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Now I’m bringing the fight to my HIV.” Reggie - Atlanta, GA Living with HIV since 1985.

As a military guy, I know how to follow orders. So when my doctor told me to start and stay in treatment, I listened. Now my treatment regimen is part of my life. That means I take my pills, I keep my medical appointments, I stay connected to support groups and I keep up with the latest education. Treatment works for me, and now I show other veterans who are HIV-positive how it can work for them.

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EDITOR’S NOTE Gay life in Atlanta is so busy, it often isn’t until summer hits that we realize how fast the year is passing.

Luckily, it’s also the time for slowing down a bit to take a break, notice the little things, and appreciate some of the milestones as they fly by.

Speaking of milestones, Stonewall Month hits Atlanta full force this year with a full slate of reverence and revelry to mark the occasion. Beyond those specialty events, our Agenda calendar is also full of don’t-miss happenings to carry you through June and July.

Besides keeping your social life hopping, this issue of Goliath hopes to claim part of your summer downtime to consider issues big and small, fun and serious, personal and global.

On the fun side, our cover spread offers fashion in colors as deep and passionate as the season itself, plus some summer style staples to upgrade your look. Then we really get going to places for you to show it off.

We start at your place to help you throw a deck party that won’t break the bank or the host’s sanity. Next we tour Georgia for camp and cabin sites to hit this summer, along with the latest gear that makes it almost as luxurious as home, but with spectacular views.

We hope this edition also provides a springboard to more serious thoughts and conversations. We meet Rainbros Co-founder Brian Yancey and share his vision for a gay Atlanta full of mentors and skill sharing rather than partying and petty competition.

Our feature story takes it further, wondering aloud whether ignoring opposing political views really works, or actually holds us back both personally and as a community. This issue also arms you with information about gay male mental health, and helps you and yours take steps to conquer those challenges this summer.

With everything going on in and out of town, we always remember to hit the town and let off some steam. Our Appearances pages shine with your smiles as always, and we look forward to seeing you out this summer for more photos at all your favorite events.

Mike Fleming Editorial Director Mike@GoliathAtlanta.com

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MUST ATTEND EVENTS A Ver y Sordid Wedding If you loved Sordid Lives, you’ll be thrilled to know that Leslie Jordan’s Brother Boy and his whole dysfunctional Southern family are back in this sequel. A Very Sordid Wedding reunites an all-star ensemble cast set in the weeks following the U.S. Supreme Court’s marriage equality decision.

The Atlanta debut screens courtesy Out on Film on June 28 and June 29 at Midtown Art Cinema. outonfilm.org

Ser ving for Equality Peach Par ty Three nights, four venues and six parties make one great party each June in Atlanta. If nothing says summer to you like a party, get ready for June 1619 in Midtown. Dance all weekend with the likes of Phil B, Dee Martello, Paulo, Alex Acosta, Josh Whitaker and more from your nightlife experts at Heretic, Jungle, Xion and Ten. peachpartyatlanta.com

HRC Atlanta’s LGBT tennis social returns to your summer with a day of matches on July 22 at Sharon Lester Tennis Center. Players of all skill levels are welcome to register andplay in this doubles event, as non-playing fans sign up to enjoy the DJ, food, cocktails, silent auction and photo booth. hrcatlanta.org

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Bright Light Bright Light Smooth pop with an edge defines this up-and-coming gay singer with the funny name. Atlanta gets its first chance to see him perform on June 23 at Aisle 5. Find out what the U.K. and Western Europe already know: This guy is a talent that’s going places, and you’ll be glad to say you helped discover him before he was a household name. brightlightx2.com

LGBT Business Summit

Stonewall Month

“The Rise of the Rainbow Economy” takes Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce into its first national conference for LGBT business professionals. The June 23 event at the Four Seasons Hotel explores personal, professional and social responsibilities in gay business via networking opportunities, panel discussions, and an overview of the state of the LGBT economy. atlantagaychamber.org

Atlanta’s Pride festival hasn’t been seen in June in nearly a decade, but the recognition of the New York riots that started it all remains. Events fill June with Pride from the 20th and final East Point Possums Show on June 3, to an Atlanta contingent at the Equality March in D.C. on June 11, the annual Pride Run on June 17, and the Stonewall Block Party at Ten Atlanta June 16-18. Check our preview in this issue, and visit atlantapride.org

Joining Hear ts A whole season of warm-up events since Valentine’s Day culminates in summer’s biggest gay pool party. For the 30th year, Gay Atlanta hosts guys from across the country at Piedmont Park Pool on July 15 to raise funds in the fight against HIV. DJs Seth Breezy, Grind and Joe Gauthreaux rule the dance floor, while patrons enjoy guest experiences up to VIP and Ultra VIP, all wrapping with the event’s largest fireworks display to date.

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ctober’s celebration of Atlanta Pride is still months away, but make no mistake: June is still your time to shine some Pride on Atlanta.

With the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots at hand, the world is tuned in for all things gay in June. The riots rocked New York City and reverberated across the country in June 1969 and birthed the modern day LGBTQ rights movement, so each year we come together to remember our history and celebrate our successes. Even with our big festival still far off, that includes Atlanta The summertime Pride rollout can be just as empowering and invigorating as the local Pride festival season. Social media platforms experience a rainbow takeover, major retailers stock gay themed apparel, and even our Netflix & Chill options become more queer.

Alongside LGBT communities across the globe, Atlanta’s social calendar is packed commemorations all month long. From historical city tours to late night parties, Atlanta’s spin on summer Pride offers something for everyone.

Prepare for Stonewall Month by checking out our picks from the Atlanta LGBTQ calendar.

RECONNECT WITH HISTORY

Whether you’re a longtime Atlanta resident or new to town, the Touching Up Your Pride Roots Trolley Tour is a sure bet to dig into the city’s rich gay history. This narrated two-hour ride starts and finishes at the Center for Civil and Human Rights and is sponsored by its LGBT Institute. It’s a great way to relive your past stomping grounds, those of generations long gone, or to just get a better take on our community’s background. Tickets are $15 for two tours, set for June 4 and 17. Register and reserve your seats lgbtinstitute.org.

GET POLITICAL

If you’ve been hiding under your desk, contemplating the safest exit toward a different political reality than our current state of affairs, there’s a dinner party for that. It’s been a tough year on the national scene, and our local advocates and political-animal types have made our backyard the new battleground state. Georgia Equality’s 13th Annual Evening for Equality takes over the InterContinental Hotel on June 17. Come celebrate local LGBT successes and raise some cash to keep fighting the good fight. Pick out a suit and tie, and head to georgiaequality.org for tickets.

CHEAP THRILLS

Get your adrenalin pumping during Stride Into Pride at Six Flags Over Georgia on June 24.

For under $50, you get a full day’s admission and parking. Elevate your experience with the $65 ticket that includes and Atlanta Pride lunch with unlimited beer and wine. Every ticket includes entry to an evening ice cream social and dance party in the park featuring DJ Canvas. This is an all-ages event and great for large groups. Get more information and tickets at atlantapride.org.

LET’S DANCE

Two big weekend-long events keep the beat June 16-18. GA Boy Productions kicks things off with its Peach Party Atlanta party series.

DJ Phil B takes over Heretic on Friday, Saturday finds DJ Paulo at Jungle, and both nights feature an after party at Xion until 7 a.m. Sunday’s festivities start with Josh Whitaker at Ten Atlanta as part of that venue’s Stonewall Block Party, featuring outdoor bars and DJs all weekend. Peach Party moves to Jungle Sunday night for the closing event Alegria with DJ Abel playing through 7 a.m. Monday. Visit peachpartyatlanta.com and facebook.com/tenatlanta If you’re still itching for a Pride festival experience in June, it’s not too late to plan a trek to NYC Pride or another big-city spectacular set for the last weekend of the month.

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What is TRUVADA for PrEP? TRUVADA for PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) is a prescription medicine that is used together with safer sex practices to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. This use is only for HIV-negative adults who are at high risk of getting HIV-1. To help determine your risk of getting HIV-1, talk openly with your healthcare provider about your sexual health.

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This is only a brief summary of important information about taking TRUVADA for PrEPTM (pre-exposure prophylaxis) to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 infection. This does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your medicine.

(tru-VAH-dah) MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT TRUVADA FOR PrEP Before starting TRUVADA for PrEP: • You must be HIV-1 negative. You must get tested to make sure that you do not already have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP to reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are confirmed to be HIV-1 negative.

• Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in a person who has recently become infected. Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include flu-like symptoms, tiredness, fever, joint or muscle aches, headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, night sweats, and/or enlarged lymph nodes in the neck or groin. Tell your healthcare provider if you have had a flu-like illness within the last month before starting TRUVADA for PrEP. While taking TRUVADA for PrEP: • You must continue to use safer sex practices. Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP may not keep you from getting HIV-1.

• You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Get tested for HIV-1 at least every 3 months while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you think you were exposed to HIV-1 or have a flu-like illness while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. • If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need more medicine than TRUVADA alone to treat HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time.

• See the “How To Further Reduce Your Risk” section for more information.

TRUVADA may cause serious side effects, including: • Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. If you have HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking TRUVADA. Do not stop taking TRUVADA without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health regularly for several months.

ABOUT TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA for PrEP is a prescription medicine used together with safer sex practices to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. This use is only for HIV-negative adults who are at high risk of getting HIV-1.

• To help determine your risk of getting HIV-1, talk openly with your healthcare provider about your sexual health.

Do NOT take TRUVADA for PrEP if you: • Already have HIV-1 infection or if you do not know your HIV-1 status.

• Take certain medicines to treat hepatitis B infection.

HOW TO TAKE TRUVADA FOR PrEP • Take 1 tablet once a day, every day, not just when you think you have been exposed to HIV-1.

• Do not miss any doses. Missing doses may increase your risk of getting HIV-1 infection.

• Use TRUVADA for PrEP together with condoms and safer sex practices.

• Get tested for HIV-1 at least every 3 months. You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP.

POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA can cause serious side effects, including: • Those in the “Most Important Information About TRUVADA for PrEP” section.

• New or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure.

• Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.

• Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.

• Bone problems.

Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA for PrEP include stomach-area (abdomen) pain, headache, and decreased weight.

These are not all the possible side effects of TRUVADA. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during treatment with TRUVADA for PrEP.

BEFORE TAKING TRUVADA FOR PrEP Tell your healthcare provider if you: • Have or have had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis.

• Have any other medical conditions.

• Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant.

• Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. If you become HIV-positive, HIV can pass to the baby in breast milk.

Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take: • Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist.

• Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist about medicines that should not be taken with TRUVADA for PrEP.

HOW TO FURTHER REDUCE YOUR RISK • Know your HIV status and the HIV status of your partners.

• Get tested for other sexually transmitted infections. Other infections make it easier for HIV to infect you.

• Get information and support to help reduce risky sexual behavior, such as having fewer sex partners.

• Do not share needles or personal items that can have blood or body fluids on them.

GET MORE INFORMATION • This is only a brief summary of important information about TRUVADA for PrEP. Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more, including how to prevent HIV infection.

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MAN ABOUT TOWN JAMES BRIAN YANCEY RAINBROS CO - FOUNDER ADDS SUPPORT AND S K I L L S T O F A B R I C O F G AY L I F E I N AT L A N TA

By Matthew Holley Ever since its launch at the start of the New Year, Rainbros has redefined what it means to be a gay man in Atlanta through its unique take on peer mentorship and group activities.

Rainbros envisions opportunities to discover commonalities and foster friendships above and beyond the typical gay hotspots and our own limited personal social circles.

Co-founder James Brian Yancey has worked tirelessly on the organization’s unique focus on common themes that most gay men struggle to navigate: fitness, finance, career building and health. We like what we see, so we named Yancey this month’s Man About Town and asked for more about his vision, his life in Atlanta, and his hopes for Rainbros future.

How did Rainbros come about?

I grew up in in Atlanta with organizations like Youth Pride and places like Outwrite bookstore, where I hung out with and made new friends when I was under 21. Those groups and places that support and foster relationship building outside of clubs and bars no longer exist, … so I always wanted to support people in our community to get on the right track.

More broadly, our community is hyper-sexualized… I’ve heard people say over and over that they are tired of apps and hookups and just want real connection in the real world. In seeing a lack of support for each other and hearing that people just want to connect a safe platonic way, the ideas for Rainbros were born. Mike Duffy, a Senior Producer for CNN at the time, and I shared parts of this vision and collaborated to co-found the organization.

So what exactly is Rainbros?

The core of Rainbros is peer coaching. We have 70 approved coaches that we’ve interviewed and who have gone through background checks to ensure safety. … We meet with people to hear the areas of their life that they want to grow in, and we connect them to a coach to establish goals and work toward them in life.

We also support and promote an ecosystem of events across theater, networking, health and fitness, personal finance, healthy relationships, networking and gay history to build communityWhere do you hope it goes in five years?

I hope Rainbros will have a method that consis-

tently results in successful outcomes that can be packaged and replicated in other cities in the U.S. and countries around the globe. The world needs more peer coaching and supportive, platonic relationships.

Tell us about yourself outside of Rainbros.

I’m a rare Atlanta native. Even though I’ve lived in NYC for three years and London for six, Atlanta is home and I keep coming back. …

I had the chance to get involved very early with a digital marketing agency called 360i and ended up moving to NYC and London winning new biz, growing and managing teams and learning a lot from my lifelong mentor, the CEO there, Bryan Wiener. I got to launch and build the business in London from scratch, knowing no one there. …

We sold that company, and I used the proceeds to start my current company CloudTags, a venture-backed connected retail technology using ultrasonic waves to connect smartphones and staff tablets with no app needed. We are in Ponce City Market and have a team and offices in London as well.

What do you like to do for fun?

I love running and I love anything and everything in Piedmont Park – Green Market, concerts, Atlanta Botanical Gardens. I spend lots of time having adventures with my dog Winnie.

I adore every aspect of the BeltLine and what it symbolizes and can be very happy anywhere on it seeing the diverse people of our city.

I’ve also been known to throw a few epic house parties for Joining Hearts and Halloween. I also spend a lot of time boating with friends on Lake Lanier at Gay Cove.

What are your favorite things about Atlanta?

The BeltLine is definitely number one, and the Lantern Festival is pretty great too. All of the hidden parks and places in Ansley Park are a close second. Tacqueria del Sol and Bacchanalia are two special food places. … I love so much about Atlanta it’s hard to list it all.

For more information, visit rainbros.us or write james.brian.yancey@rainbros.us.

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One of the great things about living in Atlanta is easy access to so many outdoor getaways and unforgettable views. Whether you’re up for the mountains or the beach, you’re just a road trip away from your next great escape from city life.

Eton Ruckus Solar Powered Speaker

Amazing Sound from Your Smart Phone, Charges While In Use $70, bassheadspeakers.com

30 Day Duro Lantern Super Bright, Three D Batteries $34, ustbrands.com

On any given weekend this summer, there’s a spot just waiting for you to sit back, let your cares go, and take in all the nature you can handle – with a few glamorous extras of course. Here are the latest glamping items to make roughing it a little luxurious, as well as a few of the gay and gay-friendly places to do it.

LifeStraw Personal Water Filter Drop it in a river and drink. $20, rei.com

Coleman Road Trip Portable Grill

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Ergonomic, lightweight and packable. $14, rei.com

Lost Valley Hammock

Easy set-up. Durable up to 350 lbs. Sun Cover and Mosquito Net. $75, oakcreekoutdoor.com

Gay Georgia Campgrounds RIVER’S EDGE Clothing Optional 2311 Pulliam Mill Road, Dewy Rose, GA camptheriversedge.com

IN THE WOODS Gay and Lesbian 142 Casey Court, Canon, GA inthewoodscampground.com

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Fun Fact: The term deck has a nautical origin. It means to cover or put under a roof, which then also serves as an open-air floor.

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HIT the DECK D O S U M M E R R I G H T W I T H A FA B U L O U S PAT I O P A R T Y T H AT W O N ’ T B R E A K T H E BANK – OR THE HOST

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s the weather warms up, all you want to do is get out and enjoy it with friends. The solution could be as close as your own deck, but your first thought may be to avoid the work it entails. No worries. We have your back.

There’s a great outdoor event at your fingertips that puts you on the “Mostest” Host list without crossing off your sanity – or your foregoing enjoyment of your own party.

You need three things to make this party a success, and one of them isn’t a Martha Stewart serving platter woven of organically-grown Taiwanese grasses that you painstakingly grew yourself.

First, calm down. This is supposed to be fun, not a competition – though we’ll earn you a few points along the way. Second, plan. Get the food, alcohol and entertainment worked out, and let them take care of themselves on the big day.

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It’s nice to have beer and wine – both red and white – as well as vodka, gin and one brown liquor for summer parties, but it’s not a requirement.

BYOB is often what happens anyway, because cocktail and beer preferences are so personal these days. Whatever your choice, announce your intentions and no one will bat an eye.

WHAT TO HAVE What you want to drink should be on hand, and consider yourself responsible for ice, cups and quartered lemons and limes. Have corkscrews and other accoutrements laid out in open view.

Non-alcoholic options for cocktail mixers, teetotalers and designated drivers are a good idea.

HYDRATE Drinkers and non-drinkers alike do better when hydrated. Bottled water is a good idea, or if you’re feeling fancy, it’s super easy to cut up lemons and keep pitchers of those in cold water to share. Cucumbers and basil are amazing additions, too.

RULES OF THUMB On the one hand, enough alcohol can be all a host needs to lubricate his party. On the other, he shouldn’t be the drunkest one there, nor forget to make sure the guy who is gets home safely.

FOOD CHEF

ENTERTAINMENT

Who’s cooking? If it’s you, great, but plan to flip burgers only if it’s because you enjoy it. If no part of you wants those duties, hear this loud and clear: Don’t cook. Enlist a friend to man the grill, decide on protein and veggie options, and have guests bring sides.

Depending on the crowd, the right tunes may be all the entertainment your deck party needs.

Digital players are perfect for this: If you feel strong about your playlist, put it on and forget it.

Or tell guests you trust that they are free to plug in their playlists.

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GUY GAMES

Or take this tip: Cater. Yes, we said it, and we’re not taking it back. Sure, it’s more expensive, but no one worth caring about will complain or think less of you if you serve amazing food.

Here’s a fun idea: Pre-order staples for pickup from Fat Matt’s, Fox Brothers and Daddy D’z, then call it done.

Cornhole, bocce and croquet aren’t just great ways to check out guys’ forms. They’re fair for almost everybody, and guests can be as competitive, or not, as they like. You know your crowd, so if guests have favorite games, have them bring them along.

PREP

You will likely have guests who want to chill inside. Board games and puzzles near the door to the deck can keep them part of the fun, or announce that there’s a movie marathon for those addicted to a/c. All of these are also good options for the one thing you can’t control: Rain.

Plates, napkins and tableware should be on you.

Lay them out and forget them. If you have a side item or signature dish you like to make, do it in advance and pull it out at party time.

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KEEPING IT TOGETHER Gay men are twice as likely to experience clinical depression as straight men, and twice as likely to entertain suicidal thoughts or actions.

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Across all age groups, LGB people are seven times more likely to take recreational drugs or abuse alcohol.

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A third of GB men are afraid to access healthcare services because they don’t want to disclose their sexual orientation to a doctor or practitioner.

By Mike Fleming The correlation between gay men and mental health concerns isn’t just in your head. Gay people are not inherently any crazier than the rest of humanity, of course, but studies back ever-growing stats showing that a disproportionate number of gay men face mental health concerns.

Discrimination, acceptance, and other orientation-specific factors can lead to risks including stress, depression and substance abuse. Here are some facts and figures, as well as some tips and resources if you or yours need help.

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Exercise Eat Right

Over half of young gay men aged 18-24 deliberately harm themselves, versus around 10 percent of young people overall.

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A third of GB men are afraid to access healthcare services because they don’t want to disclose their sexual orientation to a doctor or practitioner.

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A quarter of gay men report fair or bad general health, versus 1 in 6 men overall.

More than a tenth of gay men are subjected to ‘treatment’ against their will for homosexuality, including hospitalizations, aversion therapy and even electroshock therapy.

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JF&CS Tools for Living Counseling for Jewish-identified LGBT people yourtoolsforliving.org

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Brian Gleringer PhD, LMFT Couples, HIV, Trauma, Coming Out briancounseling.com

Joshua M. Noblitt, LMFT Couples, groups, sex, HIV and Intersectionality joshuanoblitt.com

Positive Impact Health Centers Counseling for at-risk people with HIV positiveimpacthealthcenters.org

William Brown, MS, LPC Couples, Addiction, Coming out williambrowncounseling.com

Will Mahan, LPC Sex Therapy, Addiction, HIV, Intersetionality, Coming Out atlantacounselor.net

Brett Rozen, MS, Ld, LPC Anxiety, Bipolar, Couples, Eating, Grief and more brettrozentherapy.com

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The unknown is scary, but it can also be just as exciting. Treat it like an opportunity. Once you steel yourself for the adventure, the next step is to remind yourself – early and often – that people are more alike than they are different, even if someone initially strikes you as your polar opposite.

Next remember that bursting your bubble is for your own good, and whatever resistance you overcome, both internal and external, will be worth it.

Here are a few tips, tenets and tricks to engage in productive conflict.

PERSPECTIVES CHANGE PERCEPTIONS Ask yourself: ‘If I thought about this from their point of view, would I still agree with myself?’

SEEK HIGHER GROUND In a desire to escape conflict as fast as possible, we sometimes rush to come up with “solutions” or “compromises.” It works on the surface, but it doesn’t adMY NEEDS AND OUR NEEDS dress the deeper issues. Actively look for Conflicts aren’t a competition. There higher-level solutions by remaining open are no winners and losers. There are instead of simply trying to “win” or end two parties, and there is their relation- the argument. ship. Agree to argue from the “side” of the relationship. It takes practice and DISCERN INTENT trust to allow other people to share their With issues that cut the core of sacredly thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and perspec- held beliefs, we often vilify those who tives with passion – and for us to just don’t agree with us. Once they become let them be. “those people,” they’re nearly impossible to connect via meaningful dialogue.

POWER AND CONTROL Look for the positive intention and real Conflicts can sway to the person with the fears of the other person to find the core most authority. Instead, ask ‘Is one person of what’s really true, not just what our giving in too much? Does holding your ego wants to argue about. ground come at the cost of insensitivity?

Are we discussing who has the most power, ELEVATE OTHERS or what the conflict is truly about?’

We can and do have impact on other people. Elevate the conversation by EMBRACE ‘AND’ focusing on being real, vulnerable, and So often we get caught in either-or honest. Focus on appreciating and emthinking that diminishes credibility on powering the other person. Acknowledge both sides. It’s sophomoric and limiting them and practice being grateful for by nature, and doesn’t allow us to see who they are, no matter how difficult or hear anything other than what we al- it is. When you manage to lift them up despite obstacles, you lift up yourself ready ‘know’ to be ‘true.’ in the accomplishment and create the higher-level solutions you truly want.

MAKE PEACE WITH AMBIGUITY Based on our fears and a desire to stay in control, we naturally resist uncertainty. Become comfortable with it and allow yourself to hang out in ambiguity. It’ll give you a sense of openness, patience, and perspective that allows creative solutions to emerge.

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THE TRUTH TRIANGLE Remember the three parts of truth: Your truth, their truth, and the real truth (solutions).

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Not a tennis player? That’s okay! Join us as a spectator. We will have a DJ, food, cocktails, a silent auction, and a photo booth to enjoy while you cheer on your friends as they serve aces for equality.

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SUMMER SWITCHES TO K E E P YO U R WA R D RO B E COOL, AND THE D AT E D I T E M S T H E Y SHOULD REPLACE.

By Mike Fleming

You’re thinking the lazy days of summer make summer the simplest to dress. But a few tweaks to your tank-shorts-repeat routine can add a touch of elegance to the ease.

“When in doubt, upgrade.”

The phase when trends ruled your life has passed, but you still want to be up-to-date. While you weren’t looking, some items in your wardrobe became passé. Replace them with these go-to garments to refresh your style while staying cool and classic.

Flat-Front Shorter Shorts

HOT!

Short Sleeve Henleys, Polos & Color Block Tees

HOT!

Your “ironic” graphic tee is still fine for errands and the gym, but you can look like you tried harder without having to, well, try harder.

Pay close attention to fit: Too tight is just as unflattering as too baggy. Avoid golflength sleeves; half-bicep is a good rule of thumb. Your favorite left-chest insignia, or none at all, is fine.

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Retro Sunglasses

HOT!

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Tank Tops & Graphic Tees

Keep your aviators in rotation, but summer casual is your chance to mix it up.

Wayfarers, horn rims, and round frames are back because they work on so many faces. Think Kennedy 61 and Cruise 83, not Swayze 98.

We haven’t reached peak ‘70s on the length yet, but to the excitement of gay legmen everywhere, shorts hems are on the rise. Look for inseams in the 5-7-inch range, find the perfect fit, and then buy them in colors and patterns to suit your personality.

Bermuda or Cargo Shorts

NOT

Wraparounds and Oakleys

Summer Suit

For fancy occasions with a tie or cranking up casual ones with a polo, a simple suit in lightweight navy, khaki or Seersucker can last a lifetime of summers. The right one is a synthetic-cotton blend that won’t lose its shape or wrinkle too easily.

HOT!

Boat Shoes & Leather Sneakers

Upgrade any lingering Vans with slip-ons that still ooze casual cool, but also show you’ve come a long way since school. For more of an athletic look, don’t recycle your gym shoes. Go all tennis, all leather, and in all white. Either option goes with everything, including that summer suit on the right occasion.

Straight Cut Chinos The only thing straight about you may be these go-anywhere pants. Too slim on the cut says “Thirsty Trend Twink,” but too wide or oversized says “Sad Dad.” Straight cuts leave room for generous thighs and glutes without sacrificing silhouette.

NOT

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Short Blazers

HOT!

Jeans, Especially Not Boot cut

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HOT!

NOT

Flip-flops & Trainers

Wide Brim Hat Maybe your grandfather never left home without one. Maybe you just think of sexy Mad Men bustling into elevators.

Either way, your time has come to wear it out with every look from suits and jeans.

Whether classic fedora or full Pharrell, make sure it’s finely made, and preferably custom fit.

HOT!

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By Mike Fleming

When the mercury rises, match the intensity by turning up the volume on your personal color palette. Take a few cues from these guys in their saturated hues and find some summer wardrobe staples to carry you all the way to autumn.

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Gold Case Chinos jet.com $38

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Blue Suede Wingtip saksoff5th.com $79

Todd Snyder Classic Henley toddsnyder.com $99

Levis Washed Red 511 Jeans levis.com $40

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Join the Human Rights Campaign as we present Her HRC: An Evening of Burlesque! Prepare for a night of titillating, empowering, body-positive performances from the Atlanta School of Burlesque. Guests will enjoy craft cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, sweet treats from Bake, Rattle and Roll, raffle prizes and more as we celebrate women in the LGBTQ community.

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YO U K N OW H E R F R O M T H E “ W E L C O M E TO M Y H O M E ” PA R O D I E S , A S T H E S AT I R I C A L B E T T Y B O W E R S – A M E R I C A’ S B E S T C H R I S T I A N A N D P E R F O R M I N G H E R L I V E M U S I C S H OW S IN BROTHELS ACROSS THE AMERICAS. DEVEN NEVER LEFT THE 80S. DEVENGREEN.COM

DEAR DEVEN: I moved back home for a bit, and my younger brother plays horrible music.

How can I get him to listen to good music? - “I Can’t Go For That”

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DEAR DEVEN: I hate metal music but started casually dating this guy who actually goes to metal concerts ( I know!). Other than that he seems so cool, but this one thing is really out of left field on his profile. I worry that in the long run it will break us up. Will it? - “Nothing Else Matters”

You aren’t identical twins nor should your audio choices be the same. He can’t make you like his music, obviously, and you cannot make him like yours. Get some earphones you snob.

Conversely, if he said he was breaking up with you because you didn’t like his music that would seem ludicrous. Give him a pass.

DEAR DEVEN: I’m dating a DJ, and I know he is hooking up with other guys at the end of the night. Should I just accept it?

- “Tainted Love”

It sounds like he is in an open relationship and you are not.

DEAR DEVEN: My boyfriend is a theatre actor, and he has a female friend that comes to all his shows and acts like they are together. How can I eliminate her?

- “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun”

They were friends before you came on the scene. She wants to be associated with a winner – you get to go home with one.

DEAR DEVEN: I feel slighted when I am on the dance floor and people turn their back on me.

We are all dancing in a group together and not in pairs, but I get snubbed. The hell? - “I Wanna Dance With Somebody”

Your intense fear of being ignored may be the exact reason people are turning away.

Try being the one to turn around first.

Or, keep moving and dance in all directions so you won’t put yourself in the position of being rejected.

DEAR DEVEN: I sang karaoke for the first time and I thought I was awesome. My friends recorded me and it was horrible. How do I get over this embarrassment?

- “Like A Virgin”

Karaoke is meant to be a fun, stress reducer.

Laugh at it. No one is there to give you a record deal so take it as such. The more you get up and sing the better it will be... hopefully.

DEAR DEVEN: What’s good to listen to while making out? - “The Way You Make Me Feel”

Karaoke is meant to be a fun, stress reducer.

Laugh at it. No one is there to give you a record deal so take it as such. The more you get up and sing the better it will be... hopefully.

DEAR FRIENDS: This column is for entertainment purposes...mostly mine.

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