WHAT IS LOVE?

© Victor Rubio You will not let others pressure you to do something you don’t feel like, because you already feel gorgeous, amazing and awesome within yourself and you go out into the world with that feeling.

We all crave love, but we crave love because we don’t learn how to love ourselves.

Loving ourselves can be easy!! So, let’s have and hold standards for the love we feel we deserve, and everybody deserves. Don’t let others determine standards for you!!!

WHAT IS LOVE?

We believe or are told that love is a strong emotion felt for another person and we learn that this emotion involves affection, compassion, care and even self-sacrifice.

What if this is the complete opposite and love actually has ZERO EMOTIONS in it but is instead a beholding of yourself which then holds another in the same space? WHAT IF LOVE IS ACTUALLY WHO WE ALREADY ARE? SOMETHING WITHIN US THAT IS ALWAYS THERE JUST WAITING FOR US TO CONNECT TO IT? This is of course very different to what we have thought love to be. The truth is that you have all the love you It may sound strange when we hear this first and we may not understand fully need inside you what that means… #truestory!!!!

But we can start with the knowing that Love is the most natural state of being to us – and that we are made of it – it is already within you not something to search for outside of yourself.

And this is already a great start as we can let go of all that we have believed love to be and that it is not just for ‘special’ moments and with ‘special’ people. But does the world reflect this to us? Aren’t we constantly told in many ways that we are not good enough?

There are many ways we are told that we are not good enough, that there is someone more beautiful than you, that you have to do millions of things to be loved.

Pretty much every music video, movie, magazine, advertising, social media and sometimes even people close to us, can reflect or say to us we are not enough.