Families Solent East Sept/Oct 2011

Issue 36 | September/October 2011

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Welcome

September is one of my favourite months, somewhere between those long summer days and cosy winter nights – it is and always will be for me the beginning of the year. It is the time for new books, clean white school shirts (for a while at least!), of blackberry picking and getting things organised - the ultimate time for fresh starts. This year I will make sure the lunch box is made, the uniform is ironed, and the school bag is packed the night before. I will keep on top of the housework, I will make time to exercise and I will forget that the snooze button exists in the mornings! And if I don’t quite get it right this time, there’s always New Year…

Good luck to those of you who have children starting new schools this term. For those who are not quite there yet, take a look at our guide to getting the best out of school open days on page 6. We also have two great competitions for upcoming Christmas events, and don’t forget to take advantage of our reader offer, a free photo shoot and 10 x 8 print from Vision Photography on New Road (www.visionphotostudio.com) – an excellent Christmas present, for those of you who really are organised!

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Local News

Local information,

events and services

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Education

Open Day advice Indentifying Dyslexia

11 Mothers Guilt

Hang up your halos!

12 Food & Home

Top tips and recipes

14 What’s On

Plus Halloween events

19 Competitions

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Families Local

News

DISCOVER A NEW FORT On the 6th August the Royal Armouries unveiled its state-of-the-art new museum at Fort Nelson, home to the Royal Armouries national collection of artillery – The Big Guns.

The imposing Victorian Fort has just undergone a multi-million pound redevelopment transforming it into a museum for the 21st century.

Positioned atop Portsdown Hill, with panoramic views across the Meon Valley and Portsmouth Harbour, Fort Nelson is an historic monument, restored to how it would have been in the 1890s. Visitors can access most areas of the fortifications and see how the fort would have operated.

The museum’s displays trace the development of artillery from pre-gunpowder siege machines to modern-day super guns. There are over 350 big guns on display.

This summer saw the opening of a new visitor centre, a new café and new galleries, including the magnificent Voice of the Guns gallery.

Admission and parking are free – offering a great day out for all the family.

Portsmouth book fest

17th October - 13th November 2011 Portsmouth has a strong literary heritage including Charles Dickens, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle and HG Wells and Portsmouth BookFest continues that tradition, attracting diverse audiences to exciting events featuring popular and accessible authors.

Portsmouth BookFest is jointly organised by Portsmouth City Library Service and The Hayling Island Bookshop. There is an associated schools programme organised by Portsmouth School Library Service.

OctoberFest at Milestones

Now in its third successful year, Hampshire’s OctoberFest is a great family day out where you can learn all about local crafts and produce, sample all of Hampshire’s finest beers and experience all the sights and sounds of a traditional county fayre. The event will feature local food and craft marquee, storytelling, Punch and Judy, animal farm, live music, mini steam, vintage vehicles and machinery fare, Old Tyme funfair rides, children’s making workshops and more.

The event will run from15 - 16th Oct 2011 at Milestones museum, Basingstoke. www.milestones-museum.com

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BookFest aims to promote both book buying and book borrowing and uses a wide variety of venues, many not normally associated with book events such as sports centres, museums, night clubs and pubs as well as libraries and community centres.

Visit www.portsmouthbookfest.co.uk

Help with everyday costs If you’re responsible for at least one child or young person who normally lives with you, you may be eligible for Child Tax Credit.

If you work, but earn low wages, you may be eligible for Working Tax Credit and help with childcare costs if you are using Ofsted registered services.

It’s worth checking out!

Call the HM Revenue and Customs helpline:

0845 300 3900

For online information visit www.hmrc.gov.uk/taxcredits or www.hants.gov.uk/childcare

Families Local

News

Theatre News Stick Man Heritage Open Days celebrates England’s fantastic architecture and culture by offering free access to properties that are usually closed to the public or normally charge for admission.

Every year during four days in September, buildings of every age, style and function throw open their doors, ranging from castles to factories, town halls to tithe barns, parish churches to Buddhist temples. It is a once-a-year chance to discover hidden architectural treasures and enjoy a wide range of tours, events and activities which bring to life local history and culture.

The New Theatre Royal Thurs 13 & Fri 14 October From the book by Children’s Laureate Julia Donaldson, Illustrated by Axel Scheffler, creators of The Gruffalo. Featuring a trio of top actors and packed full of puppetry, songs, live music and funky moves; Stick Man promises more fun than you can shake a stick at!

"Scamp Theatre send shivers down my spine. They are so lively and innovative."

Dr Simon Thurley, Chief Executive, English Heritage, says “Heritage Open Days is about people and places; it celebrates community and reflects the importance of the built environment in our lives and to our quality of life. It is organised by local people who dedicate their spare time to opening properties and staging activities, and it is their knowledge and enthusiasm that makes Heritage Open Days happen.”

Roary

This years open days will take place between the 8th and 11th September.

Kings Theatre 24th September

Visit www.heritageopendays.org.uk to find whats happening near you.

Roary, the number 1 car races into theatres on the 24th September for the very first time in a brand new live stage show.

Julia Donaldson, author and Children’s Laureate

The Very Hungry Caterpillar Kings Theatre 16 - 18th October The Very Hungry Caterpillar follows the wonderful adventures of a very tiny and very hungry caterpillar that progresses through an amazing variety of foods towards its eventual metamorphosis into a beautiful butterfly. By award-winning children’s book illustrator and writer Eric Carle, beautifully told in this glowing stage adaptation with puppetry in black light. Illustrations © Eric Carle

Little Limelight Lovers Kings Theatre 24th October, 10am

Little Limelight Lovers is back and will continue to offer the chance to bring your little ones to the theatre each month for a fun action packed morning on stage. Go to dance and play games on stage followed by a story to finish!

Don’t forget to take a packed lunch!

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Families Local

News

Southsea library Southsea Library opened earlier in the year and if you haven’t been down already, it’s well worth making a visit. It offers thousands of books, free computer and internet access as well as information and advice on a wide range of council services.

With it’s relaxed atmosphere, contemporary decor and mass of comfy seating, it makes a lovely place to take the children for an hour, to pick up a book and enjoy a coffee and cake in the in-house cafe!

Take your toddler down to Storytime every Monday between 2 - 2:30pm or Rhymetime on Thursdays, 10 -10:30am.

For poetry fans, the library is presenting a reading by Maggie Sawkins on 11th September and events for National Poetry day on 6th October.

Please phone 02392 688999 for further details.

Fratton Park, Jessamy Roulston

Spotlight Local parents Jessamy Roulston is a local artist and mother of two. After gaining an Illustration degree at the University of West England she moved to Sydney where she worked in portraiture, sign writing, set design and storyboarding for theatrical productions. The piece shown here producted in acrylic, is one of a series of three commissioned paintings of Fratton Park. If you would like to speak to Jessamy about a project please contact her on jessroulston@hotmail.com or telephone 07595 996674 Clair Maskell had been working in childcare for 11 years up until the birth of her daughter. With many qualifications including a Foundation degree in Childcare and Education, she has also worked in a range of settings from After School and Holiday Clubs, Nurseries, Play Schemes and a Pre-school.

While staying at home with her daughter, Clair has created a website and blog which is a fantastic resourse for parents and practitioners, offering advice on a huge range of childcare matters.

Visit www.childcareclair.com

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Families Education

Making the most of Open Days Open Day visits are much more worthwhile when you have a clear idea of what you are looking for before you go, such as: • A strong preference for single sex or co-ed schooling.

It can be interesting asking school heads for their views, as each will support their own intake with compelling evidence!

• A school that specialises in your child’s strength in science, performing arts or sports. Alternatively, one which scores highly on academic achievement; or maybe a school with a strong community feel where confidence and happiness are paramount?

• It’s an acknowledged fact that class sizes matter. Government guidelines lay down targets for class sizes, but budget constraints make this difficult. Ask the school how they are managing - for example are children spending a lot of time overseen by teaching assistants rather than fully qualified staff?

• Where do pupils move on to? This is a good indicator of final results, along with the numbers who move onto their first choice when continuing their education.

• Check out music, science, IT, sports and arts facilities - is there enough equipment and space?

• Don’t be shy of asking lots of questions - good school staff have nothing to hide and will appreciate your interest.

• Look for examples of classwork to see for yourself where teachers are awarding marks and how ‘hot’ they are on spelling, grammar etc.

• You will obviously be most interested in the year your child will be going into; but look beyond to the final year group as well to see the outcome of the school’s teaching.

• Enquire about the extra help available for children who are above or below average in a particular subject - your child may need it.

• Listen to the Head’s address and if you can, talk to him or her too. A good school will have an inspiring, enthusiastic and committed headteacher, supported by a loyal and united management team - and it will show.

• How accessible will teachers and the Head be if you have a concern to raise?

• Ask about staff turnover. Some movement is healthy, bringing fresh ideas: too much indicates dissatisfaction and can be disrupting. How young are the staff? Too young can mean inexperienced; approaching retirement can mean a huge turnover on the horizon -look for a balance and engage teachers in a chat about their specialist subject.

• Is there a varied programme of afterschool activities for those who want it, and are your child’s interests covered by them?

• Has the ‘Jamie Oliver effect’ reached the lunch menu?

Look for a sample if you can, and ask the current pupils what they think of the school food.

• Does the school have an active PTA, and what sort of activities does it organise? (expect fundraising!).

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Experience the difference Portsmouth High School

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Choosing a school for your daughter’s education is one of the most important decisions you will make. From her first steps in Nursery to receiving her A Level results, the right guidance, encouragement and individual attention are crucial to every girl’s success.

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Portsmouth High School offers first class education with a culture of innovation and excitement about learning reflected in excellent GCSE and A Level results. They strive to provide opportunities for girls to grow and exceed their expectations and build confidence to go on and achieve even more.

Building life skills in leadership, creative thinking, communication and independence, to name but a few, are vital for success in our modern and rapidly changing world. At the end of their education, girls leave as confident young women well prepared for the challenges ahead.

The Portsmouth High School Open Day is on Saturday 1 October from 9.30 am to 12.30 pm.

The whole school is open for you to explore from Nursery through to Sixth Form. The Headmistress will address parents at the Senior School at 9.45 and the Head of the Junior School will welcome parents in the Junior School Hall at 10.30 am.

For more information and to register, visit www.portsmouthhigh.co.uk

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Saturday 1 October 9.30 to 12.30 For your daughter... a first class education developing skills for a changing world. Visit us and find out how a Portsmouth High School education can make a real difference from Nursery through to Sixth Form.

For more information visit www.portsmouthhigh.co.uk t 023 9282 6714 e admissions@por.gdst.net

Kent Road, Southsea, Hampshire PO5 3EQ Part of the Girls’ Day School Trust, the leading network of independent girls’ schools in the UK. Visit www.gdst.net to find out more.

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With the arrival of a new Headmaster, and two inspections it’s been a busy year at St John’s College, the Southsea-based Christian independent, co-educational school for pupils aged 2 – 18.

Shortly after Headmaster Mr Graham Best started at the school in September, the School’s Boarding facilities were inspected

by Ofsted. The report confirmed that ‘boarders were extremely positive about their experience at the school’ and acknowledged that ‘the support offered to the children and opportunities for enrichment are of an outstanding quality’. The school was also praised for relationships between staff and pupils - in the report one boarder commented,

“It’s like a sleep-over every night with your friends.”

In a later inspection by the Independent Schools’ Inspectorate (ISI), the pastoral care and the relationships between staff and pupils were acknowledged as being of a very high standard in a ‘relaxed and mutually respectful atmosphere’. Meanwhile the quality of pupils’ achievements was judged ‘good’, both in terms of academic work and extracurricular activities, and the report confirms ‘The quality of teaching is good overall and some teaching is excellent’.

With the introduction of a new Virtual Learning Environment (VLE) and the launch of a new-look website and prospectus in October, it promises to be another exciting year.

Prospective parents are invited to attend the School’s Open Morning on Saturday 8 October from 10am – 12:30pm. Contact the School Office on 0845 269 8804 to book.

Families Education

Dyslexia

Kip McGrath Education Centres offer free assessments for children, aged between 6 and 16, in reading, writing, spelling and phonic awareness. They give parents an opportunity to discuss their children’s individual needs and receive advice. Individual educational plans are then written using the information gained at the assessment.

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Dyslexia does not have to prevent people from achieving

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t has been suggested that Dyslexia affects up to 10% of the UK population to varying degrees, with 4% being severely affected.

The affect of this neuro-logical condition on the individual can have serious social implications, since it can severely affect self-esteem and confidence.

What is dyslexia?

We often hear children and adults described as ‘dyslexic’, but what do we mean and are we right? There are many different views on what dyslexia actually is and definitions vary across cultures and professions. In fact there is no right or wrong answer, as there is no accepted definition for dyslexia.

In broad terms dyslexia is mainly a language based learning disability.

Those affected have problems acquiring and retaining literacy skills such as reading writing and spelling. It is now widely accepted that dyslexia can also affect a number of other areas including memory, organisation, concentration and even balance.

This is why processing information can be so difficult for dyslexics.

While dyslexia can be viewed as a learning difficulty, it can also be seen as a gift. Some talents shared by dyslexics include the ability to think in pictures, being creative and intuitive and being good with their hands. They’re often highly aware of their environment and have vivid imaginations. Children with dyslexia often have above average intelligence, yet they struggle with words and processing

new information. Many famous people diagnosed with varying degrees of dyslexia, such as Albert Einstien, Winston Churchill and Richard Branson, were not prevented from becoming highly successful in their chosen fields.

Dyslexia does not have to prevent people from achieving. But, because it affects the way people process information it can as a result affect their ability to learn. This processing difficulty can be due to a number of reasons: •A marked inefficiency in the working or short-term memory system •P roblems connecting the letter patterns with the associated sounds

‘We are aware that dyslexia is an umbrella term and therefore like to assess each child in order to determine their particular needs.

For those who wish to receive support at one of our centres we design individual lesson plans and target areas for development.

We also praise children’s strengths and boost their confidence as children can feel very negative about their difficulties in this area.

‘If a child comes to us for tuition we see them either once or twice a week for 80 minute sessions.

During this time they will use both written and computer based resources and complete up to six activities. Success is built in and the progress they make is built upon weekly. This is supported by weekly homework as well. It sounds a lot but the children love seeing their skills grow. It is so rewarding to see children become more confident readers and writers.’

Contact: Linda Jones, Kip McGrath Education Centre, Southsea: 023 9275 5923 www.kipmcgrath.com

•D ifficulties ordering or sequencing; this may also show itself as clumsiness caused by the brain sending the wrong signals to parts of the body in the wrong order •A range of problems connected with visual processing and accessing the memory of visual patterns Dyslexia Action Winchester is one of 26 centres across the country.

Dedicated to helping people with dyslexia or similar difficulties, their free consultation service can be accessed via e-mail or by phoning the office for an appointment.

The office is manned week days from nine to five. The team of specially trained teachers currently teach private students in Winchester, Cosham, Ringwood, Chichester and Hungerford, but are always willing to open in new areas if there is sufficient need.

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Families Childcare

Mayville at the Cottage

Mayville is re-launching its Nursery at the Cottage - the ethos is the same, small and nurturing, but the surroundings will be different, including an improved, child friendly kitchen and redecoration throughout.

The playground, with its safety surface and sensory garden, means there is plenty of room for outdoor play. Having phased out the Nest, the Nursery no longer takes babies meaning there will be only one year group. As Head of Early Years Mary Jones comments,

“It’s very exciting, it means nursery children can be part of the school community, and the Pre-Prep department.

They will attend more school events and have a P.E lesson once a week with the Pre-Prep P.E teacher.“ After life at the Cottage there is the opportunity to join Kestrels, where the foundations are put in place for Mayville’s reception classes. Nicky Trayte who will be the new Senior Practitioner at the Cottage says, “This really makes the Nursery the first Department of Mayville High School and children will get all the benefits of being part of a school that offers many opportunities”.

Need childcare?

Then let the Hampshire Childcare and Family Information Team help!

For information about childminders, day nurseries, pre-schools, playgroups, outof-school clubs and holiday play schemes in Hampshire, contact the Hampshire Childcare and Family Information Team on

0845 603 5620 Monday - Friday: 8.00am - 8.00pm Saturday: 9.30am - 4.00pm or visit

www.fid.hants.gov.uk

Email: childrens.services@hants.gov.uk

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Little Learners Day Care www.littlelearnersdaycare.co.uk • Discounts • Age from 3 months to 8 years • Learning through play the • Holiday playscheme Highscope way!

• Qualified caring staff • OFSTED registered with • Ample car parking good outcome • Preschool term time only places • Holiday leave • 15 government funded hours free • Discounts for siblings Fratton 023 9275 6104 • email: littlelearnerso4@yahoo.co.uk Park Lodge, 28 Clarkes Road, Fratton • 7:30am to 6pm, Monday to Friday • Follow us on twitter

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Mothers Guilt

by Abi Foss

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othing prepares you for first time motherhood does it? There is a life BC (before child), and an utterly different kind of existence afterwards; one where you are never top priority, where your life revolves around others’ scheduled needs: nap times, school times, meal times, milk times, bath times, bed times.

Yes, you are now in service to the next generation. For the rest of your life, you will probably find something about your children to worry about, no matter what age they are. The word ‘mother’, it has been said, is not just a noun. It is a verb.

Fake it till you make it There is this crazy assumption that when motherhood hits, we will somehow, intuitively know what to do; it will all just flow naturally.

The reality, I think, goes more like this: we hit the ground running, muddle through and do the best we can. And it is, as they say, just one thing after another. Once we have the routine and sleeping through the night thing nailed, then we have the joys of encouraging them to eat healthily, along with the Herculean challenges of boundary setting.

After the umpteenth request of ‘please, do NOT leave your rollerskates at the bottom of the stairs,’ or ‘no, it is not OK to chew on your baby brother’s ear,’ is it any wonder we start sounding like our own frustrated parents when we yell: ‘If I have told you once, I have told you a thousand times...

Why don’t you LISTEN??’ Or the classic one that makes me shudder when I imagine my neighbours overhearing it: ‘JUST PUT YOUR SHOES ON!’ Ooops. Screaming at child. Guilty as charged Your Honour. But can I claim mitigating circumstances?

My son practices selective deafness, I was stressed out and we were horribly, horribly late.

Sigh. There goes another few quid in the ‘therapy for when he is older’ box.

Angels in training Mothers aren’t supposed to shout or be cross or tear their hair out or cry and scream with frustration, are we? Especially not in supermarkets. We’re supposed to be sweet and kind and giving and patient and perfect with angelic supplies of unconditional love.

We’re not supposed to park them in front of CBeebies for the morning and go back to bed nursing a hangover. No. We must provide educational activities, bake cakes, rustle up fancy dress costumes out of remnants in the recycling box, present a clean and tidy house, organise schooling, lay proper meals on the table and, often, hold down a job and even a marriage too. But we can’t and we don’t. And we feel guilty about it.

I guess we just have to accept that we are going to get it wrong.

We will make mistakes. Everyone does. It is the only way you learn.

So the best thing you can do is just resolve to love your children as much as you possibly can. My rules are that I always apologise for my appalling behaviour and then tell my son I love him. Our biggest mothering mistake really, is believing we shouldn’t be making any. Feeling guilty is how we punish ourselves for not reaching impossibly high standards. I don’t know any mother who thinks she ticks all the ‘perfect mother’ boxes. Maybe, we weren’t even designed to meet every single one of our children’s needs.

Tribal Heart There is an African saying that goes: ‘It takes a whole village to raise a baby.’ In her book ‘The Spirit of Intimacy’, Sobonfu Some, a woman from the Dagara tribe of West Africa, says that it is also true that it takes a whole village to keep parents sane. In fact, it was not until she was nearly six years old that she understood that she came out of one particular woman’s womb, that she did not biologically ‘belong’ to all of the women in her village who breastfed and cared for her.

‘‘Our biggest mothering mistake really, is believing we shouldn’t be making any.’’

We would do well to remember that one-to-one parenting is a pretty recent evolution in our species.

Back in the day there would be aunties, sisters, cousins, neighbours and grandmothers all on hand for mass childcare duties. Sobonfu insists that it is good for a child to have other adults to turn to when faced with a problem that their parents can’t sort out, If nothing else, there is a much better chance the child will actually listen to sage advice. Let’s face it: children just don’t like having to listen to their parents! (I know I certainly didn’t!)

Hang up your halo ‘Motherhood,’ Oprah once said, ‘is the hardest job in the world.

Women everywhere must declare it so.’ In my opinion, it is also the most undervalued, the most rewarding and the most important job in the world too. We’re at the coalface of building the foundations of society here! Let’s hang up our halos and, through example, teach our children that we are all on a lifelong learning curve, that we are all lovable despite our imperfections.

That, in itself, is a great education.

Abi Foss is a hypnotherapist who writes about all things holistic and spiritual. www.abifoss.co.uk

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Families

Food

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If, like me, the thought of dining with your child anywhere more sophisticated than your local fast food chain makes you shudder, you can perhaps imagine my anxiety at our recent trip to the new Jamie’s Italian restaurant at Gunwharf Quays.

We were greeted at the door by friendly staff and baskets full of dried pasta, which my son found great pleasure in diving his hands into! Having never dined at a ‘Jamie’s’ before, I didn’t really know what to expect. It turned out my initial worries were completely unfounded - the restaurant was so bustling with atmosphere that it would have drowned out even one of my sons’ most impressive wobblies. Besides, there were enough children there to offer fierce competition! I breathed a huge sigh of relief and relaxed down to look at the menu. For the kids, this took the shape of one of those toy 3D viewmasters from the 80’s, showing pictures of the meals – Bolognese, Ravioli, Gnocchi and more, each served with a salad of seasonal veg. This kept him captivated for a good few minutes - long enough to allow us to peruse the ‘grown up’ menu, which all looked amazing.

Our waiter, James was friendly and informative and seemed to know the menu inside out. Not only that, but he really interacted with our son, meeting all of his mainly unreasonable demands, and even let him tap the order into the terminal himself. The food was as good as I’d hoped - the pasta freshly made on the premises and the sauces

delicious and suitably messy (Just make sure he doesn’t wear white...that goes for your child too). There are also loads of other dishes to choose aside from pasta, as well as a range of nibbles and antipasti - I can honestly say the baked Seabass was the most flavoursome I’ve ever had. Though the Tiramsu tasted more of orange than coffee as in the more traditional version, it was still a lovely dessert and I ate it all. I have it on good authority that the Lemon Curd (bottom right) is a firm staff favourite!

The restaurant has great entertainment value, from the shared platters, or ‘planks’ balanced upon tins of tomatoes to the reclaimed maritime décor and in-house pasta making, which the kids are able to watch and even get involved in. Ok, so the prices aren’t exactly cheap, but they’re not over the top either. Children’s meals are £5.20, with adult mains ranging from £6.25 to £16.95. However, for what you get I feel it is worth spending that bit extra for something fun and a bit different, or for a special occasion. This is a restaurant that offers plenty of little surprises, attention to detail, and food that is definitely full of ‘attitude’, as Mr Oliver puts it! And there’s no pretention about it - it’s down to earth, with good portions and an atmosphere in which it is easy to feel comfortable with your children and still enjoy amazing food.

When I asked my own small-one what his favourite part of the visit was he said ‘all of it!’ and I have to say, that pretty much sums it up for me as well.

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Families

Cheese and Potato Pie

Home

Feeds 3 – 4

This is a cheap and simple recipe that can be easily adjusted to suit whatever veg you have in your fridge. All you need….

• 600gms potatoes • 150gms Cheddar cheese, grated • 4 medium tomatoes • 500gms Runner Beans, sliced Boil the potatoes for 10 - 12 minutes, or until soft and ready to mash. While the potatoes are boiling, slice the runner beans (or whatever veg you are serving) and place the tomatoes in some boiling water for one minute until the skin and core can be easily removed. Mash the potato together with ¾ of the cheese and a splash of milk, empty into an oven proof dish, slice the tomatoes and spread on top followed by the rest of the cheese (You could get fancy with some herbs if you have them!). Bake in the oven at 180 degrees and sit down with the kids and a cup of tea for 45 minutes, or until the cheese has browned on top. Boil your veg for 5 minutes and serve.

Recipe sent in by Becky Christie If you have a family favourite recipe or top tip you would like to share with our readers, please contact editor@familiessolenteast.co.uk

Mums Top Tip! When the kids get home hungry from school use a stick blender to make a milkshake - just break a banana up into a jug, fill with about 400ml of milk and whizz it up. If you haven’t got any fresh fruit, ‑‑use frozen summer fruits or tinned peaches. It makes a health calcium rich snack that the children love, and doesnt fill them up too much before dinner!

3 steps to getting organised

Kay Sperry, Fareham

In Season...

September Apples, Blackberries, Blackcurrants, Damsons, Plums, Raspberries, Aubergines, French beans,

Runner beans, Broccoli, Carrots, Courgettes, Kale, Mushrooms, Sweetcorn, Tomatoes

October Pears, Crab apples, Damsons, Jersusalem artichokes, Broccoli, Brussels sprouts, Celeriac,

Chicory, Kale, Parsnips, Pumpkin, Squash, Swede

Menu planning

Declutter

Finances

I have phases of going to the shop every day, yet seeming to never have any food in my fridge. It’s a strange phenomenon that I’m sure we’ve all experienced, along with the frenzied Supermarket Sweep 10 minutes before picking up the kids, trying to remember what’s in the cupboard and how many nights this week they’ve had baked beans.

‘A place for everything and everything in its place’ – ‘A tidy home is a happy home!’

That’s what my Mum used to say anyway. Still, she had a point and while we all know decluttering is the way forward, it’s easier said than done when you’re already dealing with a home that looks like an explosion at Toys R Us.

Outgoings increasing, incomings shrinking rapidly….

It’s not the right way round, but such is life.

Planning out a weeks’ worth of meals may seem daunting, but start by getting everyone involved in making a list of family favourites.

Look at your calendar and plan around after school activities.

In her book Clear Your Clutter, Karen Kingston suggests applying the ‘Clutter test’ to everything in your home by asking yourself three questions - Does it lift my energy when I think about it or look at it?

Do I absolutely love it? Is it genuinely useful? If the answer is not a resounding yes to any of these questions, then give it to charity.

Try to do one big batch cook a week and freeze half of it, that’s one day you won’t have to cook another week. Planning meals out also helps you see that you’re all getting a balanced diet – mix it up by alternating between cooking red and white meat, fish and vegetarian meals.

You have to wonder why we lug around boxes of ‘things’ that inevitably get stuffed under the bed until the next time we move.

Keep track of your spending by recording it in a spread sheet or notebook. Divide your page into columns - food, transport, school clubs/childcare, hobbies etc. Spend it, then enter it - You may be able to spot an area where you could save and if not, at least you will know where your money is disappearing to every month!

Keep a close eye on bank statements to make sure you’re not being charged for anything you shouldn’t be and keep all important receipts in one place – you’ll know exactly where to look when your vacuum’s sucked up one too many school socks and finally gives up.

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SAT 22 – SUN 30 OCTOBER Ghosts and Ghouls National Motor Museum, Beaulieu www.beaulieuevents.co.uk 01590 612345 There is something strange in the neighbourhood at Beaulieu this half-term. Phantom tours in the Motor Museum, spooky stories in Palace House, talk to real ghost hunters in the haunted Abbey, frightening face painting, lessons in witchcraft, ride the Moan-a-rail, Halloween quiz trail and lucky dip.

SAT 22 – SUN 30 OCTOBER Exbury Ghost Train Exbury Gardens & Railway www.exbury.co.uk 023 8024 5750 With skeletons, scarecrows and other ghoulish characters on route, dare you ride the Exbury Ghost Train? Full of interesting stories, dreadful puns & even more terrible jokes! Come in fancy dress and receive a free treat bag. There is also a “Spooky Tree Trail” to follow around the Gardens. Pre-booking essential for Sunday 30th October.

SAT 22 - SUN 30 OCTOBER Spooky Castle Carisbrooke Castle Newport, IOW www.english-heritage.org.uk 0870 333 1181 Join Professor Midnight for a spine-tingling ghost walk around one of the most ancient and haunted places on the Isle of Wight. Hear about the site’s sinister past and chilling tales of ghostly appearances. Suitable for brave adults and children of all ages. Youngsters will also enjoy taking part in the fun spooky trail – follow clues around the castle and receive a Halloween treat Normal admission prices apply: English Heritage Members free.

MON 24 - FRI 28 OCTOBER HALLOWEEN FUN Milestones Museum, Basingstoke www.milestones-museum.com 01256 477766 Drop in for some spooky half term fun.

SAT 22 – SUN 30 OCTOBER Ghost Ship Spinnaker Tower www.spinnakertower.co.uk 023 9285 7520 Join us aboard the Spinnaker Tower Ghost Ship for spooky fun during October Half Term.

Haunting Halloween at carisbrooke castle spooky castle Sat 22 - Sun 30 Oct (10am - 4pm) Join Professor Midnight’s ghost tour at Carisbrooke Castle for spooky family fun this Halloween.

Plus there’s a children’s trail with a Halloween treat.

Carisbrooke Castle, Newport. Isle of Wight PO30 1XY www.english-heritage.org.uk/events or call 0870 333 1183

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SAT 22 OCTOBER Spooky Spectacular!

Staunton Country Park 02392 453 405 10:30am – 3:30pm Put your scariest faces on and frightening fancy-dress and come have some fun this Halloween.

What’s On Mainland FRI 9 – SUN 11 SEPTEMBER CHICHESTER’S BIG WEEKEND EAST AND NORTH STREET, CHICHESTER Enjoy a weekend of exciting events, live music, light displays, free sports and activities and local food and produce.

SAT 10 – SUN 11 SEPTEMBER International Autojumble National Motor Museum, Beaulieu www.beaulieuevents.co.uk 01590 612345 Come to Beaulieu for Europe’s biggest auto jumble, covering over 30 acres of parkland. There are thousands of stands to rummage amongst, containing motoring parts, accessories, automobilia, literature, tools and clothing, covering all motoring eras.

SAT 10 – SUN 11 SEPTEMBER Farewell to Standard The Watercress Line www.watercressline.co.uk Mid Hants popular BR Standard 5 reaches the end of her 10 year boiler certificate at the end of September 2011. As a farewell, we will be running a special timetable featuring a 3 train passenger service to mark her departure from steam here at the Watercress Line.

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SUN 11 SEPTEMBER 10AM Sunday Stroll Along Southsea Seafront Stroll from the Canoe Lake Southsea to the Sealife Centre and back, or a brisk walk from the Canoe Lake to Old Portsmouth and back. Donation of £3 or sponsorship to raise money for the Rowans Hospice.

SAT 17 SEPTEMBER 10:30 - 11:30AM Marvellous Mosaics ASPEX GALLERY www.aspex.org.uk 023 9277 8080 0 - 8 year olds are invited to work with their parents in fun artist led sessions, taking inspiration from the galleries exhibitions. £4 per session, bookng essential.

SUN 11 SEPTEMBER 11AM - 4PM POP UP VINTAGE TEA ROOM AT THE SQuaRE TOWER, OLD PORTSMOUTH Visit our very special Pop up Vintage Tea Room at the Tower, where your drinks will be served in our best fine vintage china to give you a dash of vintage culture.

SAT 17 SEPTEMBER 12pm George Benham Memorial Conker Bash BAFFINS POND LOWER FIELD Conker bash knock out competition.

Medals for winners. Conkers supplied. Bouncey Castle and refreshments available. Registration 12:00pm. Entry fee £2 (Includes a hot dog and a drink).

WED 14 SEPTEMBER 7PM St Thomas Cathedral Fashion and Beauty Show John Lewis present a fashion show within the CathedraL featuring key trends for the Autumn - Winter season. Accessories and cosmetics from Clarins, Clinique, Dior, Estee Lauder, Lancome, Liz Earle and YSL FRI 16 SEPTEMBER 9AM - 2PM FARMERS MARKET CHICHESTER City Centre.

SAT 17 - SUN 18 SEPTEMBER PIRATES WEEKEND BLUE REEF AQUARIUM SOUTHSEA 023 9287 5222 www.bluereefaquarium.co.uk Swashbuckling fun for younger visitors - discover all about pirates, privateers and buccaneers. There’s storytelling sessions, workshops, flag designing classes and even special talks about some real life pirates. Staff will be in full piratical costume to really help visitors get into the mood.

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SUN 18 SEPTEMBER 10AM - 2PM HAMPSHIRE FARMERS MARKET SOUTHSEA Palmeston Road SUN 18 SEPTEMBER 11AM - 3PM GUILDHALL BOUTIQUE MARKET Vintage feel indoor market SAT 24 – SUN 25 SEPTEMBER 10am – 4pm Spinning a Yarn Mary Rose Museum Portsmouth Historic Dockyards Try your hand at Tudor crafts with demonstrations of spinning and weaving by the Portchester Spinners. Children will have a chance to make their own cord wheel to take home. FREE with valid ticket - children must be accompanied by an adult.

SAT 24 SEPTEMBER 10 - 11:30AM NCT NEARLY NEW SALE TITCHFIELD COMMUNITY CENTRE 0844 2436130 www.nct.org.uk/branches/fareham Buy and sell unwanted baby goods and help raise money for NCT, the UKs largest parenting charity.

Kit out your kids for less than high street prices!

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SAT 24 SEPTEMBER 1PM AND 3PM ROARY THE RACING CAR KINGS THEATRE Roary, the number 1 little race car ‘zooms’ into theatres for the very first time in a brand new live stage show!£14.50 adult, £12.50 child.

SUN 25 SEPTEMBER 2PM THE KINGS THEATRE 02392 828282 THE ANT BULLY (U) £1.50 child, £3 adult.

SAT 1 OCTOBER 8PM 75TH ANNIVERSARY CONCERT PORTSMOUTH LIGHT ORCHESTRA Admiral Lord Nelson School, Portsmouth.

An evening of well known music including selections from South Pacific and The Sound of Music.

SAT 1 – SUN 2 OCTOBER Steam in the Gardens Exbury Gardens and Steam Railway www.exbury.co.uk 023 8089 1203 Steam engines of all shapes and sizes will be on show, from full-size traction engines to miniature road vehicles. Models and miniatures in the Engine Shed, while Exbury’s own Steam Railway will run through Yard Wood.

Prices within Gardens Admission.

SAT 1 – SUN 2 OCTOBER Food Event Butser Ancient Farm www.butserancientfarm.co.uk Celebrating the abundance of the earth by cooking and tasting delicious foods eaten by our ancestors. Try griddle cakes and bread in the round house. Have a go at grinding wheat and taste a lentil stew. You could also help prepare the harvested grain for storage.

View from Butser Hill

SUN 2 OCTOBER 11AM - 3PM LOVE SOUTHSEA MARKET Small antiques, boutique businesses, not on the high street finds for your home, beautiful jewelry. Come along and visit one of Portsmouth’s oldest buildings and have a look at the stalls we have on offer.

FRI 7 OCTOBER 9AM - 2PM FARMERS MARKET CHICHESTER SAT 8 – SUN 9 OCTOBER Autumn Countryside Show Weald and Downland Open Air Museum, Singleton. www.wealddown.co.uk 01243 811363 Experience the sights, sounds and smells of the countryside at harvest time. Enjoy heavy horses and vintage tractors ploughing, steam-powered threshing, falconry and dog displays, craft demonstrations and a chance to browse and buy for gifts with a countryside theme at the many craft and trade stands.

SAT 8 – SUN 9 OCTOBER Big Draw at Exbury Exbury Gardens and Steam Railway www.exbury.co.uk 023 8089 1203 As part of the ‘Big Draw’ weekend, Exbury will welcome children free of charge into the Gardens.

Children will be encouraged to collect fallen autumn leaves and berries to help create a collage with the National Association of Flower Arrangement Societies (NAFAS). Prices within gardens Admission, Children FREE. SAT 8 – SUN 9 OCTOBER World Space Week Intech Science Centre and Planetarium, Winchester. www.intech-uk.com 01962 863791 one of Intech’s biggest annual events, with a host of organisations coming to share special exhibitions and activities all about space.

Free within usual admission.

SAT 8 – SUN 9 OCTOBER Autumn Countryside Show Weald and Downland Open Air Museum, Singleton. www.wealddown.co.uk 01243 811363 Experience the sights, sounds and smells of the countryside at harvest time. Enjoy heavy horses and vintage tractors ploughing, steam-powered threshing, falconry and dog displays, craft demonstrations and a chance to browse and buy for gifts with a countryside theme at the many craft and trade stands.

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SUN 9 OCTOBER 11AM - 4PM POP UP VINTAGE TEA ROOM AT THE SQUARE TOWER, OLD PORTSMOUTH As before.

THURS 13 – SUN 30 OCTOBER The Rather Unusual gift fair GUNWHARF QUAYS Find that unusual gift - art and craft, wood carvings, collectable teddy bears and jewellery and more.

THURS 13 - FRI 14 OCTOBER STICK MAN THE NEW THEATRE ROYAL Guildhall Walk production of the book by Children’s Laureate Julia Donaldson, Illustrated by Axel Scheffler, creators of The Gruffalo, by the lively and innovative Scamp Theatre.

SAT 15 MON 31 OCTOBER SKULL AND CROSSBONES EXHIBITION, ROYAL SUBMARINE MUSEUM GOSPORT www.submarine-museum.co.uk 023 92510354 Become a pirate in this special family exhibition, learn how to speak pirate, command your boat, discover treasure, hoist your Jolly Roger and set sail for a pirate tour of the museum. Free with valid museum ticket.

SAT 15 – SUN 16 OCTOBER Octoberfest Milestones Museum, Basingstoke www.milestones-museum.com 01256 477766 Hampshire’s Octoberfest is a great family day out where you learn about local crafts and produce, choose from all of Hampshire’s finest beers and experience all the sights and sounds of a traditional County Fayre. Featuring local food and craft marquee, storytelling, Punch and Judy, animal farm, live music, mini steam, vintage vehicles and machinery fayre, Old Tyme funfair rides, children’s making workshops and more! Cost: Adult £7.90, Child £4.50, Family £25 SUN 16 - TUES 18 OCTOBER THE VERY HUNGRY CATEPILLAR THE KINGS THEATRE www.kings-southsea.com 02392 828282 The Very Hungry Caterpillar, Little Cloud and The Mixed-up Chameleon by award-winning children’s book illustrator and writer Eric Carle, beautifully told in this glowing stage adaptation with puppetry in black light.

SUN 16 OCTOBER 10AM - 2PM HAMPSHIRE FARMERS MARKET SOUTHSEA

Families What’s SUN 16 OCTOBER 11AM - 4PM POP UP VINTAGE TEA ROOM AT THE SQUARE TOWER, OLD PORTSMOUTH As before.

FRI 21 OCTOBER 9AM - 2PM FARMERS MARKET CHICHESTER. SAT 22 – SUN 23 OCTOBER Tornado Returns!

The Watercress Line alresford www.watercressline.co.uk The steam sensation that is Tornado will be back at the Watercress Line.

The star of BBC Top Gear and Royal Train fame, a chance to ride behind the newest main line steam locomotive built in this country for almost 60 years. Standard Fares Adult £14; Child (2-16) £7; SAT 22 – SUN 30 OCTOBER 11am – 1pm and 2pm – 4pm Mary Rose Museum Portsmouth Historic Dockyard Make your own model of the Mary Rose. FREE with a valid ticket children must be accompanied by an adult.

SAT 22 – SUN 30 OCTOBER Marwell Wildlife www.marwell.org.uk 01962 777407 Meet a tarantula, lose yourself in our eerie maze, enjoy creepy storytelling or carve your own pumpkin.

SUN 23 OCTOBER 11AM - 4PM POP UP VINTAGE TEA ROOM AT THE SQUARE TOWER, OLD PORTSMOUTH As before MON 24 FRI 28 OCTOBER HALF TERM WORKSHOPS GUNWHARF QUAYS Get involved in the childrens workshops in the marque at the central square MON 24 – FRI 28 OCTOBER 11am – 4pm Autumn Adventures Weald and Downland Open Air Museum, Singleton. www.wealddown.co.uk 01243 811363 Wickedly wonderful seasonal activities, fun and farming for accompanied children of all ages! Carve a really scary pumpkin, play conkers, and enjoy arts, crafts and much more.

Under cover if wet.

MON 24 OCTOBER 10AM LITTLE LIMELIGHT LOVERS kings theatre Little Limelight Lovers is back and will continue to offer the chance to bring your little ones to the Theatre each month for a fun action packed morning on stage. Come to dance and play games on stage followed by a story to finish! Don’t forget to bring a Packed Lunch!£2 child, £1 adult.

MON 24 – FRI 28 OCTOBER Samhain - Celtic New Year Butser Ancient Farm www.butserancientfarm.co.uk 5 days of celebrations, Mon to Thurs is dedicated to children’s crafts. Listen to stories in the round house Fri afternoon.

WED 26 OCTOBER 11am-1pm & 2pm-4pm Socktopus!

National Museum of the Royal Navy, Portsmouth Historic Dockyard www.historicdockyard.co.uk 023 9283 9766 Come and make your own super socktopus and other funky fabric sea creatures.

FREE drop-in workshop, all ages welcome THURS 27 – SUN 30 OCTOBER 10AM – 4:30PM Royal Navy Submarine Museum, Gosport www.submarine-museum.co.uk 023 9251 0354 Grab your torch and follow our ghostly guide on a spooky tour of WW2 era submarine HMS Alliance. Watch out for the scary bits!! Free with a valid museum ticket, Suitable for ages 5 upwards.

Autumn adventures!

Have fun this autumn with our wickedly wonderful seasonal activities, fun and farming for children of all ages! Carve a really scary pumpkin, play conkers and enjoy arts, crafts and much more.

Under cover if wet.

Half Term

Mon 24 to Fri 28 October 11am-4pm

WEALD & DOWNLAND OPEN AIR MUSEUM Singleton, Chichester, W. Sussex PO18 0EU 01243 811348

www.wealddown.co.uk

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Featured attraction: Exbury Gardens & Steam Railway Visit Exbury Gardens, home to the world-famous Rothschild Collection of rhododendrons, azaleas, rare trees and shrubs, in the heart of the New Forest National Park. Offering peace, relaxation and tranquillity, a day at Exbury is a day spent in paradise. Created in the 1920s, the gardens extend over 200 acres of natural beauty that echo to the names of the famous plant hunters. Explore on foot, by chauffeur-driven buggy or travel on the Exbury Gardens Steam Railway (celebrating its 10th anniversary in 2011). The Gardens were recently voted by readers of BBC Gardeners World Magazine as one of the top gardens in the country to visit with children.

Did you know?

Autumn is a very special time to visit the Gardens, arriving in a blaze of colour from waterside maples, sweet gums and dogwoods, to Exbury’s National Collection of Nyssa and Oxydendrum. The Gardens feature in Visit England’s Top 10 Places in the Country to view autumn colour, and a self-guided walking trail can be followed by visitors keen to discover the autumn spectacle. Throughout the Gardens visitors can discover a fabulous array of fungi, and, from 1 Oct in the Five Arrows Gallery, a special arrangement of Nerine sarniensis (jewel lilies) displayed, scintillating under direct light.

Alan Titchmarsh said that “nothing had prepared him” for the sight of Exbury’s nerines displayed en masse.

What’s coming up?

Exbury has a packed autumn programme, culminating with the hugely popular and familyfriendly Ghost Train – Dare you Ride and experience a Halloween Phantomime?!

Sat 1st Oct – Sun 6th Nov Nerine Exhibition and Wild Mushroom Art Display, Five Arrows Gallery Sat 1st / Sun 2nd Oct Steam in the Gardens Sat 1st Oct – Sun 6th Nov Festival of Autumn Colours Sat 8th / Sun 9th Oct Big Draw – children welcomed free of charge Sat 15th Oct New Forest RHS Breakfast Walk Sat 22nd Oct PhotoTrek Sat 22nd – Sun 30th Oct Exbury Ghost Train What do our visitors say?

“I would just like to say how impressed both myself and my 10 year old daughter were with the Halloween Ghost Train event. The jokes were funny and the overall effort was fantastic; I will recommend this to all my friends and family and I’m going to book soon for the Santa event.” Mrs S R

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Families What’s THURSDAY 27 OCTOBER 6PM MOONLIT MEMORIES MEANDER www.rowanshospice.co.uk 023 9223 8533 A 1.5 or 3-mile sponsored walk for children aged 0 - 16 years, accompanied by an adult, around Portsmouth Historic Dockyard and HM Naval Base in aid of The Rowans Hospice. This is a fantastic opportunity to explore secret areas of the Naval Base not normally open to the public, see HMS Victory illuminated against the night sky and a great excuse to stay up late during half-term. £5 registration fee includes refreshments and a medal at the end. Closing date to registar is 21/10/11 FRI 28 OCTOBER 7PM FIREWORKS EVENT GUNWHARF QUAYS WATERFRONT www.gunwharf-quays.com Please see website for further details SAT 29 OCTOBER Fireworks Spectacular – Twilight Zone National Motor Museum, Beaulieu www.beaulieuevents.co.uk 01590 612345 Be wowed by the explosive and dynamic fireworks display, set to a Twilight Zone theme. Have fun on the Beaulieu Rides & Drives and

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What’s On Isle of Wight

Old-Time Fairground entertainments including a Big Wheel, Gallopers and Swing Boats, all at good value extra charges. Hot food and drinks are available both inside and out as well as roast chestnuts and candyfloss.

SUN 30 OCTOBER 11AM - 4PM FREE HALLOWEEN EVENT PORT SOLENT www.portsolent.com The Boardwalk’s annual Trick or Treat party - free face-painters to put the finishing touches to your creepy costumes, a brilliant balloon modeller and a spooky crystal ball and tarot card reader to keep the Mums and Dads entertained.

SUN 30 OCTOBER 22ND BUPA GREAT SOUTH RUN Come down to Southsea to help support the annual 10 mile run UNTIL FRI 6 JAN 2012 Birds, Beasts and Bugs Portsmouth City Museum Museum road This exhibition gives insight into the world of nature and how collecting on a theme of natural history has changed over time. There are lots of opportunities for children to have fun and to handle things, including microscopes for investigating smaller specimen.

Saturday 24th Sept 2011 10.00 am – 11.30 am Titchfield Community Centre, Mill St, Titchfield

Good quality second-hand clothes, equipment, toys, books & dvd’s for babies and children Volunteers to help at the sale welcome.

Register to sell from 1st August 2011. ©NCT, Alexandra House, Oldham Terrace London W3 6NH, Registered

For more details website: http://www.nct.org.uk/fareham charity see no. 801395 Email: farehamnct_nns@yahoo.co.uk, Tel: 0844 243 6130 ©NCT, Alexandra House, Oldham Terrace London W3 6NH, Registered

801395 please. Entrance fee: £1 per adult (in aid of NCT Charity).

Space restricted,charity so nono. buggies ©NCT, Alexandra House, Oldham Terrace London W3 6NH, Registered charity no. 801395

Priority entrance to NCT members on production of a valid membership card. ©NCT, Alexandra House, Oldham Terrace London W3 6NH, Registered charity no. 801395

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SAT 10 – SUN 11 SEPTEMBER MODEL RAILWAY EXHIBITION IOW Steam Railway Havenstreet www.iwsteamrailway.co.uk 01983 882204 The excitement and the charm of railways in miniature for all to see ... and then a chance to ride on the real thing!! The exhibition coincides with the UK-wide Heritage Open Weekend, so there will be plenty to see on and around the Railway, including guided tours of the restoration workshops. Free Admission.

SAT 24 – SUN 25 SEPTEMBER SWEETCORN FAIR Arreton Old Village www.farmerjacks.co.uk celebrate the Island’s sweetcorn harvest at the Sweetcorn Fair in Arreton. Lots to do for all the family, including cookery demonstrations and tastings, craft stalls, sweetcorn eating competition, rural craft demonstrations, fun activities and entry to Arreton Barns. To whet your whistle the Dairyman’s Daughter will host 30 real ales in their beer festival, and there will be a range of live entertainment day and night.

SAT 24 – SUN 25 SEPTEMBER STEAM RAILWAY 40TH ANNIVERSARY AUTUMN GALA FESTIVAL OF ISLAND TRACTION IOW Steam Railway Havenstreet www.iwsteamrailway.co.uk 01983 882204 The weekend will feature a two-train service and at least two locomotives dating from the Victorian era including the unique ‘O2’ locomotive No. 24 ‘Calbourne’ and former Island ‘Terrier’ locomotive No.8 ‘Freshwater’. Full range of refreshments, real ale bar, stalls and displays, plus the opportunity to visit our Carriage & Wagon workshop.

SUN 9 OCTOBER ISLE OF WIGHT CONKER CHAMPIONSHIPS Blackgang Chine www.blackgangchine.com 01983 730052 Return of the annual championships where all age contestants are welcome to come and take part in this famous school yard game, originally invented on the island, more than 160 years ago.

FRI 21 – MON 24 OCTOBER ISLE OF WIGHT WALKING FESTIVAL www.isleofwightwalkingfestival.co.uk The Island has over 500 miles of well-maintained and signposted footpaths, around 30 miles of Heritage Coastline and more than half of the Island is recognised as an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty. We will have approximately 300 walks to choose from for the 2011 Walking Festival, giving a wide range for all ages and abilities with over 60 walks during the Autumn Walking Weekend four day period.

SAT 22 - SUN 30 OCTOBER SPOOKY CASTLE CARISBROOKE CASTLE Newport, IOW www.english-heritage.org.uk 0870 333 1181 See page16 for details SUN 23, SAT 28 – SUN 29 OCTOBER 10:30AM – 3:30PM PIRATE TRAIL The needles Old Battery and new battery needlesoldbattery@nationaltrust.org.uk 01983 754772 Follow the clues around the Battery and crack the code. No prize, just for fun..

TUES 25 – THURS 27 OCTOBER WITCHES AND WIZARDS Blackgang Chine www.blackgangchine.com 01983 730052 3 days of ghostly entertainment, magic shows and more TUES 25 OCTOBER 12:30 – 2:30PM CHILDREN AT WAR TALKS The needles Old Battery and new battery needlesoldbattery@nationaltrust.org.uk 01983 754772 Discover what it would have been like to be a child during the Second World War at one of our talks specially for children.

WED 26 OCTOBER 10:30AM – 3:30PM DRAWING MAGIC The needles Old Battery and new battery needlesoldbattery@nationaltrust.org.uk 01983 754772 Take part in a day of children’s drawing activities based on rockets and space.

WED 26 – SUN 30 OCTOBER SPOOKTACULAR Appuldurcombe Farm www.appuldurcombe.co.uk 01983 852484 Lots of fun and ghostly goings on in our haunted house. Are you brave enough to walk through the dungeons of death or the gruesome grave.

Dates, times and prices are acurate at time of going to print. Although we aim to be as accurate as possible, the events listed in our What’s On section are compiled several weeks beforehand and may be subject to change. Some events may have a charge, so please contact venues in advance to check full details.

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Competitions & Classifieds

Win a family ticket to Christmas at Marwell worth

£78!

Christmas is coming to Marwell again this winter. From 25 November to 24 December they will be opening the doors of Marwell Hall for a family Christmas event to remember.

Let the gingerbread express whisk you to the enchanted hall where you’ll step through the igloo entrance into the magical ice palace. You’ll then be invited into Mrs Claus’ library for storytelling, entertainment and gingerbread decorating before being called to meet Santa. Share a few moments with the big man himself and receive a special gift before their elves guide you into the magnificent Tudor Rose Hall for a final photo opportunity with their costumed penguin character. Book tickets online at marwell.org.uk/christmas The prize will admit a family of four (including at least 1 child aged 16 or under) to Christmas at Marwell for the 5.00pm session on Friday 9th December.

Closing date for entries is 1.11.2011. This competition is free to enter and the winner will be the first correct entry drawn at random from all entries after the closing date and will be notified within 7 days of the closing date.

In the event that a winner cannot be contacted by email within 7 days we reserve the right to draw a substitute winner and the original winner will forfeit the prize. Only one entry per person; multiple or repeat entries will be rejected. Entrants providing incorrect, inaccurate or fraudulent information will be disqualified and any prize awarded may be forfeited. Children under 16 years old must have permission of a parent or guardian before entering the competition. There is no cash alternative to the prize, which is a family ticket (for four people including at least 1 child up to and including age 16) to Christmas at Marwell for Friday 9th December 5.00pm slot only.

Date and time slots are not transferable. Children must be 16 years and under. Prior to the visit, the winner will be required to provide information about the children in the party for their visit to Father Christmas. The prize does not include transport to or from Marwell Wildlife.

Classifieds PARTIES

A.I.S LIMOUSINES & PARTY BUSES

www.aislimos.co.uk 023 9235 8627. Kids parties, School Proms, Snaps Discos, etc.

BIRTHDAY CREATIONS

WIN ONE OF 4 TICKETS FAMILY D CHRISTMAS WONDERLAN

TO THE

Santa’s Christmas Wonderland is the most magical Christmas Experience in the South. Enter the sparkling tunnel through the enchanted snow scene to Santa’s toy factory, where children receive a super present, and there’s hot fruit punch and a mince pie for the grown ups!

The first four correct entries drawn will be the lucky winners of a family visit (2 Adults & 2 Children) to the Wonderland on the OPENING DAY, Saturday, 19th November 2011.

All visits to Santa are pre-booked and the ticket includes entry to the amazing new Peppa Pig World featuring 7 fun rides and a large indoor soft play area, as well as access to some of the Park’s other rides. Tel: 023 8081 4442 or www.paultonspark.co.uk for details.

Prize winners will be notified by post. All tickets are pre-booked and winners must advise Paultons Park of the age and sex of the children within 7 days of receipt of prize notification. Tickets are for Saturday 19th November only and will be issued for a set session times. Tickets are issued individually and cannot be exchanged for any other date

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To enter either of the above competitions simply email your name, address and telephone to competitions@familiessolenteast.co.uk, stating the name of the competition you are entering. Closing date: 1st November 2011 Well done to last issues winners!!

Brigitte Hoare, Horndean. Louise Hallin, Baffins. Lianna Carlin, Ryde.

Kathryn Harrison, Fareham. Bethany Grabin, North End. Melanie Cotton, Fareham. Michelle Chipper,Waterlooville.

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* Christmas shopping * Hampshire Fare market * Beautiful snow street scene * Tavern with toe-tapping entertainment * 100s of colourful characters * Plus lots of new features this year!

Friday 25th - Sunday 27th November 2011 Buy your tickets before 31st October 2011 for a 10% discount!

023 9283 9766 www.christmasfestival.co.uk Supported by