Change Your Financial Mindset: Are You Mentally Holding Yourself Back? My Story And How It Changed gurpreettooray.empowernetwork.com /blog/category/personal-development Any good marketer will tell you that your mindset is so important in order for you to make money online. You have to be a certain type of thinker and have certain behaviors that will allow you to break through barriers and earn your full income potential. This is the major difference between 'average' and 'above average' earners. It's easy to sit and watch a webinar and think "yes that's going to be me one day", what's harder to do is to go out and work on what you were told in that webinar/seminar/course whatever it was that you watched. I was in the same position that you might be finding yourself in now, I felt my dreams were not coming true, in fact they seemed further away than ever. I wanted the freedom to go wherever I wanted, no holds barred. I was sitting there frustrated and annoyed with everything and everyone around me. I hit a new low in my life - things had spiralled out of control, I had no money for rent. I was at a complete loss. How many times could I ask friends and family for money? My finances were increasing and my bank account was over the over draft limit and one question kept coming back to my mind 'Is this how I am going to be spending the rest of my life?' I was stuck in a rut with no penny to my name. I started looking online and came across some courses, get rich schemes and none of them worked. Needless to say this did not help mentally. I jumped from course to course looking for the next big thing, but it never came. The only thing that got bigger was my debt. One day I was sitting there and I thought "No, I can't do this anymore." I went online, started reading, started watching videos, started listening to audios. I started to change the way I saw myself and my situation, and yes I know everyone tells you this but it really did change my life and I am now so much better for it. My self-esteem improved, my self confidence improved, my financial situation improved and my life in general went from being gloomy to being filled with light :) Below is am image of the commissions earned last week alone since I began this journey
What I wanted to do in this blog post is to give you a list of 5 things that I did that really helped my life turn around completely. I hope it changes your life, I hope I can help you in some way or at least get you thinking that if I can do this, then so can you. I appreciate you coming to this blog post and I wish you success 1) Have a clear target that you can physically see One thing you have to keep in mind is that you need to know how much you want. It's important to set a clear intention and write it down. How much do you want to make and by what time. So something like: "I Gurpreet Tooray, am sitting here at my laptop looking at my online banking account and I can see that in the month of December 2014 I have $15,000 to my name." This is just the first line and your doesn't have to look like this. Make it as visual as possible. Note down where you are and what you are doing so when you go over it you can recreate the environment. What will you do once you have earned that money? Will you go shopping? Will you treat your friends? Make sure that with any money you earn, some of it goes back into your business. How else will you grow? Write out a couple of paragraphs and put it somewhere easy to access because it's important that you read this EVERY DAY. It's all about re-training your mind. You have to know that you are capable of doing this. 2) It's important to have a role model/mentor No one is born with all the knowldege of the world. You need to start somewhere and who better to start with than with someone who is doing what you want to do successfully. You want to stand on the shoulders of giants. You need people to look up to and learn from. Anthony Robbins' mentor was Jim Rohn. Vick Strizheus' mentor was Dan Kennedy
My mentors include Aaron Rashkin, David Wood, and Vick Strizheus, Why do they think the way they think? Why do they do what they do? It's important to cancel the noise. Learn from the mentor or mentors (no more than 2 or 3) - do what they do and not what they say. 3) Develop success habits -One of the things I learnt was that you have to help yourself otherwise no one will help you. It's important to expand your thinking. Everyone thinks in a certain way but it's important to think outside the box. -To develop habits it's important to read, read ,and read. You need to read about things to help you think outside the box. One book I am reading the moment is 7 Habits of Highly effective people by Steven Covey. Give it a read. Some other books you could check out are: Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill The Law of Success - Napoleon Hill 7 strategies of wealth and happiness - Jim Rohn These are just a few you can start with. There are many other books you can find on the internet. - Developing self confidence was something I found hard to do. I had lost my self confidence a few years ago due to circumstances and people around me. Training the way I have in these past few months has helped me overcome some of that and I am confident I will be fully confident again soon enough. -One thing that you could do is the 30/30/30 challenge. That is to read or 30 minutes a day and listen to a useful audio for 30 minutes a day and do both of these for 30 days and you will begin to see changes within yourself. Empower Network has weekly audios that they put out which include interviews from the top earners in this business. It is one of their products called the Inner Circle and these audio's are avaliable for download. It is $100 per month but it is so worth the information that you get. Audios at your disposal, updated every week. The image below shows two examples of the many audios they have in the system
So far this has worked out for me and I intend to carry on with this. It is important to be resourceful. Do not wait for others to give you success, you have to go out and do it for yourself. Do not accept 'No' or 'can't' as acceptable answers. If you hit an obstacle then go around it, find ways to overcome it. Dont be your biggest challenge. Remember that every problem brings a new opportunity. 4) Believe in what you are selling If you are in some sort of marketing programme or affilaite programme then believe in what you are selling. Make sure it fits in with your ethics and it is something that you are proud of telling other people about. If you don't believe in what you are selling then why should anyone else? Be your own best customer. Remember that selling is a transference of emotion but don't just be in this game for the whole purpose of 'making money.' If you are in this for the short term then you are not going to get very far. Do not sell products; sell ideas, visions and outcomes. How can what you have help other people? Send out positive vibes to people. 5) Marketing and Systems When you re in a marketing system then understand it from the very root. You need to know the ins and outs and make it simple enough for other people to understand. Understand your business perception - how do others perceive you? Do you look clean, fresh, dirty, someone they would want to work with? Someone they can learn from? Would you approach you if you wanted help?
Sometimes it's just about opening the door and taking massive action in what you do. I was hurt by many schemes and opportunties out there but that didnt deter me. I just did my research better If you would like to see what opportunity I chose to join then click here and it will take you to a free video you can watch. I watched it and the rest is history. I got in and got all in. Don't be afraid, like the books taught me, think outside the box and take massive action. I invested in my future and believe me it has paid off so far. Please feel free to get in touch with me to find out more information To your success
Gurpreet Tooray g.tooray@gmail.com To your success The income claims represented in this blog post are extraordinary and do not make a guarantee for your success or income level. Please see Empower Network's average affiliate earnings at: http://www.empowernetwork.com/income