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Benefits of boarding school Distributed to the communities of Everton, Gillitts, Hillcrest, Kloof, St Helier & Winston Park

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To board or not to board? This is a question many parents ask themselves, especially when their children reach high school age. We hope you enjoy all the benefits Anne Schauffer draws attention to on page 10 – as these can often be overlooked in the bigger picture.

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new – Socrates

Let the light in W e are a month into the new year already, can you believe it? I don’t know about you, but I am super excited about 2022. After nearly two years of uncertainty due to the pandemic, it feels like a heavy blanket has lifted. I just know this year is going to be brighter, lighter and full of beneficial challenges and wonderful experiences.

I am not really one for New Year’s resolutions. When you loosely scribble them down on a piece of paper after a couple of glasses of champagne, they somehow feel intangible. But I do believe in the importance of inviting growth and change in – every day, every week, every month, every year ...

You set the pace! I know I will. And if I really had to pick just one resolution, it would be: Do more things that make you forget to check your phone.

It’s incredible how spoilt for choice we are when it comes to schools in the greater Durban area. And we love that so many of them come onboard and support our first issue of the year – which always centres around education. The Famous team get quite excited about this issue, we

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How can we teach our children essential life skills to prepare them for a career in an ever-changing world? Abilities for adaptive and positive behaviour that enable us to deal effectively with the demands and challenges of life are more important today than ever. Paul Bushell unpacks some of these necessary skills on page 16, while on page 26 Jess Basson shares priceless first-hand experiences – giving us a better understanding of ADHD. In Rock The Kitchen Ant has created the perfect, simple, no-fuss Valentine’s dinner … gentlemen, this is your time to shine and impress the ladies in your life with some culinary delights! For more gems, come along on The Saunter on page 52, and take a look at this year’s fashion trends on page 46.

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Courtney’s practical placement at Jason’s Bakery in Cape Town helped her develop further. “Jason really bakes outside of the lines, away from the traditional patisserie style, constantly taking a beloved flavour by many and then giving it a twist,” she says – adding that with this experience she started her own business, Dough Girl, opening a bakery in Musgrave. “There’s only six of us but we sure know how to push a lot of pastries out to our doughies!”

Courtney, who likes to be in charge of her own creativity, started baking at the age of 10.

“To this day, I still go to my mom Sam for ideas and guidance on certain recipes

I may need to alter. She runs the behind the scenes side of the bakery and comes up with cool merchandise. My dad Craig and brother Chad are also involved – while running their own businesses too.”

What makes Dough Girl unique is quality.

“We pride ourselves in doing everything from scratch, and everything is fresh daily.”

There are also packaged treats on offer – such as the infamous junkies cookies that contain everything but the kitchen sink, as well as a small shelf range of bottled home-made lemon curd, dulce de leche and chocolate fudge sauce.

A few months ago Dough Girl opened a pop-up store at Willow Way Manor – so now Upper Highway doughies can get their

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For The Love Of PUZZLES Hans Bregman loves woodworking and makes small wooden puzzles, Soma Cubes, which he sells at local markets. “Ideal for young children. Just seven pieces, but challenging none the less,” he says – adding that his fascination with puzzles lies in being able to make something out of a few pieces of wood and giving it to someone who will need hours to take it apart or assemble it.

Hans recently did a 32 000-piece puzzle.

Yes, you read that correct! “It took 685 hours over a period of nearly one year, with a twomonth break,” he says. “And no, I was never tempted to give up, I took the break because I didn’t want the enjoyment to end.” Hans sourced this puzzle in 2017 at the House and Garden Show, from Puzzles Unlimited.

“I bought it before Covid times, but never did anything till January 2021. Lockdowns call for something to kill time and take your mind off things.”

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KEARSNEY’S DR MABASO Heads For Oxford University Growing up in a home with two medical parents provided additional insight in was always curious to understand the inner workings of the human body and its processes. His dream of making a tangible difference to mental health is edging closer with the announcement that he’s the recipient of a prestigious post-graduate scholarship to one of the world’s most notable universities.

Wakithi has been named a Rhodes scholar-elect for the 2022 intake to Oxford University, where he intends to read for an MSc in Global Health Science and Epidemiology, followed by an MSc in Clinical and Therapeutic Neuroscience. “As an aspiring clinician-scientist, interested in psychiatry, I hope to impact the landscape

of mental healthcare provision for South Africa’s most vulnerable populations,” says the 25-year-old.

Since graduating cum laude from the University of Cape Town with an MBChB Degree, he has just completed the second year of his medical internship at the Pietermaritzburg hospital complex. In 2019 he and a colleague, Dr Stefan van der Walt, published the largest study to be conducted on depression and anxiety by South African medical students. languages, at school he was part of the Kearsney College choir and achieved eight distinctions in matric, and also represented his school at tennis, basketball, rugby and soccer.

Wakithi credits Kearsney’s unmatched academics and exposure to life for pushing him to forge his own identity. He also honours his parents. “My mother is a leader

dean and full professor at the University of KwaZulu-Natal (UKZN) medical school, so it has been a privilege to learn from her. My father’s guidance that there will always be someone better than oneself, fostered in me a healthy self-concept and reinforced the values of internal motivation.”

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This is not healthy, we believe in doing the exact opposite,” she adds. “We’ll pump our clients’ favourite tunes and let them loose on breaking and smashing whatever suits their anger-filled needs. Shouting is not frowned upon. Neither is crying. Nor silently slaying. We even have paint!”

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With a locally lekker line-up and a host of family-centric activities and attractions, it’s set to be a wonderful return to a little piece of normal that we have all been longing for. Early morning dips in the refreshing Mzimude River, hot coffee and a delicious breakfast served fresh under the canopy of trees, lazy afternoon tubing, picnicking, dancing, drumming, shopping, walking, relaxing, mingling, and of course, a spoilt-for-choice line-up of musicians and artists in one of the most picturesque settings in South Africa. What more could you ask for?

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We need to act now if future generations are to have any hope of enjoying the sound of a wild lion’s roar at dawn challenging for censuses to give accurate numbers and they are often biased by the agenda of whoever has commissioned them. The most widely accepted figure is an estimated 20 000 lions in the world; substantially less than the estimated 23 000 rhinos and the 400 000 elephants.

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TODAY’S BOARDING EXPERIENCE IS A VASTLY DIFFERENT, INFINITELY NUANCED SCENARIO, FOCUSED ON FACILITATING A NURTURING SPACE FOR YOUNG PEOPLE TO ACQUIRE A RANGE AND DEPTH OF LIFE SKILLS, AND BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF THEMSELVES, WRITES ANNE SCHAUFFER

n almost every possible way, boarding establishments bear little relation to those of yesteryear.

They go back centuries of course, initially to little cloistered religious institutions with students isolated from society, then evolving into military-type academies, and eventually, into more secular establishments. Consultation with the children wasn’t on the radar.

“In the past, the decision to send a child to boarding school was born out of circumstance – no suitable ‘day’ option close to home,” says Peter Storrar, Director of Advancements at Hilton College.

“Nowadays, many families have access to quality schooling on their doorstep so, in that sense, the necessity for boarding has (for some) diminished.” But necessity is by no means the only driver: “For many boys, boarding is more effective and appropriate than it has ever been,” says Peter. “Traffic, cellphones, social media, pollution, crime, malls and time-consuming commutes can undermine the quality of an adolescent’s education. Teenagers are far better served spending their time engaging with their

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peers face-to-face, enjoying the outdoors, and discovering more about themselves in a healthy and safe environment.”

Clearly, life today is very different, with time being a scarce commodity, particularly for working parents. It’s often a massive challenge to protect children while still giving them freedom – elements like limiting screen and mall time isn’t easy when you aren’t there.

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Teenagers are far better served spending their time engaging with their peers face-to-face Northwood, says, “Learners worldwide attend Northwood, but many families in the community want the option of sending their sons to a boarding school with the convenience of simultaneously playing a more hands-on role. The independence and responsibility that comes from being away from home encourages boys to solve their own problems and make their

own decisions.”

Megan de Beer is an integrative psychologist who, for the past 20 years, has run her annual course ‘Strong Mothers, Strong Sons’ in top boys boarding schools countrywide: “Things have changed radically over the years. All boys’ boarding schools are far more sensitive and open to boys’ emotional intelligence.” For Megan, the huge positive is freedom and safety for South African children: “The powerful, natural teenage impulse for independence and freedom, to be separate from their parents, be their own person, discover who they are … is part of that experimentation heading into adulthood.” For many, boarding school is the perfect space in which that can play out “safely”.

Is boarding school for every child? “No,” says Paul Bushell, educational psychologist and author: “The decision to send a child to boarding school needs careful consideration – every child is different.

For many parents this means suspending their own hopes and dreams, and exploring how this decision will maximise their child’s holistic development. There is value in having conversations with the

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child concerned, and with personal and professional connections who know the child and/or understand boarding schools.”

Educational psychologist Sally Davies works full time at St Mary’s Diocesan School for Girls in Kloof, as well as in her private practice. For her, “The child/ teenager must show a keen interest and eagerness to go into boarding. Cases when parents force or coerce their child –

directly or indirectly – may result in a failed boarding experience. Those families who believe ‘your grandparents and I went, so you must go’, could be making a large mistake.”

For Hilton College, oversubscribed as they are, Peter Storrar says, “It’s far more important that each boy who comes here, has selected us. In some families, it’s the parent’s decision, others leave it up to the »

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boy, and others make a collective decision.

We want to hear that the boy himself is up for it.” Hilton offers numerous “sleep-overs”, so the boy gets a sense of boarding life there, but equally, so the school can advise parents as to whether it’s the right place for their son.

Northwood’s Thomas Barry feels differently. He believes all boys are suited to boarding school: “Some find the initial transition a bit difficult, but due to the support, camaraderie and brotherhood created, they quickly form strong connections and feel right at home.

Northwood BE’s main vision is that it becomes a home-away-from-home.”

The theme which comes up strongly is relationships. Peter Storrar believes, “You form relationships in the boarding space you won’t make in a day school – the depth, as well as what and how much you learn from others.” He adds, “In the classroom, you might not ever find yourself in a situation where you’re prompted to chat to someone you might not necessarily have chatted to. In the different BE houses, we are very deliberate about whom we put together … we’re trying to create as much diversity as possible. We have learners from around the world, raised in both extremely privileged and extremely disadvantaged circumstances. We put the boy from Singapore interested in robotics next to the farm boy from Eshowe who loves fishing.

They learn as much from each other as they learn from the teaching staff.”

This plays into the important life skills arena. “Traditionally, when you go out there into the world, it’s human nature to hang out with people who are like you.

The boarding experience shows boys the value of forming relationships with people different from you. Our hope is that when our boys go out into society, they reach out to others quite different from themselves and form relationships they might not necessarily have formed.”

“Boarding certainly teaches boys how to deal with people from many different cultures and walks of life,” says

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Northwood’s Thomas Barry, “and it encourages them to manage their own affairs. Boarding creates bonds that last a lifetime. They discover strong connections that result from the warm family environment. We believe boarding should complement, not replace family life and we ensure open lines of communication with our families at all times.”

Sally Davies feels strongly that, “For any family to consider boarding, there should be the willingness of the child, parents and institution to work in unison to ensure a successful and thriving boarding experience. All parties need to be open, honest, transparent, and to communicate any concerns and questions. A boarding school may have the care of the child Monday to Friday, but this never replaces a parents’ role and responsibility.”

What about the numerous stereotypical views of boarding school, such as who’s best suited, bullying, homesickness or

You form relationships in the boarding space you won’t make in a day school – the depth, as well as what and how much you learn from others unhappy home environments? Clearly, the size and depth of the support structures and staff vigilance today is light years away from what they used to be. For Sally, if there’s a keenness by the child to attend, there’s no checklist of requisite personality traits: “Forget the idea that the extrovert, sporty, outgoing, leaders will be successful boarders, and the introvert, more culturally inclined, shy, followers won’t.” Peter concurs: “There are stereotypical extroverts and introverts who don’t do well, and others who do. You can be that softly spoken quieter boy, and be happy and succeed.”

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What about unhappy home scenarios?

Removing children from adult stresses can be advantageous, particularly if the child wants that. Sally Davies feels, “There are cases whereby I would actively recommend boarding, even if only temporarily, where it becomes a safe haven giving all parties time to heal. What needs to be avoided is for a child to ever feel ‘sent away’ or abandoned.”

Clearly, logistics play a role in choosing a boarding establishment. If your child is sporty with early hours/weekends devoted to sport, a boarding school with a strong sports department works well. Equally, for children who are passionate about drama, music or art with after-hours rehearsals, concerts and dedicated studios, a school with strength in those areas can offer a wonderful boarding experience.

Megan de Beer suggests that parents do

extensive homework, not only around the school ethos and whether it has a focus on their child’s speciality, but equally, how well subscribed that department is: “Teenagers need their group of friends to feel safe and happy. This is where they find their tribe.

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For Thomas Barry, there are so many advantages to boarding school life, from academics to the daily routine: “By the end of their tenure at Northwood, boys »

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will have learnt time management, organisational skills and interpersonal skills. Their ability to focus in a group and develop coping mechanisms in different situations are skills that will assist them throughout life. The boys are expected to take responsibility for themselves, their personal hygiene, their living space and the impact of their behaviour on others.”

Ultimately, today’s boarding schools have very clear ideas on how to facilitate a safe yet expansive space where young people can be the best version of themselves. Each school will inevitably have a different ethos and varying strengths – it’s up to that trilogy of parent, child and school to gauge the right one.

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or many children, their future job doesn’t exist yet. Living in a constantly changing world means that jobs are disappearing and emerging all the time. This often leaves parents feeling unsure about what they should be prioritising in their child’s development. And although there is no winning formula for childhood development and parenting, talking about

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careers seems like a useful consideration to add to the list.

Too many people leave their careers to chance.

Here are five things to be doing with your child to prepare them for a career in a constantly changing world.

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a psychologist, author, and speaker. He is the founder of the #raisingkids series, and co-founder of the KindnessCan movement.

He has a special interest in emotional intelligence, career development and meaningful living.

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Cognitive skills, like critical and analytical thinking, problemsolving, curiosity and creative thinking allow people to solve problems with innovative solutions. We can anticipate that a constantly changing world will be filled with new

needs and problems, and many new careers will be in response to these. From young, encourage children to engage in games and activities which require problem-solving. In everyday life, this also means not hurrying to solve all of children’s problems for them.

Although it is often quicker and easier to do so, children can benefit from working through challenges and having responsibilities. This not only allows them to grow new skills, but also the belief that they can solve problems. It also means sometimes letting children be

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bored, and finding things – other than schedules and technology – to keep themselves busy.

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Skills like emotional regulation and self-management will become more and more important. This includes skills like resilience, flexibility and adaptability, stress tolerance and empathy. Many parents want to help their children avoid hard feelings, worrying that these kinds of feelings will negatively affect their child’s development. However, learning how to identify, understand and choose what to do with a variety of feelings is crucial in an unpredictable and challenging world. It is more important to engage these feelings, and work through them in supportive ways. An ability to engage in emotions in this way, also allows people to recognise, empathise and support other people’s emotions. This is an important part of finding solutions to people’s needs and solving problems in a constantly changing world.

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There is no time to be antitechnology. It will continue to be an important part of all careers in some shape or way. However, there is a big difference between recreational use of technology – such as social media, online gaming, etc – and actually learning how to use technology for a future career. Parents would do well to find structured opportunities and programmes to stimulate tech skills, and not fool themselves into believing that hours of gaming and viewing is necessarily productive. A big part of this is learning how to emotionally and socially integrate technology into everyday life.

This means learning how to have boundaries with technology.

Help

Help-seeking is a crucial part of getting ahead and being resilient. Learning how to make connections and asking for support is crucial. This means getting help for everything, but also career development and support. Career assessments, counselling, job shadowing, volunteering, and career planning should be structured and frequent in every home. This allows people to explore themselves and the world of work as they are unfolding. We can anticipate that people will change jobs and careers frequently in a constantly changing world, and learning from young how to reflect and grow a personal career plan is important.

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Optimism and hope are important qualities and skills, especially when the world throws a curve ball. Although these qualities come more naturally to some, learning how to catch and readjust thoughts which are negative or gloomy is an important skill. This allows people to manage their thoughts and

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This is thanks to a beautiful partnership with Focus on iThemba, a non-profit that facilitates quality early childhood development in the Valley of 1 000 Hills.

Waterfall Pre-Primary is a home away from home for children from 12 months of age to Grade 00 and has established a strong following in the Upper Highway area.

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At the start of 2022, Waterfall Preparatory turns five! That’s five years of developing an environment where children are honoured for the God-given treasure within them, where children feel safe so that they can learn, where they are encouraged to challenge themselves mentally and physically, and to develop healthy relationships with their peers and teachers.

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ABOVE LEFT: Sport is an important and developing aspect of life at the Prep. In 2022, the school will add hard ball cricket to the range of sports on offer.

ABOVE: Hand-in-hand, teachers, children and their families learn, play and grow together at Waterfall Pre-Primary.

ABOVE: The College STEAM Centre includes a Life Sciences Lab, Physical Sciences Lab and an Art Studio, with a kiln for pottery.

“One of our purposes as a school is to create a space where children are excited to be and learn,” says Waterfall Prep Headmaster, Brad Cooper. “We believe that by identifying the triggers for stress and anxiety, we can hopefully achieve just that.”

“We have intentionally not used assessment to measure children against each other, based on our experience of and belief in age-appropriate emotional development. I firmly believe that we are using assessment in the most positive way.

We no longer blame assessment for the fear and anxiety that resulted from the build-up of pressure. Our focus is on what we do with the results of the assessment and how we use these for the benefit of individual pupils.”

Prep pupils enjoy a range of sports, including cross country, hockey, soccer, netball and cricket, with inter-school fixtures, including galas. They also take

part in music and drama during the school day, and have access to a number of other extra-murals.

This year, Bryony Green takes over as Principal of Waterfall College, as the school turns 18. “An ongoing focus on our students as individuals is key to us remaining connected and ensuring our

Visit us this February, when we will be hosting a series of Open Days. students can make the most of what we offer in academics, sport, culture and technology,” says Mrs Green.

The College provides 17 IEB subjects to Matric and has always been known for its excellent, subject-specialist teachers, who work with students to help them achieve their best. This is reflected in the school’s 100% IEB pass rate, 17 years running.

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leadership, aiming to develop communityorientated young adults who are empowered to make a positive difference.

A state-of-the-art new STEAM Centre has ignited the sciences, technology, EGD, art and mathematics at the school, where a maximum class size of 24 allows time for individual attention for each student.

Jeanette van der Merwe, who led Waterfall College through its transformation from a school of 37 students in pre-fab classrooms to what it is today, now oversees Waterfall Online and the programme of extra lessons that it provides students across South Africa. This is a convenient, affordable option for students who wish to improve their academic performance. Subjects include English, Afrikaans, Mathematics, AP Mathematics, Mathematical Literacy, Accounting, Information Technology, Physical Sciences, Life Sciences, History and Geography.

Thank you to the children, parents and the wider community who have engaged with our schools as we have grown and developed, challenging us and supporting us as we strive to serve the children in our care. We look forward to learning together in 2022.

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asreen chats to me with an open smile and a warm heart – something I sense comes so naturally to her. She explains being a mum and a therapist with great passion. Nasreen is dubbed “The Toy Doctor” by most of her little clients – who talk to her about their success, troubles and frustrations through toys.

It’s all quite new to me, and I marvel at her ability to understand play at a subconscious level. The fusion of kinesiology and play therapy is what makes Nasreen a cut above the rest. She is able to ascertain brain dominance, thereby explaining to parents their child’s learning styles and productive parenting methods based on this.

Have you ever given your child an instruction a few times, but to no avail? Nasreen explains that children need to be instructed via their particular learning style – such as auditory, kinesthetic or visual. Once you are able to talk to them in “their language”, parenting becomes simpler and more successful.

Nasreen says the pandemic and 2021 riots have brought on a new type of stress in children and adults alike. Children

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crave human touch and present parents. When a child behaves unusually or does something out of their usual character, this is their way of saying “I’m confused, I’m hurt, I don’t understand”. And this is when they need help.

According to Nasreen, there are some simple steps you can take at home to relieve your child’s stress and help them feel safe – such as sharing homecooked meals, bedtime stories and bedtime routine, hugs,

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hugs and more hugs, increasing their water consumption and including plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables in their diet.

Nasreen added that play is an integral part of a child’s life, a game of chess or cards and outdoor games are vital in the brain producing feel-good hormones.

“The old saying ‘honesty is the best policy’ is pertinent to an effective parenting style,” says Nasreen – and shares great Covid coping skills with us.

Distract, Distract, Distract Move energy and oxygen from your right brain to your left brain by taking a deep breath in, holding your breath for a count of six, exhaling slowly and counting backwards in twos from 100.

The 5 Technique Look around for five items in the colour blue.

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Journalling

Work off some negativity by going for a walk, painting, reading a book, baking … Now sit with your knees up to your chest and breathe deep.

This is a powerful way to release anxiety and stress.

Draw a picture describing how you feel, and/or write words or sentences about how you feel.

Close the book. Take a deep breath. Relax.

My Happy Space Take a deep breath. Focus on transporting your mind to your happy space: Where is it?

What does it look like? What does it smell like? What can you touch? Are there any tastes associated with this happy space? Immerse yourself in this memory, and feel your body relax and your heart rate slow down.

Notice Notice where in your body the stress is housed. Focus your breathing into that area. Pick your shoulders up to your ears, hold for five, drop and repeat.

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t the beginning of Grade 2, we saw the light dim in our little boy’s eyes. He would get into the car after school and burst into tears, having held back his frustration all day long.

After some hits and misses as bothering him, we ended up taking him to an educational psychologist. She came back to us with the conclusion that he was a brilliantly intelligent child, who also had Attention (ADHD).

What did this mean? What should we do next? We had already been through so much trying to parent him the way he needed, and this felt like the For the next couple of years I took a deep dive into understanding everything I could about ADHD. The more I understood, the less terrifying ADHD was. Accurate explanations lead to accurate problem-solving.

Understanding an ADHD diagnosis can not just be liberating, but save people’s relationships, careers and even their lives. Because one of the greatest side-effects of ADHD is shame.

Shame is that little voice that tells us we are not worthy of love and connection.

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ADHD walk around under the weight of shame because ADHD is often treated as a behavioural problem instead of a neurological problem. The words “what is wrong with you?” hang over their young hearts like a cloud.

This is what life is like for ADHD kids. They are trying so hard. They long to impress us, please us and to be liked – they want it so much. Sometimes they’re trying so hard to be OK that we don’t even know how much they’re hurting, as they

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Parenting and educating children with ADHD is difficult and often discouraging. I know their meltdowns and their tempers can be scary. But when they lose it, it’s terrifying for them too because they can’t make it stop. After the outburst, the flood of shame is soul-killing because they actually do know better. They know better because you taught them what is good, but they just can’t do it and they don’t know what’s wrong with them.

So what should we do with our beautiful, spirited, challenging ADHD kids?

Honestly, I don’t know. I’m still figuring it out and it’s exhausting. But here are three ideas that have helped me parent my child with more understanding and patience.

1 When we know better, we can do better Knowledge is empowering.

For example, I learnt that ADHD affects a child’s working memory. Working memory is how you process the information you’re receiving in the moment. The ADHD brain is like a whiteboard that runs out of space, and so the child has to erase information they should still be using in order to take in the new input. This poorly developed working memory can make ADHD people seem irresponsible, careless, and forgetful. Not only have I been more realistic about my son’s capacity, I’ve changed my assumptions about the “why” he lost his school jersey for the third time.

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where he put it.

2 ADHD is an explanation, not an excuse An ADHD child doesn’t have a deficit of attention, they have difficulty regulating attention.

The ADHD brain struggles to change gears. They might either struggle to focus on one idea, or hyperfocus on only one interesting idea. This helped me understand why it often seemed like my son was ignoring me. He would be so zoned in on playing Lego, that his brain wouldn’t receive the information that I was calling him to come for dinner.

Eventually, I would get louder and louder until when he finally looked up at me, it was like he was seeing me for the first time. Because for his brain, it was.

3 ADHD is not a character defect, it’s a neurological divergence Studies using MRI scans show that when compared to a neurotypical brain, the neurodiverse ADHD brain shows actual physical differences in white matter and shape. In other words, some children are born with brains that think, learn and process information differently than others. Just like a person with diabetes can’t be disciplined to bring their insulin levels down, ADHD kids cannot rely on sheer willpower and determination to make their brains work the same way that a neurotypical brain works.

If you have a child with ADHD, you may feel frustrated and anxious about their future.

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to your child, but to yourself.

The more you know, the better you can do at drawing the best out of their vibrant, flourishing, creative brains.

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ix years ago there was a big, abandoned shell of a house in the middle of a dense forest. Vandals had broken or pillaged just about everything they could. Droves of dassies were living in the roof, and the forest had encroached to the doorstep.

Graffiti covered the walls, and dassie dung piled up on the parquet floors. “You could barely see the house from the road,” says Brett Hodgson, “and the driveway was too overgrown to drive down. But the ‘bones’ of the house were there and all I could see was potential.”

Fast forward to today and the picture is completely different. The house has been entirely renovated, and Brett has cut trails into the forest for running and mountain biking. “The original property is 22 acres, and I bought the neighbouring properties to make it 56 acres. For years I would find something new on the property almost every time I went for a walk. We’ve found a dam, waterfalls, ruins, even a four-story treehouse. And there’s loads of wildlife too.

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ABOVE: Brett Hodgson, Cat Todd and Rob Haupt, the Morewood and Potter Shed team.

RIGHT: Some say their burgers are the best in town.

aren’t that many big open spaces in Hillcrest where people can run or cycle, and just enjoy the outdoors with their families.”

The house itself is now home to The Potter Shed restaurant, and in Rob Haupt Brett has found the perfect man to run the kitchen.

With years of experience, Rob knows what it takes to develop a menu that will have people coming back time and again.

“Our most popular night is a Wednesday, when we have an evening trail run and a special on pizza and a beer or gin for R100,” Brett mentions. It’s very hard to find anything to beat that for value these days, but the rest of the menu is also very affordable.

“Obviously the various Covid lockdowns were tough on us,” says Rob, “and so we came up with a few different offerings. »

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We started doing takeaway meals and pizzas, as well as frozen meals including pastas and pizzas. Our extensive vegan range of food, including lasagne, is doing well. And our dessert chef, Cat Todd, is busy developing a range of home-made ice creams that we will sell here and for customers to take home. We also have a smoker now, which adds an extra level of flavour to our food.”

Actually, Cat deserves a special mention too, because she has the knack of making just about any dessert spot on. Her baked cheese cakes have us returning almost weekly, while the red velvet waffles are sensational! She is also the brewer, trained

by Megan Gemmel of Clockwork Brewing, and has developed and produced a broad range of craft beers and ciders.

The food at The Potter Shed may be great, but the real attraction of Morewood, and what sets it apart from every other restaurant in the area, are the forest trails.

There are trails of different difficulties and distances, so anyone from a child to an accomplished mountain biker can be kept entertained, and you can always combine the different trails if you want to rack up the kilometres.

“We’ve got three trails now: a 5km loop, a 7km loop and an 8km loop, so it’s quite easy to do a 20km ride without repeating yourself too much. There are also nice spots in the forest to stop for a breather,” says Brett. “Another option is to ride the railway track down to Kloof, then come back and finish off with one of our trails before having a meal. And with the size of the property, there is plenty of scope for more trails. We’ve just added a pump track for kids just below the restaurant, so that parents can watch their kids while having a drink. We also organise mushroom foraging walks, and hope to keep coming up with fun things to do here.

Once these are finalised we’ll definitely draw a map of the farm.”

Brett is a man of many talents, and for years ran a winery and distillery in the Midlands. He has kept this up and the Old

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Balgowan spirits, flavoured vodka shots, craft gins, ciders and beers and fortified wines, even mead, are all available from the restaurant. Their petro-chilli sauces are developing a bit of a cult following too, and the herbal iced teas are quite special.

Future plans? “We’re slowly developing and expanding, and hopefully in the near future we’ll be adding a bakery and deli to the offerings. We also want to expand the distillery, brewery and winery side of things, so that people can come and see how everything is done or even try their hand at making their own batch of gin or their favourite tipple. We have loads of other ideas too, like a beer and gin garden, pottery and rock painting activities, art in the forest …”

Rob also has plans of his own, particularly for functions. “We’ve already done some lambs on the spit and build-aburger parties, which went down really well.

We also do themes for all the big holidays, like Easter egg hunts and Halloween in the woods, and host kids parties.”

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FOR MORE INFO 64a Springside Road; 066 218 6693; morewoodfarm@gmail.com; for The Potter Shed reservations, phone 079 691 1475.

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Different brands of school shoes have different styles within that brand. The main differences are: shape of the toebox; height of toebox (how much space for toes); flexibility over ball of foot; weight; innersole thickness/comfort; heel counter height; heel counter support; and heel height.

to look for *inWhat a school shoe • Genuine leather upper.

• It needs to be lightweight.

• It should take on the shape of the child’s foot.

• It needs to be flexible over the ball of the foot.

• Sturdy supportive heel counter.

• There should be half-a-thumbs width between the longest toe and the front of the shoe when trying on the shoe.

When buying school shoes, try on the shoes with the right socks. It’s also best to try on shoes towards the end of the day as feet “swell” during the day. That way you know you’re sure to get the best fit.

Different brands also might differ slightly in their sizing, so try on a size up and down and see which is the best fit.

Don’t get stuck on numbers.

Encourage your children to make it a habit to do their laces/buckles up when putting on shoes, and undoing them before taking the shoes off. There’s very important reasoning behind this. When you simply pull your shoes off you stretch the upper of the shoe which won’t give you a secure fit

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NELFRIE KEMP’S ADVICE FOR BUYING SCHOOL SHOES when wearing them. Likewise, by pushing your shoe off your foot using the other foot, you damage the heel counter (back heel part of the shoe) and weaken the support.

The foot and shoe need to function as a unit when walking and proper tying of laces and buckles is important for that.

When passing on shoes, look at the outersole, innersole and inside of the heel counter. If the shoe has been worn excessively it could influence the next pair of feet steps.

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ABOVE: Podiatrist Nelfrie Kemp and Claire Thango – a winning foot care team.

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Zandile Khambule, 55, has been a professional nurse for 29 years, obtaining her nursing degree at the University of Zululand in 1992 before starting her career at Prince Mshiyeni Memorial Hospital.

A promotion then took her to KwaDabeka Clinic, where she worked as an operational nurse manager, and thereafter she was transferred to Waterfall Clinic – occupying the same role.

“The desire to give help and support to those in need is in me. That’s why I had this vision of joining the Unjani Clinic Network in January 2018, a network that empowers black South African female nurses to build a suitable network of nurse-owned-and-operated primary healthcare clinics nationally,” says Zandile.

Her clinic, which has been open for three years, offers numerous primary healthcare services and employs two nursing assistants. Patients

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ABOVE: Sister Zandile with patient Smangele Phakathi.

LEFT: The Unjani Clinic.

BELOW: Zandile and nursing assistants Nokubonga Ngcobo (left) and Talent Mthiyane (right).

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pay a small consultation fee, which includes medication, and the clinic stays open late – to the great convenience of Embo and surrounding areas.

Gugu Mazibuko collects her chronic medication for free at the clinic, through the Central

Chronic Medicines Dispensing and Distribution (CCMDD) programme. “Sister Khambule is a wonderful person, she tells me exactly what I must do and which medication I need that won’t clash with my chronic condition – as I am a

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person living with HIV.” Zandile feels honoured to run the clinic and loves being her own boss. “I only do home visits and house calls to very sick and terminally ill patients,” she adds. “And I make sure that everyone who attends my clinic leaves satisfied.”

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100 YEARS of proven results WOODHEAD BIGBY CELEBRATES GENERATIONS OF ADAPTATION AND PERSEVERANCE The longevity of this Durbanbased firm stems deeply from the diverse legacies which run through it. The family-oriented foundations are undoubtedly a defining trait. Decades worth of invaluable practice experience has been passed down from generations of renowned legal figures who have served the firm through the years.

The firm’s achievement of 100 years is led by the firm’s current managing director Scott Bigby and his codirectors, Russell MacDonald, Joanne Taylor, Ian Johnson, Yadhya Bissasser, Samantha Subiah, Kovishthra Naidoo and dynamic siblings James Bigby and Margaret Bigby.

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FOR THE SPECIAL ONE IN YOUR LIFE THIS VALENTINE’S DAY, THIS IS MORE THAN ABOUT SCORING BROWNIE POINTS (OR GETTING LUCKY). AND THE WORLD’S GREATEST CHEFS AGREE – THE SECRET INGREDIENT REALLY IS LOVE, WRITES ANT ELLIS

omething that really makes me happy is seeing dudes like me getting their hands dirty in the kitchen. Yeah, yeah – they can all braai. But sadly, many of us can’t do much better than the occasional slice of avo toast or air-fried fish fingers. So here’s the deal, boys: It’s time to step up. This Valentine’s Day you’ll be grabbing a frilly apron, letting what’s left of your hair down and fixing a kick-ass three-course meal for your one and only. Ladies, give these recipes immediately to your husband or boyfriend (or the nearest available kitchen-phobic chucklehead) and kick up your feet with a glass of ice-cold prosecco. It’s payback time.

Guys, relax. We’re not going from zero to masterchef here. I’ve created and tested each of these dishes for three things – simplicity of ingredients and cooking method, speed, and of course, maximum flavour. You should have no problem finding any of the ingredients, or the equipment you need, in your own kitchen. Each of these recipes feeds four.

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The Simplest Summer Salad SWEET, PEPPERY AND CREAMY WITH A ZESTY VINAIGRETTE. YOU’VE GOT THIS. Salad: 1 ripe mango, peeled and cut into slices • 1 large ripe avocado, halved, sliced and deshelled • 1 cup rocket leaves Citrus Dressing: 1/4 cup lime, lemon or orange juice, freshly squeezed • 1 tbsp olive oil • 1 tsp sugar • pinch of chilli flakes • pinch of salt • freshly ground black pepper This couldn’t be easier. Peel the mango, then carefully slice around the pit, opening the angle of your knife when you feel resistance – then cut the cheeks into slices. To get your avo flesh out perfectly, half the avo lengthways, remove the seed and then gently cup each avo half in your hand, run the tip of your knife through the flesh at 5mm intervals across the longest length. Using a tablespoon along the inside of the skin, scoop out the slices. Arrange the mango, avo and fresh rocket leaves in a bowl and dress with vinaigrette before serving.

Level it up: Add a sprinkling of pomegranate rubies or paper-thin slices of red onion.

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Wham-bam Thai Fish Curry with Pineapple

HERE’S THE PROOF THAT SO OFTEN JUST A FEW INGREDIENTS CAN REALLY DELIVER. • 250g hake fillet, cut into cubes • 1 large pineapple, peeled and blended to a pulp in a blender (a 400g tin of crushed pineapple, drained, will work) • ½ white onion, chopped • 1 can coconut milk • ½ red pepper, deseeded and cut into strips • 1 tbsp Thai red curry paste • 1 tbsp fish sauce • chopped coriander leaves to garnish In a tablespoon of sunflower oil in a large pan, lightly fry onion. Add pineapple, coconut milk, red pepper, curry paste and fish sauce, combine over medium-high heat. Reduce heat to medium, add fish.

Cook for 5 minutes or until fish is cooked through. Serve with Basmati rice (just follow the instructions on the packet and you won’t go wrong), topped with coriander leaves.

Level it up: Garnish with fresh red chilli and a squeeze of fresh lime juice. If you prefer, substitute fish with prawns or cubed tofu.

3-ingredient Lemon Pudding

THIS REALLY IS AS FOOLPROOF AS IT GETS. DON’T LET ME DOWN. • 250ml whipping cream • 1 can sweetened condensed milk • juice of 3 lemons, and the zest of 2 • lemon zest from 1 lemon to garnish Whip cream until thickened but not stiff. Add condensed milk to a bowl and mix in lemon juice with grated zest.

Fold in whipped cream – do not stir or mix heavily – use broad, sweeping strokes. Portion equally into glasses and chill. To serve, top with fresh berries, grated zest or your favourite fresh fruit.

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he SA Reserve Bank, like other central banks around the world, is obviously keen to maintain a balance between economic growth and inflation as the economy recovers from the damage done by the Covid-19 lockdowns and supply chain breaks, so some interest rate increases are on the cards this year, says Berry Everitt, CEO of the Chas Everitt International property group.

“And unfortunately, most of our inflation is not coming from a rapidly growing economy and rising employment, but is ‘imported’ when oil prices rise and the rand weakens, so it is not really within our control.

“The Reserve Bank also has to consider that the Federal Reserve has indicated that US interest rates may start to rise again soon, which would increase the attractiveness of dollar investments. SA needs to keep its interest rates relatively high to encourage much needed foreign investment.

“But we still believe that rate increases this year will be less than one percentage point at a time, and won’t have a major effect on housing demand.”

This demand, he says, has tapered off a little since the last half of 2020, but remained at a multi-year high in 2021, “with the result that stock shortages are now evident in most soughtafter areas and that, prices have generally risen more rapidly than consumer inflation over the past 12 months.

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BERRY EVERITT, CEO OF THE CHAS EVERITT INTERNATIONAL PROPERTY GROUP, SHARES HIS VIEWS ON SOUTH AFRICA’S REAL ESTATE MARKET IN 2022 “What is more, the demand that was initially largely being driven by first-time buyers has had a knock-on effect right across the market, with many repeat buyers now choosing to move as well – and often to upgrade, thanks to the still-low interest rates and the ready availability of bonds for qualified buyers.”

Everitt says that listing times are currently much shorter than they were pre-Covid and that competing offers are again quite a frequent occurrence, “with the result that the average difference between asking price and selling price is steadily shrinking”.

However, he says, rising interest rates and rising prices are likely to decrease buyer affordability and make it more difficult to qualify for home loans over the course of 2022.

“Rising unemployment is also a very real concern for the market as a whole. However, we see no reluctance on the part of the banks to grant home loans to those who do qualify – in fact quite the opposite – so what we anticipate is that keen buyers will simply adjust and start purchasing smaller homes or in less expensive areas.”

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The average difference between asking price and selling price is steadily shrinking of property is likely to prove most popular this year, Everitt says that with so many city

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residents being concerned about their personal safety and security, it is no surprise that the demand for sectional title flats and townhouses in secure complexes has risen steeply in recent times, or that sectional title sales as a percentage of the whole have doubled to around 30%.

“Since 2020, the demand for generally lower-priced sectional title units has also been driven by a huge number of first-time buyers taking advantage of low interest rates to become homeowners rather than tenants.

“Meanwhile, gated lifestyle estates in and around the big metros have been finding favour again in the past two years, thanks to remote working and online education which means that many residents no longer have to worry about daily commutes in traffic to an office or their childrens’ schools. In addition, many estates now have back-up power, water and internet systems that often enable residents to avoid the worst of the current Eskom and municipal supply interruptions.

“However, it is interesting to note that families who are moving to the so-called zoom towns in country areas or along the coast are showing renewed interest in stand-alone, suburban type homes which offer them greater privacy than in complexes or estates, no levies, and increasingly, the opportunity to take their own homes ‘off the grid’. We believe this will be a rising trend in 2022.”

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BROWS DELIA WATSON’S AMAZING EYEBROW MAKEOVER WITH DEBBIE JEAN

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ur recent competition offering a life-changing eyebrow makeover to one of our lucky readers got a lot of traction – we received a huge number of entries!

The Crest magazine’s winner, Delia Watson, loved the amazing and professional transformation done by top make-up artist Debbie Jean.

“I couldn’t believe that I had actually won the competition, I was so excited when I found out,” says Delia. “On arrival at the salon I met a client who had just done her eyebrows and they looked magnificent, so I was even more excited to get started.

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“It was such a wonderful experience; Debbie was so warm, friendly and professional – I instantly felt at ease. She explained each step of the process, what to expect, and the aftercare that was required.

She also checked to make sure I was comfortable throughout the procedure,” says Delia. “It was pain-free and I didn’t feel any discomfort at all.

“I was overwhelmed with emotion when I saw the end result; it was a dream come true because I finally had brows that looked amazing. It has made such a difference to my confidence. I had my touch-up done recently, and we decided to go a bit darker this time. I am completely satisfied with the outcome. I constantly

get complimented on my eyebrows – it really makes such a difference to my face. I highly recommend Debbie and am so grateful.”

Eyebrows frame the eyes, and now that we are all wearing masks they play a big role in completing our look. The best thing about getting your eyebrows done with Debbie is that you get brows in a better shape and colour, and they don’t wipe off in our humid climate.

Debbie uses cosmetic tattoo techniques, and it will take seven to 10 days for your brows to heal. During this time you can’t do high impact exercise or put your head under water. Your brows will look dark for a week, and the top layer will peel off to reveal a more subtle colour underneath. Having your brows done is a two-part process as the skin will “kick out” some of the colour – it’s the natural healing process. At the second

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hether we are working from home, socialising and travelling or not, designers and fashion experts have moved off their sofas and back into the studio, to bring us something other than leisurewear for 2022. It’s clear we are all needing some fun, and after months of muted tones and casual silhouettes, the 2022 summer trend perfectly embodies the idea of a sunny disposition.

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1 Drop It Low

This summer, baring your midriff with low-slung jeans or trousers will place you at the forefront of fashion. Say goodbye to high-rise jeans – it’s now the season for this non-fussy, ultra-low, baggy, oversized silhouette to take centre stage.

2 Super Sheer

This controversial summer trend is hot off the red carpet and oozing extreme fun.

Evolving from the “barely-there” version of strategically placed pieces of fabric, the Naked Dress gets more sheer and transparent in 2022. Made from revealing fabrics such as lace and mesh, these brave ensembles are for the daring woman looking to cause a stir.

3 Crochet All Day

Whether you are looking to add a touch of texture to your summer wardrobe or are simply staying on trend, this summer is the time to get Granny busy crafting you that classic crochet bikini or colourful bucket hat.

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4 Brighter Days

According to top designers, we are in for a very lemon-lime 2022 – with a colour palette that’s playful, vibrant, energetic and pretty! Think all shades of the rainbow.

Lime green, neon sunshine, fuschia pink and sunset orange are all trending hues – and each with its own tang. Whichever hue you chose to wear, each one is guaranteed to lift your mood.

5 Ultra Mini-mini

This trend possibly started with the introduction of the tennis skirt in late 2021.

After months of Covid fatigue and fashion boredom, there is a strong desire for our wardrobes and lives to be filled with some flirty excitement.

A chic yet still youthful way to embrace the trend is to balance your silhouette with a long-sleeved top half, while showing flesh at the bottom. For a fresh, wearable and more relaxed take on the trend, pair an oversized sweater, knit, blazer or white shirt with your micro-mini and get those legs out of hibernation once and for all.

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6 Powering Up

Wearing a suit has been off the sartorial radar for several months, however, as we head back to the office there is a definite shift towards a smarter look and the return of the power suit. The 2022 suit is seen in more free-flowing materials offering greater freedom and flexibility and in more loose-fitting cuts. Oversized, brightly coloured and complete with show-stopping accents – from waist ties to contrast black hardware and bold shoulders – power up as you step back into the workspace with style.

7 Bikini Life

The message is clear – don’t wait for the beach to get your bikini game right. Summer 2022 sees underwear become a perfectly acceptable form of outerwear, expressing a certain sensuality. Super chic when done in the right way, paired with pencil skirts and trousers, layered beneath an open blazer.

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i! Thank you for coming. It’s going to be great having magazine coverage,” was my warm welcome from Caitlyn when I arrived at Wow Cutting in Ballito. She offered me a seat at a beautiful wood and glass table and proceeded to give me a comprehensive lesson on an array of cutting methods from laser to more aggressive water jet cutting plus a host of other fascinating design trends.

Established in 2012 by Gary da Silva, his daughter Caitlyn and husband, Sky van Niekerk, Wow Cutting has its premises in a new, easily accessible, light industrial park in Ballito. Family owned and run, the company employs a highly experienced eight-man team of carpenters, designers and fabricators – all of whom have been with the business since its inception. Everything is produced inhouse, except for the powder-coating of metal frames and glass toughening which is outsourced to local Ballito companies.

For their tables, Wow Cutting specialise in solid hardwood slabs with river’s edge. The wood used is either Matumi or Japanese

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van Niekerk, Caitlyn van Niekerk, Gary da Silva, Wendy da Silva and Henry Meyer.

TOP: American walnut river’s edge tables with glass river “running down” each centre.

RIGHT: Reverse river – Japanese maple reverse river’s edge table.

maple, and is sourced locally from sustainable forests and processed by local mills – truly proudly South African, from start to finish.

I commented on the table at which we were sitting and Caitlyn casually said, “Oh, that’s our ‘river’s edge’ design.” Having never heard the term, she went on to explain: A river’s edge design is where the natural (live), outside of a wood slab (bark) faces the inside as a feature of the design. So, your tabletop would comprise of two slabs (or a split slab) with the “river’s edges” facing each other and the “river” being the glass space between the two. The final product is aesthetically very pleasing and eye-catching.

The options are endless and clients are free to design their own wares. They are involved from the outset of sourcing the slab, choosing

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the grain detail and the powder-coating colour of the frame. A virtual design is then digitally produced which, once approved, enters the manufacturing process. Once complete, the client is invited to inspect the final product before delivery. In today’s world where so much of what we buy is flat-packed, it’s a

Your tabletop would comprise of two slabs (or a split slab) with the “river’s edges” facing each other and the “river” being the glass space between the two privilege to be up-close-and-personal with one’s own bespoke piece of beauty.

Wow Cutting is a dynamic and evolving company. As Caitlyn says, “We can cut anything into anything!” As their main clients are interior decorators, architects and property developers, they receive an array of requests.

Recently they were required to design bespoke mirrors in black powder-coated frames. No problem for the team.

They also design privacy screens where the client can either choose from the standard range of designs, or request that their own »

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Some of the many products that can be seen in the showroom at Ballito, custom made for particular clients.

design be used. The steel screens are usually used to create privacy between neighbours but indoor screens can also be made.

Many North Coast schools have started investing in wooden trophies for their end of year prize-giving – a well-chosen piece of natural wood with a subtle, engraved plaque.

Apart from offering corporate gifts, Wow has an online facility selling kitchenware called The Groen Boer.

Here you can choose from a variety of chopping boards, cheese boards, snack boards and carving boards. Visit www.thegroenboer.co.za.

When next you’re needing something designed and cut, from specialist tiles to corporate gift boxes, be sure to call the Wow team.

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he beauty of living in KwaZulu-Natal is that some of the most amazing scenery and experiences are only a very short distance away – and beautiful crafts and collectibles produced by local talents, as well as great food made from fresh ingredients farmed nearby, are usually alongside them.

The only problem, according to Cheryl Lefevre Maiden, founder of The Saunter, is that many travellers don’t know how or where to find those gems. That’s why she created The Saunter – an online and readily accessible selection of routes across KwaZulu-Natal that showcases art, crafts, collectibles, activities and eateries.

Her personal favourite is joining talented artists in their studios and watching them work – and many of the artists listed on The Saunter are happy to do just that.

Cheryl explains that The Saunter is actually the legacy of her mother who joined with two friends during the 80s to create the Gillitt Foundation to help struggling pensioners and long-term patients at the local Hillcrest Hospital sell their creations. More than 30 years later, Cheryl has taken this a step further.

She recalls how, on returning from the UK to care for her sick mother, she discovered that many locals knew very little about home-grown artists and crafters. Yet, when they either visited or lived overseas, the first

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thing they did was visit art galleries and museums.

The Saunter began to take shape four years ago in the Upper Highway area. “This area is rich in creative people. We now have a website and a Facebook page and all we are doing is pulling things together with beautiful visuals to show people what is on their doorstep,” she says.

By the time The Saunter was officially launched at the beginning of 2021, it had been divided into seven different saunters and now includes central Durban, the North Coast, Pietermaritzburg, the Midlands, the Drakensberg and Clarens.

It’s the most fantastic thing I’ve ever done. Trying to find the right artists and crafters along the way is so rewarding Cheryl and a network of helpers identify artists, crafters, shops and restaurants and then try them out before including them on The Saunter. She also encourages people to send in suggestions which can be anonymously visited to ensure that they meet the strict listing criteria. The end result is that they have “the best of the best”, she explains.

ABOVE: This safe swimming beach,

Thompson’s Bay, is nestled in a cove just north of Ballito. Picture: The Saunter RIGHT: Created by local residents, the Iphithi Nature Reserve includes a variety of different habitats, a man-made dam and a system of pathways. Picture: The Saunter

Cheryl says that The Saunter is a bit like the Midlands Meander of old. A formal listing comes at a fraction of the price which is important as creative and hospitality based enterprises have taken a beating during the pandemic.

“We have a little bit of accommodation, but not a lot. The main thing is about finding wonderful things to do. That might be a beautiful place to walk, it might be a museum to go to or it might be an artist’s studio. For example, near Shongweni, there’s an artist who does wonderful work with blown glass and another in Forest Hills who makes beautiful jewellery and cutlery decorated with Murano glass.”

Cheryl and her helpers also create suggested routes that connect the listings.

“It’s the most fantastic thing I’ve ever done.

Trying to find the right artists and crafters along the way is so rewarding,” she says. »

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She is also very passionate about getting people to buy local. “That’s hugely important. We talk about artists and crafters but actually it’s about an artisan movement. I love and value beautiful things made by hand – and that includes food.

You get wonderful factory made things as well but we are in a phase right now where we need to support individuals and small businesses. That’s how we will get this local economy back on its feet.”

Cheryl says it is still early days and Covid has unfortunately kept people at home.

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But that is changing and people are again keen to venture out. “I never set out to be online. My main objective is to get people walking through doors to see how things are created. That’s what counts – but it is going to take time.” will continue to evolve,” she says. They are about to add a Wild Coast Saunter and are in the throes of gathering information about the South Coast.

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ABOVE: The Howick Falls is the perfect anchor for the soon to be revamped tourist precinct in the Midlands town. Picture: Shirley le Guern TOP LEFT: Cheryl suggests calling up an artist or crafter, such as Carl Roberts, and making an appointment to visit and watch them work in their studio.

Picture: The Saunter LEFT: Housed in an old railway shed along the R103, The Platform is home to an art gallery and Nguni hide seller. Stop at The Local for great bagels and good coffee. Picture: Shirley le Guern

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My dad met my mom on Valentine’s Day. It was 1970, he had just moved to Durban, and a work colleague set him up on a date. My dad cut his hair for the big night and polished his shoes and borrowed a suit that more or less fitted him.

They arranged to meet at the restaurant because he didn’t have a car, only a scooter. He couldn’t decide whether to bring a bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates, so he brought both.

At this point of my dad’s story, I interrupted him to say, “Wow. You were kind of a dork.”

“I wasn’t a dork,” he said.

“I was polite. That’s good manners.”

“You could have played a bit more cool.”

“Thanks, my boy,” he said. “I tell you what, when you have children and a wife who loves you, then I’d love to hear your dating advice.”

My dad was nervous and even more so when his date arrived.

She was lovely, and her hair was taller and beehivier than every

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VALENTINE’S DAY 1970 WAS A VERY MEMORABLE ONE FOR MY DAD, WRITES DARREL BRISTOW-BOVEY

other hairdo in the joint. He tried to keep cool. He took her coat and pulled out her chair and gave her the chocolates and the flowers. Her name was Ronnie and she liked the chocolates but she wrinkled her nose and said she didn’t like carnations.

“You can’t blame her for that,” I said. “Carnations are lame.”

She ordered mussels, which my dad remembers because when the waitress brought the food she tripped and spilt them all down Ronnie’s dress 56

“Nonsense,” he scowled.

“Carnations are elegant.”

My dad ordered them a bottle of sparkling wine.

Unfortunately he didn’t order the most expensive one and that was a mistake because she took one sip and wrinkled her nose again and said it was too sweet.

“Her nose looked pretty when she wrinkled it,” said my dad. “But I wished she wouldn’t wrinkle it quite so much.”

Things weren’t off to a good start. She refused to drink any more of the sparkling wine and he couldn’t afford another bottle, so he was left with the

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tricky decision of whether or not to keep drinking the first one on his own. He decided, wisely, that he should. She ordered mussels, which my dad remembers because when the waitress brought the food she tripped and spilt them all down Ronnie’s dress.

“It wasn’t really the mussels that bothered her,” my dad clarified. “It was the sauce.”

When the food landed on Ronnie’s lap, she was furious.

My dad remembers her yelling at the waitress, “Look at my dress! Look! Look at my dress!”

“It’s not that bad,” my dad tried to reassure her, so she yelled at him too.

Ronnie yelled some more at the waitress and when she went off to go clean herself, the waitress apologised to my dad for ruining his Valentine’s evening. It was her first week on the job, and she knew something terrible was going to happen – and now it had.

My dad could see that she was upset and trying very hard not to cry. He thought she was brave and dignified, and he told her he was sorry Ronnie had yelled like that. And because he was being kind, that did make her start crying, and to stop her crying he asked her if she liked carnations, and she said she did, so he gave them to her.

Some time later the waitress became my mom, and for the rest of their lives together, she still pretended she liked carnations.

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