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Hypnosis.... When Magic Happens Rhonnda Fritz


Hypnosis When Magic Happens Using Hypnosis to Create Success in Your Life For thousands of years, there have been people who have had it all – great relationships, good health, longevity, all the wealth and abundance they desired and they lived the lives they wanted free of restriction. They kept the Secret of Success hidden and it was shared by a limited few. But now the Secret is out and everybody who wants to be successful in every area of their life can be. You just need to know where to go to get the information you need and the techniques you need to make it happen.

What is the Secret of Success The Secret of Success is focusing on what you want, healing the past and removing the blockages that prevent you from having what you want. It’s about changing the way you think and feel.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens So is being successful as simple as thinking you are successful and “poof” suddenly you are? That is a ridiculous belief is it not? Everyone knows that being successful involves a lot of hard work over many years and only after many obstacles have been overcome – right? Wrong? Anyone can be successful and it can happen in a moment, not years, once you have the knowledge and techniques to make it happen. One of the cornerstones of being successful is believing that you can be successful. That sounds like a very easy thing to do – believe it and it will be. Actually, that is all you need to do plus one or two other little details that I will address later. Unfortunately, most people have underlying belief patterns that prevent this from occurring, which ultimately makes being successful a little more difficult to achieve 100% of the time.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens How We Communicate With the Outside World To Create Our Life There are a few simple beliefs that, once accepted and adopted, can change your attitude to success. Firstly, I would ask you to accept that there are many things in our Universe that we are still in the process of discovering and that an open mind can gather more information than a closed one. At any given moment in time, each of us has in excess of 2 million bits of information coming at us each second and as technology advances this number is growing at an alarming rate. Unfortunately, our brain is only able to process around 134 bits of information per second and even that is processed through a filtering system where the information is either deleted, distorted or generalized in order for us to easily process the information. The information then flows through another network of filters that include our values, belief systems, our memories, past decisions and the general way we communicate. The rest of the 1,999,866 bits of information are either lost or processed through the unconscious mind. What most people don’t realize is that the information we take in and the way in which we filter and process it determines how we feel inside which in turn influences our external view of the world. Is it any wonder then that the information that we take in from external sources may sometimes not necessarily be the way it really is and in fact our perceptions could be totally wrong – there could even be so much more that we missed.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Wouldn’t it be great to have the skills to create powerful thought patterns and goals and then to successfully bring them to life? Wouldn’t it be great to be successful in your business or your career – to have financial freedom and to really enjoy the work you do? Wouldn’t it be great to have satisfying, loving relationships that enrich your life and empower you to further achieve your goals? Wouldn’t it be great to be in instant rapport with everyone you meet and to have them readily support your ideas and goals? Wouldn’t it be great to have no limitations and have no emotional blockages holding you back? Wouldn’t it be great if you could have total control over the way you feel and to free your body from illness and disease – to have all the energy and fitness you require readily available to you, to do whatever you want, when you want to do it? Just imagine becoming the person you really want to be and having the life you want…… Exciting thoughts are they not? It sure would be nice if it was possible to have all that in this lifetime and to know how to make it happen. It all seems rather grandiose and bordering on fantasy, right? Wrong!! You can have all this and more if you so desire. There are thousands of self-help books out there and just as many training courses all of which are presenting the same variation on a theme, which is, to show you how to be in control of your life every moment of every day and in so doing have everything you desire. But have you noticed that most of those books give you information but they don’t give you the “how to” steps and many of the training courses make you feel good for the time you are doing them but after a while you return to your old self?

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Surely there must be something out there that not only gives you the “how to� steps but also makes a permanent change in your life and makes you feel good. Well you may be excited to learn that there is something out there that fulfills all those criteria.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Tools You Can Use to Make Changes in Your Life

Welcome to the world of Hypnosis, Neuro Linguistic Programing (NLP), and Time Line Therapy(TM) (TLT). NLP is a communication model that was originally developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s. Many others have followed in their footsteps and have added to, and enhanced, their original model. NLP gives you the tools to not only enhance your own communication skills, both externally and internally, but it also allows you to quickly understand how others communicate. NLP also allows you to build instant rapport with others and to build strong relationships built on win/win outcomes.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens In the toolbox, there is also a huge variety of tools to assist you in overcoming habits, tools to assist you in replacing strategies that don’t serve you well with new ones that work well and lead to enhancing your life. There are tools to help you have complete control over your internal state so that something like a lack of motivation or a tendency towards procrastination will never plague you again. There are tools to set goals and to achieve your desired outcomes, tools to model excellence in others and to install those behaviours in yourself, and so the long list goes on. The interesting thing is that the NLP tools are very flexible and can be used in a number of different ways. NLP is being used in business, education and therapy all over the world and while it is not always referred to as NLP, many NLP techniques and practices are being adopted in mainstream business culture. Having the keys to the toolbox and knowing how to use the tools, empowers you in so many exciting ways. Time Line Therapy(TM) was developed in the 1980s by Dr Tad James, a Master NLP Trainer who has made many contributions to the advancement of NLP. Time Line TherapyTM was in part developed by using the modelling tools from NLP. As with NLP, Time Line Therapy(TM) techniques put you in touch with your unconscious mind and are an excellent form of therapy for quickly and effectively releasing negative emotions like anger, sadness, fear, hurt, guilt and grief and for eliminating limiting decisions like for example “I can’t make enough money”, “I’m not happy”, I can’t have a satisfying and loving relationship”, “I can’t be successful”. Time Line Therapy (TM) is an excellent therapy for healing and clearing the past – for getting rid of all the “baggage” that prevents you from having exactly the kind of life you want. Once you have cleared away the “baggage” of the past, Time Line Therapy(TM) also is used to create the future. Thousands of people all over the world now lead healthy, happy and fulfilling lives and are in charge of their future health, wealth and happiness as a result of either being trained in Time Line Therapy TM techniques or from breakthrough sessions that they have had with Time Line Therapy R Practitioners, Master Practitioners and Trainers.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Many world leaders and politicians notably former Prime Minister of Great Britain Tony Blair and former President of the United States Bill Clinton as well as the former President of the United States Barack Obama have all been trained in NLP techniques. Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey and Tiger Woods are also trained in NLP. In fact, you would be surprised to learn just how many notable people are trained in NLP.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Hypnosis Demystified Hypnosis has been around for thousands of years in various forms but it is only in the last century that we have come to understand how powerful it can be. Most people have a misperception that hypnosis is something to be scared of because it involves being controlled by someone against their will. This myth continues to be strengthened by television and movie writers because it creates great stories. The majority of people also think that hypnosis is what they see in stage shows where a hypnotist has people quacking like ducks and doing things they wouldn’t normally do. The belief is that the people on the stage are in fact doing these things against their will while they are in an altered state of awareness. The truth is that some people are highly suggestible and they like to play . The people you see up on stage are the same people that will race around doing crazy things either under the influence of alcohol or under the influence of just having fun at a party. The reality is that at the time they are completely aware of what they are doing and more than willing to play along even though they always deny it. Nobody can hypnotize you against your will, nor can they give you suggestions that will see you doing things that you wouldn’t normally do. For instance, if under hypnosis I was to give you a suggestion to go out and rob the local bank and you were a law-abiding citizen, there is no way that you would follow through on that suggestion. Even the legal system has caught up with that one. Being under the influence of hypnosis is not an excusable reason for committing a crime in any court of law.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Hypnosis is a naturally occurring state in all of us. Have you noticed how when you relax and watch television how easy it is to be lulled into sleep? You know how it goes. You relax into your chair and get engrossed in the story and the flickering of the screen gently lulls you into a relaxed state. Then a commercial break comes on and you think to yourself… “Ah I’ll just close my eyes while the “ads” are on” and you do. Now you do this for a couple of breaks and then you become even more relaxed and you say to yourself when you find your eyes are too heavy to open after the show starts again “Hmm I’ll just listen to the story with my eyes closed”.. Before long you wake up and you see different people in the story on the screen and you try in vain to piece the story together until you realize that an hour or more has gone by and you are now watching something completely different. What about when driving – have you ever got to your destination and had no recollection of the things that you passed along the journey? Have you ever read a book when you have become so completely absorbed in the story that you’ve forgotten to eat and hours have slipped by without you noticing it? Have you ever been so engrossed in what you were doing that you didn’t notice someone talking to you? What about when you were in school or university listening to your lecturers – remember how you kind of slid off into a dazed trance listening to them drone on? These are all examples of naturally occurring hypnosis. All hypnosis is in fact self hypnosis and you cannot be hypnotized unless you are willing to relax into this naturally occurring state.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Once you do relax into this state, it is possible to communicate with the unconscious mind at a very deep level. The Unconscious Mind is responsible for running the body and for storing our memories and emotions as well as our negative emotions and bringing those emotions to the surface to be dealt with. Letting go of negative emotions and beliefs at a deep level can bring about amazing transformation in your life. The Hypnosis, NLP and Time Line Therapy TM, toolboxes are the missing links to making the advice in the self-help books work for you. So often these books tell you what to do but fail to tell you how to do it and that is usually the critical information that people need to change their lives. Creating success in your life is part of the journey of life. Most of us create success in a random hit and miss fashion. But creating success is an energy that can be captured by understanding the process and acquiring a few basic tools.

Hypnosis Tools For Success The First Tool you need is the ability to relax deeply. You do this by taking several very deep breaths, in and out, and as you breathe in and out focus your attention on your breathing. Notice how when you close your eyes and breathe deeply how your head seems to move ever so slightly backwards and forwards as you breathe in and out. This is all you need to take yourself into a self induced hypnotic trance.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens The Second Tool you need applies when you are working with others to assist them into trance. The most essential tool for this is a hypnotic voice that has a deep, calming and soothing quality. When people listen to you speak they need to be lulled into a state of trance just by listening to your voice. Your voice needs to sound like liquid honey flowing off a spoon. Don’t be tempted to speak too softly because your hypnosis subject needs to be able to hear what you are saying. If you speak too softly, it will prevent your subject from relaxing because they will be straining to hear what you say instead of concentrating on going into a deep trance. Speaking softly is a mistake that many people who facilitate meditation sessions make. They tend to get so caught up in the idea that people have to go into trance that they forget that they are the ones that have to set the scene for the participants in the guided meditation session. Speaking in a sing song voice is also a mistake many guided meditation facilitators make. Speaking softly and in a sing song voice is almost a guarantee that people are not going to be able to go into a trance. Just speak in a deep calming voice but speak naturally and at a volume that people can follow without having to concentrate and engage their conscious mind. The Third Tool you need also applies when you are working with another person. You need to have an ability to understand the core of a problem and to create solutions that the unconscious mind can accept and react to. Now quite often the client will come to you with a problem that is not actually the problem. It is your job to ask questions to get to the core of the problem. The best question to ask them is “How is that a problem”. Eventually you will get to the highest level of the problem and in doing this you will be able to clear away all the problems that exist underneath. The trick is to keep going until you fully understand how the problem is a problem because there is no use hypnotizing someone and giving them suggestions for a problem that is not a problem.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Now you can also use this tool in self-hypnosis as well. Your unconscious mind is the most powerful tool you have for transformation. It knows everything about you including the stuff that you are denying to yourself at the conscious level. Therefore, you can ask your unconscious mind to lead you into trance and to resolve the issues at hand in a structured manner. You know that voice that you sometimes hear in your head? That is your unconscious mind feeding your information. So, once you set up the parameters of your self-hypnosis session simply listen to the voice in your head and follow instructions while you are in trance. It takes a little bit of practice but once you get the hand of it, it is a very powerful resource for you. The Fourth Tool is to be highly creative with words and inventive with the use of your voice to create moments of light and shade. Your client is taking a journey into their subconscious and you are their guide. Therefore, it is up to you to make the journey as pleasant and as effective as possible. If you find it difficult to come up with your own words to say them there are literally thousands of scripts that can be found on the internet and in books. But the most effective scripts come from what the client tells you about themselves and their life. Listen to what they tell you and then wave the magic.

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For instance, if they like the beach, take them on a journey walking along the beach, get them to focus on the feeling of the sand beneath their feet, the sound of the waves crashing on the shore, the shriek of a seagull overhead and the feeling of the warm sun on their face, maybe a gentle breeze blowing their hair in their face. Perhaps have them pick up a seashell and tell them that it holds a secret message that they will discover later. Always bring them to a door and have them open the door and take them deeper down into trance by taking them somewhere else. Maybe have them walk down a long staircase being more deeply relaxed with each step they take. You can have so much fun with designing the journey. The journey is about freeing them from their problems and at some point in the journey, you are going to give them some specific suggestions to let go of their issues and to take on something new and positive in their place. The more practice you have the better you will become at taking people into trace.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens The Fifth Tool you need is to be aware of the person you are working with so that you become aware of the moment that they begin to go into trance. You do this by: Watching their breathing and physiology. You will notice very easily when their breathing slows and their physiology becomes completely relaxed. You may notice that their pulse slows down; their face muscles relax and become more slack. Their eyes will remain closed no matter how hard they may try to open them. But the biggest indicator is the drool that slides down their chin the deeper they go into trance. They will also slump in their chair.

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Hypnosis is not a do to process and the person who is being hypnotized has to take responsibility for going into trance. For instance, if I was to say to you “close your eyes and relax the muscles around the eyes so that they are so relaxed that you can’t open the eyes.” Who would have to close the eyes? You of course…. Who would have to relax the muscles around the eyes? That’s Right it would be you. Who would have to keep the eyes closed? Of course, it would be you. So, part of the process of either performing hypnosis on another, or even self-hypnosis on yourself, is to ensure that you surrender to the process. By that I mean that the conscious mind surrenders to the process of communicating with the unconscious mind and doesn’t interfere with the process. Hypnosis is really fun and can open up so many possibilities for healing and for self empowerment. The only prerequisite is that you have the ability to follow instructions as they are given to you. I’ve had so many people tell me quite proudly that they can’t be hypnotized. What they are actually admitting to is an inability or willingness to follow instructions and I don’t know about you, but that is not something that I would be willing to admit to. I haven’t asked anyone to quack like a duck. But I have given them suggestions to quack like a chicken from planet Zorgon which was rather fun during a hypnosis stage show. It’s amazing just how creative and entertaining some people can become. If you haven’t experienced the wonderful relaxing feeling of being in a deep trance, then do yourself a huge favour and seek out a hypnotherapist or buy a hypnosis CD. There is truly nothing like it for rejuvenating yourself. Hypnosis is highly effective in letting go of addictions like smoking and alcohol but I’ve found it especially great for performance enhancement. Hypnosis can assist you to let go of your blockages and inhibitions and install confidence and success in their place.

Using Hypnosis to Create Success in Your Life


Hypnosis When Magic Happens It’s a journey that only you can take so why not explore your own possibilities by communicating with your own very special unconscious mind. Your unconscious mind is right there with you supporting you 24 hours a day 7 days a week. It knows everything about you and is the best place to go to when you need assistance to make changes in your life or to simply enhance your life. For most issues in your life, they can be resolved simply by going into a quiet trance and communicating with your unconscious mind. Simply ask the question what is it that I need to know in order to (blank....) the knowing of which will allow me to take action to make the changes that need to be made. Then you simply listen to what comes. That voice you hear in your head is your unconscious mind trying to get through to you. It always has your best interests at heart. Once you get used to working one on one with your unconscious mind in real time I promise you that life will be a lot less stressful. But you have to be prepared to take the advice it gives you to get off the proverbial prickle to take action to make changes in your life.

Using Hypnosis to Create Success in Your Life


Hypnosis When Magic Happens Opportunities to Connect With Your Unconscious Mind to Change Your Life One very exciting way to connect with your unconscious mind is to take a break from your everyday life – to break out of your comfort zone. We all live our lives within our comfort zone because it is comfortable – we know what to expect. But opportunities do not come to us from within our comfort zone. Opportunities come to us from the external world and usually when we least expect them. When we live comfortably in our comfort zone we aren’t looking for opportunities to change because there is no need. However, we are programmed to grow and expand our awareness which is why we eventually become dissatisfied with where we are in our comfort zone and why we eventually begin to look for alternatives to liven things up a little. Often changes happen when we are least expecting them and sometimes what is being presented is not at all to our liking. When this occurs, it is the unconscious mind responding to our deepest desires. Unlike the conscious mind, the Unconscious Mind does not differentiate between what you want and what you don’t want because the Unconscious Mind simply responds to your thoughts. Therefore, to ensure that you live the life you want you must be in tune with your Unconscious Mind. Now you could spend time with a hypnotherapist clearing up your “stuff”, or you could take a few trainings that are designed to open up avenues to changing your thinking and connecting you with your Unconscious Mind. But there is another way. Have you ever been on a holiday where without realising it until later that you had made some changes within yourself just by meeting people, exploring new locations and just having fun?

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens What if you could take a break away from your everyday life for say 16-18 days and take a holiday to an exotic destination. While you were on that holiday you would (in between exploring ancient sites, meeting people and having fun) you…. listen to some life changing lectures; work with an international executive success coach and hypnotherapist to clear away the blockages that are preventing you from having the life you want; learn about yourself at a deeper level and learn how to accent your strengths and overcome your weaknesses; learn how to create the life you want and create new goals in all areas of your life;

be totally immersed in powerful energy; be pampered in 5-star luxury accommodation with transportation and meals included……

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens If this idea appeals to you, then our Journey to Awakening Program is for you. Come and join us on one of our upcoming Journey of a Lifetime Retreats in Egypt. Egypt is an ancient land filled with mystery and magic. The energy of the ancients is still very much in evidence in the sites that are scattered throughout the country. Through our partners in Egypt we are able to gain private access to most of the sites we visit at times when they are closed to the public. This includes the Pyramids and the Sphinx Enclosure. While we are at these sites we tap into the vast river of energy of these sites to effect change within at a deep level. Can you imagine spending a couple of hours inside the chambers of the Great Pyramid of Giza and experiencing a powerful activation of the pyramid energy and a guided meditation/hypnotic induction designed to align your mind, body and spirit?

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens What about greeting a new day between the paws of the mighty Sphinx where you welcome the Sun and set new goals for your future? What about cruising the Nile River on a luxury cruise ship and visiting the ancient temples and as you do letting go of all your negative emotion and limiting decisions and beliefs? What about exploring the temples and tombs and mixing with local Egyptian people? What about having fun with like-minded new friends?

You can do it all on the Journey of a Lifetime Retreat Tour of Egypt. To find out how you too can be a part of this life changing experience go to our website page www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/retreat-tours-of-egypt and follow the links to book your place.

About the Author Rhonnda Fritz Using Hypnosis to Create Success in Your Life


Hypnosis When Magic Happens “Hypnosis is a very powerful tool that allows you to connect with your unconscious mind at a very deep level. I have assisted hundreds of clients over the past 20 years to live healthy, happy and successful lives using very powerful hypnosis tools. I have also trained and certified many students who are now using hypnosis to make a difference in their client’s lives.

The realm of the unconscious mind is mysterious to us and unfortunately we are not taught how to communicate with this extremely important and powerful part of our being. Hypnosis teaches us to communicate with the unconscious mind and in so doing empowers us to create success in every area of our life because once you live your life in tune with your unconscious mind, magic begins to happen. When magic happens, our life becomes transformed and for me that is truly exciting….”

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Hypnosis When Magic Happens Rhonnda Fritz is a modern-day Muse who, for over twenty years, has been totally dedicated to transforming and empowering people to discover and celebrate their inner magnificence. She is an exciting, charismatic, transformational trainer in the dynamic field of accelerated human change and development. She has inspired many to increase their productivity and income, enhance their career prospects, be more successful communicators, set and achieve their desired goals, improve their health and fitness, and has helped many to overcome personal emotional blockages and limiting decisions that prevent them from living the kind of life they want. Rhonnda is a highly sought after Business and Personal Success Coach, Trainer, Professional Speaker, Writer and Astrologer who has the philosophy that all people have an inner desire to be the best they can possibly be and that they create what they want in life as they go along. Unfortunately, what they want is not always what they get, so Rhonnda teaches them how to read the signposts of life and to create exactly what they want in their life. Rhonnda also runs an exclusive luxury Retreat Tour through Egypt each year for small groups of people looking to not only explore Egypt but to also revitalise and make changes within themselves. Guests have exclusive private visits to many of the sites when they are closed to other tourists which allows them t experience the powerful energy that still flows through the sites of Egypt even after thousands of years. Rhonnda also works with other personal development trainers and spiritual leaders facilitating and arranging retreats in Egypt for their groups. She is always open to working with new trainers and leaders who want to take advantage of the powerful transformative energy that Egypt provides so contact her to discuss your vision and she will be able to bring it to fruition for you. Check out her website, book a session with her, enrol in an upcoming workshop or training or make a booking for the next Journey of a Lifetime Retreat Tour of Egypt and discover a doorway to a new you.

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Further Reading www.thecoachingmuse.com.au www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/sunshine-coast-hypnotherapy-sessions. www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/retreat-tours-of-egypt www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/life-coaching-for-success www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/astrological-coaching www.thecoachingmuse.com.au/what-is-your-idea-of-success

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