Bundles of Joy 2023

Whether you’re a first-time parent or a veteran, that first year of a new baby’s life can be surprising and upending in many ways. No matter how much you try to prepare by reading books and blogs, seeking advice from friends and experts as well as leaning on your own previous experiences, that first year will no doubt hold a few unexpected twists and turns for your parenting journey. And that’s okay.

Here are a few things to keep in mind for your baby’s first year.

EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED.

It sounds trite, but the sooner you accept that things you aren’t expecting will happen, the easier it will be for you to adjust to the situation. Terrible blowout and you forgot the baby bag in the car? Ask a fellow parent if they can lend you some wipes or a spare diaper. Baby fell asleep well before bedtime? Take a nap yourself in preparation for possibly losing a little shuteye later in the night.

Another unexpected change can happen

Practical advice

FOR PARENTS ABOUT A BABY’S FIRST YEAR

BY DANIELLE TEIGEN On the Minds of Moms Managing Editor

PREPARE FOR THE FINANCIAL TOLL.

in relationships. A new baby means new demands on your time, attention and energy. Do what you can to nurture your relationships even amid the new chaos in your life, but know that changes are inevitable. And they’re not always bad. For example, you might be spending less time with older children because you have a new baby, but you’ll get to watch as your older children learn how to love and play with their new sibling.

HANDLE MISTAKES WITH GRACE. Mistakes happen. And it’s not just first-timers. Veteran parents will stumble two, three, four or more kids into their parenting journey. It’s part of the territory of having a new human being in your life who may throw a few curveballs your way. The best thing you can do is acknowledge your mistake and learn from it. And when your spouse, grandparent or friend or family member makes a mistake when it comes to your baby, show them grace. Chances are, you’ll need some grace from time to time in your parenting journey.

Kids are expensive. We all know that. According to the U.S. Department of Agriculture, raising a child in 2022 cost $15,000 to nearly $18,000 a year, with some variables. If you’re the budgeting type, make sure you’re figuring in new costs like daycare, multiple doctor appointments, unexpected medical issues, and more.

Babies especially require a lot of specialized equipment, which is why borrowing from friends or buying secondhand can be a cost saver. Keep in mind that certain items like car seats have an expiration date provided by the manufacturer. If you’re traveling or only need items for a short time, look for companies like BabyQuip Baby Gear Rentals in West Fargo that offer safe baby equipment to rent.

No matter what that first year of your baby’s life brings, know that you’re doing your best. If your baby is fed and loved and safe, you’re doing a fantastic job as a parent.

Calvin James Hanson June 3, 2022 Son of Casey & Courtney Hanson Fargo, ND

Prescott Miles Kreklau April 8, 2022 Son of Lucas & Megan Kreklau Reile’s Acres, ND Sawyer Mattson July 19, 2022 Son of Jeremiah & Sarah Mattson Kindred, ND

Adelynn Mae Schmitz January 6, 2022 Daughter of Michael & Morgan Schmitz West Fargo, ND

Ledger Ardell Klosterman February 5, 2022 Son of Carson & Haley Klosterman Wyndmere, ND

Alexander Noah Johnson June 9, 2022 Son of Noah Johnson & Hannah Dschaak Fargo, ND

Brooks Alric Eidenschink February 8, 2022 Son of Brady & Katelyn Eidenschink Fargo, ND

Aidan Jacob Eugene October 5, 2022 Son of Sean & Brietta Johnson Kindred, ND

Eleena Rose Enstad May 29, 2022 Daughter of Trevor & Jessica Enstad Valley City, ND

Cedric Kopperud July 26, 2022 Son of Cayne & Brooke Kopperud Moorhead, MN

FOR SURVIVING THE FIRST YEAR WITH A NEW BABY: A few more tips

► Accept now that you’ll be spending a lot of time examining and talking about poop.

► Remember that kids will eat when they’re hungry no matter what the schedule dictates.

► Don’t compare your parenting journey to anyone else’s. You can ask for advice but know that your situation will never be exactly the same as anyone else’s.

► Keep in mind that the days are long, but the years are short. That doesn’t mean what you experience in that first year of parenting a new baby isn’t hard. It is. It just means that eventually you’ll forget what made those days so long when the years start to drift away faster and faster.

► Be kind to yourself. Take care of yourself. Ask for help when you need it and even when you don’t.

► Never forget that you are the best parent for your child and no one knows your baby better than you.

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