Front Porch Fredericksburg - December 2018 by Virginia Grogan

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Bill Evans It’s a wonderful Life Josiah Rowe A life well-Lived Cler Baheri Celebrating Community

Porch talk .3

Jack hyland...the man behind the bar

on the porch...life in fredericksburg Messages

master gardeners....native plant garden

I have a friend: Barbara & Joyce

candlelight tour ...homes for the holidays

take me out to the ballgame

everything greens...giving all year round

season’s bounty: holiday dessert table

cooking with kyle...so this is christmas

vino...gift ideas

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Calendar of events

history’s stories: 1950’s christmas

what’s in a rock?...rappahannock freestone

Senior Care: ho, ho, ho

it’s all energy...holiday help

emancipated patients: end of life care mind your mind: stop repeating suicide cliches

meet cover artist david c. kennedy

mYSTERY hOUSE STORIES OF FXBG: mike

art in the burg: holiday shows

on stage: stafford players poetryman: sanctity

Companions: 'tis the season.. keep pets safe

civil war santa

fredericksburg sketches dreams do come true

whittingham windows wow again

juan more taco comes to caroline street

tina moyer’s grapefruit tree

Cover: “Street Lamp & Steeple with Snow” By David C. Kennedy

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the man behind the bar by M.L. Powers

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Jack Hyland

J. Brians Taproom is one of Fredericksburg’s longest standing taproom and eatery. Sitting on the corner of Hanover and Caroline Street, it can easily identified by the Irish and American flags out front. Jack Hyland opened the Irish Pub in 1994, and they will celebrate their 25th anniversary in June. Jack is a well known figure around town, and after talking to him you understand why he has been around so long. Jack is married, but maintains a long distance relationship, as his wife is presently working in Africa. He is looking forward to her coming home for the holidays, and then later plans to go there himself. Never really on the radar, but an exciting trip, nonetheless. He has a 22 year old son who is a senior at the University of Alabama, who is planning on

teaching English in Japan after graduation. We spoke of some of the changes Jack has seen in the last twenty five years. A big one is the loss of the jukebox, something many of us remember fondly. Credit cards are now the main method of payment, for good or bad. Another big one is the switch to nonsmoking. But for J. Brians, the most noticeable change is the outdoor patio or the backyard as they like to call it. It’s a great addition, and brings in many tourists, as well as a venue for fundraisers. And the backyard is dog friendly! They hold a community outreach night where they champion different causes. J. Brians is an advocate of the Fairy Godmother Project a group that cares for children with cancer and their families. Recently, they held a BBQ-BeerWine event where 15% of sales went to the project. They sponsor a 15K for RWBFredericksburg (Red, White and Blue), a group that helps veterans acclimate into

civilian life. The have also sponsored the Wounded Warrior Project in the past. J. Brians is a no frills, simple kind of place, where one has the feeling that you walked into a comfortable old time bar where “everyone knows your name.” They are basically a beer and sandwich place, but the menu varies and they have interesting specials. Reading through the reviews, I was surprised to see a quail dinner review (very positive.) I have brought many visitors here over the years, and we always enjoy the atmosphere which never seems rushed. Many of the reviews laud the grilled cheese sandwich, which seems to be a popular blast from the past. It is on many menus, and people have become connoisseurs of the sandwich. The reviews also rave about a burger called the Big Bad Wolf made with ground pork and chorizo. Sounds pretty spicy. And of course being an Irish pub, they have Guinness and about 10 staples on tap, plus about 20 other beers.

If you haven’t had a chance to try J. Brians, take a break from the holiday hustle, and have a cold one this season. Of course, you can check out their Facebook page for upcoming events or their website www.jbrianstaproom.com. Let the merriment begin! And be sure to ask Jack about the Boston Red Sox!

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contents

closeups 7

Bill Evans It’s a wonderful Life Josiah Rowe A life well-Lived Cler Baheri Celebrating Community

Porch talk .3

Jack hyland...the man behind the bar

on the porch...life in fredericksburg Messages

master gardeners....native plant garden

I have a friend: Barbara & Joyce

candlelight tour ...homes for the holidays

take me out to the ballgame

everything greens...giving all year round

season’s bounty: holiday dessert table

cooking with kyle...so this is christmas

vino...gift ideas

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Calendar of events

history’s stories: 1950’s christmas

what’s in a rock?...rappahannock freestone

Senior Care: ho, ho, ho

it’s all energy...holiday help

emancipated patients: end of life care mind your mind: stop repeating suicide cliches

meet cover artist david c. kennedy

mYSTERY hOUSE STORIES OF FXBG: mike

art in the burg: holiday shows

on stage: stafford players poetryman: sanctity

Companions: 'tis the season.. keep pets safe

civil war santa

fredericksburg sketches dreams do come true

whittingham windows wow again

juan more taco comes to caroline street

tina moyer’s grapefruit tree

Cover: “Street Lamp & Steeple with Snow” By David C. Kennedy

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the man behind the bar by M.L. Powers

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Jack Hyland

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ON THE PORCH Guest Porch Editorial

Contributing Writers & Artists Chuck Archer Rita Allen A.E. Bayne Laurie Black Kevin Brown Collette Caprara Barbara Deal Renee Dunn Jeannie Ellis Sandra Erickson Christina Ferber Frank Fratoe k. Jeanne frazer Bill Freehling Rich Gaudio Joan M. Geisler Jon Gerlach Ralph “Tuffy”Hicks Rebeca Jameson Karl Karch Susan Kenney David C. Kennedy Jo Loving Andy McLeod Pete Morelewicz Vanessa Moncure Lenora Kruk-Mullanapy Patrick Neustatter M.L. Powers Gerri Reid Lynette Reid Rob Rudick Casey Alan Shaw Ted Schubal Georgia Strentz James Kyle Synder Rim Vining Tina Will Sonja Wise Norma Woodward Suzy Woollham

bob’s window wows again this year

just pick one

by georgia strentz

by rim vining In my younger days thirty years seemed like a long time and now it feels like three weeks. Having come to the realization that this is my family’s 30th Christmas season in the Fredericksburg area I’m wondering where those three weeks went. I’m no older but the boys are in their 30’s and live in Portland and our friends are working out their retirement strategies instead of figuring out where to park for the parade and still make it home by midnight. I did learn a lot in those three weeks. We moved to the area just in time to enjoy many years in rural Stafford, a few good years of being a townie before everything was a millionthree and have spent the past decade in old Ferry Farm where the old meets the new every day. The area has grown and yes there is now more than one stoplight between I-95 and Hartwood. I accept that but we tend to remark on the changes and miss the fact that it is more the same than we recognize. It was just a few days after we took up residence in an old farmhouse on Hartwood Road with two small boys when Eleanor Dickinson came up the old farm drive to welcome us and invite us to Hartwood Church for services. It wasn’t long after that when Miss Matilda Greenlaw came up the drive, pointed to the two large holly trees behind the house and announced that come Christmas she would be getting her holly off those trees. I said, “Yes mam.” There was a curious thing about the drive up to the house back then. It was gravel and sand and the house was built in the 20’s so it was obvious that for 60 years almost all the traffic turning in had come up Hartwood road from the south and all the traffic leaving turned back to the south. No one came in from the north and no one turned north out of the drive. It was like there was nothing up past our house on Hartwood Road. Until then. Eleanor came from the south and

Matilda from the north and from that day forward we’ve had friends on the left and the right. We learned about Johnny’s Grocery and Stern’s Store and where the cider mill was and where Luther kept his homemade brandy at the fence breaks and we became part of a growing community of families sharing faith, fellowship and fun. We enjoyed music and laughter and stories and lies and three-legged races in the Cub Scouts. The old met the new in that yard and now one of the scouts is on the Board of Downtown Greens and one neighbor is Her Honor the Mayor? In just three weeks? Then one bright sunny day over the fence popped the Grogans and Eskers because, go figure, I had an old MGA for sale in the side yard. Rob had some story about how he and Virginia were starting this thing with some vague idea about a community paper but not sure how it would play out or if it would last… you know what? Maybe two weeks? Over the ensuing years The Front Porch has hosted writings from all aspects of this diverse and quite large small town. Look in the front of the paper at the list of contributing writers this month and think about the story behind each one. Where are they from, what is their background, where are they headed? It is actually an enviable list that any major paper or ‘vague idea’ would be proud to host. Still as the area has grown so have the needs of the community. With an expanded population come expanded needs for services for those who struggle to find comfort in this world. The neighbors to your right and left are coming up your driveway to

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Lovely article November 2018) Margaret Hehir

Front Porch Fredericksburg is a free circulation magazine published monthly by Olde Towne Publishing Co. Virginia Bigenwald Grogan, Publisher. The mission of Front Porch Fredericksburg is to connect the diverse citizenry of Fredericksburg with lively features and informative columns of interest to our community’s greatest resource, its people. Messages from our readers are welcome. All submissions must be received by e-mail by the 19th of the month preceding publication. Writers / Artists / Photographers are welcome to request Guidelines and query the Publisher by e-mail. Front Porch Fredericksburg PO Box 9203 Fredericksburg, VA 22403 Ad Sales: E-Mail: frntprch@aol.com Web Site: www.frontporchfredericksburg.com

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The arts in Fredericksburg really shine during the holidays! Thank you Front Porch! Nicole Hamilton

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I've lived in Spotsylvania County for almost 29 years, and for the past 20 years, your magazine has given me a sense of community and contributed to my love affair with the real Fredericksburg. Kathy Steele Front Porch Thanks for your support! FCCA

welcome you and invite you to help. There are more services, more community dinners, more help lines and half-way houses than ever before and the need keeps growing. Donations are sought and fundraisers held 24/7 – 365 days a year. It is hard to make sense of it all and at times it is overwhelming… so pick one… yep pick one and follow it through. Enjoy your holiday and make your resolutions and then pick one and follow it through next year. If thirty years is actually 3 weeks how much can a year’s worth of community service be? Actually that works out to be 16.8 hours so invite your neighbors over and share a copy of The Front Porch for them to read cover to cover and then everybody… pick one!

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Thanks for the nice article on the FXBG Food Co-op (Become Part of Our Future, October 2018). Fredericksburg Food Cooperative

Hi, Virginia I really liked the painting that you ran on the November cover (“Nourish”, Nicole Hamilton) Dave Kennedy

Did you ever wonder who creates the simply gorgeous windows for the holidays at our unique, one of a kind, simply gorgeous store called Whittingham, in downtown Fredericksburg? You know when the windows are unveiled, that someone with enormous artistic talent and creativity has been at work, Who is this mystery person who Robert works behind the paper? Whittingham is our mystery man, the owner of Whittinghams on Caroline St., since 1994. Born in Minnesota, art was his thing all through school.

In 1967, he moved to New York City, and started his trek into his lifelong career. He was interested in display art, styling, setting up materials for sale for maximum impact, visual merchandising in the department stores. Bob worked in Macys, Abraham Strauss, Cartier and freelanced all over NY City. In 1994 Bob came to Fredericksburg to open his store, Whittingham. How can you describe Bob's store? When you enter, you are so overwhelmed with the quality and beauty of each object, (even in the kitchen section of his store) you want buy everything you see. Everything is displayed so beautifully, giving you the idea that your house too

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photo by david c. kennedy can be this beautiful. Moving on to the left in the second section of the store, you see beautiful decorative items for the house and even shawls, gloves, unique personal clothing, everything quality, not seen anywhere else in our area. The framed art, paintings, mirrors, unique framed wall hangings (the cows my favorite, I think one mooed at me) rugs, objects of art, such beauty and yet so reasonably priced, it will surprise you.The serving dishes, platters, art pieces, beautiful dressers, furniture. I was so obsessed with the airplane propellers that looked gorgeous, I had to remind myself I was here to write this article, and not to buy an airplane propeller for my home. Bob travels to two major home shows per year. The one in Atlanta has millions of items under one roof. High Point, N.Carolina is another favorite, Bob offers cooking classes at his store, decorating your home classes, decorating your holiday table, various classes are offered all year. A trip to Whittingham, with the wonderful candle scents, and beautiful merchandise, is like a visit to a friends beautiful home, so uplifting. No matter who you need a gift

photo by david c. kennedy for, even yourself, you will find it at Whittingham. Don’t miss Whitingham’s Holiday Window! You will think you are in NYC Whittingham 1021 Caroline St, 540-3 374-0 0443 http://www.shopwhittingham.com; FB

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ON THE PORCH Guest Porch Editorial

bob’s window wows again this year

just pick one

by georgia strentz

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The opinions expressed in Front Porch Fredericksburg are those of the contributing writers and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of Front Porch Fredericksburg or its advertisers.

Lovely article November 2018) Margaret Hehir

Whittingham

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The arts in Fredericksburg really shine during the holidays! Thank you Front Porch! Nicole Hamilton

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Rim is both creative & kind.

Thanks for the nice article on the FXBG Food Co-op (Become Part of Our Future, October 2018). Fredericksburg Food Cooperative

Hi, Virginia I really liked the painting that you ran on the November cover (“Nourish”, Nicole Hamilton) Dave Kennedy

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On the Trails

Native Plant Garden at cedell brooks jr. park

By Tina Will

A picture is prettier than, and still worth, a thousand words, but even more helpful is a demonstration garden that shows us how to establish a 'native plant' garden to attract butterflies, hummingbirds, bees, and other essential pollinators. "Use native plants!" we are told. But how do we do that, and why? What does it look like to plant with 'native plants'? Many people have addressed these questions. In his book Bringing Nature Home (Timber Press Inc. (c) 2007), acclaimed Professor and ecologist Douglas Tallamy brought needed clarity to the reasons for keeping native plant species in our landscape. His research revealed that native plant species are an essential part of the intricate ecosystem and food web for us and all living creatures. 'Native' plants get that designation by virtue of being here before European settlement began over 400 years ago. Native plants support native wildlife, whereas some non-native plants, introduced for ornamental reasons, have inedible fruit, or need more care, water, fertilizer, and perhaps pesticides to do well here. Some will crowd out the native species. Using plants that are naturally suited to this area has the potential to reduce the use of fertilizers etc. and thus also reduce the chemical run-off that eventually ends up in our waterways. When the opportunity arose to receive a substantial grant to create a Native Plants Demonstration Garden, Tim Smith, (pictured above) King George County Parks and Rec Supervisor, didn't hesitate to accept it. Time was short since the grant money needed to be used before the year ends. Within a few weeks in the last few months the plans were approved and arrangements made to begin an intense effort by more than fifty

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volunteers as well as King George Parks personnel to establish this garden at the Cedell Brooks Jr. Park on Henry Griffin Rd. Tim Smith (recently retired), and his successor, Chris Clarke helped dig holes, move rocks, install the plants, and spread mulch. Their enthusiastic help really motivated and encouraged everyone! This park now draws both younger and older citizens not only for soccer and baseball, but also for a chance to see a Native Plants Demonstration Garden. It runs the length of one side of the baseball and soccer fields. The groupings of the grasses, shrubs, and trees are guided by their size and growth conditions. There will be signs that introduce themed ideas such as rain gardens, street-side spaces, woodland edges, and plants for pollinators. Visitors can get new ideas for landscaping and enjoy the beauty and diversity of plants and trees indigenous to the Central Rappahannock area. There are additional plans to renovate a building on site to be used as an outdoor education center. The campaign to reestablish native plants in our Central Rappahannock area was coordinated and funded by the Virginia Coastal Zone Management Program through grants to VA Department of Environmental Quality from the US Department of Commerce, and National Oceanic and Atmospheric Association under the Coastal Zone Management Act of 1972. The George Washington Regional Commission provided matching funds for the Plant Central Rappahannock Natives campaign. This web link gives complete information and access to the booklet Native Plants for Central Rappahannock Virginia: https://www.plantvirginianatives.org/plan t-central-rappahannock-natives/. The Demonstration Garden design was the joint effort of many people on the Plant Central Rappahannock Natives Campaign Regional Team and local landscape designer and Master Gardener, Sherry Graham. Master Naturalist and Master Gardener Mary Ellen Green is the Project Lead. Many Virginia Cooperative Extension Master Gardeners and Master Naturalists have volunteered. Their intensive effort has accomplished something that everyone should take time to visit. It is a great place to get exercise and learn something new; go take a walk in the park! Tina Will has volunteered with MGACRA for 13 years and lives near Ferry Farm in Stafford County Photo by Susan Kenney

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It’s a wonderful life on the trails By Kevin Brown The Merry Gentleman - Bill Evans During this holiday season, I’m happy to highlight Bill Evans, a merry gentleman who inspires me as an avid user and caretaker of our Fredericksburg trails system. I asked Bill to share a bit about himself and his wonderful life on the local trails.

A 19th Century Christmas at Ellwood Manor Saturday, December 15: 9:00 A.M. - 12:00 P.M. Santa and Crafts. 12:00 P.M. - 2:00 P.M. Open House Sunday, December 16: 12:00 P.M. - 3:00 P.M. Open House with Live Music 36380 Constitution Highway (Route 20), Locust Grove, VA 22508 FREE and Open to the Public Info: www.fowb.org. or ellwood@fowb.org

Bill, “I am blessed to teach 4th grade students at the Fredericksburg Academy, share ownership of the Red Dragon Brewery, and serve as President of Bike Works Racing. In my spare time, I greatly enjoy a wide variety of local outdoor amenities, to include strolling/shopping in historic downtown with family, hiking, camping, biking, and running. How do I use the local trails? After many years of professional-level mountain bike and road bike racing, I’ve

transitioned to a rigorous steeple chase sport called Cyclocross, which involves bicycling in rugged conditions and carrying your bike over/around obstacles. As part of my training regimen, I like to run with my team through the extensive 16-mile+ Quarry Trails network. The Fredericksburg Trail Alliance has done an amazing job of making those trails safe and accessible to runners and cyclists. On chilly winter Saturdays, you may encounter us out training alongside the majestic views of the Rappahannock River and the Quarry. One day last year, we began a run at 9 degrees Fahrenheit and made our way along the riverbank while thunderous booms of ice blocks exploded on the river beside us. For bike training, I enjoy long rides on the quiet backcountry roads of Stafford and Spotsylvania. Our Bike Works Racing team can often be found on lightly-trafficked Lee Drive, where we conduct high-level training intervals without much oxygen left in our brains to navigate heavy traffic safely. I also like taking more leisurely rides on the historic Virginia Central Railway Trail between downtown Fredericksburg and the Idlewild Estates neighborhood, and along the scenic River Heritage Trail/Canal Path that winds through the city. For my mountain biking fix, I like the energizing ups and downs of the Quarry Trails. In return for the pleasure of using our trails system, I am a strong advocate for keeping them wellmaintained and litter-free. I am pleased to report that many of our young people share this mindset. The Service Organization of Fredericksburg Academy,

photo by ted schubel a student-led service group, participated in a large-scale Friends of the Rappahannock river cleanup in late October. The students were the driving force behind the sign up and participation. We had a great turn out from the Upper School student body, and our students were subsequently inspired to organize a follow-on cleanup event on the school campus. Last month, I organized a team of Red Dragon Brewery employees to remove litter from the Snowden Wetlands as part of a Fredericksburg Clean and Green Commission-sponsored community cleanup. My wife Jennifer and I donned hip waders and ventured out into the deeper reaches of the wetlands to find an ungodly number of bottles, cans, and even shoes! Another team member, Jared Newton, sunk well below his knee in the

muck and wished that he too had volunteered to wear the waders. Our group of nine worked for about 2 hours and collected 11 bags of trash. Caring for our natural environment is truly a labor of love, and in summary, I’d like to encourage each and every citizen during this holiday season to get out and enjoy our Fredericksburg area trails, and to joyfully give back by keeping them clean.”

Kevin Brown is the administrator of the "On the Fredericksburg Va Trails" & the "FXBG City Council Public Forum" Facebook Group,& a downtown resident

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Kevin Brown is the administrator of the "On the Fredericksburg Va Trails" & the "FXBG City Council Public Forum" Facebook Group,& a downtown resident

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“I Have A Friend”

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By Laurie Black activities were in the community for seniors. I had been wanting more company. They recommended the Senior Visitors Program. I’m so glad I called. I couldn’t get anybody better than Barbara. We understand each other and we can talk about anything. When I feel down, she helps me snap out of it.” It is hard to imagine Barbara or Joyce being down. They seem to be perpetually laughing. Joyce agreed, “We are always laughing about something. Like the time we were trying to go in the wrong door at Macy’s. We just laughed and laughed at ourselves.” Barbara said, “We are hysterical together. Joyce is so plucky. Despite her challenges, Joyce is a very positive person. We laugh and giggle about silly things all the time.”

The first time I met Barbara Stafford and her friend, Joyce, we were at a holiday party hosted by the Senior Visitors Program. They asked me to guess which one of them was the senior and which one of them was the volunteer. They laughed, smiled, and filled the room with their festive spirit. As it turns out, there is not much difference in their ages, but Barbara is the volunteer. When I asked Barbara how she first came to be a volunteer with the Senior Visitors Program, she laughed, “You know, it’s been so long, I don’t remember. I probably read about it in the paper.” Barbara became a volunteer in 2001. She visited two other seniors before being matched with Joyce in 2009. Barbara explained, “At first, I didn’t know her and she didn’t know me. We worried

about offending each other. I felt like I needed to be strict with setting appointments and time, but over the years, we’ve developed a close friendship. We are completely comfortable now. We are flexible and don’t need to set a particular time.” Barbara went on to say, “We’ve been through thick and thin together. Joyce tells me things you would only tell a close friend and vice versa. We talk about everything from the news to aging. She has absolutely added to my life. I am fortunate to make a new friend at an older age.”

I asked Barbara and Joyce what they enjoy doing most together. Joyce said, “We have enjoyed roaming around together. We used to go shopping and out to lunch and walk around. As the years have passed, that has changed. We have slowed down. We do important

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errands together, but more often, we just talk on the phone and keep track of each other. It’s a big help just knowing someone’s there. Any time I need her, I know Barbara is there.”

The Holiday Candlelight Tour is a Fredericksburg tradition—a legacy of the vision of a dedicated group of local young women. In 1971, the Junior Board of Historic Fredericksburg, Inc. developed the idea as a new way to raise money.

Barbara said of the Senior Visitors Program, “Considering volunteering, you may be “helping” someone else, but you are gaining many facets for yourself. It is so rewarding.” Joyce also remarked, “If it wasn’t for you guys, where would we be? Senior Visitors is a great program. It’s up to us to take advantage.” If you know a senior who could benefit from having a weekly, friendly visit OR if you would like to volunteer to visit a senior, call the Senior Visitors Program at (540) 371-2 2704 or visit our website at mhafred.org. The Senior Visitors Program is a free community service program of Mental Health America of Fredericksburg.

The fledgling group of nearly 50 women—ages 22 to 39—quickly got to work. Evidence of their dedication to high quality were trips by the Junior Board members to Colonial Williamsburg to research Christmas foods and punch to serve during the tour.

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Historic Now called the Fredericksburg Foundation, Inc. (HFFI), the organization still works with local residents to share their homes to the public. The Candlelight Tour features historic homes in the Fredericksburg area. The public receives guided tours of these professionally decorated homes. Researchers provide the history and scripts for volunteers to share with guests.

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The turnout for the first tour far exceeded expectations so much so that they ran out of paper tickets. Nearly 1,000 people attended. The Junior Board did it all—publicity, decorating, hosting in Colonial costumes, and making food to serve to visitors. The Candlelight Tour, as well as the preparation and planning for the event, has evolved over the years. The Junior Board, later called the Women’s Council, ran the tours until 1995, when the foundation took over the project and local professional floral designers began doing the home decoration. Eventually the weekend came to include a black-tie gala, later to become the Saturday night cocktail party.

Joyce said she heard about the Senior Visitors Program through Healthy Generations Agency on Aging. “I was at the bank one day and looked over and saw the Agency on Aging sign. I decided to call them to see what groups or

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One of the most challenging tasks in those early years—as it still is today— was convincing local residents to open their homes to the public. But generous homeowners opened their houses to make the fundraising event possible.

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A book launch was held at 718 Venue. Books can now be purchased online at hffi.org/shop/ and at 1200 Caroline Street. Tickets for the upcoming Candlelight Tour on December 8 and 9 are on sale at hffi.org/holiday-ccandlelighttour/, Lewis Store, at the and Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania Visitor Centers. Sandra Erickson is the Director of Operations for Historic Fredericksburg Foundation, Inc.

The Historic Fredericksburg Foundation, Inc. is a nonprofit organization located in the historic Lewis Store across from the library. Their mission is to preserve, protect, and revitalize the distinctive historic environment and cultural resources of the Fredericksburg area. HFFI has an easement program, marker and publications committees, and events team that educate the public on the history of Fredericksburg. For more information about the organization and ways to get involved, visit hffi.org.

In celebration of this annual event, HFFI is releasing a new publication called Homes for the Holidays: Historic Fredericksburg’s Candlelight Tradition. The book shares the history of houses that have been featured on the tour, showcases historic images, and describes how the tour has come to be the treasured event we know today. It also discusses the history of the tour, holiday recipes, the HFFI holiday ornament, and how the homes are decorated.

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Homes for the Holidays annual candlelight tradition

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errands together, but more often, we just talk on the phone and keep track of each other. It’s a big help just knowing someone’s there. Any time I need her, I know Barbara is there.”

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Everything Greens

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

giving throughout the year

minor league baseball comes to the burg

By andy mcleod

By Bill Freehling 2020 season in Fredericksburg, VA. The Founders Club membership guarantees fans the ability to select their seat at the team’s state of the art new stadium facility to be located in Celebrate Virginia South. This once in a lifetime opportunity allows fans to celebrate baseball in The ‘Burg and lock in priority seating reservations before full and partial season ticket plans go on sale for the general public.

Baseball is coming to Fredericksburg! Celebrate Fredericksburg Baseball at its Opening Event in partnership with the Fredericksburg Area Museum. In celebration of this exciting event, FAM is offering FREE admission to the museum all day. Learn more about

Fredericksburg Baseball, join the Founders Club, and show your support for this exciting endeavor. Fredericksburg Baseball has announced the unveiling of the Founders Club for the organization’s inaugural

Membership benefits include having your name engraved onto a Founders Club plaque, which will be displayed prominently at the entrance of the stadium. In addition, new members will receive an exclusive Founders Club gift and VIP invitations to exclusive new stadium events, including the new ballpark’s ribbon cutting ceremony. Interested Fredericksburg Baseball fans will have the opportunity to reserve their spot in the Founders Club at the organization’s Opening Event on Saturday, December 1st from 11:00am to 2:00pm. The event will take place at the Fredericksburg Area Museum in historic Market Square at 907 Princess Anne Street. The first individuals to line up will have priority for seat selection at the new ballpark. Actual registrations will be accepted at noon. A $100 per seat deposit will be due upon groundbreaking in early 2019, with the further payments due upon seat selection and prior to the start of the 2020 season.

Downtown Greens maintains two public green spaces, both of which are under easement and will therefore always be maintained as a greenspace for the community. In addition to creating a safe and accessible communal space, Downtown Greens hosts programs, events, and opportunities for community engagement throughout the year, including a music festival, Youth Farm Program and Youth Garden Club, and weekly garden hours that welcome any and all volunteers to come into the garden and get their hands dirty.

Fredericksburg Baseball will continue to accept reservations for the Founders Club between December 2nd and December 31st. Founders Club benefits are only available to fans that sign up through the end of December, 2018. The Founders Club three-year commitment also locks in your ticket pricing for three years. Be part of Fredericksburg Baseball with a Founders Club membership! For more information, call 703-590-2311, e-mail fxbgfoundersclub@potomacnationals.com, or visit www.fredericksburgbaseball.com.

Bill Freehling is the Director of the Fredericksburg Department of Economic Development and Tourism

Some of the basics: 5,000-sseat multi-p purpose stadium to be be built in Celebrate Virginia South City would have use of multi-p purpose stadium when games are not being played Stadium can used by schools, parks and recreation and private groups and reconfigured to accommodate soccer, field hockey, flag football, an ice rink, concerts and other events. Facility would include meeting rooms, restaurant, suites, party rooms, familyfriendly activities and full catering services. The Stadium expected to be finished by 2020.

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The Youth Farm Program is a free, multi-layered after-school program designed for local children, 75% of whom are from underserved households. The Youth Garden club meets once a week in the Upper Garden, offering children of all ages are given the opportunity to tend their communal vegetable patch from seed to harvest, watching it grow and seeing the fruits of their labor as they care for it. This program is completely free for children aged 0-8. We just ask that children 5 and under are accompanied by an adult. The Sip-n n-S See Tour is a walkthrough opportunity hosted by Executive Director Sarah Perry on one Friday afternoon per month, where participants can partake in drinks and hors d’oeuvres while getting more a detailed look at what’s growing and what’s going on in the garden. Garden Hours are every Thursday afternoon from 3pm to 6pm, and Saturday mornings from 9am-12pm. Anyone from the community can come help out the Horticultural Director and Garden Assistant with garden maintenance, doing tasks like weeding, planting, harvesting, mulching, and general landscaping. Garden Hours are a

great way to get to know the garden, get some experience with planting and weeding, and learn a thing or two in the process. COAR program students from the University of Mary Washington students come to garden hours and help out every Saturday from 10am-12. These hours count for mandatory community service hours. Another great day in the garden this year was the Ceili Leahy Day of Service. We at Downtown Greens are grateful for all of the contributions of our many volunteers. Our annual Fork it Over Festival each spring is free for all community FIOF activities members to enjoy. including live music, a plant sale, a silent auction, the infamous smoothie bike, and a large wading pool for the kids. This year one of our featured musical guests was Laura Shepherd, the original founder of Downtown Greens. The Down Home Ball, in October, is an elegant hoedown and Downtown Greens’ biggest annual

fundraiser and party. Featuring live music, face painting, portrait photography, tarot card readings, and free food, the 22-year old tradition is a highlight of the autumn. DHB is another great opportunity for volunteers to get involved: from setup to takedown all hands are welcome! Keep up with all that goes on at Downtown Greens through our beautiful Facebook page and sign up for our monthly e-newsletter at downtowngreens@gmail.com.

Andy McLeod is the Horticultural Director at Downtown Greens photo provided by Downtown Greens

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minor league baseball comes to the burg

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by Collette Caprara The site at 826 Caroline Street that has been vacant since the departure of the Virginia Deli (which enjoyed a bustling business on the busy corner) will soon be open and thriving once again with the opening of the first bricks-and-mortar site of Juan More Taco. If that name sounds familiar, it's because the Juan More Taco food truck operated by Maria and Michael Martin has been a longstanding favorite at special events throughout the area, including the Earth Day celebration at Old Mill Park. This time, with Maria's ownership, coordination, and cooking, the venture will be a collaboration with the youngest of the Martin's five children, Amanda, who is confident and excited about the endeavor. Amanda knew from the moment the thought of a permanent location was a gleam in Maria's eye that it would become a reality. "My mom has always been the kind of person who, when she sets her mind to something, she does it," she said. "I have always looked up to her, and I think we share that same trait." While setting up a new business can be daunting-with preparation, permits, and paperwork-Maria says that the support she has received from the City's building department, the Main Street association and the Economic Development Authority has facilitated her efforts. "They just want us to be ready and open," she said. "They are doing everything they can to help, and that is so great!" Though the enterprise involves a few challenges that were not involved with the food truck, owning an actual restaurant also has its perks. "The food truck was a new experience for us. Before that I had only cooked for my family. It was challenging to keep up with cooking for so many people in such a small kitchen," Maria said. "This is such a great location, and we already have a loyal following." Maria's personal recipes harken back to her homeland of Honduras and combine the flavors of several Central American countries, with a taste that is uniquely that of Juan More Taco. Even orders via the food truck were not just a matter of convenience or availability: The majority of the orders placed were to takehome and enjoy with the family.

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200 Hanover St. ~ 373-0738 "I've been told that our food is 'life changing'-those are the exact words our customers would use!" said Maria. "Some people have come back to us with teary eyes saying that our food reminded them of their grandparents' cooking, and I have received marriage proposals every week at our food truck! People want me to come home and cook for them!" Since moving to the Fredericksburg area 14 years ago, Maria has cherished the unique ambience and atmosphere of the city. "It is the perfect little town. You have everything. It is so full of history and it's so beautiful, and the people are so welcoming." She sees the launch of the restaurant as an opportunity to give back and add to the qualities she has enjoyed in the Burg. "We want our restaurant to have that sense of community where everyone can come and gather-and what better place than around the kitchen?" said Maria. Even the touch of humor with the restaurant's name conveys a welcoming quality. "Running a business takes commitment and dedication, but if you look at our Facebook page, you'll see we don't take ourselves too seriously," Maria said. "We want people to come and laugh and have fun with us and feel at home."

Collette Caprara is a local writer and artist.

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Getting ready to prepare a holiday dessert table? Decided to cover it with a sweet selection of traditional pies? Pumpkin, pecan, chiffon, apple, cherry, maybe sweet potato or a citrus-y lemon tart - yum. Pies are everyone’s favorite. You’ve got the idea for fillings down pat. But does the idea of rolling out a tender pie crust give you baker’s anxiety? Thumbing through the “PIES” section of cookbooks you find yourself confronted with multiple conundrums Butter, oil, lard or soft shortening? Cake flour, all-purpose flour, sifted or not? Sugar? Why ice water? To chill, or not to chill? Let it rest? Prebake? Pie weights? Headache? Whole cookbooks have been written about pies-particularly emphasizing the temperamental pie crust and the myriad recipes collected by professional chefs and home bakers. Consider yourself lucky if you have a wellthumbed copy of a family no-fail pie crust recipe - hang on to it. I have tried-andtrue recipes from both sides of my family - my mother swore by her oil crust - and yes, every time she baked it - tender and

melt-in-the-mouth, flaky goodness. So, I can’t go wrong, making her recipe, right? Well….I usually end up with a crumbled chunk of leaden lumps, so porous that the filling goes right through the crust. Hmm. My grandmother’s never-fail lard recipe? Something about my version leaves a heavy, lard-y taste on the tongue, the decorative twisted edging might break a tooth if you could indeed bite through it. When even the dog gives baleful looks concerning my pastry, I decide it is time for a refresher course on crusts. A consistent, workaday tenderflaky-crumb crust for most dessert pies - I think I’ve cracked it! So try these - unless you’ve got that secret heirloom never-fail pastry recipe - maybe you’d like to share??

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USUALLY GREAT PIE PASTRY I know the key to a tender crumb is to handle the dough as little as possible and to add chilled ingredients to the flour, then let the crust rest for about 5-10 minutes before rolling out. Also - try to add only a tablespoon or so of additional flour when rolling out the dough. Any more and you will have a tough dough on your hands. I use a pastry cloth (which can actually be just a bit of canvas) and rolling pin cover as they help to resist grease and moisture and reduce the amount of extra flour needed. Some pastry chefs store them in the freezer until needed especially when working with butter crusts. Pastry chef Rose Levy Beranbaum keeps flour, shortening and butter in the freezer until use. Makes 2 pie shells, or one shell with lattice top. Measure together 1 ½ c. regular flour with ½ c. cake flour. Stir in ¾ tsp. salt. Cut in ½ c. Crisco and ¼ c. plus 1 T. butter, ideally mixing by hand. Sprinkle with 2 T. chilled water, a few drops at a time, and mix very lightly just until dry ingredients are moistened and come together in a ball. Cover with plastic wrap and let rest for a few minutes before rolling out. For prebaked crust, roll out at least 1” larger than the pie pan, place pastry in greased pan, trim the overhanging edges evenly then roll them toward the top of the pie pan. Press into place, then crimp into a V-shape, all around. Prick the bottom and sides of the

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crust with a fork. Place a sheet of waxed paper on the shell, then fill with either pie weights or dry beans. Bake preheated 425F oven 10-15 minutes or until golden brown. Remove to rack to cook, taking off weights so crust won’t steam and soften. Great for non-baked fruit pies like strawberry, custard or chiffon pies. CHOCOLATE PASTRY Substitute 2 T. flour for 2 T. cocoa powder for every 1 c. of flour used, following above recipe. Roll out pastry between two sheets of waxed paper or roll onto rolling pin to invert into pie pan. Prebake or fill - this is great for a Derby Pie or pre-baked and filled with coconut custard, whipped cream on top with toasted coconut and shaved chocolate to garnish - we call this our Mounds Pie. PATE SUCREE This is a sweetened pastry usually used in a tart pan and is as tender as a sugar cookie. Great for chocolate or fruit fillings. Cut in ½ c. butter (cut into ½” slices) into 1 ½ c. all-purpose flour mixed with ¼ tsp. salt and ¼ c. sugar. Beat together 1 egg yolk with 2 T. heavy cream and add to dry ingredients, mixing until the mixture forms a ball. Wrap in plastic wrap and flatten into 6-inch circle, then refrigerate or freeze for 10 minutes or until well-chilled. Easiest if rolled out between wax paper layers. This makes a pastry for a 9-10” tart or 9” pie. You should roll out to just the size needed for the pan - since this is more like a cookie crust, you will not be folding any extra over or crimping. Press to fit in the pan, then take your rolling pin and roll around the edges of the pan to cut off extra - or use a sharp knife. The bits can be rolled and baked like cookies. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!! Vanessa has yummy recipes for all seasons

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By vanessa moncure

Mon-Thurs, 11am-9pm Fri & Sat, 11am-10pm Sun, 11am - 9pm Bar open until 2am everyday

Collette Caprara is a local writer and artist.

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Phone: 540-899-0969 soupntaco@yahoo.com

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Olde Towne BUTCHER Corner of William & Charles Streets Downtown Fredericksburg 540.370.4105 www.oldetownebutcher.com ...And, A Happy New Year As we move through the new winter, awash with the fragrances and smells of the holidays, it is best to remember one of the best treats of all. Ice-cream!! Although I make a frozen custard, a polite nod to all of the other sweet-savory-cold confections is a must. But why Ice cream in the winter?! There is a long standing tradition of pies and confections for this season which date way before me. As a child, I remember Irene’s (my grandmother’s) pies coming out pipin’ hot. Some uncles just put fresh cream on the them, marking of the end of another unbelievable meal. The more experienced folk searched for the ice cream. Hmmm what is this “ice-crème” stuff I keep hearing about … Frozen custard is a fairly simple process. First, set up a double boiler. Put 3 cups cream, ½ C milk, and ¼ vanilla bean in the and bring the crème concoction to 170 degrees stirring occasionally. While that is going on, in a large bowl whisk

eight large yolks and ¾ C sugar together until pale. Add warmed cream mixture a cup at a time while whisking to temper the eggs (after about the third cup you can combine everything together). Strain custard into the medium bowl in the ice bath, stirring until completely cooled, add 1 tsp vanilla extract, ½ cup vanilla schnapps, covering and refrigerate until cold (at least 2 hours) This makes a great vanilla base for all kinds of “creams.” Pistachio, maple bacon, and Nutella, just to name a few. For others, leave out the vanilla schnapps. Once ready, and after refrigerated, put the mixture into the mixer and turn it on! Viva la crème! Dressing this up to your favorite crème is easy. At OSTPA, while I was being encouraged to recover and the PT was happening, a mention of mint chocolate chip occurred. When people take care of me I feel obliged to reciprocate. Some simple adjustments (easier than my arm): ½ cup peppermint schnapps and some chopped semi-sweet chocolate chips, made this transition easy Some people are averse to the alcohol. It does do good things for icecream. Just ask Carl’s. You eliminate the ice crystals, smooth out the mixture, and make it freeze at a much lower temp. the smoother the cream the better. I have never been a confections guy, but this base gets me. Simple easy and delicious. What else is there. . Till next year – be well!

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FOR THE CONNOISSEUR If you are not a wine connoisseur yourself, picking wines for a wine aficionado can be challenging. You can’t go wrong with any of these wines: Chateau Croix des Rouzes Pomerol 2012 – Merlot-based blend from the esteemed Pomerol region of Bordeaux, France. R.H. Coutier, Champgne Brut Grand Cru Tradition – Delicate bubble with beautiful acidity and French floral Boquete. Elyse Morisoli Vineyard 2012 – Perfect for the Napa Cabernet lover who appreciates “Rutherford Dust”. Ceretto Nebbiolo Barbaresco 2014 – Give the “King of Wines” to the king (or queen) of wine in your life. Orin Swift 8 Years in the Desert 2017California Zinfandel made by a iconic winemaker, Orin Swift Ixsir El Ixsir Red Blend 2011 – For the adventurous wine explorer, expand their horizons with a wine from Lebanon. Lemaire Rosé de Saignée- Limité – Perfect for the Champagne aficionado. M Chapoutier Châteaneuf-d du-P Pape La Bernardine 2014 – From the highly esteemed Chateaneuf-du-Pape region of the Rhone Valley. Scopone Brunello di Montalcino 2011 – Perfect for the Italian food and wine lover. McClelland, Oak Knoll District of Napa Valley Cabernet Sauvignon (2014)– Smooth and rich Napa Cab for those who appreciate robust wines. UNDER $50 Unique wines with qualities that stand out from the crowd: Casa Rojo Alexander vs the Ham Factory 2015 Rich black fruit compote with notes of cocoa, mocha and vanilla Chateau des Eyrins La Closerie des Eyrins Margaux 2014 soft earthiness, pepper, blueberry, raspberry preserve-infused finish that demonstrates superb persistence Jean-P Paul Paquet Domaine les Vieux Murs Pouilly-F Fusse 2016 Floral, fruity lemon, grassy bouquet, vanilla, smoke, tropical fruit, and hint of savory on the palate Nicole Chanrion, CÃ´te de Brouilly Rouge (2017) Gamay, simple, juicy red fruit, elegant with soft finish Groom Shiraz – Dark and smoky Decibel NZ Pinot Noir 2013 opulent wine; raspberries, black cherry, forest floor, supple mouthfeel Hartford Court Russian River Chardonnay – Smooth and buttery Dansk Mjod Viking Blod Danish style mead with hops and hibiscus Le P'tit Paysan, Le P'tit Pape Red Blend (2015) – black pepper, black cherry, raspberry moderate tannin Le Seuil de Mazeyres Pomerol – Delicate and fresh

Le P'tit Paysan, Le P'tit Pape Red Blend (2015) enticing aroma of cherry pie, earth, strawberry, Wirsching Iphofer Scheurebe Kabinett Trocken – Exotic and fruity UNDER $25 Good quality wines don’t have to be expensive. Choose any one of our most popular wines for under $25: Carol Shelton Wild Thing – Most popular California red Vina Robles Paso Robles Cabernet Sauvignon – Most popular Cabernet Sauvignon Château Hourbanon Medoc – Most popular Bordeaux Ca del Doge Prosecco Extra Dry– Most popular Prosecco Grochau Cellars Willamette Valley Pinot Noir Commuter Cuvée – Most Popular Oregon Pinot Noir Croft Port Reserve Tawny Porto – Most popular Port Casa Rojo The Orange Republic 2016 sweet aromas of mango, apricot, orange blossom, silky Flegenheimer Bros, Paisant Red Blend (2015) Rhone blend from South Australia Anton Bauer Wagram Pinot Noir 2016 gentle cedar, strawberry, and cherry; velvety tannins Torres (Sp) Celeste Crianza – Most popular Tempranillo Saint Cosme Les Deux Albion Blanc Principaute d'orange 2016 White RhoneViognier/ Picpoul; floral & citrus red. Hints of berry, grape, strawberry, and blueberry with rose notes Rinaldi Joyful – slightly off-dry, hints of apple and vanilla. Playful alternative to prosecco STOCKING STUFFERS Great additions to round out your holiday gift giving or to bring to a gift swap! Bundled Bottle Topper – cute hat and scarf set for your wine bottle stuffer AirPop Wine opener – Add some fun and excitement to opening your next bottle of wine! Ellipse Decanter – fully aerate your wine Wine glass charms – Choose from a selection of themed sets or choose your own combination. Vacuum Seal – protect your wine from oxidizing Wine Chocolates – Yummy Gearharts chocolate mixed with Virginia wines. Wine Jellies – Made with Virginia wines, elevate your PB&J or serve alongside a cheese plate. City Vino is located at 810 Caroline St. You can find owners Renee Dunn & Rita Allen on-site to provide answers to all your wine questions & help you plan your Holiday beverages

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by james kyle snyder

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The Great Christmas Ring! Join us as a RINGER or a Listener a ringing event for English Handbells. It's fun. It's festive. It's no fuss. Plan to ring with us! FXBG Expo Center, 1-3:30

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Mistletoe Market @Farmers Market, holiday goodies, locally made gifts beautiful holiday home decor. 8a-1p, Hurkamp Park Pancakes with Santa, Rappahannock Rotary 32nd Pancake Day, 8a-5p, FXBG Baptist Church Spotsy Christmas Parade, 1pm

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A Christmas Story, the Musical, presented by CYT, 3pm. Spotsy HS, 6975 Courthouse Rd Home for the Holidays. Enjoy the house decorated for the holidays in the spirit and style of American painter Gari Melchers and his talented artist-wife Corinne. Thru Dec 30

Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

First Friday, December 7

All Members Show, Artful Dimensions, , opening reception, 6-9. Show thru the 31st, 922 Caroline Street Gaye Adegbalola Featured Artist Darbytown Art Studio Browse the studio, meet the artists and start your holiday shopping here while listening to Gaye's latest CD, Griot. Original art by local artists and Gaye's CD will be available! 241 Charles Street

Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup!

Baseball is coming to Fredericksburg! Celebrate FXBG Baseball Opening Event in partnership with the FAM 11a-2p, Market Square

FCCA Annnual Holiday Show, 813 Sophia St

Annual Gingerbread Exhibit, George Washington Ferry Farm, 10a-4p. Exhibit thru Dec 31

Tour the Mary Washington House by candlelight in the spirit of an 18th century Christmas. FREE event! 4:30pm - 7pm

Christmas on the Field, This unique family-friendly event will bring something for the entire family. With over 50 artisans and crafters selling & exhibiting their work at this arts and crafts show. 9a-4p, FXBG Field House

Christmas Parade, Downtown FXBG, 5:30p Caroline & Princess Anne Pictures with Santa and Merry Trees Exhibit. FAM's third floor Council Chamber gallery will be filled with fifteen trees decorated by the Hugh Mercer Elementary School's second graders. Each tree is inspired by a book the students have read in the classroom. Thru Dec 31. FREE Tis the season to be jolly! Get into the holiday spirit and find great deals at the Fredericksburg Holiday Craft presented by Bonefish Grill FXBG Expo Center. Over 300 talented crafters handmade holiday gifts and decorations Show thru Dec 2 Holiday Art Sale, Artists' Alliance at JTFA in Colonial Beach, Art suitable for gifts for every budget, 11a-5p. 100 Taylor St - 804 224 7200 A Christmas Story, the Musical, presented by CYT, 2pm. & 7pm Spotsy HS, 6975 Courthouse Rd. Get ready to tap your toes! Stage Door Youth presents Singin' in the Rain Jr.organized by: Stage Door Productions, Chancellor HS

Sunday, December 2

Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup!

Holiday Art Sale, Artists' Alliance at JTFA in Colonial Beach, Art suitable for gifts for every budget, 11a-5p. 100 Taylor St - 804 224 7200 Artist Pop-Up,Artful Dimension Gallery, 922 Caroline St. Georgette Rankin will display her unique paper-mache Santas and ornaments

Monday, December 3

Benefit raffle drawing for Trista Chapmen Tea St for the All proceeds support local programs of Mental Health America of FXBG. "HollyBall" a dress up night of dancing & fun. For children 4 years & older, @Dorthy Hart Community Center, 6:30-8:30pm

Brush Strokes Gallery "Deck the Walls!" Exhibit, Throughout Dec all-members' seasonal display of artwork in a variety of media. 824 Caroline St

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Thursday, December 6

Deck the Walls! Brush Strokes Gallery 824 Caroline St. ll-members' seasonal display of artwork in a variety of media.

TINSEL Town Holiday Craft Market, local artists, drink specials, comp hors d'oerves, Sunken Well Tavern, 720 Littlepage, 6-9pm Christmas Open House at the Rising Sun Tavern, 5:30pm - 8:p beautifully decorated for the season Taste seasonal treats and beverages, FREE event! We will also have live vignettes of Tavern life. Join us for research findings on the history of the Rising Sun's distinguished owners & interesting occupants, along with interpretation of life in a Federal-era tavern. Presented by Daphne Ahalt a University of Mary Washington, Department of Historic Preservation student, and the Assistant Lab Director of the Archaeology and Collections Branch, Fairfax County Park Authority.

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Saturday, December 8

Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup! Have hot chocolate, and roast marshmallows over the roaring fire pits! Play in the Family Play-Grounds and visit the farm animals! Art Sale, Artists' Alliance at JTFA in Colonial Beach, Art suitable for gifts for every budget, 11a-5p. 100 Taylor St - 804 224 7200

join the National Park Service in commemorating the 156th Anniversary of the Battle of Fredericksburg with historian-led programs: 9 a.m.: Crossing the Rappahannock. This program will look at the dramatic events of December 11, 1862, as the Union army struggled to get across the Rappahannock. We will take the same view of the event as thousands of soldiers did, watching from the heights of Chatham, above the crossing. With John Hennessy. 60 minutes. Meet at Chatham (120 Chatham Lane, Fredericksburg) 10:30 a.m.: Fighting in the Streets. Join Frank O'Reilly as he walks the streets that witnessed the first major urban combat in American History on December 11, 1862. 90 minutes. Gather at the upper pontoon crossing at Sophia and Hawke Streets (GPS Coordinates: 38.307868, -77.460916). On-street parking available nearby. 2:00 p.m.: "Men fell like leaves in autumn:" The Fight for Prospect Hill. Join Greg Mertz to explore the Southern end of the Fredericksburg Battlefield, the only place where Union troops were able to penetrate the Confederate line. 90 minutes. Meet at Tour Stop 6, Prospect Hill (GPS Coordinates: 38.248090, -77.435651) Santa is flying in from the North Pole to Stafford Regional Airport !! Santa's mission is to collect new unwrapped toys and/or personal care items for the hospitalized veterans at McGuire, VA Medical Center. He is doing this to help out the NinetyNines with their Christmas Airlift. 9a-1p Stafford Players present "Charlotte's Stafford H.S. 7pm thestaffordplayers@gmail.com

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Thursday, December 13

Shop til Yule Drop Holiday Market, local artists, crafters, potters, eateries, you name it! to our first ever holiday market right here in our tasting room. Doors will be open at 11am and the market will begin at 2pm so be sure to ~shop~ on by Saturday! Strangeways Brewing Co

Sunday, December 9

Annual Candlelight Tour. Tour local historic homes & hear the stories they have to tell. Professional decorators, designers, and artists beautifully decorate each home for the holidays-a delight for the eye and an inspiration for the upcoming holidays.hffi.org/holiday-candlelighttour/ Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup! Have hot chocolate, and roast marshmallows over the roaring fire pits! Play in the Family Play-Grounds and visit the farm animals! join the National Park Service in commemorating the 156th Anniversary of the Battle of Fredericksburg with historian-led programs: : 11:30 a.m: In the Footsteps of the Irish Brigade Join Frank O'Reilly for what has become a legendary walk through the streets of Fredericksburg to the Sunken Road. Two hours. Meet at the City Dock, 201 Sophia Street. Note: plan for a walk back to your car after the program. 2:00 p.m.: 156th Anniversary Remembrance Walk Join Elizabeth Parnicza for a walk of reflection and remembrance along the Sunken Road. 60 minutes. Park at the Fredericksburg Battlefield Visitor Center, 1013 Lafayette Boulevard, 22401. Weather in the Fredericksburg region during December can be unpredictable. Check the forecast in the days leading up to the programs, and keep an eye on the park's Facebook page for weather updates. Warm or layered clothing and comfortable, sturdy footwear is recommended for all programs.

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Friday, December 14

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Crafts & Drafts Winter Market. Stock up on your holiday gifts and stay cozy with a beer from Adventure. This indoor Winter Market will feature handmade gifts from local artisans and live music throughout the evening to enhance your shopping experience. Adventure Brewing Co, 5-8p Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

Saturday, December 15

A 19th Century Christmas at Ellwood Manor, 9Noon, Visit Santa & make period craftas; Noon2pm Open House with Live Music. free and open to the public. 36380 Constitution Highway (Route 20), Locust Grove, VA 22508, Info: 540-972-5668, or Ellwood@FoWB.org Holiday Craft Fair, 18th annual Holiday Craft Fair! Browse a wide selection of handmade art, jewelry, wood crafts, and more. PLUS, take advantage of one hour of complimentary child watch while you shop. Proceeds from this event benefit our youth programs. Massad YMCA, 9a-1p Stafford Players present "Charlotte's Stafford H.S. 2& 7pm thestaffordplayers@gmail.com

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Holiday Open House Sophia Street Studios Please join us for a evening of yummy treats and delicious drinks as we celebrate our community of makers. 6-9p

Sunday, December 16

Civil War Santa @Chatham Manor Annual Christmas Program. Noon-4pm. (see pg 29 for details) A 19th Century Christmas at Ellwood Manor, Noon-3p Open House with Live Music. free and open to the public. 36380 Constitution Highway

(Route 20), Locust Grove, VA 22508, Info: 540972-5668, or Ellwood@FoWB.org Artist Pop-Up,Artful Dimension Gallery, 922 Caroline St. Aileen Campbell will exhibit an array of her colorful knit socks

Tuesday, December 18

ArtsAlive!, Act Along Christmas Carol, become an actor & enjoy this classic. …everyone knows the story so join the cast in this improvised holiday classic. 7-8:30p CRRL, Main Branch.

Wednesday, December 19

Carols in the Taproom, Red Dragon Brewery, 68pm Princess Anne St.

Thursday, December 20

Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

Friday, December 21

The Acoustic Onion Live Music @LaPetite Auberge, 311 William St, 8-midnight. . No cover. lapetiteaubergefred.com

Tuesday, December 25 Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 27

Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

Monday, December 31 New Years Eve

Family Fun Night New Year's Eve Celebration @FXBG Fairgrounds, 2400 Airport Ave.6-9pm . featuring indoor entertainment & activities….early count-down with ping-pong ball drop.

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The Great Christmas Ring! Join us as a RINGER or a Listener a ringing event for English Handbells. It's fun. It's festive. It's no fuss. Plan to ring with us! FXBG Expo Center, 1-3:30

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Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

First Friday, December 7

Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup!

Baseball is coming to Fredericksburg! Celebrate FXBG Baseball Opening Event in partnership with the FAM 11a-2p, Market Square

FCCA Annnual Holiday Show, 813 Sophia St

Annual Gingerbread Exhibit, George Washington Ferry Farm, 10a-4p. Exhibit thru Dec 31

Tour the Mary Washington House by candlelight in the spirit of an 18th century Christmas. FREE event! 4:30pm - 7pm

Sunday, December 2

Santa is coming to Braehead Farm, Santa will be in The Red Shed from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm and again from 1:30 pm to 4:30 pm! Visit with Santa, make Snowman Soup!

Monday, December 3

Brush Strokes Gallery "Deck the Walls!" Exhibit, Throughout Dec all-members' seasonal display of artwork in a variety of media. 824 Caroline St

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Thursday, December 6

Deck the Walls! Brush Strokes Gallery 824 Caroline St. ll-members' seasonal display of artwork in a variety of media.

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(Route 20), Locust Grove, VA 22508, Info: 540972-5668, or Ellwood@FoWB.org Artist Pop-Up,Artful Dimension Gallery, 922 Caroline St. Aileen Campbell will exhibit an array of her colorful knit socks

Tuesday, December 18

ArtsAlive!, Act Along Christmas Carol, become an actor & enjoy this classic. …everyone knows the story so join the cast in this improvised holiday classic. 7-8:30p CRRL, Main Branch.

Wednesday, December 19

Carols in the Taproom, Red Dragon Brewery, 68pm Princess Anne St.

Thursday, December 20

Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

Friday, December 21

The Acoustic Onion Live Music @LaPetite Auberge, 311 William St, 8-midnight. . No cover. lapetiteaubergefred.com

Tuesday, December 25 Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 27

Live Music at 7:30 Kenmore Inn. featuring drink specials at the copper top bar.

Monday, December 31 New Years Eve

Family Fun Night New Year's Eve Celebration @FXBG Fairgrounds, 2400 Airport Ave.6-9pm . featuring indoor entertainment & activities….early count-down with ping-pong ball drop.

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1950 ’ S CHRISTMAS TIME

What’s in a Rock?

1928-2018

Rappahannock Freestone

By Ralph “Tuffy” Hicks

Imagine a Town without Computers, Cell Phones and Wide Screen TV'S, a place where less than one-half of the citizens even own a television. A Town where a neighbor would depend on you for a ride to the Physician or food store because they did not have an Automobile, like many of their friends or relatives. A Town where your home phone line would have three other neighbors (party line) sharing and you would sometime have to wait several minutes to make an important call. It may sound like a century ago, however for me it was just about 67 years ago in 1951. Christmas after all these years, remains my favorite time of the year. In those days it was much the same as now with the arrival of relatives and friends some of which would only visit at Christmas. We would go to the RF&P train station and pick up my Grandmother and her husband, with their load of presents. Unlike today many of the stores did not decorate or begin to sell Christmas items and toys until late November or the beginning of December. I remember the stores normally closed in the evenings around 5 PM and all day on Sundays. Christmas cards were sent with a long message, unlike today's as a gesture that you were remembered. Letters were mailed back and forth many times during the year as a way of keeping in touch with distant friends and relatives as texting wasn't even a dream. Phone calls over 20 miles was a long-distance call and cost extra, so the mail was the less expensive method of communication. I remember our Christmas visit to my Uncle Lewis and Aunt Clara's home on Little page Street, as they would have two large decorated trees. I can still smell the running cedar and holly decorations. Uncle Lewis would always go looking in the woods for that special cedar tree, running cedar and sprigs of holly. I remember this one year when he had used the "bubble candle" lights, which was a tube with water bubbles lit like a candle. We would all bundle up and go across town to Germania Street where several of my cousins and other relatives lived. Most of the homes have been destroyed for parking areas. We would all gather around the Piano and my Grandmother and Aunt would lead us in Christmas songs. The adults would have some alcoholic punch while us kids would get plain punch and cookies along with the traditional fruit cake which we did not like that much. My Aunt had one of those small round screen televisions about 14 inches that we watched Bing Cosby sing White Christmas and then Perry Como show. All of us kids were looking at the Sears catalog or talking about gifts we wanted. I can remember Roller skates was a great Christmas gift as I soon learned could be hurtful as I broke my arm in a fall from the skates. Girls were talking about Betsy Wetsy, Barbie and 45 RPM record players. I can still recall playing with a Slinky on the steps Christmas morning. Mom always liked the Green Stamps store (S & H Sperry & Hutchinson) and many of our gifts came from there. The stamps were issued at drug stores supermarkets and gas stations and several other places. You would paste them in stamp books and turn them in for items like a Daisy Air Rifle would exchange for 5,000 stamps. I can still feel the anticipation of Santa's arrival on Christmas Eve, as Dad was sitting in his easy chair smoking his pipe and as the Yule log in the fireplace began to burn out, I would go off too bed as I heard those sleigh bells, I have to say they sounded like those bells Mom had hanging in the kitchen. Christmas morning, I remember the milk I left for Santa was all gone, however, there was a big chunk of the cookie left behind. I remember that bike and erector This Christmas as I look at our tree, I will give Anne a hug with my eyes moist as I think back and see the past images of Mom and Dad smiling. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL & CONTINUE TO READ FRONT PORCH COVER-TO-COVER Dedicated to Donald Ballard, Joe Rowe, Victor Pierson & Henry Cropp Tuffy is Front Porch's resident FXBG historian

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Josiah P Rowe III passed away on November 3rd at age 90. Joe and I first became friends in the 1960’s on the Tennis Courts at Kenmore Park in the City’s Tennis Tournament. Joe and I were in the first match and I being home from college felt very confident that I could beat this guy who was 15 years my senior. Winning the first game made it seem possible, however, that was short lived as Joe won the match easily. But, the good part was this Gentleman became a lifelong friend. In fact, he was an inspiration and encouraged me in my first run for City Council that would last for 18 years and two terms as Vice-Mayor. Joe had served two terms as Mayor along with being on many boards and commissions in the City. He will be missed……. ~ “Tuffy” Hicks

Joe was a successful businessman, a public servant, a local philanthropist, and a beloved family man. He served as the mayor of Fredericksburg for two terms and was the general manager and publisher of The Free Lance-Star, whose companies included WFLS, WYSK, WWUZ, fredericksburg.com and Print Innovators. Joe was born on Feb. 24, 1928, to Josiah Pollard Rowe, Jr., and Genevieve Sinclaire (Bailey) Rowe. He grew up in the family home on Hanover Street. With the exception of his tertiary education and a two-year stint in the Army, 1951–53, he always lived in his hometown, Fredericksburg, within a one-mile radius. Joe enjoyed puns and trivia, and had a dry wit. He reigned as city tennis champion for several decades and did not retire from the sport until well into his 80s, when Parkinson’s disease diminished his physical abilities. His love of tennis and his generosity prompted him to donate funds to build indoor courts at the University of Mary Washington and the Massad Branch of the Rappahannock Area YMCA. A list of his board service includes Virginia Press Association (President), Presbyterian School of Christian Education (now part of Union Presbyterian Seminary, Board chairman), the Virginia Museum of History & Culture (trustee), Mary Washington Hospital (Board Chairman), George Washington Foundation (trustee and treasurer), Fredericksburg Jaycees, Community Fund (predecessor of the United Way, chairman), C & P Telephone Company, Farmers & Merchants State Bank, First

By jon gerlach are excellent examples, as was a mansion (now gone) known as Mannsfield. Stones salvaged from the Mansfield ruins are found today at Gari Melcher's Belmont.

On the south bank of the Rappahannock River, just downstream from the Blue and Gray Parkway, is a cluster of massive sandstone boulders. It's a favorite place for kayakers to pull up for lunch. Beyond the beauty of the place, the rocks speak to the rich history of stoneworking in early Fredericksburg. Virginia Bank, Stars and Stripes and Fredericksburg Cemetery Company (President). The Fredericksburg Rotary Club recently recognized his 60 years of active membership. Virginia Communications Hall of Fame honored him as a member in 1995. In 2010, he was named to the AP Broadcasters’ Hall of Fame. In all aspects of his life and work, he maintained exceptionally high ethical standards and expectations. Despite his countless accomplishments, he was humble; he expected the best of himself and of others.

From roughly 1725 until the mid-1800s, sandstone outcrops were quarried and commercially exploited in the Fredericksburg area. Thanks to the work of historian Noel Harrison, today we

know of at least eight quarry sites within five miles of town where Rappahannock freestone - the local manifestation of Aquia sandstone - was mined during that early period. Ironically named, "freestone" was quarried using slave labor. Day after day could be heard the "clink, clink, clink" of iron chisels driven into the yielding rock by slaves laboring in tiresome quarries. To be sure, early Fredericksburg was built largely by slave labor. Many foundations in town were built using Rappahannock freestone. The Old Stone Warehouse and the first floor of Town Hall/Market Square

Fredericksburg is known worldwide for its famous Stone Wall along the Sunken Road, which sheltered Confederate infantrymen while they methodically destroyed successive Union assaults on December 13, 1862. The Stone Wall was built long before the war, from Rappahannock freestone quarried in the woods behind what is today the National Cemetery. Never to be forgotten, the Slave Auction Block on William Street was also made of Rappahannock freestone. Behind the Mary Washington Monument on Washington Avenue is the massive sandstone outcrop known as Meditation Rock. This was a peaceful getaway for the mother of George Washington. There, a brass plaque reads: "Here Mary Ball Washington prayed for

the safety of her son and country during the dark days of the Revolution." Local Fredericksburg sandstone came in several grades of quality and commercial value. In its common form the stone was coarse with abundant pebble inclusions (as seen at Meditation Rock), best suited for the rubble method of making foundations and stone walls (as seen in the Stone Wall). Less common but better grades had a finer, more uniform texture, suitable for use as durable dimensional stone (such as the walls of the Old Stone Warehouse and Town Hall/Market Square), and hearthstones, door stoops and window lintels (visible in many buildings on Caroline Street). Perched at the pinnacle of commercial value was the rarest of all: a dense, finegrained sandstone suitable for crisp gravestone carvings (as seen in the Masonic Cemetery). The stories of the quarry workers, stone dressers, and gravestone artists are long forgotten - dust to dust, as they say - for there are few written accounts of their lives and work. Notably, these unsung laborers and artisans created a permanent legacy that will survive for generations to come, a rich part of the built environment of historic Fredericksburg. So … what's in a rock? ... Legacies in stone.

Contributions in memory of Joe Rowe may be made to Union Presbyterian Seminary, the Virginia Museum of History and Culture, Fredericksburg Cemetery or Friends of the Rappahannock.

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An attorney and retired archaeologist, Jon Gerlach chairs the Architectural Review Board in Fredericksburg. "Stone Wall" by Jon Gerlach

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1950 ’ S CHRISTMAS TIME

What’s in a Rock?

1928-2018

Rappahannock Freestone

By Ralph “Tuffy” Hicks

Josiah Rowe III

December 2018

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By jon gerlach are excellent examples, as was a mansion (now gone) known as Mannsfield. Stones salvaged from the Mansfield ruins are found today at Gari Melcher's Belmont.

From roughly 1725 until the mid-1800s, sandstone outcrops were quarried and commercially exploited in the Fredericksburg area. Thanks to the work of historian Noel Harrison, today we

Contributions in memory of Joe Rowe may be made to Union Presbyterian Seminary, the Virginia Museum of History and Culture, Fredericksburg Cemetery or Friends of the Rappahannock.

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An attorney and retired archaeologist, Jon Gerlach chairs the Architectural Review Board in Fredericksburg. "Stone Wall" by Jon Gerlach

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December is that time of year when Jolly Old St. Nick surfaces with his famous “ho-ho-ho”. I wondered how old Santa Claus is and was surprised to learn he is 1747 years old. Now, I’m not saying that laughter is what resulted in Santa Claus’ longevity. But, what I will explain is the importance of happiness and life satisfaction to older adult well-being. I think most people agree that good health contributes to happiness, but does happiness contribute to good health? Yes, scientific studies have found that positive emotions are linked to better self-reported well-being. On the flip side, worry, anger, and general unhappiness increase the risk of developing or worsening heart disease, arthritis and many other chronic illnesses. As George Bernard Shaw said: “You don’t stop laughing when you grow old. You grow old when you stop laughing.” Happy people don’t just enjoy life, they actually increase their chances of living longer. According to University of Illinois psychologist Ed Diener, "Happiness is no magic bullet, but the evidence is clear and compelling that it changes your odds of getting disease or dying young." Some studies have shown that laughing and smiling has a positive effect on our body and mind. Laughing reduces anxiety, helps reduce pain, relaxes muscles, is a form of physical exercise, lowers blood pressure, strengthens our breathing capacity (which also helps increase oxygen in our body), and brightens our spirits. According to Dr. William Fry from Stanford University, a pioneer in the field of humor research, “one minute of laughter is equal to ten minutes on a rowing machine”. Laughter also makes it easier to handle life and its challenges. When you are happy or even just pleasant, people enjoy being around you. As the saying goes, “Smile and the world smiles with you. Cry and you cry alone.”

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You may be asking yourself why bother, I have poor genes. Well researchers have an answer for that. Howard Friedman, author of ‘The Longevity Process’ and psychology professor at the University of California, says that genes only contribute onefourth to one-third of your longevity. The rest is up to you. Exercise is a great place to start. A Harvard study showed that men and women can reduce their chances of getting disabled by 25 percent, even if they didn’t exercise before. Start slowly but talk to your doctor before you begin exercising. In an AARP Bulletin “6 Ways to Feel Happier, Be Healthier”, Nissa Simon wrote that music lowers anxiety before surgery, promotes healing and reduces the levels of the stress-related hormone cortisol. Music can also lower blood pressure, reduce arthritis pain and speed post-stroke recovery. Here are a few more tips to help stay positive and improve happiness: stay mentally active (e.g., read, play thinking games and puzzles, take on a new hobby); keep a positive attitude; stay connected with others by getting involved in social or worship activities; learn not to stress over things you cannot control; appreciate the simple pleasures such as walking or spending time with others; and ho-h ho don’t forget to have one big ho-h Santa laugh a day. “You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction” ~George Horace Lorimer

Karl Karch is a local franchise owner of Home Instead Senior Care, a licensed home care organization providing personal care, companionship and home helper services in the Fredericksburg and Culpeper region.

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It is the season for giving and spending a little more time with family and friends, but it is also a time that may add a little more stress to our lives. Last December, I offered some Eden Energy Medicine tips for staying balanced during the holiday season, and this month, I would like to offer a few more. It is easy during this season, to get a little scrambled and ungrounded. We need to maintain our grounding in order to stay healthy, and one of my favorite ways to do that is the Quickie Grounder. Do a Hook-Up by placing one finger in your belly button, and another finger in the middle of your forehead. Take a few breaths. Next, place your hands on your waist with your thumbs in the front and hands in the back. Slide them down your legs with pressure and then squeeze the sides of your feet. Take two breaths while holding the sides of your feet and really feel a connection to the Earth. Stress can easily take hold this month, and performing the Triple Warmer Smoothie can help to calm us down during those moments when we may feel it most. Rest your face in your hands with your palms at your chin and fingers at your temples. Take two deep breaths. Then on the next in-breath, lift your fingers a few inches above the ears. On an exhale, circle behind your ears and press down the sides of your neck to your shoulders. As you hang your hands on your shoulders, press in and take two breaths. Finally, drag your hands down to cover your heart and take one more deep breath. The Triple Warmer/ Spleen Hug can be done without anyone noticing, and can also calm us down and center us. Place your right hand on the left side of the rib cage, and the left hand on the other arm

with the pinky finger at the tip of the elbow. Wrap your hand around the elbow and take three deep breaths. Switch sides and repeat. Another way to help relieve stress and worry is to Calm the Triple Warmer Neurovascular Points. Place your thumb, first and middle fingers in a cluster together, called a 3-finger notch. Then put those fingers at the "V" at the bottom of your throat above your collarbone. If this feels funny, you can use a flat hand over this spot. Place the other hand on the side of your face with your fingers flat at your temples. Take some deep breaths and then switch sides. This season is all about connection, gratitude, and inspiration. Heaven Rushing In helps us tap into the bigger picture of the moment. Place your hands on your thighs and take a few deep breaths to ground yourself. Then on an inhale, raise your hands to your sides and over your head, touching your hands above it. On an exhale, bring them down to a prayer position in front of your chest. On the next deep breath, open them wide to the sky above your head and stay there as long as you need to. When you are ready, bring your hands to your heart and breathe a few times feeling a loving energy in your heart area and throughout your entire body. I hope that some or all of these will help you stay a little more balanced amid the hub-bub of the season and enjoy all of the wonder it has to offer. Visit www.itsallenergywellness.com for more information. Happy Holidays!

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end of life care By Patrick Neustatter, MD I am aware that this is the December edition of Front Porch, and I should be writing about tinsel and fairy lights. But I have been coopted by a group that wants to talk about death - or end-oflife-care.

"Ethical" referring to what she thinks is insane expenditure by nearly bankrupt Medicare on dying patients with 25 percent of the total Medicare expenditure on 5 percent of patients in their last year of life.

This has been in the form of a book group, reading and discussing Being Mortal: Illness, Medicine, and What Matters in the End - a book by Atul Gawande, best selling author and surgeon at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston and professor at Harvard Medical School. He notes how:

There was discussion of how palliative care is so often blown off as "throwing in the towel." When its focus on quality rather than quantity of life, is often a far better option - and perversely, often times patients in hospice, live longer than those struggling for definitive care.

· Understanding of the needs of the elderly and the number of geriatricians is dwindling. · Facilities for the elderly are orientated to making money or the convenience of the facility, rather than what's good for the residents. · How we get into what Gawande calls "ODTAA syndrome" (one damn thing after another), referring to how so many people get in to a futile, expensive, often punishing attempt at cure, rather than palliative care. Probably no coincidence that the average age of the participants of this book group was somewhere in the 70's (it seems getting closer wonderfully focuses interest and attention on dying). Several participants were motivated by seeing friends, relatives or partners go through the dying process, and are determined to arrange things better for themselves. Principal organizer of this group, Gloria Lloyd, age 78, has a professional interest as a retired grief councilor for Mary Washington Healthcare Hospice. She says "I want my death to be thoughtful, intentional and ethical."

This animated group of elders, meeting at the Unitarian fellowship of Fredericksburg also talked of what Gawande calls "the dying role" - spelled out in the old days in writings like the Ars moriendi ("the art of dying"). “As people approach the end”, notes Gewande, “it's important to "share memories, pass on wisdom, keepsakes, settle relationships, settle their legacy, make peace with gods, ensure those left behind will be OK." Knowing about The Five Wishes or much more detailed advanced directives like POLST (physician/provider order for life sustaining treatment) are the key to you being in charge of your dying, rather than your care giver - but as Gawande and members of the group had found out, so often there is no frank discussion of end-of-life strategies before the crisis hits, and you are already poleaxed in some ICU with a tube in every orifice, unable to communicate. So, macabre though it may sound to be writing about death and dying at the "season of goodwill," paying attention to this may be the best present you can give yourself or your family. Patrick Neustatter is the Medical Director of the Moss Free Clinic.

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By Barbara Deal Like all of us, I have been thinking a lot about suicide these days. Not for myself but wondering why others Anthony have. Bourdain, Kate Spade, Kurt Cobain, Robin Williams and other celebrities seem to have it all. A mystery. This hidden unfillable emptiness.

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as among this country’s leading causes of death. People are killing themselves more frequently.

Research notes the sense of hopelessness is deadly. My sense is clients want the suffering to stop, maybe not to die die. Thoughts of loved ones walking by the casket as the person looks on can foster reconsideration. Some find no relief from suffering.

Music and art, our standby sources of truth and comfort, have also addressed the issue. Memorably, Bonnie Rait sang about someone who “changed his mind mid-air” seemingly about one who leapt from a bridge. What if one does have a “oopsie” moment” mid-air?

The stunning fact is that final thoughts are unknown because nobody has survived to tell it. Recently Richard Morgan in the New York Times gave some insight. Titled “Stop repeating suicide clichés. Try radical empathy.” Having written a suicide note, Morgan decided to wait overnight instead of killing himself. Looking back at his writing with alarm, he found it alien, thoughts and feelings not his own. Maybe a dissociative episode (disconnected from himself), or a transient psychotic episode (in an alternate way of experiencing, like an acid trip or that in-between hypno-gogic spell before sleep). Suicide hotlines can leave one cold, Morgan continued. Sometimes nobody answers. Talking to a stranger, is still talking to a stranger. He recommends we reach out with empathy. Reassurances fall on cold dying ears. Promising to “be there” must be linked immediately with concrete actions and plans (“lunch tomorrow?” Coffee now? Stay at my house tonight.) and frequent calls to check on.

Not for the faint of heart, but truly. Unlike the MASH soundtrack, Suicide is NOT painless. Thinking about overdosing? You choke on your own vomit. Shoot yourself? I have seen patients survive with severe brain damage. Hanging? Who will cut loose your body? Slice wrists? Bloody. Who will clean up the blood? Who would you be punishing? Never mind the legacy. You up the likelihood that your kids will join you in suicide. Nope. What if you change your mind mid air?

There are common factors that you know: 1) men kill themselves more than women due to selection of method (guns/hanging vs. pills and cutting) 2) loss of employment for family providers 3) failing health esp. in the elderly 4) relationship failure 5) suicidality among youngsters with orientation and or identity issues 6) mental illness, especially manic depression and schizophrenia 7) prior efforts at suicide 8) use of drugs such as heroin and alcohol.

Barbara is a retired psychotherapist and local artist.

One of my very favorite things about Fredericksburg is the people. And one of my very favorite people in Fredericksburg is Dr. Cler Baheri. Dr. Cler is the force behind Chiropractic & Wellness downtown, and if you don’t already know her, you should! Dr. Baheri and her family joined our community in 2010, and she says, when they arrived in Fredericksburg she “knew this would be our family, and professional home, the place where we would plant roots.”

Dr. Cler was born in Iran, where women are not allowed to attend University. After moving to Pakistan, then Canada, she landed in Oregon in 1995 where she began Chiropractic school. She says that her introduction to Chiropractic came while she was in her first year of college. During that time, her landlord noticed that she kept her lights on all night. When asked why, she explained that because of her headaches and neck pain, she could only study one hour at a time. Leaving the lights on woke her up so she could continue to study. Her landlord recommended that Cler see her Chiropractor “Dr. David Coates, how can I forget him” she says with a smile. “After only a few sessions, I had that “AHA”moment . Is this what people without headaches feel like?" She knew then that this was her calling, and in 1998 graduated as a Doctor of Chiropractic. Dr. Cler says her favorite part of being a Chiropractor is “the detective nature of my work. The human body is one giant complex puzzle. When I

succeed in bringing those puzzle pieces closer into focus, I feel a sense of accomplishment. What I do is also very intimate and personal in the sense that my patients grant me access into their most personal space in life, their health history and their traumas. It is a very humbling experience and a privilege that I honor and do not take lightly.”

absolutely love that my office overlooks Princess Anne Street. From these windows my Patients and I have viewed everything from double rainbows, storm front moving in from the west and fat snowflakes falling softly on old rooftops. “

In addition to her Chiropractic work, Dr. Baheri is also training to become a Certified Holistic Health Practitioner, and looks forward to incorporating that into her practice in the near future. “But first, I will always be a chiropractor. I love what I do, and I feel that this will enable me to better serve my patients, and work with them in a more “in depth” manner.”

Birthday”. During her Anniversary week, she will be donating her time and services to her patient in exchange for items needed by Micah Ministries. She is also having a commemorative 20th anniversary blend created for her by The Scenter of Town.

In her “spare time”, between studying, seeing patients and chasing a toddler, Dr. Cler enjoys reading, knitting and painting. (She’s really quite good!) Dr. Baheri loves having her office in Downtown Fredericksburg. “I really enjoy the history of our Building, and I

On December 12th, Dr. Baheri is celebrating her 20 th “Chiropractic

Please stop by and introduce yourself to Dr. Cler, and wish her a very Happy Anniversary. Chiropractic & Wellness 904 Princess Anne St., Suite 307. Suzy Woollam can be found in The Scenter of Town on Charles St

I believe there exists a terrible depth of despair that unless in its clutches, another human being cannot grasp until despairing. It IS hard to be a witness and STAY a witness while someone is in this despair. It can be unbearable. Tiring. Exhausting, from the outside. And yet, what can it feel in THEIR INSIDES? Just be there. Be with. Endure so maybe they can. BECOME THAT RADICAL.

The Center for Disease Control (CDC), responsible for keeping up with incidences of national mortality (epidemiology), has now classified suicide

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Mind Your Mind

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Celebrating Community and Chiropractic

By Suzy Woollam

as among this country’s leading causes of death. People are killing themselves more frequently.

Barbara is a retired psychotherapist and local artist.

On December 12th, Dr. Baheri is celebrating her 20 th “Chiropractic

The Center for Disease Control (CDC), responsible for keeping up with incidences of national mortality (epidemiology), has now classified suicide

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David C. Kennedy

Art is a Gift from the Heart

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Cover Artist My passion for the visual arts started when I was no more than 2 or 3 years old. I have vivid memories from those early years of hours spent playing with pencils, markers and crayons - scribbling at first like all children do, then later attempting to draw scenes that I observed from life and images from my imagination. Eventually, I decided to turn my hobby into a career, and after graduating from The Art Institute of Pittsburgh, I began my 30 year professional journey as an illustrator, graphic artist and photographer, finding employment at various advertising agencies and design studios. In my last and most recent fulltime position, I worked as an artist and photographer at The Washington Post. For the past five years, I've made my home in Fredericksburg where I've transitioned to becoming a full-time freelance photographer and part-time fine artist. These days inspiration often comes to me by way of the city's rich history, natural beauty and the creations of other local artists and photographers. As a freelancer, I've chosen to specialize in event, portrait and architectural photography. I strive to capture and render images that demonstrate a unique point of view and I often like to experiment by altering my photos using Adobe Photoshop, which is a powerful

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digital editing program. I refer to these edited pictures as "photo illustrations", owing to the fact they're a blending of art and photography. In my free time I enjoy going on long walks, skateboarding, drawing, painting, drumming and most of all spending time with my family - and of course, taking lots of photographs. For commission work, event, portrait, and architectural photography, please contact David C. Kennedy Photography at dkphotography.photoshelter.com or by calling 240.205.1505. In addition to the services listed above, I offer prints of my artwork and photographs along with damaged/antique photo retouching and restoration.

Daily hours 10 to 6.

Artist on site Saturdays 540.371.4099

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Mike, 30, was born in Norfolk, VA . He has three sisters and three brothers. From a young age, Mike's mom was incarcerated and dad left sometime after. He spent much of his early years between foster homes and psychiatric hospitals. At 11-years old, Mike was adopted. "It took some getting used to," he said. "Because when you are young you always want to be with your parents. Not having that biological family in my life made me want to rebel." As a child, Mike enjoyed going to watch his older brother play basketball at Massaponax High School. He liked riding his bike, watching Nickelodeon and playing football. Mike's troubles as an adult began when he was in high school. He ended up in juvenile detention as a freshman in high school and that triggered a chain of events. "I wanted everything that I wasn't getting at home. At home I was getting disciplined and had chores," he said. "I didn't understand why my parents wouldn't let me run the streets. I wanted to make my own choices, but I wasn't mature enough; I didn't understand life enough to be on my own." While incarcerated, he obtained his GED. He also recognizes that he gained a lot of wisdom from older inmates who had spent most of their life locked up. "They let me know that the streets wasn't something to glorify. Drugs and violence is just setting us up for destruction," he said. While released from jail at 18 and theoretically an adult, he recognizes that he still had a kid mentality. "I thought I could lay around without paying any bills and still keep a roof over my head," he said. His sister gave him an ultimatum, "get it together or get out." He got out in 2008 and has cycled through homelessness ever since.

"It has been very humbling [to be homeless]," he said. "Pretty tough at times. You tend to gain a greater respect for the seasons. You tend to gain a sense of survival. In a way, it feels like we are a whole other city within the city. "At the same time, I gained a view that is unbiased. I went from living in big houses in the Kingswood subdivision to living in a tent," he said. "I came to realize that people that are homeless are people too. I have met a lot of great people in my life on the streets. They are people that are no different from those who go to work every day." Although he has coped with the tragic loss of both his two-year old son and a brother in the last year, things have started to turn around for Mike. He's completed his probation requirements, finished anger management classes, begun working on a housing plan with Micah and started giving back through a variety of community activities. "I've learned a lot more about myself. I'm starting to take responsibility in that a lot of my downfalls have been self-inflicted," he says. "I'm also learning how to cope when things get rough and not automatically give up." In the coming months, Mike is hoping his housing plan will come together and that he will be able to achieve financial stability. He has a girlfriend and three-month old, who is currently living with his sister, to take care of. Someday, he hopes to go to school and become a music producer. "Music has always been therapeutic," he said. "Photography is something I wish I had in my life. There's not many pictures of me before the age of ten and there are a lot of memories that I don't have to look back on because of that. "I just want to be able to do something I can be proud of," he continued. "I've wasted so much time. I'm 30 and have nothing to show for it. I want something I can leave to my son."

Identify this mystery house and you could win a gift certificate from a downtown merchant. Hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s how: Email frntprch@aol.com, Subject: Mystery House, Identify house address, Your name, address, email. The poem below is a hint of the location of the mystery house. Good Luck!

Last Monthâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s House: 720 William Street The Winner of a gift certificate from Liz'z Creative Juices is John Henderson A Lady You are so very elegant, a proper lady, no one would deny. All your whirls and curls, exactly where they should reside. Who stands upon the patio, with your window so very oval, speaking to the crowds, who walk by and admire you daily. passing by your door, from young and old, those building their futures, and the arthritic alike. Your road is mentioned in history books, famous for bloody battles, but today your yard holds, only peaceful scenes and flowers.

Submitted by Micah Ecumenical Ministries, a Christ-Centered Community supporting people experiencing chronic homelessness and identifying pathways to sustainable housing. Contact 540479-4116; www.dolovewalk.net; facebook

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On Stage!

Art in the Burg

THE POETRY MAN

holiday shows professionally created paintings, jewelry, photography and sculpture. Take this opportunity to enjoy the abundance of great art created by local Fredericksburg-area artists. Opening Reception: First Friday, December 7,, 6: to 9 p.m. ~Casey Shaw

Deck the Walls! Brush Strokes Gallery 824 Caroline Street Griot. Gaye Adegbalola Darbytown Art Studio 241 Charles Street Browse the studio, meet the artists and start your holiday shopping here while listening to Gaye’s latest CD, Griot. Original art by local artists and Gaye’s CD will be available! Opening Reception, Dec 7, 6-9pm ~ Jeannie Ellis

A Collection of Works by Fredericksburg-a area Artists Art First Gallery 824 Caroline Street Fredericksburg’s oldest area artists co-op and offers a wide variety of

not just about gift giving, but also a story of love and celebrating the serenity and beauty of season. Holiday Art Sale the first two Dec 1-2, and Dec 8 -9. Artists will be featuring small items, suitable for holiday gift-giving. This is an opportunity to buy unique works of art for those on your holiday lists. And, a chance to support your local artists. ~Rob Rudick

"Deck the Walls," its allmembers' seasonal display of artwork in a variety of media. Visitors who peruse the display may find a creation that elicits a special holiday memory or favorite seasonal subject shared with family and friends--the perfect gift that will be a reminder of their care throughout the year. In addition, the gallery's festive “Craved Stone Leaf”, Liana Holiday Table features a bevy of Pivirotto @Brush Strokes Gallery gifts, including jewelry, innovative specialty items, small paintings, and ornaments. ~ Norma Woodward

Spirits Bright Karen Julihn Artists Alliance, Colonial Beach100 Taylor St., Suite 101, Colonial BeacH

Rainbow Socks, by Aileen Campbell @Artful Dimensions

Featured artist for December, eminent local painter Karen Julihn, presents a holiday show entitled, "Spirits Bright, featuring art works that resemble Christmas card illustrations. The paintings and collages portray delightful images of wild life creatures and stylized characters that appear to have jumped out of a story book. Karen's fanciful illustrations bring the joy and brightness of the holidays to life and remind us that Christmas spirit is

by Lenora Kruk-Mullanaphy

By Frank Fratoe

Sanctity No cathedral or basilica or mosque or synagogue can monopolize holiness when their facades are projected by engineers to glorify architecture no matter what theocracy has declared about them adoring a power above us.

“Candlelight” Karen Julihn @Art Alliance Artist Pop-U Ups Artful Dimensions 922 Caroline St. Georgette Rankin, Dec. 2; Aileen Campbell , Dec 16 Georgette, will display her unique paper-mache Santas and ornaments, and Aileen will exhibit an array of her colorful knit socks. Perfect stop for holiday gifts. The only 3-D Gallery in the ‘burg ~Lynette Reed

Exact Change New works by Print Jazz Pete Morelewicz Sunken Well Tavern 720 Littlepage Street thru January 9, 2019 “Silent Skater”, Cathy Herndon @Art First

Stafford Players spin tale of “charlotte’s web”

Beyond man’s production a river-gorge is sacred and wilderness is sacred and the ocean is sacred and starlight is sacred but even more sacred are child and mother asleep for they come to us here from a love everlasting Frank Fratoe (Pop-Pop) lives & writes in the city. He has written poems from the heart for Front Porch for over 10 years.

Stafford High School's stage will be transformed into a farm inhabited by the lively characters of "Charlotte's Web" winning Stafford Players when the award-w bring the tale to the public at the high school on December 7-8 and 13-15, 2018. With a cast and crew of 47 students, the audience will be treated to the story of Wilbur the pig and his friendship with Fern, the little girl who adopts him. Wilbur is befriended by Charlotte the spider, who helps to save his life by spinning messages about him in her web. Stafford High School Director of Theater Michael D'Addario and Fine Arts Teacher and Co-Director Chad Johnson have worked with the students after school each day and on Saturdays since October. The stage, which will showcase the farm and barn where the story takes place, was created by the school's technical theater students. The Stafford Players most recently performed "Alice in Wonderland" in a one-time performance for the public before heading to the Virginia Theatre Association's annual conference in Norfolk, Va., in October. The group garnered several awards, including for the

overall play, excellence in acting and technical. Under D'Addario's and J o h n s o n ' s direction, the Stafford High School Theater Department has earned more than 100 awards in district, regional, state and national competitions. The program also features a thriving improv comedy troupe, which has grown to nearly 50 students over the last few years. Senior Allison Yablonski, 17, who holds the office of president for the Stafford Players, is the assistant director. She plays Edith Zuckerman, Fern's aunt, in "Charlotte's Web." After graduating, Yablonski will attend college to major in music education with a choral emphasis and, possibly, a minor in theater. "I love being a member of the Stafford Players because of the camaraderie of the group," said Yablonski. "The students and teachers are so invested in their passion. We have such a great time together, and I've learned so much about myself throughout the process." Ryan Anderson, 18, who is also a senior, is the vice president of membership for the high school's International Thespian Society troop. He plays Templeton, the rat that is one of the barnyard residents in "Charlotte's Web." "I like being in the Stafford Players because of the opportunities to put on amazing performances," said Anderson. "The group has become a second family and has taught me so much, and the experiences afforded to

me by being a part of the Stafford Players are priceless memories I'll cherish for the rest of my life." Anderson, who plans to major in computer science in college, may minor in performing arts. He will pursue theater extracurricularly after graduation from high school. The "Charlotte's Web" performances will feature carnivals on Fridays and Saturdays an hour prior to the shows, where there will be games, face painting, live music, street performers and balloon animals, which are included in the price of admission. "Charlotte's Web" items and refreshments will be available for purchase. Lenora Kruk-Mullanaphy is the president of Kruk Mullanaphy Media Group, LLC "Charlotte's Web" December 7-8 8 and 13-1 15 featuring carnivals on Fridays and Saturdays an hour prior to the shows, where there will be games, face painting, live music, street performers and balloon animals, which are included in the price of admission. "Charlotte's Web" items and refreshments will be available for purchase. Info: thestaffordplayers@gmail.com.

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On Stage!

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THE POETRY MAN

A Collection of Works by Fredericksburg-a area Artists Art First Gallery 824 Caroline Street Fredericksburg’s oldest area artists co-op and offers a wide variety of

Spirits Bright Karen Julihn Artists Alliance, Colonial Beach100 Taylor St., Suite 101, Colonial BeacH

Rainbow Socks, by Aileen Campbell @Artful Dimensions

by Lenora Kruk-Mullanaphy

By Frank Fratoe

Exact Change New works by Print Jazz Pete Morelewicz Sunken Well Tavern 720 Littlepage Street thru January 9, 2019 “Silent Skater”, Cathy Herndon @Art First

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Companions ‘tis the season to keep our pets safe

Civil War Santa returns to chatham manor for christmas program

by Gerri Reid dvm

The Holiday is a time for Family gatherings and Celebration. It is filled with festive displays of lights, decorations and Holiday traditions. We look forward to our favorite foods such as turkey, dressing, mash potatoes and pumpkin pie. But this time of the year is not easy for your pets. Veterinarians tend to see more health issues arise during holidays such as Christmas. So, let's talk about what to avoid this Holiday Season for the safety of your pet. Winter brings snow and cold temperatures. We love to see our pets playing in the snow and having fun. We recommend to wipe your pet's paws off when coming back inside as well as remove any ice or snow from their coat. Paws can become irritated and cracked from salt/chemicals on pavements and streets. You can protect theirs paws by rubbing petroleum jelly on the paw pads before going outside. Also, do not leave your pet outside for long periods of time. Remember, if it is too cold for you to be outside, it is too cold for your pet too. We tend to see ingestion of antifreeze at this time of the year, so watch out for puddles/spills on driveways and in the street. But this isn't the only thing your pet can ingest. Pet owners always want to give their pet a bit of their holiday meal. A piece of turkey here, a piece of pumpkin pie there or at times the whole meal! Your

pet is happy and excited until the next day. Foods that contain raisins/grapes or onions, and desserts should be avoided. Also, ham bones or meats with bones should not be given. We tend to see more pets present with issues such as vomiting, lethargy, and diarrhea during the holiday. These foods can cause intestinal blockage and pancreatitis which can be life-threatening. As much as your pet may want to eat these foods, it is best to reframe from giving them all together. We all love Christmas trees, lights and all the festive decorations. Tinsel, ribbons, bows, and ornaments can be dangerous for your pet. Ingestion of these objects can also cause vomiting and blockage of the intestinal tract. Ornaments can cause injuries such as lacerations or wounds. Some pets, such as cats, like to chew on lights/electrical cords which can lead to electrocution or even death. Also, be mindful of festive plants/flowers such as poinsettias as these are poisonous to cats when ingested. Christmas is a time for playing in the snow, decorations, and of course, DELICIOUS FOOD! It can get cold outside, so keep your pet safe and warm. While you are enjoying your Christmas dinner, just remember, what is good for you to eat is not always good for your pet to eat. And not all decorations are suitable for a household with pets. So, keep your pet safe this holiday season with these helpful tips. We want to Wish Everyone a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and a Very Happy New Year!

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program, families should anticipate a wait to see Santa, and are encouraged to enjoy some of the other holiday activities. Rebecca Jameson is with the Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania National Military Park Christmas at Chatham Sunday, December 16, Noon -4 4pm 120 Chatham Lane

NOTE The Patriotic Civil War Santa Claus is based on the illustration by Thomas Nast that appeared on the front page of Harper's Weekly on January 3, 1863.(above)

Dr. Gerri S. Reid is the Owner/Veterinarian of Reid Mobile Veterinary Servicess 540-623-3029

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Join park staff and living historians for Christmas at Chatham. Visit with Civil War Santa, learn about how soldiers and civilians experienced Christmas during the Civil War, and participate in 19th Century Christmas traditions. Union soldiers will share stories about being in camp for Christmas, and

how soldiers entertained themselves during the cold winter months. Christmas has always been a time of diverse experience and personal traditions. How did 19th century Americans celebrate Christmas, particularly during hard times such as the Civil War? How did they decorated Christmas trees and what types of gifts did they receive? Activities will be available for children in the house and on the grounds while they are waiting for their turn to see 19th Century Santa, or after they are finished with their visit. Living historians in period dress will be answering questions about how Christmas was experienced by both soldiers in the camps and their loved ones left behind on the homefront. Children can both decipher a Civil War era letter and learn about different Christmas traditions from the 19th century. Light refreshments will be served by Friends of Chatham. Due to the popularity of the

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Companions ‘tis the season to keep our pets safe

Civil War Santa returns to chatham manor for christmas program

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By rebecca jameson

NOTE The Patriotic Civil War Santa Claus is based on the illustration by Thomas Nast that appeared on the front page of Harper's Weekly on January 3, 1863.(above)

Dr. Gerri S. Reid is the Owner/Veterinarian of Reid Mobile Veterinary Servicess 540-623-3029

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Dreams Do Come True

Fredericksburg Sketches

DOWNTOWNERS

A visual Celebration of our community

even if it is 40 years later

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By Casey Alan Shaw

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By Joan Geisler

“When you wish upon a star makes no difference who you are, anything your heart desires Will come to you.” Nice sentiment Jiminy Cricket, but we know that is not necessarily true. Dreams come true with diligence, hard work, smart work and tenacity. When I was in 5th grade, yes 45 years ago, we had a writing assignment. We were to write a book giving instructions to perform a task. I wrote how to tie a shoe. Then we used construction paper and contact paper (remember that) and used yarn to bind it together through holes made with a hole punch. I still have it in my keepsake box. That is when I decided I was going to be a writer someday. 30 years ago, I saw a picture of the Nativity. Joseph was holding Baby Jesus and Mary was in the background laying asleep on the hay. I said to myself, “Ya know, Joseph had a bigger role in the Nativity and raising Jesus than the Bible reveals.” Then while vacationing at Christmas time in Florida in 2010. I said to myself, “This is the time to start to write the book which has been in my head since 1990.” I titled it Behold! Born Unto You. It took me 4 years to write it. I self-published it in 2014 and made an original order of 120 books. When the big box arrived I actually got a little choked up to realize that my dream had come true! I followed scripture closely and then just imagined what I would do in

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their shoes. They were ordinary people called to do an extraordinary work. Mary was just an obedient girl. Do you realize that according to the Jewish law, her father had the right to stone her and Joseph for premarital sex? I would imagine that she did not say, ‘yes’ to Gabriel the angel without contemplating the cost. If I was her, I would ask Gabriel to go tell my father! The book is written from the first person as they recall their part in the greatest story ever told. Traveling 9 months pregnant, I would imagine that Mary and Joseph had a difficult time and maybe even quarreled a little too. And perhaps, the artists who render their passage as a lone adventure with just the two of them and a donkey might not be completely accurate. It would have been a long arduous trip with a pregnant woman, whom you love, to do it alone. Just saying. Herrod was mean and nasty, Caesar was self-serving, the shephards were awestruck and the magi came in humble adoration. I wrote about each person with reverential artistic liberty and followed the story just as it is told in the Bible according to Matthew and Luke. Finding the right cover that expressed Joseph as a main character took some searching. I found an artist who thought, as I did, about Joseph having a larger role than scripture lets on. The painting that became my cover is rich with details just as the story is. It is my great pleasure to offer this book each Christmas season. I have since written another book for local doctor Wayne L. Whitley DDS and I have 2 others in my head waiting to come out. If you would like a signed copy you can contact me from my health website 80/20 Healthy Habits.com or order online at Amazon.com Behold Born Unto You Follow your dreams, work smart, fan the flame of tenacity and your dreams really will come true. Have a very merry blessed Christmas. ~Joan

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SKETCH #49: Winter on Princess Anne Street For the past thirty years, every year I’ve designed a personal Christmas card that my wife and I send to family and friends. That sounds quite productive, but to be completely honest, there were many years when we were days from Christmas and I still didn’t know what I’d be drawing to put on the cards. This year, I’m fortunate. I recently completed cover art for a guide to downtown holiday events that got me in the right frame of mind and, most importantly, gave me a deadline for creating a new seasonal piece of art.

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So now I’m set. I can get them printed early enough to actually get them to the post office on time. And since I’m done early (well, “early” for me, at least), I have time to print some additional boxes of cards to put in Art First Gallery. In the meantime, the sketch above, “Winter on Princess Anne Street,” will give Front Porch readers an early peek at this year’s card design. Enjoy! And have a wonderful holiday season! Casey Alan Shaw is a local artist. He exhibits his original artwork and limited-edition prints at Art First Gallery and at www.caseyshaw.com.

Own The Movie A 40-minute film with aerial and underwater photography that tells the story of the Rappahannock River from the Blue Ridge Mountains to the Chesapeake Bay.

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An amazing girl & her amazing tree by georgia Lee Strentz Tina Moyers at Roxbury Mills A tiny seed, a thought or deed, in the hands of a compassionate, nurturing human being, can produce miracles. How about Tina and her miracle tree, who hang out and work at Roxbury Mills. Actually, she and her tree have hung out and worked there for almost 20 years. It all started with a friend of Tina's husband, who was on a grapefruit diet. One day he put an ordinary grocery store grapefruit seed in a cup in their kitchen. The seed sprouted, and Tina took ownership. She is one of those (wish the world had more) nurturing people who have a green thumb of life, who can bring the best from everything they touch, with their endless patience and compassion . The seed turned into a very green,small plant, then into a bush, which required a larger pot. Then the plant grew larger over the years, 7,8,9, and Tina's husband pruned it as a tree. Since it was a tree, it became too large for their home, and since it was a grapefruit tree,which is citrus,it required a warm climate in the winter and summer. Roxbury Mills has a large greenhouse they heat in the winter,and that is where Tina works, so off their tree went to work for the winter, in the greenhouse with Tina until Spring. In the Spring, Tina would take her tree home for summer each year. Nineteen years have passed and her tree thrives Tina's tree has become somewhat famous locally in the plant world, for those who shop at Roxbury. We depend on Tina and her co-workers and their informed and compassionate manager, Andy, to take care of our gardening needs all year long. Tina's Grapefruit tree that she pollinates with pollen from it's own blooms in the spring ,has now become too large for her to transport it (anyone out there with small crane?) at about 20 feet.in height. Come see Tina's tree, and all the wonderful gifts for Christmas for those on your list. You will also be amazed at the large amount of grapefruit covering Tina's tree. Come shop for Christmas at Roxbury Mills, (Parking your three wheel bike at Roxbury

easy!!) Tina recommends;, Christmas trees, wreaths, oyster shells, marble chips, garlands, Christmas cactus, poinsettias, paper whites and bulbs, containers, beer and wine making kits, gloves,you name it, for all gardening needs, and much more. Huge amount of unusual gifts,stop in get warm, say hi, see Tina's tree,with grapefruit in December.! Our Gal about Town is sitting by the fire, with a front Porch magazine in her hand Roxbury Farm & Garden Center 601 Lafayette Blvd. (540) 373-9 9124, roxburyfarmgarden.com; Facebook

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December 2018

Dreams Do Come True

Fredericksburg Sketches

DOWNTOWNERS

A visual Celebration of our community

even if it is 40 years later

606 Caroline Street Old Town Fredericksburg

By Casey Alan Shaw

373-7847 www.gemstonecreations.org

By Joan Geisler

December 2018

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Tuesday - Saturday 10-5 Wednesdays until 6:30 and by appointment

Where Fredericksburg Gets Engaged

Give a Child Something to

Own The Movie A 40-minute film with aerial and underwater photography that tells the story of the Rappahannock River from the Blue Ridge Mountains to the Chesapeake Bay.

DVD $14.95; Members $11.96 www.riverfriends.org 540-373-3448 3219 Fall Hill Ave.

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Books, Games, Amusing Novelties M-Sat. 10am-6pm; Sun. 1pm-4pm

810 Caroline Street (540) 371-5684

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December 2018