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Putting the mitzvah back into Bar Mitzvah

Tikkun Olam

By Barbara Bayer

Service projects help students understand the mitzvah in Bar Mitzvah

Photo by Kevin Blayney Before Evan Verekhman (center) became a Bar Mitzvah Feb. 7 at The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah, he had to complete a mitzvah project where he helped feed children in need, serving food in a soup kitchen and cleaning a cafeteria. Here Rabbi Alexandria Shuval-Weiner (far right) assists him at his final rehearsal while his parents, Inna Frimerman and Boris Verekhman, proudly look on.

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e read and hear a lot about over-the-top Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations. What we don’t hear as much about — and is truly much, much more significant — is the effort teens are making to ensure they understand and accept the true meaning of mitzvah prior to this big day.

In some ways it can be described as the “Putting God on the Guestbook” concept highlighted by Rabbi Jeffrey K. Salkin in his book by the same name published in 2005. Some congregations, such as The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah, provide the book as well as its companion student handbook for families prior to the Bar Mitzvah.

The book covers much more than mitzvah projects and is recommended for young men and women who want to find some deeper meaning beyond learning the basics of reading Torah and Haftarah. The teens we talked to, and B’nai Jehudah Rabbi Alexandria Shuval-Weiner, think performing mitzvot is one way to do that.

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Most of us think of mitzvot, the plural of mitzvah, as performing good deeds. It’s actually much more than that. According to Chabad. org, a mitzvah generally falls into one of two categories — a mitzvah between you and God and a mitzvah between you and others.

According to the website, “Shabbat, keeping kosher and prayer are examples of mitzvot between man and God. God commands us to do them, and they don’t directly involve those around us.”

On the other hand, mitzvot involving others includes such things as charity and loving your fellow man/woman as yourself.

Many Jews believe that performing mitzvot is a means of tikkun olam, helping to perfect the world through social action, community service or social justice.

Let’s also remember that the words Bar or Bat Mitzvah actually translate to son or daughter of commandment, meaning that the young person is responsible to observe the commandments, the mitzvot, of the Torah.

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Putting the mitzvah back into Bar Mitzvah From page 6

Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said it’s very important for students to learn the importance of mitzvah, because becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is more than getting up in front of the congregation and reading a Torah portion.

“As children are often egocentric, the mitzvah project helps the child learn to move beyond himself or herself and look at who I am amongst us,” the rabbi explained.

The rabbi went on to say that mitzvah projects help students understand what it means to be “both counted and counted upon” as Jewish adults.

The actual act of having these children “roll up their sleeves,” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner explained, gives them an opportunity to understand who these less fortunate people are that they hear about or may even speak about themselves.

“It often gives them the chance to engage with people they don’t know, people who may not live the life that they lead,” she said.

“They can’t do tikkun olam if they are not aware of the world or that their actions matter in the world,” she continued.

B’nai Jehudah requires its students to organize and complete a mitzvah project under the guidance of its senior rabbi, Rabbi Arthur Nemitoff. Since the congregation is located in Johnson County and that’s where the bulk of its students live, the majority of mitzvah projects take place in the affluent suburb or the greater Kansas City area. But some have crafted projects that benefit people in other countries such as Israel and even Nepal.

In almost every case, students are steered toward a project that encompasses something that they love or have deep feelings about.

For instance, if a child enjoys reading, Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said they may suggest that in addition to coordinating a book collection, the student spend time reading stories to children who may not have the opportunity to have regular story times.

Many of B’nai Jehudah’s students attend the Jewish Community Center’s Ma’asim Tovim community service camp prior to beginning their Bar/Bat Mitzvah studies. The rabbi sees this as a way for students to get an early start on performing mitzvot.

“These students are already excited about certain organizations because they are exposed to them through this camp and are really ready to roll up their sleeves and help others when it comes time for their mitzvah projects,” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said.

The goal of these mitzvah projects is to help children understand the importance of caring, of stepping up and giving back to their communities.

“We want them to see that they matter and that they can have an impact on someone or something beyond themselves,” Rabbi ShuvalWeiner said.

Unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen.

“Some children just feel like they’ve punched their time clock when they complete their projects,” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said. “We do try to debrief all of our students after they complete their projects and hope they really feel like they have made a difference, so they will continue and deepen future engagement in the community.”

Another mission of the mitzvah project is to help the Bar and Bat Mitzvah students see that event not simply as a single day in their lives but as an important milestone in their lives — as a gateway to becoming a Jewish adult and the responsibilities that come with being a Jewish adult.

“We hope these projects give them empathy for others and a desire to make their lives meaningful by making the world a more sacred place,” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said.

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Putting the mitzvah back into Bat Mitzvah

Instructing underprivileged children Makes student grateful for her own life

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By Barbara Bayer

iver Hennick enjoys drawing so much, she thinks everybody should have the opportunity. When she learned of a school in Kansas City, Mo., that cut its art budget, she decided she had to help out.

“I thought it wouldn’t really be that fair if kids weren’t given that opportunity,” said River, a seventhgrade student at Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy and a member of Congregation Beth Shalom.

She knew about Lee A. Tolbert Academy because a family friend, her former babysitter, teaches there.

The first time River went to the school, she brought a few art supplies with her. But she knew immediately that the children needed more than that.

“So we took a photo of all the projects we created with the kids that day. Then we sent it and a letter to all the people we knew to see if they wanted to help us by giving us money to buy supplies for these kids,” said River, the daughter of Elizabeth and Mark Hennick.

Elizabeth Hennick said their friends were very generous, giving money, donating art smocks and supplies, and even providing store discounts to purchase art supplies.

“We were able to really load up the classroom with much more than they would need for just our projects,” Hennick said.

“We left them with paints and smocks and brushes and enough crayons for a year. Our friends were wonderful,” she continued.

River Hennick looks on as Latonya Wyatt proudly shows off her cat drawing. Last year In addition, River put together art packs for before her Bat Mitzvah, River began teaching art classes to first-grade students at the students to take home, Hennick said, “Because we realized that some kids didn’t have art supplies at Lee A. Tolbert Academy. home, either.”

“They hug her. They are just mad about Rivvie,” Hennick said.

River taught art three times at the school last year and is Teacher Lauren Richardson said both she and the students enjoy continuing the project this year with a new group of students. Each River’s art instruction. time she goes, she stands in the front of the classroom and instructs “We do not currently have an art class at our school, so it provides a the children about that day’s project. great opportunity to not only create art, but to learn about its history as “Then I’ll demonstrate how to create the artwork,” River said. “The well. We look forward to each visit,” Richardson said. first project I did was to teach them how to draw a cat.”

As she prepared to become an adult in the Jewish community, River For the second project, River read a book about monsters hiding believes her project shows that she wasn’t simply becoming a member of under the bed. the community because she hit the magic number.

“I had them decide on their own what to do and how they would “There was actually a reason behind it,” she said noting that she is draw their own monster. They got to do whatever they liked and they now a contributing member of the community. had a lot of fun.”

This project connects River to her Jewish roots, her mother said, in River enjoys teaching the children. another way.

“I like to see how happy they are when they finally complete their “When we got there, I realized that the school is in the old Beth pictures,” she said. “It also makes me feel more grateful for the things that Shalom building at 3400 Paseo. That’s where my parents, River’s we do have.” grandparents, were married,” Hennick said.

Mom said she and her daughter benefit from the project as well by River may continue making the trek to the school for years to come. getting to spend extra time together going to and from Tolbert Academy.

“She might do it until she graduates. We’ll do it until they kick us “We made it fun for us, too,” said Hennick, noting watching her out. It’s really a fun thing,” Hennick said. daughter there makes her proud.

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Interest in cooking led Gavi Glickman to KC Kosher Meals on Wheels

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By Barbara Bayer ood is often on the minds of teens, especially growing ones who are always hungry.

Gavi Glickman may think about food more than the average teenage boy, as he religiously follows the laws of kashrut and makes sure what he’s eating is nut-free due to an allergy.

Feeding the hungry is often a theme for mitzvah projects, and it fit well with Gavi’s lifestyle. That’s how he found KC Kosher Meals on Wheels and decided it would be a good match for him.

“I really like to cook. I like food and I like to make my food,” said the seventh-grade student at Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy. “I thought it would be nice to cook kosher food for other people who can’t make it themselves or can’t afford it.”

Gavi said a service project is something he really wanted to do while preparing for his Bar Mitzvah, which was July 5, 2014, at Congregation Beth Shalom.

Photo by Kevin Blayney “Usually everyone takes on some Gavi Glickman, shown here in the kitchen of Torah Learning Center, volunteered at KC Kosher Meals sort of a mitzvah,” he said. “HBHA on Wheels for his mitzvah project prior to his Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Beth Shalom last summer. really strongly encourages you to do it.

“I explored different options but “It’s very impressive when a boy or girl preparing for Bar or Bat KC Kosher Meals on Wheels really caught my eye. It sounded really Mitzvah understands the concept of being responsible and obligated to fun to do.” do mitzvot.

Gavi understands that and took it upon himself to do a big Gavi volunteered two or three times a week for a little more than mitzvah for his Bar Mitzvah,” Esther Friedman said. a month, helping cook in the kosher kitchen at Torah Learning Center, “He’s a very good worker and we are very lucky to have him where meals for KC Kosher Meals on Wheels are assembled. He worked volunteer for Kosher Meals on Wheels,” added Rabbi Friedman. side-by-side with the other volunteers, mostly adults. Often he prepped Gavi said working on his mitzvah project was an educational vegetables, chopping carrots, onions and other types of produce. experience.

Once, he and his mother spent a Sunday morning delivering meals.

“I learned it’s not as easy for other people to get their food, “We delivered meals to a man who was a Holocaust survivor,” said especially kosher food. We all know that kosher food isn’t the Gavi, noting that his family was subbing for a regular volunteer driver. cheapest.

It really felt nice to give some home-cooked kosher meals “We talked to him for about 10 minutes or so and I told him what like I get to experience at my house to other people who can’t really I was doing and that my Bar Mitzvah was coming up,” said Gavi. “It was afford it all the time.” real interestingt to meet him.”

Doing the service project made Gavi feel like a Bar Mitzvah.

Gavi, the son of Rabbi David and Annie Glickman, said he met “When you are a Bar Mitzvah you are officially obligated to interesting people while volunteering for KC Kosher Meals on Wheels. do mitzvot and this was showing me what being a Bar Mitzvah is “I met Rebbetzin (Esther) Friedman and Rabbi (Benzion) all about.”

Friedman and some regulars, usually women who are members of Gavi continues to perform a variety of mitzvot. different synagogues — some were from Beth Shalom and some from “I go to synagogue a lot. I wrap tefillin at HBHA morning Beth Torah. It was really interesting that people from all over the services.

I read Torah once every six weeks at Beth Shalom. I hope that community came to volunteer,” Gavi said. sometime this summer I may have a chance to go back to Kosher Meals Esther Friedman said they enjoyed working with Gavi and will on Wheels.” welcome him back anytime.

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Putting the mitzvah back into Bat Mitzvah

Teen says giving back to her community big part of Bat Mitzvah experience

By Barbara Bayer

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hen was the last time you heard about a teen who contributed funds toward her own Bat Mitzvah party? That’s exactly what Kyle Bergerson did after attending a cousin’s Bat Mitzvah in Chicago.

“I found out about all the pricing and how expensive they are,” Kyle said on a recent Sunday afternoon. “It was going to be a party for me, so I decided that I should help out. I had a party at the Kemper Museum and I had lot of family and friends there and lots of dancing.”

Kyle began babysitting to raise money for her Bat Mitzvah party.

“Then, because I liked doing it so much, I decided I wanted to help out at Operation Breakthrough,” said the daughter of Drew Bergerson and Jeanette Jones.

Operation Breakthrough is a not-for-profit agency that cares each weekday for more than 400 children, ages 6 weeks to 13 years old. More than 98 percent of the enrolled families live below the federal poverty guidelines.

Kyle’s congregation, Temple Israel, does not require its students to carry out mitzvah projects. But its community service chair, Joyce Fulps, is eager and willing to help anyone — child or adult — who wants to perform mitzvot.

In Kyle’s case, Fulps made the arrangements and went with Kyle each time she volunteered at the center.

Kyle enjoyed the experience.

“I started out playing with the toddlers and then I went to babies. They were cute and you got to play with them and read to them,” Kyle said.

An eighth-grade student at The Pembroke Hill Photo by Ben McCall School, Kyle volunteered at Operation Breakthrough for a For a little more than a year, Kyle Bergerson (center) played and read to children at little over a year, stopping a couple months after her Sept. Operation Breakthrough in Kansas City, Missouri. Joyce Fulps (right), the community 28, 2013, Bat Mitzvah. service chair at Temple Israel, teamed with Kyle for this mitzvah project.

“I wanted to continue, but I had to stop because of finals and homework,” she said.

Kyle continues to babysit and hopes to return to Operation Fulps enjoyed it as well, explaining she and Kyle worked together as Breakthrough one day. Next year when she’s in high school, she plans a team for this project. to join its community service club, something she said she’s always “I enjoy seeing young people embrace volunteerism, realizing as wanted to do. they are growing up that it takes more than just writing a check to “They go around to different projects and they go on trips, too.” repair the world. I believe you need to get personally involved. I saw Kyle believes her work at Operation Breakthrough was “the mitzvah Kyle mature and grow a great deal and come to the full realization how part of Bat Mitzvah.” fortunate she is that she has two loving parents, she has a wonderful “I definitely learned that things are a lot harder than I think they are. life, goes to great schools, all the things that many of those kids at It sounds cheesy when I say that, but it’s definitely true. I was just glad Operation Breakthrough don’t have,” Fulps said. that I could help out,” said Kyle, who also donated a portion of her Bat From a parent’s perspective, Drew Bergerson said it was “super Mitzvah gifts to Operation Breakthrough. special that Joyce and Kyle did this together.”

“I think it really helped me understand what being a Bat Mitzvah “I feel like it gave Kyle a sense of being a part of the Jewish really means, and I think giving back to your community is a big part of community,” Bergerson said. “Sometimes when kids do these projects what it means to be a Bat Mitzvah.” as part of their Bar or Bat Mitzvah, it’s about their parents telling The added bonus for Kyle was becoming friends with Fulps. them to do things. In this instance, Joyce got to serve as a role model “I had known Joyce for a while and I think it definitely made it for her, so Kyle has this connection to this larger Jewish community. easier for me to know someone at Operation Breakthrough. It made me We really appreciated what Joyce did.” feel more comfortable.”

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Get your party on Teenage DJs know exactly what kids want to hear

By Barbara Bayer

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savvy businessman — even if he’s only 17 years old — will swoop in when he sees an opportunity to fill a niche. That’s exactly what Jake Goldman did when he realized there was a hole that needed to be plugged after a popular local party

DJ ran into legal troubles.

So Jake and his business partner, 17-year-old Brooks Brown, formed Two Future Productions in the fall of 2014.

They enjoy entertaining at Bar and Bat Mitzvah parties.

Jake, a member of Congregation Beth Torah who became a Bar Mitzvah four years ago, has attended his fair share of dance parties. He celebrated with his own dance party and his family was one of the many who actually employed the infamous DJ. “One of the thoughts we had coming into this process is that we want to take over the DJ Bar Mitzvah business because he was the main guy prior to his arrest,” Jake said.

“Together we’ve noticed a gap in the DJ Bar Mitzvah industry. Together we offer such a unique experience since we are both high schoolers who truly know what the kids want to hear, what the kids want to do,” he continued.

While Jake had not been in the DJ business before, Brooks began doing DJ work when he was just 12.

“I’ve played at parties and Bar Mitzvahs over the years so we thought we could combine our networks. Jake has a good network of people in the Jewish community and I have a good network of people in the DJ industry, so we thought we could aim toward the Bar and Bat Mitzvah market,” Brooks said.

Jake handles the business end of their entertainment business.

“My role in Two Future Productions is using my network through the Jewish community to reach out to potential customers, to reach out to people planning their child’s Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations.”

On what Jake describes as “game day,” he runs the event.

“I manage the lights and I’m an emcee/dancer/hype man.

I mainly run the financial side of the business. Brooks is the superstar,” Jake said.

Julie Birger hired Two Future Productions for her daughter Emily’s Bat Mitzvah Nov. 8. She thought they were great.

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Brooks Brown and Jake Goldman of Two Future Productions.

“We could not have been happier with Brooks and Jake. They were so engaging, adept at interacting with the kids and playing their favorite music.

The adults loved them, too! The dance floor was packed the whole night and everyone left tired and very happy. For such young guys, they were extremely polished and totally professional. Loved their light show, too,” Birger said.

In an effort to grow the business, Jake has sought advice from others in the community who have worked with Bar/Bat families. In particular, a Jewish woman who specializes in invitations “gave us a strategy on how to reach out to different people and different venues and approach them with our business. From there I contacted some of the synagogues.”

“We are building the brand by word of mouth,” Jake added.

In this new venture, the teens have only done a handful of mitzvah parties.

They have been booked for the future and hope to add even more to their calendar. Two Future Productions likes to make the evening’s honoree, here it’s Emily Birger, the That doesn’t mean they haven’t kept busy. center of attention. Jake Goldman (left) dances with Emily at her Bat Mitzvah party.

“We’ve done four or five school mixers in the past couple of months and Brooks has done Two Future Productions offers several packages for countless birthday parties over the years,” Jake said. the event.

While some might think they are too young to be in “First we offer a baseline package. Together we put on a business, Jake said their age is exactly what makes the two of four-hour performance with music and lights all included. them desirable.

From there we offer numerous add-ons. We offer party “We are different than the normal DJ because we put on packages where you can purchase different favors to give away a show,” he said. “Two Future Productions is not just a guy and we also offer photography, by another Blue Valley North standing up pushing buttons. It’s guys interacting with the student who is a professional photographer,” Jake explained. kids, giving a performance and providing really high-quality Brooks and Jake have one more year before they will entertainment. It’s like going to a concert almost. It’s like graduate high school. They have talked about what will watching a show unfold.” happen to the business when they graduate.

“We offer a different, unique experience for kids and we “One nice aspect of this business is that Bar Mitzvahs know what they want, and we can adapt to the kind of crowd are on the weekends,” Jake said. “If something is planned and they are having and what type of event it is,” Jake continued. confirmed far enough ahead, we think wherever we end up in A few weeks before the party, Jake and Brooks will college we will travel back for the event.” meet with the Bar/Bat Mitzvah teen and the family to find Even though he’s still in high school, Jake is experienced out exactly what they want for the evening. Besides their at running a business. knowledge of kids, the owners of Two Future Productions “Both of my sisters began Photos4Good, which is a believe their prices also distinguish their business from nonprofit photography service where we take pictures for similar ones. other nonprofits for no cost. Once my older sister Alex “If you are looking for the crème of the crop DJs, they went off to college I got involved with my other sister Emily range from $3,000 to upwards of $10,000. Our prices vary, and, when she went to college, I began to manage some of depending on the package, but you’re definitely looking to the business. With that experience and with some of my spend two to three times more for other DJs in Kansas City,” schooling and selling ads through the school newspaper, I’ve Jake said. been interested in entrepreneurial startup work,” said the son “Brooks and I offer a very unique and affordable of Julie and Max Goldman. experience as well as a really sweet setup with our light Need a DJ? Email Jake and Brooks at show,” he continued. twofutureproductions@gmail.com.

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Strikingly good special events at Pinstripes

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hen Pinstripes opened in Overland Park last year, the Kansas City area gained a unique venue for special events.

Although it may be best known for its bowling and bocce, Pinstripes is a distinctive indoor/outdoor entertainment and dining venue that offers “sophisticated fun” with its delicious food, extensive collection of Italian and American wines, and versatile event spaces.

Located conveniently at 13500 Nall Ave. in Prairiefire, Pinstripes features 16 bowling lanes, 10 bocce courts, an exceptional Italian-American bistro with wine cellar, outdoor patios, two fire pits, and beautifully appointed private event rooms that can accommodate groups from 20 to 600. There is also a parking lot and parking garage right outside.

Pinstripes is committed to providing high-quality food and service with individualized attention in planning special events. Because of the many amenities and entertainment options it offers, Pinstripes has the opportunity to host a wide variety of events, such as Bar/Bat Mitzvah parties; weddings, receptions, engagement parties and rehearsal dinners; birthdays; family reunions; bachelor and bachelorette parties; and corporate functions or team-building workshops.

“We are very excited to provide an exceptional dining and entertainment experience,” said Sandie Montgomery, director of sales and marketing for Pinstripes. “…We can tailor your event to your specific needs and, with the assistance of our special event planners, make it unique and memorable.”

For Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebrations, for example, families can choose to begin their party with the kids bowling and the adults enjoying a cocktail hour in the bocce area before everyone moves to the 300-seat ballroom. This is just one of the many options available. Some people incorporate bowling/bocce into their event; others have their event at Pinstripes for the Italian-American cuisine and upscale banquet space.

Enclosed bocce areas (on both the first and second levels) can be opened up when the weather is nice, and guests can sit around the outdoor fire pits. (Pinstripes will provide a blanket on a chilly day.) The patio areas have 7,000 square feet of outdoor space and look out onto Prairiefire.

Inside, visitors will find a warm and inviting atmosphere and 33,000 square feet of entertainment and dining among fine finishes, like Jerusalem stone and Australian cypress floors. The entire ballroom can be reserved for events, or it can be separated into two or three rooms for smaller parties.

Pinstripes specializes in family-style dining that is made from scratch and served Pinstripes’ experienced event manfresh. Pictured here are the Caesar Salad with Margherita Flatbread. agement team promises to tailor events to each client’s specific needs, including planning the menu, scheduling gaming, and acquiring audio/visual equipment, flowers, specialty linens, party favors and more.

Montgomery said each Pinstripes location hosts 2,000 special events a year.

The Overland Park Pinstripes was proud to host the 2014 Big Slick Celebrity Bowl, a fundraiser benefiting Children’s Mercy Hospital that is spearheaded by actors Paul Rudd, Jason Sudeikis, Rob Riggle, Eric Stonestreet and David Koechner.

Pinstripes is scheduled to host the same event again this year.

“We are fortunate to be a part of this community, host the Big Slick Bowl and help raise a lot of money for Children’s Mercy Hospital,” she said.

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Overland Park entertainment and dining venue features scratch Italian-American cuisine and versatile banquet spaces along with bowling and bocce For events, Pinstripes specializes in family-style dining that is made from scratch and served fresh to party-goers.

The classic family-style dinner includes two appetizers, two salads, two pastas, two entrees, two vegetables and two desserts.

The menu showcases Italian and American favorites like Angel Hair Pomodoro, Vegetable and Parmesan Risotto, Penne Chicken Marsala, Tuscan Grilled Chicken, Maple Glazed Salmon and Roast Tenderloin of Beef.

If you don’t want a familystyle meal, Pinstripes can also provide food stations, a buffet or plated meals. Do you prefer kosher dining? Pinstripes can help you Pinstripes, 13500 Nall Ave. in Overland Park, offers “sophisticated fun” with that as well. with its delicious food, bowling (pictured here) and bocce.

“I was shocked at how good the food was,” said Doris Mendel, people asked for contact information for their kids’ parties whose son James had his Bar Mitzvah party at the Overland this year. That’s a good sign when people want to come back Park Pinstripes in September 2014. “It’s like a very nice because they enjoyed themselves. It was an awesome party. restaurant. They are not just a bowling alley. They are so much I would recommend Pinstripes. more than that.”

“I couldn’t have asked for a better experience.”

James went to a bowling party at Pinstripes and asked if Over eight years ago, Dale Schwartz, founder and CEO he could have his Bar Mitzvah celebration there. of Pinstripes, opened his first Pinstripes in Northbrook, Doris said the kids at the party enjoyed hanging out in the Illinois. The popularity and interest in the concept brought bocce area and around the fire pit; the adults were mainly in on openings in South Barrington and Oak Brook, Illinois, the ballroom by the dance floor. and soon outside the Chicagoland area in Edina, Minnesota, “It was a good choice,” Doris Mendel said, of Pinstripes. and in the Georgetown area of Washington, D.C. Pinstripes “…It was way more interesting and fun for the kids. We had a opened its sixth location in Overland Park in May 2014. great time. He loved his party.”

Pinstripes recently opened in Chicago and has plans to open She added that Pinstripes was very accommodating. three more locations (Frisco, Texas; Bethesda, Maryland; “They were very easy to work with and that is key when and Del Mar, California) in 2016 and 2017. you are doing a Bar or Bat Mitzvah,” Mendel said. “Two

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Aloft Leawood-Overland Park: a one-of-a-kind experience for guests and special events

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hen it’s time to plan your special event in the Kansas City area, don’t forget that Aloft Leawood-Overland Park is a modern, fresh and fun destination for your parties and out-of-town guests.

Besides offering a whole new experience for travelers who need a place to stay, Aloft LeawoodOverland Park also has distinct areas (inside and out) for making Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations special.

The meeting room at Aloft Leawood-Overland Park, called tactic, is a sleek space equipped with state-of-the-art AV, plasma TV and complimentary Wi-Fi. Some people have used tactic’s indoor and outdoor space for the “kids” party. If you are looking to host a larger Bar At Aloft Leawood-Overland Park, re:mix has everything you need. or Bat Mitzvah event, consider the Sip a drink, read the paper, enjoy free Wi-Fi or pick up a game of pool. hotel’s “front yard” with an amazing view of Park Place. The “front yard” can even be rented out concurrently for an “adult” party while the • re:fuel by AloftSM: grab and go gourmet, full of light meals, mix and kids enjoy their own private space in tactic. match munchies, healthy bites, dreamy delights, make-your-own Aloft Leawood-Overland Park is situated at the main entrance of cappuccinos and more. Fill your tank 24/7.

Park Place, an upscale urban development located in the heart of the • re:chargeSM: sprint, stretch, lift and pump — day or night. Plus Greater Kansas City area. Here, you are just a short walk to shopping there are stationary bikes, treadmills and elliptical machines from Life Fitness® — all the tools for your fitness fix 24/7. and dining and a quick drive to Kansas City area attractions and numerous synagogues.

• splash: jump in and revive, swim laps or lounge in style at the pool.

Open morning to night, anytime is right for a dip.

The hotel is a unique kind of place to stay • cool concierge: researching the hotel and local area, looking up and play, with diverse facilities and uses: flight information and printing boarding passes are all easy breezy • Individual Aloft rooms rise and shine: These rooms have with cool concierge. The hotel is meeting the needs of modern, spacious 9-foot ceilings, plush platform beds, free Wi-Fi, 42savvy travelers by providing the tools to jet-set on their own terms inch LCD TVs, custom Aloft amenities by Bliss® Spa, oversized while enhancing their overall guest experience with Aloft’s digital showers, signature coffee and more. Recharge all your gadgets touch-screen technology. with the plug ’n’ play docking station, which also links your • in-touch: get in the know at in-touch terminals — easy Internet computer or your tunes to the TV. access to help you find information and access your email. It’s all at • re:mixSM: a playful place or quiet space, re:mix has everything your fingertips and easy to print. you need, right within reach. Sip a drink, read the paper, enjoy • camp Aloft: where a kid-tastic adventure awaits with your child’s free Wi-Fi or pick up a game of pool, with day-to-night lighting own camp Aloft bed-in-a-bag and special treats. And fun, food and music to switch up the vibe. Slide up to the w xyzSM bar for and faves at re:fuel by AloftSM will excite even the pickiest eaters.

SM a drink or pop into re:fuel by Aloft for a self-serve snack.

• arfSM: animals are fun — and they’re family, too. This pet-friendly SM • w xyz : mix, meet and mingle over music and cocktails at the program for dogs under 40 pounds features an Aloft-branded bed always-hopping w xyz barSM. The fun flows freely with everything and bowl and complimentary woof-alicious treats and toys. from pints to pinot noirs to signature drinks, plus a snack-attack For more information about Aloft Leawood-Overland Park, call menu, music and can’t-miss events.

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The Gallery

brings all special events to life

With 9,000 square feet of open space, The Gallery, in the heart of the Power & Light District, hosts a diverse array of events including Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, anniversary parties, reunions and weddings. The Gallery now offers a kosher kitchen available for any event.

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tanding on the balcony, overlooking the Power & Light District, a crisp breeze blows past the bride that has just enjoyed the biggest day in her life. Staring out at the twinkling lights she wonders. “What could be better than this?”

Brides from all over the metro area can have this feeling too.

As can that young man after his Bar Mitzvah, or the entire family after the big reunion. To get that experience, all they have to do is come to The Gallery.

The Gallery, an event space in the heart of the Power & Light District, opened in August of 2012 and has been hosting memorable events ever since. Featuring the best balcony in Kansas City, The Gallery is an event space that is the right match for weddings, Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, a big birthday bash, holiday parties or any other occasion that needs that special touch. Their team of experienced party planning professionals will work with you to make sure every wish for your big day can come true.

Everything your event needs is found under The Gallery’s roof. Across the hall is The Kill Devil Club, the official cocktail lounge of The Gallery. Now The Gallery also features its very own completely kosher kitchen.

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“We had our first Bat Mitzvah recently and it went very well.

It is great to have the kosher kitchen for future events like that one,” said Jessica Mullens, wedding sales director of The Gallery.

“We are a modern, sophisticated space and we are happy to work with people to make sure their concept for their event is perfect.”

On May 19 The Gallery will host an open house to showcase their wide selection of kosher catering and signature cocktails.

This big event will allow the community the opportunity to see The Gallery space for themselves.

Walking into this spacious loft area, the bright white walls assure you that the space can accommodate any look and color, and the beautiful chandelier hangs over a perfect dance-floor area. The Gallery has 9,000 square feet of open space and can accommodate up to 400 guests seated and 600 guests cocktail style. There are floor-to-ceiling windows that open up to the wide balcony. A state-of-the-art audio visual system with two large drop down screens means all your special videos can be shown for all the guests to see.

The Gallery is located at 61 E. 14th St., Kansas City, MO. To see more of their space, visit their website at www.thegalleryspace.com.

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Boutique hotel on the National Register of Historic Places can help you create memorable celebrations

ith an elegant lobby in its distinctive art deco style, Hotel Phillips is ready to help you host your special event.

The hotel — a historic gem in the heart of downtown Kansas City, Missouri, — has been attracting visitors and hosting special events for more than 80 years.

Masterful restorations have retained the glamour while adding every contemporary convenience a traveler or party host desires.

Hotel Phillips has a number of spaces that can accommodate any special event, including a majestic mezzanine, perfect for cocktails, hors d’oeuvres or dinner, or the incomparable Regency Room, which can be reserved for a sit-down dinner or reception.

Whether you’re hosting a Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration, wedding ceremony or reception, or corporate event, the creative culinary team and friendly sales staff will ensure that every detail is covered.

Hotel Phillips, 106 W. 12th St. in Kansas City, MO, can accommodate a wide variety of special events, including Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations.

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When your day is done, Hotel Phillips will welcome you and your guests with luxurious accommodations, VIP amenities and packages using products made by local artisans. There are 217 quiet guestrooms in all, including two spectacular suites — all offering guests European-style king or queen beds with plump duvets and exquisite linens.

Tricia and Thad Lincoln selected Hotel Phillips for their wedding ceremony and reception.

“It is so gorgeous you don’t need to do much to the space,” Tricia said. “It was our first and only choice. “…They created a virtually stress-free experience during both the planning process and the wedding day, which was priceless.”

Hotel Phillips is located at 106 W. 12th St., Kansas City, MO. For more information, contact the sales staff at 816-346-4405 or events@hotelphillips.com.

Visitors will notice Hotel Phillips’ elegant lobby and art deco style.

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Mazel Tov Bar & Bat Mitzvah Listings for 2015 Date Name

Parents

Congregation

January 10 17 31

Mirra Goldenberg Sara Galapo Jackson Zwillenberg

Jeff and Missy Goldenberg Congregation Beth Shalom Simon and Janet Galapo Congregation Beth Shalom Julie and Joe Zwillenberg B’nai Jehudah

February 7 14 14 21 21 28 28

Evan Verekhman Jacob Lieberman Molly Levinson Mia Holland Abigail Logan Jacob Abrams Jacob Shaw

Inna Frimerman and Boris Verekhman Amy and Zach Lieberman Jenifer Levinson and Scott Levinson Fred and Jayne Holland Becky and Marc Logan Michael and Arlene Abrams Gary and Amy Shaw

B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Kehilath Israel Synagogue Beth Torah

Jonah Kaplan Eric Wright Sam Margolies Avi Pavin Landon Borjas Isaac Decker Jordan Levin

Julie Kaplan Stacey and Allen Wright Sheila Hochhauser and David Margolies Michelle Pavin Kim and Brian Borjas Jim and Lainie Decker Scott and Debra Levin

Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Topeka Beth Sholom Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah Kehilath Israel Synagogue

Jonny and Jane Girson Laurie and Keith Anderson Dr. Mikhail and Elena Kosiborod Adam and Julana Sachs Dan and Kristen Fromm Michelle Cohen and Mark Fulford Linda Stark

Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Kehilath Israel Synagogue The New Reform Temple The New Reform Temple B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah

March 7 7 21 21 28 28 28 April 1 Jonah Girson 18 Leah Anderson 18 Sam Kosiborod 18 Phinney Sachs 25 Caroline Fromm 25 Alexandra Fulford 25 Aliyah Stark 26 •

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Date Name

Parents

Congregation

May 2 Emma Glass 2 Luke Gottschamer 2 Ethan Herman 2 Samuel Reicher 2 Gabrielle Scicchitano 9 Jared Cambier 9 Elliott Cohen 9 Simon Wolff 16 Jackson Crane 16 Courtney Gotskind 16 Samantha Gotskind 23 Morgan Brockner 23 Jack Ullman 30 Ayelet Schuster 30 Benjamin Wolter

Brandy and Mark Glass Karl and Amy Gottschamer Jeff and Stephanie Herman Jim and Beth Reicher Frank Scicchitano and Zvia Zadock David and Linda Cambier Gaye and Mark Cohen Toma and Andy Wolff Adam and Amie Crane Stacey and Daniel Gotskind Stacey and Daniel Gotskind Sari and Jeffrey Brockner Lee and Susan Ullman Tamara and Rabbi Neal Schuster James Wolter and Patricia Neyman

B’nai Jehudah Lawrence Jewish Community Congregation Beth Torah Beth Torah Beth Shalom Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah Beth Shalom B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah

June 6 Sarah Golder Robert Golder and Heather Schlozman 6 Jonathan Greenwald Brian and Lisa Greenwald 6 Cameron Janofsky Jeffrey and Melinda Janofsky 6 Sydney Seigle Beth and Howard Seigle 6 Madeline Wolfe Alisa and Jeff Wolfe 13 Everett Benson Connilyn Benson, Daniel Benson 13 Dahlia Cukierkorn Rabbi Jacques and Denisse Cukierkorn 13 Madeline Dalke Jen and Mike Dalke 13 David Rope Cliff and Stacy Rope 13 Brady Wordsworth Jeff and Jamie Wordsworth 20 Zachary Gorsuch Larry Gorsuch 20 CaiLyn Nye Blaine and Meredith Nye

Beth Shalom Kol Ami Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Topeka Beth Sholom Topeka Beth Sholom Temple Israel B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah Beth Shalom B’nai Jehudah Beth Shalom SPRING 2015

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Date Name

Parents

Congregation

Dylan Bloom

Dawn and Randy Bloom

B’nai Jehudah

Kaila Forstein Peyton Frischer Jack Coe Paige Kuluva Eli Cohavi Jonathan Gilman Sophia Novorr

Erin and Micah Forstein and the late Lauren Forstein Leonard and Dawn Frischer John and Debbie Coe Kerry and David Kuluva Melanie Cohavi Stacey and LaMont Gilman Jennifer and Scott Novorr

July 28 August 8 8 15 15 22 22 29

Topeka Beth Sholom Beth Torah The New Reform Temple B’nai Jehudah Beth Shalom B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah

September 5 Aden Barash Amy and Brad Barash 5 Josie Safir Craig and Jenny Safir 5 Aaron Schifman Marjorie Beebe and the late Bradley Schifman 5 Eve Schifman Marjorie Beebe and the late Bradley Schifman 19 Hannah Luschen Jay Luschen 19 Joshua Wolf Darlene and Richard Wolf 26 Lucie Abbott Stacey and Mike Abbott

B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah Topeka Beth Sholom Topeka Beth Sholom Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah

October 3 Tyler Durwood Keith and Heidi Durwood 3 Matthew Gelman Amy and Steve Bernstein and Stuart Gelman 10 Sara Saidel Hazzan Tahl Ben-Yehuda 10 Hannah Smuckler Erin and Brad Smuckler 28 •

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The New Reform Temple B’nai Jehudah Beth Shalom B’nai Jehudah

Date Name 17 17 24 24 24 24 31 31

Parents

Gabriel Kivett Jeff and Susan Kivett Mikaela Rittmaster Miriam and Aaron Rittmaster Zakaiyah Gillom Clint and Cristi Gillom Susanna King Amanda and Chad King Mandy Unterhalter Bryan and Janet Unterhalter Keely Wright Brian Wright and Jennifer Forman-Wright Ethan Wolf Kelly and Greg Wolf Kennedy Wolf Kelly and Greg Wolf

Congregation Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah Kehilath Israel Synagogue B’nai Jehudah Beth Shalom Beth Torah B’nai Jehudah B’nai Jehudah

November 7 Eddie Haith Brian and Debbie Haith Beth Torah 14 Noah Clayman Benjamin Clayman and Brandy Clayman Congregation Ohev Sholom 14 Roxanne Markowsky Jason and Suzanne Markowsky Beth Torah 14 Claire Smith Angie and Rusty Smith B’nai Jehudah 21 Leah Goldstein Brian and Tamara Goldstein Beth Torah 21 Noah Lindenlaub Debbie and Adam Lindenlaub B’nai Jehudah 28 Sarah O’Bryan John and Beth O’Bryan The New Reform Temple 28 Shir-el Rudnick Rabbi Jonathan and Marcelle Rudnick Congregation Ohev Sholom December 5 Tommy Steinberg 5 Noah Waldman 12 Lia Davidson 12 Anna Clauer 19 Zachary Abrahms 19 Sydney Rosenthal

Jodi Steinberg and Roman Steinberg Stuart and Elisa Waldman Dan and Karen Davidson Todd Clauer and Mirra Klausner Leslie and Simon Abrahms Marc Rosenthal

B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah Beth Torah Beth Shalom B’nai Jehudah Beth Torah SPRING 2015

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Make your teen’s wishes come true with help from

Craig Sole Designs

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raig Sole has more than three decades of experience in providing floral arrangements for Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations around the Kansas City area. He has seen a lot of trends come and go, but what he’s noticing now is that teens’ friends and family often impact the type of Bar/Bat Mitzvah they want.

If families are traveling to Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations on the East and West coasts, for example, they often come back wanting a catered lunch after the ceremony followed by a larger party at night. If people are used to less elaborate events, then they come to Craig asking for floral designs that will enhance a smaller after-ceremony get-together.

“We accommodate all kinds of events,” Craig said.

It’s been more than 20 years since Craig Sole moved into a now 107-year-old bungalow in Downtown Overland Park. From this historic location, he has been creating exquisite floral designs that grace many special events in the Kansas City area. (Before that, Craig worked from Harvey Bodker’s building at 95th Street and Mission Road.)

Craig recently designed the florals for some imaginative Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations.

For a recent Bat Mitzvah, Craig Sole Designs used the teen’s love of art and rainbow color scheme to help create a colorful scene.

Photo courtesy of Slater Studios

Craig Sole Designs created centerpieces for a teen’s Bar Mitzvah using flowers in the boy’s favorite colors and his initials in papier-mache.

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For one Bar Mitzvah, Craig and his team made papier-mache letters out of the teen’s initials in the style of pop artist Robert Indiana’s iconic “LOVE” image. Those letters were then placed in centerpieces of blue hydrangeas, white lilies and green mums, which are the boy’s favorite colors. The arrangements were transferred from the luncheon to an evening reception held at Westport Flea Market. There, the florals decorated pool tables and were suspended over the shuffleboard serving table.

For a recent Bat Mitzvah, Craig used the teen’s love of art and rainbow color scheme to create a colorful scene. Guests entered by walking through drapes of fabric that looked like they were coming out of suspended paint cans. The teen’s art along with state-of-the-art lighting, balloon towers and Craig’s florals and foamcore creations (like paint brushes and palettes) decorated The Gallery in the Power & Light District.

Craig prides himself on designing Bar and Bat Mitzvah arrangements that can be used at both the afternoon luncheon and then again at the evening party. In addition, Craig feels fortunate that he has a good relationship with most caterers in town and has developed strong connections within the community.

“I’ve been designing in the community most of my life and have so many friends in the Jewish community,” he said.

For more information on how to make your event special with Craig Sole Designs, visit www.craigsoledesigns.com or call 913-649-9299.

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Town Center Has Perfect Gifts For The Bar Or Bat Mitzvah

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rom memorable gifts and contemporary keepsakes to irresistible meals, Town Center Plaza and Town Center Crossing have you covered

Sephora: For the trendsetter

Explore the newest addition to Town Center Plaza and enjoy the high-energy atmosphere and excitement!

Let them choose a favorite: • Spritz of Glam Perfume Sampler, $24. Inside this box, you’ll find seven samples of some of Sephora’s most sought-after women’s perfumes.

• The Leading Man Fragrance Sampler, $55. Sephora’s most stylish men’s fragrances, inside this box you’ll find four deluxe samples of Sephora’s most sought-after modern men’s fragrances.

Town Center Plaza | Sephora.com | 913-491-6338

Bose: for the techie

Discover the state-of-the-art store and showroom where you can touch and hear the quality of Bose!

Celebrate with vibrant music accessories: • SoundLink® Color Bluetooth® speaker, $129.95. Make the party mobile with this must-have gift! It plays your favorite tunes from any Bluetooth device — out loud in clear, full audio — just about anywhere you want to go. It’s small, durable, simple to use and it comes in a spectrum of colors to match almost any style.

• SoundTrue™ in-ear headphones, $116.95. Let the birthday boy or girl listen to the party play list in style the next day!

SoundTrue headphones are crafted with well-articulated sound and sophisticated style. StayHear® tips provide a silicone-soft, conforming fit that keeps the headphones in place as you move about your day.

Town Center Plaza | Bose.com | 913-661-7100

The Leading Man Fragrance Sampler from Sephora

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Pottery Barn: for the thoughtful gifter

True keepsakes that will be treasured forever: • The McKenna leather medium jewelry box, $99. Wrapped in embossed bonded leather, the lockable jewelry box has relaxed style and elegance. Choose from a beautiful ivory color or porcelain blue. Monogramming available for an additional charge.

• Rope silver-plated frames, $24-$39. These unique frames will help them treasure the moments of the party for years to come!

They are contoured to look like thick rope in a shiny silver plate; this gift has designer style.

Town Center Plaza | Potterybarn.com | 913-906-0988

Party Planning

Make planning the big event easy with convenient catering from Dean and DeLuca (Town Center Plaza) or meet in the comfortable and fun atmosphere at Houlihan’s (Town Center Plaza). If you’re looking for a more upscale location, go to North (Town Center Crossing) where Italian food is at its best.

Town Center Plaza is located at the northwest corner of 119th and Roe, and Town Center Crossing is at the southeast corner of 119th and Roe in Leawood. For the latest on sales, events, new stores and more, visit TownCenterPlaza.com or find Town Center Plaza and Town Center Crossing on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

SoundLink® Color Bluetooth® speaker from Bose

The McKenna leather medium jewelry box from Pottery Barn

Let the pros at Deer Creek Golf Club help you plan your special event

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hile there’s more involved in planning a special event than just location, finding the right spot is the first step to having a memorable Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebration.

Located in the heart of the Jewish community at 133rd Street and Metcalf Avenue in Overland Park, Deer Creek Golf Club offers a full-service special event venue that is as scenic and beautiful as it is convenient. Densely wooded areas, winding creeks and a championship golf course serve as the backdrop for a wide variety of special events.

Families and guests enjoy the golf course’s photo opportunities in addition to its close proximity to area hotels. TownePlace Suites Marriott is adjacent to Deer Creek’s parking lot, and three other hotels with shuttle service are nearby.

Deer Creek’s event spaces include the Seasons Room (with fireplace) for up to 150 people and the Sunset Room for up to 240 people. Each room has its own dance floor, outdoor patio space and golf-course views. For smaller events and lunches, Deer Creek can accommodate parties in its Lakeview Room and Mulligans Bar and Grill.

Deer Creek Golf Club provides a scenic and beautiful backdrop for special events.

The staff prides itself on being attentive to customers’ needs and providing a welcoming and friendly atmosphere. Deer Creek has a dedicated event coordinator on staff, and Chef Robert Cooper has been preparing delicious food (both buffet-style and plated meals) for seven years.

For more information, contact Nick Shearman, director of sales, at 913-681-1674 or NShearman@eaglegolf.com. You can also visit www.deercreekgc.com or find Deer Creek on Facebook.

Deer Creek makes your wishes come true

A show-stopping panoramic view awaits you in our wonderful Overland Park location. We offer on-site catering, a/v service, plus customized services for all the special events in your life.

Call Nick at 913-681-1674 to make your dreams come true.

7000 West 133rd Street | Overland Park, Ks 66209

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Zachary Ruben Photography & Video captures

life’s greatest moments

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achary Ruben established Zachary Ruben Photography and Video in June 2004 and got his start photographing and videoing Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations in the Kansas City metropolitan area.

Upon graduating from high school, Ruben moved his talents to Cornell University’s School of Hotel Administration in Ithaca, New York, where he was in charge of photography for various facets of the school and student-led conferences. Ruben became an expert in Photoshop and certified in Final Cut Pro (photo and video editing software, respectively).

He recently moved back to Overland Park from the Washington, D.C. area, where he gained experience photographing weddings, corporate events, family portraits, landscapes and more.

If you’ve booked a hotel, you may have seen Ruben’s work on hotel websites like Marriott, Hilton, Starwood and Wyndham. Although Ruben is catering to Kansas City, his Bar and Bat Mitzvah clients on the East Coast are still booking and flying him back out.

Ruben wants to make sure your event is the best it can be.

When you book with him, you will always receive the full rights AND full-resolution photographs with no strings attached. Visit his website at www.ZRuben.com or contact him at 816-591-7198 to learn more.

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The College Basketball Experience

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is a slam dunk for your special event

he College Basketball Experience invites you to tour its venue as you plan for everything from Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations to corporate and private events.

Whether you are looking to accommodate up to 325 people for a seated dinner or hold a social reception for 1,000 people, The CBE is your perfect venue. With a dance floor, VIP lounge and lighted furniture available, The CBE’s world-class lighting and sound create energy and fun that fill the space. To personalize your event and feature the guest of honor, multi-programmable projection and flat-screen systems throughout the venue are fully customizable.

The friendly and professional staff looks forward to working with each client to create a memorable and unique event that leaves all guests with the best possible experience. This is how The CBE is proven to be one of the most highly regarded special event venues in the region. After your visit, you will see The College Basketball Experience and National Collegiate Basketball Hall of Fame is Kansas City’s most versatile state-of-the-art special event venue.

Please contact Celeste at 816-949-7515 to schedule your event or visit www.collegebasketballexperience.com/facility/rental for more information.

The Holiday Inn and Suites-Convention Center wants to help you celebrate your Bar or Bat Mitzvah!

Bring your memories to life with

Village Video Productions

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our child’s wedding and Bar/Bat Mitzvah are once-in-a-lifetime events. Preserve the memory of these celebrations by hiring an experienced videographer to capture the sights and sounds through the magic of video.

Bill Groner has been filming a wide variety of events around Kansas City for more than two decades. He founded his own company, Village Video Productions, in 1997 and has brought people’s memories to life ever since.

“Bill is great about getting customer feedback and making the experience more personal,” said Kelly Groner, Bill’s wife, who helps with the videography. “He really tries to get to know the customer and make sure they get what they want.”

Village Video Productions offers the finest in videography at an affordable price. Groner’s company is focused on providing great customer service while preserving the memory of special events.

“By using Village Video Productions, we don’t let you miss your own event,” Kelly said. “We capture the sights, sounds, mood and feel for you to watch, remember, relax and enjoy.”

The company also offers conversions of VHS and 8 mm cassettes, film and slides to DVD. Call 913-544-1652 or visit www.villagevideoproductions.com.

Village Video Productions

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he Holiday Inn and Suites-Convention Center has everything you need to create a memorable event.

“We can accommodate an intimate gathering of 20 or a festive group of 60,” said Joe Behrman, general manager of the Holiday Inn and Suites-Convention Center. “Our dedicated team of experienced event coordinators can take care of the tiniest details for you. Your out-of-town loved ones will enjoy a comfortable stay in our beautifully renovated guestrooms and suites. They will have access to the hotel’s full-service restaurant and lobby lounge.”

Hotel features also include a stocked suite shop for late night snacks, enclosed swimming pool and expanded fitness center.

These are just a few of the many amenities provided by the hotel.

To book your event at the Holiday Inn and SuitesConvention Center in Overland Park, located at 10920 Nall Ave., call the sales office at 913-312-5991.

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“The Avenue” Lobby Bar/Lounge Pictured to right:

Bar & Bat Mitzvah Videography

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Words of Wisdom

Teens give their best advice prior to ‘the big day’ “Make sure that you practice but most importantly, have fun at your Bar/Bat ” Hannah Cole Congregation Beth Shalom Became a Bat Mitzvah Nov. 8, 2014 Daughter of Karen and Brian Cole

“Do not procrastinate on your studying, get it done. Also do your thank you notes ASAP. Don’t let them pile up, if you do it can become overwhelming.”

Josh Kolkin Kehilath Israel Synagogue Became a Bar Mitzvah on Nov. 9, 2013 Son of Craig and Ida Kolkin

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“Practice at least three times a week and stay calm on the bimah.”

Josh Frumkin Congregation Beth Torah Became a Bar Mitzvah Dec. 13, 2014 Son of Michele and Ilya Frumkin

“The preparation can get extremely hard but it will all be worth it on the big day.”

“Make sure to practice very often and don’t be afraid to ask for help.”

Mckenna Lewis The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah Became a Bat Mitzvah on Dec. 3, 2014 Daughter of Kim and Jay Lewis

Max Pinson The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah Became a Bar Mitzvah on Oct. 25, 2014 Son of Janice Pinson and Jeff Pinson

“You have plenty of time to prepare for your Bar/Bat Mitzvah, take the time and enjoy the experience. It goes way too fast!”

“Don’t be nervous. Everyone makes mistakes, but getting flustered just leads you to make more mistakes.”

Alina Bell Congregation Beth Shalom Became a Bat Mitzvah on March 22, 2014 Daughter of Stacey Bell

Sam Fine Congregation Beth Torah Became a Bar Mitzvah on Nov. 29, 2014 Son of Mike and Jill Fine SPRING 2015

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Find the perfect suit for the big day

Third-generation tailor takes family business into the future by opening in trendy River Market district

By Kris Baker Photos by Ben McCall

J

eff Covitz is not Motel the tailor from Anatevka, but he is proud to be carrying on the age-old family tradition, with a twist of his own.

In fact his grandfather, the late Leo Zemelman, may have looked a lot like Motel, with a tape measure dangling around his neck, holding sewing needles in his mouth and cutting each piece of fabric personally. A Holocaust survivor, Zemelman, who was born in Poland and moved to Kansas City in 1950, owned and operated Leo’s Tailor Shop in Brookside until the late 1990s.

His shop was a gathering place where people from all walks of Kansas City life would congregate and trade stories.

Zemelman trained his son-in-law Rick Covitz to be a tailor, and Rick opened Rick’s Tailoring in Overland Park in 1978. He in turn taught his son Jeff Covitz the secrets of the trade, and Jeff took over his father’s shop when Rick passed away in 2011.

New location, old-fashioned service

Jeff Covitz has continued his family’s business and opened Houndstooth, an upscale men’s clothier in the River Market district of Kansas City, Missouri.

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Sixty-four years after his grandfather opened his shop in Brookside, the 34-year-old Jeff Covitz has taken his knowledge, his experience and his passion for tailoring and clothing and opened Houndstooth, an upscale men’s clothier in the River Market district of Kansas City, Missouri. In this way he’s putting his own spin on the family business.

“We have an old-world feel but with contemporary styles,” Covitz said. “From the days of my grandfather’s store to now, a lot has changed in the fashion industry. We do our research and stay up-to-date with all the new looks. But what hasn’t changed is old-fashioned customer service. And that is still at the heart of what we do.”

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Dressed in designer coat and tie, Covitz represents the look of the contemporary tailor. The contemporary look doesn’t end with the clothes, however. Wood, metal and glass make up the décor of Houndstooth, giving the store a hip, modern feel. Covitz has long wanted to open a store in the downtown Kansas City area, which he believes will again become the center of commerce for the community. When he found the location last summer, it was only a matter of weeks before he was able to make a deal and open up Houndstooth.

He’s had a lifelong relationship with this kind of business, but he didn’t originally dream of it being his life, too.

“When I was 11 years old I would clean out the ashtrays at my father’s store. That was my first job,” Covitz said. “I just started working there more and more, but I didn’t want to be a tailor. I went to college and studied film. I wanted to make movies.”

Being away from home helped reignite his love for the family business. When he opened Houndstooth, he originally planned to run both Rick’s Tailors and the new store simultaneously. This proved to be problematic, and he felt he was not giving either store the attention it needed.

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A decision had to be made and ultimately, sticking with the new won out.

Shuttering his father’s store, Rick’s Tailoring, which closed its doors for the last time on Feb. 22, was emotional for Covitz. However, like a new suit that fits just right, Covitz is comfortable with this decision and his new location.

“Opening the new store has gone well, better than expected,” Covitz said. “It’s a new retail experience. People have found the new location, and we still have many of the same loyal customers coming here.”

A dying art

One thing that has those loyal customers coming back are the custom fittings and alterations Covitz’s team of tailors specializes in, providing a service that Covitz believes can be hard to find in 2015.

“Tailoring is a dying art. We have the one tailor in town that could make you a custom suit,” he said, referencing one of Houndstooth’s tailors. “You might find a few tailors like us in New York. And maybe one in Chicago. But in Kansas City, there is no one in town that does custom clothing like we do.”

Covitz made a point to find young tailors so to have the next generation of fine-garment experts working at his store. One tailor he hired is 26; the other is 39. Custom fittings can be more expensive, Covitz admits, and he believes part of his job is finding affordable solutions as well.

“I love all the custom clothing,” Covitz said.

“But off the rack is good, too. I like to keep prices down for people.”

On Houndstooth’s racks customers can find designer sports coats, ties, watches, pants, shirts and Kansas City’s most extensive collection of Houndstooth suits. Covtiz explains that a Houndstooth suit is “made with a floating canvas construction that will shape to and fit the customer better over time, made of fine Italian or English fabrics, and custom fit to each customer by our inhouse tailors.”

Buying local is also a focus, so there are Kansas City brands next to imported items straight from Italy and Paris. T-shirts with Royals and Chiefs logos don’t seem out of place next to top Italian designers.

Whatever your next big event is, whether it be formal, business or casual, Covitz says he has the right look for the occasion. If you are about to read from the Torah and become a Bar Mitzvah, even the young men of the family are welcome to come in.

“We can do custom alterations for a 13-yearold, but it is not very common,” Covitz said.

“People generally don’t want to pay that much for a suit that they will outgrow in six months. However, dad and older brother can find a new suit here for that occasion, and one that will last them a long time as well.”

Last November Covitz hosted the Jewish Federation Business and Professionals Happy Hour kick-off event at his new store. A member of Kehilath Israel Synagogue, Covitz said he is interested in doing other events with local Jewish organizations in the future.

“Hosting these charitable organizations speaks to our commitment to the community,” Covitz said. “As my grandfather started with his old-world sensibilities, we still believe in a place that gives back. We hope to carry on that legacy.”

Whether clothes make the man, or the man makes the clothes, the man that comes to Houndstooth will have enough options to make up his own mind. To speak with Covitz about what look would best fit you, call 816-216-1425 or visit the shop at 507 Walnut St. in Kansas City, MO. Hours are 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., Tuesdays through Fridays and 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturdays.

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Moments

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