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FEBRUARY 2015

INSIDE Vol.22 Number 2

Hunter's Hope TAKING ACTION TO EXPAND NEWBORN SCREENINGS

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Bringing Up Baby BUDGETING TIPS FOR PARENTS

36 | CALENDAR OF EVENTS • Trivial Pursuit: A 50 State Adventure •F amily-Friendly Events 46 | FIVE PLACES Honoring Black History Month

this month's contributors JOHN BOCCACINO is monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He reported on sports and local news for more than 6 1/2 years with the Democrat and Chronicle newspaper. He

TEACHING YOUR BABY TO SWIM

HOST THE PERFECT PARTY

Small Swimmers

Birthday Bash

on the cover THE BABY ISSUE

153 Things to Do This Month Hunter's Hope Birthday Bash - How to Host the Perfect Party Budgeting for Baby Teaching Your Baby to Swim A New Mom's Guide to Nursing in Public

is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. Boccacino is a Brighton native who currently resides in Webster. [Page12 & 20] KAREN HIGMAN is a Rochester-based freelance writer and a consultant to local non-profit agencies. [Page 16]

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DENISE YEARIAN is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children. [Page 24] DEENA VIVIANI is a Rochester-based Young Adult Services Librarian who writes reviews for VOYA and the RACWI Newsletter. [Page 26]

ALYSSA CHIRCO is a freelance journalist and mother of two. When her children were babies, she nursed them in restaurants, on airplanes and even at the beach. [Page 32]

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EDITOR'S NOTE

By Jillian Melnyk

when you have hope

I WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND? Email our Publisher, Barbara: mail@GVParent.com Email our Editor, Jillian: editor@GVParent.com

n the September 2007 issue of our magazine we first introduced you to Hunter Kelly and his amazing parents, Jim and Jill. It was in that issue that we featured Hunter's Hope and the work that the Kelly family was doing to promote newborn screenings.

Staff PUBLISHER Barbara Melnyk mail@GVParent.com EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jillian Melnyk editor@GVParent.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Ken Stevens CREATIVE DIRECTOR Jillian Melnyk graphics@GVParent.com CALENDAR EDITOR calendar@GVParent.com DISTRIBUTION MANAGER Sandy Citarella

Seven and a half years later, the organization has made immense strides in expanding screenings for infants in numerous states. We're proud to bring you an update to their story and share the incredible work they have accomplished in supporting health for families and children both in our community and across the country. Their work and story are a lesson for us all – with hope, perseverance, and love, you can do great things and make a difference.

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BUZZWORTHY IN TOWN

ROCHESTER MUSEUM & SCIENCE CENTER EXCEEDS GOAL FOR COMMUNITY SCIENCE CHALLENGE

This year's "RMSC Community Science Challenge" campaign, created in 2013 by Rochester Museum & Science Center (RMSC) to raise funds for its many hands-on programs and exhibits, has exceeded its goal. The RMSC raised a total of $82,246. Community support helps the RMSC to give back to Rochester community members in several ways. The RMSC: • Engages 375,000 visitors annually in science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) with more than 200 hands-on exhibits. • Serves 12,000 low-income families and individuals with disabilities annually by providing free admission. • Prepares 10 to 15 at-risk youths each year for workforce readiness. • Inspires more than 2,500 children through interactive science in its annual Summer Fun camps.

SENECA PARK ZOO WELCOMES RING-TAILED LEMURS Seneca Park Zoo has added two ringtailed lemurs to their animal collection. The pair — a 6-year-old male named Bradigan from Indianapolis Zoo, and Selma, a 4-year-old female from the Bramble Park Zoo — reside in the Zoo’s first Madagascar-themed, mixed-species exhibit. Radiated tortoises coexist with them in this forest habitat in the Zoo’s Main Building. The Zoo’s new exhibit simulates the animal’s habitat while giving staff the opportunity to educate visitors on the plight these animals face in their natural range.

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BALLOON MANOR IS BACK

Rochester’s Larry Moss and Kelly Cheatle of AirigamiTM (“the fine art of folding air”) are constructing their sixth Balloon Manor: The Amazing Air-Filled Undersea Adventure this month. The five-story sculpture made from more than 40,000 balloons will fill the site of last year’s Manor, The VERY Tall Tale of Jack and his Beanstalk, in the downtown Sibley Building atrium. Rochester’s Center for Disability Rights, Inc. will also have a presence at this year’s Manor, which – like all previous Manors – is fully accessible. Finally, the Manor will go out with a bang on Sunday, March 8 from 3 – 6 p.m. with its very popular Popping Party. In addition to balloon-popping fun, there will be refreshments (including popcorn and soda pop, of course), handson balloon activities, and prize coupons hidden within balloons.

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WORDS JOHN BOCCACINO

hunter's hope TAKING ACTION TO EXPAND NEWBORN SCREENINGS

hen Hunter Kelly came into this world on February 14, 1997, his arrival was a joyous occasion for his parents, Buffalo Bills Hall of Fame quarterback Jim Kelly and his wife, Jill. The timing was particularly significant for the Kelly family: Hunter was born on the same day as his father, who had retired from the National Football League after the 1996 season with a rich and decorated career that featured an unprecedented four straight trips to the Super Bowl.

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Kelly was the first (and still only) on the organization’s website (www. quarterback to start in four huntershope.org). straight Super Bowls. But At the time of Hunter’s little did the Kellys know birth, a diagnosis of Krabbe Hunter’s Hope how much their world disease was akin to receivis about a legacy of would change with ing a death sentence, says hope. His life, and, the arrival of Hunter Jacque Waggoner, the ultimately, his death, Kelly. Hunter was Chief Executive Officer has provided hope for diagnosed with Krabof Hunter’s Hope and children and their parbe Leukodystrophy, the mother of Jill Kelly. a rare neurological Families who had a ents through improved disorder so obscure child diagnosed with newborn screenings that many medical Krabbe diesease had “no for diseases." journals failed to even hope because there was no – JILL KELLY list it among childhood disknown cure. There was this orders when Hunter was first attitude that you take home your diagnosed. Hunter lived to be 8 child and watch him die,” Waggoner 1/2 years old — far exceeding the average adds. “The outlook was often doom and gloom, life expectancy of a child living with Krabbe and there wasn’t a lot of research being done. disease. Since then, the medical community has Because of Jim’s celebrity, we were able to open seen solid strides made in the fight against the doors that others were not able to open. We disease. were in a position to use that influence to help But there is still no cure. Roughly one in this desperate community that was searching for 100,000 children suffer from Krabbe disease, a a cure for their loved ones. We brought life to degenerative disorder of the central and periph- this fight. A child may have a terminal disease, eral nervous systems. The disease greatly affects but is living and needs to be cared for as such.” development of myelin sheath, a fatty covering The hope started with expanding the numthat protects the brain's nerve fibers. Many ber of diseases screened for by hospitals before a children diagnosed with Krabbe disease are not newborn is allowed to leave with his family. At expected to live past their first birthday, and the time of Hunter’s diagnosis, New York was the average life expectancy (at the time) was 14 testing for only eleven diseases while Pennsylmonths. Hunter’s prognosis was slightly better, vania (Kelly's home state) required testing for but his parents were told, best-case scenario, only four diseases. Thanks to the tireless efforts their first-born wouldn’t survive past his second of the Kellys, and of Hunter’s Hope, those birthday. numbers have spiked dramatically in the years That didn’t deter the Kellys. With several following Hunter’s passing. New York now goals in mind, the couple formed Hunter’s tests for 40 diseases, Pennsylvania for 29. New Hope in 1997, and now, 18 years later, the York first started testing for Krabbe disease in outlook for Krabbe disease patients is not nearly 2006. However, only New York and Missouri as bleak as it was when Hunter was born. screen for Krabbe disease when a child is born. Jill Kelly says Hunter’s Hope was formed Four other states, Illinois, New Jersey, New with the primary goal of saving as many chilMexico and Pennsylvania have passed legisdren’s lives as possible from this deadly disease. lation to make testing for Krabbe and other “When we started this organization, we knew Lysosomal Storage Diseases (LSDs) mandatory this wasn’t about Hunter and saving his life; it in the future. According to figures provided by was about saving the lives of future children,” the Wadsworth Center of the New York State says Jill Kelly. “Hunter’s Hope is about a legacy Department of Health, of the 250,000 infants of hope. His life, and, ultimately, his death, has screened annually for Krabbe disease, testresults provided hope for children and their parents have led to the early detection of Krabbe through improved newborn screenings for disease in approximately 50 infants. Hunter’s diseases. It took our greatest pain, the suffering Hope is aggressively working with 20 other and eventual death of our son, for us to really states, trying to get those states to add LSDs to learn the true meaning of being part of somethe list of required newborn screenings. thing bigger than ourselves.” Both Waggoner and Kelly say that when The organization also aims to: “ensure their efforts began, they were focused only on early detection through newborn screening of saving future families from having to go through all possible diseases; to advocate for improved the same heartbreaking fate they endured when newborn screening standards across the United Hunter passed away August 5, 2005. It was States; to fund research necessary for the only after they started educating themselves on treatment and detection of Krabbe and other the practice of newborn screenings that they Leukodystrophies; and to support affected realized the shortcomings in the testing policies, families through assorted programs,” as stated and how many potentially life-altering diseases

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In 2013, to pay tribute to Hunter’s fight and to honor the hard work and dedication of Hunter’s Hope, Governor Andrew Cuomo declared February 14th (Hunter and Jim Kelly's shared birthday) as Hunter’s Hope Day of Hope and Prayer for children in New York. On the Saturday closest to Februray 14, the organization holds a special event inside the field house at One Bills Drive. This year the 17th Annual Hunter's Hope Day of Hope and Prayer for Children event will fall on Saturday, February 14th from 1-4 pm. There will be free admission, activities, food and drink, entertainment and fun for area children and their families. The foundation also encourages supporters across the country to participate in a virtual Day of Hope and Prayer for Children by sharing their prayers and support through their individual social media pages. For more information on Hunter’s Hope, or to make a donation to the fight, visit www.huntershope.org, or call (716) 667-1200.

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FORMER GOV. TOM CORBETT FROM PA SIGNING HANNAH'S LAW IN LATE 2014. HUNTER'S HOPE WORKED WITH HANNAH'S MOM, VICKI PIZZULO, TO GET THE LAW PASSED WHICH WILL ADD KRABBE AND 5 SIMILAR DISORDERS TO PA'S NEWBORN SCREENING PANEL.

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were being omitted from the list of mandatory When we screenings in each started this organistate. zation, we knew this There is wasn’t about Hunter still no cure for and saving his life; it Krabbe disease, was about saving the but recent advancelives of future ments in the use children." of stem cell transplants have shown – JILL KELLY some success in infants who are treated before the onset of symptoms. This breakthrough provides hope for the Kellys, for Waggoner, and for the members of Hunter’s Hope. “Since 2006, there is not one child that was born in New York that had Krabbe disease and did not have the opportunity to receive treatment, and that is definitely progress,” Waggoner says. “Without the work we’ve been doing at Hunter’s Hope, generation after generation of children will continue to die from these diseases. The outcome for a child with any form of Krabbe disease is not good. They will die without treatment. The earlier the onset of the disease, the earlier they will die. But there is an increased sense of hope for families that go through the newborn screenings.” Waggoner says research in Krabbe disease has advanced to the point that researchers believe a cure for the disease could be found within five years, a sentiment that was “unheard of” when her family originally took up this fight. “The progress we have made in a short amount of time has been amazing, miraculous really,” adds Jill Kelly. “Everything we’ve done has been to honor the memory of Hunter and his brave fight against Krabbe disease. When people come up to us and thank us for the work our organization has done, it leaves us speechless. We see the pain in the parents’ eyes, and we know that pain. We are thankful to be the hope and the help for those families, because we definitely didn’t have that when we were going through Hunter’s fight.” 

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John Boccacino is a freelance writer and monthly contributor to Rochester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. He lives in Webster, NY.

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WORDS KAREN HIGMAN

bringing up

baby BUDGETING TIPS FOR PARENTS

emember when you were planning your wedding and you looked through all those glossy bridal magazines? The beautiful dresses, the stunning rings, the perfect flowers…you couldn’t wait to buy it all. When you're pregnant, you feel the same rush of excitement, only this time you have visions of tiny baby shoes and adorable crib bedding dancing in your head. Before you grab your credit card and hit the stores, take some time to get organized, starting with creating a baby budget.

The $245,000 Child

Each year the U.S. Department of Agriculture releases a report entitled Expenditures on Children and Families, also known as “The Cost of Raising a Child.” In the 2014 report, the experts reveal that a middle-income family with a child born in 2013 can expect to spend about $245,340 ($304,480 adjusted for projected inflation) to raise that child. The costs included in the total are food, housing, childcare, education up to age 18, and other child-rearing expenses. Incredibly, this figure does not include the cost of college. It’s important to note that family income affects child-rearing costs, and the less a family makes, the less it spends on raising a child. The USDA predicts that a family earning less than $61,530 per year can expect to spend a total of $176,550 (current dollars) on a child from birth to age 18. Those households with a combined

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income of $61,530-$106,540 can expect to spend $245,340; and a family earning more than $106,540 can expect to spend $407,820. The numbers also vary by region of the country, with Western New York coming in slightly lower due to our more modest housing costs.

Short Term Budgeting

GIFT IDEAS FOR NEW BABY AND MOM

• Gift cards are great for all the items forgotten on the registry! • Puj® Tub in Soft Infant Bath that fits in any standard bathroom sink and it folds up flat to save space. • Sound apps to download to your phone and/or a sound machine • Bulb syringes are basic but always needed • Ergobaby Carrier • Graco® On-the-Go Travel Pack 'n Play® Playard • Beaba baby food maker and food-related accessories • A cool mist humidifier • Sophie the Giraffe teether • Boppy breastfeeding pillow

Although the cost of raising a child can be daunting, remember that people have been managing it for years, and so can you. It just takes good planning, and the better you budget, the less stressful it will be financially. Short-term you should focus on the most immediate costs, which include prenatal care for Mom and medical expenses associated with pregnancy and delivery. New parents Katie Charboneau and Jaclyn Mellone know all about buying for baby. With recent additions to their households, they have experience with what’s on the market and what products are really essential for today’s parent. This starts with the entire category of strollers and car seats which is now known as a “Travel Stroller System.” Parents can customize their travel systems depending on how many cars the baby will need to ride in and how strollers will be used by those caring for the child. There are compatible infant car seats and car seat adapters, allowing you to attach your infant car seat to the stroller until your baby can sit up on his/her own. “I loved our Peg Perego Primo Viaggio infant car seat, we used it for Eleanor's whole first year” says Jaclyn. “The Baby Jogger Strollers are by far the easiest to use," she adds. "We have the City Elite which is great for outdoors and the City Micro, which folds almost completely flat, but most of my friends find that the City Mini is the perfect hybrid of both. They sell an adapter for most car seats so you can 'click in' while the baby is too little to go in the actual stroller. And having a second base for my husband’s car was key!” When choosing your stroller, consider where you'll be bringing baby on a daily basis and how much travel you expect to do. Both moms agree that investing is an excellent new crib is worth the price, but the rest of the furniture in the baby’s room depends on personal preference. A hand-me-down dresser that belonged to a sibling or someone in the family can add just the right touch of sentimental value without breaking the bank. “A comfortable place to feed your baby, rock or read a book is important,” notes Katie, “but it doesn’t have to be specific baby furniture which comes at a premium price. A regular chair

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The website The Bump (www.thebump.com), the same people that developed the go-to wedding site, The Knot, has crunched the numbers and offers a good starting point for baby budgeting. They estimate that a parent will spend approximately $6,500 on supplies. FORMULA If you aren't breastfeeding, your baby will need formula, and purchasing it costs about $35 a week or $1,820 for the first year. Once you start to introduce food at six months, add another $3-$4 a day which equals $1,095 in Year One. NURSERY SETUP About $2,000 depending on the type of crib, bedding and other furniture chosen. BABY GEAR $425-$2,770, but the sky is the limit so make wise choices for your “must-have” items. Invest in a good stroller, car seat, and playpen or portable crib. Other essentials include a baby monitor, high chair,

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diaper bag, and a baby carrier or sling. DIAPERS & SUPPLIES $1,000 with babies averaging about 75 diapers per week and 320 per month plus wipes, ointment, powder etc. Cloth diapers can save you money if you wash them yourself, but a diaper service costs about the same as disposable diapers. CLOTHING $1,000 with much variation depending on individual preferences. This does not include the cost of Mom’s maternity clothes during the pregnancy. Many Moms are able to reduce this cost with gently used hand-me-downs from family or friends.

might work just as well in the nursery and can be used elsewhere in the house later on.” Remember to spend time considering the gear that will make your daily life easier like an electronic breast pump. Katie had sticker shock when she shopped for this item, but she was pleasantly surprised when she found out that her insurance company would pay the entire cost which was over $200. Katie and Jaclyn gave high marks to “Boppy” which is a breastfeeding pillow. They also recommend a baby monitor with functions that work for modern parents — like connecting right to your smartphones — which adds to the convenience factor. National buybuy BABY spokesperson Jessica Joyce suggests checking out their website which has a helpful Registry Checklist that lets you stay organized and keep track of everything you need and makes it easier for friends and family who want to share in the excitement. The site also has exclusive goodies and savings benefits when setting up a registry, a free in-store goody bag, completion discount for online and in-store, a friends referral reward program, and free registry announcement cards. Beyond material goods, remember to factor costs of child care into your budget. Child care costs are wide ranging, but according to recent research released by the office of N.Y. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand, in the Rochester Finger

Lakes Region, the cost of child care is increasing $633 per year. Currently, the average family spends approximately $9,377 per year for an infant, $8,545 for a toddler and $7,782 for a schoolage child. The cost is higher in Monroe County with an average expenditure of $10,660 for 0-2 year old; $9,516 3-5 year old; $9,204 for age 6-12 year old. Other costs to consider in budgeting should include an increase in including a child on your health insurance plan and perhaps a new or increased life insurance policy.

Long Term Saving

A parent’s biggest long-term concern is usually paying for a college education. There are so many variables associated with this topic that it is difficult to anticipate them all, but don’t avoid starting the savings process just because you are overwhelmed. There are local professionals who can help you understand what savings vehicles are available so consider setting up an appointment with a trusted financial advisor as early as possible to expand your knowledge. Also, New York State has a state-sponsored college savings program called New York 529 which allows families to invest for college-bound beneficiaries on a tax-advantaged basis. Your investments grow tax-deferred for the life of the account, and withdrawals are tax-free when used to pay for qualified expenses. To learn more visit www.nysaves.org  Karen Higman is a Rochester-based freelance writer and a consultant to local non-profit agencies.

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SMALL SWIMMERS TEACHING YOUR BABY TO SWIM

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s Upstate New Yorkers, we're blessed to have a wide variety of recreational water areas at our disposal -- be it swimming at Ontario Beach Park and Hamlin Beach State Park, or taking a boat out for a cruise on Irondequoit Bay or Lake Ontario. But enjoying time on the water is not all fun and games. Water safety is an extremely important and area experts say getting your children acclimated to the water at an early age is key in teaching them the importance of being safe in the water. That’s where swimming lessons for babies comes into play.

The development of these muscles The Jewish Community Center, the YMCA, and Pencan help aid in a baby’s abilfield Sport & Fitness are ity to walk at an early age while also fostering better among area organizaThe earlier hand-eye coordination tions that are helping you can get children and more finely-tuned more and more into the water, the youngsters feel safe motor skills. The assosafer they will be in the pool while ciated movements that when it comes to come from swimming learning a valuable water safety." also strengthen the balifelong lesson: – GAIL BUCKNER, by’s heart and lungs. how to swim. “The AQUATICS DIRECTOR Buckner says lessons earlier you can get AT PENFIELD SPORT start for children as young children into the water, & FITNESS the safer they will be when as six months old, and focus on supervised water activities such as it comes to water safety,” says how to safely enter and exit a pool, learning Gail Buckner, the aquatics director at Penfield Sport & Fitness. “A lot of programs to kick and and the use of arms, floating on don’t focus on teaching swimming to babies, one's back, and rolling over in the water. but our philosophy behind all of our lessons Maintaining a small student to staff ratio of is that children learn by repetition, and no 4 to 1, parents are encouraged to take an one goes into a lesson they’re not ready for. active role in the day’s lessons. Buckner says she and her staffers also We teach according to their ability, and not work on effective communication when according to their age.” near the water. For example, before jumpBut that’s not the only benefit babies ing into the pool for the first time during will receive from learning to swim at an early age. A baby’s physical strength is culti- any lesson, the children count to three. After the students enter the water, vated through muscle development, as early they make their way back to the wall, which swimming allows the baby to use muscles Buckner says plays an that cannot yet be used while on dry land. CONTINUED >>>

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GO SWIMMING! PENFIELD SPORT & FITNESS

Thirty-minute classes are offered weekly, and the cost varies between $12 and $15 per class, depending on if the family belongs to Penfield Sport & Fitness. For more information or to enroll in a class, call (585) 586-7777, email gail@penfieldfitness. com, or visit www.PenfieldFitness.com.

JCC

For more information on the JCC’s Parent and Tot classes, call (585) 461-2000 ext. 289, or visit https://jccrochester. org/programs-services/bytype/pool.

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important role in a child’s confidence in the pool. Once the babies realize the wall is always there for them, they should feel safer learning to swim. “We do limit the number of times where the baby will go under water. Kids at that age appear as if they have no fear, and they’re very comfortable in the water,” Buckner says.“We will teach the parents to teach their children to be safe in the water. As the child is learning a skill, his parent is doing that skill with him as he goes up and down the pool. It’s all about continuation and building upon their skills as the babies get more and more comfortable in the pool.” At the JCC, there are two levels of instruction offered to parents and their babies. The Parent and Tot classes are for babies ages 10 months to 2 years, while the Advanced Parent and Tot classes are catered towards children ages 2 to 4 years. Hanna Bergwall, assistant aquatics director for the JCC, says the 30-minute classes begin with an upbeat song such as “If You’re Happy and You Know it,” and “The Wheels on the Bus” before transitioning into fun games that advance the child’s swimming education while providing a fun learning atmosphere. One of the first lessons taught to both the babies and their parents is the importance of the prone position, where a swimmer is flat on her belly, arms extended, with her face close to the water. This serves as the primary swimming motion for many of the swimming strokes that

children will learn during their swimming careers. Through the use of water toys, Bergwall and the aquatics staff encourage the babies to “learn to scoop their hands through the water and extend their arms in front of them,” the same motions they would use to swim up and down the lanes of the pool. By breaking down the skills needed to be successful in the pool, Bergwall says that children are more prone to remember that day’s lesson, and will have a broader skill base to build upon as they continue to develop as swimmers. “When we do jumps into the pool, we encourage the kids to immediately grab onto the wall,” says Bergwall, who estimates that 300 children and parents take a swim class each quarter. “When we end our classes in the kiddie pool, the focus is on independent movement (with or without floatation devices, depending on the age group). The consistent messages that parents take away from the classes are the different ways to hold a child in the water to encourage correct body positions and how to make a child feel safe and secure in the water while still pushing him to explore and try new things.”  John Boccacino is a freelance writer and monthly contributor to Rochester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. He lives in Webster, NY.

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BIRTHDAY BASH HOW TO HOST THE PERFECT CELEBRATION

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irthdays are milestones that mark another year of growing, another year of change. But for many parents, these milestones are more like millstones when deciding how to celebrate their child's birthday. But it doesn't have to be. Today parents have many options to choose from: entertainers who come into the home, local facilities that offer a variety of packages and a plethora of do-it-yourself books and websites for the brave at heart. In fact, the biggest decision parents have to make is where to have the party and what the theme will be.

Several weeks before his birthday, ask your child how he would like to celebrate his big day. Tell him what the options are based on your time, budget, and preferences. Brainstorm together and consider his interests and hobbies. Can the party be centered on one of these? Whether you have the party at home or in a facility, you can incorporate something that lets a part of your child's personality shine.

AT-HOME PARTIES

One way to theme a party after your child's interest is to have the event at home. Should you decide to choose this route, you'll have two options: do it yourself or hire outside help. If you have time and desire to give the party yourself, the possibilities are unlimited.

Theme & Guest List After deciding upon a theme, make a guest list. The recommended number of children will depend upon whether the party will be held inside or outdoors. If the weather is nice and you'd like to have the party outside, you could easily invite 15 guests. However, if the party is indoors, it's best to keep to no more than ten children. Another way to determine how many children to invite is to consider the birthday child's age. Some experts recommend using a formula where the number of guests coming is equal to one to one-and-a-half times the child's age. For example, a 4-year old's party would have four to six friends; and 8-yearold's would have eight to twelve guests. Whatever number you choose, keep it manageable.

Timing Unless the party is a sleep-over, keep it to two or three hours (one-and-a-half hours for children 4 years and younger). Make a list of activities you are planning and the approximate length of time each one will take. Remember that a well-planned party allows for both quiet activities and active play. Guests should be given time to warm up to the setting, release energy during the party, and calm down before heading home. Since the children will be arriving at slightly different times, plan a simple but flexible activity to keep them busy and free you up to welcome other arriving guests.

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Games & Activities When selecting games, consider the number of children, their ages, and whether the games will be held inside or outdoors. Choose ones that are easy to explain, fun to play, and will involve all the children. Cooperative games are best because they take the spotlight off any one child and focus on the team as a whole. Whatever activities you choose, remain flexible. If the children aren't enjoying themselves, stop, and move on to something else. And always plan more activities than you need.

Food & Snacks When serving food, stick with kid-friendly basics—sandwiches, pizza, veggie strips and pretzels. If you want to spruce it up cut the sandwiches into interesting shapes, or turn the pizza into a clown face with pepperoni eyes, a cherry tomato nose and a strip of green pepper for the mouth. The cake can be special, too. Consider allowing each child to ice and decorate hir or her own cupcake.

Decor Simple decorations go a long way too. A few helium balloons and crepe paper can make any room look festive. Choose party

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favors that are fun, but inexpensive such as a toy related to the theme of the party or a bag filled with a blend of fun-to-eat but healthy treats. For those wishing to spend a bit more, an activity, such as painting t-shirts or planting flowers in pots, is fun. The idea here is to be flexible, creative, and still stay within your budget. What is the party theme? Is there an activity or item you can purchase that will reflect that theme?

Ask for Help! If you are giving the party by yourself, get help on the big day. An extra pair of hands (or two or three!) is essential no matter what age the children are. As you prepare a guest list, ask a few close friends or relatives to come and help. If there are no willing volunteers, hire a teen. Chances are she needs the money and would enjoy the event.

PARTY ENTERTAINERS

If you want to have the party at home, but have little time or energy to plan it, consider hiring a party entertainer to help with the details. Ask friends and relatives who they have used. Were they happy with the services they received? At the same

time, check local resources or contact a party retail center in your area and ask for referrals. Once you have a few names, call the organization and ask the following: •W hat services do you offer? •W hat ages do you typically cater to? •C an the party be tailored to a particular theme? •W hat exactly do you take care of (games, activities, refreshments, cake, invitations, decorations, party favors)? • How long do the parties run? • How much do you charge? • What am I expected to do?

Finally, ask for references. Can the entertainer give you several names of people who have used his services recently and could vouch for him? Since entertainers are often called upon for special library, festival, and fund-raising events, ask if there are any upcoming appearances where you could CONTINUED >>>

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watch them perform. If so, bring your child so he or she can get a feel for the entertainment you are thinking about.

A FACILITY

If you'd like to give your child a memorable birthday celebration but don't want to have it at home, there are plenty of establishments you can go to. Local businesses that offer packaged events may cost a bit more, but the benefits are well worth it – no set up, clean up, or activities to plan. Choose a location based on your child’s interest. Ask friends and relatives where they have gone in the past. Because every establishment's offering is a bit different, call and get specifics: • How long do the parties run? • What activities are included? • What about food and refreshments? • Are there free refills on soda or juice? • Is the cake supplied? • How many children are required (minimum and maximum)? • Is there a host or hostess that does the work (or do you!)? • What is the cost? • Is a deposit required?

Before making the final decision, stop by the facility and see a party underway. How smoothly is it run? Is the facility safe? Is it clean? Are the bathrooms easily accessible? Are the guests enjoying themselves? Is the host or hostess friendly and good with kids? Do the guests have plenty of time to enjoy the activities, or are they rushed from one event to another? What about the food, does it look appealing? By taking the time to stop by, you'll learn a lot more about this place than if you just make a phone call. Above all, remember that because your child's birthday comes only once a year, it deserves recognition. Whatever you choose, make it special. You are, after all, celebrating another year of growth, another year of change.  Denise Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

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BOOK NOOK

By Deena Viviani

forever families

elcoming a new baby or child into a home is an exciting time! Celebrate families of all shapes and sizes with these books featuring adopted children.

MORE READS

Read on for some tried and true picture books on adoption: And Tango Makes Three Written by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell & Illustrated by Henry Cole Bringing Asha Home By Uma Krishnaswami I Love You Like Crazy Cakes Written by Rose A. Lewis & Illustrated by Jane Dyer Mommy Far, Mommy Near Written by Carol Antoinette Peacock & Illustrated by Shawn Brownell My Mei Mei By Ed Young Over the Moon By Karen Katz Sisters By Judith Caseley Star of the Week Written by Darlene Friedman & Illustrated by Roger Roth Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born Written by Jamie Lee Curtis & Illustrated by Laura Cornell Ten Days and Nine Nights By Yumi Heo Waiting for May By Janet Morgan Stoeke We Belong Together By Todd Parr

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I'm Adopted!

By Shelley Rotner and Sheila M. Kelly Holiday House, 2011, hardcover, $16.95, Ages 3-6 Happy kids across the globe proudly tell readers, “I’m adopted!” The authors touch on reasons children leave their birth parents and find their forever families. Photographs show that while adopted children may not look like their mom or dad, they still enjoy the same things as other families. A picture book full of love and life.

A Thirst for Home: A Story of Water Across the World Written by Christine Leronimo & Illustrated by Eric Velasquez Walker, 2014, hardcover, $17.99, Ages 5-8 Why would a girl’s mother send her from Ethiopia to America to start a new life? So she can live where water isn’t scarce and she can thrive. This thoughtful picture book portrays an ultimate parental sacrifice through emotive illustrations. The global story is based on the author’s own family and rings tender and true.

The Year of the Fortune Cookie

Written by Andrea Cheng & Illustrated by Patrice Barton Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2014, hardcover, $15.99, Ages 8-12

Anna Cheng loves her adopted baby sister and is excited to travel to Beijing when her teacher goes to adopt a girl of her own! Will Anna overcome her homesickness and learn about the city where her mother and sister were born? With sweet illustrations and a smart main character, this sequel to The Year of the Baby is pitch perfect.

Half a World Away

By By Cynthia Kadohata Atheneum, 2014, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 10-14 At age eight, Jaden was adopted from Romania and had trouble adjusting to America. Now at age twelve, he accompanies his parents to Kazakhstan to adopt a baby. There he bonds with a toddler who he feels that he could love. This emotional novel about family and

the process of international adoption is beautifully written. Tears may flow by the end.

Counting By 7s

By Holly Goldberg Sloan Dial, 2013, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 10-14 Family is who you make it. This is what Willow learns after her adoptive parents are killed in a car crash and she is taken in by an unexpected cast of friends. The multiple points-of-view in this middle grade novel give the characters depth, and the ending is what the reader hopes for. A solid read with an unique, lovable main character.

The Bridge From Me to You By Lisa Schroeder Scholastic Point, 2014,

hardcover, $17.99, Ages 12-18 After her mother kicks her out of their home, Lauren moves to a small town to stay with her aunt, uncle, and cousins. There she meets Colby, a football star who dreams of something more after high school. Each character is bound by love for their families and plans for their futures. A sweet romance that will make readers think about the definition of family.

Year of Mistaken Discoveries

By Eileen Cook Simon Pulse, 2014, hardcover, $17.99, Ages 14-18 Nora’s quest is to find her birth mother. Avery’s is not. But after Nora dies, Avery decides to complete her former friend’s mission with the hope that she’ll gain insight into who she is. This young adult novel delves into suicide and adoption in an accessible way. Teen readers will enjoy the friendships and drama.  DEENA VIVIANI is a Rochester-based Young Adult Services Librarian. Read more reviews on her blog www.deenaml.livejournal.com or send her a note at DeenaViviani@hotmail.com – she loves to hear from readers!

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MODERN MOM

A New Mom’s Guide to Nursing in Public

ou survived childbirth and learned the art of a successful latch, but if you have decided to breastfeed your baby, there is one final frontier you will need to conquer: the art of nursing in public. “Breastfed babies, especially newborns, nurse frequently,” says Holly Robinson, a Registered Nurse and International Board Certified Lactation Consultant. “No matter how well you plan, eventually you are going to find yourself out of the house with a hungry baby, so it’s important to be prepared.”

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends exclusive breastfeeding for about the first six months, and continued breastfeeding -- along with the introduction of complimentary solids – for one year or more. While not every mother chooses to breastfeed, those who do are likely to breastfeed longer and enjoy the experience more by learning to nurse in public with confidence and ease.

Practice Makes Perfect For many new moms, breastfeeding presents enough of a challenge in the comfort of your own living room, so the thought of nursing in public -- where other people might see you – can be terrifying. To boost your confidence, practice in front of a mirror so you can catch a glimpse of what others will (and will not) be able to see. When you are ready to venture out of the house for the first time, consider attending a local breastfeeding support group or grabbing coffee with a supportive

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ON THE GO IN ROCHESTER

On the go and looking for a private place to nurse? These area locations have dedicated spots for nursing. Visit us online at www.rocparent.com where we'll be sharing more local places that offer private nursing stations.

THE STRONG

The Strong welcomes breastfeeding mothers wherever they are comfortable. The museum also offers two private Guest Rests — which are quiet, out-of-the-way spaces for any guests to take a break (including to breastfeed).

EASTVIEW MALL

Eastview Mall has a Mothercare room located off the Food Court by the family restroom, across from customer service. It is password protected (moms can get the code from Security or Customer Service). The room also has electric outlets so if a mother needs to pump in there she can. Von Maur also has a special area for moms to breastfeed upstairs in the women’s lounge area.

ROCHESTER MUSEUM & SCIENCE CENTER

While RMSC doesn't have specified areas for breastfeeding, the museum notes that they have seen mothers sit in a quiet alcove, tuck away into a ladies room or family restroom, or breastfeed discreetly through the museum.

friend. “I started small – going to the same coffee shop every day – for practice,” says breastfeeding mom Rhianna Mathias. “It was a shop I’d patronized a lot before baby, so I was familiar with the staff and felt comfortable there. Nursing in a group setting (for us a mom’s group in the early days) was also a comfortable place to practice and gain confidence.”

Find Your Comfort Zone Some mothers feel totally at ease lifting their shirts to nourish their newborns, no matter where they happen to be. Others prefer a bit more privacy. No matter what your personal preference, be prepared when you head out in public by scoping out the setting as soon as you arrive. Look for a comfortable chair or bench where you will be able to sit and nurse when baby gets hungry. If you are dining out and prefer to breastfeed discreetly, ask for a corner booth or table so you can sit with your back to other patrons. Many shopping centers and

museums also offer private nursing stations as a courtesy to breastfeeding mothers. “I found that corners were my friends because I could simply turn a bit to get her started,” says Melissa McAlpine of her experience nursing her daughter in public. “After the baby is latched on, there’s not really anything to see, so I could swivel back.”

Dress for Success The right clothes and accessories make all the difference when you’re out in public and baby decides it is time for a meal. Wear a stretchy sports bra that can be pulled aside as needed, or learn how to unhook and lower the cups of your nursing bra with one hand. Many breastfeeding mothers like to pair a specially designed nursing tank top with a cardigan or loose blouse, since the top can be lifted up while the tank still covers your middle (where many of us have stretch marks we would prefer to keep hidden). Other mothers prefer to simply unbutton a few top Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • February 2015

buttons. A fussy baby is what draws attention, so wear clothes that make it easy to get baby latched on quickly. A few key accessories can also make nursing in public easier. Learn how to nurse while carrying baby in a sling or baby carrier. Try wearing a fashionable scarf or poncho that can double as a cover when baby is breastfeeding. Mom of two Melody Meiners is a fan of nursing covers, specifically the kind that have weights in one side or that tie around your neck and tent up. “It makes switching sides so much easier if you prefer to stay covered,” she says.

Know Your Rights Keep in mind that, when it comes to nursing in public, the law is on your side. According to a database maintained by the National Conference of State Legislatures, forty-six states (which includes New York) have laws that specifically allow women to breastfeed in any public or private location. Twenty-nine states (including New York) exempt breastfeeding from public indecency laws. Also be aware that, sensationalized news stories aside, most people genuinely support your right to nurse in public, and mothers do it every day. “I never had any rude comments in ten years of nursing, only supportive ones,” says breastfeeding veteran and mom of four Jennifer Heffern. Martine Samocha, who also breastfed four children, adds that “even though you think everyone is watching you, you are mostly being ignored.”

Fake It ‘Til You Make It If you are feeling nervous about breastfeeding your baby in public, you are not alone. “The first few times can seem uncomfortable,” admits mom of two Tammie Egloff, “but it gets easier.” You will gain confidence gradually, so in the early days and weeks, smile politely at passers-by and rest assured that the more you nurse in public, the less self-conscious you will become. “Eventually,” says Robinson, “you will appreciate the freedom that comes with knowing that, no matter where you are, you always have the perfect food ready to feed your baby.”  Alyssa Chirco is a freelance journalist and mother of two. When her children were babies, she nursed them in restaurants, on airplanes and even at the beach.

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CALENDAR

FEBRUARY EVENTS

Activities • Exhibits • Theater • Storytelling • Shows • Family Fun • Outdoor Adventures Parenting Programs • and lots more for families to do in & around Rochester!

TRIVIAL PURSUIT

A 50-STATE ADVENTURE / FEBRUARY 14 – MAY 10 WHERE National Museum of Play at The Strong One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607 263-2700 COST Admission to The Strong $13.50 Age 2 and older Free for members and children under 2 WHEN Exhibit runs from February 14-May 10 HOURS Monday–Thursday: 10am–5pm; Friday & Saturday: 10am-8pm; Sunday: 12pm–5pm MORE INFO www.museumofplay.org

xplore the culture and history of the United States through dozens of interactive stations at Trivial Pursuit®: A 50-State Adventure. You and your kids will be able to travel from coast to coast learning about the historical sites and iconic tourist destinations that make this country special. Visit popular recreation 36

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and sports venues through hands-on activities, challenging puzzles and games. Test your skills with a blend of classic and special edition Trivial Pursuit® questions. Each section of the exhibit is loaded with activities specific to the customs and geography of regions across our country – step into a lighthouse

in Maine, ring in the new year at Times Square, build a sand castle along the Gulf Coast, kayak in Idaho, guide a sled dog through the Alaskan wild, and more. Since the display continues through May 10th, your family will have lots of time to pursue the adventure. And while you are at the museum don’t

miss out on the many other exhibits The Strong has to offer.

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11 AM - 12 PM. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. 233-1330. www.lollypop.org R

Disney on Ice: Princesses & Heroes See Feb. 4. 7 PM. Gananda Schools to Host Family Fun Night Join the

04 * Wednesday Book and Beast It’s story time at the Zoo! Bring your little ones to the Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week. Held at Z.O.T. Zone. Free with Zoo admission 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. www.senecaparkzoo.org R

Gananda community in an evening of old-fashioned family fun! Hosted and planned by Gananda fifth-graders, guests will enjoy an array of activities. $5 per person, $10 per family. 6 PM - 8 PM. Richard Mann Elementary School, 1366 Waterford Road, Walworth 14568. 315-986-3521, ext. 1511. R

Disney on Ice: Princesses & Heroes Join Ariel as she yearns to

explore the world above the waves and Prince Eric as he breaks Ursula’s slithering spell to reclaim his one true love. Tickets Prices: $60, $45, $35, $25. 7 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 758-5300. bluecrossarena.com

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

8 PM.

Stages Presents Tarzan the Musical Tarzan struggles to navigate

a jungle, thick with emotion as he discovers his animal upbringing clashing with his human instincts in this musical. 7 PM. Stages Theater, 875 E. Main Geva presents - The Little Shop Street, Third Floor Auditorium Center, of Horrors This delightfully demented, Rochester 14605. 935-7173. charming and tuneful family musical mjtstages.com blends doo-wop, rock and Motown into an affectionate cult classic send-up of Visual Arts: The Science of Art B-movie horror flicks and the American Join Harley faculty and members of Dream. Runs through February 15. Hochstein’s Expressive Arts Department Age recommended 10+. 7 PM. GEVA and explore patterns, color, and penTheatre Center, 75 Woodbury Blvd., dulums! Learn about the intersection of Rochester 14607. 232-4382. art and science. 5 PM - 7 PM. Harley gevatheatre.org School, 1981 Clover St., Rochester 14618. 454-4596. www.hochstein.org Mindful Parenting Learn techniques and strategies that will allow you to be Wine at Center Ice Leave the ice more present in your parenting. With skates at home and dress in warm and practice mindful parenting help you con- cozy attire for this unique wine and craft nect on a deeper level with your child. beer tasting. For just $50 a ticket, enjoy Members: $15 non JCC members: $18 tastings and hearty food options at cenprice includes lunch. 12 PM. Jewish ter ice--all to benefit Holy Childhood. Community Center, 1200 Edgewood 7 PM - 10 PM. Bill Gray’s Regional Ave, Rochester 14618. Iceplex, 2700 Brighton-Henrietta TL 461-2000 ext 232. Rd., Rochester 14623. 359-3710 ext. 169. www.billgraysiceplex.com/specialevents

OPENING DAY - CURIOUS GEORGE: LET'S GET CURIOUS! / February 7 – May 10

The exhibit presents key concepts in science, math and engineering, which are woven and layered throughout the exhibit. Included with general museum admission. Buffalo Museum of Science, 1020 Humbolt Parkway, Buffalo 14211, 716-896-5200, www.sciencebuff.org

05 * Thursday

Beethoven’s Fifth It starts with

the most recognizable four notes ever written, but what follows is unlike anything before or since. Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony has astounded generations of audiences. 7 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

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ZooBrrrew Enjoy live music by Alex DiBiase in our heated pavilion and a variety of food and dessert stations. Our fire pits and s’mores fixings are always a hit. This event is for those 21 and older only. There will be no ticket sales at the door. 5 PM - 8 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. www.senecaparkzoo.org R

07 * Saturday

Geva presents - The Little Shop Abracadabra Weekend at The of Horrors See Feb. 4. 7 PM. Strong Be amazed as Rochester’s preR

mier comedic magician Bill Gormont performs astounding illusions and fantastical sleight-of-hand feats. Included Animal Tales - Drop-In with general museum admission Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pil- fees. 12 PM - 4 PM. Strong National low and enjoy an animal-themed story Museum of Play, One Manhattan or two and a humane education compoSquare, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. nent. Great way to introduce the wonder www.museumofplay.org of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center.

06 * Friday

Beethoven’s Fifth It starts with

the most recognizable four notes ever written, but what follows is unlike anything before or since. Beethoven’s groundbreaking Fifth Symphony has astounded generations of audiences. 8 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

Bristol Mountain Nordic Sip-n-Ski Winemaker’s Dinner Participants will be treated

to an evening of wine tasting from various New York State wineries, while making their way around the loops of the Nordic (cross country) tract at Bristol Mountain. Instruction will be provided. 5 PM - 8 PM. Bristol Mountain, 5662 Route 64, Canandaigua 14424. 374-6000. bristolmt.com R

Chocolate Ball Proceeds benefit individuals and families who are impacted by epilepsy, including Camp EAGR – a week long residential summer camp for kids with epilepsy and their siblings. 5 PM - 10 PM. Riverside Convention Center, 123 East Main Street, Rochester 14604. 442-6420 x227. epiny.org

Disney on Ice: Princesses & Heroes See Feb. 4. Shows at

11am, 3pm and 7pm

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

4 PM.

Ivy & Bean: The Musical

Pre-performance activity (make your own friendship bracelet): 11 a.m. and 1 p.m.-ticket holders must register. Suggested for children ages 6+ and their families; 60 minutes with no intermission. Next performance at 2pm. 12 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 389-2170. artscenter.naz.edu

Lakeside Winter Celebration Celebrate the Winter

at the 31st annual Lakeside Winter Celebration at Ontario Beach Park. Additionally, Charlotte area merchants will be offering specials and discounts all weekend. 1 PM - 6 PM. Ontario Beach Park, 4800 Lake Ave., Rochester 14613. www.cityofrochester.gov R

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Opening Day-Curious George: Let’s Get Curious! The exhibit

presents key concepts in science, math and engineering, which are woven and layered throughout the exhibit. Included with general museum admission and FREE for BMS Members. 10 AM - 4 PM. Buffalo Museum of Science, 1020 Humboldt Parkway, Buffalo 14211. 716-896-5200. www.sciencebuff.org/

Wonders of Orion Once again,

the easy-to-find constellation Orion and his entourage blaze in the icy winter nights. With gorgeous Hubble Space Telescope pictures, take a tour of must-see destinations in Orion. About 60 min. For ages 5 and up. 1 PM. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-4320. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium/Schedule/

Saturday Family Fun on Snowshoes Enjoy a guided snow-

shoe hike on the Pioneer Trail. Warm up watching a children’s nature movie in the Riedman Theater. Program fee: Free for RMSC members. $3 per person or $10 per family is requested for general public. 10 AM - 11 AM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

rent at Genesee County Park & Forest Interpretive Nature Center during the months of February, and March, weather permitting. $5 per pair. 12 PM - 3 PM. Genesee County Park, 11095 Bethany Center Rd., Rochester 14054. 344-1122. www.co.genesee.ny.us/ departments/soilandwater/ R

Stages Presents Tarzan the Musical See Feb. 6. 7 PM. Storytelling at the Aquarium

Each Saturday in February the Aquarium offers performances by Western New York’s most exciting storytellers, with two shows each Saturday. 11am and 2pm. 11 AM. Aquarium of Niagara, 701 Whirlpool St., Niagara Falls 14301. 716-285-3575. www.aquariumofniagara.org R

08 * Sunday “History of the Can of Worms”

The I-490/I-590 expressway interchange is a complex engineering work with a fascinating history. Charles Lowe will tell how the infamous original interchange came into being. ($5 adults, $4 age 3-12) 1 PM - 2 PM. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. www.nymtmuseum.org R

Abracadabra Weekend at The Strong See Feb. 7. 1 PM - 4 PM. R

Cabin Fever Reliever Hikes

Bundle up for a journey into a magical world—the winter woods at Genesee Country Village & Museum! Join volunteer naturalist Ron Walker for a series of winter nature walks that will be sure to chase away the winter blues. 2 PM. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Road, Mumford 14511. 538-6822. www.gcv.org R

Crescent Trail Hike Guided Hike organized and hosted by the Crescent Trail Association. Adults, teenagers, and children supervised by an adult are welcome to participate. The hikes are free and do not require advance registration. 1 PM - 3 PM. Crescent Trail-Town of Perinton, E. Jefferson Road, Fairport 14450. 234-1621. R

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SWEETHEART SNOWSHOE AND BIRD FRIENDLY CHOCOLATE TASTING / Saturday, February 14: 1 – 3pm Bring your sweetheart, friend, neighbor, family members for an adventure exploring the beautiful scenery surrounding the MAC. Then come inside the MAC for a bird friendly chocolate tasting. Montezuma Audubon Center, 2295 State Route 89, Savannah, 13146, 315-365-3588 http://ny.audubon.org/montezuma

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Disney on Ice: Princesses & Heroes See Feb. 4. Shows at 11am

and 7pm.

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4. 2

PM and 7pm.

Lakeside Winter Celebration

See Feb. 7. 12 PM - 4 PM.

Polar Bear Plunge The Polar

Bear Plunge is being held in cooperation with the Lakeside Winter Celebration at Ontario Beach Park which offers a wide array of events and festivities including Ice Sculpture Contests, the Chilly Chili Challenge, Sleigh Rides and more! 12 PM. Charlotte Beach, 180 Beach Ave., Rochester 14612. 586-7400 ext. 105.

RBTL Presents the Million Dollar Quartet A high voltage

Tony® Award-winning Broadway musical, inspired by the phenomenal true story of the famed recording session that brought together rock ‘n’ roll icons Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, Jerry Lee Lewis and Carl Perkins. Shows at 3pm and 7pm. 3 PM. Rochester Broadway Theatre, 885 East Main Street, Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org R

Second Sunday Family Tour

Young friends and their families are

invited to enjoy a story and a short tour. Included in Gallery admission. 2 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. mag.rochester.edu

by an adult) free. 1 PM. Mount Hope Cemetery, 791 Mt. Hope Avenue, Rochester 14620. 461-3494. www.fomh.org

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

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09 * Monday Holistic Moms Network February Meeting Ever wonder

how and why homeopathy works? Amity Engleson, CHom is a classically trained homeopathic who will introduce you to the basis of homeopathy – “like cures like” – and teach fundamental remedies to use at home. 6 PM - 8 PM. Christ Episcopal Church, 36 South Main Street, Pittsford 14534. . hmnrochester.homewebs.com/ R

Tom Knight: Live In Concert

Performer Tom Knight fun for the whole family! Songs! Skits! Puppets! And a whole lot of nonsense! $5 per person. $20 Family Max. Age 3 and Under Free. 3 PM - 5 PM. Ellwanger Barry Nursery School and KinderGarden, 4 East Henrietta Road, Rochester 14520. 733-3392.

Visit Mount Hope Cemetery in the winter Enjoy a 60- to 90-min-

ute (depending on weather) guided walking tour on flat, paved roads. In addition to general information about the cemetery. $5 per person, Members and children under 16 (accompanied

MOMS Club of Penfield-East Rochester-Brighton Offers

support and socialization for both at-home and working moms and their children. Open to all moms who live in Penfield or are in the Penfield, East Rochester and Brighton School Districts. 10 AM - 11 AM.

11 * Wednesday Book and Beast It’s story time at the Zoo! Bring your little ones to the Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week. Held at Z.O.T. Zone. Free with Zoo admission 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 3367213. senecaparkzoo.org R

Monday Kicks for Ages 2 to 6 Playful learning activities designed

for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Included with general museum admission fees. This month: Playing with Math. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org

10 * Tuesday

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

2 and 7:30pm R

Susan B. Anthony Birthday Luncheon The keynote speaker for

the 2015 Susan B. Anthony Birthday Luncheon is Lynn Sherr, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist and biographer. Lunch at noon or tea at 2 p.m. 12 PM. Riverside Convention Center, 123 East Main Street, Rochester 14604. 235-6124. susanbanthonyhouse.org

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES

IVY & BEAN THE MUSICAL / February 7, 12 & 2 p.m.

Pre-performance activity 11 a.m. and 1 p.m.- ticket holders must register. Suggested for children ages 6+ and their families; 60 minutes with no intermission. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618, 389-2170, http://artscenter.naz.edu

12 * Thursday Art & Story Stroll Delores

Jackson-Radney reads Max Found Two Sticks by Brian Pinkney. This hourlong story reading and art viewing experience is for children 2 to 5 with accompanying adult. $5 per adult (children free); preregister 11 AM 12 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8971. mag.rochester.edu

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

7 PM.

Penguin Romance-Love on the Rocks This penguin program is dedicated to the Peruvian birds that, like most folks, spend a lot of time and energy on their relationships. 6 PM - 8 PM. Aquarium of Niagara, 701 Whirlpool St., Niagara Falls 14301. 716-285-3575. www.aquariumofniagara.org

13 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy

pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 11 AM - 12

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PM. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. 223-1330. R

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4. 8

PM. R

RMSC Da Vinci - The Genius Opening Day February 13–May

17, 2015. Encounter the works of a truly great mind at Da Vinci—The Genius—the most comprehensive traveling exhibition on Leonardo da Vinci ever assembled. Immerse yourself in da Vinci’s timeless brilliance. 9 AM - 5 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org R

14 * Saturday R

Exhibit Opening: Trivial Pursuit®: A 50-State Adventure Trivial Pursuit®: A

50-State Adventure (February 14–May 10, 2015) Jump into the game and explore the culture and history of the United States through dozens of interactive stations. 10 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org R

Family Fun in the Winter Woods Have all kinds of fun on the

Helen Gordon Trail. Then, warm up by watching a children’s nature movie in the Riedman Theater. Program fee: Free for RMSC members. $3 per person or $10 per family is requested for general public. 10 AM - 11 AM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 3746160. www.rmsc.org

Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4. 4

and 8:30pm 4 PM.

RMSC Amazing Animals-All About Pets Meet with representa-

tives from Lollypop Farm and maybe even adopt a pet to take home. Learn the truth about cats and dogs. Discover how to best care for your furry friend. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

Sesame Street’s “The Cookie Thief” Join WXXI Kids for a Free

screening of Sesame Street’s The Cookie Thief. Artwork is disappearing from the Museum of Modern Cookies and Cookie Monster is the prime suspect! The screening is free - reservations are required. 11 AM - 12 PM. Little Theatre, 240 East Avenue,

Rochester . 258-0200. www.thelittle.org R

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

Storytelling at the Aquarium

Sweetheart Skate In the mood for love? Go skating with your loved one and make this Valentines Day truly special. Dress in red for a surprise and enjoy the music of DJ Beale under the stars and snowflakes at the “Little Rockfeller Center” of Rochester. 5 PM - 7 PM. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Park at Manhattan Square, 353 Court Street, Rochester 14607. www.cityofrochester.gov R

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Sweetheart Snowshoe and Bird Friendly Chocolate Tasting Bring your sweetheart,

friend, neighbor, family members for an adventure exploring the beautiful scenery surrounding the MAC. Then come inside the MAC for a bird friendly chocolate tasting, discover which chocolate is your favorite. 1 PM - 3 PM. Montezuma Audubon Center, 2295 State Route 89 , Rochester 13146. 315-365-3588. ny.audubon.org/montezuma

Trivial Pursuit® School– Break Week Through Feb. 22

- Jump into the game and explore history of the United States through dozens of interactive stations and classic and special edition Trivial Pursuit® questions. Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 8 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org R

Wonders of Orion Once again,

15 * Sunday Bring Your Own Train Model

railroaders are invited to bring their favorite HO gauge engine and cars and watch them pass through tunnels and over bridges as they operate “their own train” on the museum’s huge layout. 11 AM - 4 PM. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. www.nymtmuseum.org

Cabin Fever Reliever Hikes

Exhibit Opening: Trivial Pursuit®: A 50-State Adventure See Feb. 14. 1 PM. Geva presents - The Little Shop of Horrors See Feb. 4.

2 PM.

RMSC Amazing Animals-All About Pets Meet with representa-

Discover how to best care for your furry friend. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org R

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

Special School Break Week at MAG The Gallery will be open

today from 11 to 5 as part of our school break special. Kids 18 and under get in at no-charge February 15–23 when accompanied by an adult. 11 AM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. mag.rochester.edu R

16 * Monday Free youth admission day at the Zoo Enjoy one free youth

admission with one paid adult. 10 AM - 3 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7212. senecaparkzoo.org R

RIT Career Explorers Experience Career Explorers

Experience is a unique RIT program specifically offered for college capable 8th- 10th graders during the school district’s week of February recess. Registration is required. 9 PM - 5 PM. RIT K-12, 12 Lomb Memorial Drive, Rochester 14623. 496-4562. www.rit.edu/academicaffairs/k12/career-explorers.php

RMSC Wings & Things Learn about different species of birds while meeting live birds and their handlers from Wild Wings Inc. and Birds Unlimited. Explore the world of these beautiful flying creatures. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org R

Rochester Americans Meet and Greet Meet a player from the Rochester Americans and the team mascot from 1 to 2 p.m. Included with general museum admission fees. 1 PM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 2632700. museumofplay.org

Trivial Pursuit® School– Break Week See Feb. 14. 10 AM

- 5 PM.

tives from Lollypop Farm and maybe even adopt a pet to take home. Learn the truth about cats and dogs.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 17 * Tuesday R

Special Tuesday Hours at MAG The Gallery will be open spe-

cial hours as part of the school break special. Kids 18 and under get in FREE February 15–23 when accompanied by an adult. 11 AM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. mag.rochester.edu R

Wings & Things Learn about dif-

ferent species of birds while meeting live birds and their handlers from Wild Wings Inc. and Birds Unlimited. Get hands on and examine what an owl may have eaten for lunch while dissecting a real owl pellet. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

18 * Wednesday Book and Beast Bring your little

ones to the Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week! Free with Zoo admission 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. senecaparkzoo.org

wildflower silhouettes on the trail and in the field. Free for RMSC members. $3 per person or $10 per family is requested for general public. 9 AM - 10 AM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org R

Insect Investigators Meet live

insects and other arthropods from the Seneca Park Zoo. You may think insects are just creepy crawlies, but did you know they are one of the most important and largest groups of animals in the world? 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

Wnter Breakout-Day Camp

Students ages 5-12 will enjoy a winter adventure program that includes; snowshoeing, winter games, nature exploration, and nature crafts. Come for the day (bring a lunch) or just the morning or afternoon sessions. 10 AM - 4 PM. Montezuma Audubon Center, 2295 State Route 89 , Rochester 13146. 315-365-3588. ny.audubon. org/montezuma R

19 * Thursday

Identification Series-The Joy of Winter Weeds Many weeds

are just wildflowers growing where you don’t want them to! Identify winter

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Conversation on Race at Irondequoit Library

Conversations on Race are facilitated and open dialogues about race and its impact on the community. 6

PM - 8 PM. Irondequoit Library-Helen McGraw Branch, 2180 East Ridge Road, Rochester 14622. 336-6060. www.irondequoitlibrary.org R

GREASE - The School Version

GREASE returns to Greece with a new family-friendly School Version scriptrated G! This production by Greece Odyssey Academy Music & Drama also features for the first time four songs from the hit movie. Get your tickets now. 7 PM - 9 PM. Greece Odyssey Academy, 750 Maiden Lane, Rochester 14615. 966-5300. odysseymusicanddrama.com

Rochester 14450. 223-1330. www.lollypop.org R

GREASE - The School Version See Feb. 19. 7 PM.

Reptiles & Amphibians Enjoy

presentations by the Reptile Guys and come up close and personal with some of our scaly friends from the RMSC Carlson Inquiry Room. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org R

21 * Saturday

Repites & Amphibians Enjoy

20 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy

Genesee Valley Nordic Hot Dog Days Help support the

Genesee Valley Nordic Ski Patrol. They will be selling hot dogs, chili, hot mulled cider and homemade cookies and brownies. Find out how to become a member and stay in shape while helping others. 11 AM - 2 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org/ CummingNatureCenter/Events/

GREASE - The School Version See Feb. 19. 2 PM - 4 PM.

RMSC Meet the Mammals

Come face-to-face with live mammals and meet representatives from the Wildlife Defenders. From porcupines to people, learn about these wonder-

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES ful warm-blooded beings. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org R

Serendipity Winter Wonderland Walk There is so

much going on in the winter woods. Discover plants, fungi and animals, and where, why and how they do the things they do! Program fee: Free for RMSC members. $3 per person or $10 per family is requested for general public. 10 AM - 11 AM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000 ext. 235. R

Wonders of Orion nce again, the

easy-to-find constellation Orion and his entourage blaze in the icy winter nights. With gorgeous Hubble Space Telescope pictures, take a tour of must-see destinations in Orion. About 60 min. For ages 5 and up. 1 PM. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-4320. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium/Schedule/

22 * Sunday

Shen Yun Performing Arts

Black History Month Family Day All ages are invited to celebrate

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

Cabin Fever Reliever Hikes

Heavenly realms and timeless legends spring to life through classical Chinese dance. Dazzling costumes, thunderous battle drums, and powerful flips fill the stage with color and energy. 5 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

Black History Month with hands-on art activities, storytelling, guided tours, music and dance performances, family tours, international cultural displays, and more. Suggested donation $5 per family. 12 PM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. mag.rochester.edu

RMSC DA VINCI - THE GENIUS / February 13 – May 17

Encounter the works of a truly great mind at Da Vinci—The Genius—the most comprehensive traveling exhibition on Leonardo da Vinci ever assembled. Immerse yourself in da Vinci’s timeless brilliance. RMSC, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607, 697-1942, www.rmsc.org

Storytelling at the Aquarium

TYKEs Presents: Aladdin Once again, TYKEs presents an incredible concept in children’s theatre—a fullscale musical with sets, costumes, make-up and props, starring up to 64 local kids—all created within a week! Next show at 3:30 p.m. (ASL Interpreted) 1 PM. JCC Hart Theatre,

Genesee Valley Nordic Hot Dog Days See Feb. 21. 11 AM - 2 PM.

RMSC Meet the Mammals

Come face-to-face with live mammals and meet representatives from the Wildlife Defenders. From porcupines to people, learn about these wonderful warm-blooded beings. 12 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 6971942. www.rmsc.org R

Rochester’s Transportation Heritage Well known local his-

torian and author Donovan Shilling provides a fascinating look back over

Rochester’s early transportation history, through slides and photographs. 1 PM - 2 PM. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. . www.nymtmuseum.org R

Shen Yun Performing Arts See

Feb. 21. 2 PM.

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

rent at Genesee County Park & Forest Interpretive Nature Center during the months of February, and March, weather permitting. $5 per pair. 12 PM - 3 PM. Genesee County Park,

11095 Bethany Center Rd., Rochester 14054. 344-1122. www.co.genesee. ny.us/departments/soilandwater/ R

23 * Monday Balloon Manor - Construction

The five-story sculpture made from more than 40,000 balloons will fill the site of last year’s Manor, The VERY Tall Tale of Jack and his Beanstalk, in the downtown Sibley Building atrium. 10 AM - 7 PM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604. balloonmanor.com R

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Community Cinema presents “American Denial” WXXI’s

Community Cinema series presents a free screening of American Denial. The film’s unusual narrative sheds a unique light on the unconscious political and moral world of modern Americans. 7 PM - 9 PM. Little Theatre, 240 East Avenue, Rochester . 258-0400. www.thelittle.org R

Storytime Club: Love is in the Air Have your Storytime Club pass-

port punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! This month: Love Is in the Air. Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 11 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org R

24 * Tuesday Balloon Manor - Construction

See Feb. 23. 10 AM - 7 PM.

East Main Street, Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org R

27 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy

Balloon Manor Ribbon Cutting Balloon Manor will officially open with a “ribbon”-cutting. Both the construction process and the finished installation will be on display to the public free of charge through Sunday, March 8, when the Manor will be deflated. 10 AM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604. . balloonmanor.com

Geva Presents - Women in Jeopardy! Opening Night - Trading their wine glasses for spy glasses, imaginations run wild as the ladies try to discover the truth and save their friend in a hilarious off-road adventure. 7 PM. GEVA Theatre Center, 75 Woodbury Blvd., Rochester 14607. 232-4382. gevatheatre.org

25 * Wednesday Balloon Manor - Construction

See Feb. 23. 10 AM - 7 PM.

Book and Beast Bring your little

ones to the Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week! Free with Zoo admission. 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. senecaparkzoo.org R

26 * Thursday R

Mother of Twins Club Meeting

“Are you expecting or do you have twins? If so, the Greater Rochester Mothers of Twins Club (GRMOTC) is for you! Come meet other twin mothers experiencing the same joys and challenges of raising multiples. 7 PM 9 PM. Laurelton Presbyterian Church, 335 Helendale Road, Rochester 14609. www.grmotc.com

RBTL Presents Dancing Pros Live The world’s finest dancers will

battle it out on stage and the audience will choose the winner! This unforgettable live dancing competition is hosted by Alan Thicke, star of the hit TV show “Growing Pains.” 7 PM. Rochester Broadway Theatre, 885

defined a generation, captured the hearts and ideals of millions, and now you can relive the memories as Annerin Productions proudly presents LET IT BE - A Celebration of the Music of The Beatles! 8 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

28 * Saturday Animal Birthdays - North American river otter ll parties

go from 1 to 3 p.m., with a “Happy Birthday” song and treats for the birthday animal at 2 p.m. There will also be a docent-run touch table station available at each birthday party. Included with admission. 1 PM - 3 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213.

Balloon Manor - Construction

See Feb. 23. 10 AM - 7 PM. S

Let It Be-A Celebration of the Music of The Beatles The music

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Balloon Manor On Display

Balloon Manor will be on display to the public free of charge through Sunday, March 8, when the Manor will be deflated during its festive Popping Party. 10 AM - 7 PM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604. balloonmanor.com R

Storytelling at the Aquarium

TYKEs Presents: Rapunzel

Once again, TYKEs presents an incredible concept in children’s theatre—a full-scale musical with sets, costumes, make-up and props, star-

ring up to 64 local kids—all created within a week! Next show at 3:30 p.m. (ASL Interpreted) 1 PM. JCC Hart Theatre, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000 ext. 235. https://tykestheatre.org R

Wonders of Orion Once again,

March 01 * Sunday Rochester Model Railroad Club A video presentation reveals

the large layout created and operated by members of the Rochester Model Railroad Club. Four “clinics” are included providing the “how to” training for modelers starting out in this fascinating hobby. 1 PM - 2 PM. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. www.nymtmuseum.org R

Snowshoeing and Snowshoe Rentals Snowshoes are available to

rent at Genesee County Park & Forest Interpretive Nature Center during the month of March, weather permitting. $5 per pair. 12 PM - 3 PM. Genesee County Park, 11095 Bethany Center Rd., Rochester 14054. 344-1122. www.co.genesee.ny.us/departments/ soilandwater/ R

02 * Monday Storytime Club: Silly Seuss Stories Honor Dr. Seuss’s birthday

with books featuring tongue twisters and silly rhymes. All Storytime Club programs are included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 11 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org

THE ILLUSIONISTS - Witness the Impossible This mind-blowing spectacular showcases the jaw-dropping talents of seven of the most incredible illusionists on earth. Full of hilarious magic tricks, death-defying stunts and acts of breathtaking wonder. 7 PM. Rochester Broadway Theatre, 885 East Main Street, Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

08 * Sunday Balloon Manor Popping Party In addition to balloon-popping fun, there will be refreshments, hands-on balloon activities, and prize coupons hidden within balloons. Tickets are $10, a family four-pack is $30, and a group 10-pack is $75. 3 PM - 6 PM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604. balloonmanor.com

GVP Camp Fair at Eastview Mall The Camp Fair offers you and

your kids an opportunity to talk with camp personnel and have your questions answered. The camp fair is free and family-friendly. 11 AM - 5 PM. Eastview Mall, 7979 Pittsford Victor Rd., Victor 14564. www.rocparent.com

Royal Ball Dress in your most regal attire and meet Her Majesty, The Queen of Play. Be whisked away for a day full of dancing and lively music in the royal court. Included with general museum admission fees. 1 PM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org R

10 * Tuesday Opening Night: RBTL Presents Annie ANNIE includes

such unforgettable songs as “It’s the Hard Knock Life,” “Easy Street,” “I Don’t Need Anything But You,” plus the eternal anthem of optimism, “Tomorrow.” Don’t wait until tomorrow. Get your tickets today! 7 PM. Rochester Broadway Theatre, 885 East Main Street, Rochester 14605. 800-745-3000. www.rbtl.org

03 * Tuesday Artist Meet Up Group This group of talented people is forming to bring creative individuals together to brain storm and discuss how to showcase our art forms and present them to the community in conjunction with other artists. 6 PM. Cobblestone Arts Center, 1622 Route 332, Farmington 14425. 398-0220. www.cobblestoneartscenter.com R

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FIVE

PLACES

By Carol Harvey

honoring black history month

ebruary is Black History Month â&#x20AC;&#x201C; the Rochester area played a significant role in the fight for freedom. Here are 5 places that offer a variety of events and activities that you and your family will enjoy while learning about the struggles for equality. For more locations and information, visit our web site at www.RocParent.com

Frederick Douglass Resource Center

36 King Street Rochester 14608 497-6139 www.frederickdouglassrc.com

The Frederick Douglass Resource Center is a non-profit, cultural arts organization committed to articulating the life and legacy of Frederick Douglass and Afrikan American heritage and culture.

Harriet Tubman Home 180 South Street Auburn 13021 315-252-2081 www.harriethouse.org

The Harriet Tubman Home preserves the legacy of "The Moses of Her People" in the place where she lived and died in freedom. The site is located on 26 acres of land in Auburn.

Memorial Art Gallery 500 University Ave. Rochester 14607 276-8900 mag.rochester.edu

Memorial Art Gallery hosts their annual Black History Month Family Day, Sunday, February 22 with art activities, storytelling, music and dance performances, and tours of the art gallery. Here is your chance to see some of the memorable African American art in MAGâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s collections.

RMSC

657 East Ave. Rochester 14607 271-4320 www.rmsc.org The museum's year round exhibit, "Flight to Freedom: Rochester's Underground Railroad," allows kids to discover an interpretive panel highlighting Rochesterians Austin Steward, Frederick Douglass, Harriet Jacobs, and Reverend Thomas James and their involvement with the Abolition Movement.

Palmyra Historical Museum

132 Market Street Palmyra 14522 315-597-6981 www.historicpalmyrany.com

Learn about our extensive military, Erie Canal, and Underground Railroad history told through maps, research materials and artifacts. Check out the Sir Winston Churchill connection, the first weatherman, Abolition, Underground Railroad, industry and business along the Erie Canal and in the old frontier.

ou may want to take your family on a virtual tour or visit some of the stops on the Underground Railroad by visiting http://nysparks.com/historic-preservation/heritage-trails/underground-railroad/default.aspx for local information, directions and maps. Black history month is a perfect time to discuss race and equality for all people while visiting local museums and participating in area events. 46

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