Monitor Mag JUNE 2023 GRAD issue

Change Makers

In homilies, addresses and countless messages, members of the Class of 2023 have been encouraged to take all that they gained in their Catholic school education, especially their faith in Jesus Christ, and use it to impact the world they are about to enter. This year, diplomas were handed to 1,230 graduates from Catholic high schools in the Diocese of Trenton. Read their stories inside.

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ON THE COVER: Lilliana Leone and Antonio Antunes lead the line of Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River, graduates at the start of their June 5 graduation ceremony in St. Joseph Church, Toms River. This edition of The Monitor Magazine salutes the graduating class of 2023 in schools in the Diocese of Trenton. Mike Ehrmann photo

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Superintendant Schmidt: ‘Put others first’ • 4

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Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River • 18

Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville • 17

Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank • 14

St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel • 13

St. Rose High School, Belmar • 10

Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft • 37

Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran • 34

Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton • 32 Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy, Hamilton • 30

Villa Victoria Academy, Ewing • 29

Graduates, ‘Do great things for the Lord!’

Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., alternates visiting different schools each year for Baccalaureate Masses. What follows is the homily for the Masses he celebrated for Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank, and St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel.

Astory is told about Abraham Lincoln, 16th president of the United States, that once, when leaving a church service, he told his security guard that he was disappointed in the sermon the minister preached. “Why?” asked the security. “The sermon was good,” responded President Lincoln.

“But the preacher didn’t ask us to do something great.”

Permit me, now, to say a few words to our graduates.

You are graduating from high school and moving on from the place and people that have been so familiar to you into a new and exciting set of experiences. As your Bishop, I am so happy and honored that I can be with you, your parents and families, your classmates and teachers, your administrators, coaches, and staff at your Baccalaureate Mass. Congratulations!

Tonight, and tomorrow, we are celebrating a great part of your Catholic education, of your graduation, and we begin with Holy Mass, the most important prayer of our faith. Let’s give thanks to God!

When you were born, your parents brought you to Church for your Baptism, to become a member of a larger family, the Christian family of faith that is the Church. Stay close to that family and all that it offers you … and all that it asks of you.

The world is a big place, and the future is uncertain. But your faith is not uncertain. No, it is true. Faith will save you and it will carry you through all the uncertain moments.

God goes with you, and your faith will make you strong, able to handle whatever comes your way. Do not forget God.

Do not forget your faith and all that you have learned about it at home and during your high school years. Do not abandon for any reason what the Lord has spoken, offered, promised, and fulfilled in your lives so far.

Whether you go to college or some other path, take your faith with you. Go to Mass. Receive the Sacraments of Confession and Communion. Remember your Confirmation promises to God and his Church. Do all these things, even though there is no one who tells you to. Do all these things, even though you will meet people who tell you not to bother. Don’t believe them. They do not know the truth or, worse, they don’t care about it.

You do not need to be the best in the world. That’s a tough goal and very few achieve that status.

Don’t focus your attention on who’s first and who’s last. In your life, you need to work to be the best you can be. Each one of you is a different person: different gifts and talents given by God; different backgrounds and personalities; different ambitions and dreams. Competition is not a bad thing, but don’t simply compare and compete. Don’t spend your energies just seeking the approval of others.

Use what you have been given and learned so far and who you are at this point to be the best you can be. “Do something great.” Don’t expect anything more – and don’t be satisfied with anything less. In the Lord and for the Lord, do something great!

The 19th century American writer Ralph Waldo Emerson once observed: “What lies behind us, and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.” That is where your faith lives; that is the home of hope; that is source of the love that lasts forever. That is where your truest greatness lies!

 Faith will ... carry you through all the uncertain moments.

A Homily from BISHOP DAVID M. O’CONNELL, C.M.

Bishop O’Connell preaches the homily during the May 30 Baccalaureate Mass he celebrated in St. Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown, for the Red Bank Catholic High School graduating class. John Batkowski photo

The Class of 2023 has left high school with a full complement of the things any person would need for success. You have academic knowledge. You have social graces. You have ethical understandings. Of course, you have a spiritual commitment.

You might have had success in the classroom, on the field or on the stage. You might have run for an election of some position or been a member of a club. You might have played Varsity or C-Team, it doesn’t matter because your success in these areas was self-defined. You might have a clear path of what lies next before you for the fall, be it college, work force, or the military or maybe you are taking a gap year to figure stuff out.

Whatever comes next, you are ready to explore it.

As you look forward with hope and your own expectations, I want to tell you about a brilliant man, whom you have never met. His name is Richard Wehner, and he teaches religion, coaches wrestling and football in a Catholic school in St. Louis, Missouri. He was my teacher in high school, and I have remained close to him ever since.

A few years ago, we had a conversation. At that time, I thought I had accomplished much in my life. I was a professional athlete, had traveled the world, was happily married, had three wonderful children, finished my doctorate, held a respectable job, and knew where all the best pizza places were in most cities to which I traveled.

It was easy to consider myself a success.

But Mr. Wehner told me otherwise. He was the kind of guy who saw things for what they really were. He knew what the goals of a Catholic high school graduate were, because he worked in Catholic high schools for 45 years. I just listed what many, in today’s world, would say are successful points from my own resume. Success in business, success with family, success in the community, etc. But he threw me a curve ball.

He said something that put everything into perspective: “All that you have personally accomplished at your age doesn’t mean a thing. If you think you can get into heaven on what you alone have done on this earth, you are mistaken. Your actions alone cannot get you in. You must be pulled into heaven by those that you helped get there, first.”

Think about that. Are you a person who puts others first? Does your success only benefit your resumé and your future, or that of a greater good for others?

This should be the guiding principle as you continue in your development. Being a Catholic school graduate means you have achieved much in your time within our schools. But more important is what you will do with those skills you have attained to make others better, others successful, and ultimately others complete.

If you can do that, whether you are 18 or 81 your life will be significant, impactful and of high value. Take what you have learned here and go make a difference in the lives of others.

Dr. Vincent de Paul Schmidt displays a service hours board during commencement exercises for Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville. Hal Brown photo

Graduates: Make a difference in the lives of others

A Message from DR. VINCENT de PAUL SCHMIDT Superintendent of Catholic Schools

 “Does your success benefit ... a greater good for others?”

Fortified by faith, Class of 2023 graduates poised to take on possibilities, serve the world

BY EMMALEE ITALIA  Contributing Editor

It’s difficult to pinpoint what has made the Catholic school graduating classes of 2023 so resilient and forward-thinking.

Maybe in part it was living through the pandemic, its associated shutdowns and mental health challenges. Maybe it was battling negative social media influence and school violence nationwide. Or just maybe it was the influence of their Catholic faithbased environments, encouraging them to embrace the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, the lessons of love and Christian charity.

Whatever the reasons, graduating seniors throughout the Diocese of Trenton consistently expressed a desire to learn from their experiences, not to dwell on the mistakes and disappointments of the past, to seek purpose and help others, and to hold on to their faith.

In his Baccalaureate Mass homilies to the high school graduates of St. John Vianney, Holmdel, and Red Bank Catholic, Red Bank, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., offered reminders of the power and importance of the Catholic faith, lessons that are

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Graduates of St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, pause for a photo after commencement exercises June 3 at Brookdale Community College, Lincroft.

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A happy Kathleen McGrorry hugs her daughter Neeve Bellezza during the Baccalaureate Mass for St. Rose High School, Belmar, graduates. John Batkowski photo

relevant for all graduates.

“Whether you go to college or some other path, take your faith with you,” the Bishop said. “Go to Mass. Receive the Sacraments of Confession and Communion. Remember your Confirmation promises to God and his Church. Do all these things, even though there is no one who tells you to. Do all these things, even though you will meet people who tell you not to bother. Don’t believe them. They do not know the truth or, worse, they don’t care about it.”

As the St. John Vianney community mourned the recent loss of senior Lauren Hewski, the Bishop noted that their celebration was marked by both joy and sorrow.

“All of us wish she were here tonight … In the midst of what should otherwise be a joyous occasion, there is a hole in our hearts,” the Bishop said. “Yet, through our sadness we know, in faith, that she is with God and that she is with us here in loving memory. If we could ask her, I am confident, after all I have learned about Lauren in recent weeks, she would say, ‘go on, live beautiful and fulfilling lives as you take your leave of our school. You deserve that.’”

GRATITUDE AND TRADITION

While the almost 1,230 graduates of 10 parish, diocesan and independent high schools in the Diocese found their four years of high school to be a rollercoaster of secondary-school experience, the students will enter college and careers with more than $200 million earned in academic scholarships, demonstrating the quality of education they received through these exemplary institutions.

Their performances on school stages and athletic fields drew loyal fans, as these and other extracurricular activities helped them develop areas of strength and set goals for high achievement. Despite their rigorous schedules, they exemplified Christian concern for others by completing tens of thousands of hours of community service. Through it all they were cheered on by those who shepherded them through the ups and downs: their parents, pastors, chaplains, school faculty and administrators.

The Class of 2023 students hailed from Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River; Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville; St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel; St. Rose High School, Belmar; Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank; Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft; Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran; Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton; Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy, Hamilton; and Villa Victoria Academy, Ewing.

Many traditions accompanied the varied commencement exercises, notably that of legacy families in several schools – those who have attended the same Catholic

school for multiple generations – who presented diplomas to their graduating children or grandchildren. In both Holy Cross Preparatory Academy and St. John Vianney High School, members of the Class of 1973 were on hand to welcome the Class of 2023.

As the graduate speakers offered heartfelt thanks to the faculty and administrators for their high school years, and their parents for the sacrifices made to carry them through, they emphasized the tools with which they had been equipped to make their mark in the world.

“As we prepare to leave the comfort we have grown so accustomed to, it’s time to take what we’ve learned and apply it to the world around us,” said Veronika Baskht, salutatorian for Red Bank Catholic. “Some of us will continue our education, others will pursue careers, and some may choose to explore uncharted territories. We must embrace the unknown with confidence and be open to the endless possibilities that await us.”

FAITH-FORWARD THINKING

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George Walter carries the processional cross at the start of the Baccalaureate Mass celebrated for Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville’s Class of 2023. The Mass was celebrated in the school auditorium on June 3. Hal Brown photo.

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influenced by the presence of faith-based curriculum. With religion as a core curriculum subject and Catholic values embraced in the classroom, students were instilled with the ability to recognize God’s working in their present and future.

“It was very important that our children receive a quality Catholic education,” said Jenn and Rich Cucarese, mother of graduate Adrianna Cucarese, Villa Victoria Academy, Ewing. She and husband Rich “wanted the kids to have a strong spiritual foundation that would help … prepare them for life after school. We preferred a smaller school where they could maintain positive relationships with their teachers and build strong friendships with their peers.”

In his homily for the June 2 Baccalaureate Mass he celebrated for the graduating class of Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville, Father Jason Parzynski, school chaplain, reflected on the Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity and the relationship between the three persons –the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Then likening that relationship to those whom the graduates will encounter in future endeavors, Father Parzynski said, “As you are going out into the next phase of life, you are going to be making new friendships, new relationships, and it’s going to be important for you to reflect on what those relationships mean and how they

contribute to you becoming what God called and created you to be.”

During the June 1 Baccalaureate Mass for St. Rose High School, parochial vicar Father Christopher Dayton shared the wisdom of Pope St. John Paul II with graduates.

“Pope St. John Paul II was known famously for his quote ‘Do not be afraid.’ Although there are many unknowns in life, we don’t have to be afraid,” Father Dayton stressed. “We have the Church, our families, and our friends that are here for us.”

The turning of the tassels signifies a new class has graduated from Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy, Hamilton. Mike Ehrmann photo

Sean Donachie, Holy Cross Academy Class of 1989, gives his daughter Elizabeth Donachie, senior class president, her diploma. EmmaLee Italia photo

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Graduates: 102

Baccalaureate Mass:

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St. Rose Church, Belmar

Commencement:

June 6, 2023

Monmouth University, West Long Branch

Scholarships

Received: $24.2 million

BY JOHN SPINELLI  Correspondent

The evening of June 6 was joyous for the St. Rose High School, Belmar, community as 102 graduates of the Class of 2023 received their diplomas during commencement exercises in Monmouth University, West Long Branch.

The 2023 commencement also marked a milestone for St. Rose High School, which celebrates its 100th anniversary this year.

“My entire family went here – all five of my siblings attended St. Rose,” graduate Sarah Schuld said of her high school experience in an anniversary video. “There is definitely a large familiarity with everyone who is here, it’s a very tight-knit group.”

Similarly, graduate Kristen Boehncke spoke of having numerous family members graduate as well, including her siblings, aunts and even her

grandparents.

“They all had an amazing time and I thought [the school] would be a really good fit for me and it was,” Boehncke said.

Valedictorian: Brinley Dwyer

Salutatorian: Chelsea Lagotta

“Celebrate the progress we have made, the memories we have created, and the foundations we have built for the future. We have been so fortunate to grow in our faith alongside our academics and we must thank everyone in the St. Rose community, our parents, family and friends for supporting us and giving us these opportunities to grow and mature.” Brinley Dwyer, valedictorian

Earlier in the week, the graduates gathered in St. Rose Church for a Baccalaureate Mass concelebrated by Msgr. Edward J. Arnister, pastor, who offered words of wisdom about the importance of the students’ time in high school. In his homily, he used the example from the Gospel where Jesus healed the blind man Bartimaeus.

“As we journey through life, we must remember that God is our origin, and the Lord Jesus is our ultimate destination to whatever career you choose,” said Msgr. Arnister.

“Catholic education gives us a vision of life. Like Bartimaeus, it allows you to continue your journey with a vibrant faith. Your parents and

St. Rose High School graduates gather for the Baccalaureate Mass in the parish church on June 1.

James Magrini turns the tassle on his mortarboard signifying that he is now a graduate of St. Rose High School. John Batkowski photos

Mightily-tested SJV graduates move forward with resiliency, strength, faith

Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., as principal celebrant and homilist.

In a sea of gold, graduates processed into the arena. Senior Samantha Yanarelli proudly sang the national anthem.

Father Jarlath Quinn, pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help-St. Agnes Parish, Atlantic Highlands, administers the Eucharist to graduating seniors during the June 1 Baccalaureate Mass in St. Robert Bellarmine Co-Cathedral, Freehold. Graduates from left are Michael Pape and Giavanna Cangialosi. Vic Mistretta photo

BY THERESA SHUBECK  Correspondent

On the morning of June 3, St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, held its 51st annual commencement ceremony at Brookdale Community College’s Collins Arena, Lincroft, for 221 graduating seniors. The Baccalaureate Mass was celebrated June 1 in St. Robert Bellarmine Co-Cathedral, Freehold, with

Father Thomas Vala, pastor of St. Clement Parish, Matawan, spoke of the “moment of blessedness” that the students had worked hard to achieve. Principal Margaret Kane echoed Father Vala’s poignant remembrance of senior Lauren Hewski, who was killed in a car accident on May 11. She acknowledged the strength and resilience of St. John Vianney’s class of 2023 which was mightily tested.

Among the accomplishments of the Class of 2023 is the awarding of college scholarships totaling more than $33.5 million. Graduates also performed more than 9,100 service

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Graduates: 221

Baccalaureate Mass: June 1, 2023

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Gold mortarboards are tossed in the air following the June 3 commencement exercises in Monmouth University where 221 students from St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, received their diplomas. Hal Brown photo

“High School expanded our worlds beyond just our little middle and elementary schools of the towns we lived in. … Each of us are off to great places, off to add our own contributions to shape the world that future generations will inherit.”

Erin Ventrudo, valedictorian

Commencement: June 3, 2023

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Scholarships Received:

Valedictorian: Erin Ventrudo

Salutatorian: Tyler Myers

Bishop Ahr award: Robert Ekeocha

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Baccalaureate Mass:

May 30, 2023

St. Mary Church, Middletown

Commencement: May 31, 2023

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School welcomed them and worked to make them feel at home, so when the class donned green and gold robes for commencement ceremonies, the students were unified.

Valedictorian:

Alyssa DiMarco

“Our time at RBC has taught us that it’s the moments along the journey, not the destination, that make up the foundation of our lives.”

Alyssa DiMarco, valedictorian

When Mater Dei Prep in Middletown closed at the end of its 2022 school year, its rising seniors faced attending a new school for their final year. But the Caseys of Red Bank Catholic High Continued

“This senior class has displayed two important attributes: kindness and resilience,” said Karen Falco, Red Bank principal. “Our students welcomed and embraced the seniors displaced by the closing of their school. The Casey family took in and tried to make comfortable students who, through no fault of their own, lost their intended senior year.

Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., was principal celebrant of the Baccalaureate Mass for Red Bank Catholic High School seniors. The Mass was held May 30 in St. Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown. John Batkowski

Salutatorian: Veronika Baskht

The Class of 2023 during the May 31 graduation ceremony.

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God Bless the Notre Dame Class of 2023

Teagan S. Ahearn

Jonah Ryan Akers

Amanda Victoria Almanzor

Caroline Anne Aloisio*

Isabella Skye Antosiewicz***

Reece P. Arbizu

Pablo D. Argueta

Jackson J. Baber

Angelina Marie Banas*

Hunter Michael Barratt

Miranda Katelynn Beasley

Ethan Alexander Beck

Davis Anthony Bello

Marisa Rose Bencivengo*

Matthew Stanley Benjamin*

Maya Nicole Benjamin**†

Alena Clare Bitonti*

Thomas Joseph Black

Jack Thomas Blessing*

Hunter D. Boggess†

Owen Joseph Bossio

Carter A. Brown

Cassidy Ann Budge

Brendan Edward Buecker

Yuriani Calderon

Mason W. Capasso

Ryan Fay Carr

Allyson Carreras

Ava Victoria Casey

Leena Chang

John Paul Colter*

John Francis Connolly III

Shannon Conway

Donovan Joseph Cottrell

Nicholas Cramer

Morgan Elizabeth Crane*

Jake Andrew Croce*

Natalie Elizabeth Crossney

Nicholas Csillan

Cassidy Elizabeth Darcey

Senan Ransaja De Silva

Ethan Van Strat Deutsch

Benjamin P. DiPalma

Abigail Jia Dobbs

Lindsay Marie Doonan

Isiah James Dunn

Lance M. Eilbacher

Logan Michael Eilbacher*

Christian M. Ellwood***

Hope Ann Evanko*

Kaela Nicole Farnan*

Sophia Renèe Fellouris

Joshua Jie Ferdetta

James Camron Ferraro*

Keira Sean Fitzpatrick

Ethan D. Fleck

Dylan Matthew Foerter

Luke J. Foley***

Joseph Donald Forbes**

Dylan Michael Foti

Theodore

Alyssa Shannon Jennings

Isaac Jersey

Owen P. Jezek

Elise Catherine Jones

Neayla Simone Jones*

Naomi Grace Kahney

Jennifer Alison Kale*

Justin A. Kamal*

Devon Christine Kelley

Emalea Elizabeth Kiernan

Hannah Kate Kilcomons

Lucas William Klek Mason Kloc

Bryan Joseph Kmiec

Isabella Margaret Piano Kozar*

Mia Angela Mazzola

Mackenzie Elizabeth McCarron*

Dillon James McClain

Aidan Ford McGovern*

Keira Georgina McNally

Kaitlyn Kelly Misner*†

Sierra Autumn Moore

Cassandra Sage Morehart

Dylan A. Nelson

Lacey Ann Okamura*

Michael James O’Keefe

David Allan Olenchalk*

Rachael Nicole Opferman†

Kramer B. Orgas

Khiya Sanai Page

Danielle Michele Panzitta

Matthew Leon Savage*

Robert Andrew Scharko

Julianna Michele Selesky

Conner Donovan Sheridan

Natalie M. Sidone

Kayla Marie Smith*

Carolina Soos

Brett Richard Spearnock

Delaney Kathleen Stahl

Tess Elizabeth Soo Staples

Angelina Vanessa Steber

Kirsten Miranda Steege

Parker Chance Stergion

Nathaniel Richard Strand

Connor Edward Sullivan

Emma Marie Tallo

Jessie Diella Tesi*

Tobias Miguel Urban***

Olivia Grace VanHise

Salvatore Raffaele Vasta

Maeve J. Vernon**

Christos D. Vlahos

Liam Alexander Wachinski

Matthew Michael Walsh*

George Henry Walter***

Lauren Jarvis Wargo*

Samantha Juliette Wargo*

Ty A. Watson

Andrew P. Weaverling

Cameron Lee Weber

Alison Sophia White

Logan Alan Whitlock

Natalie Wright

Our seniors more than $39 in scholarships.

Rasheen Andrew Young Jr.

Rani Parikh***

Nicholas Red Franzen

Olivia Grace Gasparro

Sean Michael Geherty

Cynthia Margaret Genicola

Daniel Ryan Giblin

Grace Patricia Gill

Gabriella V. Graham

William Harry Harding

Mariah Sanai Harrison

Karishma J. Helsel

Alexander Richard Henderson

Jacob Thomas Hofmann

Elizabeth C. Holland*†

John S. Hughes

Nikola Anna Hulak

Amaya Rose Kulessa

Michael Paul Lange

Joseph Daniel Lansang*

Colin J. A. Larkin

Christina Michele Lenzo

John Henry Liedtka

Julia Paster

Alexa Pecora

Julia Kathryn Perate

Sergio P. Pestano

Sophia Ann Pintinalli

CONGRATULATIONS AND GOD BLESS THE NOTRE DAME CLASS OF 2021

Maddie Rose Thomas

Gianna Grace Timberlake

Isabella Sofia Timberlake*

Caitlin Elizabeth Treacy

Olivia Michele Troiano*

Delaney Elizabeth Zeidman**

Our seniors earned more than $39 million in scholarships.

Gavin M. Ulrich*

* National Honor Society

** Student Government

† Academic Concentration

Alyssa R. Lienhard

Mingjie Liu

George Harrison Lobis*

Carter R. Louderback

CONGRATULATIONS AND GOD BLESS THE NOTRE DAME CLASS OF 2021

Juliana Danielle Lynch

Declan MacCabe*

James Walter MacIsaac*

Jack L. Madigan-Green*

Lyla Grace Malloy*

Bianca Antonina Mandreucci

Samuel Anthony Martin*

Kate Martinek*

Stesher Archie Mathelier

Joseph Vince Matticoli

Noah J. Maywar

Robert C. Pisano, III†

Michal Seward Pitynski*

Justin Matthew Pollard

Brendyn James Porter*

Ta’Sean Anthony Powell

J. Ryan Rauscher*

Britt A. Reid

Samantha Fuss Renda

Megan Kristen Reuter*

Giacomo Phillip Rosati

Abigail Elizabeth Rosko

Isabella Grace Sagarese*

Sasha Theresa Salins***

Lucia Isabel Samuel*

Jack Santoro

Siddharth Satish

Kyrillos Ibrahim†

Notre Dame seniors graduate with deep roots, wings to fly

BY MARY STADNYK  Associate Editor

Along with diplomas, the 190 graduates from Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville, were handed some food for thought.

Similar to Jesus’ saying to his apostles in St. Luke’s Gospel, “To whom much is given, much

“Surrounding ourselves with people who love us will help us overcome challenges. Putting one foot in front of the other, no matter how small the step, is a step in the right direction.”

Isabella Kozar, valedictorian

will be expected,” Ken Jennings, in his commencement welcome, encouraged the students to embrace that same invitation from Jesus as they move to the next chapter of their lives.

Jennings also asked them to always remember the five Mercy core values: respect, integrity, justice, service and compassion “that can serve you wherever you go in life. ... Live the Mercy core values and you will live Jesus’ command – ‘To whom much is given, much will be expected.”’

Graduation weekend began with a June 3 Baccalaureate Mass celebrated by Father Jason Parzynski in the school auditorium. The commencement was held June 4 in the CURE Arena, Trenton, where the class’s noted achievements were acknowledged including the 26,000 total hours of service given by the students in the past year. Other accomplishments include the Sunrise and Sunset event established to foster a sense of community among the senior class, and having three graduates earn Eagle Scout status.

When addressing the parents, Jennings cited

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Father Jason Parzynski, Notre Dame High’s chaplain, administers Holy Communion to graduate Dylan Foerter during the June 3 Baccalaureate Mass.

Graduates: 190

Baccalaureate Mass: June 3, 2023

Notre Dame High S chool Auditorium

Commencement: June 4, 2023

CURE Arena, Trenton Scholarships

Valedictorian: Isabella Kozar

Salutatorian: Rani Parikh

Religion Excellence award: Aidan McGovern

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Dillon McClain flashes a wide smile and a wave on his June 4 graduation day. At right is graduate Michael O’Keefe. Hal Brown photo

Valentina Jacovino happily accepts her diploma from Father Scott Shaffer, St. Joseph pastor, and Jillian Kelly, Donovan Catholic principal. Mike Ehrmann photos

Graduates: 166

Baccalaureate Mass:

June 4, 2023

St. Joseph Church, Toms River

Commencement: June 5, 2023

St. Joseph Church, Toms River

Scholarships Received: $41.8 million

Class of 2023 urged to set high future goals, remain close to God

BY DOROTHY K LAMANTIA  Correspondent

On June 5, 166 seniors of Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River, processed into St. Joseph Church for their commencement as the Class of 2023.

The day before, the class, with families and friends, attended the Baccalaureate Mass, concelebrated by St. Joseph’s pastor Father Scott Shaffer, and Msgr. Kenard Tuzeneu, pastor of St. Mary Parish, Barnegat.

Speaking from the Readings for Trinity Sunday, Father Shaffer addressed the graduates, “God is love … You have been called into the family of God. I wish you will leave here knowing without a doubt that you are a child of God…You’ll go through difficult times in your life. I pray you’ll

realize that you carry Christ within. Christ is powerful and so is love.”

Before students received their diplomas, nine students received special awards for academic excellence, sportsmanship, character, and service.

The Class of 2023 was awarded a total of $41,845,300 in scholarships, which will take them to major public and private universities, among them Rutgers, Penn State, Catholic University, Notre Dame, and technical institutions Embry-Riddle Aeronautical and NJ Institute of Technology. Graduate Maverick Boehm will enter the US Air Force Academy.

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Valedictorian: Samantha Keller

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“When something goes wrong or becomes challenging it is easy to look at the negatives. But I ask you to find at least one good thing in your day and I promise you will be pleasantly surprised.”

Samantha Keller, valedictorian 

Salutatorian: Emma Conroy

Maria Jacinto served as an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion during the June 4 Baccalaureate Mass. Here she administers the Sacrament to religion teacher James Courtney.

Bishop Ahr Religion award: Mary Julia Gethard

TOMS RIVER

To Everything a Season

Msgr. Joseph Rosie, pastor of St. James Parish, Red Bank, and episcopal vicar of Monmouth County, congratulates Red Bank Catholic High School graduate Rosalia Estrella Machado. John Batkowski photo

Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River, graduates participate in their June 5 ceremony. Mike Ehrmann photo

With diplomas in hand, the new graduates from St. Rose High School, Belmar, process out of Monmouth University, West Long Branch, at the end of their June 6 commencement ceremony.

John Batkowski photo

Ken Jennings, president of Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville, holds back tears after presenting a diploma to his daughter, Alyssa Shannon Jennings.

Hal Brown photo

A faculty member assists St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, graduate Aaron Van Trease, who prepares to receive his diploma during commencement exercises on June 3. Van Trease was seriously injured during a football game at the start of the 2022-2023 school year. Hal Brown photo

A neatly folded graduation gown, mortarboard and cords belonging to St. John Vianney High School senior Lauren Hewski rest on a chair during commencement exercises held June 3 in Brookdale Community College, Lincroft. Miss Hewski died several weeks before she was to graduate from the Holmdel School. Hal Brown photo

Graduates of Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, Delran, decorated their mortarboards with inspirational messages and future college logos for the school’s June 8 Commencement.

Embracing the Future

accepts the gifts of bread and wine during the Baccalaureate Mass he celebrated for Chris- tian Brothers Academy graduates. Father Dayton, who is a CBA graduate, serves as parochial vicar of St. Rose Parish, Belmar.

EmmaLee Italia photo

Deanna Missouri processes in at the start of the commencement ceremony in Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton. Hal Brown photo

Father Christopher Dayton

John Batkowski photo

Graduate Lauren Gregorovic of Villa Victoria Academy, Ewing, is all smiles as she receives congratulatory hugs. Hal Brown photo

National Honor Society members Bryson Amos-Whitfield and Dalia Cancel-Batista lead the Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy, Hamilton, Class of 2023 into their commencement exercises June 1. Mike Ehrmann photo

A SPECIAL CONGRATULATIONS TO.... 2023

DAVID CAJAS Congratulations on your graduation from Manasquan High School.

We are very proud of you. Best wishes in college.

Love, Mom, Dad, Joseph and Louis LOUIS CAJAS Congratulations on your graduation from Brookdale Community College, earning an Associate Degree in Business Administration.

We are very proud of you and wish you much success at Monmouth University.

Love, Mom, Dad, Joseph and David

Congratulations CALLIE JOHNSON on your graduation from Camden Catholic High School.

We are extremely proud of you and wish you more academic success at Morgan State University!

Congratulations JULIANNA CHESLA on your graduation from Donovan Catholic High School, Toms River.

We are so proud of you and wish you a successful future as you follow your dreams. Love, Mom & Dad

ST. ROSE HIGH SCHOOL

Continued from 10 guardians sacrificed a great deal for you to attend a Catholic school,” he added.

Notable highlights for the Class of 2023 included the awarding of the Western Golf Association

Chick Evans Caddy Scholarship to Alexander Xanthacos, who received a full, four-year scholarship to Rutgers University. In 1930, the Evans Scholars Foundation was established and since then more than 11,000 outstanding young men and women have graduated as Evans Scholars.

Congratulations SIENNA ULRICH on your graduation and Bronze Medal from St. Benedict School.

We are so proud of all your accomplishments and wish you much success in high school.

Love always, Mom, Dad, Olivia & Sophia

Congratulations OLIVIA ULRICH on your graduation with highest honors from St. John Vianney High School!

We are so proud of all you have achieved in high school and beyond. Love always, Mom, Dad, Sophia & Sienna

There’s no looking back now, only forward to a bright and wonderful future.

Congratulations KRISTEN ANN BRUNO, BS, MBA on your graduation from Sacred Heart University (Fairfield, CT).

Love Mom, Dad & Nicole

Currently, there are more than 1,000 Evans Scholars enrolled at 18 leading universities nationwide. The Evans Scholarship is a full tuition and housing college scholarship for high-achieving caddies. To qualify, caddies must meet the requirements of having a strong caddie record, excellent academic achievement and outstanding character.

Also, the Girl Scout Gold Award, the highest achievement in the Girl Scouts of the USA awarded to Senior and Ambassador Girl Scouts, was presented to four graduates at St. Rose – Brinley Dwyer, Alexandra Irasquin, Grace McCafferty and Isabella Schwank. The Gold Award is given to about five percent of eligible Girl Scouts.

Reflecting on his years at St. Rose, graduate Giovanni Jerome said the school made an impression on his experience especially during the pandemic. “It was difficult for me personally,” he said, “but I’m really happy that we all made it here today. We stuck together as a class, and I’m really excited to see where we go from now.”

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hours. Thirty-two students graduated from the Early College Academy, which provides the opportunity for select students to earn an Associate of Arts in Social Sciences or Associate of Science in Computer Science from Brookdale

Community College while earning their high school diploma.

President Steven C. DiMezza’s commencement address, applauded a “resilient and remarkable class.” He reminded students that their lives should be “fueled by faith and courage … in times of darkness we turn to our faith.” For this class, which has learned all too early that “life is fragile and unpredictable … above all, nurture your faith.”

DiMezza recalled the courage of senior Aaron R. Van Trease, whose life-changing injuries were incurred during a September 2022 SJV football game. In the most memorable moment of the commencement ceremony, Aaron received his diploma amidst cheers and jubilation for his courage and accomplishment.

The legacy of SJV traditions was also celebrated, with members of the class of 1973 present to welcome the newest alumni. Additionally, 12 students were awarded diplomas by their parents, who are also graduates of SJV. Three of these students have two parents who are alumni.

Theresa Militello has two daughters who are now SJV graduates, Olivia in the class of 2023 and Alyssa from the class of 2019. Speaking of SJV’s distinction she said, “My husband Anthony and I are very happy that SJV follows family values and Christ. When SJV says, ‘mind, body, spirit,’ they really emphasize each one. They get the best out of students as a whole person.”

Villa Victoria graduates commended for hard work, commitment

BY MARY STADNYK  Associate Editor

Two common points shared by the graduates of Villa Victoria Academy are a deep, longstanding loyalty to the school and strong family connections.

When diplomas were awarded during the June 4 commencement exercises, the all-girls school in Ewing touted there were multiple students who had older sisters who were Villa graduates. Salutatorian Lenna de la Cuz has two

“My

older sisters; valedictorian Crystal Ordonez has an older sister; and two other graduating seniors also have sisters who are alumnae.

“Villa has molded our daughters into strong, independent young women,” said Jenn Cucarese, mother of 2023 graduate Arianna Cucarese and 2021 graduate Giavanna. “They are leaders who show responsibility and respect toward others; they have morals and values. ... Villa is like a second home for our girls.”

Prior to the commencement ceremony, Msgr. Ralph Stansley, a retired diocesan priest, celebrated a Baccalaureate Mass. In his homily, he urged the 15 students to remember that along with taking “the math and science and all they learned” to their new college or job, they should take “their God with them as well.”

The class was reported to have earned $2.9 million in college scholarships.

Barbara Yetman, director of

Graduates: 15

Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement: June 4, 2023

Villa Victoria Academy Theatre

Scholarships Received: $2.9 million

sisters, let this diploma serve as a call to action, a call to use our knowledge, skills and drive to make a positive difference in this world.”

Crystal Ordonez, valedictorian

Edem Tweneboah receives her diploma from Villa Victoria Academy president Filippini Sister Lillian Harrington.

Hal Brown photos

Msgr. Ralph Stansley, a retired priest of the Diocese, was principal celebrant of Villa Victoria Academy’s Baccalaureate Mass June 4.

Valedictorian: Crystal Ordonez

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Father Daniel Cahill, a retired priest of the Diocese, celebrates Mass for the seniors of Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy’s Upper School and the eighth graders of the Lower School.

Trenton Catholic PREPARATORY ACADEMY

Graduates: 51 Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement: May 31, 2023

Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy, Hamilton Scholarships Received: $4.9 million

TCPA graduates 51 students, honors three scholars

BY CHRISTINA LESLIE  Correspondent

Commencement exercises for 51 graduates of the Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy brought a tear or two to the eyes of proud parents, family and friends.

At a May 31 ceremony on the school’s Hamilton campus, Tracey Destribats, a member of TCPA’s Class of 1981 and owner of the Eet Gud Bakery in Hamilton, inducted the new graduates into the academy’s alumni association with a prayer that neatly summarized what virtues they had absorbed during their school careers:

uphold the values and morals we have learned here. In doing so, we honor the memory of Msgr. McCorristin and those who have followed him. We will strive to live our lives representing Christian ideals to benefit our communities and the world. May we always be signs of peace. Amen.”

Before the graduation, Father Daniel Cahill, a retired diocesan priest, celebrated a Baccalaureate Mass.

Class members earned $4.9 million in college

Valedictorian: Mikayla Blackwood

“God, as we leave Trenton Catholic Preparatory Academy and become members of the ‘Iron Mike’ Alumni Association, we pledge to

“I emplore every single one of you to live your life the way God intended and fulfill your true destiny.”

Salutatorian: Arthur Huggins

Mikayla Blackwood, valedictorian 

Graduate Joel Mac-Attoh Jr., poses for a photo with his mother.

Mike Ehrmann photos

HAM I LTON

Bishop Ahr Religion award: Kevin Encarnacion

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Leonardo Almeida

Gabriella Angiolino

Grace Bailey

William Battista

Mia Burniewicz

Jack Burns

Julia Carcich

Vincenzo Caruso

Harrison Chance

Sydney Connor

Zoe Cunningham

Chloe Cunningham

Preston DeMarco

Jack Denver

Ava DiCesare

Nicholas DiCesare

Luke DiStefano

Caroline Dodds

Mia Favato

Matthew Flynn

Brooke Foytlin

Taylor Genovese

Miranda Haddad

Madeline Hagan

Peyton Hurley

Brady Johnson

Liliann Ker

Richard Kett

Gianna Kurczeski

Madison Lane

Nathaniel Lucas

Catherine Lupu

James Lynott

Hannah Martiak

Madeleine McConnell

Chase McManus

Matthew Merendino

Gabrielle Milevoi

Cecelia Moore

Peyton O’Brien

Isaiah Okonkwo

Lily Oliveri

Victoria Papa

Stephen Perrella

Angela Ranson

Kelsey Roseland

Jack Russo

Gavin Schmitt

Colin Shibles

Mikayla Sloane

Eva Rose Sorgini

Vincent Sorsaia

Angelina Stafyleras

Christian Sweeney

Anthony Terranova

Riley Tillman

Kieran Turbitt

Luca Venditti

Tyler Wiessel

Patrick Yurcisin

Stuart grads urged to ‘remain confident’

Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart

Graduates: 33

Baccalaureate Mass:

June 8, 2023

Stuart Country D ay School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton Commencement:

June 10, 2023

BY CHRISTINA LESLIE  Correspondent

“Weare not merely students, but a vibrant community of individuals who have discovered our passions and fearlessly pursued them,” declared Mia Zebrauskas, president of the Class of 2023 for Princeton-based Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart at her June 10 graduation ceremony.

Those 33-members of that community were destined for diverse destinations and professions. They plan to attend 28 different colleges and universities across the country, and plan to pursue a wide variety of activities and educational goals. About one-third hope to major in STEM fields, and another third plan to study the arts, humanities and social sciences. Goal award winners exemplify Stuart’s goals of 1: A personal and active

Stuart Country Day School of the Sacred Heart, Princeton 

“We are a genuine representation of the Sacred Heart goals and criteria. Each of us embodies what a Stuart girl is: intelligent, caring, enthusiastic and driven.”

Sydney Amato, senior class speaker 

faith in God; 2: A deep respect for intellectual values; 3: A social awareness which impels to action; 4: Building of community as a Christian value; and 5: Personal growth in an atmosphere of wise freedom.

Julia Breen Wall, head of school, and Cheryl Lagay, chair of the Board of Trustees, conferred the diplomas to each graduate, along with a friendly recollection of their academic careers or extracurricular activities at the school or community.

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Senior Class Speaker: Sydney Amato

Goal 1: Margaret Leskinski

G oal 2: Katherine Zong

Goal 3: Emily Ix

Goal 4: Mia Zebrauskas

Goal 5: Abby Snyder

See story for Goal information.

Msgr. Gregory E.S. Malovetz celebrates the June 8 Baccalaureate Mass for Stuart’s Class of 2023.

With diploma in hand, newly-minted Stuart graduate Alisa Deczynski is all smiles. Hal Brown photos

CONGRATULATIONS

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Holy Cross PREPARATORY ACADEMY

Pushing forward with purpose, HCPA grads told ‘Christ is always with you’

Graduates: 79

Baccalaureate Mass:

June 2, 2023

Holy Cross Preparatory Academy Courtyard

Commencement:

June 3, 2023

Tom Reilly Stadium on school c ampus

Scholarships

Received: $20 million

BY EMMALEE ITALIA  Contributing Editor

For Holy Cross Preparatory Academy’s Class of 2023, four years filled with camaraderie and challenges came to a close June 4 as the 79 graduates of the Delran school gathered in Tom Reilly Stadium one last time to close one chapter and open a new one.

The HCPA graduates are already well on their way to higher education and beyond, with

“You as an individual are responsible for creating your own opportunities by using the resources and talents you have been provided with, as well as displaying grit, determination, and motivation in order to achieve success.”

Alexandra Oshidar, valedictorian 

over $20 million in scholarships awarded – including two students with $400,000 scholarships to West Point Academy – and 300 college credits earned across the class.

Acknowledging both the “enjoyable memories” and the challenges, valedictorian Alexandra Oshidar noted the class’s resiliency in the face of the COVID-19 pandemic, which spanned much of their high school years.

Oshidar’s mother, Sharon, said the school’s attributes that most affected the decision to send her daughter to HCPA included the “challenging, innovative curriculum and expanded program of studies, as well as the … collegiate block scheduling which prepares students for their future academic careers.”

Most importantly, however, was that the school “teaches and embodies a faith-based and community-oriented education,” she continued. “Alongside all HCPA’s educational

Valedictorian: Alexandra Oshidar

Salutatorian: Tyler Wojnar

Father Christopher Colovito, theology teacher and chaplain of Holy Cross Preparatory Academy, celebrates the Baccalaureate Mass June 2 in the school courtyard. Hal Brown photo

Graduates and faculty listen to Valedictorian Alexandra Oshidar address them and their classmates during June 8 Commencement in Tom Reilly Stadium. Pictured from left are Alex Bruno, Latrell Bullock, Maison Burbine and teacher Zack Coons (background). EmmaLee Italia photo

GRADUA ION

this certificate is hereby awarded to St. Benedict School Class of 2023

in recognition of successfully completing EIGHTH GRADE

Congratulations and God Bless You All!

June 9, 2023

Date

Celebrating our Class of 2023 for all of their accomplishments, consistently setting the bar high, serving as exemplary role models, and always exceeding our expectations.

Rev. Garry Koch, Pastor

165 Bethany Road, Holmdel, New Jersey

CBA graduates challenged to move forward in faith and service

BY ROSE O’CONNOR  Digital and Social Media Manager

“Befaithful, stay close to the Sacraments of the Church, especially the Sacrament of Reconciliation and the Eucharist,” an alumnus told the 61st graduating class of Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft.

“Remember to use your faith and intellect and see Christ in others. Be leaders who build others up and encourage and unite each other. Go change the world and make it a better place,” said the alumnus — Father Christopher Dayton,

principal celebrant and homilist of the May 17 Baccalaureate Mass for the all-boys private school. Pastors and parochial vicars from the CBA’s sending parishes joined the 2006 graduate to concelebrate the Mass at St. Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown.

Changing the world to make it a better place was important to the Class of 2023, as evidenced by the completion of 21,008 hours of community service, an average of 100 hours per student — doubling the requirement needed for graduation.

In addition to their acts of service, the 208 graduates were commended for their academic achievements at the commencement exercises

Christian Brothers

Graduates: 208

Baccalaureate Mass: May 17, 2023 St. Mary Church, Middletown

Commencement: May 19, 2023 Brookdale Comm. College, Lincroft

Scholarships

Received: $29.6 million

“Find happiness that will not fester away after achieving frivolous goals, but will instead blossom in light of your impactful, wide-reaching accomplishments.”

Thibaut Fabricant, valedictorian

Valedictorian: Thibaut Fabricant

Salutatorian: Jack Butler

Christian Brothers Academy’s Class of 2023 during the graduation ceremony held May 19 in Brookdale Community College, Lincroft. John Batkowski photo

A CBA graduate hugs his mother after presenting her with a flower during the May 17 Baccalaureate Mass in St. Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown. Courtesy photo

Dr.

GCU graduates 504 ‘changemakers’

BY CHRISTINA LESLIE  Correspondent

and challengers of the status quo,” said Georgian Court University president Dr. Joseph R. Marbach

at the 112th annual commencement ceremony held May 17 to honor the members of the Class of 2023. “Do what you love to do. This, in turn, will inspire you to pursue a lifetime of learning and your ultimate success.”

The Lakewood university added 504 more names to its distinguished list of

president of Geor-

University, presents graduate student

with her diploma during commencement exercises for graduate students. Corgan is a member of Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, and serves on the faculty of Notre Dame High School, Lawrenceville.

graduates during two separate ceremonies, with 354 earning a baccalaureate degree, 146 their masters’ and four achieving the doctorate milestone of their education.

Jesuit Father Greg Boyle served as principal celebrant of the Baccalaureate Mass in the Wellness Center; concelebrants included Msgr. Vincent Gartland, retired priest of the Diocese, and Msgr. Joseph Rosie, pastor, St. James Parish, Red Bank, and episcopal vicar of Monmouth County.

Father Boyle, who was awarded with an honorary degree of Doctor of Humane Letters for his work with gang intervention program Homeboy Industries of Los Angeles, advised the graduates to “go to the margins, not to make a difference, but to be made different and to have your heart altered.”

Carol Stillwell, owner, president and CEO of Stillwell-Hansen, Inc., which

“You will be changemakers, truth-seekers

Father Greg Boyle was principal celebrant of Georgian Court University’s 2023 Baccalaureate Mass. Concelebrating were diocesan priests Msgr. Vincent Gartland, a retired priest of the Diocese, shown at left, and Msgr. Joseph N. Rosie, pastor of St. James Parish, Red Bank, and episcopal vicar of Monmouth County, at right. In center is Deacon James Knipper of St. Paul Parish, Princeton, who assisted. Courtesy photos

Joseph R. Marbach,

gian Court

Janine Corgan

A bagpiper leads the traditional graduation walk of undergraduate students at the start of the commencement exercises.

designs data center infrastructure solutions, received an honorary Doctor of Business Administration degree. Revealing her path as a woman without a college degree in the male-dominated construction industry, she said, “I am certain the skills and tools you have developed here at Georgian Court will allow you to navigate it all with gratitude and humility when times are good and strength, courage, and grace when faced with life’s obstacles.”

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“Our newest Caseys showed resilience as they accepted new friendships, teachers, academics, teams and clubs. They worked hard to make the best of their situation. As we finished the year, we had one cohesive group of seniors who are all now a part of the Casey family,” she said, referring to the nickname derived from the late Msgr. Joseph T. Casey, a priest and retired rear admiral in the U.S. Navy, who served the St. James Parish and Red Bank Catholic community during his lifetime.

RBC president Bob Abatemarco shared a similar description of the class.

“I am so happy today. This is a great school and she worked so hard,” Robert St. Vilus said of his daughter, Lynsdora St. Vilus, a four-year RBC student. “It wasn’t easy. I thank God every day for her education.”

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the quote, “That there are two lasting gifts we can give our children – one is roots and the other is wings.”

Mercy Sister Julia Upton, chair of the board of trustees, added, “Be open to discoveries, continue to wonder, to probe, to take risks. Keep in your mind and heart those who are less fortunate than you, and search for ways to help them.”

Two graduates shared the reasons they chose GCU.

Amanda Ricci, who earned her bachelor’s degree in social work, found a spiritual fit at the Lakewood university, stating, “GCU’s mercy core values are who I am and who I want to be.”

Janine Corgan, the director of data and information management at Lawrenceville’s Notre Dame High School, earned a master’s degree in theology this spring and called the program excellent.

“I very much enjoyed my tenure at Georgian Court,” Corgan continued. “I highly recommend the school. Just about everyone in various services and departments were responsive and eager to assist. Knowledgeable professors offered a rigorous and rewarding experience with personal concern and zeal for learning.

“I was referred by an alum, and knew it was the right place after an informative, encouraging, genuine discussion with the program advisor,” Corgan, a member of Our Lady of Sorrow-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, said. “I believe the fact that it was a Catholic/Christian/ religious-based institution made a large difference.”

“The Class of 2023 is united and has persevered. If I had one word that described them, it’s undaunted,” he said.

Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., celebrated the Baccalaureate Mass May 30 in St. Mary, Mother of God Church, Middletown.

“As your Bishop, it is a great joy and privilege for me to be here tonight to celebrate with your priests and those here present, the beginning of your graduation ceremonies. And we do so with holy Mass,” said Bishop O’Connell, who was joined at the altar by priests from St. Mary Parish and St. James Parish, and from the school’s other sending parishes.

The graduation exercises continued May 31 in the OceanFirst Bank Center at Monmouth University, West Long Branch.

When school officials honored recipients of the Bishop George W. Ahr Award for Excellence in Religion, they awarded one student who attended RBC for the four years and the other who previously attended Mater Dei Prep.

At the conclusion of the ceremony, the newest RBC alumni proudly posed with their diplomas, taking pictures with family and friends.

“This is a tremendous milestone for my son,” Chris Marzo said of his son, Ethan. “This was actually his first year at Red Bank Catholic, and they took him in and treated him like family. He made friends right away and played baseball. It was like he had been here all four years.”

“Be proud knowing that we have planted the roots in our children by providing them with this gift of a Catholic education at Notre Dame,” Jennings said, “but parents, we also know that it is time for these young women and men to fly their wings.”

Graduate Ryan Carr said what she enjoyed most in high school was the community atmosphere, the activities she was involved in that put God at the forefront and, most of all, the memories she made.

“Notre Dame High School has prepared me for my future by having me ready for college,” said Carr, a member of Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, who will major in business at the University of Alabama.

Carr’s mom, Debbie, added her daughter “had an absolutely wonderful experience, from the friends Ryan made, the athletics she participated in and the high-quality education that she received. I feel that Notre Dame has helped Ryan grow in faith [and] into a strong independent young woman.”

Kevin McGovern, father of Aidan McGovern, and a member of St. Joseph Parish, Millstone Township, said that he and his wife, Cathy, had high expectations for their son at Notre Dame.

“Those expectations were exceeded in every respect,” McGovern said.

“Most importantly, he leaves Notre Dame deeper in faith when he arrived and committed to doing the good works that faith requires of him,” McGovern said, adding how proud he is that Aidan was presented with the Bishop George Ahr Award for Excellence in Religious Studies.

“Go to the margins ... to have your heart altered.”

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The graduates embodied their senior year theme, “Let Your Light Shine.” Collectively they donated 4,323 hours to local community efforts, including weekly trips to Seeds of Service, Big Brothers, Big Sisters, Head Start and Habitat for Humanity. Senior members of the National Honor Society ran a school-wide blood drive and for their final action as a class, they participated in “Senior Service at Sunset,” to clean a beach in Seaside Park. Sixteen students received Christian Service Awards for going beyond the yearly 100-hour requirement. Julianna Chesla, Harrison Humphrey, Isaac

Lu, and Savannah Mozal won the Gold Award for exceeding 250 service hours.

Principal Jillian Kelly challenged the graduates, saying, “Your studies at Donovan Catholic have opened doors for you to make the world a better place for all citizens … Be visionary, set clear goals … Do what no one has done before … question the impossible. Stay rooted to our God; always know He is with you.”

Afterwards, Chesla and her parents, Kevin and Kimberly, reflected on their experience at Donovan Catholic.

Although the pandemic reduced personal contact for two years, “When it went back to normal in September, our first church service was electric!” said

Chesla. “We came together and bonded. Our sense of community was back. Here you get to know everyone and bond. It’s a second home. I had one normal year. If given a chance to have four, I’d do it again.”

of our seniors.

“Their majors, interests and talents reflect a wide range of fields,” including psychology, pre-med, computer science, nursing, music education, fashion design, political science, English, environmental policy, aerospace engineering, biomedical science, landscape architecture, biology, and secondary education.

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“Donovan is a high-quality, family-oriented school,” said Kevin. “It’s nice this still exists in today’s educational system.” guidance, said at the recent college signing ceremony, “The 100% college acceptance and more than $2.9 million dollars in scholarships and grants doesn’t happen without hard work, sacrifice and commitment on behalf

“Some want to create, others want to heal, some want to teach, others are interested in research, but all are interested in improving the lives of others,” she said.

In addition, almost every senior participated in the spring musical — whether the students performed onstage, played an instrument in the orchestra or worked with the backstage or

technical crews.

Filippini Sister Lesley Draper, principal of Villa Victoria, said while the class of 2023 had faced “unprecedented experiences,” especially due to the pandemic, “we are proud to say our graduates persevered and did not let setbacks hold them back.

“All of our graduates are to be commended on their high level of achievement and participation,” Sister Lesley said. “We believe the Villa Victoria experience fortified our graduates with a deep faith in God, confidence in their abilities, and a sense of purpose for their futures.”

“We hope our graduates continue to deepen their relationship with God and share their many talents,” Sister Lesley said. “We also hope they will maintain close friendships with their classmates who have become more like sisters.”

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scholarships and recognized three top students: valedictorian Mikayla Blackwood, the first student in the school’s history to be accepted into Johns Hopkins University; salutatorian Arthur Huggins, and Bishop Ahr Religion Medal winner Kevin Encarnacion.

After a welcome address by Dr. Lauren Brazil, upper school director, students Rebeca Tapia and Christopher Semexen led the candle-lighting ceremony; upon conclusion of the student speeches and presentation of awards, Dr. Brazil was joined by Margaret Raymond-Flood, president of the TCPA board, to present the diplomas.

Dr. Brazil reflected upon the

academy’s new graduates, saying, “I encourage them to carry the essence of their Catholic education with them, to allow the principles of love, kindness, and service to guide their actions and shape their decisions.

“I want them to embrace diversity and treat every person

they encounter with respect and dignity, regardless of their background, beliefs or circumstances… never be afraid to fail because that is where the most growth happens and the strength they have will fuel their abilities,” she continued.

“You are part of something

greater than yourselves; while creating your own story and pursuing your dreams, always seek opportunities to serve others, to use your talents, skills and knowledge to uplift and inspire, to heal and reconcile and to bring joy and laughter to those who need it most.”

in Catholic school and religious education programs.

STUART ACADEMY

Continued from 32 okay to be a little scared” as they took their first steps after graduation. Emile, who graduated from the Princeton school in 2011 and went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in kinesiology from Temple University and a master’s degree in public health from Liberty University, works as a senior operations analyst at Bank of America and has launched a small business, Glow Naturally, which caters to those with skin conditions.

“Make your voice heard as a woman; it is your strongest and most powerful tool,” she told the girls. “Celebrate all your wins and remain confident in yourselves.”

Zebrauskas concluded, “Each one of us brings a unique set of interests, talents, and dreams, and together we create a tapestry of inspiration, collaboration, and boundless possibilities. I have no doubt that no matter where life takes us – from the moment we leave Stuart’s green brick walls, to college, and beyond – the values and skills we have learned here at Stuart will help us succeed.”

In their last gesture of creativity and nonconformity, the girls turned what could have been a tearful and solemn march off the stage into an upbeat, joyful display. As the 70’s rock group ABBA’s “Super Trouper” blared from the sound system, each girl in turn dance-stepped forward and smiled, waved and posed to their audience as they were transformed into Stuart alumni.

Mia’s father, Ludwig Zebrauskas, supported his daughter’s desire to be schooled in the faith-based school, saying, “When we chose Stuart for our daughter, we knew she’d get a great Catholic all-girls education. What we couldn’t have anticipated were the amazing leadership skills and confidence she’s developed in an atmosphere that supports individuality while underscoring the importance in being part of the Sacred Heart community.”

HOLY CROSS PREP

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and technological advancements, the school remains faithful to their Catholic identity… I hope my daughter’s faith will allow her to face the challenges of life and gain the assurance that God is guiding and enabling her to succeed in life, as well as enabling her to overcome obstacles that arise in life’s paths.”

Father Christopher Colavito celebrated the Baccalaureate Mass in the school June 2, and reminded students in his homily that “although you will be scattered from this point forward, you are never alone.”

Drawing upon Readings from the Sixth Sunday of Easter, Father Colavito emphasized that “Christ is always with you, and you are called to be his light to the nations – no matter where you go and what you do. And hopefully Holy Cross has had a hand in preparing you to do so.”

During commencement, the

school yearbook was dedicated to theology teacher Hope Blanch. Parents who were also alumni of HCPA were invited to give their graduates their diplomas – along with hugs, high-fives and fist bumps. Four members of the Class of 1973 had seats of honor on the field celebrating their 50th anniversary next to their class flag.

“Catholic education has been a part of us since we were young … We wanted [our children] to be in a school where faith-based values were a key part of the curriculum especially during those teenage years,” said Angie Wojnar, mother of Tyler Wojnar, salutatorian.

“I truly hope all of our children have learned the value of service, kindness, compassion and respect toward others,” she continued. “No matter what you do in life, these are values that you can apply to all parts of your life and can truly inspire others to do the same.”

CHRISTIAN BROTHERS

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May 19 in the Robert J. Collins Arena in Brookdale Community College, Lincroft. More than one-third of the class graduated with distinction, earning a 91.5 GPA or higher.

“I am honored to stand before you this evening,” said Neil Begley, principal and member of the class of 1996. “You will occupy a special place in my heart, as you are my first graduating class as principal. During your time at CBA, you have discovered and learned skills, while also identifying and developing

many talents. The foundation you have been given is a strong and lasting one; build on it wisely.”

Addressing the graduates, Ross Fales, president of CBA, said: “You are a part of a brotherhood that will last far beyond your past four years at the academy. Graduation is not an end, but a new beginning. It is our hope that you will go forth from the hallowed halls of CBA to be the leaders of tomorrow. Your time at CBA, in addition to your academic studies, has been about spiritual and moral growth and about learning and reinforcing the values of becoming good men. That is what CBA has always stood for.”

Thibaut Fabricant and Jack Butler delivered speeches as valedictorian and salutatorian, respectively.

Fabricant, who will attend the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School of Business in Philadelphia, reflected on his four-year career at CBA in a question-and-answer series after delivering the valedictorian address.

“I think any advice that I could give incoming students can be boiled down to this: Put yourself out there. Whether it be joining clubs that pique your interest in freshman year, trying out for that super competitive team that you’ve always wanted to be a part of, emailing teachers for help outside of class, or even introducing yourself to the kid you walk past in the hallway every day, put yourself out there. You are the only one who can ensure that you get the most of your four years at CBA, so make sure you put in the effort to do so.”

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Daniel O’Connell, associate director for curriculum and instruction for the Diocese, holds a book of prayers for his brother, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., as he blesses the crucifixes designated for eighth grade graduates. Rose O’Connor photo

The blessed crucifixes await pick-up by Catholic elementary school representatives outside the Chancery building May 17. EmmaLee Italia photo

Crucifixes blessed by Bishop gifted to eighth grade grads

BY EMMALEE ITALIA  Contributing Editor

“You are God’s gift and hope and blessing to our world!”

That message from Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., was printed on a card that accompanied crucifixes destined for more than 900 eighth grade graduates from Catholic schools in the Diocese of Trenton. The crucifixes were blessed by the Bishop May 4 in the Diocesan Chancery, Lawrenceville, and school representatives came to pick them up May 17.

“The suggestion came from one of the principals,” said Daniel O’Connell, associate director for curriculum and instruction for the Diocese. Seven years ago, then-director of development Steve Nicholl “asked school principals for their input as to how the development department could assist in keeping a connection open between elementary schools and their graduates.”

Most schools, he said, present the crucifixes during their Baccalaureate Masses. The crucifix gifts are funded by the Catholic Schools Have It All Program.

“Hopefully, the students will display the crosses in their bedrooms,” he continued. “Like any remembrance, it is our hope that when students look at the crosses, they will remember that their Bishop cares for them. In addition, we hope that the students will remember their years at their grade schools and the strong connections that they have to those grade schools.

“We are grateful to be able to give our graduates a concrete reminder of Jesus’ great love for them,” said Sister of St. Joseph Patricia Pycik, principal of St. Joan of Arc School, Marlton. “As graduates, and now alumni, we are hopeful that with this blessed crucifix they will know that Jesus is always with them.”

Caroline Fitzgerald, principal of St. Leo the Great School, Lincroft, said that eighth graders would receive their crucifixes following their diplomas during commencement by St. Leo Parish pastor, Father John Folchetti.

“I feel this tradition is a wonderful example of continuing their faith as they move forward in their academic journeys,” Fitzgerald said. “It supports the foundation of their time here at St. Leo the Great School.”

Her hope, she continued, “is that all students are reminded that God is always with them and to turn to him for guidance and comfort. Additionally, it should remind them to be thankful for all that he provides them.”

Moving forward in faith: Eighth-grade graduates ready for high school

BY ROSE O’CONNOR  Digital and Social Media Manager, and Staff Reports

Graduations are steeped in tradition, and one of the end-of-year events for graduates is the last day of school clap-out, where teachers, students, staff and parents gather in the hallways and parking lots, waving and cheering for the students as they leave the building. This year as more than 900 eighth graders of the Diocese of Trenton exited the school building, closing the familiar doors behind them one last time, leaving with a strong foundation that has prepared them to open the next door – to high school – in a few months. Many of them had been in their same schools since kindergarten.

This year, The Monitor Magazine highlights two eighthgrade graduations: St. Paul School, Princeton, and St. Jerome School, West Long Branch.

A CLOSE-KNIT COMMUNITY

Like many of his classmates, Thomas Okupski, one of the 32 students who graduated from St. Paul School June 9, spent many years in the elementary school where he felt at home.

“Throughout my 10 years at St. Paul’s, I have always found someone to talk to who had similar interests as me,” he said. “The students and teachers are very friendly and inviting, so I

always felt included.”

Creating that safe, familial and faith-filled environment is something the school community focused on for 135 years.

Shannon Rooney, vice principal, spoke to the school community’s closeness.

“Our eighth-grade students have developed a truly special bond with their kindergarten buddies. This bond was so strong

St. Paul School graduate Kayden Padgett proudly displays her diploma for the camera during commencement June 9.

Eighth grad graduates Cristiano Vitorino and Elijah Zay exit with classmates to applause from faculty and staff of St. Paul School, Princeton, following commencement exercises in the church June 9. John Batkowski photo

John Batkowski photo

that several of our kindergartners actually attended graduation, and many of our eighth graders returned the favor by honoring the kindergartners with their presence at their moving-up day,” she said.

Kim Clauss, principal, spoke of the value of a Catholic education at the Princeton school.

“Our goal is to live our Catholic values each and every day so that, during difficult times, they [students] can turn to their faith for solutions.”

Celestine Sutter, who served as the student council president, spoke of how her Catholic faith shaped and prepared her for what lies ahead.

“Through attending a Catholic school, my faith is intertwined in everything I do. St. Paul School has given me a strong foundation in faith, which allows me to make the best decisions I can with a Catholic perspective, and I have learned to rely on God and my family. My Catholic school education has taught me how to act with love and lead by faith,” said Sutter.

READY FOR THE FUTURE

Across the Diocese, in West Long Branch, 20 students at St. Jerome School gathered June 13 for a Baccalaureate Mass celebrated by Father Marcin Kania, administrator of Our Lady of Hope Parish. After Mass, students received their diplomas.

“We are gathered at the altar of God to pray for you and to give thanks to God for the many gifts God has bestowed on you,” he told the eighth graders, reminding them of the firm foundation that their grammar school provided.

Though the graduates are going to encounter challenges, Father Kania said that, with faith, they would have the courage to step into uncomfortable situations.

“With faith, you have nothing to fear,” he said. “Stay close to Christ and you’ll be able to conquer the world.”

Bernardo DeDeus, who attends both Our Lady of Hope Parish and nearby Christ the King Parish, Long Branch, said he will remember St. Jerome School as the place that “always

St. Jerome School, West Long Branch, graduate Angie Paul is congratulated by Filippini Sister Elizabeth Seton Dalessio, principal, and Father Marcin Kania, administrator of Our Lady of Hope Parish, West Long Branch. John Batkowsi photos

Gabriel Boyce gives his mom a hug during the Baccalaureate Mass and graduation ceremony held June 13 for eighth graders of St. Jerome School, West Long Branch.

taught me lessons on how to become a better person.”

“I don’t know where I would be if I didn’t come to this school,” DeDeus said. He spoke of the monthly class Masses and having the “best teachers who helped to prepare me for my next journey” as a freshman in Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft.

Graduate Sophia Gallego spoke of how her Catholic education helped her to deepen her relationship with God and foster her interest in becoming more involved with the Mass as a reader and member of the choir. She said she believes St. Jerome School prepared her academically and gave her the needed confidence and life skills for her next endeavor – relocating to New Hampshire, where she will attend a boarding school.

Filippini Sister Elizabeth Seton Dalessio, school principal, discussed what made the graduates unique.

“The Class of 2023 strove to be brave, strong, and true to their Christian values. They were always ready and willing to volunteer their time and talents to the entire school community. As peer role models, they worked very hard to demonstrate that character is simply choosing to put goodness and kindness into action.”

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A big step forward

The eighth grade graduates in the Diocese of Trenton marked the culmination of their Catholic elementary school years with Baccalaureate Masses and graduation ceremonies. Look at how some of the schools across the four counties in the Diocese celebrated the Class of 2023.

They’re good to go! Students from St. Ann School, Lawrenceville, are lined up and ready to begin processing into St. Ann Church for their eighth grade graduation June 9. Facebook photo

Maeve Smith, right, is all smiles as she graduates from St. Joseph Grade School, Toms River, June 9. Facebook photo

Class Valedictorian, Ellan Velasquez-Molina, delivers his speech June 8 in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Mother of Mercy Par- ish, Asbury Park. Courtesy photo

St. Benedict School, Holmdel, graduate Sienna Ulrich is happy to stop by the main office for a photo with Kevin Donohue, principal.

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The Class of 2023 from St. Mary Academy, Manahawkin, jumps for joy on their graduation day! Facebook photo

St. Charles Borromeo School, Cinnaminson, graduates Andre Blalock and Alexa Mammola pause before presenting the bread and wine during their Baccalaureate Mass June 7. Facebook photo