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n 1787, Edward Gibson completed his book The Decline And Fall Of The Roman Empire, a work that took 20 years. In his book Gibson identified five reasons for the fall of the Roman empire. “1) The rapid increase of divorce. The undermining of the dignity and sanctity of the home. 2) Higher and higher taxes and the spending of those public monies for free giveaways to the general populace. 3) The mad craze for pleasure sports 4) The building of gigantic armaments when the real enemy was within, in the decadence of the people. 5) The decay of religion, falling into mere form, losing touch with love and becoming impotent to guide people. The supernatural was reduced. The empire was not conquered, it collapsed from within.” Sounds like something that could be written about the United States in 2012 doesn’t it? Though this article does not afford me the room to discuss all of the problems we face in America, I can identify what I believe to be the greatest of those problems. 1) We are a nation without proper leadership. In Old Testament book of Judges 21:25 God’s Word says: “In those days there was no King in Israel.” Our nation has men and women who hold positions of authority and leadership, but few are offering proper direction for our nation. 2) We are a nation without a moral compass. The remainder of Judges 21:25 says: “Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.” Again, sounds like it could be written of our nation in 2012. Before you think I am laying all the blame on our governmental officials note my last statement. 3) We are a nation of religion without righteousness. Judges 2:11-12 remind us: “Then the sons of Israel did evil in the sight of the Lord and served the Baals, and they forsook the Lord, the God of their fathers, who had brought them out of the land of Egypt.” The greatest blame for the condition of our nation falls squarely at the feet of those who call themselves Christians. A recent Gallup poll determined that 95% of Americans claim they believe in God. If this is true, then how can you explain the condition of our nation aside from mentioning the failure of people to live by what they say they believe. I started this article with a question: “Can America Survive?” Well, regardless of all the problems I have mentioned, I have extremely encouraging news. America can absolutely survive, but only if we follow the command of God. II Chronicles 7:14 “And My people who are called by My name humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin and heal their land.” Simply stated, here is what we must all do. 1) Accept responsibility “Any My people, who are called by My name” It starts with the man or woman in the mirror. 2) Humble yourself “Shall humble themselves.” 3) Pray “And pray and seek my face.” Notice this is prayer that seeks His face not his hand. 4) Become sensitive to personal sin “And turn from their wicked ways.” If we are faithful and obedient to do what He commands us to do, notice the promise God makes to us. “Then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.” Roger Babson, a South American President once said: “South America was founded by men seeking gold, America was founded by men seeking God. For America to not just survive but thrive going forward will depend on whether we fervently seek gold or whether we fervently seek God.
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May I Watch TV? Cindy asked her mother. “What are you going to watch?” her mother asked. “I don’t know,” said Cindy. “I’ll find something.” “That’s not the way to use television,” said her mother. “You shouldn’t turn it on just to see what’s there; you should turn it on to see a program that you want to watch.” “I don’t care what’s on!” said Cindy. “I’m just bored and don’t have anything to do.” “I’m sorry that I’m busy now and can’t spend time with you,” said her mother. “I’ve got to get dinner ready.” “Then let me watch TV,” said Cindy. “No,” said her mother. “The TV is not a babysitter. Get the TV schedule and I’ll check to see if there is anything on now for you to watch.” “Why do you care about what
I watch?” asked Cindy. “I won’t watch any bad shows that you don’t like.” “I just don’t want you to get in the habit of using TV as something to do,” said her mother. “TV isn’t bad,” said Cindy. “No, TV isn’t bad,” said her mother. “In fact, TV is a good thing, but we must use it the right way.” “What’s the right way?” asked Cindy. “You can watch programs that you will enjoy or those that teach you something,” said her mother. “But don’t use the TV to fill the time when you have nothing else to do.”“Why not?” asked Cindy. “God has given you many worthwhile things to do. That’s why you should learn to do things that help you or someone else,” said her mother. “If you read a book,
you are doing something-not just watching. If you go and play outside, you are getting exercise and enjoying flowers and the outdoors.” “What else could I do?” asked Cindy. “You could help me cook our dinner,” said her mother. “I think I’d like to read a book,” said Cindy. Some Questions 1.How many hours a day do you watch TV? 2.What are some good things you could do instead of watching TV? 3.How does Jesus help us spend our time in a good way? A Prayer Dear God, thank you for TV. Help me use it the right way, and help me also do other interesting things. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
1 Peter 1:13-15 Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being soberminded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, Excerpted from Family Time Story Devotions by Eldon Weisheit copyright © 1992 Augsburg Books, an imprint of Augsburg Fortress. Reproduced by permission of Augsburg Fortress. All rights reserved. 5 GoodNews Christian Magazine www.Goodnewscm.com
Assembly of God Grace Assembly 1976 Westland Dr SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-7729 Triune Assembly of God 3625 Waverly Dr NE, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 472-4214
Baptist Beacon Baptist Church 505 Corvin Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-7056 Big Spring Baptist Church 1415 Hardwick St SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-1101 Bellefounte Baptist Church Pastor Lake Walker 132 Bellfounte Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 336-2312 Sun school 10:00 Worship at 11:00, and 6:00 Wed. 7:00 Bethel Baptist Tabernacle Pastor John Bivens 3165 Buchanan Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-5820 Sun School 10: Worship 11:00, and 6:00 Wed 7:00 Blue Springs Baptist Church 699 Blue Springs Church Rd SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-0932F Cedar Springs Baptist Church 723 Cedar Springs Church Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-5506 Center Point Baptist Church 167 Monza Ln NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 336-2133 Church At Grace Point 2595 Old Freewill Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 728-5050 or grace-point.com
Sun.Worship 10:00, Wed. 6:30 Covenant Baptist Church 249 Calhoun Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 559-2653 Dalton Pike Baptist Church 3055 Benton Pike NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-7606 Elkmont Baptist Church
4030 Old Freewill Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 479-4600 Emmanuel Baptist Church 1227 Powerline Dr NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 476-5167 East Cleveland Baptist Church 1145 Arnold St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-8728 Fairview Baptist Church 5545 Runway Dr NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 790-5353 First Baptist Church Co-Pastor Allan Lockerman, Co-Pastor-Jim Gibson 1275 Stuart Road Cleveland, Tennessee 37312 (423)709-9100 or clevelandfbc.com Sun 8:30, 9:45 and 11:05 Wed 6:15 Galilee Baptist Church 665 Old Chattanooga Pike SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 496-2019 Hopewell Baptist Church 188 Old Georgetown Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 479-3763 The Journey Church 1668 S Lee Hwy, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 728-4100 Lebanon Baptist Church 1411 Old Parksville Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-6700 Macedonia Baptist Church 3119 Spring Place Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-1713 Maple Street Baptist Church 1700 Maple St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 478-3622 Michigan Avenue Baptist Church 2741 Benton Pike NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-8891 Mt Carmel Baptist Church 7619 Blue Springs Rd, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-1620 New Friendship Baptist Church 1344 Chatata Valley Rd NE,
Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 476-6007 New Hope Baptist Church 453 Blue Springs Ln SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 614-8991 North Cleveland Baptist Church Pastor Dr. Jay Mccluskey 2815 Ocoee St N, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 476-8524 or northclevelandbaptist.org Sun School 9:45 Worship 8:30, 11:00, 6:00 Wed 6:00 Oak Grove Baptist Church 4452 Bates Pike SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-9125 Old Pathway Baptist Church 224 Rymer Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 614-0622 Parkway Baptist Church Rev. Shane Lawson 185 Meadow Ln SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 339-5522 or www.parkwaybaptist.info Sun school 10:00 Worship at 11:00 and 6:00 Wed. 6:00 Philadelphia Baptist Church 910 30th St SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-0620 Philippi Baptist Church 2325 Old Harrison Pike NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-5385 Ridgeview Baptist Church 1501 S Ocoee St, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-5119 Samples Memorial Baptist Church 371 Samples Chapel Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 476-2329 Shiloh Baptist Church 3406 Blair Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 479-5755 Stuart Park Baptist Church 850 17th St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-6741 Tasso Baptist Church 164 Old Charleston Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 559-2114
Temple Baptist Church 3070 Harrison Pike, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-6813 Thompson Spring Baptist Church 5660 Bates Pike SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 790-1823 Union Baptist Church 797 Hughes Lake Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 559-1720 Valley View Baptist Church Pastor David Tuten 4657 Spring Place Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-7707 or vvbaptist.org Sun school 9:30 Worship at 10:30, and 6:00 Wed. 7:00 Washington Avenue Baptist Church 1720 Perry St SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-0489 Waterville Baptist Church Pastor Allan Lovelace 3722 Dalton Pike SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-5582 or watervillebaptistchurch.org Sun School 9:00 Worship 10:45, and 6:00 Wed 6:30 West Cleveland Baptist Church 1959 Westland Dr SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-8927 Westwood Baptist Church Pastor Steve Smartt 4001 Georgetown Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 472-1534 or www.westwoodlife.org Worship Sun. 10:45 6:00 pm Wed 6:00 White Oak Baptist Church 2043 White Oak Valley Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 559-2359
Catholic St Therese Catholic Church 900 Clingan Ridge Dr NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 476-8123
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Cleveland Christian Fellowship Past Mark Strickland 695 S Ocoee St, Cleveland, TN 37311
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(423) 476-2642 or ccfchurch.us Worship 10:00, and 6:30 Wed 7:00
Christian United Christian Church 2200 Peerless Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-4277
Church of Christ Church Of Christ-Central 200 25th St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-8941 Cleveland Church Of Christ 1025 Beech Cir NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 339-2500 Eastside Church Of Christ 252 Wildwood Ave SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-0901 SE 2nd Street Church of Christ 753 Howard Cir SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-3789 Union Grove Church Of Christ Minster Steven Hall 4889 Bates Pike SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-8307 Sunday School 10:00 Worship 10:55, 6:00 Wed. 7:00
Church of God North Cleveland Church Of God
Pastor Mitch Maloney 335 11th St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-5513 or nccog.org Sun 10:30, and 6:00 Wed. 6:30 Mt Olive Church of God 3522 Harrison Pike, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-3381 Mt View Church of God 210 Roadway Dr SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 472-6925 South Cleveland Church Of God
Pastor Chris Moody 1846 Volunteer Dr SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-6382 or southcleveland.org Sun. school 9:30 Worship 10:30 Wed. 7:00 Lance @southcleveland.org Springplace Road Church of God
2600 Spring Place Rd SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 476-6414 Westmore Church of God Pastor Kelvin Page 2412 Wolfe Dr NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 559-9646 or www.westmorecog.org Sun. 10:00, and 6:00 Wed. 6:30 Zion Assembly Church of God Pastor Todd Mcdonald 5512 Waterlevel Hwy, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 476-3337 or zionassemblychurchofgod.com/ Sun school 10:00 Worship 11:00, 6:00 Wed 7:00
Church of God of Prophecy Cleveland Spanish Church of God of Prophecy 2610 Grove Ave. Cleveland, TN 37312 (423)473-7199 Durkee Road Church of God of Prophecy 201Durkee Rd. Cleveland, TN37312 (423) 472-4384 Peerless Road Church of God of Prophecy 3301 Peerless Rd. NW Cleveland, TN 37312 (423)303-2680 Spring Place Church of God of Prophecy 2530 Spring Place Rd. Cleveland, TN37311 (423)476-6414 Wildwood Church of God of Prophecy 150 Wildwood Ave Cleveland, TN 37311 (423)479-6584
Episcopal Norvel Hayes Ministries 24 155 S Ocoee St, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-3882 Saint Luke’s Episcopal Church 320 Broad St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-5541
Lutheran LutheranFirst Lutheran Church 195 McIntire Ave NE, Cleveland, TN 37312
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Methodist Asbury United Methodist Church 120 Central Ave NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 790-5956 Big Spring United Methodist Church 1196 Hardwick St SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-5242 Black Fox United Methodist Church 1820 Old Chattanooga Pike SW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 339-1908 Broad Street United Methodist Church 155 Central Ave NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-5586 First United Methodist Church 3425 Ocoee St N, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 476-4504 South Cleveland United Methodist Church 1165 Church St SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-8742 Tasso United Methodist 1106 Tasso Ln NE, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 479-4457 Trinity United Methodist Church 731 1st St SE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 614-7900 Valley Head Methodist Church 920 Mouse Creek Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 472-0575 Wesley Memorial Methodist 3405 Peerless Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 472-9578
Pentecostal Faith Memorial Church 910 17th St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-6281 First United Pentecostal Church 4095 Peerless Rd NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 476-9436
Non-Denominational Christian Fellowship Ctr 895 6th St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-9591 Church Alive Ministries Cleveland, TN 37353 (423) 559-1371 Cleveland Cornerstone Church 533 Broad St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 479-1775 Freedom Fellowship Church 3555 Blue Springs Rd, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 478-0654 Graceway Chapel 221 14th St NW, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 728-2226 Restoration Fellowship 211 Trewhitt Dr SE, Cleveland, TN 37323 (423) 479-4249 Walker Valley Community Church 787 Lauderdale Memorial Hwy NW, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 336-9696
Presbyterian Charleston Cumberland Presbyterian Church 8267 N Lee Hwy, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 336-5004 First Cumberland Presbyterian Church 161 2nd St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-6751 First Presbyterian Church 433 N Ocoee St, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 476-5584 St James Cumberland Presbyterian Church 151 Short St NE, Cleveland, TN 37311 (423) 472-5762 Trinity Presbyterian Church 1780 Stuart Rd NE, Cleveland, TN 37312 (423) 559-9595
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MONEY TALKS “What we have here is failure to communicate”—Cool Hand Luke
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et me start with a disclaimer: I am not a Certified Financial Planner, nor a trained accountant, nor did I major in business or finance in college. I’m actually a college English professor trained in literature and writing. When it comes to money and financial planning, I am very much a layperson just like most people. I am a husband, a father, a taxpayer, and a Christian. Much of what you hear from me in this column will sound a lot like what you’d hear from Dave Ramsey— namely, a down-to-earth, practical, and common-sense approach to handling money. Certainly the Bible has much to say about money and money management—over 2000 references in Scripture, according to some. My hope is that this column will provide helpful, simple advice about making wise choices with money, whether you are married or single. You may hear nothing “profound” in these columns, and that’s fine. I hope it will all sound like something you’ve heard before, or should have known already, but perhaps you just haven’t thought about it in while. If that’s the case, consider these columns as a “gentle reminder” from someone much like yourself. For this inaugural column, I wanted to begin with the essential idea of communication—specifically about money. For married couples, nothing is more imperative than clear and frequent communication about money—saving, spending, and goal-setting. Unfortunately, few things are more uncomfortable to talk about than our spending. In fact, many people would rather discuss the most intimate details of their personal lives than to reveal where, when, and how they spend their money. Money decisions are highly personal, and our money decisions reveal what is important to us. When married couples hide their spending decisions from each other—or simply refuse to talk about these decisions—it is very difficult, if not impossible, for them to reach their financial goals. Some practical suggestions
for couples include the following: 1. Meet regularly with your spouse
to plan a budget for the upcoming month. This should be written, and both partners should have input into expenses and savings goals. 2. Have joint checking and savings accounts rather than separate accounts. While some claim to enjoy the independence of separate accounts, a joint account will improve, by necessity, your marital intimacy and communication. 3. Be sure both partners have some cash designated every month as “mad money” for spending however he or she chooses. This will allow one to retain a sense of flexibility and independence. 4. Pray to gether about financial decisions, including charitable giving.
progress you’re making toward your financial goals, and how much your net worth is increasing. (There’s also a Mint app for smart phones so you can get instant feedback). Communication about money goes beyond merely talking to our spouse or our accountability partner, however. It also involves being willing to seek wise and godly counsel about making a budget, paying off debts, saving, and investing. During the ten years in which I’ve served as a coordinator for Financial Peace University at my local church, I’ve witnessed first-hand many success stories that result when people are willing to make the difficult decision to put aside their pride and seek help with their finances. But I’ve also seen the disaster that results when some are unable to do this, and they continue along the path of financial mismanagement, usually ending in bankruptcy and sometimes in divorce as well. Let me encourage you to be proactive in taking control of your finances. Do not merely cruise along as though everything is fine when it’s not. Do not be afraid to seek outside help with questions you may not have answers for. You’ll find that when it comes to money matters, “silence is not golden,” and the more honest and clear communication we have about money issues, the more healthy and happy we’re apt to be—spiritually, financially, and emotionally. “Remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you the ability to produce wealth.”—Deuteronomy 8:18 By Andrew Lee
Singles are especially susceptible to making poor financial decisions, usually because they have no one to keep them accountable for their spending choices and savings goals. It is important for singles to get a reliable accountability partner, someone who will tell them the candid truth about their spending decisions and offer encouragement to help them reach long-term goals such as saving for retirement or paying off credit card debt. Today, there are Kelly L Browand also a variety of online reFinancial Advisor sources which can be very . 3858 Candies Creek Lane Ste C helpful in helping us track Cleveland, TN 37312 our finances and keep us 423-476-3320 accountable. One website that I highly recommend is mint.com. This site will email you with regular updates about which bills are www.edwardjones.com coming due, how much
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“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.” Luke 4:18-19.
haplain (LTC) Jeffrey B. Walden did preach the good news. He represented Christ in our armed C forces and gave his life as the ultimate sacrifice to our country on March 16, 2012. Walden served his country and family proudly for 30 years. To honor their son, Charles and Charlotte Walden, installed a flag pole in their front yard in May. Beautifully landscaped on Georgetown Road, you can see Mr. Walden each morning and evening out by the road. Mr. Walden smiles, “I put the flag up every morning and take it down every night. This is our way of honoring our son and keeping his memory alive.” The pain of losing their son is still deep in their hearts, but Mrs. Walden says, “I don’t know what people would do without our Lord. You never know what this world will bring or what might happen next. Knowing Him and that our son is in Heaven is what keeps us going. We appreciate the prayers that are still going up for us, prayers make a difference.” The Walden’s, originally from Michigan, have lived in
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Cleveland for nine years. The couple has three other sons, two of which have served our country. They are members of and sing in the choir at North Cleveland Church of God. “The people in this town are wonderful,” Charles said, “so many from our church and other churches gave us overwhelming support. We attend NCCOG, but had members of Westmore coming by to love on us as well.” Charlotte agreed, “They just kept coming,...praying, bringing food.” Agreeing that their faith and knowledge of their son’s eternal home brings them peace, the Waldens expressed their appreciation to the great town of Cleveland. Mr. Walden will continue morning and night to honor his son and hopes that as other’s drive by their makeshift memorial, they will say a prayer for all those that have and still do serve our country. As we enjoy this patriotic season, we are reminded of those that sacrifice so greatly for our freedoms. “This flag is not just to honor our son, but to honor our country as well.” By:Laura mountain
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arallel process is a clinical term used to describe the common occurrence in therapy when the therapist’s own experience is reflected in the client’s. It is when a client comes in grieving over the loss of a loved one while the therapist has only just experienced his or her own loss as well. It is a therapist helping a client through feelings of anger and hurt that the therapist has also just recently confronted. But, here’s the thing: we are all in parallel process. Too often in life it goes unsaid. Here is where I say it.***Let me preface this post with just this: When you finish reading it I want you to sit me down and read it back to me. Ok? Then we can start a support group. WARNING: This is an intervention Many of us women (and men) complain that we have a hard time saying “No”. I think it is time we talk about WHY we have a hard time saying no. Time to draw back the shades. Time to shed some light. Time to be real. No sugar coating here. I am giving you plenty of warning. You might want to stop right now. You don’t have to read any further. (Then you wouldn’t read it back to ME either!) Well, ok. You’re still here. Sigh. Let’s do this…let’s rip this bandaid off. Contrary to popular belief, the inability to say “no” has very little to do with the other person…It has nothing to do with our concern for others…well, maybe our concern about what others think of us, but there is a big difference. Has nothing to do with our incredible philanthropist spirit. Has nothing to do with our passion to help mankind.
The inability to say “no” has everything to do with us. Our fear of disappointing others. Our fear of disapproval. Our fear of losing our reputation.It also has to do with a lot more… We don’t say no because we think we are the only one who can do the job (savior complex). We don’t say no because we care more about what that person thinks about us in the moment than with being honest and having integrity. We don’t say no because we care more about building up our own self image than we do about being real. We don’t say no because we want to work hard and do more so that we never, ever, ever owe anyone anything. For some people it goes further…you want to always be in a “one up” position…you want to work hard, do more…so that people ALWAYS owe YOU (martyr complex). We LOVE to feel NEEDED, but HATE to feel NEEDY. Oh, to actually be in a position to NEED someone else? Oh, God… never! That would feel way to vulnerable! To not do everything on our own…by ourselves? To get people to HELP us? Whoa…that might require some good people and communication skills, tolerance for imperfection, and MORE TIME. It is high time you and I get over ourselves. This applies to saying no regarding our children, too. You sign your kid up for
every last thing because you either don’t want to disappoint others, you care about your kid’s reputation (or your own), OR you think your kid is so incredibly outstanding that he or she MUST be exposed to each and every opportunity out there. It is high time you and I get over ourselves…and over our kids, too. Yes, in a very real sense each of us is special and has unique gifts to offer the world. We also have to be careful that our western, individualized, me-centered culture doesn’t influence our spirituality, too, because…in a very real sense we are also nothing. Nada. God doesn’t NEED you to do anything. He invites you to be part of His work.HIS WORK. Not yours. Not your reputation. Not you as savior. Not you as martyr. Not you so stressed out, secretly angry and bitter, frustrated to no end, physically sick because you just have to do everything and be everywhere. This is a tough love post. And, most of American culture needs it. We are a society of co-dependents. We LOVE to be needed. No matter how sick it makes us. We are desperate for approval…addicted to it, really…that we will say yes even when we know we really can’t. We figure we will work it out later…only to disappoint people in the end. It is more honest, more real…takes more integrity… to say “no” in the beginning. No, I am so sorry…I will not be able to make it to that party. Saying no in the beginning is the harder thing to do for US because we have to live knowing… tolerating…that for just a few seconds someone is disappointed with…possibly even disapproving of …us. Gasp! Approval and being needed…establishing our reputation…have become our gods….our idols. We are energetic, workaholics who seek out what needs to be done…and we do it. And, we get praised…adulations…”You are amazing! How do you do it all?” Yes, we are approval addicts. We forget the old saying…”When I say no it gives someone else the opportunity to say yes.” We forget that saying “no” is actually a gift to others AND ourselves when saying “yes” to everything is really only about us. We haven’t figured out that saying “yes” is sometimes the most selfish thing we can do. Does this mean I don’t think true altruism exists? No…I most certainly do. Do I think there aren’t a lot of people out there who could say “yes” more? Absolutely, I do…as long as it is to the right things and for the right reasons. But, I’m not talking to them right now. In fact, maybe it is all relative and about perspective. Maybe, we could learn a lot from those people who seem to hesitate to say “yes”. I mean, are they really just bad human beings with no heart like we have always assumed? Could they have some wisdom we don’t? Get over yourself. Get over saying no. Get over your conversational competitions of who is busier, who is the most tired, who has the most going on. I promise your friends will get over it, too. (and, remember this post when someone says no to YOU…sometimes I think we have grown accustomed to everyone saying yes…all the time) Now, go ahead…read it back to me. I’m bracing myself
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remember wrestling with my father as a child. It was something that I loved to do. He would get on all fours on the floor and I would plow my shoulder into him as hard as I could, just certain it would knock him back if not knock him over. Of course, I could not even get him to budge, and that never ceased to amaze me. There was something magical about pushing against him with everything I had only to learn that he held a power much greater than my own. After a few attempts he would swing his arm around and swoop me up by one ankle with his big paw of a hand. I would flail around before he finally pinned me to the ground. He would eventually let me up again and we would start the process over, laughing and giggling the whole time. Now I get to experience the same joy with my own children. I am the one that holds all of the strength and they are the ones amazed at my power. Now that I am on the other side of the wrestling match I can see something that many people often miss. That is, there are few things that are as intimate as wrestling. Yet, when we think of the most famous wrestler in Scripture the word that comes to mind is probably not intimacy. Jacob most likely means “heel grabber.” When he is so-named because of the way he was hold-
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bulldog-of-a-man who is looking to increase his own personal blessing. Yet, he could have never imagined the blessing that he was about to receive! When Jacob asked for the blessing his rival pronounced upon him a name change. He told him that he would no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, because he had struggled with both God and men and overcame. Israel means, “struggles (wrestles) with God.” Suddenly we begin to see something new about Jacob’s life. All of his life he has been wrestling with man. He wrestled with his brother, with his father, with his father-in-law, with his wives, with his father-in-laws’ servants, etc. However, now we are seeing that he was not just wrestling with man, but had in fact been wrestling with God.
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ing onto Esau’s heel at birth, any other implications of his name are not immediately clear. However, as we read about the events between his birth and his divine wrestling match things begin to clear up quickly. Jacob supplanted Esau by stealing his blessing as the oldest son, and deceived his father in doing so. He fled from Esau only to find himself “wrestling” with Laban, and then Laban’s servants. He struggled with his wives and children. In all of this he never seemed to fail to miss an opportunity to seize things for himself. Jacob does not appear to be one pursuing intimacy. Instead, he seems to be self-serving and divisive. Yet, something interesting happened to Jacob when he was alone in the desert one night. Most of us know the story of Jacob wrestling with the Angel of the Lord. He wrestled with a divine being that had the appearance of a man. Although Jacob could not overpower his opponent he refused to let him go until he gave him a blessing. It was the same old Jacob, the tenacious,
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Just like the Angel of the Lord with whom Jacob wrestled that night, his struggles had the appearance of man. Yet, God had been working through those struggles in order to bring Jacob to this moment. His wrestling culminated with a match that ended with the revelation of God’s hand in his life. It’s as if God said to Jacob, “You thought you were just wrestling with man, but you were in fact wrestling with me.” This revelation of God’s proximity brought about a transformation
in Jacob’s life. He was never again the same. He named the place Peniel, which means “face of God.” He realized that he had quite literally faced off against God, and yet God had spared his life. And I would purport that God had done more than spared his life. He had in fact engaged his life, and did it in the most intimate of ways. Perhaps you have been wrestling. Your opponent may take the form of life circumstances, work challenges or human relationships. Whatever the case may be, you can be assured that God is engaged in it. He may be about to deliver you from your enemy. However, he may reveal to you that he is actually the one with whom you are ultimately wrestling. In either case he intends to use your struggle in order to bring about the transformation that comes when you overcome in your struggle with God and men. And in either case you can rest assured that your father is intimately close to you, even when he is wrestling against you.
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Fenimore’s - When you walk into Fennimore’s you are greeted by the owner Dwight who is incredibly friendly and helpful. He has a beautiful showroom and has everything you need for all your floral needs. It is wonderful to find such extraordinary people and business right here in our community. GO SEE Dwight at Fenimore’s Today! Ophello Medical Equipment - Mo is the owner and has been in the business of helping people for years. He sells Mobility product to those who are in need, and also sells oxygen. If you know of anyone in need of
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White Wing Christian Bookstore - If you have ever been looking for a place to get the latest and greatest devotionals, Bibles, Artwork, Movies, Music and Much Much More. Please stop into White Wing. This place is a new favorite. The selection that White Wing carries is the largest around. You Will Not be Disappointed! Take a trip with your family and see for yourself.
Edward Jones (Kelly Browan) (Pg.8) – Kelly is a Financial Advisor for Edward Jones. Kelly will not treat you like just another account, she will treat you like family because she has your best interest at heart. Kelly will do whatever it takes to make sure you are informed and well taken care of. Call Kelly Today! July 2012
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Take a Look Around Cleveland!! Nationwide (Kathy Wilson) – Kathy has been in the dia quickly gained steady orders from boutiques insurance business since 1989. She is the type of person that will call you when she says she will. Kathy is ready to help you with all your insurance needs. Please give her a call today so she can help you!
Scoops and Burgers (pg.21) – All I have to say is “The Best Hot Dog in Town” and I do not say this lightly, Go Get One!!! Frank is the owner of Scoops, and he makes a point to try to greet every customer personally. Go to scoops for a great atmosphere and yummy Food.
B Style(Back Cover) - B Style is not your ordinary bridal boutique. At B Style, all the wedding dresses are hand made by the owner, Nadia Binder. Nadia has been creating dresses for 8+ years, starting in her home country of Ukraine. Na-
in Germany and Czech Republic. In 2009, Nadia, along with her daughter, came to America in search of the American dream. After searching for the right location, in February 2012, Nadia took a step of faith and opened up B Style. Although B Style doesn’t carry the large selection of dresses like other bridal boutiques, all of her wedding dresses are custom made, down to hand stitched beading. Nadia is hoping to catch the business of brides who want a unique dress, custom made specially to their body. In the end, Nadia wants all of her clients to be 100% satisfied with her work. Already have a dress, but need to have it altered? B Style can take care of that as well. Besides custom dresses, B Style also does most alterations, including dresses, pants, shirts, and jackets. Stop by, and let B Style handle your alteration needs.
Nicodemus Photography (pg.2) – Melinda is the owner of Nicodemus Photography. She has taken our family pictures for 2 years now, and WE LOVE HER. Melinda has an eye for good shots, and will be available for any occasion. Call Melinda today to set up your Photo Shoot. Be sure to mention GoodNews, and do not forget to send us a picture!
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hen I was a child, one of the ways I was reprimanded continually was for bringing books to the dinner table. If the book wasn’t actually on the table, it was in my lap opened to my current chapter. I loved to read. Mom would tell me, “Craig, put the book up. You’re at the table.” It’s my parents’ fault, really. To understand that, you have to realize what they did to us as children. They didn’t leave well enough alone and simply send us off to school hoping we’d catch an education. Instead, they insisted on reading books to us poor, impressionable children. It started out innocently enough: Fox in Socks, Green Eggs and Ham, Gillespie and the Guards, The Biggest Bear. But after getting a taste of these, I was no longer satisfied with the smaller doses. Pretty soon I was trying it for myself, reading things on my own. My natural desires played into this: cowboy and Indian books, submarine and deep sea adventure books, spaceships and rockets. I had to plan carefully to conceal this growing habit. After all, not everyone approves of their child borrowing the family flashlight so that he can read a book under the covers in his room when the lights are out and bedtime has come and gone. (Note to self: it gets stuffy under there!) Then someone offered me a new thing: mysteries. I soon found that Encyclopedia Brown was the coolest kid in his town. Alvin Fernald and Danny Dunn had adventures that wowed my mind. The Three Investigators had spine tingling run-ins. Brains Benton was brilliant in his analysis of crime. Then there were the Hardy Boys: lots and LOTS of books in which the brothers never aged, suffered innumerable personal injuries and always beat the bad guys in the end. And I can’t forget the Mad Scientists Club. Mysteries ended the cover up. I could no longer pretend that I wasn’t addicted. Strangely enough, my parents encouraged this behavior. They facilitated it by getting my own library card when I was too young to know what I was getting into. They took us to the library regularly so we could feed our habit. They gave us money for chores which allowed me to build out a decent Peanuts collection from K-Mart. Night after night as we grew up, they gathered the whole family around so that we could read together. This book was special. When we were younger, it had a lot of pictures in it. As we got older, the pictures were not as plentiful. But the family still read together. My Dad had it in his mind that our family could read through the whole Bible together. Apparently he never got the memo that kids are too stupid to read Leviticus, Chronicles or Jeremiah. It also is apparent that he was not too upset with the idea that we didn’t understand every single scrap of theology as
we read through those chapters. Instead, like a mule plodding along on a country mile, our family would sit down together and read four chapters: two in the Old Testament, one in the New Testament, and either a Psalm or Proverb. Whether we were little or big, we learned to read strange sounding Bible names like Maher-shalal-hash-baz, Huppim and Muppim, and Peleg (one of my favorites as a young boy). They didn’t stop there, either. They had the crass audacity to offer us rewards for reading the Bible on our own. I remember getting an ice cream cone for memorizing part of Revelation 19. If we finished the whole Bible, we got cash money. To a poor kid, money talked pretty loudly. All of the children in my family had read the entire Bible through before we were teenagers. As expected, a deeper habit developed, one which has pretty much controlled my life from my childhood. It’s the habit of reaching out and picking up a copy of God’s Word and reading it on a daily basis. Through that habit, I’ve overcome numerous battles and personal struggles. I’ve gained insight into my own heart and life. Most of all, I’ve learned about a great big God who cared enough for me to send His own Son to die in my place. I’ve learned that I can walk with Him if only I will choose to. I’ve learned that His love is bigger than my failures. So, I guess a lot of this really is my parents’ fault. They couldn’t leave well enough alone. Their actions have had repercussions on their grandchildren. Before my children could talk, they were sitting in my lap with a book in front of them. When they were old enough to say words, they were helping complete the phrase “I do not LIKE green eggs and ham. I do not like them ...” Now they have their own habit. My teenager has read thousands of books by now. He’s been busted for sitting in his dark bedroom reading a book with a small light. The others are catching up at their own pace. They have their own library cards. We make regular trips there. Through Ebay, I’ve recovered many of the classic books I read as a child for my own children’s enjoyment. If McKay’s Used Books had a Diamond level membership, we probably would be in it. And at nights, we gather around to read the Bible. We plod through hard names. We talk about what we’ve read. And we use the books with lots of pictures or very few. Some habits are just hard to break, I guess. What habits are your children learning from you?
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Swag…Who’s Got It?
Darren Schalk www.DiscipleshipInk.com.
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oday I had to google the word swag to make sure I was using it properly. Thankfully I was, but from the stuff I read, it didn’t seem like it was possible to misuse it. Like this article, for instance—it’s pretty swag, right? (Okay, maybe you can misuse it.)
ing for years (just not on Facebook). It’s easy for you to keep up with the changes, but us older folks can sometimes be a bit behind. This causes what we often call a “generation gap.” And I sometimes wonder if it makes you guys feel isolated in your problems, as if no one but your generation understands what you’re Every day something new pops up, from language, going through. to technology, to politics. I honestly don’t know how you guys keep up. I got my very first cell phone about Yet, while society continues to change at an alarm7 years ago, and now I can’t remember life without ing rate, human nature remains the same. And while one. How did I ever survive a trip to the grocery store Mom, Dad, Grandma, and Grandpa may not have without this little piece of technology? Wouldn’t the had enough swag to deal with Facebook bullies or Inworld simply disintegrate into nothing if not for smart ternet pornography (did I use it right that time?), they phones? Did God not hang the entire universe upon sure knew how to deal with insecurity, jealousy, fear, a cell phone tower? I’m pretty sure that’s in Genesis and sexual temptation. somewhere. So as you ponder along with me about how the world Times are changing, and it can be hard for some to continued to turn in the land before smart phones and keep up. Strangely enough, though, some things have Internet, pause to learn a life lesson or two from those not changed. In fact, many of the issues you’re cur- dinosaurs we know as parents, teachers, and leaders. rently dealing with have already been dealt with by They were around before iPads, Facebook, and “the your parents, and their parents, and even by your Twitter.” But just because they don’t know how to parents’ parents’ parents! work the xbox or the flatscreen TV, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re completely clueless about life. Pornography is not new, just more easily accessible. That jealousy issue you’re dealing with amongst your Maybe they do have a little swag, after all (nailed it). friends—also not new. Bullying has been happen-
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Buttermilk Biscuits Yield: 9 biscuits 2¼ c. freshly-milled soft white wheat flour, or 2 c. all-purpose flour
1 Tbsp. baking powder ½ tsp. cream of tartar ½ tsp. salt 1/8 tsp. baking soda ½ c. unsalted butter, softened ¾ c. buttermilk 1. Preheat the oven to 450F. 2. In a medium bowl, stir together the flour,
Bread
. That one word can evoke so many images and memories. Steaming dinner rolls at Thanksgiving. Buttered croissants at Christmas. Thick French toast for a breakfast in bed. Braided raisin bread for company. For some people, bread came out of the oven in all shapes and sizes and varieties. For others, bread came out of the supermarket in a plastic bag. Yet no matter which end of the spectrum you have experienced, bread has always been available.
Bread
is eaten in more places and in greater amounts than any other food in the world. It is the staple of life. It is what keeps humanity going. Maybe that is why Jesus said that He is the Bread of Life (John 6:35). Without Him we cannot live, without Him we cannot exist. Special breads should not be relegated to special occasions. They should become an everyday part of our lives. Buttermilk biscuits for breakfast. Light loaf bread for lunch. Scrumptious Stollen for supper. Let’s take homemade bread off of the “special occasion” shelf and begin enjoying it on a weekly—and even daily—basis!
baking powder, cream of tartar, salt, and baking soda. 3. Using a pastry blender or 2 knives, cut in the butter until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. 4. Make a well in the center of the mixture and add the buttermilk all at once. Stir just until the dough clings together. If the dough seems too dry and crumbly, add a little more buttermilk. If it seems too wet and sticky, sprinkle on a little more flour. 5. Turn out the dough onto a lightly floured surface. Knead it gently for 8-10 strokes until the dough forms a nice, smooth ball. Roll it out or pat it to a ½”-¾” thickness. 6. Cut the dough with a biscuit cutter, dipping the cutter into flour between cuts. Place the biscuits on a lightly buttered baking sheet, making sure that their sides are touching each other. 7. Bake for 10-12 minutes, until the tops of the biscuits are golden brown.
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Biscuits are not only for breakfast. They can also be used as a savory addition to a supper meal or as a sweet addition to any meal. Here are some variations on the biscuit theme. Regular Biscuits: Omit the baking soda, and substitute 2/3 c. milk for the buttermilk.
Garden Biscuits: Add to the flour mixture 2 Tbsp. finely shredded carrot, 1 Tbsp. finely snipped parsley (or 1 tsp. dried parsley), and 1 Tbsp. finely chopped green onion.
Cinnamon Raisin Biscuits: Add ½ tsp. cinnamon and ¼ tsp. nutmeg to the flour mixture. Reduce buttermilk to 1/3 c. and add 1/3 c. honey. Stir in ½ c. raisins. Bake at 425F for 10 minutes.
Cheese Biscuits: Add 1 c. shredded cheddar cheese with the buttermilk. In a small saucepan, melt ¼ c. salted butter. Stir in ½ tsp. garlic powder and 1 Tbsp. dried parsley flakes. Brush this mixture on the warm biscuits before removing them from the baking sheet.
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G ò0dNews d For Your Funny bone A four year old was at the pediatrician for a check up. As the doctor looked down her ears with an otoscope, he asked, “Do you think I’ll find Big Bird in here?” The little girl stayed silent. Next, the doctor took a tongue depressor and looked down her throat. He asked, “Do you think I’ll find the Cookie Monster down there?” Again, the little girl was silent. Then the doctor put a stethoscope to her chest. As he listened to her heart beat, he asked, “Do you think I’ll hear Barney in there?” “Oh, no!” the little girl replied. “God is in my heart. Barney’s on my underpants.”
Sunday after church, a Mom asked her very young daughter what the lesson was about. The daughter answered, ‘Don’t be scared, you’ll get your quilt.’ Needless to say, the Mom was perplexed. Later in the day, the pastor stopped by for tea and the Mom asked him what that morning’s Sunday school lesson was about. He said ‘Be not afraid, thy comforter is coming.’
Victim of Advanced Parenthood * You count the sprinkles on each kid’s cupcake to make sure they’re equal. * You want to take out a contract on the kid who broke your son’s favorite toy car and make him cry. * (for Mom’s only!) You only have time to shave one leg at a time. * You hide in the bathroom just to get some alone-time. * Your child spits up and you catch it. * Someone else’s kid spits up at a party and you go right on eating. * You consider fingerpaint to be a controlled substance. * You’ve mastered the art of placing large amounts of scrambled eggs and pancakes on the same plate without anything “touching”. * You don’t allow your kids to play with any weapon-toys, and your child chews his toast into the shape of a gun. * You hope ketchup is a vegetable because it’s the only one your child eats. * You con your kid into thinking that FAO Schwartz is a toy MUSEUM and not really a store. * You fast-forward through the scene where Bambi’s mom gets killed. * You hear YOUR parents voice when it’s you that screams “Not in THOSE clothes you don’t!” * You hire a sitter because the two of you haven’t been out in ages, then spend half the night calling home to check on the kids.
A passenger jet was suffering through a severe thunderstorm. As the passengers were being bounced around by the turbulence a young woman turned to a minister sitting next to her and with a nervous laugh asks, “Reverend, you’re a man of God, can’t you do something about this storm?”
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Local Activities and Events Adult Groups South Cleveland Church of God Bible studies and WOW worship Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m.
The Church at GracePoint -LifePoint Small Groups Contact mdavies@grace-point.com
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-Bible study Sundays at 10:00 a.m (All ages) -Bible study Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m.
Westmore Church of God -“Bridge Builders” Sundays at 6:00 p.m. -“Berean” Bible Study Sundays at 5:00 p.m.” -Sanctuary Bible Class Sundays at 6:00 p.m. -Crossroads Bible Study Sundays at 6:00 -“Growing in Christ” Sundays at 6:00 -“Sojourners” Bible Study Sundays at 6:00 -“Growing in Grace” Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. -“The Blessed Life” Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m -Bible study Thursdays at 6:30 p.m.
Westwood Baptist Church -Bible Study Sundays at 9:30
Children North Cleveland Church of God -“e4Kids” Sundays 9:30-10:00 a.m. -Big Breakfast Bonanza Sundays 10:00-10:30
-Big City Sundays 10:30-12:00 p.m. -Toon Town Wednesdays 6:30-7:15
South Cleveland Church of God Royal Rangers and Girls clubs Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m.
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North Cleveland Church of God -“Iron Sharpens Iron” Mens Ministry Saturday Mornings at 9:00 a.m. At Mountain View Inn The Church at GracePoint -Men’s Breakfast at 8:00 a.m First Saturday of the month in the Grace Point Café.
-Childrens Choir (K-2 grade, 3-5 grade) Wednesdays at 6:30-7:00 p.m. -“High Five University” (K-5 grade) Wednesdays at 6:30-8:00 p.m.
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Westwood Baptist Church
The Church at GracePoint
-“Kid Connection” Sunday School 9:30-10:40 Worship Hour 10:40-12:15 -Story Craft Hour (July) Wednesdays 6:30-8:00 -Awana (Aug-May) Wednesdays 5:45-8:00
Couples Groups North Cleveland Church of God -“Twenty Something” Couples Fellowship For engaged and married couples in their 20’s. Sundays at 9:30 a.m. -“Covenant Couples” Couples 30’s – 50’s Sundays at 9:30 a.m.
Westmore Church of God -“IMarriage” Sundays at 6:00 p.m.
Family Groups Westmore Church of God -Visionary Parenting Sundays at 6:00 p.m. -“Secrets of Your Family Tree” Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m.
Men’s Groups
-Wednesday Morning Prayer 6:00 a.m.
Prayer Groups -Prayer Service Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m.
Westmore Church of God -Missions Prayer Movement Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m.
Senior Adult North Cleveland Church of God -“Peacemakers” Senior adult ministries Contact Travis Porter (423) 476-5513
SingleAdult Groups North Cleveland Church of God -“Oasis Singles Ministry” Sundays at 9:30 a.m.
Westmore Church of God -“Single Friends” Meet the second and forth Saturdays of each month for a variety of events. Contact Tammy Taylor at (865)6177715.
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Local Activities and Events Support Groups Westmore Church of God
-“DivorceCare” Thursdays Contact Rick and Rhonda McClure (423)596-1003 -Grief Care Mondays at 6:00 p.m.
Womens Groups
North Cleveland Church of God -Women’s Ministries Contact Nelda at (423)476-5513 ngeorge@nccog.org
The Church at GracePoint -Women group meets weekly For more info contact mdavies@grace-point.com
Westmore Church of God -Women’s Bible Study Wednesdays at 6:30 -Yada Yada Book Club Meet the third Thursday of each month 7:30-9:00 p.m Contact Emily Stone at (423)3311474
Westwood Baptist Church -“Sisters Inc.” For more info contact Terry Johnson (423)472-1534 tjohnson@westwoodlife.org
Youth North Cleveland Church of God -“Altitude Middle School Ministires” Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. -“Elevation” Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m.
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South Cleveland Church of God -“Fusion” Youth Group Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m.
Westmore Church of God -The Element Root work Electives Sundays at 6:00 p.m. -The Element Service Wednesdays at 6:30
Westwood Baptist Church
Westmore Church of God Senior Adult Annual Icecream Social Thursday July 12 (423)479-3415
-“Refuge” Youth Group Wednesday nights at 6:30 -Small Groups Sundays at 9:30 a.m. -Worship Sundays at 10:45
Blue Jam to benefit fallen Cleveland Officer The Justin Maples family Events for July Tj Harris of Decyfer Down will be doing an acoustic show along with North Cleveland Inherit the Kingdom and Church of God Dustin Curry. Girls Night Out AnAdmission is a minimum nual Auction donation of $5. Thursday, July 19 at First Baptist Church 6:30 p.m. Bryant Fellowship Hall Stuart Rd Cleveland TN Call (423) 476-5513 Day / Time 07.21.2012 6:30 pm Registration Deadline Monday July 16 Scoops and Burgers Gospel Music Night Every Tuesday at 6:00 Come on out for great food and entertainment!!
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Coping With Life After the Loss of a
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ventually most couples will face the time when death separates the and one is left alone. Rarely do they go together, such as in a tragic accident. Occasionally, but rarely, the separation is brief – just a few days or weeks. Usually it is months and years. My wife and I were married for 58 years before the Lord called her home. Having experienced this separation let me make some practical suggestions for others who will face such a time.
alone? If the wife has always “waited on” her husband, will he know how to cook meals and wash clothes if left alone? Wives, see to it that hubby can do some things for himself! Conversely, what if the husband has attended to all the business matters of the home—keeping the books and paying the bills—and done all the small fix-up chores? Husbands, see to it that the wife knows how to handle things that you ordinarily do!
Open Communication
Seven Guidelines
Have you and your spouse had an open discussion about death? What prior arrangements have been made? Has funeral home been selected? What type of final service is desired? Where should it be held and who involved? Do you prefer interment or cremation? Is life insurance available? What will the expenses be? Is a burial place secured, mutually agreed upon? This list could go on and on. Do not put off this talk until some later time, for death might come unexpectedly. Another matter is the use of artificial life support should such a situation be faced. Be sure that your spouse knows your wishes. Each partner should have a living will, stating in writing his or her desires in this regard. Is the spouse prepared to deal with the necessities that come when left
When death comes, people will be around for the funeral and a few days thereafter, but the day will come when they are all gone and you are left alone. How will you cope? First, face the situation. It is not something that will just “go away.” Months will pass, perhaps many years. Life goes on. People will go about their own lives and you will be there alone. Even your children have their own loves to live and cannot be expected to change everything just because you are alone. Second, do not allow yourself to engage in self-pity. If you decide to sit around feeling sorry for yourself, the world will let you do it. Remember, many others have had the same experience and learned to deal with it. Third, stay busy. There is always
much to do if you look for it. Constructive activities such as reading, sewing, and watching worthwhile television will help pass the time. Become involved in church activities, in a community project, in helping someone else. Fourth, if you have children and grandchildren, be a blessing (not a burden) to them. You have much to offer them – your love, your time, your knowledge, your prayers, and more. Move in with one of your children only if absolutely necessary. Fifth, do not be in a hurry to remarry. You can’t ever replace the one you have lost. A hasty remarriage often brings little but grief. Your children may resent the new spouse. Financial problems may arise unless money matters are clearly agreed upon. Think before you leap! Sixth, develop a social life of your own. Often a widow or widower feels out of place going to church, to a restaurant, or elsewhere alone. True, it is a bit difficult to go it alone. So, find some others who also live alone and do things together. Go out to eat, travel, go shopping – just get out with others. Seventh, and foremost, exercise your faith. As Christians we have hope, a certainty, beyond the grave. Death is separation, but only for a time. If you have a certain hope beyond the grave, death takes on an entirely different prospective than those who have no such hope. Stay in church regularly. Be a prayer warrior. Study God’s Word. Life will be much easier if your spiritual life is strong.
Divine Help
Perhaps you have seen your spouse suffering for weeks or months. My late wife was an invalid for four long years before she died. We prayed for the lord to perform a miracle and make her well again, but it did not happen. Instead, God called her home to heaven. Was she healed? Absolutely! Her new heavenly body has none of the sufferings and imperfections she endured in her old earthly body. How can I cope with my spouse’s death? Remember the words of Paul: “ I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13 NKJV)
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Taking Faith To The Field Blind Faith A Blind Sportsman Harvests His First Eastern Turkey By Rev. Rusty Asble
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aking on a challenge is not new to Steve Morgan of Cleveland, Tennessee. Steve has been on a life challenge since January 2006. With the onset of MS Steve lost his sight and has had other challenges from this disease. Learning how to live life again – Steve challenged himself spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally to fight through the newness of his disability and learn what Christ had in store for him. When asked to see if he was ready for a new adventure in the outdoors Steve took the challenge. In January of 2007, after a year of practicing and through multiple hunting trips Steve harvested his first whitetail deer at 154 yards through the use of a 30-06 rifle and me as his eyes. It was a great accomplishment that would spring board him to other new adventures in life, faith and ministry around the world. Ready for the next adventure and not being limited by his disability, a turkey hunt was planned. After a few local hunts, we were not able to get close enough due to property limitations. During a morning hunt in April we had a gobbler gobble over 60 times at us that morning. As we would call, it would answer, but the hens in front
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of him were prettier than we could sound. With the gobbler being on an adjoining property all we could do was listen as he meandered back through the creek bottom following his harem of hens. We packed up to head back to the truck and dreamed of another opportunity to hunt. As we headed down the gravel driveway, the adjoining land owner met us on the shoulder of the road. Much to our surprise and joy, he offered to allow us to hunt his bottom pasture until the end of the season. Thanking him and heading on our way we were ecstatic. Another day would come. On that next Saturday, I picked Steve up at 5:30am for our morning hunt. We would be using our pop-up ground blind and our spread of decoys. As we arrive, strong winds and thick overcast clouds over-shadowed that a storm was soon to come. Setting up on the creek bottom, we knew we were in the spot. The decoys were set but I was struggling with one thing – should I put the gobbler decoy out or not? After a few minutes of indecisiveness, I decided to place the dominate decoy and head back to the blind. Steve was ready and there was a sense that this was going to be the morning for success. As the sun rose, the wind over powered any possibility of a gobble from the roost. Knowing that he was somewhere close, I began to do soft yelps, purrs and an occasional cackle. Within 8 minutes a red, white and blue head surfaced over the hill. Walking in a full strut he was showing himself in his majestic glory. As he grew closer, it became very obvious he not only saw the hen decoys, he saw the dominate gobbler decoy. Eighty yards, 70 yards, 60 yards, 50 yards and then the sprint to our opposing decoy. With the bird moving so quickly to our left, I had to excitedly direct Steve to move the gun through multiple window openings 3 times before settling shotgun down. As the huge gobbler squared off with the dominate decoy at 30 yards away, Steve calmly took aim from my verbal commands as I looked over his right shoulder and down the barrel – left, left, steady, hold, pull….boom! Bird down! Steve made an incredible shot. As we made our way over to the downed bird it quickly became apparent that this was the boss dominate gobbler in the area. At 22lbs, with a 10 inch beard, 1 ¼” spurs and a tail fan that measured 31” tip to tip this was a great eastern subspecies wild turkey. A true trophy for any hunter, but an exceptional trophy for my friend, colleague and fellow Sportsman For Christ, Steve Morgan. As Steve takes steps in his blindness, he has found find the faith, strength and guidance for every challenge and adventure he faces. With determination, desire and direction, he has made an incredible difference in my life and in many others.
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I was asked to write an article about my outlook on fitness and how to get yourself motivated and in shape. First, I should tell you a little bit about myself. I am a personal trainer, it is my dream job. However, I have not always been involved with fitness. At one point all I wanted to do was eat and not worry about being physically active. Then I met my husband, Justin, meeting him changed my life. He was an ex football player, basketball player at the University of Alabama and a bodybuilder. But, the most amazing part of all of this is he is in a wheelchair! Eight years ago Justin was in a car accident that left him paralyzed from the waist down. He is the most amazing person I know. Not only does he go on with his day to day as if nothing is wrong with him, but he goes above and beyond. He lifts the heaviest weights at the gym and is always trying to be better than the person beside him. This inspired me to want to get active and be the best I could be for him. As most people tend to be intimidated by the gym because of our self image and lack of confidence, not to mention there is always that possibility we may fail. This is when you have to put 100% of your faith in the Lord… ”Peter walked on the water to go to Jesus. But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid”….(Matthew 14:29-30.) I can relate to this passage of scripture, because in the human flesh we tend to say we put our faith in the Lord, but is it 100 percent or is it 80-20 or 70-30 or 99-1? Even the 99-1 is not going to get you where you need to be in the eyes of God. Jesus has sacrificed so much for us on that cross to be able to trust Him 100 percent. So those who are nervous, intimidated, and scared about starting a new healthy lifestyle just remember God will take care of you and will never put anything on your plate you can’t chew. We do our best and let Him handle the rest. Do not doubt that… “Why did you doubt?” (Matthew 14:31) Be willing to risk it all (your pride, yummy food, COMFORT of staying at home) for Jesus! Trust that He will provide for you and take you where you need to be. The best thing to do is set a short term goal, for instance, I have a photo shoot coming up in 41 days. So
on my hand I write the remaining number of days so I can see them before I enter anything into my mouth. Others may have to have something else as a goal such as, running a mile without stopping, which is a huge accomplishment. You would start out slowly, running as much as you can without stopping, then the next time you would add at least another minute of running really pushing yourself. Once you reach the mile that does not mean it is time to quit! That is where a lot of us mess up. We reach a goal and that’s it. You need to set yourself a new obstacle to jump over. After I have my photo shoot, I will not give up I will enter my self in a 5k or something to keeping pushing myself and improving my last time!! Your body is a temple, treat it as one! If you need any help setting yourself a goal, I would love to assist you! God Bless, Meredith Rongey Personal Trainer, YMCA Contact 476-5573 Facebook Meredith Casteel Rongey
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Local Outreach Programs FAMILY HOUSE
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(423) 476-3886 The Family Violence Program provides shelter, hotline services, crisis counseling, individual counseling, support groups and court advocacy to victims of domestic violence, rape and sexual assault.
HOME-DELIVERED MEALS (423) 479-4111 Financial assistance for two routes of the Home-Delivered Meals Program is provided by United Way. The program is a service providing nutritious The Caring Place The Caring Place is an ecumenical Christian, non-profit organi- meals and direct social contact to homebound elderly and handicapped residents.
zation. Its mission is to model the love of Christ by addressing basic spiritual, physical and social needs of the disadvantaged in Bradley County, Tennessee. Currently the organization enjoys support from more than 53 churches (12 different denominations) in Bradley County. Over 130 volunteers and 11 staff members work together to serve our neighbors in need. In addition to providing food and clothing to the economically disadvantaged in Cleveland, The Caring Place also offers the following free services: social work, Diaper Love which is a program that give diapers to parents in need, Sack Pack program that provides food packs for students at three Bradley County schools who would typically be at risk of hunger during the weekend, and Neighbors in Need which assist eligible Bradley County residents with rent and utilities. In 2011 alone, The Caring Place assisted 3,349 different households, provided 172 tons of food and helped 188 homeless households at the hands of more than 130 of its active volunteers. If you would like to hold a food drive or fundraiser or would like information about The Caring Place, please contact: Chelsea Long at 423.472.4414 or Chelsea@thecaringplaceonline.org.
UNITED WAY AGENCIES BEHAVIORAL RESEARCH INSTITUTE
LEARNING CENTER FOR ADULTS AND FAMILIES (423) 478-1117 The Learning Center for Adults and Families staff and volunteers are dedicated to enhancing the lives of adults and families by offering instruction in basic skills including: reading, math, writing and job-related skills. All services provided by the center are free.
NEIGHBORS IN NEED (423) 472-0769 Facilitates the local Emergency Aid Program, which assists individuals and families, that have had an unforeseen crisis or life changing event, with their mortgage, rent or utilities.
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(423) 755-2822 The Partnership provides assistance to Cleveland, Bradley County and Polk County residents. The Homemaker services program provides trained persons to assist elderly or handicapped persons to continue to live in their own homes. Consumer Credit Counseling provides budget counseling, voluntary debt management and consumer financial education.
(423) 479-1590 Behavioral Research Institute provides child abuse prevention services, con- SIGNAL CENTERS INC. (423) 614-0199 flict resolution training and domestic violence treatment. Signal Centers is an inclusive child development program serving children with developmental delays as well as children that are developing typically. WALTER E. BOEHM BIRTH DEFECTS CENTER The center offers services to children from 6 weeks to 6 years of age. Indi(423) 778-2222 vidualized activities, on site therapies and parent education are provided. The Boehm Center offers help and hope to those born with congenital birth need to reside in their natural home. defects of the central nervous system and their families. Assistance is provided for medical, financial and social needs.
UNITED WAY OF BRADLEY COUNTY
(423) 479-2020 The mission of the United Way of Bradley County is to be a community(423) 559-8299 based organization that leads the efforts in identifying community needs, The Boys and Girls Clubs of Cleveland provide youth development for boys facilitating collaboration, and maximizing resources to positively impact and girls, ages 6 to 18, at seven locations that feature 30-plus programs in our community and surrounding area. character and leadership development, education and career development, the arts, health and life skills, and fitness and recreation.
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Sack-Pack Program
(472-4414) Sack Pack Program provides 10 to 15 nutritious food items that are shelf(423) 478-1458 stable and kid-friendly for the weekends for economically disadvantaged The Cleveland Emergency Shelter offers temporary refuge and support servic- students who attend three Bradley County elementary schools. es to homeless individuals and families, transients and persons in emergency situations.
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