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What are you planning for the long school holidays? Let Families help you out.
We have loads of activity ideas to keep the kids busy, including FREE printables for all age groups, family walk ideas, top castles and beaches for toddlers throughout the UK. You can also browse our selection of new audiobooks for kids – perfect for travel or some quiet time!
Get ahead of the back to school rush and check out our sustainable stationery ideas – much kinder to the planet if you have kids that burn through their stationery like wildfire!
Finally, in this issue, we have FOUR great giveaways for our readers. Apply inside. By doing so, you’ll also ensure you receive our digital magazine straight to your inbox.
In this issue
4. Clubs & Classes
5. Education
13. Water Safety
14. Parental Control options
15. Day’s out
16. Printable activities for preschoolers
18. Printable activities for primary age
19. ‘Must visit’ UK castles
20. Family Law
22. Best UK beaches for toddlers
23. Family walks featuring water
25. Giveaways
26. Family breakfasts & brunches
27. Make KitKat ice cream downloadable
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Competition winners from our March/April issue
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Perfect Pitch Stars Total Sports
Want your child to be confident in a group?
Be able to present ideas to others? Be successful in interviews? A positive leader and role model?
These are all things that we want for our children to enable them to succeed. We often don’t know how to make them into these types of people and sometimes it’s something that’s in them already but often it’s the opportunities and circumstances that we give them.
That’s what my aim is for Perfect Pitch Stars along side developing excellent performance skills.
I specialise within Musical Theatre with a BA (Hons) degree and PGCE within Drama after teaching in high schools for 18 years. I have worked with the National Theatre performing plays within professional theatres and enjoyed seeing pupils progress into the industry along with those that have used the subject to build great interpersonal skills to enable them to be successful within other industries.
Classes run in Church Fenton and Naburn. I can’t wait to see the capabilities of local children and adults in the area.
For more details and booking, visit perfectpitchstars.com
From 8am - 5:30pm. From £34.50. Childcare Vouchers Accepted. 5- 12 years. Book individual days or the whole week!
Looking for an exciting way to keep your kids entertained this summer? Look no further ! Total Sports Summer Holiday Camps are the perfect mix of fun and learning, offering an incredible variety of activities for children of all ages and interests. From thrilling sports and action-packed games to creative arts and outdoor adventures, our camps provide a safe and stimulating environment where kids can make new friends and create unforgettable memories. With experienced staff ensuring every child has a blast, you can relax knowing your little ones are in great hands.
Don’t miss our special offer in the first week! Enjoy one day for just £25. Each school year group has a different special day, so check our “Summer £25 Special” and invite friends to join the fun. Plus, every week we offer 50 activities with two choices every hour. Some venues even have dedicated Football Camps and swimming sessions. We accept Government Vouchers.
For more details and booking, visit www.totalsportslimited.co.uk.
Fun learning activities for the summer break
By Zuzu Jordan
School summer holidays offer families a chance to enjoy some much-deserved respite together. However, no one wants learning to seep away or become stagnant.
Try some of these techniques to help with learning continuity and your child will hit the ground running in September.
Expanding children’s vocabulary is incredibly important to their writing and reading comprehension. When on holiday or just going on day trips, think about the new words you are exposing them to. Equally, playing games at home such as Scrabble and Heads Up can be educational.
Make sure books are a part of every day. Whenever you read to your child or let them listen to an audio book they form the sense of a beginning, middle and end of a story. Sign up for the free Summer Reading Challenge at your local library which rewards children for their efforts. Make time to chat about what your children are reading; it will raise their engagement and comprehension levels.
Utilise educational apps to help children practise skills and enhance their learning.
Practise literacy skills by writing a post card on holiday, emails or even letters to friends and family,
journalling, blogging and entering writing competitions.
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Open daily 13th July to 2nd September 2024
Audiobooks for summer
There are lots of hours to fill during the long summer break and audiobooks are the perfect educational way of providing an alternative to books – as well as being fun for the whole family!
The Last Bear by Hannah Gold
Heart-warming, magical story of a boy and a polar bear. Ages 8+.
Jack and the Giant Tantrum Helps manage tricky toddler behaviours. Ages 2-3.
I love my… Collection by Giles Andreae
12 warm and touching tales narrated by Dawn French. Ages 1-3.
The Cosmic Diary of Our Incredible Universe by Tim Peake
Learn about space and the universe. Ages 9+.
Rise Up by Amanda Li
Shares the stories of normal kids & their achievements. Ages 9+.
The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame
The classic story of Mole, Ratty and Badger. Ages 6+.
Blue Planet II by Leisa Stewart-Sharpe
Based on TV series. Examines the world’s oceans. Ages 7+.
Magic Tree House Collection Books by Mary Pope Osborne
Best-selling series now an audiobook. Ages 6+.
The Time Travelling Caveman by Terry Pratchett
Brand-new collection of short stories from Terry Pratchett. Ages 6+.
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Cultural capital: what it is and why it matters
Broadly speaking, the term ‘cultural capital’ refers to the knowledge, skills and experiences that are valued by a society. The concept was first introduced in Pierre Bourdieu’s book Distinction: A Social Critique of the Judgement of Taste in 1979. So why is cultural capital important?
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My child is left-handed, should I be worried?
Recently at a new student screening appointment, a mother disclosed that her child writes with her left hand and uses the computer mouse and scissors with her right. These were the only anomalies for her lefthanded daughter. Perplexed about navigating this world of mixed dominance?
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Preparing to start or change school
Starting or changing school can be both an exciting and nervewracking business, not only for parents but also for children who pick up on the vibe at home. With planning, you can feel more confident in the way you support and celebrate your child’s milestones and transitions as they occur.
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Sustainable stationery supplies
Does your child get through endless amounts of stationery products? If so, you might be interested in our selection of more sustainable options.
Paper Ballpoint Pens
24 pens made from strong paper. 58% extra ink! £14.99.
Wirebound Notebook
3 ruled notebooks of 110 pages. Made with FSC recycled paper. £7.49.
Pure Glue Sticks
5 glue sticks made from 93% natural ingredients, washable, child-friendly. £4.92.
Recycled Newspaper
Colouring Pencils
12 colouring pencils made from recycled newspaper, printed with soy inks. £6.50.
RPET Panda Pencil Case
Stylish pencil case made from 100% recycled plastic water bottles. £3.99.
Dust & PVC Free Eraser
Unique dust free formula does not contain any harmful chemicals. £0.95.
Recycled Newspaper Pencils
Set of 5 x 2mm HB pencils handmade from recycled newspaper. £5.95.
Green BOSS
Highlighter
4 colours made from 83% recycled plastic. Can be refilled. £4.21.
Bamboo Ruler
Made from sustainable bamboo, this ruler is strong but lightweight. £1.50.
Stay safe around water this summer
Water safety on holiday
Take time to review and understand safety notices and flags. Never use inflatables in the sea. Keep children under constant supervision. Look out for potential hazards and deep and shallow water. Stay back from cliff edges, never jump from cliffs or bridges. Make sure the whole family knows basic water safety.
Water safety in public swimming pools
Take time to learn the depth, water flow and layout of the pool. Always follow the rules set out by the venue e.g. no running. Listen and adhere to instructions given by the lifeguards on duty. Always keep children under constant supervision. Weak swimmers - stay where they can touch the bottom.
Get to know your Water Safety Code
Fun RLSS cartoon to help kids understand the fundamentals of being safe near water.
Water safety at home
In the last 5 years, 50% of kids under 7 who drowned did so at home.
Securely cover or empty water hazards after use eg. baths, paddling pools, ponds etc. Stop water hazards from refilling by turning them over, turn off hosepipes.
Install safety fencing around ponds and pools.
Learn the water safety code
Look for dangers and research local signs and advice. Always stay together as a family or group, swim near lifeguards. Float – teach your child how to float properly if they fall in unexpectedly.
Call 999 - ask for Fire & Rescue when inland and the Coastguard if at beach.
Teach your child how to float
If your child finds themselves in water accidentally, this essential skill could save their life.
Top parental controls for monitoring screen time
Screen time is a fact of summer holidays – and of modern life! As your child heads for their screen this summer, make sure you have the right parental control products in place.
Norton Family
Monitor all child activity from web or mobile app. £14.99 yearly.
Bark Premium
AI scans emails/social media profiles/texts/ media for harmful content. From £14 monthly.
Family Locator Locategy
Free basic version – geofencing, app blocking, activity reports & easy setup.
Qustodio
Comprehensive range of features across multiple devices. From £39.95 yearly.
Family Time Premium
Great for mobile users, full suite of monitoring features. From $2.41 monthly.
Net Nanny
Robust screen time management tools, location tracking, social media monitoring. $54.99 yearly.
Mobicip
Scheduling, monitoring location, social media, screen time. From $2.99 monthly.
Boomerang
Monitors android device web browsing, device usage & location. From $15.99 yearly.
Kapersky Safe Kids
Great value & monitors unlimited devices, regardless of platform. £23.99 per year.
York Maze
York Maze is home to the largest Maize Maze in Europe with over 20 rides, shows and attractions. Join them in celebrating The Gruffalo’s 25th Anniversary. Follow The Gruffalo Quiz Trail through the deep dark maze and you could win a prize! Open daily from July 13 – Sept 2.
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Baby Band Festival
The Baby Band Music Festival is your passport to a summer day filled with the sweet sound of family fun, live music and unforgettable memories. Join them at Lotherton Hall on July 21 for proper music, great bands, and absolutely no nursery rhymes.
Find out more HERE
FREE activity printables for pre-schoolers
Perfect for whipping out to deal with those ‘I need something to occupy the little one’ moments!
Learn About Numbers activity book
Unicorn rainbow colouring
Counting to 5 activity sheet
Big Bird Number 6 colouring page
Dino Diggers activity pack
Bing’s Big Surprise activities
Alphablocks A to Z colouring chart
Round & round snail maze
Dino Dot-to-Dot activity sheet
FREE printables for primary-school aged kids
For the ‘I’ve got nothing to do!’ moments that are sure to arise this summer – worth printing and stashing somewhere close by!
Battleships
Great game to develop strategy, logical thinking and concentration.
Country word search
Find twenty countries hidden amongst the letters.
Harry Potter word scramble
Figure out what Harry is saying.
The Mystery of the Missing Pirate Treasure
Practise maths and problem solving.
Car travel games
Keep them entertained with car bingo, alphabet game, car search & more.
How to draw a cat
Simple chart from which your child can learn to draw a cat.
Sudoku
Set of 9 puzzles, easy to hard. Develop logic & problem solving.
Food crossword puzzles
5 food themed puzzles. improve spelling, reading and writing.
Magic square worksheets
Easy, intermediate and advanced sheets that practise addition.
‘Must visit’ UK castles to explore
Alnwick Castle, Northumberland
A sprawling complex dating to 1096. Broomstick training, medieval crafts & more.
Bolsover Castle, Derbyshire
Lavishly decorated, costumed storytellers, jousting tournaments & castle-themed play area.
The Tower of London
See the Crown Jewels guarded by Beefeaters and overseen by ravens.
Conwy Castle/ Castell Conwy, North Wales
A 13th-century marvel. Archery, medieval craft and Welsh folklore tales.
Framlingham Castle, Suffolk
Climb its walls, discover rich history & enjoy soft play sword battles.
Dover Castle, Kent
Explore secret wartime tunnels, medieval interiors and the Great Tower.
Crathes Castle, Aberdeenshire
Dramatic 16th century spectacle with soaring turrets. Kids can enjoy Go Ape.
Bodiam Castle, East Sussex
A 14th century gem with moat, drawbridge, murder holes, medieval bread oven.
Warwick Castle, Warwickshire
Explore dungeons, climb towers and witness jousting displays.
How can I prove I’m in a Coercive Relationship?
By Hartlaw
In the context of divorce and Children proceedings, it may be relevant to show that your former partner was/ is coercively controlling. In view of the often secretive and closet abusive behaviour of the coercer, how can you show that you have been the victim of coercive control?
What is Coercive Control?
Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse. ‘Controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship’ became a criminal offence in the Serious Crime Act 2015. It is described by Women’s Aid as ‘an act or pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim’.
It can include checking up on you, having financial control, isolating you from friends and family, subjecting you to constant criticism and insults, intimidation and threats (physical and non-physical).
The difficulty can be that, by the very nature of it being an erosion of wellbeing over time, there is not one defining act but a pattern of behaviour.
The Impact on Family Court proceedings
In financial remedy proceedings during divorce conduct by one spouse is only taken into account where it is extremely serious (often being referred to as ‘gross and obvious’ or having the ‘gasp’ factor). Currently you also have to show that the conduct itself
has impacted your finances adversely. Where this type of domestic abuse has been perpetrated over a long period of time and is often hidden to those outside the relationship, it can be difficult to meet these high thresholds.
In Children Act proceedings, the children may have been harmed by direct coercive control or by witnessing this over time. This may then impact how much time is safe for the children to spend with the perpetrator and if safeguards should be in place and what they might look like.
Identifying Coercive control when you separate can therefore be important.
Proving the abuse and Getting support
These steps can help you to plan a way forward and prove the behaviour:
• Keep a log yourself of any and all incidents
• Messages and emails can help to show a pattern of abuse
• Do not hesitate to contact the police, who can log the incidents and ensure alerts are in place in case there is an escalation or trigger point.
• Engage professional legal services who specialise in domestic abuse, they can help guide you during the process, suggest creative options and will know of other professionals to give you additional all-round support.
• Seek support from trusted individuals around you, they can offer emotional support but also may be able to provide evidence of what has been going on.
• Get support from a domestic abuse charity
• If you no longer live together a Ring doorbell can be an added protection
The harm to victim survivors’ mental health and wellbeing is recognised and the impact can be profound. This may also apply to the children of the family. Court proceedings can be difficult and come at a very emotional and stressful time. Support to enable the survivor to cope is absolutely vital.
Family lawyers, especially if they are members of Resolution, should always look out for the risk of domestic abuse and its impact on their client and the associated risks of that, from the very first contact with them. A good family lawyer, with experience of acting in domestic and intimate partner
abuse cases, should understand that vulnerable clients will need specialist advice. Also that additional support will likely be required from other holistic services (such as counselling and specialist divorce coaches). The legal and practical advice they give should be tailored to meet the needs of clients who have, or are, living through such abuse in order to help them move towards a more positive future.
Support Resources: For immediate protection you should always dial 999.
Women’s Aid: www.womensaid.org.uk
Email: helpline@womensaid.org.uk Directory of local support: www.womensaid.org.uk/domesticabuse-directory
IDAS: The Independent Domestic Abuse Service
www.idas.org.uk 24 hr National helpline: 0800 2000247
Best UK beaches for toddlers
Looking for a beach to visit that perfectly suits your very young children? Here is our selection.
Alum Chine, Dorset
Adventure playground, paddling pool & changing facilities.
Frinton on Sea, Essex
Clean, firm, plentiful sand, safe gently shelving beach, promenade with facilities.
Porthminster (St Ives), West Cornwall
Sandy sheltered beach, shallow water, for paddling, nearby facilities.
Old Hunstanton, Norfolk
Spacious golden sandy beach, shallow water, rock pools & toilets.
West Wittering, Sussex
Wide sloping beach, shallow tidal pools & clean, calm water.
Seacliff, East Lothian
Beautiful, sheltered beach of golden sands. Toilets.
Caswell Bay, South Wales
Golden sands, rock pools, café, beach shop, toilets & showers.
Sandsend, East Yorkshire
Hidden gem just north of Whitby. Lagoon, rockpools & nearby facilities.
St Annes Beach Lytham, Lancashire
Loads of sand, good for paddling, donkey rides and amenities.
Best walks featuring water
Looking for a walk with water involved? These are some of our favourite walks from The Outdoor Guide
Seaton Wetlands
On the south Devon coast you’ll find the RSPB Seaton Wetlands. With a path that’s suitable for pushchairs and wheelchairs, this walk offers the opportunity to observe the many feathered friends who call this place home.
River Ness & Ness Islands
From the heart of Inverness, this walk takes you along the banks of the River Ness and onto the magical Ness Islands.
These are natural islands in the middle of the river, connected by suspension foot bridges. Keep an eye out for the seals that can sometimes be found here.
Coombe AbbeyHeron’s Way
There are plenty of walks for all to enjoy at Coombe Abbey Country Park near Coventry. This one takes you around the lake that, at 1.5 miles long, is one of the largest ever designed be Lancelot ‘Capability’ Brown.
Swanbourne Lake & Arundel Park
Just a short distance from the town of Arundel in Sussex is Swanbourne Lake, part of the Arundel Castle estate.
It’s a popular spot for families, offering gentle walks and boat hire so you can enjoy the views from the water. Don’t forget to grab an ice cream from the kiosk!
Best walks featuring water
Looking for a walk with water involved? These are some of our favourite walks from The Outdoor Guide
Blickling Hall - The Den Making One
This 2 mile walk takes you around Blickling Hall Estate lake and offers plenty of wildlife watching and den making. Don’t forget to visit the cafe for a wellearned treat at the end!
Setthorns, New Forest National Park
Walk in the shade of the trees as you explore the Setthorns
Enclosure in the New Forest National Park.
The walk takes you down to a stream where children and dogs can paddle and play - keep an eye out for the free roaming livestock who also paddle here too!
South Shore Rutland Water
Rutland Water is a reservoir that is teeming with wildlife. This is a great walk along the southern shore and takes in part of the nature reserve. After, why not take a boat trip to see it from another angle?
A walk along the shore of Ullswater
No trip to the Lake District is complete without a walk along the shore of a lake. This is just a short walk, around a mile, to the shores of Ullswater in the eastern lakes.
The nearby village of Pooley Bridge has some great cafés for after!
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Family breakfasts and brunches
Take advantage of the more relaxed summer holiday routine and try some of these special family breakfast and brunch options!
Upside down apple pancakes
Cut into wedges. Serve with a dollop of whipped cream & cinnamon.
Easy sweetcorn fritters
A quick breakfast treat, top with poached egg or smashed avocado.
Easy griddled waffles
These are super simple to make. Top with bananas/maple syrup.
Peanut butterstuffed french toast
Inspired by deep-fried french toast, pan-fried for ease.
Eggy bread
A simple versatile breakfast recipe. Serve with strawberries, yoghurt, stewed fruit.
Courgette and Cheddar cheese muffin
Warm from the oven - a great breakfast treat.
Pancake
breakfast tacos
Taco-inspired pancakes with bacon, cheese and scrambled eggs.
Norwegian custard buns
A great breakfast pastry, filled with custard.
Bacon and egg cups
Served in ramekins lined with bacon, these cups are a breakfast treat.
Make crispy KitKat Ice Cream Cake
Crispy, creamy, chocolatey and decadent - words can’t describe this perfectly dreamy KitKat Ice Cream Cake recipe contributed by multi-award-winning food, parenting and lifestyle writer, Emily Leary at A Mummy Too.