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A Little Bare, A Lot Beautiful
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Contents 6 Our Favorite Finds 8 Real Life Insights 10 A Little Bare, A Lot Beautiful 18 Couples Corner 24 Ask Irene 26 Wedding Bloopers 29 Inspiration : A Divine Influence 44 Words of the Wedding Wise 46 Bachelorette Bounty 53 The Van Till Family Farm Winery: 58 Gift Registry : Outfitting Your Outdoors 60 Calendar of Events 64 Monthly Wedding Checklist 70 Arrive in Mile High Style 74 The Patrick Lentz Band 76 Unlocking : The Gallery Event Space 83 Society Pages
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EA Bride Staff Âť Winter/Spring 2014 Christie Scott Publisher christie@eabride.com
Nathan Fried Lead Design & Branding nathan@eabride.com
Britney Beach Executive Editor britney@eabride.com
Treasa Hershberger VP of Sales treasa@eabride.com
Jana Marler Art Director jana@eabride.com
Christine Busch Layout Designer
Christine Saxer Events Coordinator
Jenica Stubbs Social Media jenica@eabride.com
EA Bride info@eabride.com www.eabride.com Ph. 816.272.5143 Published Quarterly in January, April, July, & October. Printed in the USA by Harvest Graphics Advertising Inquiries: Email: info@eabride.com Copyright 2014 for EA Bride. All rights reserved.
A Special thanks to our contributing writers : Irene Sparks, Seth Toebben, Timmy Gibson
Cover. Model: Kat Richardson Bridal Gown: Bridal Bliss Design Wardrobe Stylist: Amani Skalacki Hair & Makeup: Ashley Backs Professional Hair & Makeup Flower Design & Set Stylist: emmy-ray floral & event design Photographer: Jana Marler Accessories: Skala Jewelry & Accessories Venue: Amigoni Urban Winery
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Letter from the Publisher
Christie Scott Publisher
When it comes to writing these letters, I often find myself sitting before the computer, and immersing myself in thoughts of wedding celebrations, searching within my soul for the perfect tidbit of advice or insight with which to lead the next issue of the magazine. Unfortunately, all I see outside is cold. And I am not a fan. As in… Not. A. Fan. However, the bright light at the end of the blistery, snow-saturated tunnel is that it is officially engagement season! And my hats are officially off to all the brave men (and women) who have dared to take the plunge and ask their betrothed that oh so important question. Perhaps it can be attributed to all of the holiday festivities, or the chilly nights forcing you to be shut inside with your special someone, but love is most definitely in the air! I am pleased to announce that even with as small of a team as we have at EA Bride, that three, count ‘em, THREE of our team members are set to be wed in the next year. Britney Beach, Jana Marler, and Christine Saxer are all recently engaged, and will each take their own walks down the aisle in 2014! It’s amazing to hear the details of each as they start making progress in their plans. And it probably comes as no surprise that Britney, who moonlights as a Planner Extraordinaire had most of her details mapped out in the first month. And Jana, who no doubt carries a camera everywhere she goes, is opting for the picturesque experience and taking her show on the road. Christine was the last to accept the shiny rock on her finger, and I have no doubt her entire process will be as cool, calm, and collected as she is. In some ways, I feel like I have a unique perspective on the whole situation. Having been married myself, participating in countless weddings over the years, and now in the industry as a Publisher, I can see all sides of the spectrum, and it’s definitely an amazing, albeit overwhelming, view. And yet, I wouldn’t have it any other way. To all you brides out there who are gearing up for your own road to Happily Ever After, here’s to a new year, a new you, and hoping that the best is yet to be! P.S. We love hearing engagement stories, so feel free to drop us a line and let us know how your beau popped the question, and what kind of big day you envision. We can’t wait to hear all about it! Happy Reading! EABride.com
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Favorite This time around our favorite finds come from right here in Kansas City. We were recently introduced to Ultrapom and have since fallen in love with all of their event rentals. Their inventory is endless, but here are a few items that we are particularly head over heels about. 1. Sequin table linens
4. Amber goblets
2. Gold flatware
5. Brass candlesticks
3. Mercury glass
6. Sequin runners 7. Apothecary Jars
View more dĂŠcor items and check availability at ultrapom.com
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Apothecary Jars
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5. Brass candlesticks
4. Amber goblets 2. Gold flatware
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Real Life Insights By Britney Beach
Going Green Tip
Trend Alert: Slow Motion Video Booth A slow motion video booth is comprised of a white backdrop with a video camera capturing you and your guests bouncing, dancing, and making silly faces all night long. After the reception is over, companies like Creative Films here in Kansas City, edits and slows the film down to create a movie that is funny beyond belief! You have to see this for yourself- view the finished product at creativefilmskc.com/slowmotion-video-booth
Budget Buster The wedding rehearsal itself is necessary to get everyone organized for the ceremony. However, the rehearsal dinner is more of a tradition than necessity. You could eliminate the dinner all together or save money by hosting a mid-day picnic or throwing a back yard barbecue. Compared to renting a venue or reserving a room at a restaurant, your rehearsal dinner will be just as memorable, but at a fraction of the cost.
Edible favors are not only popular, but also eco-friendly. If you are making the edible favors yourself, purchase the ingredients during season. For example, purchase apples from a local orchard in the fall to make apple butter for your spring wedding. If you would rather leave the “making and baking” to the experts, talk with vendors at your local farmers market to see if they would be willing to use their expertise to make something personal for your wedding. Often edible foods can be canned and preserved months prior to your wedding, allowing you to save with the seasons.
Seasoned Insights Be able to talk and keep an open mind with one another. Know what each other wants/needs and never go to bed mad. – Kay Open the door, walk her to the door, and always pick up the tab. Once you are living together, hold her hand and always kiss her good morning and goodnight. - Gene – Gene & Kay Markes, married 54 years
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Title: A Little Bare, A Lot Beautiful
A Lot Beautiful A Little Bare,
Photography: Marco Simonelli of Bold as Love Model: Sara Wilemon
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Getting Cozy with the Camera Boudoir photography is all the rage right now! Dare to bare the sexier side of yourself. We had the pleasure of working with World Renowned Photographer Marco Simonelli of Bold as Love, as he captured the essence of model, Sara Wilemon. And while she makes the whole process look second nature, we know a lot of women out there fear showing that much of themselves to the camera, and end up with pictures that emulate a more rigid version of themselves. So, we called on the expert herself. Wilemon offered a few pieces of advice to help you avoid looking like a deer in headlights, and instead, make a little love to the lens! 1. Plan ahead. You’ll feel more confident and comfortable when you’re prepared. Try on your wardrobe, and as silly as it sounds, practice poses and facial expressions in front of the mirror. And if you want to go all out, schedule professional hair and makeup, to ensure you’re putting your best face forward. 2. Acquaint yourself with the photographer and his/her work. Meet before the shoot if possible to discuss inspiration, themes, and wardrobe. Knowing you are both on the same page and heading in the same direction will have positive calming properties. 3. Pep talk yourself if you must, but you must feel confident in your beauty and photographers skill. Both of you are working towards the same goal of great photos, so take a deep breath and just be your beautiful self and let him/her do what they do best, and capture it. 4. Relax, remember to breathe, and have fun. Our thoughts and feelings can be conveyed in the smallest of expressions so think beautiful thoughts for a beautiful face. And if it makes you more comfortable, bring a friend along for moral support. (Just make sure you let your photog know!) EABride.com
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Engaged Couple: Joe McKinney & Brie Jones Wedding Date: March 8th, 2014
How did you two meet? Bride: Joe and I work for the same company and we crossed paths 4 years ago. We went on a few dates at that point but we really didn’t connect until a year later. Groom: Brie and I had become good work friends, I received a promotion and she sent me flowers. After that we went on a few dates, which became the beginning.
What do you plan to splurge on with the wedding? B: We decided to splurge on our venue. We took one look at the Sawyer Room and knew it was the place and worth every penny. We feel like royalty there and our day is going to be beautiful & magical.
How long did it take to realize he/she was the one? B: It didn’t take long for me to realize how much I loved Joe. I remember getting that feeling that he was the one when I saw him interacting with his Godchildren. He was so loving and adoring of them. G: We had been dating for a couple of months when Brie left town on a trip with her family. I realized how much I missed her and knew it was something real. How do you two make it work? B: We are a team and work together through every decision, big and small. He is my partner in crime. G: I have always had a hard time communicating, but with Brie it comes easy. We have to communicate and have trust to make it work.
G: We are also going all out on our honeymoon. It’s going to be an amazing seven days and the perfect start to our life together. What has surprised you most about the planning process? B: The amount of small details there are to plan for one day. I have a good group of people around me who have helped every step of the way and will be there for every moment of our wedding day. G: For me, how easy it is to say, “yes, dear” and everything works out okay.
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Newlywed Couple: Jared & Mallory Robinson Together: 7 ½ Years Wedding Date: September 28th, 2013
Photo by David Remely
G: Being together all the time is certainly a new thing for the two of us. The past 5 years we had been doing a long-distance relationship due to school. It’s great to finally be together on a consistent basis.
What was the best thing about your wedding? What is the best part about marriage? Bride: The best thing about our wedding was finally being married. All the decorations, food, cake, etc. were absolutely perfect, but Jared and I had a long distance relationship for a couple years and we had been waiting for so long to finally be together. It was the best when I saw him for the first time walking down the aisle knowing that I would finally be his wife. Groom: The wedding was indescribable. It lived up to all my expectations and was the greatest day of my life. But I have to say the best part was being with friends and family. Having all of those people there to support us was unbelievable. We were so blessed to have that many people celebrate the next chapter in our lives. Looking back on it, what would you have done differently? B: I think the only thing I would have done different is to get married one hour earlier. The reason why I would do that is to have a little more time to take pictures. We were a little rushed between ceremony and reception. I just cannot get over how everything else was so perfect. G: I personally thought everything went fantastic. Everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves at the reception and ceremony. Couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. What’s the biggest difference in your relationship now that you are married? B: The biggest difference is we live together and get to see each other every day. 20
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B: The best part about marriage is to just be with him and to eat meals with him and go to church with him. I am so blessed to finally be with him and live our lives as one in the same town and same house hold. I love waking up to him and going on hikes on Saturdays, watching football, and doing things together, not having to call each other to tell them how our day was. G: The best part about marriage is definitely being with each other. It’s nice coming home from work and sharing the day’s stories or cuddling up close on the couch to watch an evening TV show. Being there to share the ups and downs and supporting each other along the way. What is the hardest part about marriage? B: The hardest thing for me about marriage is to do everything that my mom has always done around the house and what she has done for our family. I know you learn over time, but I am just starting to learn and it is a lot of work to keep things clean and spend quality time with my husband. G: After living on my own for 9 months then having my wife move in has been a challenge at times. The workload around the apartment has doubled and it takes a lot of energy to keep up with it.
What is the biggest difference in your relationship now that you have been married for several years? Bride: After adding two munchkins to our household I would have to say making time for each other is the biggest difference. With work and kids we have to make a point to still make time to spend with each other one-on-one because it’s not just about us any longer.
What is the most surprising difference between dating and marriage? B: The most surprising difference has been watching my husband step into the role of being a dad. Watching him with our kids makes me love him in an entirely different way than I did when we were dating. G: The biggest difference is how comfortable you get with your partner. When you are dating you try not to gross each other out or embarrass each other. When you are married you don’t have to worry about any of that stuff. What do you remember most from your wedding day?
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Groom: It’s easier knowing what my wife likes and dislikes because I know more about her now. Knowing more about her makes decisions about food, entertainment, and gifts easier to make.
Long-Term Love: Joseph & LaTisha Ortiz Together: 7 years Wedding Date: September 13th, 2008
B: All the people that came to help us celebrate. As you look back on the day you realize that this is probably one of the only days in your entire life when you have almost all of your family and friends gather together to help you celebrate. G: Seeing my wife for the first time in her dress and how beautiful she looked. Also, seeing all of our family and friends in one place together and having the feeling of being lucky enough to have everyone there. If you could do it all over again, what would you do differently?
Any advice for other couples?
B: I would have taken more time to visit with all the family and friends that were able to share our special day with us. We were so busy with taking pictures, cutting cake, and dancing that we didn’t get to visit with people as much as I would have liked to.
B: Take time to enjoy your wedding as you plan and on your special day. It will be over before you know what happened. Don’t worry about the little hiccups along the way because in the end it will all work out and you will quickly just have memories to look back on.
G: I would add an extra week to my honeymoon if I could do it all over again.
G: Take time to enjoy your meal at your reception so you don’t end up at Taco Bell at 11:30 like we did. EABride.com
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Ask By Irene Sparks Irene Sparks is Kansas City’s wedding and reception expert. She is the owner of Hawthorne House, an award winning, full-service wedding and reception facility located in Parkville, Missouri. Over the past 14 years, she has advised thousands of brides, grooms, and their parents on creating the ideal wedding and reception while solving stressful etiquette problems. To view her wedding and reception facility, please visit thehawthornehouse.com.
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Question: I asked my fiancé’s little sister to be one of my bridesmaids at our wedding. She is only 18 years old and we aren’t close friends, but I thought it was the right thing to do since my brothers are going to be groomsmen. Although his sister acted really excited when I asked her to be one of my bridesmaids she now acts as if it is all a big bother. She even makes rude comments from time to time about being in our wedding. What should I do? I don’t want to start our marriage off with family problems.
Answer: I wonder if the key words here are “little sister”. She is acting immaturely and that may stem from jealousy of the attention you and her brother are getting surrounding the planning of your wedding. Or, it may have nothing at all to do with your wedding and may just be a personal problem or a bad attitude in general. If you can stand to just ignore her behavior that would be the best approach and hopefully she will act appropriately at her own brother’s wedding whom I assume she loves. If not, your fiancé may be the best person to have a heart to heart chat with her. Good luck!
Question: My mother and I are at odds about whether to have a plated meal or a buffet at my wedding reception. My mother believes that a buffet allows our guests to have a variety of foods to choose from, but I feel like the long lines and guests carrying plates of food to their tables is awkward. What are your feelings regarding a plated meal versus a buffet dinner? Thank you.
Answer: This is a tough question. Both buffet and plated meals can be very nice. My personal preference is a plated meal if your venue or caterer is well staffed with servers. This allows for the “plating” to go quickly and everyone gets to enjoy their meal at the same time. Buffets often take quite a long time for guests to get their food, thus using up a good portion of the reception time. A nicely plated meal can be very elegant and can set the tone for your reception. The bottom line is if the food is good your guests will enjoy it whether it is plated and served or set out on a beautiful buffet and they serve themselves. Hope this helps. Best wishes.
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Cake mishap. A bakery delivered a four tier cake and once it was set up, we noticed it was leaning. I brought this to the attention of the cake installer. She informed us it was fine, I excused myself for about 10 minutes so I could contact the baker and during that time the installer left. When I went back to speak to the installer the front of the cake was on the floor. Took pictures, called the bakery and sent them the pictures. We only had 2 hours before the reception so there was not enough time to bake another one. We pulled the caterers aside and asked if they would go to Sams, Costco and Price Chopper to buy enough sheet cakes to feed 350 people. We took the cake that had not fallen to the floor, turned the good side towards the outside facing the guests. That was where the bride and groom cut the cake. We told only the parents and the bride and groom what had happened. The guests never knew of they mishap and they all still had cake!
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Untold Stories From Industry Insiders
I was a coordinator for a wedding, and had prepared diligently for the past year on every single detail. Today it was going to go perfectly. WRONG! If there is one (or four) reasons to consider a wedding coordinator, these are them! The ceremony went great- thank goodness. Then came the reception. During cocktail hour, the caterer told me that the steaks were not ready to be served and I had to give them an extra 30-minute cushion until they would be properly cooked. Moments later I find out the bridal party decided to stop taking photos with the photographer and take the trolley around town to different bars. None of them are answering their phonesMIA bridal party. Forty-five minutes later they arrive and seem frazzled; come to find out, the trolley driver had never driven a trolley before. Finally, after dinner and formal dances, I asked the venue manager to turn down the lighting to create more ambiance in the room. It was her first day on the job and instead of turning them down, she completely turns them off and the reception room is black. After a few minutes, she figures out how to work the lights. Four things went wrong. They aren’t life changing, and my clients never knew what was happening behind scenes, but had they not had someone to take care of the mishaps, it would have been a stressful evening.
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Exceptional moments call for exceptional spaces Kansas City’s finest reception establishment, The Baltimore Club provides the luxurious elegance your wedding deserves. 1228 Baltimore Avenue Kansas City, MO 64105 | 816.221.8986
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Wedding Wise... It is your wedding and should be what YOU want. If you have difficult people in the wedding party who are not willing to allow you to have your day the way you want, then they should not be part of your special day. – Sharon Ko, Town Pavilion
When working with your catering budget; back into your per person budget by backing out any service charge and taxes from the total budget and then divide by your expected guests. This will give you a very quick understanding of where you need to be when looking at food and beverage menus. – Katie Allen, Starwood Hotels
Engagement Photo Sessions are the ultimate warm-up for the big day. This applies to the couple as well as the wedding photographer. We believe engagement sessions are so important that we practically give them away. This time allows for a great deal of relaxed creativity where the couple gets to share their ideas and then see them evolve. After a few hours of fun-filled engagement photos, a good photographer will have made you feel very comfortable and confident with them as well as with yourselves. We also find out if a couple wants to be adventurous, taking their shoes off to get in a fountain, or if they prefer more traditional poses. Everyone ends up having a great time and we typically leave feeling like we have made new friends and learned so much about the expectations of their big day. – Tim Mountz, Mountz Photography
Timelines are crucial. When organized properly, they help your hired wedding professionals know how you would like your reception to flow. If you have a wedding planner, they will develop your timeline for you. If you are making your own timeline, have it ready for final meetings with your wedding professionals so that they can take a look at it and make any suggestions or changes they see necessary. – Britney Beach, The Cotillion
If you’re considering a venue that is still in the process of remodeling or construction and your wedding date coincides with, or is within a week or two of the completion date, insist that the venue include a binder or provision in the contract that protects you from any financial losses (i.e.: deposits, rescheduling fees, save the dates, invitations, etc.) in the event it is not completed on time. If the venue’s manager or owner is confident that the construction will be completed on time, such a request should not be an issue. – Ron Ruth, Ron Ruth Wedding Entertainment
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Bachelorette Bounty: How to Take Your Soiree a Step Above You know how the story goes. It’s the same song and dance year after year, as each girl in your circle bids adieu to the single life and prepares to become a wife. You strap a sash and crown on the bride-to-be, and head out to the nearest honky-tonk bar to serenade her in endless shots and debauchery. And it usually ends with a massive hangover and the vow never to speak of the previous nights events ever again. Yet, this is a tradition where a bride is saying sayonara to the single life. She’s celebrating the beginning of her next chapter with those 46
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girls she deems most important to her. As a Maid-of-Honor, or anyone else who is throwing the actual shindig, you’ve been called into a position that shouldn’t be taken so lightly. After all, this is hopefully the only Bachelorette Party your friend will have to partake in, and whether they say it or not, they’re more than likely longing for a memorable experience. If the all out party route doesn’t exactly tickle your fancy, there are a plethora of ideas out there a little more off the beaten path that you should consider. Below are a few ideas that serve as a great alternative to the tried and true tradition or even a great way to spice up an otherwise average celebration.
1. The Food Fete: American culture has made dining synonymous with celebrations. Consider renting out a secluded space and throwing a grand dinner party for your friend. Place’s like Lidia’s Scratch Italian Kitchen have a private event space upstairs to rent out for the occasion. And if you’re going more remote, companies like Vintage Rentals KC can provide you with unique and beautiful dinnerware and décor to set the stage and create the exact ambiance you’re looking for. End the evening with fire pit s’mores and plenty of girly gossip! 2. Fun & Games: If you’re looking for some good oldfashioned fun, then combine a little silly and spontaneity for a time your friends won’t soon forget. The Photo Bus is a great way to capture lasting memories, and is a VW bus you can all cram into and comes complete with plenty of props to get goofy with. Or check out finetooners.com to see about having a caricature artist do some drawings of everyone there. Dare to take it a step further and have the ultimate sleepover, complete with sleeping bags across your living room floor at the end of the night! 3. Lap of Luxury: It’s no secret that most girls love getting pampered. If that’s the case with your crew, set up a spa party. Either everyone can head to a spa like The Wax Pot in Blue Springs, MO to take advantage of all the treatments, or you can have a mobile company come directly to you, and treat you in the comfort of your own home and wine supply! 4. Weekend Away: If time permits, why not take the girls away for a couple of days, to try something new and get away from the hustle and bustle of every day life. Eureka Springs is a great destination within driving distance. You’ll feel like you just stepped back in time to a town that is too cute for words. And whether you’re seeking adventure or relaxation, The Crescent Hotel & Spa is a great place to get both!
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5. Sampler Soiree: Get a group of girls together for wine tastings or cooking classes. Then, everyone can sample a little bit of everything, it’s a great activity, encourages trying new things, and can open your eyes to a new way of eating and/or drinking. We just advise that you enlist the help of a limo service, such as Pech Limousine, so that none of the girls gets stuck as the designated driver. 6. The Sing-a-long: If you want to catch a little action, and get a little crazy, check out a karaoke bar. Each girl can take turns dedicating a song to the bride to be. And if you can’t sing, who cares. Having prizes for the worst performance, best song choice, funniest act will keep the crowd entertained and make for many stories to be shared afterwards!
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Tips to Pull off the Best Party Possible 1. Have plenty of prep time: The details can get out from under you if you don’t get everything underway in plenty of time. We recommend 4-6 weeks out. 2. Be Unique: Add some elements that are all about the bride. Whether it’s her favorite candy or wearing her favorite color, customize the party with her in mind. 3. Opt for a theme: It doesn’t matter what it is. Whether everyone wears a mardi gras mask, a certain style dress, or even does a beachinspired night, it brings everyone together in an unusual way and lets everyone else know you’re all in this thing together. 4. Enlist the help of others: You may not have a knack for everything you’re trying to pull off, but it doesn’t mean some of the other girls don’t have skills that would be a huge asset to the party you’re pulling off.
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Credits. Photography: John & Cate of The Photo Bus and DePrisco Photo Décor: Sarah & Evan Enderle of Vintage Rentals KC Transportation: Pech Limo Invitations: Katy Morrow of Clover Hill Productions Location: Buffalo Lodge
Gift Ideas for the Bride-to-Be: 1. Grab a box of Jenga blocks and have everyone write three to four words representing a memory they have with the bride. Then, every time she plays, she’ll be reminded of that great time. 2. Each person in the party contributes one or two of their favorite recipes, to create a book that she can carry with her, and some ideas of great dishes to make for her new husband. 3. Have each person write on a piece of fabric either words of encouragement, marriage advice, or a memory that can then be put with colored fabric to create a keepsake quilt she’ll treasure for years to come.
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The Van Till Family Farm Winery:
Glad Hearts, Artisan Pizza, and Missouri Wine
Written by: Seth Toebben
Missouri’s footprint on the national winery terroir is growing, and contributing to that are the Missouri varietal wines and memories being grown, pressed, blended, and served at the Van Till Family Farm Winery in Rayville, Missouri. Originally hailing from California, owners Cliff and Debbie Van Till are now vanguards in Missouri’s wine industry growth. They, of course, wouldn’t say that. Humble farmers, seasoned by life’s struggles, Cliff and Debbie are just doing what they love and know that the fruit of their labor is a gift. The winery and grounds deliver a unique California/Missouri experience. Treated like family, guests relax year-round in the Wine Garden; surrounded by flowers, spirits lifted by an unique Van Till vintage, and savoring artisan pizza baked in an imported Le Panyol woodfired oven. Joshua and Amanda are one newly engaged couple who have been mesmerized by the
experience. Since discovering the Van Till Family Farm Winery early in their courtship, their affection for each other and this destination winery have grown hand-in-hand. Josh knew that this was where he wanted to propose to Amanda, with a piece of the Van Till’s chocolate raspberry cake as the vehicle for the ring, and this is where he would bring his friends and family to celebrate their rehearsal dinner. The Van Tills have combined all their expertise in farming, gardening, baking, wine-making and charcuterie to craft a rich and delightful, farmto-table pizza and wine experience for your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, birthday party, or even your next date night. Van Till Family Farm Winery will deliver a special memory! EABride.com
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Girls, this is an article you should pass off to your man! He will be better for it! Through my counseling I see a common theme among men. It seems to be more difficult for a man to “give their whole heart” away than a woman. I can’t speak for all men, but some feel that it is not the “manly” or “macho” thing to do.
4. Ask for her advice on work related issues. Ask your fiancés opinion about co-worker issues, boss issues, project issues, etc. Not only does this let her know that you value her opinion but it also allows her to be apart of your work life. 5. Start being a little less selfish.
Here are some tips for guys on how to give your fiancé your whole heart. 1. Shower her with compliments and praises. By Timmy Gibson TimmyGibson.com
I’ve always been a complimentary guy, but when I gave my wife my full heart I poured it on. I would stop in the middle of the day while at work and call her and say, “Hey honey I’m trying to get some work done today, but I just can’t get you out of my mind.” Many of my compliments were very specific. When she prepared a meal, I told her how tasty it was. 2. Express your love. Let her know that you love her like crazy, and that you wouldn’t want to live without her. Say, “I love you” often, as well as give hugs! If you weren’t raised that way, make an effort to change. Strive to become the loving guy you ought to be.
Let’s just be honest, we all struggle with being selfish. It’s not easy to give up the, me, my, and mine syndrome. I began studying my wife’s food, movie, and entertainment preferences and some of them were similar to mine, and others were polar opposites. But I didn’t care, I began taking her where she wanted to go. You see she wants to make me happy, and I want to make her happy … so we are constantly trying to out give each other. 6. Make sure she is #1. Making sure our wives know she is number one is as simple as making her number one. If you are unsure of how she feels, then ask her, “Hey babe, do you feel that you are number one in my life?” She’ll tell you how she feels. And if she says, “no”, then you need to find out from her the specific reasons why she feels that way.
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7. Keep yourself only unto her as long as you both shall live. Giving yourself completely to your spouse is an all or nothing. It’s PLAN A, with no plan B. It’s the only plan. A total and complete devotion to ONE person until death do us part.
>> You may be looking to get a new home to go along with your new marriage. Then
again, you may already be married and enjoying life as homeowners. Regardless, maintaining and entertaining in the outdoors is on your horizon. Keeping the exterior of your home up to par can be exhausting, especially when your tools are old and worn out. Take the opportunity to add a few of these highly recommended items to your registry. Each of these items have been ranked at the top of its class on ConsumerSearch.com by users, just like you.
2. Charcoal Grill: Big Green Egg 1. Patio Heater: Fire Sense
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This heater gets high marks for its fast heating, sturdy construction and stylish looks. The adjustable flame is easy to light.
This grill fulfills all of your needs– it’s a grill, a smoker and a slow cooker, all in one. It’s extremely solid construction and excellent heat retention cooks food to perfection.
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4. Theater Projector: Optoma 3. Push Mower: Husqvarna Enjoy the game while grilling. This projector needs to be covered. Picture quality is excellent, providing great colors. The value of this 1080p projector is tough to beat.
This mower is a great value for a gaspowered push mower. It has the same engine as mowers twice the price and starts on the first pull. It also weighs less than most mowers and is easy to push and steer.
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5. Leaf Blower: Toro Power Sweep Featuring a push-start motor, two speed settings and a 5-pound body, the electric blower makes moving leaves, sweeping dirt and removing cobwebs a breeze. Its range is limited to the length of your extension cord, but the blower doesn’t require gas to run. Price: $35
6. Pressure Washer: AR Blue Clean
7. Grass Trimmer: Black & Decker
Packed with extras like a high-grade triplex pump, adjustable wand and soap applicator, this small pressure washer is great in value. With 1,500 psi, this hand-carry pressure washer is powerful enough to clean cars, boats and patio furniture. It is also easy to move and store.
This weed-eater gets top ratings for smooth trimming and easy handling from pros and homeowners alike. You can adjust the trimmer’s power level to conserve battery power, and the 13-inch head automatically advances the trim line and swivels for precise edging.
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January 23rd, 2014 5pm-8pm Winter Open House The Berg Event Space 1525 Grand Blvd Kansas City Mo, 64108 816-842-4488 Admission: free We will be holding our winter open house with food, music and some of our favorite vendors! Its a great time to show the space to friends and family for those brides and grooms who have already booked with us AND the perfect time to see the space set up for an event for those of you who are looking for the perfect venue for your next event!
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Monthly Wedding Checklist Planning a wedding can be similar to a tidal wave. Suddenly, ideas and inspiration start coming at you from every direction. Family and friends saw this or that and think it would be a great addition to your wedding. Where do you even start? It doesn’t matter if you have been planning your wedding for three months or just got engaged, there is always a time
12 months before Wedding Consider hiring a wedding coordinator. Decide on a budget. Start compiling a guest list. Determine if you will have an engagement party. 11 months before Wedding Determine a time frame for your wedding date. Narrow down your date to a few weekends, and check for conflicting events. Choose a color scheme, theme, or style for your wedding. Choose the members of your wedding party maid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ring bearer, flower girl, and ushers. Search for a ceremony venue. Search for a reception venue. Select your wedding dress and place the order. 10 months before Wedding Book your ceremony venue. Book your reception venue. Create a deposits/payments schedule to keep track of all finances. Create your wedding website. Search for a caterer, photographer, videographer, florist, band, or dj. 64
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to get organized. This month by month calendar is based on a year engagement, so you may need to adjust it a bit to reflect your own time schedule. Regardless, when used properally, it will keep you on track. There is no need to worry about getting your vows written if you haven’t selected your ceremony location yet. Prioritize your tasks and time so that you can enjoy your engagement to the fullest.
9 months before Wedding Book your caterer and begin working on a menu. Book your DJ and/or band. Set up your gift registries. Add information on your registries to your wedding website. Book your photographer/videographer and schedule an engagement photo shoot. Select and order save-the-date cards. Book your florist. Search for and book an officiant. Reserve blocks of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests. Add information to your website. Send save-the-date cards (finalize guest list first). Include your website address. 8 months before Wedding Select your wedding dress and place the order. Search for a wedding cake baker. Order your wedding cake. Design floral arrangements with florist. Search for invitations, place cards, menus, announcements and thank-you stationery. Search for and book ceremony musician(s). Book your invitations vendor. Begin discussions on rehearsal dinner — who will host? Whoever is hosting should begin searching for a venue and compiling the guest list.
7 months before Wedding Search for a vendor to help with your hair, makeup, or any pre-wedding pampering. Select your bridesmaid dresses and flower-girl dress. Have attendants place their order. Purchase accessories for your gown, such as a veil, shoes, undergarments, and jewelry. Choose groom’s attire. Finalize the rehearsal dinner venue. Book accommodations for your wedding night. Book your hair and makeup trial appointment. Plan and book your honeymoon, including travel, accommodations, and activities. 6 months before Wedding Finalize the text and place the order for invitations, place cards, menus, announcements and thank-you cards. Finalize the menu and service details with your caterer. Purchase your bridesmaids’ accessories (shoes, jewelry, etc.). Select groomsmen’s and ring bearer’s attire. Send them information to purchase or rent. Purchase your wedding bands. Check your gift registry. If items on your list have been discontinued, update the registry. Design and start creation of favors. Research wedding insurance. 5 months before Wedding Discuss and confirm party plans for bachelor/ bachelorette parties, and showers. Provide guest lists to your maid of honor and best man for your shower, bachelorette party, bachelor party, and other social events. For an international honeymoon, begin to get your papers in order (passport, birth certificate, visas, vaccinations, etc.). Ask your readers to be a part of your ceremony. Begin a search for readings. If you are handling the bridesmaid dress order, confirm the delivery date.
Schedule gown fitting appointments. The first appointment should be directly after you receive the gown. The last fitting should be no later than 3 weeks before the wedding. Search and book a transportation vendor (limo, trolley, bus, etc.). 4 months before Wedding Stuff and send out wedding invitations. Track gifts received from guests and send thank-you notes. Check on hotel room blocks to ensure important guests have made their reservations. Design and print your ceremony programs. Research local marriage license requirements. Don’t forget to check when the license expires and if there is a waiting period. Decide on a guest book option. Purchase or make gifts for your bridal party and close family. Don’t forget ushers, flower girls, ring bearers, and readers! 3 months before Wedding Alert your wedding party to the rehearsal arrangements. Send invitations to rehearsal dinner attendees. If you have a DJ/band, work on a list of ‘must-play’ and ‘do-not play’ songs. Be sure you also send them selections for your introductions, first dance, cake cutting, father/daughter dance, anniversary dance, and last dance. Determine your ceremony music selections and forward the list to ceremony musicians. Map out wedding party positions for the processional, ceremony, and recessional. Shop for additional accessories like undergarments, jewelry, headpiece, bridal purse, etc. Create a wedding day schedule. Send the schedule to your wedding party and vendors. Finalize any special preferences, readings, or other ceremony details with your officiant. Notify your maid of honor/mother/or friend to attend your final gown fitting so they can learn how the bustle will be tied.
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2 months before Wedding Verify appropriate vendor access with your reception venue. Confirm delivery locations, times, and final arrangements with your florist. Make a list of who will get bouquets, corsages, and boutonnieres. Confirm the rehearsal details and wedding day schedule with your officiant. Pick up tuxedo/suit and try it on at the shop. See if more alterations need to be made. Confirm location, date, & time with your photographer. Create your ‘must-take’ photo list. Confirm location, date, and time with your videographer. Confirm all honeymoon travel plans. Give someone a copy of your itinerary and contact information in case of an emergency. Shop and pack for the honeymoon. If you’re having a receiving line, determine the order everyone will stand in. 1 month before Wedding Obtain a marriage license. Follow your state’s guidelines. Write your vows if you choose to personalize them. Send a copy to your officiant. Pick up wedding rings and check the inscriptions before you leave the store. Call guests who have not RSVP’d to get a final count. Create your seating chart. Make place cards. Give the seating chart to your caterer, reception venue. Prepare your toasts and thanks to friends and family. Send your transportation vendor the schedule, addresses, and contact numbers. Confirm all final payment amounts with your vendors. Mail your final payment checks or make arrangements for the wedding day. Attend bachelor and bachelorette parties.
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1 week before Wedding Give final head count to caterer. Confirm set-up instructions and menu items. Confirm number of bouquets, boutonnieres, and centerpieces with your florist. Confirm head count, delivery time, and location with your wedding cake vendor. Provide venue with guest count and vendor requests: delivery times, tables needed, vendor meals, space requirements, etc. Get last pre-wedding haircut and color. Pick up your gown. Try it on at the shop to make sure no additional alterations are needed. Drop off favors, place cards, guest book, pens, cake knife, toasting flutes, and all other reception items at the reception venue or person setting up the reception venue. Pull together wedding gown, veil, shoes, stockings, and a last-minute emergency kit (aspirin, makeup, hairspray, safety pins, mints, etc.). Have the gown steamed if needed. Make sure bridesmaids and groomsmen have their full outfit. Call transportation company to confirm pickup times and locations. Groom get hair trimmed. Groom and groomsmen attend final fittings and pick up formalwear. Day before Wedding Provide vendors with an emergency phone number to call on the day of the wedding. Make out checks for any final balances due the day of the wedding. Bring unity candle, aisle runner, or other ceremony accessories to the rehearsal. Rehearse ceremony. Give your marriage license to the officiant. Attend rehearsal dinner. Present family, attendants, and those that have helped with gifts. Get to sleep early.
Day of Wedding Exchange gifts with each other. Give wedding bands to the best man and maid of honor before wedding. Give best man the officiant’s fee envelope to be handed off after the ceremony. Assign one person (sometimes the wedding coordinator) to be a contact for the vendors.
After Wedding Pre-arrange for someone to return any rentals. Arrange for gown and veil to be cleaned and preserved with an experienced provider. Take the bridal bouquet to be preserved, or save a petal to be pressed. Do paperwork for official documents if you are changing your name. Write thank-you notes for all the gifts you received at the wedding and before. Traditional etiquette gives you an 8-week grace period.
>> Checklist provided by Plush Productions, 816-726-2877, plushproductionskc.com
Arrive in By: Christie Scott Picture this moment: You’ve just exchanged vows with the love of your life. Now you and your betrothed are all smiles as you make your way through the masses of people shouting well wishes, and blowing celebratory bubbles around you. Suddenly, the crowd parts, and you make your way through, but there is no limo there to whisk you away. Instead, sitting at the end of the path is a stateof-the-art helicopter, ready to lift you into the sky, as if you’re on your own personal magic carpet ride.
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waters edge for the ultimate backdrop. Now, with KC Copters, it’s all possible. Instead of making that critical decision on whether to miss the shot, or wade through the tall grasses in your wedding gear to get there, Johnny and his crew can take you places that would not have otherwise been possible. Armed with a charter certificate, and years of experience piloting this type of aircraft, Rowlands believes that this is the ultimate way to navigate your big day! As he says, it offers a completely different scenic perspective and a great way “to commemorate this new adventure in your life, with a little adventure in the sky.” The KC Copter crew works hard to make sure all the elements align. First, they perform a site survey of the location to find the ultimate landing point. They handle all the safety inspections, and the logistics of getting all the paperwork and permissions necessary. So, all that’s left for you and your love is to simply enjoy the ride. And with packages starting at a cool $1000 to include the trip and mileage, we can promise you it’s money well spent!
With KC Copters, this Imagine being flown dream is now a reality. Founded by the King of right into the middle of Copters himself, Johnny Rowlands, this company a lush, green field for is single-handedly taking transportation to a some unbelievable photo whole new level… and vantage point, we might opportunities. add. Designed with the customer experience And this experience is not without in mind, Rowlands has created an entirely additional perks. Whether you want to have your own champagne customizable way to get from point A to point B. toast among the clouds, or pipe in your favorite music for the flight, Whether you want to go directly from the wedding you can even have a video keepsake recorded! You also get a to the reception, or make a pit stop in between, it’s certificate of flight to hang right next to your marriage certificate your day and your decision. should it suit you! Imagine being flown right into the middle of a lush, green field for some unbelievable photo opportunities. Or being dropped next to the 70
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This is the ultimate opportunity to blow your friends and family away, both literally and figuratively. In short, they’ll never see it coming, and they won’t be able to help but watch you going!
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The Patrick Lentz Band: From yesterday’s hip to today’s hip-hop There is a buzz going around town; brides, wedding professionals, and bystanders alike hear it. The news is that there is a renewed sound to wedding entertainment, which is sweeping Kansas City off its feet. This fresh sound is coming from the one-and-only Patrick Lentz Band. Let your guests experience the pleasure of live performance, whether it is an upbeat dance worthy scene or a more relaxed atmosphere. The Patrick Lentz Band is skillful in providing elegant ceremony music, bridged with a bubbly cocktail hour that leads right into your eventful reception. The awesome part is that they desire to play at your wedding! Their mission is to provide a variety of crowd-pleasing dance hits with a fresh approach and delivery. What more could you ask for than an endless night of fun and enthusiastic music to celebrate your marriage? Your guests will thank you. Go ahead, check their schedule on their website and see them perform for yourselves. It’s a guarantee, that after the show you’ll be apart of the buzz as well. Website: patricklentzmusic.com
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Unlocking: The Gallery Event Space
Photo by Bobbi + Mike Photo by Max Mellenbruch
Glitz and Glam are two words that happen to be synonymous with The Gallery Event Space. Situated in the heart of the Power & Light District, there is no shortage of architectural eye candy right from the stunning balcony that spans an entire side of the space. But, it’s what you’ll find inside that’s even more intriguing. Jessica Mullen, Event Coordinator for The Gallery, invited us in to take a private tour of one of Kansas City’s newest and most note-worthy venues. And from the moment we stepped inside, our every expectation was surpassed. From the floor to ceiling windows that line one side to the exceptionally high ceilings, and on to the LED lighting and custom chandeliers, it is obvious that no detail was spared in designing this space. And what a space it is. With grand events in mind, this 9,000 sq. ft. location can serve 600 people cocktail style, and even sit and serve up to 400. For those couples looking to invite all their nearest and dearest, The Gallery can accommodate them all, while still offering room to roam. Even though this space always looks show ready, Mullen assures us that the options for customization are endless. In fact, she insists that each event is unique and they like it that way. According to Mullen, “At the Gallery, the personal attention to detail is important to us, and I believe that is what sets our service apart.” Additionally, she advises couples to stay true to who they are and find a space that represents that. And if you’re the kind of couple who appreciates clean lines, modern details, and an atmosphere that represents the ultimate hybrid of sophistication, class, and cool, then The Gallery is where it’s at.
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According to Sher Foy, a past bride who was married here, “This wedding venue is outstanding. I cannot tell you how wonderful the staff was, and they work incredibly hard to make your wedding exactly what you want. It (was) a wedding our family and friends will be talking about for years.” EABride.com
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Sometimes they say it’s all about location, location, location. Nestled in a central location isn’t the only thing this space has going for them. For attendees who plan to party long after the cake has been cut, the access to bars and hotels within walking distance can be a saving grace for many guests. The options are virtually endless, and convenience was a key factor when deciding where to open for business. With Chef Derek Kieffaber on board, couples don’t even have to consider who will cater. A Kansas City
native, his list of accolades include Makers Mark Bourbon House & Lounge, and his mission is to create a first class dining experience for guests, every time. Portobello Steak, Honey Lavender Roasted Chicken Breast, and Medallions of Striploin with Garlic Mashed Potatoes are just a few of their selections and enough to make even the most critical guest’s mouth water. We could gush about this space for pages, but seeing really is believing. Once you set your sights on this space, be prepared to fall in love all over again. To gallerize your next event, contact Jessica Mullen at Jessica@thegalleryeventspace.com or at 816.842.1045.
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Real stories of married and engaged Kansas City couples written in their own words.
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Trevor & Angela Jenkins Wedding Date: August 31st, 2013 Photography By: Lauren Frisch
ÂŤ Some people say love at first sight, I say love at first phone conversation.
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Trevor and I met on Match.com. My mom encouraged me to join match.com after I had ended a long-term relationship several months prior. After much coaxing and consideration, I decided to go give it a shot, after all what did I have to lose? Trevor was the first guy that caught my eye. He first stole my heart with a funny email. After a few flirty emails, Trevor called me. We talked for hours and I fell in love with his sense of humor and wittiness instantly! Some people say love at first sight, I say love at first phone conversation. We went on a date to Bristol the next night and have been inseparable ever since. After a year and a half of dating, Trevor and I took a fairy tale adventure to Cambodia, Vietnam, and Thailand. Toward the end of our 15-day excursion, Trevor surprised me with a private boat trip and day tour to Hong Island, an uninhabited island off the coast of Ao Nang, Thailand. Mid afternoon, Trevor proposed on the secluded island when we were hanging out at the beach. I said yes and we were married a little over a year later!
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Ceremony Venue: Grace and Holy Trinity Cathedral Reception Venue: The Gallery Event Space Wedding Planner: Plush Productions – Britney Beach Gown: Nolte’s Bridal Menswear: Tip Top Tux Invitations: MyGatsby.com Hair: Tiffany Franklin Artistry Make-Up: Jessica Norton and Rance Lee Florist: Village Gardens Band: Michael Beers Band Cake Decorator: Rama Sola Photo Booth: Black Ice Booths Videography: Cork Creative Favors: Italian Cookies by Anita Trozzolo
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Justin & Megan Cooley Wedding Date: June 30th, 2013 Photography By: West Birch Photography
Carl and I meant our first year of graduate school at KU. He introduced himself during our orientation as “Justin Cooley, but everyone calls me ‘Carl’”. Everyone calls you “Carl”...I’m not seeing how Justin equals Carl? For the first few weeks he was incredibly quiet and pretty much just said, “excuse me”. He quickly though showed himself to be quite funny, a great friend and an even better two-stepper. That’s right, a little country line dancing is how Carl Cooley won my heart! Several two-steps later and about five years of dating, Carl proposed. We had talked about getting engaged, but we decided to hold off until we were both done with graduate school. Well, Carl generally has his own timeline in mind. So, the night before we were headed out to Colorado for Christmas break, he popped the question while making dinner. *Side note: I forgot to mention that we are actually both from Colorado Springs, CO. In fact we lived about 10 minutes apart throughout junior high and high school, but we did not meet until that first day of orientation in graduate school, small world!* It wasn’t the huge over the top proposal like you see in the movies, but it was us, enjoying time together, cooking dinner, something we love to do. Looking back I am so glad that he proposed the way he did, I would not change one thing. Fast forward to the summer, I finally got to marry my best friend on a gorgeous day surrounded by an intimate gathering of family and friends!
Ceremony & Reception Venue: Blue Jacket Winery Gown: Altar Bridal Menswear: Weavers Invitations: Minted.com Hair & Makeup: Rejuvene Day Spa Caterer: Dianna’s Kitchen Florist: Bittersweet Floral Design Ceremony Music: The Oread Strings Reception Music: The Heather Stones Cake/Cupcake Decorator: Amanda Glass Rental Provider: Sunflower Rentals Favors/Gifts: Succulents from Sunrise Nursery
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Let our family take care of yours.
Josh & Allison Ronco Wedding Date: March 23rd, 2013 Photography By: Sarah Dickerson Photography Josh and I met for the first time in July of 2009, but our busy summer schedules didn’t allow us to go on a date for nearly a month. The nerves settled quickly on our first date. The conversation was easy, and it didn’t take us long to realize we had a lot in common. Our first date lasted for hours, and we both left feeling excited and eager to see each other again. I’d adopted a puppy a few days before meeting Josh, but my nursing school twelve hour clinicals meant long days at home for her. Although we’d only been dating a few months, Josh would pick her up every weekend and spend his days off playing with her while I worked so she wasn’t alone. You could say the way to my heart was through my puppy, because it was during those months that I really fell in love with this man who was going out of his way to help me as I worked to finished school.
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I’d been dreaming of our wedding day for a very long time, so the planning started immediately.
Fast forward two years; Josh had decided it was time to buy his first home. We had talked a lot about marriage, and even though we weren’t planning to live together until we were married we knew we wanted to search for a home as a couple. We found our perfect home, and I assumed a proposal was coming soon...but Josh made me be patient! Josh worked hard to make the proposal a surprise. I had to work night shift all of Easter weekend and we hadn’t seen each other all week because he’d been 92
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traveling. We decided to get breakfast Saturday morning to spend some time together before I had to go to sleep. When I stopped by the house to pick him up, he gave me an Easter basket full of goodies. I opened the first egg and ate M&M’s as I told him about my night at work. When I opened the second egg and found a beautiful diamond ring, the tears started. He’d written a sweet note that was tucked inside, and when he asked me to be his wife, I of course said YES! I’d been dreaming of our wedding day for a very long time, so the planning started immediately. We set the date for late March knowing that the weather was a gamble, but that the likelihood of a blizzard had to be low, right?
With each day the wedding crept closer the weather forecast became more grim, and on the morning of our wedding I woke up to a winter weather advisory on my phone. It wound up snowing 8 inches on our wedding day, and we watched beautiful snowflakes fall as we were standing at the altar. Despite the stress that the forecast caused in the week leading up to the wedding, the day went seamlessly, and all of our guests were able to join us to help in the celebration. Our wedding was everything we’d imagined, and the snow made for some wonderful memories. Nine months into married life we’re loving the journey, and are excited to see what our future brings.
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Ceremony Venue: Colonial Presbyterian Church Reception Venue: Boulevard Brewing Company Gown: Ida’s Bridal- San Patrick Menswear: Tip Top Tux Hair & Makeup: CaraSue Hall Caterer: Delish! Catering Florist: Erin Volante Floral DJ/Band: Jeff Holmes Music World Cake Decorator: Creative Cakes
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Renae & Brandon Pruitt Wedding Date: September 7th, 2013 Photography By: Shades of Gray Photography
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Our story started 12 years ago in Western Kansas. I was a freshman and Brandon was a junior in high school. After an incredibly awkward first date at a haunted house things could only have gotten better. I was convinced there was no future between us, but with Brandon’s persistence, we continued to spend time together and before we knew it we were inseparable. Two years of high school flew by and we approached the first real struggle in our relationship. I was a junior when Brandon moved on to further his education at Kansas State. While it proved difficult to have a relationship so far apart, we definitely grew much stronger and closer than ever. We knew we had something special when I, a die-hard KU fan, shocked everyone that knew me and actually followed Brandon to school at KSU! Our two years together in Manhattan were a blur, but there was no shortage of memorable moments as we learned more about each other in a new environment away from home. Our next big test was when I moved to Australia to study abroad, and Brandon had his eye on medical school. We were apart for six long months but there was definitely no love lost during that time. It was then we both truly knew we had something special and we were meant to be together. Four years later in May of 2012, many family and friends gathered in Kansas City to celebrate Brandon’s medical school graduation. I later found out that most of our guests were expecting to also witness a proposal that night. I had expressed to Brandon many times that I preferred a private proposal. Back home after the party, while eating chips and dip, Brandon got down on one knee with a diamond, and YES was the answer.
We were a newly engaged couple, had just purchased our first home and had much planning to do for our wedding. We chose September of 2013 as the date; that gave us 16 months to plan. We knew the three things that would make our wedding day perfect aside from family and friends: the venue, the photographer and the DJ. We hit a home run with all three! They took time to learn what we wanted and did everything they could to make our wedding day truly unique to what we wanted. Emily Hart Bridal was wonderful and altered an already beautiful dress to the dress of my dreams. With the help of Pinterest and dedicated family and friends who are creative, the planning fell into place but not without a few hiccups along the way. We would not have done anything different; our romantic outdoor wedding was perfect with the exception that it was the hottest day of the year! We were asked to sum up our wedding in a few words; vintage, charming, memory-filled... a dream come true. Not everyone can say they married their high school sweet heart.
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Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Hawthorne House Bridal Boutique: Emily Hart Bridal Gown: Kitty Chen Menswear: Jos A. Banks Hair & Makeup: Rio Salon Parkville DJ: Andrew with Platinum Productions Cake Decorator: The Dreamery
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