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20 Worth a Thousand Words

Certified art therapists share insights for decoding your child’s artwork

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9 The Pressure to be Perfect

Overcoming perfectionism in parenthood

12 Ask the Experts / Sound Advice

Helping baby—and you—sleep better REAL MOMS

15 Mom Next Door / Anna Lombardi Daigle

A second-generation restauranteur, this mom-of-three juggles family life, running a business and giving back

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’LL NEVER FORGET THE FIRST ARGUMENT my husband and I had as new parents. We hadn’t even left the hospital yet. I couldn’t believe he could do this to me.

The crime?

He fell asleep.

To a deliriously tired new mom who hadn’t slept in days, his shuteye felt unforgivable. Then, as my sleeplessness wore on for weeks, his every snore felt like a betrayal.

It’s no secret that babies aren’t usually the best sleepers, and when they’re awake, they’re a lot of work. And often, much of that work—no matter the hour—falls on mom. But for any new mother struggling to make it through the day or giving their partner the stink eye every night, I’ll let you in on a little secret.

It’s OK to ask for help.

There are many reasons women don’t ask for help in those early days with their little one—and many ways to break that bad habit. In our special Baby section, starting on page 33, you’ll find expert tips for getting the help you need, plus resources for securing support and finding your tribe of like-minded mommies.

From baby to braces, this issue also dives into topics for those parents well beyond in the infant years, and everyone in between. From tips for taming your inner perfectionist (page 9), to decoding the hidden meaning in your children’s artwork (page 20), and our annual guide to Mom-Approved dentists and orthodontists in the DFW area (page 26), you’ll find these pages packed with information to help you through the many phases and facets of parenthood.

And as fall officially settles in, the Playbook, starting on page 59, features plenty of ways to soak in the season before the hustle of holidays arrives (yes, it’s right around the corner!). Embrace autumn’s spooky vibes by taking the kids bat-watching, or make their royal dreams come true with a tour of one of Texas’s reallife castles. Of course, it’s also the season of fairs, festivals and fall celebrations—and we’ve got it all covered.

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Perfectionism can stifle joy in motherhood. Here’s how to overcome it

WORDS KATELIN WALLING

IT’S LIKE YOU’RE TRYING TO WALK THIS TIGHTROPE AT ALL TIMES,” says East Dallas mom of two Lindsay Nordyke, who first realized her perfectionistic tendencies in junior high school. In adulthood—and especially motherhood—she says those unrealistic expectations have become even more apparent.

These days, Nordyke’s biggest struggle with perfectionism as a parent is the sheer number of voices out there telling moms and dads what they should be doing. “It can feel really overwhelming to try to do it all right, all the time,” she says.

Perfectionists do tend to be “overly concerned about doing everything ‘right’,” says Annie Tam, a licensed professional counselor and owner of Mend Counseling in Dallas. They see things as black and white. When things fall into the gray area, perfectionists think they’re failing.

A specific time Nordyke says she fell short of her perfectionistic ideal was breastfeeding. “When my 10-year-old was born, that was at the height of ‘breast

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WHAT CAUSES PERFECTIONISM?

A lot of the time it’s learned behavior, modeled by your own parents. It’s not that your parents expected you to be perfect, it’s that your mom expected herself to be perfect, says Tam. It can also be an innate part of your personality, which can be determined with the Enneagram personality assessment. “I’m a number one on the Enneagram and know very well just what it’s like—to be a perfectionist, to be a mom, to be an entrepreneur—and how that influences how I see things,” Tam says. “I’ve had to work really hard to see the gray, and to not look at things as just black and white.”

Outside influences, like social media or the community around us, can also feed into the need for perfection, says Erin Booher, Ph.D., a counselor with a private practice in Fort Worth. For example, a mom in your parent group announces her child was named Class Leader for the week, and you think, well, now my child needs to be Class Leader.

OVERCOMING PERFECTIONISM

Here are a few things you can do to help shift your perfection-focused mindset: Become aware of your tendencies. As with anything you may struggle with, recognizing perfectionism is the first step in overcoming it. Figure out how these tendencies look and the role they play in your life, Tam suggests.

Talk about it. Whether you’re a new mom or the parent of a high schooler, Tam suggests talking to friends, family, a therapist, or a support group. After all, not talking about something you struggle with causes feelings of guilt or shame, she adds.

“ANYTIME YOU’RE TRYING TO WALK THAT TIGHTROPE, AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE FALLING TO ONE SIDE OR THE OTHER, JUST REALIZE THAT THE ROPE IS WIDER THAN YOU THINK.”

EFFECTS OF PERFECTIONISM

Striving to do everything “right” negatively affects the perfectionist, their partner, and their children. For one, “whenever you’re so worried about doing it all perfectly, it’s hard to be present with your child and to enjoy all of the different stages that your child is going through,” says Tam, who also co-founded A+K Collective, which offers retreats, coaching, and workshops for moms.

Perfectionists also tend to be critical, focus on what’s wrong, and place extra anxiety and pressure on themselves, Tam and Booher say.

But the biggest thing to keep in mind? Children of perfectionists feel like they can never live up to their parents’ expectations, Tam says—even if their parents don’t overtly place expectations of perfectionism on them.

If you have elementary-age kids and older, be open with them about your struggle with perfectionism in an age-appropriate manner. “When they see you struggle, they see that getting to the end is more about the process than the final product,” Booher says, adding that you’re modeling resiliency for your kids. Work on reframing your way of thinking. Rather than think you failed because you ordered take out instead of cooking, for example, focus on the fact that you are providing sustenance for your family. Your best, on any given day, is not the same as someone else’s best, Booher says. Take a look at the language you use. How prevalent is allor-nothing language in your vocabulary? How often do you think in black and white? “Start replacing that or reframe that in a way that is more accepting or more in the gray,” Tam says.

Find ways to manage your anxiety. Parents may feel guilty or anxious for not doing something the “right” way, Tam says. Figure out what works for you to reduce anxiety, whether it’s yoga, meditating, breathing exercises, or going for a walk.

Avoid comparing yourself to others. Easier said than done, right? But as Theodore Roosevelt said, “comparison is the thief of joy.” Use the skill of reframing to become confident in your abilities rather than thinking about how you’re “failing” compared to other moms, Booher suggests.

Give yourself some grace. At the end of the day, it’s impossible to get it all right all of the time. So, “anytime you’re trying to walk that tightrope, and you feel like you’re falling to one side or the other,” Nordyke says, “just realize that the rope is wider than you think it is.”

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No matter our child’s age, the most underutilized tool is sleep environment. Here are the optimal elements for a sleep-conducive environment:

Cool temperature. Have a temperature of 68–72 degrees.

Dark room. Absence of light cues our body for sleep.

Sound machine and colored night lights. Use a sound machine to help replicate the womb and soften outside sounds. If older kids need a night light, or for night feedings for babies, utilize a red or orange night-light or feeding light, as those hues promote melatonin production.

Separate sleep space. Babies should use a firm sleep surface such as a crib or bassinet until they outgrow it; a playard and then a bed can be used for older kids.

Swaddle or sleep sack. A swaddle will soften the startle reflex. Transition to a sleep sack when your baby starts to roll.

No electronics. The blue light from these devices inhibits melatonin production.

For newborns, circadian sleep rhythms are highly immature and focus on sorting out day and night confusion. To help this process, keep the lights on and use a regular tone of voice during your baby’s awake time. When it is sleep time, bring down your voice, lower the lights and keep the house more quiet.

For guidance on when to lay your baby down, utilize age-appropriate wake windows (the period between when they wake until the next nap) in conjunction with sleep cues (such as yawning, staring into space, rubbing eyes). Newborns can handle 45–60 minutes of wake time before getting overtired, something that makes it harder for them to fall asleep and stay asleep longer. So, when your baby gets proper rest during the day, they’ll actually sleep better at night.

As they reach 6–8 weeks, babies can start to follow simple cues, which means it’s time to implement a brief sleep routine. The routine could go something like this: sound machine, light on low, diaper change, swaddle, lights out, rock, and lay baby down drowsy but still aware. You will notice bedtime moving earlier as your child gets closer to 4 months, which is also when circadian sleep rhythms are mature. At that point, or when you and your baby are ready, utilize your chosen sleep-teaching method. The method you choose is completely up to you.

Sleep will change as babies grow and develop. A solid sleep environment, sleep routine and age-appropriate schedule will help you through every stage.

If you have a parenting question that you’d like our experts to answer, message us on Instagram @dfwchildmag or email us at editorial@dfwchild.com

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NAME Anna Lombardi Daigle AGE 46

HAILS FROM Dallas CURRENTLY LIVES IN Lakewood ALMA MATER

University of San Diego

OCCUPATION Owner of Penne Pomodoro

SIBLINGS Sarah, 39; and Laura, 44

HUSBAND Marc

CHILDREN Stella, 12; Ethan, 10; and Andrew, 8

FUN FACT Her first job out of college was working at a car dealership

ANNA LOMBARDI DAIGLE

➽ ABOVE // Anna Lombardi Daigle talks juggling business, motherhood and philanthropy.

But Lombardi Daigle describes meeting husband Marc as fate—and the catalyst for wanting children of her own. One could say the same about her eventually following in her dad’s footsteps, becoming a restauranteur in her own right. Taking

ANNA LOMBARDI DAIGLE AND HER TWO YOUNGER SISTERS grew up in the restaurant business. Their Italian-born father, Alberto, opened his first restaurant, Lombardi’s, in 1977. Today, he owns 18 different eateries and shows no signs of slowing down.

So, it would seem only natural that Lombardi Daigle would grow up and join the family business. But not so fast, Lombardi Daigle says. There was a time when she “refused to go into the restaurant

business”—instead working in the title department at a car dealership after graduating from college.

The mom of three also thought she’d never have children, picturing herself much more as the “fun aunt” type.

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DFWCHILD : HOW DID YOU AND MARC MEET?

ANNA LOMBARDI DAIGLE: After moving back from New York, we were the only single people at a party a mutual friend of ours hosted. Looking back, it might have been a set up. We had so much in common, it felt like kismet. Unfortunately, though, the timing wasn’t right for either one of us.

DFWCHILD : BUT YOU MANAGED TO FIND EACH OTHER AGAIN?

ALD: Yes, we ran into each other eight months later and the rest is history. We’ve been married for 16 years now.

DFWCHILD : YOU’VE MENTIONED THAT YOU NEVER SAW YOURSELF BEING A RESTAURANTEUR. WHAT CHANGED THAT?

ALD: After a year of working at the car dealership, I went to work for my dad, learning about the business and finance side of owning a restaurant which I really enjoyed.

DFWCHILD : BUT INSTEAD OF JOIN ING THE FAMILY BUSINESS, YOU MOVED TO NEW YORK. IS THAT WHERE YOU BECAME MORE PASSIONATE ABOUT THE FOOD INDUSTRY?

ALD: My dad had a connection at Dean and Deluca (a chain of upscale grocery stores), and I started off working there in the cheese department … cutting cheese. I received a promotion fairly quickly that allowed me to work with the other departments, planning out meals and really getting to learn more about the food business.

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DFWCHILD : WORKING WITH FAMILY CAN BRING ABOUT INTERESTING DYNAMICS. HOW DO YOU MAKE IT WORK?

ALD: Working for your father definitely comes with higher expectations than working for someone else. But, overall, he’s been great about stepping back and letting me do things on my own. And my sisters and I are super close, so even if we disagree about something, we’re able to easily let it go.

DFWCHILD : WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR OTHER MOMS TRYING TO BALANCE A DEMANDING CAREER AND MOTHERHOOD?

ALD: It’s impossible to do it all. I tried to do everything and then realized I couldn’t. It truly takes a village. Take turns with other parents on taking kids to their various activities.

Learn to graciously say “no.” It was hard at first, but you’ll be surprised by the respect and understanding people have for that. I try to focus on doing the things that really light me up. If it doesn’t, I don’t do it.

DFWCHILD: WHAT ABOUT BEING A MOM HAS SURPRISED YOU THE MOST?

“IT’S IMPOSSIBLE TO DO IT ALL.”

DFWCHILD : YOUR TIME IN NEW YORK WAS SOMEWHAT SHORT LIVED, WAS THAT BECAUSE OF 9/11?

ALD: Partially. I moved to New York at the end of 1999 and moved back to Texas in 2002. September 11th really put things in perspective as far as the importance of family, and then my dad called and said he could use some help with his restaurants. Tourism had been a major driver in the success of his restaurants and so he needed to reinvent his approach.

DFWCHILD: AND FINALLY YOU WERE INSPIRED TO JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS?

ALD: My dad had opened Penne Pomodoro at Snider Plaza and I really loved the concept. It was so much different than his other restaurants. He perfectly homed in on what was important at the time—an affordable, familyfriendly atmosphere. The food was authentic, the staff was friendly, and it felt similar to the casual, neighborhood bistros in New York.

DFWCHILD : THAT’S WHEN YOU DECIDED TO OPEN A SECOND LOCATION?

ALD: At the time, they were giving out small business loans to women and so I thought, why not apply? The worst they could say is no. And so my dad lent me the money (yes, I did pay him back!) and at age 27, I opened the Penne Pomo-

ALD: I’ve never been a “warm and fuzzy” person so I had no idea what kind of love it would really feel like. It’s the most powerful emotion you can ever experience.

DFWCHILD : WHAT ABOUT PARENTHOOD DO YOU FIND THE MOST CHALLENGING?

ALD: We just want our children to be good human beings. With all the social media out there, children have forgotten how to communicate, look people in the eyes and to be polite and have conversations with people.

DFWCHILD : YOUR FAMILY IS BEING HONORED AT A FUNDRAISING LUNCHEON FOR THE NATIONAL MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS SOCIETY. WHAT IS YOUR CONNECTION TO THE CHARITY?

ALD: Growing up, my mom was very involved with the Yellow Rose Gala, a well-known MS fundraiser. I remember helping her stuff envelopes and do other administrative things as a child. I had no idea of the personal connection, I just thought we were being charitable.

DFWCHILD : YOU DIDN’T LEARN ABOUT YOUR MOTHER’S MS DIAGNOSIS UNTIL YOU WERE A TEENAGER?

ALD: That’s right. She was diagnosed in 1984 but because her diagnosis was the progressive form, she wasn’t showing many signs yet.

DFWCHILD : I UNDERSTAND YOU WERE RESPONSIBLE FOR FOUNDING THE FUNDRAISER?

ALD: I helped co-found the luncheon with Carla Rosenberg 15 years ago. It’s a very special honor to see how our family’s involvement has come full circle.

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This summer, we’re taking a bucket list family trip. We’re taking the kids to Europe to show them their roots. We’ll do both London, where my mom is from, and then Italy where my dad is from. As for me, I don’t know why but Vancouver and Montreal both really intrigue me.

How your child’s drawings can offer a peek inside their world

long with leftover snacks and the random twig or rock picked up at recess, there was always a constant in my son’s backpack when he returned home from preschool. Each afternoon as I unloaded the lunchbox and tidied up the cracker crumbs, I would find a crumpled piece of paper with a hand-drawn family portrait—mom, dad, Max, and his little brother Owen.

Max was 4 when he started preschool last year, and the transition was tough. He had never been to daycare and spent most of his time at home with me, so the separation hit him hard. Every morning as he hung his coat in his cubby, he would tearfully tell the teacher how much he missed his family.

“Why don’t you draw a picture of them?” his teacher would suggest, offering the exercise as both a catharsis and a distraction. And so, every day he would create a new portrait of our family of four. Over time, I noticed his drawings changed. At first the pictures were monotone and drab, but as the weeks went on his artwork

WORDS AMANDA COLLINS BERNIER

evolved. Eventually he added more color, then rainbows, hearts, a house, our pets, and more. Did the change in his doodles signal a shift in his feelings?

“Probably,” says Andrea Davis, a board certified art therapist and founder and CEO of Dallas Art Therapy. “Each time a person does art, it’s a snapshot of that moment in time.”

Artwork can be an outlet for communication. Sure, sometimes drawings are just drawings, but other times, a child’s art can be a peek into what they are thinking or feeling.

“Art, and for young children in particular, drawing, is how they make sense of the world around them,” explains Jashley Boatwright, a board certified art therapist at The Art Station in Fort Worth. “It offers insight into their world, thought process, and feelings.”

I asked the experts to look at my son’s drawings, as well as examples of other children’s art, to share what they noticed and reveal what you, as a parent, can glean from your own kiddo’s compositions.

The first thing Davis noticed about Max’s early preschool drawing, above, is that he has no arms. While this could mean he was in a hurry or distracted, she says it is sometimes interpreted as feeling “a lack of choice” or helplessness. In the later picture, on the right, she notes that everyone has arms. “That’s improvement and empowerment,” she says.

Boatwright remarked how much more detail-oriented his drawing became. “The noses have changed and the ears are more visible. Noticing those little details, I’d ask the child, ‘what does that mean to you?’”

“I think he’s identifying with dad,” Davis says of the later picture, noting that he drew both himself and his father with the same mismatched eyes and feet. “He’s saying, ‘I am like you; I am of you.”

Around age 6 or 7, most children begin to draw people, animals or objects on a baseline or groundline, Davis explains. This drawing, by a 6-year-old boy, “looks pretty normal,” she says, pointing out the tree, person and house on the groundline. “If there is a groundline but things are still floating in the air, I like to explore that,” Davis says. “When things don’t feel secure, I think it can sometimes show in this way—not grounded, in limbo.”

These family portraits by 9-year-old twin girls illustrate how each sees their family and their place in it. On the left, the artist drew her family coloring pictures of their interests together. “As a family, they do things together, and they are pretty dynamic,” Davis interprets.

On the right, the artist drew her family sitting on the couch. Her little brother is crying, clinging to his mother, whose thought bubble is a scribble.

Davis noticed a few hints of sibling rivalry. In the first picture, the artist drew herself, second from the right, with a rainbow dress, while she left her twin sister’s dress uncolored. Her little brother is on the floor; the only one without an easel. In the second picture, the artist drew the twins the same size as their baby brother.

This drawing by a 10-year-old girl shows a child sitting on a swing on an island. There are clouds and a flower without a bloom. “This really speaks for itself,” says Davis. “Loneliness can be a hard emotion for a 10-year-old to express, but boy can they with their art.” Davis says she would use this drawing as a springboard to open up a conversation with the child about her needs and find support.

A 6-year-old boy drew this family portrait, above right. He and his mom (with the Sshaped legs) are sitting on the floor playing Connect 4, and the rest of the family is standing around watching. “This really shows where he’s at,” Davis says. “He’s really bonded to his mom and wants her all to himself.”

Are you looking for meaning in your child’s drawings or ways to connect with them through their art? Here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Pay attention to patterns or changes. Look at the drawings over time; does something show up over and over again? Or, is there a sudden change in what or how your child draws? “Be mindful of patterns, looking for repetitions and asking open-ended questions,” says Boatwright. “Then, listen. We tend to want to get to the answer quickly, but patience cannot be overemphasized.”

• Don’t project your own ideas. Boatwright remembers a time when she told a child how much she loved the cat he drew. The child went on to tell his friends all about the cat, but when Boatwright looked back on what he wrote about the illustration, he said he drew a dog. “We forget the influence adults can have,” she says. “Instead of guessing, ask ‘what does this mean? What did you draw here?’”

DECODING YOUR CHILD’S ARTWORK

Art therapists like Boatwright and Davis are trained in interpreting artwork, and while research tells us that doodles do, in fact, tell a story, not every artistic endeavor needs to be— or can be—analyzed.

“A lot of times when people approach art therapy they say, ‘can you look at my art and tell me things I don’t know?’” says Davis. “They tend to think it can be magically interpreted, but that’s not the case. It’s more that it opens the door for questions to be asked and things to be talked about.”

• Be aware of troubling artwork. Not everything you think of as worrisome actually is—children use art to make sense of things they see and experience, and sometimes are just processing through artwork. Still, the experts say violence, guns, images of being captured, drawings that seem sexual in nature, heavy coloring in the genital area, or drawing body parts that they never had before warrant looking into. “It would be important to understand the context,” says Boatwright. “Ask what it means.”

• Use art to help kids open up. Have a child associate a different color to feeling happy, sad, mad and scared. Once they have assigned a color to each feeling, draw a big circle on a piece of paper and fill it in with the chosen colors. Hang it on the wall to allow the child to point to the color they feel in different circumstances. “From there, you can say, ‘let’s draw a picture of what that looks like,’” says Davis. “This helps children develop a healthy emotional language and connect that those feelings are real.”

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WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH

“NOPE, NO CAVITIES TODAY!” Hearing this good news from your child’s dentist can feel like a major achievement. A miracle, even. But it’s in between those office visits where the real magic happens. To learn which daily, at-home habits are most essential, we reviewed a few basics in pediatric dental hygiene, as recommended by the American Dental Association (ADA), and found some myth-busting reasons why early dental care sets up your child for a happy and healthy future.

BEGIN ORAL CARE AT BIRTH

Did you know your child’s oral hygiene routine can begin before they even start teething? During the first few days after birth, the ADA recommends cleaning your infant’s mouth by gently wiping their gums after each feeding. You can do this with a washcloth or a gauze pad that’s clean and moist This helps remove plaque that can harm erupting teeth—and those baby teeth matter.

“Nature’s braces,” as they’re sometimes called, hold the spots in the jaws for the permanent teeth growing underneath, and those permanent teeth can drift if a baby tooth is lost too early. Years down the line, this can lead to crooked or crowded teeth. Baby teeth are essential for helping a child chew and speak and even smile—and we live for those baby smiles.

FINISH BOTTLES BEFORE BEDTIME

To help prevent what’s called baby bottle tooth decay, the ADA recommends never putting your

baby to bed with a bottle in their mouth. Otherwise, their teeth will be bathed in sugary liquids— milk, formula, fruit juice—for a prolonged time period.

That potential tooth decay most often appears in the upper front teeth but could be any teeth, and if severe decay develops, it’s possible their baby teeth cannot be saved and will need to be extracted by a dentist.

SCHEDULE THAT FIRST DENTAL VISIT

Don’t wait to plan for a first appointment with your dentist. But when’s the right time? The sweet spot for a “well-baby checkup” is within six months after your child’s first tooth appears but before they turn 1 year old. Why so early? Because with teeth comes the potential for cavities.

A dentist will examine your child’s jaw and teeth for development and offer their expert, personalized advice on the best oral care, pacifier use, teething and how to brush your child’s teeth.

whatever works for them. A sure way to get your kid excited is letting them pick out their own toothbrush and toothpaste.

The ADA says that manual or powered toothbrushes can be used effectively. Electric brushes for 3 and older are often equipped with a 2-minute timer with 30-second pulses so you can be prompted to start and stop when the time’s up. (Beware of heavily marketed mouthpiece toothbrushes, which have not been endorsed by the ADA or widely tested to show their effectiveness.)

START FLOSSING WHEN THE TEETH TOUCH

As soon as your child has two teeth that can touch, it’s time to begin flossing to help remove food particles and plaque from between the teeth and under the gum line. Floss before or after brushing— the ADA says it doesn’t matter when so much as that it does happen, ideally, once daily.

START BRUSHING WITH TOOTHPASTE

Again, this milestone begins after that first tooth comes through the gums, and using toothpaste with fluoride is key. This mineral, called “nature’s cavity fighter,” has been shown to reduce cavities by 25% and repair weakened enamel. (The ADA also recommends drinking water with fluoride.)

The amount of toothpaste you’ll need to use depends upon your child’s age—and it doesn’t take much. For children 3 years and older, you only need a peasized amount. For under 3, it’s a smear the size of a single grain of rice.

BRUSH TWICE DAILY FOR TWO MINUTES

For this, you’ll need to supervise your child’s brushing at least until age 6 or brush for them.

But brushing morning and night, for two minutes each, or as directed by your dentist, is no small feat.

And so how do you supervise? Lead by example and brush your teeth at the same time, too. Crank up the music for a two-minute dance party while brushing or reward their good behavior with a sticker chart—

Traditional string floss can be difficult for kids (and adults, too!) to wrangle, so try plastic flossers or floss picks. These are singleuse items, and so must be thrown away after use each day. And if your gums bleed regularly while flossing, tell your dentist.

USE MOUTHWASH FOR AGE 6 & UP

While not intended to replace brushing and flossing, this additional step in your daily routine can help bring peace of mind that every crevice in their mouth is reached. Kids need to be able to swish and spit, so if your child tends to swallow toothpaste, wait a while longer to introduce mouthwash.

All ADA-Accepted mouthwashes for children are alcoholfree. If your child finds mint too intense, try experimenting with bubble gum or other fruity flavors. Be sure not to eat or drink for 30 minutes after rinsing.

To learn what readers wrote about our Mom-Approved health care providers, visit our online directory at dfwchild.com /momapproved. You’ll also find an interactive map showing which providers are closest to you.

BIOLOGICAL/ HOLISTIC DENTISTRY

ALLEN

Baranovitch, Svetlana DDS, SMART-certified

Bio Dental

DALLAS

Davies, Jeff DDS

Dallas Designer Smiles

FAMILY DENTISTRY

ARLINGTON

Gundarpi Thippareddy, Sindhura DDS

Arlington Dental Clinic

Thomas, Steven DDS

Steven W. Thomas DDS

COLLEYVILLE

Calabria, Patricia DDS

Gateway Dental

Limosnero, Roland DDS

Heritage Family Dentist

Porter, Jo Lynn DDS

Colleyville Dental Care

Thorne, Jennifer DDS

Liberty Family Dentistry

DALLAS

Enoksen, Sigurd DDS Lovers Smile Dental

Vanderbrook, Drew DDS

Vanderbrook Family Dentistry

FORNEY

Danahy, Emily DDS

LM Family Dentistry

DENTISTS Mom Approved 2022

FORT WORTH

Cain, Sara DDS

Lake Country Dental

Stevens, Brooks DDS

Dr. Brooks Stevens General Dentistry

GARLAND

Bounds, John DDS

Musso Family Dentistry

IRVING

Basta, Melody DDS

Ideal Dental Las Colinas

KELLER

Angwin, Kristen DDS

Just for Grins Family Dentistry & Orthodontics

Corley, Jay DDS

Blue Stone Dental

Dyer, T. Paul DDS North Tarrant Family Dentistry

Gray, Tamara DDS Gray Family Dental

LEWISVILLE

Henderson, Kenneth DDS

Monarch Dental & Orthodontics

MANSFIELD

Lamun, Christine DMD

Ivy Rose Dentistry

MIDLOTHIAN

Ellis, Jerry R. DDS, PC

Dr. Jerry R. Ellis

MURPHY

Glazer, Brittaney DDS

Glazer Family Dentistry

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Jain, Anshu DDS, FAGD Smiles at Murphy

PROSPER

Patel, Vimal DDS

Prosper Smiles Family Dentistry

RICHARDSON

Bunch, Marcie DDS

West Shore Family Dental

Morgan, Lily DDS

Ellem Dental

ROWLETT

Chan, Derek DMD

Sweet Family Dentistry

WYLIE

Eggart, Emily DDS

Maxwell Creek Family Dentistry

ORAL & MAXILLOFACIAL SURGERY

DALLAS

Schlieve, Thomas DDS, MD, FACS UT Southwestern Medical Center, Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery

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ORTHODONTICS

ALLEN

Jones, Tamara DDS, MSD

Allen Orthodontics

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Lofgren, Trent DDS

Creekview Orthodontics

COPPELL

Henao, Anabella DDS

Bliss Orthodontics

Spruiell, Brittany DDS, MS

Bailey Orthodontics

FLOWER MOUND

Spruiell, Brittany DDS, MS

Bailey Orthodontics

FORT WORTH

Patel, Anthony DMD, MS

Anthony Patel Orthodontics

Sorokolit, Christopher DDS, MS

Sorokolit OrthodonticsBraces with Heart

FRISCO

Wise, John DDS

Wise-Lee Orthodontics

GARLAND

Musso, Mark DDS

Musso Family Dentistry

HASLET

Patel, Anthony DMD, MS Anthony Patel Orthodontics

KELLER

Giordano, Elisa DMD

Just for Grins Family Dentistry & Orthodontics

Patel, Anthony DMD, MS Anthony Patel Orthodontics

MCKINNEY

Lofgren, Trent DDS

McKinney Orthodontics

Wise, John DDS Wise-Lee Orthodontics

NORTH RICHLAND HILLS

Delgado, Michael DDS, MS

Delgado Orthodontics

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PLANO

Jones, Tamara DDS, MSD

Willow Bend Orthodontics

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RICHARDSON

Jones, Tamara DDS, MSD

Richardson Orthodontics

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PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY

ALLEN

Kamali, Elizabeth DDS

Jupiter Kids Dentistry & Orthodontics

ARLINGTON

Hamilton, Randy DMD

iKids Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

Ketchel, Jennifer P. DDS, MS

Arlington Pediatric Dentistry

AUBREY

Lee, Karrie DMD Windhaven Pediatric Dentistry

BURLESON

Michael, Alvin DDS

Burleson Pediatric Dentistry

CARROLLTON

Holt, Jeffrey DDS, MS Kids Dental

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Goodall, E. Blair DDS

Children’s Dental Specialists

Hutcheson, Candice DDS, MS

Children’s Dental Specialists

Train, Terri E. DDS, MS

Children’s Dental Specialists

CEDAR HILL

Hamilton, Randy DMD

iKids Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

Clark, Shelly DDS

Shelly K. Clark, DDS Dentistry for Children

COLLEYVILLE

Ta, Tuong DDS

Pediatric Dentistry of Colleyville

COPPELL

Louca, Sonia DDS

Coppell Dentistry for Kids

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Rozas, Melissa DDS

Melissa Rozas DDS & Associates of Coppell

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DALLAS

Bushey, Nicholas DMD

Children’s Dental & Orthodontics

Colter, J. Diane DDS

All About Kids Dentistry

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Dad, Neema DDS

myKIDSdds

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Dragan, Sabrina DMD

Plunk & Dragan Smiles

Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

See ad on page 32

Goodall, E. Blair DDS

Office of Dr. Sandra M. Petrocchi & Dr. Luis M. Arango

Iwase, Rei DDS

Children’s Dentistry of North Dallas

Kogut, Mark DDS, MSD myKIDSdds

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Marr, Karina DDS

Pediatric Dental Care of Casa Linda

Shanadi, Arvind DMD

Smile Safari Pediatric Dentistry

Tujios, Aleco DDS, MS

Woodhill Dental Specialties

Villaseñor, Alejandra DDS, MS

myKIDSdds

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FLOWER MOUND

Duffy, Debra DDS, PA

Debra C. Duffy DDS, PA

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Whittington, Patrick DDS, MS

Whittington Pediatric Dentistry

FORT WORTH

Barnett, John DDS Kids Stop Dental

Beville III, R. Nelson DDS Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry

Brazeal, Jerod DDS

Legacy Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry

Hamilton, Randy DMD iKids Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

Jamison, Andrew DDS Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry

McAnthony, Bridget DDS

Bridget McAnthony, DDS

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Morrow, Jack DDS, MSD Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry

Patel, Sheela DDS Cook Children’s Neighborhood Clinic

Renaissance

Risner, Jonathan DMD Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry

Warcup, Justin DDS North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

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Wilson, Raven DDS

Kids Stop Dental

FRISCO

Catmull, Jeremy DMD

My Kid’s Dentist & Orthodontics

Davis, Mila DDS

Healthy Smiles Children’s Dentistry

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Lalani, Zarmin DDS, MS

Discovery Kids Pediatric Dentistry

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Rubin, Paul DDS

Frisco Kid’s Dentistry

Sentelle, David DMD, PhD, MPH Frisco Kid’s Dentistry

GARLAND

Bayat, Ali DMD

Pediatric Pro Children’s Dentistry & Orthodontics

Ehsani, Sara DDS

Pediatric Pro Children’s Dentistry & Orthodontics

GRAND PRAIRIE

Anwah, Joseph DDS, MS

The Kid’s Dentist

Velasquez, Lina DDS

The Kid’s Dentist

HURST

Lin, Jin DMD

Hurst Pediatric Dentistry

IRVING

Curtis, Ben DDS

Children’s Dental Centre of Irving

Jackson, Ratrice DDS, MHS

Texas Tiny Teeth Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

Michael, Alvin DDS

Children’s Dental Centre of Irving

SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION

JUSTIN

Duffy, Debra DDS, PA

Duffy Dental Ranch

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KELLER

Hoffman, Jeffrey DDS

Just For Kids Dentistry for Children & Teenagers

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Johnson, Jacob DDS

Pediatric Dentistry of Keller

LEWISVILLE

Michael, Alvin DDS

Lewisville Kids Dentistry

MANSFIELD

Hamilton, Randy DMD

iKids Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

MCKINNEY

Chan, Justin DDS

Sprout Dentistry for Kids

John, Liny DDS

Just for Kids Dentistry

Yoo, Sage DMD

Sprout Dentistry for Kids

MESQUITE

Lee, Yosuk DMD

Texas Dentistry & Braces

MIDLOTHIAN

Clark, Shelly DDS

Shelly K. Clark, DDS Dentistry for Children

PLANO

Holt, Jeffrey DDS, MS Kids Dental

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Judd, Catherine DDS

Catherine Judd, DDS

Smith, Nathifa DDS

Teeth R’ Us Children’s Dentistry

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Mila Davis, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

8x Mom Approved

RICHARDSON

Goodall, E. Blair DDS

Children’s Dental Specialists

Hutcheson, Candice DDS, MS

Children’s Dental Specialists

Train, Terri E. DDS, MS Children’s Dental Specialists

ROCKWALL

Morgan, Benjamin DDS, MS

Rockwall Pediatric Dentistry

Tujios, Aleco DDS, MS Woodhill Dental Specialties

ROWLETT

Pollock, Tera DDS

Rowlett Dental Kids

SOUTHLAKE

Armstrong, Sandra DDS

Giggles & Grins

Capeci, Alexis DDS, MS

Giggles & Grins

WAXAHACHIE

Aliefendic, Armin DDS

Just for Kids Dental

Hamilton, Randy DMD

iKids Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

To see all our Mom Approved health providers, visit our newly revamped online directory at dfwchild.com/momapproved You’ll find an interactive map showing which providers are closest to you as well as comments from the local parents who nominated them.

Dr. Mila Davis is a cum laude graduate of Princeton University. She received her D.D.S. from Columbia School of Dental Medicine in New York City, with specialty training at New York Presbyterian Hospital, Columbia University receiving Certification in Pediatric Dentistry. She was an Assistant Professor for Clinical Dentistry at Columbia University. In Dallas, Dr. Davis taught part time at Baylor College of Dentistry. After rigorous clinical and written examination, she was awarded Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.

Dr. Davis has hospital privileges at Children’s Medical Center. She was co-chair of the North Texas Give Kids a Smile Program where dental members volunteer to screen underserved children 5–12 years old for dental decay. Dr. Davis is certified in basic life support and pediatric advanced life support. She is a member of the American Dental Association, American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society.

Healthy Smiles Children’s Dentistry 12398 FM 423, Ste. 1900 Frisco, TX 75033 214-436-4774 healthychildrenssmiles.com

Alejandra “Alex” Villaseñor, DDS, MS

Neema Dad, DDS

Mark Kogut, DDS, MSD

Pediatric Dentistry

8x Mom Approved

At myKIDSdds, our goal is to be the premier pediatric dental and orthodontic provider in Dallas, Texas. When you visit our practice, you can expect your child to receive the highest quality dental care in an award winning office. Our team is dedicated to showing your kiddo just how much fun dentistry can be!

8325 Walnut Hill Lane, Suite 111, Dallas, TX 75231

Pediatric Dentistry: 469-315-9112

Orthodontics: 214-696-3085 mykidsdds.com

Pictured, left to right: Dr. Mark Kogut, Dr. Glenn Cohen, Dr. Alejandra “Alex” Villaseñor and Dr. Neema Dad.

J. Diane Colter, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

10x Mom Approved

Dr. Diane Colter’s passion to be the most caring and compassionate pediatric dentist led her to open All About Kids Dentistry, which specializes in treating infants, children, teens and kids with special needs. She loves working with children and has a very caring and compassionate personality. It is of utmost importance to provide outstanding care along with an inviting atmosphere where both the parent and child will have a positive experience.

Dr. Colter grew up in Athens, Texas. She completed her degree from Baylor College of Dentistry, where she graduated in the top of her class. She completed a Residency in Pediatric Dentistry at the University of California Medical Center in Los Angeles, serving as chief resident.

Dr. Colter is a board-certified pediatric dentist recognized as a Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. She also holds a staff appointment at Children’s Medical Center. Dr. Colter is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, Texas Dental Association and Dallas County Dental Society. Dr. Colter has also been recognized many times by her fellow dental professionals as a top pediatric dentist in the area as published in D Magazine D Best and Texas Monthly’s Super Dentists

Away from the office, Dr. Colter enjoys spending time with her husband, Dr. Shandon Colter, their beautiful children, Sydney and Landon. Dr. Colter also enjoys traveling, and time spent with friends and family.

All About Kids Dentistry

12300 Inwood Rd., Ste. 110, Dallas, TX 75244 972-233-4439

allaboutkidsdentist.com

Jeffrey D. Holt, DDS, MS

Pediatric Dentistry

10x Mom Approved

A board certified specialist in Pediatric and Adolescent Dentistry, Jeffrey Holt is the founder of KidsDental, a favorite of both kids and parents alike in the Dallas area. Dr. Holt has strategically changed the way children experience dentistry by providing positive and exciting atmospheres custom designed with children’s needs in mind. Kid-friendly diversions like SuperSlide PlayScapes, video games, trendy music, cool light shows, and inviting colorful dental chairs equipped with movies help keep each visit fun! With an emphasis on early childhood intervention, cosmetic restorative Pediatric Dentistry, and Orthodontics, Dr. Holt and his expert team focus on specialized and preventive dentistry during the growth and development years. A commitment to the highest level of quality care assures a healthy smile for life.

Education: DDS, University of Oklahoma College of Dentistry; Post-Doctoral MS, Baylor University; Certificate of Pediatric Dentistry, Baylor College of Dentistry; Specialty Residency Programs, Children’s Medical Center of Dallas and Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children

Affiliations: American Board of Pediatric Dentistry; American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; American Dental Association; Texas Dental Association; Dallas County Dental Society; Greater Dallas Society of Pediatric Dentists; former Clinical Director and Professor, Baylor College of Dentistry and Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children.

Board Certified: Diplomate, American Board of Pediatric Dentistry

KidsDental

Plano: North Dallas Tollway @ Parker • 972-378-5437

Carrollton: Hebron @ Josey • 972-394-2140 kidsdentalonline.com

Bridget McAnthony, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

7x Mom Approved

Dr. Bridget McAnthony and her awesome team have been providing dental care for children in Tarrant County for over 30 years. We pride ourselves on maintaining a consistent staff so that children can recognize the same friendly faces. Our private office is the epitome of a small boutique experience where we create a personal, customized dental adventure from infancy into young adulthood. Our goal is to provide a relaxed environment that you and your children will love and be excited to visit again and again. Because of our highly trained and compassionate team we are certain we excel in all aspects of pediatric dentistry!

Dr. McAnthony is a native of Fort Worth, TX. She graduated from Paschal High School and received her BA degree from Texas Christian University. Dr. McAnthony affectionately goes by “Dr. Mac” because it is short and easy to pronounce for her young patients! She obtained her dental degree and certificate in pediatric dentistry from Texas A&M College of Dentistry, which included clinical pediatric specialty training at Children’s Medical Center and Texas Scottish Rite Hospital. Dr. Mac is a board certified pediatric dentist and has memberships with the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and American Dental Association. She provides IV sedation in office and has operating privileges at an outpatient facility.

We can’t wait to welcome your family to our family!

Bridget McAnthony Pediatric Dentistry

8429 Park Vista Blvd., Fort Worth, TX 76137 817-788-9500 • F:817-520-1556

mcpediatricdentistry@gmail.com mcpediatricdentistry.com

Melissa Rozas, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

10x Mom Approved

Dr. Melissa Rozas, a mom herself, knows the importance of making children feel comfortable, safe, and confident in the dental office. She is passionate about creating a positive experience that is not only educational but also, informative and fun! “Clear communication, trust, and setting goals with parents and their children is our mission, and we mix in a ton of fun as well!”

Our pediatric dentists and team love seeing patients as infants or by age 1 year. “Seeing babies early in life allows us the ability to teach parents the best way to take care of their child’s mouth and teeth. In addition, we can evaluate for potential problems such as tongue posture, tongue and lip-ties, speech problems and feeding issues.” She says, “there is new research showing how early diagnosis and treatment with many of these problems, is key to giving children the ability to grow to their full potential and thrive at home and school.”

Dr. Melissa Rozas is board certified by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry and she is a Fellow in the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry. She is an active member of the American Dental Association, Texas Dental Association, The Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society, the Academy Laser Study Club, and the International Affiliation of Tongue-Tie Professionals.

Melissa Rozas, DDS

Dentistry for Infants, Children & Teens, PA 632 E. Sandy Lake Rd., Coppell, TX, 75019 972-393-9779 • info@rozasdds.com rozasdds.com

Nathifa Smith, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

5x Mom Approved

Dr. Smith is a board certified pediatric dentist by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry and is honored to be a DFW Mom-approved dentist for another year. She understands that building trust with the parents is very important in pediatric dental care because parents are nurturers; therefore she ensures that all dental decisions for your child are made in a doctor-family network which encourages parents to ask questions regarding their child’s dental care. At Teeth R’ Us we have a phenomenal child friendly environment with TV’s mounted above each treatment chair, Netflix, video games and a selection of educational toys and books in the lobby to put your child’s mind at ease. Dr. Smith specializes in cosmetic pediatric dentistry and provides dental services for small children, adolescents, teens and children with special needs. If dental sedation is necessary for treatment we offer oral inhalation, IV sedation for patients in office and general anesthesia at Children’s Hospital. Dr. Smith looks forward to making your children smile.

Education: Bachelor of Science Biology, Florida State University, DDS, University of Iowa College of Dentistry; Post-Doctoral Certificate of Pediatric Dentistry, Howard College of Dentistry; Specialty Residency Programs, Hospital for Sick Children in Washington, DC

Affiliations: American Board of Pediatric Dentistry; American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry; American Dental Association; Texas Dental Association; North Texas Dental Association

Teeth R’ Us Children’s Dentistry

4865 Hedgcoxe Rd., Ste. 100, Plano, TX 75024 972-820-2022 • f 972-820-2024 teethruschildrensdentistry.com

Justin Warcup, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

7x Mom Approved

Justin Warcup, DDS, is the owner of North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics. Dr. Warcup earned a doctor of dental surgery (DDS) degree at Ohio State University (OSU), where he also was on the dean’s list, served as president of the OSU Dental Entrepreneur Society, and co-founded OSU’s La Clinica Latina to provide dental care to an underserved community.

Dr. Warcup is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Academy of Laser Dentistry, Texas Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and Fort Worth District Dental Society.

Dr. Warcup and his wife have four children. When he is not in the office helping patients or at home enjoying his family, Dr. Warcup serves in leadership capacities with youth groups in the community—where he coaches sports teams, leads scouting groups.

“At North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics, every member of The Smile Team aims to help our patients enjoy their trips to the dentist so much that they look forward to the next visit! We recognize that each patient is special and invaluable, and we celebrate them. I consider it both an honor and a privilege to provide Fort Worth’s youth the highest quality dental care in the best possible environment,” says Dr. Warcup. “I love what I do, and I truly believe I have the greatest job on this earth.”

North Texas Smiles

Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics 3550-C Hulen St., Fort Worth, TX 76107 817-732-9341 • northtexassmiles.com

Sabrina Dragan, DMD Pediatric Dentistry

All children deserve to have healthy smiles for life! At Plunk & Dragan Smiles, we strive to create a safe (and fun!) first dental experience for every patient. Dr. Dragan’s passion for kids and a conservative approach to dentistry are the foundation of her patient care philosophy. “I believe creating both educational and interactive dental experiences from day one is the key to our success,” Dr. Dragan says. “When both my patients and their parents leave happy, I know we’ve achieved our goals. We have a fantastic team with many years of experience that makes going to the dentist fun!”

Plunk & Dragan Smiles

1151 N. Buckner Blvd., Suite 402 Dallas, TX 75218

214-324-KIDS • plunksmiles.com

Debra Duffy, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

10x Mom Approved

Dr. Debra Duffy loves helping kids love dentistry. She was the first pediatric dentist in Flower Mound, starting her practice in 1994. Dr. Duffy grew up in Colleyville, attended SMU, and then received her Doctor of Dental Surgery from UTHealth San Antonio. Her passion for treating children continued as she completed her 2-year residency at the Children’s Hospital Medical Center of Cincinnati, Ohio. Dr. Duffy is also a diplomat in the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.

Dr. Chelsea Wehr, a graduate of UNT and UTHealth Houston, joined the team 14 months ago. While in Houston, Dr. Wehr also received further training in pediatric dentistry with a 2-year residency where she served as Chief Resident.

Debra C. Duffy, DDS, PA 2701 Old Settlers Rd., Flower Mound, TX 75022 • 972-724-1617 debraduffydds.com

Duffy Dental Ranch

100 Hardeman Blvd., Justin, TX 76247 • 940-278-0909 duffydentalranch.com

Jeffrey A. Hoffman, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

9x Mom Approved

Dr. Hoffman has been providing gentle and compassionate pediatric dental care to the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex since graduating from the Baylor College of Dentistry in 1981. With more than 40 years of service, it’s no wonder that his welcoming staff, averaging 25 years of service, is a quality reflection of his standards, showcasing the best in hospitality and customer service. Dr. Hoffman, a father of four and grandfather of three, has a simple philosophy — to treat each and every patient as if they were his own child. His calming nature is especially beneficial to children with special needs. His trusty “comfort” dog, Olive has helped many youngsters. Olive has an important job sitting in our patient’s laps during dental treatment, and she helps them feel just a bit more comfortable! “Parents and children appreciate seeing the same faces,” he said. “It is very gratifying to now be treating many of my former patients’ own children.”

Just for Kids Dentistry

601 S. Main Street, Suite 220, Keller, TX 76248 817-741-8390 • justforkidsdentistry.com

Michael J. Delgado, DDS, MS Orthodontics

10x Mom Approved

Dr. Michael Delgado believes that healthy, improved smiles can inspire confidence and change lives. His dedication and passion for orthodontics leads to personalized care and successful results for children and adults. Dr. Delgado grew up in the DFW area and has created beautiful smiles here for 15+ years. His favorite part of being an Orthodontist is that exciting moment when a patient sees their new smile for the first time.

Delgado Orthodontics

9293 Huntington Square, North Richland Hills, TX 76182 817-282-1821 • delgadoorthodontics.com

Brittaney L. Glazer, DDS

Family Dentistry

5x Mom Approved

“One Doctor. One Office. Your Whole Family” is our motto and we mean it! Dr. Brittaney Glazer is the only dentist you’ll see at Glazer Family Dentistry and we believe that makes all the difference. Her team provides specialized personal care that you cannot always find at a larger dental practice.

In 2018, 2019, 2020, 2021 and 2022 we were voted “Best Dentist” by the Murphy Monitor, and a 2019, 2020, 2021 and 2022 “Neighborhood Favorite” by Nextdoor.com. Read our reviews and come meet us!

Glazer Family Dentistry

119 North Murphy Road, Ste. 500 Murphy, TX 75094

214-774-9906

GlazerFamilyDentistry.com

Instagram and Facebook: @GlazerFamilyDentistry

Tamara L. Jones, DDS, MSD

Orthodontics

7x Mom Approved

As a native Dallasite and SMU graduate, Dr. Tamara L. Jones is passionate about serving the greater DFW area as a top provider. She is board certified, a Top 1% Diamond Plus Invisalign Provider, and consistently featured on multiple “Best” lists annually for both children and adults. Along with her wonderful team across three locations, Dr. Jones is focused on patient care and believes in creating a positive experience with prompt appointments, smiling faces and pristine facilities.

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Zarmin Lalani, DDS, MS

Pediatric Dentistry

7x Mom Approved

Dr. Zarmin Lalani and staff are passionate about providing highest quality dental care in a fun, friendly and compassionate environment. Creating a strong foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles begins with positive experiences! Dr. Lalani is board certified, a fellow of the AAPD, and a diplomate of the ABPD. She holds her DDS, Masters, and her Pediatric Specialty Residency certificate from Baylor College of Dentistry. She feels blessed to be able to bring beautiful smiles to kids every day!

Discovery Kids Pediatric Dentistry 10710 Eldorado Pkwy. Ste. 140, Frisco, TX 75035 469-365-5437 • discoverykidsdentistry.com

Sonia G. Louca, DDS

Pediatric Dentistry

8x Mom Approved

Dr. Sonia Louca, a board-certified pediatric dentist, dedicates her practice to infants, children and teens, and offers services that cater to their unique needs. After graduating from Baylor College of Dentistry in 1999, she went on to complete a two-year residency in Pediatric Dentistry. Since 2001, she has enjoyed building healthy foundations for smiles that last a lifetime in Coppell and surrounding communities.

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Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery

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Dr. Thomas Schlieve is an oral and maxillofacial surgeon practicing at UT Southwestern and Children’s Health. He is the only oral surgeon in DFW with fellowship training in the management of cysts, tumors, and cancers of the mouth and jaws privileged to operate at Children’s Health. He is an expert in the management of wisdom teeth and extra teeth. Dr. Schlieve aims to provide the highest level of patient safety and quality care. UT Southwestern Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery 6333 Forest Park Blvd, Suite 130, Dallas, TX 75235 214-645-3999 • utswmed.org/doctors/thomas-schlieve drthomasschlieve.com

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How to get the help you need from your partner

WORDS AMANDA COLLINS BERNIER

IT WAS PROBABLY A BURNED-OUT MOTHER who first uttered those famous words: “it takes a village.” Child rearing—especially in the blurry, early days—is as exhausting as it is magical, and as tempting as it can be to think we can do it all, the truth is, we all need help.

When baby first arrives, the floodgates might open and that proverbial village will come pouring in. Often they’ll show up on your doorstep, casseroles in hand, ready to make you coffee and snuggle the baby while you shower.

Then slowly, the visitors wane—but the sleepless nights and full-time days do not. This is when you’ll need some help from that villager living right in your home.

It’s OK to ask your partner for help. Actually, it’s perfectly logical. But as simple as it may seem, asking for help isn’t always easy—especially for moms.

“I think women sometimes have trouble asking for help,” says Maria Pokluda, a certified birth and postpartum doula and founder of Dallas-based

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Great Expectations. “There’s a certain sense that all of this should just come naturally, and we can be hard on ourselves for even needing help in the first place.”

Just as many moms-to-be make a birth plan, Pokluda recommends they also make a Plan B—Plan Baby—for the time after the little one arrives. Postpartum planning allows families to have conversations around each person’s responsibilities and anticipate areas of need—before they’re sleep deprived and in the throes of caring for a tiny, needy human.

“It helps to have these conversations before, when communication is good and when you’re not overwhelmed,” she says. “Plan for this before the baby comes out. Sit down and think of things you’ll need, then set expectations around that.”

RELIEVE THE MENTAL LOAD

Let’s face it: many families don’t have it all planned out before the baby comes home, and the bulk of household and childcare responsibilities often fall on mom—or at least she feels that way.

Helena Kean Nguyen, of Irving, remembers those exhausting first few weeks with her newborn son three years ago. On top of adjusting to motherhood, recovering from birth, and caring for the baby, she felt overwhelmed by trying to keep up with every chore in the house, too.

So when asking their partners for help around the house, Pokluda suggests women not only focus on the tangible, physical chores.

“Say, ‘hey can you look around and see the things that we need right now?’ Sometimes, just making the list can take a lot of that emotional load off.”

LOOSEN YOUR GRIP

When Abigail Campbell had her first baby, she struggled not only asking her partner for help, but also accepting it. She had a hard time letting go and letting him take over tasks like bath time or even diaper changes.

“I didn’t understand how my husband could watch me do something, but then do it ‘all wrong,’” the mom of two from Murphy said. “It made me not want to ask for help even though I desperately needed it.”

“THERE WERE THINGS I NEEDED TO TEACH HIM AND WALK HIM THROUGH AND OTHER THINGS I JUST NEEDED TO LET HIM DO HIS OWN WAY.”

“My challenge as a new mom was I felt like I still needed to do all the house tasks. Washing dishes, laundry, cooking, cleaning,” she said. Nguyen gives her husband credit for stepping up to the plate; he was perfectly able—and willing—to take over the domestic duties. The real struggle was the expectations she placed on herself.

“The house keeps going, life keeps going on,” Pokluda agrees. “Laundry still happens, and people who live there still need to eat.” Even in households where partners split the chores evenly, there’s often still one person who takes on most of the “thinking” work— the mental load.

This invisible labor of managing a family and a household isn’t necessarily about the physical tasks, but rather the thinking and overseeing of those tasks—that neverending, constantly running to-do list in your head. Studies find this emotional labor almost always falls on women. It’s exhausting in its own way, but often overlooked.

This is a common challenge for couples, says Pokluda, who’s heard from many frustrated partners that are trying to help, but being told they’re doing everything wrong. Everyone handles parenting in different ways, and just because you and your partner do things differently, it doesn’t mean either of you is wrong. Sometimes, you will just have to let go.

“There were things I needed to teach him and walk him through and other things I just needed to let him do his own way,” Campbell realizes.

Letting your partner do things their own way will strengthen their bond with the baby and boost their confidence—and not to mention, give you a break.

ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE

If you need help and are willing to accept it, but still aren’t getting what you need from you partner, consider this: have you actually asked?

You may know how stressed you are, but your partner may not unless you explicitly tell them. Don’t assume that anyone knows how much you’re struggling.

“Nobody is a mind reader,” Pokluda warns. And when you do ask for help, try to be specific. Think carefully about what you need and what precise actions your partner can take to help you meet that need. It can be a small task, like washing pump parts, or something bigger, like taking over nighttime feedings.

The point is, you can’t do it alone. Everyone needs help. You won’t lose any mommy points for putting out an SOS—we promise.

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MOM AND PARENTING GROUPS IN DALLASFORT WORTH

Here’s where to find your tribe

WORDS EMILY MCDANIEL

preschool, playgroups and birthday parties, oh my!

Socializing kids from an early age tops the priority list of many parents. But that doesn’t mean your social calendar can’t flourish during motherhood as well. Mommy groups connect mothers from similar parenting backgrounds or geographic locations for anything from play dates to picnics to moms’ nights out. We’ve rounded up some of the best groups in Dallas-Fort Worth for both seasoned and first-time moms.

Note: Please contact each group or venue for the most up-to-date information as many groups are not actively meeting in-person due to COVID-19 precautions.

FAITH-BASED GROUPS

IF A DESIRE FOR RELIGIOUS FELLOWSHIP RESONATES WITH YOU and your family, a faith-based mommy group may be right for you. Many faith-based groups encourage new members of all backgrounds to bring their questions to meetings.

MOMS CONNECTION

Moms Connection is a group for moms and moms-to-be. This group is associated with the Chase Oaks Church to empower, embrace, educate and support one another through all stages of motherhood. Members meet twice

a month; childcare is available. Contact leubanks@chaseoaks.org for questions regarding membership and locations. chaseoaks.org

MOPS

Mothers of Preschoolers, or MOPS, is a community-based organization that was created for moms with young children to lend support, begin friendships and share experiences throughout early stages of motherhood. After nearly 50 years serving as a resource for parents, MOPS has expanded to also include moms with school-aged kids. MOPS has partnered with lo-

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Accepting new patients

Dr. Matthew Simon is dedicated to providing personalized and straight forward care for children from birth through college. He has been nominated nine years as a DFWChild Mom Approved pediatrician.

Dr. Simon’s goal is to assist your family in raising healthy and happy children. We seek to keep our patient volume low, which allows us to spend as much time as necessary with you and your child. We are currently accepting both new and transfer patients.

Conveniently located inside The Westchester in the heart of Preston Center 8215 Westchester Drive, Suite 150 Dallas, TX 75225

Contact us 214-361-7185 info@parkcitiespediatrics.com parkcitiespediatrics.com facebook.com/parkcitiespediatrics

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cal churches and various organizations to offer accessibility to many families. Multiple levels of memberships to choose from. mops.org

WATERMARK MINISTRIES:

Watermark Community Church offers several classes for parents, including sessions for moms-to-be, single parents, first-time parents, for adoptive or foster parents, and any parents seeking Bible-based fellowship. info@watermark.org for questions watermark.org/ministries

port through other moms in the community. Playdates, events and get togethers are regularly scheduled to bring fellow parents together to not only share experiences and lend support, but to laugh together too! facebook.com/groups/1648384898815650

FIT4MOM :

WHETHER YOU’RE NEW TO TOWN, new to motherhood or just new to mommy groups, these clubs can provide friendship from like-minded mothers with same-age children in the Dallas-Fort Worth area.

ALLEN EARLY CHILDHOOD PTA: Families in and around Allen are welcome to join Allen Early Childhood PTA for access to networking, playgroups, exclusive member events, educational activities and more. Membership is $24 per year. AECPTA allows you the option of a 30-day free Meetup trial to see if this membership is right for you. Email membership@aecpta.com for more information about membership. aecpta.com

BLACK METRO MOMS OF DALLAS : Whether you are looking for advice, to get inspired, or have fun with other moms in the Dallas metroplex, Black Metro Moms of Dallas is a Facebook group for members to host meetups to socialize and unwind. facebook. com/groups/1269040719801600

CARROLLTON EARLY CHILDHOOD PTA : Carrollton Early Childhood PTA is a group for families with children ages 5 and younger who live in Carrollton or the surrounding area. The goal of this collective is to plan playdates, events and educational meetings for parents to socialize and network with other neighbors. Family memberships begin at $25 per year, with an option to add-on an additional family member. cecpta.org

COPPELL EARLY CHILDHOOD ASSOCIATION:

This support group is for parents with children ages 0-6. With monthly parent meetings, weekly playgroups, parents’ night out evenings, as well as children’s events and parties, this organization offers fun activities for the whole family. Yearly and prorated memberships available, starting at $30 per year. coppellearlychildhood.org

FORT WORTH MOMS GROUP:

Whether you are pregnant, trying to conceive or are a seasoned mom, Fort Worth Moms is a Facebook Group that offers sup-

This neighborhood fitness membership serves communities all over the DFWmetroplex. From prenatal to postnatal health, Fit4Mom offers different wellness and fitness programs for moms at every stage of motherhood. Community activities include stroller strides, mom-only workouts and village playgroups, to name a few. Email info@ fit4mom.com with questions. fit4mom.com

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SOUTHLAKE MOMS LEAGUE :

The local nonprofit GCS Moms League primarily connects families that reside in Grapevine, Colleyville, Southlake and Keller, although parents of neighboring Tarrant County cities are welcome. This organization holds regular community events for moms (or families); from book club to fit club and ladies’ night out, there is a range of adult activities to choose from to allow members the chance to have some fun. Yearly memberships begin at $75. Contact info@gcsmomsleague.org with questions. gcsmomsleague.org

KELLER AREA MOMS :

This non-profit moms’ group is designed to network and create friendships with moms that live in the Keller, Alliance, Haslet, Roanoke and the Watauga area. Members enjoy playdates, couples’ events, holiday parties and philanthropic opportunities throughout the year. Membership is $10 per year. Email kellerareamomsgroup@gmail.com for information. kellerareamoms.com

LAKEWOOD PTA :

Join the network of parents for $35 a year. Lakewood PTA prides themselves on making their community a better place, with their children in mind. Although most parents live near Lakewood Elementary school zone, anyone in the East Dallas/ Lakewood community with a child of 0-6 years old is welcome. Members get together for regular social events, volunteer opportunities and gather children of the same age for playgroups. Email info@lecpta.org for membership inquiries. lecpta.org

LA LECHE LEAGUE OF TEXAS :

La Leche League of Texas is a discussionbased support group narrowing in on topics related to breastfeeding. North Texas groups: Bedford, Collin County (Allen, Frisco, McKinney, Plano), Fort Worth-Alliance, Greater Dallas, Lewisville, Rockwall County (Lake Ray Hubbard). Membership is $40 per year. texaslll.org

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MOCHA MOMS INC.:

Mocha Moms Inc. is a support group for moms of color that organizes play dates and hosts family and couples’ activities as well. There are two different membership options which provide different opportunities. mochamomsdallassou.wixsite.com/mochamoms

Moms Offering Moms Support, or MOMS, is an international nonprofit group dedicated to stay-at-home-moms. This organization is focused on bringing at-home mothers together with their children for entertainment, friendship and support. Each group is referred to as Chapters, which are regionally assigned. Every club hosts regularly scheduled events such as playdates, community service activities, book club and moms’ night out. Mothers with children of any age can join, although check the website to see your assigned club chapter based on your region. Some chapters in the Dallas-Fort Worth area include Moms Club of Aledo & Willow Park, Mansfield Moms Club, Moms Club Flower Mound-West, Moms Club McKinney- Central, Moms Club of HurstMoms Club of Rockwall and Moms Club of Murphy/Sachse. momsclub.org

NORTH DALLAS EARLY

CHILDHOOD PTA:

Are you expecting or have children under the age of 5? North Dallas Early Childhood PTA group does not geographically restrict anyone that wants to join. Annual dues are $60, which gives you access to the membersonly Facebook group, invitations to special events or get-togethers and opportunities to meet and socialize with other moms and families. Email NorthDallasECPTA@yahoo. com for info. ndecpta.com

PRESTON HOLLOW EARLY

CHILDHOOD ASSOCIATION:

Preston Hollow Early Childhood Association organizes informative meetings with speakers that share topics related to parenting, education and children’s health. For the kiddos, the PTA arranges Playtime in the Park meetups for your little ones to burn off some energy. Preston Hollow Early Childhood Association is not associated with any particular school and is open to families with children ages 0-5. Email phecamoms@gmail.com with any questions about a membership. pheca.org

ROSEMONT EARLY CHILDHOOD PTA :

As the earliest childhood PTA in Texas, Rosemont Early Childhood PTA knows the meaning of making their community a better place for the love and growth of their children. RECPTA members participate in seasonal events, playdates, parents’ night out, community meetings and volunteering opportunities. Their mission is focused on diversity, connection and meaningful friendships that will follow your children through and

beyond their school-aged years. Membership is $35 per year. Email president@recpta.org for membership inquiries. recpta.org

TROPHY CLUB FAMILIES :

A non-profit organization that aims to bring families that reside in the Trophy Club area together. For parents of newborns to 5-yearold children, joining for the year will allow you to get to know your neighbors. This community group plans family-friendly play dates and events, organizes moms’ nights out and other social and philanthropic opportunities. Email trophyclubfamilies@gmail.com for membership inquires. trophyclubfamilies.com

WYLIE MOMS & MORE :

This Facebook group organizes social events for moms with children of all ages in and around Wylie. Email wyliemomsandmore. org@gmail.com for more info. facebook.com/ wyliemomsandmore

MOMS OF MULTIPLES

IF NO ONE CAN UNDERSTAND a mother like a fellow mom, the same holds true for parents of multiples. Multiples of America specializes in connecting multiple-birth families through local member organizations. These local clubs offer children’s socials, mom’s retreats, support services and shared resources for parents of twins, triplets and quads.

DALLAS MOMS OF MULTIPLES :

Geared towards education and support for families with more than one child, Dallas Moms of Multiples is a community-based Facebook group that brings together parents of children of all ages in the DFW-metroplex. facebook.com/groups/1557799127815828/

MULTIPLES OF AMERICA :

Multiples of America, also known as the National Organization of Mothers of Twins Clubs (NOMOTC) is a national organization that was created as a support network for local clubs to connect parents that have multiple children. Some DFW-area groups associated with Multiples of America are Arlington Mothers of Multiples, Fort Worth Mothers of Multiples, Lake Cities Moms, Metrocrest Parents of Multiples and Plano Area Mothers of Multiples. multiplesofamerica.org

ARLINGTON MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES :

Geared towards moms of multiple children that reside in Arlington, Grand Prairie, Mansfield, Kennedale and the surrounding areas. The group meets every first Tuesday of the month at 7pm at Pleasant Ridge Church of Christ. For more information email the amomarlington@gmail.com amom.club; facebook.com/ArlingtonAMOM

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FORT WORTH MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES :

Monthly meetings normally take place every third Tuesday of the month. Annual membership begins at $45. Email membership@ fwmom.org for membership inquiries. fwmom.org

LAKE CITIES MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES :

They welcome dads, too! The Lake Cities Mothers of Multiples group is based in Southlake and welcomes families from surrounding Northeast Tarrant County cities (Grapevine, Colleyville, Keller, Trophy Club, North Richland Hills). Email  lcmomvpmemberships@gmail. com for membership inquiries and meeting times. Annual dues are $37. lcmom.org

METROCREST PARENTS OF MULTIPLES :

This support group typically meets on the second Thursday evening of each month at Faith Lutheran Church/Day School in Flower Mound. Membership is $40 per year. Contact info@ mpom.net for more information. mpom.net

GROUPS FOR SINGLE MOMS

SINGLE PARENTING has its own unique set of challenges and rewards. Surrounding yourself with other single parents to share resources and support can make all the difference.

SINGLE & PARENTING :

Various support groups around the Dallas area tackle the challenges of single parenting with tools such as video seminars, small-group discussions and workbooks. Type in your zip code to find a group nearest to you. singleandparenting.org

GROUPS FOR MOMS OF SPECIAL NEEDS KIDS HEALTH

PLANO AREA MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES : Their mission is to share knowledge to parents or guardians of multiple-birth children. PAMOM provides support for North Dallas area families with education and resources that help parents. Join for $45 and enjoy perks like socials, children’s parties, MOM’s night out, playgroups, sales and community service projects. Email vpmembership@pamom.org for inquiries and monthly meeting times. pamom.org

TEXAS MOTHERS OF MULTIPLES :

The mission is to encourage exchange of ideas, participate in weekly playdates and support fellow moms who understand the demands of raising multiple children. There are many clubs that cover the DFW-metroplex. Email membership@tmom. info for membership inquiries. tmom.info

MOMS OF SPECIAL NEEDS children know strength and perseverance well. These support groups below will help connect you connect to other moms that understand what it’s like to raise a child with special needs.

DOWN SYNDROME GUILD OF DALLAS : Down Syndrome Guild of Dallas assists families with helpful resources, information, referrals, support and connection opportunities for children with Down syndrome. The Guild offers different programs based on the age of your child. The Babies & Toddlers program is designed for expecting parents and parents of young children to navigate the early journey of caring for a child with Down syndrome. Email info@downsyndromedallas.org for questions about the Guild. downsyndromedallas.org/ babies-toddlers

SPECIAL NEEDS PARENTS OF NORTH TEXAS :

Created as a safe space for parents to ask questions, seek advice or referrals, talk about their experiences or give support, Special Needs Parents of North Texas is a Facebook group that covers a wide range of topics for parents of a child with special needs. facebook.com/groups/NorthTexasSpecialNeedsParents

THE

Baby

DIRECTORY

Beyond baby shower gifts, new and expecting parents need lots of resources to prepare for and nurture their bundle of joy. Here we’ve laid out a few worthy resources—from local healthcare providers and prenatal massages to infant photography—at your fingertips so you can spend more time focusing on baby snuggles.

All About Babies Argyle Birth Center, LLC

305 E. FM 1830 Argyle, TX 76226

972/653-2229

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Why You’ll It: At All About Babies, we believe in family! We offer our moms personalized and innovative prenatal and postpartum care. We have three beautiful suites to choose from for labor and delivery.

Amon Carter Museum of American Art 3501 Camp Bowie Blvd. Fort Worth, TX 76107

817/738-1933

cartermuseum.org/events/family-events

Why You’ll It: Carter family programs offer playful experimentation and unique opportunities. This includes tips for grown-ups on how to help kids get to know art, classes for all ages (infant and up), and innovative workshops. See as on page 41.

Baylor Scott & White Health Hospitals with Labor & Delivery, Maternal Fetal Medicine and Neonatal ICU in Dallas, Fort Worth, Frisco, Grapevine, Irving, McKinney, Rowlett, Waxahachie 1-844/279-3627

bswhealth.com/yourmoment

Why You’ll It: During one of life’s biggest moments, our labor and delivery hospitals and specialists are here to keep you and your family safe, joyful and in the moment. See ad on page 34.

Cook Children’s Newborn Center Locations across the metroplex

including Fort Worth, Southlake, Keller, Denton, Grapevine, Plano, Prosper, Arlington, Hurst, Bedford, Lewisville, Frisco and McKinney

682/885-4000

cookchildrens.org/health-resources/ newborn

Why You’ll It: You’ve got questions? We’ve got answers. Babies don’t come with an operating manual. But don’t worry! Cook Children’s pediatricians can answer any question you have. Explore the articles presented by our experts. See ad on page 38.

Gymboree Play & Music of Southlake 2960 E. Southlake Blvd., Ste. 170 Southlake, TX 76092-8066

817/398-5062

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Why You’ll It: We are the global leader in caregiver-child classes for newborn–6 years. Babies classes work on the five senses and provide socialization for babies and adults. Toys are available to continue the fun at home. See ad on page 41.

Health Central Women’s Care

7777 Forest Ln.

Building D, Ste. 1200 Dallas, TX 75230

214/365-1150

healthcentralobgyn.com

Why You’ll It: At Health Central Women’s Care, we are committed to every aspect of women’s health and believe each woman deserves a personalized approach to their health care needs at the most important stages of life. See ad on page 37.

Jenny Havens Photography 201 Brookview Dr. Lavon, TX 75166

832/517-0955

jennyhavensphotography.com

Why You’ll It: From the moment you find out you are expecting to those first snuggles and beyond—preserve those special moments with custom heirloom imagery with DFW’s premier newborn and baby photographer. See ad on page 36.

little orange fish

601 S. Main St., #101 Grapevine, TX 76051

817/416-7774

littleorangefishkids.com

Why You’ll It: We’re a fun-filled children’s boutique located in the heart of Historic Downtown Grapevine. We carry clothing, gifts, toys, and accessories for babies and kids. Preemie to 10 for boys, and preemie to 12 for girls. See ad on page 41.

MHMR

4000 Hulen Place 123 Fort Worth, TX 76107

510/990-1026

mhmrtarrant.org/child-and-family-services

Why You’ll It: At MHMRTC Child and Family Services we seek to enhance the families capacity to support the growth and development of the entire family.

Mothers’ Milk Bank of North Texas 7617 Benbrook Pkwy. Fort Worth, TX 76126

817/810-0071

texasmilkbank.org

Why You’ll It: Mothers who have

extra breastmilk in their freezers don’t want to throw it away. Instead, they can complete a 3-step screening and donate it to fragile infants. Milk is pasteurized and sent to NICUs. See ad on page 43.

Pediatrics Plus 6025 Sports Village Rd. Frisco, TX 75033

214/687-9374

pediatricsplus.com

Why You’ll It: Pediatrics Plus empowers your child with special needs to conquer their world! Developmental preschool, speech, physical, and cccupational therapy, as well as ABA . . . your child has everything they need in one place. See ad on page 45.

Small Miracles Academy

Locations in Allen, Mesquite, North Garland, Plano, Richardson and Sachse 972/424-6879

smallmiraclesacademy.org

Why You’ll It: We take care of a limited number of infants at each location. We treat each one as a small miracle! Please come by for a tour. See ad on page 79.

Texas Health Arlington Memorial Hospital

800 W. Randol Mill Rd. Arlington, TX 76012

817/960-6100

texashealth.org/arlingtonbaby

Why You’ll It: At Texas Health Arlington Memorial, pregnant women receive the support they need throughout their entire childbirth

experience. You can count on getting the information, tips and tools you need, from pre-pregnancy through delivery. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Alliance 10864 Texas Health Trl. Fort Worth, TX 76244

682/212-2000

texashealth.org/alliancebaby

Why You’ll It: At Texas Health Alliance we provide support and care for a safe, memorable childbirth experience for you and your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Cleburne 201 Walls Dr. Cleburne, TX 76033

817/641-2551

texashealth.org/cleburnebaby

Why You’ll It: Bringing new life into the world is a powerful and memorable occasion. Whether it’s your first or fourth baby, Texas Health Cleburne offers support and care from early pregnancy to labor and beyond. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Fort Worth 1301 Pennsylvania Ave. Fort Worth, TX 76104

817/250-2000

texashealth.org/fwbaby

Why You’ll It: As a Level IV maternal care facility, Texas Health Fort Worth has the advanced, personalized care you need and expect for your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital HEB 1600 Hospital Pkwy. Bedford, TX 76022

817/848-4000

texashealth.org/hebbaby

Why You’ll It: Whether it’s your first or fourth baby, each birth is unique. Texas Health HEB has resources you may need for your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Southwest Fort Worth 6100 Harris Pkwy. Fort Worth, TX 76132

817/433-5000

texashealth.org/southwestbaby

Why You’ll It: Bringing new life into the world is a powerful and memorable occasion. At Texas Health Southwest, we offer support and care for you and your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital Stephenville 411 N. Belknap St. Stephenville, TX 76401

254/965-1500

texashealth.org/stephenvillebaby

Why You’ll It: For parents ready to welcome their newest addition, Texas

Health Stephenville offers quality care for your growing family including newly remodeled labor and delivery rooms and celebratory meals. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Hospital Frisco 12400 Dallas Pkwy. Frisco, TX 75033

469/495-2000

texashealth.org/friscobaby

Why You’ll It: Texas Health Frisco is here to support you during one of the most memorable experiences of your life. We will work with you to achieve the birth you want while keeping you comfortable and secure. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Hospital Mansfield 2300 Lone Star Rd. Mansfield, TX 76063

682/341-5000

texashealth.org/mansfield-baby

Why You’ll It: At Texas Health Mansfield, you will find a compassionate environment focused on family-centered maternity care philosophies, with the latest medical technology to provide only the best for you and your baby. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Hospital Rockwall 3150 Horizon Rd. Rockwall, TX 75032

469/698-1000

texashealth.org/rockwallbaby

Why You’ll It: Whether it’s your first or fourth baby, each birth is unique. At Texas Health Rockwall, we offer quality, compassionate care for your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Huguley Hospital Fort Worth South 11801 S. Fwy., I-35W Burleson, TX 76028

817/293-9110

texashealthhuguley.org

Why You’ll It: At Texas Health Huguley, we provide a nurturing place with expert physicians, an experienced staff, a supportive environment and advanced technology all dedicated to mother, child and the family who surround them. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Allen 1105 Central Expy. Allen, TX 75013

972/747-1000

texashealth.org/allenbaby

Why You’ll It: Whether it’s your first or fourth baby, each birth is unique. From early pregnancy to labor and beyond, Texas Health Allen provides support and care for a safe, memorable childbirth experience. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas 8200 Walnut Hill Ln. Dallas, TX 75231

214/345-6789

texashealth.org/dallasbaby

Why You’ll It: From childbirth classes to advanced neonatal care, Texas Health Dallas has the compassionate, comprehensive care you need from early pregnancy to labor and beyond. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Denton

3000 N. I-35 Denton, TX 76201

940/898-7000

texashealth.org/dentonbaby

Why You’ll It: At Texas Health Denton, we work with you to achieve the birth you want, while keeping you comfortable and secure. We have the resources you need for your growing family. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Flower Mound

4400 Long Prairie Rd. Flower Mound, TX 75028

469/322-7000

texashealth.org/flowermoundbaby

Why You’ll It: From early pregnancy to labor and beyond, Texas Health Flower Mound provides support and care for a safe, memorable childbirth experience. See ad on page 8.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Plano

6200 W. Parker Rd. Plano, TX 75093

972/981-8000

texashealth.org/planobaby

Why You’ll It: From high risk pregnancy care and childbirth classes to breastfeeding support and Collin County’s only Level IV NICU, Texas Health Plano is ready to care for you and your little one. See ad on page 8.

Scottish Rite for Children

Multiple locations across the metroplex 2222 Welborn St. Dallas, TX 75219

214/559-5000 scottishriteforchildren.org

Why You’ll It: Scottish Rite for Children is #1 in the Southwest for pediatric orthopedics. From routine to complex cases, the experts at Scottish Rite define greatness in pediatric orthopedic care and healing children’s muscles, joints, and bones. See as on page 2.

UT Southwestern Medical Center

Obstetrics and Gynecology at Las Colinas

6121 N. Hwy. 161, Ste. 200 Irving, TX 75038

469/647-4040

utswmed.org/locations/las-colinas/medctr-las-colinas-obgyn

Why You’ll It: The specialist at UT Southwestern Las Colinas treat the full range of obstetric and gynecologic conditions. Here, patients are provided with individualized care and the latest treatment options—all in a welcoming environment. See ad on back cover.

UT Southwestern Medical Center

Obstetrics and Gynecology at Park Cities

8611 Hillcrest Rd., 3rd Floor, Ste. 300 Dallas, TX 75225

214/692-3100

utswmed.org/locations/park-cities/medctr-park-cities-obgyn

Why You’ll It: UT Southwestern’s obstetricians and gynecologists approach women’s health as a partnership, embracing the unique needs of each patient. They provide compassionate, quality health care to women in the Park Cities, Preston Hollow, and North Dallas. See ad on back cover.

UT Southwestern Obstetrics and Gynecology and Maternal-Fetal Medicine Clinic

Professional Office Building 2 5939 Harry Hines Blvd., 5th Floor, Ste. 300 Dallas, TX 75390

214/645-3838

utswmed.org/locations/pob2/obgynmfm-clinic

Why You’ll It: These UT Southwestern Medical Center specialists offer the full spectrum of women’s health care services in a private practice setting. Our multidisciplinary team includes specialists in maternal-fetal medicine, neonatology, and many pediatric subspecialties. See ad on back cover.

Wesley Prep

9200 Inwood Rd. Dallas, TX 75220

214/706-9568

wesleyprep.org

Why You’ll It: Wesley Prep’s nursery and early childhood program provides the nurturing environment that our youngest need, allowing little children to be little...to explore, play and discover in a safe and loving place. See ad on page 45.

Whole Child Texas

3550 Parkwood Blvd., Ste. B100 Frisco, TX 75034

214/736-1954

wholechildtexas.com

Why You’ll It: At Whole Child Texas we believe that healing is multilayered and multifaceted. Our approach is slightly different from traditional medicine. We don’t just treat symptoms; we treat the whole child: spirit, body, brain. See ad on page 43.

Woodhouse Spa Dallas

5331 E. Mockingbird Ln., Ste. 172 Dallas, TX 75206

972/777-6068

dallas.woodhousespas.com

Why You’ll It: Slide into a cozy robe and enjoy our Happy Mama Package, or get away with hubby for a duet massage. We can also curate and customize a luxurious treatments to deliver the mood you desire.

School GUIDE

Are you looking for a school that’s as passionate about your child’s education as you are? Get to know the institutions that excel in fostering a lifetime of learning.

AFTER-SCHOOL AGES 3-18

The Covenant School is a Charlotte Mason-inspired K-12 community of faith and learning emphasizing the classical arts and sciences.

e Covenant School, a proven model of classical Christian education is used to teach students to confidently engage the world for Christ through authentic Christian living, wisdom, and virtue.

• A rigorous curriculum using Socratic instruction

• Championship winning sports teams

• Rich fine arts program

• Small class sizes

• Highly-skilled faculty

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• Leadership & Community Service

• Middle School - Innovation & Entrepreneurship Program

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October 17–December 11

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AUTUMN AT THE ARBORETUM: A FALL FAIRY TALE Through Oct. 31

OCTOBER & NOVEMBER

➽ A HOLIDAY SEASON BURSTING AT THE SEAMS

STATE FAIR OF TEXAS

Through October 23

FAIR PARK, DALLAS

The fair is famous for its fried foods (hello, deep fried PB and Razbrûlée), but did you know you can also bring your own snacks and drinks for no extra charge? Even coolers and ice chests are welcome, as well as small wagons to haul around your kid and preferred chow. (No glass, alcohol, or metal cutlery allowed.) If you really want

fair food, come on Thrifty Thursday for discounts at marked booths. Daily fair admission: $15 adults; $10 children; under 3 free. Adults pay child price after 5pm daily. 214/565-9931; bigtex.com

AUTUMN AT THE ARBORETUM: A FALL FAIRY TALE  Through October 31

DALLAS ARBORETUM

We love the arboretum any time of year but especially

now during fall. The nature exhibit features Cinderella’s white carriage pulled by two horses sculpted in foliage. Come check out the Pumpkin Village, a child-sized hay maze, magic carpet selfies, and more displays inspired by tales like One Thousand and One Nights. Free with garden admission: $20 adults; $12 children; under 2 free; additional $3 for Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden. 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org

DAY OUT WITH THOMAS

October 7–16

GRAPEVINE VINTAGE

RAILROAD

Alert your preschoolers! A smiling, life-size Thomas the Tank Engine chugs into downtown Grapevine for two weekends. Book your seats for a 25-minute, roundtrip train ride pulled by Thomas himself. After you disembark, the experience continues in the Dream Big Corner with

lawn games and photo ops. Tickets are $24. 866/4687630; ticketwebdowt.com

RIVER LEGACY FALL FESTIVAL

October 8

RIVER LEGACY NATURE

CENTER, ARLINGTON

The dunk tank, you might agree, is a highly underrated form of entertainment— and one of many forms of fun you’ll find at this all-day family fest supporting River Legacy’s environmental

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education programming. $8 admission; under 3 free. $45 family fun packages include four admission tickets and 20 coupons for activities including bounce houses, games and the pumpkin patch. 817/8606752; riverlegacy.org

ALLIANCE TEXAS AVIATION EXPO

October 22

FORT WORTH ALLIANCE AIRPORT

Cue the Top Gun theme song—the U.S. Air Force’s Thunderbirds are back as the electrifying, featured performer. Get ready for high-speed maneuvers and uncomfortably close formations as you watch from ground level. Come early to let the kids play on the inflatables in the Landing Zone and ride a flight simulator. The parking pass is $79 per vehicle and must be purchased in advance. 817/890-1000; atxaviationexpo.com

Go trick-or-treating by the T. rex, and circle back to the amphitheater for a movie screening and activities. $15 adults; $10 children; under 3 free. 972/562-5566; heardmuseum.org

A KNIGHT’S TALE

Opens October 22

ARLINGTON MUSEUM OF ART

This is no fairy tale. You’ll see how real knights from the Middle Ages and the Renaissance dressed for battle through this new exhibition of 130 rare artifacts on loan from a museum in Florence, Italy. They range from swords, shields, helmets and full suits of armor to mounted equestrian figures, all forged by master metalworkers.

$20 adults; $5 children; under 2 free. 817/2754600; arlingtonmuseum.org

DISNEY PRINCESS: THE CONCERT

October 22

MUSIC HALL AT FAIR PARK, DALLAS

BOO AT THE ZOO

October 28–30

FORT WORTH ZOO

For those who can’t wait until Halloween night, why not maximize your family fun with daytime fun at the zoo? You’ll enjoy treat stations, animal shows and more themed entertainment at designated spots around the zoo all weekend. Free with admission: $18 adults; $14 children; under 3 free. 817/7597555; fortworthzoo.org

PADDINGTON GETS IN A JAM

October 29

EISEMANN CENTER, RICHARDSON

The famously accidentprone, marmalade-loving bear gets into said jam both literally and figuratively. Reserve your seats for one of two shows to find out what goes down when he asks to borrow a cup of sugar from his neighbor. Tickets from $39. 972/744-4650; eisemanncenter.com

FESTIVAL AT THE SWITCHYARD

November 5

DOWNTOWN CARROLLTON

This particular fest is a fab choice for two reasons. One, you’ve got the free entertainment during the day, so your kids can enjoy the entire children’s area with abandon—everything from a zip line, rock climbing wall and a game truck, to crafts and face painting. Then after dark, you’ve got the rock concerts by headliners Soul Asylum and Hoobastank for lovers of music from the ‘90s and early aughts. FREE 972/466-3000; carrollton-

TRICK-OR-TREATING IN THE PARK

October 29

KLYDE WARREN PARK, DALLAS

JAPANESE GARDEN FALL FESTIVAL

November 5–6

Raise your broomstick if you’re excited about Hocus Pocus 2 in theaters! No worries if you’ve already seen it—here you can brush up on the original by watching this free outdoor screening of the 1993 comedy. Be sure to show up early for the on-site trickor-treating from 5–7pm. FREE 214/716-4500; klydewarrenpark.org

BLUE’S CLUES & YOU LIVE

November 2

FORT WORTH BOTANIC GARDEN

If your kids have never fed the koi fish at the Japanese garden, this twice-annual cultural festival is a lovely excuse to go visit for the first time. The Fort Worth Japanese Society presents performances throughout the day, including taiko drumming, swordsmanship and karate, as well as origami and Japanese games. $12 adults; $10 children; under 6

free. Register online to join the tea ceremonies in Oak Hall: $5 adults; $3 children. 817/392-5510; fwbg.org

ICE! FEATURING THE POLAR EXPRESS

Opens November 11

GAYLORD TEXAN

You’ll need an actual parka (don’t worry, they’re provided) to walk through this sub-freezing exhibition of enormous sculptures carved from two million pounds of colorful ice. It’s really spectacular—and it’s also far from the only reason to visit the Gaylord this season. Choose from more than a dozen other holiday activities, like snowman building, snowball throwing, dog shows and, of course, photos with Santa. Prices vary by activity. 817/778-1000; christmasatgaylordtexan.com

THE TRAINS AT NORTHPARK

Opens November 12

NORTHPARK CENTER, DALLAS

This 35-year tradition continues with its dual purpose: fundraising for Ronald McDonald House of Dallas and entertaining kids with a model train exhibit. See the 1,600-foot-track located on the second floor by Neiman Marcus. $10 adults; $5 children; free for children under 2. Personalized railcars available for purchase, too. 214/631-7354, thetrainsatnorthpark.com

HOT WHEELS MONSTER TRUCKS LIVE GLOW PARTY

November 12–13

DICKIES ARENA, FORT WORTH

These monster trucks are high-flying, fire-breathing, car-crushing—and once you flip off the lights, they’re glow-in-the-dark, too.

HALLOWEEN AT THE HEARD

October 22

HEARD NATURAL SCIENCE

MUSEUM & WILDLIFE

SANCTUARY, MCKINNEY

In the event your kid dresses up as a dinosaur this Halloween, they’ll be in good company here. Part of the fun during the Heard’s not-so-spooky party takes place on the nature trail, where the animatronic Dinosaurs Live! exhibit currently resides.

Broadway starlets Christy Altomare, Susan Egan, Isabelle McCalla and Syndee Winters—better known as Cinderella, Belle, Jasmine and Tiana—headline this live concert that’s great for both adults and kids as young as 6. Get ready for fourpart harmonies and a whole lot of Disney magic. The show runs two hours, but you can stretch your limbs at intermission. Tickets from $45. 866/276-4884; disneyprincessconcert.com

TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE, GRAND PRAIRIE

Blue, Magenta and Rainbow Puppy are on a mission to help their human pal, Josh, make his own magical theater. See the pups from the animated show in the flesh as larger-thanlife puppets in this song and dance show made for preschool audiences. Tickets from $29. Photo experience available after the show. 972/854-5076; bluesclueslive.com

➽ DAY OUT WITH THOMAS

➽ ICE! FEATURING THE POLAR EXPRESS

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Tickets from $34 for adults and from $14 for children. The Crash Zone pass for $7.50 more gets you access to the pre-party to see the trucks close-up and meet the drivers. Be sure to bring those ear muffs to protect your kids’ hearing. 817/4029801; hotwheelsmonstertruckslive.com

LIGHTSCAPE

Opens November 18

FORT WORTH BOTANIC

GARDEN

After the sun goes down, the garden’s walking trails light up with some unusual sights—waving bluebonnets, treetop sculptures, singing trees, a fire garden. Come see what it’s all about on

select nights this holiday season when stations along the one-mile lighted path offer roasted marshmallows and hot chocolate. $28 adults; $18 children; under 3 free. 817/463-4160; fwbg. org/lightscape

GRAPEVINE ICE RINK HISTORIC MAIN STREET, GRAPEVINE

Opens November 18

The Christmas Capital of Texas enhances its merrymaking this season by debuting its first outdoor ice-skating rink. The 4,500-square-foot open air rink, located in front of Grapevine Main Station, will be made with real ice and have its own adjacent concession area. Admission prices will be announced closer to opening. And it’s not the only new rink coming to North Texas this season. Fort Worth Stockyards launches its own first-ever ice-skating rink on November 25. 817/410-3185; grapevinetexasusa.com

HERE BE DRAGONS: FROM LIZARDS TO LEGENDS

Opens November 19

This Mexican tradition honors the loved ones in our lives who are gone but not forgotten. Join in these family-friendly festivals, or look online at dfwchild.com/calendar for more Day of the Dead celebrations near you.

MCKINNEY DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS

October 15

MEMORIAL PARK, MCKINNEY

The Legacy Keepers of Old East McKinney host the city’s second annual festival honoring the Day of the Dead. Expect face painters, kids’ crafts, lowrider cars and a costume contest open to all ages. For those who’ve lost family members or pets, feel free to bring photos or other items to place on the ofrenda, or special altar. FREE mckinneydiadelosmuertos.com

DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS EN FORT WORTH

October 29

MARINE PARK, FORT WORTH

Artes de la Rosa’s nearly 20-year tradition continues with a morning parade along North Main Street leading up to a festival of food, live mariachi music and ballet folklórico dances. The community is invited to wear traditional costumes and paint their faces. FREE 817/624-8333; artesdelarosa.org

DALLAS DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS

October 29

DALLAS CITY HALL

Want to see the most stunning Catrinas and Catrins? Don’t miss this third annual festival and parade, getting bigger and bolder each year. The family-friendly festivities run from 2–10pm, with the community parade stepping off at 7pm FREE 214/600-1533; ddlmusa.com

RUDOLPH THE REDNOSED REINDEER

November 21–22

BASS PERFORMANCE HALL, FORT WORTH

This classic Christmas performance recreates the look and feel of the original stop-motion show from the ‘60s. (We can’t wait to see Bumble, the 12-foot-tall Abominable Snow Monster.) The two evening performances fall on the Monday and Tuesday of Thanksgiving week, so it’s a great show to start the holiday break. Tickets from $30. 817/212-4280; rudolphthemusical.com

DISNEY ON ICE: INTO THE MAGIC

November 23–27

RIVER LEGACY NATURE CENTER, ARLINGTON

Strictly speaking, we know that dragons are mythical creatures straight from ancient literature, but this new exhibition explores how close they are to the real-life lizards of today, namely the albino green iguana, European legless lizard and more lizard ambassadors you’ll meet in River Legacy’s Discovery Room. $10 adults; $7 children; under 2 free. 817/860-6752, riverlegacy.org

GM FINANCIAL PARADE OF LIGHTS

November 20

DOWNTOWN FORT WORTH

Santa trades in his sleigh for a lighted float during this 40th annual nighttime Christmas parade. Organizers expect more than 100 entries to participate this year, which in the past have included everything from a giant Cookie Monster balloon to Elvis impersonators on mini bikes. Free to attend; reserved street seats from $20. 817/336-2787; fortworthparadeoflights.org

for kids 6 and younger. 214/954-0500, thetrot.org

ENCHANT CHRISTMAS Opens

November 25

FAIR PARK, DALLAS

Fans of Hallmark Channel holiday movies will especially love this white Christmas experience, featuring an iceskating trail, Santa visits, and an all-new light maze adventure called “The Mischievous Elf.” Check out the Hallmark Cozy Christmas lounge for photo ops, wine tasting, and a chance for fans to win a visit to a Hallmark movie set while in production. Admission from $34 for adults and from $18 for children; under 3 free. $15 for iceskating. 833/362-6445, enchantchristmas.com

CREDIT UNION OF TEXAS EVENT CENTER, ALLEN During the Thanksgiving holiday, you be reuniting with family and also with (well, if you see this ice-skating show, anyway!) some of your fave Disney characters. Moana and Maui, Anna and Elsa, young Miguel from Coco—they all come together and hit the ice in this great, new mashup. Tickets from $33. 972/912-1057, disneyonice.com

CIRQUE DU SOLEIL’S ‘TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE November 25–December 11

TEXAS TRUST CU THEATRE, GRAND PRAIRIE

Cirque du Soleil reintroduces its first-ever Christmas show, inspired by the classic Nutcracker story. This version follows young Isabella, who’s “jaded by the craze surrounding Christmas” (sound familiar?) and gets whisked away to a dreamy world of hoop-diving reindeer and a host of impossibly daring acrobatic performers. Tickets from $44. 972/854-5076; cirquedusoleil.com

DALLAS YMCA TURKEY TROT

November 24

DALLAS CITY HALL PLAZA

In the spirit on generosity, consider spending your Thanksgiving morning giving back to the community via this fundraiser for YMCA of Metropolitan Dallas. After the run, all ages are welcome at the free Dallas Mavericks Family Zone, offering crafts, puppet shows and photo ops with the giant turkey mascot. Registration from $38 for the 5K or 8-mile runs, and $15

HARRY CONNICK JR.’S THE HAPPY ELF

November 27–December 23

DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER

You know what makes us really happy? That this professional children’s theater offers special performances for those who have autism and who are deaf or hard of hearing. Call the box office to book your seats for these sensory-sensitive or American Sign Languageinterpreted shows. Then get ready for a jazz musical starring Eubie the elf, who cheers up the miserable town of Bluesville. Best for 5 and up. Tickets from $18; $5 for sensory show. 214/740-0051; dct.org

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Arkansas State Parks arkansasstateparks.com 501/682-1191

Charles W. Eisemann Center for Performing Arts and Corporate Presentations eisemanncenter.com • 972/744-4650

City of Highland Village txfallenpd.com 972/899-5105

City of Irving irvingevents.org 972/721-2589

City of Roanoke, TX roanoketexas.com 817/491-2411

City of Southlake southlakehomefortheholidays.com 817/748-8652

Looking for new adventures for your family and friends? Come together at Arkansas’s 52 state parks and experience endless possibilities. Plan your adventure at arkansasstateparks.com. See ad on page 11.

The Eisemann Center is an important component of the cultural and corporate landscapes in North Texas. The center creates, fosters and sustains an environment of cultural diversity, educational enrichment, and fulfilling experiences benefiting all. See ad on page 19.

The TXFallenPD Tribute Event at Doubletree Ranch Park on Saturday, October 15, includes a 5K run, bike race, kid ride with a cop, kids zone, vendors, food trucks, live entertainment and concert by Texas Flood. See ad on page 71.

Looking for the things that go bump in the night? Come out to Eerie Irving on October 22 to hang with the city’s ghouls, ghosts and not-so-scary monsters to thrill, shock and entertain! See ad on page 77.

Celebrate Roanoke is an 8-block street festival celebrating Roanoke's unique history. Free activities for the whole family! Visit roanoketexas.com/111/celebrate-roanoke for more information. See ad on page 67.

Make every moment memorable by attending Southlake's Christmas Tree Lighting on Saturday, November 19, 4:30–6:30pm with the lighting of the tree taking place at 6pm, followed by a fireworks show! Admission is free! See ad on page 76. 7

Cooper Fitness Center cooperyouth.com 972/560-6310

Come cook with Kids in the Kitchen at Cooper. Your child prepares delicious, nutritious foods while learning healthy cooking skills. Ages 5–13. Open to the public—October 10, November 21, December 12. Register now! See ad on page 69. 8

Country Critters Farm, LLC countrycrittersfarm.com 817/477-3060

Giant jump pillow, petting zoo, pony rides, train rides, hay rides, wooden maze, pumpkin patch, and much more! 9

Dallas Children's Theater dct.org/plays 214/740-0051

Dallas Children's Theater dct.org 214/740-0051

The Dallas Opera dallasopera.org/seasons/family-performances 214/443-1000

Denton County Museums dentoncounty.gov/chos 940/349-2850

Fort Worth Botanic Garden Botanical Research Institute of Texas fwbg.org • 817/332-4441

Fort Worth Stockyards National Historic District fortworthstockyards.com • 817/625-9715

Harry Connick, Jr.'s The Happy Elf runs November 27–December 23. From the Grammy–winning musician, Harry Connick, Jr. this jazz musical is sure to get you in the holiday spirit! See ad on page 11.

Junie B.'s Essential Survival Guide to School running September 24–October 30. In this musical extravaganza great for back-to-school time, Junie B. Jones learns some important lessons about school, patience, and personal growth. See ad on page 71.

Stories with music—that’s what opera’s all about! Join us for these fun, kid-friendly events. The Dallas Opera presents The Billy Goats Gruff and The Elixir of Love this fall for just $5. See ad on page 69.

Check out Park After Dark, a special Halloween event at the Bayless-Selby House Museum, on Saturday, October 22 from 5–8pm. Free! At the Courthouse Museum, see the Making A Scene music exhibit. See ad on page 16.

Families enjoy strolling through our beautiful 120-acre Fort Worth Botanic Garden. Register for children or adult educational classes or buy tickets to this year's sensational Lightscape event November 18–January 8. For more info visit fwbg.org.

Twice-daily cattle drives, cattle pen maze, horseback riding, petting zoo, historical tours, mechanical bull rides, Friday and Saturday night rodeos, plus holiday ice skating and spectacular light displays starting November 25. See ad on page 14.

Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra fwsymphony.org 817/665-6000

Gaylord Texan Resort gaylordtexan.com 817/778-1000

Grapevine Parks & Recreation gograpevine.com/caroloflights 817/410-3450

Heard Natural Science Museum & Wildlife Sanctuary heardmuseum.org • 972/562-5566

Explore all types of dance music from around the world. From traditional to folk and ballet to modern, hear how an orchestra dances as you discover the rhythmic power of cultural dance and music. See ad on page 61.

Millions of twinkling lights, dozens of activities and events, including the return of ICE! One incredible holiday experience. It’s So. Much. Christmas. at Gaylord Texan Resort, and it all starts on November 11. See ad on page 3.

Monday, November 21, is Carol of Lights on Grapevine Main. 4pm activities for the family; 6:30pm tree lighting ceremony. Then end the night with a light/fireworks show at City Hall at 7:30pm or 8:30pm. See ad on page 63.

Let your imagination run wild as you travel back in time with 11 animatronic dinosaurs and photo-op dinosaurs in our nature preserve. Plus, enjoy indoor exhibits, special events, educational programs, and more. See ad on page 12. 19

Heritage Farmstead Museum heritagefarmstead.org/events-1/lights-onthe-farm-2022 • 972/881-0140

HostEasy LLC simplyhosteasy.com

Irving Archives and Museum irvingarchivesandmuseum.com 972/721-3700

Kimbell Art Museum kimbellart.org 817/332-8451

The Lakefront at Little Elm lakefrontlittleelm.com 972/731-3296

North Texas Performing Arts ntpa.org 972/422-2575

NorthPark Center northparkcenter.com 214/363-7441

Plano International Festival planointernationalfestival.org 214/495-7838

Reunion Tower reuniontower.com 214/296-9950

River Legacy Nature Center riverlegacy.org 817/860-6752

The Shops at Highland Village theshopsathighlandvillage.com 972/317-7500

Texas Ballet Theater texasballettheater.org 877/828-9200

'Twas the Night Before... By Cirque du Soleil axs.com • 972/854-5050

Thanksgiving week marks the return of Lights on the Farm. The Heritage Farmstead Museum is transformed into a delightful winter wonderland with more than one million lights and numerous animated holiday displays. See ad on page 67.

We are the extra set of hands for all your hosting needs—tailgating, holiday family get togethers, birthday parties, or a simple girls night watching event. Setup, serving and cleanup included! See ad on page 16.

Irving Archives and Museum is a community history museum packed with fun for the whole family! Experience history, traveling exhibitions, and a Smithsonian Spark!Lab where young visitors get to explore the process of invention.

Join us for our free 50th Anniversary Celebration and Family Festival on Saturday, October 8. The celebration continues all year long with drop-in programs, in-gallery story times, artmaking activities, and more. Details at kimbellart.org

From our pristine sandy beach to plenty of restaurants, events, and activities, Lakefront at Little Elm is an escape from the city where everyone can come together to have fun and let loose. See ad on page 71.

Explore the performing arts with dozens of family-friendly fall shows and upcoming auditions in Plano, Fairview, Frisco, Dallas and Southlake. Middle schoolers can compete in the annual NTPA speech and drama tournament on November 5! See ad on page 73.

Celebrate your holidays with NorthPark Center! See ad on page 4.

Tour the world on Saturday, October 15 at the Plano International Festival! Enjoy multicultural food, music and fun! 11am–5pm, Haggard Park. Free admission. Wellness fair at 10am will offer free flu shots and screenings. See ad on page 68.

See Dallas from a whole new perspective! Day or night, the iconic Reunion Tower is the top family spot for fun and sightseeing. Visit our website for hours and upcoming special events. See ad on page 6.

Visit us this November to explore the history of dragons through artifacts, activities, and real-life lizards during our newest visiting exhibit Here Be Dragons: From Lizards to Legends created by Build4Impact. See ad on page 63.

Fun at The Shops at Highland Village! Halloween Celebration: October 30, 1–4pm. Costume party with fun activities and candy. Our Village Glows: November 19, 5:30–8pm. Holiday tree lighting with Santa, music, carriage rides and more. See ad on page 73.

The 2022 State Fair of Texas runs from Friday, September 30, to Sunday, October 23. Join Big Tex for a day of family fun, great fair food, and Texas traditions. See ad on page 63.

Texas Ballet Theater presents The Nutcracker, an annual holiday tradition. Featuring dazzling choreography and exquisite sets, this classic ballet celebrates the season with enchantment, snowflakes, and sweets. See ad on page 13.

The acclaimed family holiday theatrical ‘Twas the Night Before… by Cirque du Soleil is making its Dallas debut at the Texas Trust CU Theatre, Friday, November 25–Sunday, December 11, 2022. See ad on page 61. 33

Vetro Glassblowing Studio & Fine Art Gallery vetroartglass.com • 817/251-1668

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CASTLES IN THE SKY

Tour these three castles and historic homes around Texas

IF YOU’VE CAUGHT YOURSELF WISTFULLY SCROLLING the new castles category on Airbnb, or your child is dead set on a princess costume for Halloween, it might be time for you both to indulge in your fairy tale fantasies by venturing out to these real(ish) castles in Texas.

And we’re using the term “castle” loosely here, as our historic Texan homes arguably cannot compare to the centuries-old palaces of Europe, but we generally define them as having a) at least three stories, b) towers or turrets (those notches as part of its defensive architecture), c) regular tours open to the public, and d) that wow factor. Here’s what you’ll need to know about planning a fall family road trip to these not-so-humble abodes.

EDITOR’S PICK

NEWMAN’S CASTLE & NEWMAN’ S BAKERY BELLVILLE

979/865-9804

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The 3.5-hour trip south from DFW is well worth it to tour this impressive replica of a Scottish castle—scratch that, fortress—with a moat, a working drawbridge, and five corner turrets that overlook the sprawling wooded estate and are accessible via winding staircases.

Its resident royal is local bakery owner Mike Newman, who in 1998 designed and began building the castle himself, with the help of only one other assistant, as his private residence. Newman continues to live there full-time, offering tours Mondays through Saturdays and special events year-round.

Here’s how to visit: Call the bakery in advance to register for a tour. Saturdays tend to sell out in advance. Check in by 10:30am at the bakery on Bellville’s Main Street (this is a great opportunity to snag a castle-shaped sugar cookie) to pay for the tour. Tickets are $20 per person and $10 for kids 6 and younger. They’ll provide you with a wristband and a slip of paper with the castle’s private address about 5 miles away.

Upon your arrival, you’ll take in the panoramic view of the pond and moat full of glistening lily pads, a wooden trebuchet, and a nature trail that encircles the property. Finn, a spry Irish wolfhound puppy who likes belly

scratches, pesters the ducks. On the Saturday I visited, the crowd included a friendly horde of children wearing their own tiaras and crowns. Kids are welcome to grab a wooden stick for play sword fighting and to carry with them during the tour.

The king eventually emerges from the castle donning his own crown and tunic, and addresses the tour group under a shaded pavilion. He gives an introduction of the castle’s history, leads the kids in imagining when knights and kings defended their homes from invaders, and empowers them to throw misbehaving guests in the dungeon. (He’s only half kidding. There

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➽ ABOVE: Inside Newman’s Castle, you can practice your sword-fighting skills in the gravel courtyard and climb up to ring the bells in the tallest tower. // RIGHT: The dungeon in one of the corner turrets showcases medieval torture devices, like the bed of nails (not sharp), and toy skeletons.

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really is a dungeon here.) Then he knights the boys and girls one by one with a tap of his sword. It’s very sweet.

To usher the crowd into the fortress, a staffer or two opens the drawbridge by climbing inside a giant hamster wheel of sorts that manually raises the portcullis. Once inside, you’re free to explore every corner of the castle at your leisure. Kids will love to ring the bell by climbing the bell tower and pulling on the heavy chains.

The walls of the tower rooftops are quite high, but you’ll of course need to keep a close eye on your child just in case they decide to scale a wall. The open courtyard has plenty of space to chase imaginary dragons. In fact, you’ll find the 13 dragons depicted on-site. Ask for a dragon stamp on the hand when you find them all, or if you want one just because.

When you’re feeling hungry, head into the air-conditioned dining hall for a lunch of sandwiches and donuts provided by staff and this most hospitable king.

MAGNOLIA CASTLE

WACO

254/235-0603

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This one’s for the moms who love everything Chip and Joanna Gaines touch, but you’ll need to act quickly before it’s put on the market. Here’s the back story: Originally named the Cottonland Castle, this Gothic sandstone and limestone structure was first built in 1890 by stone contractor John Tennant, with additions that continued through 1913. The historic home became the focal point of Waco’s Castle Heights neighborhood but sat vacant for nearly

20 years until the couple purchased it in 2019. They chronicle the entire renovation in the new season of “Fixer Upper: Welcome Home,” airing on Magnolia Network starting October 14. Watch its transformation on TV, or see it for yourself in-person by registering for a one-hour guided tour through the fully-staged home, open now through October 26.

Chip and Joanna Gaines plan to sell Magnolia Castle as a home—and we’re already jealous of the new owners. Lovers of Fixer Upper will agree that the renovations are achingly beautiful, and as the tour guides (mine was a Baylor student) explain, the couple kept as many of the original materials and touches as possible, down to the height notches of former resident children carved into the stone hearth in what’s now the dining room. The third floor is not part of the tour, but the basement is, which has been renovated into an expansive family room (with the only TV in the house) and a moody card room.

Guests are welcome to open cabinets and doors, they just ask that you don’t touch the smaller objects on display or sit on the beds. The tours cost $50 per person; children 7 and younger are free and are especially welcome to join the tours. If $50 sounds steep, keep in mind they’re donating 20% of net profits to The Cove, a local nonprofit benefiting homeless youth.

Go online to book your tour, offered between 9am and 5pm Monday–Saturday. If you’re visiting during that last week, make a weekend of it and stay for the annual Silobration at Magnolia’s ever-expanding grounds near downtown Waco. The event, October 27–29, features concerts and a temporary roller skating rink at the wiffle ball park.

➽ ABOVE: Chip and Joanna Gaines’ renovation of the 1890 Magnolia Castle includes the addition of this conservatory with reclaimed black and white concrete tile flooring and lots of plants. // LOWER RIGHT: One mile from the Moody Mansion in Galveston is another historic landmark open for tours: the 1892 Bishop’s Palace.

MOODY MANSION & GALVESTON CHILDREN’S MUSEUM

GALVESTON

409/762-7668; 409/572-2544

www.moodymansion.org; galvestoncm.org

Your family itching for a beach vacation? Add this Galveston “castle” with its own children’s museum to your must-visit list. Completed in 1895, the four-story Moody Mansion was built with limestone and brick as an example of Richardsonian Romanesque architecture, a style inspired by medieval Europe.

The self-guided daily tours, with audio devices for narration, cover 20 rooms, including the ballroom where the Moody children and grandchildren were known to play. A brand new exhibition inside the mansion called Growing Up Moody explores the personal histories of the four children who grew up in the mansion: Mary, William III, Shearn and Libbie. It was their parents who purchased the mansion shortly after it survived the 1900 hurricane that devastated the island.

The self-guided tour is $15 adults; $7 children; under 6 free. A $34 family package includes up to two adults and two children. For $35 per person, book a two-hour docentguided tour on Fridays and Saturdays to see areas not normally open to the public, like the top floor where the highest turret looks out over the gulf.

But the real draw for families with young children is on the ground floor. Since 2014, the Galveston Children’s Museum has offered a wealth of activities for kids ages 2–10. Nine permanent play areas to choose from means your kids’ interests will lead them from catching blue crabs from a mini fishing boat or jumping on a light-up dance floor to putting on their own production in the puppet theater. The UTMB Kids Clinic, with stuffed animal patients and a digital skeleton that mimics your body movements, is designed to encourage littles to associate positive feelings toward doctors.

Visit Wednesday–Sunday for $10; under 2 free; $3 admission for families using SNAP benefits or Medicaid. For extra fun, look ahead on their calendar for upcoming special events, such as Da Vinci Day on Saturday, October 8.

NIGHT FLIGHTS

Where to watch lateseason bat emergences around Texas

BATS— THEY’RE NOCTURNAL, HANG UPSIDE DOWN

, and may or may not also be vampires. It’s no wonder they’ve become synonymous with Halloween. And as that spooky holiday nears, we’re reminded about the very real creatures that inspire so much fear and awe. Experts say they’re highly misunderstood creatures that fulfill an important part of our ecosystems by eating moths and other bugs and pollinating plants. (Yep, move over butterflies, bats are pollinators, too!)

CONGRESS A VENUE BRIDGE AUSTIN

3.5 hours south of Dallas 512/695-4116; austinbatrefuge.org

Our state’s capital city is also home to the country’s largest urban bat colony. Interestingly, when the Congress Avenue Bridge, which stretches over Lady Bird Lake near downtown, was renovated in 1980, the 16-inch-deep expansion joints underneath inadvertently doubled as an ideal bat shelter. Fast forward 40 years and now roughly 1.5 million bats roost under the bridge each summer.

The city welcomes onlookers to view the bats from the pedestrian portion of the bridge above or, more safely away from traffic, from the lawn underneath at Austin American-Statesman’s Bat Observation area at 305 South Congress Avenue. That’s on the opposite side of the road as the Nightwing, the famed bat statue by Dale Whistler and a great spot for a photo op. (You’ll find many more bat symbols around the city, which adopted the bat as its official animal emblem in 2010.)

They emerge at dusk for nightly hunting and form black swirling clouds or, I’ll use my husband’s term here, bat-nado. They’re magical to witness—they being Mexican free-tail bats (Tadarida brasiliensis) whose densest concentrations can be found here in Texas thanks to large maternity colonies roosting in caves, abandoned mines and under bridges.

Thankfully, it’s not too late to see them in-person again before they all migrate south for winter. They can be seen through late October and mid-November until that first cold front hits. Note that reservations are sold-out for tours through the world’s largest bat colony at Bracken Cave, located on private property outside San Antonio (book early for next year at batcon.org), but you can catch the tail end of bat season at these popular destinations around Texas.

Bat watching is a huge tourist attraction for Austin, so be sure to arrive well before sunset to secure the best viewing spot on the lawn. Blankets and chairs are welcome, too. Though for a more adventurous outing and a better vantage point, get out onto the water by renting a kayak or joining a boat cruise. Several companies offer sunset boat and kayak tours and water sports equipment for evening rentals. Austin Bat Refuge has an exhaustive list at austinbatrefuge.org

A couple notable ones include Lone Star Riverboat (512/327-1388; lonestarriverboat. com) for its nightly bat-watching tours through early November. Reservations are $13 adults; $8 children; under 3 free.

Live Love Paddle (512/804-2122; livelovepaddle.com) offers bat-watching kayaking tours on Thursdays through Sundays ($55) and Mondays ($50). Reservations are required, and kids must weigh at least 30 pounds and wear a lifejacket. Ask for the tandem kayaks, so you’ll be sure not to be separated out on the water.

Keep in mind that bats are never guaranteed to emerge en masse each night. Check austinbatrefuge.org for the most up-to-date predictions of bat flights based on weather.

WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH

➽ ABOVE: The colony of Mexican free-tailed bats trickles out from Congress Avenue Bridge against the glow of sunset. // RIGHT: Nightwing, a statue by local artist Dale Whistler, is one of many bat symbols around Austin. // BELOW: An inside view of Clarity Tunnel, an abandoned railroad tunnel at Caprock Canyon State Park in the Panhandle.

WAUGH DRIVE BRIDGE

HOUSTON

4 hours southeast of Dallas facebook.com/houstonbatteam

A smaller colony, approximately 250,000–300,000 Mexican freetail bats, lives along the Waugh Drive Bridge crossing over Buffalo Bayou Park (buffalobayou.org), a lush, urban oasis that cuts through the center of sprawling Houston.

Volunteers with the Houston Bat Team host Friday night bat chats through October (on the first, third and last Fridays) about 20 minutes before sunset. To join, park in designated lots along Allen Parkway or at Spotts Park. The paved trail runs right underneath the bridge, which makes for a more intimate viewing of the emergence at dusk. Docents will momentarily shine a red light onto the bats hanging right overhead, so that you can see them more clearly, as well as point out resident night herons and hawks, all waiting to hunt the bats when they emerge.

To keep the path clear for bikes and roller skaters, you’ll need to sit on either the concrete curb or on the steep grassy slope, so don’t bother to bring chairs or blankets.

Earlier in the day while you’re awaiting sunset, let the kids work out their energy at the nature play area, about 1.5 miles east at 105 Sabine Street. The play area has a boulder

rock scramble, a rolling lawn, a stream and waterfall, climbing logs and stones, and a 33-foot slide. Have your pup with you, too? Bring them along to the dog park, equipped with water pools and separate parks for pups large and small.

CLARITY TUNNEL QUITAQUE

5 hours northwest of Fort Worth 806/455-1492; tpwd.texas.gov

Over in the Texas Panhandle, Caprock Canyons State Park is known for its roaming Texas State Bison Herd, glowing sandstone canyons, and this colony of up to half a million bats that roosts in an abandoned railroad tunnel.

Built in the early ‘20s, the tunnel located along the Caprock Canyons Trailway, is open to hikers, mountain bikers and horseback riders. It’s remote territory, so unless you’re prepared to rough it, you’re better off going with a guided vehicle tour.

The state park offers guided tours only at the height of the season through late summer, but the bats are still around through October. So reach out to one of the local outfits, such as Saint’s Roost Expedition Company (806/277-0123; saints-roost.com). Online registration is available for tours in air-conditioned vehicles through October 9. Kids must be at least 5 years old; groups of 4–9 people per tour. $30 per guest; park admission paid separately.

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➽ ABOVE: Visitors flock to this lookout spot to see the Waugh Drive Bat Colony, the second largest urban bat colony in the U.S. with more than a quarter million bats.

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ALL THE FALL FEELS

From pumpkin festivals to holiday fetes, ‘tis the season for family fun

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THE FUN STARTS NOW. When we look at all the festive events starting this fall and continuing through the holidays, our trick-or-treating bucket runneth over. See below for a roundup of even more of our favorite kid-friendly happenings—from cultural festivals and Halloween parties, right through to the beginning of Christmas festivities across Dallas-Fort Worth

FRIGHTS’N LIGHTS

October 1– 31, times vary Halloween fun goes all month long at this nottoo-spooky lights attraction outside the Frisco RoughRiders’ home stadium. The thousands of intricately carved jack-o’-lanterns bring on the creepy vibes. On the kiddie entertainment front, the loads of unique activities like a corn kernel pit, a Frankenstein-themed foam pit, and a creepy carnival with games like pumpkin bowling.

Where: Riders Ballpark, 7300 Roughriders Trail, Frisco; 214/500-4289, frightsnlights.com

Admission: $21.99 adults; $18.99 children; under 3 free.

PLANO INTERNATIONAL FESTIVAL

October 15, 11am–5pm

Tour the world and improve your wellness at this annual fest honoring the diversity in Plano’s community. Here in the heart of downtown Plano, you’ll experience a taste of more than 100 cultures through music and dance performances, food trucks and educational displays. Plus, kids can explore STEM activities and travel from booth to booth with a virtual passport. And the wellness part? In Courtyard Theater from 10am–1pm, join the fitness demos in the FitZone and get your free flu and COVID-19 shots and more health screenings. Where: Haggard Park, 901 East 15th Street, Plano; 214-495-7838, planointernationalfestival.org

Admission: FREE

CORINTH PUMPKIN PALOOZA

October 15, 11am–9pm

Pumpkin Palooza combines all the things we love about fall into one amazing day: pumpkins, hot air balloons, and free kids’ activities. Expect a full lineup of musical entertainers on two stages, amusement park rides, a petting zoo and a pumpkin patch with pumpkins for sale. If you feel like getting crafty, paint your own spooky masterpiece with a provided pumpkin and paints. And for a $20 fee, you’ll get a bird’s eye view of the festival in tethered balloon rides (weather permitting) from 6–8pm. Where: Corinth Community Park, 3700 Corinth Pkwy, Corinth; 940/498-3200, corinthpumpkinpalooza.com

Admission: FREE

EERIE IRVING

October 22, 6–10pm

Irving Parks and Recreation invites the community out to this walk-thru Halloween festival with options for those who like to be scared and for those who aren’t yet ready for it. The enclosed haunted scenes feature a haunted wedding chapel, a graveyard and more encounters with pirates and zombies. Or you can take your younger ones straight to the free carnival games

➽ ABOVE: These locals go all out with their family group costume as Mario, Luigi, Bowser and Princess Peach at Trick or Treat the Square in Frisco. Come on October 29 for the people watching and for the candy.

CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY

Saturday, November 19, 2022

4:30 PM–8:30 PM

Southlake Town Square, 1400 E. Southlake Blvd.

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and rides. Make sure you’re there at the top of the hour when the first 100 guests score free pumpkins.

Where: Trinity View Park, 2221 East State Highway 356, Irving; 972/721-2501, irvingevents.org FREE

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games for kids. Make you’re sure there by 2pm to watch how the cats react to their pumpkins. Where: In-Sync Exotics Wildlife Rescue and Educational Center, 3430 Skyview Drive, Wylie; 972/442-6888, insyncexotics.org/events

Admission: $15 adults; $10 kids ages 4–12; free for kids under 4

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October 29, 1–4pm Show off your Halloween costumes and check out what everyone else is wearing at this daytime festival at Frisco Square’s Simpson Plaza. (It’s a great alternative, too, to nighttime trick-or-treating if you’re wary of navigating residential neighborhoods after dark.) The community is welcome to enjoy carnival games, inflatables and horse wagon rides around the square. Simpson Plaza at Frisco Square, 8843 Coleman Blvd., Frisco; 214/872-1054, friscosquare.com

Admission: FREE

BIG CAT PUMPKIN TOSS & FALL FESTIVAL

November 5, 11am–4pm Pumpkins aren’t just for carving and photo ops. They’re for eating and playing, too—at least for the rescued big cats at InSync Exotics. The lions, tigers, cougars—they’ll all receive their own fall treats during this annual event that’s open to the public. The day includes face painting, a bounce house and

HOLIDAY AT THE ARBORETUM

November 9–December 31; 9am–5pm and 6–9pm Soon after its Autumn at the Arboretum festival concludes, Dallas Arboretum ushers in the return of its 12 Days of Christmas gazebos and Christmas Village with the Dazzling Musical Tree at its center. Come visit during the daytime or after dark to see everything lit up, and don’t miss the new exhibit in the DeGolyer House honoring Christmas, Hannukah and Kwanzaa. Look online for details about Santa visits and special family entertainment throughout the season.

Where: Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas; 214/5156615, dallasarboretum.org

Admission: Daytime admission: $20 adults; $12 children; under 2 free. From $10 for nighttime admission.

STORIES & SONGS WITH SANTA

November 25–December 24; hours vary NorthPark Center’s many holiday festivities kick off the

ABOVE: A Bengal tiger named Big Sultan, rescued in December 2016 by In-Sync Exotics in Wylie, crunches into his fall treat. Watch him and all the big cats get their own pumpkins during the Big Cat Pumpkin Toss on November 5. // RIGHT: Santa steps off the trolley in front of McKinney’s Old Collin County Courthouse during the annual Christmas festival the weekend after Thanksgiving.

day after Thanksgiving including, most notably, a new Santa experience with Joel Lagrone. He’s not only an aerospace engineer (how else would he fly his sleigh?) but he’s also a guitarist and singer. And each day through Christmas Eve, Santa kicks off his day of visits with an all-new story time with original sing-alongs with sleigh bells and rock ‘n’ roll guitar. Stop by Macy’s Court on level one at 10:30am Mondays–Saturdays and at noon on Sundays.

Where: NorthPark Center, 8687 N. Central Expressway, Dallas; 214/363-7441, northparkcenter.com

Admission: Visits begin at $25 (includes donation to Children’s Health) and must be booked online in advance. All bookings will be released at noon on November 20.

HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS: A MCKINNEY CHRISTMAS

November 25–27; hours vary Thanksgiving weekend marks the 41st year for this hometown Christmas celebration. The 14-block area of McKinney’s 165-year-old commercial historic downtown hosts all the family activities, food and entertainment. Ring in the winter holiday cheer here in Downtown McKinney, known for its small-town feel with a big holiday spirit. The festival opens Friday at 10:30am and runs through Sunday and features the town tree lighting,

Where: Historic Downtown McKinney, 111 North Tennessee Street, McKinney; 972/547-2660, mckinneychristmas.com

Admission: FREE

Looking

I DON’T REMEMBER MUCH about the actual photoshoot, but I do remember finding just the right spot for it. I rode in the backseat of my mother’s old vanilla-colored Mercedes-Benz station wagon while she and our then-editor, Nina Flournoy, drove around Dallas scouting locations for the cover shoot.

We pulled off Sylvan Avenue and parked near the levy overlooking downtown Dallas. My mom and Nina saw something, and told me to wait in the car. To 5-year-old me it just looked like a fallen tree limb, but they rushed back to the car with unusual urgency. We sped to the Anatole Hotel where we used their landline phone (this was 1989, remember).

A true journalist, Nina’s first call was to the Dallas Morning News newsroom, where her husband, Pulitzer-prize winning journalist Craig Flournoy, worked. What was she calling for? To report a dead body. Naturally, her second call was to the police, my mother recalls.

Sixteen years later I’m sitting in Nina’s Corporate Communications class at SMU when she holds up the day’s Dallas Morning News and asks, “Lauren, does this remind you of anything?” Without hesitation I recognized the view and said, “Yes!”

“Lauren and I found a dead body together,” Nina tells the stunned class.

Unsurprisingly, we didn’t end up shooting the cover at the levy. Finding a dead body where you’re going to bring together the mayor and some children for an issue celebrating kid-friendly Dallas didn’t quite mesh. Instead, we found a field near the Dallas Arboretum with equally stunning views for our shoot, which featured then-mayor Annette Strauss and a cluster of kids including two of her grandchildren; former Dallas Mavericks player Rolondo Blackman’s daughter; the photographer’s son, and me, in the pink jumper.

➽ ABOVE: The June 1989 issue of DallasChild featuring Dallas’ then-mayor Annette Strauss, and local kids, including the author and the photographer’s son.

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