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Gò0dNews from the Pastor’s Desk
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by Zona Hayes Morrow
Working Together
am fascinated with the human body. Having
vide us. Yet the Bible says in Romans 12 and again
studied health and wellness for many years, I
in 1 Corinthians 12, that even though we’re differ-
continue to be amazed by the miracle of cre-
ent and have different things to offer, we are all
ation of the human body. God created us with such
the Body of Christ. We use these verses to discuss
intricate detail and wisdom as to how our bodies
spiritual gifts, but these verses also apply to the
work. So much about us is the same, yet we all are
Body of Christ as a whole.
unique. I think about how He designed us and
Too often churches are competing to do the
planned how the cells would work together to al-
same thing rather than working together to make
low His incredible creation to function. The vari-
their outreach a success for the community. In-
ous parts of our body don’t have to be reminded of
stead of just bragging rights for a single church, we
their function, they simply per-
form.
need to
Just imagine what we could accomplish if the Body of Christ functioned in the same way. I think of the Day of Pentecost. The disciples were together for many days beforehand, but it wasn’t until that day that they became of one ac-
work together as the Body to reach
our community in every way possible
so that everyone can hear the Word and be touched by the love of God. We’re now in the Christmas season and pre-
cord. They stopped worrying about this or that.
paring to start a new year. This is our opportunity
They didn’t care about social status or who had
to touch every single life in Southeast Tennessee
better robes. They focused on the promise Jesus
and change the coming year through the power of
gave before He ascended—that the Holy Spirit
God. We can do this by focusing on what’s impor-
would come. Their unity allowed the Holy Spirit
tant, uniting in our common beliefs, and work-
to come in great power, and thousands were saved
ing together so that we become the arms of Jesus
with signs and wonders following.
reaching out to a lost and dying world. Let’s apply
Today we have many denominations and
Ephesians 4 to our lives and strive to keep the
churches that make up the Body of Christ. It’s so
unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Let’s show
easy to start comparing our churches by atten-
the world what Christmas really means.
dance, by buildings, or by programs. We allow the differences in our preaching styles or beliefs to di6
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Gò0dNews for Kids
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If I Could Speak
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was a time in history, if I could have expressed all the unfolding mystery, I would have shouted from the heavens with glee. What was occurring on earth that night was so wonderful and amazing. In a small community called Bethlehem in Judea, a couple was looking for a room in the inn so their baby could be born. All the rooms were occupied because many people were in town to pay their taxes. Finally, they came upon a stable that would provide protection from a cool, winter night. Soon a wonderful baby boy was born. He was such a beautiful baby with his eyes gleaming so bright. I got so excited I could not sit still in the heavens. They named the baby Jesus, just as the prophets had foretold. Do you know what else happened that wonderful night? There were shepherds not too far from Bethlehem watching their sheep. Suddenly, an angel appeared and began talking about this baby Jesus born a short time ago. Also, in a flash, lots of angels appeared and beautiful music filled the air— “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men” (Luke 1:14 KJV). Oh, what a sight to behold! The shepherds began their journey to find this baby Jesus the angels 8
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told them about. To their amazement, they found Him in a manger wrapped in swaddling clothes just as the angels had said. “There’s something special about this baby, and we must share it with everyone,” they said. Filled with praise to God for this wonderful event, the shepherds returned to watch their sheep. Children, there’s more to this wonderful story. Three wise men who heard about this baby born in Bethlehem decided to ask King Herod where baby Jesus was born. “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the east and [want] to worship him” (Matt. 2:2 KJV). The king called a secret conference with the wise men and then sent them on their way to find baby Jesus. When they left the king’s palace, I started to do my part of this story. “Look up here, wise men. I’ll be delighted to guide you to the little community where this special baby boy is.” As I moved, the wise men followed me for they had precious gifts to present to this special baby. Soon we arrived and I stopped over the lowly stable where He lay in a manger. Then the wise men rushed in, fell on their faces, and worshiped Him. They also presented Him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Wow! The wise men were
so excited to have a part in this wonderful event in history. What an experience for them. They soon returned to their country another way so King Herod would not know where baby Jesus was born. After the wise men left, an angel appeared to Joseph, giving him instructions concerning the safety and well-being of baby Jesus and his family from an angry King Herod. Well, that’s the end of this exciting event, so I’d better travel on. Oh! Wait a minute, children. I have just one more thing to say. How I wish I could speak so I could tell the whole world about what occurred that night in Bethlehem, but you know my part. I guided the wise men to the place where this special event occurred. Will you, children, do your part and tell your friends and neighbors about this special baby? Children, I cannot speak because I am the star shinning from the Eastern sky, but you can spread the good tidings of great joy around. This is the reason you celebrate Christmas. It’s the birthday of baby Jesus. Love Him and worship Him, because He loves you very much. If I could speak, this would be my version of the wonderful Christmas story.
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Gò0dNews on Money Matters
Desperately Seeking . .by.Andrew Money Lee
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he word desperation is closely related to the word despair, and indeed the two often work in tandem. When it comes to personal finance, desperation often results in individuals making financial decisions that are unwise at best and catastrophic at worst. Con artists and scams seek to prey on people who are desperate for a quick answer to their money problems. From Ponzi or pyramid schemes to overblown promises of a huge return on investment in a short period of time, there have always been unscrupulous charlatans ready and eager to bilk investors (meaning anyone naïve or gullible enough to hand over their money). Not surprisingly, the victims of these scammers or con artists are usually people who are in a dire financial crisis and need money quickly in order to pay a bill or to satisfy a creditor who is hounding them relentlessly. At other times, the motive is plain and simple greed—the desire to get something for nothing, and to get it fast. A documentary film from 2011 titled The Flaw examined some “victims” of the “mortgage meltdown” which precipitated the “housing crisis” that blanketed countless news stories for the next couple of years (these are the media’s terms, so I indicate them with quotation marks). In one scene of this documentary film, a man named Steve describes how his life was going fine until his wife started a new job as a real estate agent. A fellow real estate broker convinced Steve and his wife that they could make a quick and easy financial “killing” by taking out a second mortgage on their home and using the money as down 10
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payments on other real estate, with the intent of quickly “flipping” (quick-selling) these houses in ninety days or less. It would be easy, the broker assured them. After all, countless people were doing it. And besides, housing prices always go “up” and are thus a sure-fire safe investment—no risk, right? As we all know by now, housing prices did indeed plummet across many parts of the nation from 2007-2009 as millions of homeowners defaulted on their loans and stopped paying their mortgages. Often, these were mortgages that should not have been approved in the first place, since often the investor’s income was too low for them to afford to make the payments. So why did banks approve these people for home loans in the first place? Because these banks and lenders never intended to keep the mortgage at their bank—they always intended to sell the “bad” mortgage debt to another bank or group of investors. Again, greed was the motive. This article isn’t intended to be a dissertation on the causes of the recent housing crash, but rather to illustrate by one example how desperation and greed can lead into financial ruin. The Bible speaks of this in Proverbs 13:11, “Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.” Careful planning and financial discipline through saving and investing regularly can help to avert a desperate situation. Dr. Andrew Lee is associate professor of English at Lee University. He also serves as a coordinator for Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. He and his wife Esmerelda have three children.
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The Climb to Manhood
hat comes to mind when you hear the words, “Man Up!”? You probably, like me, think that someone is challenging you to suck it up or not cry after you have been dealt a viscous blow—either physically or emotionally. Real men are not supposed to cry or get overly emotional . . . right? We square our jaw and tilt forward and dare anyone to question our bravery. What I have found is that there is a massive chasm separating the mountain of cultural manhood and biblical manhood. As men we need to somehow scale down the cultural concept of manhood and re-chart our path up the gospel-centered view of manhood. With the aid of the Holy Spirit as our guide, He will direct us to the summit of manhood. First, however, we must dispel the cultural myth of manhood. So how does culture define manhood? I have borrowed these three typical identifiers from one of the NFL’s great lineman who played with the Baltimore Colts and is immortalized as part of the infamous “Rat Pack,” Joe Ehrmann. Joe says the world generally points to the billfold, the ball field, and the bedroom as the measure of a man. If you make a lot of money and live in a beautiful home with a three-car garage and a new Harley Davidson parked in the driveway, you have arrived at manhood. To some,
manhood is about being bigger, faster, and stronger than the average “boy.” Then there are those who believe that sexual conquest shows the depth of your manhood. None of these, however, are biblical barometers for manhood. Over the past couple of years, I have been speaking in men’s conferences and leading coach’s Bible 12
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studies. During preparation for one of these Bible studies, I came across this passage and wrote in my journal (I know, not a very manly thing to do!) this title, “Man Up.” The scripture was 1 Kings 2:2-4 with David speaking to his son Solomon, giving a final charge: “ ‘I am about to go the way of all the earth,’ he said, ‘So be strong, act like a man, and observe. . . .” (NIV). There it was, act like a man, from the one who stepped up to Goliath and said, “This day the Lord will deliver you into my hands, and I will strike you down and cut off your head” (1 Sam. 17:46 ESV). Now that is a Man’s man . . . right? So what did David mean “Act like a man?” He declares that manhood has nothing to do with the billfold, the ball field, or the bedroom. He unpacks his hiking gear and help’s to put on Solomon’s harness and sends him up the mountain of Manhood with: “Observe what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to him, and keep his decrees and commands, his laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses, so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you go” (v. 3). Biblical manhood is found in our reckless abandonment to the fear of
man and to walk in the fear of God by complete and total surrender of our lives to him. So, “Climb on man of God, on belay, climbing.” Robert Green is a 28-year-youth ministry veteran, an avid runner, spiritual coach, chaplain, and is now serving as an area director for the Fellowship of Christian Athletes over the Ocoee Region. What he treasures most is his wife of 26 years Teresa and his two daughters Mariah (21) and Sierra (15).
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The Song of Angels
by Teresa Norman
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any things that happen to us often happen
suddenly. In a moment, we can be faced with the greatest victories or the greatest challenges of our lives. So it was with the birth of Jesus. According to Scripture, all of a sudden, while shepherds were keeping watch over their flock at night, there appeared a multitude of angels in the sky singing and praising God. In so doing, they gave us the lyrics to the first Christmas carol: “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men” (Luke 2:14 KJV). I don’t know what you do when you’re happy, but I like to sing. Perhaps others seem to agree with my association of happiness and music, because everywhere I go, I hear the song, “Happy,” by Pharrell Williams. Many of my contacts have “Happy” as their ring tone, and when I hear it, my mood is suddenly transformed. Coming from a singing family, I love the singing aspect of music. There’s nothing like friends and family singing around a piano or guitar. As their “Nana,” I would say that my grandsons sound like angels when they sing— especially when they sing about Jesus! What song gets your attention? What lyrics are etched in your mind? Does the melody your life reflects bring a smile or a tear? Listen to what the angels sang when Jesus was born. They sang good news: “Jesus, the Savior of the world is born.” They had waited for this event. When it happened, they burst forth with a song of praise that summoned a heavenly host of proclaimers! They gave glory to God for this magnificent event that would change the world forever. All Creation sings a song to Him. Flowers burst 14
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forth with blooming and the winds whisper, “He’s alive.” Even the trees lift their branches high to the heavens in praise, but in all of Creation, there’s just something about my song and my praise that He loves. If God is glorified with every song the bird sings and every wave that rolls through the ocean tide, how much more is He glorified when we, the redeemed, raise our voices in song to Him? I believe we sound even better than the angels! Angels are only interested in praising God and doing His bidding. He alone is their focal point of worship. On the day God was born in human flesh, they sang what they had never sung before. It was a new song because they added the words, “on earth, peace.” They couldn’t sing that verse before this moment. Humankind had fallen, and there was no true peace on earth. It is good news! Where else can peace be found but in the message of Jesus Christ? Then the angels added a final stanza to this song with the words, “good will toward men.” He gives us His good will because He gave us His Son. He gave Himself to you and me, for you and me and because of you and me. This holiday season, you can be an angel by singing John Wesley Work’s popular Christmas spiritual: “Go, tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere; go, tell it on the mountain that Jesus Christ is born.” Teresa Norman is an ordained minister in the Church of God and is a gifted speaker, author, teacher, musician, and counselor. She is the mother of two adult children and four grandsons.
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“Don’t Let the Ugly SiA Christers Steal Your Chri s tmas” stmas Allegory O nce upon a time in a not-so-far-away kingdom, there lived a wonderful, handsome prince who ruled his father’s kingdom with peace, joy, and love. One Christmas the king decided to give a grand ball in honor of his son’s birthday, December 25. Every young maiden in the kingdom was invited to be the guest of the prince at his grand birthday celebration. One family in the kingdom had three daughters. One beautiful daughter was the fairest in the kingdom. She was pure, unblemished, and extraordinarily beautiful. Her name was Faith. When she received the prince’s invitation, she held it to her heart, enraptured with the thought of being with the prince at his grand Christmas ball. She immediately began to plan and prepare to go to the ball. 16
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As she laid out her most beautiful dress and her tiny glass slippers, she imagined how wonderful it would be to see the prince. There were two stepsisters who lived on a different level in the house where Faith lived. Just as Faith was extraordinarily pure and beautiful, the other two sisters were mean, bitter, grouchy and really, really ugly. These two ugly stepsisters were named Doubt and Unbelief. They were born of another mother whose name was Fear, who was the meanest, cruelest, grouchiest person in the kingdom. In fact, she was from another kingdom far away. She was afraid of everything, and she poured her poisonous fear into her two daughters, Doubt and Unbelief, every day. Oh how miserable were the three of them—Doubt, Unbelief, and their
mother Fear. When the invitation to the ball came, Fear hid the invitation. She never went anywhere, and she didn’t want her daughters to go either. Doubt and Unbelief just couldn’t believe it. “It can’t be real,” they said to each other. And their mother agreed. “It’s a trick,” Fear said. “The prince wouldn’t want you to be at his Christmas ball.” Doubt and Unbelief agreed with their mother, saying over and over to each other, “Oh no! We could never go to the ball.” And they didn’t want anyone else to go either, especially their beautiful sister Faith. But Faith believed. She knew the king was good and that the prince loved everyone in the kingdom. She began to prepare for the ball. She put on her most beautiful dress and her tiny glass
Doubt and Unbelief never believed the king’s invitation. Their mother, Fear, kept them too busy thinking of reasons why no one could possibly go to the ball. They tried their best to convince Faith that the king didn’t love her and the prince didn’t want her, but they failed. Faith believed and she went to the ball. And the best part of all—the prince asked her to be his bride, to move out of the house of Fear, Doubt, and Unbelief and to be with him forever. And so she did. The prince and his beautiful bride, Faith, lived happily ever after. The allegory I just told you reflects the true Christmas story about Jesus, the handsome prince, and his beautiful bride Faith. The King has invited every one of us to receive His love and to know his Son, Jesus. The king really does love you and
slippers. But then Doubt and Unbelief grabbed her, and for a time, they chained Faith in a dark room. They told her over and over, “The king doesn’t love you. The prince doesn’t want you. You’re ugly, and you could never go to the ball.” They also told her that she was weak and incapable and that nothing good was ever going to happen in her life. “You’ll always be in this little, dark room, and you’ll never get out,” they told her as they sneered through the tiny window. As Christmas drew near, Faith thought about the king and the prince every day. Over and over, she read the invitation, which she had tucked into the folds of her dress. The more she read it, the more she believed. “I’m going to go to the prince’s Christmas ball. I know the prince loves me, and the king will make a way for me to come.” One day while Doubt and Unbelief were in the dark cellar doing some kind of mischief, Faith heard a voice in the hallway. It was the prince himself. Instantly, her chains fell off. As she looked through the little window, she saw the handsome prince. He had the key and opened the door. As the light shined in, she saw that she was dressed in a beautiful white dress and her chains had fallen away. The prince whisked her away to the palace in his royal chariot.
He sent his son Jesus to free you from the chains that keep you from believing in His love. He really wants you to live with Him forever in His kingdom. In fact, He loves you so much that He would rather die than to live forever without you. The story also reflects the truth about the ugly stepsisters, Doubt and Unbelief, and their mother, Fear. They don’t believe the message of the king. They don’t want anyone else in the kingdom to believe it either. What happened to the two ugly stepsisters? Without Faith beside them, they withered away in the house of Fear. They never believed, never accepted the king’s invitation, and for the rest of their lives remained locked up in the dungeon with their mother Fear. They never believed anything good could happen to them, and it didn’t. But they couldn’t keep Faith from believing and living happily ever after with the prince in his wonderful kingdom. Every one of us has two ugly stepsisters who what to steal the king’s invitation and to steal the meaning of Christmas from us. My advice to you is, “Don’t let the ugly sisters steal your Christmas.” Submitted by Larry Cockerham, Senior Minister, Living Word Church
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by David Gray
very year my wife and I set aside one day to go Christmas shopping. Yes, just one day. We typically wait until just one or two weeks before Christmas. This day has become a tradition for us because it’s our Christmas Date Day. We usually have a nice meal, and sometimes we’ll catch a movie. It is absolutely one of my favorite days of the year. There are two reasons why this is one of my favorite days. First, is the obvious blessing of spending an entire day with my best friend and my love. But secondly, it’s about what we are doing together—shopping to find gifts for other people. Normally I hate shopping, but on this day we think about our loved ones, talk about what they would like or not like, and find that special gift we hope will bring a smile to their face. It truly is more blessed to give than receive, but when my wife and I do this together; when we partner together in giving of ourselves, we are drawn closer together. There’s something special, even intimate, about serving and giving. It connects you, softens you, slows you down, and helps you appreciate all the blessings you have. Isn’t this the real meaning of Christmas? Even though we only actually shop for one day, we put a lot of thought in trying to find that one gift that will really be a hit. We’ve spent a lot of time and money purchasing gifts for our kids, but of all the gifts I’ve given my children, there is one that I think is far better than all the rest. John Wooten said,
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“The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” Of course your kids need and deserve your love, but your partner must come first. Though difficult for some to hear, almost all relationship experts agree on this fact. At times a child’s immediate needs will have to come first, but the marriage bond has to be paramount. When children think they are the center of the universe, they are headed for trouble. Plus, your marriage will suffer when it is put on the backburner or treated as secondary. Scripture declares, “Husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat her with understanding as you live together. She . . . is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should. . . .” (1 Pet. 3:7 NLT). Kids are sensitive and observant. Putting your marriage first teaches them how to love. How they interact with others is primarily a result of what children have learned from their parents. Plus, there are few things that provide more security to children than knowing their parents are united. When things are good with Mom and Dad, kids feel like they can face anything. Loving your husband or wife first and foremost could be the best Christmas gift you can give your children.
David Gray is the store manager at Habitat Restore on Grove Ave. He and his wife Kendra have four children and two grandchildren.
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Chattanooga Church Directory Assembly of God Calvary Church 423.629.1200 1212 South Seminole Drive, 37412 Fresh Fire Awakening 423.255.3103 Chattanooga, 37421
Baptist Bayside Baptist Church 423-344-8327 6100 Hwy 58 Harrison, TN 37416 Covenant Baptist Church 423.892.5542 1640 N. Joiner Rd, 37421 Duncan Park Baptist Church 706.899.3707 1609 Glowmont Dr, 37412 New Haven Baptist Church 423.855.4910 1058 Graysville Rd, 37421 Middle Cross Baptist Church 423.877.5742 4009 Norcross Rd, 37343 Heritage Baptist Church 423.499.5060 2934 Hickory Valley Rd, 37421 Ridgeview Baptist Church 423.899.1530 6 Moore Rd, 37411 Spring Creek Road Baptist 423.894.0700 1312 Spring Creek Rd, 37412 Silverdale Baptist Church 423.892.2173 7236 Bonny Oaks Dr, 37421 Alpine Baptist Church 423.875.3522 4720 Stagg Rd, 37415 Ashland Terrace Baptist Church 423.877.4392 906 Ashland Terrace, 37415 Avondale Baptist Church 423.344.2208 5479 Hwy 58, 37416 Bartle Baugh Baptist Church 423.344.5207 6129 Champion Rd, 37416 Berean Baptist Church 423.629.1634 1614 Kirby Ave, 37404 Bethel Baptist Church 423.875.9107 632 Lullwater Rd, 37405 Bethlehem Baptist Church 423.266.5484 101 Lawn St, 37405 Bible Way Baptist Church 423.624.2149 2003 Elmendorf St, 37406
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Brainerd Baptist Church 423.624.2606 300 Brookfield Ave, 37411 Brainerd Hills Baptist Church 423.892.6645 6611 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 Calvary Baptist Church 423.875.8154 5201 Dayton Blvd, 37415 Central Baptist Church 423.624.4678 901 Woodmore Ln, 37411 Charity Baptist Church 423.267.6576 2340 Rossville Blvd, 37408 Clifton Hill Baptist Church 423.867.4887 3616 Rossville Blvd, 37407 Concord Baptist Church 423.892.9313 7025 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 East Brainerd Baptist Church 423.892.4235 1047 Graysville Rd, 37421 East Lake Baptist Church 423.698.1597 3315 12th Ave, 37407 East Ridge Baptist Church 423.698.2421 4201 Ringgold Rd, 37412 Edgewood Baptist Church 423.629.5821 2007 East 27th, 37407 Empowerment Church 423.355.5576 1203 Blocker Lane, 37412 Faith Baptist Church 423.344.9712 8834 North Hickory Valley, 37416 Fellowship Baptist Church 423.894.8080 5335 Clemons Rd, 37412 First Baptist Church 423.265.2257 401 Gateway Ave, 37402 First Baptist Church 423.629.1950 1228 Latta St, 37406 First Baptist Church 423.265.3229 506 East 8th St., 37403 First Calvary Baptist Church 423.267.5159 300 Bell Ave, 37405 Grace Baptist Church 423.892.4869 7815 Shallowford Rd, 37421 Greater Beulah Baptist Church 423.624.0418 1301 Commerce St, 37404 Harmony Baptist Church 423.629.9660
3832 Youngstown Rd, 37406 Hickory Valley Baptist Church 423.892.1916 2320 Hickory Valley Rd, 37421 Highland Park Baptist Church 423.493.4111 1907 Bailey Ave, 37404 Hillcrest Baptist Church 423.867.2812 3300 East 42nd St, 37407 Independent Baptist Church 423.875.3054 2624 Lyndon Ave, 37412 International Baptist Church 423.624.8638 1512 Old Ringgold Rd, 37404 Kings Point Baptist Church 423.624.5202 2834 Harrison Pike, 37403 Kingwood Baptist Church 423.624.7301 3522 Ringgold Rd, 37412 Lighthouse Baptist Church 423.624.4125 3777 Wilcox Blvd, 37411 Lookout Valley Baptist Church 423.825.5335 23 Lilac Ave, 37419 Macedonia Baptist Church 423.267.6915 1156 East Main St, 37408 Maranatha Baptist Church 423.899.0571 1701 Hickory Valley Road, 37421 Mission Ridge Baptist Church 423.624.0424 302 Shallowford Rd, 37411 Morris Hill Baptist Church 423.892.2071 1804 Morris Hill Rd, 37421 Mount Paran Baptist Church 423.629.2377 1319 Moss Dr, 37411 New Grace Baptist Church 423.899.5510 7861 Lee Hwy, 37421 Orchard Knob Baptist Church 423.629.6115 1734 East 3rd St, 37404 Philadelphia Baptist Church 423.629.5786 2230 East 18th St, 37404 Pilgrim Rock Baptist Church 423.894.7548 1726 Church Rd, 37421 Pleasant Hill Baptist Church 423.892.0237 1441 Crawford Rd, 37421 Prospect Baptist Church 423.698.4149 734 Dodson Ave, 37404 Resurrected Reformed Baptist 423.698.8086
2230 East 18th Street, 37404 Rose of Sharon Baptist Church 423.629.9534 2001 Blackford St, 37404 Second Baptist Church 423.629.6039 1619 East Main St, 37404 Shiloh Baptist Church 423.267.3131 1708 Carr St, 37408 Standifer Gap Baptist Church 423.892.8596 8159 Standifer Gap Rd, 37421 Temple Baptist Church 423.622.1913 3200 Rossville Blvd, 37407 Terra Vista Baptist Church 423.892.3879 4412 Oakwood Dr, 37416 Tucker Baptist Church 423.510.9684 1115 North Moore Rd, 37411 Washington Park Baptist 423.899.9408 1823 Shepherd Rd, 37421 Westview Baptist Church 423.899.0127 9516 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 Woodland Park Baptist Church 423.899.9185 7501 Standifer Gap Rd, 37421
Church of God East Chattanooga COG 423.894.7926 4924 Hwy 58, 37416 East Lake Church of God 423.698.6522 2949 East 29th St, 37407 Brainerd Hills Church of God 423.892.2092 410 Friar Rd, 37421 City Church of Chattanooga 423.894.6982 7122 Lee Hwy, 37421 Church of God of Prophecy 423.899.4074 3927 Webb Rd, 37416 Church of God of Prophecy 423.894.0597 2201 Hickory Valley Rd, 37421 Church of God Seventh Day 423.899.5490 7504 Old Lee Hwy, 37421 East Brainerd Church of God 423.899.4755 8312 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 East Ridge Church of God 423.867.7287 1512 McBrien Rd, 37412 East Side Church of God 423.624.8797 2105 Citico Ave, 37404
Fellowship Church of God 423.867.3194 3426 Clio Ave, 37407 Fourth Avenie Church of God 423.867.4545 3912 4th Ave, 37407 Holy Temple Church of God 423.629.2649 2311 Bliss St, 37406 Joyful Noise Church of God 423.698.1813 1614 Foust St, 37404 Pure Holiness Church of God 423.622.4667 420 North Holly St, 37404 Temple of Faith Church of God 423.698.2700 2139 East 27th 37407 United Temple Church of God 423.624.1037 2418 Dodson Ave, 37406 Vision Church of God 423.624.7170 4901 Midland Pike, 37411 Woodmore Church of God 423.899.0827 1115 North Moore Rd, 37411 Word Center Church of God 423.867.3330 4803 13th Ave, 37407 Church of God in Christ New Hope Church of God in Christ 423.698.4115 1725 Dodson Ave, 37406
Nazarene Alton Park Church of the Nazarene 423.756.2468 4004 Dorris St, 37410 Nazarene Calvary Church of the Nazarene 423.892.5771 4400 Bonny Oaks Dr, 37416 East Brainerd Church of the Nazarene 423.499.8643 8101 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 East Ridge Church of the Nazarene 423.894.8656 1202 Spring Creek Rd, 37412 First Church of the Nazarene 423.624.2679 2099 East Main St, 37404
Community Church Cosmopolitan Community Church 423.622.3217 3031 Wilcox Blvd, 37411 Friendship Community Church 423.698.3471 7 North Tuxedo Dr, 37411
Metropolitan Community Church 423.629.2737 1601 Foust St, 37404
Lutheran Ascension Lutheran Church 423.698.5047 720 South Germantown Rd, 37412 First Lutheran Church Pastor Mark McCrory 423-629-5990; www.first4u.org 2800 McCallie Avenue Chattanooga, TN 37404 Good Shepherd Lutheran Rev. H. Christopher Sheets 423.629.4661 www.gslcflock.org 822 Belvoir Ave, 37412 Saint Phillip Lutheran Church 423.267.1475 51 West 25th St, 37408
Methodist Jones Memorial UMC 423.624.6073 4131 Ringgold Rd, 37412 Mount Crest UMC 423.881.4165 8206 Cicero Tr, 37421 St John UMC 423.892.2257 3921 Murray Hills Dr, 37416 Wesley Memorial UMC 423.892.6446 6314 E. Brainerd Rd, 37421 East Ridge UMC Pastor Ken Sauer 423-892-8451; eastridgeumc.org 1601 Prater Road, East Ridge, TN 37412 Stanley UMC 423.624.6729 501 Dodson Ave, 37404 Washington Hills UMC 423.892.8050 6216 Hadley Dr, 37416 Cleveland Trinity UMC 423.892.6926 9028 Warbler Ln, 37421 East Lake UMC 423.624.4921 2903 East 37th St, 37407 St Elmo UMC 423.855.0807 3030 Towerway Dr, 37406 Lake Vista UMC 423.892.4941 6216 Hadley Dr, 37416 Saint Mary CME Church 423.622.2742 1417 Wheeler Ave, 37406 Sheares Memorial UMC 423.855.2004 515 Airport Rd, 37421 Sheares Memorial UMC
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Non-Denominational The Sacred Heart Mission of Chattanooga 423.238.3835 3914 St Elmo Ave, 37409 Faith Connection Church 423.933.6986 7312 Shallowford Rd, 37421 Metropolitan Tabernacle 423.894.3377 2101 West Shepherd Rd, 37422 Carpenters Cowboy Church 423.867.4232 3616 Rossville Blvd, 37407 Brainerd Hills Chapel Church 423.899.3098 5931 Pinegrove Tr, 37421 Chattanooga Church 423.892.2888 6188 Adamson Circle, 37416 Christian Church of Hope 423.855.0767 2330 Hickory Valley Rd, 37421 Church of Jesus 423.629.5051 2118 Wilson St, 37406 Church of the First Born 423.756.0704 3418 St Elmo Ave, 37409 Church of the Lord Jesus 423.265.8235 200 West 19th St, 37408 Mount Summit of Peace Church 423.899.0434 6925 Shallowford Rd, 37421 New Covenant Church 423.867.2121 3700 Clio Ave, 37407 Walker Avenue First Church 423.622.2982 2101 Walker St, 37404 Worlds Church of the Living God 423.622.2992 2110 Glass St, 37406
Pentecostal Emanuel Pentecostal Church 423.821.5261 4204 Ohls Ave, 37410 Sharon Pentecostal Church 423.867.7088 1400 East 48th St, 37407 Virtuous Church Pastor Richard O. Smith 5952 Brainerd Road Chattanooga, TN 37412 (423)521-4440 www.virtuouschurch.org Word of Pentecost Church 423.624.2620 1722 Newton St, 37406
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First Cumberland Presbyterian 423.698.2556 1505 North Moore Rd, 37411 Central Presbyterian Church 423.629.1401 1815 McCallie Ave, 37404 Covenant Presbyterian Church 423.899.5377 8451 East Brainerd Rd, 37421 East Ridge Presbyterian Church 423.867.2717 4919 Court Dr, 37412 First Presbyterian Church 423.267.1206 554 McCallie Ave, 37402 New Hope Presbyterian Church 423.892.0853 7301 Shallowford Rd, 37421 North Minster Presbyterian 423.894.3773 4791 Hal Dr, 37416 St Elmo Presbyterian Church 423.821.1424 4400 St Elmo Ave, 37409 Second Presbyterian Church 423.266.2828 700 Pine St, 37402 Trinity Presbyterian Church 423.899.9586 104 McBrien Rd, 37411
Vineyard Vineyard Christian Fellowship 423.704.2188 10615 London Ln, 37302
Seventh-Day Collegedale Community 4995 Swinyar Dr. Ooltewah, TN 37363 Hamilton County Church 7997 Shallowford Rd Chattanooga, TN 37421
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Gò0dNews for your Taste Buds
Chocolate Crinkle Cookies
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hristmas would not be complete without the traditional desserts—coconut cake, pecan pie, and divinity candy. This year treat your family to the following recipe that is a new twist on chocolate chip cookies. It’s easy and you already have all the ingredients in your kitchen. These cookies are so delicious, I challenge you to eat just one!
Yields: 20 cookies
Ingredients:
• 1 cup white all-purpose flour • 1 tsp baking powder • 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder • 1/4 tsp. salt • 3/4 cup granulated sugar • 1/4 cup vegetable oil • 2 large eggs • 1 tsp. vanilla extract • 1/2 cup powdered sugar (for rolling the cookies)
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Directions:
• In medium bowl, whisk together the flour, baking soda, cocoa, and salt. • In a separate bowl mix vegetable oil, and granulated sugar. Stir two minutes until mixed well. Add eggs and vanilla; mix thoroughly. • Combine both bowls, mix until combined. • Cover mixture with plastic wrap, and refrigerate for 2 hours. • Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. • Place powdered sugar in a small bowl. • Roll dough into one-inch balls, and roll in the powdered sugar. • Place on cookie sheet with parchment paper. • Bake for 10-12 minutes.
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Gò0dNews for Health & Fitness
The Challenge of Choices
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by Angela Hughes Ruiz
hat is considered good health?
grew BIGGER. I have chosen to take off
How do you determine if
the mask. Size doesn’t dictate who
you are healthy? Is it by
I am and certainly not whose I
the way you feel? The way you
am; “For I was made in His
look? What others tell you?
image” (Gen. 1:27 NKJV). “I
The doctor’s report? How do
will praise You, for I am
you begin working toward
fearfully and wonderfully
a healthier lifestyle for you
made; Marvelous are Your
and your family? There are
works” (Ps. 139:14).
many questions that may
This is a new season in
arise when you start thinking
life and I choose to act on
about good health.
my God-given right to walk
The Word of the Lord
this out. It won’t come easy
says, “Don’t you know that
or even quickly. It has been a
your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit,
process getting to where I am
who lives in you and who was given to you by
today. I didn’t just wake up one
God? You do not belong to yourselves but to God;
morning and BAM! I’m ---- pounds!
he bought you for a price. So use your bodies for
And the reverse won’t happen over-
God's glory” (1 Cor. 6:19-20 GNT). God has given
night. I understand all too well that the
us free will to make choices, but He gives us guidelines to follow in His Word for God’s glory. In today’s society, with all the hustle and bustle of our daily activities, it is easier to grab a meal in the drive-thru, put off that walk until tomorrow, start the gym class next week, go
struggle is real, so if you ask God where to start, He will give you the grace to make it through every season of life to come. Are you up for the challenge? Isn’t it time to be a healthier you? God is on your side and He will see you through this. “Since
to the doctor in a month or so—depending
God assured us, ‘I’ll never let you down,
on your busy schedule. Then there are the
never walk off and leave you,’ we can
New Year’s resolutions (the ones that get
boldly quote, God is there, ready to help;
made, but seem so difficult to achieve).
I’m fearless no matter what. Who or what
I know on a personal level that I have felt that tug prompting me to wake up early and take care of the temple that God has blessed me with. Through life circumstances, stress, even some complacency and laziness, over the last few years I sat idly by, almost as if watching myself from the sidelines growing slower, older, and lazier physically. As I grew (God help me), the numbers 24
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can get to me?” (Heb. 13:5b MSG). He will meet us there. I look forward to hear your testimonies in the coming months, and I will share mine. Angela Hughes Ruiz is the office manager of Fliptastics Gymnastics of Cleveland, Inc. and Cleveland Fitness Studio as well as an administrative assistant for Indian Ministries of North America, Inc. She grew up in Cleveland, TN and is blessed with one awesome 17 year old son. Email her personally at lillyfrog508@gmail.com.
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Gò0dNews for Everyone
by Darren Schalk
The Day a Christmas Tree Nearly Ended My Marriage F or the past several years we’ve had a beautiful fake Christmas tree in our home. But last year my wife requested a real one. I tried to coerce her, but she was adamant. So off we went to the nearest tree farm. During this epic journey, I learned much about how to have a very merry Christmas. Hopefully you can glean something from it, as well. Upon arrival, we pulled into the long driveway that led to the barn. The place was filled with smiling families frolicking through the fields, trying to pick out the perfect family Christmas tree. Joy was plastered across every little face as they hopped and skipped in their winter boots, sagging stocking caps, and oversized gloves. It was a magical place filled with Christmas spirit, joy, laughter, and love. At least, it was until we arrived. As soon as I parked the van, the Ghosts of Christmas Past, Present, and Future visited us. And the ghosts prompted Kristi to ask me, “Did you bring the checkbook?” “No.” “Do you have any cash?” “Twenty-one dollars—why? I’m sure they’ll take my credit card.” “Honey, we are on a farm, purchasing a tree, from a barn. There’s no way they will take your card!” I scoffed at her disbelief. Oh, ye of little faith. I walked into the barn and up to the checkout area. A sign was posted—well, change that. A note was handwritten and taped to the wooden bench: “CASH OR CHECKS ONLY” Seriously? Why, God, why? Meanwhile, unbeknownst to me, the wife was getting somewhat upset with me. The evil Christmas tree black magic was working on her psyche. As we piled back into the van to discuss potential solutions, Kristi mentioned we should go ask someone if there was an ATM nearby. This did not register in my head, though, as her asking me to go do it, and I glanced over it. So we started to leave the Christmas tree farm from hell with disappointment and tensions quickly rising. And as we passed the main barn, I did what was apparently the worst thing possible: I asked her to go in and make sure they didn’t know of a closer ATM. Apparently, that was a mistake on my part. She grunted, darted out of the still-moving van, and slammed the door behind her with the force of a thousand angry women. I knew at that point the switch had flipped and the demons from this place of Christmas hell had now entered our car. This would not be a pleasant ride home. And to top it off, there wasn’t an ATM anywhere nearby.
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As we headed home, the heated discussion that had begun between us was only getting hotter by the moment. Kristi and I yelled, we fumed, we argued, we spewed, we pulled out every hurtful memory we’d ever had of one another, and we did it all quietly from the front seat so the kids wouldn’t hear—a feat only seasoned parents can effectively pull off. After journeying through the depths of Christmas Tree Hades, we finally pulled into our driveway. I threw the doors open and we all walked into the house under a brazen shadow of total silence. The kids had not spoken a word on the ride home. We were fighting incognito, but they had undoubtedly felt the heat from our journey through Christmas Tree Hell. But since it was Christmas, we made up quicker than usual. And after only an hour or so, we decided to get in the car and try again. Am I crazy? In preparation for our return to the sinister tree farm, I hunted down the checkbook. I found it and held it like my Precious. I carefully opened it to make sure the checks were inside. Then I used both hands to slide it ever-so-gently into my back pocket. Then I took safety pins and pinned my pocket together so it would not fall out. Then I pulled a second pair of pants over my first pair for more anti-loss protection for the checkbook and my marriage. I knew if this trip didn’t work out, this Christmas could be over before it began, so I was extra cautious with the Precious. The car was silent on our return trip to the tree farm from hell. We pulled back into the farm and once again saw the joy that filled every face. The kids stepped out of the van and their faces lit up again. I cautiously stepped out and started to enjoy the moment as well. Then our search began. Our children were now the ones frolicking through the Christmas tree fields, searching for the perfect tree as they peeked out from their oversized and sagging stocking caps. And after twenty minutes or so of glee-filled searching, we found the perfect tree . . . we cut the perfect tree . . . we paid for the perfect tree (with a check) . . . and we conquered the perfect tree. What’s the moral of the story? It’s multiple, really: If you have a fake tree, set it up and be happy with it. Real trees come with great danger. If against all better judgment you try for a real tree, always have cash on hand. Don’t ever, by any means, or for any reason, ask your wife to do something that you can do yourself. If you follow these three simple rules, you can rest assured your Christmas will be very merry.
1. 2. 3.
(Adapted from Darren’s book, Dear God We Need to Talk. Printed with permission from ©Passio.) Darren Schalk is author of the book Dear God We Need To Talk from Charisma House and serves as curriculum editor for White Wing Publishing. He has appeared on television and radio shows across the nation discussing faith and discipleship. He considers himself a promoter of discipleship, progenitor of humor, preacher of Pentecost, and potential possessor of a platypus. Find out more at www.DarrensChalk.com.
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Gò0dNews for Seniors
The Magi’s Journey by Bridgett Dallas
“After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold,
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frankincense and myrrh” (Matt. 2:9-11 NIV). he Wise Men searched a long time for
Herod’s intentions against the Messiah, they took a
the Messiah, a Savior sent by God.
different direction from which they came.
When they found Jesus, they were
In the journey of life, we too, will eventually
overcome with great joy. Gazing upon the beauty
face a time when our lives will go in a different di-
of the Christ child, although tiny in form, they
rection. In this world, we all are in search of some-
knew this small child was the Savior that had come
one or something that will enhance our lives.
to save the world. Bowing before such greatness,
The staff at The Bridge of Ooltewah strives to
they humbled themselves with extravagant gifts
be the hands and feet of Jesus, while providing
fit only for a king—gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
dedicated service for those who have chosen a
These gifts provided for the long journeys that lay
different direction for their journey. This is a place
ahead for the King that would one day suffer a hor-
where the people believe God provided a star
rible death to save a lost and dying world.
showing the way directly to Him while bringing
After the Magi worshiped Jesus, they began their journey back. Warned by God of King 28
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Gò0dNews for Everyone
by Pat Daugherty
THE CHRISTMAS CAKE
It was a very hectic Saturday afternoon in 1970 in the church parsonage in Hazlehurst, Georgia. Normal Saturdays in a pastor’s home is hectic; the Christmas mix makes for chaos! Now that you have the picture, here’s the rest of the story. The kitchen phone rang. I knew immediately it was an elderly member who called me every day. I decided to make this quick. Using my hurry-up voice, I said, “Sister May, (not her real name) we’re praying for you today!” “That’s not why I am calling today. I’m sick and I need you to come pray for me!” “I’ll have Pastor Daugherty come out as soon as he can.” “I want you to come out (out was in the country)! She gave me directions as best she could. The games began. With my poor sense of direction, I searched for that county road where I would pass “so and so’s old home place.” (I had no clue whose home place any farmhouse was.) “Turn by a church sign,” she instructed. Big problem! The sign was hidden in a cornfield. 30
December 2014
Without a GPS or anyone to ask, I finally found it! She called for me to come on in. We visited. Soon I explained my need to finish up Sunday’s preparations. She sweetly said, “ I know you need to go. I have confidence in your prayers and felt I needed you to come pray for me.” She had already put me in deep conviction over my messy kitchen being my priority! As I
arose to leave, she said, “Sister Daugherty, there’s a sack on the kitchen table. Would you get it on your way out? ” I picked up the large paper sack on the rough, wooden table. Curiosity was killing me. In my car I looked inside and saw every bag stamped, USDA! I
recognized them as Food Stamp items—sugar, flour, butter, and milk. My initial impulse was to take it back and tell her I didn’t need this as badly as she did. The Lord checked my spirit and whispered, “Just go back in and thank her!” I quickly ran back inside and thanked her. “I love you and the family,” she said. “I wanted to bake the children a Christmas cake, but you have what you need to bake it for me.” I promised her I would. I’ve never been given a gift more costly or dear to me! That year the Christmas edition of Southern Living magazine featured a coconut cake on the cover. I baked that cake and told the children the story of love and sharing. Every year since, during the Christmas Season, I make this coconut cake. I also reflect back on that Saturday long ago when someone said “I love you in a lavish way!” Christmas is God lavishing His love on us with His best sacrificial gift! Pat Daugherty was reared in southern Georgia. Her involvement in church ministry began at an early age. Pat is now in her thirteenth year of music at Life Care Center of Cleveland.
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