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Ramadan Through Open Doors
Three Muslim women in Doha open their doors to Doha Family to discuss what Ramadan means to their families.
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Mumtrepreneur: Raana Smith
The owner of Silver Envelope shares the story behind her unique Muslim-focused holiday decorations company.
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Machbous Recipe
New to Arabic food? Try this traditional Middle Eastern lamb and rice dish.
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Travelling with Your Nanny
Points to ponder before you bring your nanny home with you for the summer
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Teens Travelling Solo
Tips for you and your teens before they venture off on their own solo holiday
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Searching for a Summer Camp Timings, recommendations, visitation policies—everything you need to consider when selecting a summer camp.
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Summer Camps Directory
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Air Travel with Kids, Simplified Dreading a long flight this summer? Check out these tried and true tips.
Things to Do: 9
Funville at Ezdan Mall
Our take on one of the newer play areas in Qatar
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Little Academy Nursery
AN INTRODUCTION TO ARABIC COOKING Delving into the world of Middle Eastern food with the help of two local chefs
RAMADAN DO'S AND DON'TS Friendly tips for non-Muslims to keep in mind for a fun and respectful Ramadan
HOW TO TAKE YOUR HOUSEMAID HOME What exactly does it take to get your nanny a visit visa for your home country?
SUMMER CHECKOUT CHECKLIST Dot your 'i's and cross your 't's to make sure your home is in order before you head off for the summer holiday.
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Editor’s Note Ready or not, summer is here!
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s I write this, the temperature forecast on my phone reads 37 degrees and I realise that I am not ready for the summer heat. But let’s be honest, after six months of glorious weather, who is ever ready for 40-degree temps? It’s so hot that you need a travel cooler to get your groceries home and pool time feels like a long bath because the water is so warm. But, do you know what I am ready for? Lighter traffic, visiting my home country (or having family visit here) and, of course, Ramadan. I’m not Muslim but I still enjoy this special time of year in Qatar. For this issue, we interviewed three Muslim women and asked them what Ramadan means to them and their families. You can read what they had to say on page 14.
You can find these articles and more on DohaFamily.com. While you’re there, check out the online Summer Camp Directory for a comprehensive list of more than 50 summer programmes for kids of all ages in Doha. As always, if you have any story ideas, comments or experiences you’d like to share about family life in Doha, please email me at editor@dohamums.com. Stay cool and Ramadan Kareem!
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Summer also means travel. Whether your teen is setting off on their own adventure (page 49) or you’re preparing to travel to your home country with your nanny (page 41), we’ve got some great tips for you and your family. If you’re planning to stick around Qatar this summer, then check out our review of Ezdan Mall's Funville play area on page 9. Finally, if you’re planning on enrolling the kids in summer camp, we have some tips on finding the right place for your youngsters on page 31.
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Things to Do
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Funville, located on the second floor of Ezdan Mall in Al Gharafa, opened in September 2013 and is a wonderful indoor activity centRE for families and children of all ages. There are two separate soft play areas: The Fun n’ Learn for babies and toddlers 108 cm and shorter and the Play Zone for kids ages 4-12 years old. Children younger than four are allowed in the Play Zone if they are accompanied by an adult.
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The centrepiece of the Fun n' Learn room is a beautiful wooden Haba Gemino activity structure with staircase, bridge and slide. The structure is solidly built and strong enough to support an adult escorting a child. There is also a wooden boat structure with padded climbing ramp and a second smaller plastic play structure, perfect for the littlest climber. Little ones will love playing with the Step 2 Coupe Cars, bouncing balls, big soft building blocks, wall puzzles, fun mirrors, a dress-up wardrobe, an area for arts and crafts and a kitchen area with pretend food and dishes. Staff members clean the pretend food every day with disinfectant and the entire space is cleaned and tidied multiple times a day.
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Play Zone
The much larger Play Zone soft play area is a veritable cornucopia of activities sure to please your most energetic family members. This maze-like structure is clean and solidly built, so you feel safe climbing, twisting and wiggling through the obstacle course. There is the requisite ball pit, a trampoline room, a fantastic Nerf-style battle room with air canons and soft foam balls, tunnels, slides, soft merry-go-rounds and a hovercraft-like bumper car that rocks up and down. Our favourite part was the rolling conveyor beltlike slide that my 20-month old son found absolutely addictive.
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Hours: 8:30 to 21:30 weekdays, 8:30 to 23:30 weekends Entrance fee: Fun n' Learn Zone is QR 30 per child (must be accompanied by an adult, up to two adults permitted); Play Zone is QR 45 per child (children under 103 cm tall must be accompanied by an adult, up to two adults permitted). Seating: There is seating near the Fun n' Learn Zone shoe lockers. Toilets: There are no toilets inside Funville. However, toilets and a diaper-changing station are down the hall next door to WHSmith. Wheelchair accessible: No Security guards: Yes Fence/Walls: The Fun n' Learn Zone is a walled off glass room and the Play Zone has a locked gate. Rules: No food or drink allowed. No shoes allowed, socks are requested.
Doha Mums Tips • A word of warning: the plastic four-person slide in the Play Zone is very fast; you may want to hold a smaller child’s hand. I caught air on the bump halfway down! • Funville gets very loud and crowded in the late afternoon and weekends. Weekdays and Friday mornings are best to avoid the noise. • You can purchase a red Funville card with credits in denominations of QR 100, 150 and 250. Each amount comes with bonus credits on a blue card that can be used to play games with blue swipe pads.
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In addition to the two soft play areas, Funville also has a plethora of amusement park rides, skill games and arcade games. Winners of skill games like skeeball, basketball hoops and water canons earn tickets that can be exchanged for prizes. Also popular are the rides, including Bumper Cars, Happy Swing, Tour de Paris, Drop and Twist Tower, Beach Safari and the Mini Dance Party 360. The minimum height requirement is 108 cm for most rides, however, there are some rides for smaller children. Costs vary per ride and game (generally between QR 5 and 25 each), but you must use a Funville card that can be purchased and reloaded at the main desk.
Additional information Food and beverages: There are multiple restaurants throughout Ezdan Mall and a Popcorn Girl snack shop located next door. Nearby mosque: Prayer rooms for men and women can be found throughout the mall. Limited places in Years 8,9,10 & Lower 6th. Applications welcome!
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or non-Muslim expats, Ramadan is a significant time of the year, but mostly in that we are aware of the change in working hours and the fasting requirements of those around us. Past this, many of us don’t truly feel part of Ramadan or understand its importance to a Muslim family. In the hopes of bringing some small insight into what this holy month means to Muslims in Qatar, we asked three women in Doha to explain how Ramadan affects them and their families.
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Ramadan To start, Ramadan is much more than just not eating or drinking. One of the five pillars of Islam, it is a time to purify the soul, refocus attention to God and practice self-sacrifice. It is about refraining not just from food but bad thoughts, words and behaviour. It is also about bonding with one’s community and family.
A spiritual recharging To Reem*, a Qatari woman who lives and works in Doha, Ramadan is a spiritual journey. It is also a chance for her family to come together and catch up with one another. “It’s such a family affair and a moment of bonding for families as you’re in the kitchen together and at the dining table together. It’s exhausting, but very special and my favourite time of the year.” For Hend Zainal, a Qatari working mother and wife, Ramadan provides an opportunity to step back and put things in perspective. For her, the holy month is a way to recharge spiritually. Outside of Ramadan, she finds herself so busy that this period becomes a good time to set priorities straight and reflect on the things that consume her every day life. It is also a time for her five-year-old daughter to catch up and get to know the whole extended family within Qatar. On Thursdays and Fridays during Ramadan, Hend and her family get together at her eldest sister’s house and the crowd can get as large as 40-60 people, many of whom they may not see as frequently outside of Ramadan.
Fasting Young children, pregnant women, the elderly or ill usually do not fast, but when Hend was only seven years old, a friendly competition with her brother gave her her first experience of fasting. “I wasn’t obliged to [fast] but I remember going through recess and my friends started to eat a burger in front of me and it was such torture. Needless to say I broke my fast that day.” Doha Family Guide
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Living in Doha Reem was 14 when she first decided to fast. When her family questioned her readiness, she stubbornly stuck to her decision even though fasting was quite difficult. “I still remember this,” she said. “I actually thought I was dying to the point where I couldn’t speak.” At the height of her fasting struggle, her sister passed her a note (which Reem still has) asking if she wanted to give up. “I scribbled ‘No,’ only because I had an hour left.” Amaney Neihoum is a Libyan expat who has lived in Qatar for several years with her husband and two children. She has experienced Ramadan in the U.K., Egypt, Libya and Qatar and has found that each country offers something different. Amaney’s earliest memory of Ramadan is lunchtime in the school playground when she lived in the U.K. “Since it was my brother’s and my first Ramadan, my mum had packed in our backpack a Mars bar and a packet of crisps in case we needed to break fast to be like our friends.” Being in the U.K. in winter, the sun set at about 4:30pm, which made it easier to keep to her fast. That packets of crisps and Mars bar stayed in her bag the whole of Ramadan until she finally indulged. “They were crushed but they were salt and vinegar crisps so they were delicious,” she laughs.
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Breaking fast As you can imagine, with having to fast all day long, food plays an important role in Ramadan. It also, as Reem says, brings people together. Both Reem and Hend’s families end their fast with a modest meal or snack. Reem’s father always breaks his fast with a soup and salad and one protein dish. Her family makes a conscious effort to try and eat healthily and not over eat during Ramadan. Hend’s family breaks their fast with dates, yoghurt, soup and carbs (typically pastries) before their evening prayer. For the main meal, they eat rice, salad and traditional Qatari food, such as threed, a dish of pieces of bread soaked in meat, beef or chicken stock. The staple dish of Reem’s family during the holy month is harees, a soft porridge with veal.
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Ramadan For Amaney’s family, a Libyan tomatobased soup with lamb, pasta and chickpeas is their traditional Ramadan dish. They also eat appetisers like bourek, a filo pastry stuffed with minced meat, spinach and cheese. In addition to these main dishes, all three women described a variety of salads and side dishes. These smaller dishes are important because, as Amaney explains, “If you’ve been fasting all day, these side dishes are lighter and more manageable.” But don’t forget about water. All three women stress the importance of drinking enough water each night before fasting. In fact, both Reem and Hind say they often drink anywhere from three to five litres of water to make sure they are well hydrated before their fast.
Charity While their appetites might be modest after fasting all day, there is never a shortage of
food. It is customary during Ramadan to gift food to neighbours or people in need. Sharing food isn’t just kind; it’s also a way to make up for days when a person is unable to fast. As part of this sharing spirit, Reem’s family and neighbours often exchange food. Her aunt even hires an extra cook to prepare food for others. During Ramadan, people line up with their Tupperware containers for her food. “There are many expat families and Qatari families who are struggling; and the good thing about Qatar is we all know each other so we keep everyone in mind and help,“ says Reem. “This happens in so many Qatari households, where you can come and be fed without anything being expected in return.” The charity doesn’t stop with sharing food. During Ramadan, all Muslims are expected to donate a certain percentage of their earnings to charity or given directly to people in need. For Hend, the charity and donations are the most important part of Ramadan, “The whole idea is to put yourself in the shoes of someone less fortunate.”
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Around half-way through Ramadan is Garangao. According to Reem is it like “a Muslim Halloween party.” The origins of this cultural event are unclear. Some accounts credit it as a celebration for children who have memorized 15 chapters of the Qur’an, while others claim it is based on the celebration of the Prophet Mohammed’s grandson, Hassan. Whatever the origin, this children’s festival is unique to the Gulf more than anywhere else. Children dress in traditional Qatari clothes, sing traditional songs and carry a pouch to collect sweets and nuts from the neighbourhood. “The streets are filled with kids. There are tons of kids running around asking for sweets even though their bags are full,” Reem says.
If you’re not a Muslim but you are interested in Ramadan, try out one of the hotel Iftars. However, be forewarned that they’re not a very authentic experience. Both Reem and Hind believe that the hotel Iftars are geared more towards expats and prefer to break fast at home with family. “[Fasting] is exhausting and all I want to do is go home and break fast, whilst if you’re out of the house you have to make more effort and have to be alert,” Reem says. Hind agrees, “What you would see in a hotel Ramadan tent is very different to what you would see in a Qatari home. It’s more family orientated at home and more geared towards refraining from overdoing. In hotels they are obliged to put more and more of everything and there’s typically entertainment [which would be unusual in a Qatari home].”
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If they are going to celebrate in a more public way, it’s during Suhoor, a gathering that takes place before fasting begins and can go on late into the night. For Reem, it’s a chance to invite friends and colleagues once she’s rested and has eaten, so she’s ready to enjoy the company of others. “If you get invited to Suhoor, you should make a dessert; bring chocolates or food but nothing else,” she says. Despite the inauthenticity of the hotel version of Ramadan, Amaney encourages non-Muslims to enjoy the hotel Iftars and different Ramadan cuisines around Doha. The smaller local restaurants, like those in Souq Waqif, put on more traditional foods than the big hotels. “Go out with friends and really see what traditional food means,” she says. Otherwise, you could always try fasting for a day or two to get an idea of what Muslims go through during the day. One year when Amaney was young, her non-Muslim friends at school decided to fast with her. “Twice my friends tried to fast the whole day with me and then they would break the fast with me. They’re not Muslim and so it was really nice that they chose to participate in what I was doing and really tried.”
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The peace and quiet many Muslims seek during this holy month makes Ramadan a pleasant time to be here in Qatar as the general atmosphere calms down and people slow down. It’s also clearly a time where, despite the personal and private family affairs, the individuals we talked to encourage us to be friendly, ask questions and not shy away. If you’re lucky enough to be invited to a Suhoor, be sure to come ready for a feast well past midnight and the warmth of many people under one roof—but don’t forget to bring a dessert in thanks! * Last name omitted for privacy
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MUMTREPRENEUR: Raana Smith, Creator of Silver Envelope BY ANGELA FORD
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n 2001, Raana Smith started Silver Envelope, a company that sells party decorations, greeting cards, wrapping paper and other celebratory trimmings with a Muslim twist. Now the mother of a preschooler, she balances a growing worldwide business and family life, all from her home in Doha.
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Living in Doha How did silver envelope get started? I grew up in a multicultural family with an American father and a Pakistani-Muslim mother. We celebrated all sorts of holidays—Christmas, Easter, Halloween— but when it came to the Muslim holidays, I noticed there wasn’t the same stuff available in the stores.
Like cards? Yes, cards, decorations, wrapping paper, all of the fun trappings people in the West use to celebrate the holidays.
So you decided to start a company! No, that’s the funny thing; I never set out to start a company! I just have a creative side, and I decided to make some cards to celebrate Eid. Then people started asking me if I could make them some cards to send out, and it took off from there.
Why did you name your company “Silver Envelope”? I wanted a name that everyone could relate to, that wasn't limited to one culture or demographic. I love silver and the way it sparkles, and I thought my company could help people add a sparkle to their celebrations. Silver Envelope is a great name to present that sparkle to the public.
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People Where were you living when you started the business? I was living in the United States, and then my husband and I decided to relocate to Jordan where we could study Arabic. When we moved to Doha, the business moved with us.
Has the business changed since you have been in Doha? It has really changed. We started with just a few greeting cards, and I did everything, from create the designs to filling the orders myself. Now we have 150 unique SKUs [products] and ship all over the world. I have found that people in Doha are very open to celebrating the Muslim holidays in a new way. I now have products in several retail stores, and that’s a big change for me.
What ’s it like seeing your products in stores? Silver Envelope has been mostly an online business, so I have been very curious to go to the store and learn what people like. The best thing is to see people giggle when they look at one of my products, because they see a new and fun way to celebrate Eid or Ramadan.
Tell me about your designs. I do a lot of the designing myself, and I create what I think is beautiful. I love traditional Islamic designs, and I am finding people are looking for cards with that imagery for other occasions, too.
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Living in Doha You also create children’s products? I spoke with a designer who works for a greeting card company, and I asked her, what are some images that resonate with children, regardless of culture? She mentioned things like ladybugs and rockets and robots, fun and cute images that children gravitate to. Then we gave these images a Muslim twist: the giraffe wears a hijab and the robot wears a kufi. It’s joyful and I think it represents the celebratory spirit of the holidays.
What types of products do you have for children? I am so proud of the children’s party kit. It comes with invitations, a pin-it game, decorations, cookie cutters, cupcake wrappers. It’s a wonderful way to plan a
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party with the children—easy for the parents, everything is there and the family can prepare and celebrate the holiday together. I create products that I know my son and I would love. I test them out on him, as well as his friends and their moms. It's great: playgroups become market tests!
How has your work changed since you became a mum? I have to be much more productive in a shorter amount of time, and I get less sleep! I wake at 4:30 am and work until 6 am, and then again after I drop off my son at school. When I'm with him, he's got my undivided attention. After he sleeps at night, I try to work for an hour or so before bed. I've hired people to help me, which has increased my productivity.
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People What advice do you have for women who have an idea for a home-based business? Test the market before jumping in. Start small, have a plan and work within your means. And remember your priorities: for me, my family is a priority, my son is growing so fast and I want to make the most of the time I have with him. He won't be this small for long.
day, remembering the divine and worshipping in the days and nights of Ramadan. We make products to amplify and add a festive atmosphere. It’s about making memories during Ramadan and Eid, creating a special time that brings loved ones together To learn more about Raana and Silver Envelope, visit her online at silverenvelope.com. Silver Envelope products for Ramadan and Eid can be found in WHSmith, I Spy Bookshop (City Centre) and the Tribe Bookstores in Qatar University and Education City.
How do you approach the creative process when you know you are communicating a deeper, spiritual meaning? The products we create are to add a festive sparkle to the holidays. The deeper meaning is already there in the atmosphere of the Muslim homes: the fasting each
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Healthy Living
Machbous Simplified
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irst my disclaimer: it seems there are as many ways to prepare machbous as there are people who cook it. I created this recipe after reading a dozen different recipes, then picking and choosing the methods and ingredients I felt would go well together. If you run into a cook from the Gulf States and he or she has a different way of preparing it, I encourage you to take notes, maybe spy on him or her in the kitchen and make your own version!
Bezar
The Arabic mixture of spices is called bezar, and each cook has a unique formula. This mixture is a little tame (this Canadian isn’t used to the heat), but adding peppercorns, cayenne pepper and chilli powder would give it a kick. 2 tbsp ground cumin 2 tbsp ground coriander 1 ½ tbsp ginger 1 tbsp cinnamon 1 tbsp turmeric ½ tbsp cardamom Salt and pepper to taste (I added about 1 tsp of each) • Mix all ingredients together and store in an airtight container.
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I would normally prepare stock using roasted lamb bones, but apparently machbous is prepared by simmering the entire leg of lamb in spiced water to create a rich stock. This stock smelled divine, filling the house with its aroma. A note about dried lemons: brittle, black and marble-sized, dried lemons pack a big punch of citrusy, sour flavour. They are in the spice aisle in large bags, and you should crush them or cut them in half before adding them to the water to maximize the flavour. 1 leg of lamb, bone-in (about 5 kg) 2 onions, quartered 5 cloves garlic, coarsely chopped 2 dried lemons, halved 1 tbsp whole cloves 3 tbsp bezar 1 tbsp coarse salt or fleur de sel
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• Place the onion, garlic and spices into a large stockpot. Add the leg of lamb and cover with cold water. Uncovered, bring the stockpot to a simmer (this took a long time on my little stovetop—be patient!). The liquid should be gently bubbling, not a rolling boil. After 30 minutes, add the salt and then simmer for another hour or so. • Remove the leg from the stock and cut the meat from the bone into serving-sized pieces. Strain a portion of the stock into a separate bowl and set aside—this will be used for braising the lamb meat. I had a huge amount of stock, so I only strained a portion, then added the bone back into the stock and left it to simmer while I completed the meal. Stock freezes very well in freezer bags and will speed up your next machbous preparation.
Braising the meat
In batches, sear the pieces of meat in an oven-safe pot or Dutch oven. I used quite a high heat with liberal amounts of olive oil. Place the meat back in the pot,
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Rice
1 onion, chopped 2 cloves garlic, chopped 2 tomatoes, chopped 1 tbsp bezar ½ cup chopped dates or currants ½ cup chopped pistachios 2 cups basmati rice Hot lamb stock • Strain the remaining stock and keep hot. • In a large pot on medium heat, sauté the onions until they are soft with a little colour. Add the garlic and stir the mixture for another minute or two as the flavours combine. Add the chopped tomatoes, bezar, dates or currants, and pistachios and stir for another few minutes until the mixture is heated through. • Add the rice to the mixture and stir to combine, then ladle in the appropriate amount of liquid, using the package directions as your guide. Cover with a tight fitting lid, reduce heat slightly and let cook for the recommended time.
Putting it all together
When the rice is done, salt and pepper to taste. Spread rice on a large platter and place the braised lamb pieces on top. Drizzle the braising liquid over the meat and sprinkle the platter with finely minced parsley for a little colour. Serve family style.
The c ompleted dish—delicious!
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Angela Ford is a food editor from Vancouver, Canada, who has co-written and edited recipes, food articles, and the exceptional cookbook, The Tastes of Sonora Resort, Volume II.
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We were trying to patch together multiple summer camp options, which would be fun and enriching for him and, which would also, frankly, help us out with childcare while we both worked. We talked with friends, read everything we could get our hands on, poured over websites and cobbled together a plan. What
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we didn’t have was great advice—like the tips from our experts, below—on how to go about the whole process. While the options for summer camps in Qatar might not be as abundant as they are in other countries, with this advice you’ll have a better idea of where to start looking, what questions to ask and you’ll even nab a few tips on what to do once you’ve chosen the right camp(s) for your child. Happy summer-camping!
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Family Matters Know your child.
“The age and interests of the child help to determine which type of camp experience will fit,” says Howard Batterman, owner and director of Sesame/Rockwood Camps and Rockwood Adventures in the U.S. “With very young children ages four to five, the length of the day and the week is a consideration,” adds Batterman, who also has held several leadership positions with the American Camp Association (ACA). With older children, you will be looking into either a traditionally based programme (which often includes a variety activities and instruction) or short-term specialty programmes with an emphasis on a particular activity like sport, dance or even robotics.
Summer Camps Batterman. Ask questions. Are lunch and snacks provided or do kids bring food from home? Is there care taken for children with food allergies? Is there a nurse on staff? Is transportation provided to and from your home? If so, how is that done? What is the staff-to-camper ratio? (This varies based on the age of the campers. For the younger campers, Batterman recommends a 3:1 camper-to-staff ratio; for older campers, a 5:1 ratio.) How are children grouped? Is there a swim programme? If so, what certifications do the people hold who are running that programme? What is the interview process for the staff? What type of training do staff members receive?
Check out camp security.
Ask around.
Word-of-mouth suggestions can be the best sources of info, Batterman says. Parents from your child’s school, neighbours and relatives are often happy to share their experiences with day camps, he adds. Be sure to ask, “What did you like about the camp? What did you dislike? Would your child want to return to the same camp again in the future?” Some parents also ask their Facebook friends for recommendations when looking for camps. As you ask around, start creating a short list of camps that you want to consider. Schedule a visit—and bring your questions. “Schedule a time to visit, along with your child, and tour the facilities with the director,” suggests
We provide children with a safe, secure, happy, healthy and stimulating environment. Our Programme includes: Numeracy & Literacy Skills & Knowledge Values & Morals Music & Movement Kitchen Fun
What procedures are in place to sign-out a camper? At Batterman’s camps, for example, each family is sent ID cards before the start of camp. Also, staff should be wearing camp t-shirts or some other type of uniform and should wear photo ID on a lanyard, says Batterman. “This ensures that each staff member is identified,” he adds. “If a stranger is on camp property, they are easy to spot.”
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Batterman suggests looking for a camp with an openvisitation policy for parents. “This is important because it tells the parents that the camp has nothing to hide,” he says. “Parents should be able to stop by camp at their leisure to visit their child.” (Always be sure to check in upon your arrival, as the camp will need to keep track of all visitors for security reasons.)
Choose your commute.
Even though traffic in Doha becomes much more tolerable in the summer, you’ll make your days much more difficult if you choose a camp in Gharafa when you work in West Bay but live near the airport. On the other hand, the reprieve from traffic may mean that you have a few more options available than you would during the school year. Do a dry run to and from the locations you’re considering to get the best idea of what your commute would be like. Once you decide on a camp, you’ll want to make sure your child has a great experience. These suggestions from Donna Schwartz, associate executive director of Siegel JCC day camps for children and teens in the U.S. has these suggestions:
A place where everyone can achieve quality and fun learning Training and classes for children from the age of 5, also for adults.
Pack wisely.
You will likely receive a “what to bring to camp” list from the camp before your child’s first day. Will your child be carrying her stuff around with her all day at camp? If so, pack minimally required items, and considering having your child use a small backpack.
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Will your child’s lunch be refrigerated? If yes, pack it in a brown paper bag labelled with his name and group name. If no, pack it in an insulated lunch box (also labelled) with an ice pack. You can also freeze half-filled water bottles overnight and fill them the rest of the way in the morning—when lunchtime rolls around, their lunch will be cool and the ice defrosted; frozen containers of yogurt have the same effect.
Send extra water.
We all know how hot Qatar can get in the summer. Make sure your kids have more than enough water to get them through the day. The World Health Organisation recommends that children between the ages of four and eight drink approximately 1.7 litres per day while children between nine and thirteen should drink 2.1 to 2.4 litres per day.
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Remember the sunscreen.
How much outdoor time will your child get? It's always a good idea to slather your child with sunscreen before she is sent to camp, but send more sunscreen along, which can be re-applied by the staff if necessary.
Do not send along toys or electronics.
Camp is about socializing, making new friends and trying new things. If you send along electronics (assuming they are even allowed at the camp), your child will be will be more isolated and focused on playing Angry Birds instead of enjoying camp activities. Plus, electronics have a way of getting lost at camp.
Label everything.
Your child inevitably will lose something. You are more likely to get an item back if it has his name on it. Kathy Sena is a freelance journalist specializing in parenting issues. Her son has done everything from science experiments to basketball to swimming at summer day camps. She still swears by her trusty Excel spreadsheet.
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5th July to 6th August, 4 years – 13 years, QR 200/day or QR 825/week Children will take part in different sport and arts & crafts activities every day, meet new friends and have fun in a safe learning environment. New exciting camp activities include filmmaking and drama. legacysportsandevents.com
28th June to 27th August, 4 years – 18 years, prices vary Our camp offers variety of activities to keep learning fun and children's active minds moving forward! Includes monthly contests, weekly themed fancy-dress days and other exciting and educational activities to keep your children engaged and motivated! oxfordlearning.com 26th July to 27th August, 4 years – 12 years, QR 925 for 4 days Through fascinating hands-on experiments, our camps are thoughtfully designed to engage young minds, activate the students' innate curiosity and nurture their budding imagination. It’s safe and engaging fun that encourages a lifelong love of science! sciencemadefun-qatar.net
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21st June to 3rd September, 4 years - 12 years, QR 450 to QR 2230 This summer keep your children fit, active and healthy with a full day of activities. Boys and girls will have fun with swimming, tennis, football, Play Fit, karate, kickboxing, Lego instruction, basketball, Monkeynastix®, healthy cooking, arts and crafts and more! sfqsportsacademy.com 5th July to 16th July, 5 years – 13 years, QR 190/day or QR 890/week Join our exciting weekly summer camps during July at DESS. Take part in gymnastics, trampolining, board games, art, cookery and more! Extended days are available and siblings receive a 10% discount when booking for the full week. gymacademydoha.com 28th June to 16th July, 4 years – 18 years, QR 830 to QR 3250 Choose from eight age-based creative art and design programmes—one week for younger children, two weeks for teens and three weeks for high school students. Classes are held in Education City, are open to both genders and are taught in English. qatar.vcu.edu/community/summer 5th July to 27th August, 5 years – 18 years, QR 700/week Music classes in guitar, keyboard, vocal and djembe drumming. The activities will focus on painting and drawing, sand art, clay art and will also include games and sport. A recital and arts exhibition will be held showcasing camper music and art achievements. worldartsqatar.com 28th June to 16th July, 6 years – 13 years, QR 900/week Mindful and creative practices such as Yoga, Acro Yoga, kickboxing, drama, dance, chess, drumming, Zumba, leadership training and games are all part of our camps! Our focus is on instilling confidence in your little warriors! yamayogastudios.com
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5th July to 27th August Infants – 4 years, QR 250/day or from QR 2035/month (fees vary) Join us for a fun-filled summer camp! Themes include Bees Nest, Shake Rattle and Roll, My Senses, Little Bees, Space & Circus Life, Honey Pot and Building & Construction. EVERY Thursday is Party Day. . .fancy dress is a must! busybeesnurseryqatar.com
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1st July to 31st August 2 months – 4 years, QR 2500/month Each week carries a fun theme that customises the games we play and the crafts we create! Expect arts and crafts, cooking, dance, drama, music, waterplay, gymnastics and more! Two daily sessions, 6:30am-2:30pm and 2:30pm to 6:30pm. grandmanursery.com
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28th June to 27th August 6 months – 4 years, QR 585/week if you register before 10th June We bring outdoor fun inside! Through our American enrichment programme, your child will be a ranger, explorer, artist, fisherman and more. Our soft play, age-appropriate gym, dance & music rooms, children's kitchen and dramatic play area keep kids entertained! littleacademy.qa
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1st July to 31st July Under 1 year – under 4 years, QR 760 to QR 1060/session Have a blast in our fun-packed summer programme with loads of activities for your little one, where we immerse your children in the magic of learning and play! Our flexible camp offers the option to book and pay weekly. tinytown.com.qa
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Travelling with Your Nanny By Andrew Madigan It’s almost summer. You can see the holiday just ahead, shimmering like a mirage. You can nearly reach out and touch it. You’re headed for home, a tropical island, the narrow cobbled streets of Prague, the quiet countryside, the bustle of Cairo or Manhattan, or the futuristic sheen of Japan. It’s going to be great. You’ve planned and packed and considered every option. You’re impeccably well organised, so you’ve already banked those frequent flyer miles and selected low-sodium Asian meals for the airplane. But what about your nanny? What’s she going to do all summer? Are you going to take her with you, or will she have a ‘staycation’ in Qatar? Don’t flip a coin or make a hasty judgment. Don’t ask the manager of Aldo or the ride operator at Fun City and definitely don’t ask your husband’s best mate. Before making a decision, think about some of the following issues.
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Family Matters Finances & logistics Let’s begin with the hardest bit and rip that plaster right off: the dreaded visit visa. The rules and procedures are different depending on where you’ll be travelling and where your nanny comes from, but one thing is the same—it can be quite a chore. Fees, paperwork, photos, interviews, contracts and complex immigration requirements—it’s like taking your driving test, applying for a job and scaling the Himalayas all at the same time. It’s doable, but you need to start early, grit your teeth and be prepared to travel with a small suitcase of government forms. Layla Twebti, from Birmingham, U.K., found out the hard way that you need to take the process seriously. “A few years ago we were going to the U.K. for summer holiday. It had been a tough year and we really needed a break. The kids were so excited.
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But my husband—we’ll blame him—forgot about the nanny, so we didn’t apply until it was too late.” Because they didn’t get the visa in time, their nanny had to stay home. Remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Start early, conserve energy and don’t look for short cuts. Find more details about the domestic worker visa processes for the U.K., U.S. and Egypt on DohaFamily.com/Living-in-Doha. Okay, so you got the visa. Great, but the logistical complications have just begun. With a nanny, you’ll need one more of everything and you’ll have to pay for it. Plane tickets, taxi fares, entrance fees, restaurants, Mickey Mouse ears—make sure you plan, and budget, for this.
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" Just because there are enough beds doesn’t mean there’s enough privacy."
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Staying with family doesn’t make this concern disappear. Martin Connor, from Toronto, Canada, stayed with his brother’s family last summer. Their home was big enough for Martin’s family and the nanny, who slept in one of the children’s bedrooms. They thought everything seemed fine, but their nanny was quiet and a bit surly every morning. On the third day Connor got up early, offered her a cup of coffee and said, “Good morning!” To which she replied, “I do not think this is true.” When he asked her what was wrong, she explained that the child’s bed she was sleeping in—shaped like a racecar—wasn’t nearly big enough for her adultsized body.
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Remember that extra bedroom you had to reserve? The one that cost more than you expected, which is really getting on your nerves? Well, it turns out there’s an upside. You and your spouse have more room to yourself. It’s a lot easier to enjoy your holiday without the kids crawling over you and throwing Disney princess dolls at your head every few minutes. More space equals more peace and relaxation. It also means you’ll appreciate the kids a lot more the next day, when you’re at the beach, in a museum or visiting family. You could leave the kids with hotel staff—babysitting services and kids’ clubs are often available—but it might be preferable to have someone you trust and who knows your children, their routines, their likes and dislikes. For their part, the kids might be more comfortable with someone they already know. You could also leave the children with friends or family, but if you do this too frequently it’ll begin to feel like an imposition. This could lead to awkwardness, or worse, for everyone involved.
" Sometimes you need a holiday from your holiday, and that’s just what a nanny provides." Let’s face it: holidays can be stressful. They’re supposed to be a great way to chill out, decompress and enjoy yourself, but it doesn’t always work that way. There are challenges: getting around in a strange place where they don’t speak your language; dealing with timetables, transportation and incomprehensible money; family arguments; sunburns; trendy restaurants that aren’t nearly as good as the guidebook claims and/or tour guides that just won’t shut up. Sometimes you need a holiday from your holiday, and that’s just what a nanny provides. Sara Nuaimi* wanted to save money and streamline her vacation. She left the nanny home while her family went back to New Zealand for the summer. “I thought it would be so much easier, you know? But I was so wrong.” She had three-year-old twins, a fiveDohaFamily.com
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The nanny’s point-of-view What’s it like being a nanny and travelling with some strange (let’s face it, you are) foreign family to their home or to some other country you know nothing about? Why not ask her? Sometimes the answer is that simple. Even if you’ve never brought a nanny on holiday, maybe she has experience. What was it like for her? Does she have any suggestions? Are there any good health food shops in Belgrade? (The answer is no.) Your nanny’s perspective is valuable and it’s right there in front of you, so just ask. First, it can be awkward, for both you and the nanny, if domestic help is uncommon where you’ll be travelling. There might be no one on holiday who speaks her native language or other nannies with whom to socialise. Pam Sheehan from Ireland was mortified at a family reunion in Cork. “It was a big party, all day long, such fun. But my parents, my sister and my friends wanted to spend as much time as possible with Sean, my new baby boy, because they never get to see him. Our nanny didn’t know anyone and she had nothing to do. She just sat there, bored stiff, with a horrible face on.” Two words: Awww-kwarrrd. Sheehan admits that she should have thought this out beforehand and either left the nanny back at their holiday cottage or arranged something for her to do. True, a nanny is an employee; boredom and uncomfortable situations sometimes go with the job. However, she’s also a human being and, to a large extent, part of the family. Her feelings need to be considered, too. It’s great to have someone to look after the kids when you need a break, so you can relax and enjoy the holiday you’ve been planning all year. If you decide to bring your nanny on holiday, take a few moments to Doha Family Guide
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consider what her day-to-day life will be like. What is there to do on her day off or when your parents watch the kids for a few hours? Will she be able to find her way around the town or city where you’ll be staying? Should you give her a little extra money for travel and entertainment? Do you feel comfortable letting her take the kids on her own in a strange place? There are so many factors to consider. Will you pay the nanny in the local currency or set up a direct deposit back home? When will she get downtime and days off? The questions are relentless so make sure you address as many as possible before travelling. Some of these factors may need to be addressed during the visa application process so consider them sooner rather than later. There’s a lot to consider here and the answers aren’t always easy. Take a few moments to talk through some of these points with your family and your nanny before setting off, and it’s more likely that you’ll avoid the pitfalls that can spoil an otherwise great holiday. *Name changed for privacy. Andrew Madigan taught Creative Writing and English Literature for universities in the U.A.E., Japan, Korea and the U.S. He was also Editor-in-Chief of a magazine in Al Ain. He is now a freelance writer/editor. His first novel, Khawla's Wall, was published in 2014.
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Things We LOVE Eagle Creek No Matter What™ Duffel This heavy-duty, water-repellent duffle bag folds down and fits into a convenient sack approximately the size of a large loaf of bread. The large size expands to a whopping 76 x 38 x 36 cm making it a great extra bag for souvenirs or for stocking up on supplies from back home. The No Matter What™ Duffel also comes in small, medium and extra large sizes. eaglecreek.com Available at Mosafer Luggage store in Hyatt Plaza Babyzen Yoyo The Babyzen Yoyo is so light and compact when folded that it can fit into the overhead bin of an airplane. If you’ve got a little one (six months and up) and prefer to travel with a stroller but hate having to check it at the gate, then the Yoyo might just be what you need. It folds into a compact 52 x 44 x 18 cm and weighs only 5.9 kg. babyzen.com Available at Ten Little Toes, Mothercare and Al Mana Galleria Mad Libs App Your favourite childhood word game is now an app! You simply fill in the blanks with the correct word type (adjective, noun, adverb, verb, etc.) and create your own silly story. This app is a great game for the whole family and even helps your primary schoolers practice their grammar. Cost: Free Works on: Apple iOS Ages: 4+
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y son travelled to England, Belgium and Germany with some friends this past spring break. This was not the first time my teen had travelled solo, but it was his first time overseas. My son is mature and quite worldly for his age, but that didn’t stop me from being worried sick. He seemed to have everything in check, including a current passport and EMV card (credit card with security chip). We decided to communicate via email. I waited with bated breath for those notes. As I peered at a photo of my son in front of Big Ben, I felt a pride like no other. Here was my nineteen-year-old taking advantage of his youth and exploring places I had yet to visit myself. His trip concluded sans glitches and with a multitude of publication-worthy photos and stories about all of the fascinating people he had met along the way. It’s normal to be concerned when our teens first travel alone, but detailed plans and regular communication before and during their absence will help ease your mind.
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Readiness Parents should ask themselves the following questions when considering sending their teen off unattended: • In general, does he handle new situations well? •W ould she panic if an unavoidable change to travel plans (e.g. delayed or cancelled plane) occurs or will he or she remain calm? • I s she generally cautious and aware of safety issues and potential health issues? • I f travelling by car: Has she demonstrated safe vehicle handling and good decision-making skills all along? Does she consistently avoid distractions (e.g. mobile usage, eating while driving, distractions from passengers)? Does she have a good sense of direction and stellar map skills?
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No matter how mature or prepared, your teen still needs your guidance. According to Susan Kuczmarski, Ed.D, parenting expert and award-winning author of The Sacred Flight of the Teenager: A Parent’s Guide to Stepping Back and Letting Go (Book Ends Publishing, 2004), “The fact is that controls do act as a source of unacknowledged security for teens. Total responsibility for one’s life, or trip in this case, is a scary thing. It brings stress and teens have enough going on in their lives to bear the full brunt of worrying about what is best for them. They still need support, guidance and direction, as infuriating as this is for them.”
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Family Matters Parents should work collaboratively with their teen to develop travel plans and any contingency plans. This way your teen will know that you trust his or her judgment and he or she will take ownership of the rules you set together. Kuczmarski suggests, “Give them the opportunity to come up with ideas as you put travel plans in place. Reach an agreement together as to what to do in different situations (e.g. plane is late, person meeting them doesn’t show up, weather delays, etc.).” Jay Fitter, LMFT, a family therapist, parenting expert and author of Respect Your Children: A Practical Guide to Effective Parenting (iUniverse, 2010), warns that teens travelling alone are easy targets for sexual predators or adults looking to take advantage of a teen’s inexperience and youth. Parents should remind their teens that they should only request help or guidance from company employees (e.g. train conductor) or security personnel and should not engage strangers by communicating their plans or any type of personal information, no matter how friendly that stranger may seem. For younger teens If it is necessary for your young teen (age thirteen to fifteen) to take public transportation (e.g. plane, bus, train) to visit a relative at a distant location be sure to check the company’s unaccompanied minor policies.
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For instance, Qatar Airways allows you to use their unaccompanied minor service for children between the ages of five and fifteen. For an additional fee, you can request to have an airline representative accompany your child through their flight. Meanwhile, Eurostar requires additional documentation for children between the ages of twelve and fifteen travelling solo. Therefore, it is imperative that parents check all guidelines ahead of time. Enlist a relative or friend to meet your child at the airport, bus terminal or train station upon their arrival. Be sure that your child has this person’s number and a contingency plan if he or she does not show up for any reason. Overseas travel Travelling to a foreign country can raise additional concerns due to language and cultural differences. Keen research and savvy planning are imperative in this case. Not all teens can make this leap. Trust your intuition when it comes to allowing your teen to travel solo overseas. In my son’s case, he did all of the planning on his own and then communicated his plans to us prior to his departure. The following is a list of tips and advice from Trevor Haskell:
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Travel • Have an organized travel plan for visiting sights. Without one, you will lose valuable time at the destination trying to figure out what to do. • Alert all your credit card companies that you are travelling and specify the exact dates you will be away. Failure to do so will likely trigger account freezes and the inability to access funds. • Change currency before you go. Although convenient, airport and hotel currency exchange rates will likely be a rip-off. • Make extra copies of all your travel documents. Put copies in separate parts of your luggage. • Write down the phone number and address of your country’s embassy or consulate nearest your destination. If you lose your passport or need any kind of emergency assistance, they will be able to help you.
Travel safety tips Perhaps your teen will be travelling with friends to a distant location for spring or summer break. There is a wealth of travel guidelines you should go over with your teen before he or she seeks respite from his or her college workload. Here are just a few: • Be sure to use licensed cabs/vans for transportation. • Research food/water safety prior to travel. • Road trips: Use buddy system and take breaks from driving. • Check crime rates and tourist safety information before travelling. • Wear comfortable clothing. • Don’t wear expensive jewellery. • Use a money belt that can be concealed underneath clothing. • Don’t carry excessive amounts of cash—bring a credit card. • Use downtime wisely (waiting in airports, etc.) to catch up on schoolwork or reading • Don’t break the law. Myrna Beth Haskell is a feature writer, columnist and author of LIONS and TIGERS and TEENS: Expert advice and support for the conscientious parent just like you (Unlimited Publishing LLC, 2012): For details: myrnahaskell.com. Book also available at: Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk.
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s families living in Qatar, it is inevitable that at some point we will be flying with our kids. Maybe you’re planning your move to Doha with the children in tow or perhaps you’re preparing to travel with an infant for the first time after having given birth in Qatar. No matter your child's age, here are some tips to keep them occupied, maintain your sanity and ensure everyone arrives happy and safe.
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Gearing up kip the Trunki—dragging your child on the rideS on child-sized suitcases while corralling your own handbags may be more trouble than it’s worth. Instead, provide a child-sized backpack for younger children to carry their own toys. It will encourage responsibility and help lighten your load—at least when they’re willing to carry the bags themselves. When the novelty wears off it’s easy to toss their bags over your arm or strap them to your own carryon bag. n FAA-approved car seat is the safest place for A your child on an aircraft. It also provides a familiar setting for your little one amongst unfamiliar surroundings. With the car seat in tow you won't have to worry about acquiring one when you reach your destination. You also won’t be required to move your sleeping baby in case of turbulence as
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you would if your infant was asleep in the bassinet. If you want to use the car seat on the plane you will need to purchase a seat for your little one, but thankfully these tickets are often discounted as “child fares.” Bring a change of clothes for you and the kids and consider two sets for your youngest traveller. It’s worth noting that Qatar Airways often has packs of extra nappies, bottles and wipes on board—always good to have in case of an emergency. you are a family of four or more, consider splitting If up the seating so there’s one parent per child on opposite sides of the plane. This means that each parent is responsible for one child—minimizing the possibility of bickering between the kids and guaranteeing that one unlucky parent isn’t saddled with taking care of the kids while the other enjoys a leisurely flight.
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Travel I f you are travelling with a baby or toddler, pack a smaller bag filled with a few necessities (diapers, wipes, cream, etc.) into your main carry-on bag; once onboard slip the bag into the seat pocket in front of you for easy access. This is much easier (and safer) than having to lug a big carry-on bag down from the overhead bin every time you need a diaper.
I f travelling with an infant, ask for a bassinet seat. Even if your baby prefers to be held, that extra space for blankets, diapers or even just a safe place to put baby down for a moment can be a great help.
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Family Matters rrange for a "travel buddy” if you are flying solo A with your child. The Doha Mums forum is a great place to shout out for a co-traveller. A travel buddy is another mother or family who can lend a helping hand—watch your bags while you go change a diaper, hold a baby while you run to the toilet, let their older kids entertain your little one or any number of small but valuable tasks.
Keeping them entertained there was ever a time to break the "no TV or If iPad" rule, it's on an eight-hour flight. Load the iPad with kid-friendly apps, movies and TV shows and enjoy some time to yourself. your child is young, hide several small toys a If few months before your trip then wrap them up as presents and place them in your child’s carry-on for the plane. They’ll have fun unwrapping the gift and the “new” toys should keep them busy for some time.
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Documentation— more than passports ake sure you have a “No Objection Letter” M from your spouse if you are travelling with the kids on your own. Some countries require permission from the other parent in order for you to travel into or out of the country. Take the time to research this as countries have different requirements. Some just require a birth certificate while others might also a notarised letter from the other parent. arry a photocopy of your child’s birth certificate C and your marriage certificate. ouble-check the validity on your family’s passports D and visas before booking your flights. The last thing you want to deal with on your holiday is the discovery that your youngest child’s residency permit expires two days before you return to Doha.
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