Aurora December 2017

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Bearing light in troubled times

CatholicCare’s gift giving is an opportunity to make Christmas extra special for children in foster care.

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Photograph courtesy of Elizabeth Snedden.

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Featured  Help CatholicCare’s gift giving tree share the love 5  The Year of Youth has begun!

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 Would you like to reduce spending, waste and stress?

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 Indigenous students thrive in development program

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 Deputy Premier attends Taree celebrations 11  Supporting those who grieve at Christmas time 14  The Captain Class: who’s captaining your team?

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 Embrace the spirit of giving with a Caritas Global Gift

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 It’s starting to feel like home

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 “The nuns taught me to value celebration” 20

Thank you to all who completed the survey in the last edition, online or via the post. While it’s too late to win the gift voucher – that’s gone to Joan Palmer of East Maitland − you can still have your say at http://mnnews.today/localchurch/2017/24237-what-do-you-think-of-aurora/ or phone me to request a print copy. Watch this space for a sense of the feedback received.

A number of stories this month offer perspectives on the Christmas season, from John and Rosie Hayes’ practical suggestions towards a sustainable celebration, to Jennie Nolan’s reminder of the fact that for many, Christmas is a challenge to be faced rather than a joy to be anticipated.

I was intrigued to learn recently about “Women’s Christmas” on 6 January, the feast of the Epiphany; apparently an Irish custom in which the women rest after the travails of the year and the men take over domestic duties. Surely this is an anachronism, now that domestic duties are shared equally in most households? Something to think about!

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Recently, Jim Quillinan of the Diocese of Sale wrote a piece in which he quoted from Rosemary Sutcliff’s novel, The Lantern Bearers: “It may be that night will close over us in the end, but I believe that morning will come again. Morning always grows out of darkness….We are the Lantern Bearers my friend: for us to keep something burning, to carry what light we can forward into the darkness and the wind.”

Quillinan went on to say, “These are troubled times.

It would seem that we are on edge, concerned and uneasy about the present as well as the future.

But if we are lantern bearers, what do we want our light to reveal, to bring out of the darkness?”

As many of us celebrate the coming of Christ at Christmas, I hope you will feel able to be a light-bearer for someone who feels overcome by darkness.

As Clement C Moore wrote in the nineteenth century, “Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night.”

Rick McCosker, a generous contributor to the local community, has read and responded to Sam Walker’s The Captain Class: The Hidden Force Behind the World’s Greatest Teams and his

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Things change. You’ll not get any disagreance from me!

When I first heard the word, which seems like only a year or so ago, I took it for a solipsism or rather, perhaps, one of those quasi-existent words that people use because they think they sound more impressive than the common alternative.

But as people continued to seek my ‘agreance’ on this or that, I realised we had a new social phenomenon on our hands. Nonetheless, I suspected the word didn’t really exist.

The Concise Oxford by my desk gave no guidance on the matter, but Google revealed that ‘agreance’ is a real word.

Even the Oxford Dictionary acknowledges it, admittedly as ‘obsolete’, a Frenchderived word that surfaced in English in the 16th century, hung around in legal circles for a while, then departed unlamented into the wilds of Scottish usage. Other dictionaries thought it was in use in places like New Zealand that had more than their fair share of Scots.

One online word detective thought he had traced its first contemporary surfacing to someone in Texas about fifteen years ago. Texans! I wouldn’t put it past them.

One authority, however, thought it might be a useful word, expressing one of those subtle nuances of meaning for which English has stored up its million-andmore words. Whereas ‘agreement’ is a thing I give or make, ‘agreance’ is my internal state when I in fact agree with something. Hmmm. Anyway, ‘agreance’ is apparently here to stay, though more in the spoken word than written, I suspect.

It looks a bit dodgy on the page, don’t you think?

is the use of ‘Father’ as a title or form of address for a Catholic priest. Yes, I remember, as you may, the time when it was almost a mortal sin to call a priest anything but Father. And I thought, as you may, that it had been ever thus.

But years ago I stumbled on a letter of William Bernard Ullathorne’s, the chap who was Vicar-General here in the 1830s.

When he returned to England in 1840 he was quite put out to find that all priests were being called ‘Father’. A Yorkshire man, and therefore naturally conservative, he considered this practice ‘an innovation and an affectation’. Previously members of some religious orders had been the ‘fathers’, but ‘the Reverend Mister Ullathorne’ had been good enough for our William. Like clerical collars, benediction and the forty hours devotion, in 1840 ‘Father’ was one of those newfangled things being brought into English Catholicism from Italy. They had that foreign look about them. Of course, if Ullathorne had lived four centuries earlier he might have taken umbrage at being called ‘Mr Ullathorne, the priest’ rather than the good old-fashioned ‘Sir William, the priest’. What is right and natural, what is traditional, often depends on how far we remember back.

Then again, when I was a student at Sydney University in the late ‘70s we still had three academic terms and they were ‘Lent, Trinity and Michaelmas’, as they had been for centuries. Getting rid of terms effectively got rid of those names, which was probably just as well because by now they would be deemed offensive to much of the population, if not actually already declared illegal. But somehow

‘Semesters I and II’ don’t have the same resonance. Of course, universities themselves aren’t what they used to be, as recent developments in Newcastle have again demonstrated. Classics, philosophy and theology may be central to intellectual life in the Western tradition, but let’s face it, there aren’t many jobs in them.

Mention of ‘Michaelmas’ (always pronounced ‘mickle-mus’) of course turns my mind to Christmas, which is steaming down upon us. I assume that most people know that the name is derived from ‘Christ’s Mass’, the feast of the birth of the Saviour, messiah or ‘Christ’.

But I may be quite wrong. Perhaps most people don’t know that and think instead that the celebration is named after Father Christmas. Perhaps that’s why the name hasn’t yet been banned. Admittedly the Americans are a fair way down the track with their cheery greeting of ‘Happy holidays’, and that trend is noticeably growing here. But Christ has fared better in that regard than the Queen, whose official birthday is only ever referred to as the June long‑weekend.

All in all, changes happen, in life as in language. Some are good, some not so. As you get older, you get more philosophical about that. We hardly ever like changes to our customary ways, but we learn to grimace and bear it. The trick is to distinguish and cling to those things that do not change, the things that are eternal. I trust I have your agreance on that.

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Christmas.

For many of us it’s a joyous time, celebrating the birth of Christ and encompassing family traditions, celebrations with friends, gift-giving and the sharing of food. However, for the 10,000 children and young people living in Permanency Support Programs (foster care) in Newcastle, the Hunter and Central Coast, it can be a very different story.

“For many of these children and young people, Christmas is a joyful time − yet there can also be a sense of grief and loss. With such a strong focus on family traditions and events, children may be anxious about the whereabouts of their birth family,” Permanency Support Program Development Manager, Virginia Tsang, said.

CatholicCare Social Services Hunter-Manning implements a number of strategies to support and assist our wonderful carers to help navigate the emotional

“Our best advice for carers is to be prepared. Spend time with the children and young people and learn about each other’s family traditions, beliefs and culture − especially those who came to live with you when they were a bit older. What may seem a given in most families, such as decorating a Christmas tree and leaving out milk and carrots for Santa and his reindeer, may be quite foreign for some children and young people,” Virginia said.

“It’s also really important to prepare the children and young people for what to expect during the Christmas period, ahead of time. Insight as to who will be visiting, where they may be going and what happens on Christmas day can all help to lessen confusion and anxiety,” Virginia said.

As the year draws to a close, CatholicCare hosts its annual Permanency Support Christmas Party for children, young people, their carers and families.

Too often we all get caught up in what we would like for Christmas so this is a nice way to encourage the children to stop and think about people

“Christmas is a time to come together and with the right support in place, we find most children are receptive to joining in celebrations. Our Christmas party is a great way for children, young people and carers to connect and have a fun time. This year we will be celebrating at Lambton Swimming Pool, with Santa coming to deliver presents,” Virginia said.

“A lot of joy can come from gift giving. It’s a wonderful opportunity to encourage the children and young people to communicate and connect with their community, families and friends,” Virginia said.

This year, CatholicCare will be launching its Christmas Gift Giving Program.

Members of the community are being encouraged to donate presents for children in care, to signify they are cared for and loved.

Laura Monroe of Broadmeadow said she will be assisting her children, Ruby and Cillian, to select a present for CatholicCare’s Christmas Gift Giving Program.

“I moved to Australia from Ireland, with my husband Niall, around seven years ago. During that time I have come to love the sense of community in the Hunter. Even though we don’t have any family living here, I feel fortunate to be connected with so many wonderful people,” Laura said.

“Donating to CatholicCare’s Christmas Gift Giving Program is important to our

family of four, as it is a small way we can show our support for the vulnerable in a community that has embraced us so lovingly.

“As a mother to two young children, I think it’s a great way to model the need to be considerate of others and show compassion. Too often we all get caught up in what we would like for Christmas or our birthday, so this is a nice way to encourage the children to stop and think about people whom they may never meet but can still have a positive impact on,” said Laura.

Christmas gift giving trees will be based at the Catholic Diocese of MaitlandNewcastle’s Hunter Street Office and at CatholicCare’s offices located in Mayfield (Newcastle), Cardiff (Lake Macquarie), Gloucester, Forster, Taree and Singleton, with people encouraged to take a tag with the gender and age listed and buy for that child specifically, or purchase a present and label it accordingly.

For those who are unable to get to these offices, gifts can also be dropped off at local Catholic schools.

CatholicCare asks that gifts be provided unwrapped, so that the staff and volunteers can distribute them according to the interests of the children in care.

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News

By BROOKE ROBINSON

The much-heralded international Year of Youth began on 3 December and has been launched in parishes across the diocese.

The Australian Catholic Bishops Conference states that “the Year of Youth invites the church into dialogue about the importance and life-giving presence of young people in the Church and society. It calls for dialogue and active engagement focused on the reconnection and renewal of a new generation of young people in the life of the Church.”

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The first Australia-wide event for the Year of Youth is the Australian Catholic Youth Festival. This will run from 7-9 December, and all the action can be followed on mnnews.today and our

The Year of Youth has begun!

Hamilton, on the first Monday of each month, with a variety of speakers.

social media channels.

There will be 220 Maitland-Newcastle pilgrims attending, joining 17,000 from around Australia. Chair of the ACYF Steering Committee, Baden Ellis, said, “I’m very excited for so many from our diocese to be attending the youth festival in Sydney. This event is a great opportunity for our young people to experience church outside Mass on Sunday.”

To mark ten years since World Youth Day in Sydney, join us for a sleep-out at Kilaben Bay before the Way of the Cross in March.

The Diocesan Council for Ministry with Young People has planned many events to celebrate this year. All are welcome to join us, not just young people.

Each term we will have Sacred @ Seven, which is a gathering for adoration and music. Pints with a Purpose will continue at the Northern Star Hotel,

Other opportunities include a HSC study retreat, Be Grow Show retreat, Spirituality in the Snow trip, and for the very adventurous, El Camino Pilgrimage in Spain!

For details of all events see mn.catholic.org.au/youth-events

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Christmas 2017

Would you like to reduce spending, waste, accumulation and stress?

Then read on! Local environmentalists John and Rosie Hayes’ practical suggestions are good for us all and good for our earth.

By JOHN & ROSIE HAYES

A Christmas present we can all give – for the benefit of everyone − is a softer footprint on the planet, to protect God’s creation.

Below are 30 ideas. You could begin slowly and build up over time or be really adventurous and attempt them all before Christmas 2018! Maybe you are already on the way?

Circumstances will dictate which are possible for you.

A physical gift for all is not necessary. Stay away from the stress of the shops and the gifts that just gather dust and occupy space.

For relatives, friends, neighbours, acquaintances, workmates − why not send greetings via telephone calls, visits, cards with a personal message, not just ‘to’ and ‘from’?

For immediate family, we suggest that for each adult, just one gift is purchased and given anonymously and just one gift is received. There should be a $ limit and families will work out their own creative ways of doing this.

A fun challenge could be nothing over $20, and the gift has to be bought in an op shop, recycling while helping a charity. It’s a great example for younger members of the family!

Gifts such as preserves, relishes and fruitcakes, for those with the skills to make them, are very acceptable.

At Christmas 2017, and from time to time, tell your family which of the 30 you can tick.

Use outside clothesline only.

Adjust windows so they can be locked when semi-open, to allow breezes from N, S, E & W, and avoid air-conditioning as far as possible.

Install ceiling fans.

Install energy efficient (LED) lights with individual

Carpool or just ask for a lift. Use pedal and electric bicycles.

If possible, replace an old fridge with a more energy-efficient model.

Install a floor vent under the fridge to draw up cool air from under the house. The fridge is the

switches to control how many are on/off; turn

hottest and most energy draining appliance in

off appliances when not in use.

your house over 24 hours.

Turn off the second fridge except for big occasions.

Sign up for 100% green power.

Install water-efficient shower heads, sink and basin spouts, and dual flush toilets. Also catch water while waiting for hot to come through and use on garden.

Use rainwater tank/s for toilet flushing, washing machine and gardens.

Use undersoil drip watering hoses and plenty of mulching.

If extending home, insulate new walls, under new floors and under the roof.

Reduce solid concrete paving and maximise green planting to moderate weather and temperature.

Remove most grass, including nature strip, and plant trees and shrubs to create shaded areas.

Plant vegetables and fruit trees, and flowers for our precious bees.

Install pergolas with deciduous vines for summer shade and winter sun.

Save food and suitable organic scraps for worm farms and compost bins.

Be vigilant with recycling! Reduce garbage to landfill by more than 50%.

Use public transport as often as possible, and walk locally, don’t drive.

Change computer printer setting to ‘double-sided’.

Don’t shred, but box confidential paperwork and save for garden mulch.

Consider the benefits of solar power to generate electricity, and then batteries to store it.

Consider solar heat for your hot water.

Consider switching energy providers to move away from the big, well known ones, still the biggest polluters in Australia.

Consider switching banks to move away from the ‘big four’ and their subsidiaries, which are involved − directly or indirectly − in very large loans to coal mining and other black carbon industries. You can find banks and building societies not involved in such loans.

Consider divesting your shares in the ‘big four’ and other companies that invest in polluting industries such as mining of coal, oil and gas.

There are other suitable ethical investments.

Join environment, conservation and climate groups and sign up for email lists to be kept well informed.

Read Michael Mobbs on sustainable houses and gardens (from library, or Choice publications).

Read Laudato Si’ - On Care for our Common Home, an encyclical letter to the world by Pope Francis issued in 2015 before the Paris Climate talks (St Paul’s Bookshop – about $10).

Relax, smile and a happy Christmas to all!

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Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander students thrive in development program

they need to reach their potential.

By ALYSSA FAITH

On November 5, 2014, the YulaPunaal Aboriginal Education and Healing Centre, a purpose-built facility to support the Aboriginal community through cultural education, was opened in Mandalong, NSW. On the same day, the Yula-Punaal Trades Training Centre was also opened to offer pre-trade courses to local secondary students in hospitality, horticulture and land management. This was the first step toward providing tailored learning programs for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander students in Lake Macquarie and catering for young Aboriginal people who find themselves disengaged at school or unable to succeed in mainstream learning environments.

On 5 May 2015, the Catholic Schools Office officially opened a $6.9 million cluster Trade Training Centre (TTC) which included St Francis Xavier’s College, Hamilton, as the lead school of the cluster group and St Paul’s, Booragul, San Clemente, Mayfield, St Pius X, Adamstown, St Mary’s Catholic College, Gateshead, and the Yula-Punaal Centre. Unlike schools which focused on establishing TTCs around the delivery of Hospitality and Building and Construction, the unique partnership with the Yula-Punaal Centre allowed for the development of this TTC facility at Mandalong offering skills development for indigenous students, especially in Land Management and Horticulture. It was also a practical way of ensuring young people gain the skills 8

Since its establishment, over 30 Aboriginal and non-Aboriginal students from the Dioceses of MaitlandNewcastle and Broken Bay have participated in the Aboriginal Land Management and Cultural Immersion Program. Students travel to Mandalong weekly to gather and learn at YulaPunaal. The program provides students with a strong sense of belonging through cultural connections and also enables them to develop competencies in the RTO Certificate II in Conservation and Land Management. Students are taught practical skills − how to build a campsite area with fire pit, identify weeds and plants, make walking trails, work with machinery and tools, including the ride-on mower, and drive best practice work health and safety.

Yula-Punaal also acts as something of a spiritual getaway to students who struggle at school.

CSO Education Officer and one of those who established the Centre, Tammy Carney-Wright, says that the program provides all students with the opportunity to learn new skills, make new friends and connect to ‘Country’.

“Students of all backgrounds are thriving in this program,” says Tammy.

“We’re not only providing the opportunity for a deeper understanding and appreciation of conservation and preservation of land management and all that it involves, but also providing students who may be struggling in mainstream classes with an opportunity to take time out and find their confidence.

“This year, I have seen one student in particular thrive in all aspects of life under this program. Students who were once struggling at school and socially are now topping their subjects. They’re like new people because they have finally found their confidence.”

to conserve and maintain places

The program has also acted as a lifeline for students who suffer from anxiety and who become overwhelmed at school.

encouraging native flora and fauna.”

“Being here, students see a different side to things. I have seen some students get so worked up over what is expected at school, but here they can take time out to focus on Country, friendships and the spiritual side of things. It makes such a difference to the other areas of their lives,” says Tammy.

Recently seven students from Years 9 and 10 at St Pius X, St Paul’s and St Mary’s were presented with Statements of Attainment outlining key competencies achieved from the Certificate II in Conservation and Land Management. Those students who wish to remain for another year will finish at Yula-Punaal in 2018 with a completed Certificate II in Conservation and Land Management. Students who don’t wish to complete a Certificate II will still be awarded a Certificate of Participation with achievements listed, so no matter their goals, students are always working toward competencies.

Conservation and land management are integral parts of Yula-Punaal, as is the traditional way the Ancestors looked after the land or ‘Country’, the cultural term used when talking about Aboriginal land. Tammy explains that we all have a responsibility and obligation

of significance.

“That’s what we want this place to be about – a place of learning, culturally and educationally, preserving and conserving our environment and

Although students do not need to be of Aboriginal heritage to be a part of the Yula-Punaal program, cultural identity is a key element. Tammy has witnessed the pride and confidence Aboriginal students gain from positive learning that relates to cultural identity and the way in which it re-affirms, acknowledges and promotes cultural diversity.

As for the future, Tammy is dreaming big.

“My vision for Yula-Punaal is to have full-time courses and utilise our classroom and land to the max. The program is just such a great opportunity for students and the difference we are making in the lives of these students is really being recognised – teachers are really seeing value in the program,” says Tammy.

To learn how your child can be involved (if you reside within the Lake Macquarie/Newcastle area), please contact your local Catholic high school, www.mn.catholic.edu.au.

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I have an intense fear of public speaking. This would not be a problem if my job didn’t require me to speak in public from time to time. I am worried that people will see how nervous I am and this will make me feel worse. What can I do to build my confidence?

Fear of public speaking is ranked above many other fears worldwide, including fear of death. So it is understandable why this would create anxiety for you, especially if public speaking is not something you do often. However, if this is part of your job, then it is important to dedicate some time to developing skills that will build your confidence. Being good at public speaking is all about developing skills – you do not have to have a natural ability to capture an audience and keep them engaged. You can learn how to do this in two ways: learn the skills of developing and delivering a good presentation/speech and learning skills to managing the fear and anxiety around public speaking. Public speaking has many benefits: enhancing and promoting business, introducing new business and networking opportunities, meeting likeminded people who share your passion for the topic you are presenting and giving you a sense of achievement and satisfaction in your work.

Keep the following in mind as you work on developing your skills. Instead of focusing on how you feel about public speaking, focus on the message you want to deliver.

Many of us get caught up in the anxiety and worry of public speaking and this can impact on how we perform in front of an

audience. Below are some tips to build your skills and reduce your anxiety.

Dealing with Anxiety ff Choose how to respond to your worrying thoughts: What can you tell yourself the next time a fearful thought pops up? What would be more helpful to you to think at those times? ff Learn to channel nervous energy into positive energy – tell yourself how excited you are and really convince yourself that this will be fun and interesting. Being nervous releases adrenalin, just as excitement does.

Confuse your brain into thinking that public speaking is a good thing – ‘I can’t wait to meet these people’; ‘I’m really happy to share this information with other people’; ‘It will be great for me and great for business/my organisation.’ ff Practise deep, slow breathing regularly, as well as just before you speak in front of an audience. This will help to reduce the physical symptoms associated with anxiety. ff Visualisation – Just before you speak, visualise a positive outcome of your presentation. ff Meditate daily using mindfulness techniques. ff Find a friend – introduce yourself to a

few people before you start and then you will feel more comfortable when you look into the audience and make eye contact with them.

Presentation skills ff Prepare well. Know your topic well − research extensively. ff If possible, choose a topic that excites a passion greater than the fear of speaking. ff Be concise with your message and avoid talking too fast. ff Engage the audience – break up your presentation with visuals, role plays, Q&A, case studies and videos. ff Practise but don’t memorise – know your material and work out how long you need and how long your speech will last – time yourself. You can practise in front of a mirror – or just aloud to yourself or a trusted friend or colleague.

Pay attention to your facial expressions, gestures, body movements and how welcoming you appear.

It takes time to feel more confident with public speaking. If you feel you would like some additional resources, you could consider attending a Toastmasters International workshop or event. Visit the website for further information: www.toastmastersnsw.org.au.

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Two by Two

By TRACEY EDSTEIN

Remembering the days of the St Kevin’s schoolyard The strong bond between Julie and Marie Lerch began when Julie married Marie’s son, John, twenty years ago.

lessons on the Monday and school life continued but I did feel sorry for the Sisters – it must have been hard for them.”

That bond was only strengthened as Julie and John’s family grew to seven children.

This was a turning point in the history of the school, this year celebrating its centenary. As Marie looks back, she sees that the efforts of the parish priest, supported by parishioners, to have the school rebuilt, led to better facilities and a stronger community.

Marie Lerch (née Donnelly) and her older brother, Jim, attended St Kevin’s (then St Joseph’s) Primary School, Cardiff, in the 1940s. Marie has a remarkably clear memory of those happy times, despite the privations of post-depression days and the impact of the First World War. “All the girls wore shoes, or at least sandshoes; none of the boys had shoes.”

In Marie’s time (when the school was called St Joseph’s), there were four Sisters in four classrooms: Sr Camillus taught kindergarten/first class; Sr Reginald second and third classes, Sr Christina fourth and fifth and Sr Adrian was headmistress and taught sixth class.

Marie speaks lovingly of her brother who was “a very clever lad. He and other children would have extra classes on Saturday to prepare for bursary exams.

He wore his uniform and carried his school bag and people would tease him.

The school’s closed today…the teachers have all gone home…the school’s burnt down…” Sadly, one day the jokers were right − St Joseph’s had burnt down overnight! Marie recalls, “We still had 10

Because the school was close to the railway line, it was a boy’s job (always a boy!) to jump up and close the windows as a train approached so soot wouldn’t blow inside.

Marie married Jimmy at St Kevin’s in 1954 and their first child began school there, but when the family moved not long after it was not possible for them to maintain a close link with the school that meant so much to her.

Fast forward some 65 years, and Marie was very happy to witness young David Lerch begin kindergarten in 2004. David’s 19 now and studying electrical engineering at the University of Newcastle. His siblings – Stephen (18), Catherine (16), Benjamin (13), Daniel (11) and Joshua (9) − have all graced St Kevin’s doors. Susan is 5 and can’t wait for her turn!

Throughout those years, Julie, with John’s full support, has been ‘hands on’

Julie and Marie Lerch perusing school photos from St Kevin’s.

at the school and in the parish. “I really see school and parish as one, and I’ve always said to the kids, ‘We’re part of this community and we have to do our bit.’ As they become old enough, they’ve each been readers and altar servers, and that carries over into school liturgies.”

their parents. There was silence, no socialising inside the church.”

Julie’s run the canteen, led the parish playgroup, helped with reading and fundraising – and supervised lots of homework! There are sports days, social events, Masses and other opportunities to support the school and build community.

While St Kevin’s is a small school, and Julie admits it doesn’t have every imaginable resource and facility, she maintains, “You don’t need everything”, citing excellent results gained by students, in both primary and secondary school.

The younger children were familiar with and comfortable at St Kevin’s long before they entered kindergarten – it was simply part of their world.

When Susan Lerch begins kindergarten next year, her parents and grandparents will rejoice as the St Kevin’s story continues.

Marie and Jimmy are part of special events and ceremonies as often as possible, and for Marie, visiting the school and listening to her grandchildren’s stories enlivens her own happy memories.

While St Kevin’s is a relatively small school, it delights in its closeness to the parish community and in the links maintained with the Sisters of St Joseph, Lochinvar, the congregation that founded the school one hundred years ago.

Marie has a curious memory of Sunday Mass, “the boys seated in front of the Sisters on one side, the girls in front of the Sisters on the other side, not with

These days, Marie is very aware of, and impressed by, the demeanour of the St Kevin’s students she encounters. “Every child is confident. They will all get up and talk, and they’re encouraged to do so.”

One proud alumnus of St Kevin’s is retired optometrist, John Miner OAM. John completed his primary schooling at St Kevin’s and says of his Year 6 teacher, Sr Josepha, “She was a superb teacher who instilled not only a desire to learn but a sense of obligation to help others. Sister virtually drummed my bursary into me, and others whom she saw had potential. I headed to St Joseph’s College, Hunters Hill.”

In 1989, John received an Order of Australia Medal – and credits the great start he received at St Kevin’s.

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CatholicCare

Deputy Premier attends Taree Community Kitchen celebrations

By ELIZABETH SNEDDEN

There’s no doubting Taree Community Kitchen’s volunteers and donors provide an exceptional service. Since CatholicCare took over the operation in 2015, 10,000 meals have been served. CatholicCare recently invited Deputy Premier of NSW, John Barilaro, and Member for Myall Lakes, Stephen Bromhead, along to celebrate this special milestone… and they made it a party to remember!

“It gives me great pleasure to announce

donations and serve delicious, fresh

$3000 from the NSW government for

meals to our patrons.

the community kitchen to purchase a

“We consider it important that NSW

commercial grade fridge to store food collected from local businesses,” Mr Barilaro said.

Government Ministers and the local MP witness for themselves the work volunteers do as well as the generous

Director of CatholicCare Social Services

spirit of the Manning business

Hunter-Manning, Gary Christensen, is

community to address the plight of the

“absolutely thrilled” by the donation

vulnerable in our region,” Gary said.

and says it “will enable us to store food

“The donation was the icing on the cake

and a representation of the value placed on our service.

“The volunteers are amazing! Each day they collect food donations from businesses across the region and turn them into delicious and nutritious meals.

“We regularly serve around 30 people each day, but sometimes it can be as many as 50,” Gary said.

“Stephen Bromhead MP has been a fantastic supporter since CatholicCare first opened the doors and we’re grateful to him for attending and securing John Barilaro’s presence.

“It is this support − as well as from our donors and volunteers − that we hope will enable CatholicCare to expand on the lunch service offered during the week,” Gary said.

Mr Bromhead believes the kitchen and volunteers are an asset to our community.

“The Taree Community Kitchen and its volunteers don’t just provide a nourishing meal, they provide care and compassion to those who need it most and that’s why I will continue to provide the support these organisations need.”

To enquire about volunteering or supporting Taree Community Kitchen, please P 4979 1120.

Member for Myall Lakes, Stephen Bromhead; Acting Director CatholicCare Social Services, Gary Christensen; Deputy Premier of NSW, John Barilaro and Taree Community Kitchen volunteer, Bev Weiley.

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Family Matters

A Mum says ‘thank you’ to two of her greatest teachers

By MONICA SCANLON

I am at a crossroads in my role as a parent − it is time to let go and untie the apron strings.

Tears welled in my eyes as I read the school newsletter which had Term 3, 2017 calendar dates. Although I had been anticipating this event for a long time, it hit me. This is my last term of being a “school parent”.

I had wanted to be a Mum and have children since I played with dolls as a toddler. Whenever I did a test to find out my passion in life, it was to be a Mum. Now this role is changing.

I know of other parents who were elated, relieved and rejoicing that school parenting days were over. Whilst I was proud and excited, the end of the last day of school for my younger child was bittersweet. I felt fragile, teary and wiped out − a washing machine of emotions − and I was certainly not alone in feeling this. Phone calls and dinner with my husband and other parents assisted us all in defraying the

‘lost’ feeling. There was finality, the end of an era, and a gap to fill.

If I had my time again I would enjoy more and stress less. As Gemma Sisia, founder of the School of St Jude’s Tanzania, whom I greatly admire, says when things are challenging − “this too shall pass…”. Whatever stage your child is, whatever concerns you have, you’ll get through. There will be challenging days in the journey of school parenting − for those in the thick of homework, uniforms, school lunches, excursions, parent meetings – but enjoy and cherish these moments as “they too shall pass”.

It is different for everyone, but my message is this – appreciate your children where they are, as time goes so quickly. If times are tough for you right now – believe and trust. We all have rough dips in our roller coaster of life. When we reflect on where we were five years ago, we recognise that things change in the blink of an eye. If you are at a turning point in your life right now,

or in a rut, know there is a way forward.

There is no guide book, no magic answers as to the best way to raise children but there are always people to reach out and assist and if you don’t find answers, keep searching.

Maybe you’re a home schooling parent, a grandparent starting the school journey again through your grandchildren, a foster parent or a step-parent. Wherever you are – enjoy the moment – “the good, the bad and the ugly”. Celebrate the jubilations and ride the waves. May we have peace in our hearts, knowing that our children’s journey is the one they are meant to be taking, to learn the life lessons they need to learn.

I attended a parent education course when my children were toddlers and the psychologist giving the talk asked, “What do you want for your children?”

The audience chatted to each other and then replied “be happy”, “be kind”, “not take drugs” and so on. He replied

“Yes, but what you really want is for them to be independent at 18.” That stayed in my head. I was certainly not independent at 18.

I believe guiding one’s children to be independent is truly a gift to them. Have I succeeded perfectly? No, but together with the village of family, friends, neighbours, church, sport and drama groups and school educators, we have raised two great citizens.

I recall when my children were toddlers and I was pushing the swing at the local park for what felt like a gazillion times and wishing I could sit on the park bench in peace and read a book.

How quickly that phase of my children’s lives passed, as did so many precious, treasured moments of holding them as newborns, watching them take their first steps, jumping in puddles, tea parties under the trampoline, pre-school, reading bedtime stories, birthday parties, Book Week and sports carnival dress-ups, driving them to playdates and after school activities.

I always told my two daughters, “You’re going to be beautiful teenagers.”

They are great people and I have since added, “and beautiful beyond teenage years”.

Thank you both for being two of my greatest teachers.

We love you, you are precious, we cherish you and may you stretch your wings and fly, knowing Dad and I are always, always there for you.

There are many momentous milestones in the life of a parent – surviving the first year wondering if the sleepless nights will ever end, leaving pre-school to start school, and leaving primary school to start high school. Change is inevitable and change can be exciting.

There is a time for every season. I am sad but there is also freedom without the ties of school − a wonderful new chapter is beginning – exciting times ahead!

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Opinion

Supporting those who grieve at Christmas time

By JENNIE NOLAN

Family Ministry Co-ordinator, Jennie Nolan, issues a reminder that the festive season is not festive for all. name. Memory triggers seem to be everywhere the grieving person turns, especially in December!

Grief is felt when there is change or loss in a person's life. It could be a result of illness, bereavement, divorce or separation, losing a job or moving from your home, town or country.

When someone is grieving, Christmas can prove to be a particularly lonely time, especially when those around them want to see them coping. Joining family and friends could prove difficult because of the memories triggered, the missing place at the dinner table and the way Christmas used to be.

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You can help by acknowledging that they are grieving. Recognise the person’s loss. Let them know you understand they are missing their loved one especially at Christmas time (or on any other significant days throughout the year.) Be brave and mention the loved one’s

People who are grieving may want Christmas to be exactly the way it used to be, maintaining family rituals and customs. This gives them comfort.

It does not signal they have forgotten the person they have lost, or that Christmas is a time to ‘pretend’ they have learned to live without the person they are grieving.

Feelings of loss and grief can arise in the lead-up to Christmas, especially when many people are caught up with the rush and excitement that comes with the season. When people push their feelings aside or bottle them up, they can explode and play out in inappropriate ways. People can behave in ways that seem out

of character.

It may be more appropriate to talk to a trusted friend and say that you are finding things difficult. Sometimes, expressing yourself to a listening friend can be supportive. If you know someone who is grieving, you might offer company or a cup of coffee.

Grief is very individual and everyone approaches grief, loss and change differently. Give grieving people the time and ‘permission’ to grieve as they wish.

For more information about how you can help yourself or someone who is dealing with grief while those around are celebrating, visit www.mn.catholic.org.au/churchmission/change-loss-and-grief/ resources/.

If you are anxious about facing Christmas, you may find these tips from author and grief expert, Doris Zagdanski, helpful: Give yourself permission not to do things that you’re finding hard to do; for example, writing Christmas cards.

Make a point of remembering your loved one in a special way; for example, placing a special ornament on the Christmas tree to symbolise them.

Allow yourself to grieve – don’t bottle up your feelings.

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This was the moment when Before Turned into After….

And this was the moment When a few farm workers and three Members of an obscure Persian sect.

Walked haphazard by starlight straight Into the kingdom of heaven. − From “BC:AD” by UA Fanthorpe

Patti Miller, photograph courtesy of Sally Flegg.

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Faith Matters

Sikhs believe that the Supreme Creator is within each one

By AMARJIT SINGH CHAWLA

The word ‘Sikh’ means a learner or disciple and ‘Guru’ means enlightener, a teacher-prophet. The Sikh faith was founded by Guru Nanak Dev Ji (14691539) and his divine torch was carried by nine gurus who followed him. Guru Gobind Singh Ji, the 10th successor, who left for heavenly abode in 1708, gave Sikhs a unique, indisputable and distinct identity − unshorn hair covered with a turban.

The Sikh Gurus were blessed with the wisdom of Akal Purakh (Waheguru), the Divine One God, and the Supreme Creator. Guru Nanak Dev Ji coined a new two-letter word − Ik Onkar − in which the first letter is the numerical figure of ‘one’, while ‘onka’ means the Supreme Creator, present everywhere and within everyone.

The Supreme Creator is Eternal Truth, the doer of everything, without fear and without animosity. His form is immortal, beyond birth and death. He is unborn and self-illuminated. He is realised through the grace of the Guru.

Sikhs believe that God is experienced through love, worship and contemplation.

They look for God inside their own hearts and souls and outside in the creation of the universe. “The One (Akal Purakh) who pervades the universe also dwells in the body; whoever seeks Him, finds Him

there.” (Guru Granth Sahib, page 695).

Just as the fragrance in the flower, and reflection in the mirror, God is within you.

The wisdom and teachings of Sikh Gurus and contemporary Saints (Sufis, Hindus and Muslims) with similar faith in the Supreme Creator, are compiled in the holy scripture of Sikhs, called Guru Granth Sahib. Sikhs believe that the verses of Guru Granth Sahib are the revealed words of the Supreme Being. “As the word of the Master comes to me, so do I make it known” (Guru Granth Sahib, page 722).

The tenth Guru Gobind Singh declared that there would be no other living Guru after his demise, but instead Sikhs should look to their holy scripture for guidance.

So Guru Granth Sahib is the permanent, unchangeable guide for all faithful Sikhs, for whom it has the status of a living guru or Teacher.

Sikh spirituality is centred on the need to understand and experience God, and eventually become one with Him. Of all forms of life, human form is the ultimate form. Only in this form can one achieve the real purpose of being born − to become one with Him. “Having received this human body, it is your turn to unite with the God, the Protector and Lord of Universe.” (Guru Granth Sahib, page 12).

Three prime Sikh teachings are: “Naam Japna”: Meditating on God’s Name (Waheguru) and keeping Him in your heart and mind at all times.

“Kirt Karna”: Earning an honest living.

Truth is the highest of all virtues, but higher still is truthful living. (Guru Granth Sahib, page 65).

“Vand Chhakna”: Living as an inspiration and a support to others, giving to charity and caring for others. A Sikh is expected to contribute at least 10% of his/her income to charity.

To be closer to God, Sikhs try to avoid the five vices − Lust, Covetousness and Greed, Attachment to things of this world, Anger and Pride − that make one selfcentred and deviate the focus from the real purpose of ‘to become with Him’.

According to Sikh philosophy, all humans are equal before God. The principles of universal equality and brotherhood are important pillars of Sikhism. No discrimination is allowed on the basis of caste, race, gender, creed, origin, colour, education, status or wealth.

Women have the same status as men.

They can lead a prayer service and take part in all religious ceremonies including baptising. Sikh women are encouraged to

be educated, have careers and become community leaders.

Running a free community kitchen, Langar Sewa, is a part of Sikh faith. Sikhs run a community kitchen in a Gurdwara where a meal is served to all, without distinction. Everyone sits together and shares a meal which reinforces equality. A free community kitchen service is run at Golden Temple Amritsar (Punjab, India), where some 85,000 people visit every day and share a meal. This concept is spreading to the streets, to serve the underprivileged and those in need.

Like other minorities, Sikhs are facing challenges for survival. Violent incidents against Sikhs in different parts of the world are alarming and present a danger to the community. The distinctive personality of Sikhs, with long and unshorn hair (Keshas) covered by a turban, is being misunderstood and they are sometimes incorrectly associated with terrorist groups operating in the world. Sikhs are facing the challenge of convincing people that they are not terrorists, but a peace-loving community with high moral values. Sikhs are presenting enormous contributions to the world. The Sikh Philosophy and tradition is at the forefront of social innovation. Intrinsically, the future seems bright.

Amarjit Singh Chawla is Sikh chaplain at the University of Newcastle.

The Sikh community within the Newcastle, Hunter and Maitland areas meets every Sunday at Shortland Gurdwara, 27-29 Marton Street, for prayer from 11am-1pm. Everyone is welcome to witness the proceedings and share food cooked in the free Community Kitchen.

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Seasons of Mercy

For God alone my soul waits in silence (Psalm 62) in a variety of modes based on the Spiritual Exercises, my call was to travel afar − to physically remove myself from the familiar.

By FIONA BASILE

In late 2015, I decided to take myself away to the Mediterranean island of Malta to stay with a Jesuit community in Mosta, a village in the centre of the island. There, I took time to enter into a 30-day silent retreat based on the Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius Loyola with the assistance of a spiritual director.

At the time, for many, it seemed like an extraordinary and perhaps strange thing for a young woman to do. When sharing my plans, there were comments such as, ‘Why are you doing a silent retreat? You’re not a priest or religious!’ and ‘I couldn’t imagine one day of silence, let alone 30 days!’

And yet, that is exactly what my soul and heart were craving. After a tumultuous couple of years at my workplace, and many changes taking place in my personal life, I sensed very strongly that God was calling me away to rest, and spend time with him, in the silence.

Though there were (and still are) numerous places in Australia, including my home town of Melbourne, that offer silent retreats

I entered the 30-day silent retreat with little expectation, other than wanting to rest in the Lord, and to grow deeper in my relationship with him. I borrowed the words written by authorpriest Henri Nouwen* for the motto of my retreat: “I have to kneel before the Father, put my ear against his chest and listen, without interruption, to the heartbeat of God. Then, and only then, can I say carefully and very gently what I hear.”

To explain briefly, the Spiritual Exercises are a compilation of meditations, prayers and contemplative practices developed by St Ignatius Loyola to help people deepen their relationship with God. There are four main movements over the 30 days, each spanning roughly a week.

The first week of the Exercises provides an opportunity for reflection on my life in light of God’s boundless love for me, and the ways in which my response to this love has been hindered by various patterns of sin.

It is a time to be reminded of the foundational principle that I am a beloved child of God. My heart is full of gratitude.

The second week is an invitation to grow deeper in my knowledge and understanding of Jesus Christ. I read and reflect on the Scripture passages of Christ’s birth and baptism, his sermon on the mount and his ministry of teaching and healing. The more I learn about him, the more I know and love him. I grow to love Jesus more intimately.

In the third week, I meditate on Christ’s Last Supper, his passion and death, coming to a deeper understanding that the gift of eucharist was (and is) the ultimate expression of God’s love. And in the final week, I meditate on Jesus’ resurrection. I am invited to throw out into the deep and to follow him, and in so doing, resolve to walk with the risen Christ.

I am sent out to love and serve Christ in concrete ways in my life − How will I be a channel of Christ’s love, peace and mercy in the world, concretely?

How will I be Christ’s hands and feet in the world, concretely?

the holy of holies, that God longs to speak to us. It is here that God dwells.

The question perhaps is − are you listening?

My prayer for everyone is that we can regularly take time for silence in our day to hear the voice of God, and to respond to his words with concrete actions of love.

Fiona Basile is a freelance photojournalist based in Melbourne. While on the 30-day silent retreat, she wrote the words to her recently published children’s book Shhh … God is in the silence.

For more information see www. godisinthesilence.com * Nouwen, Henri, The Return of the Prodigal Son, page 17.

One might still ask, however, why take part in a silent retreat for 30 days, or perhaps even a week, or a day?

The answer is because God speaks to us in the silence − it is there that he speaks to our hearts. Of course God can also speak to us through the people we meet and through Scripture, but it is within our heart,

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Frankly Spoken [The misguided person] thinks salvation is the fruit of ‘I pay and you save me. I pay with this, with this, with this.’ No, salvation is free and if you do not enter in this dynamic of gratuity, you don’t understand anything. I am a practising Catholic, I go to Mass every Sunday and carry out my duties and you do nothing for me? He does not understand the gratuity of salvation. It is God’s gift to which one responds with another gift, the gift of one’s heart.”

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Feature

The Captain Class: who’s captaining your team?

By RICK MCCOSKER

Former Test cricketer Rick McCosker applies some sporting criteria to his ‘team captain’.

Sam Walker’s aim in writing The Captain Class: The Hidden Force Behind the World’s Greatest Teams − and the purpose of his many years of sport reporting, interviews and research − was firstly to identify elite, dominant teams with outstanding success. For this, he used six criteria – teams had at least five members; they competed in sports where the athletes must interact or co-ordinate their efforts during competition while also engaging directly with their opponents; they competed in a major spectator sport with millions of fans; their dominance lasted for at least four years; they had ample opportunities to prove themselves against the world’s top competition and finally, their achievements stood apart in some way from all other teams in the history of their sport.

His aim then was to determine if there was one particular person, coach or manager in that team who was the catalyst for the extended success and then analyse why or how that person was the catalyst.

Sixteen teams, labelled Tier One, complied with his exacting criteria, a mix of most major global sports, including two Australian teams – Collingwood Magpies (AFL) of 1927-30 and our International Women’s Field Hockey team of 19932000. Not surprisingly, two New Zealand All Black Rugby teams from different eras were also included.

In each of the Tier One teams he was able to identify one person who was able to establish a dynasty for his or her team. Of the sixteen teams, thirteen were male and three female, all with a ‘catalyst’ person, someone who provoked a spark.

In the history of human events, nothing draws a larger and more diverse audience than two elite groups of athletes competing. Part of what makes us human is the desire to join a collective effort, to come together. In America, it’s a notion that’s printed on every dollar bill, on a banner held in the beak of a bald eagle: E Pluribus Unum, “Out of Many, One.” Now, I believe there comes a moment in every contest, sporting or otherwise, when one person or team does or says something that tips the balance in its favour and wins the contest. Sometimes we can be aware of that moment and sometimes not – but one person or team will move to a position of winning and the other will lose the momentum.

As a result of his research and many interviews, the author felt that he was able to identify the one person in each of the sixteen Tier One teams who provided that ‘X’ factor, not just for one contest, but over an extended period of time – an era.

Of the sixteen Tier One teams, the ‘X’ factor person shared the following traits: Extreme doggedness and focus

in competition Aggressive play that tests the limits of the rules A willingness to do thankless jobs in the shadows A low-key practical and democratic communications style An ability to motivate others with passionate non-verbal displays Strong convictions and the courage to stand apart Iron-clad emotional control.

Some might argue that, for a great number of Australians, sport is a pseudo religion.

However, as not everyone follows this ‘religion’, can we apply Walker’s analysis and research to leadership in our church?

Perhaps we can apply the above traits to what the Scripture writers tell us of the life of our ‘original’ captain, Jesus Christ. We are told of his: extreme doggedness in prayer to his Father that his followers would understand his teachings aggressive testing the limit of the rules laid down by the scribes and Pharisees by eating and drinking and healing on the Sabbath willingness to do thankless jobs by washing the feet of the disciples during the Last Supper low-key practical and democratic

communications through his gentle teaching and story- telling by way of parables motivation with passionate and nonverbal displays of compassion through healing of the sick courage to stand apart with conviction that he was the Son of the Father through his humanity and divinity ironclad emotional control before and during his ‘conviction’, scourging, flogging and crucifixion.

Does our church, as a “team”, comply with the six criteria used by the author to identify his Tier One teams? I think, yes.

However, can we say that our ‘team’ has stood apart from all others throughout history for the right reasons? Perhaps the jury is still out!

Sam Walker The Captain Class: The Hidden Force Behind the World’s Greatest Teams Penguin 2017.

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Embrace the spirit of giving with a Caritas Global Gift

The Christmas period can be a stressful time of searching for the perfect present, yet many of those gifts are unwanted.

When most of us have more than we need, an unwanted gift represents a significant waste and serves as a profound symbol of the wealth gap between western countries and those living in poverty.

“In buying a gift, you touch the life

This year Caritas Australia, part of one of the largest humanitarian networks in the world, is encouraging Australians to help bring about change in some of the world’s poorest communities.

change lives. While much of the country

Caritas Australia’s Head of Engagement and Sustainability, David Armstrong, said Caritas Global Gifts offer a way of showing compassion to those in need, while rediscovering the true meaning of Christmas.

“Caritas is working globally to alleviate poverty and assist people to live healthier, happier lives,” Mr Armstrong said.

“When you send a Global Gift, you’re helping to spread the message that is the very essence of Christmas − that we’re all part of the one human family, working to make the world a better place.”

Through giving a Global Gift this Christmas you will touch the life of a community, bringing hope and joy. Photo courtesy of Richard Wainwright.

Global Gifts can be purchased for as little as $10 and come with a gift card for a friend or family member.

of a community, bringing hope and joy. Thanks to your support, entire communities are empowered to create better futures,” Mr Armstrong said.

Doney, from a remote Malawi village in Southern Africa, is a great example of how putting compassion into action can is suffering chronic food shortages, she has managed to improve the fortunes of her fellow villagers. Malnutrition plagues a third of Malawians but Doney’s community is benefiting from a bumper harvest thanks to farming methods introduced with the support of Caritas Australia.

Send a message to those you love and give a gift to those in need. When you choose a Global Gift you are helping create a lifetime of change for some of the world’s poorest people.

To learn more or to purchase a Global Gift visit www.globalgifts.org. au or P 1800 024 413.

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FOR displaced Iraqi Christians forced from their homes and living in displacement camps, the moment they have been longing for has finally come. After three years of occupation, the terrorist group I/We enclose $................... to help Iraqi Christians Islamic State (IS) has been driven out of ancient homeland the area. Now, thousands upon thousands of people have the chance to go back to their villages in the Nineveh Plains – their I enclose a cheque/money order payable to Aid to the Church in Need families’ homeland since before the time of OR please debit my Visa or Mastercard: Christ.

But the task of repair and renovation is huge and the Catholic charity Aid to the Church in Need (ACN) – the largest contributor of assistance help since their escape Archbishop Mouche from the Nineveh Plains – is determined of Mosul, holding a to continue to stand with them. It is now broken statue of Our or never. Their future is in your hands.

Lady, desecrated

by IS. With your help, we can assist the work of the Christian Churches to roll out plans to restore thousands of homes devastated by IS, and continue to provide emergency and pastoral aid for Christian families awaiting resettlement.

A beautiful olive wood Comfort Cross made in Bethlehem, will be sent to all those who assist this cause with a donation of $20.00 or more and tick the box in the response coupon.

The Comfort Cross is designed to fit comfortably into the palm of one’s hand as an aid to prayer or meditation. It is ideal as a spiritual companion for yourself or for someone you love or care for.

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Opinion

It’s starting to feel like home

By TRISH BOGAN

Earlier this year my husband, Paul, and I moved from a small country parish to a larger parish with far greater numbers in the community. After initial trepidation and the passage of time, we are feeling more settled.

We had lived on our farm for 29 years, and though we were a geographically large area, we were a pocket-sized parish in population. We strove for inclusiveness in the parish and wider district. We worked together and rallied through joyous and devastating times. We celebrated ecumenism with other faiths. But Mass participants were shrinking; creeping old age was taking its toll.

As a rural community, discussions often centred on the weather; in wet times everyone was happy, but in too frequent periods of drought out came the “Rain Prayer”. If any rain did fall, the main

question before and after Mass was, “How much rain did you get?” Agriculture, cattle prices and the climate were constant topics.

Eventually farm work became too much and we made the distressing decision to sell and leave behind the myriad experiences shared with fellow parishioners. The wrench was tough; we were probably feeling vulnerable when we first attended Mass in our new parish.

It was a shock to move from knowing everyone in the church to being surrounded by strangers. We may be a universal Church, but each parish has its particular idiosyncrasies. There is a vastly diverse parish community to get to know and a different parish priest. There were new people to meet, new hymns to learn and the church was larger and more modern in its design and layout than our

former 150-year-old church.

voices; the parish priest is friendly,

We are not a routinely outgoing couple; the thought of brazenly introducing ourselves to the ‘natives’ was a sensitive issue. In our old parish, gathering after Mass was important; many would often go to the local club to continue the conversation.

Now almost everyone left the church, walked to the car and drove away. Winter probably didn’t help, but it’s warmed up now, so we’re thawing together!

encouraging and accessible.

After weeks of simply waving and smiling at each other, I finally steeled myself, went to some nearby pews and introduced myself. The parishioners were wonderful and I can add names to faces.

faces, learn their ministries and ask them

Now, on entering the church, I feel a warm friendly buzz with many greetings. I have learned it is a vibrant parish with plenty of active groups; the two elderly gentlemen who sit behind us have beautiful singing

Most people in a parish get to know each other and relax into a contented gathering.

Do you live in a welcoming parish and appreciate new parishioners? Or have you been in the same parish for years and forgotten how difficult it can be for ‘new kids in the pew’?

Take time to accept and embrace new to participate. We are now settling into our new parish and it’s feeling more like home.

We’re still on the journey, but it’s less bumpy now.

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The nuns taught me to value celebration

By SUZANNE GABRIELLE

A former boarder at St Mary’s Dominican Convent in Maitland reflects fondly – despite a challenging childhood – on the legacy of the Sisters.

The Hunter Valley is in my blood. It is probable my maternal great-grandmother, Caroline Stapleton, who was born and raised in Paterson, then moved to Maitland after her marriage, attended St Mary’s Dominican Convent, Maitland. My maternal grandmother, Adelaide Hoskins (née Schild), her sisters Olga and Marie, my mother Carmel and her sister Ollwyn, certainly did. Aunty Gwyndra, who was disabled, did not attend school, as was the custom at the time. My paternal great-grandmother, Susan Josephine Doherty, the ancestor for whom I was named, also attended St Mary’s as a boarder.

Few Australians know about the 1950s law that separated children like me from their mothers. No matter the reason for leaving a marriage, these women were automatically classified ‘unfit mothers’ because a woman’s salary was not enough to support a family. This in turn awarded the State the power to remove children from their mothers and place them in orphanages. Thus the ‘white Stolen Generation’ evolved. This was the reason I was sent to St Mary’s as a boarder in 1956, aged four. I was so small when I started school I could not reach the refectory table so a cushion had to be fetched from the music room.

My courageous mother Carmel left my father in 1954 with two children and no money.

My father was an alcoholic who could not control his temper when drunk. He was incapable of supporting a family. My mother’s family consequently negotiated a special arrangement with the Dominican Sisters to take me as a boarder. I was never told the details of the arrangement but I know my mother had to work two jobs to survive. My brother was sent to an orphanage but had to be rescued after he stopped eating. My brother henceforth remained at my mother’s side and this would not have been easy before the law changed. It is one reason my mother moved to Sydney.

My mother’s younger sister Ollwyn was a Dominican. She entered the Convent in 1947, aged 17, and served until the early 1980s. She was known as Sister Dymphna.

As a boarder at St Mary’s I saw my mother and brother only at irregular intervals. I went to my grandparents’ home in Banfield Street, Maitland, for school holidays unless my mother could afford to send money for me to travel to Sydney. Usually I spent the Christmas holidays with my grandparents.

It was never easy returning to school after the long break but fortunately, the first day back was so exciting that my emotions were quickly calmed.

Suzanne as a baby, with her mother and aunt, Sr Dymphna OP

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My mother was automatically excommunicated from the Catholic Church and subjected to criticism from a community

that did not tolerate a woman leaving her husband. She told me she hated small towns. Despite the fact that both parents had served during World War II, my mother did not qualify for Legacy because my father was alive. My mother’s parents could not raise me because my grandfather had been wounded at Passchendaele and their hands were full raising Gwyndra on a War Service Pension.

Gwyndra was my first friend in life. I spent more time with her than with my mother. I shared her room when I came home from school and she walked me to school until I was old enough to find my way. Everyone in Maitland knew and loved Gwyndra.

Saint Dominic’s Day was the best day of the year, apart from my birthday.

I treasure my fond memories of the St Mary’s years that ended in 1966 after completing the School Certificate. My experience as a boarder has given me an appreciation of philosophy, a love of knowledge and a passion for knitting and the handmade.

Thanks to the example of the Dominican Sisters who raised me, I truly appreciate the value of love, good health, art and much more.

I was taught elocution by Sister Paul, impeccable table manners, how to fold garments and pack a suitcase (people always comment!) and even a little ballet in the early years. Our school choir was world class, thanks to Sister Helen, and the boarders’ basketball team was a force to be reckoned with. The nuns taught me to value celebration. Saint Dominic’s Day was the best day of the year, apart from my birthday. We were allowed to rollerskate down the polished concrete cloisters and to climb the mulberry tree to feast, and our cultural life was second to none. I had the good fortune to grow up in an intellectually stimulating and culturally rich environment. There were girls from China, Thailand and New Guinea who took over the kitchen a few times a year. Of course, the best memories are of the special friendships we formed.

I was given opportunities by the Dominican Sisters at St Mary’s I could never experience living in the suburbs. There are too many to share here. Thank you, Sisters, for your selfless service.

Veritas, our school motto, will live within me forever.

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Community Noticeboard Carols in the Cloisters

Saturday 9am‑5pm.

This annual event will be held at St Joseph’s Convent, New England Highway, on Sunday 17 December at 7pm. All are most welcome!

4. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do, 4 and 5 May at the Toohey Room, Newcastle. Friday 5pm-9pm, Saturday 9am‑5pm.

Magdalene Award 2018 Nominations close on 15 January. Please visit www.mn.catholic.org.au/church-mission/ other-groups/council-for-australian-catholicwomen/, P Ellen Hazelton 0407 513 813 or E ellenhazelton25@gmail.com Bishop’s Award 2018 Nominations close on 2 February. Please visit www.mn.catholic.org.au/church-mission/youth/ bishops-award/ for details of categories and criteria or P Cath Garrett-Jones 4979 1303.

“Before We Say I Do” 2018 Marriage Education is a vital part of planning for a life partnership. CatholicCare offers a selection of courses for married and soon-tobe married couples to assist them in preparing for, and maintaining, their commitment to one another. Couples are advised to attend a course around four months prior to the wedding.

Book early as some courses are very popular.

“Before We Say I Do” is a group program held over two days or four evenings.

P Robyn, 4979 1370.

1. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do, 10 and 17 February in the Murray Room, 841 Hunter St West, Newcastle.

9.15am‑4.30pm.

2. Facilitating Open Couple Communication Understanding and Study (FOCCUS), 19 and 26 February in the Toohey Room, 841 Hunter St West, Newcastle. 5.15‑7.30pm.

3. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do, 23 and 24 March at either Therry Centre, East Maitland OR Corcoran Centre, Morpeth. Friday 5pm-9pm,

5. Marriage Education Course (FOCCUS) at Toohey Room, Newcastle. 5.15pm‑7.30pm.

6. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do, 3 and 4 August, Toohey Room, Newcastle. Friday 5pm-9pm, Saturday 9am‑7.30pm.

7. Marriage Education Course –(FOCCUS) at the Toohey Room, Newcastle, 3 and 10 September. 5.15pm-7.30pm.

8. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do at Singleton CatholicCare, 19 and 20 October. Friday 5pm-9pm, Saturday 9am‑5pm.

9. Marriage Education Course – (FOCCUS) at the Toohey Room, Newcastle, 29 October and 5 November. 5.15pm‑7.30pm.

10. Marriage Education Course – Before We Say I Do, 23 and 24 November at the Toohey Room, Newcastle. Friday 5pm‑9pm, Saturday 9am-5pm.

Seasons for Growth 2018 Companioning Training, Children and Young People’s Training: Newcastle 14-15 March, Taree 19-20 June and Newcastle 7-8 November. This training is essential for those wishing to facilitate the Seasons for Growth program with children/young people or adults. Please P Jenny 4947 1355 to learn more about becoming a Companion. Enrolments for training are completed at www.goodgrief.org.au Claiming the Date

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at the Therry Centre, East Maitland.

Watch this space!

2018 Columban Art Calendar The 2018 calendar, which supports the missionary work of the Columbans, is available in parishes or visit www.columban.org.au.

The accompanying Art Guide dvd can be downloaded free at www.columban.org.au/2018artguide and is a valuable resource for religious and art studies.

Mums’ Cottage Invites grandparents to Grandparent and Toddler day, every Wednesday during school terms from 10am-noon at 29 St Helen’s Street, Holmesville. Enjoy some companionship with other grandparents while children play. Mums’ Cottage offers a range of services, programs, workshops and family events and would love to welcome you at any time. For more information, P Mums’ Cottage 4953 4105, E admin@mumscottage.org.au or visit www.mumscottage.org.au.

December  7

Bishop Bill participates in Australian Catholic Youth Festival, Sydney

 10 Second Sunday of Advent  13 First day of Hanukkah (Jewish Feast of Dedication)  17 Third Sunday of Advent  18 International Migrants Day  24 Fourth Sunday of Advent  25 Christmas Day  31 Feast of the Holy Family

Youth Mass On the last Sunday of each month, the 5.30pm Mass at St Patrick’s Church, Macquarie St, Wallsend, has a youthful flavour. Everyone is welcome.

Volunteering with Palms Australia Palms is seeking qualified and experienced Australians to assist in various missionary and development activities. There are opportunities in a wide range of areas, from teaching in Timor Leste (pre-school, primary and secondary) to assisting with the development of a brass band in Kiribati; from plumbing/building in Papua New Guinea to English/Science teaching/ mentoring in Samoa. Whatever your skills and experience, there is a place for you! To learn more P 9560 5333 or E palms@palms.org.au.

January 2018  1

Mary, Mother of God

World Day of Prayer for Peace  7

The Epiphany of Jesus

 26 Australia Day

For more events please visit mn.catholic.org.au/calendar and mn.catholic.org.au/community.

The Annual Tenison Woods Education Centre Dinner will be held on Monday 21 May 2018

Did you know that there are two more Catholic senior school options available for 2018?

St Mary’s Catholic College, Gateshead and St Joseph’s College, Lochinvar are now enrolling for Year 11, 2018.

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Last Word

Aurora on tour This resident of Nazareth Village in the Holy Land was intrigued

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Review

By NICK MATTISKE

Oscar Romero, the Salvadoran archbishop martyred in 1980, is on his way to sainthood, hence the title of this book, Assassination of a Saint. Romero’s reputation in the Vatican was tainted by his supposed closeness to liberation theology and its Marxist basis (though Romero was never a passionate liberation theologian), and his beatification stalled somewhat, but as with many other things, Pope Francis has dusted off the cobwebs in order to give Romero proper recognition.

El Salvador was, and still is, a wild place of stark inequality, where mansions sit next to slums. In Romero’s time, an oligarchy with vast wealth from coffee controlled the right-wing government and the military. Backed by a US paranoid about communism, and largely indifferent to human rights abuses there (as the US now admits), it had no hesitation in butchering opponents. Romero was cautious at first, but once he began to speak out about corruption and the exploitation of the poor he became a marked man. Being the country’s most prominent Catholic provided no safety, and Romero was shot while saying Mass.

The judge assigned to Romero’s case was attacked in his home and there was no proper police investigation. There have been no prosecutions relating to Romero’s murder, but lawyers from the USbased Centre for Justice and Accountability, including this book’s author, took up the cause in 2003, and the book, part detective story, part courtroom drama, relates the details of efforts to bring at least one of his killers to justice. As well as summarising Romero’s

place in El Salvador’s turbulent history, the book is an indictment of US Central American policy, and shows how the love of money and power can create great evil.

The book doesn’t exactly have a happy ending – investigations are ongoing – but there is hope that Romero’s canonisation will spread his message of peace and inspire the courage for change, resulting in justice for the Salvadoran poor for whom he spoke.

Matt Eisenbrandt Assassination of a Saint University of California Press.

Panforte BARTHOLOMEW CONNORS Chef - The Cathedral Café

Panforte is a traditional Italian treat and was once hung on Christmas trees as small presents for young children.

This recipe makes terrific Christmas presents today and there is nothing better to finish Christmas lunch than a small slice of panforte coupled with perhaps a port or muscat. Happy Christmas!

Ingredients

Method

f f 1/2 cup hazelnuts f f 1/2 cup blanched almonds f f 1/3 cup pistachio nuts f f 1 cup dried figs, chopped f f 1/3 cup peel f f 1/2 cup flour f f 1 tablespoon cocoa f f 1 tablespoon mixed spice f f 1 teaspoon nutmeg f f 100g 70% cocoa chocolate, chopped f f 1 cup honey f f 1 cup castor sugar f f 2 tablespoons water f f Pinch white pepper

Preheat oven to 150°C. Line a 20cm round cake tin with baking paper.

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Roast hazelnuts and almonds on baking tray for 10 to 20 minutes, regularly checking and shaking tray to avoid scorching. Place hazelnuts into a tea towel and rub to remove husks.

In a large bowl, mix pistachios, figs, peel, flour, cocoa, spices and chocolate.

Chef Bart’s culinary gifts can be enjoyed at Cathedral Café, 843 Hunter St Newcastle West, 10am–1.30pm, Monday to Friday.

P 4961 0546.

In a pot, combine honey, sugar and water and bring to the boil for 4 to 5 minutes. Pour into fruit and nut mix and stir well with wooden spoon, moving quickly. Pour mixture into prepared tin and press down. Place another layer of baking paper on top and press all the mixture into the tin.

Bake for about 15 minutes. Cool completely in tin and then turn out. It is now ready to cut into pieces to serve, sprinkled with icing sugar.

If not serving all at once, wrap uncut slabs in plastic wrap and store in fridge.

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SPAIN, PORTUGAL & MOROCCO $5,785

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19 day coach tour of Vietnam. Halong Bay cruise.

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VIETNAM GOLF TOUR $4,370

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Flying Cathay Pacific into Saigon & out of Hanoi, plus 2 flights within Vietnam. 11 day coach & air tour of Vietnam. 4 rounds of golf at Vietnam’s top golf courses.

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SOUTH AFRICA $7,865

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13 day Alpine tour of Germany, Austria, Italy & Switzerland. 2 day Singapore stopover.

VIETNAM DISCOVERY $3960

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Flying Singapore Airlines into Saigon & out of Hanoi plus 2 flights within Vietnam. 20 day Vietnam tour including the hill-tribe areas of Sapa & Dalat. & a 2 day cruise on Halong Bay.

CHINA WITH YANGTZE CRUISE $3655

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SINGAPORE GARDEN FESTIVAL $2970

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Flying Singapore Airlines into Singapore. Extensive touring program including Singapore Garden Festival, Rhapsody Light Show & the spectacular Gardens by the Bay.

SCANDINAVIA & THE ARCTIC CIRCLE $6995

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16 day tour of Finland, Lapland, the Arctic Circle & Norway. Stopovers in Bangkok & Hong Kong.

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12 day river cruise from Moscow to St. Petersburg.

Train from St Petersburg to Helsinki. Stopovers in Helsinki, Hong Kong & Singapore.

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Dep. Aug 29 & Sep 18

Flying Singapore Airlines into Colombo. 14 day coach & rail tour of beautiful Sri Lanka.

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Our Homes

Located close to transport, shopping and medical facilities, within minutes from Maitland Hospital and only 10km to the Lovedale Wine & Art Trail. We are a safe, secure gated community with an on site manager and 24 hour emergency call system. A GP visits the resort on a weekly basis. The NBN Internet is available for connection. The property is set on a level site with beautifully landscaped gardens. We are pet friendly and have many organised outings and activities for our residents.

Our homes are spacious architecturally designed, single level, 2/3 bedroom freestanding villas and duplexes of brick and tile construction. There are 4 different floor plans to choose from with either double or single garages with remote control doors. Each home features modern decor, are very low maintenance, energy efficient and are fully landscaped and fenced.

Our Stunning Facilities Coming Soon: Bowling Green Putting Green Workshop Cinema Room Village Bus

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To Newcastle Railway Station

Call us today to request your FREE information pack on 1800 422 155

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Heated pool Club house Kitchen & Bar BBQ Area Caravan/Boat storage area Billiards room Gym 6 seater buggy for transport within the resort Hairdressing Salon Visiting GP’s Room Library

Opal Nursing Home

Winner of the Hunter Aged Care & Disability Achievement Awards 2016

Retirement Village of the Year 14 Denton Park Drive, Maitland NSW 2320 I enquiries@signaturegardens.com.au I signaturegardens.com.au 17531