Families Thames Valley West March/April 2023 PRINT

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IN THIS ISSUE:

Spring flowers and sunshine are always so welcome and signal the beginning of longer days and outdoor fun. In this issue you will find loads of local activities - and some ideas for family holiday destinations that will inspire you to explore much further afield!

We aim to be inclusive to all families, and we are focusing on special needs in this issue. You will find an excellent article on ADHD – a condition that was misunderstood until recently – as well as an interview with the wonderful George Webster, who is the first CBeebies presenter to have Down Syndrome. Locally we have news of two activities especially for children with special needs. If you’re looking for some ideas for days out over the Easter holidays, check out our packed What’s On guide and enjoy the children’s recommendations for fun family activities.

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Peter Pan comes to Reading Rep Theatre

A face at the window, a sprinkling of fairy dust and an awfully big adventure.

The mischievous Peter Pan invites the Darling siblings on an adventure of a lifetime, and together they explore a land filled with mermaids, pirates, fairies and a ticking crocodile through the eyes of a boy who will never grow up.

J M Barrie’s classic tale of friendship, courage and magic takes flight in Reading Rep’s new adaptation, guaranteed to bring forth everyone’s inner child.

Tickets from £5. Peter Pan runs at Reading Rep Theatre from 6 April to 29 April. Tickets can be booked at readingrep.com

Win family tickets to The Little Welly!*

The Little Welly is the UK’s biggest obstacle courses for children.

This year the event will take place by the river in Henley on the 10th & 11th June. The Little Welly experience is all about getting kids active and outdoors: running, jumping, climbing and of course getting muddy! There will be 30 big obstacles over 3km including foam, water, ropes, and slides.

As well as our obstacle course The Little Welly is also a ‘whole day out’. With pony rides, face painting, fun activities, live entertainment, music, food and drink, you’ll find something for everyone at our family festival.

To enter, please e-mail your name and contact details to editor@familiestvw.co.uk by 31st March 2023.

*The competition prize is for 2 child obstacle and festival tickets and 2 adult assist obstacle course and festival tickets, worth over £70. Winners will be provided with a discount code for the full value. Tickets are valid at any day/any time between 9.30am and 16.30pm.

Join us at Wellington Country Park this Easter!

Beautifully rural yet easily accessible, our awardwinning destination is the best place to spend your holiday for a fun-filled day during our Easter Eggstravaganza.

All of our Easter events at Welly Park are included in your admission fee. From the Mega Egg Hunt to Circus Wellingtonia, Circus Skills to Crafts with Junk Jodie, there is so much to do, and you are sure to have an egg-citing day out!

Perfect for children up to the age of 8 years old, spend family time together and make unforgettable memories.

For more information and to book your tickets, visit www.wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk

Confidence-building fun with Perform

Spring is the perfect time of year to get those feel-good endorphins pumping, and Perform’s new summer term themes are sure to get bodies moving and hearts singing. What’s more, your child can try a class for free!

Perform offers a different type of children’s drama class. They don’t focus on creating perfect dancers or the next child stars. Instead, they put children’s social development at the heart of their classes, using a specially formulated mix of drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s true potential. Exciting termly themes keep young imaginations buzzing while small class sizes ensure lots of individual attention from experienced professionally trained actors, dancers and singers. Classes are for children of all abilities and they can join at any point in the term; the only requirement is to be ready to have the best fun of the week!

From April to July, 4-7s will be setting sail on the Jammy Dodger in Mermaids & Pirates whilst 7–12s will take part in The Dream, a hilarious adaptation of A Midsummer Night’s Dream.

Classes run in Twyford, Newbury, Reading, Wokingham (NEW VENUE!), Winnersh, Crowthorne, Goring and Henley. To book a FREE trial class, visit www.perform.org.uk/try

Matilda Too the Narrowboat

Is there really a river flowing through the middle of Reading? Can you really go on a boat through the town and look at different things from the river?

Join the friendly crew for a ride on the Matilda Too and float through the middle of the Oracle shopping centre. We also travel to some secret places, like the underside of bridges, and Chocolate Island.

We pass several historic sites along the way: Reading Abbey, the biscuit factory and the old prison. Kennet and Avon Canal Trust (KACT) and its local volunteers aim to promote understanding of the history and significance of the canal through Reading and beyond.

Trips start from Star Lane Wharf at the rear of the Queens Road car park (RG1 4AR) on Saturdays and Sundays starting in April at 12pm, 1pm, 2pm and 3pm. The trips last about 45 minutes depending on water conditions.

To book in advance check out matilda.katrust.org.uk. Alternatively, scan the QR code.

Editor’s note: I have been on the wonderful Matilda and am looking forward to a trip on the Matilda Too next!

COMPETITION: Who was Matilda in history? Answer this question and get a small prize from the crew when you meet them.

Kinky Boots the Musical

Embrace some diversity this Easter (Tue 11 to Sun 16 April) at South Hill Park with a sassy, feelgood musical based on the Tony awardwinning show that was a Broadway sensation.

Charlie is a shoe factory owner struggling to save his family business, after inheriting it from his father. Lola is a fabulous Cabaret performer and drag queen with a wildly exciting idea. With a little compassion and a lot of understanding, this unexpected pair learn to embrace their differences and create a line of sturdy stilettoes unlike any the world has ever seen! But in the end, their most sensational achievement… is their friendship.

With a cast of local talent and fabulous score, as well as original music and lyrics by Cyndi Lauper, this is a dazzling and uplifting show sure to make your Easter holiday sparkle. Recommended 8yrs+.

www.southhillpark.org.uk/shp-events/kinky-boots

Colour Run 2023

First Days Children’s Charity is holding its second Colour Run on Sunday 14th May at Prospect Park in Reading, raising funds to support families in Berkshire suffering with the effects of financial hardship.

The Colour Run is fun and suitable for all fitness levels, ages and backgrounds! It’s not a race - walk, run or dance your way around the 2.5km course - once or twice, and our “colour throwers” will ensure you finish the course brighter, happier and more colourful to how you started!

Local businesses Phantom Brewing Co. and Unholy Donuts will be onsite with refreshments to purchase.

Based on the current cost of living, we appreciate how challenging it is to make finances balance at the moment. With this in mind, and to make the event accessible to as many people as possible, we have a tiered pricing option – visit our website for details.

www.firstdays.net

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Spring into Easter this April at Odds Farm Park

Families on the hunt for fun should hop along to Odds Farm Park, near Beaconsfield, between the 1st – 16th April to enjoy its annual Easter event.

Little ones can meet the Easter Bunny, before hopping over to the Odds Farm Easter Garden for the Easter Scavenger Egg Hunt, with delicious chocolate treats for those who take part.

There will also be ‘ahhhs’ a-plenty thanks to fluffy bunnies, kid goats, and bouncing lambs for families to see in the animal barns. There will even be opportunities for children to bottlefeed the kid goats at regular times throughout the day.

And the arts and crafts marquee will also be opening its doors again to welcome crafty visitors who want to get stuck into making Springthemed creations.

For more information, call 01628 520188, visit www.oddsfarm. co.uk, or like and follow @OddsFarmPark on Facebook and Instagram for all the latest news and updates.

If you have any news to share with our readers, e-mail editor@familiestvw.co.uk

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The specialist touch at Crosfields School

With the current economic climate, families looking at independent schools, want to know they are placing their child in an environment with the most opportunities. Crosfields School caters to children aged 3 to 16.

One important factor is the offering of specialist education in a broad curriculum. From Nursery, children at Crosfields School, are immersed in languages, dance, and music to develop their love of learning. As they progress through the school, they have access to science labs, design and technology suites, and the theatre. However, it is not just the wonderful facilities that bring the subjects to life.

At the heart of Crosfields is the passionate teaching staff. Teachers focus on supporting children, sharing their knowledge, and encouraging them to engage in subjects they love.

It is our personal ambition to strive for the best in our staff, knowing this is passed to the children. Book a personalised tour to meet our exceptional teachers: www.crosfields.com

Open Days: March and April

Downe House, Cold Ash, Thatcham, RG18 9JJ 01635 20470 downehouse.net

Sat 18 March (open morning)

Crosfields School, Shinfield Road, Reading, RG2 9BL 0118 987 1810/crosfields.com

Thur 9 March, 10am–12:30pm (junior open morning)

Wed 15 March, 9:30–10:15am (early years stay and play session)

Fri 24 March, 9:15–10:30am (reception stay and explore)

Get connected during British Science Week

British Science Week is a ten-day celebration of science, technology, engineering and maths, which takes place from 10 to 19 March.

This year’s theme is ‘Connection.’ Nearly all innovations in science are built on connections between people, and connections occur across all areas of science, including animals, the internet and even between human action and climate change.

During British Science week, people from all over the UK take part in events and activities to develop their skills in these areas at a wide range of venues, such as community groups, cultural centres and museums.

A range of FREE activity packs and other resources suitable for all age groups can also be downloaded for fun family activities in the home.

To find a local event, visit www.britishscienceweek.org

Open days may need pre-booking. Please check before visiting.

Horris Hill School, Newtown, Newbury, RG20 9DJ 01635 40594 horrishill.com

Sat 18 March, 9:30am (open morning)

Leighton Park School, Reading, RG2 7ED 0118 987 9609 leightonpark.com

Fri 17 March, 9am (open morning)

Luckley House School, Wokingham, RG40 3EU 0118 978 4175 luckleyhouseschool.org

Wed 1 March (year 7 taster day)

Wed 22 March (open morning)

Queen Anne’s School, Reading, RG4 6DX 0118 918 7300 qas.org.uk

Fri 3 March, 9:30am (open morning)

The Abbey Junior School, Reading, RG2 7AR 0118 931 3111

theabbey.co.uk

Tue 7 March, 1pm–3:30pm

The Abbey Senior School, Reading, RG1 5DZ 0118 987 2256

theabbey.co.uk

Fri 21 April, 9am–3pm

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Meet the Head: Horris Hill School

This issue we catch up with Mr Rob Stewart, Headmaster at Horris Hill School, which is a successful day and boarding school set in more than 65 acres of Berkshire countryside near Newbury.

When did you become Head at Horris Hill, and what did you do before that?

I joined Horris Hill in September 2022, having been Headmaster of the Oratory Prep School for six years previously. That was my first headship, however I began my career at Ampleforth College and succeeding that, was 15 years at Eton College where I became a Housemaster.

The school recently became coeducational and also opened a nursery. What benefits have these changes brought to the school?

As our day provision grows, both elements have added opportunity and optimism to the Horris Hill community. The introduction of girls has enriched the experience for the entire school, creating a space where both girls and boys can access our broad and varied curriculum.

Our nursery has helped us support local parents with their childcare options. We share a long-term vision for their child’s education; keeping families and children throughout their primary years and allowing a natural transition from Nursery through to the Lower School.

How does the school encourage pupils to connect with the wider world?

We are keen to focus our efforts on our social impact here at Horris Hill. My Deputy Head, Teaching and Learning has been revising the current curriculum with all our staff, to allow the themes and topics we teach to tie in with the UN’s sustainable goals. This will not only encourage our children to be global thinkers, but will deepen their understanding of the world which we are preparing them for.

We also aspire to build life-long learning skills and the flair needed to be creative, problem-solvers in the future.

How does the school create a home from home environment for boarders?

The family structure of the houses, being led by a Houseparent and supported by assistant teachers provides a wonderful environment for the children. We have been updating our boarding houses and, with a wonderful new girls’ boarding house, we have lovely spaces and facilities for the pupils to enjoy.

At Horris Hill, children are able to play and explore in ways that enable them to have a fulfilling and happy experience. Having 65 acres of countryside on their doorstep, with a motivated and supportive staff, nurtures independence and fosters a range of interests in the children.

Have you had any particularly memorable or funny moments when working in education?

One of my most rewarding experiences in education was during my tenure at Eton.

Every summer, the Eton Brent Summer School would take up residency. This was a summer school program for North London Schools, where children were challenged and stretched academically. A programme like this demonstrated to me the benefit of outreach work and its importance within communities.

What sort of music do you like to listen to or play?

I have always been a huge admirer and fan of Bruce Springsteen and singer-songwriters like Bob Dylan, Van Morrison, Tracy Chapman. Poetic lyricism and creativity are things I admire in performers.

Where is your favourite place in the world?

One of my favourite cities is Istanbul. As a child growing up in Izmir, we would frequently visit and I have fond memories of feeling excited by the bustle and colour of the city. I loved the expansive range of shops, museums, historical sites and restaurants. It’s a city like no other.

What are your plans for the school over the coming years?

As a staff body, we identified 3 core values of Horris Hill, which underpin everything we do as a school moving forward: family, freedom and flair.

We are a family school. Small, friendly and warm are hopefully three words you will hear often here. We seek to develop the character and the moral values of the children.

Cross year-group playing is encouraged, from Lower School through to Year 8 children; with Year 8s happily interacting with the Reception class through reading each day. We strive to develop children with a sense of vocation and a desire to help others in the world.

As a school with fields that cover 65 acres, we support children to broaden their sense of self, independence and confidence in their abilities.

On arrival at Horris Hill, a parent described to me how children at Horris Hill express their flair. The word suggests originality, style and energy, and these are qualities we nurture in all Horris Hill children.

For more information contact the admissions team, email: admissions@ horrishill.com or call 01635 40594/07385 678029. www.horrishill.com

Helping boys manage the gender gap

By Catherine Loble and Lisa Wander

A 2022 global report shows that boys are increasingly becoming left behind in education. Furthermore, recent school entry baseline assessments show over one million boys are already under-achieving by the time they enter Reception. So what are the reasons behind this?

One key factor is that the male brain is wired to respond in external, rather than internal ways. This leaves boys at a disadvantage in the school environment where teaching focusses on the sedentary development of verbal skills, at the expense of active learning. A calm, controlled classroom is usually the teacher’s end goal but boys tend to learn better by doing rather than sitting.

Both at home and at school, boys participate less in activities such as storytelling and nursery rhymes that support language and literacy development. Even playtime choices affect their development; whilst girls often use make believe and role play activities which further develop their language skills, boys generally choose more physical outlets.

The gender gap is further evidenced by the fact that boys make up around eighty per cent of pupils excluded from schools. They are often easily distracted and less likely to follow instructions.

What is being done to address this? Sadly, our education system does not always get it right and only a minority of schools have been successful in developing specific strategies to raise boys’ attainment. These involve refining approaches to learning and teaching by challenging stereotypical perceptions and making necessary changes to the curriculum.

An excellent model which proves the theories about the different learning styles needed for successful boys’ education is the rapid emergence of Forest Schools. Here educators are seeing young boys excel when allowed to learn in the right environment, mixing physicality with academia. The benefits are limitless and encourage children of both sexes to learn in their own ways.

While it may not be possible to find or have access to the perfect school environment, acknowledging that boys will mature later and have different learning needs and styles and giving them the encouragement and support they need, will help them progress through the school system. Encouragingly, once they are mature and by the time they finish school, the gender gap will have decreased with boys often outperforming their female counterparts at A-Level.

Catherine and Lisa are co-founders of Emparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk), supporting children, parents and families with insights, skills and tools to nurture the development and well-being of the next generation.

Supporting boys from an early age

Provide boys with physical outlets before, after and during school. Any outdoor activity can be a learning opportunity.

Value boys’ achievements to improve self-esteem.

Encourage their confidence by validating their strengths. Understand their strengths and interests.

Find time for family activities, such as board games, baking and crafting, all of which provide excellent opportunities for conversation and chat.

Weave in time for reading for pleasure. Let them choose books based on their interests. Make a variety of genres available including non-fiction and magazines.

Give your son the responsibility of helping with simple chores. Try not to compare. While we know that girls outperform boys up to GCSE, from thereon it becomes a far more even playing field. It is important to give boys time to mature.

Try to find positive male role models or mentors. Often schools will run these schemes and they are a great benefit.

Emotional intelligence supports learning

Emotional intelligence is defined as a person’s ability to express and manage feelings appropriately, while respecting the feelings of others. Studies show that children with high emotional intelligence gain better grades, stay in school longer and generally make healthier choices. All children can be taught emotional intelligence.

Give feelings a label. Children need to recognise them. This helps build up their own emotional vocabulary when approaching others.

Show empathy. Slow down and be less dismissive of how your kids are feeling.

Model appropriate ways to express feelings. Use feeling words in your everyday conversation.

Teach healthy coping skills. You will find plenty of calming techniques online to show kids how to regulate their feelings. Develop problem-solving skills. Help your children work through problems, don’t simply remove them.

Often all our children need is a hug and an acknowledgement of how they feel!

Stretching your child’s imagination

By Jemma Z Smith

Imagination is the ability to create mental images, thoughts or ideas. It helps us to generate new ideas, to think creatively and to consider possibilities that may not be rooted in current reality. Imagination can be a powerful tool for problem-solving and innovation.

Imagination is often associated with childhood and is an important aspect of child development. Children use their imaginations to create stories, games and other forms of play in which they explore their environment and learn about the world.

However, imagination isn’t only important in childhood. There are many jobs that rely on imagination and creative thinking. For example, imagination is used by the following professionals in the following ways:

Painters, sculptors, photographers - to create works of art;

Novelists, screenwriters and other writers - to create stories and characters;

Actors - to portray characters and bring stories to life;

Architects - to design buildings and other structures;

Graphic designers - to create visual designs for websites, advertisements and other media;

Musicians - to compose music and create new sounds;

Game designers - to create interactive games and virtual worlds;

Marketers - to come up with creative marketing campaigns and advertisements;

Teachers - to create engaging lesson plans and activities for their students;

Engineers - to design and build new products and systems.

Imagination takes many forms, including visual imagination to create mental images or pictures, verbal imagination in stories or ideas using words and musical imagination creating melodies and harmonies. It can also involve the use of all five senses, such as when someone imagines the taste, smell, or texture of a food they have never experienced.

By providing opportunities for children to use their imagination and encouraging them to be creative, parents can develop their creative thinking skills.

All imaginative play starts with an understanding of the world around us, so to help a child to use their imagination we must first introduce them to different experiences, from sensory experiences such as discovering new foods or smells, to listening to different accents and instruments. This exposure to the world allows your child to have a large mental ‘dressing up box’ to use when creating characters and scenarios for their imaginative play.

Jemma Zoe Smith is Director of The Education Hotel (www.educationhotel.co.uk).

Six reasons children switch off from learning (and how to re-engage them)

By Gail Hugman

Given eleven years of compulsory full-time schooling, it’s not surprising many children come across difficulties that affect their performance and ability to learn and some switch off learning altogether. The reasons for ‘switching off’ can be many and varied. Here are six of the most common I have come across along with steps which can help children re-engage.

Boredom

It is not uncommon for parents to know intuitively that their child could do much better if they applied themselves. Children need three things to help them do this: to understand how schoolwork helps them develop skills, to know which goal to aim for next and to receive positive praise for small as well as big achievements.

Summer born

Summer born babies are the youngest in their class, which can mean up to eleven months’ less experience of life and development. Being in a group of children who are physically bigger and who know and can do more, can affect confidence and self-belief. Talking to your child about the age difference and what it means can help to keep them engaged.

Learning differences

Sometimes children switch off because they have an undiagnosed learning difference. They get by using coping strategies such as copying friends or telling you they ‘read better in their head,’ to hide their embarrassment. Trust your gut instinct if something doesn’t feel right.

Major events

Separation and divorce, bereavement, moving house, illness and the birth of a sibling all disrupt daily life. It takes three years to recover from a major stress event and we can sometimes forget this in the hurly burly. Having a chat to help settle your child’s mind about the event or remind them how much they’ve achieved or changed can help to ‘update’ their brain and refocus on moving forward.

Not knowing who or how to ask for help

A normally enthusiastic 7-year-old child had become reluctant to go to school and his work was starting to suffer. His teacher and parent both noticed the change. When investigated, it turned out that the boy’s desk had been moved next to the window in class

and he was cold! He didn’t know who to tell. Sometimes the most challenging issues have the simplest solutions. Ask your child what’s going on in school. Don’t overthink it; start simple.

Poor concentration

The possibilities for distraction from learning are numerous. Too much screen time can agitate young developing brains; not enough sleep; not understanding or liking a subject; being too hot, too cold, too hungry or chatting with a friend and missing instructions can all lead to concentration issues. It is more important than ever that your child can focus and concentrate well in the classroom.

How to help

Sit down with your child and ask them what they see as their strengths and what they are proud of, then tell them what you see they have achieved in the last year. Ask them what help they would wish for at school if you had a magic wand. By taking an interest and showing you care, this helps get the discussion started to tease out anything on their mind that you can help with.

Gail Hugman is the bestselling author of 100 Things to Learn

Before You’re 10. A children’s life coach, she owns and runs Human at Core (www.humanatcore.com), which helps parents motivate and engage their children through science-based, online personal development courses.

Concentration skills

Try a daily brain warm up before school with timed, pacy exercises:

Throw ball to wall and catch or throw ball to person – or hand to hand - and catch.

Trace a simple picture or pattern.

Two minutes - repeatedly copy out and say a times table OR write out spellings.

Two minutes – squeeze a stress ball to release tension and develop hand control.

Two minutes - look at timetable for the day to get the brain ready.

Working memory

Working memory and processing issues are not a measure of intelligence but they slow children down. The good news is children can improve with help. Try these simple daily activities for working memory issues:

Read homework to your child.

Show your child what to do first, what to do second etc and look at each step when finished. Help your child read often to boost confidence. Play memory games frequently.

Bringing back playing out

For the majority of today’s parents, the best childhood memories don’t involve expensive toys or organised activities. Instead, they remember the simple pleasures of playing and running around outside with their friends. Their strongest and fondest memories recall a magical sense of freedom and possibility.

There have been many studies into the benefits of free, unstructured outside play. Children playing together use their creativity and imagination to create games and invent rules; they learn how to collaborate, share, negotiate and resolve conflicts. They build resilience, independence and social confidence as they learn to navigate the world without adult interference. All valuable experiences as they grow into young adults.

Playing outside is also the natural, joyful way that children are physically active and develop running, balancing, skipping, climbing, jumping and even ball skills at their own pace. You don’t have to ‘make’ children do this; just look at a school playground at breaktime!

In the past, playing outside was the easy, free way that children got all these vital health and wellbeing benefits, every day. All it needed was safe spaces close to home: streets, patches of land, small parks children could get to. It didn’t need money, a car or an adult to take them.

Today things are very different. While screens and ‘lazy’ children or parents often get blamed, one of the biggest barriers is traffic. UK traffic volume has doubled since the 1980s and roads are now seen as ‘just for cars.’ Parental fears are justified, as the numbers of children being killed or injured on our roads is shocking and should be unacceptable in any society.

Snelsmore Common Country Park

This 96-hectare park in Newbury, is managed by BBOWT and has several well-signposted routes, including one that is fully accessible for pushchairs and wheelchairs. It is a peaceful spot that is easy to reach from junction 13 of the M4.

I visited with my son on a cold but bright day in January, and the highlight for him was that there were numerous frozen pools to be crunched and prodded. We enjoyed a leisurely walk around the green route, spotting New Forest ponies along the wayalthough we were disappointed to find the café shut when we had finished!

In spring, the BBOWT website describes Snelsmore Common’s “spring wonders”: “You may be lucky to hear woodlarks singing across the heath. On brash and log piles, look out for adders basking in the sun. You can also see grass snake, common lizard and slow-worm, and the large pond supports a breeding population of palmate newts.”

Also on the website (bbowt.org.uk/nature-reserves/ snelsmore-common-country-park), there is a crayon-rubbing trail activity, which you can print before your visit.

So what can parents do?

Gardens are safe but not everyone has one. Organised activities are great but not always possible and don’t replace the benefits of unstructured play.

Play streets are one way to reclaim some of the freedom children have lost. By temporarily stopping through traffic on a residential street, neighbours can open up a safe space for children to play together on their doorsteps.

In 2009, a group of Bristol parents closed their street to through traffic for a few hours to give their children some of the freedom they grew up with. Their council then agreed that this could happen every week. The idea began to spread and they set up Playing Out to support other parents and residents do the same.

Playing Out brings more play and freedom into children’s lives in an easy, affordable way. Look into setting up your own space at www.playingout.net.

Children’s reviews

This issue Michael, 6, and Ryan, 10, recommend some familyfriendly local activities. If your child would like to write a review of 100-200 words of a great local place, please e-mail it to us at editor@familiestvw.co.uk

Kidical Mass monthly bike rides

kidicalmassreading.co.uk

By Michael, Age 6

Kidical Mass is a bike ride that children ride from one place to another or from one place back to that same place. We do it together in a group, so that makes it that the rides are really fun. It feels fun and we often ring our bells during the ride.

It feels quite safe, even when we ride on the road during Kidical Mass, because we’ve got safety marshals and our parents with us. I am six and my Dad leads the Reading Kidical Masses. We ride in two different places, Reading and Wokingham. After Kidical Mass we have cake and biscuits and ride around a little before we go home.

South Reading Leisure Centre Playground

Northumberland Avenue, Reading, RG2 8DH

By Ryan, Age10

I think the South Reading Leisure Centre Playground is a great place to go. I like to call it the “Dragon Playground”, as it has a giant climbable dragon. Last time I went I had a blast. And if that wasn’t enough, it has a climbing rock centrepiece!

Top value family holiday destinations

By Ashley Lutz

Travelling abroad as a family is a wonderful experience for all. It can seem quite a significant financial outlay but with careful planning you can still find destinations that offer excellent value for money and magical memories for years to come. Here are my 2023 hot spots for your next family holiday.

Turkey

Make the most of the long, warm Turkish summers and the pound’s strength against the lira. Choose from many familyfriendly resorts and eat out at a reasonable cost as a threecourse meal can come in at just £12 a head in the popular beach resort of Marmaris, while a round of drinks should cost you less than UK prices, particularly if you stick with local beer and wine.

Montenegro

Montenegro offers a great alternative to its popular neighbouring country Croatia, with cheaper prices and quieter beaches. The local food is delicious and accommodation can cater to a variety of family budgets. Boasting golden beaches, whitewashed villages and lush green forests, it’s one of the most picturesque spots in the Balkans.

South Africa

South Africa might not be the cheapest place to get to but once you’re there you won’t have to dig too deeply into your wallet. Expect to pay around £20 per person for a threecourse meal with a bottle of wine in Cape Town and £1.55 for a coffee. The country offers the perfect combination of wildlife, exploration and relaxation: a once in a lifetime family adventure!

Albania

Although a small country and still relatively unknown to tourists, Albania is packed with things to see and do, with a surprising number of attractions that kids will love. Again, enjoying a three-course meal and wine doesn’t cost more than £20 for a family. The Albanian Riviera has some of the most beautiful sandy beaches around too.

Portugal

While sterling’s value against the euro has plummeted since Brexit, Portugal is one Eurozone destination where your cash can work harder. In the Algarve, dinner for two will come to around £20, half the price of eating out on the island of Madeira. But despite the bigger food bills, Madeira and the Azores are still relatively inexpensive compared with some Greek equivalents.

Mauritius

Looking further afield, Mauritius offers great value, with prices almost half those of the neighbouring Seychelles. With white sands, crystalclear waters and adrenalinfilled activities, Mauritius has something for children and adults of all ages. If you’re after a family holiday with a difference, this should be on your list.

Ashley Lutz is a Travel Counsellor with seventeen years’ experience working with families to find inspiring holidays which best suit their wants, needs and budget. Find out more at www.travelcounsellors.co.uk/ashley.lutz

Meet George Webster

Families chats with George Webster, the 22-year-old TV presenter, actor, dancer and ambassador for Mencap. George was catapulted into the public eye when he spoke about Down syndrome in his myth-busting video for BBC Bitesize. A trailblazer, he is now the first ever CBeebies presenter to have Down Syndrome. In November 2022, George won a BAFTA (Children and Young People Awards) for Best Presenter.

Congratulations on winning your BAFTA! How do you feel about that achievement?

I feel really proud and really honoured to achieve the award for presenter. I work with so many brilliant people at CBeebies and I feel like things are starting to improve for people like me in the media industry.

Tell us about your journey to become a presenter on CBeebies.

I always loved acting, dancing and performing at school and since then one thing has led to another. While volunteering at Parkrun, Sky filmed me for a documentary and I then became a Mencap ambassador. When my BBC Bitesize video busting the five myths of Down syndrome got five million hits, CBeebies got in touch inviting me to be a

guest presenter and now I’m a regular!

Who has been most supportive in helping you achieve your success?

My parents have been really supportive throughout my life and they always keep telling me ‘just be yourself.’ I always am and I want to say thank you to them for their love and support. Also, my support teachers at school, my friends, the NHS and local charities.

What advice would you give to encourage other youngsters who are facing challenges and want to pursue similar careers?

Be yourself and dream big. We can all dream big so don’t let anyone else decide for you as it’s your life. Get involved with local performing arts groups too.

GIVEAWAY!

Five signed copies of This is ME! picture book

Families has teamed up with BAFTA award-winning TV presenter, George Webster, CBeebies’ first presenter with Down syndrome, to o er five lucky children copies of George’s new book, This is ME!

This is ME! is a heartfelt and uplifting story that follows a little boy called George as he tells the reader all about who he is, his life and his experiences. George knows that having Down syndrome is an important part of him but it does not define him.

Featuring George’s real-life friends and family as well as a joyful cast of characters reflective of society and with bright and bold illustrations by best-selling illustrator, Tim Budgen, This is ME! celebrates uniqueness, being ourselves and how our di erences make us special.

Scan the QR code to apply or visit familiesmag.co.uk/go

Closing date: 21 April

T&Cs at https://bit.ly/gwbookgiveaway

What do you enjoy most about presenting?

I love everything about presenting at CBeebies! I’ve met loads of brilliant people and now we’re great friends. I also enjoy showing the viewers at home that people like me can be represented within the media and that ‘difference’ can inspire their kids’ lives. Their kids can have many role models, no matter who and what they are.

You’ve now written a picture book called This is ME! Tell us more.

This is ME! is about me, my friends and family when I was younger. It’s about celebrating differences no matter what we look like and who we are. It’s also about each person having their own glow inside that we all need to see.

The book illustrations are the perfect accompaniment to your rhyming words. How did the partnership come together?

My publisher, Scholastic Children’s Books, paired me with the wonderful illustrator, Tim Budgen. Working with him and my co-author, Claire Taylor, has been brilliant and a real collaborative effort.

What has been the best moment of your career so far?

There are so many! Working with CBeebies, writing a book, winning a BAFTA, being on Casualty, going to the premiere of S.A.M and dancing on stage with Talent Hub. Plus going to UDance National Finals to represent

Yorkshire as the first inclusive dance group with Meshdance and watching my appearance on Strictly Come Dancing back on Christmas Day.

You are ambassador for the charity Mencap, which works to improve the life of young people with learning difficulties. Tell us what this work means to you.

It means a lot to me as I have many friends with a learning disability and they’re all brilliant. People like us exist and working with Mencap means our voices get heard. I want people to understand us more rather than be scared of us.

Where would you like to see your career heading in the future?

I’d love to do more presenting and acting work. I would love to be in Death in Paradise, EastEnders and Doctor Who. Or I could be the new James Bond - why not! Also, I’d love to compete on the main show of Strictly Come Dancing.

If you had to bust one myth about having Down syndrome, what would it be?

‘People with Down syndrome are always happy.’ This just isn’t true! We have a range of emotions like every living person has.

What do you do to relax?

I love going to the theatre or cinema, watching films and tv and listening to music. Oh, and thrashing my dad at FIFA!

SEND Mini Maestros Family Beats Class

This is a fun music session aimed at families with young children aged 1–5 years old who have additional needs. The atmosphere is exploratory and play-based so children can relax and follow their interests. Everyone is encouraged to participate and develop at their own pace, and there is also a chance to try a range of interesting percussion instruments. The class numbers are kept small so that the noise levels remain comfortable.

These sessions are based at Berkshire Maestros Reading Music Centre, Stoneham Court, 100 Cockney Hill, Reading, Berkshire RG30 4EZ on Thursdays at 10.15am-10.50am.

When you sign up, your first term is FREE! Why not come along for a FREE taster session so you can find out first-hand what our classes are all about!

Please email admissions@berkshiremaestros.org.uk to book your space or to find out more about us please visit www. berkshiremaestros.org.uk

The

Engine Shed welcomes railway fans

The Engine Shed is a special interest group for autistic children and young people which has been running for over thirteen years, with a Reading group meeting on the last Saturday of the month. The group was set up by parents and carers in response to the lack of welcoming and supportive recreational facilities for our autistic children. Volunteers, often from the local model railway societies, kindly bring layouts to our sessions, and we set up other multiple train sets – Tomy track, LEGO®, wooden, etcfor all abilities and to provide hands-on activities.

There is no fee to attend The Engine Shed and no need to book in advance. Refreshments are free, and everyone aged 17 and under is welcome. Our usual venue, Katesgrove Children’s Centre in Reading, is currently being refurbished, and we are meeting in Emmer Green.

Please see our website www.theengineshed.org.uk and Facebook for up-to-date information on sessions or email mail@theengineshed.org.uk

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• Splash Lagoon is designed to keep young children entertained with water jets, fountains, waterfalls and much more...

• The Splashpad will be available during all family and public swimming sessions

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What NOT to say to a child with ADHD

By Sarah Templeton

ADHD, or ‘attention deficit hyperactivity disorder’ to give its full name, is a neurodiverse condition that some people are born with and have for life. It is not a childhood behavioural disorder and has nothing to do with E numbers, bad parenting or just being naughty. In an MRI scan, it is now possible to see the difference between a neurotypical brain and a neurodiverse brain.

Children who are born with neurodiverse brain wiring have as much right to be their authentic selves as those born with neurotypical brains.

However, ADHD children are known to receive approximately twenty thousand negative messages before they reach age 12. This indicates that we grossly misunderstand them. How can we address this?

The main thing not to say to any ADHD child is anything critical of their natural, inbuilt behaviours. This could include their hyperactivity, restlessness, inattentiveness, distractedness and their impulsive and compulsive behaviours.

It is very important we see ADHD as the way a child’s brain functions and work with their traits, rather than fighting them. You are never going to knock the ADHD out of a child or send them to therapy and get a neurotypical child back. It is kinder and more effective to understand all the traits of ADHD and embrace them positively instead.

ADHD brains are different!

ADHD brains have specific ways of thinking. Some of these might shock you but they are all true.

Kids with ADHD are wired to think they know best, want everything their own way, think they are right about everything, dislike authority or being told what to do and push boundaries at every opportunity.

The biggest trait of all is emotional dysregulation which is the element of the brain that is supposed to regulate emotion malfunctions. This is when you get angry kids having meltdowns or kicking-off or weepy, overly emotional kids; they are unable to regulate their emotions. So, another thing not to say to a child with ADHD is anything about ‘being unable to control their temper’ or ‘being overly sensitive.’ They really can’t help this either.

ADHD kids also have a heightened sense of justice so are very hot on things being fair and equal. Again, respect their opinions and don’t dismiss their feelings.

Sarah Templeton is an ADHD counsellor, coach, CBT therapist and author of How Not to Murder Your ADHD Kid, available through good bookshops and at her website www.sarahtempleton.org.uk

ADHD and learning

School can be difficult for ADHD kids. Long lessons with little activity can bore them. Teachers who don’t teach in an engaging way won’t stimulate their brains and they will never be equally interested in all subjects.

You can expect your child to do very well in some classes and not so well in others. This isn’t because they aren’t trying; it’s just their brain is not being stimulated enough to concentrate on that subject.

Revision is also hard. Doing anything for a second time is never going to stimulate an ADHD brain. So rather than expecting your child to read and absorb words for hours and for that to sink in, be creative with your revision plans.

Grab their attention with visits to interactive museums or to theatres or cinemas to see live or screened versions of any plays or books they are studying.

As a way of stimulating their brains to learn and retain information, try testing them in fun quizzes on topics they need to learn, with rewards on offer!

Clubs and classes directory

Please get in touch if you would like to be included in our directory: editor@familiestvw.co.uk

DEVELOPMENTAL CLASSES

GYMNASTICS, SPORT AND SWIMMING

Progress Youth Theatre

Baby

Sensory North Reading

Awardwinning baby development classes for babies from birth to 13months. Classes run during term time in Henley, Caversham and Tilehurst.

Each session’s new adventure is filled with wonderful sensory experiences enhancing learning and development. From singing and signing, musical instruments, tummy time, massage, visual development and so much more!

Contact Helen for more information 07899 790405 northreading@babysensory.co.uk www.babysensory.com/northreading

BilinguaSing

French, Spanish and Italian classes from age 0-11. Fun sensory music classes with the added bonus of a second language! Trial slots available, as well as sibling discounts. Classes in Wokingham, Bracknell, Theale, Caversham and other Berkshire locations Monday-Friday. Contact Cari Weston at cari@bilinguasing. com or call 07729261018 for more information.

Master Builders

Club Brick Building Workshops for Children

Master Builders Club is a LEGO® & DUPLO® lovers paradise! Our weekend and holiday workshops, after school clubs, birthday parties and nursery/primary school events are designed to provide children with an exciting and captivating experience.

We provide 1000’s of LEGO® or DUPLO® bricks in a calm and supportive environment along with the imaginative stimulus to transform a room into a world of creativity.

If you are passionate about providing engaging and stimulating play opportunities that nurture your child’s mind, then Master Builders Club is for you! To book your brick building fan a place or to find out more about our events, visit the webite.

www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk

Bulmershe Gymnastics Club

Based at a purpose-built gym in Woodley. Gymnastics classes for all ages including Leap Frogs for walkers to five years lead by qualified coaches.

www.bulmershegymnastics.co.uk

GR Swimming Schools

Uniquely structured, safe, FUN, swimming lessons from 3 years old. Lessons include continual assessment and lane progression. There is a maximum of 6 children per class. We are currently looking for a private indoor, heated pool, 1 or 2 weekday mornings, for much needed community baby & toddler classes in the Newbury/Hungerford area. jo@swimlessons.co.uk swimlessons.co.uk

DANCE & DRAMA

Diddi Dance Reading and Wokingham

Funky pre-school dance classes around Reading & Wokingham for children aged 1.5-5.

Specialist toddler dance programme exploring 16 different dance styles. Using action songs, dancing games, fun exercises, hoops and dance ribbons to our own, unique, funky pop songs.

FREE trial available. Ask for details!

Contact Bethany Bianga 07584 281174 bethany.bianga@diddidance.com

Perform drama, dance and singing classes

Confidence-building weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s, designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination. Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE trial class in Twyford, Newbury, Reading,Wokingham (NEW VENUE), Winnersh, Crowthorne, Goring, Henley.

Steppin Out Stars of Tomorrow

COVID secure, fun, energetic theatre classes for 3½ to 18yrs. Dance, drama, singing, tap, street dance, pop styles and musical theatre. Regular award-winning classes in Wokingham and Woodley, plus summer schools. Call Shelley on 07970 034 488, or email shelley@ steppinoutstars.co.uk www.steppinoutstars.co.uk

Workshops for ages 7-18 involving theatre games, improvisation and skills development, leading to a stage production every year. We are an Arts Award Supporter and also offer LAMDA courses. Classes held at Progress Theatre, Reading.

Email us to book a FREE taster session.

youthgroup@progresstheatre.co.uk progresstheatre.co.uk/youth-theatre

Jess Kirkpatrick, Head of St Joseph’s College Swim School

St Joseph’s College Swim School opened quite recently in September 2022. Locally based, the school follows the Swim England programme. We caught up with Head of Swim School, Jess Kirkpatrick, to find out about the school and her views on why swimming is such an important skill for children to learn.

What are the benefits of swimming?

The most important reason is swimming is the only sport which can save your child’s life. In addition to this, there are wonderful health benefits, and following the challenges and rewards of the Swim England programme helps children to become self-confident and believe in their abilities.

What makes St Joseph’s swim school such a great option?

Our swimming pool is centrally located in Reading at St Joseph’s College with free onsite parking. Our teaching groups are small, with a maximum of 6 pupils per group. All our swim teachers hold a minimum Level 2 ASA or SEQ teaching qualification and are fully DBS checked. We have a flexible online booking system and we have recently updated and extended our timetable to include some extra slots and times to suit the needs of busy family life.

More at www.sjcr.org.uk/swimschool

Healthy after-school snack ideas

By Sarah Alder

It’s a familiar scene across the country at school pick up time. Children come running out of the classroom to greet you and instead of ‘hello’, it’s: ‘can I have a snack?’. So how do we satisfy their ravenous after-school hunger with healthy foods?

It’s good to have some quick and easy ideas to hand to avoid spending a fortune on packaged snacks.

Savoury

Fun bites

Fruity

Celery sticks filled with peanut butter and raisins or cream cheese and tomato are really yummy and can even be presented as a stack to make a Gruffalo log pile house!

Vegetable sticks (carrot, cucumber, pepper etc) are easy to prepare and work well with houmous. Or, for something a bit different, try bread sticks with a yoghurt-based dip or guacamole.

I’m a great fan of savoury muffins. These can be batched cooked and frozen. For a great courgette, spinach and cheese muffin recipe, head to https://bit.ly/ ktsavourymuffin

Top Tip

Think of snacks as mini meals which should ideally include a small amount of foods from different food groups to ensure your kids stay fuller for longer. This will reduce the demand for more snacks!

To ramp up the novelty factor, you can make a simple but tasty savoury mix and keep it in an airtight container for the kids to snack on throughout the week. There’s one at https://bit.ly/kttrailmix you can try. Or you can mix together some dried fruit and seeds if you don’t have much prep time.

Don’t forget healthy cereals which make a great snack especially if paired with some fruit and milk or yoghurt - think popped rice, Shreddies, Shredded Wheat or Cheerios. And then there’s the fun favourite – popcorn! Try popping your own and experimenting with flavours (think cinnamon, smoked paprika, Marmite butter…)

Not always a firm favourite with kids but fruit can be offered in different ways to keep it interesting. Think fruit salad, fruit kebabs, chopped apple, banana and grapes, berries and natural yoghurt (you can use frozen berries to save some money and to offer them all year round).

Fruit smoothies are really tasty and go down well with kids, whilst home-made fruit muffins don’t even feel like fruit! See https://bit.ly/ktsmoothie for recipe.

Sarah Alder of Kitchen Titbits (www. kitchentitbits.co.uk) is a meal planning and family mealtimes mentor who works with parents to support fussy eaters. Visit her site for lots of tips and advice and to find out about her courses and workshops.

After school and Saturday morning swim lessons for age 4+

Images, top row from left to right: celery sticks with peanut butter and raisins, savoury mix, fruit kebabs and natural yoghurt. Bottom row: popcorn.

Secrets of our first thousand days

By Professor Lucy Green & Professor Mark Hanson

Have you ever wondered why keeping healthy is so tough for some of us but seems easy for others? And why the so-called ‘non-communicable’ diseases like cardiovascular disease and diabetes still account for most deaths around the world, despite all the efforts of doctors and health care systems? Did you know that unconscious communication with your baby in the womb helps their body’s control systems develop for lifelong health?

An increasing number of medical experts would say that we are missing a fundamental clue to what makes us healthy. Our lifelong risk of chronic diseases can be established during our first thousand days, from conception until age two. This critical time affects how our bodies are put together and how we will respond to the world we will live in, with its stresses, need for exercise and good diet, adequate sleep and healthy behaviours.

The secrets of the first thousand days of our lives start from the moment of conception. Once the egg and sperm have fused, the very early embryo begins ‘tasting’ its environment. It detects signals about the world from the mother’s hormones and the nutrients from the food she eats. These leave small ‘epigenic’ marks on the embryo’s DNA. It’s not just about the mother; the father’s sperm brings the egg its own marks too, affected by his diet and lifestyle. These change the instructions given by the inherited genes and can change how the unborn baby develops.

As the foetus grows it senses more signals from the mother’s lifestyle and nutrition. This is important because some organs developed before birth must serve us for a lifetime, like the muscle cells in our hearts and the filtering units in our kidneys. We even started practising breathing, albeit underwater, inside the womb and our lungs are sensitive to cues from our mother.

Scientific advances reveal even more surprises; for example, that foetal brain electrical activity looks like adult sleep states. Could the foetus even be dreaming?

Children continue to respond to care and signals from the environment as they achieve major milestones before the age of 2, such as eating solid food, speaking their first words and taking first steps unaided. Some developments are less visible, like colonisation of the gut with bacteria, building an immune system based on ‘experience,’ or the changes in nerve cells and connections within the brain as they learn to recognise new faces and voices.

We are quite used to checking our children’s growth from the moment of birth. Poor foetal growth is associated with greater risk of non-communicable diseases later in life and small babies sometimes struggle to thrive. In addition, more young people than ever are overweight or obese and this risk of poor overall health can pass across generations too.

Mark and Lucy, both at the University of Southampton, have spent decades researching the processes underlying human early development, which are now published in their new book What Makes a Person: Secrets of Our First 1,000 Days, available from www.bookshop.org.

What’s on

March & April 2023

All listings are correct at the time of publication. Please check with the venue before you visit in case anything has changed.

MARCH

5 Mar Showtime!

1-5 Mar

Story Hunters Children’s Trail Greys Court, Henley-on-Thames RG9 4PG nationaltrust.org.uk/greys-court

Join us for a trail at Greys Court and create a story inspired by your walk through the grounds. £2. 10am–2:30pm

From 2 Mar

Goat Kids Due Bucklebury Farm Park, Bucklebury, Reading, RG7 6RR buckleburyfarm.co.uk

Goat kids are due to be born at the Farm. Keep up with Bucklebury’s social media for any updates. 9:30am–4pm

4 Mar

Writing Prize Giving

The Bell Bookshop, 52 Bell Street, Henley-On-Thames, RG9 2BL hyf.org.uk

Part of the Henley Youth Festival.

4 Mar

Family Jam

Readipop Studios, 15 Trafford Road, Reading, RG1 8JP, readipop.co.uk

A family music session for kids and adults to experience and learn to play together. £3 per family. 10–11:30am

4 Mar

Henley Youth Festival Run

Henley Rugby Club, Dry Leas, Marlow Road, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2JA, hyf.org.uk

Years reception – 6. 8:30am–12:30pm

4 Mar

Young Rangers

Thatcham Discovery Centre, Lower Way, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre

A wildlife club for 8–11 year olds who love nature and wildlife. £7. 2pm.

5 Mar

Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books

Fourbears Books, 20 Prospect Street, Reading, RG4 8JG

The shortlist for this year’s FCBG

Children’s Book Award is announced on 27th February. Come and explore the books and vote for your favourites. Suitable for ages 5-8. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Sat 4 March via 0118 948 1747 or info@fourbearsbooks.uk 10am-11am.

5 Mar Toy Swap

Reading Biscuit Factory, Unit 1A, Queen’s Walk, Reading, RG1 7QE, readingbiscuitfactory.co.uk

A chance for parents to exchange toys their kids have grown out for ones other kids have. Free entry. 2-4pm.

Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk

We have ballet, pointe, tap and modern dances to lots of different pieces of music from films, musicals, classical and more. 2pm/6pm.

5 and 6 Mar

The Little Prince South Hill Park, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark.org.uk

An enchanting story of love and friendship for children and grownups alike, retold on stage by a pilot stranded in the desert. Age 5+. £14.50.

7 and 21 Mar

Storytime at Dinton Dinton Activity Centre, Hurst, Wokingham, RG10 0TH, wokinghamcountryside.co.uk/ events-and-venue-hire/events-atdinton

Let’s welcome Winnie the Pooh and Christopher Robin to Dinton Pastures! Free entry. 11–11:30am.

9 Mar Young Performer

Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP hyf.org.uk

Come and entertain the audiencetell a story, make us laugh, do some magic, sing, dance or or play to a backing track. Years 1-6. 6pm.

11 Mar

Bookfest: A Day of Family Crafts Workshops Museum of English Rural Life, Redlands Road, Reading, RG1 5EX, merl.reading.ac.uk

Following on from World Book Day and leading into British Science Week, join us for a selection of workshops where you can try papermaking, iron gall ink making and book binding! 10:30am–3pm.

11 Mar

Hula Balloony Moon Time

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm

A marvellous moonlit show based on the book Pat-a-Cake Baby. Aimed at 2-8-year-olds. £10-£12. 10:30am/2pm

11 Mar

Civil War at Shaw House

Shaw House, Church Road, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse

Immerse yourself in history with a day out in the 17th Century with The Earl Rivers Regiment Muster (Members of The Sealed Knot). Free entry. 11am–4pm.

11 Mar

Music Makers

Rupert House School, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BN, hyf.org.uk Perform music, either with friends or individually, in a friendly and supportive setting. Years 1-6. 2pm.

11 Mar

Kidical Mass Family Bike Ride Elms Field, Wokingham, RG40 2AA, kidicalmassreading.co.uk

Family-friendly mass bike rides, designed to increase families’ confidence in cycling together. Free to join. Meet at 2pm.

11 Mar

Henley Youth Festival Variety

Kenton Theatre, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, hyf.org.uk Years 6-13. 7pm.

14 Mar

Children Helping Children

The Hexagon, Queen’s Walk, Reading, RG1 7UA whatsonreading.com

Expect dance, song, high drama and more as children from Reading, Thatcham and across our part of Berkshire come together to raise money to make things better for fellow youngsters. £13. 7pm.

17 and 18 Mar

The Parent Trap

Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk

The production will be full of wonderful acting, comic timing, songs and dance. Adults: £14, children: £12.

18 Mar

Mother’s Day Concertini with Rogue Opera Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm

Celebrate Mother’s Day weekend with an uplifting family concert performed by Rogue Opera’s professional singers. £10-£12. 11:30am/2pm.

19 Mar

Mother’s Day at the Farm

Bucklebury Farm Park, Reading, RG7 6RR, buckleburyfarm.co.uk Treats for mummies! 9:30am–4pm.

19 Mar

Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books

Fourbears Books, 20 Prospect Street, Reading, RG4 8JG

Come and explore the shortlist for this year’s FCBG Children’s Book Award and vote for your favourites. Suitable for ages 9-11. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Sat 18 Mar via 0118 948 1747 or info@fourbearsbooks.uk. 10-11am.

19 Mar

Public Open Day

Pinewood (Wokingham) Miniature Railway, Pinewood Leisure Centre, Wokingham, RG40 3AQ, pinewoodrailway.co.uk Our railway runs for nearly half a

mile through a woodland setting. Come down and have a ride! £1.50 per ride. 1:30–4pm.

23 and 24 Mar

Pirate-themed Day

The Look Out Discovery Centre, Nine Mile Ride, Bracknell, RG12 7QW

There’s always plenty for toddlers to enjoy and explore at The Look Out Discovery Centre, and on our toddler days we have extra special activities for children up to age 5.

23–25 Mar

Through the Looking Glass Watermill Theatre, Bagnor, Newbury RG20 8AE, watermill.org.uk

After floating through an ornate mirror and crashing down in an uncanny reflection of life as we know it, Alice makes unlikely friends and unexpected foes as she tries to find her way home. From £13.

25 Mar

Royal Philharmonic Orchestra

Noisy Kids 2023

The Hexagon, Queen’s Walk, Reading, RG1 7UA whatsonreading.com

Buckle up as the Royal Philharmonic Orchestra takes you on an exhilarating journey filled with rollercoasters, train rides and thrilling adventures! £9.50/£11.50. 11:30am.

25 Mar

Sing-a-long-A-Encanto

Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com

Gather la Familia and prepare to sing your heart out as you enjoy Disney’s Encanto, with lyrics on screen so everyone can join in! Adults £18.75, children. £14.75. 1pm, 5pm.

26 Mar

Create Your Own Scribble Monster T-Shirt

The Base, Greenham Business Park, Greenham, RG19 6AB, thebasegreenham.co.uk

Let your imagination run wild and create your own T-shirt design with illustrator and graphic designer Mark Bijak. £25. 10am/1pm.

26 Mar

Woodley Festival Gala Finale Concert

Michael Malnick Centre, Leighton Park School, Reading RG2 7ED, woodleyfestival.org.uk

This year the Woodley Festival will see a variety of Choral, Instrumental, Pianoforte, Vocal and Speech & Drama classes over three weekends in March and the Woodley Festival 2023 will end with a Gala Finale Concert in which the talented performers will have the honour of being invited to perform.

27 and 30 Mar

Nature Tots

Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre

Your tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. £7. 10am.

28 Mar

Have a Go Evening: Reading

Reading Music Centre, Stoneham Court, Tilehurst, Reading, RG30 4EZ, berkshiremaestros.org.uk

A fantastic FREE event this term for children and families to try as many different instruments as they’d like and a chance to chat to our teachers at our music centre. 5pm – 7pm

30 Mar

Have a Go Evening: Bracknell

Bracknell Music Centre, Ranelagh School, Bracknell, RG12 9DA, berkshiremaestros.org.uk

A fantastic FREE event this term for children and families to try as many different instruments as they’d like and a chance to chat to our teachers at our music centre. 4:30–6:30pm.

31 Mar and 1 Apr

Newbury Youngstars: Singin’ in the Rain Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com

Newbury Youngstars will have Newbury residents “walking down the lane with a happy refrain” when they perform Singin’ In The Rain JR.

1 Apr Family Jam

APRIL

Readipop Studios, 15 Trafford Road, Reading, RG1 8JP, readipop.co.uk

A family music session for kids and adults to experience and learn to play together. £3 per family. 10–11:30am.

1 Apr Young Rangers

Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre

A wildlife club for 8– 1 year olds who love nature and wildlife. £7. 2pm.

1 and 2 Apr

Room on the Broom

Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com

A fun-filled live adaptation of the well-known, bestselling picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Adults £14.75, children £12.75. 1:30pm/4:30pm.

1 and 2 Apr

CosXPo 2023

3Sixty, University of Reading, Reading, RG6 6UR, cosxpo.com CosXPo is a UK event like no other that focuses on the art of cosplay and photography. 11am–6pm.

1-16 Apr

Spring into Easter

Odds Farm Park, Wooburn Common, High Wycombe, HP10 0LX, oddsfarm.co.uk

Enjoy an eggs-traordinary Easter and come to meet fluffy lambs, cheeky kid goats and piglets galore! 10am–5:30pm.

Find the names of your favourite outdoor toys in the grid. Then read the remaining unused letters down the columns from left to right to find a hidden message!

1-16 Apr

Easter Activity Trail

Basildon Park, Lower Basildon, Reading RG8 9NR nationaltrust.org/basildon-park

At Easter, Basildon Park’s activity trail heads around the pheasant park and ends up in the secret walled garden, opened for the first time for visitors to explore. Normal admission applies plus £3 per trail.

1-16 Apr

Easter Eggstravaganza

Wellington Country Park, Odiham Road, Riseley, RG7 1SP, wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk Back for its biggest year yet, join us for an action packed Easter Holiday at Welly Park. 9:30am–5pm.

1-16 Apr

Festival of Arts and Crafts

The Base, Greenham Business Park, Greenham, RG19 6AB, thebasegreenham.co.uk Kickstarting the Festival is a fantastic free entry family friendly Arts & Crafts Fair on Saturday 1 and Sunday 2 April (10am– pm), and for the duration of the Festival (1–16 Apr) there will be an exhibition by local artists and taster session workshops for you to have a go at trying something new.

1-16 Apr

Easter Trail at Tumblestone Hollow

Stonor Park, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 6HF, stonor.com Pebble and Grit have been having a whale of a time placing riddles and clues around the standing stones and treehouses at Tumblestone Hollow as well as in the Gardens at Stonor Park that they have sneaked into.

1-16 Apr

Easter Activity Trail

Greys Court, Henley-on-Thames

RG9 4PG, nationaltrust.org.uk/ greys-court

At Easter, the activity trail will take place beneath a shower of blossom as the spring flowers are splashing the garden with colour. Normal admission applies plus £3 per trail.

2 Apr

Green Park Challenge

Select Car Leasing Stadium, Junction 11, M4, Reading, RG2 0FL, readinghalfmarathon.com/pages/ green-park-challenge

The Green Park Challenge is a fun run which is estimated to be just under 3km and is open to all the family. £18. 8:30am.

2 Apr

Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books

Fourbears Books, Reading, RG4 8JG

In honour of April Fools Day, come and share some funny books and design your own comic character. Suitable for ages 5-8. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Sat 1 April via 0118 948 1747 or info@fourbearsbooks.uk. 10-11am.

2 Apr

Spring Food and Craft Fair Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse

Explore the House and browse over 60 stalls offering artisan food, drink and locally produced crafts, giving you the perfect opportunity to shop for unique gifts and treats. Adults £2, children (3+) £1. 11am–4pm.

Musical Theatre Week!

T u e s d a y 1 1 t h - F r i d a y 1 4 t h A p r i l

9 3 0 a m - 4 3 0 p m d a i l y

O p e n t o a g e s 4 - 1 5

A c t i n g , s i n g i n g , d a n c i n

Artemis Cheerleading

l u d e s l u n c h a n d h e a l t h y s n a c k s !

£ 2 0 p e r p e r s o n ( f r e e f o r H A F )

www artemis-studios co uk

A r t e m i s i s O f s t e d r e g i s t e r e d a n d a c c e p t s

C h i l d c a r e V o u c h e r s , T a x F r e e C h i l d c a r e a n d

B r a c k n e l l H A F V o u c h e r s i n t h e h o l i d a y s !

2 Apr

Magical Nanny and Cheeky Chimney Sweep

Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse

The Magical Nanny and Cheeky Chimney Sweep will entertain young audiences with fun sing-a-longs, themed games and an enchanting story time. Ages 3-7, but all ages welcome. £7, 10am/ 11:45am/1:30pm.

2-15 Apr

Lambing Season

Bucklebury Farm Park, Reading, RG7 6RR, buckleburyfarm.co.uk 9:30am–4pm.

3 Apr

Cheerleading Workshop

Artemis Studios, South Hill Park Arts Centre, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, artemis-studios.co.uk 10am–2pm.

3-6 Apr

East Wild Days

Dinton Pastures Country Park, Davis St, Hurst, RG10 0TJ, dintonpastures.co.uk

We are running four activities per day, two per session, to give your youngsters a range of different adventurous sports. 9:30am–4:30pm

4 Apr

LEGO® Workshop

The Heights Primary School, 129 Upper Woodcote Road, Caversham, Reading, RG4 7LB, masterbuildersclub.co.uk

Our two-hour workshops are the perfect way to entertain your aspiring architect, determined designer and incredible inventor!

2–4pm

4 Apr

Movie in the Hall: Peter Rabbit

Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse

Peter Rabbit and his three sisters; Flopsy, Mopsy and Cotton-Tail, enjoy spending their days in Mr. McGregor’s vegetable garden. Adults £5, children £3. 10am.

4 Apr Animals!

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Animals! is fun, interactive and features original songs. £10-£12 11:30am/2pm.

4 Apr

Storytime at Dinton Dinton Activity Centre, Hurst, Wokingham, RG10 0TH, wokinghamcountryside.co.uk

The storytime sessions at Dinton will be hosted by Tony Knight, a platform announcer at Wokingham Station who was famous with commuters for his poetry readings. Free entry. 11am–11:30am.

4 and 5 Apr

Where’s the Hare? Family Easter Trail

Thatcham Discovery Centre, RG19 3FU, bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Come to The Nature Discovery Centre and find out more about hares! £7 per child, accompanying adults free. 10am–2pm.

5 Apr

Family Activity Day Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse Egg-cellent! Using paint pens, draw

an Easter or Spring design on a small squishy egg. There is also a free Easter-themed trail to do as you explore the garden! Aimed at 7-11 year olds, but younger and older children are welcome. £2.50. 10am–3pm.

5 Apr

Crafty Kids Eggciting Easter Creativ.Spaces, 2b Southview Business Park, Reading, RG4 5AF, madebytamalia.co.uk We tailor our craft activities according to the season and the ages attending. £20. 10am–2pm.

5 Apr

The Amazing Bubble Man Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Louis Pearl thrills with the art, magic, science and fun of bubbles. £10-£12. 11:30am/2pm.

5 Apr

Animals!

South Street Arts Centre, Reading, RG1 4QU, whatsonreading.com Fun, interactive and featuring original songs, Animals! is an empowering and uplifting performance about animals, humans and nature. Age guidance: 6+. £10.50. 11:30am.

5 Apr

Pop Divas Live!

Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com

Pop Divas Live! is the UK’s number one pop concert experience featuring tributes to all your favourite female pop stars on the same stage for the first time ever! 3pm.

6 Apr

LEGO® Workshop

Woodcote Village Hall, RG8 0QY, masterbuildersclub.co.uk

The perfect way to entertain your aspiring architect, determined designer or incredible inventor! 9:30–11:30am

6 Apr

Messy Museum Day

West Berkshire Museum, Newbury, RG14 5AS, westberkshireheritage. org/west-berkshire-museum

Walking with Dinos - Make a 2D wooden dinosaur puppet and then decorate with acrylic paint. Afterwards, you can explore The Age of Dinosaurs special exhibition. Ages 7-11, but all ages are welcome. £2.50. 10am/11am/12pm.

6 Apr Curious Investigators

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm An interactive engineering adventure for young scientists! £10-£12. 11:30am /2pm.

6 Apr

LEGO® Workshop

Badgemore Primary School, Hop Gardens, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2HL, masterbuildersclub.co.uk

The perfect way to entertain your aspiring architect, determined designer and incredible inventor! 2:30–4:30pm

6-29 Apr

Peter Pan Reading Rep Theatre, RG1 4LY, readingrep.com

The well-known, mischievous characters arrive in Reading, with mystical adventures to be taken. From £15.

Music

Based on the MiraMax Motion picture KinKy Boots

BooK By harvey Fierstein

and lyrics By cyndi lauper

original Broadway production directed and choreographed By Jerry Mitchell

written By geoFF deane and tiM Firth

Photo: South Hill Park’s sell-out show Shrek The Musical 2022

/southhillparkartscentre southhillpark /shpartscentre

a South hill park Production

box office 01344 484123 · Southhillpark.org.uk

tue 11 – Sun 16 april 2023 Wilde theatre, South hill park, Bracknell rg12 7pa

7 Apr

Explore Workshops

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Choose from drama, circus skills and lots more.

7-10 and 22-23 Apr

Boat Hire

Dinton Pastures Country Park, Hurst, RG10 0TJ dinton-pastures.co.uk

Hire a range of pedalos, paddleboards, canoes, single and double kayaks starting from £8 for half an hour. 10am–5pm.

8 Apr

Professor Slug’s House of Bugs

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Professor Slug is an eccentric expert on invertebrates who helps bugs out with their buggy problems - and you can too! £10-£12. 11:30am/2pm.

9 Apr

The Mega Egg Hunt

Wellington Country Park, Odiham Road, Riseley, RG7 1SP, wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk 9:30am–4:30pm.

9 Apr

Attenborough and his Animals

Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk

The magic of David Attenborough live! 7:30pm.

From 10 Apr

Easter Fun at the Farm

Bucklebury Farm Park, Reading, RG7 6RR, buckleburyfarm.co.uk

From egg hunts, a shop full of easter treats and much, much more! 9:30am–4pm.

11-13 Apr

Puss in Boots

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm

The classic furry tale is brought to life with clever effects. £10-£12. 11:30am.

11–14 Apr

Musical Theatre Week

Artemis Studios, South Hill Park Arts Centre, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, artemis-studios.co.uk

Open to ages 4-15 years, children

will experience a mix of acting, dancing, singing and crafts with lunch included. 9:30am–4:30pm.

12 Apr

Egg-stra Fun for Everyone

Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Join Emma Storyteller for songtime and story followed by games and an egg-citing egg hunt with a difference! Suitable for ages 2-8. £7 per child. 10am/11:30am.

12 Apr

Family Activity Day

Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse Decorate a wooden insect or minibeast mansion with paint pens. Aimed at 7-11 year olds, but all ages are welcome. £2.50. 10am–3pm.

12 Apr

The Tap Dancing Mermaid

Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury, RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com Gather round for the Moon’s magical story about a tippetty-top tap dancer who he has been watching at night. 2pm.

13 Apr

LEGO® Workshop

Dorchester-on-Thames Village Hall, 7 Queen Street, Dorchester, OX10 7HR, masterbuildersclub.co.uk

Our two-hour workshops are the perfect way to entertain your aspiring architect, determined designer and incredible inventor!

9:30–11:30am

13 Apr

LEGO® Workshop

Sonning Common Village Hall, Wood Lane, Sonning Common, RG4 9SL, masterbuildersclub.co.uk The perfect way to entertain your aspiring architect, determined designer and incredible inventor!

2:30–4:30pm

14 Apr

Messy Museum Day

West Berkshire Museum, Newbury, RG14 5AS, westberkshireheritage. org/west-berkshire-museum

Dino Eggs Return! Not Easter eggs but dinosaur eggs! Make a small set from glass or stone pebbles (subject

to availability) using paint pens to decorate. Afterwards, explore The Age of Dinosaurs special exhibition. Aimed at 7-11 year olds, but all ages are welcome. £2.50. 10am–3pm.

14 Apr

Bach to Baby Easter Holiday Family Concert

Reading Minster, Reading , RG1 2HX, whatsonreading.com

Bach to Baby is the critically acclaimed concert series for babies, toddlers to enjoy together. Adults: £15, up to 2 children free. 11am.

14 Apr

Rock ‘n’ Roll Concertini with Matt Bond

Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Be inspired by the sounds of the Beatles, the Stones and Elvis followed by the chance to meet the musicians and even have a go! £10£12. 11:30am.

14 Apr

Bats at the Museum

West Berkshire Museum, Newbury, RG14 5AS, westberkshireheritage. org/west-berkshire-museum

A walk by local bat expert James Shipman about the life of these amazing creatures. £5. 8:15–9pm.

15 Apr

Charity Emergency Services Day

Cobbs at Hungerford, A4 Bath Road, Hungerford, RG17 0SP, cobbsfarmshops.co.uk We’ll have a police car and van, a fire responder car, and a fire truck visiting Cobbs! Free entry. 10am–4pm

15 Apr

Kidical Mass Family Bike Ride

Hills Meadow car park, Reading, RG1 8DH, kidicalmassreading.co.uk

Family-friendly mass bike rides, designed to increase families’ confidence in cycling together. Free to join. Meet at 2pm.

15 and 16 Apr

All About Dogs

Newbury Showground, Priors Court, Hermitage, Thatcham, RG18 9QZ, allaboutdogsshow.co.uk

Bring your dog and join in the fun with a weekend packed with advice from industry experts, exciting havea-go activities, Fun Dog Shows,

amazing arena displays and lots of shopping! 9:30am – 5pm

16 Apr

Public Open Day

Pinewood (Wokingham) Miniature Railway, Pinewood Leisure Centre, Wokingham, RG40 3AQ, pinewoodrailway.co.uk

Pinewood (Wokingham) Miniature Railway has been running trains for over 30 years, delighting children of all ages. £1.50 per ride. 1:30–4pm.

16 Apr

Cinderella the Ballet

Kenton Theatre, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre. co.uk

This magical new ballet follows the traditional tale with fresh touches and is the ultimate fairytale treat for the whole family. Adults: £17, children: £15. 1pm/3pm.

24 Apr

Animals!

South Hill Park, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark. org.uk

An empowering and uplifting performance about animals, humans and nature. Ages 6+. From £11.50. 4:30pm.

24 and 27 Apr

Nature Tots

Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Your tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. £7. 10am.

27 and 28 Apr

Bugs and Beasties

The Look Out Discovery Centre, Nine Mile Ride, Bracknell, RG12 7QW

There’s always plenty for toddlers to enjoy and explore at The Look Out Discovery Centre, and on our toddler days we have extra special activities for children up to age 5.

30 Apr

JJ and Cody from CoComelon Visit 4 Kingdoms Adventure Park, Headley, RG19 8JY, 4-kingdoms. co.uk

You can meet them at intervals during the day.