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Sweeney Todd at Actor’s Express – “Attend the tale of Sweeney Todd. His skin was pale and his eye was odd. He shaved the faces of gentlemen who never thereafter were heard of again.”
Feature: “Navigating the Resolution Highway” – includes advice and tips from experts to help ease you into 2016
28 Cocktail Concoctions to Celebrate As the season of holiday parties comes to a close, we’ve put together a collection of cocktails to help you usher in 2016.
Inside the Center for Civil and Human Rights – Why Dr. Martin Luther King’s artificacts are just part of what makes this a great place to visit
30 Style Junkies - We bring you winter’s latest fashions through the lens and styling of photographer Richie Arpino set in an eclectic backdrop.
Editor’s Note This sure has been an interesting and memorable year: terrorist attacks on Paris and around the world; the tragic church shooting in Charleston, S.C.; marriage equality; social media hacking; the loss of Bobbi Kristina Brown; a new life for Caitlyn Jenner; a long overdue emphasis on transgender equality; Confederate flag controversy; the recovery of Tracy Morgan; the birth of Royal Baby Charlotte; the comeback of Adele; and other political and entertainment scandals galore. What events stand out most in your mind as you look back on 2015? It’s time for all of us around the world to make a collective sigh, set goals, and make New Year’s resolutions as we welcome in 2016 and look beyond New Year’s. Did you keep your resolutions last year? Many people have that ‘New Year New You’ attitude and motivation, and that’s a great thing. We’re proud to present our third edition of Goliath Atlanta. In this issue we take you to the Center for Civil and Human Rights for an insider’s look at an amazing place that remembers Civil Rights struggles and history and recognizes past and present heroes.
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We also give you a preview of a new production of Sweeney Todd at Actor’s Express that’s sure to blow your socks off! Get your tickets soon. In addition, change is inevitable, especially in the medical community. We’re proud to be one of the first to report on a fantastic partnership by Absolute Care and Pride Medical that’s guaranteed to help an infinite number of people living with HIV and AIDS in Atlanta. No one knows what changes and surprises are in store for 2016, but we’ll be here with you every step of the way. Happy Holidays, and Happy New Year!
Jesse A. Hancock EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Correction: In Volume 1 Issue 2 November 2015 we credited the incorrect photographer for our Oh Hell No! with David Mixner Goliath Atlanta Appearances page. The correct photographer is the very talented Mr. Dan Lax. Our apologies for this error and oversight.
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Must Attend Events
“Star Wars: The Force Awakens” Dec. 18. Set approximately 30 years after the events of “Return of the Jedi,” this seventh installment of the “Star Wars” saga is sure to please. Will all the original characters be back? What new characters will we love? Will C-3PO come out? Stay tuned, and may the force be with you! In theaters all throughout metro Atlanta.
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“The Danish Girl”
The Ugly Sweater Run™
Dec. 18. Another Oscar worthy performance by “The Theory of Everything’s” Eddie Redmayne in this 1930s period piece film. After posing as a female model for a painting by his wife Gerda (Alicia Vikander), Danish artist Einar Wegener (Redmayne) explores his feminine identity, begins living as a woman, and eventually undergoes one of the world’s first gender-reassignment surgeries. A must-see, especially if you have some time off over the holidays! At Midtown Art Cinema and cinemas all throughout metro Atlanta.
Dec. 19. It’s back! Join hordes of fashionably-challenged runners for a 5K at Piedmont Park on December at 11:00AM! This is a holiday celebration like no other. What a great way to burn some holiday calories! After finishing the merriest run of your life, stick around for some festivities and holiday goodies. Maybe you’ll win an award for Best Ugly Sweater, Best Kids Sweater, Best Pet Attire and/or Best Real/Fake Mustache/Beard? For more details and to register, go to www.theuglysweaterrun.com.
Dancing with the Stars: Live! Dec. 31. Ready to ring in the new year while getting your Samba on? Bindi and Derek won’t be there, but many of your faves will. You might even get a glimpse of the infamous glitter ball! Not a bad way to end the year. Get your tickets and head to the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre. For more info, go to www.cobbenergycentre.com.
Madonna: Rebel Heart Tour
Romeo and Juliet
MLK Day of Service
Jan. 10. Here’s a date night waiting to happen. “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” The Bard’s classic tragic love story comes to the Fabulous Fox Theatre for one show only at 3:00 p.m. Performed by the State Ballet Theatre of Russia. For tickets and information go to http://foxtheatre.org.
Jan. 18. Volunteer with Human Rights Campaign Atlanta for a service project to benefit Lost-n-Found Youth and the youth they serve. Volunteer opportunities include assembling care packages and cleaning the facilities. 11:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. at 2585 Chantilly Drive NE, Atlanta 30324. For more information go to hrc.org/mlkdayofservice.
Jan. 20. We’re addicted and can’t get enough of Madonna, the queen of pop. She’s still got it! Never predictable, always entertaining. At Phillips Arena, 8:00 p.m. For tickets and details, go to www.ticketmaster.com.
Sweeney Todd Jan. 23 – Feb. 28. See our article about this must-see show at Actor’s Express. For tickets and info go to www.actors-express.com.
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HIV/AIDS Medical Experts Form New Atlanta Partnership By Chris Brennaman
Joel Rosenstock MD, MPH
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or 20 years Pride Medical has been an iconic fixture in Atlanta’s fight against HIV/AIDS. On Dec. 14, though, one of the leading clinics that has been a go-to for HIV-related treatment for many in the area’s LGBT community closed its Howell Mill Road doors and began to transition its practice to join forces for a partnership at Buckhead’s AbsoluteCARE Medical Center and Pharmacy. While the closing of Pride Medical is the end of an era, AbsoluteCARE isn’t exactly a stranger in serving Atlanta’s HIV/AIDS population. Founded in 2000 by Dr. Joel Rosenstock, AbsoluteCARE not only provides treatment for the illness, but also offers services like nutrition education, mental health counseling and social worker access.
Still, change can be hard, especially for patients in treatment for HIV and its related illnesses. The bond developed between a patient and doctors, nurses, and other staff members at any medical provider is often deep. Fortunately for patients, there will be more than a few familiar faces for former Pride patients at AbsoluteCARE, including two doctors and about six other full-time staff members.
Patients coming in from Pride Medical are going to be sitting next to people who are not only gay males, but from all walks of life and backgrounds.
Rosenstock himself has been working with HIV/ AIDS patients for 26 years and serves as Medical Director of AbsoluteCARE. He said his practice could prove more comprehensive than potential new patients are used to getting. “We have a multidimensional model that looks out for all stressors in people’s lives,” said Ro-
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senstock. “We do outreach and we have many partnerships in town with 501(c)3s. I’m extremely proud of the work we do.”
Rosenstock said some Pride Medical patients have already made the transition and, so far, are happy with their new provider. But for those Pride Medical patients who’ve yet to set foot inside of AbsoluteCARE’s facility, Rosenstock is confident they’ll be won over as well. “Pride has had that niche of knowing that, if you’re a gay man in town and had a health problem, you could go there and feel very comfortable,” he said. “Pride has done great work. But we actually served more gay males than Pride in our practice since before they joined us, and I think people are going to be impressed with the opportunities and resources we can provide here at AbsoluteCARE.”
However, Rosenstock said a broader scope of care and familiar faces shouldn’t be the only things for new patients to expect when they arrive at AbsoluteCARE for the first time. They should also expect a lot of diversity.
“Patients coming in from Pride Medical are going to be sitting next to people who are not only gay males, but from all walks of life and backgrounds,” Rosenstock said. “Many of our staff members say one the most exciting things about working here is that you never know who’s going to be behind the door when going in to see a patient.”
AbsoluteCARE is located at: 2140 Peachtree Road NW, Suite 232 Atlanta, GA 30309 For more details, visit them online at www.absolutecarehealth.com
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Cut-Throat Production Embraces New Vision By Michael Chisholm
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his winter, brought to you by Actor’s Express, just down the street from the Georgia Aquarium, “Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street” returns to Atlanta.
It’s the story of a desperately wronged barber and his murderous thirst for revenge after a lustful judge takes away his wife and daughter. This production of the gothic musical of the throat-slitting barber is reimagined through the insightful vision of director Freddie Ashley. When asked why he chose to take on Sweeney Todd, Ashley said it was actually the title actor, Kevin Harry, who brought the idea to light. Harry, who played the same role in his youth, leads an ensemble cast in this new vision that departs from the usually monochromatic cast. He is one of the few African-American actors to tackle this iconic role.
“It’s about staying relevant, exploring how a show relates to our lives as we are living in this moment in time,” said Ashley. Rather than directly control the exact flow of the musical, Ashley prefers to let the play speak for itself and flow organically.
It’s about staying relevant, exploring how a show relates to our lives as we are living in this moment in time.
Harry said that he enjoys exploring the character’s fall from grace and what creates this not-so-evil, rather misunderstood psychopath. He said he was “intimidated by the role at first” but he “respects the cult following the character has and only hopes to do it justice.”
He chose to stay true to the dialogue and music of the original and divert only slightly. Rather than sticking to the Victorian London setting, for example, the cast jumps forward a few decades in terms of the clothing, settling on a more Edwardian style. And the city itself takes on a more World War I feel in terms of a highly industrial setting.
Freddie said that Harry’s humble nature and strong talent made him a natural choice for the role. With Sweeney cast, Freddie then faced the task of bringing the world of Sweeney back to the stage.
Ashley was aware from the get go that the Actor’s Express was going to limit the size of the production. The production team adapted a smaller stage to make London feel grittier and
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claustrophobic, and to emphasize the fear of the unknown and possibility of ruin for the citizens. “Sweeney has a huge following, and anyone who loves the musical will enjoy this show,” said Ashley. So if you’re feeling a little unkempt going into the new year, take a trip down to Actor’s Express for a quick shave. Sweeney’s waiting.
Want to go? When: Where:
Jan. 23 – Feb. 28 Actor’s Express 887 West Marietta Street NW Suite J-107, Atlanta, GA 30318 Tickets: www.actors-express.com
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John Stupka CEO of Blue MedClinic
People to Know
BLUE Brings Out a Better You
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By Stefano Patton
n October 2015 BLUE Men’s Clinic, a division of BLUE MedClinic, opened its doors in Midtown. With its innovative programs the men’s clinic is dedicated to improving the quality of sex life for Atlanta men but also offers “the best in medical aesthetics to help you look and feel younger from the inside out,” with an abundance of wellness offerings, said John Stupka, CEO of Blue MedClinic.
“We can help younger patients in their twenties and thirties with preventative options to reduce the onset of age with Botox, lasers, peels, and other nonsurgical services,” said Stupka. For patients in their 40s, 50s and beyond there are more advanced treatments for both aesthetics and sexual function offered through the BLUE Men’s Clinic.”
BLUE is on the cutting edge by realizing that beauty, sexual wellness, and health are all intertwined.
If you’ve driven through the gayborhood at all in the past year, Blue might seem familiar. There was once a BlueSpa on Tenth Street, but the familiarity halts there. Blue MedClinic differs from its predecessor by helping each patient create his own “personal blueprint” that will guide him to the best treatment options to look his [or her] best [and operate his or her best] at any age.
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One specialty for Blue MedClinic is treatment for erectile dysfunction. There are lots of myths out there. According to webmd.com one myth is that ED is just a normal part of growing older and men just have to learn to live with it. Another myth is that ED doesn’t hit younger men because it’s only a problem for older guys. BLUE Men’s Clinic recognizes these myths are prevalent, and with the help of a board certified urologist, who has been treating issues like ED and PE (premature ejaculation) for over 20 years, BLUE is enhancing the sex life of men of all ages.
BLUE helps rejuvenate its many diverse patients, but the business itself has also had a facelift. Stupka admits that the recession was a difficult time for what was BlueSpa. “The real estate market actually impacted our business more than anything as well as me personally with the location we started in,” said Stupka. Ending BlueSpa and revamping the business as BlueMed Center was a strategic and conscious decision. Stupka is grateful for the “many supporters in Midtown and in the Atlanta community who have continued to support BLUE through its evolution.” Stupka decided not to simply re-launch the spa, because “the community [had] perceived us as just a spa and didn’t realize all the more medical and surgical type offerings we have.” What some naively may deem as vanity procedures (invasive and non-invasive) BLUE is on the cutting edge by realizing that beauty, sexual wellness, and health are all intertwined. “As the population ages and people live longer, many of us feel great on the inside, but what we feel like doesn’t match what we see in the mirror,” said Stupka. “The BLUE brand is very focused on preventative treatments that you can do to restore confidence and self-esteem.”
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Center For Civil & Human Rights:
A Beautiful Struggle By Hyde Walker
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he Center for Civil and Human Rights is a highly appropriate milestone in itself, reminding its visitors to “Look how far we’ve come!” within the LGBT and Civil Rights Movements.
“The center uniquely and boldly connects historic freedom movements and iconic individuals, as well as everyday people, with human rights issues of today, thus sparking ongoing dialogue around the possibilities of the future,” said CEO Doug Shipman. The United States isn’t perfect. Although we have come a long way, some statistics are grim. For example, LGBT people of color face higher unemployment rates than other LGBT races, while 28% of Latino transgender people and 34% of black transgender people are in poverty. “Those working for freedom today use the Civil Rights Movement as a roadmap and look to Atlanta and the South as an example of past and ongoing efforts for equality – a place with a rich civil and human rights heritage,” said Ryan Roemerman, Interim Executive Director at the LGBT Institute, shedding light on the uniqueness of a difficult history that can only be found in the South. “The story [of human and civil rights] would not be complete without discussion of the ongoing struggle for LGBT rights, and that is why The LGBT Institute is an integral part of the Center’s global civil and human rights platform.”
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The story [of human and civil rights] would not be complete without discussion of the ongoing struggle for LGBT rights.
Some of those displays include: Forward Together – Atlanta’s personal LGBT history since the groundbreaking New York City Stonewall Inn riots in 1969; Rolls Down Like Water – the triumphant battle for equality with the Civil Rights movement of the 1950s and 1960s that challenged Jim Crow laws; and Voice to the Voiceless – personal papers and items of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., courtesy of the Morehouse College MLK collection.
But therein lies the stark beauty and necessity of the CCHR. It stands as an effective and powerful representation of both the dark adversities and epic triumphs that are conjoined with all mankind.
Much of the Center is interactive with technology that enables visitors to understand and connect with the complexities of human rights around the world. Want to go? MLK Day is right around the corner and a great time to go. For a nominal fee of $15, you can freely roam the Center and immerse yourself in all the journeys that have led us here to a highly flawed past yet sublimely hopeful future.
The Center opened in the summer of 2014. Located in downtown’s Pemberton Place next to attraction magnets World of Coca-Cola and the Georgia Aquarium, the Center was the combined innovation of civil rights legends Evelyn Lowery and Andrew Young, and it required significant assistance. The Coca-Cola Company donated the land, and there was widespread support from community and corporate folks alike. The Center is now proudly open daily and presents remarkable gallery displays that touch on various social injustices still plaguing the 21st century as well as the histories behind them.
For more info and to purchase tickets online, go to civilandhumanrights.org
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New Year’s Eve Best Bets By J. Hancock
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hat are you doing New Year’s Eve? That’s a question on everyone’s mind this time of year. You could stay in and go to bed early, but what fun is that? You could stay home and have a gay old time with your guy while enjoying cocktails, treats, and Anderson Cooper and Kathy Griffin. You could go to your choice of numerous house parties. You could hit the clubs. You could even go to a Widespread Panic or Atlanta Symphony concert. Here are a few more Best Bet options to consider if you’re looking for something different to do to help you get your Auld Lang Syne on. Happy New Year! Bar Margot at Four Seasons The party starts at 9:00 p.m. at the very classy, quaint Bar Margot located inside Four Seasons Midtown. For $85 per person you can dance the night away with endless champagne, live music, and complimentary desserts all night. Four Seasons is located in Midtown at 75 Fourteenth Street NE. For more details, call (404) 881-9898. Decay Decadence First Annual Peachtree Gala Joonbug.com presents this lavish event at the magnificent 200 Peachtree historic building. Ultra-glamorous, ultra-chic, and semi-formal/black tie optional. With a 6-hour open bar, the party also includes live DJ performances, exclusive VIP areas, a gourmet food buffet, party favors, and a midnight champagne toast, naturally. Other live entertainment includes feather greeters, a contortionist, burlesque performers, and stilt walkers! Revel in opulence at this exclusive, memorable party. Tickets start at $89. For more details and to reserve your tickets, go to www.newyears.com and click on Atlanta.
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WUSSY Magazine and THNKU present “a bittersweet New Year’s Eve of splendor, desire, joy, and rage, culminating in pop-up performances, installations, a dance party, and more.” Hosted by Kryean Kally and Brigitte Bidet, this 21+ party starts at 10:00 p.m. and goes until 1:00 a.m. Music by Robert Ansley and King Atlas. Admission is $10. Head over to the “Big House” on Ponce, 368 Ponce, an arts center, venue, and cultural hub at an historic mansion in Midtown. 368 Ponce are “lovers of the eccentric, unusual, and extraordinary.”
Navigating the Resolution
Highway By J. Hancock
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s the Big Peach drops and we roll into 2016, we all know what it’s time for: crowded gyms, rampant resolution posts on social media, and dreams of getting skinnier, richer, healthier and finally finding (or keeping) the per-
fect man.
Change isn’t easy. We all have busy lives, but how easy is it to make changes and stick to those pesky resolutions? According to www.positivechange.com, 40 to 45% of American adults make one or more resolutions each year. The top New Year’s resolutions are: losing weight, exercising more, stopping smoking, managing finances, and reducing or eliminating debt. As for keeping the resolutions, only 71% of people make it past the first two weeks, and by the end of six months that number drops to 46%. Should we even make resolutions?
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“Goal setting and visioning for the future is always a good mental exercise to engage in, and setting resolutions is no different,” said Josh Noblitt, Minister of Social Justice at Saint Mark United Methodist Church and candidate for Georgia House of Representatives, District 59. “Though new goals can be established at any time, the beginning of the year is especially a good time because it represents a new start. You can look back over the previous year, examine what worked and what didn’t work and learn from those successes and struggles.” Goliath Atlanta is here to help you navigate the Resolution Highway. Here we offer some tools, tips, and expert advice to help you on your way. Stay away from the haters, put down that dating app, fasten your seatbelts, and let’s go. Your journey awaits.
When it comes to fitness resolutions, we went to the experts to find out what it really takes to be successful. What gay man doesn’t want to have a great physique? “Fitness in general is something that you always have to work on, especially the older you get,” said fitness expert Andrew Johnson of Gravitee Fitness. “Find something you love and do it, whether it is a spin class, yoga, weight lifting or anything else you enjoy as long as you are active. Fighting the mental game is where New Year’s resolutions fail. It’s important to tell yourself that you’re never too old to start. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else, and do not get lost in fighting the scale. The biggest of all issues for gym newbies not to be embarrassed to sweat or look silly.”
GA: Why do people fail at their fitness-related New Year’s Resolutions? Ever noticed how we always want to start our new, healthy lifestyles on Monday, on the first of the month, or at the beginning of a New Year? That’s because putting them off is a comfortable excuse, an “easy out,” and is actually why you’re in need of making a resolution in the first place. This procrastination, along with setting vague or unrealistic goals and not seeking expert help, is the biggest reason most people fall short of achieving their fitness expectations in the New Year. Goliath Atlanta: What’s your general opinion about making New Year’s resolutions? Making resolutions to improve some aspect of yourself is a great idea, but why does it have to happen on an exact date or time of the year? Resolutions, as they pertain to diet and exercise, take a tremendous amount of discipline, dedication and effort. The amount of time that goes into meal planning and exercise alone can be overwhelming; it’s no wonder that most people continue to push back doing this until the New Year. It sure isn’t easy or fun – especially trying to make multiple changes at the same time. Setting realistic goals and expectations is the best way to accomplish any resolution.
First, in order to be successful with your resolutions, you must understand that a healthy lifestyle is a habit, and habits take time to form. Continuing to put off starting a gym regiment or diet program is just enforcing your old bad habits. Start your New Year’s resolution now. Make it a yearlong resolution starting immediately, not a New Year’s resolution starting weeks, or even months, from now. And once you’ve formed good habits, maintain them year round. Second, be realistic when setting your goals, and seek the help of a fitness professional in doing so. The quickest road to failure is to set a goal that is too lofty, failing to meet it, and quitting out of frustration.
For example, rather than trying to make all your changes at once and expecting fast and unrealistic results, it would be much easier to create a timeline with well thought out points in time to make changes. On Jan. 1, I would make a commitment to do three days of weight training a week, and once you have done that for six weeks in a row, add another goal of incorporating some cardio into the routine.
For example, some people want to lose 20 pounds in a month, but they may only lose five. Obviously, they think it’s impossible to change, so they give up. Instead of this self-defeating approach, seek advice from a professional who can help you set smaller, achievable milestones along the road to your ultimate goal.
Once both of those goals have happened for six weeks in a row, it would be a great time to start working on a diet. Too many people try to make too many changes at once and don’t realize how difficult it is to make major life changes, let alone multiple changes at one time.
It’s recommended to lose one to two pounds a week in order to develop healthy habits and keep the weight off permanently, which means you may need to work consistently for two and a half to five months to drop 20 pounds.
Don’t wait. It doesn’t get any easier as time passes, and you’re likely to lose motivation the longer you wait. Start that resolution now, and make some improvements before the New Year. You’ll be much more likely to accomplish your goals by setting realistic expectations and making that commitment to change, one step at a time.
As I tell my clients all the time, “You didn’t put on the weight (or lose the muscle) over night, so you’re not going to reverse it overnight.” So no more waiting on the New Year to start the journey to a healthier, happier you. Seize the day, choose to be strong, and conquer those goals for good!
Aaron Pols, APCPT, Gravitee Fitness
Rick Twombley Rick Twombley Fitness, Gravitee Fitness
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GA: Why do some people succeed at fitness goals while most do not? The people who succeed are the people who just show up. We fitness experts are there to guide you and help you make the right choices towards your fitness goals. We understand that you’re exhausted from a long trying day, and the last thing you want to do is go to the gym; however, we also know that after you get done with your workout - whether that be 10 minutes or 30 minutes - you will walk out the front door feeling energized, relaxed, and accomplished knowing you are one step closer to your goals. That feeling of accomplishment is what drives success, and I guarantee you’re going to leave with a smile. You did it! You made that commitment to come into the gym. You will succeed. Michael Wido, Southeast Bodies CPT, Gravitee Fitness
GA: If someone is not a “gym rat” but wants to get into shape for the New Year, why do you recommend the gym? Can’t it be done on your own?
GA: What is your advice – should people even make fitness-related resolutions?
If you’ve never really worked out, it can be very intimidating to sign up at a gym, but working out a gym has its advantages over working out at home.
Just remember: everybody in that gym had a “first day.” Remember to have fun.
Vowing to lose 20 pounds, tone your arms, and get yourself a six pack are great fitness resolutions for the New Year. It’s good to commit to being a better, healthier you. The challenge is that people go in with the wrong intentions - looking for that quick fix. They over train, go on fad diets, and then crash and burn by February when they don’t see immediate results. Fitness resolutions stick only when you make a healthy lifestyle commitment. That means skipping unrealistic goals like, “I’m going to lose ten pounds in a month” or “I’m going to have arms like the Rock by March.” Instead, focus your energy on eating healthy, and make consistently good decisions about how you will take care of your body. The best way to do this is to get help. A good trainer will put you on the proper track to get fit responsibly, leading you on the way to do it correctly. This includes not only exercise, but also nutritional modification and can lead to a major change that will happen gradually and become long lasting.
Henriette Steffensen BetterBodies, Gravitee Fitness
Cliff “Hollywood” Boyce Celebrity and Fitness Coach, Hollywood Fitness IFBB Pro, Gravitee Fitness
You can absolutely get a great workout at home, but staying motivated can sometimes be difficult. Going to a gym gets you energized to work out by being surrounded by other members who are in the same boat as you. Another advantage of the gym is that you will also have access to great trainers and staff who can teach you proper form and get you on a plan to reach your specific goal. Last but not least, if you like groups and working out with others, there is usually a class for everybody, from spinning and kickboxing to TRX and yoga.
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Of course, fitness isn’t the only common resolution going into 2016. Another major resolution is improving finances. For some gay men that means buying fewer weekend cocktails or spending less on new clothes. For others it means getting a new job or an extra job. Sometimes it means getting rid of debt or and sticking to a budget. It’s no secret that as gay men we’ve been known to drive up uncontrollable amounts of debt. “This is not a game,” said author and financial expert Dave Ramsey. “Debt has become a part of who we are. It’s become that spoiled child in the grocery store with their lip stuck out: ‘I want it. I want it. I deserve it because I breathe air.’ And, well, that’s an uphill climb in our culture right now, to go against that and say, ‘Hey, let’s be grownups here. Let’s be mature, learn to delay pleasure, save up and pay for things.’” For more information about Dave Ramsey, go to www.daveramsey.com. Josh Noblitt, who is also a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice, has taught Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University classes and has some advice when it comes to making financial New Year’s resolutions. GA: Why do people fail at their financial New Year’s resolutions? Josh: There is a tendency to take on everything at once, or to establish unrealistic expectations for change. For example, if I resolve to pay off all of my debt by the end of the next year, but I don’t have a clear plan on how to achieve that resolution, I am more likely to ditch it altogether after not seeing the progress I might want to see. We live in an instant gratification culture right now, and it is easy to give up when we don’t see instant results.
Whether or not you set New Year’s resolutions it up to you. Whatever your resolutions – fitness, finances, or something else – going into the New Year with a plan is smart.
GA: Why do some people succeed? Josh: Those who succeed in achieving their New Year’s Resolutions are often motivated not just by the arrival of a new year, but by additional motivating factors. There was a time in my own life when I was not achieving the financial goals I set for myself. I got tired of spinning my wheels over and over, so I took a financial class that offered help in coming up with a plan. It broke the goal down into much more manageable pieces and thus I saw a lot more success.
“I encourage everyone to have at least once resolution for the coming year,” said Noblitt. “It gives you something to look forward to. Manage expectations on the front end and pick resolutions that are realistic. Come up with two to three specific and achievable resolutions with a clear plan and specific deliverables. Share your resolution with another person and invite them to be an accountability partner to help you stay motivated and focused. It is much easier to ditch the resolutions if nobody else but you knows. Celebrate small victories along the way.”
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Cocktail Concoctions to Celebrate By J. Hancock What’s that you’re drinking? If you’re tired of your same old drink, maybe it’s time for a change. As the season of holiday parties comes to a close, we’ve put together a collection of cocktails to help you usher in 2016. You don’t have to become a bartender to learn how to make great cocktails at home that will impress your guests. And whether one of your
New Year’s Resolutions is to make healthier food and drink choices or you are still indulging in holiday bliss, there is something for everyone who enjoys a good, flavorful concoction to enjoy with friends, family, or the man you love.
Raspberry Skinny Martini Ingredients: 1 ½ oz. Absolut vodka ½ oz. Cranberry Juice (or Diet Cranberry Juice) 6 to 8 Fresh Raspberries ½ oz. Sweet Red Vermouth ½ oz. Simple Syrup Squeeze of Lime
Directions: Fill a cocktail shaker with ice. Add vodka, raspberries, cranberry juice, simple syrup, vermouth and lime to shaker. Shake thoroughly and strain into a chilled glass.
Mulled Wine Ingredients: 1 Bottle Fruity Red Wine (Merlot works well) 1 Cup Brandy 1 Medium Orange, Sliced 1 Medium Lemon, Sliced 1 Cup Sugar 1/8 Teaspoon of Nutmeg 2 Cinnamon Sticks ½ Teaspoon Allspice ½ Teaspoon Aniseed ½ Teaspoon Whole Peppercorns 3 Whole Cloves 2 Pieces of Cheesecloth
Directions: Combine the wine, brandy, orange, lemon, sugar and nutmeg in a large saucepan. Place remaining spices on a double thickness of cheesecloth; bring up corners of cloth and tie with string to form a bag. Add spice bag to wine mixture. Bring to a boil, stirring occasionally. Reduce heat; cover and simmer gently for 20 minutes. Cool; cover and refrigerate overnight. Strain; discard fruit and spice bag. Reheat wine; serve warm in mugs.
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The Goliath White Russian Ingredients: 1 ½ oz. Cathead Pecan Vodka ½ oz. Espresso Liqueur ¾ oz. Averna Cream Liqueur Splash of Cream (or half and half)
Directions: Mix ingredients. Shake hard and strain into a large old fashioned glass with a few ice cubes. Top with freshly grated cinnamon and nutmeg.
Maple Hot Toddy Ingredients: 1½ oz. Knob Creek® Smoked Maple Bourbon ½ oz. Honey ½ Cup Hot Water ½ oz. Fresh Lemon Juice 2 Cinnamon Sticks for Garnish Lemon Wedge for Garnish
Directions: Combine all ingredients in a warmed teacup or mug. Stir, garnish and serve.
Spiced Rum and Eggnog Ingredients: 1 oz. Captain Morgan® Original Spiced Rum 4 oz. Eggnog 1 Pinch of Nutmeg
Directions: Pour rum into a small highball glass. Add eggnog. Stir together, top with nutmeg, and serve.
The Money Maker Ingredients: 3 Parts *Mint-Infused Hornitos Plata Tequila ½ Part Raspberry Liqueur ¾ Part Branca Menta 1 Oz. Fresh Lemon Juice ½ Part Simple Syrup 1 Egg White
Directions: Combine ingredients in a mixing glass. Shake, without ice, to combine. Pour over ice, garnish, and serve. *For the infusion: Combine 4 oz. of washed mint with 500 ml of Hornitos Plata. Cover and allow to infuse for 1 hour. Strain off tequila and enjoy.
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Cover: Print sweater with zippered fur collar by ZARA-MAN Left: Knit sweater by G-Star at Lenox
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Grey knit sweater with turtle neck scarf by American Stitch Grey leather shoes by Clarks Black Italian leather gloves and pants by UNIQLO
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Knit sweater and jeans by G-Star
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Black cowboy hat, sweater and wool scarf by Michael Stars Pants by UNIQLO Boots by ALDO
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Knit sweater and jeans by G-Star Orange Italian leather gloves and shoes by H&M
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Leather jacket and print pants by G-Star
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BOYS AND THEIR TOYS Cocktails, toys, and the best dressed gay boys in town filled Americasmart Building 3 Saturday Dec. 12 for the 13th annual For The Kid Toy Party and Silent Auction. Hosted this year by The Other Show, Atlanta’s favorite holiday party and toy drive benefits local families in need. It isn’t too late to help out. Go to www.forthekid.org for details.
Photos by Russ Youngblood
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TENNIS ANYONE? On Sunday, Dec. 6 the Atlanta Team Tennis Association held its annual awards ceremony at Loca Luna in Midtown. The group celebrated and recognized various charities that they selected to support in 2016. The mission of ATTA is “to promote and develop the growth of tennis in the LGBT community and include friends and allies.” The group plays year-round, weather permitting, and welcomes all participants regardless of sexual orientation. For more details go to www.atta.org.
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OUT IN THE KITCHEN Food porn? Delicious tastes and treats were the main attraction at the Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce’s Out in the Kitchen event on Wednesday, Dec. 2 at Altitude on the scenic 27th Floor of the W Midtown. This culinary-focused holiday event featured Atlanta’s premier LGBT/ally chefs and their culinary inspirations. Yum yum! For more details about AGLCC go to www.atlantagaychamber.org.
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IT’S DEVEN GREEN DEVEN GREEN is an award-winning comedy performer. You know her from the “Welcome to My Home” parodies, as the satirical Betty Bowers – America’s Best Christian, OCCmakeup ads, “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” World of Wonder, and performing her live music shows in brothels across America. DevenGreen.com Dear Deven: I’m an Aquarian, what is my horoscope? “Watery in Washington” Deven: Do you feel that all the people in the world fit into 12 generalized categories? You tell this month what it will be, not the other way around. Dear Deven: I tried to quit smoking, but when I go out and drink I smoke. What to do? “Inhaling in Indian Springs” Deven: Go out to places such as a park, running track, dog run, etc. where they don’t serve booze. Fill your mouth with something else to relieve that oral fixation. When you are ready to quit, you will completely quit. No one can change your mind until you do. Dear Deven: I have breakfast with my friends at the same cafe every morning. Is it okay to try the place across the street? “Chewing in Chattanooga” Deven: You are allowed to cheat on your waiter. You are allowed to eat anywhere you wish. Only you are placing emotional obligations on this scenario. In your childhood, you were punished for something of this nature and now your deep misplaced attachments are ruling you . . . I presume. You are allowed to walk away and walk back in again. Dear Deven: I want to feel like a “good person.” What can I do to make me seem kind-hearted? “Reaching in Regina” Deven: I appreciate your desire to be a human being. You want OTHERS to notice how kind you are, so your motivation will always be transparent and you won’t get the wanted results. Find a cause that actually resonates with you such as volunteering. It may take a couple of tries to find the right fit for your sensibilities, but when you do, you won’t need to tell everyone how good you are because you just will be. Dear Deven: I’m gay and I love to gossip! Is that sooooo bad? “Tattling in Toledo” Deven: Thank you for coming out. You gossip to provide the illusion of closeness by revealing something you shouldn’t to others. If someone you trusted kept quiet about your particulars, maybe you should extend that same courtesy if it’s asked of you. The only harm is to you, since your reputation will be sullied. Gossip about yourself or talk less about others, dear. Dear Deven: I honestly feel like I am blending in with everyone else since we all shop at the same places and have the same aesthetic, same skin regime. How can I be different? “Heterogeneous in Homer” Deven: We all fall into some generalized categories, but you, in your desire to fit in, lost yourself. Create your own identity in the group by personalizing one thing - such as your shoes. Have a diverse interest which requires you to look, feel, sound and be different; then you have fulfilled your want to be you, and still maintained the safety of your group. Dear Deven: I let Jesus into my heart but I let another man into my bed. Do you think He’ll be upset? “Jacked” Deven: Tell him that you and Jesus have an open relationship. Dear Deven: When does it get better? -- “Yearning in Yonkers” Deven: When you get easier. Photo: ReedDavisPhotography.com
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I have your answers, give me your questions: DevenGreen@gmail.com Would you like me to read this to you? Go to GoliathAtlanta.com and listen!