The Paraclete

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The little paper that feeds on prayer

The

Vol. 6, No. 2 Issue

PARACLETE Parish of the Holy Spirit, BF Homes, Quezon City

April 2013

Love and Chastity Forum

By Angeli Francis S. Rivera

“BY THE GRACE of God, I will live pure.” Hollow? Rhetoric? No. These words are pure commitment. These passed from the mouth of the dedicated youth missionaries of the Live Pure Movement to the youth-participants from the Holy Spirit Parish. For that reason, the Love and Chastity Forum by the Live Pure Movement last February 23, 2013 was not your ordinary fly-byday seminar or part of ancient history, but a landmark in one’s life. The said activity was initiated by parish volunteers Enric Estrada and Dante Reyes. The youth missionaries included EJ Aguila, Rene Eguico, DR Arellano, Bea de Leon, Stephanie Salcedo, Jonathan Chiochico and Ben Leonin. What is the Live Pure Movement? Launched August 2010 by the Couples for Christ Foundation, the Live Pure Movement is a Catholic, pro-life movement that leads and forms young people to a life of Chastity. Chastity, according to Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) is a virtue that orders or shapes the human powers of sexuality towards personalization. Since Chastity is a virtue, it has to be a “habit” and a “disposition.” That is why the Live Pure Movement attests that

they are not just a passing advocacy, but aim to help and form young people to strive for purity of the mind, eyes and body. Their vision-mission is to make young people realize and live out the value of human dignity, relationships, waiting and love through Jesus Christ. The forum took place on a whole day and was divided into two—chastity in the morning and love in the afternoon. The Chastity Forum (9-12 NN) Contemporary songs were entertainingly sung at first and then followed by an introduction to the Live Pure Movement by youthmissionary EJ Aguila. The forum’s strong points include the following: a. It is normal to love because we are designed that way. We are created out of love to love and be loved. BUT, we have to bring back the real meaning of love. And the real meaning of love can be found only in Jesus Christ—the Way, the Truth and the Life. b. In Genesis 1:27, the human is created in the image and likeness of God. The human is God’s masterpiece; given freedom to decide and intellect to practice Chastity (self-control) in the body and mind. This is where the dignity of the human person is founded. c. In Genesis 1:28, it was said that man was given a companion fit for him. This

was interpreted to love one another as equals. Men and women were created differently to complement each other (man’s nature = to work; woman = to take care). However, the argument is to be taken objectively and should not be intended to stigmatize or “genderize”. d. Sex is sacred and holy (glorifies God) and given to couples married in the Church. It preserves the inseparability between the procreative (life-giving) and the unitive (lovegiving) dimensions of human sexuality. Love entails commitment, fulfills the will of God and is graced by the Sacrament of Matrimony. No to safe sex, yes to saved sex or saving purity. e. Chastity is self-control. The opposite is the sin of lust, which is equal to degrading a human person to an object of sexual satisfaction. Sexual faults (pornography, premarital sex, etc.) vary in degree of bringing disorder to the personality and character of the person. *Author’s note: sexual faults are to be evaluated with how much the person is involved. f. Live Pure advocate Chris Tiu tells: love and sacrifice builds strength and character. It requires humility (correction) and real freedom. Developing a healthy lifestyle involves receiving sacraments and channeling of energies to productive and helpful activities. Continued on page 3 ....

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