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Bears, Queens, Geeks, and More Publisher’s Column

Director talks Liberace biopic and why he’s proud to call it his last film...for now

13 InnerSPACE at the Calgary Expo 14 Orphan Black The new sci-fi show in town

15 Discussing Community Safety Victim Assistance Support

16 Sean Patrick Flanery

A pre-Comic Expo chat with actor, martial artist and speedy driver

18 Dido Thanks You

Singer-songwriter on ‘loyal’ gay following, anger issues and which song of hers she doesn’t want at your wedding

20 A New High

Sarah Brightman talks space mission, trendy gays and ‘fun feeling’ of hitting big notes

22 Deep Inside Hollywood

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Vin Diesel, Moon Men and Wanda Sykes: nothing in common except deals

23 Cocktail Chatter The Caiprinha

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m 25 The Non-Operative Word is Not Sorry 26 The 15th Annual Fairy Tales 27 Amaluna

Part Cirque part Broadway

28 Balletlujah!

Canadian icon k.d. lang inspires Alberta Ballet’s last dance of the season

29 A Master’s Ego Struck Down

Red gives inner look at expressionist painter’s melees

30 Out of Town National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Association

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Writers and Contributors

Mercedes Mercedes Allen,Allen, ChrisChris Azzopardi, Azzopardi, DallasDave Barnes, Brousseau, Dave Brousseau, JasonSam Clevett, Casselman, Andrew Jason Collins, Clevett, Mark Andrew Dawson,Collins, Rob Diaz-Marino, Emily Collins,Janine Rob Diaz-Marino, Eva Trotta, Janine Evan Kayne, Eva Trotta, Stephen Jack Lock, Fertig,Lisa GlenLunney, Hanson,Steve Joan Hilty, Polyak, EvanRomeo Kayne,San Stephen Vicente, Lock, EdNeil Sikov, McMullen, Krista Allan Sylvester Neuwirth, and theSteve LGBTPolyak, Community Carey Rutherford, of Calgary, Romeo SanEdmonton, Vicente, Edand Sikov, Alberta.

Nick Vivian and the GLBT Community of Calgary, Edmonton, and Alberta.

Photography Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, Karen Hofmann, LisaPhotography Lunney, Mike Gere Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, B&J Videography Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino

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Editorial

Bears, Queens, Geeks, and More Publisher’s Column

By Rob Diaz-Marino, MSc. After coming out of press with the April edition, we didn’t have a single quiet weekend for the rest of the month. For better or for worse (but mostly for better), three major multi-day events would suck up practically every spare moment of our time: Bears in Togas First up was the much anticipated (by Steve and I especially) Bearacchus weekend, brought to us by the Fellowship of Alberta Bears (FAB) and ARGRA. Unfortunately as the timing turned out, Bearacchus was happening opposite Jasper Pride. For many reasons, including the fact that we had promised some friends from Edmonton a place to stay for this event, we opted to stay in Calgary.

It started Friday night with the Tacky Tourist party at the Ramada Hotel downtown (the host hotel for the weekend) where all the bears already in town got to wear their gaudiest Hawaiian shirts. Steve and I were in the mood to dress in theme for once, so we each wore our one and only Hawaiian shirts too. I went a little further, digging out of the closet a sun hat that I didn’t even know we had, and putting some of our old press passes to use to look like the kind of tourist who has to show off how many resort activities they’ve participated in. It was a nice evening of socializing, topped off with a hairy buns competition!

Saturday afternoon was the Bear-BQ at the Backlot, which coincided with ISCCA Voting Day. This was pretty convenient, as it allowed us to kill two birds with one stone. “Slippery Bear” Les was cooking burgers and steaks on the grill - and apparently with meat on his mind, Steve tried his hardest to convince Les to participate in the Jock Strap Auction that would be occurring at the dance later that evening. Les seemed up for it, until he realized it was a bit more involved than just handing over a pair of his underwear. Ah well.

Nevertheless, all the hungry bears buying food at the Backlot raised around $700 for the ISCCA. As opening time for the main event approached, the weather grew progressively worse, snowing heavily. Steve and I made our way down to the Arrata Opera Centre, where the dance was being held, to set up the slide presentation of bear eye-candy we had prepared.

Steve had to forego dressing in theme for the toga party because it wouldn’t be practical for him to carry his camera, however I had done my research on how to wrap a toga and dressed myself up for the occasion.

The dance had a good turnout, though I fear the last minute turn of weather may have thinned the numbers a bit. While there were many familiar faces from both Calgary and Edmonton, this was the first Bearbash for a number of Calgarians, and even a few people from other parts of Canada and the US. DJ Phon3hom3 kept people moving on the dance floor, and contestants in the Jock Strap Auction circulated to sell tickets and strut their stuff (and a few of them had an obscene amount of stuff to strut). The auction fundraised for FAB and ARGRA, and according to organizers, Gay Friends in Calgary also raised over $400 on coat check.

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The end of the night is never a pretty sight when you are one of the sober minority in the room, however I stuck around a little while after the doors had closed and people were being cleared out to make sure our guests from Edmonton got back to our place safely. Then Sunday morning, hung over or not, we all went back to the Ramada Hotel for some eggs, bacon, sausages, and more at the “Bear-runch” (brunch) and said our goodbyes to out-of-towners who were heading back home. With highways in dangerous condition after the previous night’s snowfall, we were kind of glad we had stayed in town.

Queens in Crowns Pop Quiz: what comes the week after ISCCA voting day? The answer is: Calgary Coronation.

Due to the venue selection for the In Town and Out of Town shows, coverage of these events in the magazine were not required, so Steve and I enjoyed a drama-free Thursday and Friday night at home before the main event at the Westin on Saturday.

This year, Ball organizers made a number of changes to the performance order and other aspects of the night, in hopes of promoting a better flow for the audience. In some ways they were successful, such as taking care of the announcements and cheque presentations near the beginning of the night so that the rest, leading up to the Coronation ceremony, would be solid entertainment. From my spot behind the camera, the first set seemed very long, however the second and third sets went by surprisingly fast – and there wasn’t even a fourth set!

In other ways, the changes were not so successful, such as the tipping dish placed in front of the stage, designed to reduce the time taken for the tipping line to clear after each performance. It was apparent that people want to interact with the performers when giving their tips, so this measure unfortunately didn’t save much time. Lesson learned.

Despite things seeming to go by quicker, the event still breached midnight. Argintina Hailey-Dior was voted in as Empress, with Chris Tron stepping in beside her as Regent Emperor due to a “no” vote for the Emperor candidate.

This news caused a bit of a kafuffle, and there was much discussion about it the next day. Amidst it all, Steve and I felt a bit sad that a number of people were so caught up in the drama of it that they were forgetting to congratulate Argintina for being successfully elected.

It’s hard to comment on the no vote without stepping on toes or lending credence to hearsay. While Dennis was understandably discouraged, we still saw him at the Coronation after party and some of the Coronation week wrap-up events the following day, which speaks volumes.

From our own experience, we’ve seen that Arginitina is a really sweet and humble person who truly cares about the community.

Over the past few months we witnessed her receive flack that she

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After two busy weekends, I was determined to be in a bad mood over having to go through a third one. And in fact, I managed to keep this up for a little while on Friday until I reluctantly started enjoying myself. Even being stuck at our booth for a good part of the weekend, there was rarely a dull moment.

If nothing else, the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo is swarming with hot men. A straight man would likely say the same thing about the women…in fact, I’m pretty sure a few did. My theory on the men is that many of them have strived to model themselves after the hyper-masculine role models out of comic book lore – some quite literally dressed up as their favorite characters, while others more subtly incorporate it into their every-day “look”. For Steve and I who like guys with bulk, beards, body hair and tattoos, it was a veritable smorgasbord of pleasing visuals.

The magazines went very fast, and our presence caused an explosion of traffic to our website and new followers on Facebook and Twitter. This was no surprise considering the Expo was sold out weeks in advance, with an attendance estimated at around 60,000!

As an official sponsor of the event (we even had an aisle in the main hall named for us) it made us very proud to see the weekend go so successfully.

At certain points during the weekend, a superhero known as “Camera Man” could be seen as a black streak amongst the throngs of people. That was me in my hoodie, hustling to videotape some of the celebrity Q&A panels for some of our follow-up articles.

Of the panels that I saw, one actor in particular stole the show: John Barrowman, who is interviewed in this edition. The man had me rolling with laughter with his funny stories, crazy antics, and blatantly gay sexual innuendos. What I loved more was that the crowds were eating it up too, even encouraging him to get more bold with it. Barrowman proved to me beyond a doubt that straight men and women can not only embrace a gay character (as he played on Torchwood and Doctor Who) but also an out gay actor. He told an initially funny story, in which he was concerned he had caused a straight fellow actor to cry after their characters had done a kissing scene. But in actuality, he confessed the man was crying because his brother who was gay had committed suicide years ago, and was lamenting that at the time, his brother didn’t have someone like Barrowman to look up to. It brought tears to my eyes, but they were quickly wiped away by his next funny story.

Barrowman appeared that weekend on the Torchwood Panel (with Eve Myles and Gareth David-Lloyd), and on another panel of his own. I returned from both with a big grin on my face. I can’t help but admire the guy – he has made a fan out of me.

Eve Myles, who made our cover last month, was also very sweet.

I came along to film the follow-up interview and didn’t think to introduce myself, so she made a point of saying hi to me and asking my name. Casper Van Dien was very funny and raucous when Jason interviewed him, and I made a straight buddy from work a little jealous when I texted him a picture of Eliza Dushku from less than 5 metres away, as I was filming her panel.

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cases take drawing commissions. Quite coincidentally, several weeks prior, Steve had connected online with one such artist that was being brought out for the Expo. After paying him a visit at his booth for a quick interview on Friday, he took Steve and I up on our offer to go out for drinks that night at the Backlot. We ended up having a really great time with him and a few friends of his from Calgary (a few of whom turned out to be friends of ours as well) and so made similar arrangements Saturday night, and Sunday after the Expo was finished before he had to catch his flight back to Vancouver. He was a really sweet and interesting guy, especially for me who dabbles in drawing and photography. I didn’t exactly grill him with questions about his profession, but a few things came up as incidental topics that I was fascinated to hear about. Being able to spend time with a new friend felt good, and really made our weekend.

Other Stuff The SHARP Foundation held their annual Taste for Life fundraising event last month, so Steve and I tried something new by visiting Los Chilitos, a Mexican restaurant on 17th Avenue. As one of the participating locations, the restaurant donated 25% of their sales for the evening to the SHARP Foundation. Although the restaurant is a 10 minute walk from our house, this was our first time visiting.

As someone who has eaten at restaurants in Mexico, I definitely appreciated the authentic atmosphere they have created. We ate a sampling of different dishes, of course including some tacos – all very delicious. Before we left, I got a picture of myself with one of the SHARP Foundation volunteers, and the handsome waiter who shares a name with one of my cousins from Spain.

For any women that felt a little excluded due to the primarily maleoriented Bearacchus weekend, Les Girls restored the balance with their Geek is Sheek women’s dance. It was surreal to see Vinyl, once the space of Boyztown, a private men’s club, completely taken over by women. We also got to see the newly renovated downstairs, now called Hyde, and I have to say I really like the atmosphere they’ve created with the bookshelf walls. We hung around for the first little while to get pictures, but as the girls started to really enjoy themselves, it was our queue to give them their privacy. *wink* This Month Thankfully we have a few weeks to breathe before the next major events. The North American Gay Volleyball Association tournament comes to Calgary from April 23rd to 26th, and the Fairy Tales Film Festival starts April 24th to 26th and continues April 29th to June 1st. We attended the launch party for Fairy Tales last month where they showed previews of many exciting new films that are coming to this year’s festival. We’re definitely looking forward to it! For more information, look for their itinerary of films as a sponsored spread in this edition.

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Behind the Candelabra

Director talks Liberace biopic and why he’s proud to call it his last film … for now  Photo by HBO

By Chris Azzopardi Steven Soderbergh knows who’s significantly responsible for the major success of his male-stripper romp Magic Mike: gay men eager to ogle the barely-covered bits of Channing Tatum and his hunky posse. The Oscar-winning director’s upcoming feature will obviously court the same audience – and not just because Matt Damon lets it all hang out, too.

Behind the Candelabra is so gay that major Hollywood studios would have nothing to do with the Liberace film. Premiering May 26 on HBO, the revealing biopic stars Michael Douglas as the shiny showman who died of AIDS complications at age 67 and Damon as his much younger beau, Scott Thorson.

In our interview, Soderbergh spoke in depth about their real-life relationship, the “flamboyancy scale” used to guide the actors’ gayness onset, diversity in film and why Damon wanted to flaunt the junk in his trunk.

GC: Steven, you’ve made the gayest movie of your career.

SS: That was my intent.

GC: Was it?

SS: In a way. It was an opportunity to make use of all the hours that I’ve

spent watching melodramas like Sunset Boulevard – anything connected to a certain aesthetic that we associate with camp or just glamour.

I had spoken to Michael about it conceptually when we were doing Traffic, but when I started researching Liberace, I was really having trouble figuring out what the angle should be. I didn’t want it to be a traditional biopic.

It was a friend of mine in New York who made me aware of Thorson’s book (Behind the Candelabra: My Life with Liberace). Once I read that,

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it solved all my problems. That was six years ago. So we’re sort of experiencing everything through his eyes. He’s Alice going down the rabbit hole.

GC: What did you know about Liberace before reading Thorson’s book?

SS: I’m old enough to have seen him on TV when he was still performing.

I was, however, young enough to not really be able to articulate what was distinctive about him. (Laughs) But I remember my parents always made a point of turning on that channel if they knew he was going to be on somebody’s show or if he had a special. I had this vague sense of him being a very flamboyant entertainer.

In 2000, as I started to learn more about him and gather material, what was great was discovering that he was an amazing technical musician, an incredible keyboardist. I found it fascinating that somebody with that sort of skill set was very happy to hide it behind a real genuine desire to put on a very popular and entertaining show. He wouldn’t have been as interesting to me if it turned out that he was a so-so keyboardist.

GC: How did Michael pull off the piano-playing parts?

SS: Oh, lots of tricks.

GC: Then you fooled me, because at one point he’s playing 16 beats to

the bar for “Boogie Woogie” and you can clearly see Michael’s hands on the piano.

SS: In my mind, that was a very important scene. Because if we don’t sell that, then we have a problem. There was a lot of effort expended on that particular scene. Michael had to spend a lot of time making sure that he was doing the right thing so that the effects would work properly.

He couldn’t just sit there. He had video of the pieces and he had to make sure his hands were very close to being perfectly placed so that we could make it work.

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GC: Did you discuss with Michael how flamboyant he could go with Liberace?

SS: Sometimes I’d use a number. I’d go, “Oh, I think he should be at a 7 here.”

GC: A 7 on the flamboyancy scale?

SS: Yeah. But more often than not, he and Matt would both tell you

that once you put on the outfit and the hair and everything, you’re kind of there. I don’t remember having to really talk about how gay I wanted them to be. (Michael) would just show up in that outfit with that hair and it was happening.

GC: Was there a scene where you told them to take it to a 10?

SS: The first meeting where Lee (the name close friends called Liberace)

first meets Scott backstage, I would’ve said to Michael, “OK, this is about as far as I want you to go.” Take it as far as you feel comfortable.

GC: The sexual tension was so palpable my screen was sweating.

SS: (Laughs) One of the things I liked about it is this sort of Sunset

Boulevard dynamic in terms of the age difference and the fact that Scott shows up and Lee’s giving him elevator eyes.

looking at it on paper, and then when you see what Michael and Matt did, I get why they couldn’t see it. I was just frustrated that they didn’t believe that we could see it.

GC: What do you think it says about Hollywood and society when a movie about two gay men won’t get picked up by a major studio but a movie that exploits violence does?

SS: That’s more about the culture at large than it is about the studios.

They don’t give a shit. If movies like this were making a lot of money, that’s all they’d be making. The reason you don’t see more movies made with non-white protagonists as leads is because, in our culture, non-white audiences go in significant numbers to see movies with white protagonists, but white audiences do not return the favor. It’s not reciprocal, and that’s the only reason that movies lack so much diversity.

GC: Did you know going in that a movie about Liberace would be a tough sell?

SS: Yeah, I knew it would be tough, but I didn’t think it would be impossible. If it wasn’t for HBO, I don’t think we would’ve been able to get it made.

GC: How did you perceive their relationship?

SS: I took the relationship at face value, and I believed that it was

GC: Matt had said that it’s a challenge creating chemistry with someone

you wouldn’t normally be attracted to. As the director, was it a challenge to make this relationship seem real?

SS: The key, which they understood intuitively, was: The chemistry was going to come from the comfort level, and the more comfortable they felt with each other and the more that it seemed, “Oh, this is how people act when there is not a camera around,” that’s what would sell it. Just being totally inside of it and never stepping out of it and looking back at it. You have to just jump into the hot tub, and that’s what I think really sells it when I see the movie. They seem so comfortable with each other.

GC: And only one take for the sex scene where Matt is on top of Michael – really?

SS: (Laughs) I said, “OK, Mike, you’ve gotta be able to reach the amyl

nitrates, so you should be here. Matt, you’re gonna be on top of him here.

I’m gonna drop the camera down here.” We did a take, there was a long pause and I was just like, “I don’t have any notes. That’s that.”

GC: Not that I was counting, but there were three Matt Damon ass shots. When is an ass shot necessary and when is it gratuitous?

SS: In this case, it would’ve been more awkward and distracting if you somehow didn’t show it. But none of that was planned. Matt’s in his robe and he gets into bed, and in another scene he’s getting out of the hot tub.

It’s all stuff that was motivated; I guess that’s really what it comes down to.

“Gratuitous” means they’re doing something they wouldn’t normally do to create an ass shot, and that’s not how we were thinking. Though I certainly had it in mind when Matt came to the set and said, “You’re not gonna believe the Brazilian tan line I got from the spray guy. The world has to see this.” (Laughs)

GC: Studios turned down the film because they said it was “too gay.”

What exactly is “too gay”?

SS: They weren’t convinced that anybody who’s not gay is going to want to see it. That was really their attitude. It’s not like, “We don’t like gay people.” They had concerns about how to sell it. And when you’re just

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a real relationship and that they did love each other. It’s a very weird environment in which to maintain any relationship, but I felt that it was a sincere relationship and that they were both broken but in different ways, and so there was a kindred feeling somehow.

GC: And that last scene really brings authenticity to the relationship.

SS: When I read the book, it convinced me that this was worth doing,

because it really surprised me. The way the movie lands emotionally is really unexpected – and in the book, I just found that scene incredibly moving and sad.

GC: Do you see this film and Liberace’s life as a cautionary tale at all?

SS: No. I guess when I look at it, there’s just more of a frustration that

there was this added pressure because of the time period – the pressure of hiding the relationship and then, of course, the threat of mortality that was circulating amongst the gay community during that period. I mean, I lived for nine months with my sister in San Francisco during the summer of ’80 through the spring of ’81 on Market Street. If I was gay, I’d be dead.

That was ground zero.

GC: What was that experience like for you?

SS: It was interesting to be 17 and walk down the street and have

somebody look at me in the way that I’d be looking at girls. (Laughs) That was the first time being exposed to that, but it wasn’t a problem. The friends I did have that were gay and sexually active were really, really paranoid and being super safe. They were scared.

It’s a classic case of everybody realizing everything too late. I always wish we could think 50 years in the future when we look at what’s going on right now in terms of equal rights. I’m just sitting here going, “50 years from now, we’re going to be wondering why we were even arguing about this.” Why can’t we just pretend that it’s 50 years later and just end it now?

GC: On behalf of the gay community, I would like to thank you for Magic Mike.

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SS: (Laughs) It’s so funny, because that was such a huge part of the success of the film – the attention it was given from that community from the minute it was announced. It was such a chatter magnet and, honestly, that was part of the reason why Warner Bros. came in while we were shooting and picked the movie up. This is not something they typically do.

hard for them – especially, when they’re looking at a piece of art – to drop the ideology and look at the macro of it. They’re just reacting with their amygdala instead of their prefrontal cortex and they’re crying foul and you go, “No, actually, if you break this down, you only got halfway there before you started yelling.”

This was an independently financed movie that they came and bought while it was shooting. I can’t even tell you the last time they did that, and that was because they had a feeling that this thing was going to have some cultural traction because of all the Internet attention it was getting.

Yeah, there was a bit of a flash mob about it initially. I was trying to explain that – actually, she’s not a lesbian. She’s just a fucking opportunist! (Laughs)

GC: With Magic Mike 2, have you thought about where you want the

story to go?

SS: We actually just had a meeting about it the other day. It’s getting

pretty far along. They’ve got a good idea. There were some stories and events that Channing lived through that we just couldn’t fit in the first one. One of them is a really hilarious and very cinematic idea that we reluctantly didn’t put in the first film, because it was such a big idea you could build a whole film out of it – but we didn’t want to build that film out of it. It’s perfect for this, though.

GC: How involved will you be?

SS: I want to help. I have some proprietary feelings about it, obviously.

I want to make sure it gets done and done well, so we meet every couple of weeks to talk about where it’s going. But it’s gonna be good. It’s a good idea. It’s not a retread. And there will be more time spent with the characters – all of them.

GC: You’re not gonna tell me the idea, are you?

SS: Yeah, I don’t want to share the details.

GC: Is the original cast returning?

SS: Oh yeah!

GC: What did you make of the flack you received for the lesbian-killer

character in Side Effects?

SS: I knew that was coming. I thought, “Look, these kind of things swing in both directions.” You get people who are so on guard that it’s

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GC: Side Effects was supposed to be your last film. What made you put retirement on hold for Behind the Candelabra?

SS: The movie was supposed to happen earlier and it didn’t. I decided that, actually, this is great if this were – and I’m not saying it will be – the last movie I ever made. I would be very happy. I feel like it’s connected in a lot of ways to the first film I ever made, and it’s also a progression.

GC: Can you talk about the connection between this film and Sex, Lies, and Videotape?

SS: The connection is that it’s completely relationship driven, and most of it is about two people in a room ... except the room is now a hot tub.

(Laughs) It’s a progression in the sense that it’s a much more mature piece of work than my first film – obviously, it ought to be – but I’m able to do things, having done it for 24 years, that I wasn’t able to do back then.

GC: Are you still retiring?

SS: In terms of movies, it’s going to be a break. I don’t know how

extended. I’m just taking a break from that specific kind of work for a while to see if I can tear everything down and rebuild it. See if I can come back different.

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InnerSPACE at the Calgary Expo

By Evan Kayne Ajay Fry and Teddy Wilson from Space TV’s Sci Fi genre news program InnerSPACE were back in town for the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo, and at their panel the boys got a chance to really sharpen their improvisational and hosting skills: the reel clip of upcoming shows refused to play, leaving them to reenact the concepts. While it would have been nice to see the reel, it was a lot funnier to watch them perform on the spot. As well, a large portion of the panel was devoted to a new series – Orphan Black (see the accompanying article in this issue).

Often in Expos and conventions you get creators or fellow geeks like the InnerSPACE men giving a serious analysis of themes, characters and ideas on various science-fiction television shows. When I caught up with Teddy and Ajay later that weekend, their panel prompted me to discuss gay characters and geek culture.

It’s probably indicative of how much closer to the mainstream “Geek Culture” has become by how often it comes up on shows that are not science fiction oriented – and it’s no longer just the odd Star Trek references either. Recently on The Big Bang Theory , Sheldon had a minor meltdown upon finding out his favourite series Alphas was being cancelled. Ajay and Teddy have had those moments themselves, and have heard of fans echoing a similar response when a favorite sci-fi series ends. “I do think it’s really cool that idea of meta geek referencing on shows like The Big Bang Theory,” Teddy said. However, while the characters on that show are a bit of a stereotype of geeks, “I think it’s very interesting gateway show for people who aren’t super aware of the geek community.”

Besides stereotypes of geeks, I asked them about evolving portrayals of LGBT characters on television. Orphan Black has Felix, the adopted brother of the main character. What’s refreshing about Felix is that he’s not the stereotypical neutered, safe gay character. He’s sexually aggressive, acerbic, sells drugs and is probably not someone you’d want to have as a friend.

“Whereas ten years ago people might shy away from that kind of vibe and dynamic from a gay character, now it’s fine,” Teddy said. Some gay characters will be flamboyant, some won’t.

“That’s the key to it...people are who they are.” Ajay added that I used the right word when I discussed Felix – character. “It’s no longer a caricature. It’s a fully fleshed out, realized character.”

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 Ajay Fry and Teddy Wilson

As usual for Expo interviews, we didn’t have much time to talk, but the InnerSPACE boys were also excited about all the series they’ve got going on. Besides Orphan Black and the new season of Doctor Who, they were gushing over a new television series from the UK - Utopia. It just started airing on Space and essentially it’s about a cult graphic novel which is rumoured to have predicted the worst disasters of the last century, and how a small group of people gain possession of a sequel manuscript.

They then have to battle other groups who may or may not want to use this information for nefarious purposes.

Ajay was excited for In the Flesh: “It’s another great BBC series...it’s a mini-series about zombies being reintegrated into society after they’ve been cured of zombism.” And for those who like their reality shows, look for “Panic Button” - a Canadian reality series about facing your fears whether that be snakes, spiders, or small spaces. There were a few more new shows coming out, and with the summer movie season upon us, I’m sure InnerSPACE will be ready with comments, interviews and opinions – whether it be on the Expo floor or on SPACE.

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Orphan Black

The new sci-fi show in town

By Evan Kayne One of the nice things about going to the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo is being exposed to exciting new sci-fi television shows. Orphan Black is a new science fiction television series about a woman who witnesses the suicide of an exact duplicate of herself, and how she gets sucked into this duplicate’s life. She discovers there are more clones – and someone’s hunting them all down.

It’s a Canadian production which will be distributed by BBC worldwide, and it’s already getting a lot of positive feedback and fan reaction.

I had a chance to speak with two of the actors from the show - Jordan Gavaris (Felix) and Dylan Bruce (Paul).

They both joked how they provide a lot of eye candy for the viewers. “Actually my first costume fitting involved a sock... so that tells you a lot about our show sometimes,” Dylan said. While a little sex appeal doesn’t hurt, Jordan thinks the portrayal isn’t gratuitous as the characterization is strong and it’s justified based on that. “Because we take the characters to such a place, we’re really figuratively stripping down...I thought it was a bit of a cop-out that we didn’t literally strip down as well.”

It has been getting good numbers, so good it has been renewed for a second season. When I asked Teddy and Ajay from InnerSPACE (SPACE’s news and entertainment show) about Orphan Black, they both said they were “unequivocally over the moon and totally a fan of” this TV show. A common thread amongst those two and from Jordan and Dylan as well, was the level of writing for the characters.

Funnily enough, some other gay media have gotten their noses bent out of shape that the gay character (Felix) is flaming, bitchy, irreverent, a drug dealer and

generally somewhat of an asshole - labelling the portrayal as “stereotypical”. One suspects they would like all gay characters to be tireless saints.

Jordan disagrees. “I think it’s not fair that we feel in television today, being comfortable representing the gay community means only representing the gay community in a traditional sense with two partners and a child.” Jordan has met men like Felix. There are good and bad elements to any person, and like in real life their sexuality is just a small part of who the person is. “He’s a brother, he’s an artist, he’s a multi-faceted human being the same way we all are.”

For a science-fiction show, you can have all the pyrotechnics in the world, but what makes it keep viewers and stay on the air is the strength of the characters as they are written. That’s one reason to watch it. The fact that it’s a softer and more accessible science fiction is another.

However, the final word on the show goes to Dylan: “Watch the show, it’s gritty, it’s exciting, it’s thrilling...there’s a dark humorous undertone which (Felix) lends to [it] so much. It just gets crazier and wilder as the season progresses...I’m not B-S-ing…it’s fantastic.”

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Discussing Community Safety Victim Assistance Support

By Constable Andy Buck Hello everyone, it is great to be talking to you again, and even better that we have had some sun recently to warm our bones after what seems like an extremely long winter.

You may recall in my introduction to you at the beginning of the year that I have been a police officer for many years, primarily in the UK, and I have to tell you that in my experience Calgary is a very safe city. However, as with all big cities, sometimes bad things do happen as was evidenced recently by an incident that was reported quite extensively in the media. If you are unfortunate enough to require police action as a result of being a victim of a personal crime such as assault or robbery, then you need to know that you are not alone when it comes to dealing with the aftermath of these incidents. This month I want to provide you with a bit of information about the Calgary Police Service Victim Assistance Support Team.

The Calgary Police Service Victim Assistance Support Team (VAST) promotes and advocates the rights and entitlements of victims of crime and trauma. VAST provides assistance to both primary victims (persons who have experienced direct injury, loss or trauma) and secondary victims (those who are impacted by the repercussion of a crime or trauma including witnesses, friends, family and co-workers.) To lessen the effects of a traumatic incident, the Victim Assistance Support Team provides non-judgmental emotional support, a listening ear and practical assistance to victims of crime or tragedy.

VAST also provides comprehensive resource listings for victims.

Programs and services offered by VAST The Calgary Police Service Victim Assistance Support Team has been a source of support to thousands of victims of crime and tragedy in Calgary since 1977. Their role is to reduce the impact you may experience from a crime or tragedy. All services are free of charge.

The call centre Victim Support Advocates (volunteers) provide phone contact with victims of personal crime or tragedy, offering case and court information and updates, emotional support and referrals to community agencies for counseling, bereavement and other appropriate support agencies. Contact information and hours of operation appear at the end of this article.

The Court Support Program

The Crisis Response Program Victim Support Advocates provide 24/7 response to the scene of an incident to provide immediate crisis intervention, emotional support and practical assistance to victims of crime and tragedy. Teams are dispatched under the direction of Calgary Police Service members.

Other programs and services The following programs are offers by the Alberta Government and supported by victim support advocates.

Victim impact statement Once charges are laid, victims have a right to complete a Victim Impact Statement, as legislated under Section 722 of the Criminal Code of Canada.

The victim impact statement is intended to give crime victims a voice in the criminal justice process. A victim impact statement is a written account of the personal harm suffered by a victim of crime. It provides an opportunity to participate in the sentencing of an offender by explaining to the court, and the offender, how the crime has affected them.

Restitution Once charges are laid, victims have a right to apply for restitution from the offender, if they have suffered financial loss as a result of a crime. Restitution is a way for the offender to repay the victim.

Financial benefits Eligible victims of violent crime in Alberta have a right to apply for Financial Benefits, as an acknowledgement of their victimization. This program is administered under the Victims of Crime Act and Regulation. Benefits are based on the victim’s verified injuries; with the amounts set in the Victims of Crime Regulation.

The contact for more information related to VAST can be found at the end of this article.

In relation to the incident briefly mentioned at the start of this article, I can tell you that I have reviewed the file and I am satisfied that the investigation is being conducted properly, professionally and diligently. The victim in this case is naturally upset, but seems to be doing okay and has been working with VAST regarding available supports and resources.

Incidents like this are very shocking, but happily they are isolated ones.

Please be alert and don’t be afraid to report all suspicious activity. As always, you can call me or email me with any questions, comments or concerns.

Stay safe, and I look forward to talking to you next month.

Victim Support Advocates inform victims of their rights, their role and their obligations when participating in the criminal justice system, once charges are laid. Advocates provide court updates, court preparation, court orientation and, when required, court accompaniment for victims, families and witnesses during preliminary hearings and trial.

Constable Andy Buck 403-428-8154 • pol4792@calgarypolice.ca

The Court Support Program also works in partnership with The Child Witness Court Preparation Program for children ages three to 17, and the Domestic Violence Legal Intervention Program.

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Sean Patrick Flanery

A pre-Comic Expo chat with actor, martial artist and speedy driver

By Janine Eva Trotta The renowned alabaster face we can all recall from 1995 is came to Calgary’s 2013 Comic Expo. Sean Patrick Flanery, the Texan actor who portrayed to us Jeremy “Powder” Reed, headed north for the chance to meet and entertain his western Canadian admirers.

This was his first Comic Expo experience and first time in Calgary, and the actor was looking forward to the trip.

“We just thought it be a good idea,” he said. “A good opportunity to meet our fans.”

Flanery promised his presentation at the Comic Expo will be on “Whatever the fans want to discuss; anything and everything.”

Though comics were not something he was into, nor read fervently, he said as a youth he was a big movie buff.

“My favourite genre is good,” he says, naming Roberto Benigni’s Life is Beautiful (La Vita è Bella) as his all-time favourite, but adding that he also loves 2001 Space Odyssey and a full host of other quality films.

In real life Flanery lives with his best friend Donut in the sunny climbs of California.

“She’s a brown one – a mixed mutt,” he says proudly of the canine named after the first snack she devoured under Flanery’s care. “I’m still a Texan at heart but I’ve lived here (in Los Angeles) long enough to call it home.”

As such, he has set up two academies for martial arts in the area. Flanery is an avid Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and karate enthusiast – great skills to have for his 2007 and 2008 portrayals of Indiana Jones in four segments of The Adventures of Young Indiana Jones. “[Martial arts are] a big part of my life,” he says.

Like his taste in film, the selection of roles that he plays also tend to span the full gamut. From Saw 3D to character Sharon Newman’s boyfriend in popular daytime soap The Young and the Restless, to 1999’s Simply Irresistible and parts one and two of The Boondock Saints.

Flanery has dabbled in science fiction, playing briefly the character of Orlin in Stargate SG-1 among other genres, including action, romantic comedy and horror - even music video. The actor of mixed Cajun, Irish, and English decent appeared in The Black Keys’ music video “Howlin’ For You”.

“Let’s be honest – acting is not a real difficult occupation – it’s all relative,” he says when asked which of his roles presented the biggest challenge.

Flanery is genuine; he says that though weather can be uncooperative or certain climates can make playing roles more difficult, he is lucky to be making a living doing what he is doing.

And to spice things up, in his down time, the actor likes to race fast cars. He won both the 1997 and 1998 Toyota ProCelebrity Races at the Toyota Grand Prix of Long Beach.

As to the kind of projects he would like to do next, he answers candidly.

“Good ones,” he says. “I’m not specifically hoping to play Hannibal: Part III or anything too specific.”

“I want to play something I’d like to see myself.”

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Dido Thanks You

Singer-songwriter on ‘loyal’ gay following, anger issues and which song of hers she doesn’t want at your wedding  Photo by Guy Aroch

By Chris Azzopardi It would be easy to mistake Dido as being as mellow as her music – but don’t.

In our chat, the British singer-songwriter – promoting her first album in five years, Girl Who Got Away – didn’t just chat about her gay fans and the Eminem song that launched her career. We found out what turns the musically meek songstress into an angry beast. Let’s just say this: Tequila makes Dido dangerous.

GC: Welcome back, Dido.

D: Thank you very much. It’s nice to be back.

GC: When did you recognize you had a gay following?

D: Pretty instantly, I would say. I’ve always had a very loyal gay following,

which I’m very thankful for.

GC: Do you have a lot of gay people in your own life?

D: Oh yeah, tons. I mean, friends, work people … everybody.

GC: Everybody?

D: (Laughs) No, not everybody, but a huge amount. I’m surrounded by

very good people.

GC: What kind of alcohol?

D: Back then I used to drink quite a lot of tequila, but then that all

went a bit wrong and I found that’s just the one thing I cannot drink. So now I like to drink wine. Does that mean I’m getting old? It probably does.

(Laughs) But tequila makes me get into fights.

GC: Tequila makes you fight?

D: Yeah! It used to make me weirdly aggressive – and I’m like the most

unaggressive person ever. (Laughs) But tequila makes me quite angry.

GC: But, Dido, you seem so mellow.

D: It takes so much to piss me off. Someone’s gotta poke at me quite a

lot to get me even remotely angry, but if I have tequila, I’ll just get angry at the next person who comes around.

GC: How personal is Girl Who Got Away in relation to your other three albums?

D: All my albums are pretty personal. You can’t help your life filtering into your songs – or if you’re me, you can’t. I can’t help it. I’m a very open person. I’m very honest in life and I’m very honest in my music, as well. I think I’m always going to write that way.

GC: Who is the “girl” and who/what/where is she trying to get away

GC: Two of your biggest singles, “Thank You” and “Don’t Leave Home,”

from?

D: It’s funny: I think “Don’t Leave Home” at a wedding is just completely

D: Actually, my brother (Rollo Armstrong) is the “girl who got away,” and he wrote most of those lyrics.

are wedding favorites.

weird. It surprises me that anybody has that at their wedding. It’s a song about being incredibly claustrophobic. (Laughs) People are like, “I’ve played that at my wedding,” and I’m like, “Why, if I can be honest?” I guess it’s the title. “Thank You,” though, is a perfect wedding song, and I’ve actually sang it at quite a few friends’ weddings. But if someone asked me to play “Don’t Leave Home,” I’d just be like, “Really?”

GC: Have you ever sung at a gay wedding?

D: I haven’t actually, no. I haven’t really sung at many weddings. It takes

GC: There’s some gender-bending going on there.

D: (Laughs) Definitely! I love that song (“Girl Who Got Away”). He sent

me the lyrics and I just remember reading it thinking, “I love this song.” It’s about so many things: about how I used to feel, that sort of restless feeling, that feeling of maybe there’s another life somewhere and that feeling of wanting to be exceptional but not quite reaching it. It’s my favorite song. But then, as far as the title of the album, it’s also about everyone reaching out to

quite a bit of alcohol and coaxing to get me to sing at anyone’s wedding.

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me (saying) that I keep disappearing, and it was quite a good comment on that. I don’t think I was disappearing, but everyone else thought so.

GC: Maybe because it’s been five years since you released an album.

What’s your life like when you’re away from music?

D: I’m never really away from music. I might be away from the public eye, but I’m never away from music. I’m always making it, I’m always writing it, I’m always playing it, and then obviously it builds up into an album and I put it out and I’m back in the public’s consciousness. And then I’m out of it again.

I took a bit of time between albums two and three just because I realized I’d been on the road for nine years at that point and that it was probably time to go home and clean up the mess I left, and so I took a bit of time in making the third album. But actually, this record I put together quite quickly. Then in the middle I had a baby. You know, a small event. (Laughs)

GC: How do you feel before an album drops?

D: Oh my god, I’m so excited. I’ve only put out three records in my life;

this is only my fourth, and so this is still so fresh and exciting to me. It feels like the first time I ever put a record out. I’m really proud of this album.

I feel like it’s my best record. It was such a fun record to make. Me and brother just had such a brilliant time. I’m so lucky to have my brother as my producer. It’s just a happy record for me.

GC: What kind of place in your life were you at when you recorded the song “Let Us Move On”?

D: You know how we all go around saying life is short? I remember saying once, “Life is actually really long, and not in a bad way but in a good way.” When things are just really dark, when you look back on it, this will be such a small moment in your life. You know when something’s so huge you can’t get past it? Actually, it’s not. It’s just a very small part of a very big life.

GC: Your debut, No Angel, obviously had such a huge impact on your career, as did your featured spot on Eminem’s “Stan.” Did you worry about the possible repercussions of performing with one of the most controversial entertainers at the time?

D: I didn’t, because when I met him he was so respectful to me and treated me so well. I saw integrity. I think he’s one of the greatest storytellers around, and so no. As a real fan of his music, I have a lot of respect for him musically, and he treated me well. That, for me, was enough. I just really enjoyed working with him.

GC: You had mentioned to Playboy once that people kept asking you about your feelings on the misogyny and homophobia in his music. Working with him, did you feel sucked into that controversy?

D: I didn’t really feel sucked into it, to be quite honest. I’d heard that he was making a social commentary on things and I just thought he was a great storyteller and I didn’t get too sucked into it. Isn’t that, I guess, why he performed with Elton John at the Grammys?

GC: Yeah, he was debunking the homophobia talk.

D: Yeah, exactly. I go on the person I see in front of me, and he was really

not a misogynist to me at all. Quite the opposite. Just utterly respectful – and all the people around him were utterly respectful, as well.

GC: Many of your songs have been featured on television and in film. For you, what’s a standout scene that included one of your songs?

D: Being played during 127 Hours was really cool. While I was watching it, I was wincing and listening to my song and thinking, “This is so wrong but so good.” That was a thrill being nominated for an Oscar. A dream thrill.

Sliding Doors was the first song I had in a movie, and that moment was most exciting for me because I had never heard myself used in a film before.

GC: They used the same song, “Thank You,” during the love scene with Ellen DeGeneres and Sharon Stone in If These Walls Could Talk 2. Have you seen that?

D: Oh, totally!

GC: What’d you think of your song being used during a lesbian sex

scene?

D: That was really cool! There have been so many good uses. It’s just been brilliant, and I’ve been really lucky.

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A New High

Sarah Brightman talks space mission, trendy gays and ‘fun feeling’ of hitting big notes

By Chris Azzopardi Sarah Brightman knows what it means to “shoot for the stars.”

A one-of-a-kind soprano, the Phantom of the Opera singer, who originated the iconic role of Christine 27 years ago, has a voice that can reach as high as the cosmos.

Soon, so will the singer herself, as she becomes the first singer to record a song from space as part of a three-person team that will orbit the Earth 16 times daily. Her first album since 2008, Dreamchaser, is an extension of this intergalactic mission – a trip that shouldn’t surprise her gay fans.

Brightman did, after all, lose her heart to a starship trooper.

We chatted with the renowned singer about that campy disco-era music video, being a “heavenly” diva and getting high off those high notes.

GC: How did you select the cover songs for this album?

SB: Because of the journey I’m hoping to take in a couple of years to

space, I wanted to create a body of work that incorporated the feeling of our emotions of space. I wanted to collect pieces which really felt very expansive – some with deeper meanings and from a different perspective – and that would bring all sorts of emotions up, so a lot of the songs were pieces I’d wanted to do for a long time but couldn’t, because I am an interpreter of music rather than a composer of it. These pieces kind of all fell into place when I thought of the theme of this album. It was really a journey for me collecting them all and putting them all together.

GC: How did Sia’s “Breathe Me” fall into the vision that you had for the

album?

SB: That song has a deeper meaning; it’s not just the voice that goes to extraordinary places, but it’s about what it’s saying. I think the same with, for example, the piece “One Day Like This,” which Elbow originally did. The song is really trying to explain an experience – one experience we can have can last a lifetime. I think in today’s world, we’re very greedy for experience, and what we sometimes forget is that the smaller experiences that we have are actually the bigger ones, and we’re losing the beauty of them. I think “One Day” is similar to the Sia piece “Breathe Me,” and I also liked the idea of “Breathe Me” being about space – there is no oxygen out there – and so it has something to do with the physical feeling of breathing, as well. I thought of that and what it means – it holds our life together.

GC: You will be the first professional singer to take a trip to space in the next year or two. Isn’t this some kind of Guinness World Record?

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SB: Yes, but that came afterwards. That wasn’t the reason for going. It’s a much deeper thing which one could either talk about or not. But yes, I do happen to be the first professional singer to go up.

GC: Has this been a lifelong dream of yours?

SB: It has, yes. I grew up through the ’60s, and space was very forefront

at the time. I watched the first man land on the moon on my black-andwhite TV screen. It opened my eyes and my mind to what we were capable of, and that we could do things that were completely out of the box if we wished to do so or felt we had the force to. It gave me a force, and it gave me an energy. It was a very open time and very experimental time, and I thank that time for the career that I have because it gave me the courage, in a way, to move forward and to work really hard.

A lot of the pieces on television, the TV dramas, and in the movies were very space-oriented because space exploration was all opening up, so we were very influenced at that time and really felt that space and space exploration and moving off the planet and into different places was going to be very much part of our lives – when in fact it wasn’t. So when the opportunity came up for me to be able to take a flight on the Virgin Galactic, and then further on down the line to make this particular journey on the Soyuz, I sort of grasped the opportunity and hoped that I would get through the medicals and the training, which I did. It brought me to this moment now, of us talking.

GC: It’ll be interesting to hear your stories after you return to Earth.

SB: Yes, I know. That’s one of the things I really want to share. I’m not

a scientist and I’m not a doctor and I’m not an engineer and all of those things, so I probably will see some of it from a different perspective and might be able to reach people more normally in that way.

GC: You are, however, a phenomenal singer. What’s the highest note you can sing?

SB: When I was younger it used to be much higher, because, of course, as you get older your high notes can still be reached but they don’t mean as much. The voice does richer things. It used to be an E flat; I think that used to be my highest note. Now I think it’s probably a D. Generally the repertoire I do doesn’t need that note – that’s more sort of “Queen of the Night Aria.”

GC: When you’re hitting a note that high, what goes through your mind?

Do you have to think about it? Does your body convulse?

SB: (Laughs) You have a fair amount of air rushing from your lungs to your vocal cords, and then obviously the resonances are open up in your head, which actually makes you feel quite sort of light-headed and high. So they give you a … fun feeling. (Laughs) GC: Like smoking pot?

SB: It’s much better than having a spliffy. (Laughs) GC: Have you ever nearly passed out?

SB: You do actually feel very faint sometimes. I have often, yes.

Sometimes you get a lot of those resonances when you open them and there’s air going through. Obviously air doesn’t go through the head – it’s

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only imaginary – but the lungs are filled and you’re using certain energies.

It is a wonderful feeling when you’re getting it right. (Laughs)

GC: You’ll be on the road later this year. For people who’ve never experienced a Sarah Brightman show, what is that experience like?

SB: I like to take people somewhere else completely. I like to take them

to different worlds. This time, it’s going to be definitely outer planetary.

(Laughs) It’s definitely a journey to the stars, but in the most romantic ways, as well – in a beautiful way. In the most jewel-like, crystalline way I can think of.

There will also be moments of huge amounts of energy in it. The beauty of technology today is that with these wonderful screens we have and what we can put on them, as well as the singer singing along, everything melts together with light, with the persona there and also the visuals behind you.

You can really create stunning atmospherics for people to really just enjoy the music to, and that’s what I intend to do.

GC: Can we talk about the “I Lost My Heart to a Starship Trooper” video?

SB: Of course we can! (Laughs) See, that proves my love of space, even

though it was so tongue in cheek then.

GC: You really were futuristic, even in the ’70s.

SB: I know, and in my Mary Quant tights. Mary Quant did wonderful

makeup and glittery things and tights and stuff like that. It was a very sort of “in” look at that time. And those silvery suits were by Mary Quant.

GC: Is that video the gayest thing you’ve done in your career?

SB: (Laughs) So I’m told! I did it a few years back for gay pride in

got that female side, so he understands all points of view. He loves theater and he loves music and he loves what I do, and he loves my mother and looks after her because I can’t always be there for her. He’s just a lovely guy.

GC: When was it that you noticed you had a gay following? When you were performing with Hot Gossip?

SB: Yes, it was. And it’s very important to me, because I always feel that the gay following – they generally know what’s gonna happen before it does.

They’re very “in the know” with all the arts, and so I’ve always felt when that following is strong I’m kind of doing the right things, because they have good taste and are very happy to explore. They love the fantastic and all of those areas where a lot of people wouldn’t necessarily go.

GC: It’s been a long time since you’ve done Broadway. Are your theater days over?

SB: It’s never say never with these things. I can’t imagine it at the moment, but there may be a point where I say, “You know, I really would like to be in one place and do a Broadway show or a play or something in New York or L.A. or London, wherever it may be, and really enjoy myself focusing just on that.”

GC: Females who can sing as well as you are usually recognized as divas. Is that a term you would consider yourself?

SB: Well, it’s funny – “diva” actually means goddess-like, and I think it’s an extremely positive term. There have been negative connotations – “diva” meaning difficult and throwing their weight around – but I never see it as something like that. I see it as something that’s heavenly.

GC: And in that way, you certainly are a diva.

SB: (Laughs) I hope so. It does seem that I’m flying off to the heavens!

England, and I was able to go on and do “I Lost My Heart” to its fullest. I had loads of dancers and everybody was going crazy out there. It’s a really fun song to do.

GC: You’ve been around gay people your whole life. Your brother is gay and so is a second cousin of yours. What’s your relationship like with your brother?

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SB: It’s the best. It’s always been wonderful, since he’s been a baby.

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Gossip excellently retro… Wanda Sykes and her producing partner Page Hurwitz recently signed a deal with NBC to develop and produce non-scripted products (translation: reality and talk shows, anything that isn’t a sitcom or narrative series). By way of public statement, Sykes joked, “Wait, I thought we were getting The Tonight Show.”

James Duke Mason will Disappear Here James Duke Mason’s mom was a Hollywood kid herself, hanging out underage at Los Angeles’s notorious punk rock clubs in the late 1970s before becoming lead singer of The Go-Go’s. And if having Belinda Carlisle as your mom wasn’t already a leg up, his grandfather, legendary actor James Mason, wasn’t exactly a stranger to entertainment, either. That means it’s something like destiny that young gay blond Mason would make his way into film, and he’ll star later this year in acclaimed indie filmmaker Matthew Mishory’s (Joshua Tree, 1951: A Portrait of James Dean) noir thriller Disappear Here. Mason will play a young actor who becomes involved in the uglier sides of Hollywood and political life – we could tell you more about the plot but our lips are sealed. (Yes, that was too easy, but you’d have done the same thing.) After a successful Kickstarter campaign cameras are set to roll this fall for an expected 2014 bow.

Meanwhile go check out the teaser trailer online and marvel at Go-Go genetics.

Coming soonish: Emanuel and The Truth About Fishes

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Deep Inside Hollywood Vin Diesel, Moon Men and Wanda Sykes: nothing in common except deals

By Romeo San Vicente MGM is in talks with Hairspray/Rock of Ages director Adam Shankman to direct the action-comedy The Machine, starring Vin Diesel as a humanoid weapon that befriends a young boy.

Sound familiar? That’s because the two men previously worked together on The Pacifier, which was essentially the same movie… Wunderkind Bryan Fuller, whose witty projects (Pushing Daisies) are often cult favorites that wind up cancelled, has yet another critically acclaimed series on his hands with Hannibal. The difference? It’s also gaining traction with audiences, so now SyFy wants to be in business with him, too. They’ve ordered a pilot for High Noon, an outer space adventure series set on the moon as it’s colonized by earth. Yes, a new life form is discovered, which makes it 22

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Sure, it’s an oddly titled film, one more or less destined for the arthouse. But ladies, listen up. It stars Jessica Biel and Kaya Scodelario (U.K. star of Skins and last year’s acclaimed remake of Wuthering Heights) and it was directed

by Francesca Gregorini (director of Tanner Hall who also happens to be daughter of Catherine Bach, stepdaughter to Ringo Starr and an ex of Portia de Rossi). That means it’s a lesbian-directed movie that’s not going to get lost in the gay film festival shuffle. So mark your calendars for this drama about a young babysitter (Scodelario) who becomes obsessed with a female neighbor (Biel), one who bears a striking resemblance to the young woman’s dead mother.

OK, wait, don’t mark them yet because there’s still no release date. But the recent premiere of this Hitchcock-inspired mystery/thriller at Sundance and its brand new trailer mean it’s coming … sometime … probably to select theaters this summer and DVD/streaming not long afterward.

Sam Mendes and The Chocolate Factory With the Broadway success of Matilda, all lights are green for Charlie and The Chocolate Factory, the next Roald Dahl children’s story to get the stage musical treatment.

And wasn’t it really just a matter of time, anyway? From novel to screen musical to screen comedy-adventure minus the music back to musical form again? Call it the circle of creative recycling, if you will, but don’t call this adaptation un-ambitious. Sam Mendes, respected for his theater work and not exactly slouching as a film director either (maybe you’ve heard of Skyfall, that little indie film he spent three years making) is helming the production. And in a fascinating casting move, acclaimed British theater actor Douglas Hodge – a man known more for his classical work – will step into the role of Willy Wonka. Meanwhile, the reason you’re reading about it all here is because Marc Shaiman and Scott Wittman (South Park: Bigger, Longer and Uncut, Hairspray) are the men behind the music. So don’t freak out; if anyone can find something to rhyme with Everlasting Gobstoppers or snozzberry, it’s those guys.

Romeo San Vicente’s plan to go into space used to involve Lance Bass.

Used to. He knows what he did…

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Lifestyle

Cocktail Chatter The Caiprinha

By Ed Sikov “Portuguese is easy,” Chipper explained. “All you do is speak Spanish through your nose.”

Hilarity ensued. “That’s so bogus,” Craig managed to get out through heaves of laughter. The other boys – Dan, Paolo and me – were too convulsed to say anything.

“No, really!” Chipper insisted, and he proceeded to demonstrate: “¡Buenos dias!” he cried while holding his nostrils shut. It was certainly adenoidal, but Portuguese it wasn’t.

“I happen to know a bit of Portuguese,” Paolo announced, “and that’s not the way you say ‘good day’ in Portuguese. It’s ‘bom dia.’”

“That’s what I said!” Chipper protested to no success. “Comeme!” he snarled, once again pinching his nostrils and sending the rest of us into spastic fits of amusement.

We were enjoying this especially inane discussion on the Saturday evening of a lovely spring weekend at Fire Island Pines; we’d all gotten together to open the beach house and launch another glorious season of hot sand, hot men, and – as far as Chipper was concerned – hot air. The particular topic suggested itself because I’d stopped at the amazingly well-stocked Pines Liquor Store and picked up a bottle of cachaça, the Brazilian firewater distilled from sugar cane. In Rio they practically give it away, it’s so cheap.

The Pines Liquor Store charged a bit more, but it was worth it.

Cachaça is very, very strong. Drinking it neat would be asking for trouble – big-time trouble. It really must be mixed with something else to be palatable.

Thus the Brazilian national cocktail, the caiprinha. (It’s pronounced KYEpa-REEN-ya.)

To make a round of great caiprinhas, you need a lot of very juicy limes.

This can be a problem in most of the United States and Canada, because in all but the warmest locations, limes are shipped to stores on the basis of their appearance, not their taste. How many times have you grabbed what looks like a perfectly ripe lime and sliced it open only to find desiccated, lifeless pulp? For this reason, I recommend that you augment your fresh limes with bottled lime juice. You’ll get whatever fresh flavor your limes will yield – and the rind is actually full of flavor and aroma – but you won’t be dependent on the probably low quality of the fruit inside.

Another peculiarity of the caiprinha is the fact that it’s better when the sugar you add doesn’t dissolve entirely, thereby giving the cocktail a slight crunch. Usually I recommend using superfine sugar when mixing drinks.

(And to really milk the experience for all it’s worth, you have to say “superfine” the way the guy says “Super Fly” in the theme song from that great blaxploitation film from 1972.) But superfine sugar dissolves completely, and you don’t want that in your classic caiprinha. There should be a granular quality in each sip, if for no other reason than to remind you that you’re drinking sugar can liquor. Here’s the classic caiprinha recipe, modified to increase the lime juice by way of a bottle.

The Caiprinha 1 lime1 ½ tsp. sugar 1 tsp. lime juice 3 Tbsp. cachaça Slice the lime into quarters, and place the quarters pulp side up in a wide glass. Add the sugar and lime juice, the mash the lime quarters down with a pestle or other similar muddler. Add the cachaça and crushed ice and stir. Do not remove the lime pieces from the drink; this cocktail should have a rustic quality.

Multicolored Pepper Rim Hand-grind a saucer full of multicolored peppercorns. Take a tall tumbler, dip it in the water, and then in the ground pepper. Voila! Here you have the perfect topper for a Bloody Mary. Variation: shake some hot pepper flakes onto the peppercorns for a spicier crust, but don’t overdo it.

Cracked Fennel Rim Either buy cracked fennel from Penzey’s spices (www.penzeys.com) or crush some whole fennel seeds in a mortal and pestle and dip your wetted glass into a saucerful of fennel. This would make a great Bloody Mary crust, too, as well as an interesting rim for plain frozen Absolut or the caraway flavored liquor, Aquavit. Cumin seeds would work just as well.

Rimming “I can’t talk to you now. I’m rimming.” Dan was obviously aghast. There was a momentary pause on the line, after which he said only, “Who?” “Get your mind out of the gutter!” I cried in triumph. “It’s not that kind of rimming.”

“What other kind is there?” he asked warily.

“I’m creating decorative and tasty rims on cocktail glasses. You know, like salt on a margarita?”

“Very funny,” he muttered, clearly indicating that he didn’t find my little joke even half as amusing as I did. “I’ll be home in an hour.” Then he hung up.

The truth of the matter is that I was initially inspired by a very, uh, captivating porn video I’d watched a few days earlier. To be a bit confessional here, the actual practice of rimming has never appealed to me. Before. Then I saw these two most attractive young men appear to be enjoying themselves fully, executing their task with vigor. I couldn’t tear my eyes away. And that’s saying something, because having been a video porn reviewer earlier in my checkered career, I have seen so much bad porn that it usually does absolutely nothing for me now. (I wrote for the late, lamented Inches magazine under the by-line “Joe McKenna,” which was Doris Day’s character’s name in The Man Who Knew Too Much; I added the e to “Jo” to make it conform to gender norms.)

It was through this filth that I got to musing on the word “rimming,” and in a flash of pure inspiration, I realized I had the subject of my next column.

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Sugar Rim Pour some granulated sugar or superfine sugar onto a plate, and dip a tumbler in to form a sugar crust for a screwdriver or a Madras or a Watermelon or even a Manhattan, as long as you decrease the amount of sweet vermouth in the Manhattan to keep the drink from being cloying.

Why stop at salt for margaritas? There are many things you can use to beautify and spice up the edge of a cocktail glass. So I began experimenting.

The liquor cabinet was running low, so I was forced to use my imagination; I employed only a bunch of clean glasses, a saucer full of water and several small plates. A quick tour of my spice cabinet produced an array of spices and seasonings that I paired with imaginary cocktails. I suppose a wealthier cocktails columnist would have made real cocktails to try out the various rims I created, but stocking the liquor cabinet and refrigerator for all the following drinks would have meant going without food for a few days. I’m certain these combinations will work. I wouldn’t print them if I had any doubts.

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Politics

Pro-Sports’ First Openly Gay Player

By Stephen Lock Jason Collins, the 34-year old free agent basketball centre who has played with the Boston Celtics and currently with the Washington Wizards, recently publicly came out in a cover story in Sports Illustrated, the first American pro athlete to do so while still playing.

We have had other athletes come out, of course, but none during the heyday of their careers and certainly none within the “big four” professional sports franchises of football, baseball, basketball, and hockey.

In the past - and the not-so-distant-past at that - we have read and heard the reactions of pro athletes to the mere idea of a teammate perhaps coming out, and it has been predictable.

Tim Hardaway, a former point guard with the NBA, notoriously commented after retired NBA player John Amaechi came out, that he would distance himself from any player known to be homosexual.

When the interviewer asked him if he realized the comment was homophobic, Hardaway kept right on going and dug himself in deeper.

“Well, you know I hate gay people, so I let it be known. I don’t like gay people and I don’t like to be around gay people. I am homophobic.

I don’t like it. It shouldn’t be in the world or in the United States.”

He also then stated if he ever found out he had one or more gay teammates, he would try and get them fired.

Despite pretty lame and half-hearted attempts at an apology, along the lines of “I shouldn’t have said that”, the NBA, to its credit, suspended him from its then-upcoming All Stars Weekend activities in Las Vegas, preferring not to have him around. His employer, Trinity Sports, and owner of the Continental Basketball Association’s Indiana Alley Cats, dismissed him from his position as Chief Basketball Operations Advisor and then issued a press statement distancing themselves from his remarks.

San Francisco 49ers cornerback, Chris Culliver, made rather inarticulate but very obviously anti-gay comments to a radio talk show host during Super Bowl XLVII, stating: “I don’t do the gay guys, man. I don’t do that. No, we don’t got no gay people on the team, they gotta get up out of here if they do.

Can’t be with that sweet stuff. Nah … can’t be … in the locker room, man? Nah.” So for an active professional athlete to come out takes some guts.

What is encouraging, though, despite the ranting of some perhaps not too bright players, is the reaction of David Stern, the NBA’s commissioner, who stated: “As Adam Silver [deputy commissioner and chief operating officer of the NBA] and I said to Jason, we have known the Collins family since Jason and [his twin] Jarron joined the NBA in 2001 and they have been exemplary members of the NBA family. Jason has been a widely respected player and teammate throughout his career and we are proud he has assumed the leadership mantle on this very important issue.”

Likewise, high profile players such as Kobe Bryant, Collins’ Washington Wizards teammates Bradley Beal and Garrett Temple, and others, were quick to commend and support Collins. In an official team statement, the Washington Wizards stated the team was “extremely proud of Jason and support his decision to live his life proudly and openly”. The Boston Red Sox have offered Collins the honour of throwing out the first pitch. Even former-President Bill Clinton got in on the praise as did the White House.

All this bodes well for his, and one hopes, future NBA stars’, acceptance within the sport, to say nothing of the other three major sports. There are rumours of four NFL players preparing to come out, but Collins has stated he is not aware of any other gay NBA players.

Collins seems to be taking all this in stride, although understandably a bit overwhelmed by all the attention, including a phone call from the President of the United States to congratulate him on going public.

While Collins is the first American pro athlete to come out during his playing years, momentum has been building for some years now.

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Gareth Thomas, a Welsh rugby player, came out during the 2009 season. Puerto Rican boxer, Orlando Cruz, went public in October 2012, Robbie Rogers, an American soccer player who played on the US national men’s team as well as for Leeds United, came out in February just before retiring at the age of 25 making him the third professional soccer player to come out after Justin Fashanu did so in 1990.

Fashanu became the first British soccer player to come out and endured considerable abuse from both team players and fans as a result, as well as being publicly disowned by his brother. After moving to the States, Fashanu was accused in 1998 of sexually assaulting a 17-year old male in Maryland (where the age of consent is 16). While the charges were eventually dropped due to lack of evidence Fashanu, who had by then returned to England, committed suicide.

With Collins’ coming out, and the level of support he is receiving from a variety of quarters, it certainly highlights the progress made in regards to sexual orientation “issues” within professional sports in the last 20-odd years since Fashanu did it and light years from when former NFL player David Kopay came out in 1975.

True, we’ve had former Olympians such as Mark Tewksbury come out and various divers, swimmers, tennis players, and skaters are also openly gay, but -- and this is certainly not meant as a snide dig at their sports -- these sports tend to be viewed as not quite as macho as hockey, football, baseball or basketball in the US or soccer and rugby are in Britain and Europe. But coming out after retirement is different than coming out while still in the game.

Tewksbury has spoken about what the repercussions may have been if he had come out while competing at the Olympic level.

Certainly he would have very likely seen -- and has seen -- lucrative endorsements suddenly evaporate. Such does not appear to be the case with Collins; quite the opposite, with companies such as Nike and others beating a path to his door. Suddenly, coming out as gay has marketing cache.

Rick Welt, then an executive with the Phoenix Suns, a team in the Pacific Division of the Western Conference of the NBA, who came out in 2011 and is now the president of the NBA’s Golden State Warriors, predicted major companies such as Nike would jump at the opportunity to have an openly gay spokesperson.

Just before the New York Times article in which he came out was published, he informed Commissioner Stern and executives at Nike Inc. Nike told him they would be interested in having any player contemplating becoming the first openly gay athlete in major U.S. team sports as an endorser.

“They made it clear to me Nike would embrace it,” Welts has been quoted saying. “The player who does it, they’re going to be amazed at the additional opportunities that are put on the table, not the ones that are taken off.”

According to Bob Witeck, a gay-marketing strategist and corporate consultant, the first openly gay team-sport athlete -- provided he’s a recognizable name -- would earn millions in endorsements and speaking engagements from companies seeking to capture more of a U.S. lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual/transgender adult population whose annual buying power he pegs at almost $800 billion.

American Airlines, Macy’s, Ikea, Amazon.com and, in Canada, TD Canada Trust and Labatt’s have all successfully used high-profile gay-themed advertising campaigns.

Collins could conceivably reap some tangible benefits from opening that closet door and if it can happen in the rarified macho atmosphere of professional sports, it is going to filter down to we mere mortals on levels other than the emotional release that coming out provides.

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Trans-Identity

The Non-Operative Word is Not Sorry

By Mercedes Allen I’m going to be writing about transition regrets and/or reversal of transition (sometimes from folks who remain trans-identified).

Before I do, though, it seemed necessary to finish and put this article out there, as it lays the groundwork. I’d written about the decision to be non-operative previously, and had intended to leave it at that, but it remains one of the most hotly-contested and misunderstood subjects that I touch on.

When it comes to genital reassignment, the non-operative word among trans people should not be “sorry.”

That’s not a very popular statement in transsexual communities. But as much as I don’t like “rules” for being trans, I have arrived at one guideline: Do as much or as little as you need to achieve the peace that you need.

It’s not quite that clear and simple, of course, especially given the pressures to conform and integrate as either male or female, which have been idealized as binary opposites in society. Trans (that is to say, both transsexuality and/or transgenderism) challenges those absolutes, but it’s also a lot to ask, for someone to be a life-long challenge to society. Not everyone is an activist, nor should they be required to be. And phrasing it as a “pressure to conform” also oversimplifies something that also includes fears about going swimming or to public places of semi-nudity, going through airport scanners and travelling internationally, being in sex-segregated spaces like homeless shelters or correctional facilities, or the possibility of being challenged in a public restroom.

Relationships can also factor into the equation. Genital reassignment surgery is inevitably going to change a dynamic within intimate relationships, and raise questions about our sexualities and those of our partners. While the decision for or against GRS shouldn’t be dictated or coerced by our partners, when we love someone, it’s inevitably going to be on our minds.

Some individuals will be able to consider foregoing surgery as an act of love and sacrifice, while for others it would be far too much to ask -- we’ll see why, shortly.

Another factor that blurs the lines is the fact that we live in a nation where our enfranchisement in society is largely affected by our identity documents.

In Canada, only the Province of Ontario has a provision to change a birth certificate without multiple verification of surgery -- and in many provinces, the same applies to things like driver’s licenses. While our Social Insurance card does not display a gender marker, potential employers can do an S.I.N. check which displays a gender marker in the resulting report -- and that, too, cannot be changed without a new or amended birth certificate. When our ID is incongruent, it potentially exposes us to harm and/or discrimination when we’re carded, and at many other stages of just trying to live and work and access services. At no other time is a person’s enfranchisement in society dependent on them having surgery. But because that is the status quo in Canada, it will inevitably be a point of consideration for the time being.

At times, health issues can also be factors affecting whether one can or can’t obtain surgery. This might take the form of a serious medical condition that precludes undergoing other procedures (some of these -- such as diabetes or HIV -- can be worked around by finding surgeons with better hospital access, but some conditions can be completely prohibitive). It might also refer to fear of undergoing a major invasive surgery, an aversion to the medical process overall, a desire to wait until techniques improve, or living in a province where GRS is not funded and not being able to afford it.

Occasionally, health care funding is an influence for GRS, such as situations where genital reassignment is funded by insurance while orchiectomy is not.

But for the moment, let’s put all of these things -- health, cost, relationships, social pressures, legal identification and enfranchisement -- aside. In an ideal world, the decision to have surgery should hinge on an individual’s needs and the advice of their doctor.

This may seem a little confusing for people who have read my writing about surgery being a medical necessity. I still maintain that its availability is, and that when surgery is necessary for an individual, it is an absolute necessity. [http://www.gaycalgary.com/u555] Relationships and legal enfranchisement obviously underscore why, but it’s also important to remember what GRS is designed to do: alleviate distress.

Trans individuals sometimes experience an emotional, psychological and/ or physical distress and anxiety -- a body squick -- about their genitalia. It’s not always a conscious thing, but can be experienced as a discomfort or aversion to their genitalia, or a sense that those parts are out of place and don’t make sense to be there. At the most extreme end of gender dysphoria, this aversion becomes even violent, driving a person toward self-harm or selfdestructive behaviour. For people who experience it less severely, it can be

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a discomfort toward sexual intimacy in general, or a feeling of being out of place, without being completely clear on why. Obviously, in these situations, it makes sense to align the body with what a person understands that they need to be.

But not everyone experiences those levels of anxiety and distress.

Sometimes transition alone, minus surgery, is enough to resolve a person’s dysphoria, while other factors are able to become more significant reasons not to have surgery.

Non-operative trans women (there is often an exception made for trans men because of the limitations of phalloplasty and metoidioplasty procedures) are sometimes considered button-pushing because they challenge the traditional trans narrative, in the same way that some bisexual people are unfairly seen as a challenge to the “born this way” narrative of sexual orientation. The idea that we are fixing a predominantly medical condition seems undermined by the existence of people who don’t want to completely “fix” their bodies through surgery. And yet, individuals exist who genuinely need to transition and live as their identified sex, but don’t genuinely need GRS. In transsexual culture, there seems to be this perspective that all roads lead to the holy grail of GRS, and that after one has the surgery, one has “arrived.” Part of the reason that so many post-operative trans women and trans men leave the community is because once they’ve reached that point, the weighty discussion about GRS is no longer relevant to them. The GRSheavy direction has also tended to exclude non-operative and other trans people, because of the implication (intended or not) that they “must not be real” if they choose not to pursue surgical methods.

Yet GRS was only ever supposed to be one step toward self-resolution.

It’s neither all-completing, nor is it a final endpoint (and this point calls for a discussion of post-traumatic / minority stress), although it does have the ability to bring closure when that body distress / squick exists. By comparison, cissexual (non-trans) women never stop learning what it means to them to be a woman; cissexual men likewise. How can we say that we’ve “arrived” simply from the flick of a scalpel?

The basic reality of the trans condition is that our bodies do not define us.

If we allowed that to happen, we’d have never been able to start a transition -- we would still be living in the misery and shame of having to live up to everyone else’s expectations.

The trouble with a heavy (or exclusive) focus on GRS as the “endpoint” of our transition (aside from the fact that the psychological journey never really completely ends) is that we can become so intent on becoming “wholly” female or “wholly” male that we abandon, hide or feel ashamed of characteristics and histories which make us truly unique. It’s important that surgery does not become a case of simply trading one mask for another.

We do need to sometimes sit back and reflect on exactly how unique we’ve become. Not many men can say that they’d sewn their own grad dress. Although our pre-transition lives may have been fraught with their share of difficulties, they’ve also had landmarks, even if they didn’t feel so monumental. On a broader scope, we definitely have an original view of the battle of the sexes, with a far more acute understanding of what hormones do to our moods, of how differently men and women are perceived and treated in public venues, of the different social dynamic dating a man as male, compared to dating a man as a female. Those perspectives are hard-won.

It’s a shame to bury them.

From that perspective, the decision not to have surgery can sometimes be like wearing a badge of honour. We’ve gone through the ritual. We’ve done the firewalk. We have the marks on the soles of our feet. While some are comfortable with covering up the burns and never telling anyone about the experience and that’s fine, once in awhile, it’s nice to embrace some of the differences and take pride in them.

More often, though, non-operative-by-choice trans people have arrived at a point of personal resolution from transition alone, and find that they don’t need GRS to feel complete. Good for them. You don’t need to change your genitalia in order to achieve your personal closure? Then don’t. Anyone who doesn’t understand this needs to take themselves out of the comfort zone of their own experiences, for a moment, to remember that one size rarely fits all.

The non-operative word is not “sorry.”

In the end, you are who you need to be. No one has the right to invalidate that.

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Community

 From “Interior. Leather. Bar.”

The 15th Annual Fairy Tales

By Krista Sylvester James Franco touched cinema? Yes please.

But if you need any other reasons to attend the 15th Annual Fairy Tales Queer Film Festival there are at least 15.

This year’s festival promises the premiere of 10 new short films celebrating Calgary’s queer history, films from around the world, the Youth Queer Media Program and a steamy night of pushing the boundaries of gay sexuality.

Fairy Tales programming director James Demers says this year’s festival will continue on the path of celebrating the diversity and strength of Calgary’s community while reflecting the rainbow that is the audience.

“For anyone who ever mixed up the name of the festival thinking it was fairy tales for kids, which we always have a bit of a chuckle about – this year is a far cry from anything Disney,” Demers explains.

“Much like a stereotypical 15-year-old, the festival this year features films that are hungry, curious, lippy, lusty and angry – and we think you’ll be quick to fall in love with them. It’s fun and evocative and there are definitely some steamy hot scenes.”

Demers says this year’s focus is on connection and reconnection with the community and its history as the community moves forward.

“The festival is a fun and important event that brings all facets of the community together to share in a common experience over film.

Fairy Tales is always looking forward to representing the voices that are underrepresented in our community. This includes the voices of comedy as well as drama, action and adventure. We look forward to sharing new films and a piece of history with our audiences.”

As has been the case for several years now, the Fairy Tales Film Festival continues to grow each year both in audience and awareness, which will surely be the case again. Many probably aren’t aware that the festival began as a two-day offshoot of the Calgary Society of Independent Film Makers (CSIF) to what is now a weeklong event.

But organizers are always looking for new audiences.

“We do have a loyal audience who come each year but we are always looking to meet new audiences and look for new faces,” Demers says. “It keeps our film dynamic and creates a challenge each new year for our programming committee.”

And even if audiences come year after year, there’s always something new for them, adds Fairy Tales operations director Kari McQueen.

“Our 15th anniversary Know Your Roots Project is really exciting this year. It highlights the people from our own community and

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 From “Strange Frame”

 From “Love Free or Die”

chances are you’ll know at least one person on the big screen this year.”

The “Know Your Roots Project” is a series of short films that will be shown in sections at the beginning of each feature film, paying tribute to elders and people that paved the way by creating the foundations of today’s community.

Also new this year is the fact that each night of the festival is made into its own event, which means there are six parties over seven days with “something for everyone.”

Some of those events include Franco’s May 31st showing of Interior. Leather. Bar. The film is an exploration of the destroyed 40 minutes of Cruising, which originally featuring Al Pacino in 1980.

The film explores gay sexuality on film that originally set Sundance on fire. The film will be followed by the festival’s Kink Party taking place in Goliath’s, opening the famed bath house to everyone for the first time in Calgary – yes, women included.

On May 25th, the Retro Film Gala presentation of The Adventures of Priscilla Queen Of the Desert will be shown in the original 35mm format with a live drag queen/burlesque show and bar in the theatre.

Costumes are strongly encouraged.

And on May 30th, the Youth Queer Media Program Gala is an amazing opportunity to see work created by local youth of the community in the past year.

This year’s opening gala will be held at the Wine Bar & Brasserie in Kensington and the closing gala will be a collaborative event with the Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo Association at the Arrata Opera Centre.

McQueen says she’s very excited to share this year’s event with the entire community.

“It’s also incredibly rewarding to receive the amazing support from our community that we do. It makes the festival so worth doing, especially when we see that we make a difference.”

Most of the films will be presented at the historic Plaza Theatre in Kensington with the exception of one film that will be presented in the Hillhurst United Church. Tickets and more information can be found on their website.

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Amaluna

Part Cirque part Broadway

By Jason Clevett

If you’ve seen the giant circus tent at the Stampede Grounds but not yet been inside to see Amaluna, the latest Cirque production to hit Calgary, you are running out of time. The show wraps up May 19th before heading to Edmonton May 29th to June 23rd.

Unlike many touring cirque shows, there is a plot to Amaluna. As described on its website: “Amaluna invites the audience to a mysterious island governed by Goddesses and guided by the cycles of the moon. Their queen, Prospera, directs her daughter’s coming-of-age ceremony in a rite that honours femininity, renewal, rebirth and balance which marks the passing of these insights and values from one generation to the next. In the wake of a storm caused

by Prospera, a group of young men lands on the island, triggering an epic, emotional story of love between Prospera’s daughter and a brave young suitor. But theirs is a love that will be put to the test. The couple must face numerous demanding trials and overcome daunting setbacks before they can achieve mutual trust, faith and harmony.”

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number of circus acts tied together with a soundtrack.

If you have seen a number of different Cirque shows you have probably seen several of the acts before. It doesn’t take away from the talent involved in doing them, and still elicited gasps from the audience. Highlights include an effortless segment involving a pole, an incredible water dance, and cute shirtless boys soaring through the air on a teeterboard. The worst segment of the show involved clowns, frequently one of the weakest points of these shows, and their dull and somewhat disturbing birthing segment left little to be desired.

Amaluna is a spectacle touched by a love story that at many times will leave your mouth agape in wonderment at the amazing things the human body can do.

Amaluna In Calgary until May 19th.

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Balletlujah!

Canadian icon k.d. lang inspires Alberta Ballet’s last dance of the season

By Janine Eva Trotta We all knew, evident in the sculpted muscles and porcelain frames of the dancers, that ballet is a strenuous art form. But who would have guessed that the usually mellow cooings of Canada’s well loved pop and country singer-songwriter k.d. lang would motivate the rancour and endurance demanded in Alberta Ballet’s final show of the 2012-2013 season?

In the theme of odes to musical genius, Alberta Ballet’s Artistic Director Jean Grand-Maître delivers another intimate, high-energy collaboration of unique choreography, design and music.

“For this show, it’s more about portraying your character and yourself – it’s not about the perfection of every step… which as ballet dancers we’re always seeking,” says ensemble dancer Mark Wax. “A lot of the choreography, especially the…. barn dance… it’s more about having fun and working on our charisma; learning how to be charismatic on stage and really have a good time for the audience.”

Balletlujah is a contemporary ballet set in the Alberta prairies, every bit as lively and feisty as the artist whose music the movement is set to.

“There is one song called Turn me Around which is more country and high spirited and high tempo, where we do this insane dance to it – it’s a miracle that we don’t smack into each other,” Wax says, adding that while collisions did occur in rehearsal they have been polished out in time for audiences.

Balletlujah opened in Edmonton on May 3rd and comes to Calgary May 8th to 11th. Wax says the company’s first show went fantastic, with a special boost back stage from k.d. lang herself.

“I’ve always had a respect for her; I wasn’t familiar with the music that we’ve been using so I’ve gotten to become a fan through this process, and also a fan through her level of encouragement and her personal visits at runs throughout,” Wax says. lang advised the cast to let loose and enjoy their premier performance.

“She seemed extremely happy,” he says. “She appreciates what we’ve been doing.”

And what they’ve been doing has been nothing short of vigorous hard work. Five days a week the Alberta Ballet dancers attend a 1.5 hour ballet class followed by a six hour rehearsal. In their off time the performers cross train to compliment their dance finesse.

For Wax this means an active blend of yoga, weight lifting, cycling, and long distance running.

“I just incorporate those depending on my work load,” he says. “If I’m rehearsing a lot doing a lot of stamina …I focus on weight lifting; if I’m doing more small pieces I focus on the stamina.”

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This show called for an impressive amount of corporal fortitude, meaning not a lot of time or physical energy was left over for cross training.

“It’s a very specific stamina that we have been cultivating,” Wax explains.

The dancer says that up until one week before opening curtain call, how the whole show was going to come together was still a mystery.

“All of a sudden we’re coming close to being on stage and we do a full run through and we say oh my gosh how are we going to make this a full performance and not just a cardio work out?” he recalls. “How do we convey the artistry [of the movement]?”

The solution was poignant and perfectly simple. The dancers triumphed through encouragement; the encouragement they donated to one another and what they were offered by the piece’s eclectic muse.

Wax has been dancing with the Alberta Ballet for three seasons. At a towering 6’4” one might say he is the dancer that sticks out the most.

“I’m the tallest one [in the cast] so I’m easy to catch,” he says.

Alberta’s ballet enthusiasts might recall the lithe dancer from his portrayal of the lead drag queen in the Elton John inspired ballet Love Lies Bleeding.

Wax began his dancing career in a small town in Montana of only 800 people.

“As a student I researched companies and listened to what other people had to say or [looked] where other people got jobs,” he says. “And then when I left with Boston Ballet, which was the first company I danced with [professionally] I auditioned in New York [for Alberta Ballet] and that’s where I got the job.”

Wax says his time at Alberta Ballet has afforded him some wonderful opportunities.

“Some ones that stick out are dancing in [Belanchine’s] The Fourth Temperaments,” he says. “That was a big role for me.”

In Balletlujah, Wax is dancing a staggering eight songs in total. Where one might notice him the most is in a finishing number, in which he dances in a group of three crows alongside the title character.

He says the shows in Edmonton have given him the confidence to bring a little bit more to each successive performance, adding that he is grateful Balletlujah will wrap the season. “[This] is perfect timing because we really all need a break,” he says.

Wax will be spending his break visiting family throughout the States and taking a romantic trip to Cape Cod with his steadfast boyfriend, to whom he is very thankful for the support and love he has received over the last year and a half of dancing.

The cast of Alberta Ballet will start rehearsing again in July.

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A Master’s Ego Struck Down Red gives inner look at expressionist painter’s melees

By Janine Eva Trotta A tomato, a rabbit nose, an albino’s eyes, ruby slippers, the Russian flag, China’s flag, persimmon, red light district, lava, scorpions, flame, passion, sun rise, Satan; what does Red mean to you?

In Alberta Theatre Project’s last act of the season, two men portray the artistic struggle of defining one’s craft against the tide of corporatism and a change in popular movement.

Red is a play written by Jeff Logan, for which the playwright received the 2010 Tony, as well as the Drama Desk, Outer Critic Circle and Drama League awards.

Set in the studio of famed abstract painter Mark Rothko, aptly played

by Allan Morgan, the play centres on the dialogue between a cranky, loudmouthed and arrogant master and his devoted pupil, an assistant called Ken, under-played by Braden Griffiths.

The production is dialogue heavy, and script rich. While Morgan brings his character to life with robust voice and vibrato, his assistant falls to the stage’s wayside – too devoted, too needy, too rehearsed.

Indeed Morgan brings to his character the asset of a mutual artistic experience.

“Sweet Lord I guess I graduated from theatre school in 1984, so almost 30 years [I’ve been in theatre],” he says with gaiety.

Morgan is a graduate of Studio 58 in Vancouver and is a recurring face at Calgary’s Epcor Centre, Red being his seventh or eight show with the company since 1997.

In between his performances at ATP he freelances “all over the place” including stops at the National Art Centre in Ottawa, performances with Calgary Theatre Projects, and in Montreal.

In Red, Morgan tackles the role of an artist much loved but, perhaps, even more hated for his abstract canvases of murky painted rectangles – the types of painting that might make many of us say, “man I could do that!”

However in Red we learn that these swatches of colour, often vibrant and often red in hue, are like children to the painter; something he loves and is willing to lay down his honour for.

The play allows us a glimpse into a popular artists’ musings. While Rothko’s assistant is weak, he challenges the famed painter to face his own hypocrisy, which in turn prompts him to turn down ‘one of the largest commissions offered to a painter since the Sistine Chapel’.

In reality, Rothko was an “extraordinary volatile” New York abstract expressionist painter, “part of the same group of artists that came to rise with Jackson Pollock,” Morgan says, though in the play he jests that the paintings of Rothko would have been cheaper than his contemporary’s.

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“He’s an American painter but he’s originally from Russia. His family immigrated when he was 10.”

Rothko took great inspiration from the artist Henri Matisse, specifically from his painting The Red Studio (L’Atelier Rouge). His biggest fear in life was that black, representing death, would swallow the red in life, or the joy de vivre.

“He became very famous for a style of painting,” Morgan continues, explaining Rothko’s technique as incorporating “bricks of very intense colour.”

Rothko was commissioned to paint a series of paintings for the Seagram Building, located in New York City’s Midtown Manhattan district, which were to hang amid the silver tinklings of diners at the Four Seasons Restaurant.

“It was one of the sort of statement buildings of the modernist times,” Morgan says of the Park Avenue skyscraper.

The artist was offered $35,000 for the project. “Which is like $2-million now,” Morgan says. “The most money that had ever been paid to an abstract artists for his art.”

But Rothko, somehow swayed by the assistant he seems to have no greater regard for than he would a friend’s nuisance pet, withdraws at the last minute.

I’m no fan of Rothko myself, and so thought I would be unable to like the character. But Morgan offers a candid rendition that is indeed likable.

He comes across as an artist who realises that his life’s work – his greatest passions – are being hung over the mantles of Manhattan’s society ladies’ homes; that they are being used as furniture accents, breakfast nook décor, status symbols, or “anything but what they are.”

“This is the time of Andy Warhol and the beginning of pop art,” Morgan explains. Another variable in Rothko’s crumbling sense of artistic identity.

“Those [commissioned] murals now live in various museums in the world,” he says, adding that while performing in London, England he was fortunate enough to see them at a showing in the Tate Modern. “[Red is] a funny and a really great discussion about art, and about death, and about mortality, and about living,” Morgan says. “An idea driven play.”

He hopes the show will rouse discussion on human responsibility to art.

“How do we continue to make art as we get older or does it fade away from us?” he says. “All of us think, did I do enough? When we start to sort of look back, at my age, we think Jesus Christ, did I do enough?”

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Out of Town

Rehoboth Beach, Delaware

 The dunes near Poodle Beach, a favorite spot of gay sunbathers in Rehoboth. Photo by Andrew Collins

by Andrew Collins The unofficial gay and lesbian summer beach resort of the MidAtlantic states, charming Rehoboth Beach is situated along a sweeping, sandy stretch of the Delaware shore that’s within a three-hour drive of Washington, Baltimore, and Philadelphia.

Over the past decade, many of the town’s guest houses, shops, and restaurants have received stylish makeovers, and this once low-key, largely middle-class town has developed a see-and-beseen cachet that extends well beyond nearby cities. Prices have risen, too, but Rehoboth largely retains a laid-back, welcoming vibe that makes it a perfect destination for summer fun, and a romantic weekend retreat during the quieter spring and fall shoulder seasons.

The town began developing a subtle gay following in the ‘50s, probably owing to the fact that closeted Washington types, unable to risk braving the nightlife of D.C., found this relatively secluded beach region a relatively safe and anonymous place to be themselves, or at least test the waters. Lesbians and gays continued to settle here gradually, and then Glenn Thompson opened a full-scale gay resort, the Renegade, on the western outskirts of town in 1980. Soon after, the Blue Moon restaurant and bar opened downtown. Nowadays, Rehoboth (beachfun.com for general tourism info; camprehoboth.com for details on the GLBT scene) teems with gay-owned or - oriented businesses, including cafes, restaurants, bars, and about a dozen guest houses. Although the Renegade was razed in 2002 to make way for condos, the Blue Moon is still a first-rate place to dine and socialize.

Although an increasing number of trendy, urbane businesses have opened here in recent years, Rehoboth’s beachfront is still lined with a bustling, honky-tonk boardwalk of saltwater taffy parlors, video arcades, and souvenir shops. Many visitors spend afternoons catching rays at the beach. The largely gay male section, known as Poodle Beach, runs from about St. Lawrence to Penn streets, at the southern tip of the Boardwalk.

Women sunbathe here to some extent, but more lesbians and a fair share of gay men flock north of downtown to the beach at Cape Henlopen State Park (aka “North Shores” - about a 20-to-30-minute walk or 10-minute drive via Ocean Drive).

You can also access other parts of Cape Henlopen State Park by driving 10 miles north (via Rte. 1 and U.S. 9) to the charming and historic town of Lewes, and accessing the park from Dunes Road. Lewes itself is a lovely Dutch colonial town founded in 1631, with a neatly preserved downtown of tony shops and inviting restaurants overlooking a beautiful, narrow yacht harbor - it makes a great little day trip, by car or bike. Top-notch, gay-popular restaurants in Lewes include The Buttery (butteryrestaurant.com), which occupies a romantic Victorian house with a large veranda, and Café Azafran (cafeazafran.com), a

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Spanish-inspired tapas bistro open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner there’s a branch in Rehoboth, too.

Shopping and Dining Another popular daytime diversion is shopping. Rehoboth Avenue, the main drag, has plenty of fun retail as well as a few galleries. A block over, Baltimore Avenue is the hub of the town’s gay scene, home to a few boutiques, home-furnishing emporia, and the small but well-stocked Proud Bookstore, which carries GLBT books and gifts. Delaware has no sales tax, and out on Route 1 you’ll discover a bounty of outlet shopping centers. Back in town, take a break from browsing to grab a delicious lunch (maybe the best chicken salad sandwich you’ll ever taste) at Lori’s Café (lorisoyveycafe.com), or enjoy a snack or a latte at the Coffee Mill (coffeemillrehoboth.com), a cheerful coffeehouse.

Rehoboth has an excellent dining scene, and several trendy newcomers seem to open each season. On the high end, the superb Blue Moon (bluemoonrehoboth.com) - site of the gay bar of the same name - turns out high-caliber contemporary American fare, like Maine lobster spaghetti and stout-brined Berkshire pork chops. Down the street, trendy Aqua Grill (aquagrillrehoboth.com) serves eclectic and reasonably priced international fare - Thai-mango-chutney burgers, coconut shrimp, pot stickers - and then morphs into a fantastic gay video and dance bar, with a sprawling patio, as the evening proceeds.

Drag brunches and T-dances are part of the fun on weekends. In the same neighborhood, Mixx (mixxrehoboth.com) is another high-energy, stylish restaurant and bar with a strong GLBT following, excellent food (macadamia-crusted local rockfish, seared scallops), and a see-and-beseen cocktail scene - there’s live music some evenings.

Another hip spot where you’ll see plenty of family, Espuma (espumarestaurant.com) serves contemporary Spanish and Mediterranean fare, including great lobster paella. And don’t miss the casual Purple Parrot (ppgrill.com), a good bet for burgers and diner fare; it’s a lively hangout for drinks and conversation, too, with a popular happy hour each day.

Other notables include the Seafood Shack (seafoodshackrehoboth.com), which serves tasty fried-oyster po’boys and tender crab cakes and is known for its live entertainment, which includes piano, female vocalists, and acoustic bands.

one of the best in town; the Silver Lake Guest House (silverlakeguesthouse. com), a large and luxurious property with great views of the lake after which it’s named and close proximity to Poodle Beach; and century-old At Melissa’s B&B (atmelissas.com), an inviting six-room inn in a leafy residential neighborhood close to the beach and restaurants - it’s a nice option for LGBT families, as one room has a king and bunk bed, and another has two queen beds. The Royal Rose Inn (royalroseinn.com) is right in the heart of Baltimore Avenue’s gay scene and has seven charming and attractive rooms, plus a rooftop hot tub and sundeck.

Perhaps no property in town draws more praise for its colorful personality (and high camp factor) than the lesbian-owned Bewitched and Bedazzled B&B (bewitchedbnb.com), a decadent 13-room property that consists of two neighboring houses. One is playfully furnished as a tribute to the ‘60s TV classic Bewitched, and the other pays tribute to the glamour of Hollywood, with dozens of autographed photos of movie stars. Another romantic option, the Canalside Inn (canalsideinn-rehoboth.com) overlooks the historic Lewes-Rehoboth Canal and offers 12 elegantly outfitted rooms done in cheerful, pastel hues. It’s a 20-minute walk from the beach, as is the spacious, well-kept Shore Inn (shoreinn.com), a mostly male 14-room resort popular for its festive pool, deck, and hot tub. Guys on the make should try the clothing-optional Ram’s Head (theramshead.com), which is a 15-minute drive from the beach and caters largely to butch leather-and-Levi’s types.

If you’re partial to larger, more anonymous mainstream properties, Rehoboth has several chain hotels, including Hampton Inn, Holiday Inn Express, and Comfort Inn out on Route 1. But to fully experience the bustle and charm of this increasingly hip and trendy gay getaway, try to book a room in town and spend as much time as possible wandering the boardwalk, beach, and quiet residential streets, places where the authentic Rehoboth springs vibrantly to life.

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Dos Locos (doslocos.com) is a great standby for Mexican food and cocktails. The ornately furnished, Asian-inspired Planet X (planetxcafe. com) scores high marks for its creative cocktails and unusual vegetarian and organic fare, from tofu sate with ginger-peanut sauce to grilled ahi fillet with asparagus, scallion herb salad, and lemon aioli. Dogfish Head Brewing & Eats (dogfish.com) is one of the most esteemed craft breweries in the country - it’s a fun place to sample a flight of unusual beers (Chicory Stout, Positive Contact Wit-style beer, Chateau Jiahu - which is brewed with rice from an ancient Chinese recipe), and the kitchen serves tasty modern pub fare, too.

For cocktails and entertainment, most folks drop by the lounges at local restaurants to socialize before or after dinner, with the aforementioned Blue Moon, Mixx, Aqua, and Seafood Shack among the favorites. Early in the evening, a lot of lesbians and gay guys head to the Frogg Pond (thefroggpond.com) tavern for karaoke and conversation, or nearby Rehoboth Ale House (rehobothalehouse.com), which has live music some evenings and drag brunch on Sundays. If you’re into the leather-andLevi’s scene, be sure to check out the Double L Bar (doublelbar.net), which has a patio, two pool tables, and a cruise-y vibe.

Accomodations Rehoboth has no shortage of appealing, atmospheric accommodations.

Among the top guest houses, the Lighthouse Inn (lighthouseinn.net) is an attractive 1904 house that’s steps from the beach and has light-filled, nautically themed guest rooms with gas fireplaces, refrigerators, and TVs with DVD - the top-floor rooms are especially romantic and roomy, and a separate two-story cottage sleeps up to four. Rehoboth Guest House (rehobothguesthouse.com), which is two blocks from the beach and steps from Baltimore Avenue nightlife and dining, is a vintage threestory inn with clean, basic rooms, a friendly and helpful innkeeper, and some of the best summer rates in town - the simplest rooms, which share a bathroom, start at just $120 midweek in high-season, which is a bargain considering the location and lovely grounds and sun decks.

Other good bets include the spacious, spotless, and contemporary Cabana Gardens B&B (cabanagardens.com), whose rooftop sundeck is

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Matinée Launches Revolution in Sin City …With Four-Day Weekend Spectacular

By Mark Dawson Matinée is asking fans to “feel the revolution” this Memorial Day – the party revolution, that is. The festival that has become world famous for re-imagining the elaborate party experience with blazing pyrotechnics and production by Cirque du Soleil and Matinée Ibiza, returns to Las Vegas with the biggest dance festival of the summer. Taking place Friday, May 24th thru Monday, May 27th, MATINÉE LAS VEGAS FESTIVAL will play host to over 8,000 clubbers dancing to twenty of the world’s leading DJs at eight high-energy party events.

“In todays over technologized world, people want a real interactive experience,” explains Paul Nicholls, part of the production team behind Matinée North America. “We combine fantasy elements from concerts, theatrical stage shows, Hollywood films and even video games into one giant offline spectacle.”

“A Matinée party is all about awe and extravagance,” continues Matinée North America’s Patrick Crough. “We partner with the hottest and most cutting-edge acts from around the world. For this year’s MATINÉE LAS VEGAS FESTIVAL, we’ve teamed up with the Las Vegas production, Absinthe. We are integrating several of their amazing Cirque acts into our main events. It will be breathtaking.”

Matinée launched over fifteen years ago in Ibiza. Since then, it has evolved internationally with lavish events including CircuitFestival Barcelona. When party founders decided to expand the brand into North America, they asked Crough and Jake Resnicow to oversee and produce all parties in the USA and Canada.

Their first Matinée event was Pride in New York where they transformed Manhattan’s Governor’s Island into an extravagant dance arena, with explosive music and thrilling light shows. At sunset, a surprise fireworks display ignited the skyline.

They made their Las Vegas debut in 2011 with the first Matinée Las Vegas Festival. It included jaw-dropping spectacles, including one that involved synchronized swimmers performing in a glass pool of water set on fire. The evening capped with a surprise performance by pop singer Natasha Bedingfield.

“Matinée raises the bar on nightlife,” says Jake Resnicow. “Whether in the heart of Manhattan or on the beaches of Miami, a Matinée event is meant to take revelers out of body and beyond the confines of their imagination.”

“One reason we stay so cutting edge is we re-invest into the parties,” adds Crough. “As the numbers get bigger, so does the experience.”

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Last year’s MATINÉE LAS VEGAS FESTIVAL was wildly successful.

The main event at Rain Nightclub in the Palms Hotel featured Spanish dancers, fire displays and live acts by Cirque Du Soleil. The weekend’s big surprise was the large crowd of men that packed the Monday Pool Party. Says Nicholls, “It was a party we added at the last minute because pre-sales were so high. It ended up being a really great way to close the long weekend.”

They plan to pull out even more stops this Memorial Day. They have upgraded the main event to one of Vegas’ hottest and most exclusive clubs, Vanity at Hard Rock. The dance floor is a massive 14,000 squarefeet with an outdoor terrace and fire pits.

The weekend will feature eight events over four days and nights, including main events and after-hour parties at the city’s hottest clubs, as well as pool parties at the weekend’s host hotel, Rumor. Each party will feature original themes designed to take revelers on a weekend-long journey.

The DJ line-up includes some of the world’s most innovative icons in dance music, including Matinée Spain all-star DJs Taito Tikaro, Javier Medina and Flavio Zarza. Billboard #1 remixers/producers Hector Fonseca, Alyson Calagna, DJ Theresa, Ed Baily, Brazil’s Rodolfo Bravat, and red-hot rising stars Nina Flowers, Justin Dawson, Ryan Kenney, Luis Perez, Derek Monteiro and Billy Lace will also headline.

Las Vegas is the perfect city to launch the party revolution, says Resnicow. “In Vegas, partiers can do what they want, when they want.

There are very few restrictions and absolutely no last calls. Now, that’s a revolution.”

Weekend passes start at $99. The exclusive and luxurious Rumor Hotel (455 East Harmon Avenue, Las Vegas) is the host hotel for MATINÉE LAS VEGAS FESTIVAL. Suites start at $129/night. Rumor will also provide guests with complimentary shuttle service to all weekend events.

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Kiss & Del

Scissor Sisters guitarist Del Marquis talks ‘ego baby,’ band’s hiatus and being Beyoncé

 Derek Gruen, aka Del Marquis

By Chris Azzopardi Derek Gruen, aka Del Marquis, is happy to let his fellow Scissor Sisters eclipse his nerd-cool presence on stage. Now, though, as the band takes some time off, all swoony eyes – and ears – are on Marquis and his latest solo project, Cosmos, released under the moniker Slow Knights (take that, Jake Shears).

Marquis recently chatted about teaming with Prince’s legendary backing band for the new release, the “unique relationship” he has with the Scissor Sisters and his mission to be Beyoncé ... with a guitar.

GC: What do I call you: Derek or Del? DM: You can just stick with Del. I know I’m confusing everybody.

GC: What do you like most about doing these side projects without

the Scissor Sisters?

DM: I’m not really one of the main songwriters in Sisters. I come in and put down guitar parts over structures and ideas that are existing, so this really gives me more validation – considering I went from a world working as a designer into music, where I wasn’t sure I was creating enough. I had to kind of do these projects to feel like I had my own little ego baby; basically, in a really trite way, I wanted to build something from the ground up, so on this second project I definitely felt more confident and got to the point where the record I finished was what I had in my head the whole time. I didn’t really feel like I did that the first time.

GC: With the series you released in 2008 and 2009?

DM: Yeah, I had never written lyrics and I’d never sang to my own

music, so it was really part experimentation and blind fury. I look back and think, “God, I would’ve worked a little harder on that. I would’ve finessed those lyrics. I would’ve cut that song down by a minute.”

GC: How would you describe this album to a Scissor Sisters fan?

DM: I set out to make an R&B record that went to outer space. It’s

a groove record, but it’s a decidedly different sense of taste. Obviously, doing a record like this, I have a bit more control and it’s through my own filter as opposed to a band’s.

GC: Do you like having that control, or would you prefer having three band members who can make decisions for you?

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 From Previous Page DM: There are bonuses to both. I can’t say I did everything myself on this record, but if I worked on a song with someone else, I just said to approach it in a way that maybe isn’t typical of their own work, because I have a certain sound I’m looking for. So can you write from a different point of view than you normally would? Just keeping it so that with all these different contributors and different singers, it still sounds like a cohesive record and not some weird anomaly.

GC: So, in a sense, you get to be the frontman and call the shots.

DM: Yeah, I mean, I’m the art director. (Laughs) I’m the creative

director of the project. Being a creative director is very different from being a front person, and I’m actually the opposite. I chose four or five other people to be the front person to sing each song, which is the true focus for the listener, or most listeners, so I actually remove myself from the center of attention.

I was happy to kind of be a Dave Stewart and just wear sunglasses and hide a little bit, because I actually don’t feel very comfortable in front of a mic. I’m not a true singer, and giving the song to other people to sing allows me to enjoy them. I can distance myself enough from them by hearing someone else’s voice so I enjoy the record I’ve made.

GC: You’re a lot like Jake, because he obviously doesn’t feel comfortable in front of a mic at all.

DM: He doesn’t?

GC: I’m teasing.

DM: (Laughs) I’m actually that gullible. I’m like, “What are you talking

about?” I don’t think I’ve ever known anybody more attuned to be there (than Jake) – and you know what, seeing that is clarity enough to know when it doesn’t feel right. Because it should feel natural. Everyone has a role they are destined to fill whether they know it or not, and I have just enough attention on me as a guitar player. Anything more and I’m not sure I’d thrive like that.

GC: I can understand wanting to blend in.

DM: You get moments of glory and that feels great, but then if you’re

in a bad mood you can get kind of skulk in the darkness and no one is that bothered.

GC: Is that Madonna’s “Holiday” on “Under Attack” that I’m hearing?

DM: It’s just a coincidence. (Laughs) You know. It evokes a sense of

childhood, maybe.

GC: Happy accident, then?

DM: That was a happy accident. Sometimes those songs are just in

our DNA, and I don’t know. If people want to make a comparison, I’m fine with that.

GC: How did you come to work with Prince’s former backing band, New Power Generation?

DM: I had basically made a bedroom record like many people do, but I just felt like there was something missing. I’m not a great bass player, so I really felt like in order for these songs to sound authentic to my ears, I needed people to play them who are true players. When I played the demos to my engineer, he said, “I know the guys who used to play in New Power Generation and I’m sure I can set this up,” and we did. I flew out to Minneapolis and had a one-week session and it was by far my favorite part of the process. I just had to communicate very little. I just let them do what they do and it was so much fun. When people are that connected to an instrument, music is their language.

GC: Are you a big Prince fan?

DM: Yeah, I don’t really know anybody who isn’t appreciative in some

aspect. Beyond liking the songs, I definitely like to study people who perform, because I didn’t feel like I was a natural performer. So I always kind of looked at different people’s movements, whether it was Nancy Wilson or Prince or Beyoncé. Prince, who was able to move while playing a guitar in these outfits – people couldn’t believe that he was playing a solo while riding on his back or doing a split. I was like, “How do I get to that point? How do I become Beyoncé with a guitar?” (Laughs) I definitely love studying live tapes of him and have taken inspiration from him, especially with the new romantic stuff and some of his outfit choices. It’s nice to study and, through my own lens, I’ve appropriated some things.

GC: Study or stalk?

DM: I don’t want to stalk him. He’s a Jehovah’s Witness! I don’t want

anything to do with him. (Laughs) And I’m an adult. I’m not interested in stalking people.

GC: But don’t you have a history of stalking famous musicians?

DM: Yeah, I was a teenager music fan like anyone I know who’s in a

band or works in publishing or in whatever position they’ve attained in music. The best people were once crazy fans. They were silly teenagers who made collages and stole set lists and waited outside of hotels. I mean, all the best that you want to work with as adults were insane teenagers, but you know, most people grow out of that and they say, “How do I find a way to get closer to music that’s not so disturbing for someone past the age of 20?”

GC: How long do you expect the Scissor Sisters’ hiatus to last?

DM: I have no idea. And I think that’s how it should be. If and when it

feels right we would do it in a second, so whatever that means.

GC: Do you think breaks are important to a band’s longevity?

DM: There’s no other reason to take one. As a live band, we’ve never

been very lazy. We always put a lot of effort into performing and that is really exhausting, and touring is becoming more and more difficult, so as a band – and we’re talking not two DJs with, like, one tour manager and a laptop – you’re traveling with a huge group and you’re freighting all this equipment, and it’s very expensive. It’s a lot of work to travel the globe. We just felt a little burned out. Like, “Let’s stop so we can enjoy it in the future rather than absolutely destroying ourselves to the point where we never want to see each other again.”

GC: When’s the last time you saw them?

DM: In person?

GC: Yeah.

DM: I don’t know. We text and email and tweet. I’ve seen everybody

at least once since last fall. It’s just something where you can feel comfortable not seeing them for years and then you just walk into a room and we’d feel like no time had passed. It’s a unique relationship that’s difficult to explain unless you’ve been in a band. It’s this strange hybrid of family and friendship and ex-lover.

GC: What are the challenges of releasing an album independently versus one you’ve done with Scissor Sisters?

DM: How diversified social media is. Just to create a new name for this project, I had to start over with everything from the basics of Twitter, Facebook, Instagram – and then I’m not very active as it is. I’m almost like a technophobe, so for me this administration of being up on my Twitter – using exclamation points and being informative and funny – it’s like I can really barely muster the energy. I’d much rather be working in the garden or riding my bike and whistling at the clouds. (Laughs) I really have a tough time doing this groundwork.

Knowing that I made a great record is enough for me, and then it’s like, “Oh wait, I have to tell people about it.” I don’t want to do any of that. It’s awful. (Laughs) I have people helping me set up some bells and whistles. Gosh, I sound like a fucking Golden Girl.

GC: You need to call Taylor Swift. She’s mastered social media.

DM: (Sarcastically) Oh my gosh, I just need to be dating teenage boys

and then breaking up with them. I’m sure that would really help.

GC: There you go. New marketing plan.

DM: Yeah, that’s it.

GC: How good are you with the hashtags?

DM: I keep forgetting. It’s like, “Do I need to hashtag?” I tweet when

appropriate, and occasionally –

GC: When inappropriate?

DM: Yes, occasionally inappropriately, if I’ve had something to drink.

GC: That’s the way you sell yourself.

DM: I know. But why does everything have to be funny? I mean,

Twitter really only works if you’ve got wit. And I do consider myself occasionally witty, but I didn’t know that to be a pop star you also have to be a comedian.

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Edmonton Fruit Loop Summer Series

Edmonton Fruit Loop 2013 Summer Series May 10th, June 14th, July 12th and August 9th Yellowhead Brewery (10229-105 Street, Edmonton) http://www.facebook.com/fruitloopedmonton

By Lisa Lunney

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The Edmonton community is now home to a great summer series of events targeted towards the LGBT community. Fruit Loop is a lineup of activities for “fellow Fruits—the diverse community of gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transfolk, queers, two spirited, straight, allies, cherries and berries—to mix, mingle and have fun,” says their Facebook page.

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Fruit Loop is a new name to the city, so they probably need a formal introduction. They are a grassroots collective of creative individuals who are donating their time, talents, resources and energy to better the community. Members of Fruit Loop are not associated with any single organization, business or venue. They put in the effort for their audience to have the best possible experience, as their primary goal is to make the community they support happy. Since summer is the season of parties, mingling and bonding, Fruit Loop has created the Summer Series in hopes of receiving a warm acceptance in the Edmonton area. They simply ask for patrons to come out and support events and to share in the festivities with others.

Fruit Loop is designed to be more than just an average night out at the local gay bar, with the goal of being anything but ordinary. The creators of Fruit Loop are planning to work closely with LGBT groups at each event to give something back.

The summer series takes place the second Friday of each month from May, continuing to August (specifically May 10th, June 14th, July 12th and August 9th), so that patrons will have things to look forward to throughout the entire summer.

Yellowhead Brewery will serve as a host for the Summer Series of events. They brag one of Alberta’s finest micro brewed beers, Yellowhead Premium Lager – so they will provide great drinks and delicious bites. The venue is located in the heart of Downtown Edmonton, a hot spot for nightlife in the city.

Fruit Loop will be actively seeking feedback on each of the Summer Series events. This feedback will help Fruit Loop do things better, and determine if these events will continue in years to come.

If you decide to go, make sure you invite the fruitiest and most fabulous people you know!

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Bring On Your Faith, Dolls

Eliza Dushku arrives at last month’s Calgary Comic & Entertainment Expo

By Jason Clevett There seems to be a stigma surrounding child actors who appear in huge films: many are seen once and never again. Some spiral into drugs while others just disappear. Eliza Dushku debuted in the 1994 James Cameron film True Lies. Starting your career on a film directed by one of the biggest directors in the world and a cast that included Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jamie Lee Curtis, Tia Carrere, Tom Arnold and Charlton Heston is a lot for any 12 year old. Fortunately for the world, Dushku has gone on to build up an amazing resume of TV and film in the last 20 years.

able to do it for so long. 20 years of True Lies is definitely trippy.

We just did the Blu-Ray and Jim (Cameron) put together the crew that did his Avatar behind the scenes film and they did interviews and it was wild to look back at it and to think about what a killer and crazy experience it was and to think it was so long ago. Tom Arnold and I live-tweeted a screening of it. It is remarkable, what a cool thing, as a 12 year old, to be able to go spend a year doing that with such talented people.”

Dushku counts co-star Jamie Lee Curtis as one of her influences. Another actor who started young in film and built a career her way, Curtis showed a young Eliza how to operate in Hollywood.

“I think I just continued to show up and bring what I do.

I don’t really know if other people have done it differently. I feel there are times in my life where I have tried to leave the business to go back to school or do something else with my life and I get pulled back in. I hate it when people say crazy shit like it’s meant to be but it definitely has pulled me back at times when I’ve looked to do something else. I am grateful for it and the things I am able to do and the fact that I have been www.gaycalgary.com

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 From Previous Page “She was incredible. I remember when we first decided on the film, my Mother didn’t have a lot of experience with actors or Hollywood we were pretty green when we came on the scene. I remember a couple of days of knowing Jamie on set my mother looked me in the eye and said, you watch that woman she knows how to be a class act and a feminist in a club run by the boys and she is not to be played with. She was sexy and strong and funny and had all the qualities. So I did watch her closely for those 9 months and [she was] someone I looked up to.”

GayCalgary Magazine spoke to Eliza Dushku over the phone in advance of this weekend’s sold out Calgary Comic & Entertainment Expo. Dushku’s resume includes working alongside Robert DeNiro, Leonardo DiCaprio and James Belushi. Films such as Wrong Turn, Bring It On, and Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, and TV shows like Tru Calling have made fans around the world. At her appearance Expo weekend, many of those waiting to meet her were there because of her character Faith in the Joss Whedon shows Buffy The Vampire Slayer & Angel, and as Echo in Dollhouse.

“I would say a big part of it is the Joss Whedonverse shows. But I get a lot of people from different projects – Tru Calling, Bring It On, I feel like there is a little something something for everybody along the way. It is usually pretty mixed but it can be pretty Faith heavy.”

Being part of 3 of Joss Whedon’s shows displays the connection between the two of them, and Dushku gets excited while speaking of Whedon.

“It is a lucky little family. I am definitely psyched to have been and be a part of that little crew. You do feel like you are a part of history when we were in the Buffy-sphere. It has really transcended and what most shows will ever do is sort of a phenomenon and I have seen the effects of how it has reached around the world. I can go to any country and find Buffy fan pockets and that is extraordinary.

So I am lucky and grateful and always pinching myself a little bit.

Plus I love Joss, he is just a bro. He is somebody I am proud to call my buddy.”

Dushku was an executive producer and played the lead character Echo on the 2009-2010 show Dollhouse. When the show was cancelled by Fox it was disappointing, but unlike many shows that just go off the air Dollhouse resolved its storylines.

“It was very nice of Fox to let us have that chance, and I say that truthfully. A lot of shows they pull the plug and it is just don’t show up for work tomorrow. You don’t have closure and it is an awkward scenario for everyone. The fact that they picked us up for the second season when we didn’t have the numbers on the main nights. We were one of the first shows where they started to consider DVR numbers but it wasn’t quite in time. We were one of the highest DVR’d shows because we had that lovely

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Friday night death slot time when we aired. They still gave us a second season and then midway when they cancelled it they still let us finish it which I thought was very thoughtful of Fox.” Recently Dushku has been doing a lot of voice work for cartoons like Jay & Silent Bob’s Super Groovy Cartoon Movie and voicing She-Hulk in Hulk & The Agents of S.M.A.S.H. Doing voice work is a different experience from being physically on screen, but one she has enjoyed thus far.

“I get to show up in my pajamas and don’t have to spend an hour in hair and makeup, and I get to sit in a room with a bunch of funny talented guys and do something that I hadn’t done before in my career.

We just finished the first season of Hulk Smash and I played She-Hulk. The cast was insane with some real voice over veterans in the room, every week I would go in to record I would nerd out.

I love all things comic-booky. I learned a lot, it is different and a lot of fun but it is still so fast and a creative vibe. Last week I watched some of the finished episodes and I just wanted a bowl of cereal and to sit and watch 5 episodes on my sofa. It looks really good, it is smart, funny and has an old school vibe.”

In speaking with Dushku it was evident that she was very excited to attend the Expo.

“Honestly what I enjoy most is meeting people. For so long I was in a place where you couldn’t get access to the fans. Even things like Twitter you can speak your truth. I like things straight from the horse’s mouth and direct communication.

With these shows you actually have that few minutes of face time where you literally have people run up and say I have waited 20 years to say bla bla bla to you.

I get riveted and excited by that. Everybody is there in a positive place. I am a big fan of other people so it is a joyous occasion to get a weekend where everyone gets to geek out, I really feel that way.”

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Guess Who’s Back, Sheldon?

Wil Wheaton Returns to Calgary Expo

By Jason Clevett At the 2012 Calgary Comic & Entertainment Expo, Wil Wheaton was one of the highlights of the event, reuniting for the first time with the entire cast of Star Trek: The Next Generation. In a display of grit and determination, an exhausted and sick Wheaton pushed himself to the limit and was gracious to the fans. He clearly made an impression as he and comic icon Stan Lee were the only two returning guests this year. GayCalgary Magazine spoke to Wheaton prior to the Expo.

“I am in my home - I am going to be home before the Expo. I was exhausted last year [from flying to Calgary directly from Australia]. I am really good at conserving energy, taking care of myself and knowing what my limits are. I am very fortunate in that the average person who wants to meet me at a comic convention tends to be pretty understanding and respectful of exactly what I have to offer. I am really looking forward to coming back and being at 100% energy and health so I have time to see more of the convention than just the parts I am directly involved in. I am especially looking forward to getting out into Calgary itself and partaking in some of the fine craft beers you have there.

“It makes me feel like I am doing something right. I started going to conventions when I was a kid before I worked on Star Trek. I know what it is like to be on both sides of the line. I know what as a attendee I want from a guest, and I work really hard to treat the people that come to meet me the way I would want to be treated if I was there to meet somebody else. Getting invited back makes me feel like I did something right and that makes me happy.”

While much of the focus in 2012 was on Star Trek, typically Wheaton appears at conventions as a “solo” feature. He is excited to have more of his impressive career up for discussion instead of being focused on one aspect.

“It is truly nothing new for me. I go to cons all over the country to talk about Tabletop or Big Bang Theory or Falling Skies. Being somewhere with other groups of people is outside of what’s normal for me, this will be more about letting the fans tell me what they want to know about rather than everyone be expected to focus on one thing.”

The 2012 convention culminated in a sold out corral for an on-stage reunion of the cast. In a night that was memorable for the cast and fans alike, it was important to Wheaton, as he got to publicly address how he felt leaving the show and how he didn’t feel he had the right to invite them to his wedding and to apologize. It was an emotional moment, but also funny as Levar Burton told him, “you were a pain in the ass. But you are our pain in the ass.” The emotion of the cast in that moment was evident to the back of the arena, and it was a moment Wheaton is grateful for.

“What is interesting about that is that everyone in cast came to me individually and privately and said you didn’t need to say that, we knew.

It was really important for me. It is almost like a thing that I had to let go of, to stop living my adult life in the shadow of something that a teenage version of me felt responsible for. In a lot of ways it unburdened my relationship with everybody in the cast. Everyone in the cast was like, look man, you were kid. It’s fine, let it go nobody thinks less of you. For me because I grew up working so much as a kid and having so many adult responsibilities, when I look back at behaving the way a teenager behaves there is a part of me that feels ashamed of that because I felt a responsibility to be an adult even if I didn’t have the maturity and experience to know precisely what that meant at the time. Getting to take ownership of that and let it go was really important to me.”

sitting in an airport and being left alone, he is never going to experience that. I guarantee you there is not a person in his life who says, hey man don’t do that you’re fucking up. There are 100 people in his life that are basically making their careers off of him. He doesn’t get to be a person, he is a business. So every time I see him do something that a teenager does and I watch this celebrity obsessed media that just cannot wait for him to fall, jump all over him, I feel a great deal of empathy and sadness for him. I am hoping he gets a chance to grow up and grow out of these things but I expect he may end up sort of a dysfunctional man child, sort of like what happened to Michael Jackson. I think that is really, really sad. It is always hard to be a child who is famous. It is hard to be a teenager anyways, being a teenager and in high school sucks. You are trying to navigate the most difficult transition to the world from child to adult. Every time I put up a picture of me as a teenager dressing as a jackass I can laugh at it now and people will respond to me and say, boy am I glad my teen years weren’t preserved the way yours are.

“The only advice I would give to young people in the industry is stay close to your siblings because they are going to keep you honest and be inherently suspicious and wary of people who are constantly telling you how fucking great you are – [only] because there is probably something in it for them.”

The last year has been very busy for Wheaton since he last graced Calgary.

“Gosh I have worked a lot. My show Tabletop has just taken off and become a massive, massive hit and much more of a success than any of us thought it would be. We have shot the first half of the second season.

We are just about done editing that and getting ready to get back into the second half of production. Surprisingly what I did not have time to do was write more because I have been so busy producing other things.

That is the only regret I have really from the past year, I have been working on a novella for a little while and I really wanted it to be done by now. I guess it will be finished when it is ready to be finished.”

Being a veteran of conventions around the world, including this past Expo, Wheaton knows what to do at these events. He is determined to be healthy and gung ho, and wants you to be as well. He had some important words of advice for the 60,000 packing the Stampede Grounds that weekend:

His challenges on the show can be summed up in being a teenager. It has always been a challenge growing up in the spotlight, and now seems to be even more so, when every move a young artist like Justin Bieber makes seems to be plastered across the internet.

“Stay hydrated and wear comfortable shoes.”

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Woo’d by Torchwood

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By Evan Kayne If last year was the year of the Trek at the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo (what with the reunion of the cast from Star Trek: The Next Generation), this year we all got a passionate Torchwood kiss as John Barrowman (Captain Jack Harkness), Eve Myles (Gwen Cooper) and Gareth David-Lloyd (Ianto Jones) came to town.

When asked about the Expo, the lovely Eve said exactly what fans felt after meeting her or the others: “it’s been a blast...I’ve had a brilliant time”. The rapport between the three was amazing. Whether on the Torchwood panel or on John Barrowman’s own panel, the audience was enthralled and entertained - and not just by Barrowman flashing his superhero undies.

Unfortunately, for a family audience there were a lot of stories that couldn’t be recounted on the panel...with everyone pointing towards John, who usually gave an impish smile in return. In his own defense, he did say that “...everyone always blames me – which I’m totally cool with – but they all live vicariously through me.”

On their panels, the cast discussed the history of the show – from Eve joking about her first meeting John and swearing he was in love with her...only for him to turn gay because Gareth David-Lloyd was cast as Ianto, to all of them agreeing on their favorite episode – the spectactularly creepy “Countrycide”.

It wasn’t all jokes though – John recounted how in the episode “Captain Jack Harkness” he found the actor playing the original Captain Jack (Matt Rippy) crying in a corner after the scene where the two of them passionately kiss. In seriousness, John said he was worried he may have crossed a line with the actor (who was straight). Instead he discovered that Matt was sad that a positive gay role model wasn’t around to inspire his brother who had committed suicide years prior.

While John was bawdy at times, he never crossed that line of being insulting. He respected his fans, and his co-workers.

For him, Torchwood opened doors and played a huge part of his life. “We loved this show. We loved doing it. We loved the characters that we played. We were family.”

Delightful, funny, charming and just a wee bit naughty – that pretty much sums up any encounter with the Torchwood gang.

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Why We Love John Barrowman

By Jason Clevett “You’re really tall...are things proportionate?” John Barrowman asks me as we pose for a photo, leaving me speechless for the second time in less than 10 minutes.

That simple fun and flirty statement pretty much sums up John Barrowman at the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo. Whether making out with InnerSPACE host Ajay Fry during his panel or “The Hub” evening host Shane Turgeon, teaming with Casper Van Dien to surprise Nathan Filion with a boa constrictor, or responding to a fan asking to grab his ass during a photo op with “at least stick a finger in”, Barrowman is instantly likeable and full of surprises.

“You don’t know what kind of underwear I have on, or if I am actually wearing underwear. You are desperate to look down but you aren’t going to,” he teased. The answer as fans found out over the weekend was Iron Man underwear on Saturday and Spiderman on Sunday. One of the most popular guests at this year’s event which featured a reunion with his Torchwood co-stars Eve Myles and Gareth David Lloyd (interviewed in the last edition).

“The thing is we are all crazy. Casper I haven’t seen in 12 years, we were brothers on a show called Titans for Aaron Spelling. I walked out of the elevator last night and there he was looking exactly the way he looked a long time ago except we both have some grey hair in places we won’t talk about.”

Barrowman is a man of many talents. He has his own skin care products, is an author and of course an actor, singer and dancer. From multiple theatre roles like Raoul in Phantom of the Opera and Billy Crocker in Anything Goes, he has conquered the theatre world and also released multiple albums. He has appeared in films such as The Producers but is most known for his portrayal of Captain Jack Harkness in Doctor Who and Torchwood. Many fans at the expo wanted to know if they would be seeing more of Captain Jack, including the upcoming 50th anniversary Doctor Who special.

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“I have no idea. I don’t know. That is the honest answer. Whether or not they decide to bring back Torchwood at some point it is their decision not ours. But Eve, Garreth, and I have always said when they do, if they want to revive Ianto or do a season that takes place before - who knows - but we would love to be there.” At his featured panel he told booing fans that he would not be part of the 50th anniversary. “I wasn’t asked, that’s it. I love that you are booing and that every other question is Why aren’t you in the 50th? I wasn’t asked, it is not my control; it is the BBC producers and those that make the decisions. They felt that they only wanted to bring back David and Rose which I think is a great idea. John Barrowman the fanboy is disappointed, I think I was a big part of the program but I am ok with it. That doesn’t mean you all can’t petition the shit out of it.”

Barrowman is keeping busy, currently acting in the hit CW show Arrow, which airs on CTV in Canada.

“Arrow has been incredible. Who can complain when I go into the makeup trailer and there’s Stephen Amell laying there in a loin cloth having scars and tattoos put on his body. That’s awesome. What’s really nice is that Malcolm Merlyn (his character) is an off the kilter hero, he thinks he is a hero which I love playing him that way. I am having a great time. The finale episode is like an episode on steroids times 100. The sequences we have filmed I could not believe what they were doing and how they were approaching it. I wrapped filming at 5:30 in the morning last Saturday and caught a plane back to Palm Springs. There have been people filming like that for the last 10 days. This is an episode where if

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 From Previous Page you haven’t watched Arrow you can watch it and get hooked on it. It is going to be awesome.”

“Save a horse ride a cowboy. Make me the Grand Marshall and I might think about coming. And then I’ll show up to the rodeo,” he jests.

Living in Wales with his partner of 20 years Scott Gills, Barrowman had an interesting outlook on how gay rights and gay characters are portrayed in Europe compared the USA.

Barrowman is one of the most successful out gay actors, something he attributes to his honesty and another appealing aspect of his character.

He was told by a gay producer early in his career to pretend to be straight, advice many actors have taken. Not in his case, and it has paid off.

“You are not going to like my answer. Although you think the UK is much further on - and they are in terms of rights for gay, lesbian, and transgendered people in Europe - Canada has been, well, progressive, and good on Canada for that, you have marriage already. But the United States are kind of in the 50’s where they were with black and white is where they are with the GLBT community. There is this fear that if we get marriage the place is just going to devour itself. I guarantee you that once marriage passes, because it will, the sun will still rise. People will still go to work and church and love each other but everybody will be equal. In terms of television, American TV has the most gay and lesbian characters in the world on TV. They are stereotypes. That is where it is different in Britain, everyone is not flouncy and a queen. We are actually men and women living lives like everyone else. That is where I think American television is progressing now, they are moving on to show the diversity of the gay community.”

Even if not a fan of John Barrowman before the expo, if you met him or interacted with him in any way then you became one almost instantly.

Despite his success he remains grounded. During his panel he told a story about an agent at the hotel cutting off two girls who were trying to get into the same elevator.

“I came into this business to work. Success and fame has come with it and I love it and thank everybody for giving me the life I always dreamed about and never thought I would ever have. When a lot of actors come into the business you know that becoming famous could happen, why become an asshole? Why become a dickhead? Just be yourself and embrace it and thank everybody for making you who you are.”

Calgary certainly loved John, who unfortunately mostly saw the city from the Parade of Wonders parade route and the hotel. Could he return to Calgary for say, a large gay event held at the end of June?

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“I ignored him of course as everybody should. I have a successful career and the fact of the matter is…I have been honest and truthful and the public is not stupid. People say that they are married because they are covering up because they are actually gay. It is not my job to out people, somebody might not be coming out for a personal emotional reason. When people do come out, that is their choice and that is what it should be. But you should never feel that you have to be in or pretend to be somebody else because of your work, and if you do then fuck that work. Go do something else and be yourself. I am adamant and very passionate about this because I was told to be straight when I was younger. I went home to my boyfriend, who has now been my partner of 20 years and said, Scott what should I do? and he asked what I wanted to do, and the answer was I don’t want to lie about my life. That was the defining moment. If anybody out there is going through that struggle confront your boss and the people and if they do fire you because of your sexuality, sue the shit out of them.”

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Dave Richards has done drag as Deva Dave on and off since 1995, ironically as the result of losing a bet. Today she is well known for her classy performances, and recently won first place in The Search for Calgary’s Next Drag Superstar, hosted by RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Sharon Needles at Cowboys Nigthclub. She has also been involved as a director on the ISCCA board for the past 2 1/2 years.

Dave is a business owner, having run DevaDave Salon and Boutique since 2004. The boutique carries a selection of men’s and women’s shoes and underwear, in addition to wigs and accessories. Between this and the Salon,

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Dave specializes in helping people to look their best. This includes working with drag performers to improve their art, and also with trans women as they are just beginning to change their appearance.

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Club Sapien (CLOSED)

 1140 10th Ave SW

Accommodations 13 Westways Guest House------------------- ✰

 216 - 25th Avenue SW  403-229-1758  1-866-846-7038  westways@shaw.ca  www.gaywestways.com

Bars & Clubs 3 Backlot---------------------------------- ✰  403-265-5211  Open 7 days a week, 2pm-close

 209 - 10th Ave SW

60 Cowboys Nightclub------------------------  421 12th Avenue SE 5 Texas Lounge------------------------------ ✰

 308 - 17 Ave SW  403-229-0911  www.goliaths.ca  Open 7 days a week, 11am-close 33 Twisted Element--------------------------- ✰

 1006 - 11th Ave SW  403-802-0230

 www.twistedelement.ca Dance Club and Lounge.

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59 East Village Bistro

 2nd floor, 610 - 8 Avenue SE Restaurant and lounge.

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 424a - 8th Ave SE

59 East Village Cafe-------------Bars and Clubs 60 Cowboys Nightclub-----------Bars and Clubs

Calgary Eagle Inc. (CLOSED)

FAB (CLOSED)

 1742 - 10th Ave SW

Bathhouses/Saunas 6 Goliaths------------------------------------ ✰

 308 - 17 Ave SW  403-229-0911  www.goliaths.ca  Open 7 days a week, 24 hours a day

Community Groups 2 AIDS Calgary--------------------------  110, 1603 10th Avenue SW  403-508-2500  info@aidscalgary.org  www.aidscalgary.org

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 403-398-9968  albetasocietyforkink@hotmail.com  http://ca.groups.yahoo.com/ group.albertasocietyforkink

Apollo Calgary - Friends in Sports

 www.apollocalgary.com  www.myapollo.com A volunteer operated, non-profit organization serving primarily members of the LGBT communities but open to all members of all communities. Primary focus is to provide members with well-organized and fun sporting events and other activities.

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Directory & Events Student Night------------------------  6pm-6am

Calgary Events

At 6 Goliaths

Mondays

Buddy Night-------------------------  6pm-6am At 6 Goliaths

ASK Meet and Greet----------------  7-9:30pm

 Bonasera (1204 Edmonton Tr. NE)

Inside Out Youth Group---------------- 7-9pm See 1 Calgary Outlink

Mosaic Youth Group--------------------  7-9pm

Running-----------------------------------  9am

Lesbian Seniors---------------------------  2pm

 Kerby Center, Sunshine Room 1133 7th Ave SW

Tuesdays See 1 Calgary Outlink

 1st

Student Night------------------------  6pm-6am At 6 Goliaths

Between Men--------------------------- 7-9pm See 1 Calgary Outlink

 2nd, 4th

Bootcamp---------------------------  7-8:30pm See

Apollo Calgary

Karaoke-------------------------  8pm-12:30am At 5 Texas Lounge

Fetish Slosh----------------------------  Evening At 3 Backlot

 2nd

Alcoholics Anonymous--------------------  8pm

 Hillhurst United Church (Gym Entrance) 1227 Kensington Close NW Wednesdays

Communion Service-----------------  12:10pm See

Knox United Church

Pool Night-----------------------------  Evening At 59 East Village Cafe with

Prime Timers Calgary

Wing Night------------------------------  5-8pm

 3rd

Uniform Night-----------------------  6pm-6am

By Different Strokes

 SAIT Pool (1301 - 16 Ave NW)

Calgary Networking Club-------------- 5-7pm

Swim Practice (June)------------  7:30-8:30pm

Apollo

Coffee------------------------------------ 10am

By Prime Timers Calgary  Midtown Co-op (1130 - 11th Ave SW)

Curling-------------------------  2:20 & 4:30pm See

Apollo Calgary

Alcoholics Anonymous--------------------  8pm

• Badminton (Absolutely Smashing)

 6020 - 4 Avenue NE  badminton@apollocalgary.com

• Boot Camp

 Platoon FX, 1351 Aviation Park NE  bootcamp@apollocalgary.com

• Bowling (Rainbow Riders League)

 Let’s Bowl (2916 5th Avenue NE)  bowling@apollocalgary.com

• Curling

 North Hill Curling Club (1201 - 2 Street NW)  curling@apollocalgary.com

• Golf

 golf@apollocalgary.com

• Lawn Bowling

 lawnbowling@apollocalgary.com

NAGVA Party---------------------------  All Day

By NAGVA at Backlot

NAGVA Tournament----------------  All Day

By Nagva ->May26 Friday, May 24th Queer Film Festival-----------------  All Day

By Fairy Tales ->May26th, May29-Jun1

Sundays

Saturday, May 25th

Lesbian Meetup Group-------------  7:30-9pm

Worship Time---------------------------- 10am

Kent Monkman Launch Party--------  7-10pm

Alcoholics Anonymous--------------------  8pm

Worship------------------------------  10:30am

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Apollo Calgary

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Karaoke-----------------------------------  7pm

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Deer Park United Church Scarboro United Church

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ISCCA at 3 Backlot

Glenbow Museum

Sunday, May 26th

Sunday Services---------------------  10:45am Hillhurst United Church

NAGVA Closing Party--------------------  Night

By NAGVA at Cowboys Night Club

Worship Services------------------------- 11am

Saturday, June 1st

Illusions-------------------------------  7-10pm

Int/Comp Volleyball----------- 12:15-1:45pm

Wild West Party------------------  9pm-2am

By ARGRA  Arrata Opera Centre (1315 - 7 Street SW)

Womynspace---------------------------- 7-9pm

Church Service----------------------------  4pm

Wednesday, June 5th

New Directions-------------------------- 7-9pm

Swim Practice (June)-------------------  5-6pm

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Fridays See 1 Calgary Outlink See 1 Calgary Outlink See 1 Calgary Outlink

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 2nd  3rd

Heading Out----------------------- 8pm-10pm See 1 Calgary Outlink

 4th

Rec Volleyball--------------------------- 7-9pm See

Apollo Calgary

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Rainbow Community Church

By Different Strokes

 SAIT Pool (1301 - 16 Ave NW)

3rd Anniversary Party-----------------  All Day By 3 Backlot

Friday, June 21st

Flashlight Night---------------------  6pm-6am At 6 Goliaths

Stomp and Swoosh-----------------------  8pm

By Calgary Men’s Chorus  Rosza Centre, U of C

Women’s Volleyball----------------  7-8:30pm See

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Legend:  = Monthly Reoccurrance,  = Date (Range/Future),  = Sponsored Event

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 outdoorpursuits@apollocalgary.com If it’s done outdoors, we do it. Volunteer led events all summer and winter. Hiking, camping, biking, skiing, snow shoeing, etc. Sign up at myapollo.org to get updates on the sport you like. We’re always looking for people to lead events.

• Running (Calgary Frontrunners)

 YMCA Eau Claire (4th St, 1st Ave SW)  calgaryfrontrunners@shaw.ca East Doors (directly off the Bow river pathway). Distances vary from 8 km - 15 km. Runners from 6 minutes/mile to 9+ minute miles.

• Slow Pitch

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• Squash

 Mount Royal University Recreation  squash@apollocalgary.com All skill levels welcome.

• Tennis

 tennis@apollocalgary.com

• Volleyball (Beach)

 vb@apollocalgary.com

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 Old Y Centre (303 – 223, 12 Ave SW)  403-234-8973  info@calgaryoutlink.ca  http://www.calgaryoutlink.com

• Volleyball (Recreational)

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• Volleyball (Competitive)

 recvb@apollocalgary.com

 1-877-OUT-IS-OK (1-877-688-4765) Front-line help service for GLBT individuals and their family and friends, or anyone questioning their sexuality.

• Yoga

 Robin: 403-618-9642  yoga@apollocalgary.com

Alberta Rockies Gay Rodeo Association (ARGRA)

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• Monthly Dances-------------------------  Arrata Opera Centre (1315 - 7 Street SW)

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 calgaryfathers@hotmail.com  http://www.calgarygayfathers.ca Peer support group for gay, bisexual and questioning fathers. Meeting twice a month.

Calgary Queer Book Club

Calgary Men’s Chorus

Deer Park United Church/Wholeness Centre

 77 Deerpoint Road SE  http://www.dpuc.ca

• Rehearsals

 Temple B’Nai Tikvah, 900 - 47 Avenue SW

Calgary Sexual Health Centre---------

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 Weeds Cafe (1903 20 Ave NW)

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BBQ-------------------------------------  Dinner

 Calgary Contd. 

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ISCCA at 3 Backlot

 Hillhurst United Church (Gym Entrance) 1227 Kensington Close NW

Bootcamp------------------------------- 7-8pm

At 59 East Village Cafe

• Western Cup 31

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Friday, May 17th

BBQ-------------------------------------  Dinner

 Old Y Centre (223 12th Ave SW)

At 6 Goliaths

Apollo Calgary

 Hillhurst United Church (Gym Entrance) 1227 Kensington Close NW Saturdays

Yoga-----------------------------  7:40-9:15pm See

Alcoholics Anonymous--------------------  8pm

 http://www.differentstrokescalgary.org

FairyTales Presentation Society

 403-244-1956

 http://www.fairytalesfilmfest.com Alberta Gay & Lesbian Film Festival.

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Directory & Events  Calgary Contd.

• DVD Resource Library

Over a hundred titles to choose from. Annual membership is $10.

Gay Friends in Calgary

 http://www.gayfriendsincalgary.ca Organizes and hosts social activities catered to the LGBT people and friends.

Girl Friends

 girlfriends@shaw.ca

 members.shaw.ca/girlfriends

Queers on Campus---------------------

 279R Student Union Club Spaces, U of C  403-220-6394  http://www.ucalgary.ca/~glass Formerly GLASS - Gay/Lesbian Association of Students and Staff.

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Hillhurst United Church

HIV Peer Support Group

 403-230-5832  hivpeergroup@yahoo.ca

ISCCA Social Association

 http://www.iscca.ca Imperial Sovereign Court of the Chinook Arch. Charity fundraising group..

Knox United Church

 506 - 4th Street SW  403-269-8382  http://www.knoxunited.ab.ca Knox United Church is an all-inclusive church located in downtown Calgary. A variety of facility rentals are also available for meetings, events and concerts.

Lesbian Meetup Group

 http://www.meetup.com/CalgaryLesbian Monthly events planned for Queer women over 18+ such as book clubs, games nights, movie nights, dinners out, and volunteering events.

Miscellaneous Youth Network

 http://www.miscyouth.com

• Fake Mustache • Mosaic Youth Group

 The Old Y Centre (223 12th Ave SW) For queer and trans youth and their allies.

Mystique

 mystiquesocialclub@yahoo.com Mystique is primarily a Lesbian group for women 30 and up but all are welcome.

• Coffee Night

 Good Earth Cafe (1502 - 11th Street SW)

NETWORKS

 networkscalgary@gmail.com A social, cultural, and service organization for the mature minded and “Plus 40” LGBT individuals seeking to meet others at age-appropriate activities within a positive, safe environment.

Parents for Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)

 Sean: 403-695-5791  http://www.pflagcanada.ca A registered charitable organization that provides support, education and resources to parents, families and individuals who have questions or concerns about sexual orientation or gender identity.

Positive Space Committee

 4825 Mount Royal Gate SW  403-440-6383  http://www.mtroyal.ca/positivespace Works to raise awareness and challenge the patterns of silence that continue to marginalize LGBTTQ individuals.

Pride Calgary Planning Committee

 www.pridecalgary.ca

Primetimers Calgary

 primetimerscalgary@gmail.com  http://www.primetimerscalgary.com Designed to foster social interaction for its members through a variety of social, educational and recreational

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 10242 106th St

Scarboro United Church

 134 Scarboro Avenue SW  403-244-1161  www.scarborounited.ab.ca An affirming congregation—the full inclusion of LGBT people is essential to our mission and purpose.

Sharp Foundation

Hooliganz Pub

 10704 124 St NW 12 Woody’s------------------------------------ ✰

 11725 Jasper Ave  780-488-6557

Bathhouses/Saunas

 403-543-6970  1-877-543-6970  http://www.mfmcommunications.com Web site hosting and development. Computer hardware and software.

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 11745 Jasper Ave  780-451-5554  http://www.steamworksedmonton.com

Community Groups

SafeWorks

Free and confidential HIV/AIDS and STI testing.

Alberta Bears

• Calgary Drop-in Centre

 www.beefbearbash.com

• Centre of Hope

 #44, 48 Brentwood Blvd, Sherwood Park, AB

 403-398-9968  info@altview.ca  www.altview.ca For gender variant and sexual minorities.

 Room 117, 423 - 4th Ave SE  403-699-8216  Mon-Fri: 9am-12pm, Sat: 12:15pm-3:15pm

AltView Foundation

 Room 201, 420 - 9th Ave SE  403-410-1180  Mon-Fri: 1pm-5pm

 403-272-2912  sharpfoundation@nucleus.com  http://www.thesharpfoundation.com

Book Worm’s Book Club

• Sheldon M. Chumir Health Centre

 1213 - 4th Str SW  403-955-6014  Sat-Thu: 4:15pm-7:45pm, Fri: Closed

Unity Bowling

 Let’s Bowl (2916 - 5th Ave NE)  sundayunity@live.com

• Safeworks Van

 1317-1st Street NW

Theatre & Fine Arts

Restaurants

36 ATP, Alberta Theatre Projects

 403-294-7402  http://www.ATPlive.com

59 East Village Cafe

 2nd floor, 610 - 8 Avenue SE Restaurant and lounge.

AXIS Contemporary Art--------------------

 107, 100 - 7 Ave SW  rob@axisart.ca

Retail Stores Adult Depot-----------------------------

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 140, 58th Ave SW  403-258-2777 Gay, bi, straight video rentals and sex toys.

41 La Fleur------------------------------------  103 - 100 7th Avenue SW  403-266-1707 Florist and Flower Shop.

The Naked Leaf----------------------------

 403-283-3555

16 Priape Calgary------------------------- ✰

 1322 - 17 Ave SW  403-215-1800  http://www.priape.com Clothing and accessories. Adult toys, leather wear, movies and magazines. Gifts.

Services & Products Calgary Civil Marriage Centre

 403-246-4134 (Rork Hilford)  MarriageCommissioner@shaw.ca Marriage Commissioner for Alberta (aka Justice of the Peace - JP), Marriage Officiant, Commissioner for Oaths.

24 Courtney Aarbo (Barristers & Solicitors)

 1138 Kensington Road NW  403-571-5120  http://www.courtneyaarbo.ca GLBT legal services.

Fairytales

Camp fYrefly

 7-104 Dept. of Educational Policy Studies Faculty of Education, University of Alberta Edmonton, Alberta, Canada T6G 2G5  http://www.fyrefly.ualberta.ca

 http://www.edmontonpride.ca

Jubilations Dinner Theatre

Edmonton Prime Timers

 Bow Trail and 37th St. SW  403-249-7799  www.jubilations.ca

35 One Yellow Rabbit-------------------------  Big Secret Theatre - EPCOR CENTRE  403-299-8888  www.oyr.org 37 Pumphouse Theatre------------------  2140 Pumphouse Avenue SW  403-263-0079  http://www.pumphousetheatres.ca

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 727 - 42 Avenue SE  403-243-6642  http://www.stagewestcalgary.com

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34 Vertigo Mystery Theatre------------------  161, 115 - 9 Ave SE  403-221-3708  http://www.vertigomysterytheatre.com

EDMONTON Bars & Clubs 6 Buddy’s Nite Club------------------------- ✰

 11725 Jasper Ave  780-488-6636

 780-471-6993  http://www.bucknakedboys.ca Naturism club for men—being social while everyone is naked, and it does not include sexual activity. Participants do not need to be gay, only male.

Edmonton Pride Festival Society (EPFS)

See Calgary - Community Groups.

Cruiseline

 403-777-9494 trial code 3500  http://www.cruiseline.ca Telephone classifieds and chat - 18+ ONLY.

 403-262-3356  www.axisart.ca

58 Theatre Junction----------------------  Theatre Junction GRAND, 608 1st St. SW  403-205-2922  info@theatrejunction.com  http://www.theatrejunction.com

 Howard McBride Chapel of Chimes 10179 - 108 Street  bookworm@teamedmonton.ca

Buck Naked Boys Club

 403-850-3755  Sat-Thu: 8pm-12am, Fri: 4pm-12am

Wild Rose United Church

 780-938-2941

The Junction (CLOSED)

MFM Communications

 www.sutr.ca A collaborative effort dedicated to building capacity and acting as a voice for the LGBTQ community, service providers, organizations and the community at large to address violence. For same-sex domestic violence information, resources and a link to our survey please see our website.

 305 10th Street NW  http://www.thenakedleaf.ca Organic teas and tea ware.

Duncan’s Residential Cleaning

 403-461-9195  http://www.lornedoucette.com

Safety Under the Rainbow

 1227 Kensington Close NW  (403) 283-1539  office@hillhurstunited.com  www.hillhurstunited.com

14 FLASH (CLOSED)

 10018 105 Street  flashnightclub@hotmail.com

Lorne Doucette (CIR Realtors)

 2nd Cup, Kensington

Girlsgroove

DevaDave Salon & Boutique

 810 Edmonton Trail NE  403-290-1973 Cuts, Colour, Hilights.

 Jim Duncan: 403-978-6600 Residential cleaning. Free estimates.

• Coffee Night

 http://www.girlsgroove.ca

 403-797-6564

activities. Open to all gay and bisexual men of any age, respects whatever degree of anonymity that each member desires.

 edmontonpt@yahoo.ca  www.primetimersww.org/edmonton Group of older gay men and their admirers who come from diverse backgrounds but have common social interests.

Affiliated with Prime Timers World Wide.

Edmonton Rainbow Business Association

 3379, 11215 Jasper Ave  780-429-5014  http://www.edmontonrba.org Primary focus is the provision of networking opportunities for LGBT owned or operated and LGBT-friendly businesses in the Edmonton region.

Edmonton Illusions Social Club

 5 The Junction  780-387-3343

 groups.yahoo.com/group/edmonton_illusions 4 Edmonton STD

 11111 Jasper Ave

Edmonton Vocal Minority

 780-479-2038  www.evmchoir.com

 sing@evmchoir.com

GLBTQ Sage Bowling Club

 780-474-8240

 tuff@shaw.ca

HIV Network Of Edmonton Society----

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by HIV.

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1 Pride Centre of Edm.---- Community Groups

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Mondays

Boot Camp------------------------------ 7-8pm Team Edmonton

TTIQ------------------------------------- 7-9pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

 1st, 3rd

HIV Support Group--------------------- 7-9pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

 2nd

Tuesdays

QH Youth Drop-in---------------------- 3-8pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Martial Arts---------------------  7:30-8:30pm See

Team Edmonton

Swim Practice-------------------  7:30-8:30pm See

4 Edmonton STD---------- Community Groups

Knotty Knitters-------------------------- 6-8pm

Edmonton Events See

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Team Edmonton

QH Craft Night-------------------------- 6-8pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Cycling---------------------------  6:30-7:30pm See

Team Edmonton

Yoga---------------------------------  7:30-8pm See

Team Edmonton

11 Steamworks----------------------Bathhouses

Fridays

Men Talking with Pride---------------- 7-9pm

QH Youth Drop-in---------------------- 3-8pm

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

QH Anime Night------------------------ 6-8pm

See

Movie Night----------------------------- 6-9pm

 Unitarian Church (10804 119th Street) See Edmonton Primetimers

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Men’s Games Nights--------------  7-10:30pm See

Thursdays

Men’s Games Nights

 2nd, Last

QH Youth Drop-in---------------------- 3-8pm

Youth Sports/Recreation-----------------  4pm

Youth Sports/Recreation-----------------  4pm

Saturdays

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton See

Youth Understanding Youth

QH Game Night------------------------ 6-8pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Swim Practice--------------------------- 7-8pm See

Wednesdays

6 Buddy’s / 12 Woody’s-------Bars and Clubs

Team Edmonton

See

Youth Understanding Youth

Team Edmonton

Monthly Meetings---------------------  2:30pm

Iconika III--------------------------  9:30pm

By ISCWR  Mercury Room (10575 114 St.)

BEEF UnderBear Party

Buck Naked Boys Club

 2nd

QH Youth Drop-in------------------  2-6:30pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

Monthly Meeting----------------------  2:30pm

By Edmonton Primetimers  Unitarian Church, 10804 - 119th Street

 2nd

By Fellowship of Alberta Bears Saturday, June 8th PURE Pride Dance---------------------  9pm

By PURE Pride at  10030 - 102 Street

Bearracuda Dance------------------------  9pm

GLBTQ Bowling------------------  1:30-3:30pm

Women’s Social Circle------------------ 6-9pm

QH Youth Drop-in---------------------- 3-8pm

Book Club-----------------------------  7:30pm

Bowling-----------------------------------  5pm

Sunday, June 9th

Youth Sports/Recreation-----------------  4pm

Martial Arts---------------------  7:30-8:30pm

Sundays

By Fellowship of Alberta Bears

Running------------------------------  10-11am

Friday, June 14th

Yoga---------------------------------  2-3:30pm

By ISCWR

See

GLBTQ Sage Bowling Club

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

See 1 Youth Understanding Youth

Counseling----------------------  5:30-8:30pm See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton

See 1 Pride Centre of Edmonton See See

 2nd, 4th

BookWorm’s Book Club

 3rd

Team Edmonton

Intermediate Volleyball--------  7:30-9:30pm See

Team Edmonton

See

See See

Team Edmonton

Team Edmonton

BEEF Bear Bust BBQ

Gay Edmonton Pageant------------------- TBA

Jun15

Legend:  = Monthly Reoccurrance,  = Date (Range),  = Sponsored Event

InQueeries

 inqueeries@gmail.com Student-run GLBTQ Alliance at MacEwan University.

Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose

 http://www.iscwr.ca

Living Positive Society of Alberta

 #50, 9912 - 106 Street 780-423-3737  http://www.facebook.com/LivingPoz Living Positive through Positive Living.

Men’s Games Nights

 Unitarian Church (10804 119th Street)

 780-474-8240  tuff@shaw.ca

OUTreach

 University of Alberta, basement of SUB  outreach@ualberta.ca  http://www.ualberta.ca/~outreach Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender/transsexual, Queer, Questioning and Straight-but-not-Narrow student group.

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 10608 - 105 Ave  780-488-3234  admin@pridecentreofedmonton.org  http://www.pridecentreofedmonton.org  Tue-Fri 12pm-9pm, Sat 2pm-6:30pm We provide a safe, welcoming, and non-judgemental

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 Edmonton Contd.

Pride Centre of Edmonton-------------

 2nd

Sunday, May 19th

Friday, June 7th

Naturalist Gettogether See

Ballroom Dancing--------------  7:30-8:30pm

drop-in space, and offer support programs and resources for members of the GLBTQ community and for their families and friends.

• Queer HangOUT: Craft Night

• Counselling

Come and watch ALL the anime until your heart is content.

 780.488.3234 Free, short-term counselling provided by registered counsellors.

• HIV Support Group

 huges@shaw.ca Support and discussion group for gay men.

• Knotty Knitters

Come knit and socialize in a safe and accepting environment - all skill levels are welcome.

• Men Talking with Pride

Come OUT and embrace your creative side in a safe space.

• Queer HangOUT: Anime Night • TTIQ

A support and information group for all those who fall under the transgender umbrella and their family or supporters.

• Women’s Social Circle

 andrea@pridecentreofedmonton.org Women’s Social Circle: A social support group for all female-identified persons over 18 years of age in the GLBT community - new members are always welcome.

Seniors Association of Greater Edmonton

 robwells780@hotmail.com Support & social group for gay & bisexual men to discuss current issues.

 780-474-8240

 tuff@shaw.ca

• Movie Night

 president@teamedmonton.ca  http://www.teamedmonton.ca Members are invited to attend and help determine the board for the next term. If you are interested in running for the board or getting involved in some of the committees, please contact us.

Movie Night is open to everyone! Come over and sit back, relax, and watch a movie with us.

• Queer HangOUT: Game Night

Come OUT with your game face on and meet some awesome people through board game fun.

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• Badminton (Mixed)

 St. Thomas Moore School, 9610 165 Street

 coedbadminton@teamedmonton.ca New group seeking male & female players.

• Badminton (Women’s)

 Oliver School, 10227 - 118 Street  780-465-3620

 badminton@teamedmonton.ca Women’s Drop-In Recreational Badminton. $40.00 season or $5.00 per drop in.

•Ballroom Dancing

 Foot Notes Dance Studio, 9708-45 Avenue NW  Cynthia: 780-469-3281

• Blazin’ Bootcamp

 Garneau Elementary School 10925 - 87 Ave  bootcamp@teamedmonton.ca

• Bowling (Northern Titans)

 Ed’s Rec Room (West Edmonton Mall)

 bowling@teamedmonton.ca $15.00 per person.

• Cross Country Skiing

 crosscountry@teamedmonton.ca

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Lethbridge Events

Wednesdays

Friday, June 7th

LGBT Coffee Night------------------------  7pm

Queerioke

See

CAANS

 1st

Pride in the Park-------------------------  1pm

Sunday, June 16th

Pride Week-----------------------------  All Day

By Lethbridge Pride at Galt Gardens

Saturday, June 22nd

By Lethbridge Pride at Cultural Arts Centre

By Lethbridge Pride

By Lethbridge Pride at Back Draft

Jun22

Pride Dance-------------------------------  8pm

Pride Parade----------------------------- 12pm

By Lethbridge Pride

 Edmonton Contd.

• Curling with Pride

 Granite Curling Club, 8620 107 Street NW  curling@teamedmonton.ca

• Cycling (Edmonton Prideriders)

 Dawson Park, picnic shelter  cycling@teamedmonton.ca

• Dragon Boat (Flaming Dragons)

 dragonboat@teamedmonton.ca

• Volleyball, Intermediate • Volleyball, Recreational

 Mother Teresa School (9008 - 105 Ave)  recvolleyball@teamedmonton.ca

• Women’s Lacrosse

• Golf

 golf@teamedmonton.ca

 Sharon: 780-461-0017  Pam: 780-436-7374 Open to women 21+, experienced or not, all are welcome.

Call for info.

• Gymnastics, Drop-in

• Yoga

 Ortona Gymnastics Club, 8755 - 50 Avenue  gymnastics@teamedmonton.ca Have the whole gym to yourselves and an instructor to help you achieve your individual goals. Cost is $5.00 per session.

• Hockey

 hockey@teamedmonton.ca

• Martial Arts

 15450 - 105 Ave (daycare entrance)  780-328-6414  kungfu@teamedmonton.ca  kickboxing@teamedmonton.ca Drop-ins welcome.

• Outdoor Pursuits

 outdoorpursuits@teamedmonton.ca

• Running (Arctic Frontrunners)

 Kinsmen Sports Centre  running@teamedmonton.ca All genders and levels of runners and walkers are invited to join this free activity.

• Slo Pitch

 Parkallen Field, 111 st and 68 ave  slo-pitch@teamedmonton.ca Season fee is $30.00 per person. $10 discount for players from the 2008 season.

• Snowballs V

 January 27-29, 2012  snowballs@teamedmonton.ca Skiing and Snowboarding Weekend.

• Soccer

 soccer@teamedmonton.ca

• Spin

 MacEwan Centre for Sport and Wellness 109 St. and 104 Ave  Wednesdays, 5:45-6:45pm Season has ended.  spin@teamedmonton.ca 7 classes, $28.00 per registrant.

• Swimming (Making Waves)

 NAIT Pool (11762 - 106 Street)  swimming@teamedmonton.ca  www.makingwavesswimclub.ca

• Tennis

 Kinsmen Sports Centre  Sundays, 12pm-3pm

 tennis@teamedmonton.ca

• Ultimate Frisbee

 Sundays Summer Season starts July 12th  ultimatefrisbee@teamedmonton.ca E-mail if interested.

Theatre & Fine Arts

 Amiskiwacy Academy (101 Airport Road)  volleyball@teamedmonton.ca

 Lion's Breath Yoga Studio (10350-124 Street)  yoga@teamedmonton.ca

Exposure Festival

 http://www.exposurefestival.ca Edmonton’s Queer Arts and Culture Festival.

Youth Understanding Youth

 780-248-1971  www.yuyedm.ca A support and social group for queer youth 12-25.

• Sports and Recreation

The Roxy Theatre

BANFF Community Groups Bow Valley Cares Centre

 302 Buffalo Street, Banff, AB  PO Box 3160, Banff, AB T1L 1C8  403-762-0690  1-877-440-2437  info@aidscalgary.org

LETHBRIDGE Community Groups

 Brendan: 780-488-3234  brendan@pridecentreofedmonton.org

GALA/LA

Restaurants The Junction (Closed)----------------------

 10242 106th St

 780-756-5667

12 Woody’s------------------------------------ ✰

 11725 Jasper Ave  780-488-6557

Retail Stores Passion Vault

 15239 - 111 Ave  780-930-1169  pvault@telus.net “Edmonton’s Classiest Adult Store”

Products & Services Cruiseline

 780-413-7122 trial code 3500  http://www.cruiseline.ca Telephone classifieds and chat - 18+ ONLY.

 403-308-2893  http://www.galalethbridge.ca Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Lethbridge and Area.

• Monthly Dances

 Henotic (402 - 2 Ave S) Bring your membership card and photo ID.

• Monthly Potluck Dinners

• Soul OUTing

 Second Sunday every month, 7pm An LGBT-focused alternative worship.

• Film Night

 Bi-monthly, contact us for exact dates.

• Book Club

 Monthly, contact us for exact dates.

 Sunnybrook United Church  403-347-6073  2nd Tuesday of the month, 7pm Composed of LGBTQ people, their friends, family and allies. No religious affiliation necessary. Activities include support, faith and social justice discussions, film nights, and potlucks!

Central Alberta AIDS Network Society

 4611-50 Avenue, Red Deer, AB  http://www.caans.org The Central Alberta AIDS Network Society is the local charity responsible for HIV prevention and support in Central Alberta.

LGBTQ Education

 LGBTQeducation@hotmail.ca  http://LGBTQeducation.webs.com Red Deer (and area) now has a website designed to bring various LGBTQ friendly groups/individuals together for fun, and to promote acceptance in our communities.

Pride on Campus

 rdcprideoncampus@gmail.com A group of LGBTQ persons and Allies at Red Deer College.

MEDICINE HAT Community Groups Medicine Hat Cares Centre

 McKillop United Church, 2329 - 15 Ave S GALA/LA will provide the turkey...you bring the rest. Please bring a dish to share that will serve 4-6 people, and your own beverage.

 356 - 2 Street SE, Medicine Hat, AB  403-527-5882  1-877-440-2437  info@aidscalgary.org

• Support Line

 M-F, 8:30am - 11:30pm

 403-308-2893  Monday OR Wednesday, 7pm-11pm Leave a message any other time.

• Friday Mixer

• Telephone Support • In-person Support

 M-T: 1:30pm - 4:30pm  W-F: 8:30am - 4:30pm

ALBERTA

 The Mix (green water tower) 103 Mayor Magrath Dr S  Every Friday at 10pm

Robertson-Wesley United Church

 10209 - 123 St. NW  780-482-1587  jravenscroft@rwuc.org  www.rwuc.org  Worship: Sunday mornings at 10:30am People of all sexual orientations welcome. Other LGBT events include a monthly book club and a bi-monthly film night. As a caring spiritual community, we’d love to have you join us!

Community Groups Affirm

 10708 124th Street, Edmonton AB  780-453-2440  www.theatrenetwork.ca

Womonspace

 780-482-1794  womonspace@gmail.com  www.womonspace.ca Women’s social group, but all welcome at events.

RED DEER

Gay & Lesbian Integrity Assoc. (GALIA)

 University of Lethbridge GBLTTQQ club on campus.

 galia@uleth.ca

• Movie Night

 Room C610, University of Lethbridge

Gay Youth Alliance Group

 Betty, 403-381-5260  bneil@chr.ab.ca  Every second Wednesday, 3:30pm-5pm

Lethbridge HIV Connection

 1206 - 6 Ave S

Community Groups Alberta Trans Support/Activities Group

 http://www.albertatrans.org A nexus for transgendered persons, regardless of where they may be on the continuum.

Theatre & Fine Arts Alberta Ballet

 http://www.albertaballet.com Frequent productions in Calgary and Edmonton.

PFLAG Canada

 1-888-530-6777

 lethbridgeab@pflagcanada.ca  www.pflagcanada.ca

Pride Lethbridge

 lethbridgepridefest@gmail.com

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Come on down to the Backlot the 2nd Tuesday of every month for a no-cover Fetish party.

Upcoming dates are November 13, December 11th, etc. You can dress up in Leather, Latex, cuffs, collars, or just your skivvies. Have the conversation you like without offending a vanilla in sight. The Backlot supports and promotes the alternative lifestyles of Calgary so feel free to express your KINK!

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Does your home or business need a professional cleaner? Steve is bonded/Insured.

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Clothing/Fashion

Twice Trendy!

Used Quality Clothing Most clothing $3! New style? New family?

Broke as a joke? We have a great selection of gently used clothing for men, women, children and babies. We also keep a selection of furniture and housewares too! Twice trendy makes it easy to get quality style without destroying your wallet. Come check us out! #14, 3434 - 34 Ave NE.

Consulting Best Erotic Male Massage In Calgary • Studio with free parking• Deep Tissue and Relaxation • Licensed, Professional • Video on website 403-680-0533 mike@ultimatemalemassage.com

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CANADA Community Groups Canadian Rainbow Health Coalition

 P..O. Box 3043, Saskatoon, SK, S7K 3S9  (306) 955-5135  1-800-955-5129  http://www.rainbowhealth.ca

Egale Canada

 8 Wellington St E, Third Floor Toronto, Ontario, M5E 1C5  1-888-204-7777  www.egale.ca Egale Canada is the national advocacy and lobby organization for gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, transidentified people and our families.

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Theatre & Fine Arts Broadway Across Canada

 http://www.broadwayacrosscanada.ca

OUTtv

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