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Tis the season to be merry, or so they say! For busy parents already juggling work, school, and a household, the thought of probably the biggest event of the year on the children’s calendar only weeks away can be overwhelming, especially when trying to squeeze in school plays, Christmas fairs, carol services, Christmas social events and Christmas shopping. To help with some of the planning this Christmas we have plenty of events listed in this issue and some great gift ideas too. Remember to take time for yourself this Christmas we deserve a break at Christmas too!
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Countdown to Christmas in style with the Advent luxe biscuit tin from Biscuiteers, filled with 24 Christmas biscuits individually iced by artists. Behind the doors of this festive tin, you’ll find a whole collection of festive friends including reindeers, bunnies and owls along with trees, snowflakes and presents! We think they’re best served with a mug of hot cocoa as you snuggle up indoors and count down the days until Christmas finally arrives. Why not make it even more exciting by popping them in the limited edition Emma Bridgewater x Biscuiteers advent calendar. Biscuit tin £65, Advent calendar £68.00 www.biscuiteers.com
All children love to receive a letter addressed to them in the post. And what could be more special than a letter from Santa? Here are two ways to make this happen.
For children to receive a FREE letter from Santa via the Royal Mail children must post their letter to Santa by 30 November. Envelopes must have either a first or second class stamp and be addressed to Santa/ Father Christmas, Santa’s Grotto, Reindeerland, XM4 5HQ. The letter must include your child’s full name and address. More info at www.royalmail. com/christmas/letters-to-santa
Children can also receive a personalised reply from Santa via his elves at the NSPCC in exchange for a donation to the charity. The letter is ordered online and must be placed by 15 December. letterfromsanta.nspcc.org.uk
When the urge to bake hits and you’re tight on time, space and ingredients, Doughlicious has the answer with Ready-to-Bake Cookie Dough (RRP £3.50 per box of six cookies). Crispy on the outside, gooey on the inside, these Great Taste Award winning, gluten free certified delights are packed with the finest natural ingredients and deliver a gourmet snacking experience in minutes – no mixing bowls, no washing up – just pop in the oven and go! Doughlicious cookies bake to perfection with pre-portioned dough, maximising convenience while minimising food waste.
Choose from classics like Chocolate Chip and Organic Chunky Oat, opt for rich Salted Caramel & Dark Chocolate or decadent Matcha & White Chocolate, or try the newest in the range, Blondie Cookie Dough. Pop the oven on and let the freshbaked cookie aroma fill your kitchen! Bake the whole pack to share or have a super convenient solo snack. Find in the fridge or freezer aisle of your grocery store - stockists include Tesco, Waitrose, Morrisons, Whole Foods Market, Costco, Ocado and Zapp. With vegan options as well, no one has to miss out. www.doughlicious.co.uk
Dozens of famous faces across the worlds of TV, film, radio, comedy, music and sport are urging the nation to swap, buy second-hand or re-wear a pre-loved jumper as they launch Save the Children’s annual festive fundraiser, Christmas Jumper Day.
All of the stars pulled on pre-loved festive knits to encourage the public to join in the UK’s biggest Christmas party in an eco-conscious way and donate to Save the Children this Thursday 12th December. Since launching in 2012, Christmas Jumper Day has raised over £37 million to create lasting change for generations of children. The money raised supports children in the UK and around the world to stay safe, healthy and learning. ChristmasJumperDay.
A quarter of pupils use ChatGTP and other AI tools to help with their schooling according to recent research from the online safety group, Internet Matters. The research was based on a survey of two thousand parents of children ages 4-17 and one thousand children ages 9-17.
The study showed that of those using AI more than half of pupils are using the tools to complete teacher assignments or homework. However, the research also found that sixty percent of schools have not spoken to pupils about the appropriate use of AI.
Experts say neither educators nor the government has kept up with the exponential increase in the use of AI technology among pupils. They are calling for new guidance so that pupils are operating on a ‘level playing field.’ www.internetmatters.org
If you’re looking for a fun day out, you won’t find a more perfect venue than The Light Banbury! Whether you’re craving delicious food, watching an amazing movie, enjoying time with friends, bowling, climbing, or playing in the arcade, they have something for everyone. The Light provides the ultimate entertainment experience for all ages!
They have a season of festive film favourites that will make your holidays even merrier - from magical new releases WICKED and MOANA 2, to special PJ party screenings of POLAR EXPRESS (with chocolate treats and golden tickets for the kids), Toddler special screenings of THE SNOWMAN - there’s no better way to get the family in the Christmas spirit. Check out their full line-up at thelight.co.uk.
Or alternatively, have some fun in the bowl or climbing arena and let the kids blow off some steam; perfect if you want to keep the kids active and great for parties.
The Light love events and run everything from fun quizzes, kids’ crafting sessions to film themed events, which are sure to delight. For full details, see their What’s On page at banbury.thelight.co.uk/whatson
Anti-Bullying Week runs from 11 to 15 November this year, with the theme ‘Choose Respect.’
The Anti-Bullying Alliance chose this theme following consultation with teachers and pupils who wanted a theme that empowered them to do something positive to counter the harm and hurt caused by bullying.
The week will kick off with Odd Socks Day on Tuesday 12 November, during which adults and children wear odd socks to celebrate our uniqueness.
Following the success of the campaign in 2023, when eighty percent of schools marked the week, therefore reaching over 7.5 million children and young people, Anti-Bullying Week reminds everyone that we can bring an end to bullying. www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk
Question: Please can I have some help about how to get back on track after illness with my little one
Answer: Not sleeping through the night after an illness is typically a temporary phase. There might be some separation anxiety, so a bit of nighttime support could be needed. However, if they were sleeping through the night before the illness, they will likely resume that pattern soon.
Question: My 12 month old baby goes to bed at 7pm, how do I stop her from wanting a bottle at 5am every morning.
Answer:You’ll need to ensure it's not genuine hunger. Try reducing the amount you offer by 1 ounce every other day.
Question: Will sleep training damage my bond with my child?
Answer: Helping your child develop and maintain healthy sleep habits in a loving and mindful manner is a wonderful way to strengthen your bond. Regardless of the sleep training method you choose, I always encourage parents to use the pre-bedtime routine to snuggle and enjoy their baby, including feeding or rocking—just not all the way to sleep.
It's normal for children to resist changes to established routines; some fussing or crying is often (though not always) part of the sleep training process. In my customised sleep plans, I provide various strategies to minimise tears, ensuring parents can make changes without stepping too far outside their comfort zones.
Join the Baby and Child Sleep Masterclass, an online event held twice a month to help families with expert sleep advice. Upcoming dates include 4th November, 22nd November, 2nd December, and 20th December. Each session costs £25 per family and provides valuable guidance on improving your child's sleep.
To book your spot, visit www.melaniehastings.sleepnanny.co.uk.
You may have heard that music is good for your child’s brain, but can it really make that much of a difference? The short answer is yes. There are good reasons to introduce your child to music early—and it may be easier than you think
WHAT THE RESEARCH SAYS ABOUT HOW MUSIC AFFECTS BRAIN DEVELOPMENT:
Early exposure to music has been shown to improve many school readiness skills like math, language, and executive function. HERE’S WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT HOW MUSIC CAN BENEFIT YOUR CHILD’S BRAIN:
There’s an early and important connection between maths and music. Research suggests that babies and toddlers may be innately capable of seeing and hearing patterns. Even newborns begin to notice patterns as they are soothed with steady rocking, patting, and singing beats. This early link can impact future learning—simply listening to music with a steady tempo may increase young children’s attention to a maths activity. Interacting with music can build reasoning skills. Spatial-temporal reasoning is a form of problem solving that involves using our minds to imagine, visualize, and mentally manipulate objects. Young children use this reasoning when they build block towers or work their first puzzles. It’s a set of skills that are necessary in all sorts of occupations, from
painting and graphic design to engineering and urban planning. Studies show that playing music can boost these skills, as your child learns to translate abstract ideas—like notes on a sheet of music—into sounds, rhythms, and songs.
Engaging with music may help preschoolers think before they act. Following directions is a big part of music—your child learns to start and stop, play loudly or quietly, and make the
right sound by hitting this note and not that one. This musical play can help strengthen your child’s inhibition—an executive function that includes skills like impulse control and emotional regulation. Research shows that young children who learn to play an instrument may develop these skills faster. Children who play musical instruments at a young age can show improved language skills. There might be a reason that we use the word “reading” to describe how a child engages with books and music. The two skills are closely aligned: both require us to understand how symbols can be combined to make something new, like stories or songs. Studies suggest that engaging with rhyme and music at an early age may be linked with increased vocabulary and reading ability. Music gets children moving. Research finds that babies and young children tend to engage in more movement in response to music than to plain speech. Music gives them a chance to practice both gross motor control and proprioception, the understanding of where their body is in space. Learning to play an instrument at a young age can boost your child’s fine motor skills as well.
Taken from the lovevery blog www.lovevery.co.uk
WHEN: Nov & Dec
WHERE: Fairytale Farm
Fairytale Farm is a family-friendly attraction dedicated to creating magical experiences for visitors of all ages. Enjoy enchanting tales, interactive exhibits, sensory experiences, adventure play and friendly farm animals. You might even meet a few dinosaurs! www.fairytalefarm.co.uk
WHEN: Nov & Dec
WHERE: Didcot Railway Centre
Explore this 21-acre living museum at your leisure and unearth almost two centuries of railway history. With no trains running, you can get up close to the exhibits and travel back in time to the golden age of the Great Western Railway. www.didcotrailway.org.uk
WHEN: 9 Nov
WHERE: Science Oxford Centre
Explore the science behind light and colour! Make a test tube rainbow, create new colours with pen chromatography, use filters to mix light and shadow. Find out how fireworks use colour to paint stories, and see sparkling flame demos. Ages 5-9. www.scienceoxford.com/ whats-on
WHEN: 10 Nov
WHERE: Waterperry Gardens
Because dogs are a part of your family, for just one day this year, they’ll be allowed into the formal gardens to see what they’re missing. 10% of garden entries for the day will go to the Oxford Animal Sanctuary. www.waterperrygardens.co.uk/ whats-on
WHEN: 10 Nov
WHERE: Pegasus Theatre
A tale of hope and opportunity, told under the awesome shimmer of the northern lights. In this wintry new show, you’ll be carried away by the magic of an epic arctic adventure. Made for 5+ but suitable for all.
Madder Valley Railway
WHEN: 16 Nov
WHERE: Pendon Museum
Come and see John Ahern’s pioneering historical Madder Valley model railway in operation. It only runs a few times a year so this is an event not to be missed! No booking necessary, standard entry fees apply.
www.pendonmuseum.com/ events
Science Club:
Weird Materials
WHEN: 16 Nov
www.pegasustheatre.org.uk/ show-listing
Find the Light
WHEN: 16 Nov
WHERE: Pegasus Theatre
Journey with your guides Flick and Natty from Whatnot Theatre on this walking tour for the whole family as part of Pegasus’ Light Festival 2024. Battle icy blizzards, ferocious Polar Bears, collapsing icebergs, and deadliest of them all...the angry Penguin! www.pegasustheatre.org.uk/ show-listing
WHERE: Yang Science Centre, Abingdon
Predict what happens when you add water to mystery powders, and make fake snow, pop rocks and slime! Test your strength against unrippable paper, and discover what amazing material stays dry underwater. Make a cool UV bracelet to take home.
Ages 5-9.
www.scienceoxford.com/ whats-on
Shadow Magic
WHEN: 16 Nov
WHERE: Pegasus Theatre
Make your own ‘naughty’ shadow puppet elf and have a go at performing with your cheeky creation. Hear a sneak preview from this year’s Christmas show, The Elves and the Shoemaker. Adults, please stay and join the fun. Ages 3+
www.pegasustheatre.org.uk/ show-listing
Little Foresters Forest School
WHEN: 21 Nov & 5 Dec, 9.00am-10.15am
WHERE: Summer Fields School Forest School sparks imaginations, builds confidence, and creates lasting memories.
Parents join in the fun as their children explore the same space with ever-changing stories. Sessions run in all weather, so dress appropriately. Ages 2-4. FREE but booking essential.
www.summefields.com/little-foresters
Sleeping Beauty
WHEN: 22 Nov-5 Jan
WHERE: Oxford Playhouse
Don’t miss Oxford Playhouse’s enchanting pantomime, Sleeping Beauty! Experience a magical tale filled with laughter, music, and dazzling performances - perfect for the whole family this festive season. Ages 5 and up. Free lap tickets available for babies under 18 months.
www.oxfordplayhouse.com/ events/sleeping-beauty
Christmas Market at Waterperry Gardens
WHEN: 23-24 Nov & 7-8 Dec
WHERE: Waterperry Gardens
Arts and crafts stalls with handmade gift ideas, festive food and drink, fun events for children, and Christmas shopping in the Gallery, Gift Barn and Christmas Shop. Wrap up warm and come and have a browse at what’s on offer! Adults £11.50 Under 16s FREE
www.waterperrygardens.co.uk/ whats-on
WHEN: 23 Nov
WHERE: Science Oxford Centre
Woodlice are amazing, find out why! Make a LEGO woodlice maze and collect materials in the woodland for scientific experiments to test their decision making. Play the woodlouse game, and make a paper curl up crustacean to take home. Ages 5-9.
www.scienceoxford.com/ whats-on
Find Santa’s Reindeer
WHEN: 23 Nov-24 Dec
WHERE: Waterperry Gardens
Help Rudolph find his friends who are lost all around the gardens and receive a special prize! Open daily, no pre-booking required. Adults £11.50 Children £3.95 www.waterperrygardens. co.uk/whats-on
WHEN: 23-24 Nov
11.30am-2.30pm
WHERE: Waterperry Gardens
For one weekend only, you’ll have the opportunity to meet real live reindeer! Get up close, take photos and even feed these beautiful creatures as knowledgeable handlers tell you all about them.
Adults £11.50 Under 16s FREE www.waterperrygardens.co.uk/ whats-on
Christmas Stay and Play for boys
WHEN: 28 November 9.30am-10.30am
WHERE: Summer Fields School
Bring boys under 4 for an exciting Christmas themed session at Summer Fields. Enjoy a funfilled hour of exploration, play, and making new friends while experiencing our welcoming environment first-hand. FREE but booking essential. www.summerfields.com/ preprep/admissions
WHEN: 29 Nov
WHERE: Earth Trust Centre
Explore the incredible dark skies above Wittenham Clumps and take in the wonders of the universe, at a stargazing event led by the friendly team of astronomers from Newbury Astronomical Society. £10.22, including a hot drink. Under 5s FREE.
www.earthtrust.org.uk/events/ stargazing
Cogges Christmas Market
WHEN: 30 Nov-1 Dec
WHERE: Cogges Manor Farm
Start the sparkly season at Cogges with two barns and a farmyard full of beautiful artisan crafts, gifts and homewares. Not forgetting Christmas trees and handmade wreaths. Music, mince pies, mulled wine with lashings of festive shopping and cheer!
Adults £3. Children £1. Under 3s FREE www.cogges.org.uk/Event/ cogges-christmas-market
WHEN: 11-24 Dec WHERE: Pegasus Theatre
There’s footwear trouble in fairytale land! Billy Goat Gruff needs to quietly ‘sneaker’ about, the Gingerbread Man wants crumbfree ‘loafers’ and Cinderella won’t be the Dancing Queen with slippery ‘slip-ons’. Can the Shoemaker help them ‘heel’ their problems? Ages 2-8. www.pegasustheatre.org.uk/show-listing
WHEN: 7-8 Dec
WHERE: Pendon Museum
A special running weekend and exhibition charting the evolution of railway services from 1930 to the present day in celebration of Pendon Museum’s 70th anniversary. Several trains not usually seen at Pendon will run on the Sea Wall scene.
www.pendonmuseum.com/ events
Science Club: Digestion Detectives
WHEN: 7 Dec
WHERE: Yang Science Centre, Abingdon
Follow the amazing journey of food through your body! Make a model of the human digestive system, and feed it biscuits and bananas to see (and feel) how each step works. Create an anatomy apron to take home. Ages 5-9.
www.scienceoxford.com/ whats-on
HURRY UP FATHER CHRISTMAS!
WHEN: 4-29 December
WHERE: Burton Taylor Studio
Introduce your little ones to the magic of theatre! Head to the North Pole for an interactive Christmas adventure filled with stories, songs, and fun for ages 3 to 6. Adults from £16 Children from £12 www.oxfordplayhouse. com/events/hurry-up-fatherchristmas
Event cinema: The Nutcracker
WHEN: 17 Dec & 22 Dec
WHERE: The Light Banbury
Discover the enchantment of ballet from the best seat in the house with this festive screening for the whole family. The Royal Ballet’s performance of this Christmas classic combines the thrill of the fairytale with spectacular dancing.
www.banbury.thelight.co.uk/ eventcinema
New Year’s Eve Family Fun Day
WHEN: 31 Dec
WHERE: The Light Banbury
Enjoy a special New Year’s Eve Family Fun Day 10.00am-4.00pm with lots of fun and games for everyone. And for the grown ups...dance the night away from 7.00pm at a Glitter Ball Party with DJ, photo ops, plus food and drink offers.
www.banbury.thelight.co.uk/ whatson
Wednesday 11 - Tuesday 24 December 2024 Pegasus Theatre, Magdalen Road, OX4 1RE
Tickets £9/£12 01865 812 150 boxoffice@pegasustheatre.org.uk
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Santa’s Grotto, children’s crafts & evening Light Trail at Cogges this Christmas. Make magical memories and visit Christmas at Cogges and Santa’s Grotto, running at weekends and selected dates 6-23 December.
Enjoy the most wonderful time of the year, and meet Father Christmas and his elves in Santa’s Grotto, with story time and a gift for every child. As dusk approaches, visit for the ‘Later’ session where the Festive Light Trail brings magic to the grounds, and some surprises! With lashings of festive cheer, mulled wine and seasonal treats, Christmas starts here.
Opens 6th December www.cogges.org.uk/Event/christmascogges
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The sleigh is loaded. The elves are ready. But Father Christmas can’t find his keys. Or his glasses. Or his boots... and now he’s making a flask of tea! Hurry Up, Father Christmas! It’s Christmas Eve and it’s time to go!
From the creative team that brought you last year’s production Dear Father Christmas comes this interactive show for children aged 3 to 6 years.
Join Santa at the North Pole for stories, songs, activities, and adventures and help get the sleigh on its way. Opens 4th December
www.oxfordplayhouse.com/events/hurryup-father-christmas
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A Christmas Carol, where the magic of the Christmas season comes alive.
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Fairytale Farm owner, Nick Laister, explains: “This year, visitors to our Christmas Fairytale event can immerse themselves in the timeless charm of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol as we recreate the bustling streets of Victorian London. All the favourite experiences from previous years, such as our cosy Grotto, the enchanting Fairytale Castle walk-through, and our dazzling Christmas illuminations, will return. But this year we have new additions like Tom’s Toy Shop and the heart-warming magic of a Dickensian Christmas.”
The adventure begins with a special passport that guides you through the magic of Christmas across different lands and eras: Walk through a fairy tale castle, meet the dancing penguins, visit the Toymaker in his cosy log cabin, Collect a gift from Tom’s Toy Shop, meet Father Christmas in his charming Grotto and so much more.
Open 23rd November. www.christmasfairytale.co.uk
Didcot Railway
There has been a disaster, Santa’s reindeer have all escaped and are lost - he needs them to deliver all the presents on Christmas Eve and Didcot Railway need your help.
Can you help him find them? Explore the unique collection of Great Western Railway steam locomotives, carriages, wagons, buildings and small artefacts at the 21 acre museum set around the original 1932 engine shed whilst you locate all of the reindeer stations.
Each child will receive a special passport and a stocking as you enter and as a reward, at each reindeer station, you’ll receive a small gift. Your visit will culminate with a visit to Santa in the giant toy workshop where he’ll hear what you want to get for Christmas. Your entry ticket will also include unlimited train rides on the main demonstration line.
Opens 30th November didcotrailwaycentre.org.uk/
Our girls face a plethora of pressures in this modern world. According to the New York Times, by the age of six, young girls are less likely to view their own gender as ‘brilliant’. The journal Science reported that six-year-old girls start to believe specific activities are ‘not for them’, simply because they think they’re not smart enough. Furthermore, there is increasing concern about rising levels of unhappiness in girls, which is why it is crucial that we take time to have conversations with our girls and guide them to becoming their best selves. Building selfesteem and resilience in our girls is key to helping them to navigate their relationships, schoolwork and beyond.
Our girls go through several changes and challenges, and so I used my own platform to share seven empowering conversations in my book, Rise of the Girl, after having a daughter of my own, who is now fifteen. The global rise of girls and young women expressing thoughts of “am I good enough” can risk our daughters’ motivation and ability to use curiosity to dream big. In my book, Rise of the Girl, I discuss through seven conversations around why it is so important for girls to put their hand up from a young age. To dare to be different, dare to dream, dare to make mistakes and dare to be curious. Anxiety is the thief of dreams, of contentment and of resilience.
MANAGING PEER PRESSURE
Many experience friendship difficulties or feel under pressure to follow what their friends are doing. Not only is it important for girls to follow their own path, but it is also crucial that we explain to our girls the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships. Spark a conversation on what to do when people act negatively. For example, encourage girls to ask themselves, ‘do I feel good about myself when I’m with this person?’ We need to empower our girls to respect their own self-worth. If your child is happy with who she is, her choices and her values, she is less likely to be influenced by others.
EMBRACE HER STRENGTHS
It’s okay to not be good at everything, and it’s possible to learn and improve over time. The first step is to encourage girls to start embracing their strengths and to identify them. This involves reflecting on skills, talents, and accomplishments. She can make a list of her strengths and revisit it often to remind herself of what she does well. Refer to the list anytime they are feeling doubts about themselves. The power of positivity will go a long way in supporting our girls on their road to success. Whatever success looks like for them. The sky’s the limit.
Claire Shipman, co-author of the Confidence Code said: “If your daughter is always wanting to be comfortable, she’s not in the right place.” We don’t thrive in comfort zones, and taking the first step can be a great start towards building their self-confidence. Everything starts with a willingness to try, without being afraid of failure. We have learnt that sometimes experiences have their worth. We learn so much through our setbacks and after all, if we had never failed, how would we learn to be resilient?
It takes courage to stand up for what you believe in, at any age. With the right role models around them, our girls can learn how to grow and nurture their own self-confidence. Learning how to say yes to things; and how to say no. In equal measures, our girls need to learn how to stand up for themselves and to stand up for other people. We need to teach them to walk into a room without having to compare themselves
with anyone else. Great role models can teach her the value of good friendships, of kindness and of patience.
Teach her how to manage self-doubt, help her to find her voice, strengthen her self-confidence and find the things that she loves. Raising a girl is not easy but I believe we can achieve it with the right support. Small steps and milestones through their life with your guidance will, in turn, create a resilient, confident girl.
TURNING PASSIONS INTO POSSIBILITIES
Does your daughter dream of becoming a doctor, vet, racing driver, entrepreneur or a rugby player? When it comes to finding our girls’ passions, we can start small but think big.
In celebrating her passions, we can teach her the value of personal mastery and working towards her personal best. Whatever our girls’ ambitions may be, it is our role to actively encourage and nurture their passions. Remember, it’s never too late to get started. Encourage your girl to try new things, lots of things, and watch her eyes open to a world of possibilities. Praise her efforts, not her results. Show our girls that they should strive for excellence, rather than perfection.
Rise of the Girl: Seven Empowering Conversations to Have With Your Daughter by Jo Wimble-Groves is out now (DK, £14.99). Available in the UK, US and Australia. Also, on Kindle and Audible.
Jo is the co-owner of UK technology firm Active Digital. www.activedigital.co.uk
Fairytale Farm is excited to welcome families to their Learning Hub at the farm, which launched in September earlier this year. With home schooling on the rise and new government data revealing a sharp rise in children being home educated, with more than 126,000 children being taught at home in 2022-23, an increase of 60% since 2018-19 this support for families and carers couldn’t come at a better time.
The Hub, led by qualified teachers and experts, will be offering creative and fun learning experiences for young people of all ages. The provision includes a preschoolers group and a varied program for homeeducated children to access during term time.
The workshops and groups include an array of subjects such as: art, creative writing, storytelling, drama, outdoor learning, animal care, design and construction, all with a focus on learning through nature.
They also offer after-school clubs for primary aged children, plus mindfulness groups for young people up to aged 16.
BUDDING PERFORMERS
Does your child have a love of performing? Or perhaps you are looking for ways to support their social skills and self confidence? Budding Performers is a relaxed group, led by a trained actor and Primary School Teacher, Natalie. She will guide the children through fun games and exercises which help develop their teamwork
and performance skills in dancing, drama and singing.
Ages 7-11 Tuesdays 4:00-4:45pm
Ages 4-7 Wednesdays 4:00-4:45pm
BUDDING ARTISTS
We all know there are many incredible benefits achieved from time immersed in creativity. If your child has a flair for creating, designing and letting their imagination run wild, Budding Artists is a great way to put their hands to new skills. This group explores different media from drawing and watercolour to simple pottery or constructing things out of wood. The activities will be open ended so accessible for all and where possible, will use recycled or sustainable resources. Occasionally experts will be invited along to teach the children specific skills, plus learning lots about how things are made at Fairytale Farm – from the eco brick building to the giant model dinosaurs in Dino Valley!
Ages 7-11 Tuesdays 11:30-12:30pm, Ages 4-7 Wednesdays 11:30-12:30pm
OUTDOOR LEARNING CLUB
Nature is the very best playground and play is the very best way to learn. With this in mind the Outdoor Learning Club offers opportunities for observation, to learn about nature, and record and reflect on their findings. The class combines literacy, speaking and listening skills with other learning opportunities such as working closely with the
animals on the farm and with the natural world. Each session will provide a balance of hands on experiences, time to write individually or as a group and lots of chances to share thoughts and ideas. Using the fabulous creative writing and storytelling resources from The Phive to support writers and help spark their imaginations.
Ages 7-11 Tuesdays 1:30-3:00pm, Ages 4-7 Wednesdays 1:30-3:00pm
MINDFULNESS FOR TEENS
A group for 11-16 year olds to explore their identity further in a safe space. Creative tools such as collage, paint, clay, sand and imagery will be used to express feelings. There will also be Nature walks and time with the animals. The aim is for the Young People to gain a stronger sense of themselves and the others in a group and grow in connection to each other and their environment.
Led by Psychotherapeutic Counsellor Clare Bay who has 20 years experience working with adolescents.
Ages 11-16 Tuesdays 1:30-3:00pm
Visit the Learning Hub Page to book your child’s place on either the Key Stage 1 or Key Stage 2 sessions. Spaces are very limited and don’t forget to mention Families when booking.
I WANT FOR
Stockists
1. Music Set £135 www.lovevery.co.uk
2. Rainbow £19.99 www.thepuppetcompany.com
3. Jester Dress Up £45.00 www.avery-row.com
4. Trike £149 www.banwood.co.uk
5. Skateboard £80 www.banwood.co.uk
6. The Little Dutch Kitchen £120 www.scandiborn.co.uk
7. Circus Tent £64.90 www.olliella.com
8. Lilliputiens My First farm £49.99 www.johnlewis.com
9. Dinkum Dog Goldie £44.90 www.olliella.com
10. Flower Fairy Dress Up £45.00 www.avery-row.com
Family
Exploration
In today’s fast-paced world, flexibility in learning has become essential, especially when it comes to crucial subjects like maths. Families in Oxford seeking topquality maths tutoring will be delighted to discover Mathnasium@home—an innovative online program from Mathnasium that brings the same proven method for mastering mathematics right to your doorstep. With Mathnasium@home, students can now enjoy the benefits of Mathnasium’s world-renowned teaching techniques without ever having to leave their homes.
Mathnasium’s success is built on the Mathnasium Method, a unique teaching approach that targets each child’s specific learning needs. This method has helped thousands of students improve their maths skills, build confidence, and develop a love for the subject. Whether your child needs to catch up, keep up, or get ahead, Mathnasium’s expert instructors deliver tailored lessons in a way that’s engaging and easy to understand. Mathnasium@home brings this method to life in an online format that mirrors the in-centre experience. Students still work directly with instructors in real time, receiving the same personalised attention and support. Through live, face-to-face instruction and a fully interactive digital whiteboard, they work
through problems and tackle new concepts, all while receiving immediate feedback and guidance.
The biggest advantage of Mathnasium@ home is flexibility. Parents can easily schedule sessions that fit their family’s routine, eliminating the need for travel. Students can log in from anywhere, whether at home or on the go, making it easier than ever to stay consistent with their learning.
Additionally, for families who want the best of both worlds, Mathnasium North Oxford offers a hybrid learning mode. This allows students to combine in-centre sessions with Mathnasium@home lessons. You can choose on a day-to-day basis whether to come into the centre or have your child join online— whatever works best for your schedule. This seamless combination ensures continuity and consistent progress, no matter where your child is. Students benefit from the familiarity of in-centre interactions while enjoying the convenience of online learning. This flexibility gives students control over their learning environment, which can help them feel more at ease and focused, especially when juggling busy extracurricular activities or family commitments.
Mathnasium@home and the hybrid option are perfect for families seeking to balance
convenience with quality education. Whether learning happens at home or in the centre, students will receive the same dedicated instruction, personalised learning plans, and measurable results that Mathnasium is known for.
Parents and students in Oxford who have chosen Mathnasium@home are already seeing fantastic results. “Mathnasium@home has been a game changer for us,” shares one parent. “My child is more confident in maths than ever before, and the ability to schedule sessions around our busy lifestyle has been a huge relief.”
Another family, who uses the hybrid mode, loves the flexibility it provides. “We like the option of coming into the centre when it suits us, but being able to do sessions from home means we never miss a beat. The continuity has really helped my son stay on top of his maths studies.”
To learn more about Mathnasium@home and the hybrid model, or to schedule a free assessment, contact Mathnasium of North Oxford today. Give your child the tools they need to excel in maths and watch their confidence grow—right from the comfort of your home or in the heart of our centre! Tel: 01865 236886
Email: northoxford@mathnasium.co.uk
What’s On
Things to do this Winter - drama, music & sport something for everyone in
Family Days at the Science Oxford Centre
WHEN: Saturdays
10.00am-4.00pm
WHERE: Science Oxford Centre
Discover and play in the Exploration Zone. Let imaginations go wild at the new ‘Animate Science’ activity. Get hands-on with pop up activities at the Live Lab. Pick up an Explorer Backpack and enjoy 15 acres of woodland and ponds. www.scienceoxford.com
WHERE: Oxford Headington & Woodstock: Saturdays. Henley & Marlow: Thursdays & Saturdays. Oxford Summertown &Witney: Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. Bicester: Tuesdays, Fridays & Saturdays. Bring out the best in your child and encourage them to develop excellent communication skills, grow in self-esteem and enjoy the benefits of improved coordination. Suitable for children from age 2. From £15 for a two-week trial. www.stagecoach.co.uk
WHEN: Monday-Thursday & Saturday
WHERE: Summertown
By producing a tailored, structured learning plan for each student according to their knowledge and skill level, the Mathnasium Method can help children in Years 2-12 better understand maths and leap ahead. Try the FREE maths skills assessment/trial session. www.mathnasium.co.uk/ northoxford
Thame Leisure Centre (Tuesdays, Fridays and Saturdays) and Wallingford Masonic Hall (Wednesdays and Fridays) Maths and English programmes to help students of any age and ability to progress their skills and build key foundations for learning. Kumon helps each child develop self-learning skills, enabling them to tackle challenging work without relying on a teacher. www.kumon.co.uk
“Anita has been brilliant. She is kind and patient with my child. She is always responsive when we have any questions. I would highly recommend her.”
WHEN: Wednesdays 10.00am11.00am
WHERE: Chipping Norton Theatre
Discover the magic of creativity with weekly drama classes for children 6 months to 4.5 years. Give it a try at a special one-off Christmas session on 18 Dec. From £7 for one adult and child. www.chippingnortontheatre. com/take-part
WHEN: November
WHERE: Science Oxford Centre
Nov 9: Vision-themed activity with researchers from Nuffield Department of Clinical Neuroscience. Nov 16, 23 and 30: Experience different visual impairments with a range of special glasses. Can you still read an eye chart or make a cup of tea? www.scienceoxford.com
Chemistry at the Live Lab
WHEN: December
WHERE: Science Oxford Centre
Find out more about these special chemical ‘detectives’. Make your own indicator and use it to test and experiment with a range of household products. Children can develop their science skills and vocabulary, and feel like a real scientist! www.scienceoxford.com
Christmas in Bricksville
WHERE: 21st Dec,Woodcote Village Hall, 23rd Dec, The Heights Primary, Caversham & Madley Park Hall, Witney & Sonning Common Village Hall
Join Master Builders Club for an immersive adventure with 1000’s of LEGO bricks, accessories and minifigures. Our Pop Up LEGO Playroom will transport your ‘Brickie’ to a world of LEGO building creativity. Our engaging LEGO brick experiences nurture young minds whilst learning through play. £18
Book now: www. masterbuildersclub.co.uk
WHEN: 23-24 Dec 9.00am3.00pm
WHERE: Oxford City FC
Led by Ignite’s female staff, this camp is suitable for all levels and is fun, inclusive and energetic! Half day and full day sessions available. Ages 5-15. From £23 per child.
www.ignitesportuk.com
Festive Fun Days
WHEN: 23 Dec-03 Jan
9.00am-3.00pm
WHERE: Oxford City FC
A FUNtastic mixture of winter sports, Christmas crafts, party games, face painting, Santa vs Elves competitions and more! Half day and full day sessions available. Ages 4-12. From £23 per child. www.ignitesportuk.com
Great Arctic Adventure
WHEN: 30th Dec, Cholsey Pavilion, 2nd January
Badgemore Primary, Henley
Join Master Builders Club for an immersive adventure with 1000’s of LEGO bricks, accessories and minifigures. Our Pop Up LEGO Playroom will transport your ‘Brickie’ to a world of LEGO building creativity. Our engaging LEGO brick experiences nurture young minds whilst learning through play. £18
Book now: www. masterbuildersclub.co.uk
WHEN: 17-23 Dec 10.00am - 3.30pm WHERE: Lisa Jayne Art Studio
Stimulating art courses for children with the emphasis on experiencing a variety of materials in a friendly environment. Morning, afternoon and full day sessions available. From £25 per child. www.lisajayne.uk.com/childrens-classes
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You’ll be distributing our magazine every other month for 1-3 days depending on the route. GOOD RATES OF PAY! Call Lisa on 07887 521978 or email editor@familiesox.co.uk
Sparks Christmas Club
WHEN: 2-3 Jan
WHERE: Oxford City FC
Get ready for a variety of super charged activities! Each day has a new theme and children can enjoy planting, science, sport, mindfulness, music, baking and much more. Half day and full day sessions available. Ages 4-8. From £25 per child. www.ignitesportuk.com
WHEN: 17-21 Feb
WHERE: Summer Fields School
Jump into a February Half Term Adventure! Choose from actionpacked Active Camps (ages 4-14) with multi-sports, swimming, arts and crafts and more! Or thrilling Active Adventure Camps (ages 6-14), featuring campfire cooking and basic bushcraft. £54-56 per child, per day.
www.oxfordactive.co.uk/activecamps/summer-fields-school
Term Active Camps in Banbury
WHEN: 17-21 Feb
WHERE: Sibford School
Secure your child’s spot today for an incredible Half Term adventure! Activity camps full of variety and excitement for ages 4-14, featuring multi-sports, swimming, arts and crafts and more. £49 per child, per day. www.oxfordactive.co.uk/activecamps/sibford-school
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