Minister Nadia Segar

Interviewed by Jennifer Diaby

Q&A

Minister Nadia Segar

Please introduce and tell us a little about yourself.

I am a girl that fell in love with the right man several years ago. Since then I have allowed him to have my life for better or for worse in sickness and in health. I have been tempted so many times, but I have kept only unto him and I will continue to do that as long as he allows breath to flow from this loaned body. I am far from perfect, so he continues to bathe me as I surrender my imperfections to him.

You have a phenomenal ministry that is so inspirational. Please tell the readers about your outreach ministry W.I.L.D.F.L.O.W.E.R.S.?

WILDFLOWERS is an acronym for Women Influencing Lives Daily through the Fathers Love Operating With Excellence to Reach Souls. Initially we began as a book club reading Biblically based books. Today that continues, however we have taken our learning step further by reaching into the community to have study’s and conversation with other women. We support our troops with care packages and provide gift baskets during the holidays.

What I found interesting is that W.I.L.D.F.L.O.W.E.R.S. is not only a outreach ministry, but a book club? How did your outreach ministry turn into a book club?

Actually, our book club became more of an outreach ministry. As we met, we began to realize that others needed to be built and encouraged, so it became our desire to reach others by connecting with them where they are in life. Some have a relationship with God, others don’t. Regardless of their relationship our desire is to move them from places of destruction to victory which is our churches mission.

What is the mission and purpose of your book club and outreach ministry?

Our meetings are a way for God to invite us to read books that we otherwise might not, and to allow Him through the Holy Spirit to cultivate and enhance our Spiritual growth by discussing various narratives and themes as we reflect upon the scriptures. Our discussions are rather organic, because we want to hear how the reading intersects with the individual’s experiences, memories, everyday life and current events. Not only that, to see each other blossom and grow in God’s grace and favor. And let me say my biggest priority is confidence. We have established “rules of engagement” and the ladies will tell you I am very passionate about maintaining confidences. We will NOT have breach of trust amongst ourselves nor against the Kingdom of God.

Where can our readers follow your ministry on social media?

Right now, we are listed on Facebook as WILDFLOWERSOFGOD.

Tell our readers about Mercy Covering, LLC. Where is it located and how long has it been in operation?

Mercy Covering is a 2-year-old gift from God given during a low time in my life. It is an online store containing hand crafted feather broaches. Devastated from grief and years of sexual abuse, I turned pain into passion by sharing the Coverings as gifts to friends and family. Inspired and guided by the Holy Spirit, I was led to spread the message of each Covering. Just as we are uniquely formed by the hands of God, each Covering is handmade and no two are identical….but neither are we. Covering designs: The feathers remind us of the lively Cherubim Angels mounted on the Ark of the Covenant covering God’s Mercy Seat. The blood of Christ is represented by the red circle. The logo branded into the red circle reminds us of Christ’s scared body. The Gold fastener reminds us that we are all being purified and refined through tribulation. The 12 Tribe Coverings are named in memory of two quarreling sisters Leah (Zilpah-maid) and Rachel (Bilhah-maid). See (Genesis 29:31 thru 30:22 and 35:16-18) and their prayers to God. Website: www.mercycovering.com Email: mercycovering@outlook.com FB: Mercy Covering FB: WildflowersofGod Email:wildflowersofgod@outlook.com

What is the main purpose Mercy Covering, LLC was created?

We believe that many women unconsciously wrestle with identity crisis failing to recognize they are truly a Masterpiece, COVERED by the blood of Christ. Never should we be “for sale” mentally, physically, or spiritually. It is our honor to encourage them to start right where they are by harnessing the power and authority they possess because they are COVERED.

Minister Nadia Segar W.I.L.D.F.L.O.W.E.R.S Women's Ministry Group

I absolutely love how you work to encourage women to join together. Why do you think it is important for women to encourage and uplift one another?

I believe it is important to encourage and uplift one another because it’s outlined in the Word of God, I believe it’s in Philippians 2:3. When we encourage, it’s in that moment we experience his Kingdom coming and his will being done in our lives. Women are so powerful not because we are encouraged by other women, but because God has given us authority and power to crush the adversaries head and destroy every Goliath that attempts to infiltrate our Peace. Peace means to be “whole”, “complete”, so that will never come from an added eyelash, the whip of our hair, nor in the span of our hips. Those things leave you wanting more, but when God washes of the Soul, girl you’re less likely to embrace that splintered feeling.

What is your greatest accomplishment in ministry?

My greatest accomplishment in ministry was obtaining my ministry license and forming WILDFLOWERS.

How important is a positive leadership role in ministry?

Positive leadership is important for ministry. But let me be clear, I do not agree with being positive at the expense of diluting the Word of God simply to please the masses. The moment the Word comes with reproach, some people attempt to spin it as negative…..no, it’s the Word and it is written to convict not to condemn. If you are convicted, it may be the result of God attempting to cultivate you and draw you closer to him.

You are a woman of many hats with your career of over 20 years, being a Board Member, Business Owner, and ministry leader. How do you find balance between your personal life, career, and ministry?

I can’t say that I have mastered balance. Ministry is demanding and I will tell anyone the key to balance is learning to be sensitive to the voice of God as well as knowing when to simply say “no”. My family is my priority and let me tell you my husband keeps me on track. He is notorious for helping me course-correct. I also have a planner which is a MUST now that I am back in school perusing another Master Degree.

I know you are a licensed minister as well as your husband. What is the key to having Godly marriage?

The key to a Godly marriage is forgiveness. Recently, I read an article about Gottman’s 4 Horseman of the Apocalypse”. It was dynamic in that it outlined Criticism, Defensiveness, Stone Walling, and Contempt as the 4 behaviors that can destroy a relationship. Of these I believe contempt is the worse because it holds the marriage hostage. My husband and I have differences in approaches and styles of learning, so we bring a different perspective to the table when it’s time to discuss various passages of scripture. We also agree that intimacy, passion, and commitment is required for a successful marriage. And let me be clear, these components are the same in our “marriage” to Christ. God desires for us to spend time with him, becoming onewith the word, THAT’S the intimacy. Next, he wants us to desire him, THAT’S the passion. Finally, he wants us to be persuaded and no matter what happens, we will remain committed because he is God in spite of the things that happen. When I start bugging-out, Ralph takes me to God. When Ralph starts tripping, I take him to God.

I know family is of great importance to you. What advice would you give the readers on how to build a strong family relationship?

I often tell the ladies that I don’t do masks and I won’t do lies. Most of us are broken in some way and if you aren’t pause and give God praise! I was taught that God created family male and female to represent his interest in this earth. They represent his interest as they disciple their children teaching them the values and principles outlined in the Word. It’s very important to have fun as a family because so many believe that serving God is no “fun”. That could be the furthest from the truth. What I really think they mean is they don’t want the accountability that comes with serving God, when really there are so many worldly things he removes from your palette. Anyway, communication and forgiveness are essential to building a strong family relationship.

Please share any of conferences, events, workshops with the readers.

We will have Author Annie Sally speaking October 17 to discuss Singleness and Marriage, information about that event is forthcoming. Then every Saturday in May we will be in Blackville, SC todiscuss “Lord teach me to Pray” by Kay Aurthr. In November we will have our 3 rd Annual Thanksgiving baskets and wrap up the year with our annual WILDFLOWERS Brunch.

Please search Facebook for the host of events that are going on with our church International Praise and The Hive Community Circle. We really need you to be a part of making a difference. If you ever decide to pay our church a visit, please do not hesitate to ask for me. I would absolutely be honored that you decided to allow me to share space with you.

Give us some words to educate, inspire, and encourage women and all of our readers of Growth Women’s Business Networks Magazine.

You must decide. Those around you can equip you with the tools, whatever they may be, but if you never decide, you never will. So, move forward by living a persuaded life. The people are waiting for you.

Minister Nadia Segar W.I.L.D.F.L.O.W.E.R.S Women's Ministry Group