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WEDDING PLANNER & GIFT GUIDE 2011

Your perfect WEDDING 2011

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Stop out and try our delicious lunch and dinner menus!

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at Detroit Country Club 24591 Co. Hwy 22 Detroit Lakes, MN • 847-2512 OPEN SEASONALLY

“Together we do more weddings than anyone in the lakes area!” Please contact Michael for more information 218-844-1326

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We carry a full line of: / Bridal Gowns & Veils / Bridal Party Gowns (including Flower Girl) / Baskets and Ring Pillows / Shoes, Gloves & Bags / Tuxedo Rentals / All Alterations Wide Selection In-Stock!

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Finalize honeymoon plans Arrange for decorations Mail invitations 4-6 weeks before wedding

Make an appointment with your skin care & make-up consultant

1 Month Before

Checklist Upon Engagement

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Dates for wedding and reception set Expense sharing Guest list and number of guests

[ ] Book caterer, florist, photographer, videographer, reception entertainment, ceremony musicians

[ ] Gown and accessories [ ] Bridesmaid dresses and accessories [ ] Honeymoon plans 4-6 Months

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Order invitations and supplies Guest list completed Marriage license and blood test requirements Select caterers, bakers, etc. Order wedding cake(s) Create Bridal Registry

2-3 Months

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Men’s formalwear chosen Wedding transportation for you and guests Address invitations Mothers’ dresses Confirm services Confirm ceremony details with clergy/judge Plan rehearsals Accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests Reserve rental equipment

Final gown fitting Final attendant fittings Marriage license and blood tests Gifts for attendants Accessories ready? Ring pillow, candles, guest book, etc. Record of gifts received and mail thank you notes immediately

Choose Wedding style

6-12 Months

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[ ] Confirm pre-nuptial dinner arrangements 2 Weeks Before

[ ] Confirm rehearsal time and date with all wedding party members

[ ] Name and address changes on bank accounts, credit cards, drivers license, etc.

[ ] Contact guest who have not yet R.S.V.P.’d [ ] Keep up with thank you notes 1 Week Before

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Final guest count to caterer Seating arrangements Confirm honeymoon reservations, pick up tickets, etc. Pick up wedding attire and check fit

Wedding Day

[ ] Rings and marriage license [ ] Emergency kit — spare stockings, sewing needs, safety pins, etc.

[ ] Give officiant’s fee to best man for presentation after the ceremony

[ ] If pictures are being taken before the ceremony, the entire wedding party should be ready two hours before

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...and they loved happily ever after

DIAMONDS OF DISTINCTION SINCE 1943

Price’s Fine Jewelry 218-847-5309 805 Washington Avenue • Detroit Lakes, MN 56501 www.prices-finejewelry.com

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Getting engaged is just the beginning..

Now what?

will ... but you won't. Now is the time to let others get you the stuff you'd never buy yourself. Your friends and family might even get together to purchase a higher priced "group gift."

Are you one of the thousands of couples who got engaged over the holidays? This is the time for you and your soon-to-be to get everything you ever wanted -- whether you're starting from scratch, upgrading, expanding or replacing. Turn a whole bunch of mismatched mine and yours into a lifetime of ours. When it comes to registering, relax, take your time and have fun. Items that are right for you and your soon-to-be. Go through the registry process together and have fun! Here are some additional tips to make wedding planning a breeze: Plan Ahead: Start a bridal registry as soon as you say "yes." That way guests will have lots of options for engagement gifts and showers. Periodically update your registry by adding more products if you need to, even after the wedding. Be kind to procrastinators.

Dream Big: Register for gifts in a range of prices and categories. This will give guests and group givers lots of options to choose from.

Follow a few wedding registry tips and give wedding well-wishers plenty of gifting options.

Do the Math: Experts advise registering for 2-3 items times the number of guests you plan to have. Close friends and family will rely on your registry for special events leading up to the wedding -- such as engagement parties, bridal showers, and holidays! Your guests will appreciate having lots of choices when they shop for you. Be sure to refresh your list regularly as gifts get purchased. Register Now, Because You Won't Buy it Later: You may think you

Remember the Rule of Three: When it comes to setting your table, if you choose bold patterns for your china and flatware, pick a more simple style of glassware. Prefer intricate stemware? Pair it with simpler patterns of china and flatware. So, it's bold/bold/ simple or simple/simple/bold.

Visit a Store: It's in YOUR best interest to visit a store and schedule an appointment with an expert consultant who can help you with your gift selections and share great tips like "The Rule of Three," what cookware you will need to prepare your favorite dish, what knife to use when and much more. When making your selections, it's important to touch the towels, heft the flatware, see everything in person! C'mon Back: Most couples don't make all their selections in a single spree. Plan on making multiple visits. Congratulations and best wishes on your engagement. Now get registering and let the gift-giving begin.

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The Historic Holmes Theatre The Holmes Ballroom

Elegant. Charming. Magical. The perfect place for your “Happily Ever After” to begin! • • • • • • • • • •

Unique, historic building built in the 1930s Your name up in lights on our marquee Use the cater of your choice Event coordination assistance Wide variety of décor and lighting options Great location just off of Highway 10 Professional sound and lighting Large screen for video presentations Unique lighting creates a festive atmosphere Reception space for up to 400 guests featuring a beautiful wood floor, raised stage & high ceilings Contact Becky Mitchell at 844-4221 ext. 117 for a tour or more information.

806 Summit Ave. | Detroit Lakes | 218-844-7469 www.dlccc.org

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EXPENSES

Deposits & Down Payments Date

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Wedding Attire Dress/Headpiece Accessories Formalwear rental Other:__________

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Rehearsal Dinner _______

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Ceremony Church/Location Clergy/Judge Musicians Decorations/Rentals (other than flowers) Other:__________

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Reception Facility Food Beverages Cake Entertainment Decorations/Rentals Other:__________

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Invitations

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Flowers Ceremony Reception Other:__________

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Photographer

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Videographer

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Gifts Attendants Other:__________

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Transportation

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Honeymoon

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Miscellaneous

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Ceremony Music Selections: Aisle runner? ___________________________________________ Canopy? _______________________________________________ Candles? _______________________________________________

CEREMONY

Knee cushions? __________________________________________ Rice/Birdseed? ___________________________________________ Dressing rooms? _________________________________________

Date/Time ______________________________________________

Reserved Seating

Location _______________________________________________

Row 1/Pew 1 ___________________________________________

Phone # _______________________________________________

Row 1/Pew 2 ____________________________________________

Address ________________________________________________

Row 1/Pew 3 ____________________________________________

Officiant(s) & Phone #â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ____________________________________

Row 1/Pew 4 ___________________________________________

Contact & Phone #________________________________________

Row 1/Pew 5 ___________________________________________

Rehearsal Date/Time ______________________________________ Fee ___________________________________________________

Row 2/Pew 1 ___________________________________________ Row 2/Pew 2 ____________________________________________

Does the facility provide:

Row 2/Pew 3 ____________________________________________

Aisle runner? ___________________________________________

Row 2/Pew 4 ___________________________________________

Canopy? _______________________________________________

Row 2/Pew 5 ___________________________________________

Candles? _______________________________________________ Knee cushions? __________________________________________

Notes _________________________________________________

Rice/Birdseed? ___________________________________________ _________________________________________________ Dressing rooms? _________________________________________

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Wedding cake trends The multi-tiered cake that is a favorite wedding tradition that's often presented at the end of the night. The happy couple takes a slice and enjoys the first piece.

â&#x20AC;&#x201D; this season

Couples looking for something a bit different for their upcoming nuptials, many want to consider these trends in wedding cakes. * 3-D accents on the cake, such as graphic appliques.

In recent years, wedding cakes have become more of an artistic centerpiece than just a confectionary treat. Couples often seek out renowned wedding cake bakers for a cake that will amaze the crowd and complete the theme of the wedding. The average couple will spend between $700 to $800 for their wedding cake. Although many catering halls or reception sites will include the wedding cake in a package deal, many couples choose to order their cake from a specialty bakery who creates culinary masterpieces. If television trends are any indication, many people are opting to spend several hundred to thousands of dollars on a customized wedding cake. These fondant and buttercream creations may be elaborate in nature, so much so they'll likely need to be ordered several months in advance.

* A black-and-white motif that gives the cake a simplistic, yet trendy appeal. * A lot of bold color in the cake, instead of just white or ivory. * Dramatic monograms that can add class to the cake. * Painted cakes with edible food coloring paint that feature beautiful landscapes or a portrait. A work of art, they're both delicious to eat and fun to admire.

Black-and-white wedding cakes are one theme that couples routinely turn to for their dramatic flair and aesthetic appeal.

* Cakes that mirror the style of the wedding gown, including fondant ruffles and appliques. Many couples still opt for the traditional, and that is always in style. Instead of experimenting with the outside of the cake, couples can be creative with cake flavor and fillings. Imagine cutting open the cake to find red velvet or a chocolate ganache filling!

Here Comes the Bouquet Your perfect WEDDING 2011

From exotic orchids to classic roses, let our floral creations inspire and complement you.

Custom bridal and bridesmaid bouquets... custom ceremony and reception arrangements. Personal consultants to work within your budget.

Central Floral

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310 East Frazee Street • 844-3664 • Detroit Lakes FTD S IN

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Cost Cover? All necessary equipment? ____________________________________ Room setup? _____________________________________________ China/flatware? ___________________________________________ Cake Cutting? ____________________________________________

CATERING Caterer _________________________________________________

Servers (how many)? _______________________________________ Setup & Cleanup? _________________________________________ Taxes & Gratuity? _________________________________________ Other? _________________________________________________

Address _________________________________________________ Phone # ________________________________________________

Liquor/Beverages

Service Date/Time _________________________________________

Supplier_________________________________________________

Contact _________________________________________________

Address _________________________________________________

Reception Location_________________________________________

Phone # ________________________________________________

Price ___________________________________________________

Contact _________________________________________________ Pickup or Deliver? _________________________________________

Cost

Ice ____________________________________________________ PER PERSON _______________________________

X # OF GUESTS _______________________________

+ (Any Add'l Cost) = FINAL COST

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Open Bar from ________________ to _________________________ Cash Bar from _______________to ___________________________ Champagne for Toast _______________________________________ Wine(s) for Dinner _________________________________________ Punch _________________________________________________

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Soft Drinks ______________________________________________

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Non-Alcoholic Wine/Beer/Champagne ___________________________

Notes _________________________________________________ _________________________________________________ _________________________________________________ _________________________________________________

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Special photos and guest NOT to be missed _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________

PHOTOS

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Photographer/Videographer Address _________________________________________________

long after the

flowers have faded, the cake has been eaten and the dress is stored...

Phone Number ____________________________________________ Dates for review __________________________________________ Contact ________________________________________________ DATES & TIMES Formal Portrait ____________________________________________

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Ceremony _______________________________________________ Reception _______________________________________________ # of Photos ______________________________________________ FORMAL CEREMONY Before __________________________________________________ After ___________________________________________________ AT THE RECEPTION

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Invite only Couples are faced with many decisions when planning a wedding. One often overlooked decision concerns the guest list. Ideally, couples would love to invite all their friends and family to share in their special day. Realistically, however, budget often dictates just how many guests a couple can invite. That reality has led to a disagreement or two over the years, as both the bride-to-be and her future husband make their case for who makes the cut. To help avoid such disagreements, couples should consider the following tips when paring down their guest list. * Make a master list as early as possible. It's impossible to pare down a guest list if there's no list to begin with. Once the planning process begins, couples should separately write down all the guests they would like to invite. Once each is finished with their list, the hard work of paring that list down can begin. * Consider who's footing the bill. If Mom and Dad are paying for the wedding, then their suggestions for the guest list should carry most of the weight. Weddings are very expensive, and if Mom and Dad are paying they should have a significant say who will in attendance. The same principle can be applied if the couple is paying for their own wedding. If the costs are being split down the middle, then both the groom- and bride-to-be should be allowed to invite the same number of guests. * Ask that kids stay home. Many couples request that their guests leave the kids at home. While nieces and nephews might make the cut, it's perfectly acceptable for couples to state their preference that children not attend. This can be noted on the invitation, addressing friends

pare down your wedding guest list

as "Mr. John Doe and guest" or "Mr. and Mrs. John Doe." Guests should take the hint, but if any RSVPs with their kids, be sure to call them immediately and explain the situation. Friends and family should understand the preference, particularly in the current economic climate. * It's not a reunion. Couples are often tempted to invite long-lost friends to their wedding. But costconscious couples must recognize their wedding is not a reunion. If the goal is to keep the guest list under control, only invite close friends and family members who have kept in touch with over the years. * Stick to your guns. Couples vary greatly with what they want out of their wedding. Some want a grandiose affair they can share with their whole family and all of their friends. Other couples want a more laid-back affair with only those closest to them in attendance. Whatever their preference, couples should remain firm and not feel guilty no matter how many guests they choose to invite or not invite. * Cut back in other areas. If it's proving simply impossible to agree on a reduced guest list, consider inviting everyone and cutting back in other areas. Before signing any contracts, closely examine each one for items that can be removed without drastically changing the ceremony and celebration. Chances are there are savings to be had, and those savings might make the difference between inviting and not inviting another friend or family member.

Couples are often faced with tough decisions when it comes to paring down the guest list for their wedding.

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We have items for church or lawn weddings for rent

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• White Wicker Arch, Flower Stands & Podium • Lawn Canopies 20'x20', 20'x30' and 20'x40'

*Seating up to 450 *Full cocktail service *Customized menu options *Many Groom’s dinner options *Bowling packages available *Dance floor & stage

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Multimedia Projector Brass Arch Candelabra Sets Beverage Fountain Chocolate Fountain Chairs & Tables Table Linens Chafing Dishes Roaster Ovens 4 Ft. Salad Bar Silver Coffee Service

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How to say, 'Thank You' It is customary for the bride- and groom-to-be to show their gratitude to all of the people who will make their wedding day special. Weddings today feature people who have roles that go beyond the traditional, like interior decorators and musical soloists. It's important to remember to thank everyone who contributes to the celebration. Thank-you gifts should be something thoughtful and enduring. Avoid fad or gag gifts. These gifts should be presented at a prewedding occasion. It's customarily done at the rehearsal dinner. Crafting personalized remarks is a nice way to call attention to the unique tasks of each wedding participant. Don't simply pass the gifts out in one fell swoop. This way the gift will have more meaning through a personal message. Don't let thank-you gifts be forgotten. Start thinking of gift ideas early on and plan for any extra time for engraving or other personalization. Groomsmen When selecting gifts for groomsmen, think about a gift they would like but probably wouldn't buy themselves. This can be cuff links, a fine watch, money clip, or a high-quality wallet. Feel free to splurge a little more on the best man.

Bridesmaids Traditional gifts for bridesmaids are different types of jewelry. Monogrammed stationery, a spa treatment, or another pampering session. As you have with the best man, feel free to bestow a little more thanks on the maid of honor with a more lavish gift. Younger bridal party members can get a similar gift, but one in scale with their ages. Clergy Many couples choose to make a financial donation to their house of worship. Additional tipping or monetary gifts for musicians, alter boys/girls, etc. can also be a thoughtful gesture. A donation toward an officiant's vestments may also be appreciated. Parents of the Bride and Groom The couple may choose to bestow a gift on their parents, which can be especially meaningful if the parents are taking care of the financial responsibility of the wedding. Jewelry or fine gifts in similar scope to that of the bridal party are good ideas. Consider engraved picture frames that can house a wedding portrait down the road. Others Readers, soloists, ushers, etc. can be given a small token of your appreciation, like a gift card or a personalized memento.

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FORMAL attire

Maid of Honor ___________________________________________

Phone # ___________ Size ___ Fitting ____ Pickup ____ Bridesmaid _____________________________________________

Bride

Phone # ___________ Size ___ Fitting ____ Pickup ____ Bridesmaid _____________________________________________

Bridal Shop _____________________________________________ Consultant______________________________________________ Fitting Date _____________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________ Phone # _______________________________________________

Phone # ___________ Size ___ Fitting ____ Pickup ____ Bridesmaid _____________________________________________

Phone # ___________ Size ___ Fitting ____ Pickup ____ Flower girl ______________________________________________

Phone # ___________ Size ___ Fitting ____ Pickup ____

Pick-up Date ____________________________________________ Dress Description _________________________________________

Bride’s Mother _______________________

Headpiece ______________________________________________

Store/Consultant _________________________________________

Accessories/Undergarments _________________________________

Address/Phone # _________________________________________

Shoes _________________________________________________

Description _____________________________________________ Fitting _________________________________________________

Bride’s Attendants

Pick-up ________________________________________________

Bridal Shop _____________________________________________ Consultant______________________________________________

Groom’s Mother

Fitting Date _____________________________________________

Store/Consultant _________________________________________

Address ________________________________________________

Address/Phone # _________________________________________

Phone # _______________________________________________

Description _____________________________________________

Pick-up Date ____________________________________________

Fitting _________________________________________________

Dress Description _________________________________________

Pick-up ________________________________________________

Headpiece ______________________________________________ Accessories/Undergarments _________________________________ Shoes _________________________________________________

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'Save the Date' cards

Save the date cards are sent to guests pretty much the second after the groom pops the question, so that guests can plan ahead. If you send out your announcements 8-10 weeks prior to your wedding, there is probably no need for save the date cards. However, if you have friends or relatives who will be traveling great distances (especially from other countries), a little heads-up would be nice. However, this can be done by greeting card, letter or phone call. That should be sufficient to “save the date.”

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Weddingoptions day transportation abound

Couples have many decisions to make regarding their wedding ceremony and reception. One of those decisions conerns transportation to and from the special event. There are many options in wedding transportation. The more traditional options include renting a car or limousine. The Bridal Association of America reports that the average couples spends $400 to $500 for an automotive rental. However, prices may vary depending on geography and the type of vehicle rented. Wedding transportation is perhaps something grooms-to-be can get excited about. After all, we're talking about cars -- some fancy, some large, and many decked out with different features. Plus, it's traditionally the responsibility of the groom to arrange transportation to and from the ceremony, reception and the hotel or honeymoon destination. Grooms responsible for arranging transportation can consider the following options. * Limousine: A limo is one of the most traditional methods of transport on a couple's wedding day. A limousine's size enables them to carry the bridal party in its entirety. Because the bride and groom often do not see each other before the ceremony, two limos may be rented, one larger for the bridal party, and one smaller for the bride and her parents, depending on personal preference. * Classic car: Sports car enthusiasts may want to make an entrance -- and exit -- behind the wheel of a sporty vehicle. These can include a high-end Ferrari or an Aston Martin. Because of their high purchase price, sports car rentals may carry a premium. * Stretch SUV: The traditional limo has morphed into the stretch SUV of popular models, including the Cadillac Escalade, Ford Expedition or even a stretch Hummer. Because of their popularity, these rentals may

be snatched up quickly. Be sure to book well in advance of the big day. * Party Bus: Many couples are leaning toward a party bus rental, which may be a single- or double-decker bus that can fit scores of people inside. These are particularly attractive to couples with a very large bridal party, or those who hope to begin the celebration even before reaching the reception hall. * Horse-drawn carriage: Some couples truly want the fairytale feel on their wedding day. A horse-drawn carriage can evoke feelings of a Cinderella-type day. The carriage tends to be best suited to warm weather. For winter weddings, a horse-drawn sleigh might make a better alternative. * Motorcycle: Exciting couples may want to ride off into the sunset on the back of a roadster or sports bike. * Horses: Horses can haul more than just a carriage. A bride and groom atop a handsome steed can make for a memorable wedding transportation option and equally memorable photos. * Boat: Individuals getting married by the sea or another body of water may want to consider attending the festivities via boat, be it a large vessel or a more intimate canoe or rowboat. Wedding day transportation varies depending on each couple's preference. Here are some other things to keep in mind concerning transportation. * Be sure to have transportation options at the ready for guests who may have over-indulged on alcoholic beverages. * Wedding party participants who arrived at the wedding by a limo or other source will need a ride home somehow. * Find out if a hotel nearby offers complementary transportation to and from the reception hall.

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Groomsmen _____________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____ Groomsmen _____________________________________________

FORMAL attire Fitting Deadline __________________________________________ Bridal Shop _____________________________________________ Consultant______________________________________________ Fitting Date _____________________________________________

Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____ Groomsmen _____________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____ Groomsmen _____________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____ Groomsmen _____________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____ Groomsmen _____________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

Address ________________________________________________

Usher _________________________________________________

Phone # _______________________________________________

Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

Pick-up Date ____________________________________________

Usher _________________________________________________

Package includes:_________________________________________

Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

GROOM Style/Color ______________________________________________ Sizes: Coat ________ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

GROOMSMEN Bridal Shop _____________________________________________ Consultant______________________________________________

Ringbearer______________________________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

Bride’s FATHER ________________________ Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

Groom’s FATHER Sizes: Coat _______ Trouser ______ Shirt _______ Shoes _____

Fitting Date _____________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________ Phone # _______________________________________________ Pick-up Date ____________________________________________ Dress Description _________________________________________

Headpiece ______________________________________________ _________________________________________________ Accessories/Undergarments _________________________________ Shoes _________________________________________________

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Some couples want to celebrate their weddings in traditional fashion. Others want everything to be unique, new and exciting.

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Today's weddings are largely planned, financed and executed entirely by the couple getting married. Therefore, it is up to them how to celebrate their special day. Here's a look at some of the traditional wedding elements and how they can be shaken up for a different spin. Traditional: Father walks the bride down the aisle. Alternative: A son, daughter, friend, or even both parents walk the bride down the aisle. She can also traverse the white carpet solo, if desired. Perhaps the groom meets the bride halfway and they walk the rest of the aisle together. Traditional: "The Wedding March (Here Comes the Bride)" plays when the bride enters. Alternative: Any favorite classical or modern song is played when the bride enters, as long as it is approved by the venue where the ceremony is taking place. Traditional: Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue. Alternative: Wear all new items, all antique items. Borrow all of your

Traditional: Bouquet toss for the bride and garter toss for the groom. Alternative: Toss beads or treats in the style of Mardi Gras to all of the guests, so it's not only about single men and women. Traditional: A three-tiered wedding cake all in white. Alternative: Choose cupcakes, a festively colored cake that matches the wedding theme or another desired dessert. Traditional: Reception at a catering hall or hotel. Alternative: Reception at an alternative site, such as an aquarium, zoo or museum. Once a couple thinks about what is important at their wedding, they can cater the event toward their personal interests. Tradition can be followed or they can do something completely unique.

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The Difference Between Weddings are steeped in tradition. Many couples choose to follow etiquette and formal party rules when hosting one of the biggest days of their lives. An important aspect of each wedding is ensuring guests are comfortable. Part of this involves informing reception attendants where they will be seated at the dinner and festivities. Many people mistake escort cards and place cards as being one and the same. They are actually two different components. Escort cards indicate the table where guests will be seated, while place cards indicate which seat guests are assigned to. Escort Cards Generally escort cards are displayed on a table outside the reception or dining room. They may be arranged by themselves or more formally packaged within little envelopes. For ease of use, they should be organized alphabetically so that guests can easily recognize their names on the card. They can be worded as such: Mr. John Smith, for a single guest; Mr. & Mrs. John Smith, for a married couple; or Mr. John Smith & Guest, if the guest is unknown. It is considered more polite if the bride and groom inquire as to whom single guests will be bringing so that those people's name can be used on the escort card as well.

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Place Cards

Place cards are used to indicate seats at each table. They will have each individual's name in front of the place setting at the table. They serve as a way to avoiding seating confrontations at the wedding. Couples and similarly related guests are often placed at the same table. Individuals who may have tense relationships may be separated. Place cards also may make it easier for wait staff to recognize specific people who may have dietary restrictions if informed in advance by the bride and groom. Escort and place cards do not necessarily have to be "cards." Creative couples can come up with clever ideas to display seating arrangements. At smaller weddings, it might be possible to hang escort cards on a ribbon or attach them to votive candles that serve as a favor for guests. For an outdoor wedding or a nature-themed event, use faux or real branches and cut slits in one side. When printing escort cards, do so on leaf-shaped paper and insert into the slits on the branches. Escort cards can also be fashioned into flowers that are attached to sticks planted in a flower pot. The ideas are endless.

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Not so long ago when a couple announced their engagement and the bride selected her maid of honor, the maid of honor would start planning the bridal shower. She would invite all of the bride's closest female friends and family members together to toast the bride and share good times with her. While some brides today continue this tradition, others take an alternative route.

Bridal Shower Trends

One of the biggest trends in bridal showers today is the couples shower in which friends and family gather together with both the bride and the groom. With more grooms taking an active role in the wedding planning and more couples footing the bill for their wedding themselves, it is only natural that some couples would want to share the shower experience. Couples showers can be held at someone's home or at one of the couple's favorite venues. For those that prefer the traditional women-only bridal shower, a hot new trend is to center it on some activity, like bowling, making pottery, going to the spa or volunteering for an organization. This requires less planning and provides for a fun, stress-free experience for one and all. Guests can participate in the activity and share a meal afterwards, either at the venue or at a restaurant.

If time and budget permit, destination showers are another idea. The bride and a select group of friends and family can take a little trip together. They can hop a plane and spend a few days at the beach or take the train to a ski resort. The sky is the limit. For brides that prefer to stay home, themed showers continue to be popular. Themes can run the gamut from kitchen gadgets to entertainment to the bride's favorite things. And because many brides are already living on their own and have the items needed to set up house, gifts can range from the unique to the wacky.

Whatever the choice of bridal shower, anyone can host it-family, friends, even coworkers. Brides, or couples, can have more than one shower. The bride's mother might throw one for family and friends, while her coworker throws one for business associates and colleagues. If the couple has a rather large circle of family and friends, they might end up having three or four bridal showers. It all depends upon time and preference. The key to any good shower is to involve the bride or couple. Whoever is hosting the shower should get the input of the bride or the couple and respect their wishes. After all, they are the guests of honor.

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37273 S. Little McDonald Dr. Perham, MN 56573 218-346-7770 weddingdesigns@eot.com

918 Market Street, Perham 218-346-7186 (South of Dean’s Country Market)

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511 Washington Avenue Detroit Lakes 218-847-3151

Your perfect WEDDING 2011

Must they eat cake? The engagement is announced, the date is set, attendants are selected and now the wedding plans begin. Dresses, tuxes, ceremony site, reception site, invitations, menu, guest list, flowers, cake... Cake? Do you have to have cake? Does every wedding celebration have the ceremonial cutting of the tiered cake? Not anymore. Tradition has given way to personal preference and unique alternatives. Choices are as varied as the bride's and groom's personalities. So what are your options? They run the gamut from elaborately decorated tiers to decorated sugar cookies. Cutout cookies can be in the shape of a heart, mini wedding cake, boat or other related theme. Flavor options include Grandma's favorite sugar cookie recipe, gingerbread, brownies, pumpkin, sour cream-any rollout recipe that lends itself to cookie cutters. The decorated cookies can then be personalized with the couple's names, initials or wedding date. The unique confections can be displayed on a central table, serve as centerpieces on guests' tables or placed at each place setting. Rather than serving cake slices, some couples opt for a tiered display of doughnuts or cupcakes. In addition to the unique presentation, one advantage to serving cupcakes or doughnuts is the variety available for individual preferences. Serving dessert is also easier since guests can help themselves to their favorite treat.

A dessert table is another popular option for the wedding meal. The couple can offer their favorite selections of cheesecake, fluff, mousse, trifle, pudding and other sweets. Displayed on varied levels of pedestal plates, the desserts create an unexpected, attractive presentation. Covering the table with coordinating fabric and interspersing small bowls of mints, candies and nuts complete the festive look. Having a small cake on each table allows guests to serve themselves. These cakes, which can double as centerpieces, can be simply decorated eight-inch layer cakes or they can be thematically decorated-purses, hearts, ships, dresses, baseballs, etc.-to reflect the couple's unique interests. The originality of the creations will be a topic of conversation long after the wedding day. Not to be tossed aside, however, is the traditional tiered cake. Flavors, fillings, textures, frosting and design all work together to present a culinary delight. No longer do guests anticipate a white cake with white butter cream frosting at a wedding. Bakeries offer such a wide range of options that no wedding cake should ever be predictable. Brides and grooms have the opportunity to add a distinctive touch to their wedding day celebration. Not only will guests remember what the bride wore, but they will undoubtedly remember how personal and unique the reception was-especially the dessert.

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