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TRUE AUTHENTICITY IS THE ACT OF SIMPLY BEING WHO YOU

ARE

SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE OUR LAST ISSUE. THE PAST FEW MONTHS HAVE BROUGHT A MIX OF BOTH DELIGHTS AND HORRORS.

We saw Troye Sivan and Kylie Minogue thrill LGBTIQ+ fans as they took to the stage in our major capitals, and over the summer we celebrated freedom and pride in towns and cities Australia-wide. In contrast, our queer and trans friends in the US saw the new Trump administration take to their rights and liberties with a sledgehammer. As America struggles, I feel incredibly fortunate that I live in Australia’s ‘Capital of Equality’.

As a publisher and writer, I can’t ignore the torrent of news in my feed. Like many of you out there, every day, sadness floods my heart. It’s tough to see people plunge into uncertainty and fear. My partner’s support, meditation, gratitude and date nights have literally been my emotional savours.

I can’t help feeling that Margaret Atwood may be a modern soothsayer as much as a talented storyteller. I recently read an interview with Margaret when her book The Handmaid’s Tale first came out in 1985. Atwood commented that there were three responses about the book. In the United Kingdom, they called it ‘a jolly good yarn’. In the United States, the reaction was split 50-50, with half saying it couldn’t possibly happen here in the ‘leading liberal country in the world’. In her native Canada, the reaction was, ‘How long have we got?’. Atwood recently said, when asked about Trump’s second term in The White House, ‘Well, I don’t think we’ll get the uniforms’.

To no one’s surprise, The Handmaid’s Tale is now on the US banned books list.

When you drill it down to its core, it seems that LGBTIQ+ folk are fighting for the right to true authenticity — to simply be who we are — something that so many people seem absolutely terrified of. Despite this pushback from so many closed-minded humans, I believe that genuine happiness can only be achieved by being truthful to and about yourself. It’s worth fighting for!

In this issue, Andreas Anthony, a registered yoga teacher and spiritual practitioner, writes about just that: achieving true authenticity, p24. It’s my favourite feature and I encourage everyone to spend some time reading it.

After our Kylie Minogue cover takeover of FUSE69, we’re back to two fab covers. One has musical power couple Anthony Callea and his husband Tim Campbell. They are on tour singing all their favourite songs from Elton John and George Michael; our interview is on p14. Those who have been reading FUSE over the years may have noticed that this is Anthony’s second cover — he last appeared in FUSE34 back in 2013. Our other cover features multi-award-winning country music artist Kasey Chambers. We talked to her about her new album Backbone, life on the road as she tours the country, and her book Just Don’t Be a D**khead, p18.

With all the hype around Stan’s new Australian LGBTIQ+ drama Invisible Boys, we spent some time talking to the show’s award-winning filmmaker, Nicholas Verso, about why he decided to make the series and why it is such an important addition to Australian queer drama, p29.

As well as all the FUSE regulars, from p41 you’ll find our wonderful Mardi Gras 2025 photos, which starts with Canberra’s very own ‘Capital of Equality’ crew, who marched proudly down Oxford Street — authenticity on full display! It’s a glittery reminder that no matter what, don’t stop being you. Warmly, Alexander

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MOVIES

DID YOU KNOW?

Strange World (2022) was the first Disney animated movie to feature a gay lead character. The film is about three generations and includes Ethan Clade, a boy with a same-sex crush.

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NT LIVE: THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING EARNEST A TRIVIAL COMEDY FOR SERIOUS PEOPLE

Ahead of the arrival of the second season of Dr Who (Disney+), Ncuti Gatwa hits the big screen; not as the two-hearted Timelord but in a joyful reimagining of Oscar Wilde’s popular comedy The Importance of Being Earnest Gatwa plays Jack, who, like his friend Algy (Hugh Skinner), leads a double life; one of dutiful guardianship in the country and the life of the party in town. Of course, complications arise for the pair when romance rears its ugly head. This production for London’s National Theatre is directed by Max Webster, responsible for bringing Life of Pi to the stage.

FLOW A MESMERISING DANCE OF SURVIVAL AND SILENCE

With a series of wins across the 2024 awards season, the success of Latvian animated film Flow culminated in the ultimate prize: the Oscar for Animated Feature, beating out billion-dollar grosser Inside Out 2 and Australia’s own Memoir of a Snail. This dialogue-free film follows the travails of a dark grey cat, and a collection of other animal companions, in what seems to be a post-apocalyptic world where the water level is rising at an alarming rate. Latvia’s first-ever Oscar winner, Flow was also nominated for Best International Feature Film.

CROSSING

CAPTIVATES THE HEART AND MIND

When Lia (Mzia Arabuli), a retired school teacher living in Georgia, receives news that her long-lost niece Tekla, a transgender woman, has crossed the border into Turkey, she heads to Istanbul to bring her niece home and end their years of estrangement. While in Instanbul, Lia meets Evrim (Deniz Dumanli), a lawyer fighting for trans rights. Directed by Levan Akin, whose previous film And Then We Danced also dealt with queer themes, Crossing premiered at the 2024 Berlin Film Festival where it received the Teddy Award Jury Prize for LGBTIQ-themed films.

MISSION: IMPOSSIBLE — THE FINAL RECKONING CRUISE’S MOST MIND-BOGGLING, DEATH-DEFYING FILM YET!

Who could have foreseen that what began 30 years ago under the helm of Brian DePalma — a big screen reboot of the 1960s TV show Mission: Impossible — would culminate in 2025 with the eighth (and possibly final) film in one of the most successful movie franchises of all time? Tom Cruise as Ethan Hunt has been running, jumping and punching his way through all eight films, egged on to ever-greater feats of stuntman madness by writer-director Christopher McQuarrie, who has overseen the last four entries in the action-crammed saga.

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A CELEBRATION OF DIVERSITY & MUSIC

NATIONAL FOLK FESTIVAL EXHIBITION PARK CANBERRA

17 — 21 APRIL

The National Folk Festival is Australia’s home and heart of folk culture, creating ‘five days in a perfect world’ for over 50 years. The festival brings world-class performers, established and emerging artists, and music lovers together to discover, share, experience and celebrate the exciting world of folk. It is the longest-standing event of its kind in Australia and the only event of this nature in Canberra, with a long history of being a safe and inclusive place for people from all walks of life.

CULT CLASSICS WITH VENUS MANTRAP

WHO’S THAT GIRL ARC CINEMA @ NFSA FRIDAY 23 MAY 8:00PM

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CELINE DION AND A SINKING SHIP

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QUEER FILM ON TOUR

MARDI GRAS FILM FESTIVAL NATIONAL FILM & SOUND ARCHIVE 3 — 5 APRIL

Queer Screen brings the best new LGBTIQ+ films to the NFSA. The stunning line-up includes Duino, a beautiful drama about youth and yearning; Somewhere In Love, a film that centres on showing up for the ones you love; Crossing, the search for a runaway amongst the queer community of Istanbul; Liza, the dazzling story of an enduring gay icon and survivor; plus a selection of the very best queer shorts from around the world.

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN

CYNDI LAUPER AUSTRALIAN TOUR

2 — 12 APRIL

Cyndi Lauper embarks on her final tour. Fans can expect all her greatest hits, along with special guests The Veronicas.

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ROUND UP

DID YOU KNOW?

An Australian Bureau of Statistics survey showed that the majority of straight Aussies (82%) agreed with the statement that police can be trusted. However, only 56% of gay, lesbian and bisexual respondents said the same.

63.9%

MAJORITY OF LGBTIQ+ AUSTRALIANS SAY THEY SUPPORT POLICE AT PRIDE EVENTS

DIVISION AMONG THE LGBTIQ+ COMMUNITY OVER SUPPORT OF POLICE AT PRIDE EVENTS

A recent national survey conducted by the advocacy group Just.Equal Australia has revealed that most LGBTIQ+ individuals support the presence of police at pride parades and other queer events, with 63.9% backing their participation.

However, at 36.1%, young and gender-diverse people are least supportive of police involvement and strongly oppose police participation in queer events. This dichotomy highlights the complex and contentious relationship between law enforcement and the LGBTIQ+ community.

Pride parades have their roots in protests against discrimination and police brutality, with the first Sydney Mardi Gras in 1978 being a direct response to anti-gay laws and police actions. Over time, these events have evolved into celebrations of diversity and inclusivity.

Most recently, tension has hit an all-time high as the queer community has passionate debates about the inclusion of police at festivals like SpringOUT, Midsumma and Mardi Gras.

Those who support police participation cite that times have changed significantly, and with the current resurgence of right-wing politics, the importance of safety and the role of police in ensuring a secure environment for participants and spectators.

Additionally, some recognise police efforts to improve relationships over the years through dialogue and liaison programs, while also recognising the many queer people that serve on the force.

On the other hand, opponents point to historical and current instances of police misconduct, especially in reference to heavy-handed drug enforcement and harassment of queer folk at dance parties and other events. This has been a particular issue in NSW.

Opponents also argue that allowing police to march in pride parades can be seen as legitimising these and past actions, undermining the original purpose of pride events.

In Sydney, a recent community consultation found that 54% of respondents did not believe police should be allowed to march in the Mardi Gras parade, leading to a ban on uniformed officers participating in the event last year.

Despite this however, the broader Australian survey suggests that nationally there is more queer support for police presence at pride events, albeit with conditions such as improved community relations and accountability.

The debate over police reflects deeper societal discord regarding a multitude of issues like human rights, trust, drug laws, safety and inclusivity. As queer events continue to evolve, finding a balance and community trust will be crucial for fostering a positive and respectful environment for everyone.

ROUND UP

DID YOU KNOW?

The Australian Government’s National Roundtable on Online Dating Safety found that nearly three-quarters of people using the apps reported they have been subject to crime, sexual violence, abuse, harassment or threats.

ILLEGAL DISCHARGE OF SPERM

In a move that has attracted significant attention, US Mississippi State Senator Bradford Blackmon has introduced a new bill titled Contraception Begins at Erection Act. The proposed law is intended to bring the fundamental role of men into the conversation around contraception and body rights. Blackmon says that it is a direct response to the excessive legislation targeted at women in the US around their bodies. The proposed law, with fines up to $10,000, would make it unlawful for men to discharge genetic material (sperm) without the intent to fertilise an embryo, effectively criminalising certain male behaviours such as masturbation unless it is for procreation purposes. Unlikely to pass, it has sparked significant public debate and discussion about gender roles in reproductive health legislation. Blackmon, a Democratic Senator, has faced backlash, including death threats, and has clarified that the bill is intended as a form of satire to provoke conversation.

GRINDR VICTIMS PILE UP

Grindr is in the headlines again and for all the wrong reasons. After several years of searching, the NSW Police have arrested a man accused of using the dating app Grindr to exploit and steal from gay men to fund a lavish lifestyle through identity theft and fraud. The alleged offender targeted victims during encounters at luxury hotels, convincing them to shower before stealing their credit card details, money and identification. It’s believed that the alleged offender may have been engaging in this behaviour since at least 2019 and may have fraudulently obtained over $1 million from Grindr users over the past six years. After victims expressed frustration, investigators finally tracked him down and arrested the man, who remains undisclosed due to legal restrictions at a prestigious Sydney hotel.

VATICAN GIVES THE GREEN LIGHT TO GAY PRIESTS TRIAL

The Catholic Church has changed its requirements and will now allow gay men to be priests in Italy, but be barred from ‘flaunting’ their homosexuality.

The updated guidelines were approved at the Italian Bishops’ Conference and represent a significant shift in the Church’s approach to LGBTIQ+ individuals in religious vocations. This development, effective for a three-year trial period, comes with specific conditions and represents a nuanced change in the Church’s stance on homosexuality.

While the new guidelines are more inclusive, they maintain specific restrictions. Candidates must not practice homosexuality, possess deeply rooted homosexual tendencies, or support what the Church terms ‘gay culture’. The requirement for celibacy applies to all candidates, regardless of sexual orientation.

The Catholic Church’s doctrine still considers same-sex acts as “intrinsically disordered.”

DID YOU KNOW?

A survey by the Australian Automotive Dealer Association found that 34% of Aussie EV buyers were less likely to buy a Tesla due to Elon Musk’s various antics over the past year. Notably, 13% were more likely. The survey was done in November 2024, months before Musk assumed his role as the Trump administration’s wrecker-in-chief, so these figures have probably shifted!

BABY MICE HAVE BEEN BORN FROM TWO MALE PARENTS

Scientists in China have made a giant step forward in genetic engineering and reproductive biology, some of which could help gay couples have biological children of their own in the future.

In a remarkable breakthrough, scientists have successfully used genetic engineering to create baby mice that have two male parents, marking a significant advancement in reproductive biology.

Mice born to two male parents challenge traditional notions of reproduction and open new avenues for understanding genetic imprinting and its implications for human health.

The research team, led by Zhi-kun Li and colleagues at the Chinese Academy of Sciences, employed CRISPR technology to modify 20 regions of the genome related to genetic imprinting. Genetic imprinting is a process where specific genes are expressed differently depending on whether they are inherited from the mother or father. By targeting these genes, the scientists were able to overcome the biological barriers that typically prevent viable offspring from being produced by two males.

The process involved converting sperm cells into cells that mimic egg cells, which were then combined with sperm from another male mouse. The resulting embryos still require a female mouse for gestation, but the consequent birth has only genetic material from two male parents.

This study has profound implications for the LGBTIQ+ community and the understanding of reproduction and genetic imprinting. While the technique is not yet applicable to humans, it contributes significantly to a field that could also aid in the conservation of endangered species by offering new reproductive strategies.

With considerable challenges still coming, the first mice created through this process were not fertile and often faced early developmental issues. The breakthrough, however, demonstrates the feasibility of overcoming biological barriers to unisexual reproduction in mammals, paving the way for further research into stem cell therapies and genetic diseases related to imprinting.

As scientists continue to push boundaries, it also creates a great deal of controversy, especially with some communities as they cite religious, ethical and social objections.

PREP IS UNDER THREAT IN AMERICA

The US Supreme Court will hear a challenge to the Affordable Care Act’s (Obamacare) mandate for no-cost coverage of preventive services, including HIV prevention medication PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis).

The decision marks the latest chapter in ongoing legal battles surrounding LGBTIQ+ rights and healthcare in the US.

The case stems from a lawsuit filed by conservative Texas employers who argue that the requirement to cover certain preventive services violates their religious freedoms, saying that providing coverage for PrEP “facilitates and encourages homosexual behaviour, prostitution, sexual promiscuity and intravenous drug use”.

If the Supreme Court sides with the challengers, it could have far-reaching consequences for millions of Americans. The ruling could potentially eliminate the requirement for insurers to cover a wide range of preventive and other health services, reducing cost-sharing concessions for some items, including:

• HIV prevention medications

• STI and BBV medications

• Contraceptives

• Transgender healthcare

The US Supreme Court is expected to hear the case within the next few months, with a decision likely to be handed down in 2026.

IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS

1,500

Same-sex sexual behaviour in the wild has been reported in over 1,500 animal species, from invertebrates such as insects, spiders, echinoderms and nematodes, to vertebrates like fish, amphibians, reptiles, birds and mammals. Studies show that same-sex sexual behaviour is particularly prevalent in primates, and that homosexuality in nature plays an adaptive role in maintaining social relationships and mitigating conflict.

2,296

A US Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) report has shown hate crimes against LGBT individuals increased significantly in 2024, totalling 2,296 incidents connected to the victim’s sexual orientation and 542 incidents where the offender showed a bias against the gender identity of the victim. The FBI noted that the increase was especially pronounced regarding crimes relating to transgender bias.

“Statistics do not convey emotion. They shock us for a minute or two, and then we click again.”

Madeleine Kunin — a Swiss-born American, author, politician and diplomat who served as the United States Ambassador to Switzerland from 1996 to 1999.

1IN18

Known as polythelia or supernumerary nipple, 1 in 18 people have a third nipple, which is caused by a mutation in inactive genes and formed during a baby’s embryonic development.

7.5%

Are you still wearing a tie to work? A recent study found that wearing a necktie reduces the blood flow to your brain by up to 7.5%, which can cause dizziness, nausea, headaches and increase the pressure in your eyes. They also found that ties are full of germs due to the fact that they are very rarely washed, if ever at all. Eeeeew.

$738

B

According to Synthesia, a synthetic AI media generation company, the global AI market is growing rapidly, with a projected value of $738.80 billion by 2030. There are currently around 8.4 billion AI-powered digital voice assistant units worldwide, and over 77% of devices today use AI technology. The number of AI tool users is expected to reach 729.11 million by 2030.

16%

It’s estimated that by 2035, our new generation, ‘Beta Babies’, born between 2025 and 2039, will make up 16% of the population. The first generation where AI will shape their lives in entirely new ways.

4.5%

Around 4.5% of the Australian population are members of the LGBTIQ+ community according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS), which combined data from people who responded to its recent health surveys to determine how many people identify as LGBTIQ+. It found that an estimated 910,600 people in Australia aged 16 and over are LGBTIQ+. Around 740,000 (80.9%) are lesbian, gay, bisexual, or use a different term to describe their sexual orientation. Approximately 178,900 (20.1%) are transgender and gender diverse, while about 63,300 (7%) reported being born with variations of sex characteristics.

By David Blanco

Nostalgia Ignited

Couple Anthony Callea and Tim Campbell celebrate Elton John and George Michael with their new show touring Australia

by Eugene Hyland

Photo

Love, Music & Memories

WE GO BEHIND THE SCENES WITH MUSICAL POWER COUPLE ANTHONY CALLEA AND TIM CAMPBELL

Like many love stories, Anthony Callea and Tim Campbell’s started when the universe conspired, Cupid’s arrow flew, and their paths converged innocently on an ordinary day.

“OUR PATHS CROSSED MANY TIMES PROFESSIONALLY, BUT I NEVER KNEW THAT TIM WAS GAY. WELL, SO MUCH FOR MY GAYDAR. I DIDN’T HAVE A CLUE.” — ANTHONY CALLEA

Once Anthony figured out Tim was gay, their relationship quickly blossomed when they found themselves working together on a musical in Perth. Anthony says, “We had lunch two or three times, and once I realised that he shared the same feelings as me, it progressed from there”.

After just six months of dating, the couple bought a place together, and in 2014, the boys announced their engagement before tying the knot in New Zealand, where same-sex marriage was legal at the time.

Now, eleven years on, the musical power couple are touring Australia together, offering audiences a night of music and nostalgia with their new show, The Songs of Elton and George. This electrifying tribute concert celebrates the iconic songbooks of two gay musical legends who paved the way for LGBTIQ+ artists to embrace and share their identities through music.

With timeless hits, powerhouse vocals, and the undeniable on-stage chemistry of Anthony and Tim, their show promises to have audiences on their feet, singing along and cheering for more. We caught up with Anthony and Tim to talk about the show, their careers, the balance of married life and performing together — and, of course, karaoke!

DAVID BLANCO: THANKS FOR TAKING TIME TO CHAT. I KNOW READERS ARE EXCITED ABOUT YOUR SHOW. I’M INTERESTED TO KNOW WHAT INSPIRED YOU BOTH TO CHOOSE THE MUSIC OF ELTON JOHN AND GEORGE MICHAEL?

Tim Campbell: Both singers have been incredibly influential to us over the years. I was honestly obsessed with Elton John’s music as a kid, diving into his entire catalogue from the ’70s, starting with classics like ‘Your Song’, ‘Tiny Dancer’ and ‘Rocket Man’. I was such a fan that 10 years ago, I even named my dog Reggie after Elton’s real name, Reginald Dwight. So, for me, this show is a bit of a guilty pleasure!

Anthony Callea: I’ve always been drawn to great male vocalists, and George Michael was definitely one of them. He’s had a huge influence on me as a singer, so bringing his music together with Elton John’s — two absolute icons — is such a special experience. Taking this celebration of their music across the country is very exciting.

WHAT DO YOU HOPE FANS TAKE AWAY FROM THE SHOW?

Anthony: Tim and I are old-school when it comes to music. We love live performances and real musicianship. We’re also drawn to strong melodies and meaningful lyrics that resonate with the audience and create a genuine connection between us and them.

We rely heavily on our devices. I’m guilty of this, too. But there’s truly nothing better than experiencing music surrounded by musicians and singers. Sometimes, we fall into the trap of depending so much on technology that when we encounter live music, it hits us in a deeply moving way. It creates a powerful and beautiful connection. I’ve always loved that feeling. I’ve been doing this for 21 years, ever since Australian Idol, and there’s still nothing better than stepping onto a stage, feeling that energy, and sharing a moment with a live audience. I hope audiences take away a sense of connection, the thrill of live performance, and the magic of being truly present in the moment.

ARE THERE ANY SONGS OR PARTS OF YOUR SHOW YOU PARTICULARLY LOVE?

Tim: For me, one of the songs is ‘Don’t Let the Sun Go Down on Me’. It was originally on an Elton John album in the ’70s, but the most iconic version is the live duet he and George Michael performed at Wembley in the UK, which was later released as a single. We perform it together, and honestly, I think people would throw things at us if we left it out! Our show really takes me back to Elton John’s ’70s era. There’s a fantastic medley where I get to celebrate a selection of his biggest hits, all the way back to ‘Your Song’. That one resonates with me. It’s such a timeless song with a beautiful message.

Anthony: I should probably be talking about my own performances, but one of my favourite moments is when Tim sings ‘Your Song’. It’s such a beautiful song, and even after seeing it five times at the Sydney Opera House, it’s still my favourite part of the show.

Elton John and George Michael at Wembley in the UK.

YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A DECADE NOW — CONGRATS! WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP IS, ESPECIALLY AS A COUPLE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY?

Tim: Some people say that. Others say commiserations! Kidding! Having an extra bedroom when needed definitely helps! But seriously, Anthony and I both had established careers before we met, and we continue to have separate paths. I’ve been in television and stage while Anthony’s built an incredible music career. Over time, we’ve both explored new areas, so it’s been a great partnership, supporting each other through those shifts.

It’s pretty amazing that, after all these years — 21 years since Australian Idol for Anthony and 20 since Home and Away for me — we’re still thriving in our careers and now collaborating on a show like this. Not everyone would want to work with their partner, but for us, it’s been fantastic.

Anthony: I think it’s all about finding a healthy balance between work and personal life. Touring together and producing these shows ourselves, everything from lighting and stage design to audio, arrangements and costuming, can really take over. But it’s important to step back, focus on our wellbeing, and make sure we maintain that balance.

As for the longevity of a relationship, jealousy can’t be part of it. Once that creeps in, it’s over. We’ve always supported each other, and we’ve also made sure to maintain friendships outside the industry. We have friends who work in finance, the rag trade and other fields, so our lives aren’t always consumed by showbiz. That balance is key to keeping things healthy.

AS ALL-ROUND

ENTERTAINERS, WHAT DO YOU GUYS LIKE

DOING THE MOST?

Tim: I’ve been lucky to move through different mediums without having to choose. Twenty years ago, there was this idea that if you were a singer, you couldn’t be taken seriously as an actor, and vice versa. It felt like you had to pick one, but I’ve always worked against that. Thankfully, someone like Hugh Jackman showed that it’s okay to cross between mediums. Right now, I’m really enjoying the live stage experience — sharing stories, laughs and music with the audience. But I also love being on set, telling stories through the camera. Hopefully I won’t have to choose, but for now, I’m loving touring with a live band and incredible music, so that’s where I’m at.

Anthony: For me, it’s always about coming back to what makes me happy. After 21 years in the industry, there have been plenty of ups and downs, and moments of self-doubt. At times it can get confusing, and you have to take a step back to ask yourself, ‘What do I truly want to do?’ For me, it always comes back to live performance and singing. Whenever I start to feel unsure, I focus on what brings me joy, and for me, that’s the live experience.

Since I was a kid, I’ve always wanted to be the best singer I can be. Every time I rehearse or record, I listen to my past performances and think, ‘I can always do better’. I think with age and experience, that desire to improve naturally comes through in my work. I’m a different performer now than I was 10 or 15 years ago, but that’s a good thing. Life experiences shape how I perform, and that evolution makes my work feel more authentic.

One other thing I’ve learned is the importance of vulnerability. When I wrote my book, Behind The Voice: Dietro La Voce, I was initially hesitant because I knew I’d have to be truly open and honest. But the more I thought about it, the more I realised it was essential. Letting my guard down wasn’t easy, but it’s led to a much deeper connection with my audience and with myself. That raw honesty is what creates something real and beautiful in both my work and my relationships with others.

ON A

MORE PERSONAL NOTE, WHO TAKES LONGER TO GET READY FOR A NIGHT OUT?

Anthony: That’s definitely me! I can’t stand being rushed. I need my time, especially before getting on stage or heading out. There’s a process I go through, and if you tell me I have to get ready in 10 minutes, well, that’s just not going to happen! I need to have music playing, maybe even a drink in the bathroom, just to get in the right headspace. I love having that buffer time. You always need it because, let’s be honest, you’re going to put on an outfit, and something’s not going to work. Then, you’ll need time to figure out what else to wear. So, I always make sure there’s extra time to work through it!

WHAT’S NEXT AFTER THE TOUR IS DONE AND DUSTED?

Anthony: There’s a small break between a few shows, like at the end of this tour, and then we have some other shows later in the year, both individually and together. I’m planning to take a short trip overseas to get back into the studio and start writing again. I’m also working on some other projects that I’ll be doing on my own. So, there are a few things I’m juggling now while this tour is happening, which is great because I get to perform live and do what I love.

Tim: This tour takes us into the middle of the year, and then, as Anthony mentioned, we’ve got a few other shows lined up, including a trip to the Maldives. We’re doing a whole week of intimate shows on the beach, which will be amazing since we’ve never been there before. I’m already planning a new tour for 2026. It’ll be myself and another artist, and all I’ll say is that if you love ’80s music, you’re really going to enjoy this one!

Anthony and Tim’s show is currently touring Australia. Visit songsofeltonandgeorge.com for details.

“DON’T BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF. THE WORLD NEEDS YOUR UNIQUE VOICE, YOUR QUIRKS, AND YOUR PERSPECTIVE.”

Excerpt from Kasey Chambers new book ‘Just Don’t Be a D**khead’.

Photo by Chloe Isaac

JUST DON’T BE A D**KHEAD AND OTHER

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THINGS SHE’S LEARNT Kasey Chambers

IF YOU ARE AN AUSTRALIAN COUNTRY MUSIC FAN, THEN THERE’S NO DOUBT YOU ARE PRETTY EXCITED THAT KASEY CHAMBERS IS CURRENTLY TOURING THE COUNTRY.

Kasey Chambers’ distinctive voice and heartfelt lyrics have earned her the rightful position as one of the most popular and acclaimed country artists of her generation here in Australia and around the world.

Hailed as bringing Australian country music into the mainstream, Kasey has won 14 ARIAs, 24 CMAA Golden Guitars and 10 APRA songwriting awards. Her twelve albums have sold more than 14 million copies and include five No.1 albums. In 2002, she released her number-one hit single, ‘Not Pretty Enough,’ which launched her onto the world stage.

Her latest album Backbone is possibly one of her strongest and most varied records since her debut, revisiting the various flavours of country music that she’s made over the last 25 years.

As a long-time advocate and ally of the LGBTIQ+ community, we are delighted to have Kasey on our cover and to have talked to her about life, being a decent human, happiness and, of course, music.

THANKS FOR CHATTING WITH US KASEY; WE’RE THRILLED YOU’RE ON THIS ISSUE’S COVER. CAN YOU TELL US ABOUT YOUR INSPIRATION BEHIND THE BACKBONE ALBUM.

I feel like the Backbone album is like the soundtrack to my life. There are songs inspired by my early childhood, recent challenging times in my life and everything in between.

I think I am as connected to this record as I’ve been to any record I’ve ever made since my first album The Captain (which is still my favourite record); maybe because it takes in so much of my life and is inspired by my connection to myself and my journey.

WHAT CAN FANS EXPECT FROM YOUR AUSTRALIAN TOUR?

We will of course play a few new songs from the new album, but I’ll mostly go back and play all the old one’s too. ‘The Captain’, ‘Not Pretty Enough’, ‘Barricades and Brickwalls’ etc. I still love playing all my old songs so much. They are such a big part of who I am.

By Alexander Thatcher

YOU’RE KNOWN FOR YOUR EXTENSIVE TOURING ACROSS THE COUNTRY. WHERE HAVE BEEN SOME OF YOUR FAVOURITE PLACES TO PERFORM?

I love my touring life so much. I love visiting big towns, little towns, regional, coastal and everything in between. I’m so grateful that my career has taken me to so many amazing places, but I am also lucky to be in a position where I only really play gigs in places now that I want to play. So any gig that is listed on my tour is on there because I’ve personally chosen to play there, having had a beautiful experience there before which makes me wanna come back!

HOW DOES YOUR LATEST WORK REFLECT YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH AND EVOLUTION AS AN ARTIST OVER THE YEARS?

I always try to push myself as a singer/songwriter and a producer while I am writing and making records, while finding the balance to not push it so far to abandon myself in the process. I do like to challenge myself to step outside my comfort zone as long as there’s still an element of my authentic self at the core. It’s a fine line and I don’t always get it right, but these days I think I am much better at the balancing act.

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YOU’VE HAD AN INCREDIBLE CAREER SPANNING OVER TWO DECADES. WHAT KEEPS YOU MOTIVATED TO CONTINUE CREATING MUSIC AND PERFORMING?

I can’t really do anything else. Haha. No, seriously, sometimes I actually like to get away from music for a while and do other creative things in my life so I keep my relationship with music fresh and healthy. I have lots of conversations with myself about whether my relationship with music is in a good place or if it needs some nurturing. I’m not sure if it’s so much about motivation as it is about looking after my connection to music so it continues to be a beautiful part of connection in my life.

YOU’VE BEEN A STRONG SUPPORTER OF THE LGBTIQ+ COMMUNITY, PARTICULARLY YOUR FRIEND BECCY COLE. CAN YOU SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE IMPORTANCE OF VISIBILITY AND ACCEPTANCE?

I was lucky enough to grow up in a family, both immediate and extended, where acceptance was very high on the priority list of how to relate and connect to others and ourselves. I was exposed to many different lifestyles, cultures, races, personalities and beliefs throughout my early years, and was taught by my parents and extended family, through their natural non-judgemental behaviour, to not only accept the differences in other people and their choices but also to see the beauty in that. I truly believe that this is the key to more harmony in the world and true happiness and acceptance within ourselves. We can learn a lot about ourselves when we open our minds and hearts to the differences in other people.

HOW DO YOU THINK THE MUSIC INDUSTRY HAS EVOLVED IN TERMS OF INCLUSIVITY AND SUPPORT FOR LGBTIQ+ ARTISTS?

It’s beautiful to see more acceptance, inclusion and support in the music industry overall for the LGBTIQ+ community in recent years and the changes being made, but there’s still more to be done. If I’m honest, I sometimes forget how much more still needs to be done in the way of acceptance, because the immediate tribe circle of people I have chosen to surround myself with in daily life, both musically and personally, are so open-minded and supportive of the freedom of choice in so many ways that I’m sometimes initially surprised when I’m sadly reminded that unnecessary judgement still very much occurs in every industry and there’s always still work to be done.

WHAT MESSAGE DO YOU HOPE TO CONVEY TO QUEER FANS THROUGH YOUR MUSIC AND PUBLIC PRESENCE?

Above all else in my life, from personal experience and general life experience through connecting with people in music, growing, understanding and learning in life, I think the biggest lesson I’ve ever learned is that nothing is more important than living as your authentic self.

YOUR NEW BOOK JUST DON’T BE A D**KHEAD SHARES PROFOUND LIFE LESSONS. WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO WRITE A BOOK?

It actually didn’t even start out as a book. It started out as a bunch of reminders to myself to live by the important lessons I’ve learnt through my own personal experience. After a while of writing out these reminders and the way I learnt them, it just started to evolve into a book.

“THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU CAN DO IN LIFE IS JUST BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING. DON’T GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO BE A JERK, AND IF YOU SEE SOMEONE STRUGGLING, LEND A HAND.”

Excerpt from Kasey’s book ‘Just Don’t Be a D**khead’.

WHAT ARE SOME KEY TAKEAWAYS YOU HOPE READERS WILL GAIN FROM IT?

I guess if readers figure out their own definitions of what ‘being a dickhead’ means then it’s easier to avoid being one.

HOW DO YOU PRIORITISE HAPPINESS AND FULFILMENT IN YOUR LIFE, ESPECIALLY DURING CHALLENGING TIMES?

I meditate a lot. I have a lot of hard, honest conversations with myself. I work on my relationships with my strengths and my defaults. I try not to give in to impulsive reactions. I prioritise my wellbeing. I do grounding and breathing exercises. I lead with my heart. I try not to be a dickhead. Kasey Chambers is currently touring Australia. For tour dates or if you would like to buy a copy of her new book, visit kaseychambers.com

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Because You Deserve Justice

By Scott Malcolm Director of Money Mechanics

MONEY & PRIDE

Do you want your money to reflect your values?

MONEY IS ALL AROUND US. IT CAN BE BOTH GLORIOUS AND TOXIC, AND IT HAS HUGE EFFECTS ON OUR LIVES AND THE ENVIRONMENT. MONEY PRETTY MUCH RULES OVER OUR MODERN AND STRUGGLING PLANET.

This can leave us in a dilemma regarding investment, ethics and return; and this is often the case for marginalised communities, as it isn’t always just about money — it’s also about alignment with values.

Whether you’re working towards a secure and comfortable retirement or trying to grow wealth, I’m here to tell you that investing ethically and with a values-based ethos is possible. You can align your hard-earned money with your principles, and even help change the world while you’re doing it.

Ethical investing is like online dating. There’s no point in swiping right on a company that looks good on paper but doesn’t share your values. Values-based investing means you can avoid companies that negatively impact the environment, wellbeing and health.

It isn’t easy to do this within a mainstream managed investment option, as you have very little power over where they invest your money, and set portfolios are likely to include companies that do not support equality or diversity programs and may have even recently removed protections that safeguard vulnerable communities. The way to achieve ethical investment is by taking back your power of choice and using a mix of direct or managed investment options to get the best value alignment possible.

It’s often the case that companies roll out rainbows to attract queer customers but don’t back it up with any action. Here are two ways to help spot those fakers that just want your hard earned money.

1. Visit the Australian Workplace Equality Index pid-awei.com.au Companies with high scores aren’t just talking the talk, they’re walking the walk.

2. Study up on companies and inquire directly if they support worthy causes and have inclusive policies. You’ll quickly see if they are just here for your money or if they actually care.

It isn’t easy to achieve 100% alignment, but you can implement a more ‘overall’ values-aligned approach. A small step is still a step.

Often, people think ethical investing means sacrificing returns. In fact, companies with strong environmental, social and governance (ESG) practices often outperform their less responsible peers. Businesses that treat their employees well, care about the planet and manage risks responsibly, tend to be more sustainable in the long run.

You can check out value-based credentials at the Responsible Investment Association Australasia responsibleinvestment.org — you don’t have to choose between doing good and doing well.

Every pink dollar you invest has the power to shape industries, support communities and drive positive change. By choosing ethical investments, you’re not just growing your wealth, you’re helping build a world where everyone can thrive. And let’s be real, isn’t that what is important at the end of the day? We are all human beings and have the right to flourish and live our lives the way we want!

In Australia, initiatives like the National Action Plan for LGBTIQA+ Health highlight areas where targeted investment can make a real difference — whether it’s improving access to healthcare or addressing mental health challenges in our community.

It can all sound a bit overwhelming and involves some work, but don’t worry — you don’t have to go it alone. A professional financial adviser can help guide you on the path to making the world and your life a better place through ethical investment.

Achieving an Authentic Life

WE ALL SEEM TO BE SEARCHING FOR AUTHENTICITY IN A SOCIETY THAT IS ESTRANGED FROM REALITY AND TRUTH. DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO BREAK FROM YOUR DEEPEST FEARS AND BE COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND OTHERS? THAT IS THE PRICE OF TRUE AUTHENTICITY.

By Andreas Anthony

A HAPPIER, HEALTHIER YOU

I REMEMBER THE DAY I HIT ROCK BOTTOM SO CLEARLY; IT WOULD CHANGE MY LIFE FOREVER.

I was working as a town planner after studying at the University of Canberra to get my bachelor’s degree. I’d been in the game for almost four years, each day convincing myself I was enjoying my busy life while secretly dreading every minute of the daily drive to the office.

One lucky afternoon, however, everything would change when I received a phone call that pulled the rug out from underneath me. It was a call from the nastiest client I’ve ever dealt with. I snapped, resentfulness boiling over me as I slammed the phone down, my heart racing with a mix of anger and liberation. I’m done, I told myself. In that moment — although I haven’t realised it yet — I have just received one of the biggest gifts in my life: motivation and a hunger for real change.

That was over six years ago, and I’m now incredibly grateful for that very unpleasant phone call. It was the push I needed to reflect and overhaul my entire life. I was finally brave enough to start following my heart, becoming a tantric yoga teacher, psychic channeler and healer.

I’m now living a life of authenticity and so much happier for it, but the truth be told, getting to a place of genuine authenticity was tricky business. It was not always easy and maybe not for the faint-hearted.

Like coming out, the ramifications can be difficult at first. You have to break free from your hardened outer shell, formed from years of fear and perceived self-protection that hides your truth.

TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE

Living authentically means living in accordance with your own values and beliefs, and being true to yourself. It involves complete honesty and being aware of who you are, what you want, and what you’re capable of.

Working with many clients in spiritual coaching has shown me that authenticity is often confused with character, identity or an ego self. In many cases, it has shifted from an inward gaze to a social display or a persona.

LIVING AUTHENTICALLY IS NOT A DESTINATION OR A THING TO DO BUT A CONTINUOUS JOURNEY OF HONESTY, SELF-DISCOVERY AND GROWTH.

Sometimes, the ego adopts an identity based around what we think will bring us happiness, social acceptance or belonging.

In truth, however, living authentically is not a part you play. It is based on radical honesty with ourselves and others, an awareness of self, and softening the ego’s need to control how others perceive us, whether positive or negative. It’s a journey that requires vulnerability, courage and perseverance.

IN ORDER TO CREATE THE POTENTIAL FOR AUTHENTICITY, WE MUST EVALUATE IF WE ARE ACTING FROM OUR TRUE NEEDS OR FROM OUR EGO’S DESIRE TO FIT IN.

QUEER SPIRITS AND AUTHENTIC LIVING

I believe that being part of the LGBTIQ+ community — or any disenfranchised group for that matter — can give you a head start. As queer people, many of us already know what our inner heart feels like and have listened to that voice, been brave and changed our lives as a result, despite what others may think of us, the difficulties and ramifications.

COMING OUT TAKES HONESTY AND BRAVERY AS WE JOURNEY ON THE PATH OF AUTHENTICITY.

If things don’t feel right and you’re not living an ‘authentic life’, it may be time to pause and connect meaningfully with your inner heart and intuition.

LISTENING TO YOUR INNER HEART

THE INNER HEART IS MORE PROFOUND THAN THE ORGAN THAT SITS INSIDE YOUR RIBCAGE, SLIGHTLY TO THE LEFT.

According to yogic and tantric philosophy, the energetic heart centre, which I call the inner heart, is located towards the centre of your chest at a nerve plexus. If you practice yoga, you may know the inner heart as the heart chakra, known in Sanskrit texts as Anahata chakra.

Imagine your inner heart as the compass in your life’s journey, always pointing towards your true north, guiding your decisions with an unyielding sense of your true essence. In addition to the energy of love being centralised here, your heart chakra has an important job: it also governs the alignment of your intentions, words and actions.

When you connect meaningfully to your inner heart and remain aware, you express what you mean and act on what you say, ensuring both words and actions align with your feelings.

Disharmony between these carves out ego-driven pathways that leave us feeling unfulfilled, depressed, lost, resentful, disappointed, and sometimes angry. When these misalignments accumulate over time, we can become bitter versions of ourselves. For some of us, this could mean living our entire lives feeling like we’re living a lie.

IT’S A JOURNEY, SO BE KIND AND EASY WITH YOURSELF

Personally, I don’t believe that anyone in human history has ever truly aligned honestly with their intentions, words and actions 100% of the time — well, maybe some saintly figures or the Buddha, but who knows? In this modern world, chasing immediate gratification at the expense of our authenticity pulls on us hard and is seductive. Social media or the promise of money and fame may create short-term fulfilment, but cannot lead to long-term satisfaction if gained without listening to our inner heart. Unfulfilled, many of us constantly seek external validation and acceptance while denying ourselves true happiness.

Knowing this, as we seek our authentic selves, it’s important not to be harsh with yourself. Self-love and letting go are essential parts of the mix.

FINDING TRUE AUTHENTICITY IS A LIFE-LONG JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION.

Through practices like meditation, yoga, breathwork and mindfulness, you become naturally aware of your inner voice and what it has to share with you. It appears in those quiet spaces we create, in your deepest hopes and dreams. It’s that sometimes insistent feeling that encourages you to change your direction, re-examine your work or relationships, or set new boundaries — even when you’re scared to.

Your deep intuition undoubtedly has all the wisdom needed to create a path to a more authentic life, better wellness, peacefulness, contentment and joy.

IN THE QUIET SPACES, INTUITION AND INNER HEART WHISPER TO YOUR SOUL.

MY INNER HEART STORY

When I was younger, I used to dance, act and sing all the time. It was something that I loved and brought me joy. Sadly, like so many other kids with free spirits, I was bullied and made to feel ashamed by others, so I eventually stopped. It’s something that I regretted ever since.

Last year, however, after watching a dance recital, those memories of happiness started flooding back, and from my inner heart I could hear it whispering, “Start dancing again”.

My mind threw as many obstacles and lies at me as possible: “You’re too old to start dancing. What will everyone else think?” I nearly didn’t do it for fear of being embarrassed. However, I found the courage I needed, and a year later, I found myself dancing once more.

When I found myself on that stage again, it felt like the 14-year-old me and I was filled with joy.

Following your intuition can be scary, and we often let our fears and ego dictate our decisions. Trusting my inner voice allowed me to reconnect with my younger self and do something that brings more happiness into my adult life.

A STARTING PLACE

LIVING AN AUTHENTIC LIFE BEGINS WITH CULTIVATING SELF-AWARENESS AND CREATING SPACE TO LISTEN TO YOUR INNER WISDOM. HERE ARE SOME KEY STRATEGIES TO HELP YOU START THIS TRANSFORMATIVE JOURNEY.

CULTIVATING SELF-AWARENESS

Self-awareness is critical to creating an authentic life. It is the ability to notice, recognise and understand your thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Far too often, we are wholly unaware of our emotional and mental state, essentially living our lives like zombies.

EVEN THOUGH MOST PEOPLE BELIEVE THEY ARE SELF-AWARE, A STUDY BY HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL FOUND ONLY 10–15% OF THE PEOPLE STUDIED ACTUALLY FIT THE CRITERIA.

Self-awareness can help you identify your actual needs, see your strengths, and identify areas for improvement so you can adjust your behaviour and life accordingly.

A few tips to cultivate self-awareness.

• Practice being mindful in your everyday life.

• Notice when you have been lost in your thoughts.

• Be curious about who you ‘really’ are.

• Be honest about what you want and don’t want in your life.

• Reflect on your core values and what brings you joy.

• Keep a journal to track your feelings and thoughts.

• Ask others you trust completely how they see you.

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SPACE FOR INNER WISDOM

Inner wisdom is our ‘gut feeling’, it is our intuition and inner guide that we can trust to point us in the right direction. In order to channel this ability, we must set aside our ego and ideas of how things should be and instead tune into what feels right.

Here are some ways to help unlock your inner wisdom.

• Meditation, yoga and other mindfulness practices are powerful tools for quieting the mind and connecting with one’s inner heart and intuition.

• Practice the art of deep listening to yourself and others.

• Spend time in nature and engage in quiet reflection.

• Pay attention to your body’s signals and intuition.

• Notice physical sensations that might guide your decisions.

• Practice being present in the moment without judgment.

• Seek out others on the same path. Support can be incredibly important when you’re in need of guidance.

Above all, be consistent with these activities, learn to trust in yourself and be intentional about following your instincts.

BE INTENTIONAL

Being intentional means cultivating daily practices that bring you inner peace and help you connect with your authentic self. Some ways to help you be more intentional are:

• Carefully consider how you invest your time and energy.

• Ensure your words and activities align with your core values.

• Avoid commitments based solely on expectations.

SEEK SOLITUDE

Although connection and socialisation with others are vital to your wellbeing, self-determined solitude can also be healing and restorative. Studies have shown that the ability to engage in solitude has been linked to increased happiness, better life satisfaction and improved stress management. Research shows that people who purposely seek solitude and time for themselves when they need it experience less depression and are more connected with their true selves.

• Create a quiet space for introspection and find time each day to be alone.

• Listen to your inner voice without external distractions.

• Find a place where you won’t be disturbed; pop some headphones on and listen deeply to your favourite music. This will help you create space to explore your own mind in a quiet, reflective space.

• It’s not for everyone, but starting a daily meditation or breath practice, even as short as 5 minutes, in isolation, can be incredibly helpful on your journey to authenticity.

Studies have found that people who are more authentic are generally happier and have higher wellbeing. Authenticity can also contribute to better relationships, more personal growth and greater job satisfaction.

Most of us know the difference between a truly authentic person and someone trying to be someone or something they just aren’t.

Authentic people instil a sense of trust, as what they say and do is based on how they really think and feel.

Andreas Anthony is a registered yoga teacher and spiritual practitioner. andreasembodiment.com

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Please do not come to the clinic if you do not have an appointment as you may not be able to be seen.

Call 02 5124 2184 and one of our sexual health nurses will discuss your needs and book an appointment as necessary.

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> Condoms and PrEP are the most effective ways of stopping HIV

> Syphilis and Gonorrhoea diagnoses are going up!

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BEHIND THE SCENES OF INVISIBLE BOYS

NICHOLAS VERSO ON CRAFTING A POWERFUL STORY OF QUEER YOUTH AND MASCULINITY

HOLDEN SHEPPARD’S CHERISHED AUSTRALIAN GAY LITERATURE CLASSIC, INVISIBLE BOYS, HAS BEEN REIMAGINED AS A HIGHLY ANTICIPATED 10-PART SERIES NOW STREAMING ON STAN.

With its unapologetic, powerful storytelling, the series has already earned widespread praise. Directed by award-winning filmmaker Nicholas Verso, the show captures the novel’s gripping essence on screen. We spoke with Nicholas about the creative journey behind the adaptation.

Nicholas first came across Invisible Boys through word of mouth, discovering it on Twitter (now X) before reading a glowing review from his friend, arts journalist Richard Watts. Intrigued by the book, Verso was already seeking a new project to film in Western Australia, having had a fantastic experience shooting a previous series there. The novel seemed like the perfect fit. “When I read the book, the characters immediately resonated with me,” Nicholas explains.

“I started thinking about how it had been a while since Australia had produced a strong queer TV series. We have incredible films, like Head On, which is iconic, but I couldn’t think of a contemporary equivalent. So, I thought, why not make one?”

Set in 2017, Invisible Boys unfolds during the same-sex marriage plebiscite, a period when LGBTIQ+ lives were thrust into public debate, often facing discrimination under the guise of political discourse. Nicholas has vivid memories of that time. “Looking back, I felt so much anger about what we went through. Sure, we got the outcome we wanted, and everyone celebrated, but for so many young people, hearing how their neighbours talked about them was heartbreaking.”

“People with no real stake in it were so vocal, and that was deeply upsetting. We’ve seen how much damage plebiscites like this can do, fuelling division in ways that are entirely unnecessary and harmful.”

“That’s why I wanted to frame the show within that moment in Australian history, to make sure we don’t forget it ever happened.”

Nailing the casting was pivotal for bringing Invisible Boys to life and Nicholas had a clear vision of who could embody the series’ four lead characters best. “Matt was the easiest to cast because I’d always envisioned Joe Klocek for the role. I’d worked with him on Nowhere Boys when he was younger and saw his potential.”

“For Zeke, we cast Aydan Calafiore, who’s known as a singer on programs like Young Talent Time and The Voice, but he brought such bravery and vulnerability to the role.”

“Zach Blampied was recommended by Declan Greene, one of our writers. He has a theatre background and is also a great AFL player, which made Hammer feel incredibly real. Joseph Zada, who plays Charlie, had the toughest role. Charlie is volatile and angry, but Joseph found a way to make him empathetic. He’s just a star, and it’s no surprise he’s moving on to incredible things.”

The cast also features Australian entertainment icon Pia Miranda, best known for her unforgettable AFI Award winning portrayal of Josie in Looking for Alibrandi

Nicholas lights up when discussing working with her. “Oh, I adore Pia! Fun fact — she was in one of my first short films as a teen. She’s part of Australia’s cultural DNA. In the show, she plays against type and watching her explore the darker side of her character was truly incredible from a director’s perspective.”

The show’s depiction of sexuality is unapologetically raw and realistic, something Nicholas felt strongly about portraying authentically. “We talked a lot in the writers’ room about where Hollywood has lied to us.”

“A famous example is Brokeback Mountain, where they made the sex between the two lead characters look so effortless, but realistically, those guys probably hadn’t washed for two months!”

“I wanted to show sex in a way that’s sex-positive and free of shame. I didn’t want anyone to feel embarrassed about the awkwardness, preparation, and aftermath that come with navigating intimacy. Hollywood scenes are choreographed to perfection, and sex is everywhere on our screens now. I feel they set unrealistic expectations.”

“THE TRUTH IS, REALITY IS SOMETIMES MESSY.”

Bullying to gain peer acceptance is another theme explored in Invisible Boys. Nicholas believes that the solution lies in fostering inclusion rather than exclusion.

“We need to be willing to include everyone, even those we disagree with or find upsetting. It’s essential to ‘let the monster in,’ showing them compassion, teaching them empathy, and helping them integrate into a society we all want to live in. I truly believe that people can change and grow. In the show, Hammer’s character arc differs from the book, and without revealing too much, you’ll witness his journey of grappling with his identity That kind of nuance is very important.”

Now that Invisible Boys is available for streaming on STAN, Nicholas has clear hopes for the impact the series will have on a diverse audience.

“FOR QUEER TEENS, I HOPE IT REASSURES THEM THAT THEY’RE NOT ALONE.

FOR OLDER VIEWERS, I HOPE IT SPARKS RECOGNITION AND INSIGHT INTO WHAT TODAY’S YOUTH EXPERIENCE.”

“But most of all, I want straight men to watch it. The show moves beyond sexuality to explore the broader issue of masculinity in Australia. Even people who might identify as homophobic, I want them to watch too. If they connect with Pia Miranda’s character Anna as their way in, great. Maybe, by the end, their perspective will shift. That’s the true power of storytelling.”

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By James May

META’S NEW POLICIES WILL HARM THE LGBTIQ+ COMMUNITY

EXPERTS HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF SOCIAL MEDIA ON OUR MENTAL HEALTH FOR YEARS NOW, AND THINGS ARE ABOUT TO GET A WHOLE LOT WORSE. WITH ABUSE AND HATE NOW OK ON FACEBOOK AND INSTAGRAM, HOW MAY IT AFFECT OUR RAINBOW AND OTHER MARGINALISED COMMUNITIES?

Many of us in the LGBTIQ+ community were alarmed to hear about the change to Meta’s Hateful Conduct policy and the removal of independent fact-checkers to moderate its platforms, such as Facebook and Instagram. The sweeping changes will have serious consequences for the safety of our community, which is already under siege from far-right commentators and hate groups.

The CEO of Meta, Mark Zuckerberg, met with then President-elect Donald Trump just prior to the announcement in January 2024.

The details are troubling. For example, a specific injunction against calling transgender or non-binary people ‘it’ has been removed from the policy, and a new clause has been added which allows for allegations of ‘mental illness’ or ‘abnormality’ based on a person’s gender or sexual orientation.

According to eSafety research in Australia, the LGBTIQ+ community experiences online hate at more than double the national average, and the changes at Meta will make the problem worse.

Less protection online will lead to more hate speech and real-world impacts on the LGBTIQ+ community.

IT’S ALREADY HAPPENING ON THE GROUND IN AUSTRALIA

Several performers dropped out of the 2024 Feast Festival burlesque and drag show in South Australia after abusive comments were posted online. Karney Doll, the producer of the event, reported the comments to SA Police and hired security, but she said some performers felt threatened, resulting in many dropping out of the show.

“WE’RE TRYING TO BRING SOMETHING TOGETHER THAT CREATES A POSITIVE EXPERIENCE WITHIN THE COMMUNITY, BUT PEOPLE SAYING THOSE COMMENTS DESTROY COMMUNITIES.”

About 90 kilometres south in the town of Burra, organisers of the state’s third annual Country Pride Picnic said they were also targeted online when they advertised the event on social media. Burra resident Deb Selway said that despite a strong community of allies in the region, the vitriol prompted organisers to hire security for the first time.

“IT WAS REALLY UNEXPECTED TO RECEIVE THIS SORT OF PUSHBACK FROM THE GENERAL COMMUNITY AND IT IS HURTFUL FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE TO HAVE THAT NEGATIVE FEEDBACK PUT ON US.”

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Feast Festival CEO Tish Naughton said they run multiple arts events throughout SA, and it’s more than just a platform to celebrate queer artists and culture in the state.

“WE COME TOGETHER TO SHOWCASE THE STRENGTH AND RESILIENCE OF LGBTQ+ COMMUNITIES.”

The LGBTIQ+ community in Wangaratta in Victoria has also faced opposition from hate groups on social media.

In 2023, the local council announced a decision to delay the Rainbow Ball for the safety of participants, due to the event being targeted by far-right and neo-Nazi groups.

Mayor Dean Rees said, “We are extremely disappointed that there has been some hateful narrative around the event. We do not accept this, but cannot risk an event that is about fun and celebration posing a risk to anyone attending.”

In Queensland, transgender woman Chelsea Morrigan said they were not surprised by the policy changes at Meta.

The local Rockhampton artist told reporters they had received multiple death threats both in person and online related to their gender and identity, which left them fearing for their safety.

Chelsea is concerned that without protections through Meta’s policies, it will only get worse.

The changes at Meta come after the removal of multiple LGBTIQ+ Facebook groups that were flagged as ‘at risk’ for cybersecurity breaches. The pages included links to local services and events, and mental health organisations.

Beven Davenport from an LGBTIQ+ community group in Bundaberg told the ABC their posts were removed by Facebook.

“WE STARTED GETTING NOTIFICATIONS SAYING THE GROUP HAD BEEN SUSPENDED DUE TO ‘MALICIOUS MALWARE’ LINKING TO BEYOND BLUE, LIFELINE, HEADSPACE AND BLACK DOG.”

Queensland Council for LGBTI Health chief executive Rebecca Reynolds said the removal of groups from Facebook has been widely reported across Queensland and interstate. She said that social and online connections were crucial, especially outside major cities.

“IT HELPS PROMOTE FAIRNESS, INCLUSION AND MENTAL WELLBEING, STRENGTHENING COMMUNITIES, FAMILIES AND FRIEND GROUPS, AND IT REDUCES ISOLATION.”

Laverne Cox

“IF SOMEONE NEEDS TO EXPRESS THEIR GENDER IN A WAY THAT IS DIFFERENT, THAT IS OKAY. THEY DON’T DESERVE TO BE VICTIMS OF VIOLENCE. IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT, THEN YOU NEED TO LOOK AT YOURSELF.”

Laverne Cox is an American transgender actress and queer advocate. She rose to prominence with her role as Sophia Burset on the hit Netflix series Orange Is the New Black, becoming the first transgender person to be nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award.

A spokesperson for Australian Federal Minister for Communications Michelle Rowland said social media companies like Meta were expected to comply with Australian law and that all people were entitled to respect, equality and freedom from harm online.

However, with the Trump administration now in the White House, I wonder how likely it is that Meta will honour Australian social media laws.

Donald Trump and the Republican Party are showing complete contempt and hatred for the queer and transgender community and use anti-transgender and ‘anti-woke’ slurs to appeal to voters. Unfortunately, their bigoted views are also gaining traction here, particularly on social media.

The LGBTIQ+ community must brace for a tumultuous political landscape in 2025 here and worldwide. Social media companies like Meta are falling in line with the Trump administration and removing safeguards that protect us from abuse online. They are neglecting their duty of care so toxic and divisive commentary can thrive.

The LGBTIQ+ community can’t be intimidated. We need to stand up to hate groups, and our politicians need to stand with us. Cancelling LGBTIQ+ events will just give the bigots more strength.

James May is well-published in LGBTIQ+ media and his writing has appeared in The Guardian, The Age, The Sydney Morning Herald and Canberra Times

By Dwayne Lennox

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DID YOU KNOW?

The first US film to depict a trans character was Glen or Glenda, made by writer and director Ed Wood in 1953. Wood is famous for his low-budget science fiction, crime and horror films that are now cult classics.

BIG BOYS

A SITCOM THAT WILL GENUINELY MOVE YOU ABC IVIEW

After an initial streaming rights snafu, this British sitcom has finally found a home on Aunty, and the timing couldn’t be better; a third, and final, season has just aired in the UK. Based somewhat on the life of comedian Jack Rooke, Big Boys follows the college exploits of Jack (Dylan Llewellyn; Derry Girls), his straight best friend Danny (Jon Pointing), Yemi (Olisa Odele), the big queen on campus, and Corinne (Izuka Hoyle), often the group’s voice of reason. Not only dealing with Jack’s coming out, Big Boys navigates grief and mental health with both humour and grace.

CHANGING ENDS PERFECT MIX OF ’80S NOSTALGIA & HUMOUR

STAN & ABC IVIEW

If you’ve ever wondered about the origin story of British TV talk show host Alan Carr, then wonder no more. Set in 1987, the series follows a bespectacled, big-toothed Alan (Oliver Savell) as he navigates his first year of high school, with the help of his ever-supportive mum (Nancy Sullivan) and not-so supportive dad (Shaun Dooley), the grizzled manager of the town’s football team. Many a gay man of a similar vintage will feel seen by young Alan’s travails; Savell’s performance is a comic delight. Season one of Changing Ends is on Stan, with the season two on ABC iview. And good news: two more seasons have been given the go ahead.

CLEAN SLATE TOTALLY LOVABLE

& IMPOSSIBLE TO RESIST PRIME

VIDEO

When her love-life and career fall through in New York, Desiree (Laverne Cox; Orange Is the New Black) returns home to Alabama to reconnect with her father, Harry (George Wallace). Harry, however, is expecting the son he hasn’t seen in years, not the proud, yet deflated, transwoman who arrives on his doorstep; so ensues an odd couple comedy of sorts as Desiree and Harry renegotiate their relationship. Clean Slate is a sweet, inoffensive series that not-so-subtly tackles identity, sexuality and bigotry, but is a welcome arrival in the growing tide of anti-trans rhetoric.

INVISIBLE BOYS A HEARTFELT AUSTRALIAN QUEER DRAMA NETFLIX

The titular boys are Charlie (Joseph Zada), Matt (Joe Klocek), Zeke (Aydan Calafiore) and Kade (Zach Blampied), four adolescent residents of Geraldton, WA, whose relatively closeted lives become far more visible when one of them is outed following a hook-up with a married man. Adapted from the novel by Holden Sheppard, and set against the backdrop of the 2017 marriage plebiscite, Invisible Boys is a grittier queer teen drama than Brit favourite Heartstopper, but that shouldn’t stop it finding an audience, both of similarly aged viewers and those who skew a little older. Read our interview with the show’s director on p29.

CERVICAL

If you have a cervix, are between 25 and 74 and have ever been sexually active you should have a regular Cervical Screening Test. This includes people who are same sex attracted, and people who identify as trans, non-binary or intersex. The Cervical Screening Test can be done with a speculum examination, or can now be self-collected. Talk to a nurse or doctor about which option is suitable for you.

YOUR HEALTH, YOUR PLEASURE AND YOUR COMMUNITY MATTER

MPOX: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Lovers and adventurers, let’s talk mpox. While sexual health isn’t always top of mind, taking care of each other is always hot. With mpox still circulating in Canberra and around Australia, the Meridian team is here to help you stay safe while keeping things steamy.

WHAT IS MPOX?

Mpox (formerly monkeypox) is a virus that spreads through close contact, causing flu-like symptoms and skin sores. Most cases are mild, but they can be painful. Vaccination not only helps stop the spread, it also reduces the severity of symptoms if you do get mpox.

HOW TO STAY SAFE

The best way to protect yourself is to get vaccinated. The mpox vaccine is free (even without Medicare) and available to:

• Sexually active gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (cis and trans)

• Anyone who has sex with these men, including women (cis and trans) and non-binary people

• Sex workers

You’ll need two doses spaced at least 28 days apart for the best protection.

KNOW THE SIGNS AND GET CHECKED

Symptoms may include fever, fatigue, swollen lymph nodes, and skin lesions that resemble pimples or blisters. Sores can appear anywhere, including hard-to-check areas like inside and around the mouth, genitals or anus, making them easy to miss. If you develop symptoms, stay home and make an appointment with your GP or a sexual healthcare provider.

CANBERRA: Sexual Health Centre 02 5124 2184

SYDNEY: Sexual Health Infolink 1800 451 624

For more information, including where to get vaccinated, visit meridianact.org.au/mpox for Canberra readers and aconhealth.org.au/monkeypox for Sydney readers.

Your health, your pleasure and your community matter. Stay informed, get vaccinated, monitor for symptoms and get tested if you notice any signs of infection.

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SAFE IS SEXY: FREE STI TESTING CLINIC IS HELPING YOUNGER CANBERRAN’S BE GREAT LOVERS

The team at Sexual Health and Family Planning ACT (SHFPACT) believes there is nothing sexier than looking after your health and the health of those around you!

Every Tuesday evening, SHFPACT opens their doors to host a new free walk-in STI testing clinic. The clinic was launched with the aim of reaching asymptomatic under-tested under-30s, and offers testing for sexually transmitted infections (STI) and blood-borne viruses (BBV).

There are no appointments or costs; people can just walk in, register and wait to be seen by a nurse or doctor. After a quick chat, clients are offered tests for STIs and BBVs, including chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis and HIV. Blood tests are not compulsory, but are an option.

The youth-orientated service was launched in January this year, and since the launch has had a steady interest each week.

The turnout has been very positive, and the data has shown that many visitors have never had sexual health checks before. Chief Executive Officer Tracey Hall says it has been great to see so many young people coming through the doors, especially those who are getting tested for the first time.

“The rates for chlamydia and gonorrhoea in Australia are highest among people aged under 30, and up to 70% of people with STIs are asymptomatic. For that reason, we really encourage you to come along to the clinic on a Tuesday night to have chat with our team of doctors, nurses and educators, and get tested.”

The clinic, supported by the ACT Health Directorate, has been funded for an initial six-month pilot. SHFPACT is hopeful that a successful trial will result in funding for a long-term service.

The free under-30s walk-in STI testing clinic is open every Tuesday afternoon from 4:30pm-7:30pm at SHFPACT, Level 1, 28 University Avenue, Canberra. shfpact.org.au

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CAPITAL OF EQUALITY

HORSES AROUND AT MARDI GRAS

‘Capital of Equality’ joined in with 200 other floats from around Australia and over 15,000 jubilant participants as they marched proudly down Oxford Street to Kylie Minogue’s song ‘Midnight Ride’, complete with horse-head masks, custom-made sequinned chaps, and mirror disco-ball cowboy hats; they certainly did Canberra proud!

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Nathan J. Lester

for men who have sex with men

Call 5124 2184 to book an appointment

Building 8, Level 4, Canberra Hospital Call 5124 2184 or check our website for opening hours at health.act.gov.au/CSHC

Last-minute appointments are usually available.

health.act.gov.au/CSHC • act.gov.au

Enquiries: 13ACT1 or 132281 • MClinic 5124 2184

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SYDNEY GAY AND LESBIAN MARDI GRAS PARADE 2025

Were you snapped at Mardi Gras? It was another fabulous night to remember as thousands of spectators lined the streets around Oxford Street in Sydney to watch LGBTIQ+ community members celebrate the 47th annual Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade. More than 200 floats took part, showcasing this year’s theme: “FREE TO BE”.

Photos

Georgia Griffiths

LGBTIQ.DIRECTORY

The LGBTIQ.DIRECTORY includes listings and display advertising for LGBTIQ+ friendly or owned/operated businesses and support organisations that wish to connect with the community. With the support of our partners, we also offer free listings for local LGBTIQ+ social and sporting groups.

ENCOURAGING AND SUPPORTING RICH AND FULFILLING LIVES IN OUR COMMUNITY

APRIL & MAY 2025 THE UNIVERSE IS ENCOURAGING A BETTER YOU!

Although April begins with Mercury retrograde, this pesky transit of the planet ends on the 7th. Remember not to make any major decisions during the first week or two of April, as confusion reigns during this period. In May, Jupiter enters Gemini, which will focus on family and emotional health. This is a positive time for people to work on personal development and improving relationships.

Aquarius

January 21 – February 18

The next few months offer you fresh ideas and breakthroughs for personal or work projects. Someone may question your goals, forcing you to prove yourself to others. TIP: This is a good time to start new relationships and ask for favours if you need to.

Taurus

April 21 – May 21

You may feel a renewed sense of calm, stability and focus, which makes the next couple of months an excellent time to reflect on what’s important and how to move forward. TIP: Take things in your stride, as your love life may experience a few highs and lows.

Leo

July 23 – August 23

As Mars enters Leo, it will ignite your desire, passion and determination. This is a great time to pursue love and new passion projects. TIP: Focus on maintaining a balanced lifestyle. If you are pushing too hard, reflect on what self-care means for you and act on it.

Scorpio

October 24 – November 22

May brings a vibrant month of goodness and promises to be rewarding for you. In relationships and self-growth, you’ll find that things align in your favour if you move on any opportunities quickly. TIP: Trust yourself and act in ways that are kind and feel right for you.

Pisces

February 19 – March 20

Venus is currently touring your sign, encouraging introspection about your love life and what brings you happiness. You may experience some mood swings, confusion and tension during this time. TIP: Take extra care when making important decisions or plans.

Gemini

May 22 – June 21

April and May will bring new clarity. You can expect smoother communication and positive outcomes if you listen carefully and act in good faith, no matter what comes your way. TIP: Embrace change this year as the planets offer to empower a new way of being for you.

Virgo

August 24 – September 23

Virgos may face some life challenges, but stay calm, as they will also bring new opportunities for success and growth. TIP: Keep a sharp lookout, as you may have the chance to enjoy an erotic adventure with your partner or someone who catches your eye.

Sagittarius

November 23 – December 22

Hidden talents may emerge to help your personal growth and professional advancement, while your powers of attraction could enhance your social and love life. TIP: It’s time to explore the world around you, whether it’s just around the corner or across the seas.

Aries

March 21 – April 20

Growth is highlighted and bold action may be required to shift gears. Jupiter will help boost your confidence while encouraging you to change your path and let go of old ways. TIP: Prioritise rest, as you may need all the energy you have over the coming months.

Cancer

June 22 – July 22

Cancerians can expect sparks of motivation and insight that may lead to new life horizons if action is taken with intent. TIP: It’s the perfect time to make deeper connections with people, so don’t shy away from any opportunities that come your way.

Libra

September 24 – October 23

Relationships take centre stage as Venus retrograde prompts reflection on partnerships in all aspects of your life. This may inspire new perspectives on shared goals. TIP: Use this period of introspection to improve how you feel about yourself and to love more.

Capricorn

December 23 – January 20

The universe may throw some curve balls at you. This may sound alarming, but with the stars on your side, struggle and stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to pleasing consequences. TIP: Work on building solid foundations for your long-term life goals.

By Rose Pappalardo

Dear Rose,

My bisexual friend is feeling pressured to choose between men and women by some of his other friends, which I find surprising in 2025. What can you suggest to help him be more comfortable with his identity? Lim

Dear Lim,

This is a tale as old as time. The world loves to put us in little boxes; bisexuality is, of course, about more than boxes! The best thing you can do is listen without judgment. Let your friend vent and explore his feelings. Remind him that his attractions are valid, regardless of who he chooses to date (or not date!). Challenge any biphobic notions you hear from so-called ‘friends’, even if they’re subtle. Most importantly, create a safe space where your friend feels free to be himself, without pressure to conform to anyone else’s expectations. Remind him that his identity is a journey, not a destination, and that you’ll be there for them every step of the way.

Dear Rose,

My trans child is facing bullying at school on a daily basis, and it’s been difficult to put a stop to. What steps can I take as a parent to ensure their safety and wellbeing? Linda

Dear Linda,

My heart goes out to you and your child. Bullying, especially when it targets someone’s identity or gender, is simply unacceptable. First, document everything, like dates, times, and specific incidents that build a solid record. Then march yourself into that school, armed with your notes, and ask for a meeting with the principal and relevant teachers. Insist on a clear anti-bullying plan with specific consequences for the perpetrators.

But beyond the school, wrap your child in love and support. Affirm their identity, celebrate their strength, and connect them with other trans youth through local groups or online communities. Remind them that they are not alone and that their true self is beautiful and worthy of respect. This will give them the confidence to brush off the haters!

I also suggest you contact any local transgender support organisations in your area. You’ve got this, Mama Bear!

Dear Rose, I’m a gay man who has been asked to be a sperm donor for a lesbian couple. I’m conflicted because I want to help them out, but I’m not interested in being a parent, and one day, I’ll get a knock on the door for sure. Awkward

Dear Awkward, Oh, honey, this is a big one! It’s wonderful that you want to help your friends, but you’re right to consider the potential complications. First, talk to an LGBTIQ-friendly lawyer specialising in reproductive rights. Understanding the legal ramifications of sperm donation in Australia, including your rights and responsibilities (if any) as a donor, is incredibly important before you make any decisions.

Next, I suggest you have an open and honest conversation with the couple. As I always say, communication is key to any relationship. Discuss your concerns about future contact and establish clear boundaries upfront. Consider a formal agreement that addresses these issues. If, after careful consideration, you still feel uneasy, it’s okay to say no. Your peace of mind is paramount, and there are other ways to support your friends on their journey to parenthood. Above all, however, it’s critical that you trust your gut, darling, and choose what feels right for you.

Joan Roughgarden

The biggest error in biology today is uncritically assuming that the gamete size binary implies a corresponding binary in body type, behaviour, and life history.”

Born from missionary parents, Dr. Roughgarden is a transgender evolutionary ecologist from the USA.

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