The Civilized way of Disciplining a Boy __________ Publication
Created by Maester Patrick 7 Oktober 2016 Eindhoven, the Netherlands.
If you are unable to understand the application of the rod and necessity of disciplining a boy and/or it refuses to hearken to that method when it is applied properly, or you as a parent refuse to use it in your upbringing as you judge it to be a “barbaric” method. Proverbs 13:24. He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. Then I present this strategy to you as an Godly alternative: Every-time when you see that your boy shows acts of responsibility, Responsibility: Preparing himself for the life as a free citizen functioning properly within a society, and leading a woman (marriage) and his children in prosperity, both targets. Acts like studying himself useful towards a good purpose inside society or towards God, or a reorganization of the usage of his time, more efficiently, like balancing the hours of entertainment with hours of accomplishing whats necessary to pursue his ambition or maintain his health. Then, you use the desire of the boy, and trade it, as a predictable system, where both parties know what to do, everytime he shows an improve of acts of responsibility, the boy receives more of his desire. This Disciplinarian method, as a parent, acting predictably, in a progressive way, if you do this, systematically you teach the boy responsibility without targeting his soul: “I don't want pain so I better be good, as that rod on my buttocks hurts” . Making him use his free will, civilized, rewarding him with his desire, which usually is more freedom to act by the own will, which is to explore the dangerous and hard to predict 2
world. (When girls who are sexually active say they don't want a family and children, it is because they are undisciplined/lazy, they have not been learned to be responsible by their parents.)
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