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December 2018

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Parent to Parent With another gift-giving season approaching, my youngest daughter, Haylee, has been hard at work making sure that her wishes are known. What she really wants this Christmas is a pet of her own – either a dog or a kitten will do, but her first choice would be a West Highland White Terrier. The first problem with that plan is that we already have five dogs and cats living in the house. David has two cats — one is his, and he’s been watching another “for a friend” for over 6 months now. Hanna also has a kitten, and then the two dogs, one of which was originally adopted for Haylee, both insist on “belonging” to Daniel.

Which leads to the second problem with that plan, which is that animals do have minds of their own. Even if we did decide to increase the pet count in our house to match the people count, there’s no guarantee that a new pet would actually bond with Haylee, and Daniel might just end up with a third dog!

So far, the results of our nudging are inconclusive. She has narrowed it down to two dolls that she would like, and she has expressed an interest in lots of new clothes and accessories for the dolls she has. But she also is still regularly talking about how badly she wants her own pet. Maybe a day trip over to Orlando can push her over the edge!

So we have been trying to guide Haylee toward some other options. When the latest American Girl catalog showed up the other day, my husband jumped into action. After all, Haylee really enjoys the two American Girl dolls that she already owns, and the catalog does always inspire a significant amount of excitement when it arrives.

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Every family celebrates special holidays in their own way. Christmas Eve is no exception with families incorporating a wide variety of traditions from the sacred to the sentimental. Here are a few of our favorites. Maybe they’ll inspire you to start a new tradition this year with the ones you love!

5. Caroling the neighborhood. What better way to spread Christmas cheer than to serenade the neighbors? Who knows? If you’re good enough, there might be hot cocoa and cookies in it for you!

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6. Stuffer scramble. One family reported a hilarious tradition that started on the parents’ first Christmas together: Having just married 6 days earlier, they realized they had no “stocking stuffers” for one another. In a panic, they set out for Kmart and had only 15 minutes until closing to come up with unique, funny gifts for one another. It was so much fun, they’ve done it every year since— on purpose! 7. A scattered, dashed, covered, and smothered Christmas. If your Christmas Eve service makes a big family meal difficult, you could join the ranks of families who enjoy a holiday meal at Waffle House! It’s one of the few places open on this holiday and makes for a low-stress, budget-friendly meal on the way home. Because nothing says celebration like syrup. 8. Light ‘em up. Light up another family’s Christmas Eve by playing elf. One family we polled does this on their Waffle House stop by secretly paying someone else’s check. Then they leave the restaurant and watch from the car. They love seeing the joy and surprise on the face of the unsuspecting diners when they learn it’s “on the house.” You can also light up the night for someone who has to work on Christmas Eve, such as a pharmacist at a 24-hour drugstore or a gas station attendant. December 2018 • 9

Northside Christian Wins 3rd State Title In A Row! A big night for Northside Christian School and Pinellas County! The Northside Christian School Royal Ambassador Marching Band won it’s third consecutive Florida Marching Band Championships (FMBC) 2A state championship title Saturday night. Eighty-nine bands entered FMBC state semi-finals Saturday morning. The top 25 bands (5 from each division) moved on to compete Saturday night at Tropicana Field. Three Pinellas schools won their divisions: Calvary Christian, Northside Christian, and Seminole. This was the first win for Calvary (who is led by a Northside Christian Alumnus), the 3rd for Seminole, and the 7th for Northside.

In addition, two local band directors: Northside’s band director, Nathan Farrell, and Seminole Middle’s Daniel “Chip” Wood were inducted into the FMBC Hall of Fame during the state finals awards ceremony. Dramatically, after the induction, a Northside Christian Alumnus came onto the field and proposed to a Northside guard instructor. Northside’s Royal Ambassadors have a unique style among local marching bands. This year’s field show was titled “You Say You Want a Revolution” and told the story of the American Revolution. Weaving songs from both the 1770’s and the 1960’s the show brought subtle parallels between the fight for independence and the fight for civil rights. The previous shows to win

in this current “three-peat” were “StarCrossed” (The story of the lonely “Rocket Man” looking for love in outer space) in 2017 and “Hold the Line” (The heroic story of all the “Rosie’s” who built the American WW2 war effort) in 2016. 2016 was also the year the band traveled to Hawaii to participate in the 75th anniversary of the Pearl Harbor attack.

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10 Winter Dates with Your Wife The holiday season is here. Pretty soon you’ll be enjoying Christmas with your family. Depending upon where you live, you may be enjoying some warm and cozy evenings already.

1 For the active wife: Enjoy outdoor winter activities. This is just the type of date your wife will love. Ice skating, sledding, or even skiing together.

It’s time to flex your romance skills with your wife. She may think you lost the romance when you put a ring on her finger or after your kids were born. But you and I both know you haven’t lost the romantic touch. In fact, you’ve learned more through the years. Now you are more romantic and committed to making special dates and memories with your wife.

2 For the “I love holidays!” wife: Attend a local Christmas tree lighting. Bundle up, head downtown, and enjoy the city Christmas tree lighting ceremony.

But in case you did misplace your romance card, we’re here to help. Here are 10 winter dates for you to go on with your wife. Enjoy!

4 For the wife whose love language is receiving gifts: Give “rein-dear” gifts and go on themed dates. Give your wife a gift corresponding to a themed date night based on rein-dear names.

3 For the crafty wife: Create an ornament or wreath. Create an ornament to symbolize your marriage or a homemade wreath.

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Last year baseball lost one of the greatest pitchers of all time in Roy Halladay who passed away in a plane crash. There were many tributes to him, but one thing expressed over and over again was his work ethic. He would always be the first person at the ballpark to work out. He learned how to develop good habits, such as discipline and hard work. Habits such as these made him into a sure bet Hall of Famer. We hear a lot of talk about keeping kids away from bad habits. Bad habits lead to bad behavior, which ultimately brings a difficult and painful life. That’s not what we want for our children. We want to develop in them the opposite. People often ask me about developing positive habits. How do you do it? How do you guide children as a parent? In order to do it, I go back to my coaching experience. Here’s how to develop good habits in your children. I think you can develop habits in players or in children either positively or negatively. When I was coaching the defensive line for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers it would be easy to say, “Don’t be offside!” But a better way to

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say it might be, “Watch the ball and try to get a jump on it. As soon as that ball moves that’s when you move.” I’m saying the same thing but in a positive instead of a negative way. I think we need to do the same with our kids. Rather than say, “Don’t be disrespectful”, instruct them to use their manners and be respectful. Stressing and building the positive habits by telling them what to do rather than what not to do is a better way. Sometimes, of course, there is going to have to be a negative, but I have found that talking about the behavior that I want to see is much better than talking about the behavior I don’t want to see.

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TRUCK/TRACTOR-TRAILER/ 18-WHEELER ACCIDENTS by Chris Reynolds

a big truck, and must pass a physical examination every two years. Finally, drivers must keep a log book that details all of the driving they do. Of course, there are other rules, but these rules are the ones that often become relevant in negligence actions when truck drivers cause injuries. A commercial truck accident is usually more complicated than other automobile accidents. This is generally due to the big size of the truck, the cargo carried in the truck, or the multiple defendants that may be involved.

Many tractor-trailer accidents are avoidable when the trucking company and its drivers take the proper precautions. A study by the Federal Motor Carrier Safety Administration (“FMCSA”) found that 87 percent of the truck crashes were due to driver negligence.

Due to the extreme weight of these trucks, there are many rules and regulations that truck drivers must follow to keep the roadways safe. One of these rules is that a truck driver may only drive for a maximum 11 continuous hours in a 14 hour work day, and then they must rest for 10 continuous hours before driving again. Also, drivers must possess a special driver’s license to drive

There are usually multiple possible defendants in a truck accident case, including the trucking company, the contractors, the drivers, the owner of

the trailer, the owner of the truck and the company that owns the cargo. Due to the complexity of trucking accidents, it is very important to ensure there is a detailed investigation by the attorney. There are many types of evidence that can be crucial later on in the case, including the driver logbooks, the training procedures of the trucking company, the maintenance of the truck, and other factors. However, this evidence is often lost or destroyed over time, so it is imperative that the gathering of evidence begins as soon as possible after the accident. If you or a loved one has sustained injury in a trucking accident, please contact an experienced personal injury attorney to discuss your particular situation.

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Staned Glass Nativity 1. Create and cut out a silhouette of the manger scene using black construction paper or card stock. You can find many templates on the Internet. 2. Trace the manger onto a piece of Con-tact paper and cut it out. Cut out slightly smaller than the silhouette. 3. Cut up a bunch of little squares of colorful tissue paper. 4. Peel off the backing of the contact paper and begin to layer down all the pieces of tissue paper. 5. Tape or glue down the contact paper art to the back of the silhouette. Use a hook or string to hang on the tree.

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We’ve all paid the “stupid tax,” making costly decisions with zeros on the end. And a lot of those decisions happen when we’re caught up in the emotion of the Christmas season and procrastinate a little too long. Make this year different than before! Here are the top 10 Christmas shopping mistakes and how you can act differently: 1 Not prioritizing. Instead of getting stressed out with all the parties, baking and shopping in addition to your normal daily life, set some priorities before you’re bombarded with a million requests. Think about what things are “must do” and which are “would be nice to do.” It’s all right to

3 Using credit cards. Once you have your budgeted amount of money, stay away from credit cards! You will still spend 12-18% more if you use plastic and you’ll be paying it off come next year! Doesn’t paying with cash and going on about your day sound more relaxing than having a credit card balance looming over your head through the holidays? You betcha. 4 Buying for everyone. Do you really need to buy gifts for every family member and friend you have? That can get overwhelming and expensive for everyone. Talk with them about this and work toward an agreement to draw names for gifts or donate money to a common cause.

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3. Exercise and eat healthy. It’s too easy to let everything go during the holidays. Ever heard yourself saying, “I’m too busy, I’ll start eating healthy after the New Year.” Between co-workers and family tempting you with candy, pies and other heavenly treats that show up uninvited, you can really pack on the pounds if you’re not careful. Don’t give in. Why not keep your fitness goals you worked so hard for during the other months? Indulge in the sweets and treats, but set a limit for yourself and stick to it. Make a plan, ditch the second trip to the dessert table and stay active to burn excess calories and reduce stress. After all, the holidays are a time to be thankful, not stressful! Remember, YOU are important! Take care of yourself, have fun and enjoy the season — and you’ll see the benefits of your hard work and get a head start on reaching your New Year’s Fitness Resolution! Amy Alexander is an ACSM certified personal trainer and RPM instructor.

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Christmas season is a lot of fun and we are always trying to make it special in our home! Here is a super easy recipe that is about as simple as you can get, but a whole lot of fun to make. You just make up a bunch of pancakes, then slice up some strawberries and get a can of whipped cream. Use the strawberries to make Santa’s hat and the whipped cream for the rest of his hat and beard. Top it off with some chocolate chips for the eyes and you have your very own Santa Pancake!

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25 Sights of Christmas

Christmas Town at Busch Gardens

’Tis the season for family traditions! Busch Gardens Tampa’s Christmas Town, the Bay area’s biggest Christmas celebration, is returning this year and is now included with any annual pass, Fun Card or daily admission to the park. Even Busch Gardens’ most familiar fans will barely recognize the portions of the park that convert to Christmas Town through special entertainment, live music, festive treats, holiday shopping and Christmas lights everywhere!

Christmas is a time for family, joy, fun – and lots of Smiles! Now we know that the weather outside may not be frightful, but Christmas in Florida can be so delightful. While balmy breezes and swaying palms may not be everyone’s idea of a typical Christmas, Floridians have found some pretty unique ways to celebrate the season. And, for those who just can’t do without ice and snow, we have that too… we even have a town named Christmas! So if you need a little coaxing to get into the spirit of the season, then take your family to one of these merry and bright destinations and watch the smiles grow!

This year, with more than a million twinkling lights, Christmas Town transforms the park into a nighttime holiday wonderland of wintery surprises and all things Christmas, filling guests’ senses with seasonal sights, sounds and flavors, and continuing a beautiful tradition for Tampa’s families. Plus, beloved characters from the television special “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer”™ return with Christmas

Town’s debut of Sam the Snowman. The Christmas cheer begins on select dates from Thanksgiving through Dec. 31. What’s even better than that? A portion of the proceeds from Christmas Town will benefit All Children’s Hospital here in the Bay area. Guests can experience all of the Christmas celebrations throughout the day, and park closing times will range from 8pm to 10pm throughout the event. For ticket information visit buschgardens.com/tampa/ events/christmas-town/

St. Augustine Nights of Lights

There is always a lot happening in St. Augustine. Ramp it up 1,000 times and you have St. Augustine’s Nights of Lights Festival—2 months of 3 million Christmas lights, magical memories and a heck of a lot of fun! This year’s dates run from December 1st to January 31st. With a display that is ranked as Top 10 in the WORLD, St. Augustine’s Nights of Lights is a must see and a whole lot of fun. For more information visit floridashistoriccoast.com/nights-lights.

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Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party

Celebrate the magic of the holiday season with your family at Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party, a special event held select nights in December at Magic Kingdom theme park! With Christmas Carols in the air, special holiday entertainment, and a spectacular version of the Wishes fireworks themed to the evening’s festivities, you’ll experience an unforgettable evening. The party begins at 6:00 and ends at midnight. For more information visit disneyworld.disney.go.com.

Christmas at Gaylord Palms

Even as the sun shines bright with no snowflakes in sight, Christmas at Gaylord Palms kicks off the season this December with Santa, snow, and so much more. With exciting new additions and the return of favorite experiences, the Kissimmee resort becomes the ideal place to celebrate the holidays in Central Florida. During Christmas at Gaylord Palms, your family will marvel at lavish holiday displays that include more than 2 million twinkling Christmas lights and acres of larger-than-life decorations. Enjoy visits with Santa, an all NEW Cirque Dreams UnWrapped Live Stage Show, ICE! featuring the holiday classic A Christmas Story, Christmas Traditions with Mrs. Claus, breakfast with Elf on the Shelf and if that’s not enough, wander through the atrium’s lush gardens (over 500,000 plants) sprinkled with poinsettias and other grand holiday displays. To schedule your visit go to www.gaylordpalms.com.

LEGOLAND Christmas Bricktacular

Bring in the holiday season with a 30-foot-tall Christmas tree made of thousands of LEGO and DUPLO bricks, festive decorations, a life-size LEGO Santa, reindeer and sleigh, holiday-themed scavenger hunts with prizes and opportunities to build with LEGO alongside Master Model Builders. Meet LEGO Santa and LEGO Toy Soldier during daily park appearances and end the evening with a not-so-silent-night fireworks spectacular set to classic Christmas melodies. With more than 50 rides, shows and attractions all dedicated to families with children age 2 to 12 and one of the widest selections of LEGO products available, LEGOLAND Florida is a great place to celebrate the season and pick up the Christmas gifts that are on every child’s wish list — LEGO! For more information visit www.LEGOLAND.com.

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The Nutcracker presented by the Next Generation Ballet Wind the clock, mind the mouse, and get ready for the Tampa Bay area’s stand-out production of Clara’s great dream in The Land of the Sweets.

Next Generation Ballet’s delightful, inventive Nutcracker has become the crown jewel of a glittering holiday performance season. The production features internationally-renowned principal dancers from Miami City Ballet and New York City Ballet onstage with NGB’s award-winning young dancers. This family-friendly favorite transports audiences to a fantastical place where magic fills the theater, toys come to life and visions of Sugar Plum Fairies dance in your head.

This Nutcracker is a standout among many. For ticket information visit www.strazcenter.org.

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There’s nothing that beats the pleasures of Florida living like enjoying a boat parade in tee-shirts, shorts and flip-flops while the rest of the nation is just digging in for a long, cold winter. Here in the Tampa Bay area every December families have an opportunity to take in some of the biggest and best boat parades in the country. Three of our favorites are the St. Pete Beach Boat Parade and Winter Village at Horan Park scheduled for December 7th, the Treasure Island Holiday Boat Parade scheduled for December 14th and the Tampa Riverwalk Holiday Boat Parade scheduled for December 22nd. For detailed information on these parades visit www.visitstpeteclearwater.com.

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Come experience the innocence and charm of a Victorian Christmas. Escape the commercialism and stress of a modern Christmas and capture the warmth and joy of an old-fashioned holiday with your loved ones at the Henry B. Plant Museum’s 37th annual Victorian Christmas Stroll. The Victorian Christmas Stroll preserves the essence of an old-fashioned Christmas and is treasured as one of Tampa’s most popular family tradition. For information visit www.plantmuseum.com.

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Edison and Ford Holiday Nights

During the holidays the homes and gardens of Thomas and Mina Edison and Henry and Clara Ford are seasonally decorated and visitors have the option of taking a self guided tour or a guided tour with an Estates site historian. The Edison and Ford Holiday Nights includes nightly entertainment by school and community groups, culinary demonstrations, book signings and appearances by artists, and the “Children’s Tree Trail” a forest of trees decorated by Lee County Students. The Estates Museum and Edison Botanic Research Lab will also be open during the event. For more information visit www.edisonfordwinterestates.org.

The best gifts in the world are the ones that are made from the heart. This December, give your kids the opportunity to create something special. MOSI’s Idea Zone has been transformed into Santa’s satellite toy workshop. Meet Moonbase Mike, enjoy a festive atmosphere and create cool stocking stuffers and gifts that you can take home in MOSI’s transformed Idea Zone. For more information visit www.mosi.org.

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The annual “Holiday Lights in the Gardens” is a seasonal escape into a wonderland of twinkling lights and fun entertainment. Over 1 million LED lights shining throughout our Botanical Gardens highlighting our plants and in nature-themed or holiday-themed light displays. This is a family-friendly event with nightly entertainment, including visits with Santa. For times visit www.flbg.org.

Florida Aquarium’s Holiday FantaSea

This December, experience a holiday “FantaSea” when you bring your family and friends to celebrate the holidays at the Florida Aquarium. Santa and his diving elves are coming to town on Saturdays in December and from December 26th to 30th the Florida Aquarium will have a play area featuring real snow for the kids. There will also be magnificent holiday light shows and a mesmerizing displays. For information visit www.flaquarium.org.

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A Charlie Brown Christmas Live

Everyone’s favorite holiday classic comes to life in the all-new touring production A Charlie Brown Christmas Live On Stage! Join Charlie Brown, Snoopy, Lucy, Linus and the whole Peanuts gang as they put on their own Christmas play and ultimately discover the true meaning of the season. A Charlie Brown Christmas Live On Stage is a present the whole family can enjoy.

Christmas in the Wild

It’s the most wonderful time of the year… as ZooTampa at Lowry Park transforms into a world of holiday cheer for Christmas in the Wild! The event celebrates its fourth year as one of Tampa Bay’s most beloved holiday traditions. From the stunning sights of thousands of twinkling lights, delectable seasonal holiday treats and refreshments, to the wonder and enchantment of wildlife at night – Christmas in the Wild will offer guests of all ages a whimsical holiday experience. For more information visit www.zootampa.org.

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Pure holiday magic you can’t buy at the mall, featuring the velvet voice of American Idol star Michael Lynche and Unlimited Gospel Expressions choir. Trevor Pettiford of Bay News 9 will be narrating The Night Before Christmas and Jeff Tyzik will be conducting the Orchestra. This is a perfect gift for the whole family. Also, The Florida Orchestra Musicians are collecting toys and other items for Tampa Bay families in need. The 2018 toy drive will run from December 1-19. Collection boxes will be available at TFO offices and lobbies of performance venues. For more info visit www.floridaorchestra.org.

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Adapted from Charles M. Schulz’s timeless story of the spirit of Christmas, A Charlie Brown Christmas Live On Stage features the unforgettable music of Vince Guaraldi, as well as a concert of beloved holiday carols performed by the Peanuts characters. There’s no better way to discover the magic of the season. For ticket information visit www.rutheckerdhall.com.

Holidays At Universal Orlando Resort

Put a little mischief in your merry when Universal Orlando Resort™ takes the holiday season to new heights with an all-new lineup of festivities in their parks and beyond. Experience Christmas in The Wizarding World of Harry Potter as Hogsmeade and Diagon Alley are transformed with wondrous spirit. Watch the live retelling of Dr. Seuss’s classic holiday tale starring The Grinch as the Grinchmas Who-liday Spectacular returns. Merry and Mayhem combine as the Minions join Santa Claus in the all-new Universal’s Holiday Parade featuring Macy’s. You’ve never had a holiday like this. For more information visit www.universalorlando.com.

Oakdale Christmas House

This home display was once named one of the top-three Christmas lights displays in the U.S. by the “Today Show” and has appeared on HGTV. More than half a million lights, including a 70-foot-tall Christmas tree and more than 700 animated or moving objects will be on display, 6-10 p.m., every night until Jan. 2. Admission is free. The house is located at 2719 Oakdale St. S. in St. Petersburg.

Symphony of Lights

The Shops at Wiregrass invites you to see the brand new Symphony in Lights presented by Florida Hospital Wesley Chapel! Enjoy a lively array of dancing lights, dazzling décor, and snow too! Symphony in Lights is an amazing holiday light show, choreographed to music featuring the Trans-Siberian Orchestra and selections from our guests. With an amazing new tree, new RGB lights, new stereo sound and of course snow too, this is a holiday tradition you will not want to miss! For show times and directions visit www.theshopsatwiregrass.com.

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Cirque du Soleil

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This unique arena production showcases synchronized and freestyle ice skating alongside circus disciplines such as swinging trapeze, hand balancing on chairs and hand to hand. Crystal will perform at the Amalie Arena from Wednesday, December 19 through 23 for 7 shows.

Watch world-class ice skaters and acrobats explore their new frozen playground with fluidity with neverbefore-seen acrobatics. Cirque du Soleil’s Crystal fuses circus arts and the world of ice skating in a stunning new production that will take the audience on a journey into a surreal world where figure skating blends with acrobatics and aerial feats. Crystal is suitable for all ages. For ticket information visit www.amaliearena.com.

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Winter Village – Downtown Tampa

22 Celebrate the holiday season in Downtown Tampa at the Winter Village at Curtis Hixon Park. Located along the Tampa Riverwalk, Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park is transformed with the sights, sounds and activities of the holidays for children and adults of all ages. Featuring Tampa’s only outdoor ice rink, the Winter Village welcomes families and friends to share in this holiday tradition with a view of the beautiful Tampa Riverwalk and Hillsborough River. Whether you are a first-timer, or an experienced skater, the Winter Village Ice Rink is a must-do activity this holiday season. For more information visit www.wintervillagetampa.com.

Michael W. Smith presents

Christmas: An Unforgettable Night of Music!

Multi-GRAMMY® award winning artist Michael W. Smith returns to Clearwater with an evening of Christmas joy for his Capitol Theatre debut with very special guest Melinda Doolittle. The multi-Platinum artist, bestselling author and acclaimed actor has been honored with three GRAMMY Awards, 45 Dove Awards, an American Music Award, has sold more than 15 million albums, and performs around the world to sold-out crowds of loyal and inspired fans. His latest album, A Million Lights unveiled his bright, inspirational new song Revolution. You won’t want to miss a special night of music created to enlighten, mesmerize, and touch the soul of his listeners. For ticket information visit www.rutheckerdhall.com.

Winter’s Wonderland at CMA

Join Winter for a splashingly great holiday celebration at Clearwater Marine Aquarium! Guests can get their photo taken with the Winter Claus mascot, can experience a Winter Wonderland with lights and décor all around, see the holiday themed habitats for all the resident animals and enjoy the Christmas Kids Fun Zone. Also, guests will have the opportunity to enjoy extended hours on select night for Sea of Lights. For more information visit www.seewinter.com.

R odgers & Hammerstein’s The Sound of Music

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The hills are alive! with the brand new LIVE production of The Sound of Music. The beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences with its Tony®, Grammy® and Academy Award® winning Best Score, including “My Favorite Things,” “Edelweiss” and the title song. The Sound of Music enjoyed extraordinary success as a live television production when The Sound of Music Live! aired on NBC in December, 2013 and was seen by over 44 million people. 2015 marked the 50th anniversary of the film version, which continues to be the most successful movie musical in history. For ticket information visit www.rutheckerdhall.com.

Christmas Services

For many families living in the Tampa Bay area Christmas is one of the most important holy holidays of the year. It is the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, and it will be celebrated throughout the area by many churches and ministries, all highlighting ‘the reason for the season. This Christmas, let’s follow the example of Linus’ in the Peanuts classic, A Charlie Brown Christmas, and focus on the real meaning of Christmas. If you are looking for a church to attend, we encourage you to check out our Church Directory on our website, www.gulfcoastfamily.org.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year... unless it’s not. For many children and their parents, this time of year may be depressing, stressful or simply go by unnoticed due to more pressing problems. Here locally there are many kids who have to spend the holidays in the hospital. According to the Nationwide Children’s Hospital website, “A gift of toys, games or activity supplies can make a big difference to children and families spending time in the hospital.” At John Hopkins All Children’s Hospital, you and your family can donate new, unused toys in the hospital lobby. To learn more about what items are needed visit www.hopkinsallchildrens.org.

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A Gentle Hug Just as I opened my laptop to begin typing this article, I received a text from the very birthmother I intended to write about. “Good Afternoon.” she text, followed by a smiley face, and as I read it, I could envision that easy, contagious smile of hers, and I felt myself smiling, too. When people speak of meeting someone who knows no strangers, they are speaking of this birth mom. I met her the first week of October and learned she was due to deliver in just a few short weeks. We sat down together to complete her Social and Medical History forms at the office, and by the time she answered the final question on the form, I knew I loved her. She is young and pretty and sweet, and I learned in that first meeting that smiles were no stranger to her face. She spoke proudly of her two-year-old daughter, who loved Frozen and who shared the same wide smile and bright eyes as her mother. We hugged each other goodbye and planned on meeting again in a few days. On the day of our second meeting, we talked more about her adoption plan and how she wanted her time in the hospital to go. We made a plan for her to call when she went into labor, no matter the time, and that I would be there for her as little or as much she needed or wanted me to be. That very night I received a call.

some sweets to snack on, and we sat and talked for awhile, sharing pictures and stories of our kids, until she told me she would like to go visit her BABY GIRL. I wheeled her to the NICU, as she was tender from her C-section. I helped settle her into the chair beside the baby’s hospital bassinet, and place BABY GIRL into her arms. I sat in the chair next to her and admired her admiring her baby. We talked about how she was happy she decided to meet the adoptive family and to spend time with BABY GIRL after all, as neither were a part of her original adoption plan. She talked about how sweet and kind and easy to get along the adoptive family was, and I wondered if she had any clue that she is all of those things, as well. The adoptive family arrived in NICU, and I left the 3 of them to spend alone time together with each other and BABY GIRL. I let the birth mom know I would be back that evening with my sons so we can keep her company over dinner. With my two boys in tow, I headed back to the hospital to visit the birthmother. I took her dinner order, which consisted of cake

and more cake, and headed for her room. I introduced her to my boys and the four us sat and ate together, talking about everything from Disney princesses to super heroes. My oldest son and her talked about the pros and cons of the Hulk, while my youngest son cuddled up next to her on the hospital bed. By the time we finished eating our dinners, the adoptive family had arrived to say goodnight. They came with updates on how well BABY GIRL was eating and how NICU had no concerns. I took some pictures of the birthmom and adoptive family, one of which my son photbombed. The adoptive family said goodnight and ,shortly after, my boys and I prepared to leave for the night, as well. “Gentle hugs.” I told the boys, “because her belly is tender.” Birthmom opened her arms real big. My oldest gave the first hug, but when it was my youngest son’s turn, he didn’t want to let go. He felt as I did the moment I met her…like we had known her for years. I gave her a big hug goodbye and kissed her on the top her head, assuring her I would see her in the morning. My boys and I loaded up in the car. It was a long day and well passed their bedtime, but as we drove home, I couldn’t think of anywhere else I wanted the three of us to be that evening than there in that hospital room with birthmom. I had known her for 4 days at that point. I loved her by day 1..and by day 4, so did my family.

Around 3 a.m. in the morning, she delivered a baby girl. Lisa Cuffaro, Destiny Adoption’s Director, had been there with her since midnight. “She rubbed my back whenever my mom needed a break.” she said of Lisa, who I informed the birthmother was well-versed in labor and delivery. I came to visit her first thing the next day after I dropped my boys off at school. I brought her

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The next day, we loaded up her belongings and headed to her home. I hugged her goodbye knowing it wasn’t goodbye at all. And I sit here now in gratitude for having met this birthmom just a few short weeks ago, who’s smile, even via text, makes me feel like I have known her all along. Destiny Adoption Services & Consulting, Inc. is a Florida licensed child placing agency founded with the intention and determination to provide the highest standard of service, support, and advocacy for birth parents, adoptive families, and adoptable children.

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Easy-going, humorous, and loving, Danielle has a positive outlook forward to her future. She’s particularly looking forward to having more responsibilities as a middle schooler next school year and the possibility of having a forever family. In school, Danielle’s favorite subjects are science and reading. After school, Danielle really enjoys doing gymnastics. She hopes to be a professional gymnast someday, but she would also be ok with being a lifeguard. When she’s not practicing her skills or enjoying a swim, Danielle also enjoys hanging out with her friends, or watching her favorite movie, Zombies. If Danielle could have a super power, it would be to be like Wonder Woman – another movie she likes watching. Danielle’s favorite food is asparagus but hold the mushrooms please. Her favorite animals are horses, dogs and unicorns (even though she knows they aren’t real). Danielle enjoys listening to rap and country music. But she especially enjoys singalong to her favorite country pop singer, Kelsea Ballerini.

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“My oldest gave the first hug, but when it was my youngest son’s turn, he didn’t want to let go.”

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Jeremiah Age 8

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Funny, smart and athletic Jeremiah loves showing off his backflips – something he likes most about himself. When Jeremiah is at the park, one his favorite places to go for fun, he loves to practice his backflipping skills. Jeremiah enjoys the park so much, if he could change the world, he would make every day sunny, so he can go every day. But if he can’t get to the park, Jeremiah is happiest when he gets to watch his favorite show Goosebumps. He especially likes the monsters on the show, because they look cool. Jeremiah’s favorite food is chicken, but if it’s breakfast, he’ll pass on Rice Crispy cereal. In school, Jeremiah’s favorite subject is math. Jeremiah’s other favorites include the color blue and tigers. When Jeremiah grows up, he hopes to be a police officer. He also hopes to have a cat as a pet someday.

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Local Grandmother Taking a Hands-On Approach To Communication The My Signing Toys Company creates sign language toys for hearing and Deaf parents with hearing, deaf, Autistic, various babies with syndromes and late speaking toddlers who want to learn Baby Sign Language. My first grandchild, Mikie was born deaf to hearing parents and extended family. None of us knew sign language or anything about being Deaf. Naively, I went out to the big box, specialty, and online stores, expecting to find toys that would help us learn to sign with our newest family member. To my shock and amazement, there weren’t any. Lots of videos, though, thank goodness. I prayed and asked God for a vision after many attempts to create something on my own. One morning I woke up dreaming of a baby playing

with what I now call “My Signing Hands.” Why hearing and not only deaf? Parents & babies are frustrated when they can’t communicate. Which leads to babies crying and parents trying desperately to figure out their child’s needs. Baby Sign language has been proven to help infants communicate as early as 6 months. There are many videos available, Baby Signing classes, and more and more daycares, and schools are teaching sign language. However, before now there weren’t any manipulative sign language toys to practice and playfully gain the attention of preverbal infants. Our specialty is creating hands-on, tactile sign language toys for parents

& their babies, toddlers, educators, and therapist to practice and play Baby Sign Language and finger spelling (alphabet and numbers). We also provide cloth flash cards with instructional words and phrases with each set. There is a Facebook Page with videos to instruct users on how to sign with My Signing Hands. Go to fb.me/MySigningToys The My Signing Hands are handmade, unique, and manipulative. Some are made for placing adult hands inside to move the fingers and some can be held, and the fingers moved by the other hand. Some have rattles or squeaky noise makers.

by Debbie Sailor, Creator of My Signing Toys Autistic infant with a new toy for each toy sold. We hope to influence more parents to use sign language in their native language. Debbie, the creator, envisions a country where her Deaf grandson can travel throughout the US and be welcomed in his own language; American Sign Language. He has even learned a few Japanese sign language phrases. My Signing Hands are just the beginning.

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Christmas? 1. What holiday drink contains sugar, milk and eggs?

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10. In the story Frosty the Snowman, who brought Frosty back to life? �� 11. When and how did Christmas become an official legal holiday here in the United States? �� 12. According to most historians, in what year was Jesus born? �� 13. What are the names of Santa Claus’s eight reindeer as named in Clement Moore’s poem “The Night Before Christmas”? ��

15. To whom and where did the star first lead the wise men? �� 16. How many gifts would you receive if you received all of the gifts in the song “The Twelve Days of Christmas?” �� 17. Who lost $8,000 in the movie It’s a Wonderful Life? �� 18. Who was the United States’ first ambassador to Mexico, and what is his connection with the holiday season? ��

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12. The birth of Christ is generally accepted to be around 5 or 6 B.C. as Herod died in 4 B.C. 13. Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner, and Blitzen. Note: Donner and Blitzen were originally called Dunder and Blixem 14. The candy cane 15. The star led the wise men first to King Herod in Jerusalem, after which they saw

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Making the Most of a Moment by Kenny McNatt For most people in Bethlehem, the night of Jesus’ birth was a night like any other . The busy pace of the day had given way to the evening’s slumber. It was finally time to unwind. However, most of them had no idea that this seemingly un-eventful moment in the course of the day would soon give way to the most extraordinary moment in human history.

cause it didn’t look or feel like they had imagined. The long awaited king had come, but not the way most would have imagined. Rather than being outfitted as a warrior, he was clothed as a newborn baby… and they missed him. The narrative of Jesus’ birth is well recorded. We sing Christmas carols that remind us of a holy night when a child was born in a manger and wisemen were on a search to find him. We read stories that bring a warmth to our hearts as we are reminded that we should help those who are struggling.

What was so extraordinary? For generations the people of Israel had looked forward to the coming of the messiah. The one who, by his physical strength and military prowess, would lead his nation back to prominence. It was It’s no wonder that there While these are all wonderful were many people who missed aspects of the Christmas season, the splendor of the moment be- the greater significance is some-

times overlooked. Whether it is due to the busyness of our lives or because the commercial appeal of the holidays is so prominent, the greatest reality of the There’s a lot to be said for those and friends will shine a similar night in Bethlehem remains al- who take time to be physically light of hope. and emotionally available and lusive. connect with the people in their Over the next few weeks, you The birth of Jesus who would be lives. Those who were fortunate will have the opportunity to called “Immanuel” is one of the enough to see the newborn on celebrate the Christmas season most significant moments in hu- that Bethlehem night, saw the with family and friends. Hold man history because in that mo- light of hope that beamed radi- the hug for a few extra seconds, ment God came close to us. antly in his eyes. Today, those laugh a little louder and forgive who see the value of making those who have hurt you. In doThe wonder of the Bethlehem themselves available to family ing so, make sure that you do not night is seen in the name, “Imunderestimate the extraordinary manuel”. It means “God with value of a ordinary moment. us”. This is what Christmas is all about. Think about it. God Kenny is a husband, a father, and a showed His love for us in a profollower of Christ. He is a graduate of Southeastern University, Lakeland, found way. He came to earth. Florid. He curently serves as the Lead He made Himself available. Pastor at Seminole Assembly of God.

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Q: My husband lost his job five months ago, and money has been really tight. We’re agonizing about Christmas. Our kids understand the situation, but I know their friends will all be getting the latest toys, games, etc. I’m dreading seeing their disappointed faces on Christmas morning. What can we do?

Every few weeks, go to the public library together. Check out books and DVDs that will introduce all of you to people and places you’ve never dreamed of before, and explore on a rainy or snowy day. Try giving your children simple (or elaborate!) coupons for designated activities like these, as well as generic times like “an uninterrupted hour with Dad” or “baking with Mom.”

Jim: My heart goes out to your family. It’s always hard to deal with financial challenges, but somehow they seem worse this time of year. That said, you might be surprised by what your children really want from you for Christmas. A few years ago, a viral Internet video showed 10 families who were asked to participate in a simple experiment. The children—ages 4 to 9—were asked to write a letter to Santa, listing what they wanted from him for Christmas. Not surprisingly, the kids were excited and had plenty of ideas, asking for everything from video games to musical instruments. One little girl even asked for a unicorn. But then the children were asked to write another letter, this one to their parents. The task was the same—list the things they wanted from Mom and Dad for Christmas. This time the kids were more quiet and thoughtful, and their requests were quite different. “Play with me more,” one said. “Have dinner with us,” said another. And on it went: “Spend a whole day with me.” “Read us a story.” “Tickle me.” Children love to get presents at Christmas. And we Moms and Dads love to give our children gifts. But as much as our kids may want that new video game—or even a unicorn—what they really want is time with us. As one of the parents in the video said, “Imagine! You want to give your kids the best you can. And the best is yourself!”

Many parents simply don’t have the money to buy their children the latest toys and electronic gadgets. The good news is that to make a child’s upbringing rich and meaningful, none of those are necessary. A little thought and creativity can go a long way. So what I would suggest is that when your children open their (simple) gifts this Christmas, they find a wide range of personalized coupons for various times and activities with Mom and Dad. An afternoon at the park. Playing catch in the backyard. A game night at home. Make coupons that your kids can “redeem” at times of their choosing throughout the year, as well as planned events on specific dates. Most communities have a number of fun opportunities to choose from. You can take advantage of museums, science centers and zoos in your area, most of which offer lowcost or free children’s programs. (They generally advertise special days well in advance, so you can plan your schedule and coupons.) Many universities offer classical or children’s concerts and Saturday morning theater productions for kids.

You may have to get creative, but take heart! The happiest, most well-adjusted children are not those with every new toy that hits the stores. The kids who thrive best have committed, caring parents who take a genuine interest in their lives. So this Christmas, and throughout this next year, give your children the best gift of all—you! For more encouragement to make this season meaningful, visit FocusOnTheFamily.com.

TEMPER YOUR EXPECTATIONS TO MANAGE STRESS DURING THE HOLIDAYS Q: We moved into a new (larger) house this year. So for the first time at Christmas, the entire extended family will be under one roof: ours. What can we do to manage the stress of hosting? Jim: This should be the most joyous time of the year— but often it’s the most stressful. I think a big reason is the amount of expectation we pour into the holidays.

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with Jim Daly We put expectations on ourselves and our family members, and they have expectations for how they want things to go as well. It’s a special time of year, and we want the house to be perfect, the gifts to be perfect, the meals to be perfect. Everything must go off without a hitch. The trouble is, holidays rarely work out as perfectly as we’d like because there are too many variables that can go wrong. And the moment our expectations get dashed, then stress, disappointment and conflict aren’t far behind. The most obvious solution is to lower your expectations. Of course, that can be a little tricky because we often don’t realize just how high our expectations really are until it’s

too late. The best way to defuse that problem is to talk about everything ahead of time. So as you’re finalizing your Christmas get-together this year, talk with your spouse or other family members about how you hope things will go. And then proactively discuss how you can adapt if (when) necessary. It may not seem like much, but conversations like that can make a big difference. They’ll help you put things in their proper perspective. And those lowered expectations can create just enough wiggle room for you to stay calm when things go differently than you expect.

KIDS’ CHRISTMAS LISTS SHOW HOW SELF-CENTERED THEY’VE BECOME Q: Our kids made their Christmas lists early this year. Reading through them, I’m taken aback at how… well, self-centered they are. How can we adjust their point of view? Jim: Most children have a tendency to feel that the world revolves around them. Our culture encourages this problem by telling kids—and adults, frankly—to be self-

centered, to look out for No. 1. As parents, we have to work hard to help our kids look beyond their own interests and to develop empathy for others. Author Silvana Clark addresses this issue in her book “Fun-Filled Parenting.” She suggests that one of the best antidotes for self-centeredness is to volunteer as a family. It might be donating some items to a local shelter, or hosting a neighborhood car wash and giving the proceeds to charity. Picking up trash at the park, taking part in a church service project, putting together care packages for the troops… the possibilities are endless. According to Clark, volunteering can help children learn four valuable lessons. First, it helps them understand that

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they’re not the center of the universe. Second, it enables kids to learn responsibility and gain self-confidence. Third, it puts them in touch with community resources and groups that depend on volunteers. And finally, volunteering helps children build relationships with positive role models—men and women who have invested their lives in reaching out to others. It’s important that we as moms and dads model service and self-sacrifice for our children, but it’s even better if we can get the kids involved in the same activities. Make volunteering a family affair! It will draw you closer together, and you just might make some lasting memories in the process.

to approach their relationships with their wives like they would a teammate. Like a lot of guys, I was involved with sports throughout my childhood, and I’ve spent my adult years working with some great organizations. One thing I know: When you create a culture of respect and hard work among teammates, you can be successful at just about anything. I once heard a two-time Super Bowl champion say it this way: “When teammates give their best as individuals, they make each other better.”

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The best teams aren’t always those with the best players. Winning often comes down to teammates who are willing to work hard themselves and to motivate one another toward excellence. Play as hard for the guy next to you as you do for yourself. That’s key to success—not just in sports, but also in business, and particularly in marriage. Your wife is your teammate through life. Be willing to work as hard at your relationship with her as you do your job, your business or the hobbies you give so much time to. Know your role on the team and handle your business. I’m sure she has a few things that she needs to work on, too, but that shouldn’t be your primary focus. You’ll only motivate her to improve her part in your marriage if you step up and improve yours. And when everybody does their part, the team succeeds. For more ideas to help your marriage thrive, visit FocusOnTheFamily.com.

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by Bob Hoose, PluggedIn.com The holidays are here, moms and dads are making their lists and checking them twice, and kids are hitting the sack with visions of smartphones and hand-held tablets dancing in their heads. And odds are, a lot of them are gonna see those high-tech dreams come to a Christmas morning reality. Of course, with techy treasure can come techy temptation … and techy trouble. And while many parents accept that small screens and childhood are fated to comingle in this day and age, there are still plenty who feel a bit wary about that fact. After all, some experts are suggesting that by the age of 7, most kids have spent over a year’sworth of 24-hour days watching some sort of little screen. So what is a discerning mom and dad to do? Once they open Pandora’s iPad, how can they keep a hand on that tiger’s tail? Fortunately, there are a number of smart mothers and fathers who have been putting a lot of thought into the subject. One of them is a guy named Steve Vangasse who helped create an app called “Screen Time.” The free version of this downloadable application gives users a bit of what-are-my-kids-doing monitoring ability. But when mom or dad ponies up a small monthly fee, that’s when the magic is truly uncorked.

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What can it do? It sets time limits on screen access and game play, of course. And it selectively blocks whatever you want blocked. But it also does a number of other really cool things, too. For one, it lets you set up certain times of the day or night when game play and the like is turned off altogether. So, if junior heads off in the morning with a phone in his pocket, he’ll be free to call if there’s an emergency, but the phone will know that web searching and Candy Crush play are strictly verboten during school hours. The app also lets parents essentially connect all their kids’ devices to their central remote control. So even though the chillens may be scattered to the four winds, one punch of a button on your phone puts any or all of the devices in “pause” mode. Nothing will get a kid running to see what Dad needs quicker that having the iPad pause in the middle of a Netflix show binge. Oh, and there’s a get-the-choresdone bonus feature in the mix, too. If little Susie runs out of allotted time and sees that she can earn a reward of 20 extra minutes for 30 minutes of backyard play, you could see unexpected things come to fruition. (And you might also be surprised to see how quickly a 30-minute “chore” outside can grow into much longer playtime once the, uh, ball gets rolling.)

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On top of all that, as the promotion clip suggests, the Screen Time app is more than happy to be the mean ol’ baddie and shoulder the blame for time limitations and blocked apps. “Hey, it’s not my fault, Jimmy. It’s the app.” The drawback to all this, of course, is the fact that the app really only gives you the goods if you opt to pay a $4.99 monthly fee. It would be so much more wallet friendly if this little helper were a freebee. But, hey, nothing’s perfect. Besides, wielding smartphone super powers like this might just well be worth buying one less latte a month.

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ICE! at Gaylord Palms resort is Florida’s favorite frigid Christmas tradition, with over 20,000 square-feet of frosty 9-degree bliss played out in a winter wonderland of exciting hand-carved sculptures. And this year it’s really all that it’s cracked up to be, featuring two-story tall ice slides carved entirely from TWO MILLION pounds of ice. ICE! is hand carved by 40 artisans from Harbin, China and this year’s attraction is based on the classic holiday movie, A Christmas Story. And while you may feel a chill in the air, you will also feel warmth in your heart as you create wonderful family memories.

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The Capitol Christmas Tree will be decorated this year with approximately 6,000 ornaments reflecting the rich cultural and natural diversity of our great nation. The ornaments this year have been designed by artists and crafters of all ages from the state of Oregon. On December 5th House Speaker Paul Ryan will be joined by students from Oregon to light the tree. The tree will remain lit until the 2nd of January. The Capitol Christmas Tree has been a tradition for 54 years, beginning in 1964. To learn more about the “People’s Tree,” visit the official Capitol Christmas Tree site at www.capitolchristmastree.org.

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Mistletoe, holly, poinsettias and Christmas trees are all plants associated with the decorations of Christmas. But the mistletoe is a true favorite with sweethearts everywhere. Kissing under the mistletoe is from a Greek festival tradition, and according to scientists, kissing burns 6.4 calories a minute.

The weather outside may not be frightful, but Christmas in Florida can be SO delightful. With warm breezes and swaying palms, and an average high temperature of 72°, Tampa Bay is the ideal location to celebrate the season. This month we have found some pretty unique ways for families to celebrate the season, with our 25 sights of Christmas.

6 Facts about Hanukkah 1. Hanukkah is a Jewish festival that lasts for 8 days and nights 2. Hanukkah always starts on the 25th of Kislev 3. It takes 44 candles all together to observe all the nights of Hanukkah 4. Hanukkah commemorates the rededication of the Jerusalem temple by Judah Maccabee in 165 B.C. 5. Fried foods are associated with the holiday, since it was oil that kept the sacred fire burning 6. This year Hanukkah will begin at sundown on December 2nd.

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When Mickey celebrates the season, Magic Kingdom lights up with excitement for guests of all ages. Cinderella Castle shimmers. Joyful music fills the air. Disney characters don their most festive attire. Favorite attractions take on a holiday theme. And enchanting surprises lie around almost every turn! www.disneyworld.disney.go.com December 1 - 31 WINTER’S WONDERLAND Join us for a splashingly great holiday celebration at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium! Experience Winter’s Wonderland with lights and decorations all around the aquarium. See the holidaythemed habitats and wish happy holidays to the aquarium’s resident animals. www.seewinter.com December 1 - 31 CHRISTMAS TOWN AT BUSCH GARDENS Busch Gardens beams with twinkling lights, Yuletide shows, holiday shopping and even a visit to Santa’s House during Christmas Town™. The park transforms into a holiday wonderland of entertainment

and attractions where a beautiful family tradition awaits. Guests will also have the opportunity to ride some of Busch Gardens’ most popular thrill rides, including family spin coaster, Cobra’s Curse®. Christmas Town is included with daily admission. www.buschgardens.com December 1 - 31 LARGO HOLIDAY STROLL IN THE PARK Largo’s Annual Holiday Stroll event in Largo Central Park features over two million LED lights, entertainment and free family-friendly activities for all ages. A variety of crafts, activities and concessions will be available. Returning this year, a carousel and a seven story Ferris wheel will be on-site for you to enjoy the beautiful lights from above the park. The holiday lights, ferris wheel and carousel will run nightly through January 1. www.playlargo.com

born to a virgin in Bethlehem. All the while, gorgeous choral pieces are woven into the production as an orchestra and choir provide an inspirational backdrop with songs of hope and joy. www.disneyworld.disney.go.com December 1 - 30 WINTER VILLAGE AT CURTIS HIXON PARK Celebrate the holiday season in Downtown Tampa at the Winter Village at Curtis Hixon Park presented by Tampa Bay Lightning. Located along the Tampa Riverwalk, Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park is transformed with the sights, sounds and activities of the holidays for children and adults of all ages. Whether you are a firsttimer, or an experienced skater, the Winter Village Ice Rink is a must-do activity this holiday season. www.wintervillagetampa.com December 1 - 30 CHRISTMAS IN THE WILD AT TAMPA’S LOWRY PARK ZOO

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Hear the stirring story of Christmas— as told by a celebrity narrator, and accompanied by a 50-piece orchestra and massed choir as this dazzling performance returns to EPCOT. Each night, a celebrity narrator tells the biblical tale of a savior

The Zoo is brimming with holiday cheer as Christmas in the Wild returns with even more twinkling lights and jolly surprises! Experience 18 wild and wonderful nights. Enjoy seasonal treats, enchanting entertainment and a 50-foot animated Christmas tree! Best of all, visit Santa in his Tree Top Lodge and marvel at the magic of wildlife at night. www.lowryparkzoo.org

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December 1 -30 HOLIDAY LIGHTS IN THE GARDENS The Gardens will once again be bedecked in over a million LED lights. Come out and see many of the garden’s traditional favorites, like the snowman family, as well as many new items, all while celebrating the season. www.flbg.org December 1 -30 RIVER OF LIGHTS HOLIDAY CRUISES Hop on the Pirate Water Taxi for Tampa’s most unique holiday celebration. View festive decorations, lighted bridges and other surprises along the Hillsborough River. River of Lights features whimsical narration, Christmas Carolers, hot chocolate and a holiday cookie for all! www.piratewatertaxi.com December 4 REH CHORUS HOLIDAY CONCERT In honor of the season, the Ruth Eckerd Hall Chorus has prepared a unique blend of uplifting music that will surely bring joy to all. From solos to a full choir sound, there is something for everyone to enjoy. Join us for our celebration of the most wonderful time of the year! www.rutheckerdhall.com December 6, 8, 10, 13, 27 & 29 TAMPA BAY LIGHTNING HOME GAMES The Tampa Bay Lightning have become one of the NHL’s must-see franchises. Consistently competing for playoff spots and winning a Stanley Cup in 2003 have catapulted the Tampa Bay franchise to greatness. Without a doubt, the Lightning are one of the best experiences in sports, and a visit to Amalie Arena makes it easy to see why. This December make plans to come out and “Be the Thunder” as the Bolts take on the Bruins, the Avalanche, the Rangers, the Maple Leafs, the Flyers and the Canadiens. www.nhl.com/lightning

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December 7 BARRY MANILOW AT AMALIE ARENA What’s better than Christmas? A Very Barry Christmas! Barry will be returning to Florida for an unforgettable performance at the Amalie Arena. The Multi-Award winning singer-songwriter has a career that has spanned more than 50 years. He has had 50 top 40 hits and has sold 85 million albums world-wide. Don’t miss this special night of hits, heart, & hope with one of the most successful adult contemporary singers ever. Presented by Ruth Eckerd Hall on the Road.

This year, Tampa Theatre will be collecting canned and imperishable food for Metropolitan Ministries during the 2018 Holiday Classics. www.tampatheatre.org December 9 THE WIZARD OF OZ LIVE AT RUTH ECKERD HALL There truly is no place like home as the greatest family musical of all time, the wonderful Wizard of Oz, twists its way back to Ruth Eckerd Hall! The entire family will be captivated as they travel down the Yellow Brick Road and beyond with Dorothy, Toto and their friends the Cowardly Lion, Tin Man and Scarecrow in this lavish production, featuring breathtaking special effects, dazzling choreography, and classic songs. www.rutheckerdhall.com

www.amaliearena.com December 8, 9, 14 - 20 & 23 HOLIDAY CLASSICS: ELF, IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE & WHITE CHRISTMAS At the close of every year, Tampa’s merriest movie palace presents a selection of holiday movies to ring in the yuletide, celebrate that chill in the air, and bring families and loved ones together in one of Tampa Bay’s fondest holiday traditions.

December 10 MICHAEL W. SMITH CHRISTMAS Multi-GRAMMY® award winning artist Michael W. Smith returns to Clearwater with an evening of Christmas joy for his Capitol Theatre debut with very special guest Melinda Doolittle. The multiPlatinum artist, best-selling author and acclaimed actor has been honored with three GRAMMY® Awards, 45 Dove Awards, an American Music Award, has sold more than 15 million albums, and performs around the world to sold-out crowds of loyal and inspired fans. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 11 HOLIDAY MUSIC CONCERT BY THE PATEL CONSERVATORY Celebrate the sounds of the season during this joyful annual concert in Ferguson Hall. The evening features the Patel Conservatory’s seven Vocal Arts choral ensembles, Suzuki students, chamber ensembles and Ovation! performance group, performing favorite holiday tunes both classic and contemporary. A singalong finale rounds out this not-to-bemissed evening of holiday cheer. www.strazcenter.org

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December 12 A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS LIVE

Everyone’s favorite holiday classic comes to life in the all-new touring production A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS LIVE ON STAGE! Join Charlie Brown, Snoopy, Lucy, Linus and the whole Peanuts gang as they put on their own Christmas play and ultimately discover the true meaning of the season. A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS LIVE ON STAGE is a present the whole family can enjoy. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 12 HOMESCHOOL SCIENCE EXPERIENCE ENRICHMENT DAYS AT MOSI Living in Florida means warm weather, beautiful sunsets, and Hurricanes! Learn about the atmospheric conditions that can cause severe thunderstorms and tornadoes. Understand what high and low pressure actually mean and how it applies to forecasting the weather. Create a rainbow and learn about their actual shape. We don’t get a lot of snow but make your own snowball and discover why it rarely snows in Florida. www.mosi.org December 14 FOR KING & COUNTRY CHRISTMAS WITH ZACH WILLIAMS Two-time GRAMMY Award winners for KING & COUNTRY will visit Amalie Arena in December with their Christmas tour extravaganza Little Drummer Boy. The Christmas Tour, presented by Compassion, is described by the band as, “It’s family, it’s hope, it’s God - and in turn, it’s the greatest celebration the world has ever known.” www.amaliearena.com December 14 & 16 TFO: HOLIDAY POPS AT RUTH ECKERD HALL Pure holiday magic you can’t buy at the mall, featuring the velvet voice of American Idol star and St. Pete native Michael Lynche. A perfect gift for the whole family. www.floridaorchestra.org December 16 KENNY G - THE MIRACLES HOLIDAY & HITS TOUR GRAMMY® award-winning American December 2018 • 43

adult contemporary and smooth jazz saxophonist Kenny G returns to Ruth Eckerd Hall for a night of Holiday & Hits! Kenny G has grafted elements of R&B, pop and Latin to a jazz foundation solidifying his reputation as the premier artist in contemporary jazz. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 16 TRANS-SIBERIAN ORCHESTRA PRESENTS THE GHOSTS OF CHRISTMAS EVE The Trans-Siberian Orchestra’s highlyanticipated Winter Tour 2018 is returning to Tampa. TSO’s annual multi-sensory extravaganza has cemented the group’s status as a must-attend, multi-generational, holiday tradition. This year’s twentieth anniversary tour is a presentation of “The Ghosts of Christmas Eve,” featuring founder/composer/lyricist Paul O’Neill’s timeless story of a runaway who finds her way into a mysterious abandoned theater. www.amaliearena.com December 19 - 23 CIRQUE DU SOLEIL PRESENTS “CRYSTAL” Cirque du Soleil returns to the Tampa area with Cirque du Soleil’s CRYSTAL. This unique arena production showcases synchronized and freestyle ice skating alongside circus disciplines such as swinging trapeze, hand balancing on chairs and hand to hand. www.amaliearena.com December 20 A CHRISTMAS CAROL

“A Christmas Carol” returns to Ruth Eckerd Hall! This celebrated Charles Jones adaptation of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol is rich with thrilling ensemble music, alive with color and movement and is created to tell this great and enduring tale in a manner that people of all ages will enjoy. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 22 - 23 THE SOUND OF MUSIC THE HILLS ARE ALIVE! A brand new 44 • December 2018

production of THE SOUND OF MUSIC is coming to Ruth Eckerd Hall. The beloved musical story of Maria and the von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences with its Tony, GRAMMY and Academy Award winning Best Score, including “My Favorite Things,” “Edelweiss” and the title song. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 26 - 31 SNOW DAYS AT THE FLORIDA AQUARIUM

filled with music, interactive art exhibits, dance, literary works, crafting and more. First Night St Pete is a collaboration between local venues and performers in and around downtown The annual Fireworks will take place at 8:00 p.m. and midnight. www.firstnightstpete.com December 31 NEW YEAR’S CELEBRATION AT BUSCH GARDENS Join Busch Gardens for an awesome New Year’s Eve celebration on Dec. 31! Enjoy thrill rides in the dark, like Busch Garden’s newest family spin-coaster Cobra’s Curse, North America’s tallest freestanding drop tower, Falcon’s Fury, or Florida’s first triple-launch coaster, Cheetah Hunt. Jam out to music throughout the park and ring in the new year with a park-wide countdown and spectacular fireworks show in Gwazi Park. And with the park open until 1 a.m., you can make the first hour in 2019 a thrilling one! www.buschgardens.com

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Continue the holiday celebration at the Aquarium and have a flurry of fun in a real snow play area for kids. After you’re done, head inside for an Aquarium experience. Access to the Aquarium’s snow play area is included with general admission. www.flaquarium.org December 29 TERRY FACTOR THE VOICE OF ENTERTAINMENT America’s Got Talent Season 2 winner, world famous singer, comedian, impressionist and ventriloquist, Terry Fator brings his unique brand of entertainment that combines singing, comedy and unparalleled celebrity impressions to Clearwater for his Ruth Eckerd Hall debut. www.rutheckerdhall.com December 31 OUTBACK BOWL NEW YEAR’S EVE PARADE Eclectic Ybor City is the site of this festive celebration featuring the Outback Bowl New Year’s Eve Parade and a pep rally. The parade will feature floats and about fifteen marching bands including the two college bands! The Pep Rally features a battle of the bands and cheerleaders from both universities. This family friendly event is FREE. www.outbackbowl.com December 31 FIRST NIGHT ST. PETERSBURG First Night St Petersburg is the largest family friendly New Year’s Eve Celebration of the Arts in Florida with over 10 performance venues that are cheerfully Say you saw it in the Gulf Coast Family Newspaper

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Harlem Globetrotters Yuengling Center, Tampa www.yuenglingcenter.com

Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party Walt Disney World Magic Kingdom disneyworld.disney.go.com

St. Pete Beach Boat Parade www.spbrec.com

The Boat Parade Viewing Party includes music, art projects for children, and a special visit from SANTA!

The Florida Orchestra: Holiday Pops Straz Center www.floridaorchestra.org

Have a jolly good time with the whole family at this popular Florida Orchestra tradition, filled with the joy of your favorite yuletide carols.

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Winter Village at Curtis Hixon Park Curtis Hixon Park www.wintervillagetampa.com

The world famous Harlem Globetrotters, featuring some of the most electrifying athletes on the planet, will bring their spectacular show to Tampa during their 2018 Fan Powered World Tour.

ICE! featuring A Christmas Story Gaylord Palms Resort Orlando www.gaylordpalms.com

Journey through more than TWO MILLION pounds of hand-carved ice sculptures and two-story-tall ice slides.

Christmas in the Wild Zoo Tampa www.zootampa.org

Enjoy a merry and memorable evening with this unique, but traditional holiday event in the special setting of the Zoo at night.

Ruth Eckerd Hall December 22 & 23 www.rutheckerdhall.com

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The Tampa Bay Lightning host the Montreal Canadiens at Amalie Arena. Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park is transformed with the sights, sounds and activities of the holidays for children and adults of all ages. www.gulfcoastfamily.org

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The Best Christmas Pageant Ever Patel Conservatory – Straz Center www.strazcenter.org Students in grades 2 through 12 take on the roles of the Herdman kids – the “worst kids in the history of the world” – as they take over the annual Christmas pageant.

Christmas Town Busch Gardens Tampa buschgardens.com Christmas Town transforms Busch Gardens® Tampa into a holiday wonderland of wintery surprises and all things Christmas on select nights.

Trans-Siberian Orchestra: The Ghosts of Christmas Eve Amalie Arena www.trans-siberian.com

Next Generation Ballet’s Nutcracker Straz Center www.strazcenter.org

A glittering, star-studded Tampa holiday tradition! Enter the fantastical world of dancing sweets, sword-fighting rodents and some of ballet’s most famous music

Outback Bowl Beach Day Hilton Clearwater Beach / Pier 60 www.outbackbowl.com

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