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JAN/FEB 2016

INSIDE Vol.23 Number 1

Winter Fun

ENJOYING OUTDOOR WINTER ACTIVITIES IN THE ROCHESTER AREA

more features

12 Civics in Our Schools –

DISAPPEARING ACT OR HERE TO STAY?

ALENDAR OF EVENTS 40 | C + January Events + February Events + Parents' Night Out + Ongoing Exhibits

events that can be found in the Finger Lakes region. [Page 12]

SUE HENNINGER is a monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent who enjoys writing about the unique people, places, and

JOHN BOCCACINO is a Rochester native and contributing writer to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine.

Seasonal Affective Disorder in Children & Teens

on the cover 314 Things to do in January & February Outdoor Winter Fun Season Affective Disorder in Children & Teens 5 Ways to Handle Mom Cliques Cravings, Rochester Style Creatingn a Clutter Free Home Civics in Our Schools

62 | F IVE PLACES Curing Cabin Fever

this month's contributors

[Page 23] DENISE YEARIAN is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children and four grandchildren. [Page 25] DEENA VIVIANI is a Rochester-based

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Young Adult Services Librarian who writes reviews for VOYA and the RACWI Newsletter. [Page 28]

most parents, she wages a daily battle against the clutter that inevitably collects in her home. [Page 30]

ALYSSA CHIRCO is a freelance parenting journalist and mother of two elementary-aged children. Like

Freelance journalist, CHRISTA MELNYK HINES, is a mom of two boys. She is the author of Confidently

Connected: A Mom's Guide to a Satisfying Social Life. [ Page 32] A native of Rochester, DEBRA A. JACOBSON is a contributing freelance writer. [Page 34]

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ONLINE

january + february

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LACE UP THOSE SKATES

You donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to be an inspiring Olympic skater to enjoy this family activity. Our list includes both area indoor and outdoor skating locations for maximum family fun.

SEEKING SUMMER Not a winter person? We have you covered! Get your green on at these area locations that will warm you up and remind us that summer is on the way.

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TIME TO PARTY!

Just because the holidays are over doesn't mean the party has to end. Whether looking for party ideas, entertainers or places to hold that special event we have the articles and resources you need.

VIRTUAL CAMP GUIDE Our Annual Camp Fair is April 3rd, but our Camp Guide is currently available online so you can start to browse area camps and plan for an awesome summer.

VALENTINE CRAFTS AND IDEAS Let those creative juices flow with five Valentine Crafts that you and your kids will love! And an afternoon of crafting is a great way to show the love!

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EDITOR'S NOTE

By Jillian Melnyk

Staff

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E WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND? Email our Publisher, Barbara: mail@GVParent.com Email our Editor, Jillian: editor@GVParent.com

ach year I vow to de-clutter a little. But without a firm plan in place, it can be an uphill battle. This year, I have an official plan: I’m calling it the One In, Three Out Rule. For every new item I bring into my house, I will let three go, either to the garbage, recycle or donation. Part of the challenge I faced with previous de-clutter efforts was that I was too hard on myself. I would pledge to not bring in ANY new items or things, but inevitably I would want to (or need to… such is the life of a small business, sometimes you DO really need things) and then I would experience the sinking feeling of failure. But now, I’m giving myself a break. I can have new things. I deserve new things. But those new things come at a cost. I’m hoping that this effort will make me analyze the new items I bring into my home, limit my impulse purchases and make me think realistically and honestly about what I do (and don’t) need. By the end of the year not only will I have allowed myself some new stuff, but I will have also done away with old things in the process. Need some tips on how to de-clutter your own life? Check out the article by Alyssa Chirco on page 30. If you’re making resolutions for the new year I would love to hear them! Feel free to send me an email at Editor@GVParent.com. Here’s to an awesome 2016!

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BUZZWORTHY IN TOWN

BUNDLE UP AND JOIN THE GREAT ROCHESTER SNOW DOWN Record cold temperatures and mountains of snow last year made many of the Rochester city sidewalks and bus stops inaccessible for weeks at a time. This year, before winter tightens its icy grip, Reconnect Rochester would like to invite you to take part in The Great Rochester Snow Down. Every other Saturday through March 6, volunteers from Reconnect Rochester and Flower City AmeriCorps will gather together along one major avenue in the area to clear snow from bus

stops and crosswalks. Grab your shovel and RSVP on Facebook. And if you can’t join the group, you can join in spirit. Snap a photo of you and your friends shoveling any public sidewalk or bus stop and post it to social media using #RocSnowDown. For more information about Reconnect Rochester visit reconnectrochester.org.

A GENEROUS DONATION OF ARTWORK CAN BE SEEN AT LOLLYPOP FARM Greg Polisseni, a well-known artist, fashion designer, and philanthropist, created and donated several abstract, mixed-media pieces that are brightening Lollypop Farm's animal admissions waiting area. When recently touring the facility, Polisseni suggested a donation of his original artwork. "Lollypop Farm has always held a special place in my heart," says Polisseni. "I was proud to help create the Halle Polisseni Dog Adoption Center, named after

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THE FROGS WILL BE EXTENDING THEIR VISIT AT RMSC!

my Great Dane, and am equally proud to display my artwork in the lobby of the admissions department." Greg's paintings have hung in numerous galleries and have even been displayed in the White House. Be sure to check out the artwork during your next visit. Lollypop Farm is located at 99 Victor Rd., Fairport. Call 223-1330 or visit www.lollypop.org for more information.

If you haven't had a chance to visit with the frogs at RMSC or you want to see the exhibit again, you're in luck. A Chorus of Colors traveling exhibition will continue through April 10! Here you'll discover fascinating living frogs, each adapted for survival in different locations around all the world, including tropical forests, frozen tundras and scorching deserts. Observe this large collection of rare and unusual frogs up close and in seldom-seen detail. Explore the striking variety of frogs including the sure-footed tree frogs and the jewel-toned poison dart frogs. It’s a full hands-on, minds-on adventure as you leap into nature’s rainbow-colored ecosystem and discover the important role frogs play in our lives. And don't miss the special live animal shows every weekend throughout the duration of the exhibition. The Rochester Museum & Science Center is located at 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. Call 697-1942 or visit www.rmsc.org for more information.

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Civics in our Schools A DISAPPEARING ACT OR HERE TO STAY?

his summer my husband and I found ourselves in the car gleefully shouting out answers to questions posed by a popular talk show host. His topic was a proposed bill which would require students to pass the same test thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s given to immigrants applying for US citizenship before they could receive

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a high school diploma. Some of the exam questions, which test knowledge of American history, government, and geography, were easier than others. But the real take-home lesson of this mini-quiz was the timely reminder that being born on American soil doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t automatically give you an innate

understanding of how US government works. A good civic education requires a strong factual foundation, along with the ability to analyze, question, and draw conclusions, similar skills used in math and science.

The Issue

Dr. Lucian Spataro is both a founding member, past CEO, and current board member of the Joe Foss Institute, a nonprofit organization established in 2001. On its website, the group describes itself as being dedicated to “creating informed, engaged citizens through civics education and awareness.” Dr. Spataro also serves on the board of the Civics Education Initiative (CEI), a 501(c) (4) that’s affiliated with the Joe Foss Institute. This initiative evolved when it became apparent to members of the Joe Foss Institute that civics education in schools was falling by the wayside. Certain subjects were no longer We hope being emphasized getting kids more on the tests that civically engaged and matter – that is, aware of what’s going on tests whose rearound them will ignite sults are tied to voter interest and get school funding. more people out to vote." “I personally see this as a – DR. LUCIAN SPATARO, FOUNDING problem,” says MEMBER, PAST CEO, AND CURRENT BOARD MEMBER Dr. Spataro, reitOF THE JOE FOSS erating the now-faINSTITUTE miliar adage, “If it’s not tested, it’s not taught.” He recalls that when he was a professor at the University of Arizona, students would constantly ask him if what he was teaching would be on the next test. “If I said yes, they’d pay attention. If I said no, they’d lean back and tune me out,” he laments. CEI is concerned that civics education in schools is being increasingly sidelined by STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) subjects. STEM courses are both necessary and essential to a good education, says Dr. Spataro, whose educational background and PhD are in science, but not to the extent that other valuable subjects are boxed out of education. He would like to see civics courses taught with a renewed emphasis so that students really understand what they’re learning and why it’s of consequence. Tying a passing grade on a citizenship exam to graduation from high school is a good first step toward swinging the academic pendulum back to the middle where he feels it belongs. For many educators this “quiet crisis” has been building for quite some time. The History and Social Studies teachers Dr. Spataro has talked to are often attracted to CEI’s approach because they’re finding it increasing more difficult to hold their students’ attention in class. Advocates for making the citizenship test mandatory describe it as more of a starting point than a final destination (similar to learning multiplication tables before moving on to more advanced math). Dr. Spataro agrees. “It’s a good first step that puts a stake in the ground and establishes a baseline of where kids are at.” He also makes sure to emphasize that CEI has nothing to do with politics, it’s a purely educational initiative. “This is content students have been taught for generations that covers only governmental processes…Our concern is that these disciplines have lost their luster.”

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The Goal

So far nine states, Arizona, North and South Dakota, Tennessee, South Carolina, Idaho, Louisiana, Utah, and Wisconsin, have passed legislation requiring their high schoolers to pass the CitCONTINUED >>> Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

CAN YOU PASS THE US CITIZENSHIP TEST? Take the short quiz of ten multiple choice questions, the medium quiz of ten short answer and 15 multiple choice questions, or the full test of 40 multiple choice and 60 short answers. Your results will be graded immediately and the correct answers will be provided for any questions you get wrong. Good luck! www.joefossinstitute.org/ citizenship-survey

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izenship Test to graduate. Twenty-six other states around the country are considering it as well. "Once states adopt the legislation, they can establish their own parameters as to how to administer the test and what constitutes a passing grade," Dr. Spataro notes. Since the test is already available it won’t require any extra work for teachers and administrators and, because it’s free, there will be no cost to the schools. The organization’s goal is to have all fifty states on board by September 17, 2017, the 230th anniversary of the signing of the Constitution.

Why it Matters

Civics and history are the underpinnings of our country, what it’s built on and how it continues to function successfully, Dr. Spataro says. Saluting the flag, reciting the Pledge of Allegiance, and reading and understanding documents such as the Bill of Rights and the US Constitution are something all young Americans should be able to do. Referencing studies which show that only a small percentage of today’s high schoolers are graduating with a proficiency in civics, he asks, “As an American high school graduate, shouldn’t you be able to pass the same test as an immigrant to the United States?”

Currently the US Citizenship test requires that those applying for citizenship answer six out of ten questions correctly. CEI has a similar threshold, saying students should be able to answer sixty out of one hundred multiple choice and short-answer questions to receive a passing grade. Examples of multiple choice test questions include: What is one thing Benjamin Franklin is famous for? to Who is in charge of the executive branch? to What is the name of the National Anthem? When asked if adding one more requirement to kids' plates would effect high school graduation rates, Dr. Spataro says, “I think this test will actually increase graduation rates. Kids will need to be more responsible and engaged about learning the material and as a result they’ll do better in school and be more excited about it.” What’s the potential fallout of raising a generation that lacks basic knowledge about how our country and government are run? “If kids in high school now don’t know how a bill becomes a law, that’s scary,” Dr. Spataro says. It’s crucial that today’s students understand the process of how community issues can become bills and then laws so that they won’t be overwhelmed and intimidated about getting involved with causes they care about as adults.

According to Dr. Spataro, another issue all Americans should be concerned about is declining voter participation, which is at an all-time low in the United States. Young voting age citizens are simply not going to the polls at the same level as previous generations and the number of kids involved in student government and debate in schools has declined drastically. “We hope getting kids more civically engaged and aware of what’s going on around them will ignite voter interest and get more people out to vote,” he says.

A Family Challenge

Passing the citizenship test could be an exciting developmental milestone for today’s youth, one that marks a shift from adolescence to college or the working world, says Dr. Spataro, who believes that gaining an increased understanding of how our government works and the rights and responsibilities of adult Americans will instill a sense of pride and accomplishment in young people. When asked if civic education should be up to the schools or the family, he’s quite clear that it should be a mutual responsibility. If kids see their parents being aware of, and involved with, what’s happening in their towns, states, and nation then it’s likely they will be too. This dynamic also works in the reverse. If kids come home from school excited about the historically relevant things they’re learning about, their enthusiasm can be contagious. “It gives you all something to talk about around the dinner table,” he observes. In fact, Dr. Spataro suggests families advance this discussion a step further by taking the US Citizenship test together. “Taking this test as a family is likely to spark some interesting conversations,” he notes. “It will be interesting to see how well various family members do in comparison to each other!”  Sue Henninger is a contributing writer to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. Contact her at www.fingerlakeswriter.com

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Seasonal Affective Disorder in Children & Teens A

t this time of year, we hear a lot about Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and its impact on adults, but children can also suffer from SAD and its symptoms, including depression, irritability and sleep disruption that occur only during the winter months. Laura Henrichs Cardella, MD, a UR Medicine psychiatrist who is board-certified in Psychiatry and Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, spoke to us about how parents can spot the symptoms of SAD in children and the treatment options that can help.

What is Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)?

Seasonal Affective Disorder is a form of depression in which episodes of depression recur during the winter months and resolve completely during the spring and summer.

Can it affect children?

Yes it can, but it is more likely to start in adolescence. As with many mental health disorders affecting children and adolescents, there is still a need for more studies to further understand how SAD impacts youths.

How many children are estimated to have this condition?

One study suggests that the frequency of SAD in youths increases with age; it was diagnosed in 1.7 percent of sixth-graders, increasing in frequency up to 5.5 percent of high school seniors. In addition, in the high school groups, girls were more likely than boys to be affected, which is similar to typical depression.

What are the signs a child may have SAD?

The signs and symptoms of SAD are the same as signs of depression, but these symptoms will resolve in the summertime. Symptoms of depression in youth include prolonged (more than 2-week) periods of sadness, tearfulness, irritability, anger, or hostility. Depressed children may exhibit decreased interest in activities, boredom, or less enjoyment of previously favorite activities. They may express hopelessness, low self-esteem, and guilt. With Seasonal Affective Disorder, adolescents may feel the need to sleep more, have less energy, and eat more (especially craving carbohydrates). Additionally, children with depression may start to isolate themselves more from friends and family. They may be absent more from school and grades might start to slip. One of the most concerning symptoms of depression include thoughts or expressions of suicide or self-destructive behavior. It is important to try to differentiate SAD from other causes of depressed or irritable mood, including non-seasonal major

depression, adjusting to the stress of the school year, being cooped up inside during the winter months, as well as medical causes of depressed mood, like hypothyroidism or low vitamin D levels. In addition, an occasional sad mood, especially in response to a stressor, is expected and can be quite normal.

If a parent has SAD, is it more likely his or her child(ren) will have it?

Having a parent with SAD does increase the risk of SAD in children, but it is certainly not inevitable.

Are there other factors that make a child more prone to having SAD? Risk factors for SAD include a history of depression, a family history of depression, living further from the equator, female gender, as well as a history of early life trauma or stress.

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Are there lifestyle changes that can make a difference?

LAURA HENRICHS CARDELLA, MD, IS A UR MEDICINE PSYCHIATRIST WHO IS BOARD-CERTIFIED IN PSYCHIATRY AND CHILD AND ADOLESCENT PSYCHIATRY

Will a child outgrow the problem or is it life-long?

While there is an increased risk of future episodes, there are certainly things that kids and parents can do to avoid future episodes.

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There are many things parents can do to help their children through this. Help your child to understand what is happening, be open to talking about how she is feeling, and try to find quality time to spend together. It does not have to be anything more than sitting together. One of the best things parents can do to help their child is to validate, reflect, and empathize what she is feeling. (“It sounds like things have been really tough for you lately. It also sounds very frustrating. Thank you for telling me. We’re in this together.“) This will give her a space where it feels safe to share. Being a parent who listens, reflects and tries to understand is a wonderful gift you can give your child. SAD can improve with proper self-care. As is the case with maintaining a healthy body and mind, getting the proper amount of sleep is very important. School-age children (6- to 12-year-olds) should get 9 to 11 hours of sleep and adolescents should get between 8 and 10 hours of sleep. Eating a well-balanced diet is also important. People with SAD crave carbohydrates, so it is important to include other forms of healthy nutrition and to avoid excess sugar. Getting outside as much as possible during the winter months is also very important. It is thought that SAD may be caused by hormonal

shifts that occur when light exposure decreases in the winter months. Outside exercise provides extra light exposure. This is like hitting two birds with one stone, because there is some evidence that mild to moderate exercise improves depression. Exercise can also help to reduce stress and improve sleep.

What medical treatments are available for children?

Light therapy is often recommended for treatment of SAD in adults, and a small study showed that bright light therapy is helpful for youths with Seasonal Affective Disorder. Light therapy involves using an artificial bright light device and sitting in front of it while doing other activities such as reading, writing or eating a meal. You should not look directly at the light, but at surfaces that the light illuminates. Early-morning sessions are recommended, lasting 30 to 120 minutes, depending on the intensity of the light. Bright light therapy has been associated with some minor side effects, such as headaches and eye strain. There is a potential risk when using it in the setting of bipolar disorder, as there is a small risk of mood switch. Those who have recurrent SAD have found that using the light therapy every morning during the winter months keeps them from developing symptoms of SAD. If the depressed mood continues after

lifestyle adjustments are made, a referral for psychotherapy would be the next step. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Interpersonal Psychotherapy have been found to be helpful for depression in youths. Occasionally, the addition of an antidepressant is recommended.

When should you consult a pediatrician about the problem?

If there are safety issues that you are made aware of, such as suicidal thoughts, it is imperative to contact your child’s primary care physician. If your child’s functioning is impacted, either at school, home, or with friends, it is also a good time to call. Certainly, if your child asks to talk with their doctor, making an appointment will send the message that you care and will help them through this. 

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WORDS JOHN BOCCACINO

PHOTO COURTESY OF BRISTOL MOUNTAIN

winter fun ENJOYING OUTDOOR WINTER ACTIVITIES IN THE ROCHESTER AREA

uring December, the Rochester area experienced record-high temperatures as the usually cold, hard winter weather was temporarily replaced by a late warm spell that saw virtually no snow accumulation and temperatures as high as 69 degrees. This unusual weather had most residents rejoicing over winter’s delayed arrival, but not everyone was pleased with the unseasonably warm temperatures

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thrills associated with AlRochester is home to A lot of thousands of winter pine (downhill) skiing, people think winter is where individuals can sports enthusiasts, folks the time to be cooped up like Matt Bellizzi, whoosh down the inside, but we try to get beautiful mountainDrew Broderick, and side at speeds of up Melissa Marszalek people to embrace winter who would prefer to 15 to 20 miles per and spend time outside hour. to spend their time getting good exercise." outdoors skiing, snowFor those winter enthusiasts seeking a shoeing, snowboarding, – MELISSA MARSZALEK place to ski, there are cross country skiing or OF GENESEE COUNTRY VILLAGE & MUSEUM engaging in other snow-deplenty of options within a short drive from Rochester, pendent winter-time hobbies. Despite the recent sun and and all of them offer beginner programs with novice hills, ski and snowwarmer weather, winter’s snowy, cold grip board rentals and fresh powder, snow perfect is not far away, which makes the segment of for downhill skiing, snowboarding, tubing the area's population that embraces the winand cross country skiing. ter wonderland excited to get out and enjoy their favorite winter sports. Many area fami"We live in New York State, one of the lies take to the slopes seeking the high-speed top 4-5 states for snowfall and winter fun, so

we can choose to be cooped up inside, or we can embrace the great outdoors and take advantage of the great winter fun,” says Broderick, director of sales and marketing for Bristol Mountain. “We have something for everyone when it comes to winter fun. Downhill skiing, Nordic (cross country) skiing, snowboarding, and we recently opened a zip line canopy tour attraction. New York winters can be long, but snow sports give families an opportunity to enjoy a fun, healthy, active routine.” For those heading out to the slopes, experts at the Brantling Ski and Snowboard Center in Sodus recommend wearing layers because you can adjust your clothing as the weather changes. According to the center's website, “A non-cotton base layer, followed by a fleece mid-layer and finally a water resistant outer layer should do the trick on most days. Wearing layers keeps you warmer because it lets you adjust your clothing if the temperature changes as the day goes on. One pair of wool socks is all you need so skip a second pair. It is best to avoid cotton socks, wool works best. And don't forget a hat and gloves -- two pairs are recommended.” For those outdoor adventure seekers looking for a slower, but just as scenic pursuit, there is Nordic (cross country) skiing, where participants can glide across beautiful snowy surfaces at their own leisure. “Cross country skiing is one of the best ways to get outside and embrace winter in the Rochester area,” says Matt Bellizzi, the head coach of the Rochester Cross Country Ski Foundation’s (RXCSF) Youth Skiing program. “It’s fun because, opposed to walking through the woods or snowshoeing, you’re gliding over the snow, zipping down hills and up the other side, feeling detached from the ground like you might on a good mountain biking trail in the summer.” A new children's beginner cross country ski package costs about $175 for skis, binding, boots and poles, with an additional $50 needed for registration in the RXCSF youth program. For families looking to introduce their children to a fun winter sport without a major financial commitment, the Genesee Country Village & Museum in Mumford offers affordable snow shoeing and cross country skiing packages. Open on weekends from 10 am through 5 pm during the months of January and February, the Nature Center at the museum rents snowshoes for $5 and cross country skis for $10, with an unlimited rental time to explore the 5.5 miles of trails along the facility. "We try to encourage families to get out of the house," says Melissa Marszalek, one of two naturalists who help families orientate themselves with the sport and the equipment before setting out for the day's adventures. "A lot of people think winter is the time to be cooped up inside, but we try to get people to embrace winter and spend time outside getting good exercise. This is a great way for families to hang out and spend some quality family time."

Getting Out & Getting Started

At Bristol, it is estimated that roughly 5,000 to 6,000 youths between the ages of 3 to 18 take classes during a given year. For families who are interested in learning to ski or snowboard, January is the National Learn to Ski and Snowboard Month, with many area facilities offering incentives and deals to encourage families to participate in wintertime activities. Each of the areas resorts — Brantling, Bristol, and Swain — is family-friendly and offers season packages and lessons for children and parents of all ages and abilities In Brantling's youth program, children ages 3 and up CONTINUED >>> Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

WHERE TO GO

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Bristol Mountain is located in Canandaigua along State Rte. 64. For more information, visit online at www.bristolmountain.com or call (585) 374-1160. The Brantling Ski and Snowboard Center is located in Sodus at 4015 Fish Farm Rd. For more information visit www.brantling. com. or call (315) 331-2365. Swain Resort is located at 2275 Main St. in nearby Swain. For more information visit www.swain.com or call (607) 545-6511. For more information about Rochester Cross Country Ski Foundationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Youth Skiing programs, visit www.rxcsf.org For more information on Genesee Country Village & Museum Nature Center's programs, or to enroll in a program, call (585) 294-8262 or visit www.gcv.org.

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learn the proper techniques, fundamentals and the importance of safety in skiing and snowboarding from certified instructors. Brantling offers various packages for skiers of all ages. The junior rate (for those ages 12 and under) is $45 for an all-area lift ticket, rental equipment, a one-hour group lesson, and unlimited skiing that day/evening. Family plans are available.

Bristol features a children's learning center for both skiing and snowboarding with programs designed to hook children between the ages of 4 and 12 on their favorite snow sport. This year, Bristol is having its Intense Milk Family Fun Nights on Saturdays and Sundays. For families who bring in a cap from a bottle of Intense Milk, a family of three can ski or snow-

board from 4-10pm for $75, with half-price rentals and a free one-hour beginner lesson. Bristol offers ski and snowboard packages starting at $99 that include an eight-hour lift ticket, eight-hour ski or snowboard rental, lessons, and lunch. New this year, Bristol is offering a VIP gold learn to ski camp, a four-day session for children ages 8 to 12. Participants receive five hours of instruction each day, and at the end of the camp, children receive a free pair of skis with bindings. Swain features its First Turns program, where children can learn how to ski or snowboard through fun games and activities. During the month of January, parents can receive 20% off the cost of the First Turns program, (normally $49) which includes a beginner lift ticket, equipment rentals and a 90- minute lesson. This introductory program is geared toward children ages 8 and up. Through Swain’s Children’s Learning Center, parents can purchase lift tickets, rentals, and 90-minutes of instruction for $79. Swain also has its Gunny’s Gorge Tubing Park, a 750-foot park where participants can grab some air in their snow tubes. When it comes to cross country skiing, there are two different types: classic skiing, and skate skiing. Classic skiing can be easier to pick up and focuses on exercise and enjoying the scenery. Skate skiing gives participants more of a rush as they push along the snowy path on a stiffer boot and a different set of skis. With its consistent strides, classic cross country skiing can be viewed as striding on snow, usually occurring along a set track of snow, while skate skiing is similar to rollerblading on snow. Each winter, nearly 100 children between the ages of 3 and 14 participate in the Rochester Cross Country Ski Foundation's Youth Skiing program, which is run by Bellizzi. As part of their instruction, these children learn the sport's ins and outs while receiving age-appropriate instruction at one of five courses in town: Durand Eastman, Harriet Hollister Spencer State Recreation Area (located in Canadice), Mendon Ponds Park, Webster Park, and the Bristol Mountain Nordic Center. “Rochester has a lot of great places to cross country ski that are gorgeous in the winter. You can’t miss the eskers at Mendon Ponds, the lakeshore at Durand, the overlook from Harriet Hollister that lets you see Honeoye Lake and up to the city. This is a totally different beauty than in the summer,” Bellizzi says. “You can make your own trail in the snow in almost any open space. There’s a strong ski community here and on a snowy weekend day you can count on meeting plenty of others at the trailheads. You can find good company if you want it, but there’s plenty of woods to find space for yourself if that’s what you prefer.” "Snowshoe trails vary from the short, introductory type that is perfect for beginners and families with small children through our two-mile long trail that is great for the more experienced," says Marszalek, a resident of Caledonia. "Snowshoeing is a cabin fever reliever and cross country skiing is a good activity for beginners and families with children; both are great especially here in New York." Marszalek estimates the center attracts between 400 and 1,000 outdoor sports enthusiasts each winter. In addition to snowshoeing, hiking along the trails of the Nature Center is free.  John Boccacino is a contributing writer to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine.

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HEALTH

Preparing Your Child for Dental Visits TIPS FOR YOUR FIRST VISIT

• Start early to get your child acclimated to visiting the dentist and prevent future dental problems. •C onsider a “get acquainted” visit to introduce your child to the dental office before the first appointment. •C hoose a pediatric dental practice. Pediatric dentists have two to three years of specialized training beyond dental school in treating children. Plus, the offices are child friendly. • S elect an appointment time when your child is alert and rested. •E xplain before the visit that the dentist is a friend and will help your child keep his teeth healthy. Add that the visits will be fun. •A nswer all your child’s questions positively. (Keep an ear out for scary stories from peers and siblings.) • Avoid using scary words. Check-ups and 90 percent of first visits do not have anything to do with “hurt,” so do not even use the word. •R ead your child a story about a character that had a good dental visit. •W rite out questions in advance about your child’s dental health on such topics as home care, injury prevention, diet and snacking, fluoride, and tooth development. •M ake sure your child has regularly scheduled dental visits twice a year to maintain good dental health. Information supplied by the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry

ane and Drew Tamassia love going to the dentist. They think it is fun. Perhaps it’s words like “tickle toothbrush” and “sugar bug remover” that make these preschoolers giggle. Maybe it’s the mini-movie theater or downtown Disney decorations that draw them in.

“I think they like going because I started them early and chose someone who knows how to work with children,” says Suzanne Tamassia, whose own

childhood dental fears drove her to find a dentist who works with specifically with children. “Getting children in at an early age is key,” says Pediat-

ric Dentist Lawrence Louie. “I like to see them when the first tooth erupts. It gives me a chance to get a good look at the child’s mouth and lets me share oral health care and nutrition information with the parents.” Jennifer Luzader, pediatric dental hygienist, agrees. “We recommend children have their first dental exam by

their first birthday, and their first dental cleaning by age two.” Even before that first appointment, there are things parents can do to prepare their child for the visit “Use books, videos and role play at home,” says Luzader. “Talk with your child using good, positive terms, and remind him how important it CONTINUED >>>

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Questions to Ask Before Choosing a Dentist

BEFORE THE VISIT: • Do you have special training or interest in treating children? • Are you a member of the American Dental Association (ADA) or the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry (AAPD)? • Is the dental office set up for children? Does it offer toys, books, games, and/or child-sized furniture? • How does your office deal with dental emergencies? • Is the office conveniently located to your home or your child’s school? • Does the practice accept dental benefit plans? AFTER THE VISIT: • Was my child seen promptly? • Was I asked for a complete medical and dental history of my child? • Was the dentist gentle but thorough when examining my child’s mouth? • Did the dentist or staff talk with my child, encouraging his involvement in dental health? • Was I informed about my child’s tooth development, the causes and prevention of dental disease, and appropriate dental care at home? • Were my questions treated with concern and respect? • Was the visit a positive experience for my child? Information supplied by the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry

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is to take care of his teeth and eat the right kinds of foods.” That is what Susan Magasiny did. “Before Jake’s first appointment, we talked about how the dentist was a doctor for his teeth and that to keep them healthy, he needed to have check ups,” says the mother of two. “I told him the dentist was going to look at his teeth, count them, and maybe take a picture. It was no big deal.” “I remember sitting at home role-playing with Jane,” recalls Tamassia. “I would say, ‘Open your mouth and let me see your teeth,’ then I would pretend to be the dentist. She liked that.” Role-playing did prepare Jane for that first visit, because when she went she knew just what to expect. “When a child comes in, we try to make it a fun experience,” say Luzader. “They get to pick out things like fluoride flavor, sunglasses for eye protection, and a new toothbrush and floss. Then we go through

each step of what we are going to do, first on their fingers then in their mouths. We count their teeth, scale those that are covered with plaque and tartar, and then polish. We finish with a fluoride treatment and have the dentist come in for an exam.” Louie talks children through the procedures too. “We call it, ‘Tell. Show. Do.’ First we tell them what we are going to do, show them on our hands, then do it — that way there are no surprises.” Even without so-called “surprises,” sometimes anxiety sets in. “Crying through the first two years is very expected, even at three,” says Luzader. “One way to ward off tears is with distraction. We have puppets we use and will talk with children on their level to gain their confidence. We also try to make it fun — ‘What kind of animal is down your throat today?’ Even when children come in crying, 95 percent of them leave with a smile.”

“What is really important is that parents not relay any fears they have about going to the dentist,” says Louie. “Every once in a while I see where parents have elaborated on what happened to them and it comes through to the children.” On occasion, dental emergencies arise which cannot be avoided. “One week after Jake’s first appointment, he fell into a picnic table and had a severe dental injury. His gum was pushed up to the top of his mouth and his whole front tooth was exposed,” recalls Magasiny. “I called the dentist and they took us in right away.” But it was a wait-and-see injury. In the months to follow Jake had to return several times so the dentist could evaluate the situation. “I started to prep him about losing his tooth early, which he did about six months later,” she continues. “But through it all, Jake built trust and confidence in the dentist.” So much so, if you asked him today he would tell you he looks forward to his dental visits. His mother does too. "What I appreciate most about our dental practice is that they have given me tools to teach my children preventative dentistry,” says Magasiny. Tamassia agrees. “I like how our dentist takes a sincere interest in children,” she says. “Everything is catered to them — there’s an indoor climbing playhouse, video room, and lots of books. They even get to take home a goodie bag and report card!” “The goal is to have the child enjoy his first, second, third — whatever visit it is,” says Luzader. “Because if he does, he’ll want to return again and again.”  Denise Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children and four grandchildren.

FAQs about Visiting the Dentist

•W hen should my child first see a dentist? At the eruption of the first tooth and no later than his first birthday. • How often does my child need to go? Every six months. • When should I first clean my child’s teeth and what should I use? Clean your child’s gums right from the start. Use a soft-bristled toothbrush with a small head and water, at least once a day before bedtime. • When can I begin using toothpaste? Fluoridated toothpaste should be introduced when your child is between the ages of 2 to 3. • How do I know if my child is getting enough fluoride? Ask your dentist to evaluate your primary source of drinking water. If the fluoride level is deficient, he may prescribe fluoride supplements. •W hat can be done to alleviate pain during teething? Give your child a clean teething ring, cold spoon, or cold wet washcloth. Or rub his gums with a clean finger. • When should a child stop bottle feeding? Between 12 to 14 months of age. • What is Baby Bottle Tooth Decay and how can I prevent it? Baby Bottle Tooth Decay is caused by nursing a child to sleep or putting him to bed with anything other than water. To prevent it, have your child drink from a cup by his first birthday. Do not let him fall asleep with a bottle. Night-time breastfeeding should be avoided after the first primary teeth erupt. Drink juice from a cup instead of a bottle. • When should my child stop sucking his thumb or fingers? Most children stop by age 2. If your child is still sucking his thumb after age 4, discourage it and talk with your dentist or pediatrician. Prolonged thumb sucking can create crowded and crooked teeth, or bite problems. • What should I do if my child has a toothache? Rinse the irritated area with warm salt water and place a cold compress on his face if it is swollen. Give your child pain reliever for pain. See a dentist as soon as possible. Information supplied by the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry

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BOOK NOOK

By Deena Viviani

take me to your reader

anuary 2nd has been designated National Science Fiction Day in honor of the late sci-fi author, Isaac Asimov. What better time to read about aliens, AIs, and outer space?

Beep! Beep! Go to Sleep! MORE BOOKS FROM THE MOTHER SHIP PICTURE BOOKS I Thought This Was a Bear Book Written by Tara Lazar & Illustrated by Benji Davies Outer Space Bedtime Race Written by Rob Sanders & Illustrated by Brian Won EARLY READERS Home: Tip’s Tips on Friendship Adapted by Sheila Sweeny Higginson & Illustrated by Thies Schwarz MIDDLE GRADE Mars Evacuees By Sophia McDougall Miles Taylor and the Golden Cape: Attack of the Alien Horde Written by Robert Venditti & Illustrated by Dusty Higgins Smek for President! By Adam Rex YOUNG ADULT Earth & Sky series By Megan Crewe The 5th Wave series By Rick Yancey I Am Number Four series By Pittacus Lore Lizard Radio By Pam Schmatz

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Written by Todd Tarpley & Illustrated by John Rocco Little, Brown, 2015, hardcover, $17.00, Ages 3-5

When a boy tries to put his three little robots to bed for the night, he is out for a rude – and literal – awakening. Clever rhymes of robot words and electronic sounds create a delightful bedtime story.

Your Alien

Written by Tammi Sauer & Illustrated by Goro Fujita Sterling, 2015, hardcover, $14.95, Ages 3-5 If an alien lands in your backyard, of course you’ll want to keep him! But what it if his parents are looking for him, too? The illustrations of the little green critter from outer space truly tell half the story in this picture book about parents’ love.

Interstellar Cinderella

Written by Deborah Underwood & Illustrated by Meg Hunt Chronicle Books, 2015, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 4-8 Cinderella’s dream is to be a mechanic, and when the

Royal Space Parade is announced and the Prince flies in on a broken ship, she gets to show off her hardware skills. This fun reimagining of the classic fairy tale has a delightful ending.

Space Dog

By Mini Grey Alfred A. Knopf, 2015, hardcover, $20.99, Ages 4-8 Space Dog, Astrocat, and Moustronaut are sworn enemies, but when they run into distress in the Dairy Quadrant, they work together for the first time. Lively text, strange planets, and humorous aliens fill the pages of this intergalactic adventure.

Space Taxi: Archie’s Alien Disguise

By Wendy Mass and Michael Brawer Little, Brown, 2015, hardcover, $15.00, Ages 6-8 Archie, his dad, and their talking cat set off into space to save a princess while he wears a three-eyed alien disguise. This early chapter book is dotted with illustrations and jokes that young readers will enjoy.

Little Green Men at the Mercury Inn

Written by Greg Leitich Smith & Illustrated by Andrew Arnold Roaring Brook Press, 2014, hardcover, $15.99, Ages 8-12 Aidan helps his parents run the Mercury Inn in Florida

where tourists stay to watch spaceship launches. When a launch is cancelled because an alien craft is sighted, alien enthusiasts swarm the inn and Aidan might actually learn that aliens really exist. Great characters and unexpected twists complete this clever novel.

Kerenza when it is attacked by a rival corporation. She fights shady officials, sketchy AI, and an airborne plague in the hopes of saving the ones she loves. Told through emails, system downloads, interviews, and reports, this unique novel keeps readers turning its pages. 

W.A.R.P.: The Reluctant Assassin

Deena Viviani is a Young Adult Services Librarian who writes reviews for VOYA and the RACWI Newsletter. Read more reviews on her blog www.deenaml.livejournal. com or send her a note at DeenaViviani@hotmail. com – she loves to hear from readers!

By Eoin Colfer Disney*Hyperion, 2014, paperback, $8.99 , Ages 12-18 When Riley, the reluctant assassin, fails to kill a scientist in Victorian London, he gets sucked into a wormhole and ends up in present day London. There he teams up with a teen FBI agent to outwit his former master who now wants him dead. Time travel technology, international FBI agents, and a race to save lives makes for a fast-paced trilogy.

Illuminae: The Illuminae Files_01 By Amie Kaufman and Jay Kristoff Knopf, 2015, hardcover, $18.99, Ages 12-18 Kady Grant, hacker extraordinaire, evacuates the small planet of

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YOUR FAMILY HOME

By Alyssa Chirco

Creating a ClutterFree Home

rowing up, I always wondered how my mother managed to accumulate so much “stuff.” Our house seemed to be filled with the toys my sisters and I no longer played with, our closets with the clothes we no longer wore. Then I became a mother myself. And finally, I understood.

It starts with books about what to expect, and is quickly followed by a cascade of typical baby gear – blankets, baby swings, bouncy seats and more. As children grow, you find yourself with closets full of outgrown clothes and shoes. Art projects and crayon drawings and milk carton piggy banks find their way home from school. Year after year, birthdays yield new gifts that leave toy chests overflowing and bedroom floors almost indiscernible. According to a 2012 study conducted by UCLA’s Center for Everyday Lives of Families, families are overwhelmed by our “stuff.” This clutter creates stress for both parents and children, and is a common source of household tension. But by eliminating the possessions that no longer serve a purpose in your family’s life and developing a long-term strategy for

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managing the possessions that do, it is possible to create a clutter-free living space – even when you live with kids. Here’s how to get started. DE-CLUTTER FIRST. De-cluttering is the first step to creating a more peaceful and harmonious home. Identify the possessions you are ready to get rid of by arming yourself with a few large trash bags and tackling one room in your home at a time. Collect old or broken toys, outgrown clothes and anything else that is no longer serving a purpose in your family’s daily life. Not sure if you are ready to let go of some items permanently? Create a holding spot where you store them for three to six months.

Then, go through your items again. Anything you have been able to successfully live without is ready to leave your home.

church nurseries, homeless and women’s shelters or charitable organizations like Goodwill or Vietnam Veterans of America.

DEVELOP AN EXIT STRATEGY. To de-clutter successfully, you need a strategy for getting rid of unwanted possessions. Make extra cash by hosting a garage sale or listing items on a site like Craigslist or eBay. Sell outgrown kids’ clothes and shoes at a resale or consignment shop. Donation is another great way to get rid of your stuff while also teaching your children about the importance of helping those less fortunate. Get in the habit of routinely donating items you no longer use to children’s hospitals,

DON’T GET (OVERLY) EMOTIONAL. Clutter often collects when we get overly attached to our belongings. Keep in mind that letting go of items with sentimental value doesn’t have to mean getting rid of the memories too. Turn old baby clothes into a quilt to keep your family warm. Scan all of your kids’ artwork into the computer and use a website like PlumPrint. com to transform the pictures into an elegant coffee table book. Remember that sometimes it is necessary to let go of

HOW TO KEEP CLUTTER OUT OF YOUR HOUSE IN THE FIRST PLACE

The best way to keep your home peaceful and free from clutter is to prevent the things you don’t need from coming into your house in the first place. If you are ready to accumulate less “stuff,” try employing one or several of the following techniques. • Shop Less. Avoid the pressure to buy more by spending less time in stores. The fewer opportunities to impulse shop, the fewer unnecessary items you are likely to acquire. • Follow the “one in, one out rule.” Before bringing something new into your house, get rid of something old first. Do not buy new clothes until you have donated or sold those you no longer wear. Help your children choose which toys they no longer want before buying or opening new ones. • Choose experiences, not things. Season tickets, museum passes and weekend getaways are all good investments that can create special family memories while keeping your home clutter-free. • Consider hosting gift-free birthday parties. Unconventional, yes, but what a neat way to teach our children that parties should be more about celebrating with friends than greedily awaiting the gifts they may bring us. • Live in a smaller home. A smaller home forces you to consider your possessions more carefully since storage space is at a premium. As an added bonus, there are fewer bathrooms to clean.

items from your past to make room for your family to grow in the future. FIND A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING. Clutter refers to more than just items you no longer need; it can also result when you fail to designate clear storage and display spaces for the possessions your family uses every day. Keep clutter in check by maintaining a well-organized home with designated spaces for all of your belongings. “The key to good organization,” says professional organizer Jodi Granok, “is that everything needs a ‘home,’ a specific place for specific items.” Granok recommends investing in a variety of bins, boxes, drawers and shelves to organize your home, and especially your children’s rooms and play spaces. “Make sure your child can reach frequently used items in order to maintain organization without your assistance,” she advises. KEEP UP WITH THE LAUNDRY. According to Granok, keeping up with the laundry is one of the best ways to keep your

home organized and clutter-free. “In my opinion,” says Granok, “clothes and laundry piles are the gateway drug to other forms of clutter. When you allow family members to drop clothes and laundry throughout the house, there is an increased chance of other types of piles being acceptable as well, such as coats, shoes, backpacks and paperwork.” JUST DO IT. If you want to maintain a home that is clear of clutter, resist the temptation to put off until tomorrow what you can do today. Spend a few minutes putting items away after you use them. Insist that your kids hang up coats and backpacks after school. File papers immediately instead of allowing them to pile up on the kitchen counter. Motivate yourself by focusing on the end result: a clutter-free home your whole family can enjoy.  Alyssa Chirco is a freelance parenting journalist and mother of two elementary-aged children. Like most parents, she wages a daily battle against the clutter that inevitably collects in her home. Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

MODERN MOM

By Christa Melnyk Hines

Five Ways to Handle Parent Cliques

liques among children typically begin forming between the third, fourth and fifth grades and usually settle in around the sixth grade. No parent wants her child to feel excluded. But long before kids decide who's in and who's out, parents may unintentionally influence their kids' social networks.

Sports teams, neighborhood play groups and other gatherings that always include the same group of families create a sense of exclusivity that kids pick up on. For parents who are new to a community, these established groups can feel intimidating and challenging to crack. Furthermore, some parents worry that their outsider status negatively impacts their child's social life. Lara, a mom of three, says she is disappointed by the behavior of a group of moms in her suburban neighborhood who have essentially "cliqued out" both her and her youngest daughter. "The moms are friends and that's who deter-

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mines who the kids are friends with," she says. She often sees Facebook photos of the families getting together for barbecues, birthday parties and other activities. But, what bothers her is the emotional toll the clique is taking on her third grade daughter. "The isolation is dampening her spirit. She used to be my happy go-lucky kid and not so much anymore," Lara says. Dr. Fran Walfish, a family psychotherapist and the author of The Self Aware Parent: Resolving Conflict and Building a Better Bond With Your Child, has seen her share of cliquey behavior. "I'm not at all surprised that a group of kids would clique out a third

grade girl. But, it's stunning that moms would get involved in the cliques," she says. What are the best ways for you to address cliquey situations? First, adjust your perception. Past exclusions or rejections can color your perception of an innocent situation. "Self awareness is key here in order to expand our options and then we do or don't have to repeat what was done to us," Walfish says. Give yourself time to get to know the other parents oneon-one and put aside personal biases and assumptions. For example, you might ask one of the parents: "My son would like to join a soccer team. I noticed

that your son plays. Do you know if there's any space on your child's team or could you recommend someone who is seeking players?" Often, you'll find that parents are welcoming and accepting or at least willing to help you. SHARE YOUR WARMTH. Parent cliques aren't always a misperception, but don't assume that everyone in the group is exclusive. Connect with individual members of the group who are friendly. Also make appropriate, amiable invitations and warm overtures. For example, if parent groups at your child's school schedule informal gatherings, offer to

host one evening or bring a baked treat to share. "Try to do something that shows a generous effort at kind friendliness," Walfish says. Volunteer to help with a school event or in the classroom, which is a good way to get to know a variety of parents, who may be better matches for your personality and interests. AVOID MUD-SLINGING. As you get to know other parents, beware of acting vengeful towards the "popular" group. Stay positive and appreciate the relationships you are building to avoid alienating anyone. "Don't bad-mouth the group behind its back," Walfish says. "You just give them more good reason why a bad gossip is not welcome in." SEEK OUT A RECEPTIVE PARENT. Watching your child struggle with a clique, especially if you suspect that it's a result of your exclusion from the parent group, is heartbreaking and maddening. "There's no getting around the fact that it's very hurtful to kids," Walfish says. "Seek out and try to look for the most potentially warm, responsive parent in the group and invite her daughter for a play date with yours." Make it a short, appealing play date like a stop for frozen yogurt after school. An hour-long play date when kids are getting to know each other builds in success. SEEK HAPPINESS. Not everyone is in a clique or cares to be. Model to your child the importance of developing strong friendships with people you actually enjoy spending time with rather than working toward the tenuous goal of popularity. Get to know other families outside the group. Also, connect with families whose children are involved in the same activities as your child. Encourage your child to befriend children at school who share similar interests and are warm and welcoming. She'll learn that happiness is spending time with friends who genuinely care about her and delight in her individuality. Will her efforts always garner acceptance? Probably not, but she'll develop resilience and value the friendships that do come her way--and you will, too. ď&#x20AC;Ť Freelance journalist, Christa Melnyk Hines, is a mom of two boys. She is the author of Confidently Connected: A Mom's Guide to a Satisfying Social Life.

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NEW MOM

By Debra Jacobson

cravings, rochester style

ou’re pregnant and have food cravings galore. Luckily, Rochester is home to an assortment of unique culinary treats! We have helped get you on your way to uncovering some of the best foodie spots located in your own backyard. Here are five locations local moms and moms-to-be say are the best.

HART'S LOCAL GROCERS BREAKFAST SANDWICH

ABBOTT’S FROZEN CUSTARD www.abbottscustard.com Who doesn’t crave frozen custard at one time or another? Visitors to the area make sure they sample Abbott’s. Top your custard cone or dish with almonds, chocolate sprinkles or your favorite crushed candy bar. This Rochester favorite is popular all year and can be found at many locations in Rochester. Since flavors change fre-

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quently, you’ll have the chance to sample many, although chocolate almond is a favorite. There are so many others to choose from that you will be sure to find one that hits the spot. Flavors include: Mint chocolate chip, butterscotch, blueberry, and more. If you’re interested in keeping the pregnancy pounds in check, Abbott’s has lite frozen custard and frozen yogurt as well. Not a frozen custard fan? Check out Eat-Me Ice Cream

(eatmeicecream.com) Eat Me is the product of an American duo dedicated to impulse and wild pairings of food, culture and art. Their website is worth visiting just to see the creative artwork, whimsical descriptions and enticing flavors. This lip-smacking treat comes in a plethora of unique flavors including crystallized ginger and cashew curry coconut, pumpkin goat cheese and more! Or try a vegan S’more ice-cream Sammie. This

all-natural ice cream can be found at Hart’s Local Grocers, Lori’s Natural Foods, Vive Bistro and many other locations in Rochester. BILL GRAY’S CHEESEBURGER www.billgrays.com Do you have a hankering for a good burger? Don’t miss Bill Gray’s spectacular five-ounce “world’s greatest cheeseburger.” Worth all 560 calories, you can customize this juicy burger

SPOT COFFEE'S RASPBERRY CHAI

to fit your craving with toppings of your choice. But then who’s counting calories when you’re eating for two? HART’S LOCAL GROCERS BREAKFAST SANDWICH www.hartslocalgrocers. com Here is one for the health-conscious. Enjoy 2 happy hen eggs, sliced avocado, arugula, pancetta with sriracha mayo. The combination is a perfect one-stop item, with hearthealthy foods and just the right amount for a hungry mom-to-be. HEDONIST ARTISAN CHOCOLATES hedonistchocolates.com A chocolate connoisseur’s favorite (pregnant or not!), Hedonist has many varieties of chocolate to choose from including hand-crafted truffles and chocolate treats with French chocolate and fresh, natural ingredients.

Hedonist offers caramels and toffee too should you choose to sample beyond the chocolate craving. Specially rolled, cut, dipped and decorated, this is a must at least once during those nine months. Remember, a hedonist is one who is devoted to the pursuit of sensual pleasures, and why can’t that be you during this special time in your life? Indulge and enjoy! Just be careful what time of day you treat yourself– there is caffeine in chocolate and you may not want to stay awake at night. SPOT COFFEE’S RASPBERRY CHAI www.spotcoffee.com If you’re looking for the urban feel, check out Spot Coffee for a raspberry chai latte. This light, creamy treat slides down easily and feels refreshing and invigorating. You may get hooked and need to have one weekly… or daily.

Spot also serves breakfast, lunch and late night snacks to accompany those lattes. Bring along a special friend or family member to share in the indulgence! Are you hungry just reading this? Try them all! And remember, we are lucky — Rochester’s own Wegman’s has just about anything you may crave, and they are open 24-7! Enjoy your local tastings, stay healthy and enjoy this special time in your life. 

A native of Rochester, Debra A. Jacobson is a contributing freelance writer.

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CALENDAR

JAN & FEB EVENTS

Activities • Exhibits • Theater • Storytelling • Shows • Family Fun • Outdoor Adventures Parenting Programs • and lots more for families to do in & around Rochester!

THE WIZARD OF OZ

COMES TO ROCHESTER

ollow the yellow brick road to the RBTL Auditorium Theatre to rediscover the real story of Oz in a new musical stage production of The Wizard of Oz. This enchanting adaptation of the all-time classic screenplay includes all 40

your favorite characters and songs, plus a few surprises along the way, including new music by Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber. Click your heels together and join Scarecrow, Tin Man, Lion, Dorothy and her little dog Toto, as they

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journey through the magical Land of Oz to meet the Wizard, confront the Wicked Witch and her flying monkeys, and obtain their hearts’ desires. You won’t want to miss this fantastic musical treat for the whole family.

WHERE RBTL Auditorium Theatre, 885 East Main St., Rochester, 14605 WHEN January 19 - 24 ADMISSION $32.50 - $77.50 MORE INFO Box Office: 800-745-3000, www.rbtl.org

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES RMSC Live Animal Show

calendar guide: February ��45 Parents' Night ��50 March ��54 Ongoing ��56 Black History Month ��58 Library Events ��60

Visitors can enjoy special live animal shows every weekend during the duration of the Frogs: A Chorus of Colors exhibition in the Riedman Gallery. The Wildlife Defenders will present their live animal show. 12 pm and 2:30pm. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

10 * Sunday

Genesee County Park Snowshoe Rental Showshoes

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing Trails open five days a week:

Wednesday through Friday, 9am-3:30pm; Saturday and Sunday, 9am-4pm (closed Monday and Tuesday). General public donation requested-$3 per person; $10 per family. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Amerks vs Syracuse The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don’t miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 5:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com Judy Gold’s 25 Questions for a Jewish Mother This heartfelt and hilarious play is Gold’s personal journey about becoming a parent, while learning to be a daughter to a nagging Jewish mother of her own. Next show at 2pm and 6:30pm. JCC Hart Theatre/CenterStage, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000. www.jccrochester.org

are available to rent through the months of January, February and March weather permitting. They are available on a first come-first serve basis and must be used in the park. $5/pair. 12 PM - 3 PM. Genesee County Park and Nature Center, 11095 Bethany Center Rd., East Bethany 14054. 3441122. www.co.genesee.ny.us/ departments/parks

11 * Monday Monday Kicks for Ages 2 to 6 Playful learning activities

designed for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. This month: Build It. Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Annual White Elephant Party Wrap a gently pre-loved

Rainbow Fish: A Shiny New Musical! Weekend Enjoy special full-length performances of Rainbow Fish: A Shiny New Musical!, written and composed by Rochester local Alec Michael Powell. Stop by the Rainbow Ranch to create a colorful craft, play games, or dress up with rainbow colors. 1 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter Weekends in January and

February are available to visitors to come and enjoy the beauty of the museum in winter. Admission passes and equipment rentals are available at the nature center. 10 AM - 4 PM. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. 538-6822. www.gcv.org

or new item that could be loved and appreciated by another and pick one especially for you! It’s a new year and a time to recycle, repurpose and relax. 6 PM - 8 PM. Christ Episcopal Church, 36 South Main Street, Pittsford 14534. www.holisticmomsrochester. blogspot.com/

12 * Tuesday The Supernaturalists starring Criss Angel Criss

Angel’s The Supernaturalists™ features 9 mind-blowing magicians that destroy reality and revolutionize the live magic ensemble experience. 6 PM.

Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 800-7453000. www.rbtl.org

AMC Sensory Friendly Films - Star Wars-The Force Awakens Sensory

Friendly Films: Lucasfilm and visionary director J.J. Abrams join forces to take you back again to a galaxy far, far away as Star Wars returns to the big screen with Star Wars: The Force Awakens. 7 PM. AMC Webster 12 Movie Theatre, 2190 Empire Blvd., Webster 14580. .www.amctheatres.com/ programs/sensory-friendly-films

Miracle on S. Division Street According to Nowak

family legend, there was a miracle on South Division Street sixty years ago when the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared in the family’s barbershop on Buffalo’s East Side. Appropriate for ages 12 and up. 7 PM. GEVA Theatre Center, 75 Woodbury Blvd., Rochester 14607. 232-4382. www.gevatheatre.org

Dance the Night Away at the Stardust Ballroom

Keeping the tradition of the Big Band sound alive, some of Western New York’s finest and most experienced musicians will perform favorites by such musical greats. Jan. 12 - Jack Allen. 1 PM - 3 PM. Edgerton Recreation Center, 41 Backus Street, Rochester 14608. 4286755. www.cityofrochester.gov/ ballroomdanceseries R

Tuesday Topics Series Photonics Come hear a leader

in the field demystify that definition and describe the potential of this scientific process to impact the way we live. Participants are invited to bring their lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

13 * Wednesday Miracle on S. Division Street See Jan. 12 7pm

Book and Beast at the Zoo Bring your little ones to the

Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week! Free with Zoo admission. 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Astronomy for Adults at RMSC Adult lifelong learners

seeking an intellectually stimulating and provocative program blending science, the arts and history are invited to this new series of weekday afternoon programs at the RMSC Strasenburgh Planetarium. 2 PM. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1945. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium

14 * Thursday Mothers of Twins Meeting

Programs are varied and can be a guest speaker, spa night, informal socials, a twin’s panel, etc. Be sure to check the website or BigTent to confirm date, time and location. 7 PM - 9 PM. Bethlehem Lutheran Church, 48 Perrin Street , Rochester 14450. www.grmotc.com

Miracle on S. Division Street See Jan. 12 7pm

15 * Friday Boy Scouts Big Night: All Ages These are preset dates

where you can come and share in an overnight experience with other Scouts from around the area. The evening is filled with activities, an Animal Presentation, a nocturnal tour of the Zoo, and more! 5 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 3367200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Closing-The American Civil War Exhibit Exhibit

Closing: Industry and new technologies had a huge impact on the military during the Civil War. Learn how the railroad, telegraph, photography and other advancements influenced the

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES war. 9 AM - 5 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-4320. www.rmsc.org

Amerks vs Binghamton The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 201516 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don’t miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 7:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm Snuggle up on

a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animalthemed story or two and a humane education component. It’s a great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Indoor Barn Classroom. 11 AM - 12 PM. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Fairport 14450. 223-1330 x 173. www.lollypop.org

Miracle on S. Division Street

See Jan. 12 8pm

16 * Saturday CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Jan. 10 RMSC Winterfest Learn about snowflakes and local weather patterns, create a snowman to take home and watch exciting demonstrations by the RMSC Players as they experiment with dry ice and liquid nitrogen. 11 AM 3 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

Winterfest is geared towards families, they have put together an enjoyable day for everyone. 11 AM - 4 PM. Mendon Ponds Park, 95 Douglas Road, Honeoye Falls 14472. 753-7275. www.mendonpondswinterfest.org

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Jan. 10

Miracle on S. Division Street

See Jan. 12 2pm & 7pm

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See Jan. 10

Gallery Highlights Tour This docent-led tour of the collections or current exhibitions is included in museum admission. Special hours during Inspiring Beauty, 1 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu

18 * Monday Amerks vs Syracuse The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 201516 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don’t miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 3:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com Free youth admission day at the Zoo To help you enjoy your Zoo

Miracle on S. Division Street

adventure even more, the Zoo hosts select special admission days. On these days you receive one free youth admission with one paid adult. This offer is good during regular Zoo hours. 10 AM - 3 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. www.senecaparkzoo.org

See Jan. 12 2pm & 8pm

RMSC Winterfest

Saturday Night Telescope Viewing Free telescope viewing

Celebrating Diversity at The Strong Honor the legacy of Dr.

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Jan. 10 RMSC Live Animal Show

See Jan. 10

on Saturday nights from dark till about 10 p.m. when weather in downtown Rochester is favorable and volunteer telescope operators are available. 7 PM. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1945. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium

TYKEs - Ivy + Bean, the Musical This musical is based on the

tremendously popular best-selling series of books of the same name by Annie Barrows. 11am & 2pm. JCC Hart Theatre/CenterStage, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000. www.TykesTheatre.org

17 * Sunday TYKEs - Ivy + Bean, the Musical See Jan. 16 2pm RMSC Winterfest

See Jan. 19

Winterfest at Mendon Ponds

About 5,000 people attend the free event while learning about and trying out winter activities such as ice fishing, snowshoeing and ice boating. While

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Martin Luther King Jr. and celebrate diversity. View a display of headwear from around the globe, and see and touch materials used to make the hats like feathers, shells, buttons, and other materials. 10 AM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

19 * Tuesday Tuesday Topics Series Photonics 2: the Politics Hear

two newspaper reporters’ perspectives of how Rochester was selected as the location for the American Institute for Manufacturing Integrated Photonics. Participants are invited to bring their lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ Click your heels together and

join Scarecrow, Tin Man, Lion, Dorothy and her little dog Toto, as they journey

CELEBRATING DIVERSITY AT THE STRONG

o honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The Strong museum will offer a variety of hands-on activities and special displays with opportunities to embrace creativity and peace. You will want to see the special performance by Dangerous Signs at 2 p.m. Then to add to the fun, you'll get a chance to meet members of Art Force Five — superheroes that use the power of creativity to promote peace — and help them create a giant mosaic art piece in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. More fun

will be had at the 1pm and 3pm performances of Rainbow Fish: A Shiny New Musical!

WHERE

Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq., Rochester 14607

WHEN

Monday, January 18 1 and 3 p.m.

COST Free with General admission - $14, under 2yrs free MORE INFO

263-2700, www.museumofplay.org

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES through the magical land of Oz to meet the Wizard and obtain their hearts’ desires. 7 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 800-745-3000. www.rbtl.org

20 * Wednesday Astronomy for Adults at RMSC

Museum of Glass Free Admission Free admission to the Corning Museum of Glass. Held every third Thursday until October 2016. 5 PM - 8 PM. Corning Museum of Glass, 1 Museum Way, Corning 14830. 866-468-7386. museumofglass.org

See Jan. 13

RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ See Jan. 19 7:30pm

Homeschool Program: Playthings and Pastimes from Long Ago Students visit One

22 * Friday

History Place to learn about early 20th-century America by comparing toys from long ago and now and by role-playing the games and pastimes of this bygone era. 10 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Book and Beast at the Zoo See Jan. 13

RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ See Jan. 19 7:30pm

21 * Thursday Monster Jam Truck and Driver Stop by and see a monster

truck, meet a professional monster truck driver, and more from 1 to 4 p.m. Included with general museum admission fees. 1 PM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ See Jan. 19 8pm Monster Jam The 2016 touring

Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm See Jan. 15 RMSC Lift it, Launch it, Let it Go Lift it, Launch it, Let it Go:

Opens January 22 - Re-invent the perfect projectile launcher. Should it be a catapult, trebuchet, ballista or something completely new? 2 PM - 4 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-4320. www.rmsc.org

23 * Saturday Pirate Island Weekend at The Strong Dive in for a fun-

season brings more Monster Jam excitement tailored perfectly for your familiy’s budget, and these colorful, larger than life beasts are sure to capture the hearts of both young and old. 7:30 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 758-5300. www.bluecrossarena.com/events

filled weekend featuring land and ocean-themed activities! Be on the lookout for special encounters with a mermaid, pirate, or swamp creature. Included with general museum admission fees. 11 AM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Doc Severinsen, guest conductor and trumpet His

See Jan. 10

Grammy-winning artistry, famous flair, and trademark wit have charmed audiences around the world, and this much-recorded, much-awarded living legend returns to Rochester for two special performances with the RPO. 8 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

RMSC Live Animal Show Doc Severinsen, guest conductor and trumpet See Jan. 22 8pm

Saturday Night Telescope Viewing See Jan. 16 Monster Jam

See Jan. 22 7:30pm

Owl Moon Nature Trail Tours To keep the guided walk safe and

enjoyable they are scheduled in groups of 20 and are booked every 20 minutes starting at 5:00 pm. You must make a reservation to go on the guided hike. 5 PM - 8 PM. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. 294-8218. www.gcv.org

Wilderness Ski Cumming Nature Center Director Nathan Hayes guides visitors on a rugged three-mile ski in a pristine area of the CNC rarely visited. Skiers go from an elevation of 1,700 ft to 2,200 feet (a vigorous trek). Reservations are appreciated. 11 AM - 1 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ See Jan. 19 2pm & 8pm TYKEs - Ivy + Bean, the Musical

See Jan. 16 11am & 2pm

Snowshoe Basics Explore

snowshoe tips and tricks with an expert. 11 AM - 12 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Jan. 10 AMC Sensory Friendly Films - Norm of The North Sensory

Friendly Films: A polar bear of many words, Norm’s greatest gripe is simple: there is no room for tourists in the Arctic. 10 AM. AMC Webster 12

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Movie Theatre, 2190 Empire Blvd., Webster 14580. . www.amctheatres.com/programs/sensory-friendlyfilms

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing

See Jan. 10

24 * Sunday RMSC Live Animal Show

See Jan. 10

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing

See Jan. 10

The Golden Voyage of Sinbad-Dryden Kids Missed the New Year’s Day screening of The

7th Voyage of Sinbad? No matter: The second installment in Columbia’s Sinbad trilogy featuring stop-motion master Ray Harryhausen’s spectacular “Dynamotion” technique is a sequel in name only. 2 PM. Dryden Theatre, 900 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-3361. www.dryden.eastmanhouse.org

Pirate Island Weekend at The Strong See Jan. 23

1pm - 4pm

RBTL Presents the Wizard of OZ See Jan. 19

1pm & 6:30pm

TYKEs - Ivy + Bean, the Musical

See Jan. 16 2pm

RPO Presents A Carnival of Animals

Let your imagination run wild with Saint-Saëns’ delightful classic that introduces the instruments of the orchestra. Lions, elephants, tortoises, roosters, and kangaroos come alive during this audience favorite. 2 PM. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

Exhibit Closing-Sid the Science Kid: The Super-Duper Exhibit Last chance to step

into Sid’s world and investigate everyday science questions. Through hands-on activities, kids use scientific tools and thinking to learn about simple machines, the laws of motion, magnetism, air power, and the five senses. 12 PM - 5 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Monster Jam

See Jan. 22

2pm

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Jan. 10

25 * Monday Storytime Club: Play Pals Readings of classic

children’s tales at 10:30 and 11:30 a.m. Have your Storytime Club passport punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 11 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Airigami Balloon Adventure This sculpture is on public display for free thanks to the many generous sponsors, and tireless crew of over 50 artists and community volunteers. 10 AM - 7 PM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604.

26 * Tuesday Tuesday Topics Series - Photonics 3: the Future Learn how an economist thinks about the

potential impacts of locating the American Institute for Manufacturing Integrated Photonics in Rochester. Participants are invited to bring their lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES AMC Sensory Friendly Films - Ride Along 2 Sensory Friendly

Films: Kevin Hart and Ice Cube lead the returning lineup of RIDE ALONG 2, the sequel to the blockbuster action-comedy that gave us the year’s most popular comedy duo. 7 PM. AMC Webster 12 Movie Theatre, 2190 Empire Blvd., Webster 14580. . www.amctheatres.com/ programs/sensory-friendly-films

27 * Wednesday Astronomy for Adults at RMSC See Jan. 13 Book and Beast at the Zoo See Jan. 13

29 * Friday Amerks vs Binghamton

The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don’t miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 7:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com

Girl Scouts Big Night: Brownies These are preset dates

Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm See Jan. 15

Once Upon A Mattress

Carried on a wave of wonderful songs, by turns hilarious and raucous, romantic and melodic, this rollicking spin on the familiar classic of royal courtship and comeuppance provides for some side-splitting shenanigans. 7 PM. Stages Theater, 875 E. Main Street, Third Floor Auditorium Center, Rochester 14605. 935-7173. www.mjtstages.com

few of the world-class designers whose stunning creations were selected for Ebony Fashion Fair. 11 AM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Jan. 10

Once Upon A Mattress

See Jan. 29 2pm

FEBRUARY

30 * Saturday RMSC Live Animal Show

See Jan. 10

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Jan. 10 Miss Flower City Scholarship Competition The Miss Flower City Scholarship Organization, Rochester’s local affiliate of the Miss America Organization, is holding their competition at the JCC CenterStage. The winners get to represent Rochester and Western NY for the year. 6 PM - 9 PM. JCC Hart Theatre/CenterStage, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 533-1077. www.MissFlowerCity.org

Fit Kids Day at The Strong

Jump, run, or slide into the museum for fitness fun! Learn tips and tricks from the staff from Wagner Soccer, participate in interactive story time, and perfect your aim in the Let’s Move! Sports Zone. 10 AM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Once Upon A Mattress

01 * Monday Storytime Club: Build, Drive, Go Readings of classic children’s

tales at 10:30 and 11:30 a.m. Have your Storytime Club passport punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 11 AM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org R

02 * Tuesday Tuesday Topics Series Downtown in the Next Decade

Find out about current and future trends in commercial and residential space as they apply to downtown Rochester, and if our city can sustain this growth. Participants are invited to bring their lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

03 * Wednesday

See Jan. 29 2pm

Saturday Night Telescope Viewing See Jan. 16

31 * Sunday CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Jan. 10 Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair

Christian Dior, Yves St. Laurent, Oscar de la Renta, Pierre Cardin, Patrick Kelly, Christian Lacroix, Alexander McQueen.These are just a

opportunities, legal considerations, marketing, record keeping and more. 10 AM - 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. www3.libraryweb.org

Book and Beast at the Zoo

Bring your little ones to the Zoo for a cuddly story and special animal visitor each week! Free with Zoo admission. 11 AM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 3367200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

First Wednesdays - Business Development Series “First

Wednesdays,” a free monthly series of programs for aspiring and current business owners. Each month seasoned professionals offer guidance on start-ups, procurement

04 * Thursday Geva presents - An Iliad The familiar tale of gods and goddesses, undying love and endless battles blends with contemporary stories of war and revenge in this captivating retelling of Homer’s epic classic. Appropriate for ages 13 and up. 7 PM. GEVA Theatre Center, 75 Woodbury Blvd., Rochester 14607. 232-4382. www.rbtl.org

RPO Beethoven's Symphony No. 4 The evening begins with a

sunny, effervescent gem by one of the founding fathers of the symphony. Ward Stare Conducts Beethoven 4. 7 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

05 * Friday Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm Snuggle up on

a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animalthemed story or two and a humane education component. It's a great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Indoor Barn Classroom. 11 AM - 12 PM. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Fairport 14450. 223-1330 x 173. www.lollypop.org

Once Upon A Mattress Carried on a wave of wonderful songs, by turns hilarious and raucous, romantic and melodic, this rollicking spin on the familiar classic of royal courtship and comeuppance provides for some sidesplitting shenanigans. 7 PM. Stages Theater, 875 E. Main Street, Third Floor Auditorium Center, Rochester 14605. 935-7173. www.mjtstages.com Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

06 * Saturday Rochester City Ballet - The Ugly Duckling See the Rochester

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES City Ballet bring the fairy tale's characters to life on the stage with this redemptive childhood favorite. Cast meet-and-greet after each performance. 2 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 389-2170. artscenter.naz.edu

Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04

2pm & 7:30pm

The Joy of Winter Weeds A weed

is a wildflower growing where you don't want it to grow. Identify winter wildflower silhouettes on the trail and in the field. Pick a small bouquet to take home. 11 AM - 12 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter Weekends in

FEEL MAJESTIC AT THE ROYAL BALL

alling all Lords and Ladies, Princes and Princesses – come and meet her Majesty, The Queen of Play during The Royal Ball weekend at The Strong. Let your kids dress up in regal attire and immerse themselves in a world of royal play where they can enjoy sprightly dance tunes and soaring melodies from Nonesuch Early Music Ensemble, complete a quest and be knighted by the queen, try on real chain mail, visit Rapunzel’s Hair Salon for a fancy braided 46

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up-do, enjoy a “feast” at the royal banquet table, and visit the Fairy Godmother to receive a special bejeweled gift. On Saturday only, enjoy Rochester Lyric Opera’s production of Little Red’s Most Unusual Day, a one-act opera for the whole family at 11am, 1pm and 3pm. Don't forget to bring your camera for photo opportunities throughout the museum. The Royal Ball is included with general museum admission fees.

WHERE National Museum of Play at The Strong, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607 WHEN Program Hours: Saturday, March 5, 11am–4 pm and Sunday, March 6, 1–4pm; Little Red's Most Unusual Day performance times: Saturday only, at 11 am, 1 and 3pm COST General admission - $14, under 2yrs free MORE INFO 263-2700 www.museumofplay.org

RMSC Live Animal Show Visitors can enjoy special live animal shows every weekend during the duration of the Frogs: A Chorus of Colors exhibition in the Riedman Gallery. The Wildlife Defenders will present their live animal show. Next show at 12pm and 2:30pm. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing Trails open five days

a week: Wednesday through Friday, 9am-3:30pm; Saturday and Sunday, 9am-4:30pm (closed Monday and Tuesday). General public donation requested-$3 per person; $10 per family. 9 AM - 4 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

The Hit Factory Throughout the 1960s, the musicians in NYC's legendary Brill Building defined the pop charts with a string of chart topping hits. The Hit Factory, are back with an all-new show and an exciting tribute to the songs we all know and love. 8 PM. JCC Hart Theatre/CenterStage, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000. www.jccrochester.org Once Upon A Mattress

See Feb. 05 7pm

RPO Beethoven's Symphony No. See Feb. 04 8pm Shen Yun A Shen Yun performance

features the world’s foremost classically trained dancers, a unique orchestra blending East and West, and dazzling animated backdrops—together creating one spectacular performance. 7 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

Exhibit Opening Celebration Hot Wheels: Race to Win View authentic

racing gear, investigate the scientific process for designing super-fast cars, and more. Meet Mike Austin, Micro Sprint race car driver 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 07 * Sunday The Hit Factory

See Feb. 06 2pm

Shen Yun

See Feb. 06 2pm

Once Upon A Mattress

See Feb. 05 2pm

Winter Concert with Hochstein Philharmonia

Featuring Broughton, “Themes from ‘Silverado’”; Finzi, “Romance in E-flat,” Op. 11; Copland, “’Hoedown’ from Rodeo”; Tchaikovsky, “Symphony no. 4,” movements 3-4; and concerto. Tickets are $5. 2 PM. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. www.hochstein.org

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

Exhibit Opening Celebration Hot Wheels: Race to Win View

authentic racing gear, investigate the scientific process for designing super-fast cars, and more. Race a Hot Wheels diecast car down an adjustable track then take the pit stop tire change challenge! 12 PM - 5 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Rochester City Ballet - The Ugly Duckling See Feb. 06 2pm

Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 3pm

Last Day - Airigami Balloon Adventure This sculpture is on

public display for free thanks to the many generous sponsors, and tireless crew of over 50 artists and community volunteers. 10 AM. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Franklin St., Rochester 14604.

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter

See Feb. 06

08 * Monday Monday Kicks for Ages 2 to 6 Playful learning activities designed

forget. 7 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

Dance the Night Away

Keeping the tradition of the Big Band sound alive, some of Western New York's finest and most experienced musicians will perform favorites by such musical greats. Feb. 9 - Gateswingers. 1 PM - 3 PM. Edgerton Recreation Center, 41 Backus Street, Rochester 14608. 428-6755. www.cityofrochester.gov/ ballroomdanceseries

Tuesday Topics Series Fearlessly Serving the Homeless Sister Grace Miller has

provided shelter and services for the homeless at the House of Mercy for 30 years, and now at age 80 has no plans to retire, Learn about this fearless defender of the poor and homeless Bring your lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

10 * Wednesday RBTL - Blue Man Group See Feb. 09 7pm

Susan B. Anthony Birthday Luncheon The keynote speaker for

the 2016 Susan B. Anthony Birthday Luncheon is Billie Jean King, sports icon, humanitarian, and champion of equal rights. The luncheon theme is, Making History, a celebration of the many ways in which women leave their mark. 12 PM - 1 PM. Riverside Convention Center, 123 East Main Street, Rochester 14604. 279-7490 x 10. www.susanbanthonyhouse.org

Book and Beast at the Zoo See Feb. 03

Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

Homeschool Program: ELA Skill Building Students talk,

laugh, listen, write, and play with ELA skills while exploring museum exhibits for inspiration. Students receive personalized ELA skills handbooks to take with them. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. museumofplay.org

for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. This month: Let’s Create.Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

RBTL - Blue Man Group

09 * Tuesday

Mothers of Twins Meeting

11 * Thursday See Feb. 09 7pm

RBTL - Blue Man Group Blue Man Group is comedy, theater, rock concert and dance party all rolled into one. This wildly popular phenomenon delivers an unforgettable multi-sensory experience. It’s an outrageous evening of entertainment you’ll never

Programs are varied and can be a guest speaker, spa night, informal socials, a twin's panel, etc. Be sure to check the website or BigTent to confirm date, time and location. 7 PM - 9 PM. Bethlehem Lutheran Church, 48 Perrin Street , Rochester 14450. www.grmotc.com

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES The Hit Factory

Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm See Feb. 05

See Feb. 06 7pm

Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

Homeschool Program: ELA Skill Building Students talk,

12 * Friday Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb.04 7pm

RPO Heart and Soul Michael

Lynche will melt your heart with an unforgettable evening of R&B love songs made famous by Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles, Sam Cooke, Luther Vandross, Marvin Gaye, and James Brown. 8 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

Amerks vs Albany The

Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don't miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 7:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com

13 * Saturday CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04

2pm & 7:30pm

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

There is so much going on in the winter woods. Discover plants, fungi and animals and what is happening with them-when, where, why and how. 11 AM - 12 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week Rainforest:

Explore and discover the amazing animal kingdom. Come back multiple times, the programs will be covering different animal themes throughout the week. 11 AM - 3 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942, www.rmsc.org

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Feb. 06

Race to Win School Break Week Make a racing medallion,

design and decorate a race car doodle, and enjoy other thrilling activities in conjunction with the Hot Wheels: Race to Win exhibit. Included with general museum admission fees. 10am - 4pm. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

The Hit Factory

See Feb. 06 8pm

Gospel Brunch Enjoy brunch, gospel singing and tours of the exhibition Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair. 11 AM - 2 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

The Hit Factory

See Feb. 06

2pm

14 * Sunday

Geva presents - An Iliad

Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13

RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week

Polar Bear Plunge The Polar Plunge is located at Charlotte Beach in Ontario Beach Park, off of Lake Avenue. Registration and festivities begin at 9am - Polar Plunge at noon. 9 AM. Charlotte Beach, 180 Beach Ave., Rochester 14612. 586-7400. www.polarplunge.net/Event-Info Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter

See Feb. 06

Free youth admission day at the Zoo To help you enjoy your

Zoo adventure even more, the Zoo hosts select special admission days. On these days you receive one free youth admission with one paid adult. This offer is good during regular Zoo hours. 10 AM - 3 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. www.senecaparkzoo.org

See Feb. 04 3pm

See Feb. 13

15 * Monday Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13 RMSC Live Animal Show

Feb. 06

RMSC Science On a Sphere® Presentation Engage in the

wonders of our planet and beyond as you experience scientific data in three dimensions on our giant globe. See Earth and the universe in a whole new way. Next presentation at 11am and 1:30pm. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-4320. www.rmsc.org

Free youth admission day at the Zoo To help you enjoy your

Zoo adventure even more, the Zoo hosts select special admission days.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES On these days you receive one free youth admission with one paid adult. This offer is good during regular Zoo hours. 10 AM - 3 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7213. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Zoo Habitat Explorers -School Break Week Winter

Break Camp: Radical Rainforest Meet critters from one of the most important habitats in the world! 9 a.m. to noon or 9 a.m. to 4 p.m 9 AM - 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week Outback:

Woodbury Blvd., Rochester 14607. 232-4382. www.rbtl.org

MAG - Special School Break Hours The Memorial Art Gallery

is open special school break hours from 11 am to 5 pm. Admission is free to 18 and under when accompanied by an adult. 11 AM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu

RBTL - Star Trek: The Ultimate Voyage This

lavish production includes an impressive live symphony orchestra and international special solo instruments. This live event is perfect for music lovers, filmgoers, fans and those looking for a unique concert experience. 7 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

17 * Wednesday Book and Beast at the Zoo See Feb. 03

WATCH IVY + BEAN TAKE THE STAGE

f you enjoyed the books, Ivy & Bean by Annie Barrows, you’ll love this musical! If you’re not familiar with Ivy & Bean, now’s the time to get to know these two girls. First there’s seven-yearold Ivy, who is rather quiet and loves to read books, especially books about magical spells. Then there’s Bean who is outgoing and would love the whole world to know who she is. When the two of them get together, there’s mischief and laughter at every turn—along with lessons to be learned about the challenges and joys of family, friendship and love. The mischievous heroines of the New York Times best-selling stories will be plotting

their exploits onstage in this lively musical. This production presented by TYKEs is best enjoyed by children ages 4 and up.

WHERE

TYKES @ JCC Hart Theatre, 1200 Edgewood Ave., Rochester 14618

WHEN Saturday, January 16, 11am (ASL interpreted) & 2pm Sunday, January 17, 2pm Saturday, January 23, 11am & 2pm Sunday, January 24, 2pm

16 * Tuesday RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

Tuesday Topics Series - The Amerks at 60 The Rochester

See Feb. 16

RMSC Science On a Sphere® Presentation See Feb. 15

Zoo Habitat Explorers -School Break Week Winter

See Feb. 06

Break Camp: Dramatic Desert: Hot and sandy, these habitats can be tough places in which to live, but the inhabitants know how to beat the heat! 9 a.m. to noon or 9 a.m. to 4 p.m 9 AM - 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week Outback:

COST JCC Member: $15 Non Member: $16

Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13

461-2000, www.tykestheatre.org

Break Camp: Wonderful Wetlands: Swampy places might not be a place for people to live, but many animals love these wonderful wetlands. 9 a.m. to noon or 9 a.m. to 4 p.m 9 AM - 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Americans are celebrating 60 years of professional hockey this year! Hear stories of past and present hockey seasons from this former player, manager and member of the Amerks Hall of Fame. B ring your lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

MORE INFO

Zoo Habitat Explorers -School Break Week Winter

Geva presents - To Kill a Mockingbird Set in a small

Alabama town during the Great Depression, Harper Lee’s Pulitzer Prize-winning American masterpiece follows the journey of Jem and Scout Finch, whose father has been appointed to defend a black man framed for a crime he didn’t commit. 7 PM. GEVA Theatre Center, 75

Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13 RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week

RMSC Live Animal Show Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

Geva presents - To Kill a Mockingbird See Feb. 16

7pm

18 * Thursday Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

The Hit Factory

06 7pm

See Feb.

RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week Native

Species of NY: Explore and discover the amazing animal kingdom. Come back multiple times, the programs will be covering different animal themes throughout the week. 11 AM - 3 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942, www.rmsc.org

RMSC Science On a Sphere® Presentation See Feb. 15 RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

Museum of Glass Free Admission Free admission to

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES

Parents' Night Out

EVENTS WORTH HIRING A BABYSITTER

Rhythmic Circus: Feet, Don't Fail Me Now!

14 * Thursday

23 * Saturday

MAGthursdays At this weekly event, visit the museum (half price admission from 5 to 9 pm), listen to live music, and enjoy wine, beer and food for purchase. No reservation necessary! 5 PM - 8 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www. mag.rochester.edu

Rhythmic Circus: Feet, Don't Fail Me Now! The 11 hoofers &

16 * Saturday William Close and the Earth Harp Collective Installation artist and experimental musician William Close has built more than 100 one-of-a-kind musical instruments, including the world's largest string instrument, the Earth Harp. Preperformance lecture: 7 p.m. 8 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 3892170. http://artscenter.naz.edu/

musicians who are Rhythmic Circus have hit the road with a trunk full of tap shoes, funky costumes, a seven-piece brass band, and a human beat box ready to burst onto the stage in Feet, Don't Fail Me Now! Pre-performance lecture 7pm. 8 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 3892170. http://artscenter.naz.edu/

The Beatles in Laser Light

See Jan. 16

Moonlight Ski Join Cumming Nature Center Director Nathan Hayes for an easy-paced trek that offers a different perspective of the winter woods. 8 PM - 10 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 3746160. www.rmsc.org R

The Beatles in Laser Light

The Beatles in Laser Light Saturdays at 8:15pm | Pink Floyd Laser Saturdays at 9:30pm. Thanks to its pure wavelengths, laser light provides an intense color sensation whether faint or dazzlingly bright. 8 PM. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1945. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium

28 * Thursday MAGthursdays

See Jan. 14

30 * Saturday The Beatles in Laser Light See Jan. 16

February

21 * Thursday MAGthursdays

See Jan. 14

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04 * Thursday MAGthursdays At this weekly event, visit the museum (half price admission from 5 to 9 pm), listen to live music, and enjoy wine, beer and

food for purchase. No reservation necessary! 5 PM - 8 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www. mag.rochester.edu

enjoy a cocktail and live music as you use mobile bidding to participate in the silent auction. 5 PM - 11 PM. Riverside Convention Center, 123 East Main Street, Rochester 14604. 442-6420 x 2227.

05 * Friday One Cubic Foot: The Genesee River Opening Reception This exhibition in

RoCo’s LAB Space showcases the work of award-winning photographer David Liittschwager through more than 60 images captured in the Genesee River in summer 2015. 6 PM - 9 PM. Rochester Contemporary Art Center, 137 East Ave, Rochester 14604. 461-2222. www.rochestercontemporary.org

ZooBrew Your ticket for this Zoo fundraiser includes food, Zoo admission and one ticket to a 2016 summer ZooBrew. Purchase your tickets online today; this event sells out! Sponsored by Lake Beverage. Ages 21 and older only. 5 PM - 9 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 295-7390. www.senecaparkzoo.org R

Mardi Gras Night This popular event has been sold out before the event date for the past few years so get your tickets early. You don’t want to miss out on the fun! 6 PM. St. Mary’s Ukrainian Hall, 3176 St Paul Blvd, Rochester 14617. 872-0656. R

ZooBrew

See Feb. 05

11 * Thursday MAGthursdays

See Feb. 04

12 * Friday Anti-Valentine's Day This 21+ event features live music, food and drink, art activities, and giveaways. $12 in advance ($15 at the door) includes museum admission. 9 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8938. www.mag.rochester.edu R

06 * Saturday RMSC After Dark After-hours social events for adults 21 and over featuring full museum access, cash bars and exciting science demonstrations. 7 PM - 11 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 6971942. www.rmsc.org Annual Chocolate Ball Your evening will begin with sampling award-winning cakes and chocolate from local pastry chefs. All the while, R

I Love You Because: A Modern Day Musical A young,

uptight greeting card writer’s life is changed when he meets a flighty photographer in New York City. Along with their eccentric friends and siblings, they learn to love each other not in spite of their faults, but because of them. 7 PM. Kodak Center for Performing Arts, 200 West Ridge Rd., Rochester 14615. 2540073. www.kodakcenter.org/

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 13 * Saturday The Official Blues Brothers Revue There have been many

imitators, but there is only one duo in North America sanctioned by Dan Aykroyd, Judith Belushi, to don the official hats and sunglasses and walk in the legendary footsteps of Jake and Elwood Blues, 8 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 389-2170. http:// artscenter.naz.edu/

I Love You Because: A Modern Day Musical See

Feb. 12 7pm R

14 * Sunday I Love You Because: A Modern Day Musical See Feb. 12 1pm

turing Emmy Award-winning fashion stylist David Zyla is offered in conjunction with the exhibition Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair. 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu R

25 * Thursday One Cubic Foot: The Genesee River - Artist Talk This exhibition in RoCo’s

LAB Space showcases the work of award-winning photographer David Liittschwager through more than 60 images captured in the Genesee River in summer 2015. 7 PM. Rochester Contemporary Art Center, 137 East Ave, Rochester 14604. 461-2222. www.rochestercontemporary.org

MAGthursdays

18 * Thursday MAGthursdays

See Feb. 04

19 * Friday I Love You Because: A Modern Day Musical See Feb. 12 7pm

Jerry Seinfeld on Stage!

America’s premier comedian, Jerry Seinfeld, will be performing his signature stand-up routine. Seinfeld has been hailed for his uncanny ability to joke about the little things in life that relate to audiences everywhere. - Shows at 7pm and 9:30pm. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 1-800-745-3000. www.rbtl.org R

20 * Saturday I Love You Because: A Modern Day Musical See Feb. 12

7pm

21 * Sunday Moonlight Ski Join Cumming Nature Center Director Nathan Hayes for an easy-paced trek that offers a different perspective of the winter woods. 8 PM - 10 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 3746160. www.rmsc.org

22 * Monday Black Panthers: Vanguard of the Revolution Join WXXI

when its Indie Pop Up series presents Black Panthers: Vanguard of the Revolution. This documentary, directed by Stanley Nelson, highlights an iconic and unsettled period of change in American culture. 7 PM - 9 PM. Little Theatre, 240 East Avenue, Rochester 14604.

See Feb. 04

28 * Sunday globalFEST On the RoadCreole Carnival Creole Carnival

will featuring the reigning queen of Haitian songs Emeline Michel, Rio’s innovative samba masters Casuarina, and Jamaica’s one-stringed guitar virtuoso Brushy One-String. Preperformance lecture at 6 pm. 7 PM. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 3892170. http://artscenter.naz.edu/ R

March 03 * Thursday MAGthursdays At this weekly event, visit the museum (half price admission from 5 to 9 pm), listen to live music, and enjoy wine, beer and food for purchase. No reservation necessary! 5 PM - 8 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www. mag.rochester.edu R

09 * Wednesday Dance the Night Away at the Stardust Ballroom Keeping the

tradition of the Big Band sound alive, some of Western New York's finest and most experienced musicians will perform favorites by such musical greats. Mar. 9 - Nostalgic Reunion. 7 PM - 9 PM. Edgerton Recreation Center, 41 Backus Street, Rochester 14608. 428-6755. www.cityofrochester.gov/ballroomdanceseries R

10 * Thursday MAGthursdays

See Mar. 03

24 * Wednesday MAG - Be The Canvas "Be the Canvas: Explore Your Personal Style at the MAG." This special event fea-

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES the Corning Museum of Glass. Held every third Thursday until October 2016. 5 PM - 8 PM. Corning Museum of Glass, 1 Museum Way, Corning 14830. 866-468-7386. museumofglass.org

Zoo Habitat Explorers -School Break Week Winter Break Camp: Fantastic Forests-

Get a close-up encounter with animals found in our own habitat. 9 a.m. to noon or 9 a.m. to 4 p.m 9 AM - 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 3367200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Race to Win School Break Week

See Feb. 13

19 * Friday RMSC Science On a Sphere® Presentation See Feb. 15 Zoo Habitat Explorers -School Break Week Winter Break Camp: Habitat

Scramble-Meet some animals from habitats in danger, and learn what we can do to help save these amazing places. 9 a.m. to noon or 9 a.m. to 4 p.m 9 AM - 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm See Feb. 05 Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 7pm

GET TO KNOW AMAZING ANIMALS

while you’re visiting, chool Break is don’t forget to take a here so don’t get virtual journey on a bored, let the Rochester Simulator Ride and then Museum & Science check out the many Center take you on other hands-on exhibits a journey to discover throughout the museum. Amazing Animals. Back by popular demand, the There’s so much to do, second annual Amazing so plan to stay the entire day! Animals program is sure to please. With the • Feb. 13 &14: The help of the Museum Rainforest guides you will explore the amazing animal • Feb.15 &16: The Outback kingdom from insects to mammals and beyond • Feb. 17: Deep in to learn about some of the Desert the creatures that share • Feb. 18 and Friday, the earth. Different Feb. 19: Native animal themes will be Species of NY studied throughout the • Feb. 20 & week, so don’t miss out 21: Creatures of on the adventure. And Flight www.RocParent.com 52

WHERE Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607 WHEN Feb 13 - 21 11am - 3pm COST Adults: $13, Ages 3 – 18: $11, RMSC Members: Free MORE INFO 697-1942 www.rmsc.org

Amerks vs Portland The Rochester

Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don't miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 7:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com

RMSC Amazing Animals - School Break Week See Feb. 18 Race to Win School Break Week

See Feb. 13

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

20 * Saturday CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 Genesee Valley Nordic Hot Dog Days Help support this volunteer

organization who patrol CNC ski trails every weekend in January and February to insure the safety of the visitors. They will be selling hotdogs, chili, hot mulled cider, homemade cookies and brownies. 11 AM - 2 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Feb. 06 Snowshoe Basics Explore snowshoe tips and tricks with an expert. 11 AM - 12 PM. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

The Sunshine Kids Gala The Gala is an elegant event with a cocktail party, sit-down dinner, silent and live auctions. Proceeds benefit the Rotary Sunshine Campus for children with disabilities, and the RADA children's charities. 6 PM. Riverside Convention Center, 123 East Main Street, Rochester

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 14604. www.rochesterautodealers. org/public/sunshine-kids

Girl Scouts Big Night: Juniors & Cadettes Juniors Animal

Habitats Badge and Cadettes Animal Helpers Badge. Eat dinner, unload the gear, and let the fun begin! The evening is filled with activities, an Animal Presentation, a nocturnal tour of the Zoo, and more! 4 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don't miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 5:05 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com

Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Feb. 06 RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week

Geva presents - An Iliad

See Feb. 20

The Hit Factory

Genesee Valley Nordic Hot Dog Days See Feb. 20

RMSC Live Animal Show

Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13

See Feb. 04 2pm & 7:30pm

See Feb. 06

2pm & 8pm

See Feb. 06

Race to Win School Break Week See Feb. 13 RMSC Amazing Animals School Break Week Creatures

of Flight: Explore and discover the amazing animal kingdom. Come back multiple times, the programs will be covering different animal themes throughout the week. 11 AM - 3 PM. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942, www.rmsc.org

21 * Sunday Amerks vs W-B/Scranton The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in

Black History Month Family Day Celebrate Black History Month with hands-on art activities, music and dance demonstrations, and storytelling. Offered in conjunction with Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair. Suggested donation $5 per family. 12 PM - 5 PM. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. 276-8900. www.mag.rochester.edu

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb, 06

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 Geva presents - An Iliad See Feb. 04 3pm

The Hit Factory

See Feb. 06 2pm

22 * Monday Storytime Club: Build, Drive, Go Readings of classic children’s

23 * Tuesday Tuesday Topics Series Planned Parenthood Find out what is myth and what is fact about Planned Parenthood and learn how the local affiliate serves the greater Rochester region through healthcare delivery, education and advocacy. Bring your lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3.libraryweb.org

24 * Wednesday Book and Beast at the Zoo

See Feb. 03

25 * Thursday RPO Presents Mozart Symphony No. 29 The program

kicks off with the intimate grace of one of Mozart’s greatest early symphonies, written when the composer was just 18 years old. 7 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

26 * Friday Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm See Feb. 05

27 * Saturday RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter

See Feb. 06

Celebrating Dr. Seuss at The Strong Meet a Dr. Seuss character

and celebrate the birthday of Dr. Seuss (March 2). Enjoy stories and tongue twisters, play games, make Dr. Seuss-inspired art, and more in conjunction with the National Education Association’s Read Across America Day. 11 AM - 4 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • January/February 2016

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Boy Scouts Big Night: All Ages These are preset dates where

you can come and share in an overnight experience with other Scouts from around the area. The evening is filled with activities, an Animal Presentation, a nocturnal tour of the Zoo, and more! 5 PM. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

RPO Presents Mozart Symphony No. 29 See Feb. 25

8pm

29 * Monday Storytime Club: Build, Drive, Go See Feb. 01

MARCH 01 * Tuesday

28 * Sunday Ski, Snowshoe & Hike the Museum in Winter See Feb. 06 Celebrating Dr. Seuss at The Strong See Feb. 27 1pm - 4pm CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Feb. 06 RPO Presents Royal Fireworks Music The Rochester

Philharmonic Orchestra Presents... TBD, guest conductor Douglas Prosser, trumpet Lianne Coble, soprano Bach Suite No. 4 Scarlatti Arie con tromba Bach Cantata No. 51 Handel Music for the Royal Fireworks 2 PM. Kodak Hall at Eastman Theatre, 60 Gibbs St., Rochester 14604. 454-2100. www.rpo.org

Gospel Brunch

RMSC Live Animal Show

See Feb. 06

See Feb. 14

Tuesday Topics Series - Gun Violence-Control Find out how

effective gun control has or has not been and what else can be done at the state and local levels to combat the gun violence in the Rochester region. Bring your lunch. 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-7300. www3. libraryweb.org

02 * Wednesday Book and Beast at the Zoo

04 * Friday

05 * Saturday

Animal Tales Story Time at Lollypop Farm Snuggle up on

Girl Scouts Big Night: All Ages These are preset dates where

Amerks vs Springfield The

Jacob Sanchez Diagnosed with autism

Lack of eye contact is a sign of autism. Learn the others at autismspeaks.org/signs.

www.RocParent.com

RMSC Live Animal Show

Visitors can enjoy special live animal shows every weekend during the duration of the Frogs: A Chorus of Colors exhibition in the Riedman Gallery. The Wildlife Defenders will present their live animal show. Shows at 12pm and 2:30pm. Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

Amerks vs Toronto The Rochester Americans are celebrating their 60th Anniversary season in 2015-16 and are now in the AHL Eastern Conference. Don't miss a minute of the action as they celebrate the history of the organization and renew longtime rivalries. 7:35 PM. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. 1-855-GO-AMERKS. www.amerks.com R5 Sometime Last Night Tour

The pop-rock quintet R5 are ready to move one step closer to world domination with the release of their much-anticipated first single, “Let’s Not Be Alone Tonight,” off their upcoming sophomore album due this summer. 7 PM. Auditorium Theatre, 885 E. Main St., Rochester 14605. 222-5000. www.rbtl.org

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing Trails open five days

TYKEs - Elephant & Piggie's "We Are In A Play!" Get ready

for a hilarious, rollicking musical adventure ripped from the pages of Mo Willems’ beloved, awardwinning children’s books that will leave audiences doing the “Flippy Floppy Floory” dance all night long! Shows at 11am and 2pm. JCC Hart Theatre/CenterStage, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. 461-2000. www.jccrochester.org

Royal Ball at The Strong Dress

in your most regal attire and meet Her Majesty, The Queen of Play. Be whisked away for a day full of dancing and lively music in the royal court. Enjoy Rochester Lyric Opera’s production of Little Red’s Most Unusual Day-11am, 1pm & 3pm. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Childsplay: The Cat in the Hat From the moment his tall,

CHILDSPLAY: THE CAT IN THE HAT

on't miss out on the antics of this mischievous character based on the beloved book by Dr. Seuss. It doesn't take long before Sally and her brother know that the Cat in the Hat is the most mischievous cat they will ever meet, and suddenly their boring, rainy afternoon is transformed by his antics. Will their house ever be the same? Can the kids clean up before Mom comes home? With some tricks (and a fish) and Thing Two and Thing One, the Cat in the Hat means the fun’s never done!

Pre-Performance fun will include Dr. Seuss-themed activities at 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. The activity is free to ticket holders; however, pre-registration is required.

red-and-white-striped hat appears at their door, Sally and her brother know that the Cat in the Hat is the most mischievous cat they will ever meet, and suddenly their boring, rainy afternoon is transformed. Shows at 11am and 2pm. Nazareth College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618. 389-2170. http://artscenter.naz.edu/

06 * Sunday TYKEs - Elephant & Piggie's "We Are In A Play!" See Mar. 05 2pm

CNC Weekend skiing and snowshoeing See Mar. 05 RMSC Live Animal Show

See Mar. 05

WHERE

Nazareth Arts College, 4245 East Ave., Rochester 14618,

WHEN Saturday, March 5 11am & 2pm

COST Tickets: $17-$20

Royal Ball at The Strong See Mar. 05

1pm - 4pm

08 * Tuesday Homeschool Program: FairyTale Fantasy Theme Day

Literature comes alive and students get the royal treatment as they make fairy-tale costumes and crafts for the Royal Ball! Recommended for pre-K through grade 3. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

09 * Wednesday Book and Beast at the Zoo See Mar. 02

Homeschool Program: FairyTale Fantasy Theme Day

RMSC STEM Awards Highlight the bright minds of our area’s educators and organizations that are making a difference and exciting people about opportunities in STEM. Get a ticket to RMSC STEM Awards night to celebrate with the award recipients in person! 6 PM. Strathallan Hotel, 550 East Avenue, Rochester 14607. 697-1942. www.rmsc.org

10 * Thursday

Homeschool Program: FairyTale Fantasy Theme Day

Mothers of Twins Meeting

Spa Night! Programs are varied and can be a guest speaker, spa night, informal socials, a twin's panel, etc. Be sure to check the website or BigTent to confirm date, time and location. 7 PM - 9 PM. Bethlehem Lutheran Church, 48 Perrin Street , Rochester 14450. www.grmotc.com

07 * Monday Monday Kicks for Ages 2 to 6 Playful learning activities designed

for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. This month: Fun with Fairy Tales. Included with general museum admission fees. 10 AM - 2 PM. Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Square, Rochester 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

MORE INFO

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ongoing events & exhibits on their way from slavery to freedom. HOW THINGS WORK - Through fun, hands-on investigation, find out how mechanisms such as light switches, thermostats, and traffic signals work. INVENTOR CENTER - Power cities, build cars, harness wind, and fire catapults in our newest permanent exhibition: Inventor Center. KEVA PLANKS - Construct your own wooden masterpiece with KEVA Planks - identical, stackable construction blocks. Blending science with art, KEVA planks bring out the designer, architect and engineer in each of us.

NATIONAL MUSEUM OF PLAY AT THE STRONG

STRASENBURGH PLANETARIUM 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-1880, www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium/ Check website or call for prices and hours MY PLANETS - For children ages 3-5 and the adults with them, this friendly introduction to the planetarium features worlds in our solar system. Let the Star Theater be your spaceship and discover awesome features from Mercury to Neptune and beyond. Adult: $7, Ages 3-18: $6 SATURDAY SUN, MOON AND STARS - This relaxed, enjoyable family show presents prominent constellations and takes the audience on a quick trip to the moon. Show Times: confirm at rmsc.org. Adult: $7, Ages 3-18: $6 THE LIVING SEA - Come faceto-face with humpback whales and swim among golden jellyfish in one of the most

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beautiful giant-screen films ever made. Wednesday and Saturday performances of The Living Sea are presented with open captioning on the screen. Adult: $7, Ages 3-18: $6

ROCHESTER MUSEUM & SCIENCE CENTER 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. 271-1880, www.rmsc.org, Check website or call for prices and hours SCIENCE ON A SPHERE Science On a Sphere is an interactive globe and threedimensional data projection system that transforms real-time data from our Earth and other planets into striking graphic representations with stunning detail and accuracy. AT THE WESTERN DOOR -The hundreds of objects displayed show the Seneca’s and Haudenosaunee’s creative response to new technologies and

materials introduced following European Contact. UNDER CONSTRUCTION: BUILDING CAREERS Construction trades are booming! Come and be inspired about the possibilities — and start building your skills right away. FROGS: A CHOURS OF COLORS - Discover fascinating living frogs, each adapted ingeniously for survival in locations around the world. From the tropical forests, frozen tundras and scorching deserts, observe a large collection of rare and unusual frogs up close and in seldom-seen detail. EXPEDITION EARTH - Explore your connections to the natural world in this interactive natural science exhibition. FLIGHT TO FREEDOM: ROCHESTER’S UNDERGROUND RAILROAD - Explore stories of courageous African Americans who traveled through Rochester

ILLUMINATION: THE WORLD OF LIGHT AND OPTICS Immerse yourself in more than 15 interactive exhibits that demonstrate exciting scientific concepts from reflection and refraction to radio waves to color temperature.

NATIONAL MUSEUM OF PLAY AT THE STRONG One Manhattan Sq., Rochester 14607. 263-2700 or TDD 4230746, www.museumofplay.org, Check website or call for prices and hours GAME TIME! - Move like a piece on a giant game board through three centuries of American games, puzzles, and public amusements. AMERICAN COMIC BOOK HEROES - The Battle of Good vs. Evil. Climb up the side of a building, make your own cape, test your superhero skills, pose for pictures with Spiderman and learn more about your favorite comic book hero. NATIONAL TOY HALL OF FAME - Experience the new, cuttingedge Toy Halls of Fame exhibit and discover five themed areas— imagine, create, build, move,

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OTHER AREA ATTRACTIONS SENECA PARK ZOO The Zoo animals can be seen all year long. Visit the website to

SENECA PARK ZOO

plan your trip and download a zoo map so you don’t miss any of the exhibits and for current rates. Check out the Zoo Cam to view live feed of the animals. Open January - March from 10am 3pm. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St. Paul St, Rochester, 14621, 3367200, www.senecaparkzoo.org

CUMMING NATURE

EXPLORE & MORE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM

GENESEE COUNTRY VILLAGE & MUSEUM

The museum makes every day a play date in the Educational Play Zones: exhibits that introduce children to the magic of handson discovery. Explore & More Children’s Museum, 300 Gleed Ave., E. Aurora, 14052, 716655-5131, www.exploreandmore. org

Meet and chat with the village potter, storekeeper, printer, tinsmith and blacksmith. Speak with re-enactors and townsfolk about the clothing styles of the period and visit select pieces from the museum’s historic clothing collection. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford, 14511, 5386822, www.gcv.org

CENTER A 900-acre preserve located south of Rochester. Take advantage of the winter months and cross-country ski and snowshoe. Participate in many programs, including the annual Maple Sugaring event. $3 per person/$10 family. Check the website for hours and special program rates. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples. 374-6160, www.rmsc.org

RIEDMAN ROBOTIC MILKING CENTER The center is a working dairy that showcases the future of dairy farming, a robotic milking machine that milks cows without the farmer’s help. Tours available Mon-Sat 11am-2pm. $2-$3. Springdale Farm, 700 Colby Street, Spencerport, 349-2090 www.springdalefarm.org

HERSCHELL CARROUSEL

BIODIVERSITY: LIFE DEPENDS ON IT

FACTORY MUSEUM

Biodiversity has lessons to teach us, and is a source of wonder, enjoyment, and inspiration. Come, explore and discover the value of nature. Buffalo Museum of Science, 1020 Humboldt Pkwy, Buffalo, 716-896-5200, www. sciencebuff.org

Operates two historic carousels and offers programs and family events throughout the year. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda, 14120, 716-693-1885, www. carrouselmuseum.org

NEW YORK MUSEUM OF TRANSPORTATION The museum houses fourteen full size trolley cars, a caboose, steam locomotive, antique highway and horse-drawn vehicles, and the various associated smaller items that illuminate transportation history. Open Sundays only 11am -5pm. NY Museum of Transportation, 6393 E River Rd, West Henrietta, 14586, www. nymtmuseum.org

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celebrating black history month I

n 1976, President Gerald R. Ford officially recognized February as Black History Month to honor the achievements by Black Americans. Known alternately as African-American History Month in the United States, Black History Month is also observed in Canada and the United Kingdom.

This year celebrate famous Black Americans Frederick Douglass and Harriet Tubman and learn more about the area’s local connection to the Underground Railroad and the Abolition Movement. From touring the Underground Railroad locations near you to visiting the many Underground Railroad websites, you and your family will learn much about the Black American struggles for freedom. Here are five places to start your journey. You may also want to take your family on a virtual tour to visit some of the stops by visiting http://nysparks.com/historic-preservation/heritage-trails/underground-railroad/default.aspx for local information and maps.

Frederick Douglass Resource Center

36 King St., Rochester, 14608 497-6139 www.fdrc-rochester.com The Frederick Douglass Resource Center is a non-profit, cultural arts organization committed to articulating the life and legacy of Frederick Douglass and Afrikan American heritage and culture. With the facility’s wide range of program possibilities, in combination with their flexibility and attention to detail, you are sure to find exactly what you are looking for.

Harriet Tubman Home

180 South St., Auburn, 13021 315-252-2081 www.harriethouse.org The Harriet Tubman Home is open to visitors Tuesday through Friday from 11am to 4pm, and Saturdays by appointment. Extended hours are available in February (Black History Month). Truly, one of the most endearing legacies of Harriet Tubman was her ability to forge alliances between whites and blacks at a time of incomprehensible opposition. Visit the museum to learn more about Harriet Tubman who is considered “The Moses of Her People.”

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Memorial Art Gallery

500 University Ave., Rochester, 14607 276-8900 http://mag.rochester.edu On Sunday, February 21, Noon-5pm visit the gallery and Celebrate Black History Month with hands-on art activities, music and dance demonstrations, and storytelling. This event is offered in conjunction with Inspiring Beauty: 50 Years of Ebony Fashion Fair. This exhibit continues through April 24, 2016 in the Grand Gallery.

Palmyra Historical Museum

Rochester Museum & Science Center

Here the Underground Railroad history is told through maps, research materials, and artifacts. You’ll also learn about important local connections to the Civil War, Women’s Suffrage, and the Book of Mormon, and famous folks such as Winston Churchill, Joseph Smith, Admiral Sampson, and Palmyra founder General John Swift.

The Rochester Museum & Science Center’s yearround exhibit, “Flight to Freedom: Rochester’s Underground Railroad,” allows kids to literally open a door to discover an interpretive panel highlighting Rochesterians Austin Steward, Frederick Douglass, Harriet Jacobs, and Reverend Thomas James and their involvement with the Abolition Movement.

132 Market St., Palmyra, 14522 315-597-6981 www.historicpalmyrany. com

657 East Ave., Rochester, 14607 271-4320 www.rmsc.org

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library events 23 * Saturday Make and Take Crafts All

15 * Friday Babies Love Books This early literacy class for babies from birth to 15 months (pre-walkers) with an adult supports early literacy and language skills in infants by encouraging singing, playing, talking and shared reading. Come for fun, stories and snuggling! 9 AM - 10 AM. Greece Public Library, 2 Vince Tofany Blvd, Rochester 14612. 225-8951. www. greecepubliclibrary.org

16 * Saturday Tail Waggin' Tutors All ages!

Cuddle up with a dog and a good book! Did you know that reading out loud improves reading skills? Animals are ideal reading companions because they create a relaxed and comfortable environment. 11 AM - 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-8150. www. libraryweb.org

Star Wars Party for All Join the Star Wars Party. The 501st Legion will be here in costume and we’ll have lots of fun activities for all ages and many picture taking opportunities. 1 PM - 4 PM. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd., Henrietta 14623. 3597092. www.hpl.org

19 * Tuesday Tween Craft: Painted Snowman Craft For ages 8 to

13. Create your own frosty friend with this simple Snowman Ornament kit. Materials are provided, courtesy of the Friends of Gates Public Library. Registration is required and limited to 25 people. 6 PM - 7 PM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 247-6446. www. gateslibrary.org

20 * Wednesday Homeschool Hour Come for the monthly Homeschool Hour! Hang out with other homeschoolers in our community room. Play games, make crafts, and have fun! 11 AM - 12 PM. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd., Henrietta 14623. 359-7092. www.hpl.org R

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ages! Make a fun winter craft! While supplies last. Run to the Children’s Center on the second floor of the Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County to create a one of a kind winter craft. 11 AM - 4 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-8150. www. libraryweb.org

Toddler Dance Party Come

with your caregiver and dance your sillies out to your favorite tunes! For kids 18 months-4 years old. 10 AM. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd., Henrietta 14623. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

25 * Monday Baby Explorers Enjoy the interactive baby play time! Come for a relaxed half hour spent playing and exploring. We will have a variety of toys and sensory activities that will help your baby to grow and learn. Designed for babies ages 0-18 months. 10 AM. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd., Henrietta 14623. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

26 * Tuesday Tween Craft: Straw Snowflake

For ages 8 to 13. Make a snowflake from beads and chenille stems, very simple! Materials are provided, courtesy of the Friends of Gates Public Library. Registration is required and limited to 25 people. 6 PM - 7 PM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 247-6446. www.gateslibrary.org

30 * Saturday Movie at the Central Library: Strange Magic All Ages! Rated

PG. The Children’s Center of the Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County is pleased to be able to bring you the new release Strange Magic. Rated PG, the film will appeal of families with children of all ages. 11 AM - 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 4288150. www.libraryweb.org

February 01 * Monday Story Time Stars This early literacy class for all ages with an adult makes books come alive with puppets, music, finger plays, flannel board stories and rhymes. Class is designed to support early literacy skills in children. 10 AM. Greece Public Library, 2 Vince Tofany Blvd, Rochester 14612. 225-8951. www. greecepubliclibrary.org

05 * Friday First Friday Films Enjoy short films and popcorn on the first Friday of each month! All ages. No registration. 10 AM - 11 AM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 247-6446. www. gateslibrary.org

06 * Saturday Bring Your Child to the Library Family Fun Day All

ages! Calling all families! Come to the library for a day of fun and games! Help the Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County celebrate Bring your Child to the Library Day. 1 PM - 3 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-8150. www.libraryweb. org

09 * Tuesday Reading, Rhythm & Rhyme

This early literacy class for ages 18 months through 3 years with an adult invites children to listen to stories, learn rhymes, sing songs and play rhythm instruments. 10 AM - 11 AM. Greece Public Library, 2 Vince Tofany Blvd, Rochester 14612. 225-8951. www.greecepubliclibrary.org

10 * Wednesday Music Makers! For ages birth through 5 years old and their caregivers, Music Makers! will inspire singing, dancing, listening and instrument playing in a variety of learning styles. Registration required. 10 AM - 11 AM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 247-6446. www.gateslibrary.org

12 * Friday Preschool Dance Party Dance

up a storm at the fun Friday party! For ages 1-5 with a caregiver. No registration. 10 AM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 247-6446. www.gateslibrary. org

17 * Wednesday R

Silent Library Teen Challenge

Can you do several different challenges without making any noise at all? Each activity will be timed and minutes will be deducted for talking. Remember to be QUIET in the library!! For ages 10-18. Please register. 2 PM - 3 PM. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd., Henrietta 14623. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

20 * Saturday Tail Waggin' Tutors All ages!

Cuddle up with a dog and a good book! Did you know that reading out loud improves reading skills? Animals are ideal reading companions because they create a relaxed and comfortable environment. T 11 AM - 12 PM. Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. 428-8150. www.libraryweb.org

23 * Tuesday Parachute Power Ages 3 and up

with an adult are invited to join us for parachute play which develops gross motor skills and teaches children to work together while having fun. Adult participation is essential! 10 AM - 11 AM. Greece Public Library, 2 Vince Tofany Blvd, Rochester 14612. 2258951. www.greecepubliclibrary.org

25 * Thursday K-2nd Grade Stories and Crafts Ages 4 - 8. Join the children's

librarian for stories, games, activities and a craft, chosen especially for this age group. Registration is required. 6 PM - 7 PM. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. 2476446. www.gateslibrary.org

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PLACES

By Carol Harvey

curing cabin fever

FIVE PLACES TO ENJOY OUTDOOR WINTER FUN

f there is one thing the Rochester area has an abundance of, it's winter. And for many of us it means a time to get out and enjoy this marvelous winter wonderland. While we dig out our snow shovels and windshield scrapers, we are also eagerly unpacking winter clothes, skis, snowboards, ice skates, snowshoes and sleds.

Winter in the Greater Rochester area offers some of the best family fun to be had. From watching animals play in the snow at the Seneca Park Zoo to snowboarding down a slope at Bristol Mountain Ski Resort, there's a lot to do. So don't hibernate inside, get your winter gear together and make plans for some outdoor fun. Cumming Nature Center

Bristol Mountain Ski Resort 5662 Route 64, Canandaigua 14424 374-6000 www.bristolmountain. com

There are 138 acres of skiable terrain with a variety of inclines for every skier and snowboarder from beginner to expert. The views from the summit and the 34 slopes are breathtaking. Bristol Mountain offers Learn to Ski/Snowboard packages, rentals, camps, a demo center, dining services in their lounges and so much more.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Park Ice Rink 353 Court St., Rochester 14607 428-7541 www.cityofrochester. gov/mlkparkicerink/

This outdoor ice skating rink boasts a kidney-shaped surface. Patrons can enjoy an expanded warming shelter that features a heated floor and fireplace, new rental skates and a new sound and lighting system. Rates are family-friendly.

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Genesee County Park and Nature Center 11095 Bethany Center Rd., East Bethany 14054 344-1122 www.co.genesee.ny.us

Winter is snowshoeing time at the park and snowshoes are available to rent through the months of January, February and March - weather permitting. Rentals are available first come first serve from 10am-3pm Thursdays and Fridays and noon-3pm on Saturdays and Sundays or bring your own.

RMSC Cumming Nature Center

6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512 374-6160 www.rmsc.org The Cumming Nature Center features groomed trails for snowshoeing and classic cross-country skiing in the winter months. Restrooms and snacks are available in the visitorsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; center. Trails are open five days a week: Wednesday through Friday, 9am3:30pm; Saturday and Sunday, 9am-4:30pm (closed Monday and Tuesday). Rentals are available.

Seneca Park Zoo

2222 St. Paul St., Rochester 14621 336-7200 http://senecaparkzoo.org What could be more fun that bundling up and heading out to the Zoo to watch polar bears and penguins? The Zoo is open all year long and winter offers the unique opportunity to see how animals adapt to the weather. Zoo hours are 10am-3pm from January 1 to March 31.

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