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Editor’s Note

One of my main reasons for buying this magazine four years ago was to help me be a better parent. With all of the experts writing for us and all the input from families across the county, I figured I could get answers to all the questions I had about raising my now 7-year-old son.

It turns out, however, I have far more questions than answers. I guess, like all families, I feel like I’m guessing about what to do and hoping I get it right.

I’ve got challenges and questions and would love some feedback from you readers. Consider it a homework assignment and think about how much you can help other parents struggling to find answers.

And please show your work. In other words, give us examples of what you’ve seen that shaped your opinions.

How do you know whether your child should skip a grade or stay back?

Private or public school? What’s been your best experience with each?

What do you like or dislike about charter schools?

Is the newer trend of having kids with special needs in mainstream classrooms a benefit or a problem?

Is college still relevant and necessary?

What do you do with your kids during the summer? If you send them to camp, how do you decide which one?

Does your school have enough extracurricular activities, like band, art, music, sports, drama?

Speaking of sports: do we put too much emphasis on it in school and could the money be better spent on more academic or cultural activities?

Is the isolation from the covid pandemic still affecting students?

Are teachers too easy or too hard on students?

How much homework is enough—and should students even have homework?

Should students be required to be bilingual?

We spend so much money on the education system, yet teachers are so underpaid, many are leaving. What are we doing wrong?

That’s just a start. I’ve got a million of them. If one or more of them stirs a passion, please send us a letter to editor@growingupsc.com and we will print them.

Santa Cruz County School Superintendent Faris Sabbah will answer your questions in a new column starting next school year.

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Jaime McFaden and her daughter Sofia sport matching outfits. See how this mom changed her life for her and her daughter. Cover photo by local photographer Onawa Pelham.

How Are You Going to Celebrate Mom?

Sometimes the best inspiration comes right before delivery. While most kids weren’t sure what they were going to do to celebrate mom this year, they all recognized how important she is and how much they love to spend time with her. From swimming to cooking to imaginary friends, moms (caretakers and those who identify!) should be celebrated. Thank you for all that you do. Go mom!

I think that I’m going to make my mom a card this year. My favorite thing to do with my mom is scratch her back. I scratch her back lots.

My favorite thing to do with my mom is to play vet care on my imaginary friends. She helps me operate on them. I have a few imaginary friends who I like to play with. Some of them are part-human, and some of the other ones are human, and then I have friends who aren’t human at all.

I’m going to make a Mother’s Day card for my mom this year. My favorite thing that I like to do with her is I like to go to the Elks Club Swimming Pool and then we go swimming together. It’s so much fun to do that!

This year I’m going to make my mom a coupon book so that she can rip a coupon out and then I’ll do whatever is on it for her. I really like to go eat Thai food with my mom. Maybe we can do that this year, too.

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I don’t have any plans this year for Mother’s Day, but maybe we’ll go see my grandma. What I like to do with my mom is I really like drawing and making art with her. She’s a really good artist, so sometimes we paint together.

I’m not quite sure what I’m going to do for my mom this year, but I have some ideas. I really like spending time with her and cooking with her. She is a really good cook and I’ve learned a lot of great recipes.

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Turning Nightmares into Bliss

This Mom Changed Life for Herself and Her Daughter

This morning, Jaime McFaden’s 6-year-old daughter Sofia came into her room in tears after having a nightmare. Her dream – that her mom was taken onto a pirate ship and killed by pirates.

“I think the greatest legacy that I can leave my daughter is that every moment of every day is a gift,” said Jaime, 37, who lives in Capitola.

This is a conclusion that Jaime came to after her father died of alcoholism when she was just 18 years old.

The death of her father caused a mindset shift in Jaime, after watching him be seemingly unable to control the decisions that made him sick in the first place. Jaime knew she did not want that to be her life and thus began her wellness journey that would ultimately change the trajectory of her life forever.

Single mother and wellness guru, McFaden has had a life that was anything but normal – but she took her experiences and turned them into motivation to help herself and now she uses what she knows to inspire others through self-care and giving fitness classes for moms in Santa Cruz.

Born in Redwood City to a large and proud Greek family, Jaime had a happy childhood. That is, until her blissful childhood years became plagued with nightmares and visions.

From ages 8 to 12, Jaime struggled with severe depression, anxiety, and insomnia, with her visions getting so intense that she was studied at the Stanford Medical Center and even featured on the TV show Dr. Phil.

All of these struggles culminated in her hospitalization at age 12, which Jaime describes as “a life changing experience that made me realize I wanted help and support, I just had no idea how to do it.”

Breaking her own cycles, Jaime transformed her life for the better; she even went on to win Miss Junior California at 15 (which Jaime describes as very uncharacteristic for her).

All of this came crashing down when Jaime’s father fell ill and ultimately passed away.

Feeling herself slip into her old habits, Jaime then dedicated herself to understanding mental health, behavioral patterns, and the best ways to take care of yourself.

Starting with physical fitness, Jaime threw herself into challenges, worked with a handful of trainers, and ultimately started gaining clients of her own.

During this time, personal training was a side business for Jaime. Graduating high school a year early, she lived in Greece for one year which inspired her lifelong passion for traveling, even going on to become a

flight attendant with Virgin Airlines.

As a blossoming fitness guru, one of Jaime’s biggest role models was renowned fitness and life coach Jillian Michaels.

When Jaime found out that Michaels would be speaking at an event she would be attending, she did everything within her power to figure out how she could meet the woman who helped change her life.

She called and emailed Michaels’ office

with no luck and even found herself approaching Michaels’ security during the event to see if they would let her get a glimpse of long-time role model.

Her persistence paid off. Jaime was granted permission to go backstage and meet Michaels.

After only a few minutes of conversation, Michaels asked Jaime to join her on stage for her workout event.

“She put me on stage and there were

like a thousand people in this room and I did this workout that I had no idea I would be doing. It was so wonderful and scary and challenging and all the things,” said Jaime.

From there, she was invited to audition to work with Michaels. Today, the two still have a relationship, having worked together for over 10 years.

Working with Michaels opened a whole bunch of doors for Jaime. She began working for other fitness platforms such as Aaptiv and Grokker –she was even featured on Good Morning America, doing a segment on the different types of injury-free exercise.

Jaime eventually began working exclusively for Aaptiv, which gave her freedom to travel or work from home which was a great benefit for her now that she had her infant daughter. Life was perfect.

Then, just before Christmas in December 2020, her whole team got laid off.

With no job and no other business ties, Jaime decided it was time to “do this on my own.”

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If I can show (my daughter) that mommy can be healthy and work hard and be empowered and be kind and loving and show up every day for myself as well as for her, I hope that can instill in her a confidence that she is not only worth living a happy, healthy life, but that it’s totally possible.”

Jaime created her own brand, W.A.V.E. by J, which works to teach others, specifically moms, how to practice self-care and take back control of their own lives to create a happy and healthy existence.

She also runs a podcast called SelfCare Secrets where she provides “a full toolbelt of action steps you can take daily to put yourself at the top of your priority list, having more to give to the world.” She also wrote a book titled “WAVES of Self Care” of which her mentor Jillian Michaels wrote the forward.

Now, Jaime spreads her message her way. Having a podcast, a book, 13,500 Instagram followers, and content across several fitness platforms, Jaime spends her days working with clients, practicing her own self care, and spending lots of quality time with her daughter Sofia.

When asked her favorite part of her journey, Jaime instantly knew it was motherhood.

Part of her overall goal is to give Sofia an example of a positive role model who approaches life with confidence and kindness.

“If I can show her that mommy can be healthy and work hard and be empowered and be kind and loving and show up every day for myself as well as for her, I hope that can instill in her a confidence that she is not only worth

living a happy, healthy life, but that it’s totally possible.”

Like many others, Jaime used to think self-care was selfish or a luxury. But that is exactly the misconception she hopes to break with her work.

For her, the ultimate self-care is taking responsibility for your own life first so you have room to care for others – and that’s exactly what she preaches throughout her work.

“Sometimes self-care is actually getting work done. Sometimes self-care is shutting off my phone. Sometimes self-care is literally doing nothing besides playing with my daughter because playtime is a huge part of self-care that adults forget” Jaime said.

The biggest theme throughout both Jaime’s work and her own life is that everyone has the ability to take responsibility for their life and if you’re not happy with where you are, you have the ability to make a change for the better and you are not alone in this.

See her online fitness videos and learn more: jaimemcfaden.com.

Writer Gabrielle Gillette is a Cabrillo College journalism student who wants to pursue a career as a reporter and will attend U.C. Berkeley next year.

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Jaime McFaden and 6-year-old daughter Sofia.
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Santa Cruz Riders Make Debut on National Stage

The horse-riding women of Santa Cruz’s White Rock Interscholastic Equestrian Association were shocked and ecstatic when they won a slot to compete in the biggest national riding competition in the country by one point.

The team, which practices at the Monte Vista Christian’s equestrian facility in Watsonville, won the slot for a trip to North Carolina at a tightly contested regional competition in Paso Robles.

Five of the team’s 11 women—all about 16—gathered enough points of the season to move onto the biggest competition.

Three of the most seasoned equestrians: Paris Mahoney, Cavan Smith, and Meagan Mejia have honed their skills with IEA since middle school; while the other two riders Lea Bianco and Elyssa Marcucci are new to the program but by no means new to the sport.

“These girls live and breathe horses, spending most of the day at the barn, riding and caring for the horses,” said Coach Tesi Pickett. “They work hard and are very deserving of this chance to showcase their skills.”

Mahoney and Smith will compete as varsity open riders jumping a two and a half foot fence height, while Mejia will represent for varsity intermediate, Bianco in JV novice, and Marcucci in JV beginner.

For many of the girls on the team, the sport is more than just something they go to after school, but a chance to be a part of something bigger and grow as a team.

Mahoney says the most important metric for their success is to “Definitely keep a level head. That’s what matters most is coming out and being indifferent, not letting the stress get to you.”

The young women practice riding six days every week and spend countless hours caring for and maintaining their horses.

For years, White Rock IEA practiced at White Rock Ranch, hence the name, owned by Mahoney’s family. This marks the first year that the team practices at Monte Vista Christian School’s equestrian facility, and practices with their 34 horses: including two of their most beloved Donny and Pete.

“In practice we’ll ride one then swap so we have the opportunity to ride different horses,” said Smith.

From April 28-May 1, they will travel to Tryon International Equestrian Center in North Carolina to face off against the best teams in the country in the Hunt Seat IEA National Finals.

“I think it will be pretty tough, this is our first time going. I’m very excited

and we have put a lot of work into this,” said Smith about heading into the biggest competition in the history of the team.

White Rock IEA has already beaten insurmountable odds just by qualifying to the most competitive equestrian event in the country.

They compete in zone 10 region 2, and the first step for making it to nationals is to score a total of 21 points against regional teams including those from local ranches.

From there the opposition only became more advanced in regionals, but White Rock played to their strengths and was one of only three teams to travel to Paso Robles for the zone 10 finals - which encompasses all of California, Hawaii, and part of Nevada. From there, only the single best team advances to the National Finals.

It was in a moment of ecstatic disbelief when the women heard the announcer crown them victorious by just one point.

Every hour spent waking up at 5:30 am to prepare the horses for competition, or weekends together watching in awe at professionals pull off impossible stunts they one day dreamed of maneuvering; it all materialized along with the realization that - while they would give everything they’ve got come competition dayeach of them earned the biggest stage in the nation through half a lifetime of dedication

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DAY CAMPS

Bear Creek Community Center

15685 Forest Hill Dr., Boulder Creek 831.338.4144 bcrpd.org

All day summer camp in the redwoods. Daily swimming with certified lifeguards and a fun engaging team. Best way to spend your summer and make new friends! Register online at bcrpd.org

Cabrillo Extension Summer Youth Program

6500 Soquel Drive, Aptos 831.479.6331 extension@cabrillo.edu extension.cabrillo.edu/youth

Our camps provide a safe, fun, and engaging environment for children to explore and grow. We offer diverse, high-quality content for developing young brains and growing young bodies. Join us for camps in one of six areas of exploration: Creative Culinary; Leadership & Personal Success; Science and Exploration; Computers & Technology; Creative Arts; or Sports & Play. Block scheduling lets you choose the activities that fit your camper’s interests and fill a full week with all-day camp activities. Just like an a la carte menu, you have choices! Join us for one week, or all summer long!

Cabrillo Youth Chorus Summer Voice Camp CabrilloYouthChorus.org

This week-long camp (July 31–August 4) will give your child an unforgettable experience as they put together an original musical performance! Children ages 8 to 18 learn music theory and musicianship; participate in dance, improvisation, and rhythm games; play recorders, Orff, and other instruments; and perform in musical theater. No experience is needed – just a love of singing! For more information, check out our website, contact us at cyc.staffers@gmail.com, or call 831.824.4023.

Camp Kayetz 831.201.4740 tbeaptos.org/camp-kayetz.html

Camp Kayetz offers a wholesome, inclusive, Jewish day camp experience to campers ages 6-15. June 19-July 14, 2023 9am-3pm. Camp meets at Temple Beth El in Aptos with weekly field trips including Raging Waters, Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk, beach trips and camping in the redwoods at Henry Cowell. Come for the summer fun; stay for the friendships! Email Jess Mitchell with questions: JMitchell@tbeaptos.org

CYT Santa Cruz 216 Mt. Hermon Rd Suite E, Scotts Valley 831.239.3821 cytsantacruz.org

We create a hands-on theater experience focused on building performance skills, self-confidence, and teamwork. CYT Summer 2023 presents two different camps, “Off to Neverland” (one-week camp) for kids ages 4 -14 and “Music Man Jr.” (three week camp) for kids ages 8 -18 including a weekend of Broadway style performances!

Four Points Youth Camp

Two locations:

Orchard School, 2288 Trout Gulch Rd, Aptos Siltanen Park, 127 Vine Hill School Rd, Scotts Valley kaseylindemann@FourPointsYouthCamp.com

FourPointsYouthCamp.com

Four Points Youth Camp is a summer day camp with activities designed to broaden every camper’s horizon. Serving campers in grades K-8, our activities include sports, arts and crafts, technology, and traditional camp games. These activities are designed to cater to each age group. With new unique themes each week, every camp session is a fresh experience.

Growing Social 408.914.0552

Growingsocial.org info@growingsocial.org

Growing Social is a highly therapeutic, educational outdoor program offering Summer Camps and school year services to those with social learning differences (including Social Communication Disorder, Autism Spectrum, ADHD, ADD, social anxiety, and those without a formal diagnosis). Farm animals, gardening, cooking, and other creative group activities are utilized to teach and practice social learning concepts. In small groups, students are carefully matched by age (K-young adult) and skill level. Social vocational and camp counselor opportunities for teens and young adults. Sessions are taught by Stephanie Madrigal and Amy Miller, Speech and Language Pathologists.

Henry Cowell Girl Scout Day Camp htapp.campdoc.com/!/dn/login?

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Looking for a fun and empowering day camp experience for girls this summer? Join us for a week of singing, crafting, hiking, creekwalking, cooking, and making new friends in the redwoods of Henry Cowell State Park, June 26-30. Girls entering 1st-7th grade in the fall of 2023 may register. Not a girl scout? Not a problem! Enroll with your registration. Camp fee is $175 which includes a T-shirt, patch, camp photos, snacks daily, lunch Friday, and dinner on Thursday for girls in 4th-7th grade.

Horse Camp at Corralitos Riding Club

1079 Green Valley Rd. Watsonville

831.461.4181

max@corralitosridingclub.com

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Treat your child to five days of horse heaven this summer at Corralitos Riding Club! We’ll teach your child foundations of horsemanship, in the saddle and at the barn. Your child will learn valuable skills grooming and tacking-up a horse, as well as riding, both in the arena and on the trail. Campers will learn about horses through interactive games. We’ll practice some of the basics of showing and competing. And we’ll spend fun times together crafting and making friends. Each week ends with the Friday Finale -- The C.R.C. Camp Horse Show and Party. June 26-30 / July 17-21.

Into the Heart of Nature Tara Redwood School Campus, 5810 Prescott Rd, Soquel 831.462.9632 office@tararedwoodschool.org tararedwoodschool.org/summer-camp-2023

Into the Heart of Nature camp is located in an extraordinary setting nestled in the Nisene Marks Forest near a calm creek. We offer cooperative games, creek exploration, habitat studies, playful skits, and nature themed art. Kids explore the various elements that support all life.Tara Redwood School’s summer camp educators are highly experienced in outdoor activities and wildlife studies. Children learn social skills and kindness. Your child will make new friends, develop mindfulness, and learn how to help others. Children have access to several hiking trails for daily play and to absorb some of our core tenets for happiness through developing a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of nature to all parts of life. For children 4 to 8 years old.

Little Garden Patch Farm 4635 Fairway Drive, Soquel 831.476.0964 littlegardenpatchfarm.com

Little Garden Patch is so much more than just a farm! Our play-based, emergent program offers arts & crafts, cooking fun, outdoor play and imagination, stories & games, hands-on science and nature with gardens, farm animals, and social learning. All in a beautiful outdoor setting that includes a puppet theater, play structures, trampoline, sand & water play, outdoor stage, and picnic area. A cozy home environment and nurturing staff completes a magical childhood wonderland that parents and children love. Come see why young children say, “Little Garden Patch Farm is the best camp I’ve ever been to!” For ages 5-8.

Mountain of Fun, Mount Madonna School 491 Summit Road, Watsonville 408.847.2717

mountmadonnaschool.org/summer

Summer day camps on Mount Madonna School’s

redwood-studded campus: offering weekly Preschool Camp for ages 3-5, June 26-August 4 (3- and 5-day options); and Elementary and Middle School camps, July 10-28. Creative Arts Experience with rock band, culinary arts, visual and digital arts; Outdoor Survival Camp with a low ropes course, martial arts, hiking, astronomy, team-building and an overnight campout. Forest play, nature crafts, friends and more – unplugged, outdoors and active! Camps are Monday through Friday, 9:00 am-3:30 pm. Transportation is available from Aptos and Corralitos. Details and registration online at www. mountmadonnaschool.org/summer.

Parkour Summer Camps

santacruz@parkourgenerations.com

831.266.7604

IG: @pkgensantacruz

MOVE.PLAY.EXPLORE.GROW. Allow your kids to un-plug, develop fine & gross motor skills, strength, mental fortitude, creativity, self confidence, flow through the practice of parkour/freerunning. All our coaches keep your child’s health, safety, enrichment - and fun- top of mind! And are qualified by ADAPT; CPR, ACE, AFFA, SafeSport, & CPR certified. Summer Camps in June, July and Aug. Level up your summer, make new friends and make your world a playground with Parkour Generations! Questions? Shoot us an email anytime; santacruz@ parkourgenerations.com We look forward to helping you learn to Master Your Movement ™️ at PARKOUR GENERATIONS Santa Cruz.

Kennolyn Camps 8205 Hacienda Lane, Soquel 831.479.6714

www.kennolyncamps.com

Ready to get your child away from technology and into a nourishing community in the great outdoors? On 450 acres of privately owned redwood forest only 4 miles from town Kennolyn Day Camp is just a short bus ride away. Your child will thrive in this fun, active, supportive environment. And after a day of exploring the fields, pond, and miles of trails, they’ll be happy-tired after each fun day! Nowhere else in the local region will you find a more complete, authentic summer day camp experience. Just ask your friends and neighbors.

Kuumbwa Jazz Camp extension.cabrillo.edu/youth

kuumbwajazz.org/education

Registration for Kuumbwa’s annual Jazz Camp is now open! Jazz Camp is a performance-based day camp for students grades 8-12. Featuring nine days of collaboration, learning, and listening, this camp covers all aspects of jazz theory and appreciation, and will help students grow as musicians. Camp concludes with a performance on the famous

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“ Four Points Youth Camp
We had a great time! It was the perfect combination of friendship, games, new arts and crafts, and a low key, beautiful setting. Thank you for this new camp!
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My daughter came home happy and couldn’t wait to show us what she made every day! Baking camp parent

Kuumbwa Jazz Center stage. Dates: June 12 – June 23, 2023. Location: Cabrillo College, 6500 Soquel Dr., Aptos, VAPA Complex. Times: Grades 8-9 attend from 9 AM-12 PM; grades 10-12 attend from 11 AM-2 PM.Jazz Camp Concert: Friday, June 23 at Kuumbwa Jazz Center. You can register for the camp online.

No Trace contactus@notraceshop.com

NoTraceShop.com

Sign up now for summer sewing camps for kids! Kids will have fun making bags, accessories, & more. Lessons designed for beginners & beyond. For ages 8 & up. June 12 to June 15 & July 17 to July 20. Head to NoTraceShop.com/events for details & to reserve your child’s spot.

Redwood Music Camps

info@CommunityMusicSchool.org

CommunityMusicSchool.org

Young musicians explore the music of Ireland, Scotland, and more! For players of violin, viola, flute, penny whistle, pipes, recorder, harp, guitar, mandolin, ukulele, accordion, small keyboards, and cello. Students practice in instrument-specific groups, and with the entire ensemble. Teen Camp (June 12-17) is a one-week sleepover camp for ages 12-18 in Aptos. Kid Camp (July 31-Aug 4) is a one-week day camp for ages 7-13 in Scotts Valley. Information and registration is online at CommunityMusicSchool.org.

Santa Cruz Bible Church

440 Frederick St. Santa Cruz

831.429.1162

santacruzbible.org

This summer we have an exciting kids’ day camp June 12-15 for all kids ages 5 - 5th grade! The camp will run 9am - noon daily, with music, crafts, outside games, skits, and more! Sign up on our website starting in April! Join us weekly for Sunday morning services at 10am. Our Food Pantry runs Tuesdays 10am - Noon, and Thursdays Noon - 1pm.

City of Santa Cruz Parks & Recreation Department

831.420.5270

Register for our popular summer camps and junior guards for a fun-filled summer. Get moving with Skatedogs Skateboarding Camp, World Cup Soccer Camp, and SUP Camp. Create art or expand your knowledge with science and STEAM camps. Visit santacruzparksandrec.com to view the Summer Activity Guide in Spanish and English. Online registration opens Saturday, April 15, and Monday, April 17 for phone registration for the City of Santa Cruz Parks & Recreation summer programs.

Santa Cruz Soccer Camp

831.246.1517

santacruzsoccercamp.com

For over 30 years our vision of joy and adventure remains. Almost all coaches have been young players who joined the harmony and magic of the camp and have graduated through our Leadership Development Program. From the inspiration and resonance experienced at Delaveaga Park during 10- week-long summer camps, the coaches and directors are in service to the new paradigm celebrating the Evolution of competition.

Santa Cruz SPCA

2601 Chanticleer Ave, Santa Cruz 831.566.3753

alisons@spcasc.org

spcasc.org/events/spca-summer-camp-2023

Our 2023 camp theme is “Save the Earth and its Animals.” Students will investigate how small changes can improve the lives of animals. They will learn how hard animals work to survive while the environment changes. Our Teens will experience how a shelter operates and try out different shelter roles.

Steve & Kate’s Camp Spring Hill School

250 California St, Santa Cruz 831.271.6229

steveandkatescamp.com/santa-cruz

Since 1980, Steve & Kate’s has put kids in charge of their own learning experience. Kids choose from a variety of activities in real-time, including sewing, coding, maker crafts, baking, sports, and more! As kids try, fail, and learn on their own, they learn to trust their own judgment and tackle the challenges of the world with creativity and confidence. Families can buy any number of days, to use at any time–no weekly reservations are required. Or, buy a Summer Pass, which covers the whole season. Either way, any unused Passes are automatically refunded at summer’s end. Ages: 4–12 | Lunch, snacks & all hours (8 am–6 pm) included.

The Studio School of Classical Ballet

2800 South Rodeo Gulch Road, Soquel 831.477.1606

emily@scbt.org

SCBT.org

Give your little ones a summer of fun with The Studio School of Classical Ballet’s Summer Ballet Camps!

Featuring 4 weeks with 4 themes, each day will feature a variety of dance classes, exercises, and activities for your little dancer to enjoy. Monday - Friday, 10am-12pm. Visit SCBT.org for more information.

Web of Life Field (WOLF) School

220 Cloister Ln, Aptos 831.684.0148

WOLF School’s Summer Nature Day Camp offers a science and nature theme all week and an outdoor adventure every day! Kids will experience redwood trail walks, music, camp arts & crafts, cooperative games, science activities, and more, plus field trips to Nisene Marks State Park. Sample themes are: Solar Art, Survival, Creek, Animals, Plants, and Natural History. WOLF School’s educational nature camps inspire kids to experience the outdoors, connect to nature, build healthy relationships, and gain awareness of their impact on environment and community—all in a fun camp setting led by our knowledgeable, friendly, and energetic naturalists.

RESIDENTIAL CAMPS

Mount Hermon

37 Conference Drive, Mount Hermon 831.335.4466

mounthermon.org

Mount Hermon is a Christian camp and conference center located in the stunning redwoods of the Santa Cruz Mountains. We offer a wide variety of programs for individuals, families, and groups, including overnight summer camps for children and youth, retreats for adults, our beloved Family Camp program, and day adventures such as zip lining and challenge courses for the whole family. Mount Hermon has been in operation for over 100 years and has a long-standing tradition of providing a welcoming and transformative experience for its guests. Check out our website for a full list of offerings available this summer!

ENRICHMENT

Adventures with Art hello@adventureswithart.com

Adventureswithart.com

Let your child’s creativity run wild this summer!

Adventures with Art is a website that offers tips and tutorials for a number of different art forms, including drawing, painting, digital art with Procreate, crochet, embroidery, and more. Run by an artist who was

born and raised in Aptos, Diana loves to share her art knowledge with other artists of all skill levels at adventureswithart.com

Be Natural Music 740 Water St, Santa Cruz 831.515.8369

BeNaturalMusic.Live

Learn and perform Jazz, Rock, Reggae, Motown, Pop & more at our two locations: Santa Cruz and Cupertino. We offer ongoing private Music Lessons, Real Rock Band classes for teens, & young adults, Workshops, and Summer Music Camps. We offer lessons on voice, piano/keyboard, guitar, bass, drums & percussion, saxophone, clarinet, ukulele, harp, theory and composition. Summer camps, kid & teen musicians showcase their talent & creativity as they compose original music, script music videos, and record their song on stage! The final high-quality music video is posted on our YouTube Channel to jump-start your kid’s career.

The Bookakery BookakeryBoxes.com

Looking for activities to do with your kids at home? Have a kid that always wants to help in the kitchen or curl up on your lap to hear a good book? Love getting packages? The Bookakery has just the thing: Bookakery Boxes, a monthly subscription box for kids aimed towards fostering a love of reading and baking. Each Bookakery Box comes with a hardback picture book, kid-friendly recipe card, an activity, and one bonus item, all based around a theme of the month. Order yours today! Use code GUISC10 for 10% off any subscription length (renews at standard rate). Expires 12/31/2023.

Community Bridges Family Resource Collective

831.688.8840

Communitybridges.org/FRC

La Manzana Community Resources – 521 Main Street, Ste. Y, Watsonville

Live Oak Community Resources – 1740 17th Ave., Santa Cruz

Mountain Community Resources – 6134 Highway 9, Felton

Nueva Vista Community Resources – 711 East Cliff Drive, Santa Cruz

The Family Resource Collective works with individuals and families in Santa Cruz County and the Pajaro Valley to build safe, healthy, and compassionate communities through education, resources, and advocacy. We offer a variety of bi-lingual, bi-cultural services to meet each family and individual’s needs. Our programs and services include food distribution, mental health counseling, parent education workshops, youth tutoring, and more.

Community Mountain Gym

San Lorenzo Valley 831.824.7750

communitymountaingym@gmail.com

communitymountaingym.com

Ever wanted to learn how to do a cartwheel?

Want to try your balance in a handstand? Come tumble through the summer with us. We’ll stretch and cartwheel about as we work on our basic gymnastics’ skills using the bar, balance beam and varying gymnastics equipment. Community Mountain Gym is a mobile fitness gym that brings the fun to you! We are holding summer camp programs in Felton, Boulder Creek and at Ben Lomond’s Highlands Park. Activities will include art projects, science experiments, hikes, visits to the local fire stations, libraries and parks! Looking forward to tumbling with you soon!

Da Vinci Equestrian

831.359.2853

davinciequestrian.com/

Da Vinci Equestrian offers a horseback riding lesson program and full-service horse training, with facilities in

Watsonville and La Selva Beach. Da Vinci Equestrian emphasizes the relationship between horse and rider, horse care, and offers individualized programs to fit the student’s needs. Specialization in Hunter/Jumper and 3-Day Eventing. Monthly lesson packages and week-long summer camps available.Ages 5 and up welcome! Please view our website for more information.

International Academy of Dance (IAD) 320 Encinal Street, Santa Cruz 831.466.0458

info@iadance.com

Spend the summer dancing! We’re offering 7 different weeks of magic and fun, so choose your theme and come join us for movement games, art, and dancing! Perfect for ages 4-8, our camps offer a playground for imagination to thrive. We even have Early Drop-Off/Late Pick-Up Options, with an After Party happening until 2pm for maximum fun (and ease for parents). If you’d like to get started before summer, sign up for a trial class now! Just visit our website, iadance.com. We also have classes for older kids, teens, parents, and grandparents. We can’t wait to dance with you!

Mathnasium of Santa Cruz 1642 Mission Street, Santa Cruz 831.440.7574

24 Rancho Del Mar, Aptos 831.621.5978 mathnasium.com/SantaCruz

Summer is a great time for kids to get away with their families. It’s also an important time to keep up their math skills so they don’t lose what they learned during the school year. The good news is they can do both, with Mathnasium! Our summer math program builds up kids’ math knowledge and prepares them for the school year. Best of all, we make it fun! They’ll receive: a comprehensive assessment and customized learning plan that details summer goals for long-term success, live face-to-face instruction, and a proven teaching method that results in true understanding and increased confidence.

Mountain Music School

216-A Mt. Hermon Rd, Scotts Valley 831.201.9605

mountainmusicschoolsv.com

What better time than summer to pick up that dusty guitar? MMS offers year-round lessons in a variety of instruments, with fun performance opportunities and lesson plans tailored to you! Our excellent team of teachers is ready to support you in realizing your musical dreams.

MusicalMe, Inc. offering Music Together™

All over Santa Clara & Santa Cruz Counties 831.332.9002

Musicalme.com

Our Music Together classes are playful, rich, and engaging. They help young children —babies, toddlers, and preschoolers—discover their inner music-maker by playing with the grownups they love. Our music and movement classes also offer other important benefits: music for children supports overall early childhood development. Join us!

Underwater Explorers Tours at Monterey Bay Aquarium

Come dive with us! Underwater Explorers is a unique (summer only) program where kids ages 8-13 are introduced to the underwater world through surface scuba diving. Kids are safely guided by Monterey Bay Aquarium dive staff in our Great Tide Pool, where they’ll meet amazing animals while getting a fish’s-eye view of the wonders of the bay. No experience or wet suit is necessary — just your sense of adventure! For questions, please call us at 831.648.4800, from 9am to 4pm, daily. Tickets available for purchase online at www. montereybayaquarium.org/UnderwaterExplorers

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Santa Cruz Art League

526 Broadway, Santa Cruz

831.426.5787

scal.org

Join artist Linda Cover for a week of fun, creativity, and artistic growth this summer! Campers get to explore the Art League gardens and experiment with the artistic process. Each day, they’ll get to learn chalk art, observational sketching, paint making, assemblage, printmaking and photography! June 5-9 or July 24-28.

Santa Cruz Museum of Natural History

1305 East Cliff Drive, Santa Cruz 831.420.6115

santacruzmuseum.org

Located above Seabright Beach, Santa Cruz’s first Museum is in an excellent location to showcase the region’s rich natural history. Explore interactive exhibits featuring animals, plants, geology, and more from the shoreline of Monterey Bay to the summit of the Santa Cruz Mountains, including an intertidal touch pool, fossils, and an observation beehive. In our Gift Shop, you’ll find unique books, guides, toys, art, and apparel. Check our online calendar for engaging events and programs for all ages, including free family activities, seasonal camps, nature crafts and walks, and our Summer Kickoff Festival. Kids are always FREE.

Santa Cruz Public Libraries

224 Church St., Santa Cruz

2005 Wharf Rd, Capitola

251 Kings Village Rd, Scotts Valley 831.427.7713

SantaCruzPL.org/SRP

The theme at the Library this summer is: Find Your Voice! Our voices have power. We use our voices to share stories, express ourselves, and spark change. Our voices include not only the sounds we make, but the words we write, the movements we perform, and the actions we take each day to impact our world. This June and July we encourage you to read for fun as part of our Summer Reading Program, to learn a new skill, to make a new friend... Library programs and events are focused on maintaining and improving reading skills, exploring, and building our community.

SpeechRighter – Social Skills Learning Groups

820 Bay Ave, Capitola

831.854.2060

speechrighter.com/summer-programs

Social-Skill Groups designed to improve social thinking & pragmatic language skills, by developing

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strategies for building successful peer relationships & self esteem. Led by a speech-pathologist, build skills in effective listening, problem solving for social scenarios, perspective taking, and conversational skills.

WEST Performing Arts

831.425.9378

Santa Cruz westperformingarts.com

Summer 2023...create….innovate! Get ready for imagination and fun with our award-winning youth theatre company for ages 5 - 18. Our unique, process-based theatre and art classes, camps, and conservatory-style studies encourage young performers to embark on a creative journey and craft their own performance experience full of innovative collaboration, From immersive theatre-based day camps to original plays and classic productions or improvisation to hone your funny bone. We have it all. Come play! Our classes, training programs, and presentations are process-driven, believing that the creative journey is what matters. We build confidence, communication, and community.

SCHOOLS WITH SUMMER PROGRAMS

Freedom Schoolhouse and Farm freedomschoolhouseandfarm.com

Freedom Schoolhouse and Farm offers a unique program in a beautiful setting. Our curriculum is emergent with a strong emphasis on creating a connection to the natural world. We seek to promote and maintain basic principles of Freedom, with the goal of educating our children to be critical thinkers. Our open classroom creates a warm environment, and we encourage freedom of choice and relationship building. Set on several acres, every day is filled with the beauty of nature, joys of friendship, and fun activities geared toward artistic expression, physical movement, and the development of a lifelong love of learning

Rocking Horse Ranch Preschool

Lic #444400117

4134 Fairway Dr, Soquel 831.462.2702

We offer morning, afternoon, and full day sessions. Our three beautiful acres offer room to explore, including swings, slides, trees to climb, a ninja course, zipline, bike track and a giant sandbox! Kids also enjoy our farm animals and grazing on food from our organic garden and orchards.

What happens on stage at WEST Performing Arts is amazing. What happens inside the kids, from blossoming confidence to reignited enthusiasm, is miraculous.

303 Potrero Street, #15, Santa Cruz 831.458.3648 asudoit.com

Adventure Sports Unlimited (ASU) is Santa Cruz’s premier swim school. We teach infants through adults the joys of water and adventure. Our Ocean programs introduce families to our magnificent marine environments through the Santa Cruz Island Camping Trip. We explore the world-renowned underwater landscape of Monterey Bay through our Open Water Scuba courses. It all starts in our custom-built aquatics facility with our tropically heated pool. We want to make your entry into the water world truly enjoyable. ASU – Come Play With Us!

Community Boating Center, UCSC 790 Mariner Park Way, Santa Cruz 831.425.1164

Recreation.ucsc.edu/youth/juniorsailing/index.html

The UCSC Community Boating Center has been teaching local juniors how to sail for over 30 years. All classes are hands-on, co-ed classes, ages 8-16 and are taught in RS Quests, RS Visions, and Lasers. Students learn the basics in the protected Santa Cruz Yacht Harbor and progress to the beautiful Monterey Bay. Enjoy sailing in a safe, fun, and supportive environment with knowledgeable, experienced staff. Sign up today! (Adult classes are also available!)

Cougar Swim School

7105 Hwy 9, Felton www.cougarswimschool.com kurt@cougarswimschool.com

Cougar Swim School offers quality swimming lessons where children enjoy learning the FUNdamentals of swimming. Learning how to swim is not only beneficial for fitness and relaxation, it also increases confidence and assures safety for youth and adults in and near the water. All of our instructors are American Red Cross Lifeguard

trained and certified. They work to ensure each of their swimmers learn how to be safe, increase their swimming skills, endurance, and enjoyment in the water. Cougar Swim School is located at the San Lorenzo Valley High School Community Pool at 7105 Highway 9 in Felton.

Jim Booth Swim School

Watsonville indoor pool and coming soon to Toadal fitness 831.722.3500

JimBoothSwimSchool.com

Be a water wonder! From our Little Otters swim class for parents and their babies to Aquaphobics, our adult beginner class, the whole family splashes together at Jim Booth Swim School. Little Otters is a gentle introduction to our 94-degree pools that will make you confident that you are guiding your infant to a happy water experience. Our group lessons emphasize quality swimming in an exciting class taught by our caring, well-qualified teachers. Soon offering a non-competitive swim team to help develop strength, endurance & technique. The whole family can swim at Jim Booth Swim School!

Junebug’s Gym

3910 Portola Drive, Suite 2, Santa Cruz

831.464.BUGS (2847)

JuneBugsGym.com/

June Bug’s Gym is a place where your child can experience a fun-filled adventure in movement. We have a caring, respectful, and supportive staff that encourages every child in their growth of large motor skills and gymnastics along with social, emotional, and cognitive development. Our goals for our students are to help them feel control and empowerment in their bodies, to build self-esteem through success, to open up their imaginations, and to feel confidence and joy in their exploration of movement.

Kinnect Volleyball

831.888.0740

kinnectvolleyball.com

Camp Kinnect’s Summer program is a thrilling sports experience offering both indoor and beach volleyball. The week-long sessions cater to boys and girls in grades 3-8 with less than two years of volleyball

Our youth are the future of transit. The Youth Cruz Free program is a big step toward giving all kids the access to METRO they deserve

- METRO CEO/General Manager Michael Tree

Our whole family loves to spend time at the museum. It is a gathering place to build community and a place for both kids and adults to play and learn.

- Testimonial from a mom

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“ Community Bridges I like to come to the Nueva Vista after-school homework program because I like to get help from the volunteers, they’re all so nice!
- Sophie, participant at Community Bridges’ Nueva Vista Community Resources
“ Santa Cruz Museum of Natural History
“ West Performing Arts
- Bryn Kanar, a WEST parent
We love to surf so it was important our children learn to swim properly! They excelled at ASU!
- Sarah S.
“ Metro

experience. On the first day, players are sorted based on their skill level to ensure suitable court placements. Whether new or with P.E. and middle school experience, players receive fundamental skill training, player feedback, and specific skill development during the 3-hour sessions. Structured drills and unstructured free playtime offer unique experiences to build new skills or refine existing ones. Join us for a fun-filled week of volleyball!

Santa Cruz Gymnastics

831.462.0655 info@scgym.com

Beginning May 30th, we will be offering Gymnastics

Camps for ages 5–12! Come FLIP WITH US at our weekly themed camps. Camps include gymnastics lessons on all Olympic events, supervised open gym time, group games, crafts and time in our foam pit! Full and half day options are available for each weekly camp. Check scgym.com for more information and to register.

SLV Swim Center

9050 Hwy 9, Ben Lomond 831.278.0139 www.slvswimcenter.com

Make a splash this summer with Swim Lessons, Swim Team, and Water Aerobics! New this year,

SERVICES

Child Development Resource Center

Santa Cruz County Office of Education, 400 Encinal Street, Santa Cruz 831.466.5820

Childcare.santacruzcoe.org

Birthday Party Packages, Aquatic camps, Family Swims and Outdoor Movie Nights! We have also partnered with TFCS Productions who will be bringing in the fun with their Film, Harry Potter and DND camps!

SUMMER EATS

Kianti’s Pizza & Pasta Bar

1100 Pacific Avenue, Santa Cruz 831.469.4400 kiantis.com

Let Kianti’s be a part of your graduation celebration! We will cater at your event or order at kiantis.com for curbside and delivery of our entire menu and drinks including Kianti’s Signature Cocktails, Kianti’s Handcrafted Liquor and Kianti’s Wine. Or dine in. Kianti’s offers a lively yet comfortable atmosphere with delicious food and drinks with friendly and professional staff. Our unique menu is designed with the option of family style dining either indoors or cozied up on one of our heated patios. On Friday and Saturday evenings see the pizza spinning team, accompanied by dancing servers and a flameraising kitchen.

Finding the right care for your child is one of the most important decisions your family can make. The Child Development Resource Center, a program of the Santa Cruz County Office of Education, is a free, one-stop source for local families seeking early education options. Child care referral specialists can answer questions and connect you with licensed programs to meet your family’s needs. The CDRC maintains the only up-to-date list of child care and early education programs in Santa Cruz County.

Youth Cruz Free on Metro

K-12 students can ride METRO for free! Buses serve 24 routes that provide convenient transportation throughout Santa Cruz County. Whether it’s to school, work, the beach or hanging out with friends, students may ride any route in the METRO system for free except Highway 17 Express service. Riders in 8th grade and under may be asked by the driver to identify their grade level or school. Riders in grades 9-12 will be asked to show ID. For help, call Customer Service (831) 425-8600 or email youthcruzfree@ scmtd.com. For more information visit scmtd.com/ youthcruzfree.

Art Outside! Summer Camp with Linda Cover

chalk art, observational sketching, paint making, assemblage, printmaking, and photography! Join us for a week of fun, creativity and artistic growth!

June 5-9 or July 24-28

Scan for June (left) and July (right) camps

526 Broadway, Santa Cruz

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“ Santa Cruz Public Library
The Library Summer Reading Program is a great way to tackle summer. We encourage the whole family to get involved reading, learning, having fun, and earning some great prizes!
- SCPL Librarian

Great Tide Pool. They get a fisheye view of marine life and smiles that last for days. No experience or equipment necessary — only a sense of adventure!

For more information, visit MontereyBayAquarium.org/UnderwaterExplorers

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Mount Hermon Adventures

17 Conference Drive, Mount Hermon 831.430.4357

Create an unforgettable experience at Mount Hermon Adventures! Located in the scenic redwood forest of Santa Cruz, our adrenaline-packed zipline and high ropes courses are the perfect outdoor adventure. With expert guides and breathtaking views, you’ll be sure to have the time of your life. Book your adventure today!

Clementine & Co.

126 San Jose Ave., Capitola 831.889-8290

Mon-Sun 11-5 pm

A “home decor and more” store locally owned and operated in Capitola Village. Featuring new, used, and vintage furniture. Stocking Annie Sloan Paint, workshops, and a variety of giftable items. We are excited to make your shopping experience enjoyable.

May is the month we celebrate mothers - women who give selflessly to those around them. A mother is not always the one who gave birth to you; she may be your aunt, guardian, or friend. She may live next door, across the country, or be watching over you from beyond this world. We celebrate a mother's unconditional love, her ability to be somewhere/someone safe when we are scared, and our cheerleader through life—cheers to all women out there wearing their hearts outside of their bodies.

OM Gallery

1201 Pacific Ave ,Santa Cruz 831.425.9107

omgallery.com

Why settle for a boring gift for mom when you can find a unique gift from artisans around the world? Lighting, decor and more.

Visit the Gallery Online elissanesheim.com/art-collector-shop

Connect yourself to the natural world through unique landscapes by artist Elissa Nesheim. Choose from original artwork small and large, guaranteed to fit into any space or budget. Use code MOTHER23 for free shipping until May 31st.

Ethel & Sabel EthelandSabel.com

Instagram @EthelandSabel

6215 Hwy 9, Felton

For all of the junk hunters out there obsessed with rusty treasures, farmhouse fabulous, and upcycled industrial gifts. Bring Mom with you to beautiful Downtown Felton and check out the newest shop on the strip! Enjoy complimentary beverages on Mothers Day!

Kianti’s Pizza & Pasta Bar

1100 Pacific Avenue, Santa Cruz 831.469.4400

kiantis.com

Treat mom to one of our many Mother’s Day Specials. We are open for dine in, curbside or delivery. Visit kiantis.com/ curbsidetogo for specials.

Sacred Tree Nursery sacredtreenursery.com

Mother’s Day Special! Contact Sandra at Sacredtreenursery@gmail.com for our local’s discount! Beautiful olive tree with a personalized message and a pink ceramic heart plant stake.

Wolf at the Door IG: @wolfatthedoorcreative etsy.com/shop/Wolfatthedoorcreates

Wolf at the Door Creative is a family business based in the Santa Cruz Mountains. We create handmade botanical candles with flowers from our garden, as well as other nature based products.

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There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one
– Jill Churchill
Elissa Nesheim - Watercolor Artist

Drawing Guns in the Classroom?

What began as a simple weigh-in from Bay Area parents on whether kids should be allowed to draw guns with historical figures in schools, exploded into much larger topics on what is deemed inappropriate, policy consistency, societal dysfunction and personal expression in and outside of the classroom. There is no blanket law in the state of California on what is and what is not allowed to be drawn in schools, rather, it’s up to the discretion of the individual teacher.

This is just a preliminary discussion on this topic, let’s keep it going…

CONSISTENCY IN THE CLASSROOM

“School districts are not given standards on what age can be drawing guns; there’s no written policy of things you are not allowed to draw,” said Chief of Communications and Community Engagement for the Santa Cruz City Schools, Sam Rollins. “It’s up to the discretion of the teacher if they find something disturbing or violent.”

San Jose mom, Megan Thiele Strong wants no guns, in pictures or for play. “It seems like there has to be a boundary somewhere, and I fully support a boundary being no pictures of guns allowed. As we all know, as we all so deeply know, guns do not belong in schools.”

Gina Grajewski, a Santa Cruz parent, agrees that no guns should be drawn in the classroom under any circumstance. “It’s my understanding that this is just a rule. No guns at school. No drawings. Period. No gun play. Period. No guns. Period,” said Grajewski, a PVUSD parent.

In the case of a teacher discovering something that a student has created disturbing, said teacher would make the time to speak to the student regarding their relationship to firearms, then the teacher would seek a conversation with the parents, according to Rollins. “This is to make sure there’s nothing dangerous going on in the student’s life,” said Rollins. “This would be a really extreme case to trigger conversations, however.”

One Santa Cruz parent, Kathy Vega, also takes the position of no gun pictures in schools. “I agree with the rules of not drawing guns or weapons at school,” she said. “If anything, we should try to educate our children not to touch guns in hopes that they will make that decision if they happen to be in a situation where they have access to one.”

“An open and informative dialogue including gun safety would be more productive rather than blanket banning or making the topic a taboo,” said Sandra Orozco, a Santa Cruz parent. “Children are curious and/or exposed to weapons of different diets, monitoring their drawings I doubt will have the intended impact. I think they should have the opportunity to talk about guns in a safe, age-appropriate way.”

Santa Cruz mom, Robin McClenahan, looks at gun safety as an opportunity. “Demonizing topics for kids is never a solution in my opinion,” she said. Also weighing in on this, is Elizabeth Marzili, a Bay Area mom. She said, “I think drawing historically accurate pictures should be allowed. Give it the correct context instead of a hard NO is my preference.”

Rollins, Santa Cruz City Schools Chief Officer of Communications and Community Engagement, suggests that if a parent feels like their child was wrongly accused of inappropriate firearm (or anything else for that matter) drawing, they should reach out to the school. “We want the teacher to understand what’s going on, especially if they’ve inadvertently made a student feel uncomfortable.”

CALIFORNIA HISTORY & STANDARDS

“The standards serve as the basis for statewide assessments, curriculum frameworks, and instructional materials, but methods of instructional delivery remain the responsibility of local educators,” states the History Social Science Content Standards for California Public Schools released by the State Board of Education from May 2000. With public elementary academia beginning to teach about colonization, settlement and wars in fourth grade, it’s a wonder that there isn’t a more uniform position on the topic of drawing a picture of firearms in the classroom.

“My son was gently reprimanded for pretending to shoot a completely imaginary bow in the classroom, due to weapons being banned,” said one Santa Cruz mom, Jenny Bellik. “It seems to me that if it’s appropriate to be learning about battles or wars where guns (or other weapons) were used, it would be appropriate in that context for kids to process that by doing drawings that include those elements.”

“Fifty-seven percent of TV programs contained violence; perpetrators of violent acts go unpunished 73 percent of the time;

handguns; 40 percent of all violence included humor; 47 percent of violent situations present no harm to the victims and 58 percent depict no pain; and only four percent of violent programs show nonviolent alternatives to solve programs,” Kris Lene, a Santa Cruz parent, pointed out. “These are some results from a study done in the 90’s, and violence in the media has only gotten worse since.”

Lene goes on to explain that the average preschooler who might watch about two hours of cartoons per day, is exposed to 10,000 violent incidents within one year. “Our primal brains can’t differentiate between real life and what we see on the screen, which is why we cry when a character dies on a show, or feel nervous during a suspenseful scene,” said Lene.

“Guns and America were born around the same time and grew up together,” wrote Linton Weeks in an NPR article from April 2013 called “The First Guns in America.” “Like feuding cousins, their histories have been linked ever since.”

Another Santa Cruz mom, Kelly Gavin, added that “almost five million kids live in a home with at least one gun that is loaded and not locked away. Over half of the kids in these homes know about that gun, unbeknownst to the parents.”

Gavin goes on to agree with a few of the other local parents in saying that this event presents a great opportunity to speak with children about firearms. “Guns are deeply ingrained in American society because of the second amendment,” she said. “Guns are politically divisive, and thoughts vary so much depending on where you live, how you were raised and who you vote for.”

THE LARGER LENS ON SOCIETY

According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) in a 2020 statistic, over 19,000 deaths from 2020 in the United States were homicides – yes, you read that right – which represents a 34 percent increase from 2019, and a 75 percent

increase over the course of the previous decade. “The data also shows nearly 53 people are killed each day by a firearm in the US,” writes the CDC. “Provisional data for the following year suggests nearly 49,000 gun-related deaths occurred in 2021.” There hasn’t been an official report released from 2021 as of the publication date of this article.

“I think what really needs to be examined is the prevalence and normalization of weapons and violence presented to children in our society,” said Sage Lampros, a local Santa Cruz mom. “Sure, it’s good to not have them bringing that imagery into the classroom, but that doesn’t protect their imaginations from society’s training that weapons are a normal, cool, and powerful aspect of masculinity.”

LOCAL TEACHERS WEIGH-IN

“If every school in California had a metal detector at each entrance, would students be...? 32 percent much safer, 41 percent just safer, five percent less safe, or three percent much less safe,” wrote ABC7.com from a March 2018 article called, “Poll: More than half of California voters believe arming teachers would make students less safe.” “If every school in California had an armed military veteran or retired police officer on site, would students be...? 32 percent much safer, 34 percent just safe, eight percent less safe, five much less safe, and a whopping 21 percent unsure about how to proceed [whereas] if every school in California had an armed, active-duty police officer on site, would students be...? 36 percent much safer, 36 percent safer, seven percent less safe, three percent much less safe, and 17 percent unsure.”

Local mom, elementary and middle school teacher, Alexandra Sylvester, decided that “stifling kids’ creativity and making certain things off limits makes them only more appealing, without allowing you to have the tough and serious conversation around why that particular thing is such a sensitive topic. Thus, kids become more fascinated and drawn to these ‘off limit’ items without the knowledge or information on the facts.”

So, the taboo on gun picture and depictions (whatever representation) in schools –whichever stance you take – remains, without weigh-in by our local administrators because there is no blanket law.

Another Bay Area local middle school teacher and parent, Allison Juhász, says that “there are no clear rules, because every situation is so unique, just like each child. As a general rule, kids usually know not to draw weapons, drugs or inappropriate images in school.”

Juhász goes on to explain that in ‘normal’ cases, teachers wouldn’t call home about cases involving guns, yet she “could be wrong. I would never punish a child for drawing an inappropriate picture. If anything, it’s an opportunity to find out more information,” she said.

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Where Do Babies Come From?

The stone goddess pictured here is open mouthed, likely emitting a full throated roar as she opens herself to give birth. This is the face of birth. It is uncommon now to see such instinctive and primal behavior.

This archetypical birth goddess has at once been humbled and empowered. Her face, transformed by labor’s intensity, becomes the face of all birthing people. Features soften as they revert to a more primitive existence – based simply on survival. Breath by breath, and contraction by contraction, she goes so deep within her body’s power that she becomes one with it. Giving birth with all the power of the universe and at the same time acutely aware that she is alone in the task.

Homebirth midwives and care providers who work with those planning natural or physiologic births see this transformation regularly. Research shows that in cultures that assume labor will be hard, experience less pain. They know they will get through it just as their ancestors did. Is it any wonder then, that in our culture where birth is thought of as a surgical procedure, necessitating

anesthesia and technology, that most of those in labor get an epidural and one in three give birth by cesarean section?

There was a time when babies grew and developed during pregnancy with nothing more than time and nourishment. They came out through labor produced with the power of the body’s own hormones. We have forgotten that pregnancy and birth are body driven, not doctor driven. Ultrasounds don’t grow babies; epidurals don’t make them come out. Technology can be essential for specific problems and high-risk pregnancies; however, when served a steady diet of high-tech medical care that documents normal pregnancy progression but neglects the emotional preparation for a life-changing event, expectations change.

It used to be that babies all came from that place of the stone goddess - from the body’s toil, sweat, and tears of labor. Nature intends that babies come from deep inside the body’s very core. Labor allows that core to be reached by slowly stripping away outer layers one by one, until after the fear, pain, and exhaustion comes a powerful truth - that bodies are

strong. That surrendering to labor brings not defeat, but the victorious roar of that final push that brings both the baby and the powerful transition to motherhood and parenthood.

Childbirth produces a progression of physiological changes that aren’t always valued. The body’s own hormones act upon the pregnant body and baby to optimize birth, love, bonding and lactation. But, it’s not hard to disrupt the hormones and the physiology of labor and birth. It can be as simple as beeping machines, clacking computers at bedside, opening the door of the labor room, flipping the lights on, and asking again, “how is your pain now?”

As labor is disrupted, technology is often applied. Replacing normal birth hormones with synthetic hormones may not be as straightforward as we think. Synthetic oxytocin (Pitocin) by IV reduces oxytocin levels in the laboring brain, opiates reduce the body’s own natural endorphins, and epidural medication reduces hormones that help prepare the baby and mother for birth.

The stone birth goddess pictured here may look a little scary, but there is no

denying her power. Most everything in the current medical model of care for birth is designed to minimize this power. It takes hard work in our culture to come to birth prepared to actively claim their authority for a powerful birth.

Childbirth classes are disappearing as parents more and more relinquish the responsibility for learning about and preparing for childbirth. The eight to 12 week long childbirth class series that were once the norm have been replaced by just one or two short classes.

When a pregnant person feels fear and panic in anticipation of labor, and is surrounded by those who devalue the experience of childbirth, it is easy to relinquish the opportunity to go to that deep place that forever remodels the structure and strength of a parent. In order to change the expectations of labor and birth in our culture, it is our responsibility to convey the image of the stone goddess and all she represents as one that nurtures an anticipation of power.

Find midwives, childbirth classes and more - birthnet.org

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Self-Care Is Essential

This year will be the first time in 23 years that I won’t spend Mother’s Day with at least one child in my home. My youngest child is away at college, and my oldest is traveling with a friend (With what money? I don’t know, but that’s a topic for another article.). It’s bittersweet.

When my kids were younger and I was an exhausted parent, the only thing I wanted for Mother’s Day was the chance to sleep in and have a break from parenting duties for the day. Now that they’re older and more independent, I would cherish the chance to be woken up by their smiling faces and spend the day with them.

But I’m reminded of how overwhelmed and exhausted I felt (still feel sometimes) as a parent juggling family, work, and life – and how important self-care is to prevent burnout and create physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

This monthly column provides tips for anyone who is helping raise children, based on the world-renowned Triple P – Positive Parenting Program, available to families in Santa Cruz County. If you have a question or idea for a future column, email me at triplep@first5scc. org.

Dear Nicole,

I don’t have a question but would appreciate any tips or supportive words. I’m exhausted and running on empty. Dealing with the pandemic and mental and behavioral challenges at home and work has burned me out. I’m losing my patience with my toddler and tween-ager even more than usual and then end up feeling terrible. I feel alone and overwhelmed. I’m not the only one, right? -Carly

Dear Carly,

You’re definitely not the only one! It takes enormous physical, mental, and emotional energy to be a positive parent. It’s hard to find that energy on a “regular” day, and it’s been very challenging for many parents and caregivers who have dealt with one emergency after another the last few years. It’s natural and common to feel exhausted and overwhelmed, and you are not alone. Here are some tips and supportive words for you (and others who feel the same way):

Prioritize self-care. This is crucial,

the energy needed to be present and patient with your family. Take time every day to do something you enjoy and that makes you feel content, whether it’s reading a book, cooking, working on a hobby, going for a walk in nature, or something else. Self-care also includes eating healthy foods, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly.

Practice mindfulness. This is a powerful tool for managing stress and reducing feelings of being overwhelmed. It’s about being present in the moment and accepting your thoughts and feelings without judgment. When you feel stressed, try taking a few deep breaths, focusing on the sensations in your body, or doing a short meditation. Mindfulness can help you stay calm and centered during challenging situations.

Strengthen your support system. It’s vital to have people you can turn to when you need help or guidance (and we all could use help and guidance at some point) – whether it’s related to parenting, your own mental well-being, other

support from family members, friends, and other people you trust in your personal and work life can help you avoid burnout and reduce stress.

If you want to talk with people who aren’t involved in your daily life (i.e., the ones contributing to your stress), consider participating in parenting classes or joining an online parenting community to connect with other parents, get support, and share experiences. This can help you feel less alone and provide you with valuable insights and skills.

Nicole Young is the mother of two children, ages 19 and 23, who also manages Santa Cruz County’s Triple PPositive Parenting Program, the world’s leading positive parenting program. Scientifically proven, Triple P is made available locally by First 5 Santa Cruz County, the Santa Cruz County Health Services Agency (Mental Health Services Act) and the Santa Cruz County Human Services Department. To find a Triple P parenting class or practitioner, visit http://triplep.first5scc.org, http://www. facebook.com/triplepscc or contact

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SUN 7

10th Annual SCM Makers Market

10am-5pm Find one-of-a-kind handmade items from local artists and makers. Enjoy live music, food, beer and wine. At Hallcrest Vineyards in Felton. scmmakersmarket.com

FRI 5

First Friday Art of Nature 5-8pm Art of Nature Get to know Santa Cruz’s wild side at the Museum of Natural History. Nerd out on your night out during monthly after hours events every first Friday, featuring rotating themes, vendors, and activities. Free admission to the Museum all day 11am to 8 pm with special outdoor festivities 5-8pm santacruzmuseum.org/55-first-friday-the-art-of-nature

SAT & SUN 6 & 7

Live Music Fundraiser 1-4:30pm Be Natural Music will showcase bands and hold its Spring Fundraiser on May 6 at Pono Hawaiian Grill and May 7 on the Abbott Square stage in Santa Cruz. There will be multiple kid bands showcasing their extraordinary talents. benaturalmusic.live/ events.

The Jungle Book 2-4pm both days. Come experience the classic story of The Jungle Book at Santa Cruz Ballet Theatre’s concert performances at the Cabrillo Crocker Theater. scbt.org

TUES 9

Santa Cruz Wharf Concert Series

6-8pm Every 2nd Tuesday of the month from May through September, enjoy live music and games. The Lost Boys feat. James Durbin perform this month. Come check out Wharf Business pop-ups, games, and photo booths in the Commons. cityofsantacruz.com

SAT 13

Wildflower Weekend 10am-4pm View more than 80 plants in bloom including species found in the Waddell Valley, the coastal portion of Big Basin Redwoods State Park, during Rancho del Oso Nature Center’s Wildflower Weekend. Botanist-led wildflower walks are offered at 10 am and 1 pm on both Saturday and Sunday. parks. ca.gov/Events/Details/14542

Tannery Arts Center Spring 10-5pm Celebrate Mother’s Day weekend with a free family-friendly event featuring local artisans, live music, food trucks, wine and beer, art activities, and open studios on the Tannery campus. This year’s lineup includes live music with La Familla De Calle and Aquin, composed of Genoa Brown and Jase “Monk” Earl. tanneryartscenter.org/spring-art-market

SUN 14

The Santa Cruz Antique Faire 8am6pmThe fair is held the second Sunday

of every month. Vendors offer an eclectic blend of antiques and unique items, vintage clothing, collectibles and more on Lincoln Street between Pacific and Cedar. downtownsantacruz.com/see/downtownantique-faire

WED 17

Luna Film Festival 7-9pm View the inspiring short films through this year’s selection of filmmakers ranging from poets to conservationists, activists, and educators. At Del Mar Theatre in Santa Cruz lunafest.org

FRI 19

Food Truck Friday 5-8pm Enjoy the area’s largeest food truck festival at Skypark in Scotts Valley. There will be lots of excitement, more food vendors, the SVEF Beer & Wine Garden and live music. foodtrucksagogo.com

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Gerbera Festival The popular Gerbera Festival, a fundraiser put on by Kitayama Brothers Farms to benefit Friends of Santa Cruz State Parks, returns this year as the “Gerbera-N-Go” a drive-through flower sale. Preorders are required and stock is limited. A tray of five Gerbera daisy plants is $15. Proceeds support Kids2Parks, an innovative park equity field trip program. thatsmypark.org/events/gerbera

SUN 21

Downtown Santa Cruz Makers

Market 10am-5pm Visit the Downtown Santa Cruz Makers Market featuring 40+ local makers & artists every third Sunday located on the 1100 block of Pacific Ave. between Cathcart and Lincoln streets. scmmakersmarket.com

Meet the Doulas 6-7:30pm Meet and talk with birth and postpartum doulas while you learn how they work with families. Co-sponsored by Birth Network of Monterey County and Birth Network of Santa Cruz County, this free event is open to those planning to give birth in and around Santa Cruz County. At RC Fam, 1205 Freedom Blvd #3B in Watsonville. mtdMAY2023.eventbrite.com

The Surfers Path Half Marathon

The route consists of a 13.1 mile run from Santa Cruz to Capitola and back. The event starts at the legendary Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk and travels east along

the coast. The route takes runners past the Santa Cruz Harbor, Moran Lake and Pleasure Point as it makes its way to Capitola. runsurferspath.com/halfmarathon/half-marathon/

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Loch Lomand Flora Walk 10amNoon May’s interpretive event at Loch Lomond Recreation Area will feature local botanist Andy Werner, who will discuss native plant species found in the Newell Creek watershed. This watershed hosts a variety of vegetative communities ranging from chaparral to redwood forest. Attendance is limited to 25 people and is offered on a first-come, first-served basis. cityofsantacruz.com

Felton Parade and Covered Bridge Festival 10am-4pm This family event features a traditional parade honoring those who have served our country in the military service. After the parade, the Covered Bridge Festival is held at Covered Bridge Park, featuring live music, and vendors who sell food, drinks, and specialty items. Booths are promoting local artists and non-profit organizations, jump houses, and festival games for the kids. feltonbusinessassociation.org/ parade-and-festival-2023.html

Two Women Share Their Journey of Adaption

Melissa Come Back, recently released by Atmosphere Press, is a dual-narrative memoir chronicling two women’s paths through the foster care system.

In the book, Melissa, a smart and resilient 11-year-old raised in an abusive household, runs away from the comfortable foster home Patrice and her husband, Bob, provide. Twenty years later, an unexpected encounter at a fundraising gala propels them back together, forcing both of them to confront their individual failures. When, after their reunion, Patrice discovers that the adult Melissa and her pre-teen daughters face eviction, she and Bob are presented with an opportunity to make Melissa part of their family once again.

Patrice Keet and Mellissa LaHommedieu, the book’s authors, both live in Santa Cruz. Spoiler alert: They do become family once again, and to this day, the two live in the same house. Their editor, Bridget A. Lyons, recently interviewed them.

Bridget: So, this book has been in the works for about seven years. You must really believe in it! What do you think this book offers?

Melissa: For me, I think it offers a very real look at what it’s like to grow up in foster care—both logistically and emotionally. For so many people in Santa Cruz county, the foster care system is invisible. People don’t know that there’s this other version of childhood out there. In some cases, that childhood is really difficult. In others, it works out well. My story has a bit of both, so I think it provides readers with a good perspective on the life of a child removed from her birth home by the court.

Patrice: I absolutely agree with that. I’d add, too, that this book shows just how damaging the cycles of poverty and abuse are in our society. It’s just really hard for kids who are born into rough situations to find their way in the world. They need all the help they can get. This is why both Melissa and I are avid supporters of CASA—Court Appointed Special Advocates—a local organization that provides every child in foster care with a volunteer mentor and advocate.

Bridget: A portion of the proceeds from this book are going to CASA, correct?

Patrice: That’s correct. I’m a former board member of CASA, and Melissa is a current one. We’re collaborating with them for a number of events in the next couple of months.

Bridget: In order to tell this story, you both had to dig into your pasts.

What was the hardest part of that for you?

Melissa: I’ve got a degree in psychology and am a social worker now, so I’ve done a lot of therapeutic work over the years in an effort to understand what I lived through. The hardest part for me isn’t retelling the facts or making sense of them, it’s more knowing that luck has been such a big element of my life. I wish there was some way I could grant other kids that luck. Knowing I can’t, is hard.

Patrice: For me, it was hard to take such a deep dive into a part of my life that I once considered a total failure—Melissa running away from us. I shoved that piece of my history into a closet for decades. Meeting Melissa again after twenty years opened the door to that closet, and writing this book forced me to look at each and every skeleton in there. Sometimes that was painful.

Bridget: But it promoted some healing too, yes?

Patrice: Oh, absolutely. In fact, I think examining my actions was the only way I could heal. And, in the process, I have learned so much about myself and about Melissa—as well as about how hard it is for a young mom to leave an abusive relationship, to get an education and to maintain a healthy distance from an abusive birth family.

Melissa: And I think we both learned about the power of love and acceptance, too. In the end, our story is really about making your own family and loving that chosen family through thick and thin. That’s really inspiring to me. You can pick up a copy of this book at Bookshop Santa Cruz and Two Birds Bookshop, or at MelissaComeBack.com.

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When the County was Ablaze, Alaniz Gave Coffee to Firefighters

His Conspiracy is Being Ethical

In a world ruled by big corporations, Eddie Alaniz had the radical idea to take charge of his own fate. Eddie built the brand Coffee Conspiracy, deriving inspiration from the idea of cultivating community and using coffee as the vehicle for counterculture.

Eddie set out in Aptos on a bike armed with homemade cold brew and coffee beans in July of 2020. Born and raised in Campbell, Eddie, 40, first fell in love with coffee at 17 when he got his first job at Peet’s Coffee. He was immediately enamored with coffee culture, and now roasts his own coffee at a co-op in Oakland and sources his beans from single origin traceable farms in Colombia and Peru.

Coffee Conspiracy has evolved through many stages: starting as a bike pop up at Seacliff Beach and roaming the streets of Aptos to a takeover of Central Coast Juicery downtown Santa Cruz.

“Small businesses are the backbone of the country,” he says, “They create a way of life for people and remove power from

the corporations. When you support a small business, you’re supporting someone’s hopes and dreams.”

The coffee shop is a quirky environment that invites conversation and critical thinking. Painted on the wall is one of Eddie’s favorite George Orwell quotes, “In a time of deceit, telling

the truth is a revolutionary act” from Orwell’s novel ‘1984’ published in 1949. For Eddie that means,“For the times we’re living in, it’s easy to go along with the narrative and mass consensus... if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem”.

Eddie was inspired to follow his entrepreneurial dreams after getting laid off during the early stages of Covid. “I never want to get laid off again, I want to be in charge of my own fate,” he says.

When the lightning fires came during August through September of 2020, he was unable to sell his batches of cold brew. He heard from a friend that firefighters were staying in the Seacliff Inn and dropped off his cold brew there. Eddie was shocked to later find that firefighters were being served Folger’s instant coffee on the frontline. He dedicated the entirety of his product, later getting coffee beans from local businesses and getting sponsorships through Instagram for oat milk, to producing coffee for frontline firefighters.

For two weeks during the fires, he prepared and donated 1,000 bottles of coffee creating gift boxes for fire stations and 911 call centers.

Eddie is a long time conspiracy theorist and truth seeker. When his older sister, Maura, gifted him “Behold a Pale White Horse” by William Cooper in high school, “the matrix was broken” for him. Eddie believes in an ethical business model: he serves exclusively organic and GMO free products that are sustainably sourced.

“Businesses can be both ethical and profitable,” he says.

Being an entrepreneur brings three words to Eddie’s mind: grit, fortitude and stamina.

“To the crazy, the normal is insane,” he says. “To start a brand you have to be crazy because you have to see something nobody else does.”

Coffee Conspiracy is located downtown at 111 Locust Street, Santa Cruz, open Monday through Friday 9am to 3pm and weekends 9am to 4pm.

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PROFILE

Finding My Name

The text notification on my phone said “Hello Corvinrock,” and I immediately thought, “Who is this? And how do they have my number?” Then, I noticed my name was misspelled as Corvinrock instead of Corvinrook and I thought “Oh gosh, the spam bots have learned my name. . . sort of . . . should I be concerned?”

I finally clicked on and read the whole message and my thoughts changed to “Are they sure they have the right person?” When it sank in, that I was really nominated for a Queer Youth Leadership Award, and this was no mistake, I was very surprised.

I was quite honored and very flattered, as well as quite nervous. I wanted to know what I had done to deserve such an honor, as I was simply trying to live my life the best I could, while being the best person I could be as I did it.

Turns out all the little things we do in life really do have an impact. I am very open about who I am with those around me. I wear pride pins and bracelets, I dress in a unique style, and I’m very loud in who I am, what I like, and who I like. I am unapologetically

myself, and I’m not ashamed of that fact. It probably has something to do with me being a theater kid, or maybe I’m a theater kid because I’m that way. Along with the theater, lots of things contribute to making me, me, and it took quite a while and quite a bit of effort to figure out just who I am after putting them all together.

When I was first starting to figure myself out, instead of telling my parents, I just left random hints. I did not want to initiate the conversation. I kept quiet for a while as I figured things out for myself.

STUDENT’S VIEW

I told my friends, though, and when walking home one day in Middle School, I just blurted it out. In the following years, I realized I really didn’t like my name, and the old identity it represented.

During my Junior year, I put a lot of thought into a new name for myself, and I made a list of things that meant a lot to me and represented who I wanted to be. I looked into myths and legends, space and the stars. Being fascinated by crows, I also looked into things related to them. I found that Corvus is a star, as well as the real name for crows.

I found that Rook can refer to crows too, as crows have been interpreted as a symbol of death, and the transformation from the physical to the spiritual world. However, in spiritual language, death really represents change, transition, transformation and new beginnings.

Adopting my new name gave me even greater confidence to be who I really am. With this confidence, I joined the Drama department of my High school where I’ve represented the LGBTQ+ community in theater and encouraged others to be themselves.

I’m glad this nomination is about

being myself and the little things I’ve done to try and make my community a better and safer place. I hope that my story, and stories from the other nominees that might be told at the ceremony will help others see they can find themselves too.

I hope you’ll join me at the 26th Annual Queer Youth Leadership Awards (QYLA) on Saturday, May 13 at New Brighton Middle School in Capitola at 5:30pm where we will all be honored and celebrated as nominees along with our allies.

Corvinrook Champion, he/him/his and they/them/theirs, is a senior at Scotts Valley High School and part of the LGBTQIA+ community in theater. As an openly queer, transgender, and asexual student, Corvinrook inspires peers to stand up against prejudice.

Three awards are presented at the ceremony, the Queer Youth Leadership Award, the Ally to Queer Youth Award, and the Organizational Ally to Queer Youth Award. To read about all of the 2023 nominees and learn more about the awards ceremony, visit QYLA.org or call (831) 427-4004.

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PET GUIDE

Center for Animal Protection and Education (CAPE)

Santa Cruz, CA & Grass Valley 831.336.4695

info@capeanimals.org

www.capeanimals.org

The Center for Animal Protection and Education works to save the lives of individual animals who are older or have special needs and to educate people about ways in which they can change their own lives to alleviate animal suffering. Our concept of compassion extends to all beings.

Compassion without Borders

1130 Butler Ave, Santa Rosa 707.474.3345 cwob.org info@cwob.org

Compassion Without Borders was founded in 2001 by Christi and Moncho Camblor with the vision to provide a brighter future to animals in need on both sides of the border. CWOB works a multifaceted approach to reach animals in need via our four programs; Mexico Dog Rescue, US Dog Rescue, Veterinary Wellness Clinics & Spay/Neuter Services. We also actively participate with other rescue groups in the US and Mexico to provide outreach for humane rescue education & training via seminars.

Corralitos Riding Club

1079 Green Valley Rd. Watsonville 831.461.4181

max@corralitosridingclub.com

Corralitosridingclub.com

Take Pony Riding Lessons on our two white ponies, Pegasus and Marshmallow. We teach lessons, host pony parties, and have 2 sessions of Horse Day Camp coming up June 26-30 and July 17-21. We can accommodate all skill levels including firsttimers. Come ride with us.

Doggie Protective Services, DPS Rescue Dpsrescue.org

Doggie Protective Services, better known as DPS Rescue, was founded in 2001, as a nonprofit organization that rescues dogs and cats of all ages, sizes, and breeds from throughout the state of California. We do not have a shelter facility and all of our dogs live in foster homes from intake through adoption. We specialize in rescuing those that may be at risk of euthanasia, including pregnant and nursing mama dogs, medical cases, and the shy and shut down pups who do not thrive in the shelter environment. We don’t just rescue

dogs! We also have a team that rescues cats and kittens, including bottle babies and nursing mama cats, and cares for them until they are old enough to be adopted.

Muttville

255 Alabama St, San Francisco 415.272.4172

nfo@muttville.org

Muttville.org

We reach out to senior dogs at risk, give them the care they need, and find them loving forever homes. If we had our way, no dog would spend their last days in a shelter. There is so much love and joy in these dogs! Muttville’s cage-free facility (first in the nation), foster program, on-site veterinary suite, and hospice program are innovations that have been lauded and emulated around the country.

Pacific & Santa Cruz Veterinary Specialists - 24/7 Emergency 2585 Soquel Drive, Santa Cruz 831.475.5400

Pacificsantacruzvet.com

From trauma treatment to cancer care and surgery, an experienced team of board-certified specialists and Santa Cruz emergency vets offer advanced medical care for pets in need. New patients are always welcome.

Peace of Mind Dog Rescue

Main Office: POMDR Patricia J. Bauer Center, 615 Forest Avenue, Pacific Grove Veterinary Clinic: POMDR Harry and Jaynne Boand Clinic, 1251 10th St, Monterey 831.718.9122

Info@PeaceOfMindDogRescue.org

www.PeaceOfMindDogRescue.org

Peace of Mind Dog Rescue is a resource and advocate for senior dogs and senior people on California’s Central Coast. We find loving foster and forever homes for dogs and provide financial assistance so senior people can keep their pets as long as possible. Head to our website to adopt, donate, foster and volunteer!

Santa Cruz Animal Shelter

Santa Cruz Shelter

1001 Rodriguez St., Santa Cruz Watsonville Shelter

580 Airport Blvd., Watsonville Main Line: 831.454.7200

Licensing: 831.454.7261

Animal Control: 831.454.7227

After-Hours Emergency: 831-471-1182 scanimalshelter.org

The Santa Cruz County Animal Shelter

is responsible for enforcing the laws and codes involving animals within the County of Santa Cruz, City of Santa Cruz, City of Scotts Valley, City of Watsonville, and City of Capitola. When calling to report an incident, please have as much information as possible including description of animal and owner, address of owner, and/or license plate of owner. The Santa Cruz County Animal Shelter is an open admission shelter which welcomes EVERY animal in need every day, 365 days a year. Dedicated staff and volunteers provide care for every animal who comes in. Animal living areas are kept clean, warm and comfortable. Frightened animals are reassured, and sick or injured animals receive medical treatment or a humane end to their suffering.

Da Vinci Equestrian

831.359.2853

davinciequestrian.com/

Da Vinci Equestrian offers a horseback riding lesson program and full service horse training, with facilities in Watsonville and La Selva Beach. Da Vinci Equestrian emphasizes the relationship between horse and rider, horse care, and offers individualized programs to fit the student’s needs. Specialization in Hunter/Jumper and 3-Day Eventing. Monthly lesson packages and week-long summer camps available. Ages 5 and up welcome! Please view our website for more information.

Santa Cruz SPCA

2601 Chanticleer Avenue, Santa Cruz 831.465.5000

adoptions@spcasc.org

www.spcasc.org

Looking for a four-legged BFF? You’re in luck! The Santa Cruz SPCA has a pawsome selection of cats and dogs just waiting to steal your heart. Our devoted staff and volunteers have showered each with love, belly rubs, and playtime galore. Swing by and fetch your new furry friend today!

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Protect Your Pooch from These Hazards

The last thing any dog owner wants is for their beloved family pet to experience a life-threatening emergency. Unfortunately, dangers to dogs lurk everywhere, and often, they’re things we’d least likely expect.

Proof of this is in the 213,773 calls to the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center during 2018 alone. Add to this,

hundreds of thousands of pets are treated for or die from a wide variety of preventable accidents each year. The following are just a few of the common hazards with which dog owners should take precautions.

Chip & snack bags. Numerous dogs and cats suffocate to death in chips and treat bags each year. A survey by Dr. Jason Nicholas was reported on May 15, 2018, in the Journal of the American Veterinary Medical Association. Of 1,354 respondents, Nicholas found pet owners were home 39% of the time when pet suffocation occurred. The lethal containers included chip and snack bags, pet food and treat bags, cereal box liners, bread bags, and plastic

into the trash.

Toxic foods. Many foods that are healthy for humans are toxic to dogs. Grapes and raisins can cause acute kidney failure and death in dogs. Chocolate can be fatal to both cats and dogs. Anything sweetened with xylitol can cause hypoglycemia, liver failure, seizures, and death to pets. Even salty foods can pose a risk like sodium ion poisoning as well as excessive thirst and urination.

Lit candles.  When pets are around, candles pose added risk. Pets can easily knock over a lit candle and cause a fire. But also, rambunctious dogs or their wagging tails can get burned by the flame. Burning candles are also bad for your pet’s health, particularly scented ones.

So only burn candles when you can restrict your pet from the room. If you do burn candles when your dog’s around, place the candles up high. Just make sure the flame isn’t too close to the ceiling or a shelf above it.

But don’t feed ice to an overheated dog, which can be dangerous to your pet.

HAZARDOUS PET TOYS

Rope tug toys. These pose multiple risks to both pets and humans. Playing tug-of-war with dogs is known to increase dog aggression. Tugging can also damage your dog’s teeth. Most concerning, however, are the strings. Dog’s are known to unravel or shred rope toys and ingest the strings. The strings then get tangled around the dog’s organs. This can pose a lifethreatening situation that’s resulted in numerous emergency surgeries as well as deaths.

of bags, cut them down the sides in case your dog or another animal finds its way

Lighters. These little gadgets make for fascinating chew toys for dogs of all sizes, until the first chomp. When a lighter explodes in your dog’s mouth, it can result in a burn and even force shrapnel to lodge in your dog’s mouth or throat. Ingestion of the liquid or inhaling butane can also cause several problems and even death. So always keep lighters well out of your dog’s reach.

Heat exhaustion. All dogs can experience heat exhaustion, although certain breeds are particularly prone to it. Short-snouted dogs are at increased risk because they have a shortened breathing system. Some dogs with longer muzzles are also at high risk. So research your breed to determine how well it can tolerate heat.

Regardless of the breed, dogs should never be left outdoors without shade during warm weather. Neither should they be left in cars when temperatures exceed 40 or 50 degrees outside. Cars can heat up to exceed the outdoor temperature by 30 to 40 degrees within a brief time in the sun. Dog owners should also avoid overexercising their dogs and pay close attention to their dog for signals of distress.

Symptoms of heat exhaustion in dogs include heavy panting, a swollen tongue, tongue hanging out the side of the mouth, excessive drooling, frequently trying to lie down, or an irregular or fast heartbeat.

If your dog shows signs of heat exhaustion, it needs to cool down immediately. Get your dog into the shade or preferably air conditioning. You can also put your dog in a tub of cool, but not icy, water, or use the hose to cool him off. Another option is to apply an ice pack to your dog’s head.

Rawhide. One problem with this leather chew toy is that rawhide is treated with harmful chemicals. There’s also the risk of salmonella poisoning. Rawhide poses a choking hazard when dogs swallow it as well. Add to this, dogs can’t digest rawhide. As a result, countless dogs experience intestinal blockage and require surgical removal of the rawhide.

Squeaky toys. These are usually made of soft rubber or cloth. So they’re easy for dogs to chew up or rip apart. The small round squeakers inside these toys are the perfect size for dogs to swallow and choke on.

Tennis and other small balls. According to many dogs, tennis balls make great chew toys. Unfortunately, they’re easy to tear apart and pose a choking hazard. If you have a medium to large dog, tennis balls pose a danger even without being torn apart. Many dogs have swallowed tennis balls whole, resulting in death.

Kong and other rubber toys. Most rubber dog toys have a hole so they can squeak or hold treats. If the hole is large enough that your dog can fit part or all of its tongue into it, this can pose a severe danger by creating a vacuum. The vacuum can cause your dog’s tongue to get stuck and become engorged, cutting off circulation. Many dogs have required emergency tongue amputations. Some have even died. To prevent suction, toys with a hole must have an additional hole on the other side so air can flow through freely, eliminating the risk of a vacuum.

Play it safe. The above is just a partial list of the numerous dog toys that pose hazards. Unfortunately, the dog toy market is unregulated, and most pet stores sell countless toys that are known to be unsafe. So always research pet toys before giving them over to your beloved dog.

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A friend of mine who used to be a student called me from college the other day. He asked me to look at his astronomy homework. I thought it was perfect, and he told me he called because he didn’t do it. In fact, none of his classmates were doing any of their homework. They were using Artificial Intelligence (AI).

He felt conflicted about it. In high school, he and I had long conversations about why students cheat, and he really needed to talk to an adult about this. I was honored, I said, and I wasn’t all that worried, in terms of the future of education.

I told him that from the beginning of time, humans have tried to figure out how to do things more directly and more easily. It’s no different in a classroom. We spend a lot of time, as teachers, trying to engage and inspire students to really learn things, and to love learning things, then we think about how to tell whether the students did, in fact, learn. It’s no different because there are new tools out there. If the astronomy department was not prepared for this, they would figure it out any moment now. I told him to go open his book and study.

The next day I took out a set of miniature, perfectly made, sea turtles. They were a double set of eight different species, with the correct anatomy, scales, tails, beaks and colors to match real turtles. These sixteen little beings live on my shelf all year until it’s time to teach my students how biologists identify species in the wild.

When we began interacting with real working field scientists ten years ago in our program, they gave us raggedy copies of ancient-looking, typewriter-typed keys to the seaweeds of California. I scoffed and wondered why we were not using tablets and photos.

No, they said, this is what field biologists do FOR REAL. The keys are lists of decisions you make when you are looking at something, and when you confirm each single trait one after another, eventually you know the species of what you found. Does the turtle have a single scale at the base of the shell? If yes, it is a… If no, go to the next question…

It’s actually a fun activity. As my students passed around turtles and examined their traits against the keys, the conversation with my cheating astronomy friend came to mind. I

wondered. I challenged my class to identify the turtles using their phones.

There are several amazing apps, lots of photos of turtles, and plenty of AI available for free that will identify living things. I scanned the turtles from every direction. I Googled their traits. I used all of the “disruptive” things that are in the hands of this generation. None of it could identify a single turtle.

Does that mean my curriculum is ChatGPT proof? No. It means that particular challenge at that particular moment could not be solved by an AI. I knew the kids learned how to identify species by using keys, because today, without any guidance, they did it with seaweeds right in front of me.

Last year, a student in my Biomedical Engineering class proposed a design for a backpack that can be carried into developing areas and is loaded with an AI to diagnose and treat medical issues. There is infinite potential to this technology. Like any emerging technology, there are also pitfalls, and there are always bad ways to use tools.

My middle school computer science class trained a computer to recognize and classify 12 different objects or facial

expressions. They then created a code with that machine learning that they could add to their websites.

Did this take all semester? Was it some expensive curriculum?

No. It took 30 minutes. It’s as easy to use as Google Docs.

The fact that students need to learn to be upstanding human beings is something that has never changed. The fact that there are wonderful things in and about this world that students can awaken-to in a classroom has not changed and will not change.

The tools change, or we would still be using slates and recitations to learn lessons. I love to see my students embrace new tools and become empowered to use them for the things they value and for the positive change they want to bring to their worlds.

Lisa Catterall teaches STEAM, math, science, and art at Mount Madonna School and is a senior associate of the Centers for Research on Creativity. She lectures and trains teachers and administrators on innovation in education in Beijing, China. Lisa has five children and lives in Santa Cruz County.

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