not to say shopping in actual shops is over of course. I’m not necessarily a ‘bellwether consumer’. I found myself in a real live shop changing-room only last week, having a nice chat through the curtain with a helpful person bringing me French jumpers to try on. And thank goodness I did. They looked awful on me. The homely British bosom does not sit well in Parisian knitwear - when will I learn? But online I might have bought them! And stuffed them in a drawer for some marvellous time in the future when I manage to look more French. n
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