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Issue: 9 BEAUTY FOR THE AGES

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12 ASK CARRIE M. 15 FIT & FUN 16 LET’S TALK ABOUT IT 19 REPAIR TIRED HAIR 20 TRINKETS & TREASURES

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25 NEW VIEW 27 HOLIDAY TRADITIONS 33 DO WHAT YOU LOVE 34 A FORCE OF NATURE 36 POWER FROM FLOWER

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40 ‘TIS THE SEASON 44 KAMA FASHIONDRAMA 46 SCRUFFY KNOX 48 THE UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE OF DANCE 51 JOYEUX NOËL

52 TIME FOR TRAVEL

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54 LET HER IN & LISTEN

75 WINE & DRINKS

56 FASHION AT WESTWOOD 70 THEATRE SCENE

76 POETRY 79 TRIBUTE TO JTV 81 SPOTLIGHT

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Publisher George Laurence Krieps georgelaurence1@gmail.com Managing Editor Katie Rymer Graphic Designer Cassy Hayes Fashion Director Susan Bourdeau

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Intern Chelsea Babin Videographer Monica Hoss

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he holiday season is a joyous time for many, but not all, so we put this edition together to bring a little happiness to the world. Keep reading and you may be inspired to begin a new tradition, pick up a new hobby, shift into a new career or start a new book. You will see beautiful photography, read original poetry and meet interesting people—all connected to Knoxville.

We focus on Knoxville women because that’s what we are, and we think it’s refreshing to be free from drama and competition and comparisons. Our mission is to encourage, inspire and inform women of all ages, all stages and all sizes.

We are a diverse group passionate about food, nature, art, poetry, skincare, fashion, and above all, people. Our hope is to leave you better than we found you, and for the ripple of good cheer to spread through our town and beyond.

Contributors Susan Bourdeau Beauty for the Ages Carrie McConkey Ask Carrie M. Betsy Johnson Fit & Fun Raye-Anne Ayo, MD Women’s Health Shane Archer Repair Tired Hair Kristie Carson Treasures & Trinkets Courtney Cunningham New View Sarah Hans Do What You Love Rachel Wilhelm A Force of Nature Kati Blalock Power from Flower Whitney Bowman Entertaining Lili Vincent KAMA Fashiondrama 2018 Elizabeth Willien Scruffy Knox Emily Norris The Universal Language of Dance Nicole Montgomery Joyeux Noël Kelly Lashley Time for Travel Madelyn Cunningham Let Her In & Listen Annette Brun Knox Heritage Madeline Lewis Theatre Scene Ashlea Bushman Ownbey Book Nook Shawn Mason Wine & Drinks McNeeley Moore Poetry Chelsea Babin Tribute to JTV Marty Brown Spotlight Contributing Photographers Andrea Hagood Megan Clute Photography Chelsea Babin Katie Rymer

See you in 2019!

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PHOTOGRAPH BY ANDREA HAGOOD STYLING BY SUSAN BOURDEAU HAIR & MAKEUP BY GROW A SHANE ARCHER CONCEPT CLOTHING BY JANICE ANN’S FASHIONS

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Knoxville Comprehensive Breast Center is celebrating 35 years of service to the women of EAST TENNESSEE

First in-office needle biopsy, so women didn’t have to go to the hospital or operating room

1985 1983 Opened the first breast center in Knoxville, which was woman owned, independent, and the only one within 700 miles

First multidisciplinary conference, which brought all the physicians involved in treating breast cancer together to customize and personalize every patient’s treatment

1997 1988 First mobile mammography program in East Tennessee.

KCBC’s mobile drives to surrounding areas for women who don’t have access to quality breast imaging

First Hologic digital mammography, which allows for more clarity when reading mammograms

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2002 First dedicated breast MRI, designed exclusively for diagnosing breast cancer and women’s comfort

Freezing small breast cancers in the office instead of the operating room which lessens recovery time and surgical scars

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2018 The first to offer “no compression” breast imaging, it’s 3D mammography but better

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HEAVY METALS New super pigmented metallics are a fun way to make a bold and daring statement while adding shimmer, shine and depth. Supermodels add to their cheekbones, lips and even eyebrows, but it’s not a good look for the rest of us, so just stick with TIP the lids!

Sizzling shades

are rose gold, copper, gold, green, and purple.

During the day, wear a light wash of color. At night, add more pigment to emphasize your eyes. Super-matte shadows paired with hyper-metallic shades allow you to really sculpt your eye shadow, since matte absorbs light and the shimmers make it pop.

LAVENDER LOVE Lavender is feminine, edgy, and chic.

The trick to keeping this bold trend wearable is to create depth and mix textures. Apply a pale lavender shadow across the lids, then a darker shade along the crease and lash lines. Keep the rest of your makeup neutral!

WARM UP WINTER SKIN

All skin tones can wear lavender, but keep the tones in relation to your own. Lighter skin tones wear lighter shades. Darker skin tones wear darker shades to avoid looking ashy.

When your summer glow starts to go, reach for a bronzer to perk up your winter skin.

Make sure to choose the right tone to give your cheeks a soft, natural-looking glow.

If you have darker skin, pick a color that’s more brown and orange; lighter tones should stick with golds and pinks.

And don’t forget your neck!

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SERUMS AND DERMA-ROLLERS Wondering which serum you should use with your derma-roller? I recommend a hyaluronic acid-based serum because it holds up to 1000 times its own weight in water and can hydrate and plump your skin from the inside-out.

This wonder ingredient is a real boost to your anti-aging routine, especially when paired with a derma-roller. It helps improve firmness and elasticity, giving skin a more youthful and bouncy appearance.

You can still use blush when using a bronzer, just make sure they have the same color undertone.

THE DERMA ROLLER Derma-rolling, or micro-needling, is the practice of gently rolling the head of a tool covered in tiny spikes over the skin’s surface causing tiny and painless micro-injuries to bump up collagen and elastin production. Crepey skin gets plumped and fine lines and wrinkles diminish.

Use a serum with your derma-roller to act as a buffer TIP between the needles and your skin. For really Avoid serums with deep lines, severe age spots, heavy bags and acne Retin-A or Vitamin scarring, consult a physician about fractional rejuC, as they can cause irritation. venation, it’s like micro-needling on steroids. This professional treatment slows the effects of aging and restores skin to its youthful appearance.

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How to Apply A Jewel-Tone

Smoky Eye Makeup People often have misconceptions about the term “smoky” eye. They think it means black, but in makeup terminology, a smoky eye means a gradation of color, which can easily be done in in jewel tones. Making this look modern is all about how and where you place your colors, and your application technique. With a little practice you can get this down.

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Chose an eye shadow combo in the colors you want to try!

Apply a little of your foundation to the lids then dust with a nude shadow all over the eyelid as the base. Apply a flesh tone eye pencil to the lower water line (the inside of your eyelid), to reduce redness and brighten up the eyes.

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Apply a liner right in between your lashes, pulling up ever so slightly. After you’ve done that all over your top lid you need to smudge it. Use a brush or your finger to soften the line, creating a smoky effect. The line should gradually get thicker as you go from the inside of your lid to the outside corners.

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Now you’re ready for color! Place the richest shade of your palette in the crease, exaggerating the outer corner just a bit. Use the 2/3’s rule, applying to the outer two-thirds of your lid.

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On the lid, use a slightly more muted tone from your palette.

Then, take a flat shadow brush and blend it over the lid. Since this will be in the center of your eye, it’s a good idea to use something with a slight shimmer. Use the lightest color in your palette to highlight the inner corner of your eye. This should all blend right into your contour and come together nicely.

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For the last step with your palette, dip an angled liner brush into the darkest eye shadow shade, then trace your original eyeliner application to intensify it. This time, however, you want to extend it a bit beyond the outer corner, so it plays very subtly on the shape of a cat’s eye.

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The most important finishing step for any eye look is curling your lashes. It’s one of my favorite tools. Simply get as close to the base of the lashline as possible, and count to 10 on each side. This will open the eye dramatically. Finish with a couple of coats of black mascara, and you’re good to go!

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THE BEST

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othing spices up your holiday beauty routine quite like rocking a festive new lip color for those very special occasions. And just like we dress to impress for each holiday party, don’t forget to dress up your visage with a swipe of bold lip color!

At this season’s parties, keep it fresh and new with the hottest Holiday Lip Colors: Deep Raspberry, Orange Fizz, and Pink Pizazz!!

Try something a little different this holiday season.

Deep Raspberry It’s sexy and flattering on all skin tones.

A cross between a classic red and a bright pink, you get the best of both hues with this trending shade. A real lip color must-have for the modern woman of the ages.

Pink Pizazz A creamy, pink lip is a classic and romantic option for any holiday ensemble, especially if you’re going for a little more subdued look. This shade is always a fan favorite because it goes on so smoothly and has a great velvety finish that isn’t too matte.

Orange Fizz This deep orange is my favorite bold pick, especially when I’m already going with a festive and bright party outfit. Pairing this rich orange with complementary colors such as fuchsia or bright red makes the ultimate statement. What better time of year to step outside your fashion comfort zone?

Susan Bourdeau is a nationally recognized makeup artist and wardrobe stylist with 20 years’ experience in television, film and print, and recently developed her own line of cosmetic and skincare products available at Laura’s Nail Salon, Janice Ann’s Fashions and Family Health Center.

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ask CARRIE M. For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.

A dressmaker in a former life, Knoxville Fashion Consultant Carrie McConkey is a “clothes whisperer” for her clients, taking great pleasure in helping them unlock their signature style.

- Audrey Hepburn How do I dress for the holidays without breaking the bank?

Choose a statement piece for the holidays that can be styled based upon the location and purpose of the parties you will attend. Try a sequined bolero jacket with a silk blouse and trousers for a business soiree. Use the same bolero over a black dress for an intimate candlelit gathering. A glittery rhinestone necklace can be worn with an evening gown to a gala, and with a t-shirt, boyfriend jacket, jeans and heels to your child’s Christmas play.

Match the corresponding “elegance level” of each occasion and don’t be afraid to overdress (people may comment; they are just jealous because you look great). My number one cheap and fail-safe method of dressing up ANY outfit: a chic updo and impeccable makeup!

What do you do when the colors you wear aren’t in style?

As a certified Color Analyst, I appreciate the frustration of manufacturers declaring the “in” colors, leaving our favorite hues missing in action. Shopping at discount or consignment stores can help, as they carry clothing from a variety of recent seasons. The British company Kettlewell designed their line of clothing to serve the color-starved; their searchable-by-color website features core basics. Also, try TheDressSpot. com, where dozens of dresses can be searched by color, silhouette, and cost. Finally, when you do see an item in your color, buy it even if you don’t foresee an immediate need!

What kind of winter coat should I buy?

A winter coat is often overlooked as a key statement piece that can go a long way towards a great first impression. During frigid months, your signature style can be on display as you make a grand entrance wrapped in a fabulous coat. Look for a color that will brighten up chilly days (and people’s spirits) such as pale pink, red, or robin’s egg blue. Seek out details

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such as a detachable fur collar. I love Cole Haan and J. Crew for unique coats in classic cuts. Or, check vintage stores for timeless, one-of-a-kind styles (try Retrospect or Nostalgia). And finally, search for a coat that suits your body temperature. I am one of the coldest human beings on the planet year-round, so I always look for a high collar and knee- or calf-length.

I can’t seem to figure out how to wear scarves and what works for me.

Fashion scarves can make a casual outfit chic and a dressy outfit unforgettable. I’m a scarf lover but will admit I’ve often been stumped about how to wear them without looking like a stewardess. I’ve come to realize that one cannot buy a scarf based on its beauty alone. Seek out the right size, color, and fabric for your build, coloring, and personality. Start by looking for quality-made scarves of silk or lightweight cotton with inconspicuous hems (hand-rolled are best). Hit the stores and try different shapes, making sure the scarf volume complements your body shape and doesn’t over- or underwhelm. View scarf-tying videos—I love “My Top Ten Ways to Wear a Scarf” by Dominique Sachse. Practice and choose which look feels right for you and make it a part of your signature style.

How many times can you wear a formal dress before it’s time to say “bye bye”?

I say until the gown no longer “sparks joy,” as my favorite organizer Marie Kondo preaches. If the dress fits, is a classic style, and in great shape, why part with it? Wear it in rotation every two or three years and try changing it up with different jewelry and shoes. What if it is a distinctive show-stopper and has limited versatility? If you feel beautiful in it, keep it around and carefully gauge the purpose and guest list (and photo ops) of the events to which you wear it. Or, consider the version 2.0 treatment: can it be shortened, dyed, or otherwise altered to create a new look?s Do you have questions for Carrie? Email her at carrie@carriemfashionconsulting.com https://carriemfashionconsulting.com/ Facebook: @carriemfashionconsulting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ carriemfashionconsulting

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Calming the Mind and Getting Outside As the days grow shorter and the nights longer, the end of the year and holidays always seem to come quickly upon us and everything takes on a frenzied pace.

We have parties with every type of food and drink imaginable, kids activities and events, Christmas cards, shopping for gifts and everything in between. I love the excitement during November and December, especially when the weather starts to get cooler and the leaves put on their beautiful display; however, the one aspect that I don’t enjoy is that half of the time, I feel like I’m falling behind and that I’m not doing enough. In spite of the fact that I’m running a million miles per hour while just trying to check things off of my list, I realize that I should be slowing down and enjoying this special season.

Early in our marriage when my husband and I started feeling overcome by the hectic holiday pace, we decided to start a yearly family tradition by going outside and escaping from the holiday commotion and hiking for a day. Being so blessed to have the incredible Smoky Mountains in our backyard, we pledged that this would not only be a onetime break in our schedule, but an annual “tradition” we keep no matter what. After just one year, it became a family priority for celebrating the holidays. Typically, we take our hike around Thanksgiving, and have done the treks in rain, snow and ice. No matter the weather or our other schedules, we

do it to get away. Our two sons were babies when we started this tradition, and now they know and look forward to doing this every year. We unplug ourselves from our devices and from the busy activities and just make quality time for us to be together as a family.

Not only is a hike a great way to burn calories with the increase of holiday treats that we all consume over November and December, but there are many other benefits from just getting outside and hiking. As an exercise it tones the whole body, helps prevent and control diabetes by lowering blood sugar levels, and helps lower blood pressure and cholesterol. Hiking is known to increase happiness and curb depression, as well as increase mental creativity. Most importantly, hiking brings people together. Being outdoors and away from technology and the chaos of our daily lives allows people to connect with themselves and nature in a way that brings about peace and a sense of well-being. As our boys are getting older, I find it harder and harder to get them to talk while distracted by high tech and busy schedules, but by being outside with them, they talk incessantly about anything and everything, while making priceless memories together as a family.

The next time your family asks you what you want to do over the Thanksgiving or Christmas break, think of going on a hike together and getting outdoors and creating new memories for your entire family. I think you too will decide to make it an annual family tradition.

Betsy Johnson runs all over Knoxville, either training for her next event or taking her two sons to their practice or game.

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he holidays are coming and so is the season of stress! What are we going to do about the gifts, the parties, the family coming into town and, and, and. . .? It seems like by the time Halloween finally comes, I look up to find it is already the next year and I have to try to make my brain write the new number.

This year, let’s try something new to maybe have less stress! If I told you that being mindful and meditating could make dramatic physical improvements, would you do it?

Let’s define what I mean by ‘being mindful and meditating.’ Mindfulness is being completely aware of one’s thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis. Meditation is spending time in quiet thought. We can be mindful this holiday season in many ways. One way is through mindful breathing or abdominal breathing. Sit in a relaxed position and close your eyes. Inhale through your nose for a count of four (allowing your abdomen to expand), then hold that breath for a count of four, but no longer than seven counts. Then, exhale the same breath through your mouth slowly for a count of eight. Do this for 5-10 cycles, or until you feel relaxed.

Here are some references to help you: Smartphone apps – Calm, Headspace, Mindfulness training Websites – National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health, Duke Integrative Medicine’s Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Program

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This is also considered a form of meditation. Studies show that mindful breathing can positively affect our mood and decrease our stress level, therefore lowering inflammation in the body and the risk for diseases like diabetes and heart disease.

As holiday sweets and goodies come around, don’t forget to mindfully eat! When we take time in the moment to recognize what we put in our mouth, we truly taste the food instead of eating in a rush and losing track of all those extra calories. If you want the sweet, ok! But really taste it and enjoy it. Ultimately, those who are mindful when they eat tend to choose healthier options and avoid the temptation to overeat.

Our bodies have a tremendous power to heal themselves if we just provide the opportunity. By putting good food (by ‘good’ I mean healthy) into our bodies, that food can send the correct signals to decrease our metabolic inflammation. Mindful eating is a way to start that process. Then, we can send more messages to decrease inflammation to our body with mindful breathing/meditation. Don’t forget yourself this time of year!

Dr. Raye-Anne Ayo, MD, FAAFP, is a mother of 3 boys and a family practice physician for nearly 20 years.

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s the seasons change, so do hair color and haircare needs.

At ​grow​, a L’ANZA Healing Center, education is the key to our success—not only for our stylists but also for our guests! Sun and water are usually at the top of everyone’s summer to-do list, but did you know that sunlight and water oxidation are actually two of the biggest aggressors of hair and hair color? If you haven’t treated your summer hair yet, never fear. Fall is here and so are we at grow Knoxville.

Professional haircare products should change with the season to elevate your style and make getting ready less of a chore. Speak with your stylist about your personal needs and preferred styling process. Most professional lines have texture-specific regimens for different types of hair types.

This time of year, we at ​grow​ suggest deep conditioning treatments in our salon or athome masques (sometimes both) to re-hydrate and repair what the hair is lacking.

Dull, lifeless hair is often a direct result of chemical or mechanical damage. Also, the styling range changes— beach styles with less shine and matte texture are taking the transition into more soft waves and shiny curls for fall as we head into winter.

PRO TIP: When curling hair, it’s important to find a multi-use product, such as L’ANZA’s Brush Thru Hairspray that offers you heat protection, shine and hold. Let’s be real, nobody has time for three products to get one look. The position and size of the iron are equally important to product choice. Ask your stylist for suggestions, or book your ​Ultimate Treatment​conditioning service or complimentary style consultation at​ growknoxville.com​.

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Check out these party perfect finds and arrive fashionably fabulous all season long:

What is Moissanite?

In 1893, Henri Moissan discovered microscopic particles of the gem that would bear his name in an Arizona crater created by a meteorite. He thought they were diamonds, but later determined that the crystals were composed of silicon carbide; though similar, moissanite is compositionally and visually quite different from a real diamond. Since meteorites are thankfully rare, so is moissanite—these super sparkly gems are engineered in a laboratory to be available today.

And because every woman loves some high voltage glamour during the holidays… think sparkle!

Does your little black dress need a little more wow? Try adding long dramatic looks.

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he name ‘diopside’ was derived from the Greek words ‘di’ and ‘opsis’, meaning ‘two’ and ‘vision’. So, diopside has earned a reputation for being a visualization stone, which is thought to increase creative vision and awareness.

When storing your chrome diopside gemstones and jewelry, always store them away from other types of gems. If possible, wrap them individually in a soft cloth or place them separately inside a fabric-lined jewelry box to prevent stones from rubbing against each other.

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Add something unexpected to your winter whites with the

BLUES of TURQUOISE R

anging in shades of blue-green depending on its copper and iron content, turquoise evokes the image of dazzling waters surrounding an island paradise. Similar to emerald, this gem symbolizes the earth’s oceans, but its unique natural pattern of spider webbing strikes an enticing visual effect.

French for the word ‘Turkish,’ turquoise traveled the world by the ancient trades routes of the Silk Road. It quickly became the toast of Europe, making its way into royal lineage that can be traced back to Marie-Louise and her royal tiara, a wedding gift from her husband Napoleon I.

With a home shopping industry career spanning more than 20 years, Kristie is currently a JTV trend reporter. She adores her family, french fries, and loves doing laundry.

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e all express ourselves through design. It is a way to project ourselves onto our environment and much like an unconscious mirror, that environment then reflects us back to ourselves. This reflection serves as a narrator, telling a story about who we are at a point in time. As we look back, we can see our various stages of progression and growth, as well as those of struggle or indifference. This rings very true in my own life.

I am a person who has always enjoyed design. I have not always known how to channel it, but I have always loved transformation and the element of creation. I crave depth, texture and dimension. I love the search, the hunt for the missing piece and the feeling of finding an unexpected treasure. I love the collision of elements in a space, tying together contrasting ones in an unexpected and surprising way. I am similarly drawn to people. This desire to design my surroundings is evident in those I choose to surround myself with. Something within them contrasts what I possess, and this juxtaposition provides clarity and a new lens in which to view myself and the world around me. I look back on my life and see how certain people profoundly affected me and how this was translated into my environment. As I become more intentional and aware of myself, I am more fully able to provide depth, texture and dimension for someone else. This give-and-take creates a unique experience that can only come through synergistic reflection and self-awareness.

This time of the year is an excellent opportunity to take pause and evaluate how we are designing our lives. Are we surrounding ourselves with

people that encourage us to create rather than conform?

Are we expressing our true self through our environment, or have we begun staging our lives to project an image that is false? Have we allowed ourselves to become stagnant or one-dimensional? If so, we need to find people that challenge us, inspire us and pour our energy into them, because it is these people who will bring our souls and inspiration back to life. We need to focus less on things and more on becoming what we crave. As we intentionally create and cultivate these relationships to our surroundings and with each other, creativity and authenticity are able to grow and we are able to design our lives in any way we choose.

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Courtney Cunningham is the wearer of many hats and co-owner of Alchemy Salon.

The grit, the grain It’s all momentum for change Crave texture Dimension Your environment is an extension of who you are Let it show how far You’ve come Surround yourself with people Who make you real and Reflect your soul Stave off what’s stale And your story, they’ll tell Be their mirror There is nothing clearer Than the synergy Between you and me Create, don’t conform Be afraid of the norm Watch your surroundings thrive As you renovate your life

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H O L I D A Y

TRADITIONS Celebrating Cultures

From our family to your family

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ur community celebrates many different holidays and special observances this time of year, though not all come with public displays and designated shopping days. Some are known only by the tiny printed name in a calendar square, and while others are commonly observed, they are rarely discussed. Sure, we could do an internet search, but how much better to hear from a real person! We thought it would be fun to see a snippet of what each occasion looks like from a personal perspective—without delving into theology or tenets.

The following eight traditions are rooted in faith, family and cultures spanning the world from Africa, India, Jerusalem, Mexico and, of course, Tennessee. When we understand our neighbor’s traditions better and see a symbol that represents their custom, we can offer a greeting that is more specific than “Happy Holidays!”

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aving moved at a young age to this country from Mexico, Dia de los Muertos is one of those traditions that I unintentionally left behind. But now, I want my two sons to understand what this day means and learn about their ancestors who have passed. So, this year we will celebrate for the first time in their lives.

What is Dia de los Muertos? The belief is that on this day, the souls of our deceased loved ones return to be with us. It’s a sweet time of remembrance and not at all related to Halloween, though it falls around the same time. We make an ‘altar’ with pretty yellow flowers called ‘cempasuchil’ and fill it with offerings and items that remind us of them. We will place my Papa Salvador’s picture along with a miner’s hat.

I remember wanting to be a miner when I grew up to be just like him, and I couldn’t understand why my

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y family has experienced a variety of Thanksgiving celebrations—some a success, others not so much. Being a former early childhood educator, one year I decided to transfer a lesson to our family Thanksgiving and moved tables outside much like you would see pictured in a book. I didn’t stop there. Each child and cooperating adult were to choose from homemade Pilgrim, Native American and turkey costumes. This was not a family hit and ranks up there with the worst idea never to be repeated.

The most memorable Thanksgiving took place at my daughter’s house.

We had an unusually large crowd that year, so roasted two large turkeys in two different houses, in addition to using the smoker for a third. As I went to pull a turkey from the oven, the disposable aluminum pan—for supposedly easy cleanup—buckled and all the turkey fat juices spilled in the oven, ignited

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parents didn’t name me after him and just put an ‘a’ at the end to denote I was a girl. He was so special to me…I may even place a glass of cognac (his favorite drink) in the altar. I know he will like that.

We will place photos of my husband’s Papaw and Tanma, with other meaningful items, and a picture of sweet Henry (who left too soon) with the toy he liked. We will write notes about each person and read them aloud. My favorite part of the day is reminiscing, praying and feeling our loved ones close to us.

This year, I won’t get to go to a cemetery filled with beautiful flowers, listen to mariachi music and hear ‘literary skulls,’ (rhymed verses that humorously make light of death). I probably won’t feel the celebration all around me as I would in Mexico, but hopefully, my kids and my husband will embrace it with me and carry it on.

the stove on fire and scorched my eyebrows, bangs and hair around my face. There was nothing easy about that cleanup. My daughter got a new heavy-duty turkey roaster that Christmas from her father as a apology gift.

Now, my oldest daughter lives in a remote area and has bravely taken on the responsibility of hosting Thanksgiving. The morning includes shooting a variety of guns, so as not to interfere with afternoon games in this football crazy family. Our traditional meal consists of turkey and dressing, corn pudding, green beans, sweet potato casserole with pumpkin and pecan pies for dessert. And no, I am not allowed to remove the turkey from the oven.

I hope you enjoyed reading a few of my Thanksgiving memories, and possibly learned from them! In the end, it all comes down to family— the good, the bad and the funny.

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dvent is the season prior to Christmas when followers of Jesus expectantly await His return and celebrate His birth. From early on, my husband, J.C., and I wanted special family traditions to prepare our hearts and home to focus on the meaning and magnitude of Christmas.

Before we open the first box of decorations, our kids set up their little Fisher Price Nativity set. We talk about the reason we decorate, throw parties and give gifts is all to celebrate in a really big way the most incredible news in the world. Christ has come to bring life, hope and love! We read from The Jesus Storybook Bible about the night Jesus was born. It is a joy to hear the kids read and talk about what Christmas means to them.

A few years ago, we started another tradition that my kids love that is a version of the Jesse Tree. Each day leading up to Christmas, we decorate

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ur family’s favorite season is Fall. It brings cooler temperatures, football season, beautiful color-changing leaves, and the anticipation of Diwali.

Diwali is lovingly called the “festival of lights.” Diwali is a five-day festival with each day bringing a new aspect to the celebrations. It is one of the most important festivals in Indian culture. Diwali celebrates the triumph of good over evil, knowledge over ignorance, and light over darkness.

a small tree with an ornament that depicts a story from scripture. Each one reminds us of our deep need for a Savior and how God prepares a way for us to be redeemed throughout the Bible. We are by no means perfect and days get skipped, but overall, it is such a blessing to spend a few minutes in the morning reading and hanging an ornament that tells of our Savior coming to redeem His people.

Merry Christmas to all!

ated on the ground both inside and out of the home using colored sand, dyed rice, flower petals, or lentils.

For our house, we like using chalk to create a mixture of simple geometric patterns and ornate mandalas. Once the house is cleaned and decorated, we look forward to exchanging gifts, eating decadent Indian sweets, and dressing up in our new clothes for the special days ahead.

Each Fall, we prepare by getting our diyas ready and decorating our homes with lanterns and rangoli. Diyas are small clay pots or trays used to light cotton wicks dipped in oil or ghee. Our daughter looks forward to decorating her new set of diyas every year and adding them to our collection. Traditionally, rangoli is an art form in which patterns are cre-

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anukkah is one of Judaism’s more well-known holidays— presumably because of its proximity to Christmas—but it is a minor and non-biblical holiday. In Hebrew, Hanukkah means “dedication;” it is a commemoration of the Maccabean revolt and the rededication of the Second Temple. Since it isn’t an English word, there are many different ways to spell Hanukkah, as you have probably noticed!

Hanukkah traditions are different from family to family during the eightday holiday. In mine, we lit the menorah each night. I think my Christian friends thought the gift-giving part of Hanukkah was like having eight days of Christmas presents, but it certainly wasn’t like that in our house! We exchanged gifts, but only got a big gift on one night. The other nights it was something small, such as books (still a popular gift in our house!). Food is an integral part of most Jewish hol-

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idays and the traditional foods vary from holiday to holiday. Fried food is traditional for Hanukkah, and we made latkes (potato pancakes) from scratch every year.

A favorite memory is of my mother coming to my classroom to teach classmates about Hanukkah. I grew up here in Knoxville and in Greenville, South Carolina. Usually, there were only a handful of other Jewish students in my schools and I loved teaching my classmates about our traditions. We would light the menorah, learn to play the dreidel game (a dreidel is a spinning top), and Momma would make latkes for everyone to try. My mother continues this tradition today in her grandchildren’s classrooms.

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y family continues a Christmas tradition that my mom started years ago. We find another family that is going through a hard time—like experiencing the first holiday without a child or a loved one. We choose a specific nativity scene and separately wrap each piece with a note that includes scripture, a song and a story. Then we number our packages, count backwards from Christmas Eve, and secretly drop a package each day. On Christmas Eve, they receive the greatest gift of all, our Savior! Sometimes we reveal who left them; other times it remains a secret. We may know the family really well, or they may be practically strangers. It’s all about who God places on our heart.

Watching my kids doing this as they have grown up has been fun. When they first started, it was a game. They ask, “Can I get the present on the porch without getting caught, or do we need to come back later tonight?” Now, it means so much more as they pray for these families while we prepare to drop off another present each day.

Several have shared with me how this tradition helped them through this tough time of year. I sent this privately because we don’t always want others to know it is us. We are able to bless more families between me, my mom and my sister.

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oliday time in an interfaith marriage can present challenges, not to mention exhaustion! As a Christian woman married to a Jewish man—formerly residing out west (Las Vegas)—we found our own way to celebrate Christmas with family and friends over the years. After Thanksgiving turkey and dressing, Hanukkah brisket and latkes, we were all ready for a menu change by the time Christmas rolled around.

In 2008, I decided to celebrate with my favorite food, Mexican, and have a Feliz Navidad party! The menu was shrimp ceviche, my awesome homemade salsa and guacamole, Mexican Caesar salad, both homemade grilled and steak tacos, pork tamales from a famous Vegas restaurant—my motto is, Why try to make something yourself if you know someone else can do it better?—red rice, beans a la charra, and plenty of margaritas. By the way, the best margarita in the world is the

Kwanzaa A Celebration of Love & Unity

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wanzaa is a beautiful holiday to celebrate African origins, to remember from whence we came, to never forget those who came before us, and to teach the lessons of the past to the children of our future.

Created by Dr. Maulana Karenga in 1966 to honor African heritage of the African American culture, Kwanzaa begins on December 26 th and lasts seven days. African traditions are honored in clothing, playing drums, and eating food with hands. Homes are decorated using the meaningful colors red, black and green—red is for the struggles to gain freedom; black is the color of the people; and green symbolizes the fertile lands of Africa. Decorations include African artwork, paintings, sculptures and colorful fabrics, as well as the seven symbols:

“Salt Air Margarita” from chef Jose Andres! I do my best to replicate it.

Guests bring desserts, as most of the family has their specialties, and I am not a big baker.

No fiesta would be complete without festive, colorful decorations!

Guests are greeted at the door by a plush donkey singing “Feliz Navidad.”

For the table settings, I use vibrant Mexican striped blankets as tablecloths and top with centerpieces of bright flowers and mini–piñatas.

Dinner is served from multi-colored Fiestaware dishes and plates, and big turquoise margarita glasses are essential.

Our friends and family were delighted to fiesta with us instead of partaking the usual Christmas meal. Needless to say, the first year was a huge hit, so the tradition of Feliz Navidad continues!

A mat that symbolizes building a foundation: fruits and vegetables, symbolic of nourishment; ears of corn (usually one for each child); the kinara to hold the seven candles (three red, three green, one black in the center); the unity cup; and gifts (books, artwork, teaching materials, or even pledges of support).

I do not have space to describe all seven principles, so I will leave you with day seven—the final day of Kwanzaa—Imani which means FAITH. This day revolves around the discussion of the belief the world can be a better place. The candles are lit in the designated order, the unity cup is shared as the principle is shared. The candles are then extinguished until next year and Kwanzaa ends with a renewed belief and commitment to each other and to the community.

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A National Movement to Help End Hunger in America

Help us end hunger in America with the L.U.V.S. Program Step 1. Locate a Food Pantry Step 2. Understand their Purpose Step 3. Volunteer and Support P.O. Box 11684 Knoxville, TN 37939 | Email: scarecrownation@gmail.com | Phone: (865) 250-3313 | xhunger.com

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hen I was a little girl I had big dreams about having a career that I loved and also made the people around me happy! I loved art and science in school. Of course, my caring parents guided me more towards science for my career choice. My inspiration for science has always been discovering/creating new things with our knowledge of what we are given. I became a high school science teacher. I loved it but wanted more!

My husband, Lance, and I moved from a big city to the mountains in Tennessee during the summer of 2016. We are blessed to have two young boys; Gatlin, 14, and Oliver, 8. They are amazing kids and have always wanted to help make others happy as well. It has been an exciting journey to be able to show and teach them first hand how to put together a business in a new area. They have seen us struggle in different ways both physically and mentally.

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they are proud of our studio because they have helped contribute to our success through a little sweat equity of their own. We have taught them through hard work, determination and dedication your dreams and goals can be accomplished. My husband was also a school teacher and then owned a carpentry business.

Board and Brush combines all of our passions into one fun and exciting business!

We inspire our guests to be creative with an emphasis on building confidence. When guests leave at the end of our DIY workshop with their radiant smiles and proud wall worthy creations, it brings me that joy I was seeking as a child! It’s AMAZING! You don’t have to be a creative or artsy person to attend one of our classes. We will guide you through every step from distressing, sanding, staining, building, painting and waxing. We will build your artistic confidence, while you sit with your friends listening to some good tunes sipping on some beverages of your choice! (Yes, we are a B.Y.O.B. establishment.) You may bring in your favorite snacks and drinks.

Board and Brush Sevierville has online registration for open workshops at https://boardandbrush.com/sevierville/. We are also a trendy venue for private events such as birthday parties, bachelorette parties, team building events, family reunions, corporate parties and more.

We look forward to your visit with us! Be inspired! Get creative!

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ou can’t come, it’s a boys’ trip. Girls don’t go to deer camp.

These words rang in my ears as tears welled in my nine-year-old eyes. I couldn’t understand the unfairness of the situation as I watched my father and two younger brothers pack their hunting gear into the truck. I sobbed into my mother’s lap, begging to go, “I’m a better shot than Sam, and Zack doesn’t even really want to go! Why can’t I just go with them in the morning?”

I am the only daughter in a family with four sons—to say I was a tomboy is an understatement. I am lucky enough to have grown up in a log cabin in the woods, surrounded by farmland, with my own horse and riding trails, and no other sounds but from birds and the wind. The great outdoors was my babysitter, where we would run free in the summer, as long as we returned in one piece for dinner. When our cousins visited, we would pick teams, and of course, the boys were always chosen first. “You’ll get hurt!

Only boys can do that!” We girls would shrug and act like we didn’t care, but under that game face, I tried so hard to be like them.

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handle my adventures. They would yell at me for hanging out with their friends and building forts instead of playing Barbies inside. ​But still, she persisted…

Throughout high school, I struggled with my identity as an outdoor lover. I wasn’t soft-spoken or gentle. I didn’t wear much makeup and detested dresses. I had calloused hands and chipped fingernails. I’m not even entirely sure my parents realized they didn’t have five sons until I started dating. And even then, it was hard to find a boyfriend who could keep up with me. I would continue to struggle with this identity for years, even while working as an outdoor guide.

I didn’t truly find my tribe until I moved to Knoxville. Here, I surround myself with fierce women who play as hard as I do, and while we are different, we all have one thing in common. We love nature.

how women suffer from the pressures of social norms in the workplace, and also at home. The outdoors is becoming an escape for women, specifically, to mentally and physically release that pent-up pressure. I recently found myself similarly struggling with work issues, an overflowing inbox, a growing to-do list, and a stressful (and expensive) illness of my horse. I needed a serious nature break.

That morning, a Facebook memory from a year ago popped up showing a photo from the Great Smoky Mountains National Park. There I was, standing in front of a herd of elk in the Cataloochee Valley. My hair was windblown, my eyes sparkled, my clothes were dirty, and I had a huge smile on my face. That’s what I was missing. I messaged one of my best friends, a like-minded crazy busy ICU nurse, and then rashly booked a campsite in North Carolina for the following week, the first Monday in October. I’m normally a control freak, but since we only had 24 hours, this felt right to just wing it.

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REI will go down in history for their “Force of Nature” campaign, partnering with Outside Magazine to design an e ​ ntire i​ssue strictly for women. One article really hit home about

We left Knoxville and decided to stop and hike a trail near the state line that I had done years prior near Big Creek. Hardly any other cars were on the winding roads and the trailhead was deserted. My anxiety melted away with each crunchy step of my boots. Leaves were gently falling as water gushed through a ravine below, drowning out my thoughts of work and stress, and evidently our sense of direction. We missed the turn and went a mile out of our way. When we found Mouse Creek Falls, a fine mist beat lightly against our cheeks. The air tasted cleaner, more pure. A warm rock invited a short nap, then we carried on down the trail.

We were dripping sweat by the time we reached Midnight Hole, only a mile or so from our car. It definitely wasn’t swimming weather, but we were hot. We looked around—no one in sight—so stripped down to our underwear and jumped in. The cold knocked the air out of my lungs like a freight train! I have NEVER felt such cold water in my life. Dozens of rainbow trout darted around our legs, surely curious about the two crazy chicks that landed in their home.

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the rocks, then wisely decided to leave before we got hypothermia. The hike back helped warm our bones as the sun lowered behind the mountains surrounding us. The drive to Cataloochee was short from there.

We set up camp in less than an hour. Tents?

Check. Firewood? Check. Food? Duh. Beer and whiskey? Double check! We spent the evening laughing, planning future trips (I’m coming for you Iceland) and reminiscing over adventures

past. Two girls without a care. The 6 a.m. alarm came quickly while still pitch black, so we packed up by the light of our headlamps and made coffee on our camp stove, determined not to miss the show.

Driving slowly through the gates past the rangers station, our headlights pierced the dark.

Windows down, ears straining. I pulled off the road and cut the engine, hoping…praying. Then, a faint huffing noise started as a low guttural groan and crescendoed as a screeching bugle raising goosebumps on my arms while making my hair stand on end. The eerie challenge of the bull elk echoed farther away by his rival in the trees. We had found the rut.

As the sun began to rise, the bugling became more intense until suddenly, another larger, much more aggressive bull elk came barreling from the tree line to defend his harem from the interloper near us, sweeping his giant antlers low towards his opponent. We silently watched as the victor returned to his herd, screaming in triumph. His cry echoed and ricocheted off the peaks around us bringing to mind the words of my yoga instructor and dear friend Tracy: This moment is fleeting.

This moment, right now, will never be here again. This is the only time you will experience what is happening before you. Cherish it, and be present.

Want to find women like us?

Your tribe is out there.

Check out these initiatives:

Mountain Chicks – Check mtnchicks.com to find your state’s chapter. (I am an ambassador for the one here.) Q

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Bell Joy Ride – A Knoxville group dedicated to inspiring women to ride and progress in mountain biking.

Women Hikers and Outdoor Adventurers – An East Tennessee-based Facebook group created to encourage, educate, and empower women through outdoor exploration.

SheExplores – A podcast that is quickly becoming a mover and shaker in the outdoor industry.

Rachel @shestrayedsouth is a lover of ethnic food, bubbly wine, fat ponies, and exploring the South, one bite at a time.

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am an owner of Sevier Blumen, a flower farm that grows specialty cut flowers.

We grow approximately 100 varieties for wholesale and retail sales, as well as having a solid wedding and event business.

Our flowers can be found at several local markets, in almost every local floral shop, and through floral designers. I started this business rather late in life—a mid-life career change—a journey sometimes like Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride. You could say that gardening is in my DNA, although I did not come to this realization until recently.

My parents immigrated to Knoxville from Hungary in 1951, and I was born two months later. My mother always had a vegetable garden, which went a long way in feeding the family. From the time I was a small child, I was in the garden with her—planting, weeding, and cultivating.

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However, I set aside my childhood passion in college. As an incoming freshman to the University of Tennessee, I told one of the professors at the Agricultural Campus my desire to major in Horticulture and Landscape Design. He unceremoniously discouraged me from doing so as career opportunities for women in that field were quite limited at the time. I went on to obtain a degree in Political Science and a Master’s Degree in Urban and Regional Planning. I worked for a time at TVA and then in the private sector in solid and hazardous waste management.

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It was during this time that I experienced major life changes. I divorced and became a single mother of two daughters. This new status and a demanding career at TVA caused me to go into survival mode—one step at a time, one day at a time. After five years, I met and eventually married my current husband, Jim, also divorced and with three daughters. Later, with all five of our girls on the way to adulthood, we found ourselves raising yet another child, our grandson.

While I enjoyed my career, I was not passionate about what I was doing. I was passionate about gardening. Our daughters were grown and our grandson was at a more independent stage, so at the age of 50, I went back to UT to study Plant Sciences—part-time over ten years. During the course of my studies, I was frequently asked if I was going to start a business upon my completion. I would always say that I was too old, if only I were twenty years younger. But then I realized that I am twenty years younger than I will be in twenty years! I started this business seven years ago with Robin Yeary, also a Plant Sciences graduate, who is more than half my age. I am finally living my dream!

What I am trying to say is this: this piece that I am writing is not about me. It is about you. Don’t ask me about proper pruning techniques, how deep to plant your tomato plant, or when to divide that unruly clump of irises. I can’t give you a postmortem on your prized plant as there could be a myriad of reasons it expired. There are PHOTO BY J. MILES CARY

plenty of magazines and publications that can give you these answers. What I want to know from YOU is…what are your passions?

Is there something you have always wanted to do that remains unfulfilled? If someone tells me he or she is thinking of retirement, I ask them, “What will you do? How will you reinvent yourself?” I believe you can do what you are passionate about as long as you are able, no matter what the circumstances. While there will always be limiting factors, there is a way.

During my entire professional life before returning to school, I sat behind a desk wearing a suit and uncomfortable pumps. I heard with frequency, “This has never been done before,” or, “This is not the way we do things.” Now that I have traded my pumps for garden clogs, my office is a field with beautiful flowers. The music is from birds. The peace is from God.

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There is a phrase in the horticultural world: “flower power.” Unrelated to hippies and the 60’s revolution, it refers to the characteristic of a particular plant to resist pests and diseases, to have bright and vigorous blooms, and to be able to have abounding and prolific blooms from spring until frost. I reverse that phrase to describe my sense of well-being to “power from flower.” I am sustained, invigorated, and awed every day by the beauty that surrounds me. I think of this every time I walk down the garden path in the early morning mist, coffee in hand. (Yes, coffee makes everything better.)

What is your garden path?

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Christmas cards, decorations and gift wrap, party attire, menus and entertaining are a few of my favorite things to obsess over. Needless to say, I am all in and know preparing for the holidays can quickly go from thrilling to stressful. As an event planner, I have learned that preparation and organization are the keys to not only surviving, but actually enjoying the festivities. Read on to see my Top Ten preparations for hosting my friends and family during the most wonderful time of the year.

The Perfect Card

Ideally, start thinking about your holiday card prior to November. Do you already have a photo you love or do you need to hire a photographer and plan outfits? If hiring a photographer, share a card design that you have in mind to establish the orientation of the photos and where the text needs to fall. Thelen Wright takes our pictures annually and this helps our kids to be more relaxed as they know her and how she works. Abigail Malone is another favorite family photographer. As for cards, The Happy Envelope and Wallace Paper Company have excellent options and you can support our local businesses. If the speed of online ordering is more your style, Minted and Shutterfly never disappoint.

Mark Your Calendar

Put on your calendar as soon as you know which holiday events you will host and which you will attend, as well as those that require your assistance.

Make a List. . .

As November begins, gather family recipes, make a shopping list for gifts, decorations and events. Contact your baker or caterer if you need to order appetizers or desserts. Simon Hall Private Chef and Nancy Kendrick with Creative Catering have the most delicious appetizers you can just pick up and serve. Our family loves Ham’N Goodys’ five flavor pound cake for Thanksgiving and Christmas morning breakfasts.

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Bring Out the Old and New

Go through your decorations and discard what is no longer usable or outdated. Remember local charities gratefully accept unused décor, gifts and attire. I try to add an item or two to my collection and purchase a few new ornaments each year. HomeGoods and Hobby Lobby have great ornaments and decorations. If you are looking for a collectible or a high-end piece, consider shopping at The Glass Bazaar here in Knoxville. They also have the best hostess gifts and holiday scented candles!

***Neatly label and store crates to make clean-up more efficient after the holiday***

Faux Christmas Tree. . .or the Real Thing

I place my artificial décor over Thanksgiving weekend and live décor the second week of December so it will last throughout the season.

Purchasing artificial trees, wreaths and garlands prior to Thanksgiving allows you to put up your decorations over the long weekend and​are often discounted​ at Lowes and Target. If you wish to use fresh decorations, plan to set them up around events you are hosting. Mayo’s Garden Center has two locations with trees, wreaths and garlands in every size and shape. Sweet Pea is another great choice for live greenery. Don’t forget to look in your own yard. Magnolia and holly berry can be a girl’s best friend when making garlands, enhancing your manger scene or arranging a table centerpiece. Many people love the look of decorations, but hate the hassle. Samuel Franklin Florist and Colby West Designs will come to your home and decorate so that you can pass on the dirty work. They book up quickly, so call well in advance.

Fix It

Use this opportunity to repair that sticky door jamb or a leaky faucet in the kitchen. Schedule home repairs and refreshing early on so your home will be in tip-top shape for your guests.

. . .And Check It Twice

As December approaches, make a detailed list of what you have not yet accomplished and set a goal date to complete.

I try to have all shopping done, or at least planned due to a sale, by the first week in December. Place any orders with bakers and caterers.

Wrap Up

Begin wrapping when all your gifts are purchased. I set aside a whole day to wrap as it is arduous and time-consuming. It makes for a long day, but that sense of completion and seeing the fruits of my labor is amazing. My family loves to help place the gifts under our tree and guess what is inside. Beautiful gift wrap that matches your theme and décor helps to enhance holiday spirit.

Stock Up

By mid-December, make your grocery and spirits run. I am always amazed how quickly basic items sell out, such as sausage, pie shells and stuffing mix. Don’t forget to buy extra trash bags and paper goods.

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Finishing Touches

Think about old and new family traditions you wish to incorporate this year. Some of ours include baking family recipes handed down from generation to generation. The Tuesday before Thanksgiving, my daughter and I make our family dressing recipe and trust me, it is divine! (See recipe below.) On Wednesday, we make Grandmother Louise’s chocolate and pumpkin pie recipe. As for Christmas, we celebrate Christmas Eve at my house and Christmas Brunch is at my parents’. We look forward to the same menu every year. By December 23rd, I recommend preparing any dishes that can be refrigerated and heated later to decrease your workload and allow you to enjoy your guests more come Christmas. In our house everyone has a job, which they actually look forward to, so that all of us can say we participated in making the celebration great. My mother, my daughter and myself, along with our lifelong friends Judy and Ella, cook at the same time and place every year. The gentlemen set up the bar, prepare and serve cocktails. Siblings and children help clear the table and with clean up. Establishing duties helps make the flow of your celebration seamless and more enjoyable for all.

The magic of the season really can remain with you throughout with the proper organization and planning. I wish each of you many blessings and the most enjoyable holiday season ever!

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2 boxes of Jiffy cornbread mix.

I lb. mild sausage

1 dash cayenne pepper

Bake according to directions.

4 tsp. chicken bouillon crystals

¼ tsp black pepper

½ bell pepper

1 can chicken broth

1 pkg. Pepperidge Farm herb

3 celery sticks diced

2 sticks butter

stuffing mix

½ bunch green onion diced

4 eggs

1 medium size yellow onion

1 tsp. Lawry’s seasoning salt

Make both boxes of cornbread and cook. While cornbread is cooking and cooling, sauté sausage, bell pepper, celery, onion and green onion in a Dutch oven. While that is sautéing, melt chicken bouillon in 1 cup hot water. When sausage is browned with other vegetables, add melted bouillon, chicken broth and 2 sticks butter. Stir. Add crumbled cornbread and let cool enough to add eggs and stir. Add salt, peppers and dressing mix and mix together well. Pour all into 13 x 9 pan, cover and refrigerate overnight. Bake at 400 degrees until done, usually around an hour. If top is getting too brown, cover loosely with foil. Serves 12 amply.

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n October 4th, I attended the Knoxville Academy of Medicine Alliance’s 65th annual Fashiondrama: Be Your Own Kind Of Beautiful at Gettysvue Country Club. Each table is simply but beautifully decorated with Bucket of Beautiful centerpieces by ZPots and Vnoelle’s, and a slim rose gold pin with a jewel at the top rests at each place setting. Co-chairs Cynthia Gash & Robin Hutchins stand together as guests arrive and the event they began planning in mid-February finally comes to fruition. “It’s a nervous happy,” says Gash. “When this event comes together each year, it reinforces the support from the community and the dedication of our members to further KAMA’s mission.”

The mission is to promote health education programs that impact the welfare of the community and to encourage friendship among its membership. The inaugural event was called “Fashionata” in 1954, and served as KAMA’s primary fundraiser to support nursing scholarships. In 1961, the event adopted its present-day name, “Fashiondrama.” Proceeds are distributed each spring in the form of medical and nursing scholarships and grants for local health-related nonprofit organizations. KAMA Philanthropic reports, “In the past 5 years, KAMA’s

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Philanthropic fund has distributed more than $400,000 in medical and nursing scholarships and grants to local health-related nonprofits and initiatives.”

“The event is so much fun!” says Hutchins. “The support we get from the community through our corporate and event sponsors, our fashion sponsors, and those who attend our event ultimately allows the mission of KAMA to succeed.”

Over the years, I’ve attended several events and KAMA comes up with something different to keep the event fresh. This year’s theme, Be Your Own Kind Of Beautiful, reflects a belief that “each person is a precious creation, uniquely beautiful, ‘fearfully and wonderfully made.’ Each person inherently embodies and expresses Your Own Kind of Beautiful in her spirit, style, traits, talents, and efforts.”

In their welcoming remarks for the event, Gash & Hutchins said, “We are inspired and motivated by strong women everywhere who strive in their own beautiful ways to make the world a better place. Our message is one of acknowledgement and affirmation: there are many kinds of beautiful—embrace your own and seek to recognize it in others.”

On the surface it’s a fashion show—beautiful clothes, beautiful people, and high energy music— which create the perfect environment to showcase external beauty. But below the surface, you see truth.

The local runway models are volunteers of all shapes and sizes who understand and believe in the mission of KAMA. Gash reflects,, “The longevity of this event and its success [are] remarkable. For 65 years, the community has truly shown up to support us as we seek to improve health care in the area by providing scholarships to future doctors and nurses and by granting much needed funds to important health initiatives. We believe that members of our community see value in the mission of KAMA.” From my table in the center of a square runway—preventing a bad seat in the house—I recognize the models who expertly dressed in clothing from Janice Ann’s Fashions, Virginia Jane Clothing and Gifts, and M.S. McClellan & Co. I know many of them and am excited to watch them proudly display what I’m told are some of the top trending styles this fall. Pearl embellishments are everywhere. Flared pants and jeans give a friendly nod to that 70’s throwback we can’t help but love. Chunky accessories brighten with pops of color and animal prints are present.

The most incredible pair of leather and knit skinny pants made my toes literally tingle!

I sit impressed at the conclusion of the show as the ladies of KAMA take down the model blocks and roll up the runway. I asked Gash how an event like Fashiondrama continues to work so well and appeal to so many different types of women. She said, “I love this group of ladies.

There is so much talent. We just work together well.”

There are currently 120 members of the Knoxville Academy of Medicine Alliance and many of them helped plan, volunteer or attend the event. They sold over 100 tickets, outfitted 40 models, arranged for 3 runway fashion vendors and 2 live mannequin fashion vendors, and

accepted donations of 21 silent auction items with a retail value of approximately $8,000. Numbers will be finalized in late November, but KAMA has no doubt that Fashiondrama 2018 was a success. Which leaves us with two questions: how will KAMA reinvent this event for 2019 and will you be there?

Lili Vincent, mom, doctor’s wife and writer who’s forever learning new things.

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y name is Elizabeth Willien, I am a 21-year-old artist. I love creating in all formats—from interior design to painting to photography—the list goes on. Over the past few years, I have been drawn to the passionate drive I see in others, and really developed a love for other people’s creations. Too many artists and businesses don’t get enough recognition and I became determined to do something about it! I wanted to create a local modern platform that would showcase deserving artists, makers, and small businesses.

Much like the criticism toward Knoxville back then, artists, business owners, and makers are told that they will fail. I see it differently. Just as Knoxville overcame the negativity, you too can be successful no matter what anyone says! ScruffyKnox is a place of empowerment and shines a light on the incredible local talent in our city. The Instagram community is currently over 11,000 followers and growing. I am so happy to share the creative endeavors of others along with some of my own designs. I hand-screen print tees and other merch for Knoxvillians to represent our amazingly scruffy city.

So, I started ScruffyKnox on Instagram.

The term “scruffy” was first associated with Knoxville when organizers of the 1982 World’s Fair proposed their location of choice.

The idea that a small unknown city would host the world’s largest fair was skeptically viewed. The largest critic was a reporter from the Wall Street Journal who called Knoxville the “scruffy little city by the river,” unintentionally giving the now-famous nickname: “the scruffy city.” Oh, but Knoxville proved them wrong by hosting a very successful world’s fair, and kind of changed the negative connotation of that word. In my eyes, scruffy means unique awesomeness.

I am so humbled to be a part of the Knoxville style and included among such inspirational women in this magazine. Thanks for reading my story and I hope you continue to pursue your ambition no matter where you are in life. Find what feeds your passion, and flourish.

I would love for you to share your creativity with me by tagging @scruffyknox or using #scruffyknox in your posts.

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littering lights, sparkling dresses, swaying to the music…these are some images that may come to mind when you picture dancing at a holiday party.

Reality can be another story entirely.

Bruised toes, off-beat moves, pouting partners…a recipe for disaster! I have taught ballroom dancing to couples at different points in life—from wedding dances to retirees and newlyweds to empty nesters—and they all experience the same problem: communication.

The number one complaint I hear is about a partner’s lack of rhythm, but that is usually the easiest thing to fix. Most people just don’t know what they are listening for in the music. Communication, however, is a little bit more complicated.

Partner dancing IS communication—the language is patterns and technique is eloquent expression—in the moment of dancing together, you are sharing a conversation. The “lead/follow” language should really be initiate/respond, and more importantly, listen! Traditionally, the leader initiates a movement, the follower responds, then they move on to the next movement.

When the timing and communication are perfect, the transitions are seamless.

But when it’s not, frustration ensues, arguments may follow, and working together ends in the battle of who’s “more right.” Sound familiar? Partner dance is pretty much a metaphor for every relationship you’ve ever been in, but mending the relationship in dance is way more fun than therapy! It sounds simple, but it’s vital to recognize the movements of your own body.

So many of our actions are automatic, and in dance (especially learning it as an adult), you have to be simultaneously aware of what you and your partner are both doing at all times. It’s a concept called attunement—being in harmony with another person.

One of the struggles of dancing with someone you know is bringing relationship patterns onto the dance floor. But when you’re able to get in sync with each other, that shared history is also what makes dancing together so rewarding! The work becomes less about doing the patterns correctly, and more about enjoying the moments of moving together to the music. The smiles, laughter, mistakes, forgiveness, and sense of success all follow the ability to work as a team, and seeing that process unfold is one of my favorite things about teaching dance. It’s called the universal language for a reason! When two dancers, no matter their level, find that place of harmony and conversation, it’s breathtaking, tangible, and you can’t help but want to watch and smile with them.

Emily is a co-owner of Dance Tonight Knoxville.

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Near the end of November, Marchés de Noël (Christmas markets) are set up in the city centers. There, you can peruse the tents that sell various seasonal items—from vin chaud (hot wine) to grilled chestnuts, homemade chocolates, foie gras, oysters, and locally-made crafts and toys. We love walking the markets at night under the lights. Many French holiday traditions are much like ours in Tennessee: Christmas trees (in our village) are delivered and decorated, and gifts are opened either Christmas Eve or Day. Le Réveillon (Christmas dinner) is planned on either Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, as well.

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Bûche de Noël RECIPE

The Yule-log dessert served around the holidays, Bûche de Noël is a distinctly French tradition. The sweet log-shaped treat would make a pretty impressive addition to your family’s roster of Christmastime desserts, if you don’t make it already. Inside that thick chocolate ganache lies a little twist of chocolate cake rolled around a layer of whipped cream icing. You actually start with a flat cake baked in a 9x13 jelly roll pan. Each bite is flavorful and festive, but a slice is actually pretty light. INGREDIENTS:

butter, for the pan 1/3 cup all-purpose flour 1/3 cup unsweetened cocoa powder 1/4 teaspoon fine salt 4 large eggs 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract 3/4 cup plus 3 tablespoons confectioners’ sugar 1 cup heavy cream 1 tablespoon sour cream Chocolate Ganache

For step-by-step instructions, please visit www.realsimple.com

bûche de Noël!

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If you’re in the same boat and have no idea where you’re going for spring break, don’t fret. There’s plenty of time to plan, and no, you won’t get the short end of the stick because you waited until the “last minute.” To get started, choose your destination, then determine how long you want to stay. These two decisions will also help you set a budget for activities to do once you get there.

Every vacation is an investment of your time and money. Save yourself both by making sure you know exactly what you’re getting from your accommodations, admission to attractions, etc.

No one wants to walk into a room and see two double beds when they were expecting two queens—the details matter. Decide what amenities are important to you and keep those in mind as you look over your options.

If you have someplace tropical in mind, flights aren’t always a necessity since we live less than a day’s drive from warm, sunny beaches. While a road trip might not sound especially fun, it could be a nice opportunity to have a great conversation with your spouse and bond with your kids during a silly game of MadLibs.

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While I understand the joys of planning, a little bit of flexibility goes a long way. We all need to be more spontaneous on vacation. Give yourself free time to just relax and see where the day takes you. I make a mental bucket list of a few activities that I absolutely want to do, and fill in the gaps with spur of the moment decisions. Sometimes the picture in our head doesn’t match how things actually play out and we get disappointed when the day doesn’t go exactly as planned, but we make some of the best memories when we let go of our expectations.

Splurge on the little things. Say yes to the cheap plastic knickknacks, the cringe-worthy snack, or the upgrade for an extra perk at an attraction. How many times have we said no to our kids in the check out line because what they’ve asked for is a waste of money? How many times have you said no to yourself because you couldn’t justify spending the extra money? Sometimes saying yes to buying the item is really saying yes to the recipient rather than to the purchase.

It doesn’t matter where you go to escape your everyday routine when you get the chance. One of the many perks of living in East Tennessee is having the Great Smoky Mountains in our backyard. There’s still plenty of time to plan a staycation, experience the magic of Walt Disney World Resort®, sail away on a cruise ship, or sip margaritas at an all-inclusive oasis. After all, the most important thing we can do with our lives is create memories.

Kelly Lashley is a planner, a perfectionist, and a people-pleaser who turned her passion for travel into a career.

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remember hiding my face from other tourists, clenching my jaw amidst their sea of smartphones and trying to compose myself. We gazed over the cliffside at red poppies scattered like a Monet painting. I inhaled sharply, sucked in the cold air and wondered what prince or princess centuries ago had done the same; the thought made me feel very small. I knew why I cried—I knew exactly why, in fact—and I couldn’t let myself forget, not even when I returned to the comfort of home.

The plane ride back from my two-week stint in Spain was a strange mix of elation and crippling fear. It was my first trip out of the United States, for an accelerated language program at the end of my junior year of college. I thought it would look good on my medical school application and was happy

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to get away after a brutal year. I had been working towards a major in biology and a minor in psychology, completing honors

requirements, managing a project in a genetics research lab, and holding down two jobs. I was unhappy, but thought everyone was, and believed one day I would be happy.

I felt that my anxiety and insomnia were a direct result of being undisciplined and I just needed to deal with it. After all, everyone took me seriously when they heard I was pre-med. My grandparents loved to weave it into my introductions to their friends. My pride and identity were so tied up in being a doctor that I spent the entire 13 hours flying home trying to mentally untangle myself from it...with no luck.

I got home jet lagged and confused, and immediately crashed. I remember waking up, washing my face, looking at myself in the mirror and saying aloud, “If you don’t do it now, you never will.”

I was shaking.

In hindsight, I believe clarity fueled that day’s tearful crusade of cancelling my MCATs and ending a seven-year relationship. Thirteen days in a foreign country was enough time for the voices to die down. It was enough time to visit museums and allow the art to move me again. It was enough time to stand on a cliff beside a castle and realize that this—this chasing, endless, hungry feeling—was what I wanted for my life.

Coming back to reality wasn’t easy. Not having a plan was terrifying. Everyone questioning me and whispering that I couldn’t handle it hurt. But behind the fear I felt hope and excitement bubbling on the horizon, so I put in the work. The effort I had poured into memorizing the cranial-facial nerves

was now focused on getting to know myself again. I had ignored her for so long; put her love of art and fashion and theatre aside for practicality and prestige. I needed to know her again.

I began to make an exercise out of remembering the times when I felt most alive. Surprisingly, my shadowing in the operating room never made this list. Instead, I was filled with memories of artists and performers I loved and how their art made me feel so full of energy, so...buzzed.

Chasing that feeling led me in several different directions over three years, and culminated in my latest project, Kindred Bridal.

With the mental space left over after my 9-to-5, I created a business that allows me to experience art and connection every sin-

gle day through bringing independent wedding dress designers to the women of East Tennessee in a space like your cool friend’s apartment.

I never planned on being a business owner—I merely had a pressing feeling that I could not ignore. I had tasted the cliffside and I didn’t want to go back. I learned that the little voice that calls to you at night, in your most honest moments, is always right.

If you silence her long enough, she will emerge in a chaos and disrupt everything in your carefully planned path. She will erase the lines you have drawn around yourself and hand you a pen. You don’t have to go to a Spanish cliff to find her, you just have to listen.

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n 1994, Susan Packard, HGTV’s first hire and head of distribution, hired me away from a job I loved in Detroit to be part of a new start-up cable network before it launched to millions of Americans. Little did I know how successful a TV network about “watching paint dry and grass grow” would be, nor that it would ultimately be headquartered in Knoxville, Tennessee.

More than twenty-four years passed quickly and ended rather abruptly after our one-time competitor, Discovery Communications, officially purchased HGTV’s parent company, Scripps Networks Interactive, and its portfolio of brands. As with many acquisitions and mergers, I left five months later along with other longtime friends and colleagues. But as difficult as that was, I consider my time there a blessing and an experience for which I will always be grateful.

sel and willingness to serve as one of our many volunteer docents. I learn something new from each one every day!

My colleagues and I often talk about the spirit that lives in this house—a happy spirit born in a young artist from the 1890s who shared a love of painting, reading and travel. We pay tribute to Adelia every day, with fresh flowers, beautiful music and by sharing her story with visitors who come through our doors. Candidly, I oftentimes greet her in the morning when I start my work day, and thank her out loud for giving Knox Heritage the opportunity to continue our mission with the foundation of this amazing place beneath our feet.

Looking back, my involvement on HGTV’s campaign with The National Trust for Historic Preservation called Restore America ultimately led me to Knox Heritage. A couple of years later, I was asked to serve on the Knox Heritage Board of Directors, which is comprised of incredibly hard-working people from many professional disciplines passionate about what they do and committed to keeping the history, character and charm of East Tennessee alive. From 2013 through 2014, I served as president of the board when the Aslan Foundation gifted Historic Westwood to Knox Heritage.

I remember the first time I walked in the foyer and thought to myself, “I’ve got to work here someday!” On August 6, 2018, my desire became a reality. After the big corporate environment of HGTV, I joined a force of four (including me). My office is in the original family nursery and my windows overlook a heart-shaped driveway reminding me how lucky I am to have landed in a place I love. I thank former executive director, Kim Trent, for introducing me to this impactful and amazing organization. I’m grateful to Todd Morgan for believing in me enough to wait several months before officially making me part of the family. It doesn’t seem like work. It’s as if this job was built around my personal passions and professional experience. You really can’t get any better than that.

Historic Westwood is not only a gift to me, but it’s a gift to the community. So many people I talk with never knew it was behind the famous serpentine wall on Kingston Pike.

The family history and stories that played out beyond the front door of this home are remarkable. Just ask Diana Sample—the great-granddaughter of Westwood’s first resident, Adelia Armstrong Lutz. Diana is a living library for Westwood, and we are so grateful for her wisdom, coun-

Historic Westwood evokes many emotions for me. It’s not only my place of work, but it’s a museum house with an incredible story, and meant to be enjoyed by those with a love of history, a passion for art and a fondness for old homes. So, whether you come to learn or to seek a place to have your next special event, you are always welcome.

Historic Westwood is located at 3425 Kingston Pike, just east of Cherokee Blvd. and open to the public Monday through Thursday. Our guests can enjoy free tours and learn more about the life of Knoxville’s first professional female artist, Adelia Armstrong Lutz. Her adventures and life stories will captivate you—and the home is pretty spectacular, too!

For availability and pricing for events call 865-523-8008 or e-mail events@knoxheritage.org. Visit our website for more information at Historicwestwood.org, and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Interested in becoming a member of Knox Heritage? Go to knoxheritage.org/support/membership.

“The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams.”

-Oprah Winfrey

Beth is red hot in this multi-layered holiday outfit, featuring a chili pepper colored cashmere and wool blend jacket with fox trim detail on collar and sleeves, over a velvet tunic top with polka dot trim, with a collared duster and red suede VANELi heels.

(Janice Ann’s Fashions)

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ADELIA ARMSTRONG Shares Her Passion for Art

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delia Armstrong Lutz wasn’t just an amazing artist, she was a popular teacher, too. Her studio away from home was located in the Kern Building on Market Square where she would offer lessons in painting, drawing and embroidery.

She certainly had the credentials to teach. She was a director of the Knoxville Art Club and an inaugural member of its successor, the Nicholson Art League.

This League included among its members famous painters Lloyd Branson, Catherine Wiley, and Charles Krutch, as well as photographer Joseph Knaffl, and architect Lloyd Franklin Barber, all one-time residents of Knoxville. By the time Adelia was 25, she was a well-established artist and with prominent exposure in many larger cities. But she was not only an impressive artist, she was incredibly articulate. In 1872 she was awarded First Prize in Elocution from the Female Institute of Knoxville. She was only 13 years old.

Flowers Among Artists Favorites to Paint Enter the custom-built studio Adelia designed herself and you’ll see how much she enjoyed painting flowers. One of her favorites, the hollyhock, hangs over the fireplace today. Her signature feature hidden in her floral paintings included an insect and a dew drop.

Her other passion, reading, was evident in her studio with four large book cases around the perimeter of the space. The fireplace featured all of her favorite artists including William Shakespeare, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow and Charles Dickens, to name a few. In 1925 a newspaper article praised Adelia’s home, describing her art studio in particular as “a room in which both the art lover and the book lover would love to sit and look and dream.”

Adelia designed all nine fireplaces in Historic Westwood. She would sketch out her vision for each room and provide the drawings to C.B Atkin to build for her.

Atkin was a prominent figure in Knoxville’s history and had a business that manufactured fireplace mantles for elegant mansions nationwide. The only fireplace in the home with an understated design was in the dining room. She wanted to keep it unassuming in order to draw more attention to her paintings that were typically unveiled above it.

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A View from the Porch The front porch at Historic Westwood, especially the gazebo, was the perfect setting for family gatherings and celebrations. Where drinks were served, children gathered and stories shared.

The little girl shown in this photograph is Diana Samples, Knoxville resident and great granddaughter of Adelia Armstrong Lutz.

Paris and Sara are joyful in their black velvet tween dresses from Crenshaw Children’s Shop.

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Why wear a little black dress, when you can rock the little black tux like Kristin?

Shawni channels her inner goddess in this diamond white ladies tuxedo by Little Black Tux. (Both available at Prestige Tuxedo.)

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Wanda’s folklore-inspired, embroidered velvet jacket from Elliott Lauren is layered over an uneven hem tuxedo pant from Lafayette 148 and a Hinson Wu tailored white shirt featuring Swarovski crystal buttons. Available at M.S. McClellan.

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Shawni shines a Patty Kim fox-trimmed, angora jacket with toggle closures, a sleeveless knit mock turtleneck, a classic winter white pant, VANELi micro-sequined gold pumps, and a Julio pendant necklace from Janice Ann’s Fashions.

Taylor, Banks and Niels are adorable in these classic jammies from The Village Exchange.

Emily looks stunning in this form-fitting black satin dress from The Gilded Gown.

Emerson rocks this crushed velvet dress with detailed floral design print from Maggie Breen.

(Crenshaw)

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Kristin radiates elegance in this knockout peach structured chiffon cape dress from Fizz.

This beautiful pink dress with a sheer dot overlay and delicate flower appliques is perfectly festive any time of year. (Crenshaw)

The Metallic Fantasy Jacket from Berek, an unstructured Sympli pant and VANELi black bootie leave Patsy glowing both inside and out.

(Janice Ann’s Fashions West)

Each from Folly: A cable knit turtleneck sweater dress highlights Taylor’s locally created accessories.

Chloe pairs a traditional tartan plaid flare skirt with an off-the-shoulder bodysuit.

Scalloped bell sleeves add a contemporary feminine touch to Logan’s A-line dress.

Cyndy is eye-catching in this spectacular red and crème, gold sequined A-line gown. (The Gilded Gown) Steve looks dashing in this classic tux from Hickey Freeman; shirt by David Donahue; cufflinks and studs from M.S. McClellan Co. Tie, cummerbund set and pocket square are all from R. Hanauer.

Cassidy shines in this ruby red velvet swing dress from Folly Boutique.

This lavender velvet wrap paired with crème trousers, sequined Sacha London shoes, and a fun silver and gold Luana Italy chain strap bag is the party! (Janice Ann’s Fashions West)

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Shawni sparkles in this bluestone-hued sequin set from Nic & Zoe, and a luxuriously cozy fur topper from Linda Richards.

(M.S. McClellan)

Roy makes the perfect fashion accessory in this black Perry Ellis Slim Notch tuxedo with red bow tie and cummerbund from Prestige Tuxedo.

Steve’s handsome medium grey super 130’s mid-weight wool suit is by Canali.

His shirt is from David Donahue with a Robert Jensen tie and pocket square.

(M.S. McClellan)

Savannah looks bright and Hadley is happy beautiful in this Kinlock for the holidays A-Line, cinch waist floral in this corduroy dress from Altar’d State. The float dress with Fairdale fedora-style hat lace detail. with its leather belt is the (Crenshaw) perfect finishing touch for your fall looks!

Holden is classically festive in a plaid suspender short set from Bailey Boys with knee socks and shoes

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Matteo looks fetching in Bailey Boys pants and a crisp shirt with the added pop of a bright red bowtie.

(Crenshaw)

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From Janice Ann’s, a sophisticated black and silver Joseph Ribkoff embroidered jacket over a silver shell with black pants radiates elegance and class.

Shawni is ready for a fun evening out in this flutter sleeve, pleated velour dress from Lilla P. (M.S. McClellan)

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The Clarence Brown Theatre is East Tennessee’s Professional Regional Theatre located on the campus of The University of Tennessee-Knoxville. With three theaters (MainStage, Carousel, and Lab), the CBT brings professional theatre to audiences while providing educational opportunities for students studying acting and costume, set, lighting and sound design. From classic and contemporary plays, to show-stopping musicals, CBT productions offer something for everyone in the Greater Knoxville area and beyond.

This year, the CBT is doubling the holiday fun with productions of the annual classic A Christmas Carol, and the return of The Santaland Diaries.

First on the line-up is David Sedaris’ hilarious comedy The Santaland Diaries, which played to sold out audiences three years ago in the Carousel Theater.

In Santaland, we meet Crumpet, the quintessential elf-gone-bad, as he relives a series of less-than-merry adventures as one of Santa’s helpers during the Ma-

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cy’s Christmas shopping rush. This play is a gut-busting take on how the holiday season brings out the best — and the worst — in all of us. The Santaland Diaries is a one-man show starring David Brian Alley reprising his role as Crumpet the elf and is intended for “mature elves only.” The Santaland Diaries will run at the CBT’s Carousel Theatre from November 14th through December 9th with start times of 2:30 pm for matinees and 8:00 pm for evening performances.

Beginning November 29th and running through December 22nd, Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol will play on the CBT Mainstage. For more than 10 years, the CBT has produced A Christmas Carol. Extremely popular, it has become a holiday tradition for audiences who come back year after year to enjoy with family and to see what new surprises the CBT has added to the production. Start times for A Christmas Carol are 2:00 pm for matinees and 7:30 pm for evening performances.

Ticket prices for children ages 5 – 12 are just $10.

Bring your family, friends, and loved ones and come celebrate your holiday season at the Clarence Brown Theatre!

David Brian Alley as Crumpet the Elf in the CBT’s production of “The Santaland Diaries.”

Photo by Brynn Yeager For more information about The Santaland Diaries and A Christmas Carol, visit the CBT website at clarencebrowntheatre.com or call the Box Office at (865) 974-5161.

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or this last issue of the year, I’m reviewing my five favorite books published in 2018.

Choosing from so many wonderful books wasn’t easy, and I know many more will come out before January.

First up is T ​ he Perfect Mother,​by Aimee Molloy (Harper Collins, May 2018), about The May Mothers, a Brooklyn mommies group and what happens when they decide to have a night out without their small children. Single mother Winnie’s son gets kidnapped while they are out celebrating and circumstances result in the group pointing fingers at each other, especially at Winnie. I love how this book is not only a thriller, but a study on how society treats mothers who aren’t “perfect”— i.e. women who aren’t with their children one hundred percent of the time. I also love when I can’t figure out the ending of a book and this one, I did not see coming. An exciting and exhilarating read.

My second choice is an incredible memoir called ​Educated,​

by Tara Westover (Random House, February 2018).

She was raised by a family of religious survivalists in the mountains of Idaho and didn’t step foot into a classroom or a doctor’s office until the age of seventeen. In order to become truly educated, she must leave her family and their way of life behind. This painful choice and the battle in her soul after making it is as honest as it is heartbreaking. The amazing things she both lives through and accomplishes in her life make this one of the most fascinating reads, not only of 2018, but ever.

My third selection is ​ Where the Crawdads Sing, ​by Delia Owens (G.P. Putnam’s Sons, August 2018).

This part-mystery, part-love story and part-survival story centers around Kya Clark, or the “Marsh Girl”—as she’s called by residents in her rural North Carolina town. Abandoned by her entire family by age eleven, she cleverly finds creative ways to support herself, with no education, money or even electricity. A new friend teaches her to read and write, and then to fall in love, but eventually he leaves her behind. When the body of popular local ladies’ man is found in Kya’s marsh, the townspeople believe her history with this man and her mysterious ways make her responsible for his death. This novel is painfully beautiful and I enjoyed every second I got to spend in Kya’s world.

fect life starts unraveling. Angela supports her husband, but after one accuser disappears, she must reevaluate her thoughts about him and the women she chose not to believe. Twisty, sneaky and relevant with the #metoo movement, this story will keep you guessing until the final sentence.

Saved for last is my absolute favorite book: ​ Ghosted,​

by Rosie Walsh (A Pamela Dorman Book/Viking, May 2018). When Sarah meets Eddie in London, they have six perfect, magical days together before Eddie has to leave for vacation.

They exchange information and make plans for the second he returns. Time passes...but nothing. Did Sarah say or do something to make Eddie change his mind? Friends tell her to move on—he’s obviously ghosted her—but Sarah knows there is more to his mysteriMy fourth pick is​ ous disappearance. She literally cannot move The Wife,​by Alafair on until she knows what happened. I loved, Burke (Harper Colloved, loved this book! It’s suspenseful and lins, January 2018). gut-wrenching and really, we all can relate in Don’t be fooled some degree or another. I never wanted it to by the generic tiend and purposely read slowly to enjoy every tle and cover, this word of this marvelous novel. novel is anything but. When AngeAlright, fellow book lovers, I hope you find la marries Jason time to read this busy season or got an idea for Powell, she finally the reader on your gift list. I wish you a wonhas the happy, staderful holiday and all the best in 2019! ble life she craves. . .until Jason writes a Ashlea Bushman Ownbey bestselling book that brings the family into the reads way too many spotlight—which Angela desperately avoids books and spends the rest of her free time at for her own reasons. When two women bring HSTV finding homes for sexual accusations against Jason, their peranimals.

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hat wine pairs with turkey? Which wines should I serve at my holiday party? Should white wine be served with white meat and red wine with red meat? What if I am serving a roast and a turkey at the holiday dinner?

The holidays are meant to be spent with family and friends in celebration, enjoyment, and love— not in anxiety and stress over serving the “straight from the magazine” meal, buying the perfect gift, or most certainly not over pouring the ideal wine

at your dinner or party. The truth is, there is no perfect wine (gasp!) to serve with your Thanksgiving meal or your holiday party. My best advice is to trust your palate, choose wines that are versatile and complement a variety of dishes, and always have something on hand that you personally enjoy.

The most versatile white wine is Riesling. It is the most acidic of the white grape varieties, ranging from bone dry to sweet, with a lower alcohol content which won’t overpower your food. The acidity also helps to cleanse your palate in-between bites so you can go from your ham to your sweet potato casserole without missing a beat. My favorite comes from a small winery in Finger Lakes of New York called Boundary Breaks. I recommend their 239 Dry Riesling to serve with your main course. The bright acidity, stone and tropical fruits, and notes of honeysuckle and ginger will match up with turkey, ham, chicken, fish, and most side dishes from the rich and creamy to leafy green.

Another great white suggestion is Brotte Châteauneuf du Pape Blanc—a delicious, fuller-bodied yet fresh, white blend from the Rhône Valley of France. It offers flavors of peach and apricot with honey and citrus zest and finishes with notes of hazelnuts.

Pinot Noir is a usual go-to for holiday meals due to its higher acidity and lower tannins making it a multipurpose wine. Barbera and Tempranillo are also versatile reds that can pair nicely with a variety of cuisine. Charles Smith, a renowned wine-maker from Washington State, makes a stunning Barbera called Casa Smith.

Casa Smith Barbera has bright acidity and flavors of raspberries and plum, black tea-like tannins, and a lovely baking spice finish. It is perfect on its own or at the table. Tempranillo has become a favorite of mine since traveling to Spain last year. The unoaked versions are so easy to drink on their own or with lighter fare.

A Tempranillo with a little oak aging, like Vizcarra Senda del Oro, will be juicy with vibrant flavors of cherries and spice. I love the Vizacarra Tempranillo because it reminds me of a spice cake with hints of floral notes and a silky finish.

When all else fails, you can always grab a bottle or two of bubbly to help make everything feel more festive! Happy Holidays!

Shawn Mason, wife & mother of two boys, is a Certified Specialist of Wine with a decade’s experience in the wine & spirits distribution industry.

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Hope. hope is that inscrutable thing. when you are young, you hear about shipdock faith – the unwavering, firm, fast, dedication to the sky and sea and you believe. it is the name you call yourself, before you have realized you have woke up. half-asleep, dreaming. lavender scent and morning light outlines the street outside the bedroom you still must tell yourself you own. you have chased it. exhaled it. you know it. you sleep. wake. curse daytime. praise evening. you learn that you will never fully know why you believe, but you do.

When you are too young to spend early December in your own home alone, you find a box of two or three ornaments and drive to the nearest place where you can cut down a tree with your own hands, rough and steady now.

You carry it home, clad in lights from a nearby dumpster. It will be there, when your family gets back and the wine is ready, for everyone to drink and for a single moment, the living room will be holy, un-ending

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When your hands are still too young to write your own name, they are quite fine enough to hold ornaments, one-by-one, a careful carry from the box to the tree Father cut down himself, hung it in just the right spot. You were far too young to taste the spiced wine but you are certain, even then, the remains of pulled-back sticky pulp, sweet like cinnamon, will always find a place in your home.

if you had not left us home

we are the dawn, carved out of the sunset appalachia sky that sings to you. vibrant, burning, majestic. we are the song that that is sung across the bridges over the tennessee river and beneath the carolina roadways and in everything. we are that late morning, hung in loose curtains that sway in rose gold light. you, sustained by our noble bread, clad in animal skin, made us stay when you fought for this homeland to be called brave. if you had not left us home, you brave creature, you might have heard the voice of the songbird at dawn, sooner. the songbirds awake first, preaching long before men open their eyes to kill. we are the story carved into the cabins you left behind. we are worn, tired fighters with exhausted wombs. long ago, we asked you to listen to our song. and still, even now, we ask to listen again. you sing to the consistency of the blue sky on a work day, but our music paints the mountains.

McNeeley Moore works as Assistant News Editor of The Daily Beacon at UTK and teaches second graders in an after-school program.

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n 1993, a relatively small broadcast television station called America’s Collectible Network was founded in Greeneville, Tennessee by Robert ‘Bob’ Hall, William ‘Bill’ Kouns, and Gerald ‘Jerry’ D. Sisk, Jr. Featuring a variety of items such as baseball cards, quilts and electronics, something magical began when these three men developed ACN.

Sellors of C. W. Sellors Fine Jewellers from London, recreates the royal headdress worn

by Duchess Louise and the Devonshire tiaras.

The network’s focus migrated from general collectibles to gemstones and jewelry primarily because of the vast knowledge of Kouns and Sisk. In 2004, ACN rebranded into the widely successful Jewelry Television we know today. With 26 TV hosts and programming running 24/7—168 hours’ worth of weekly programming—they feature six specialty shows called “Girlfriend Friday,” “Jewel School” and “The Morning Mix.” JTV also features 18 specialty lines of jewelry.

Current Chief Executive Officer and President, Tim Matthews reports, “On the air and on our website, [we’ve sold] 1.5 billion dollars’ worth of loose gemstones.” More than any other company in the world.

Sergent boasts an elegant necklace known to contain the world’s largest known strand of Chinese freshwater pearls curated by Brenda Smith.

Bridges of Bridges Tsavorite displays a 31.57 carat, square-cushion, Tsavorite gem.

In Knoxville, JTV has about 1,500 people on their 16-acre campus. All of the core business operations in America are held here––studios, technology and internet teams, buying and photography. Through television broadcasting, JTV is able to reach 85 million households in the United States. In 2018, worldwide office locations have expanded to Hong Kong, Bangkok, Jaipur (“color gemstone capital of the world”) and Mumbai.

JTV holds special annual events and brings experts from all over the world to share their gemstones or jewelry designs. This year, the JTV Experience took place July 31-August 3 including specials guests: Bruce Bridges, Chris Sellors and Shelly Sergent.

Chelsea is a first-year master’s student at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville studying Journalism and Electronic media.

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PYA Leads the Way THE PRESIDENT OF PERSHING YOAKLEY & ASSOCIATES SHARES THEIR SECRET TO SUCCESS. Warning: I am getting ready to brag…

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our years ago, the CEO of a major competitor called me with what he thought was a routine question: “How did you do it? How did you get so much female ownership in your firm?”

I was bewildered.

(Now, this particular accounting firm ranks in the Top 50 in the country. Our Firm, headquartered here in Knoxville with clients in all fifty states, is ranked 90th in the country.)

He said of all the partners in his firm, only 10% were female. Then, it hit me. We do have a high percentage of female ownership (40% at the time), but I couldn’t answer how because it was not deliberate. We do not have a gender equity plan or formula. We simply recruit talent based on a person’s capabilities regardless of gender, race or age.

Since we are committed to work as a team, not as individuals, anyone may navigate the seasons in life and still be able to contribute to our Firm and our clients.

Our female leaders don’t just “Lean In” to their careers—as author Sheryl Sandberg advises—they are “All In.” As a Top 100 Accounting Firm and one of the largest Consulting Firms in the nation, I make my case with the following points: Nearly 60% of our entire management team is female • Female Managing Principals lead four out of five office locations. • Our Chief Administrative Officer, Chief Compliance Officer, and two of our five Service Line Leaders are female.

Clearly, our female colleagues are “All In” at all levels. They are leading our firm because they are talented leaders . . . who happen to be female.

As a native Knoxvillian and President of PYA, I just have to brag. (You were warned!) If you call Knoxville home, I want you to brag as well.

Our Knoxville office culture set a philosophy in motion for our whole firm that talent and merit determine who leads, who envisions the future, who executes, and who owns!

Pictured are just a few of our female leaders, many of whom reside in Knoxville

Marty Brown is a graduate of the University of Tennessee and is a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) with nearly 30 years of experience in healthcare.

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