The Reflector July 2019 by Frederick News-Post

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Volume 67 | Issue 7

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MAKE A DIFFERENCE

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‘She Changed My Life’ ... Sivan/Tammuz 5779

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In an article reflecting on his recent experience during 144 hours visiting the Jewish Community of Zaporizhia, Ukraine, Sam Revenson describes how meeting one woman, Iryna Spirina “changed my life and I changed hers.”

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COMMUNITY CALENDAR

Sen. Mark Warner listens to a comment from Rabbi Yossel Kranz of Chabad of Virginia at the special forum on June 14 at the Weinstein JCC. Looking on are Amanda Braun, JCFR, and Adam Plotkin, JCFR Campaign chair and board member. JCFR Photos

• July 12 | 6:15 p.m. Family Shabbarbeque Congregation Or Atid

• July 21 | 6 p.m. Reel Theology Congregation Or Ami

• July 14 | 2:30 p.m. JCFR Ukrainian Cooking Class Kitchen Thyme

• Through July 14 ‘State of Deception’ Exhibit Virginia Holocaust Museum

• July 17 | 7:30 p.m. ‘The Psychology of Jewish Spirituality’ Kick off of Education Series Keneseth Beth Israel

• Opening July 26 ‘Holocaust by Bullets’ Exhibit Virginia Holocaust Museum

Visit www.jewishrichmond.org for a complete calendar of Jewish community events.

Community leaders meet with Sen. Mark Warner at JCRC Forum; discuss important issues T he Jewish Community Relations Committee of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond was pleased to welcome Sen. Mark Warner to the Weinstein JCC for a discussion on several topics of importance to the Jewish community. About 20 community leaders were present at the gathering on Friday afternoon, June 14 to hear, speak with and ask questions of the U.S. Senator and former Virginia governor. The group included five Rabbis. Amy Melnick-Scharf, JCRC co-

chair, welcomed the attendees and introduced Warner. The four areas of focus included the Jewish communities’ intent on eradicating anti-Semitism and racism, ensuring the safety of our community in light of recent events, support of a democratic and strong State of Israel, and charitable giving with the newly formed tax bills having been put into place. Warner addressed these issues and more including speaking about threats of the anonymity of the internet,

suggesting a conversation should be had on privacy and identity validation on the internet. He also spoke about his concerns with the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions Movement, adding that support of Israel is not, and should not become, a partisan issue. Warner responded to questions and comments from the community leaders with a number of them focused on antiSemitism, hate crimes and safety of the Jewish community in particular.

For More on JCRC See Page 4 or reach out to JCFR Community Relations Director Andrew Fishman at (804) 545-8626 or afishman@jewishrichmond.org

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Daniel Staffenberg Chief Executive Officer Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

ur Federation recently celebrated its 84th year of building, sustaining and inspiring Jewish life. As we held our Annual Meeting, we welcomed new volunteer leadership, said thank you to those who had served our community so generously and honored four individuals for their special and noteworthy contributions to the community. The Neil November Distinguished Community Service Award recognized Franklin Wolf for his decades of service to many organizations in the community. The William B. Thalhimer Sr. and Sam E. and Virginia V. Binswanger Young Leadership awards were presented to Elliot Warsof and Robyn Galpern and our President’s Award was given to Howard Goldfine for his efforts as chair of the Allocations and Funding Committee. Each of the honorees was extremely deserving and they elevate us and our community each day

through their leadership and hard work. They represent the best of us, and the great thing is they are not alone. We have so many wonderful and dedicated people in our community who give their time and resources in support of our sacred mission. Our success and growth this year really did take a village. Thanks to our volunteers and professionals, this year was a special one for the Federation and our community. • Our Fundraising exceeded $3 million, welcoming over 100 new donors, raising additional dollars to fund Honeymoon Israel, enhance participation in Jewish overnight camps and enhance our overseas connections with Jews in Ukraine and Israel. • We updated and expanded our funding and allocations model, welcoming four new agencies to our Federation family in JELF, the Jewish Education Loan Fund; Friendship Circle,

One week in Zaporizhia Editor’s Note: Sam Revenson is a member of the Federation’s Israel and Overseas Committee and was co-chair of the Men’s Division of the Annual Campaign. He visited Zaporizhia, Ukraine, in May. This article reflects on his “life-changing” experience. By Sam Revenson ur community has a valuable partnership in a part of the world that many of our families originated from prior to immigrating to America. Today, in Ukraine we are participating, with JCFR as our local catalyst, in an ever-growing partnership with the Jewish Community of Zaporizhia (Zaporizhzhya). Through an exciting initiative of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, each of us can participate in the rebirth and restoration of the Eastern European Jewish Community. This is a powerful opportunity to pay it forward to our past generations. For me, this has become a project to fully embrace. So I could better understand and accelerate this further for Richmond a deep dive commitment was needed. At the end of this past May, more than 144 hours on the ground were devoted to seeing firsthand, meeting and living with the people, and becoming a part of the Jewish Community of Zaporizhia. There were deep and meaningful conversations with all ages, organizations, stakeholders, professional staff, and lay leaders. This

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included users of each of the support services we help fund every year through our volunteer and financial participation with JCFR. Permit me to share just one of the experiences. During a home visit with a family who was literally rescued from war and relocated to Zaporizhia, it became apparent that their challenges are beyond our everyday understanding. They have little income which comes from the father. They are truly dependent on their local JFS and JCC for services. In our warm conversation, I learned that mom has a talent and capacity that could provide income while supplying items for us to feel that much more connected. She hand creates beautiful Ukrainian embroidery of the highest quality, just as naturally as our great grandparents would. However, she did not have confidence in herself or any understanding of how to convert her efforts directly into family income. Spontaneously, I became her first customer. She received more money in hand than ever could be hoped for. In return I have a tangible connection to my heritage and world Jewry. (See picture on front page and above.) She changed my life and I was able to change hers. As a community we can do the same for her and many others in

Kehilla, and the College of William and Mary Hillel and expanding our impact and support of local Synagogues. • In the aftermath of the deadliest attack on Jewish life in American history, and growing anti-Semitism worldwide, we gathered together in solidarity and worked to pro-actively secure our community, funding over $29,000 in security services at Synagogues and agencies. We continue today to take steps to secure our community. Our Executive Committee recently approved the hiring of a Regional Security Director. This action is in partnership with SCN, the Secure Community Network, the recognized leader for securing the American Jewish Community. This will allow us to bring professional, highly trained security leadership to Richmond and our Why ... Because of ... More on page 4

our former homeland in Eastern Europe prior to the Holocaust. All while going about our lives during the course of any year when seeking beautiful, useful, and meaningful gifts for others for holidays and life cycle events. A project going forward is to give you the same opportunities of purchasing the highest quality handmade goods in the tradition of our grandparents and great grandparents. These will be available locally and will directly and immediately change the lives of our Ukrainian ‘cousins’. For more information about this or any other details about our Zaparozhia partnership, please contact Sara Rosenbaum at JCFR to make arrangements. Sara is the JCFR community coordinator for the many initiatives with our partner Jewish Community in Zaparozhia. She can be reached at srosenbaum@ jewishrichmond.org. One last amazing discovery: they have created what they call a Ukrainian Ethnic Village outside of the city. It feels like and is as close as one could possibly experience to being in the community of Anatevka from Fiddler on the Roof ! As you read this, in July, we have two Madrachim – Uliana Khomenko and Yelizaveta Pedash here in Richmond. They will spend most of July learning and volunteering at the Weinstein JCC’s Camp Hilbert. They will return home to share all they have learned to continue to build a stronger and more vibrant Jewish

Sam Revenson with Iryna Spirina in her apartment in Zaporizhia, Ukraine, during a social work home visit with the family’s JFS staff. They are holding up one finger to indicate the first sale of the woman’s Ukrainian embroidery to Revenson. JDC currently pays 100 percent of the rent for the apartment. Contributed Photo

community in Zaporizhia. There are a few programs for you to meet with them before they depart at the end of the month. Join us for a special cooking lesson with our visitors on Sunday, July 14, at 2:30 p.m., at Kitchen Thyme. For more information on this community program, see page 7. Editor’s Note: While our Annual Campaign supports our on-going work in the FSU, there are still many unmet needs. If you would like to support these needs, please consider a gift to the Federation’s Zaporozhye Fund in honor of Mark Sisisky, who will become international President of JDC in December. All donations will support the unmet needs in Zaporozhye.

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Jewish Community Relations Committee

The Immorality of the BDS Movement

Stephanie Hausner of the Israel Action Network speaks to a gathering of more than 175 community members at Keneseth Beth Israel on May 21. The program was sponsored by the Federation’s Jewish Community Relations Committee. JCFR Photos

(From left) Guest speaker Stephanie Hausner talks with Joan Ruby and Beverley Soble following her presentation.

Andrew Fishman Director Jewish Community Relations Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

tephanie Hausner of the Israel Action Network addressed our community on the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement and what can be done to combat it at Keneseth Beth Israel on May 21. Inspired by her excellent presentation, I want to expand on some of the points she made. The BDS movement is immoral because it places the entire blame for

the failed peace process on the Israelis, when it fact the Palestinian leadership and its people rejected at least three peace proposals that would have ended the socalled “occupation.” The BDS leadership have been consistent in its “nos:” No peace, no negotiation, no recognition. In addition, many BDS leaders do not believe in the concept of Israel as the nation state of the Jewish people. Indeed, one of the top BDS leaders, Marwan Barghouti, has repeatedly expressed his opposition to Israel’s right to exist as the nation state of the Jewish people even within the 1967 borders.

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central Virginia community including the Peninsula, Charlottesville and Petersburg. This is a critical step for our community and I am proud Federation has made this investment. • Our outreach and engagement efforts continue to make an impact on Jewish life and connections throughout Greater Richmond through our Richmond Coalition for Jewish Education, Camp Sababa and PJ Library. More than 320 children receive PJ Library books, creating meaningful Jewish experiences in homes. Research has shown that 68 percent of PJ Library families sought out or attended other Jewish programs, helping to make that personal connection with our community. • Strengthening our connection with the people of Israel has always been a key priority for Federation. This year we more than doubled our participation in exchange programs with our Partnership2Gether

region of Hadera, Israel. We built a nuanced and deep understanding of Israel for Christian neighbors on our Interfaith Journey V. We welcomed the award-winning Richmond Ballet Minds in Motion program to two schools in Hadera; one Arab and one Israeli, creating opportunities for friendship and cooperation. • Thanks to you we were there to support Israelis living in the face of terror. Families like Avi’s, who is an eight-year old from Sderot. Thanks to our support of The Jewish Agency’s Fund for the Victims of Terror Richmond played a crucial role in alleviating the suffering for those living under the constant threat of terror. We provided immediate and longterm financial and emotional assistance to Israeli families affected by terrorism. During the summer as rockets and fire kites fell, our Federation helped Avi and 10 others like him, join over 300 children take

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There can be no negotiation with BDS since it is unwilling to accept Israel’s very existence. Furthermore, BDS detracts and obscures the fact that Israel is the freest and most democratic nation in the Middle East. Indeed, Israel’s Arab citizens enjoy more rights than Arabs anywhere else in the world. They serve in the Foreign Service, the Judiciary, and the Knesset. They are free to criticize Israel and support its enemies. Anyone can express dissatisfaction with Israel in the courts and the media. Such freedom does not exist in any Arab country. Yet Israel is the only country in the world today being threatened by BDS. The facts reflect that when a sanction is directed against the only country with one of the best records for human rights, and it happens to be the state of the Jewish

people, bigotry and anti-Semitism. Similarly, the BDS movement is immoral because it seeks to direct the world’s attention away from far greater injustices, including genocide. Focusing disproportionately on Israel means the human rights community pays less attention to other crises areas, such as those in China, Russia and Turkey. Humanitarian disasters, such as those occurring in Syria, are ignored in favor of targeting Israel. For these reasons, and many others, we must continue to fight the BDS movement at every turn, and do our best to secure Israel’s peace and prosperity. For more information on BDS and other issues the JCRC is following, reach out to me at afishman@jewishrichmond.org or (804) 545-8626.

a break from the chaos surrounding their lives to attend a respite camp that eased their nerves and lifted their spirits. They wouldn’t have attended without your support of Federation’S efforts. • Aviva also benefitted from our work this year. Aviva is just one of the thousands of people whose life you touch and support across Eastern Europe and Former Soviet Union, where 90,000 Jews live in desperate conditions, some on as a little as $2 a day. You are Aviva’s sign of hope. Our partner, the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee ( JDC) has been on the ground in the former Soviet Union for decades. They are our hands to care for the region’s elderly Jews, even when the majority of the world didn’t even know they existed. That is the power of our system, one gift to the Federation Annual Campaign touches lives and makes impact far beyond what we imagined. • And what about Avital? Avital is our future, a vibrant and growing 18-month old girl living with her family in Short Pump. Federation is working today to be sure that Avital’s tomorrow is rich with

Jewish life and community. Together with our agencies and Synagogues, we are building sustainable and vibrant programs, connections and gateways; ensuring that everyone in our community feels welcomed and supported. Knowing that Avital is our future, we are building a bedrock for her by securing new legacy gifts for the community. We are helping to train the next generation of Jewish leadership through our leadership programs, and support of BBYO, Jewish Student Union and 7 Hillel’s across the state. We work today, so that when Avital is ready to lead, our community is ready for her. Whether our 84th year was your first being involved with Federation, or your 50th, THANK YOU! Our community is what it is because of our commitment to the values of caring and support. We are honored that you share those values and join us in our sacred mission. Looking forward to an amazing year ahead! To reach out to me, email daniel@ jewishrichmond.org. www.JewishRichmond.org

Information session held on 85th Anniversary Mission to Israel

ore than 100 community members attended a special Information Session on the JCFRâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Community Mission to Israel at the Weinstein JCC on May 21. The Sherry Rose Mission is set for April 21-30, 2020. The chairs are Stuart and Dawn Siegel, Jay and Lynn Schwartz and Brian and Ruth Greene. During the session, Jay and Lynn and Brian and Ruth reviewed the highlights of the 9-day itinerary via slides and handouts. Information packets were distributed and questions were answered. For details, see the Community Mission to Israel advertisement on the back page. For more information and reservations, contact Ellen Moncure at (804) 545-8625 or emoncure@jewishrichmond.org. The Sherry Rose Memorial Fund of Richmond Jewish Foundation and the JCFR are providing a substantial subsidy for the cost of this mission.

Lynn and Jay Schwartz present highlights of part of the Community Mission to Israel during the Information Session on May 21 at the Weinstein JCC. Ruth and Brian Greene also spoke about other aspects of the planned Mission set for April 21-30, 2020. JCFR Photo.

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PJ Library Richmond: Here’s what’s coming next Sunday, Sept. 22, 1-4 p.m. A Trip to Carter Mountain osh Hashana is coming, and we all know what that means … apples and honey! Join PJ Library Richmond and Network JCFR for a trip to Carter Mountain in Charlottesville where families will have the opportunity to gather with new and old PJ Library friends, hand-pick their own sack of apples for Rosh Hashana, and share a special PJ Library story time while snacking on Carter Mountain’s famous cider doughnuts. More information will follow in the August Reflector and via Facebook and JCFR e-news. Coming soon Are you a new mom or dad looking to meet other new parents in the Richmond Jewish community? How about a monthly or quarterly “Snore and Snuggle” (i.e. a play date for the severely sleep-deprived and their brand new, snuggly bundles of joy)? Would you like to get involved in PJ Library? We are always looking for committee members and event volunteers, donations for programming and special projects, and new munchkins to spoil. Reach out to Mary Brown at the Federation to learn more and if you would like to be a part of the magic. Currently, 325 families in Richmond are receiving PJ books each month. PJ Library is a program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, and the Harold Grinspoon Foundation is a funder of the PJ Library program in the Greater Richmond community. To find out more on joining in the fun, contact Mary Brown at mbrown@jewishrichmond.org or (804) 545-8660

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Are you New, Newish? Or a Richmonder in a new phase

n Thursday, Sept. 12, 5:30-7 p.m., join those new or newish to Richmond or some “old-time” Richmonders for a Shalom Richmond Newcomers event in the Israel November Auditorium at the Weinstein JCC, 5403 Monument Ave. Come, relax and schmooze, and meet representatives from local Jewish agencies, Synagogues, organizations and the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. We would especially like to invite any community members who might be entering a new phase in their lives such as parenthood, becoming an empty-nester, or retiring and looking for new opportunities or resources in the local Jewish community? The Shalom Richmond Newcomers program, sponsored by the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, is designed to help introduce people to the various programs and services available in Jewish Richmond. If you know someone who is new to the community, contact the Federation office so we can ensure they receive an invitation to the event. For more information or to RSVP, contact Mary Brown at (804) 545-8660 or mbrown@jewishrichmond.org.

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Network JCFR hosts LGBTQ/Ally Havdalah N

etwork JCFR took a trip to The Tottering Teacup in Carytown for a LGBTQ/Ally Havdalah on June 1. Many a macaron were eaten, delicious teas were sipped, and participants took home small cinnamon and clove spice bags. The group was joined by Rabbi Ahuva Zaches of Congregation Or Ami and Cantor Sarah BeckBerman of Congregation Beth

Ahabah, who led the ceremony and songs for a wonderful evening of celebration. While “Havdalah” may mean “separation,” it was certainly a great evening to be together. To get involved with future Network JCFR events, contact Amanda Braun at the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond at abraun@jewishrichmond. org or (804)545-8621.

(From left) Rabbi Ahuva Zaches and Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman lead the LGBTQ/Ally Havdalah on June 1 at The Tottering Teacup. JCFR Photo

Young professionals enjoy a ‘scoop’ for Shavuot N

(From left) Kathleen Murphy, Jackie Tissiere, Victoria Sheridan, Danny Melkonovitzky and Shannon Spiggle enjoy the patio looking out on Strawberry Street at Scoop RVA. JCFR Photos

etwork JCFR celebrated Shavuot’s wellloved dairy-traditions in style at Scoop RVA on Strawberry Street. Everyone had a chance to choose their top three flavors as a delicious ice cream flight, along with a choice of cookies on top. The weather was perfect on Thursday evening, June 13, for frozen treats, as the group mingled on the 2nd floor patio space above the shop. Scoop RVA, owned by Morgan Botwinick, has taken part on a Jewish Community Federation of Richmond Enterprise Circle

panel featuring Jewish, female restaurateurs in Richmond. For more information about Network JCFR, a social group for Jewish young professionals, contact Amanda Braun at abraun@jewishrichmond.org or (804) 545-8621. All community members are invited on Sunday, July 14, 2:30 p.m. for our Community-wide Ukrainian Cooking Class at Kitchen Thyme! Kitchen Thyme is located at 7801 West Broad St., Suite 25, in the Olde Town Shopping Center, Henrico.

Some of the ice cream frozen treats enjoyed by the group.

Young professionals network at the recent event.

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Weinstein JCC Happenings

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efferson Lakeside Country Club was the place to be on Monday, June 3 as Beth Sholom Community, Jewish Family Services and the Weinstein JCC hosted the 22nd Annual Jewish Community Golf Classic. The event, co-chaired by Ronnie Adolf and Nathan Shor and sponsored by SIL Insurance, a TowneBank Subsidiary and UNIDINE, welcomed more than 100 golfers for a day of golf and giving back. The golfers couldn’t have asked for more perfect weather as they engaged in some friendly competition to benefit

the missions of the organizations. With the continued support of the sponsors and players, these three Jewish agencies can expand existing services and develop new programs to meet the increasing needs of our community. Tommy Jackson, Luke Parker, Eddie Pearson and Laurenso Williams claimed victory as the overall tournament champions representing Gumenick Properties! Congrats! For information on next year’s tournament, contact Jennifer Adams at (804) 545-8659 or jadams@weinsteinjcc.org.

(From left) The winning foursome at the annual Jewish Community Golf Classic,

representing Gumenick Properties, are Laurenso Williams, Tommy Jackson, Eddie Pearson and Luke Parker. Weinstein JCC Photos

(From left) The longtime Jewish Golf Classic Team of Steve Biegler, Jay Schwartz, Ronnie Adolf and Danny Jackson pose wearing one of their distinctive outfits during the June 3 event.

Golfers practice their putts as they warmed up for a perfect day of golf at this year’s tournament at Jefferson Lakeside Country Club.

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2019-20 Arts & Culture Season Brings Stories and people Together

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et ready for a robust season of arts and entertainment bringing culture and community together! Exciting plans are being made for the upcoming 2019-20 season of arts and culture at the Weinstein JCC. In addition to the premier Patrons of the Arts subscription series, our arts and culture programming will be expanding its reach to further connect and engage with our diverse Jewish and Richmond communities. There will be something for everyone as we celebrate the stories that make up our peoplehood through theater and art, films, speakers, music and even comedy. Some of our signature events include an evening of cabaret featuring Natan Berenshtyn and Deb Clinton in September, a tribute to Leonard Bernstein with stories told by his daughter, Jamie, along with songs performed by Broadway actress,

Alexandra Silber in January, a night of comedy in March and Violins of Hope, a chamber music concert with the Richmond Symphony playing restored violins recovered from the Holocaust in May. A full listing of arts + culture programs will be available online at weinsteinjcc.org by Aug. 1. Subscriptions and sponsorships are now available. Subscriptions reflect a 20 percent discount on individual tickets bought and the opportunity to purchase additional tickets at a discounted rate. Depending on the subscription level, subscribers may also receive reserved seats to signature events and invitations to pre and postevent receptions and “meet and greet” events. Contact Leslie McGuigan at lmcguigan@weinsteinjcc.org for more information on how you can subscribe today! The Weinstein JCC is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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Hadassah Happenings

Hadassah has successful L’Chaim to Life celebration H adassah Richmond had a successful L’Chaim to Life event on June 13 at the beautiful Dominion Payroll in Scott’s Addition. Many Life Members were honored and enjoyed being together on a beautiful summer evening. The event was chaired by the motherand-daughter team of Hedy Lapkin and Nannette Shor. Under their leadership and their amazing committee, guests were treated to the music of Susan Greenbaum, a delicious Israeli dinner, a fashion show and an informative talk from Hadasit CEO Tamir Raz, who came from Israel to speak about bringing lifesaving drugs

and innovations from the lab to the marketplace. Aliza Bricklin, president of Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region was also in town and addressed the guests. Nannette Shor summed up the evening, “We were so happy to have over 140 Hadassah supporters gather together to share the evening. It was a tribute to all our Life Members! We raised over $10,000, which will support medical research and development, benefiting people across the globe.”

Guest speaker Tamir Raz speaks about Hadasit at the special event.

Mother and daughter chairs of the Hadassah L’Chaim Event – Nannette Shor and Hedy Lapkin welcome Hadassah members and guests at the gathering. Contributed Photos

Longtime Hadassah life members (from left) Halina Zimm, Inge Horowitz, Amy Krumbein and Joan Ruby share conversation.

Guests were provided wonderful entertainment by the amazing Susan Greenbaum.

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Hadassah upcoming programs Hadassh Lunch and Learn: July 30 ome to Hadassah Richmond’s summer Lunch and Learn, Tuesday, July 30, from noon-1:30 p.m. to hear from Jane Duke-Cooke from American Family Fitness. She will speak about what proper technique in exercise can do to help and give better quality of life. She will also address healthy aging-joints, flexibility, balance, stamina, pain and more. Duke-Cooke is accredited with the National Academy of Sports and is a Medicine Certified Personal Trainer having battled many surgeries and what life throws at you she is well Jane Duke-Cooke experienced in her field. For information, contact mtrownsell@aol.com. Hadassh Book n July 28 at 1 p.m., the Hadassah Book Club will discuss “Eternal Life” by Dara Horn at the Weinstein JCC. What would it really mean to live forever? Rachel is a woman with a problem: she can’t die. Her recent troubles� are only the latest in a litany spanning dozens of countries, scores of marriages, and hundreds of children. She’s tried everything to free herself, and only one other person in the world understands: a man she once loved passionately, who has been stalking her through the centuries, convinced they belong together forever. Read ahead for Sept. 8 – “Leaving Lucy Pear” by Anna Solomon. Chosen as a must-read book by “TIME Magazine,” “InStyle,” “Good Housekeeping,” the “Minneapolis Star Tribune” and “BookPage.” Set in 1920s New England, it is the story of two women who are both mothers to the same unforgettable girl. For more details, email deborah.cohen2468@gmail.com.

Hadassah new member event

Hadassah Richmond was pleased to welcome 30 new and potential members to our New Member Program evening at Baggio. Leslie Baron, chapter president, shared her passion about Hadassah and Herbert Jones from Nordstrom shared his expertise in making powerful women look like the powerful women they are. The “model” in the photo having the makeover is Aliza Asher. Hadassah Photo

SAVE THE DATE Join Hadassah Richmond when we welcome Hadassah Charlottesville for “A Day at the Museum,” Sunday, Oct. 6. Our premier partnership with Virginia Holocaust Museum will bring an amazing day of speakers, learning, and friendship with our Hadassah friends from Charlottesville and Richmond. More details to follow For information, contact Elaine Ragone talk2el@aol.com, or Claudia Biegler claudiabiegler@gmail.com for more information.

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Beth Sholom Happenings

Beth Sholom is proud to introduce our home health company, Generations Home Health--a full-service home health company. This addition to our services strengthens our mission to provide compassionate and comprehensive healthcare. In-home care provides the assistance and support system a family needs!

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(From left) Gini Bonnell and Robin Abbott, administrator of The Woods. Contributed Photos Beth Sholom Lifecare Community

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Gini Bonnell brings kindness to Beth Sholom Woods I

(From left) The Beth Sholom Team at the Golf Classic on June 3 – Rick Gary, David Stein, Mo Funk and Stephen Webb.

eth Sholom was proud to once again be a part of the 22nd Annual Jewish Community Golf Classic on June 3 at the Jefferson Lakeside Golf Club. Thank you to all who sponsored, participated and volunteered in this

year’s event! More than 100 golfers participated. A special thank you to Unidine Corporation, which donated and catered lunch, dinner and snacks for the tournament!

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n the winter of 2017, Gini Bonnell became displeased with all of the negative news she was hearing and seeing in the world. She decided to take matters in her own hands and create a personal message and display it in her yard reminding people to “Be Kind” to each other … that was the beginning! What started as a single sign and message, has multiplied into a worldwide “Be Kind” campaign. You can now find her signs in schools, public buildings, offices, neighborhoods and more! To date over 4300 signs have been distributed! We were honored to have her visit and share her story with the Beth Sholom Woods residents on June 6. She returned the following week to help the residents paint their own signs to distribute and spread the kindness around.

“I was so pleased to witness the impact Gini and her message had on our residents,” stated Robin Abbott, administrator for The Woods Independent Living. “The conversations generated by these two powerful words, BE KIND, were thought provoking. We all had such fun trying to name all the places they would like to see signs posted. The presentation and the paint party were a great success. We appreciate Gini sharing her message with us.” Thank you Gini Bonnell for reminding us to Be Kind! For information on Beth Sholom activities, call (804) 750-2183 or visit bethsholomliving.com. Beth Sholom is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. www.JewishRichmond.org

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things she loved, so she called JFS Home Care. Vera, JFS Nursing director, came over and assessed Patricia’s needs and soon after Dorothy started. Paige knew her mom would be hesitant having a caregiver so at first they told her that Dorothy was there to help around the house. But within a week, Patricia would turn to Dorothy before she left in the evenings and say “See you tomorrow! You’re coming back tomorrow, right?!” Dorothy had engaged her, taking her on outings and

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establishing routines. Patricia had a companion and Paige had peace of mind. Paige explained, “What they don’t tell you is how the caregiver becomes a part of your family. They know the good and the bad. Dorothy knows what triggers my mom and how to calm her down.” She continued, “It’s really helpful to have an outsider’s view. My whole goal for my mom was ensuring her safety, happiness and health for whatever time she has left. Dorothy did just that

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and now I go to work feeling safer.” Paige knew it was time to call JFS when she saw her mom stop doing things she loved. If you’re wondering the right time to ask for help, call JFS at 804-282-5644 to set an appointment to meet with one of our nurses. For more on JFS services, visit www. jfsrichmond.org. Jewish Family Services is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and a programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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RTA Happenings

RTA Principal Rabbi Yosef Bart presents Chesed Award to Avery Lynn.

(Center) Avery Lynn and his wife, Terry, with (from left) son-in-law Yonatan and daughter, Marlena Cantor; and daughter Rebecca and son, Zachary. Asher Najer Photography

RTA honors Avery Lynn with Chesed Award M

ore than 160 people turned out on June 4 for Rudlin Torah Academy’s annual Chesed Award Celebration at the Weinstein JCC, as RTA honored Avery Lynn with the Chesed Award. The community’s respect and affection for Avery were apparent throughout the evening, but the man himself stole the show: After coming to the podium to accept the award, he said, “I’ll be right back,” and disappeared behind the stage curtains. Several suspenseful minutes later he emerged, having changed from a sportcoat and dress pants to shorts and a T-shirt – which he wears in all weather and all situations -- and the audience erupted in laughter. Rabbi Yosef Bart, principal of RTA, noted that Avery’s impact on the community is incalculable. Beyond his work for organizations like RTA or the JCC, Avery is always ready to help people, including complete strangers. Since the award was announced, Rabbi Bart said, many people had come forward to tell him how Avery had helped them in one way or another. “And what about all the people Avery Lynn has helped that we don’t even know about?” he said. “This honor is long overdue.” Avery, typically modest, said, “People ask me how I got into this business. I always say, ‘I had a strong back and a weak mind.’” Owner of Designer Deliveries, Avery has been involved with the Weinstein JCC, Jewish Family Services, the Richmond Jewish Community Federation, the Jewish Food Festival and many other organizations and events. He is a past www.JewishRichmond.org

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board member of RTA and current board member at KBI. He received the ABCD (Above and Beyond the Call of Duty) Award in 2003 from RTA for his volunteer efforts, which included everything from running bingo games to removing wasp’s nests from the gym. He also was instrumental in the Russian refugee resettlement program in Richmond in the 1980s and 1990s, and sponsored the teen lounge at the JCC. He and his wife, Terry, have three children, Marlena, Zachary and Rebecca, all of whom attended RTA. RTA also honored Susan Press with Rabbi Yosef Bart presents an ABCD Award to the ABCD (Above and Beyond the Call Rabbi Yosef Skaist. of Duty) Award for her volunteer efforts at the school, and Rabbi Yosef Skaist and administrative assistant Lin Hardy with Double YOD (Years of Dedication) Awards for their 20 years of service. Outgoing RTA President Eric Shoenfeld said community leaders like Avery Lynn are important as role models for children. “Our children depend upon us and look up to us,” he said. RTA’s incoming president, David Hecht, concluded the program. For more news about RTA, call (804) 353-1110 or visit www.rudlin.com. Rudlin Torah Academy is supported, in part, by a generous contribution from the Jewish Community Lin Hardy receives the Double YOD Federation of Richmond.

Susan Press receives an ABCD Award from Rabbi Yosef Bart.

Marlena Cantor, daughter of Avery Lynn, delivers the D’Var Torah.

Award from Rabbi Yosef Bart.

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‘We are one - one people, one community’ F our dedicated community members were honored and JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams and CEO Daniel Staffenberg provided key accomplishments and their vision for the future at the Federation’s 84th annual meeting on May 30. Approximately 130 community members attended the gathering at the Weinstein JCC. It featured the presentation of the Neil November Distinguished Community Service Award to Franklin Wolf by Sara Belle November. Robyn Galpern and Elliot Warsof received Young Leadership Awards from General Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin and Howard Goldfine received a President’s Award from Adams. (For more, see Daniel Staﬀenberg’s column on Page 3) In his Invocation, Rabbi Yossel Kranz of the Chabad of Virginia, said, “Thank God there are many worthy organizations to give Tzedakah. We need to look no further than our very own Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. She has been a good and faithful steward of our community’s charity dollars in supporting the disadvantaged locally and beyond, as well as helping to support almost every Jewish organization, institution and Synagogue in the Richmond and surrounding area.” In her opening remarks, Adams said, “We are one - one people, one community. This idea of shared history and destiny is one of our defining characteristics as Jews. We have a peoplehood. We lift each other up and we lean on and support each other. “The Jewish Community Federation of Richmond has spent 84 years committed to these ideals. Caring for each other is the core of who we are as a people. Kol Arevim Ze Baze. All Jews are responsible each for the other. It is you, who through your support of our Campaign, our mission and our programs, share these values and it is what make us strong.” Adams continued, “It has been a year of ups and downs ... no two days were the same. This year has shown me the strength of our community and given me great excitement for the years ahead.” She noted on Oct. 30 more than 2,500 community members gathered

in the Night of Unity at the Weinstein JCC to mourn the deaths of 11 members of the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh. “When they hurt, we hurt.” JCFR achievements included: • Raising over $3 million dollars for our community. • Partnering with Jewish Family Services, the Sisisky Family and Richmond Jewish Foundation to launch the Jewish Care Line. • Instituting a strengthened and refined Allocations and Funding process led by Goldfine; delivering more dollars into the community Adams saluted the Campaign team led by Plotkin and Jill Goldfine, Women’s Division chair; Sam Revenson and Andy Vorenberg, Men’s Division co-chairs; Zach Brenner and Warsof, co-chairs, Young Leadership as well as Dan Siegel and Nannette and Nathan Shor, leaders of the Federation’s Life and Legacy effort. In remarks honoring Wolf, she said, “The Neil November Distinguished Community Service Award recognizes those who have provided our community with leadership, care and vision over many years - individuals who serve as models of understanding, thought and respect ... that definition speaks perfectly to the qualities of Franklin Wolf, who is truly a backbone of our community.” She continued, “He is rarely in the spotlight or out front, but is always involved and contributing to the success. There are few institutions in our community where Franklin has not made a difference. His leadership has had a significant impact in our community.” Adams asked Sara Belle November to come forward to present the award named for her husband of blessed memory. In his review of the Federation accomplishments, Staffenberg noted, “Our community is stronger because Ellen Renee leads it, and our Federation is grateful for your leadership ... and to our JCFR professional team, ... you inspire us every day with your hard work, dedication and commitment. We are blessed to have so many talented and dedicated individuals working on our behalf.” Staffenberg said the team identi-

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Franklin Wolf holds the Neil November Distinguished Community Service Award presented by Sara Belle November at the Annual Meeting. He is joined by Federation CEO Daniel Staffenberg and President Ellen Renee Adams for a photograph after the presentation. Photos by Adrienne Lehman Epstein.

Elliot Warsof receives The William B. Thalhimer Sr. Young Leadership award from Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin.

Robyn Galpern receives the Sam E. and Virginia V. Binswanger Young Leadership award from Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin.

fied key priorities when he joined as CEO in January 2018 including raising the resources needed to support and sustain our community, connecting Richmond to Israel and Global Jewry, creating a welcoming, secure and connected community for all and to drive collaborative initiatives to secure our community today and in the future. “And the truth is, we have accomplished a great deal.” He listed a number these: • Strengthening connections with political leaders by hosting meetings with federal, state and local officials and welcoming a record

crowd to Virginia Advocacy Day. • Redoubling fundraising efforts around relationship building, with agencies, Synagogues, individuals and our general community. “It paid off with new advocates and partnerships throughout our community.” • Taking a leadership role in addressing critical issues for our community including Harassment Prevention Training, LGBTQ outreach and Inclusion. “We continue to work toward our goal of making sure Jewish RVA is open ‘We are one ...’ More on next page

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and accessible to every member of our community.” • Partnering with local agencies to provide high-quality programming, information and education “touching every corner of our community.” • Strengthening our connections with Israel, and doubling our Richmond participation in the Tikkun Olam programming with our Partnership city of Hadera, Israel. • Building a strong partnership with our city of Zaporozhye, Ukraine, further connecting our next generation with Jewish life from around the globe. Staffenberg updated the community members on the steps the Federation is taking with local state and federal law enforcement and school officials as a result of the rising tide of hate and anti-Semitism. “Here, right in our own backyard, we saw the hateful, hurtful graffiti recalling and opening the wounds of our darkest days.” He noted, “In my 20+ plus years as a Jewish communal professional, we have faced a great many challenges. However, never have those challenges been about our core safety and security as a Jewish community. Securing our community has become one of our most critical priorities.” Staffenberg announced the Federation is hiring a regional security director with SCN, the Secure Community Network. “Many communities have benefited from similar efforts and the truth is the security director in Pittsburgh saved lives, and averted what could have been an even greater tragedy. This is a critical step for our community and I am proud that Federation has made this commitment.” He also announced the JCFR is launching a Special Security Fund to help the local agencies, Synagogues and community offset these costs. “The funds will be used to provide lifesaving training and support to offset these growing costs, which today amount to about $250,000 a year.”

Virginia General Assembly Del. Betsy Carr with longtime community leaders (from left) Ric Arenstein and Stuart Siegel. Photos by Adrienne Lehman Epstein.

Howard Goldfine holds President’s Award received from Ellen Renee Adams.

He noted, “Our Federation makes amazing things happen every day, and there is no organization with the depth and breadth of impact we have. We are able to respond at a moment’s notice here in RVA, in Israel or in communities across the globe. We are able to act today, because we were there yesterday and we will be there tomorrow.” He reviewed plans for the Federation’s community-wide 85th Anniversary Mission to Israel next April. “It is going to be an amazing opportunity

(From left) New JCFR board member Josh Goldberg with Eric Shoenfeld, outgoing RTA president. www.JewishRichmond.org

JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams with husband, Louis; (from left) daughter, Jennifer; mother, Weene Lehman and sister, Hilary Bender.

John and Judith Levy with daughter, Shana Passman, and son, Bram. Judith Levy is a new JCFR board member.

for our community, and it will also be a ton of fun.” New board members installed included Rhona Arenstein, Phyllis Ellenbogen, Josh Goldberg, Shelley Gouldin, Judith Levy, Clare Sisisky and Richard Thalhimer. Board members who concluded their service included Geri Adler, Marvin Daniel, Roger Loria, Andy Vorenberg and Cheri Yochelson. In addition, returning officers and other board members were installed including Adams. Adams concluded, “Our commu-

(From left) New board member Clare Sisisky with Sandy Sisisky, the new JFS president.

nity is exciting, strong and caring. Together we can be even better. Thank you for being a link in our chain. May we go from strength to strength.” Editor’s note. On May 30, the Federation launched the Security Relief Fund. Your contribution will directly support the safety and preparedness of our local Jewish agencies and Synagogues. To make a donation, visit: https://jewishrichmond.org/make-a-donation To view more photos from the Annual Meeting, visit www.facebook.com/ JCFRichmond

(From left) Weinstein JCC President Sara Villalona with new board member Shelley Gouldin, a former Center president.

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Synagogue Happenings

Beth Ahabah finds time capsule from 1957, seals a new one I

n the fall of 2017, the façade of Congregation Beth Ahabah’s Barbara and William B. Thalhimer, Jr. Religious School was demolished to facilitate construction of its new integrated campus. The contractors and staff were surprised to discover a time capsule hidden behind the cornerstone. The time capsule, a 12” x 12” x 4” soldered copper box, had been concealed for 62 years since a cornerstone laying ceremony on June 2nd , 1957. On June 7, 2019 at the end of the Shabbat service, Billy Thalhimer III opened the capsule. He and B’not Mitzvah Anna Clark and Mia Carty, revealed the contents. These included 2 books, “Three Score and Twenty: a Brief Biography of Edward Nathan Calisch” with selected addresses and sermons and “The Light Burns On 1841 1891 1941” by Dr. Edward N. Calisch, about Beth Ahabah’s Centennial. Rabbi Calisch served the congregation from 1891 to 1945; the Religious school building was named in his honor. Also in the capsule were a program from the 1957 ceremony, the program from the 1957 Confirmation

Service, a Mezuzah and a report entitled “Through the Years: a Study of the Richmond Jewish Community in 1955.” There was also a picture of the 1957 cornerstone laying ceremony featuring a young Billy Thalhimer, III, Joan Arenstein and Sally Forb. Links to PDFs of the books and images of the other items can be found on Beth Ahabah’s website. A new time capsule was sealed at the dinner following the service. Contributions for the new capsule where solicited from the entire congregation. Dozens of sealed archival envelopes were received and a scroll with hundreds of signatures from religious school students and congregants was also placed in the new capsule, which is to be opened in 2069. Some items put in included a complete membership list, a book about the Beth Ahabah Sanctuary and Congregational history, a Mezuzah,

A photograph of the Beth Ahabah cornerstone laying ceremony on June 2, 1957. Pictured (from left) are Billy Thalhimer lll, Joan Arenstein and Sally Forb. The photo had been placed in the 1957 Time Capsule that was discovered and opened in 2019. Beth Ahabah Museum and Archives.

last year’s “Learning Opportunities” booklet and a photograph from the dedication of the new building featuring Rabbi Scott M. Nagel, Rabbi Emeritus Martin P. Beifield Jr., Rabbi Emeritus Dr. Jack D. Spiro, Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman and Cantor Emerita Frances T. Goldman.

More than 120 diners watched as the new time capsule was filled and blessed by Cantor Beck-Berman and sealed by Congregational President Charley Scher. For more on Beth Ahabah events, call (804) 358-6757.

The 2019 Time Capsule to be opened in 2069.

Pictured are the contents of the 1957 Time Capsule found behind the cornerstone of the Beth Ahabah Religious School building. Beth Ahabah photos

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(Right) Former Or Atid president Margo Shayne congratulates Incoming President Lynn Landesman. Or Atid Photos

Rich Weimer, outgoing president receives a gift of a Shofar from new President Lynn Landesman.

Or Atid students create Prayer Flags. Or Atid Photos

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t’s summer vacation! The sun is shining, the pools are open, and surely school is the first thing on everyone’s’ minds. The Kornblau Religious School wrapped up the 2018-2019 school year with a family BBQ, celebrating students, teachers, and an amazing school year. Students also celebrated Mother’s Day together the day before the BBQ, preparing cards, personalizing vases, and arranging floral bouquets for mom. Students then headed to the kitchen to bake Bourekas, a Middle Eastern hand pie popular in Israel. While students were busy with their gifts, moms had the time to relax together and share stories of the ups and downs of motherhood. Moms had the opportunity to make their own treats for self-pampering, including body and facial sugar scrubs and floral bath teas. It was a wonderful morning that marked the exciting start of the last week of school. The End-of-Year BBQ brought everyone together to conclude the school year as a community. For one final school activity, students participated in the Peace Flag Project, inspired by traditional Tibetan Prayer Flags. These flags highlight the things we want for ourselves, our families, our communities, and the planet. The Tibetan tradition of hanging flags began more than 2,000 years ago and honors the nature gods of Bon. The flags often hung over mountain passes and rivers to benefit everyone who passed underneath. When making the flags, the words and images on the flags reflect wishes for a kinder, gentler world. Flags are made to depict joy, love, and peace. Religious School students blended their Jewish culture with the Peace Flags to create a Jewishly-themed Peace Flag banner, with flags depicting Nefesh, Ruach, and Tikva. As students finished their flags and transitioned from class to the BBQ, all the class artists joined Morah Jeanine to help finish the school mural. Gaps were filled in, and every student had the opportunity to sign their name on the wall. Teachers led field games on the playground and students enjoyed a final game with the school’s new basketball hoop. Families joined their students for a delicious dinner together before teachers announced the Paper Plate Awards. In the prior weeks, teachers assigned each student a winning title, and designed paper plates that reflect each student’s unique award. No two awards were alike! As teachers described each award, there was an excited buzz among students as they whispered among themselves who they thought each recipient would be. So many smiling faces by the end of the day, it An example of Paper was a successful wrap-up to a successful year! Plate award given to Or Atid More on page 20 students.

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(From left) Barry Green presents Harry Kirschbaum with Love of Torah award.

(From left) Sheila Pour presents Sandy Mayer with the Strength of Torah Award.

Or Atid Happenings N ew Executive Committee installed Congregation Or Atid held its annual meeting on Sunday, May 19. Current officers were discharged and new officers were elected and installed. The new Executive Committee is comprised of: President Lynn Landesman, Vice Presidents Sherri Wiener, Missy Bunce, and Jeff Scharf, Secretary Sandy Mayer; Treasurer David Jaffe, and Advisor Rick Wiener. Franklin Levin was elected and installed as a new trustee of the synagogue. Mazel Tov! We thank them all for their willingness to provide leadership to the Congregation and look forward to a successful year. Three congregants were recognized at the annual meeting with special awards for their extraordinary volunteer efforts. Sandy Mayer received the Strength of Torah award,

Harry Kirschbaum received the Love of Torah award, and Ralph Navon received the Deeds of Loving Kindness award. We so appreciate their dedication and endless hours of selfless volunteer service to our synagogue. Family-friendly Shabbarbeques return to Or Atid in July Our popular Shabbarbeques return on Friday, July 12. Members of the greater Richmond community are invited to join us for a casual dinner at 6:15 p.m. followed by familyfriendly services at 7 p.m. led by Rabbi Hal Schevitz. Two other Shabbarbeques will be held on Aug. 16 and Sept. 6. Please contact the Or Atid office at (804) 740-4747 to let us know if you plan to attend. We hope to see you there for a relaxing Shabbat together.

Students receive Paper Plate awards.

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Or Ami happenings in July I f you would like to work on your Hebrew, Rabbi Ahuva Zaches is offering an Intermediate Hebrew class at Or Ami this summer. This class is for anyone who can already pronounce Hebrew letters and vowels and wants to work on comprehension. It will cover the basics of the Hebrew root system, prefixes, and suffixes, leading to understanding the meaning of Hebrew words and sentences, whether in a prayer book, Torah reading, or Hebrew newspaper. The class is open to the greater Richmond community. Tuition is $36 for Or Ami members; $50 for non-members. Classes are held every Tuesday in July and August from 7- 8:30 p.m. beginning July 2 and ending Aug. 27. Register online at https://or-ami.com/ intermediate-hebrew. Religious School The education of our youngest members is an important part of Or Ami. If you find yourself considering Religious School for your children, grandchildren, nieces and/or nephews, ages 2 to 16, for the 2019-2020 academic

year, please note that Congregation Or Ami’s Religious School offers an innovative approach to education. At Or Ami, each grade chooses electives such as art, theater, music, building projects, social action, photography, nature and more. Every lesson is designed to simultaneously encourage Jewish literacy and equip children with practical life skills. Or Ami also offers a Torah Tots program that meets every other Sunday. For more information and to register your student, visit https://or-ami.com/ registration/. Reel Theology Reel Theology will be held Sunday, July 21 at 6 p.m. This event is free, and provides a nice way to meet members of Or Ami and their guests. Please bring a snack to share. There will be a brief discussion following the film. For the film’s title, call the office for details.

Social Action Or Ami is proud of its social action work. Throughout 2019, Central Virginia’s Jewish and Muslim communities have worked together on projects to uplift our communities. Or Ami is participating in a joint effort to assist a program by the Virginia Poverty Law Center called “Virginia Hunger Solutions,” which seeks to end systemic hunger in Virginia through research, education and policy work. Together, VPLC and VHS create an annual, in-depth report on the state of breakfast participation in school divisions and are now working on a report about school meal debt. VHS has successfully advocated to ban lunch shaming in Virginia and is working towards universal school meals for all students in Virginia. The goal is to encourage our community members to contribute $25 each to reach a goal of $2,500 to support this initiative. For more information and to donate go to: http://vahungersolutions.org/hunger-hasno-home-here/ Shabbat Services Please join us for Shabbat services on

Fridays, beginning at 7:30 p.m. After services we host a potluck Oneg, a great way to meet our members. Join us as well for Torah Study Brunch, which is held most Saturdays at 10:30 a.m. Attendees, members and nonmembers, range from college age to our most senior learners. Please bring food items to share while enjoying a lively yet respectful discussion of the Torah portion being studied. All points of view are encouraged. Plus “anything said in Torah Study, stays in Torah Study”. For more information, or to verify the date of the next Torah Study Brunch, please call Or Ami’s office. Congregation Or Ami is located at 9400 West Huguenot Road, Richmond, 23235. At Congregation Or Ami, you can explore how Jewish wisdom, custom and celebration can play a role in your life. Want to know more about Or Ami? Contact us at Belong@Or-Ami. com, check us out at www.Or-Ami.com follow us on Facebook at facebook.com/ OrAmiRichmond, or catch us on Twitter @oramirichmond. We welcome your interest and your inquiries.

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Moms at Or Atid treated to sugar scrubs and floral bath tea. Or Atid

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The completed Or Atid School Mural.

The year has been full of new opportunities and it’s incredible to see how much can be done in a single year! New traditions were established, including The Great Sukkah Race and The Latke CookOff and new programs were introduced, such as the popular Animal Reading Days

and the revival of Jr. Congregation. The school garden was formed, and continues to grow, and the outdoor classroom adds new learning opportunities for students. As we look forward to the next school year, we are seeking a few new teachers to join our faculty. If interested, or if

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your know someone who is dedicated to bringing the joy of Jewish education to our students, contact Alison Litvin, Education coordinator, at relschool@oratid.org. To register your child to attend the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School for the 2019-2020 school year, visit

our website at www.oratid.org/education and fill out the form. Completed forms may be dropped off at the office or sent digitally to relschool@oratid.org. For further information, contact Alison Litvin at relschool@oratid.org, or call the office at (804) 740-4747. www.JewishRichmond.org

(From left) Elizabeth Fitzgerald, chairperson of the KBI Mikvah; Deb Heller, hostess of the event; and Andrea Grinberg, founder and owner of Wrapunzel, pose for a photo. Contributed Photos

Wrapunzel founder speaks to Richmond community

By Yehudis Gruber he KBI Tish Marmorstein Mikvah at the Sharon Jaffa Women’s Community Center brought Andrea Grinberg, owner and operator of Wrapunzel to Richmond May 27. The special event was graciously hosted by Deb Heller and organized by Elizabeth Fitzgerald and Yael Mizrachi. As a way of saying thank you to the Richmond community for four wonderful years, the KBI Mikvah sponsored the event. Headquartered in Baltimore, videos and a website from Wrapunzel reach people from all over the world. Grinberg founded Wrapunzel in 2013, growing her venture that includes the website (http://wrapunzel. com), YouTube Channel with tutorials and a few brick and mortar stores. In addition to building a business, Grinberg has created a vibrant online community connecting people from various religions, backgrounds, and cultures, all unified in mutual respect—

and a love of head wrapping. Her engaging video tutorials d e m o n s t r at e how to practically a c h i e v e beautiful, comfortable style, through wearing various scarves and other adornments She brought beautiful scarves, sashes, headbands (to help keep the scarves securely on the head), and more. Individual hair wrapping help was offered to all. Many items unique to Wrapunzel were on display, such as the Wrapunzel Signature Shaper. During the program, Grinberg shared that hair wrapping for her was about liberation; creative expression. She feels that women unite through head wrapping; that women of many cultures and religions have a tradition Wrapunzel More on page 23

KBI summer education series kicks off July 17 By Rivka Skaist he Tish Marmorstein Mikvah at the Sharon Jaffa Women’s Community Center is excited host an uplifting summer learning series with Jessie Fischbein. The series, entitled “The Psychology of Jewish Spirituality,” will focus on the interplay between human nature, personal struggles, and Judaism. Please join us at Keneseth Beth Israel (6300 Patterson Avenue) for the kick-off class on Wednesday, July 17 at 7:30 p.m. Fischbein will deliver an in-person talk titled “The Manna, The Desert, and the Psychology of Complaining.” A dairy dessert reception will be also served. This kick-off class will be followed by three engaging live webinars: [1] Bilaam, the Sin of the Spies, and Free Will in our Daily Lives [2] Shaul HaMelech and the Torah on Mental Illness and [3] Am

Jessie Fischbein Contributed Photo

Kshei Oref: Teshuva for the Stubborn Jew. For questions or further information, contact Rivka Skaist at rivka.skaist@gmail. com. Thank you to Let’s Give RVA, The Women’s Initiative, and three anonymous donors for sponsoring this series.

Pictured are the many colorful Wrapunzel scarves, sashes, and accessories that were available for purchase at the event. (From left) Yael Mizrachi, (KBI Mikvah Committee member); Hadassah Owusu, Chava Maimon and Elizabeth Fitzgerald (KBI Mikvah chairperson). www.JewishRichmond.org

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Beth-El School happenings

Confirmation class students and Rabbi Michael Knopf gather for a photo while on their class trip. Beth-El Photos

Beth-El school happenings

By Ramona L. Brand Director of Youth Learning Beth-El Religious School Intentional Jewish Education 21st Century Jewish Education Grounded in Tradition! For Grades Pre-K through Confirmation With 110 students, the Brown Religious School at Temple Beth-El is both large enough to be lively and small enough for personalized, warm education! Individualized instruction in our skill level Hebrew program allows students to learn at his/her own level and move fluidly through the program. Our innovative and child centered approach to Jewish learning provides a dynamic environment where Jewish education is joyous, fun, inspiring and spiritual. Our learning takes place both inside our building and in our Nature Center. Music, art, electives, Tzedakah, debate, and experiential based activities challenge our students to deepen their understanding of our Jewish traditions and practice. Our B’nai Mitzvah program includes prayer and trope instructions, Mitzvah projects and personal meetings with the Rabbi and Cantor. Family learning with the clergy is also an integral part of our B’nai Mitzvah program. Most of all, our loving and dedicated teaching team make learning fun! If you are looking for a comprehensive Jewish education in a joyous environment, the Brown Religious School is the place to be! Temple Membership is not required for families with students in grades Pre-K through 2nd grade. Here is the schedule: Pre-K classes for 3 and 4 year olds; twice monthly; Sundays 9 a.m. - noon; Grades K-2: Sundays, 9 a.m. - noon (Wednesday option for 2nd graders; Grades 3-7: Sundays, 9 a.m. noon; Wednesdays, 4:15 - 6:15 p.m.

Grades 8-9: twice monthly; Sundays 10 a. m. - noon; Confirmation; twice monthly’, Sundays, 10:30 a.m. - noon (with Rabbi Knopf). New this year: Optional Wednesday Hebrew class enrollment for 2nd graders (member families only). Easy on-line registration: https://www. bethelrichmond.org/school_enrollment.php Religious School is Hiring Teachers Passionate about Jewish Education? Want to make a difference and an impact? Are you creative? Can you think outside the box when it comes to Jewish education? Come and join our team! Beth-El is seeking teachers with both Hebrew and Judaics skills. Sundays only and Sunday/Wednesday positions are available. For information, contact Ramona at r.brand@bethelrichmond.org Mazel Tov to our 2019 Confirmation Class! Our Confirmation class spent a year in study with Rabbi Michael Knopf, and enjoyed many interesting guest speakers. For their class Mitzvah project, they put together hygiene kits for students at Swansboro Elementary School in Richmond. In March, the class traveled to Washington, D.C., for a day trip that included museums, a discussion with a representative from Bend the Arc and dinner at a Kosher restaurant. Kol Hakavod to our students who led a beautiful service on Friday, May 17. For more information about the Religious School. email r.brand@bethelrichmond. org.

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Spend Hanukkah in Israel! December 15-26, 2019 onsider joining Temple Beth-El on this adult-only gastro trip exploring Israeli Food, Wine, and Art! Led by Rabbi Michael and Adira Knopf, we will explore the region’s unique and delicious cuisine complete with Israeli boutique wines which are internationally recognized for their award-winning taste and quality. When we’re not eating and drinking, we’ll explore Israel’s creative soul. We’ll meet artists, participate in hand-on workshops, and tour iconic sites. For prices and the full itinerary, visit israeltour.com/rknopf.

(From Left/Back Row) Cameron Webne, Cantor Dara Rosenblatt, Rabbi Michael Knopf, Director of Youth Learning Ramona Brand and Parker Morgan; (Middle Row) Grace Hessberg, Millie Buckberg, Morgan Gerson, Madeline Green and Sarah Beller; (Front Row ) Erika Webne, Claudia Sachs, Rebekah Wright and Mara Glock. Contributed Photo www.JewishRichmond.org

NY Day School students find a home away from home in KBI By Yehudis Gruber n May 17-18 (Parashas Emor), 100 students and 12 chaperones from Salanter Akiba Riverdale Academy attended an overnight Sabbath program, or Shabbaton, at Keneseth Beth Israel. The SAR Academy, is a coeducational, private Modern Orthodox Jewish day school in New York City. This is the 4th year that KBI has hosted the SAR Shabbaton. KBI families generously opened their homes to the students and staff, providing weekday and Sabbath hospitality. In addition to participating in the Shabbaton at KBI, the students also enjoyed activities prior to the Sabbath, including rafting, Kings Dominion, bowling, singing, learning, and Davening (praying). When asked about their visit to the Richmond area, the students had many things to say. Rafting was their favorite activity, because of the bonding the situation produced. They loved being outside in the amazing weather while experiencing the incredible rapids. It was fun but not too scary. Other students remarked that they loved Kings Dominion because they enjoyed the rides and having free time to be with their friends.

Adina Steinberg, director of Middle School Programming at Salanter Akiba Riverdale Academy, organized the trip. She shared this about her experience as a staff member: “We love coming out here and being embraced by the warm southern hospitality. KBI members have helped us with such grace. Their generosity does not go unnoticed or unappreciated. Our students enjoy getting to experience and meet a new Jewish community outside their NY orbit. It is a pleasure each year to return to the KBI and to be a part of their warm and loving community” Chava Maimon, a member of KBI, shared her perspective on hosting SAR students: “We enjoy SAR every year—it makes for such a lively and exciting Shabbos! Hosting the girls was a lovely experience; they were so thankful and polite, and we were able to share our varied experiences of living in Richmond and New York.” In addition to hosting, we have had the immense pleasure of helping the school’s supremely nice and generous caterer throughout the weekend the past two years; as a result, we ate Shabbos meals with the school and have been able to get to know the amazing faculty. The whole experience was wonderful.”

Families in Richmond celebrate Lag B’Omer On Thursday, May 23, KBI gathered area families together to celebrate Lag B’Omer at Three Lakes Park in Henrico County. They marked the day by engaging in outdoor sporting activities and enjoying a picnic dinner together. One of the highlights of the night for the children was roasting marshmallows over the bonfire. The event was well attended and truly enjoyed by all. Contributed Photo

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Pictured above are two photographs taken of the children in the Richmond area before the Shabbaton at KBI. Contributed Photos

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of covering their hair in some fashion. She said when she wraps her hair, the tension and sensation of the scarf encircling your head gives a woman a feeling of mindfulness. The speaker also spoke about Judaism and hair covering, recommending women try to impart their wrapping with focused concentration, like a kind of mediation. She encouraged the women to think of one small thing you want to

rectify in the world as you tie your scarves on your head. Thus, the process of wrapping can become a mini session for meditation and mindfulness. She explained the origin of her Wrapunzel: she started recording her tutorials on the internet, to help other women like herself, at the time, who may be struggling with the mechanics of how to create certain looks with scarves by wrapping, tying, and layering.

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Community Happenings

For ALL rising Kindergarten – 6th grade Jewish students Counselor in Training Program for rising 7th & 8th grade Jewish students

August 13-17, 2018 9am-4pm ** NEW EXTENDED TIME

*** LOCATION ***601 N. Parham Rd Richmond VA 23229 – Temple Beth El Religious School

or the 10th summer, join a host of A highlight of the week is when the campers for another fun-filled week campers are joined by Israeli teens visitat Camp Sababa. The registration ing Richmond as part of the Partnerdeadline is July 15. ship2Gether Tikkun Olam Exchange The week-long program is designed program. and run by the Richmond Council for When? This summer, the camp Jewish Education, a committee of the will run from Aug. 12-16. Jewish Community Federation of RichWhere? Temple Beth-El Religious Looking for a fun way for your kids to explore their Jewish roots this summer? Sign up for mond. TheSababa! group For of educators fromyears, all kids School, N. Parham Rich- getting Camp the last seven from 601 all over RichmondRoad, have enjoyed connected to Judaism through gather singing, dancing, the local Synagogues and agencies mond. nature, crafts, drama, and special themes like Jewish Time Travel, Hiking Through Israel, and Color Wars. Our special Israeli Madrichim together put on thistoamazing one-ofEducation and bring to modern Israel our campers. Make sureStaff your?child is in on the directors action! a kind camp each summer. During the teachers from participating schools Sababa is Hebrew slang for “cool,” and Camp Sababa is the coolest way for your children to session, campers explore their Jewish and teen Madrichim from Israel. make new friends over the summer and have fun in a Jewish environment! heritage and Hebrew through different Cost? $125 and July 15 is final For whom? For ALL rising Kindergarten – 6 grade Jewish students themes. deadline; $150Jewish for all 5 days; ; $40 for students Counselor in Training Program for rising 7 & 8 grade the CIT Program. Past themes include Israeli Cities, When? Monday-Friday, August 13-17, 2018 from 9am-4pm For more information or to register Jewish Time Travel and much more. Where? 601 N. Parham Rd Richmond VA 23229 – Temple Beth El Religious School Campers have time for arts and crafts, for this summer, contact Sara Rosenbaum at crafts, (804) 545-8629 or srosengames, cookingTO and meeting Goals? HAVE FUN through friends outdoor activities, music, games, etc. Jewish students from Richmond and make new friends from Israel baum@jewishrichmond.org from differentTo meet congregations andaround Staff?Richmond. Education Directors and teachers from participating schools and teen madrichim around th

Cost?

$125 EARLY BIRD – Registration Deadline April, 1, 2018 $150 for all 5 days final Registration Deadline July 14, 2018 $40 for the CIT Program

March of the Living

For more information, contact your Education Director or Sara Rosenbaum at the Federation office at 545-8629 or srosenbaum@jewishrichmond.org.

In late April and early May, Ari Looney took part in the Annual International March of the Living that began in Poland at Auschwitz and concluded in Israel. He was among a group of Richmond BBYO teens and Ryan Woloshin, regional director, Eastern Region. On Holocaust Memorial Day, they joined thousands of participants worldwide who marched silently from Auschwitz to Birkenau, the largest Nazi concentration camp complex built during World War II. In these pictures, Ari stands silently on railroads tracks at the concentration camp and then prays with a Rabbi. Contributed Photos.

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UR students strengthen connection to Israel through Birthright Israel From May 22 to June 2, seven University of Richmond Hillel students traveled to Israel on a free 10-day trip with Birthright Israel: Hillel. The group traveled with students from Bucknell University and the University of Rochester, on the second annual trip offered specifically for UR students through Hillel International. The seven participants – including two members of the 2019-2020 Hillel student board, four first-year students, and five “first-timers” – were excited to follow in the steps of the four Spiders to travel as a part of last year’s trip. The UR trip began with a northward swing through the Galilee and Golan Heights, where the group enjoyed kayaking down the Jordan River, overlooking the Syrian Border from Mount Bental, and exploring Jewish mysticism in Tzfat. They were then joined by three Israel soldiers as part of their Mifgash – or encounter – for visits to Tel Aviv, Masada and the Dead Sea. The final three days of the trip were

spent in Jerusalem, where the group celebrated Shabbat. As part of Saturday morning prayer, participants were invited to partake in a B’nai Mitzvah celebration. Spencer Whiton, one of the four firstyear students on the trip, chose to become a Bar Mitzvah and elected for himself a Hebrew name. Whiton said the entire trip was incredible, “a truly amazing experience.” Eli Bank, a fellow first-year student and another first-timer, agreed the trip was fantastic and full of “endless memories and stories.” Bank’s highlights included an overnight in the Bedouin tents, Tel Aviv, and the Old City, noting that “being in such a holy place with such rich history, there’s no feeling like it.” Another first-year student and an incoming member on the UR Hillel student leadership team, Sage Watterson, said “Without exaggeration, Birthright was

Student ambassadors are holding a raﬄe

UR students gather near the Western Wall. Contributed Photos

the best ten days of my life.” “Being in such an incredible place with such lovely and passionate people was truly amazing,” she shared, adding “it was a beautifully spiritual experience.” Watterson specifically mentioned “driving into Jerusalem for the first time really felt like a sort of homecoming. It was a feeling I’ve never felt before and it brought tears to my eyes. I wouldn’t trade the world for this whole experience.” “It’s amazing to think of the sacrifice and work put into having a state for the Jewish people,” said Omer Genosar, a rising senior on the leadership team and a dual Israeli-American citizen. Genosar had visited several times with family since he moved to the U.S. at a young age, but he had never truly toured the country.” Every time I looked out the window I

saw another layer of the country. Whether it was Tel Aviv or Jerusalem or the emptiness of desert or northern hills, I felt spiritually and emotionally connected with the land. The only thing better than the land was the people.” While Genosar had fun with the UR group, he specifically recalled spending time with the “kind and funny” soldiers - Matan, Amor, and Neta - who “had the same passions and problems” as the American students. “Shanah haba b’Yerushalayim” concluded Genosar, as he plans to return to Israel following graduation. UR Hillel expects to return again next summer, too. To learn more about this trip and other Jewish Life at the University of Richmond initiatives, email jjeﬀrey@richmond.edu

his summer, over 25 student and alumni ambassadors from Jewish Life at VCU are holding a Grand Draw Raffle! All proceeds from the Grand Draw will fund Shabbat Dinners, Holiday Programming, Community Building, Israel Advocacy and Jewish Identity and Pride in the Fall Semester 2019. The Grand Draw prizes include a $10,000 grand prize, two tickets to Israel and several other great cash prizes! Tickets are $36 each and sales are open until July 24, and can be purchased online at jewishvcu.org/win, or by contacting raffle@jewishvcu.org Family and Corporate Sponsorships are available. For more information contact raffle@jewishvcu.org www.JewishRichmond.org

UR students in the Golan Heights.

Any Reflector delivery problems?

e wanted to check in with community members to see if they are having Reflector delivery problems. Our newspapers are delivered via T-D carriers in the early morning from a list the Reflector provides. Sometimes, however, we know T-D carriers may miss a delivery and we would like to know. We want all our

monthly readers to get their printed copies. We also know some community members may be receiving more than one copy. For problems or questions, feel free to reach out to the Reflector at (804) 545-8620 or skozakewicz@jewishrichmond.org.

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‘Holocaust by Bullets’ Exhibit will run July 26 - Dec. 30 “Holocaust by Bullets” Virginia Holocaust Museum July 26 - Dec. 30

he Holocaust by Bullets was the systematic killing of Jews that started before the creation of concentration camps in the ex-Soviet Union and continued until WWII’s end. Yahad-In Unum (“together” in Hebrew and Latin) is a Paris-based nonprofit organization established in 2004 by Father Patrick Desbois and dedicated to systematically identifying and documenting sites of Jewish and Roma mass executions by Nazi mobile-killing units in Eastern Europe during World War II. “Holocaust by Bullets” presents the results of Yahad-In Unum’s research investigations in the exSoviet Union. It also underscores the “Holocaust by Bullets” as a precursor and model for mass crimes today. The exhibit showcases the

painstaking research–succinctly yet approachable–to enable the visitor to uncover, step-by-step, the crime committed against Jews and Roma by the Nazi killing units. It gives viewers a chance to learn about this lesserknown side of the Holocaust, through eyewitness testimonies, photographs, and quotes. This traveling exhibit was produced by the Yahad-In Unum. Background Between 1942 and 1944, more than two million Jews were massacred when Nazi Germany invaded the Soviet Union. In a period of two-and-half years, the Nazis killed nearly every Jew in the region. The mass murder was part of the Holocaust, Hitler’s genocide of the Jewish people. Until recently, this chapter of Holocaust history, referred to as the “Holocaust by Bullets,” was relatively unknown. To date, Yahad-In Unum has

Virginia Holocaust Museum Happenings

identified more than 1,700 mass killing sites and interviewed over 4,000 local, non-Jewish eyewitnesses in Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Moldova, Lithuania, Romania, Republic of Macedonia and Poland. The museum is located at 2000

East Cary St., Richmond. Admission is free. There also is free off-street parking. It is open Monday - Friday, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m., Saturday and Sunday, 11a.m. - 5 p.m. For information visit www.vaholocaust.org or call (804) 257– 5400.

‘State of Deception’ exhibit at VHM to close July 14 T he traveling exhibit, “State of Deception,” which opened at the Virginia Holocaust Museum on May 1, will close July 14. The Nazi Party developed a sophisticated propaganda machine that deftly spread lies about its political opponents, Jews, and the need to justify war. But Nazi propaganda was much more complex than that. For the Nazis to achieve power and pursue their racial policies and expansionist war efforts, a much more nuanced picture had to be painted—one that would appeal to broad swaths of the population, not just a fanatical extreme. The exhibition reveals how shortly after World War I, the Nazi Party began to transform itself from an obscure, extremist group into the largest political party in democratic Germany. Hitler recognized how propaganda, combined with the use of terror, could help his radical party gain mass support and votes. He personally adapted the ancient symbol of the swastika and the emotive colors of red, black, and white to create the movement’s flag. In doing so, Hitler established a potent visual identity that has

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branded the Nazi Party ever since. The Nazi Party took over all communications in Germany. It marshaled the state’s resources to consolidate power and relentlessly promote its vision of a “racially pure,” utopian Germany that needed to defend itself from those who would destroy it. Jews were cast as the primary enemies. As Germany pushed the world into war, Nazi propaganda rationalized Germany’s territorial expansion as self-defense. The exhibition was underwritten in part by grants from Katharine M. and Leo S. Ullman and The Blanche and Irving Laurie Foundation, with additional support from the Lester Robbins and Sheila Johnson Robbins Traveling and Special Exhibitions Fund established in 1990 and Dr. and Mrs. Sol Center. This exhibit was produced by the United

States Holocaust Memorial Museum. The VHM is located at 2000 East Cary St., Richmond. It is open Monday-Friday, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.; Saturday and Sunday, 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. Admission and parking are free. For information, visit www.vaholocaust. org or call (804) 257-5400.

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WelcomeMD: Advanced Medicine Made Personal

he goal of concierge medicine, or what we like to call membership medicine, is to re-establish the kind of personal relationship with your primary care physician that once prevailed in American communities while accessing new, cutting edge treatments. WellcomeMD will give you greater access to your doctor via email and even by the doctor’s cell phone – you have the number. But WellcomeMD goes beyond access. Our doctors, Neal Carl and Mary Colfer, have more time for you because they are capped at 300 patients, half the number of the typical concierge physician. This opens the door to greater access to your physician, more personal attention, and improved health outcomes. As a member you will receive individualized care with a comprehensive, proactive approach to your personal health. Dr. Neal Carl speaks with a patient at WelcomeMD. “Traditional primary care is still crucial in preventing or treating Contributed PhotoS conditions like diabetes, heart attack, and cancer,” Dr. Carl said. Welcome MD “But nutrition, fitness, hormone balancing, gut health, sleep, and stress can make enormous differences in how you feel and perform.” • 24/7 access to your physician At WellcomeMD, we emphasize our thorough annual • Double-board certified physicians including Anitphysical examination, which includes a series of advanced labs Aging and Regenerative Medicine and genetic testing. They are the foundation for effective health • 300 patients per physician - half the number of recommendations. WellcomeMD provides comprehensive, preventative, and most conciege practices proactive care for all of our members. Our double-board certified • Physician driven, individual health plan physicians and their teams are committed to not only improving • Preventative, proactive care patients’ outcomes, but also improving their quality of life. • Same day appointments We provide a conscientious standard of care in an unhurried environment where the patients come first. • Thorough, unhurried appointments - minimum Come in, meet our doctors then decide. We are located at 2500 30 minutes Gaskins Road, Suite A, Richmond 23238 • Advanced labs and genetic testing with in office For more information, call today at 1-804-207-3677 or visit evaluations www.wellcomemd.com. Also see page 11.

Dr. Mary Colfer examines a patient at WecomeMD.

• Individualized diet & fitness consultations • Doctor-recommended vitamins and supplements are available for your convenience at the practice. We deliver these to you at our cost. • Physician liaises with specialist providers • House calls and local hospital visits when appropriate • Facilitation of second opinions • Accompany patients to specialists when needed • Telemedicine appointments when you can’t make it to the office

Thank you Friends of Reflector The Reflector staff and Jewish Community Federation of Richmond thank the following for their donations to the Friends of Reflector during our June 2019 request. As always, we thank the community for supporting the Reflector.

Tommy Baer

Barbara Goldberg

John & Judith Levy

Stevie & Augrey Watson

Claire Benenson

Joan Goodstein

Stuart Linder

Arlyn Webber

Francine Blum

Peter & Leta Greenberg Ben Melton

Frona & Alan Colker

Florine Sue Harowitz

Abby Moore

Jay Weinberg

Peter & Sarah Coyne

Inge Horowitz

Jena Sager

Judy Wiener

Bill Epstein

Blanche Kornfeld

Anthony Silver

Marshall Wolf

Linda & Rick Gary

Jane and Joel Knox

Mark Smith

Gail & Sam Genderson

Edith Levin

Sylvia Tregar

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Foundation Happenings

RJF President & CEO Robert Nomberg, RJF Chair Frances Goldman and Legacy Program Director Lauren Plotkin hold a replica check for $20.5 million representing the total commitment over the past three years for the Life and Legacy community partners. Photos by Adrienne Lehman Winkelmann

By Robert Nomberg president & ceo richmond jewish foundation

RJF holds 3rd annual Life & Legacy Celebration O

n the evening of May 29, Richmond Jewish Foundation hosted 175 community members at the Weinstein JCC for the 3rd annual Life & Legacy donor thank you celebration. During the event it was announced that over the past three years the ten Life & Legacy partners have worked with 360 donors to create 500 legacies for a projected $20.5 million. For reaching their annual goals over this three year period, RJF has given the Life & Legacy partners incentive checks totaling $202,700. Abby Moore presented the Anne and S. Sidney Meyers Endowment Achievement Award to Helen Horwitz. The award is presented to community members who are outstanding contributors to the field of Jewish endowments. Robert Freed receives the Jack Paul Fine Mitzvah Society Award from RJF Board Chair Frances Goldman.

(From left) RJF board members Jeff Scharf and Josh Goldberg.

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The Meyers believed that the award would encourage others to become involved and benefit the community. The Anne and S. Sidney Meyers Endowment Achievement Award honors those who promote the growth of Richmond Jewish Foundation, give financially and exhibit the qualities of “leadership, vision, imagination and activity.” RJF Board Chair, Frances Goldman, presented the Jack Paul Fine Mitzvah Society Award to Robert Freed for his commitment to building long-term and lasting relationships with many of Richmond Jewish Foundation’s most ardent supporters and donors and to help them with their charitable priorities.

Helen Horwitz receives the Anne and S. Sidney Meyers Endowment Achievement Award from Abby Moore, a past recipient.

The Jack Paul Fine Mitzvah Society Award honors local estate planning professionals committed to philanthropic giving and the future of the Jewish community and who have been instrumental in working with their clients to create lasting gifts to our community through RJF. The evening’s festivities

concluded with the presentation of a donor legacy thank you video and a presentation of incentive checks to the Life and Legacy partners for meeting or exceeding their goals for the year. Please click on our Facebook page or visit www.rjfoundation.org to enjoy some pictures and the video from the evening. www.JewishRichmond.org

Board members - current and incoming - pose during the Life & Legacy Celebration.

Rabbi Michael Knopf delivers the Dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Var Torah at the gathering.

(From left) RJF board members Seth Kaplan, Jessica Samet and Sandy Sisisky.

Leaders from community agencies and synagogues pose with their Life & Legacy replica checks.

(From left) Two longtime community leaders, Abby Moore and David Long.

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Chabad Happenings Cooking Class Series begins with rave reviews

he first of our new Cooking Class series, led by Hanit Laron and Nechomi Kranz, took place on May 20. The theme for the class was Israeli Cuisine. Participants worked together to create eight delicious dishes Stuffed Grape Leaves, Moroccan Carrot Salad, Moroccan Paprika Fish, Majadra, Everything Kale Salad, Israeli Salad, Tahini Sauce and Baklava. At the end of the evening, everyone dined together on the incredible feast they had prepared. It was a great time had by all!

Special thanks to Hanit and Nechomi for sharing their passion and expertise and to all those who participated in this amazing class! We plan to continue the series throughout the year. For more information, contact Melissa Brownstein at melissa@chabadofva.org or call (804) 740-2000, ext. 2.

43rd Annual Community Lag B’Omer a Blazing Success

Thank you to everyone who came to celebrate Chabad’s 43rd Annual Lag B’Omer Community Celebration on May 23. It was so exciting to celebrate this day of unity with families from across Richmond’s Jewish community! Everyone enjoyed a wonderful afternoon of great food, music, games, rocket launching and Lag B’Omer bonfire!

Great Jewish Campout – Wow! Our First Annual Great Jewish Campout was a HUGE success! Everyone pitched their tent and enjoyed a delicious cookout dinner, games, campfire singalong, s’mores, a movie on the big screen, a pancake breakfast and more! It was a GREAT time had by all!

We are already planning our Second Annual Great Jewish Campout! If you would like to receive information for the next campout, please contact Melissa Brownstein at melissa@chabadofva. org or call, 740-2000, ext. 2.

Paula Carl Mega Challah Bake

community event. Mark your calendars; you won’t want to miss it! For questions or sponsorship opportunities, contact Melissa Brownstein at melissa@chabadofva.org or by phone, 740-2000, ext. 2.

We are delighted to announce The Paula Carl Mega Challah Bake, a partnership between Hadassah and Chabad of Virginia is scheduled for Sunday, Sept. 15, from 3-5 p.m. Committee Members are hard at work planning a wonderful

1st Friendship Circle of Virginia’s Bowl4Friendship, an amazing community success

n Sunday, May 19, Friendship Circle of Virginia held its first annual Bowl4Friendship fundraiser with amazing success! With a sold out crowd of over 250 people, FCVA surpassed its fundraising goal of $30,000 (surpassing the original goal 6 fold!). The event sponsor Fas mart© and the entire Richmond community came together to support the 160 bowlers and 24 teams at Uptown Alley in Midlothian. Fifteen corporate and individual

event sponsors were joined by peerto-peer fundraising in our community and by friends sponsoring each bowler or team. Congratulations to our two top fundraisers: Ari Ciment and 7-yearold Gavi Weinstein, our top child fundraiser who succeeded one phone call at a time. Hallie Weinstein, Gavi’s mother, said, “Gavi even consulted with an uncle about strategies for raising money when making calls.” He rolled with those strategies and scored a fundraising strike! Congratulations to our top fundraising team: the Niamtu High Rollers. Their team, of Dr. Joe and April Niamtu, along with their two sons, Evan and Joey, did an incredible job! Strike Team Griffin was our second highest fundraising team. Local radio host, Jeff Katz, from News Radio WVRA, had two full teams of

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local listeners, including bowlers with disabilities and Natalie Kalibat from ABC8, WRIC 8News. Natalie came to interview Jeff, but enjoyed the event so much she stayed and live-tweeted through it. Friendship Circle fulfills the most vital needs of childhood friendship and fun - by creating social opportunities for children and young adults with and without disabilities.

Scott Federman, the father of a 5-year-old son, on the autism spectrum, said the event, “was the happiest we have seen our ASD son ever. Our neurotypical son had a great time too. It was nice to see not just other families with special needs children, but how everyone included everyone. You could feel the compassion everywhere.” Friendship Circle is grateful to the entire community for coming to

this event and showing all of our Friendship circle families, kids and volunteers that the community cares. Funds raised through Bowl4Friendship will help to expand the programming and activities that we offer to families throughout the Richmond area. These are open to everyone, regardless of race, religion, or ethnicity, and are always completely free to all.

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Anonymous (70) Anonymous (44) Ellen Renee and Louis Adams Ronnie and Susan Adolf Michael Aronowitz Rabbi Dovid and Aliza Asher Barry and Mary Auerbach Rabbi Yosef and Rivka Bart Rabbi Martin Beifield and Ina Ginsberg Scott W. and Nancy R. Belleman The Bendheim Family Ellen Bernstein Meryl R. Bernstein Esther S. Binshtok Meir Binshtok Rhona and Irving Blank Francine Blum Martin Blum Rosann Bocciarelli Lorraine and Irvin Bodofsky Marilyn Breslow Ashley and Scott Brooks Craig and Karen Brotzman Morty Brown Melissa and Andy Brownstein Eva Brummer Marlena & Yonaton Cantor Amit Cahana Jim Cohen Debra Colby Kathy Mays Coleman Sam W. Coleman III Frona and Alan Colker Albert Jay Cooper Michele L. Corn Stanley R. Corn Rabbi Gary S. Creditor Judy K. Crocker Miriam Davidow Daniel Davidow Jonathan Davidow Laura and Rob Davidson Michael and Jeanne Decker

THANK YOU!

Celebrating Your Legacy Heather Dinkin Patricia Dodson Patricia Doniger David Dorfman Deane R. and Daniel W. Dubansky Bonnie and Mike Eisenman Gail and Daniel Elmakis David and Pamela Feibish Ronald and Benita Felmus Linda and Earl Ferguson Stanley J. Feuer Sylvia Fine Elizabeth L. Fitzgerald Elliot P. Fitzgerald Marilyn Lipsitz Flax and Robert Flax Sydney Fleischer and Mike Camp Janice and Robert Freed Sharyl and Benjamin Freedlander Alan and Laura Freiden Ron Friedman David and Robyn Galpern Linda and Rick Gary Norman Geller Susan Geller Edith and Eugene (OBM) Glock Debbie Minden and Gary Goldberg Josh Goldberg Jill and Howard Goldfine A. Lawrence Goldman Frances F. Goldman Bruce Gould Shelley November Gouldin Chris Greenberg Marc Greenberg Brian R. Greene Ruth Nathanson Greene

Matthew Grossman Carolyn Weiss Guertin Avi and Dina Gunzburg Dana Gwaltney Terri Halperin and Alexander Wolman Florine Sue and Charles (OBM) Harowitz Jeff Haykin Hana and David Hecht Bernie Henderson David and Ruby Jo Hiller Harry Hirsch Lois Hirsch Horwitz Family Marcy Horwitz Brian Imburg Melody Imburg Jay J. Jacobs Ronne (OBM) & Cecil Jacobs Russ Jennings Elizabeth W. Jones Faith Kallman Willa Kalman David B. Kane Seth and Lisa Kaplan Judy Katzen Sam Katzen Retta Leigh Keil Neil and Lynn Kessler Barbara Kiken Michael S. Kiken Rabbi Michael and Adira Knopf Bev and Sid Koerin Judith and Ike Koziol Fay Kranz Greene Nechomi Kranz Rabbi Yossel Kranz Wendy Kreuter

Dara Hirsch Kurtz Joshua Joseph Landesman Hedy Lapkin Chuck and Judy Lessin Ilana and Akiva Lessin Jeff and Havah Lessin Sandra Lessner Levin Ed Levine Jay Levine Ben Lewis Laura B. Lewis Myron Linfield (OBM) Eric (OBM) and Jeanette(OBM) Lipman Lisa Looney John Marshak Margaret Marshak Elissa and Chris Mast Eileen May Linda W. Mays Donna and Tom McClish Rebecca and Jonathan McNamara Marjorie Menacker Neal and Joan Menkes Susan and Stephen (OBM) Meyers Daniel Miller Kimberly H. Miller Martin J. Miller Ellen Moncure and Richard Lustig Abby Moore Joel Moses Julie and Arthur Mullian Ashley and Christopher Noell Sara Belle and Neil (OBM) November Isabel Paul

Eric and Elizabeth Shoenfeld Marcia Shor (OBM) Nannette L. Shor Nathan A. Shor Robert and Mary Siegel Dan and Peggy Siegel Josh and Suzanne Peck Robert S. Siegel Dr. Albert (OBM) and Elaine Jerry Simonoff Pincus (OBM) Clare and Zach Sisisky Catherine Strause Plotkin Mark and Susan Sisisky Gail and Jim Plotkin Sandra Sisisky Elliot Plotnick Martin and Arlene Slutzah Sarah and Keith Rakofsky Henry (OBM) and Dottie (OBM) Ken and Katie Roeper Snider Ruth Siegel Rosenberg (OBM) Beverley and Jerry Soble Beth and Dan Rosenthal Betty Anne Soffin Marty Ross I. Norman and Patricia (OBM) Sporn Daniel Roth Daniel Staffenberg Julia Roth Stacy Struminger Chuck Rothenberg Gladys Tatarsky (OBM) Sarah B. and Milton Rubin Bobby Thalhimer David and Marguerite Ruby Morton G. Thalhimer, III Craig Rudlin Arthur and Francine Todras Yosef Saar Sara L. Villalona Larry Salzman Nancy Cohen Walter Richard and Jessica Samet Sara Shocket Waskin Jeffrey Samuels Gary M. and Bette Rose P. Webne Stacye Samuels Amy Melnick-Scharf and Jeffrey Jim Weinberg Scharf John Weinberg Anne and Charley Scher Laurie Weinberg Elise and Irving Scherr Bob Weisberger Jim Schuyler and Frank Gail and Alan Werner Dellinger Karen Napiantek Wharton Lynn and Jay Schwartz Tony Wharton Janie and Maurice Schwarz Dean Whitbeck Art Seidenberg John T. White Akiva and Chloe Shapero Bonnie Cohen Wilensky Margo Shayne Glen Wilensky Robert Shayne David S. Winston and Rebecca Yael Levin and Scott Sheldon Kalman-Winston Dr. Mitchell Shiffman Gini Blostein-Wolf and Franklin Wolf Lori Shiffman Susanne L. Shilling Gifts received as of 6/1/19 Barbara Shocket Bolded names indicate formalized commitments Gifts received as of 4/30/18

Richmond Jewish Foundation wants to recognize and thank those who have committed to sustain our local Jewish community with a gift in their will, trust, retirement account, or life insurance policy. We are grateful for your support of our LIFE & LEGACY program! Thank you also to all those who had the foresight to give a legacy gift before this program was launched in May 2016.

Please contact Legacy Director Lauren Plotkin to formalize your commitment or learn more about making a lasting impact in our community through the Life & Legacy program. If you have made/formalized a commitment and your name is not listed please let us know - and thank you! 804.545.8624 or lauren@rjfoundation.org

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