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Summer Camp. IT’S IN OUR NATURE.

So, imagine you’re living at SeaWorld. You wake up to find sea lions doing laps in the pool. Your swimming instructors are dolphins. You party with the world’s most exotic birds and tropical fish. And your backyard is filled with incredible rides and slides. This summer, your child can have it all. That’s what being a camper here is all about.

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Mary shares... Remembering What Mothering is Truly About

reparing for this month’s Letter from the Editor, I have been reflecting on all the past Mother’s Day I have enjoyed with my family. I can’t truthfully say I remember every gift my children or my husband bought me (although I know my youngest child could), but I can say that I remember most of the gifts my kids made for me, especially those that were created at home, in secret, with whispers behind closed doors. I remember tiny hands coming into my room carrying my breakfast on a platter, with an apology because the orange juice spilt a bit when they hopped in bed with me. These are the gifts mom’s want. Memories of precious moments with their children. As kids get older, moms want something as simple as a thank you. We want to hear the words! “Thank you mom for loving us so much.” “You are so great mom and I love you.” And it would be truly fabulous if followed by words of pure, selfless love; “This is what I am going to do for you today!” Ahhh, music to every mother’s ears (I’m thinking yard work and cleaning the kitchen!) Yes, this is all great; however

what I ultimately want is for my children to continue to grow in their faith. I want their souls to be prepared for Heaven! This responsibility was given when God handed over his creations to me. This is my vocation. For help with this I can always rely on our Blessed Mother, after all, Jesus gave his mother to us at the foot of the cross before he died. Through time she has been called upon as the Advocate for the People of God. Prayers to Mary for protection and aid have been recorded as early as AD 250. She will also graciously receive those (through prayer) who feel they cannot approach God directly. She loves us as a Mother and she has the ear of her son! Mary’s role in salvation history was planned by God; He wants us to know her. And, a thank you to my Mom! Thank you for sharing your faith with your children; and thank you for praying to our Blessed Mother for my protection; God knows when I need it! I love you and this is what I am going to do for you today…. SP

Mary Ellen

When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” Then he said to the disciple, “ Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.

John 19:26-27

COVER MODEL Elizabeth B., 5 yrs This busy bee, likes to play Chutes and Ladders, running on the dirt trails, and dancing. She also likes to have tea parties with friends and entertaining her little brother, Christian, 2 yrs, with puppet shows! When asked, she said she wants to be a farmer when she grows up because milking cows and picking blueberries would be lots of fun. Misty Stagnone Photography, www.mistystagnonephotography.com

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Saying

“ I’m Sorry!” It happens. We all make mistakes. And sometimes we have to apologize for them. Even to our kids. And when that happens, don’t sweat it. You’ll earn your child’s respect and set the model for accountability. When offering your apology, do it quickly (but only when you’re ready so your child can process the incident more positively), be sincere (acknowledge her feelings), keep it short (don’t over explain) and move on (accept the forgiveness and don’t dwell on your mistake). How better to teach your kids how to apologize than to let them see how it’s done.

GERM ALERT! When doing your spring cleaning this year, don’t forget to clean those easy to reach places. Doorknobs and light switch plates are some of the dirtiest, yet most over looked places in your home. Because they’re touched often, they should really be at the top of your regular cleaning list. Then move on to the kitchen and bathrooms.

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Change the way you see your food. Research from the Cornell University Food and Brand Lab reports that the average dinner plate has increased in size by 36 percent since 1960. That’s huge. And it makes what you put on your plate look small, making you more likely to put more on your plate than you need. By simply replacing that oversized tableware with smaller plates and bowls, you’ll keep your portions in check. You’ll eat less without even realizing it.

Camp vs. Cost There’s a lot to consider when making purchases for our children, but there’s plenty of evidence out there to indicate that investing in a life experience (like camp) will be more beneficial in the long run than the new iPhone or electronic you’ve been contemplating. While people are initially happy with material purchases, satisfaction with these purchases tends to wane over time. However, satisfaction from experiential purchases not only starts high, it gets better over time. And that’s especially true for camp experiences. Campers don’t just leave camp with great memories; they take with them new friendships, better self-esteem, good leadership skills, and environmental awareness and depending on the camp, stronger spirituality. Now that’s a good investment.

PAY ATTENTION MOM Your attention is limited when multi-tasking! It may seem counterintuitive to everything we know as a mom. Juggling multiple tasks at one time is just what we do and some of us are really good at it. But, it can have negative effects on our memory. Studies show that it takes eight seconds to fully commit a piece of information to memory, so paying attention to what you’re doing (or hearing) is important. But what’s most important is really paying attention to what your kids are saying. You’re going to want those memories later.

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11 years) mom and need to return to work to help with our finances. Any suggestions to make this an easy transition for my kids?

You are right to be concerned! Returning to work will be a big change for everyone in the family, even the pets! I would suggest talking with your husband and kids about this change and how things will be different. Make sure you sound positive though, your kids will be more adaptive if they sense a good change. You need to let them know that they may be able to help with this by participating more with the family’s needs. For instance, there will be more responsibilities from the youngest to the oldest family member. Also, pick up and drop off for school may change too. So make a list that includes the smaller changes. And most importantly, make sure they know that although you will not be at home as much, being their mom is still the most important job you have! Good Luck!

teacher is mean to her. Where do I start with this?

Well, first of all, don’t be intimidated by inquiring about this with the administration or school director/principal. They would want to know. Keep in mind that you may not be the only one with this issue. Let them know that this is a concern because she says this often (let them know how often). They may want to observe the classroom and teacher to make sure everything is going according to school policy and guidelines. Also, letting the teacher know the child feels this way be help.

NEVA, MOM OF ONE GIRL, SO FAR

You are your child’s advocate, so do take this seriously. It may be something simple and your daughter confuses strictness with being mean. You may want to also ask other parents if their child has indicated this as well.

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low through with the consequences of our child’s bad behavior. I’m a wimp when it comes to my teen saying “I’m sorry!” How do I stay strong with the consequences and recognize their apology.

Your husband is right. If the groundwork has been laid, your child knows what to expect. These boundaries and family rules are for their safety and to help them grow into responsible young adults. Do give them (teens) some control over things. Let them help with the rules regarding curfews, dating, and car privileges. Having these boundaries is a way to enforce order into their lives.

SUSAN, MOM OF 2 BOYS

Stay strong and be consistent. Not following through sends mixed messages to your child. This gives them the opportunity to play let’s make a deal with your rules and you don’t want that!

BEV, MOM OF 2 TEENS

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE READY TO START OUR FAMILY. WHAT SHOULD I CONSIDER FOR NUTRITION TO PREPARE FOR MY PREGNANCY?

You are smart to start your nutrition program before becoming pregnant. This is important! To ensure a healthy pregnancy you should focus on: Eating a balanced diet; regular physical activity and include important vitamins and minerals into your diet plan. Eat a variety of foods, such as fruits and vegetables, whole grains, lean protein and low-fat dairy. Including healthy fats is important too. Try including avocados, nuts, and oils, such as olive, canola and soybean. You should also start looking for the right doctor. They will prescribe a prenatal vitamin and mineral supplement that includes iron and folic acid.

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DOG KNIFE Now you can let your little ones help in the kitchen without worrying about them cutting themselves. This cute little guy, the Kuhn-Rikon Kinderkitchen Dog Knife has serrated “teeth” that will cut through soft foods, but not small fingers. And his ears act as a hand guard to keep the knife from slipping. Too cute! Find it at everything kitchens.com. $10.

Make a Stand

Game on! At Play Education! Parents, your Kids play a super-exciting quiz game show, earning pretend cash for each question they answer correctly to win a prize of their choice. After playing the game, you can go online, enter questions your child missed and get an instant online assessment that pinpoints areas where help is needed. Lakeshore even provides free printable activities and product recommendations to help build skills even further. Lakeshore Learning; lakeshorelearning.com. $30.

Make your Tablet, like an iPad or Kindle Fire, feel welcomed in your kitchen with this Belkin Kitchen Stand and Wand for Tablets. This is the greatest thing ever! If you take your iPad into the kitchen as often as we do, to try new recipes or follow video instructions, you need one of these! The sturdy stand keeps your tablet supported and safe while the oversized stylus keeps the touchscreen clean. Find it at Target. $25.

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STICKY Milestones Sticky Bellies® makes removable, reusable milestone stickers for babies’ and moms’ favorite bellies. The stylish, affordable and mom-friendly line records baby and mom’s monthly growth with its adorable collection of printed stickers. Making documenting life’s milestones cuter and easier, Sticky Bellies® offers options for babies 1-24 months and expectant mothers 12-40 weeks. For more information on Sticky Bellies®, please visit stickybellies.com. $14.

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BY KIMBERLY MUENCH

My Daughter, Anxiety, and a Second Generation of Tummy Aches!

y daughter, Mia has been complaining about tummy aches! This brought back memories of my own issues when I was her age. Halfway through fourth grade, my parents moved us from our first house in the city to “their dream home in the country.” Guess who had to leave the only home, school and best friend she’d ever known? Yes, that would be me. This is when anxiety set in. Initially I was okay with the new school. Then, for whatever reason, things changed. My mom would practically have to push me onto the bus each morning, tears streaming down my cheeks and my brothers following behind me, wondering what the heck my problem was. At school, on occasion, I would complain to the teacher of a stomachache and she would send me to the nurse (who would let me hang out in her office for a while). Apparently that worked well enough for me to step up the game to daily visits to the nurse. Some of those days I was even convincing enough to get my mom called and to go home. Then my mom caught on to my game. She would bargain with me to go to school by coming at lunch to pick me up and bring me back (I think she knew I had no friends on the playground and she felt bad for me). All this really did was force her to go through my hysterics TWICE a day. My going home for lunch gig ended pretty quickly because of the emotional toll it took on both of us. It was just before the end of the school year when I got the brilliant idea to walk off the playground at recess and head home. Can you even imagine my mother’s complete despair when she got the call from school that I’d disappeared during the lunch hour? Her immediate thought was that I had been kidnapped and was miles away already.

It was pretty easy to just disappear off of the playground and although I could go on and on with this story, I will end it here by saying I got in VERY BIG trouble for walking off the playground during recess. Both at school and at home (four words…spanking of a lifetime.)

Ok, now fast forward thirty-five years… Mia has suddenly become very preoccupied with tummy aches. Which sort of had me stumped? For we haven’t moved in at least ten months now, and she is still attending the same school with the same friends she has had since kindergarten. Mia was willing to talk with me about it, and although I reassured her often she would be okay, I could tell she continued to be distressed many mornings. We have received more than a few phone calls from the school’s Nurse Annette in the past several weeks….so often in fact, I decided to introduce myself to her when I was at school the other day. (Just so she could put a face with a name) I THINK Mia’s anxiety centers around the fact that about a year ago she became ill at school (which is my really nice way of saying she puked her guts out all over the hallway after lunch one afternoon). Since she rarely gets sick, she had no idea what was happening to her. I am sure Mia was embarrassed. But, no harm no foul, she was back at school forty-eight hours later without much more thought about it. Although I have discussed the likelihood of her getting sick at school again is minimal

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many times, when a child is anxious about something a parent’s logic goes in one ear and out the other. So, I did what I always do when I have a problem I don’t know how to handle. I went to Barnes & Noble. And, sure enough after a few minutes of looking, I found a book that has helped me explain to Mia what worries and anxieties are and how to talk about them and then how to work through them. I thought I would share the name of the book in case maybe you have a little worry wart running around under your roof as well: What to Do When You Worry Too Much by Dawn Huebner, is an easy-to-read, awesome workbook (for ages 6-12) Mia and I went through this book together over a few nights time. We have had no calls from Nurse Annette this past week, and I see her making progress in taking charge of her worries. She really enjoyed working through the book and saw herself and her symptoms so often through its pages, that she kept saying, “I think they wrote this book just for me Mom!” I am sure we are nowhere near the end of anxiety issues, but I am glad I found a way to help Mia this time. SP

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BY PATRICK HEMPFING

Lessons Learned

t’s not easy being a parent. In fact, sometimes it’s downright frustrating, like when you have to correct your child for the same behavior over and over. Will the lessons ever be learned? That’s why it’s so gratifying when you can see that you’re getting through. Recently, I came home after playing tennis and said to my daughter, “Jessie, I did something tonight that took a lot of courage.” She wanted to know the details. I told her that I stopped playing tennis because of the weather, even though I expected my tennis buddies to tease me. The thunder had been rumbling in the distance for about fifteen minutes. Every now and then, a flash of lighting lit up the sky. The pending storm didn’t deter any of the other fifteen men who were playing. When I saw yet another streak of lightning, I had a flashback to my childhood. My little brother and I frequently played at the neighborhood ball diamond. We knew that if we didn’t get home at the first sign of rain, there would be a “Mommastorm” when we walked in the house. After I finished holding serve to complete a game, I told the other players that I was calling it a night. That sounded much better than saying, “I’m quitting because I’m scared of the weather.” I asked one of the players, a farmer, if he felt it was still safe to play. He said, “You never know when a stray lightning bolt might occur.” Still, the rest of the men stayed on the courts while I packed my gear and went home. I told Jessie that it took courage for me to stop even though the other men continued playing. My wife, Mattie, used my story to reinforce a lesson from earlier in the day. Jessie’s first-grade teacher had given each student a paper

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doll and instructed them to take the dolls home and decorate them to reflect their interests. Jessie put a lot of thought into her project. She even made a pink dress for her paper doll in the style of the pink dress that she planned to wear for the presentation and glued photocopies of her tennis shoes to the doll’s feet. She skipped into school carrying her doll in a bag to keep it secret, anxious for the presentation time when the students would describe their dolls. After school, Jessie told us that no one noticed that she and her doll were identically dressed. She told Mattie that none of the other kids had the matching outfits idea, so she didn’t say anything. She wished that she had pointed it out in her presentation. Mattie talked with Jessie about how everyone is unique. People just need to do their best, and then be proud of who they are and what they do instead of trying to be like everybody else, she said. Then she reassured Jessie that this was a good learning opportunity and that she would have more courage the next time. During bedtime prayers that evening, Jessie said “Thank you for helping Daddy make the right decision.” A smile came to my face. Maybe she’s getting more from our lessons than I think. Mom, I still come in when it storms. Your lessons stuck. Happy Mother’s Day! Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP

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Small Scientists at the Parr Library 11am-

12pm. Activities and stories involving simple science concepts, designed to strengthen emerging skills and ignite curiosity in young minds. FREE Ages 3-5 with parents/caregivers Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., Plano, Texas, 972.769-4300 www.planolibrary.org

McKinney Farmers Market at Adriatica 3- 6pm Local and organic meat, dairy, honey and produce vendors offer their wares. Every Thursday at Adriatica on McKinney’s west side. 6851 Virginia Pkwy, McKinney, Texas, www.chestnutsquare.org

Tutoring Thursdays at the Schimelpfenig Library 6-7:30pm. Free math tutoring help is available EVERY Thursday thru May 15. All materials provided, but students are encouraged to bring unfinished math homework with them. Grades 1-12. Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, Texas, www.planolibrary.org

fri 2 Plano’s Interurban Railway Museum Story Time Fri 10:30-11am Every Friday morning at 10:30 in the lobby of the historic Interurban Railway Museum in downtown Plano, 901 E 15st St, Plano, Texas, 972.9412117 www.planoconservancy.org

Breakfast Club at the Art Centre Theatre 1pm - 3pm. What can five people - with absolutely nothing in common - thrown together find out about each other, and themselves? Found out in this brilliant coming of age tale. Admission: $12-$15 Art Centre Theatre, 5220 Village Creek Dr., Plano, Texas, 214.8103228 www.visitdallas.com

sat 3 Annual Choral Concert: The Art of the Song Sat - 8pm - 10pm. The UT Dallas Chamber Singers, directed by Kathryn Evans with Michael McVay, accompanist, and the UT Dallas Community Chorale, directed by Derrick Brookins, this concert is sure to please audiences of all ages. University Theatre, 800 W. Campbell Rd., Richardson, 972.883-2787 http://www.utdallas. edu/ah/events/index.php

Suburbia Music Festival May 3rd & 4th .This two day music festival will take you on a musical & geographic adventure. Experience a unique combination of world class artists from multiple genres in unforgettable surroundings. Enjoy the change of scenery!. 2801 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, Texas, www.suburbiamusicfest.com

Frisco Farmers Market 8am-1pm A bounty of

fresh fruits and vegetables creates a colorful welcome to those who appreciate the “buy fresh, buy local” idea. Every Saturday. Frisco Square, 6048 Frisco Square Blvd. www.friscofarmersmarket.com

Youth Fishing Derby in Allen 8-10:30 Don’t miss the Youth Fishing Derby! Prizes! Pre-registration is recommended by May 2. The first 30 children to register will receive a free T-Shirt. Check in time is 7:30 a.m. with fishing instruction. Registration ccode 42578. Joe Farmer Recreation Center, 1201 E. Bethany, Allen, 214.509-4750 www.cityofallen.org

Historic McKinney Farmers Market 8am-12pm. Local and organic meat, dairy, honey and produce vendors offer their wares EVERY Saturday at Chestnut Square near downtown McKinney. 315 S Chestnut St, McKinney, Texas, www.chestnutsquare.org Great American Cleanup in Allen 8am-1pm This community event features vendors from throughout the community to help us clean up and clean out the garage, closets, sheds, storage units and every other place where you keep your unused items. Go to the KAB website for more details. Allen City Hall, 305 Century Pkwy., Allen, 214.509-4555 www.cityofallen.org Allen Animal Shelter Cabela’s Adoption Event 9am-5pm The Allen Animal Shelter will be on hand during the “Cabela’s Family Great Outdoors Adventure Day!” 1 Cabela Dr., Allen, www.cityofallen.org

The Very Hungry Caterpillar at Barnes and Noble, Stonebriar Mall Sat 11am - 11:30am. Join us for Eric Carle’s The Very Hungry Caterpillar 45th Anniversary Celebration. Ages 4 and up. Barnes and Noble, Stonebriar Mall, 2601 Preston Rd., Frisco, 972.668-2820 www.barnesandnoble.com

Very Hungry Caterpillar Hands-On Learning at Barnes and Noble, Plano 11-11:30 am. Join us at 11 am for Eric Carle’s The Very Hungry Caterpillar 45th Anniversary Celebration Ages 4 and up. Barnes and Noble, Plano, 2201 Preston Rd., Plano, 972.612-0999 www.barnesandnoble.com

Very Hungry Caterpillar Story Anniversary Party at Barnes and Noble, Creekwalk Village

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tions. Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8029 www.planolibrary.org

sun 4 Readers and Waggers at the Davis Library 3pm - 4pm (independent readers entering grades 1-5) – Bring your favorite book from home or choose one from the library, and read it to a Heart of Texas Therapy Dog. FREE, Grades 1-5 Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, www.plano.gov

mon 5 Puppet Show at the Schimelpfenig Library May 05 – 06, 10:30am - 11am Puppet Show: Ballad of Dirty Joe – Listen to pirate stories, sing pirate songs and watch a pirate puppet show. All Ages. Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, 972.769-4200 www.planolibrary.org

Junior Robotics: Smart Spinners at the Davis Library May 05 - 19. 3:30pm - 5pm. Registration required: Smart Spinners (ages 7-9) Learn about gears, rotation and speed! Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8029 www.planolibrary.org

Cinco de Mayo Celebration at the Richardson Public Library 7pm - 8:30pm. Enjoy a puppet show! Listen to traditional Mexican music! Make cinco de mayo crafts! Richardson Public Library, 900 Civic Center Dr., Richardson, 972.744-4358 www.cor.net

tue 6 Wagging Tales at Smith Public Library 3:30pm-4:15pm. Come perfect your reading aloud skills by reading to Abby. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Wylie, 972.516-6250 www.wylietexas.gov

Tutoring Tuesdays at the Harrington Library May 06 – 13, 6-7:30pm Tutoring Every Tuesday. All materials provided, but students are encouraged to bring unfinished math homework. FREE Grades 1-12 Harrington Library, 1501 18th St., Plano, www.planolibrary.org

Teen Robotics at the Haggard Library 6-8pm

11am-11:30pm. Join us for a fun Storytime to celebrate the 45th anniversary of Eric Carle’s beloved Very Hungry Caterpillar. Creekwalk Village, 801 West 15th St., Plano 972.422-3372 www.barnesandnoble.com

Learn how to build and program robots using the new LEGO Mindstorms EV3 kits. FREE (must register) Ages 13-15y Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd., Plano, 972.7694250 www.planolibrary.org

Weather Wonders at the Davis Library 3:30pm

Strictly Baz Luhrmann Movie Series at the Allen Public Library May 06 - 27, 7-9pm. 300 N.

- 4:30pm Increase your weather wisdom with a variety of experiments, hands-on activities, and demonstra-

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School’s Out & Summer’s In!

June 2 – August 15 Time to make friends, learn new skills and have FUN this summer!

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Select from a range of one- or twoweek academic enrichment, artistic, sports or fun-filled camps. For boys and girls, ages 3-18.

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the know it all wed 7 Discovery Science Story Time at the Harrington Public Library May 07 - 2, 1 1:30pm-2 pm. FREE Ages 3-5 with parents/caregivers. 1501 18th St., Plano, 972.941-7175 www.planolibrary.org

thur 8 McKinney Farmers Market at Adriatica 3pm-6pm, Every Thursday. 6851 Virginia Pkwy, McKinney, www.chestnutsquare.org Tutoring Thursdays at the Schimelpfenig Library May 08 - 15. Thu 6 pm7:30 pm Free math tutoring help. All materials provided, but students are encouraged to bring unfinished math homework with them. FREE, Grades 1-12. Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, www.planolibrary.org

fri 9 Allen Arts Festival Festival will take place this spring featuring a juried selection of outstanding fine arts along with children’s interactive art activities and live artistic performances. Watters Creek, 970 Garden Park Dr, Allen, www.allenartsalliance.org Puppet Show at the Haggard Library 3 pm - 3:30 pm Puppet Show: Goldilocks and the Three Bears. Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd., Plano, 972.769-4464 www.planolibrary.org LEGO Challenge at the Schimelpfenig Library 3pm - 4pm LEGO Challenge (grades 1-5) – Challenge yourself in this one hour LEGO build! Build a spectacular skyscraper, an amazing castle, or a strange creature and put it on display. The winner gets a trophy! Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, 972.769-4200 www.planolibrary.org

Get Wimpy at the Davis Library 3-4 pm. Get Wimpy! (grades 3-6) Come join us for a party filled with activities based on the Diary of a Wimpy Kid books! Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8029 www. planolibrary.org

SNAP Dance in Allen 7-10 pm Come SNAP your fingers and shuffle your feet at our Special Needs Adapted Program! Dances feature live music, a fun and creative theme, snacks and a commemorative photo that is mailed to each participant’s home! Each dance takes place the second Friday of every month. Register early, the fee increases to $15 at 5 p.m. the Wednesday prior to each dance. Recreation Hall, 105 S. Anna Dr., Allen, 214.509-4707 www.cityofallen.org

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sat 10 Frisco Farmers Market 8am-1 pm, Every Saturday. Frisco Square, 6048 Frisco Square Blvd., Frisco, www.friscofarmersmarket.com

Mom’s Swap Meet in Allen 9am-2pm. Moms are invited to make a little extra money by selling kid’s clothes, knickknacks and other items your family may have outgrown. All proceeds from sales are yours to keep. Registration code 43365. Sellers $20, Browsing is FREE! Joe Farmer Recreation Center, 1201 E. Bethany, Allen, 214.509-4750 www.cityofallen.org Frisco Women’s League Tea in the NYC Mother and Daughter Tea and Style Show, 1 pm-4 pm Embassy Suites, 7600 John Q Hammons Dr, Frisco, www.fwltea.org

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Raptors of Texas at the Davis Library 3pm-4pm. Raptors of Texas –Learn up close about the characteristics that make them a top predator and why they are so important to our environment. Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8029 www.planolibrary.org Girls Gotta Read Adult Book Club 6pm - 7pm Join our group of fiction lovers who take time out from their busy lives the second Saturday of every other month to discuss a good book. This month the selection is Sue Monk Kidd’s The Invention of Wings. Barnes and Noble, Creekwalk Village, 801 West 15th St., Plano, 972.4223372 www.barnesandnoble.com

Second Saturdays in Historic Downtown McKinney 7pm - 10pm. The community and beyond enjoy an evening of art, music, and food. Guests can explore local art galleries, listen to great local and regional talent and taste specialties in some of the area’s best eateries. Historic Downtown McKinney, 111 N. Tennessee St., McKinney, www.mckinneytexas.org

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sun 11 Mother’s Day Story Time at Barnes and Noble Plano 11 am - 11:30 am Join us for Mother’s Day Story Time featuring, Oh, the Things My Mom Will Do ... Stories celebrating mom and card-making, too! Barnes and Noble, Plano, 2201 Preston Rd., Plano, 972.612-0999 www.barnesandnoble.com

tue 13 La Leche League 10:30 am - 11:30 am Room 122 LEADER INFORMATION: Beth 972-747-1297 Cleo cleo6924@aol.com Lynnee 469-855-0647 lmburns30@sbcglobal. net Lord of Life Lutheran Church, 3601 W 15th St, Plano, www.texaslll.org Children’s Book Club at Barnes and Noble Creekwalk Village 3:30pm - 4pm Each month, children ages 5 to 7 meet to discuss and do fun activities centered around their love of reading! Please email crm2586@bn.com for details on what this group has chosen to read this month. Barnes and Noble, 801 West 15th St., Plano, www.barnesandnoble.com

Your Community Storytimes Plano - Davis Branch 7501-B Independence Pkwy., 972-208-8000 Mon - Toddler Time 10 & 11am, ages 18-36 mo., Tues - Babes in Arms 10am, ages 0-9 mo.; Preschool Storytime 11am, ages 3-5 Wed - Preschool Storytime 10am, ages 3-5; Family Storytime 7pm, all ages Thur Toddler Time 10 & 11am, ages 18-36 mo. Fri - Rhyme Time 10 & 11am, ages 0-24 mo. Sat - Family Storytime 11am, all ages

Plano - Haggard Branch 2501 Coit Rd., 972-769-4250 Mon - Family Storytime 7pm, all ages, Tue - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages; Toddler Time 10 & 10:45am, ages 18-36 mo. Wed - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages; Toddler Time 10 & 10:45am, ages 18-36 mo. Thur - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages; Rhyme Time 10:15am, ages 0-23mo.

Plano - Harrington Branch 1501 18th St., 972-941-7175 Mon - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages Tue - Family Storytime 7pm, all ages Wed - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages Thur - Rhyme Time 10:15am, ages 0-23mo

Plano - Parr Branch 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., 972-769-4300 Mon - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages Tue - Family Storytime 7pm, all ages Wed - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages Thur - Rhyme Time 10:15am, ages 0-23mo

Plano - Schimelpfenig Branch

Myself 11:15am, ages 4-5, Thur - Together Time 10:15 & 11:15am, ages 2-3; Family Story Time 11:15am & 7pm, ages 2-6 w/family

Frisco Public Library 6101 Frisco Square Blvd., 972-292-KNOW Tue - Toddler Story Time 10:15 (ages 18mo.-23mo.) & 10:45am (ages 2-3yrs); Preschoolers Story Time 11:30am, ages 3-5 yrs Wed - Babies and Books 10, 10:30, 11 & 11:30am, ages 0-17 mo.; Bedtime Stories 7pm, all ages, Thur - Toddler Story Time 10:15 (ages 18mo.-23mo.) & 10:45am (ages 2-3yrs); Preschoolers Story Time 11:30am, ages 3-5 yrs, Fri - Toddler Story Time 10:15 (ages 18mo.-23mo.) & 10:45am (ages 2-3yrs); Preschoolers Story Time 11:30am, ages 3-5 yrs Sat - Family Story Time 10:30am, all ages

McKinney - Roy and Hellen Hall Branch 101 E. Hunt St., 972-547-7323 Mon - Fun with Baby 10:15am, ages 6-17mo & caregiver; Hold My Hand 10:15am, ages 18mo-3yrs & caregiver; On My Own 11am, ages 3-5, Wed - Family Story Time 6:30pm, all ages & caregivers *Tickets will be handed out for all preschool programs beginning at 10am

McKinney - John and Judy Gay Branch 6861 W. Eldorado Pkwy, 972-547-7323 Wed - Fun with Baby 10:15am, ages 6-17mo & caregiver; Hold My Hand 10:15am, ages 18mo-3yrs & caregiver; On My Own 11am, ages 3-5

5024 Custer Rd., 972-769-4200 Mon - Family Storytime 10:30am, all ages Wed - Rhyme Time 10:15am, ages 0-23mo; Family Storytime 2:15pm, all ages, Thur Rhyme Time 10:15am, ages 0-23mo

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Allen Public Library

Smith Public Library – Wylie

300 N. Allen Dr., 214-509-4900 Mon - Fun Ones Story Time 10:15 & 11:15am, ages 12-23 mo. Tue - Baby & Me 10:15am, pre-walkers; Fun Ones Story Time 6:30pm, ages 12-23 mo; Family Story Time 11:15am ages 2-6 w/family Wed - Together Time 10:15am, ages 2-3; All By

800 Thomas St., 972-456-6250 Tue - Family Storytime 6pm, all ages Wed - Toddler Time 9 & 9:45am, ages 1-2; Big Kids 10:30 & 11:15am, ages 3-5, Fri - Babies & Books 11am, ages 0-1; Toddler Time 11:30am, ages 1-2 *Tickets required for Toddler, Big Kid and Family Story Times.

900 Civic Center Dr., 972-744-4350 Mon - Family Story Time 6:45pm, ages 3-7 Tue - “It’s Elementary!” Storytime 4:15-4:45pm, ages K - 4th grade

All Storytimes are FREE. Listed are the regularly scheduled storytimes. Call to confirm as schedules are subject to change.

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the know it all Wagging Tales at Smith Public Library May 13 – 20 3:30 pm - 4:15 pm. Every Tuesday. Doggies need books too! Come perfect your reading aloud skills by reading to Abby. Tickets are free and required. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Wylie, 972.516-6250 www.wylietexas.gov

wed 14 Morning Mindstretchers at the Schimelpfenig Library May 14 - 28. Wed - 10:30 am - 11:30 am. Have fun learning with educational toys. Includes simple math, science and early literacy activities. All Ages. Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, 972.769-4200 www.planolibrary.org

Discovery Science Story Time at the Harrington Public Library May 14 - 21. Wed - 1:30pm - 2pm. Stories and hands-on activities. FREE Ages 3-5 with parents/ 1501 18th St., Plano, 972.941-7175 www.planolibrary.org

thur 15 La Leche League of McKinney 10:15 am-11:45 am LEADER INFORMATION: Autumn 559-312-3873 wintermermaid@gmail.com DeeDee 972-838-9135 dlynn@dfwair. net Marie 972-800-9216 mamasmilk13@gmail.com First United Methodist Church, 315 N. Church St, McKinney, www.texaslll.org **June meeting to be held June 13th** Third Thursdays Mysteries Book Club at the Davis Library 7pm - 8:30pm Read and discuss the featured book each month. Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8000 www.plano.gov

fri 16 Pete the Cat Party at the Parr Library 11am - 12pm Pete the Cat Party (ages 3-6) Come party as we celebrate Pete and his groovy books. Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., Plano, 972.769-4300, www.planolibrary.org

sat 17 Frisco Farmers Market 8am - 1 pm, Every Satruday. Frisco Square, 6048 Frisco Square Blvd., Frisco, www.friscofarmersmarket.com

Historic McKinney Farmers Market 8am - 12pm. Every Saturday at Chestnut Square near downtown McKinney. Chestnut Square , 315 S Chestnut St, McKinney, www.chestnutsquare.org

Fire Safety Story Time at the Davis Library 3pm-4pm. Enjoy a story and learn about fire safety from Plano Firefighters! Truck and firefighters will be available for photos after the program. Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy., Plano, 972.208-8029 www.planolibrary.org

tue 20 Wagging Tales at Smith Public Library 3:30pm - 4:15pm Doggies need books too! Come perfect your reading aloud skills by reading to Abby. Tickets are free and required. They are handed out at the children’s desk beginning at 2pm the day of the program. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Wylie,

wed 21 Morning Mindstretchers at the Schimelpfenig Library 10:30am - 11:30am. Have fun learning with educational toys. Includes simple math, science and early literacy activities. All Ages. Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd., Plano, 972.769-4200 www.planolibrary.org Sidewalk Chalk at the Parr Library 11am - 12pm. Sidewalk Chalk – The sidewalk is your canvas! Library entrance, weather permitting. Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., Plano, 972.769-4300 www.planolibrary.org

Discovery Science Story Time at the Harrington Public Library 1:302pm: Stories and hands-on activities introduce simple science concepts in the Harrington story-house. FREE Ages 3-5 with parents. 1501 18th St., Plano, 972.941-7175 www.planolibrary.org

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Mother Daughter Book Club at Barnes and Noble Plano 7-8 pm. Join us on the third Wednesday of every month for an engaging conversation that only moms and their daughters can share! Barnes and Noble, Plano, 2201 Preston Rd., Plano, 972.612-0999 www.barnesandnoble.com

thur 22 Kendra Scott Gives Back to ALS Association 5pm - 8pm. Do you love shopping, champagne and cupcakes? Join us on for a Kendra Gives back event. Starting at 5pm 20% of all sales will be donated to the ALS Association. Questions? Contact Kristen McCaffery at k.mccaffery@alsa-texas.org Kendra Scott, 5800 Legacy Dr.Ste. C2A, Plano, www.kendrascott.com Young Adult Novelists to Visit Frisco Library 7pm - 8pm. Two Texas-based authors who write fiction for young adults will share their craft at Frisco Public Library’s Book Nook, 6101 Frisco Square Blvd., Frisco, www.friscolibrary.com

fri 23 Elementary Book Group at Barnes and Noble Creekwalk Village. 3:30pm 4:30pm. Join our group of chapter book readers in grades 2-8 as they discuss new, popular books. This month they will be the classic Robinson Crusoe. Any edition of this title is fine. Barnes and Noble, Creekwalk Village, 801 West 15th St., Plano, 972.422-3372 www.barnesandnoble.com

sat 24 SP USA Football Fundamentals Camp for Boys & Girls Presented by EXLR8 Sports. Only $25, 469-667-4407 exlr8sportscamps.com. See ad in this issue.

Harry Potter and Me at the Parr Library 3pm - 4pm. Harry Potter and Me (grades 3 & up) Rediscover Harry and his adventures at Hogwarts! Each month we’ll discuss one of the books, plus have fun with Potter-filled activities. Parents/caregivers are encouraged to attend and muggles are welcome. RSVP monthly at reneek@ plano.gov. 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., Plano, 972.769-4300 www.planolibrary.org

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Draw & Animate Using JavaScript at the Haggard Library 3-4pm. (6th grade & up) Learn how JavaScript comes with a powerful graphics library that minimizes coding effort and gets you used to dealing with syntax errors in a friendly way. Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd., Plano, 972.769-4464 www.planolibrary.org Saturday Night THRIVE 6-8pm Newton’s Lab Science Show – FREE Family Connection Night. FUN night of Science Fun! Bring your own dinner or purchase snacks/ drinks from the $1 cafe. Go home with an At-Home Family Values Tool. This Side Up! Family Center, 1100 Capital Ave, Plano, www.thissideupfamily.org

mon 26 SP Guthrie Summer School May 26-Aug 22, Weekly mini school sessions

consisting of reading, vocabulary, writing & oral presentation, math and critical thinking for pre-K through high school students. 598 Old Custer Rd, Allen 972-5966929 guthriegifted.com. See ad in this issue.

Monday Book Club at the Smith Public Library 6:30pm - 7:30pm. Adults only book club. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Bldg. 300, Wylie, www. wylietexas.gov Summer Sounds Concert Series in Allen 7pm - 9pm. 17th annual Summer Sounds concert series kick off. Light concessions and snow cones are available for purchase. Ground blanket seating is preferred so that concert goers of all ages can enjoy the best line of sight. Joe Farmer Recreation Center, 1201 E. Bethany, Allen, www.cityofallen.org

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Reader’s Choice Book Club at the Frisco Public Library 7pm - 8:30pm Reader’s Choice Book Club at the Frisco Public Library City Room (5th floor) This book club is open to all adults. Frisco Public Library, 6101 Frisco Square Blvd, Frisco, www.friscolibrary.com

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thur 29 Block Party at the Parr Library 11am -12pm. Block Party – Start STEAM education early! Building with wooden blocks develops a child’s math, science and social skills, and provides lots of fun. Families can build, talk, explore, and create together! All Ages. Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy., Plano, 972.769-4300 www. planolibrary.org ROAR Poetry Festival at the Smith Public Library 7-8 pm. Let your voice be heard! Our festival kicks off with a poetry open mic at 96° West Winery in downtown Wylie (for ages 18 and up).Will Richey, known for his program, DaVerse Lounge, will lead the poetry workshops for tweens (4th and 5th grade) and teens (6th -12th grade). Workshops will be held on Saturday, May 31 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. with lunch and open mic from 12 p.m. to 1 p.m. To register call 972-516-6250, option 3. Participants may bring up to two poems. One will be selected for publication. For more information, visit the library website at www.wylietexas.gov/library or call 972-516-6250, option 3. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Wylie, 972.516-6250 www.wylietexas.gov

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Classics on the Square in McKinney 7:30am - 10:30am. The Morning Maniacs will host a show and shine the last Saturday of each month from 7:30-10:30 a.m. and invite all classic car and truck enthusiasts to attend. Historic Downtown McKinney, 111 N. Tennessee St., McKinney, www.mckinneytexas.org Color Up 5K 8am-12 pm. Frisco Square, 6101 Frisco Square Blvd, Frisco. Get ready for Color Up Frisco! Start your colorful adventure dressed in pristine white! Signature Charity Frisco Family Services is the benefiting charity for this event, a non-profit organization who helps members of the Frisco community who are facing hunger, homelessness and other urgent needs improve their quality of life and achieve self-sufficiency. $5 from each adult race fee will directly benefit Frisco Family Services. Get more info: www.colorup5k.com/frisco. SP

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calling all dads...

BY CHRISTINA KATZ

8 Unique Ways to Say

“I Love You Mom”

here are three words your mom can never hear often enough. And yet, the most common gifts that go with these words-flowers and chocolates-can become a little tedious year after year. So why not surprise mom this time with something she’s not expecting?

Here are eight fun ways to put a smile on mom’s face this Mother’s Day 1. Make a custom card. 2-4-6-8, time to appreciate. Here’s an idea for the short of time and big of heart. Make a list of all of the things you appreciate about your mom. A list of at least 25 specific things you love, typed up (cute fonts), printed on nice paper, and framed! This is sure to warm Mom’s heart today and always. 2. Stir the memory pot. Create a slideshow to music of your favorite photos of mom. You can either scan your old family photos or take close-up photos of them with your digital camera. If you don’t have photo management software on your computer, check out those that offer slideshow making for a small price tag like Shutterfly.com. Smilebox.com will let you make a slideshow if you sign up for a free trial. Be sure to set your slideshow to mom’s favorite tunes. 3. Deck her house. While you’ve got those photos out, let’s look at what else you can make for mom. How about creating a gift that will be useful on a daily basis? For an inexpensive price, fetching photos of you and mom can be emblazoned on mugs, mouse pads, coasters, puzzles, playing cards, t-shirts, magnets, pencil holders, luggage tags, jewelry-you name it. What better way to remind mom that you love her every day?

4. Make mom proud. How about a donation to mom’s favorite charity in her name on Mother’s Day? If mom doesn’t have a favorite charity, how about choosing one that provides support for children like Save the Children (savethechildren.org) or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital (stjude.org) or Ronald MacDonald House Charities (rmhc.org)? 5. Create an heirloom. A locket is a special gift that can be personalized with pictures of you and your mom, or just a picture of yourself with a word of appreciation or love in the other side. Like “Love You” or “Thanks, Mom.”

6. Your heart-warming story. How about a collection of heart-warming stories about moms, like “Chicken Soup for the Soul” books, which now carry about twenty titles just for moms. Of course, to make it really special make sure it contains your story! So write yours, print it out, and slide it into the book with the others?

7. Don your thinking cap. Brainstorm ideas mom doesn’t typically splurge on for herself but would enjoy. For example, my mother likes fine art so I could sign her up for a Plein-Air art class through a local community college or purchase tickets for the two of us to attend a local art exhibit. What does your mom like? Make it happen! 8.

Just us girls. Short on time and money? How about a coupon for a nice day trip with just you and mom? Slow down and relax together. You’ll be so glad you did. Of course, a heartfelt sentiment of thanks is always gratifying to hear. So don’t hold back, tell your mom how much you love her and why! SP

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10 Ways to Make Your Mother Feel Special

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Making the Most of Summer BY GAYLA GRACE

ummer camp offers all kinds of fun and character-building experiences for kids of any age. Whether you’re looking for a few hours of entertainment or weeks of intentional skill-building for your child, you can find it at camp.

Age 0-5 Day camps offer the perfect opportunity for young kids to experience time away from Mom and explore new activities. Camp for preschool children focuses on free play, sharing with others, group games, (inside and outside) and simple arts and crafts. If you’re sending your child to camp for the first time, make sure the schedule matches her personality and routine to prevent a stressful experience. Does there need to be naptime? Should your child be potty trained to attend? Would your child adjust more easily by starting with a 1/2 day camp instead of full day? Are there appropriate breaks for snacks and changes in activity? It’s important to find out what the counselor to camper ratio is for children this age. You want to ensure your child will be adequately cared for with a friendly, well-staffed team. You also want to determine if the counselors are trained to help with issues common to preschoolers including separation anxiety, potty training, and temper tantrums. The best place to find camps for young children is through day cares, churches, nursery schools, and local elementary schools. Specialty camps also abound through gymnastic centers, music schools, and sporting centers. Consider your child’s interests and find a camp that fits to give your preschool child a chance to make new friends and explore new experiences.

Age 6-11 Elementary-age children thrive at camp, whether it’s day camp or stay-away camp. It’s the perfect solution to sibling squabbles and long summer days. But it pays to do your research and find the right fit for your child. Camps for this age range from sports camps to music camps to academic camps to church camps. Don’t let the variety intimidate you as you research; start with the interests of your child and ask friends and neighbors to give opinions on camps their kids have attended. At this age, our kids have had the most fun at away camps that gave them the opportunity to try activities not available at home such as

zip lining, archery, rock wall climbing, in addition to swimming, arts and crafts, and campfire sing-alongs with friends. Kids gain independence as they make decisions and meet new friends outside of the comforts of home. They gain self-confidence in trying new activities. And they learn to appreciate the beauty of nature as they unplug from technology. Although they may experience periods of homesickness, they learn to forge through their feelings with caring camp counselors and new friends. Specialty camps close to home also help kids explore new hobbies or create opportunities for parents and kids to enjoy camp together. A mother-daughter sewing camp or father-son golfing camp allows great bonding time while developing a skill enjoyed by both. If your child has never experienced camp, start with a day camp or send a friend along for an away camp. It’s important that their first camp experience be a good one. If you find it wasn’t a perfect fit, try a different one next year. But don’t give up on the beauty and benefits of camp for elementary-age children.

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trouble unless parents intentionally seek out creative options. Junior high and high schools provide information for local camps worth investigating as the school year draws to a close. It’s also easy to scour the internet for camps that match your child’s interests. Some camps provide certification such as lifeguard training or first aid certification that can enable your youth to successfully find a job upon completion.

Encourage your youth to research camps with you to find one that fits

Age 12-15 Tweens and teens have better focus than younger children and benefit from camps that more closely match their interests and personalities. Sports and music camps are great for this age and help kids advance athletic skills and enhance musical talent. Academic camps offer youth advanced-learning opportunities in subjects they might want to explore for longterm focus. And church camps offer character-building and self-awareness experiences not learned in school. Camps provide a safe place for teens and tweens to hang out while parents work during summer break. Not yet able to drive or find a summer job, kids this age too often allow technology to rule or walk into unsupervised

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When kids attend camp, they develop resilience and flexibility that benefits them later in life. An article in Psychology Today, “Creating Advantage in College,” by Steve Baskin parallels the experiences of summer camp and the adjustment of college. He cites that kids work through similar adjustments at camp and college such as, “Being away from home and your traditional support system (family, friends, familiar places), and dealing with large amounts of uncertainty (what will classes require, how will I fit in socially, can I deal with this new roommate).” Baskin proposes that kids who find success working through these challenges at camp adjust easier when presented with the transition to college. Summer camp offers unique experiences and character-building opportunities for every child. Whether your child is 2 or 15, camp is the perfect place to find adventure and make lifelong memories in the process. Don’t delay - find a camp your child will enjoy today! SP Bio: Gayla Grace, freelance writer and mom to five, has sent her kids to camp every summer and continues to find new camps for her one child still at home to enjoy.

activity R E S O U R C E S

Adventure Kids Playcare

Frisco 972-668-5990, Plano 972-6125400, www.adventurekidsplaycare.com

Amigos Spanish Preschool

The Heritage Guild, 972-562-8790 www.chestnutsquare.org

International Conservatory of Performing Arts, 972-881-1915

214-469-1555 www.amigosspanishpreschool.com

www.icparts.org

AquaTykes, 214-585-2406, www.aquatykestx.com

972-612-7000 , www.kidsdancecompany.com

The Ark Preschool, 972-612-7293, www.thearkpreschool.org

Lil Sluggers, 972-509-5958

Camp Invention

Mudpies and Lullabies

www.CAMPINVENTION.org

Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Garden Montessori Academy Frisco 972-540-0980, Plano 972-3340980, West Plano 972-618-8844 www.cgmacademy.com

Club Scientific, 214-530-5979, www.ClubScientificDallas.com

Cooper Fitness Center at Craig Ranch 214-383-1000, www.coopercraigranch.com

Dallas Summer Musicals 1-800-982-ARTS (2787) www.dallassummermusicals.org

Destination Science, 1-888-909-2822 www.destinationscience.org Dinosaur World, 254-898-1526 www.dinosaurworld.com Eldorado Montessori, 972-334-9444 www.eldoradomontessori.com

Episcopal School of Dallas www.esdallas.org

EXLR8 Sports, 469-667-4407 www.exlr8sportscamps.com

Frisco Indoor Sports, 972-292-1111, www.friscoindoorsports.com

The Kids Dance Company

www.lilsluggersdallas.com www.mudpies-lullabies.com

The Paddocks Stables, 469-583-1402 www.paddocksinc.com

Primrose School www.primroseschools.com

Prince of Peace, 972-447-0532 www.pops.org

SafeSplash Swim School www.safesplash.com

SeaLife Aquarium www.visitsealife.com/grapevine

SeaWorld Camp, 1-800-700-7786 www.SeaWorldSanAntonio.com Small Miracles Academy www.smallmiraclesacademy.org

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Treating Mom on Mother’s Day with

Breakfast in Bed!

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Do you have eggs, milk and bread? Then you can make this Fancy (but simple) French Bread Breakfast Dish.

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When your mother asks, “Do you want a piece of advice?” it’s a mere formality. It doesn’t matter if you answer yes or no. You’re going to get it anyway.”

eggs - 4 large ar oon sug - 1 teasp f salt - Dash o d ilk m rite brea - 1 cup our favo y f o e s h e c W at) sli r Whole - 10 to 12 French o , n a li a It , (White jam favorite - Butter or your p ru y s - Maple erves 4 Recipe s

— Erma Bombeck

What you’ll do:

In a wide bowl or pie plate beat eggs with a fork (lightly). Stir in the sugar, salt and milk (for added flavor you can add 1/2 teaspoon of vanilla extract)

Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees. Heat a skillet or griddle coated with a layer of butter or margarine.

Working in batches, place bread slices, one at a time, into the egg

mixture letting them soak for a few seconds. Carefully turn to coat the other side.

Transfer soaked bread slices to the griddle or skillet, heating slowly until bottom is golden brown. Turn and brown the other side. Transfer all to a baking sheet and bake until puffed, 8 to 10 minutes. Serve hot with butter and syrup or jam.

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM

LOL with James Estes!

WHAT DID THE DIGITAL CLOCK SAY TO ITS MOTHER? “Look Ma! No hands!

WHAT DID THE MOTHER BROOM SAY TO HER BABY BROOM? “It’s time to go to sweep!”

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For my son’s 5th birthday he asked for a Nowitzki sports shirt. My daughter found the perfect one while we were shopping that said Nowitzki on the back, and was emblazoned “DALLAS 41” on the front. He loved it and put it on immediately. Checking himself out in the mirror he misread the words reflected backwards in the mirror which immediately changed the shirt from cool to annoying. He stopped and said very disappointedly, “Sallad 14… You got me a shirt about SALAD?!!

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I’ve Learned a Lot

BY KEN SWARNER

was interviewed on a TV talk show recently to promote my new book, and I made the mistake of bringing my wife. For years I have had a one-sided conversation with my readers in a venue where my wife has had no opportunity to tell her side of the story. It’s been great! Unfortunately, during the taping of the show, they placed my wife and kids in the front row of the studio audience. The first half of the program went great. I discussed with the host my views on parenting and my experiences as a father. After the commercial break, however, the mood changed. Without warning, the host asked me ‘who is the heavy in the family?’ That was an easy question - I’ve always considered myself the disciplinarian, and I explained that to the host. “It’s definitely me,” I exclaimed. From the audience, my wife shook her head in disgust. The host latched on to this and turned towards her. “Allison,” he said. “You don’t appear to agree.” She rolled her eyes. “I’m the disciplinarian,” she contended. “Really?” the host said smiling. “Yes,” my wife continued. She pointed to the kids. “I’m raising them and...(pointing to me)...him.” Oh, the audience loved that! Coffee almost came out the host’s nose he laughed so hard. I bring this up because it’s Mother’s Day this week and I’ve been giving what my wife said a lot of thought. She’s always contended that if I hadn’t married her I’d be living in an apartment knee deep in fast food wrappers and dirty laundry. I suppose there’s some truth to that. Maybe she is raising me? Maybe wives do that for husbands everywhere. After all, why else do we give our wives Mother’s Day gifts? So I sat down this

week and compiled a list of “life lessons” I’ve learned from my wife. When I got to item 100, I realized it’s true, she is raising me.

In the interest of sharing, the following are my top ten favorite things I’ve learned from my wife: 1. The clothes hamper won’t bite me...and apparently it won’t kill me to use it either. 2. My opinion always counts...as long as it’s the same as hers. 3. Saving $20 on a $200 dress is better than paying full price on a $100 dress. 4. A monthly budget is always a rough estimate. 5. A honey-do list does eventually end...when you die. 6. When in doubt...eat out. 7. It’s okay for men to cry (especially helpful after seeing the bill from one of those Scentsy or Mary Kay or Stella & Dot at-home parties.) 8. Even if 73 diet plans haven’t worked, it’s still worth paying for a 74th. 9. There’s not a plant in the yard that can’t be moved...twice. 10. Giving the children Twinkies for dinner is not right...without slipping them each $5 not to tell their mom. Yep I’d be one lost puppy without my wife... Happy Mother’s Day! SP

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