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Sunday, March 17

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Dress in a magical costume, Shake your Grogger, Come Eat Hamantashen! All are welcome to join the family friendly event at the Weinstein JCC. SEE PAGE 11 FOR MORE DETAILS


PJ Library Havdalah program features story time at Or Atid O n Saturday, Feb. 9, following the conclusion of Shabbat, several PJ Library families gathered together for a special PJ Library Havdalah program co-hosted by the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond and Congregation Or Atid. The event opened with a moving Havdalah service and story time led by Rabbi Hal Schevitz in the Or Atid sanctuary. After the conclusion of story time, the children (and their parents) had the opportunity to snack, socialize, and make beautiful personalized Kiddush cups and Tzedakah boxes. Please hold the date for our next PJ Library event – the Mister G Family Concert & Dinner on the evening of March 27, beginning at 5 p.m. This event is co-sponsored by the Weinstein

JCC, PJ Library, and the JCFR. (See Page 5 for an article) PJ Library has been serving Richmond families since 2008. Children who participate receive monthly books in the mail as part of a national program created by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation. PJ Library provides free Jewish content books and music to children between the ages of six months to eight years. Designed to foster Jewish curiosity in our youth and strengthen Jewish homes, the PJ Library is supported locally by a generous grant from the Federation and community donors. Richmond’s PJ Library serves more than 250 families. For more information on PJ Library, contact Mary Brown at (804) 545- 8660 or mbrown@jewishrichmond.org.

COMMUNITY CALENDAR • March 11 | 11:15 a.m. Food for Thought/Enrich for Life Weinstein JCC

• March 27 | 5 p.m. Mister G Concert and Dinner Weinstein JCC

• March 14 | 9:30 a.m. ‘Beyond the Book Fair’ With Author B.A. Shapiro Weinstein JCC

• March 28 | 6:30 p.m. Women’s Night Out Weinstein JCC

• March 17 | 11:30 a.m. Community Purim Festival Weinstein JCC

• March 31 | 11:30 a.m. Mah Jongg Madness Parkside at Beth Sholom

Visit www.jewishrichmond.org for a complete calendar of Jewish community events.

Raelie busily counts his “jewels” before using them to decorate his own Kiddush cup.

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Noah poses for a picture with his craft.

Zane and Zoey proudly hold up the crafts they made at the PJ Library Havdalah event. JCFR Photos

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for their donation to the Friends of Reflector. As always, we thank the community for supporting the Reflector. Thank You Ann Silverstein Rabbi Hal Schevitz reads “Lights Out Shabbat,” to the families at the event. The book was written by Sarene Shulimson with illustrations by Jeff Ebbeler.

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Fred Weinberg

Jewish Community Federation OF RICHMOND

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B’Tzelem Elohim, In G-d’s Image - Challenges of our Modern World O ur Jewish texts teach that all people are created in the image of G-d, B’Tzelem Elohim. This value serves as a reminder that each of us is uniquely special and important. It is also a statement of responsibility about the way we treat and see others. Do we see G-d in Daniel Staffenberg every person, and do we Chief Executive Officer treat them as we would Jewish Community G-d? Do we recognize Federation of Richmond every person’s equal value and treat each other with dignity? I fear in today’s world we all miss the mark on B’Tzelem Elohim much more often then we should. In today’s fast-paced, social media, technology- driven world it has become increasingly difficult to see, listen and truly hear each other. Social media is at the same time a powerful and destructive force. I love that it allows us to extend our personal relationships and provides an opportunity for sharing, and interconnectedness often lacking in today’s fast paced society. The challenge however, and one that guides our work at Federation, is to remember that nothing is more powerful than real face-to-face personal conversations and connections. It also disconnects us from pain of hurt we may inflict through our words and actions One of the great joys of my role is to meet and interact with people of all ages, backgrounds and beliefs throughout our community. We talk about sports, the crazy Richmond weather and have deeper conversations about community needs,

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personal wishes, dreams, challenges and desires. Being face-to-face allows us to see each other. We can react and respond to verbal and physical cues. We can also disagree, challenge and learn from each other in a respectful, elevated and meaningful way. Today’s media landscape whether social or not often misses this critical mark. B’Tzelem Elohim also serves as a guiding principle on how to handle our philanthropy, impact and work in the community. I have seen over-and-over the care given to an ill friend. The dignity, respect and confidentiality our Jewish Care Line has for those reaching out for help. The thoughtful and proactive way the Weinstein JCC supports those living with disabilities or the incredible care and compassion of the nurses and staff at Beth Sholom, caring for our parents with deep love and respect. These are just a few of the many ways we live B’Tzelem Elohim. Our community is blessed with, and I don’t say that lightly, varied, diverse and vibrant opinions on every topic you can think of. Far too often we simply respond without stopping to consider how our words may impact the other, what we may not know or understand about each other. We make the critical error of assuming and not listening or asking. We learn so much about each other when we talk, listen and get beyond the hearsay, rumors and Lashon Hora so prevalent in today’s society. Words carry the potential of causing catastrophic harm, often tearing asunder families and friendships, and tearing at the strength of our community. As we continue to build and sustain our community, let’s remember the value of the other. That everyone is created in G-ds image. Feel free to reach out to me at daniel@ jewishrichmond.org.

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Rabbi’s Reflections

Purim’s timely and timeless message of communal harmony (Abridged, Adapted, Reprinted With Permission, Yeshiva University “Torah-To-Go” Series March 2010; Asher, David S.) ublicizing miracles wrought by the Almighty is a privilege given to us on rare occasion. On Passover, the four cups of wine commemorate the Exodus. On Hanukah, the candles showcase the recovery of the oil and the military victory. On Shabbos, the creation of the world is recalled with Kiddush wine and Shabbos candles. On Purim, the miracle is celebrated through Esther. The Purim meal also highlights our gratitude for our preservation. That is why reading Esther and the meal must both be done during one juncture, daytime of the 14th (Adar). With regard to the aforementioned holidays, other than Purim, and their mandates to publicize miracles, it is incumbent on all to involve themselves to the extent that they should even ask for handouts if necessary. Taking charity is a last resort. Maimonides refers to one who takes charity unnecessarily as cursed.1 Maimonides even says that it is a desecration to take money to support oneself for Torah study.2 If it’s discouraged, what is so important about publicizing miracles that we are required to ask for donations? Furthermore, why is there no similar explicit authorization to ask for assistance for the Purim meal? Rabbi Yeruchem Perlow3 mentions that glorifying G-d is the motivation behind this thanks. In other words, it’s all about humil-

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ity and gratitude. Glorifying G-d is Mitzvah #9 out of the 613 commandments according to Maimonides. The original mitzvah was a command to give up one’s life rather than submit to being converted. If one is meant to sacrifice life for glorification, then certainly financially extending oneself is compulsory.4 Ethics of our Fathers says that everything was created for God’s glory.5 Thus taking charity to fulfill these holidays is worth it. It’s not shameful, but optimal. In Esther 3:8, Haman says to Achashverosh that the Jews are a disparate people.6 Our exchanging-food Purim ritual was later meant to rectify discord.7 If one doesn’t have food, then one should find a similar individual to exchange provisions thereby fulfilling both the meal and gifting requirements.8 That’s why during the Esther reading there is concurrently a charity allocation.9 Since the meal acts as a celebration of the miracles, there is no dispensation to borrow to purchase provisions, because it is built into the day. One is not required to accept charity to fulfill the meal obligation because it is presumed that the community will provide in order to perpetuate the Purim miracles. During Purim, more so than any other holiday, we take the initiative to provide for others before they even have to ask. As a community, we accept the collective responsibility to promote the Almighty’s wondrous acts. Nobody has to solicit because this is the penultimate holiday celebrating na-

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manda Braun joined the JCFR in February as development and engagement associate. In this position, Braun will lead the Federation’s efforts to engage and inspire the next generation of Jewish leadership. She will serve as the lead professional for the Young Adult Division, Community Leadership Initiative, National Young Leadership Cabinet and community-wide young adult outreach. Braun will partner with Jesse Feld as part of the JCFR Development and Engagement professional team. A native of Princeton, N.J., she joins the Federation with seven years of ex-

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tional survival. We come together in our congregations for the primary miracle publicizing through Esther. This togetherness extends beyond the sanctuary and permeates the other Purim rituals, forming a mass pronouncement of gratefulness. The Purim laws, their timing, and their interconnectedness provide a fundamental model of focused nationhood. As the people come together as one, so too the rituals of Megillah, food gifting, charity, and the festive meal come together to amplify the message of Purim. May the aura of unity infuse our understanding and our observance of this special day! ______________________________ 1Laws of Gifts to the Poor, 10:18-19 2 Laws of Torah Study, 3:10 3 Rabbi Yehuda Yeruchem Fishel Perlow, Warsaw, Poland (1846-1934) 4 Opinion of the Rif, Isaac ben Jacob Alfasi ha-Cohen, Algeria (1013-1103) 5 6:11 6 See Ibn Ezra, Abraham ben Meir Ibn Ezra, Spain (1089-1167) 7 Book of Esther 9:19, Commentary Manos HaLeivi, Shlomo HaLeivi Alkabetz, Safed, Israel (1500-1576), p. 300b 8 Tractate Megillah 7b, as interpreted by Rashi, Shlomo Yitzchaki, Troyes, France (1040-1105) 9 Opinion of Rabbeinu Chananel, Hananel ben Hushiel, Tunisia (990-1053)

perience in a variety of increasing roles in nonprofit and political campaigns at the local, state and federal level. Daniel Staffenberg, Federation CEO, said, “Amanda’s unique skill-set in identifying, connecting and engaging the community will serve her well as she transitions into her new role at the Federation.” Braun is a board member at Congregation Or Atid and is excited to be matching her passion for Jewish life with her professional efforts. Braun said, “I am excited to join the Federation team and build on the great programs and partnerships that have been established here in Richmond.

Rabbi Dovid S. Asher of Keneseth Beth Israel is an Executive Committee Member, Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, and Religious Provider, Bon Secours Health System in Richmond. He can be reached at dovidasher@gmail.com.

I look forward to using my community organizing background to further engage with young professionals and help connect people here in the community.” She is graduate of Wellesley College in Massachusetts. She recently moved to Richmond with her wife, Elizabeth, a captain and attorney in the U.S. Army Judge Advocate General’s Corps. To reach Braun, call (804) 545-8621 or email abraun@jewishrichmond.org. .

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Mister G Family Concert and Dinner set for March 27 F

amilies, please mark your calendars! The Weinstein JCC, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, and PJ Library® have partnered to bring the fabulous Mister G to Richmond for a special family concert and dinner on Wednesday, March 27, starting at 5 p.m. More about Mister G Born and raised in Philadelphia, Ben Gundersheimer is a graduate of Amherst College and the recipient of the first songwriting scholarship awarded by the Berklee College of Music. For his Master’s of Education thesis, he created a curriculum that incorporated songwriting as a learning tool. Dubbed “Mister G” by his 4th grade students, he began writing the songs that would comprise his debut family album while working as a classroom teacher. More than a decade later, Gundersheimer has released 10 albums as “Mis-

ter G” and received numerous accolades including a Latin Grammy Award and four Parents’ Choice Gold Awards. He tours internationally headlining performing arts centers, festivals, and theaters, performing in both English and Spanish. Fluent in a broad range of genres and styles, he collaborates widely with internationally renowned musicians, both onstage and in the studio. His recordings feature guest performances by saxophonist Charles Neville (Neville Brothers), Senegalese talking drum master Massamba Diop (Baaba Maal), pianist Janina Rosado (Juan Luis Guerra), bassist Oscar Stagnaro (Paquito D’Rivera) and pianist Arturo O’Farrill. The event Come and enjoy a kid-friendly dinner with your family and then take in the show – all before your children’s bed-

Kids join Mr. G on stage at a previous concert. Photo by Julian Parker Burns

time. Dinner will be available starting at 5 p.m. and the Mister G concert will begin promptly at 6:15 p.m. General admission is $15 per adult and $10 per child, with a family maximum fee of $35.

The JCC member rate is $12 per adult and $8 per child with a family maximum fee of $25. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit weinsteinjcc. org/events or call (804)-285-6500.

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Jewish community happy hour at Tang and Biscuit T he cold February weather didn’t stop the more than 60 young professionals who came out to share a drink and build community at the JCFR Tang and Biscuit Happy Hour! With drinks, food and plenty of games, there were many reasons to come out and enjoy the night. The event was co-sponsored by Network JCFR and the Pearl Society, both young professional groups run by the Federation. The Pearl Society is a giving level that honors women under the age of 45, who make a minimum commitment of $180 a year to the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond’s Annual Campaign. Network JCFR offers outreach and engagement programs to con-

nect young adults with opportunities for meaningful involvement in a variety of educational, leadership, volunteer, and social events while benefiting the local and global Jewish community. The goal of both is to help native Richmonders and newcomers alike build and provide enrichment in all facets of life, from professional and religious to cultural and communal. We also would be remiss if we did not thank David Fratkin for graciously hosting us at Tang and Biscuit! For more information on young professional happenings, contact Development and Engagement Associate Amanda Braun at abraun@ jewishrichmond.org or call (804) 5458621.

(From left) Melissa Zinder, Blair Fine, Ian Kunkes and Alex Sauer.

Photos by Adrienne Winkelmann

(From left) Kristin Gorin and Robin Frost.

(From left) Allison Billig and Sarah Schneider raise their hands after their great shuffle board game at the Tang and Biscuit Social Hour.

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(From left) Brian Strauss, Andy Burns and Eli Mills. www.JewishRichmond.org


Pearl Society Co-Chairs Melanie Grossman and Robin Salzberg flank JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams at the event. Photos by Adrienne Winkelman

(From left) Jocelyn Vorenberg and Alisa Shapiro.

(From left) Kim Joffe, Lauren McKetta and Eric Grossman.

Hayley Spolter and Elan Radbil.

(From left) Stacey Nisenson Newman and Kate Belza O’Bannon. www.JewishRichmond.org

(From left) Corey Weiner, Michael Schwartz and Brian Newman.

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Be part of the Weinstein JCC Summer Camp experience S ummer 2019 is shaping up to be the best summer yet at the Weinstein JCC! Spots are filling up quickly in Camp Hilbert as well as our 28 Specialty Camps. If you have not yet secured your camper’s spot, you will want to act fast! Check out all our Summer offerings at weinsteinjcc.org/summer-camps. We know that an awesome camp experience starts with superstar staff members. If you are energetic, responsible, kind, creative and a rising 11th grader or above, we’d love to talk to you about the many fun staff positions that are available for Summer 2019. Can’t come to camp yourself but still want to be a part of the camp community? Every summer, Camp Hilbert is proud to host Israeli staff members as

part of a cultural ambassador exchange program. The Shlichim infuse aspects of Israeli culture into our activities and programs while bringing expertise in their specialty areas and building connections to the State of Israel. The Shlichim are also here to learn about life in America. One of the ways in which this is accomplished is through being housed by our families for 1-2 weeks at a time. Being a host family is a wonderful and rewarding experience for your entire family, and a way to form a lifelong connection to Israel! To find out more about registering for camp, job opportunities or becoming a host family for summer 2019, contact Leslie LaBrie at llabrie@weinsteinjcc. org or (804) 545-8650.

JFT’s epic tale: ‘Rothschild and Sons’ J

ewish Family Theatre’s “Rothschild and Sons,” sponsored by Chris and Marc Greenberg and Blackwood Development, opens Thursday, Feb. 28, 7:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC with performances through Sunday, March 10. With artistic direction by Debra Clinton and musical direction by Stephen Rudlin, the show promises to be powerful and informative in nature. Much like “Fiddler on the Roof,” this production is an impactful and important must-see piece for all ages. With a score by Tony Awardwinners Sheldon Harnick and Jerry Bock (“Fiddler on the Roof,” “She Loves Me”), “Rothschild and Sons” tells the story of shrewd, charismatic, resourceful and ambitious Mayer Rothschild and his five sons, and their struggle to overcome the prejudice of late-18 century European society. As they build a family banking business that takes them from the Jewish ghetto to the courts of the rich and powerful, they come to dominate European finance, help fund Napoleon’s defeat and secure a Declaration of Rights for their people from the

Crowned Heads of State. It is truly Europe’s most famous rags-to-riches story. The Weinstein JCC is proud to present “Rothschild and Sons” as its Acts of Faith production. Acts of Faith is a festival that takes place from January - April, where both professional and non-professional theatres in the Richmond area present a play with significant themes pertaining to faith in an effort to engage audiences and spur conversation. Additional performances are March 2, 7 and 9 at 7:30 p.m., and March 3 and 10 at 2 p.m. Tickets may be purchased online at weinsteinjcc.org. For questions, contact Leslie McGuigan at lmcguigan@ weinsteinjcc.org or (804) 545-8644. The Weinstein JCC is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. www.JewishRichmond.org


Weinstein JCC Happenings

“Beyond the Book Fair”

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eet best-selling author, B. A. Shapiro, and hear her speak about her newest work of fiction at the Weinstein JCC on Thursday, March 14, at 9:30 a.m., as part of The FifeDavis Annual Jewish Book Fair. This “beyond the book fair” community read event, sponsored by Sandy Sisisky, is coordinated with Hadassah Richmond. Admission includes breakfast and author presentation followed by a book signing. Shapiro is the author of seven novels that have sold over half-a-million copies. These include the award-winning New B.A. Shapiro York Times best-seller, “The Art Forger” and national best-seller, Contributed Photo “The Muralist.” In her most recent novel, “The Collector’s Apprentice,” Shapiro weaves together historical and imagined characters to create a psychological art thriller set in 1920s Paris and Philadelphia. When 19-year-old Paula Mertens finds herself broke, disowned and completely alone, she creates a new identity and sets out to recover her father’s art collection, prove her innocence and exact revenge. In this book, Shapiro gives readers an unforgettable tale about the lengths to which people will go for their obsession, whether it be art, money, love or vengeance. Tickets are $12 per person or $10 for JCC and Hadassah members. “The Collector’s Apprentice” is available for purchase at the Weinstein JCC for $27.95. Those who purchase tickets to the event along with the book pay only $35 or $33 for JCC and Hadassah members. Tickets and books can be purchased online at weinsteinjcc.org. For questions, contact Leslie McGuigan at lmcguigan@weinsteinjcc.org or (804) 545-8644.

WOMEN’S NIGHT OUT Dinner, Drinks & Dialogue

Thursday, March 28 • 6:30PM Join us for an interactive evening with acclaimed neuroscientist Rachel Herz. With curious findings and compelling facts, she will reveal how psychology, neurology and physiology shape our relationship with food, and how food alters the relationship we have with ourselves and others. In a talk-show format, POA Women’s Night Out Chair Sylvia Farbstein and Weinstein JCC Fitness Director Allison Snyder will facilitate a fun and educational discussion with Dr. Herz. Rachel Herz, Ph.D.

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Books and Brews at Hardywood on April 11 W hat better way to listen to a young, hip writer talk about his debut novel than at a local brewery where you can put your responsibilities aside and kick back Valen Levinson with friends, a Adam Contributed Photo cold beverage and food truck grub? On Thursday, April 11, the Weinstein JCC and Jewish Community Federation of Richmond will welcome author Adam Valen Levinson to their first “Books and Brews” event at Hardywood Brewery in Richmond. In Levinson’s memoir, “My Abu Dhabi Bar Mitzvah,” he relates what happened when he set out to “learn about the world 9/11 made us fear.” While politicians and media eagerly stroked the flames of Islamophobia, Valen Levinson crossed borders with www.JewishRichmond.org

abundant humor and humanity. He found that people who pray differently often laugh the same. He became a Bar Mitzvah at 21 and slowly learned how childish it was to live by decisions and distinctions born of fear. This outing is for book lovers, beer lovers and those who love both! The event starts at 6:30 p.m. but participants can come earlier to grab dinner and enjoy a beverage. Tickets are $10 in advance or $12 at the door and include 1 drink ticket. Purchase the book for $25.95 and get free admission! Both tickets and books can be purchased online at weinsteinjcc. org. For questions, contact Leslie McGuigan at lmcguigan@weinsteinjcc.org or (804) 545-8644.

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Seeking submissions for Undiscovered Artists and Photographers Exhibit T Secure your teen’s spot for the experience of a lifetime T eam Richmond is heading to Detroit! Jewish teen athletes and artists are invited to join Team Richmond for the JCC Maccabi Games & ArtsFest® from Aug. 4-9. JCC Maccabi Games & ArtsFest® is the largest Jewish youth event in the world. Since 1982, the JCC Maccabi Games & ArtsFest® have been providing Jewish teens with a life-shaping experience based on Jewish values and healthy competition. This summer, over 1500 Jewish teens from across the globe will gather in Detroit to participate in five days of competition, comradery, and fun. Team Richmond is looking for Jewish athletes and artists to participate in the following athletic and artistic

competitions: Boys Baseball, Boys and Girls Basketball, Boys/Girls Dance, Boys/Girls Golf, Boys/Girls Ice hockey, Boys and Girls Lacrosse, Boys and Girls Soccer, Girls Softball, Boys/Girls Swimming. Also, Boys/Girls Table Tennis, Boys/Girls Tennis, Girls Volleyball, acting/improv, culinary arts, dance, musical theater, rock band, social media squad, visual arts, and vocal music. There is something for everyone! Spots are filling up quickly! To find out more about how to become a member of Team Richmond and participate in the 2019 JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest®, contact Nick Pruden, delegation head, at (804) 545-8607 or npruden@weinsteinjcc.org by March 8.

5400 Club March programs The following programs will be held in March. March 4 - Matthew Phillips, outreach coordinator, Henrico County Public Library, “Are you Getting the Most Out Of Your Library Card?” March 11 -- Food for Thought: Bruce Miller, founding producer of Virginia Repertory Theatre, “A Single Garment of Destiny: How Central Virginia has Used the Art Form of Theatre to Seek Racial Reconciliation.” Free lunch buffet at 11:15 a.m. The program begins at noon. RSVP to Weinstein JCC Adult Programming Director Shari Menlowe-Barck at (804) 545-8611. (For more about the speaker and EnRich for Life field trip, see the article to the right) March 18 -- Alan Pollack, A Piano Recital March 25 --Rabbi Jake Rubin, Hillel director, Uuniversity of Virginia, “Lessons from Charlottesville: Responding to Anti-Semitism in Our Backyard. As always, an RSVP is required for lunch and programs to Shari MenloweBarck at (804) 545-8611 or sbarck@weinsteinjcc.org. EnRich for Life and Food for Thought are a collaboraton of Weinstein JCC and Jewish Family Services. Program support is provided by Hannah and Allen Cohen. The club meets each Monday from 12:30-1:30 p.m., except for Jewish and American Holidays and Food for Thought/EnRich for life programs. For club details, contact Norman Sporn at n.sporn@gmail.com.

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he Weinstein JCC announces its call for submissions to its annual Undiscovered Artists and Photographers Exhibit sponsored by Hirschler. This juried show is open to artists and photographers who have never had their work exhibited in a major show in the Richmond area. Submissions can be made in advance at weinsteinjcc.org. Also, they can be taken in-person one day only, Monday, April 15, between 7 a.m. - 7 p.m. All submissions (online and in-person) must be dropped off at the Weinstein JCC on Monday, April 15 to be considered. Over the years, some of the area’s most talented artists and photographers have served as jurors for the Undiscovered exhibit and this year is no exception. Locally and internationally known artist, Joanna Tyka, will make the winning selections. Tyka graduated with honors from the Academy of Fine Arts in Warsaw, Poland, and has had her work exhibited at the Za-

cheta National Gallery of Art, a prestigious contemporary art museum located in Warsaw. Tyka’s work can be found in many galleries and private collections around the world. Her paintings have been purchased for permanent collection by the Senate of Virginia, Dominion Resources, and UVA Health System in Charlottesville. Currently she teaches classes at the Visual Arts Center of Richmond. The community is invited to the opening reception of the exhibit on Thursday, April 18 at 7 p.m. The exhibit will be on display from April 18 - May 19. For questions, contact Leslie McGuigan at lmcguigan@weinsteinjcc.org or (804) 5458644.

Bruce Miller will be Food for Thought speaker on March 11 B ruce Miller of Virginia Repertory Theater will be the guest speaker at the Food for Thought/EnRich for Life program March 11 at the Weinstein JCC. The free event begins at 11:15 a.m. RSVP to Weinstein JCC Adult Programming Director Shari MenloweBarck at (804) 545-8611. His talk is entitled, “A Single Garment of Destiny: How Central Virginia has Used the Art Form of Theatre to Seek Racial Reconciliation.” After 41 years as the founding artistic director of Virginia Rep, the award-winning and much honored Miller transitioned to founding producer of Virginia Rep in 2016. During his career, he co-produced the world premieres of “Rules of the Lake” by Irene Ziegler, “Four Part Harmony” by Marcus Fisk and Douglas Minerd, “War Story” by Bo Wilson and “Songs from Bedlam” by Douglas Jones and others. In the final two decades of the Phoebe Awards, Miller’s productions earned Best Play or Best Musical of the Year 20 times. His work as a director has been seen

around the country at prominent theatres including the Kennedy Center and the Paper Mill Playhouse in New Jersey. Richmond directing credits include Barksdale’s productions of “The Lark,” “Anything Goes,” “Annie Get Your Gun,” “The Crucible” and “The Little Foxes,” and Theatre IV’s productions of “Having Our Say,” “Frankie and Johnny in the Clair de Lune.” At 1:30 p.m., there will be a free EnRich for Life field trip for a Behindthe-Scenes Tour of the Virginia Repertory Theater. Transportation will be provided for the first 49 people to sign up. RSVP is a must to Shari Menlowe-Barck, (804) 5458611 or sbarck@weinsteinjcc.org. Food for Thought/EnRich for Life is a collaboration of the Weinstein JCC and Jewish Family Services. Program support is provided by Hannah and Allen Cohen. www.JewishRichmond.org


Community-wide Purim Carnival-a magical time for all M

ark your calendar for the Jewish Community’s most fun and festive costume party of the year! The Community-Wide Purim Carnival will be held on Sunday, March 17 from 11:30 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC. The Purim Carnival will have something for every member of your family to enjoy – food, music, carnival games, prizes, moon bounces, face painting, and a Purim Shpiel. This year, the carnival will be truly enchanting, with a magical creatures theme. Join fellow unicorns and mermen and come in costume to win a prize! The Purim Shpiel by Congregation Beth Ahabah will immediately follow the carnival at 2:30 p.m. All games and activities are free. Food will be prepared by Temple Beth-El’s Men’s Club and will be available for purchase. The carnival is sponsored by the Richmond Council for Jewish Education with funding from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. For information, call (804) 285-6500.

Richmond families and children pose in various costumes during last year’s Community-Wide Purim Carnival. Contributed Photos

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Mah JongG

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A Luncheon Benefit for Beth Sholom Refreshments, Lunch, Raffles, Door Prizes, our popular 50/50 and more!

Sunday, March 31, 2019 11:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. $36 per ticket. Proceeds to benefit programming at Beth Sholom. For more information call (804) 421-5355 or email Communications@bslcc.org

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enerations Home Health provides in-home skilled medical care and personal care designed to competently meet important needs of our neighbors. Whether you are recovering from illness or injury, managing a chronic disease, or simply trying to improve your quality of life in retirement, Generations has the multi-disciplinary team that can ensure you achieve optimal health outcomes while in the comfort of your own home. For more information about Generations Home Health, call (804) 421-5270. Generations Home Health is jointly owned and operated by Beth Sholom in Richmond and Beth Sholom Village in Virginia Beach.

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Mah Jongg Madness is almost here - March 31 Mark Your Calendar SPACE IS LIMITED. RSVP By March 15 n Sunday, March 31, we will be holding our annual fundraiser, Mah Jongg Madness. Over 100 guests are expected to participate. The event runs from 11:30 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. at Parkside Assisted Living in the Sara Belle November Auditorium, 1550 John Rolfe Parkway, Henrico. The cost is $36 per ticket. Come and enjoy a fun-filled afternoon of refreshments, lunch, raffles, door prizes, our popular 50/50 and a delightful game of Mah Jongg with friends! Some of our fabulous door prizes and raffle items include a gym membership, gift certificates to restaurants, boutiques, dermatology services, day spas, hair salons, and more. Proceeds from Mah Jongg Madness will help support resident programing for

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Parkside Assisted Living in the Sara Belle November Auditorium 1550 John Rolfe Parkway, Richmond, VA

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the Beth Sholom Community. Beth Sholom is a nonprofit, faith-based senior living community that includes two assisted living options, a skilled nursing facility and affordable independent living apartments. A large portion of our resident programs are supported by this event. Some of the programs paid for with funds previously raised, were concerts, art classes, enhanced activities, special programing designed for our Dementia and Memory Care residents, and additional transportation services. We hope to be able to provide more services with the funds raised. For more information or to register, call (804) 421-5355 or email communications@ bslcc.org Beth Sholom is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

Beth Sholom welcomes Robin Abbott to The Woods W e are very pleased to announce that Robin Abbott has joined us as administrator of The Woods. Beth Sholom Woods offers affordable, independent living to eligible adults seeking a true community. “We are looking forward to having Robin on the team and her leadership at The Woods,” said Mo Funk, Beth Sholom president and CEO. Abbott comes to Beth Sholom with extensive experience in the senior living arena including regulatory compliance,

operations management, customer relations and life enrichment. She has an undergraduate degree from Radford University and a Master’s in Business Administra- Robin Abbott tion from Averett Contributed Photo University.

Beth Sholom has been caring for Richmond seniors for over 73 years. We pride ourselves in providing comprehensive, compassionate health care for individuals of all faiths and strive to accommodate their personal and lifestyle needs as well. Beth Sholom residents enjoy a home-like setting in a campus atmosphere. Beth Sholom is located at 1600 John Rolfe Parkway, Henrico County. For information, call (804) 750-2183 or visit bethsholomliving.com. www.JewishRichmond.org


JFS HAPPENINGS

Dignity, Comfort, and Independence are one phone call away. We're here to assist with your daily needs: Personal Care Companionship and respite care Meal preparation, nutrition and wellness Mobility and transportation Shopping and errands

JFS Home Care (804) 282 - 5644 We Are Here For You Sydney Fleischer receives the first purple 30 years of service JFS T-shirt from CEO Wendy Kreuter. Contributed Photo

Sydney Fleisher recognized for 30 years of service to JFS T hirty years ago, Sydney Fleischer and her husband, Mike Camp, decided to return to Richmond to raise their three boys Lee, Dean and Marshall. Soon after, Sydney began her career at Jewish Family Services as the director of Professional Services. In 1989, the agency was located above the shops at the Village Shopping Center on Three Chopt Road and Patterson Avenue and although a small agency, had the capacity to continue growing and transforming lives. Sydney’s mother, Dina, held a Master’s in Psychology and Sydney knew she wanted to follow in her footsteps, receiving her Master’s in Social Work at University of California, Berkley. After graduation she worked as a therapist in the army at Walter Reed Medical Hospital and in a school for children with special needs. Sydney came to JFS with a vast clinical knowledge and a passion for helping others. Soon after Sydney started at Jewish Family Services, JFS was chosen as a Russian Resettlement community, eventually resettling 800 people to Richmond. www.JewishRichmond.org

Sydney explained, “Richmond and JFS were not like other resettlement communities, we had a warehouse of TVs and furniture, so that we could quickly furnish a house. I, along with members of my family or coworkers, would meet the new immigrants at the airport, day or night.” She continued,“In fact, my son created a welcome video to be shown at the airport for his Bar-Mitzvah project.” From stepping off of the airplane, to teaching a teenage boy how to drive, to inviting 24 new Richmonders to Thanksgiving, Sydney and the Fleischer-Camp family were there through every step of the Russian Resettlement Program. For the next five years, Sydney continued to raise her boys, helped to establish new programs such as skilled care and transportation, and received her Ph.D from VCU in Urban Studies. Sydney has since applied her knowledge to expand the adoption program to now include foster care awareness and establish new services such as Care Management that annually serve more

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than 125 clients. Mike Camp, Sydney’s husband, and JFS CEO Wendy Kreuter, agree, “Sydney is the heart and soul of JFS.” Wendy noted,“Her leadership has guided the compassionate care we provide our clients and our priority of excellence in our services.” Sydney’s commitment to JFS has been central to our success and growth for the past 30 years. Sydney and Mike also made the choice to participate in JFS’ Life and Legacy program. Both Mike and Sydney agree that a legacy gift was an

important way for them to continue to be part of an organization they love even after they’re gone, without jeopardizing their current livelihood. Luckily for JFS, Sydney subscribes with Stephen Hawking’s outlook to “Never give up work. Work gives you meaning and purpose.” Congratulations Sydney, to your first 30 years at JFS. Jewish Family Services is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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RTA Happenings

Avery Lynn to receive 2019 RTA Chesed Award R

udlin Torah Academy is pleased to announce it is presenting the 2019 Chesed Award to Avery Lynn, in recognition of his hard work and tireless service on behalf of the Richmond Jewish community and RTA. RTA will hold its annual Chesed Awards Dinner on Tuesday, June 4, at 6:30 p.m., at the Weinstein JCC. Lynn is the owner of Designer Deliveries, Inc., a moving company. He is a board member of Keneseth Beth Israel and past board member of RTA. But he is best known to most people in the community as probably

the hardest-working person in town, always available to help with projects like the Jewish Food Festival or the annual Run-a-Latke 5K. Susan Press will receive the ABCD (Above and Beyond the Call of Duty) Award for her efforts at RTA, from teaching classes to compiling the school’s weekly newsletter, the “V’ahavta,” and serving as photographer when needed. Located at 3809 Patterson Ave., Richmond, Rudlin Torah Academy is in its 53rd year of providing quality full-time elementary education to Jewish children in the Richmond area. The Academy is accredited

by the Virginia Association of Independent Schools, and RTA students continue to excel in national standardized testing, with classes generally performing above the 90th percentile. For more information about the Chesed Dinner, please call (804) 3531110. Tickets are $100 per person. To check out the news at RTA or to schedule a visit, call (804) 3531110 or visit www.rudlin.com. Rudlin Torah Academy is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

Avery Lynn poses with his granddaughter, Dena Cantor, at the Run-A-Latke event in December 2017 at the Weinstein JCC. Adrienne Winkelmann Photo

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RTA 1st grade students perform at the Weinstein JCC pre-school Shabbat party. Contributed Photos

Susan Adolf and Lynn Schwartz lead a special presentation about JCFR and the annual Youth Division Campaign with seventh and eighth grade students.

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anuary was a very active month for the stuRUDLIN TORAH ACADEMY dents and staff at RTA. RICHMOND HEBREW DAY SCHOOL Education The month started for Stellar Every Jewish Child with our annual school Spelling Bee. Intense competition resulted in Nathan Krumbein winning the Spelling Bee. Nathan later represented RTA in the Richmond-Times-Dispatch Private School Finals, where he made quite an impression as RTA 5th-8th grade Shabbaton participants have fun at G-Force Karts. the youngest competitor (third grade!) The RTA Iron-Blue Lions basketball tured a well-attended Kindergarten Open team kicked off the season in January with House, a Coffee & Shmooze at the Weina very exciting victory as they played against stein JCC pre-school, a PVA-sponsored trip St. Bridget’s. The stands were packed with to Jumpology, and a Tu B’shevat program spectators who cheered on as the Lions took for the whole school featuring an outstandhome the win. ing blend of creativity, Jewish studies, and The Lions also began an exciting new essential character development focusing on competition with Jewish Day schools in near- gratitude. by cities, hosting Toras Chaim of Portsmouth We ended the month of January with and taking a road trip to Ohr Chadash Acad- two very special programs. The RTA 1st emy in Baltimore. grade put on a knockout performance at the Our seventh and eighth grade students Weinstein JCC pre-school Shabbat party. met with representatives of the Jewish Com- It’s always such a joy to join our sister agenmunity Federation of Richmond during the cies – especially when it includes singing and second week of January, as part of JCFR’s fun. annual Youth Division Campaign. We also featured one of the greatSusan Adolf and Lynn Schwartz, co- est highlights of the RTA year, an incredchairs of the Federation division, led the ible 5th-8th grade Shabbaton. The action special presentation. As part of the special packed Shabbaton had everything - inspicampaign, RTA students will be joining rational speeches from both students and other Jewish youth in our community on a teachers, delicious, plentiful food, wonderful special fundraising project for Jewish fami- hosts both for meals and accommodations, lies in Zaporozhye, Ukraine – JCFR’s part- and camaraderie, games and fun. nership city. We are proud to participate in For more information on RTA or to this very important program. schedule a school visit, call (804) 353-1110 The third week in January RTA fea- or visit www.rudlin.com. www.JewishRichmond.org


Hadassah Happenings Hadassah Book Club adassah Book Club will be discussing The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin, March 3, 1 p.m., at the home of Bonnie Fenton. If you knew the date of your death, how would you live your life? It’s 1969 in New York City’s Lower East Side, and word has spread of the arrival of a mystical woman, a traveling psychic who claims to be able to tell anyone the day they will die. The Gold children – four adolescents on the cusp of self-awareness – sneak out to hear their fortunes. The prophecies inform their next five decades. For more information, contact Deborah Cohen at dborah.cohen2468@gmail. com. Keepers of the Gate Champagne Brunch, March 17 Toasting our Past, Present, and Future will be the theme of a champagne brunch recognizing and honoring Ha-

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dassah Richmond Keepers of the Gate. Keepers play a critical role in Hadassah’s lifesaving and life-enhancing work in Israel and worldwide. Their annual gift of $1,000 or more, helps sustain Hadassah’s ongoing work by ensuring Jewish continuity, funding tomorrow’s medicine and providing a bright future for children at risk. The brunch will be held at Hadassah Richmond President Leslie Baron’s home at 10 a.m.

Special guest and speaker will be Gail Moskowitz, past president, Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region. For more information on becoming a Keeper of the Gate or to RSVP for the brunch, contact Keepers’ Chairs Lynn Kessler at icanw8@aol.com, 741-4880 or Janie Schwarz at mcschwarz@comcast.net or, 364-5881. “The Wonderful World of Herbs and Aromatherapy, Lunch and Learn, March 27, noon - 1p.m., at the Weinstein JCC. orticulturist Mary Perretz will talk about growing and caring for culinary herbs. She will share how to grow an edible herb garden starting from seeds in the winter, to containers, to your outdoor garden. She will share tips on planting and care of your edible plants. Perretz, who has a degree in horticulture from Virginia Tech taught horticulture for many years at Virginia Randolph High School. Joining her, Marilyn Trownsell, a registered dietitian who has worked with herbs in cooking and health for

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many years, will talk about aromatherapy herbs. She has been a member of The Old Dominion Herb Society since 1987 and will share how herbs used in aromatherapy can bring better sleep and enhance moods and calmness to life. Bring your own lunch. We plan to share an herbal tea at this lunch and learn. Beyond the Book Fair, Community Read, with B.A. Shapiro, author of “Collectors Apprentice” at Weinstein JCC, March 14, 9:30 a.m. Sponsored by Sandy Sisisky, it is coordinated with Hadassah Richmond. Admission includes breakfast and author presentation followed by a book signing. See Page 9 for an article.

Hadassah members and friends pose at the Dutch Treat” Lunch Group on Friday, Feb. 1 at Yum Yum Good Chinese Restaurant.

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Chabad Happenings

Friendship ciRcle

Torah & Tea - The Power of Women’s Prayer: Learn from Esther ll community women are invited to attend a delightful afternoon of Torah & Tea on Sunday, March 17 at 3 p.m. During this festive month of Adar and as we approach Purim, it is a great time to learn about the power of women’s prayer. Bring a friend, meet new ones, enjoy delicious tea, light refreshments and wonderful discussion. All are welcome. There is no cost to attend the program at Chabad Community Synagogue, 212 North Gaskins Road, Henrico, 23238 Do good Purim his event was an incredible hit for all ages last year! Please join us again for Do Good Purim on Wednesday, March 20 at 6:30 p.m. Come bake Hamantaschen, design and fill your own Shalach Manot – one to keep and one to be donated someone in need. (Cost is $8 for two bags.) Do Good Purim will be followed by the Megillah Reading at 7:30 p.m. and Break Fast at Chabad Community Synagogue.

A Guest speaker Shelly Christensen is flanked by (left) Sarah Kranz Cement of Friendship Circle of Virginia, and Sara Rosenbaum, director of community impact and planning, JCFR. Contributed Photos

Day of Inclusion educaton and training seminar held at Center O

n Jan. 17, Friendship Circle of Virginia and the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond together welcomed international leader, speaker, author, and consultant Shelly Christensen for a day of disability inclusion education and development. The event was generously supported in part by the Fetter Goldsmith Jewish Education Fund of Richmond Jewish Foundation. In the morning session at the Weinstein JCC, Christensen gave a breakfast keynote for Jewish professionals and lay leaders, entitled “What Makes a Jewish Community Inclusive?” This was followed immediately by an inclusion workshop and working lunch. Leaders and representatives from every Synagogue in Richmond, as well as many Jewish organizations, worked together to

learn how to make Jewish Richmond more inclusive. The evening event, a town hall panel and discussion, was open to the public at Chabad Community Synagogue. In addition to Christensen, the panel included global inclusion expert Debra Ruh, Weinstein JCC inclusion expert Melissa Bunce, self-advocate Alexis Nichols, and FCVA program coordinator and mom, Kira Marx. Panelists shared their personal experiences, highlighting the current “inclusion temperature.” The audience was invited to ask questions and share their own experiences, making it a truly collaborative event. For further informcation, reach out to Friendship Circle of Virginia at (804) 7402000 ext.4 or info@friendshipcircleva.org.

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Persian Purim ll are welcome to join us for Persian Purim, Thursday, March 21 at 6 p.m. Come enjoy delicious Persian Cuisine, festive music and Megillah Reading! There will be special entertainment for the kids. The cost is $20 per adult with a cash bar and $5 for children, 10 and under. The special event is at Chabad Community Synagogue. Richmond Jewish Readers Book Club Our first gathering in February was a great success! All are welcome to join us for coffee and conversation at our 2nd Jewish Readers Book Club scheduled for Wednesday, April 3 at 7 p.m. at the Chabad Community Synagogue. We will be discussing the book “The Pity of it All: A Portrait of Jews in Germany 17431933.” The discussion will be led by Rabbi Yossel Kranz.

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RTA students, Better Together seniors and other friends gather for a photo.

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RTA students and seniors enjoy Tu’BShvat celebration R

udlin Torah Academy students and Better Together seniors enjoyed a wonderful Tu’BShvat Celebration in an action packed event hosted at the Weinstein JCC. Old and new friends gathered together to discuss the holiday, design colorful process art trees, and in the highlight of the afternoon, planted “ponytail palm trees.” The RTA students continued their interviews of the seniors learning about special and unique places they had traveled and the impact it had on their lives. Unique thoughts about TuB’Shvat

were shared by Devorah Aronowitz. It was a great event! Thanks to everyone who helped and assisted and until next time, remember are “Better Together!” All community seniors are welcome and encouraged to attend the next event! Our Better Together Purim Event March 13 11a.m. - 1:15 p.m. at theWeinstein JCC For more information, please email BetterTogetherRVA@gmail.com oOr contact Sorah Plotnick at (516) 642-9067.

(From left) Yael, Tamar and Izabella pose with Weene Leyman and Beverley Soble.

(From left) Joy and Chaviva interview Joan Ruby during the event.

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Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day

200 advocate for Jewish Virginians on Feb. 6

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ednesday, Feb. 6, marked Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day, the premier event for the Federation’s Jewish Community Relations Committee. A total of approximately 200 Jewish constituents from across Virginia, including about 50 Richmonders gathered to advocate on behalf of the greater Jewish community. The event was deemed a tremendous success by the leaders of the annual event. Amy Melnick-Scharf, co-chair of the JCRC, Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, welcomed the attendees in the downtown Suntrust Building auditorium near the Capitol. “Our job today is to focus on our roles as citizen advocates and voices for the Jewish community and a voice for those who can’t be here and speak for themselves. We must move beyond the still rapidly developing political events of the past week,” she said. She noted the planned guest speakers (Gov. Ralph Northam, Lt. Gov. Justin Fairfax and Att. Gen. Mark Herring) would not be speaking. Melnick-Scharf noted, “We are here today for three main reasons. We want to show our elected officials that the Jewish community is organized, united and that we are watching them. We are not Republicans or Democrats today. We are a united Jewish community. We take positions on legislation according to our Jewish values based on our established pillars. We care about specific bills that impact our community. The morning was highlighted by an address from Del. Eileen Filler-Corn from Northern Virginia, the House Minority Leader followed by remarks from Sen. Adam Ebbin, also from Northern Virginia. Then, Richmond community members met with 20 delegates and senators or their staff legislative assistants to discuss isJewish Advocacy Day More on next page

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Many of the 50 members of the Richmond group pose on the stage and give a shout out at the end of the day.

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Jewish Community Federation of Richmond CEO Daniel Staffenberg poses with Del. Eileen Filler-Corn addresses the Vir- Tammy Ben-Haim, Minister of Public Diplomacy, Embassy of Israel who was the ginia Jewish Advocacy Day group. concluding speaker at the event.

Richmond Team 2 members pose for a photo in the office of Sen. Jennifer McClellan. They are (seated) Melissa Buccino; (standing/from left) Julie Beck-Berman, Amy Melnick-Scharf, team leader; Donald Glazer, Ephraim Seidman, Rabbi Gary Creditor, Jeff Scharf, Dana Griffin and Limor Glazer-Schwam.


Richmond Team 1 members pose with Maureen K.D. Hains, (right in white jacket) legislative assistant for Del. Dawn Adams. They are Sharon Berry, Ariel Sherman, Richard Samet - team leader; Rabbi Hal Schevitz, Phyllis Ellenbogen, Michael Kiken, Roger Loria and Alex Keisch.

Amy Melnick-Scharf, co-chair, JCRC, Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, welcomes Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day attendees. JCFR Photos

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sues of importance to our community. Also in the morning briefing, Richard Samet, JCRC co-chair, reviewed the bills of interest to the Richmond delegation, noting those the JCRC opposed as well as the proposed legislation the JCRC was seeking their support for in the coming days. Richmond Team 3 members pose with Del. Schuyler Van Valkenberg (back/row/middle). They are the Federation’s Mary Brown, In her comments to the group, Filler-Corn, who is Rabbi Randi Nagel, Beth Edelstein, the Federation’s JCRC Director Andrew Fishman, Rabbi Scott Nagel (far back); Frances now the highest ranking Jewish woman ever to serve in Goldman - team leader; Robert Nomberg, Cantor Dara Rosenblatt and Shoshanna Schechter. the House of Delegates, said, “I am so thrilled to be here with you today. “Advocating and lobbying is so important. Sharing your personal stories means so much and has an impact. I can tell you they can be powerful. Your input on why you support or oppose bills can make a difference. The issues that are important to you are often important to me.” She continued, “I am honored to serve in my new leadership role in the Democratic Party. In his remarks, Ebbin said, “Advocacy is important and matters. I would to thank all of you for your advocacy efforts today. I hope your advocacy will continue beyond today.” Following the morning briefing, the Richmond participants walked to the nearby Pocahontas Building for private meetings with the legislators or their aides. In this session, the area legislators and their staff also were educated on the role of the Federation and its advocacy role (ABOVE) Richmond Team 4 members pose with Sen. for the Greater Richmond Jewish community. Mark Peake, (center) They are: front row/left) Miriam DaThe Federation organizers thanked all of the attendvidow - team leader, and Julie Goodman; (second row/ ees, JCRC Co-Chairs, Richard Samet and Amy Melnickfrom left) Franklin Wolf, Judy Helfman, Sarah Kranz Ciment, Barbara Lustig, Mathieu DesRochers, Samuel Asher Scharf for their leadership. and Cantor Errol Helfman Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day is a unified effort by the JCFR, Southern Seaboard Region of Hadassah, the Jewish Community Relations Council of Greater Washington, The United Jewish Community of the Virginia (LEFT) Richmond Team 5 members pose with Del. DebPeninsula and the United Jewish Federation of Tidewara Rodman, center. They are: (front row/right) Deborah ter. Cohen; (far left) Jay Ipson, Elly Ipson, Melanie Feldstein, For additional information about the status of legislaSusan Meyers, Robin Jackson, team leader, Rabbi Michael tion or the JCRC, contact Andrew Fishman at afishman@ Knopf, Rabbi Dovid Asher, Leslie Baron and the Federation’s Sara Rosenbaum. jewishrichmond.org or (804) 545-8626. www.JewishRichmond.org

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Synagogue Happenings

Beth Ahabah Happenings Sisterhood Shabbaton March 29-31

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omen of Reform Judaism Sisterhood at Beth Ahabah will celebrate its Sisterhood Shabbat with a weekend Shabbaton March 29-31. Special guest for the weekend is Leslie Brier, who serves on the executive committee of Women of Reform Judaism North American and as the WRJ’s United Nations Representative. (See the full story below on her background and accomplishments. ) Brier has held many significant positions in her personal, work and Jewish life. She will bring stimulating and wonderful conversations to our weekend, including issues of advocacy and social justice across a wide

spectrum of issues. • Brier will be Sisterhood’s guest at services Friday night and deliver the D’var Torah •Saturday, there will be lunch and workshop/interactive program for Congregation Beth Ahabah members • Sunday from 10 a.m. - noon, Brier will lead an informational talk at the Weinstein JCC for the Jewish community of Richmond and other sister congregations. Continental breakfast will be served. For more information, call (804) 3586757.

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eslie Brier, a member of the executive committee of Women of Reform Judaism who serves as the WRJ United Nations representative, will lead an informational talk Sunday, March 31, at the Weinstein JCC for the Jewish community of Richmond and other sister congregations. Her talk, with continental breakfast, is scheduled from 10 a.m. - noon, and concludes the Women of Reform Judaism Sisterhood at Beth Ahabah’s weekend Shabbaton. Thank you to the Center for supporting this event. Brier has held significant positions in her work, personal and Jewish life. In addition to her positions with WRJ, she serves on the North American Advisory Board of the World Union for Progressive Judaism and on its United Nations team. She also is a delegate on the National Council of Synagogues, where WRJ works to build bridges with faith leaders from religious organizations nationwide. She has been an active member of WRJ

since 2004, and has served as VP for Advocacy and as Sisterhood president for her Sisterhood at Main Line Reform Temple in Wynnewood, Penn., where she also served on the temple board. Leslie Brier Her profes- Contributed Photo sional life included catering manager for Marriott Corporation, where she oversaw such events as President George H.W. Bush’s inaugural ball and many dinners for President Reagan and foreign dignitaries. She is married to Ken Brier, a retired Army colonel, and they have a son and two daughters. For information, call (804) 358-6757.

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Purim Shpiel 2019 ‘Motown, Mojitos and the Megillah’ C ongregation Beth Ahabah will tell the story of Esther using the familiar musical sounds of Motown for Purim Shpiel 2019, to be performed Sunday, March 17 at 2:30 p.m. at the Community-Wide Purim Carnival at the Weinstein JCC. The event begins at noon. The cast includes children, ages 5 to adolescents, and adults of all ages. Ken Roeper is again director, and Natan Berenshteyn, music director. Bert Berlin will be King Ahasu-

erus; Laura Savage, Queen Esther; Dory Doyle, Mordechai; Sarah Roper, Haman; and Dina Berenshteyn, Queen Vashti. Songs will include “Respect,” “The Way You Do the Things You Do,” “Stop in the Name of G-d,” and “Someday We’ll Be Together.” The show also will be performed Sunday evening at Congregation Beth Ahabah. For information, call (804) 3586757.

Get a taste of Jewish music from around the world C ongregation Beth Ahabah’s Global Jewish Music Shabbat on Friday, March 22 at 7:30 p.m., is a special annual opportunity to hear examples and learn about the diverse global Jewish music traditions and how they developed in different areas of the world. This year’s focus is a Piyyut (liturgical poem) called Achot Ketanah (“Little Sister”) from the Sephardi tradition. This poem is sung on Erev Rosh Hashanah at the beginning of the evening service, punctuated by the powerful refrain: “Let the year and its curses conclude!” changing only after the very last verse to “Let the year and its blessings begin!” During Shabbat services on March 22, Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman will teach about this poem, including what we know of its history,

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composer, and a few of the many examples of melodies for Achot Ketanah from around the Jewish world. For further, information, contact Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman at (804) 358-6757 ext. 317. For more information, on other Beth Ahabah events and services, visit www.bethahabah.org. www.JewishRichmond.org


Or Ami happenings in March C ongregation Or Ami invites community members to fun family Shabbat programs for Jewish and Interfaith families. Join us for a celebration of Shabbat on Saturday, March 9 from 11 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. We will celebrate Purim with a kid-friendly service during which Rachel Wolman will play the guitar. After the service there will be a fun craft organized by Vania Farnsworth, and then we will make hamentaschen with Joel Moses. Lunch is included. For over ten years, Congregation Or Ami has participated in the Bon Air and Southside Interfaith Trialogue. During the Trialogue, hundreds of people come together to share food and learn about other people, and religious traditions in our community. This year, Or Ami, along with St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church and the Islamic Center of Virginia, will explore the theme of “home”. Each session begins with light snacks. After a presentation by the hosting clergy, attendees break out into dialogue groups where they can meet people from different religious and ethnic backgrounds. The first session of the Trialogue will take place on Thursday, March 28 at St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church (2700 Dolfield Drive, North Chesterfield). The topic will be “Living Faith at Home.” The second session will take place on Thursday, April 4 at the Islamic Center of Virginia (1241 Buford Road, Richmond). The topic will be “Our Houses of Worship”. The third session will take place on April 11 at Congregation Or Ami (9400 Huguenot Road, Richmond). The topic will be “RVA as Our

Home.” All sessions begin at 6:45 p.m. and end at 8:30 p.m. All are welcome. Community Seder Mark your calendars to attend Congregation Or Ami’s Community Seder that will be held on April 19. To register, either email the office at office@or-ami.com, or call the office at (804) 2720017. All reservations must be received by April 10. For members of Or Ami, ticket prices are $18 per member and $60 per child under 13. The maximum ticket price per member family is $480. Guest tickets are $22 per adult and $6 for children under 13. For more information, see https://or-ami.com/seder/. On Saturday, March 2 Or Ami Temple Youth (OATY) will host a Trivia Fundraising event from 6:30- 8:30 p.m. The cost is $10 per adult, $7 for children under 18, with a maximum fee of $25 per family. Come support OATY and enjoy friendly competition while testing your trivia knowledge. Breakfast for dinner will be served. Book Club The Or Ami Book Club will meet on Monday, March 4, to discuss the book, “The Golem of Hollywood” by Jonathan Kellerman and Jesse Kellerman. Future book club selections include “Disobedience” by Naomi Alderman (April 1); Or Ami More on page 22

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eth Ahabah Museum & Archives Trust is proud to announce that William Obrochta has been chosen as the new executive director. Obrochta is an archivist, historian and educator with significant experience in Virginia, southern and American history. He served for several years as the associate archivist of the Virginia Historical Society, processing personal, family, and business papers, as well as oral history records. He has spent the majority of his career at VHS leading the education department in developing, implementing & evaluating educational programming for all audiences, from young children through William Obrochta Contributed Photo senior adults. The new executive director, will carry on the work of recently retired Director David Farris, and of Interim Director Cynthia Krumbein, to collect, preserve and exhibit objects, documents and oral histories in the Museum & Archives collection. Beth Ahabah Museum & Archives focuses on local Jewish history and culture, to document, interpret and pass our legacy on to future generations. Beth Ahabah Museum & Archives is open for tours and archival research, Sunday - Thursday, from 10 a.m. - to 3 p.m., 1109 West Franklin Street, Richmond. In case of inclement weather, please call before visiting: at (804) 353-2668. www.JewishRichmond.org

Or Atid members and guests get into the magic spirit. Contributed Photos

Or Atid happenings Friendly-friendly and communitybased events at Or Atid Magical spiritual nosh Magic was in the air on Saturday, Jan. 26 when Or Atid’s Adult Education Committee sponsored an interactive Spiritual Nosh program at the home of Dana and Jason Gwaltney. We were fortunate to have congregant and master magician Dr. Bruce Rubin unlock some of the secrets of Jewish magicians throughout history while performing some magic of his own including magic tricks he uses with his patients. The evening included a Havdalah service and a wonderful dairy potluck meal. We had a great turnout and all enjoyed learning about the contributions of Jewish magicians including Erik Weisz aka Houdini. Many were surprised to find out that the history of magic and Jews dates back thousands of years. All had fun practicing our sleight of hand as Dr. Rubin taught us a few tricks and provided a magic kit to all who attended.

Shabbat Across America Dinner and Service at Or Atid On Friday March 1, Or Atid joins hundreds of Snagogues across the continent in participating in the 23rd annual Shabbat Across America. Tens of thousands of Jewish families across the continent will take part in this historic national Jewish event to celebrate what unifies all Jews — Shabbat! We will gather for a specially-catered chicken dinner at 6:15 pm with services following at 7:30 p.m. Registration for dinner has closed; all are welcome to attend this special service. Contact our office at 804-740-4747 or by email at office@oratid.org with questions. Or Atid More on page 22

Dr. Bruce Rubin shares history of magic and more at the event.

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After studying the meaning of the Hamsa, 5th and 6th grade students at Or Atid made their own Hamsa using their own hands. Or Atid Photos

March 20: Greater Richmond Jewish community invited

Or Atid students create original Purim Spiel M arch, specifically the Hebrew month Adar, is a month of a celebration with one of the most festive Jewish holidays of the year – Purim! Students of the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School are eagerly preparing for the 2019 Purim Spiel, premiering at Congregation Or Atid on Wednesday, March 20, at 6 p.m. Determined to put on their best performance yet, students began preparations for the play in December, and have since been working on writing their own script, making their own props and designing their own backdrops. Having starred in many-a-Spiel themselves, the 7th grade class assumed the role of codirectors, sharing the responsibility of writing the script and helping younger students run lines. Students voted on a Disney theme for this year’s play, and carefully matched a Disney character to represent each role from the Megillah. Now, no Disney play is complete without a song, and this year’s performance will feature three wellknown Disney songs, re-written with lyrics that tell Esther’s story to the audience. With just a few weeks to go until showtime, students are working hard to memorize lines and finish all the preparations for the play. Though there is much to be done, there is still a special sense of excitement in the air. The greater Richmond Jewish community is

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invited to celebrate Purim with us and enjoy this original Purim Spiel. Beyond the annual Purim Spiel, students and families started a new Purim tradition together with a school-wide Mishloach Manot Match. In each class, students randomly chose a partner for whom they would prepare a small gift basket, featuring snacks and other small items. The match provided students the opportunity to learn something new about a classmate, as each student filled out a survey to help their partner personalize the gift basket. Students will be exchanging baskets during the school’s Purim festivities, participating in an age-old tradition that has strengthened communities for decades. The Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School focuses on bringing students and families together for a fun, meaningful, and memorable Jewish learning experience. Students discover new ways to interact with Jewish holidays and traditions, Israeli culture, Hebrew and Tefillah, and the weekly Parsha. The Kornblau Religious School is always open to interested families who are looking to start, continue, or explore their own Jewish Journey. For more information about the school, and to schedule a visit, please contact Education Coordinator Alison Litvin, at relschool@oratid.org, or call Congregation Or Atid at (804) 740 - 4747.

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“The Pagan Rabbi and Other Short Stories” by Cyn-thia Ozick (May 6) and “Pops: A Fatherhood in Pieces” by Michael Chabon (June 3). All Book Club meetings begin at 7 p.m. at Or Ami. All book lovers are welcome to join us. Shabbat Services, March 15 Shabbat services on March 15 will be preceded by Jewish Meditation, from 7-7:30 p.m. Please arrive a few minutes early. Jewish Meditation can bring an awakened and clearer state of mind. Lisa Halberstadt will help prepare you to welcome Shabbat by utilizing a variety of techniques that promote relaxation, build internal energy and develop compassion, love, patience, generosity and forgiveness, all within the framework of Judaism. If you have questions, e-mail Meditate@Or-Ami.com. Reel Theology Reel Theology will be held Sunday, March 17 at 6 p.m. This event is free, and provides a nice way to meet members of Or Ami and their guests. Please bring a snack to share. There will be a brief discussion following the film. Call the office for movie details.

Religious School Congregation Or Ami’s Religious School offers an innovative approach to education. At Or Ami, each grade chooses electives such as art, theater, music, building projects, social action, photography, nature and more. Every lesson is designed to simultaneously encourage Jewish literacy and equip children with practical life skills. This year we have added conversational Hebrew. Or Ami also offers a Torah Tots program that meets every other Sunday. For more information, visit http://Or-Ami.com/school. Or Ami is located at 9400 Huguenot Road, Richmond. At Or Ami, you can explore how Jewish wisdom, custom and celebration can play a role in your life. Please join us for Shabbat services on Fridays, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Torah study is held most Saturdays at 10:30 a.m. Want to know more about Or Ami? Contact us at Belong@Or-Ami. com, check us out at www.Or-Ami.com follow us on Facebook at facebook.com/ OrAmiRichmond, or catch us on Twitter @oramirichmond. We welcome your interest and your inquiries.

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Pulpit switch Congregation Or Atid and River Road Church, Baptist, have established a strong relationship over the past years, signifying the importance of meaningful ties in the community, both Jewish and non-Jewish. As part of this bond, Rabbi Hal Schevitz and Pastor Daniel Glaze of the church, will swap pulpits at the end of March. Pastor

Glaze will deliver the sermon at Or Atid’s Shabbat services on Saturday, March 30 and Rabbi Schevitz will preach at RRCB’s Sunday service on March 31. Both congregations are looking forward to hearing from their respective spiritual leaders as we continue our collegial relationship. For information, call 804-740-4747.

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Beth-El School Happenings By Ramona L. Brand Director of Youth Learning When play is learning everal kindergarteners are bustling in the play kitchen. The Shabbat set is on the table and dinner is being “cooked”, family roles are taken. One students reminds the others, “we need to say the blessings” and quickly the group huddles around the table and acts out the Shabbat blessings. They are playing, and they are learning. In another room students are happily drawing Hebrew letters in trays filled with shaving cream. Others are making Hebrew letters from pretzels – then eating the results! Still a few more use the magnetic board and make “words”. The play is free form, and fun. The learning happens spontaneously. In yet another classroom, students busily set up a grocery store, setting up shelves with boxes and containers on which they’ve translated the food

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words into Hebrew. Hebrew dictionaries, and computers are scattered about the room as students check words, and view websites of Israeli grocery stores or markets. They take roles of cashier, manager, deli worker. They make “shekels” to give to the shoppers. The room seems a bit chaotic, but the energy is focused! In playing, children learn holistically; strengthening their cognitive, emotional and intellectual growth. They are invested in their learning, asking and answering their own questions and stimulating their own curiosity. At Beth-El Religious School we strive to provide high quality learning environments that include all aspects of educational tools. Ruach PJ Party is a hit! A dozen students and their favorite stuffed friends enjoyed a PJ Party on Sunday January 27. Dressed in their comfy PJs, Ruach youth group participants made fleecy pillows, watched Frozen, decorated cookies, enjoyed a hot cocoa bar and played games. It was a great way to warm up a winter afternoon.

Tot Shabbat: March 2 Families with children ages birth to 5 enjoy a hands-on, made for the wiggles Shabbat service. All are welcome to stay for lunch. Gather at 11:15 a.m. in Kiddush Room, 3330 Grove Ave. It’s a Mythical, Magical Purim Party: Wednesday, March 20 Be happy, It’s Adar. Dress in a magical costume, shake your Grogger, eat Hamantashen! All are welcome to join us at a family friendly Purim celebration. The details: 5:50-6:15 p.m.: “Silly Megilly” reading with singing, costume contest, prizes and fun; 6:15-7 p.m., enjoy Purim dinner in the Multi-purpose room at Temple Beth-El Brown Religious School, 601 N. Parham Road, Richmond. For more information,email r.brand@bethelrichmond.org.

Ruach PJ partygoers show off their fleece pillow creations.

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What to expect at a Hachnasat Sefer Torah Parade Y ossi Paley’s ob”m Sefer Torah is almost completed! After two years of hard work and dedication, the much-anticipated dedication and parade will be taking place this month. A Hachnasat Sefer Torah is a ceremony that welcomes a Torah scroll to its new home. This celebration is akin to escorting a bride to her new home. The event is divided into several parts: The completion of the final letters The last letters of the Torah will be written by the scribe at Keneseth Beth Israel starting at 10 a.m. Guests are invited to join in by “assisting” the scribe complete the last letters by handing the quill to the scribe or holding onto his arm as he writes the letters. The Torah is complete once the ink has dried and it is lifted for all to see, and then it is dressed in the belt, coat, and silver crown. Procession with the Sefer Torah This is the most important part of the event and takes place outdoors, rain or shine.

Yossi and his sister, Goldie, in 2000.

The Torah is carried under a Chuppah – a wedding canopy – and is accompanied by singing and dancing. Included in the procession will be a specially-decorated truck, music, flags and fire torches. Upon arriving at the Yeshiva, other Sefer Torahs are brought out to greet the new one. Rejoicing with the Sefer Torahs A round of dancing similar to the Simchas Torah eve ceremony begins after the procession reaches its destination. Just like the bride encircles her groom seven times, we complete seven circles

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(hakafos) around the bimah. An eighth round is then made while singing a song about rejoicing with the Torah. The Torahs are returned to the Aron Kodesh, Holy Ark, and the Mourner’s Kaddish is said. Reception At the conclusion of the event, everyone is invited to a buffet reception at the Yeshiva of Virginia. The schedule • 10 a.m. - Completion of Sefer Torah at Keneseth Beth Israel, 6300 Patterson Ave. • 11:30 a.m. - Grand Torah Procession • Noon - Procession Arrives at Yeshiva of Virginia, 6801 Patterson Ave., followed by Hakafos (dancing) and a buffet reception This memorable experience is truly a fitting tribute to a very unforgettable young man, Yossi Chaim Paley.

Hachnasas Sefer Torah at Camp Simcha in 2001.

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Community Happenings

Mary Cohen Cantor announced as 2019 Sofie Stahl Memorial Award recipient G ila Chapter of Jewish Women International (JWI) is proud to announce the recipient of the Sofie Stahl Memorial Award for 2019 is Mary Cohen Cantor. Originally created by The Day chapter of JWI (then B’nai B’rith Women) and the Stahl Family, the award honors a Jewish woman whose volunteerism demonstrates a life-long commitment to helping those in the Richmond metropolitan area. Winners of this highly coveted honor (with few exceptions, given annually since 1960) are chosen by previous years’ recipients, and this year Mary will be honored at a brunch on Sunday, April 28, at the Weinstein JCC. While not the only passion on which Mary has spent her time, as an educator she has been unrivalled. According to her nomination letter, she “… has helped to raise and mold a generation of Jewish and Non- Jewish children in Richmond ...” Few in the local Jewish community remember a time when she wasn’t involved in the education of preschoolers or teens or even their parents. Whether as a teacher, administrator (including as director of the Pre-school at the Weinstein JCC), or volunteer, her love in this area has touched so many. Enthusiastically, she taught teens to cook and sew. In addition, she worked to lead her preschool students in regular pre-school classrooms as well as pre-school enrichment programs which she started. Other educational programs begun by this year’s honoree include many that earned the Weinstein JCC its national education accreditation. Over the years, Mary originated or taught programs including a 2-Year Old Parent Program, the Day Care program, both at the Weinstein JCC as well as www.JewishRichmond.org

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the Temple Beth-El Story Time for the children. In addition to chairing award programs such as Hadassah’s Woman of Valor, Mary has earned her share of awards. Rudlin Torah Academy bestowed their Chesed Award. The Weinstein JCC recognized her with an award with the description “in appreciation for Significant Dedication”. She also earned the 2017 Oscar Membership Award. Mary Cantor will be honored at a brunch on Sunday, April 28 (10:30 a.m.) at the Center. The public is invited to join JWI, previous Sofie Stahl recipients as well as Mary’s family and friends for the presentation of this well-deserved award. Per person couvert for the brunch is $36. Pledge levels are Gold $54 and Platinum $118. To RSVP, checks (payable to JWI) should be mailed by April 22 to JWI, c/o

Arlene Slutzah, 4907 Daffodil Circle, Glen Allen, VA 23060. For more information contact Arlene at (804) 747-0765 or arlene4907@gmail.com. Founded in 1897, JWI is the leading Jewish organization empowering women and girls through economic literacy; community training; healthy relationship education; and the proliferation of women’s leadership. Jewish Women International’s innovative programs, advocacy, and philanthropic initiatives protect the fundamental rights of all girls and women to live in safe homes, thrive in healthy relationships, and realize the full potential of their personal strength. As in past years, proceeds from the Sofie Stahl event support JWI’s National Library Initiative, a program that provides for a woman fleeing an abusive relationship, when the immediacy of danger often means leaving home with only her children and the clothes on their backs, and where JWI helps ease this traumatic

upheaval by creating children’s libraries in domestic violence shelters – transforming basic spaces into comforting havens with colorful furniture and rugs, hundreds of new books, computers and toys. For kids whose lives have been upended by violence, JWI libraries provide a safe place to relax, escape into a book, and keep up with homework when they’re most at risk of falling behind in school. JWI’s goal is to complete 100 fullyfurnished new libraries in shelters across the country, and continually restock the shelves of existing ones so that each child leaves the shelter with a favorite book or DVD in hand, ready to start a new life. Gila Chapter of JWI is proud that the Sofie Stahl Memorial Award Gala makes available DVDs for purchase which can then be donated to the JWI Library at Richmond’s Safe Harbor, the primary shelter in Henrico and community partner serving the Greater Richmond region.

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olunteers for Richmond’s Swansboro Elementary School from the Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy and Reveille United Methodist Church found the answer to that question together! The group met at the Federation office to assemble 150 Rekenreks for the 2nd graders at the school. The abacus-like tools were made from cardboard and beads. The group of 10 women – Leslie Baron, Deborah Cohen, Frona Colker, Carol Hampton, Ruby Jo Hiller, Robin Jackson, Claudette Lewis, Ellie Speer, Carol Uzzle, and Katy Yoffy shared a morning of coffee, camaraderie and conversation – all for a good cause. The Title I math teacher at Swansboro was ecstatic to have the project done! For more on RJCL including volunteering opportunities, contact the Federation’s Sara Rosenbaum at (804) 545-8629 or email srosenbarum@jewishrichmond.org.

(From left) Ellie Speer, Katy Yoffy, Deborah Cohen and Frona Colker pose while working on the Swansboro Elementary School project. Contributed Photos

(From left) Leslie Baron and Claudette Lewis show their completed Rekenreks.

Emek Sholom, “Valley of Peace” E mek Sholom, or “Valley of Peace” (translation) is a Jewish cemetery within Forest Lawn, just four blocks from the Richmond Beth-El Cemetery. Some people incorrectly believe that only Holocaust survivors may be buried at Emek Sholom. This is WRONG. Rather, this Valley of Peace is the final resting place for anyone of the Jewish faith as well as the non-Jewish spouse of a Jew. The misconception is understandable. Emek Sholom is also the site of Richmond’s historic landmark Holocaust Memorial, a wall on which 462 names are inscribed, names of people who perished in the Holocaust whose sons, daughters, nieces, nephews or cousins live(d) in Richmond and chose to memorialize their lost loved ones. Therefore, the official name is the Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial

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Cemetery. Three walkways with pavers that teach are being developed. These will round out Holocaust history as it relates to Richmond. The Timeline Walkway will chronicle major world events from 1933 to 1945, the Freedom-Road-to-Richmond Walkway will have inscribed the names of Richmond’s Holocaust survivors, concentration camp liberators, and rescuers who reside(d) in the Richmond area, and an Iconic Quotations Walkway. The Emek Sholom’s Board of Director’s vision is to make this place an educational destination, a Richmond landmark that connects the visitor locally and intimately to the Holocaust. To purchase grave spaces, contact one of Emek Sholom’s co-presidents, Cookie Solodar or Ben Kutner, www. holocaustcemetery.org on the link “About ESHMC.”

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(From left) Robin Jackson and Deborah Cohen show some of the Rekenreks they are working to complete.

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or the 10th summer, join a host of campers for another fun-filled week at Camp Sababa. The week-long program is designed and run by the Richmond Council for Jewish Education, a committee of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. The group consists of educators from all the local Synagogues and agencies who gather together to put on this amazing one-of-a kind camp each summer. During the session, campers explore their Jewish heritage and Hebrew through different themes. Past themes include Israeli Cities, Jewish Time Travel, Our Families, Around the World and much more. Campers have time for arts and crafts, games, cooking and meeting friends from different congregations and all over the Richmond community. A highlight of the week is when the campers are joined by Israeli teens visiting Richmond as part of the Partnership2Gether Tikkun Olam Exchange program. When? This summer, the camp will run from Aug. 12- 16. Where? Temple Beth-El Religious School, 601 N. Parham Road, Richmond. Staff? Education directors and teachers from participating schools and teen Madrichim from Israel. Cost? $125; April 1 is early bird registration deadline; July 15 is final deadline; $150 for all 5 days; ; $40 for the CIT Program. For more information or to register for this summer, contact Sara Rosenbaum at (804) 545-8629 or srosenbaum@jewishrichmond.org

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ee Playhouse at Fort Lee opens its KidKapers production of “Fiddler on the Roof Jr.” on March 8 for a two-weekend run at the Lee Playhouse, building 4300 Mahone Avenue at the installation. The play is open to the pubic. Director Caroline Mincks and choreographer Suzi Redling present a cast of over 40 of the best young actors in the area, who bring to life a play the whole family will love. Featuring Judd Blake as Tevye, Elizabeth Christian as Golde, Eden Johnson as Tzeitel, Sam Martin as Hodel, www.JewishRichmond.org

Nadia Artus as Chava, Jacob Martin as Motel, Jaden Williams as Perchik, Kacy Figueroa as Fyedka, and Helene White as Yente. Performances are March 8, 9, and 15 at 7 pm and March 15, 16, and 17 at 2 pm. Tickets are $7 for general admission seating and may be purchased at the door. For reservations or more information, please call the box office at (804)734-6629. To access Fort Lee, a valid picture ID is required. For details on procedures, call the box office.

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Lazer Lloyd at Buzz and Ned’s Real Barbecue, March 27 L

azer Lloyd (born Lloyd Paul Blumen), a Jewish singer, songwriter, and guitarist, will perform on Wednesday, March 27, 7-9 p.m., at Buz and Ned’s Real Barbecue, 8205 West Broad St., Henrico. Born in New York City, he began playing guitar at age of 13. His first band formed in his teens, Legacy, played covers of 1950s rock and roll. They played at a 1982 battle of the bands and toured throughout Connecticut, New York and New Jersey, including opening for Michael Bolton at Toad’s Place in New Haven. The young Lloyd moved to Israel, where

he played guitar for the influential Jewish rock band Reva L’Sheva. Following the band’s breakup, he fronted the power trio Yood with a fresh take on 1970’s style blues rock before starting his own solo singersongwriter career. He is noted as one of the few artists playing Americana, folk, and blues in Israel, and his music has been embraced throughout the U.S., the United Kingdom, Europe, and Brazil both in print and through social media. Tickets online or at the restaurant. For tickets and details, visit https://www. buzandneds.com/event/lazer-lloyd-3-27-19/.

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‘Golda’s Balcony’ production in Women’s Theatre Festival features Jacqueline Jones

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or Jacqueline Goldberg Jones, getting to portray the dynamic Golda Meir in “Golda’s Balcony” once again in the upcoming Women’s Theatre Festival in Richmond is almost too good to be true. The local Richmond actress, an active member of the Richmond Jewish community, last performed the role in 2010 as part of the Jewish Family Theatre at the Weinstein JCC. “I am so excited to be doing this show once again,” said Jones. “It is very moving portraying her. I never expected to do it again. But I fantasized about it.” She will portray the former Israeli prime minister in five, 90-minute shows between March 28 and April 18 in the TheatreLAB and 5th Wall Theatre coproduced productions. There are three other one-woman plays to be performed in a rotating repertory for the festival, all at The Basement, 300 East Broad St., Richmond. “Golda’s Balcony” opens Thursday, March 28 at 8 p.m. Additional performances are Wednesday, April 3, 8 p.m.; Sunday, April 7, 2 p.m.; Saturday, April 13, 8 p.m.; and the final show on Thursday, April 18, 8 p.m. William Gibson’s one-woman play examines the life of Israel’s fourth prime, and her journey from the Milwaukee schoolteacher to prime minister of Israel. It is dramatic and fast tour de force that examines the personal and political conflicts of an iconic figure in both Jewish and world history. The play will be directed by Debra Clinton, long associated with Jones and the Center’s JFT. She also directed “Golda’s Balcony” and Jones in 2010. In speaking about the production and the importance of the woman being portrayed, Clinton said, “She is a strong woman in a high stakes situation and at a time when women were not typically seen as decision makers and people of power. The production reveals the exploration of the personal versus political struggle she lived.” Jones learned in December the festival would include “Golda’s Balcony.”“I have been getting prepared since then.” Jones noted, “She (Golda Meir) had

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Jacqueline Jones during a rehearsal of “Golda’s Balcony” in 2010. She will perform in “Golda’s Balcony” in Richmond for five shows– March 28-April 18. Photo by Adrienne Winkelmann

Another scene of Jacqueline Jones during a rehearsal of “Golda’s Balcony” in 2010.

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such an unusual accent and speech pattern because of her Russian heritage. While I learned a whole lot then, I did have to go back and do some more studying to portray her once again.” She added, “When I performed the show in 2010, I was fascinated to learn so much about her that I had not known before. Meir in Hebrew means ‘one who shines’ and this great woman certainly fits that character.” At the time this issue of the Reflector was going to press, Jones had just begun rehearsals with Clinton. They were deciding on some of the aspects of the production. “In 2010, I portrayed more of the grandmotherly side of her strength. We may focus more on the power-driven side of her strength,” Jones said. The production starts near the end of the former prime minister’s life. It focuses on the Yom Kippur War. “But she interrupts herself all the time and talks about her childhood and many other periods of her life. It is full of little stories that she talks about.” Jones said, “She is at a conference table for some scenes and switches back-andforth with family members. So, it has both the home space and the office space.” The actress is especially pleased the production dates are not in conflict with the Jewish calendar.

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“Golda’s Balcony,” with Jacqueline Jones portraying a one-woman tour de force traces the public and personal life of Golda Meir in order to understand how idealism, power, and strength can shape the destiny of a nation “To his credit, DeeJay (DeeJay Gray, the founding artistic director of TheatreLAB) came to me and showed me the schedules. ‘Which track do you want?’ This track was perfect. It does not fall during Pesach or other Jewish community conflicts. He went out of his way to do this.” Community members who want ticket information and details on “Golda’s Balcony” at The Basement, should visit https://www.theatrelabrva.org/season6 or call (804) 506-3533 or email info@

thetheatrelabrva.org. Edtior’s Note: When not acting in various local theater productions portraying a fast range of characters including animals, Jacqueline Jones has been a stalwart mentor for many children at Swansboro Elementary School in Richmond for over 20 years. She also frequently arranges for children from the school to be at her performances to see live theater productions, some for the first time. A future issue of the Reflector will include an article on her volunteer efforts as part the Federation’s Richmond Jewish Coaliton for Literacy. www.JewishRichmond.org


Rabbi Michael Knopf of Temple Beth-El visits Guatemala to support human rights advocates R

abbi Michael Knopf of Temple Beth- El is one of 15 influential Jewish leaders who traveled to Guatemala last month as part of the prestigious Global Justice Fellowship run by American Jewish World Service, the leading Jewish organization working to fight poverty and promote human rights in the developing world. The group met with leaders of nonprofit groups working to advance human rights in Guatemala, one of the Central American countries that residents are fleeing to seek asylum in the United States. “Change happens through hearing and learning and identifying with someone else’s story,” said Rabbi Knopf. “This is a part of the world that my community doesn’t necessarily spend a lot of time thinking about. I will be lifting up these stories from the ground – stories of pain and challenge, but also of incredible change and yearning for a better life.” The Rabbinic fellows arrived as Guatemala faced widespread condemnation for ordering a United Nations-approved team of corruption investigators to vacate the country. During a week in the country, the fellows met with advocates fighting for legal protections for human rights activists at risk of violence, midwives providing maternal health support for indigenous women, and members of an independent journalism collective led by young Guatemalans seeking to expose human rights abuses. The Rabbis learned from human rights advocates about working to improve life in Guatemala and how American Jews and others can support this

work. Joined on the trip by AJWS Global Ambassador Ruth Messinger, they also met with top leadership at the U.S. Embassy. “I am bringing back a sense that what happens here matters at home – and what happens at home matters here,” said Rabbi Knopf. “We’re intertwined on levels we don’t fully appreciate or understand. And because we’re interconnected, we have a deep responsibility to one another.” The fellowship program empowers leading American Rabbis to advocate in support of international policies that advance the human rights and well-being of some of the world’s poorest and most oppressed communities. In addition to traveling to Guatemala, each rabbi in AJWS’ Global Justice Fellowship engages in six months of human rights education and action, including training with AJWS staff in the United States. The fellows will travel to Washington, D.C., in March to educate members of Congress and other government officials about pressing international human rights issues. With the new Congress addressing the Trump administration on issues of American foreign aid and support for human rights, these fellows will play a key role in educating the public and elected officials about the importance of U.S. leadership on the global stage in standing up for human rights and ending poverty. Years after its civil war concluded, Guatemala continues to grapple with tensions over land, ethnicity and economic inequality. Indigenous communities make up a majority of the country,

Rabbi Michael Knopf of Temple Beth-El presents a plaque of gratitude to Jorge Santos, director of UDEFEGUA, supported by American Jewish World Service. The group supports human rights defenders in Guatemala who face criminalization and violence for fighting for justice in their country. AJWS Photo

yet they have little power in government or in shaping decisions that affect their lives. They face intense discrimination and poverty – especially indigenous women, who are doubly disadvantaged, and who suffer from a lack of health care services. Guatemalan human rights activists and journalists who expose or speak out about these injustices often face harassment, intimidation and violence. “At a time when human rights in Guatemala are under attack and hardworking residents are fleeing the country and seeking a new life in the United States, it is crucial that these influential Jewish leaders learn first-hand from courageous advocates,” said Robert Bank, president and CEO of AJWS. “Our fellows bring back what they learn to their communities and to the halls of Congress. Together, these rabbis will issue a moral call to action to their communities and persuade decision-makers in the

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United States to support human rights and end poverty in Guatemala and the rest of the developing world.” About American Jewish World Service American Jewish World Service is the leading Jewish organization working to pursue justice and fight poverty in the developing world. By supporting hundreds of social change organizations in 19 countries, we respond to the most pressing issues of our time—from disasters, genocide and hunger to the persecution of women and minorities worldwide. With Jewish values and a global reach, AJWS is making a difference in millions of lives and bringing a more just and equitable world closer for all. Learn more at www.ajws.org. Editor’s Note: The article and photograph were supplied to the Reflector from the American Jewish World Service.

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Jonathan Greenblatt of ADL will speak at Yom HaShoah, April 28 J

onathan Greenblatt, CEO, of the Anti-Defamation League, will be the keynote speaker at the Virginia Holocaust Museum’s 2019 Yom HaShoah Observance on April 28. The event is 2-3 p.m. at the museum. Greenblatt is the sixth national director of the organization, leading all aspects of one of the most respected civil rights organizations in the country. Since becoming CEO in July 2015, Greenblatt has modernized the organization while re-focusing it on the mission it has had since its founding in 1913: to stop the defamation of the Jewish people, and to secure justice and fair treatment to all. Under his leadership, ADL has worked in new and expanded ways to combat and uncover anti-Semitism. Additional details concerning the Yom Hashoah Observance will be included in the April Reflector. For information on this event and other museum programs, call (804) 257-5400 or visit www.vaholocaust.org. Free parking is offered in an adjacent, well-lit parking lots.

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VHM Student Art Contest; submissions due March 22

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he 2019 Virginia Holocaust Museum Student Art Contest is open for submissions! With a theme: Voice, the deadline for submissions is March 22. We welcome students to show us an issue that they are passionate about and hope to bring

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about positive change through their artwork. Students in both the Junior (grades 6-8) and Senior (Grades 9-12) Divisions will have the opportunity to receive the Carole Weinstein Prize for Tolerance and Justice in the Visual Arts. 1st Place Winners: $500, plus a Certificate for a Youth Class at the Visual Arts Center of Richmond; 2nd Place Winners: $250; 3rd Place Winners; $150; Honorable Mention: $100. Email photos of artwork, student info and artist statement to mferenczy@vaholocaust.org. For additional details and guidelines visit www.vaholocaust. org/resources-for-students/ voice-2019.

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‘Voices of the Generation’ will be held at VHM, March 10 I

n a special program March 10 at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, Julie Kohner, founder and CEO of Voices of the Generations, Inc., will be sharing her mother’s Holocaust experience as well as her mother’s appearance on “This is Your Life, a program popular in the 1950s. The lecture begins at 2 p.m. It is free and open to the public. Her story of growing up as the child of a Holocaust survivor has motivated other children of survivors to share their stories too. Her programs move and inspire people of all ages, but especially young adults to look at adversity and the world around them in ways that are new. program popular in the 1950s. A special invitation has been sent to 2nd and 3rd generation family members of Holocaust Survivors

to be part of the program. For information, contact Samuel Asher at sasher@vaholocaust.org or (804) 257-5400 ext. 245.

New course for VHM’s TEI: ‘Genocide in the 20th Century’

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he Alexander Lebenstein Teacher Education Institute assists educators with their understanding of the Holocaust and genocide. Sessions focus on historical background and pedagogy that link to the Virginia Standards of Learning requirements. TEI is offered in partnership with Longwood University and is funded through generous teacher sponsorships. “Genocide in the 20th Century” will be held July 15-19, 8:30 a.m. - 5 5 p.m. Educators will learn and interpret essential information about the causes and impacts of genocidal acts. Tuition is $30 for the 5-day session at VHM and teachers can earn up to 45 Recertification Points. Educators who have previously taken TEI are welcome to apply for this course to earn points toward recertification! TEI will also offer one session of its original 10-day course that is open to educators who have not taken TEI in previous years. “From Context to Classroom” is set for June 17-21, and June 24-28. The course is focused on the Holocaust’s historical background and pedagogy, which link to the VA SOL requirements. The first five days are online and the following five days are at the VHM. Tuition is $50; Earn up to 90 Recertification Points. The deadlines for applications are May 24. For info or to participate visit https://www.vaholocaust.org/resources-for-teachers/tei-2019/ or email mferenczy@ vaholocaust.org. www.JewishRichmond.org


Jewish Life at UR commemorates Holocaust at VHM

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n Friday, Feb. 8, Jewish Life at the University of Richmond hosted a special Shabbat on campus to commemorate the Holocaust. Students of all faith backgrounds joined for Shabbat services and a free community dinner, followed by a screening of The Pianist. Programming continued on Saturday, Feb. 9, when the group was joined by more than 30 members of Dr. Michelle Kahn’s Nazi Germany class for a visit to the Virginia Holocaust Museum. Following a morning study and small group conversations over breakfast, students toured the museum’s exhibits, and learned about the experience of local community members during and after the Holocaust through a panel discussion. Survivors Dr. Roger Loria and Inge Horowitz shared their stories as part of the program, and Dr. Charlie Sydnor – senior historian at the VHM – spoke about his perspective as a Holocaust historian and expert for the United States Department of Justice and its Office of Special Investigations. Students then had the opportunity to ask questions of the panelists about their experiences, views on modern antisemitism, and the museum’s archival work, and other issues, before closing remarks from Horowitz on the Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery’s ongoing efforts to commemorate the Holocaust in Richmond. Jewish Life, the Chaplaincy, and

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Richmond’s students are grateful to the museum and its staff for hosting the group so generously for the third consecutive year. Among the attendees at both programs were participants in the Office of the Chaplaincy’s upcoming Pilgrimage: Poland experience. Through travel – both domestically and internationally – and a semester length course component, the Chaplaincy’s Pilgrimage program is designed to help students grow University of Richmond students listen to a group of three panelists at the Virginia Holoin their faith, to deepen religious life on caust Museum. Contributed Photos campus, and to learn from communities around the world filled with both pain and hope. Eight students of various faith backJohn Hagadorn, a dogrounds will travel to Poland March cent at the Virginia 8-16 this year for a spiritual journey Holocaust Museum, that explores themes of the Holocaust, speaks to students multifaith dialogue through the lens of during a tour. He is Jewish-Catholic relations, religious soworking to complete cial responsibility, and more. a PhD in Holocaust The trip and course component are Studies at Drew Uniled by Josh Jeffreys, Jewish chaplain and versity in New Jersey. director of Religious Life, and Rev. Jamie Lynn Haskins, chaplain for Spiritual Life. For more information about Jewish Life at the University of Richmond or the Pilgrimage: Poland journey, contact Josh Jeffreys at JJeffrey@richmond.edu.

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Your Life, Your Legacy Donor Profile: Amy Melnick-Scharf and Jeffrey Scharf 1. Why was it important to leave a legacy for our community and future generations? Although we are both originally from Long Island, New York, and spent nearly 25 years building our careers and families in Northern Virginia, we have called Richmond home for nearly 5 years and have felt particularly welcomed by the Richmond Jewish community. We have been so impressed by the vitality, passion and caring of the Richmond Jewish community and want to do our part to help preserve the organizations we value to help ensure their future viability and success. We are grateful for the many, many individuals who made sacrifices to build the Jewish institutions we have here in Richmond and do not want to take for granted that they will be here for

future generations. 2. Which Richmond organizations did you include as beneficiaries, and why? One of the things we like about the Life and Legacy program is our wishes can change over time as we get to know more organizations; but for now, we have focused on three organizations where we have devoted most of our time and volunteer efforts: Our Congregational family, Congregation Or Atid that has welcomed us into the fold so warmly. The Jewish Community Federation of Richmond that does so much for the entire Jewish community here. The Commonwealth, in Israel and the world; and Gesher Jewish Day School in Northern Virginia where our children Jonah (22) and Talia (19), (and us!) were educated and have so many special memories. We hope to include others

LIFE & LEGACY is a partnership program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and Richmond Jewish Foundation to promote after-lifetime giving to benefit our Jewish community. Over the last two-and-a-half years, over 470 commitments have been made to sustain our local Jewish community

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as we become more involved in their mission. 3. How did you decide how to formalize your legacy commitments? We set up a Donor Advised Fund (DAF) and created the Scharf Family Endowment at Richmond Jewish Foundation. We currently fund the DAF and will provide in our wills for a portion of our estate to go to the Endowment Fund. 4. How easy was it for you to formalize your commitments? First of all, the easiest part of the Life and Legacy program, and the part we think is the most misunderstood, is that there is no financial transaction during our lifetime. Jeff is a volunteer with the program with Congregation Or Atid and finds this is still the biggest misconception – there is no “donation” to the Life and

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children/heirs to take care of Legacy program. Formalizing our commit- these plans now. We both ascribe ment was pretty easy as we were to the philosophy that “you can’t already committed to doing es- take it with you” and what better tate planning (it is such a relief way to make a difference in the to do!), and this just became an future of our Jewish community than to contribute to the organiimportant part of it. It is something that many zations that made a such a posipeople put off (estate planning) tive difference in our lives and in for so many reasons, but we are so many others. so happy we took care of this. It really is a “gift” to your Legacy More on page 31

through our LIFE & LEGACY program. Thank you! A special thank you to the more than 40 percent of the donors who have already taken the next step of formalizing their commitment with a gift in their will, trust, retirement account, life insurance policy or by creating an endowment fund.

Please contact Richmond Jewish Foundation Legacy Director Lauren Plotkin to learn more about formalizing your commitment and how to make a lasting impact in our community through the LIFE & LEGACY program at (804) 545-8624 or lauren@ rjfoundation.org.

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2019 Sisisky Fellows named

Amanda Braun

By Robert Nomberg PresiDeNt & ceo richMoND JeWish fouNDatioN

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ive years ago Susan and Mark Sisisky created the Susan and Mark Sisisky JDC Global Enrichment Fund. In a highly competitive process, carefully screened young adult Jewish leaders are chosen to travel internationally to learn the important work of the American Joint Distribution Committee around the world. Each fellow has returned home to Richmond with a unique perspective inspired to do more. The Sisisky Fellows selection committee recently met to choose the 2019 fellows. These fellows will choose service experiences, including education events and programs and leadership development opportunities, and will return to Richmond to share their new found knowledge and experiences with our community. This year’s Fellows will experience Ukraine’s truly unique and historic Jewish communities. This year’s fellows include: Amanda Braun, Zach Brenner, Rebecca Kohn, Alison Litvin, Rachel Peters, Ashley Rosenberg, Alexandria Vornholt. Amanda Braun Amanda Braun, originally from Princeton, N.J., is the development and engagement associate with the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. Since graduating from Wellesley College in 2012, she has been involved in several progressive political campaigns across the country from Rep. Joe Kennedy’s first Congressional race to Sec. Hillary Clinton’s 2016 presidential run. When not on the campaign trail, she also also been in a variety of nonprofit and public service roles, including serving as a White House Intern during the Obama Administration. She now lives in Richmond with her wife, Elizabeth, where they love trying new restaurants and exploring exhibits at the VMFA. Zach Brenner Zach Brenner was born in Norfolk and raised there alongside a younger brother and sister before heading to college at Vanderbilt University. After graduating, he spent 6 months in Buenos Aires, Argentina exploring a new country before returning to Norfolk to work at Sentara Vascular Specialists for two years. www.JewishRichmond.org

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Deciding to change careers, Zach moved to Richmond where his brother was living and ventured into real estate. He completed a graduate certificate at VCU and worked at Thalhimer in commercial property management for over four years. In August 2017, he moved over to SL Nusbaum and took on a new challenge in brokerage. In addition to his hobbies of soccer, tennis, and traveling, he currently serves the Jewish community of Richmond as a board member, YAD campaign director, and on the young leadership cabinet. Rebecca Kohn Rebecca Kohn is a Virginia licensed attorney currently working with Hunton Andrews Kurth, LLP in their Business Intake and Conflicts department. Rebecca moved from Upstate New York to Richmond in 2013 to attend University of Richmond School of Law. She quickly fell in love with Richmond and realized there was nowhere else she wanted to lay down roots. Before law school, Rebecca attended State University of New York – Binghamton University, where she received a bachelor’s in Philosophy, Politics, and Law. Rebecca is on the Network JCFR committee and a graduate of the JCFR young leadership program – Community Leadership Institute. Outside of her involvement with the Richmond Jewish community Rebecca’s time is mostly spent volunteering as a foster home for dogs through the animal rescue MOMS VA and playing sports with Stonewall Sports - Richmond, a nonprofit sports league for LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies focused on growing an inclusive community and supporting local non-profit organizations. Alison Litvin Alison Litvin, comic enthusiast and crafter extraordinaire, has had a passion for exploring the world for as long as she can remember. Born in Brussels, Belgium, Alison was raised by a young couple whose love for travel equaled their love for each other. The new

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family of three backpacked across Europe, with little Alison tucked neatly in her stroller. Fast forward 20 years later, and Alison is grown and ready to embark on her own adventure, halfway around the world, and entirely on her own. Excited at the prospect of college and “becoming an adult,” Alison attended the University of Mary Washington for two years studying Education. It

was what she thought she wanted since the 4th grade; to become an elementary school teacher and inspire her own classroom of students to change the world. But after two years, something wasn’t right; the school, the classes, the whole experience in itself. Fellows More on page 34

Save the date for the

LIFE & LEGACY

Celebration MAY 29 , 2019 | W E I N S T E I N J CC Plan to join us for a festive evening of cocktails and hors d’oeuvres as we come together to thank and honor all those who sustain our Jewish community by creating a legacy. – F O R M A L I N V I TAT I O N TO F O L LO W –

Please contact Legacy Director Lauren Plotkin to learn about making a lasting impact in our community through the Life & Legacy program: 804.545.8624 or lauren@rjfoundation.org

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Inspired by her parents’ suggestion of returning to her roots, Alison started the new fall semester at Tel Aviv University’s International Program. Two years later, she would graduate with a B.A. in Liberal Arts, and all sorts of new experiences. Ready to start a new journey in Richmond, Alison joined Congregation Or Atid and their religious school, sharing her perspective and experiences to inspire her students to embrace their heritage and explore their roots. Two more years would pass, and Alison finds herself the education coordinator of the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School, leading students and families to explore their own unique Jewish Journeys. Her own journey being far from over, Alison is looking forward to seeing what comes next. Rachel Peters Rachel Peters was born and raised in Richmond. She has always had strong connections to the Jewish Community Center in Richmond as she enjoyed all her Center had to offer. From participating as a preschooler, volunteer, camper and camp counselor to teacher at the Weinstein JCC. After participating in Birthright and extending her time to live in Israel during the summer of 2007, Rachel knew her purpose was working with children back in her own Jewish community. Rachel was inspired by her mother in be-

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5. How do you hope your leaving a Legacy to our Richmond community inspires others to do the same? Hopefully more people will understand that everyone can make a difference no matter their current financial status. Designating an IRA, a portion of life insurance, a % of your estate or a specific amount – the choices are numerous and it all will make a difference and will have an impact on the future viability and vibrancy of our Jewish community. Knowing that our entire community, across the spectrum of ob-

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lieving the importance of the power of early childhood education. Rachel devotes her career to inspiring and stimulating early learners and their families at the Weinstein JCC preschool for over 8 years. Rachel has spent her professional career building connections with her students and families. She believes in creating Jewish stewards of the world and encourages the parents of the students she teachers to understand these important Jewish values as well. Ashley Rosenberg At the age of 11, Ashley Rosenberg decided she wanted to become a surgeon. Since that time, she has been dedicated to achieving that goal. She was born and raised in Denver. Dr. Rosenberg attended the University of Arkansas, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude, Phi Beta Kappa with a major in Biochemistry and a minor in Spanish. She was heavily involved in organic chemistry research as an undergraduate. Among her achievements, she was published and traveled throughout the country to conferences presenting her work toward developing Antascomicin B, a Parkinson’s disease treatment. She was responsible for founding the University of Arkansas Hillel and served as its president. Following her undergraduate studies, she attended the University of Ar-

servance and affiliation, is engaged in our communal future is very inspiring and leaves us hopeful that the future of the Richmond Jewish community is bright. 6. Anything else you’d like our community to know about your experience with the LIFE & LEGACY program? Please join us! It was easy to do and painless (in fact, it feels good!) There is no current financial commitment now, however, participating in the Life and Legacy Program means you are taking concrete steps and doing a huge Mitzvah now to help our community in the future. For information on LIFE & LEGACY, please contact Legacy Director Lauren Plotkin at (804) 545-8624 or lauren@ rjfoundation.org.

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kansas College of Medicine and graduated with Honors in Research. She began her residency training in General Surgery at The Medical College of Virginia/Virginia Commonwealth University three years ago. This year, she is VCU’s first Global Surgery Research Fellow. She has been living and working in Rwanda teaching and training those working on the ambulance. Alexandria Vornholt Alexandria Vornholt, a Tucson, Arizona, local, moved to Richmond in 2016. She graduated from the University of Arizona with a Bachelors of Science in Molecular and Cellular Biology. After working for the Girl Scouts part-time during her undergraduate years, she continued to pursue a career in youth programming after graduation. Currently, she serves as the program, events, and community partnerships manager for the Girl Scouts of the Commonwealth of Virginia, where she designs and coordinates program events for 11,000 girls and families in central Virginia. With an emphasis on STEM and the outdoors, Alexandria is committed to providing exposure to non-traditional career fields, fostering relationships between girls and community mentors, and teaching skills that girls may not otherwise have the opportu-

nity to explore. After moving to Richmond, Alexandria quickly recognized the need to nurture and expand Jewish young adult program opportunities in the area. In partnership with Congregation Beth Ahabah, Alexandria is heading up a robust Jewish Young Adult program with a focus on social connection, inter-congregation community building, and Jewish life and values for their 80+ members between ages 22 and 36. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with friends and family, exploring the Richmond restaurant scene, and writing music with her husband, Eric. The Sisisky Fellows Committee is chaired by Clare Sisisky and includes committee members Michal Coffey, Adam Beifield, Zach Sisisky and Shoshanna Schechter. Including this year’s seven new Sisisky Fellos, a total 26 individuals have now been selected. To learn more about the Sisisky Fellows, please contact Robert Nomberg at Richmond Jewish Foundation at robert@rjfoundation.org.

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ooking for a summer job, internship or volunteer opportunity? Area youth, ages 14 to 24, are invited to attend one of the 2019 InspireYouth@ Work Summer Opportunity Fairs from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Saturday, March 9 at Virginia Career Works - Henrico; Saturday, March 23 at Virginia Career Works - Chesterfield; and Saturday, March 30 at Life Church in Hanover. InspireYouth@Work Opportunity Fairs are the only events in Central Virginia that specifically connect young people living in the Capital Region—City of Richmond or Charles City, Chesterfield, Goochland, Hanover, Henrico, New Kent or Powhatan counties—with local businesses, government and non-profit organizations looking for summer help. Admission is free Attendees will discover a myriad of summer opportunities; meet with representatives from local businesses, government and nonprofit organizations— previous employers include Applebee’s, Army Recruiting, HomeGoods, Four Points Sheraton, County of Henrico, Kings Dominion, Publix Supermarkets,

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Inc., Red Lobster, Virginia Museum of Fine Arts), Virginia Job Corps, Quality Moving Services, Walmart, VCU Health Sciences Pipeline, YMCA of Greater Richmond and many more—looking to fill summer positions. Explore work, apprenticeship and volunteer opportunities; and pick up helpful tips for jobhunting in workshops that include resume writing and building a social media presence. “While the unemployment rate is declining, Virginia still shows around 8% for youth ages 16-24; however, it is 16.4% for youth ages 16-19,” said Krishawn L. Monroe, assistant director of the Capital Region Workforce Partnership. “InspireYouth@Work Opportunity Fairs provide a venue where young people can learn about the options available in the region and meet with potential employers in one convenient location. For employers, it’s a great place to con-

nect with motivated youth and identify potential talent in the upcoming workforce. “Research has shown that a summer experience, whether a job or volunteer position, helps a young person to build self-confidence, develop cognitive skills, improve their physical wellbeing and increase the likelihood they’ll stay in school,” continued Monroe. “We want to help as many area youth and young adults as possible, to get off to a strong start in the job market; a weak start is not good for them, the community or the economy.” For more information or to register for an InspireYouth@Work Opportunity Fair, go to inspireyouth@work.net. About The Capital Region Workforce Partnership: The Capital Region Workforce Part-

nership (CRWP), its Board and the Virginia Career Works- Capital Region are a regional effort between the City of Richmond, and the Counties of Charles City, Chesterfield, Goochland, Hanover, Henrico, New Kent and Powhatan, that are primarily funded through the Department of Labor Workforce Innovation and Opportunity Act (WIOA). CRWP is a proud partner of American Job Centers. CRWP and its programs are equal opportunity programs/ employers (EOE). Auxiliary aids and services are available upon request to individuals with disabilities.

34th Annual Brown-Lyons Lecture: ‘Where Justice Dwells: Judaism, Social Justice and the Rabbis of T’ruah’

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he 34th Brown-Lyons Lecture is scheduled for Thursday, April 4, 7-9 p.m., at the James Branch Cabell Library, Lecture Hall, 901 Park Ave., Richmond. The speaker is Rabbi Jill Jacobs, executive director of T’ruah: The Rabbinic Call for Human Rights. The the mission, accomplishments and ongoing efforts of her organization mobilizes Rabbis, Cantors and other concerned American Jews to protect human rights in North America and Israel. Rabbi Jacobs is widely regarded as a leading voice on Jewish social justice and regularly lectures at Synagogues, Jewish community centers and conferences and has written about Jewish perspectives on social justice and human rights for more than two dozen publicawww.JewishRichmond.org

tions. She has been named three times to the Forward’s list of 50 influential American Jews, to Newsweek’s list of the 50 “Most Influential Rabbis in America” every year since 2009 and to the Jerusalem Post’s 2013 list of “Women to Watch.” She holds Rabbinic ordination and an MA in Talmud from the Jewish Theological Seminary, an MS in Urban Affairs from Hunter College and a BA from Columbia University. She is the author of “Where Justice Dwells: A Hands-On Guide to Doing Social Justice in Your Jewish Community” and “There Shall Be No Needy: Pursuing Social Justice through Jewish Law and Tradition. Doors open at 6:45 p.m. A public reception will follow.

This event is presented by VCU Libraries and is sponsored by the Friends of VCU Libraries, the VCU Center for Judaic Studies, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, Richmond Jewish Foundation and the Weinstein JCC. The event is free and open to all, but register is requested at https://www.support.vcu.edu/event/ brownlyons2019. Parking is available for a fee in the West Broad Street, West Main Street and West Cary Street parking decks. If special accommodations are needed, or to register offline, please call the VCU Libraries Events Office at (804) 828-0593.

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(ABOVE/BELOW) Beth-El students sort and fold socks and add some positive notes. Beth-El Photo

Or Atid students, Sara Beth Coffey and Alex Weiss, joined Beth-El students for a day of Social Justice Learning inspired by the teachings of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel. Or Atid Photo

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Beth-El and Or Atid religious schools’ Day of Social Justice collects over 500 pairs of socks for the homeless By Ramona Brand and Alison Litvin “When I marched in Selma, I felt that my legs were praying.” - Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel n Sunday, Jan. 20, the religious school celebrated a very special morning in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heshel. This program was a collaborative effort between the religious schools of Temple Beth-El and Congregation Or Atid and was the second year the two schools came together for a morning of Social Justice learning. School directors, Ramona Brand (Beth-El) and Alison Litvin (Or Atid) spent more than a month in planning the program that incorporated both learning and social action projects. The morning began with all students listening to the story, “As Good as Anybody,” about the young lives of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel. Students learned what inspired these two men to come together to work for Civil Rights. Afterward, students participated in discussion and text study to further understand the struggles both men encountered, and how they responded with courage and faith. The morning continued with activities that addressed a range of social issues, including Civil Rights, gender bias, the struggles Jewish immigrants faced, and homelessness. Students explored the power of peaceful protest and learned how their own voices could be used to initiate change. Part of the day included a sock drive, and students sorted the socks themselves, adding a personalized note to each pair. Nearly 500 pairs of socks were collected; over twice our original goal, and the socks have been donated to multiple shelters in the Richmond community, including St. Joseph’s Villa and CARITAS in Richmond and Mercy Mall in Chesterfield.

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Our youngest students created footprints of action, which expressed their strengths and hope for a better world. A special “guest from 1919 visited the 2nd-3rd graders and shared her experience working in the sweatshops and of the dangerous conditions that women and children toiling in them endured. Students then learned about a young Jewish immigrant, Clara Lemlich, who helped to change labor laws and create safer working environments. Students in 4th-6th grade learned about “Citizen Kids” who have started foundations, or projects to help others. The 7th-9th grade teens created dialogue around the subject of civil protest and civil discourse. They explored the role the media plays and how it influences public opinion, and how social media can help or hurt conversations around social justice. The morning concluded with a beautiful choral reading of Dr. King’s “I Have a Dream” speech. Dr. King once said, “The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice..” Our students learned and saw real-life role models that exemplify our Jewish tradition of pursuing the path of justice for all.

(From left) Alison Litvin and Ramona Brand pose in front of The Healing Place in Chesterfield County with a large number of donated socks being dropped there. Other stops were made at St. Joseph’s Villa and CARITAS in Richmond. Contributed Photos

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