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From the Editor’s Desk UR AUGUST ISSUE is devoted to the issue of pet loss and bereavement. Every single one of us knows that when we adopt an animal we will be seeing them through to their end. In spite of this knowledge, we choose to do it anyway knowing that at some point our hearts will feel broken. We make choices for them that we could not make for another human; our bond is undeniable. In this issue, three Triangle practitioners tell us how they uniquely support clients through the feelings of grief and loss that come with losing a pet. We have wonderful news to share. H2H Central is moving the office to a fabulous new space at the Monkey Bottom Collaborative in Durham. Monkey Bottom functions as a studio to metal artists and an event space for community happenings like gallery showings, dance parties and live music. A great, creative, community space. PLUS, there’s Fuzzy – the “shop cat”. He’s a big, sweet, affectionate boy who needs a forever home. He’s happy at MBC and we’re happy to have him, but he’s definitely looking for that special forever person. We attended two wonderful events this month. H2H helped sponsor IAR’s Painted Chair Auction. It was a lot of fun and was very successful. One piece of sculpture went for $1,000. Motorco in Durham provided a really fun venue for the event. Second Chance Pet Adoptions’ Auction for the Animals was equally as fun and successful. We have another great issue for you next month. It’s devoted to senior pets and the wonderful presence they lend to any family looking for love in an older pet.
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We will always choose to live with a cat or a dog ... it’s what we do. Kim & Mr. Man (Pierre)
AUGUST CONTRIBUTORS: CHARISSE COLEMAN, MS, LPCA, is a writer and counselor who resides in Durham. She has a general therapy practice with an emphasis in life transitions and grief and loss issues (lifeinmotiontherapy.com). Charisse co-facilitates grief support groups at Duke’s Unicorn Bereavement Center in Hillsborough. She also works with individuals and area vet practices, providing pet loss grief support. ROB GIERKA is a doctoral student and researcher with NC State University Deptartment of Leadership, Policy, and Adult and Higher Education. His research interest is anthrozoological bereavement education. He is President of the Association for Veterinary Pastoral Education (AVPE), a North Carolina not-for-profit organization that provides anthrozoological bereavement education and consulting services. TRACIE BARTON-BARRETT is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Psychology instructor and founder of Animals Connect Us. She has presented locally as well as nationally on the subject of animal loss and animal-human related topics. She co-facilitated a pet loss support group for North Carolina State Veterinary Hospital. She travels nationally to facilitate workshops on compassion fatigue. She has presented at the NC Counseling Association, and American Counseling Association conferences raising awareness within the counseling profession of the humananimal bond. BRITTANY DAIL WEST has been a volunteer with the Mid Atlantic Great Dane Rescue League since 2008. As part of her volunteer role she serves as Legislative Director, coordinates “meet and greet” events, screens potential adopters, and opens her home to foster dogs. She shares her home with two cats and five dogs, one of which is a deaf/vision impaired foster Dane.
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In This Issue
L B T T D R H
ETTING GO: Pet ceremonies can be a creative and significant way to say goodbye to your pet. ....................... Page 7 REED SPOTLIGHT: Great Danes – Gentle giants of the dog world. ........................................................... Page 8
HE PET CHAPLAIN: Support, advocacy and resources for the Triangle community. ................................... Page 14
AILS IN THE KITCHEN: Tasty tuna treats for your feline friends. .......................................................... Page 20 EALING WITH GRIEF: Processing grief can vary depending on your stage of life. ............................ Page 23 AINBOW BRIDGE: Remembering Annie. ................................................................................. Page 24 APPILY EVER AFTER: The story of Ollie from Brazil to the USA. ................................................. Page 28
ALSO Local Shelters (Pg 24) | Pet Events (Pg 25) | Word Puzzle (Pg 26) Breed Rescues / Advertiser Guide (Pg 27) | Pettoon (Pg 28) On the cover: Ollie (see page 28).
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If you would like more information about MAGDRL, go to www.magdrl.org or call 410-945-5454. With our combined efforts, we can help more Mid-Atlantic Great Dane Great Danes find the loving homes they deserve. Rescue League, Inc. The organization is a DC corporation and has a charitable tax-exemption under 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. All Donations are tax deductible, IRS number 52-1177018. Page 2
Tracie Barton-Barrett - Charisse Coleman - Brittany Dail West Rob Gierka - Susan Graff - Brian Less
Published by Thanos Publishing, 331 West Main St Ste 407 Durham NC 27701 919-246-4105 | email: h2h@heart2homemagazine.com Distribution is 8,000 issues throughout Wake, Orange, Durham and Chatham Counties. ' 2 0 11 Thanos Publishing and Heart2Home FACEBOOK: heart2home.nc TWITTER: H2Hmagazine Heart2Home makes no endorsement or guarantee of any product, service or business found in this publication and is not responsible for the results of any product or service herein. The publisher reserves the right to deny any advertisement for any reason. The views of the writers are not necessarily those of the Publisher or Heart2Home. The Publisher and Heart2Home do not make any guarantees whatsoever regarding the animals listed in these pages including availability. Readers should inquire of any particular shelter as to the process for adoption and availability of pets.
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CAT ANGELS PET ADOPTIONS : 919 463-9586: www.catangelsnc.org
Oliver :
Pippa:
I’m a handsome orange tabby boy. I’m told I have the most beautiful golden orange eyes – just look at them! I had an accident at my last home; my tail was caught in a door and was hurt so badly that they had to remove half of it. I was so scared! And in so much pain! Once I came here, they took care of my tail and stopped the pain. Oooooohhhh boy – did I feel better after that. Well, let me tell you, I will keep what’s left of my tail away from doors!! Would you like to come down and visit me? I’d love to see you.
Since I am a slender, elegant, well-dressed young lady I was named after another slender, elegant, welldressed young lady you may have heard of: Pippa Middleton – Princess Kate’s little sister. Don’t hate us because we’re pretty – we’re also very nice and very smart! Come on by our shelter and meet me! I’m looking for a wonderful new home – and hey, if it just happens to be a castle, I’m good with that. But seriously, as long as you love me and I love you – I don’t care where we live.
Freedom:
Liberty :
My brothers Justice, Liberty and I live here at Cat Angels with our mama Rachel Zoe. We were brought here when we were very small and this is the only home we’ve ever known. They treat us great here – we get all the great food we could possibly eat – there are toys everywhere – new friends to play with – and everyone here just picks us up to give us lots of love all the time! It’s about the best place ever! So ... we’d like to have our very own home, but we want one just like this one.
Vanessa:
I was abandoned outside, hungry and very, very pregnant! It was so hot and I was so hungry and thirsty. A kind lady rescued me and brought me here. I was pregnant with so many kittens that I looked like a furry bowling ball on toothpick legs. Not sure what a bowling ball is, but, if they are big round things, then, that’s what I looked like. A few days later my kittens started being born. One after another after another after another after another. Five kittens!
My brothers Justice, Freedom and I live here at Cat Angels with our mama Rachel Zoe. We’re told we are always into “monkeyshines”, whatever those are ... They keep talking about other things called, “shenanigans” and “tom foolery” that we keep getting into. Ummm..are these some kind of big toy? I don’t remember getting “into” too many things here, but maybe I’m wrong. So, if you know what these things are, can you come by to visit us and show us what they are?
Tanner:
I am part of the “Trailer Park Kittens”. We were born in a trailer park in Cary. Our mama was struggling to make milk for us to drink. A nice lady got our mama in something called a “humane trap” and we came with her. This nice lady talked quietly to us, and gave our mama lots and lots of good food. Then mama was able to make lots of milk for us! Soon, we were big enough to start eating on our own. I would love to have a home with another cat or kitten – either one of our gang, or another new friend.
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PAWS4EVER : 919 304-2300 : www.paws4ever.org
Nesquick: I’m the new office
Sand Dollar : I’m a new girl
cutie Nesquick. If you can’t tell from my pictures I am one little cutie that only weighs 19 lbs. And I am a very special lady as I am now living int the adoption center office as the new office doggie. So you know I am living it and acting as cute as I can so I get lots of treats and extra cuddles. I am an instant hit with everyone that walks through the doors, so I can’t help but wonder why no one has scooped me up and given me my forever loving home.
Stew: I am a one-and-a-half year
here at P4E. I was taken from Caswell County shelter, and all my babies got to go to rescue up north, but I couldn’t go. It made me really sad, and I miss them, but I sure am glad to be here at P4E until I find my new forever loving home. At first I was afraid of everyone,and didn’t want to play with other dogs, but I quickly realized that I was being silly. I now know how to walk on a leash, but I still can’t help but roll over on my back for belly rubs in the middle of a walk.
Sammy Single:
Sammy came to us as an owner surrender from the shelter. He had a massive infection in his left ear, which was unfortunately, left untreated. His ear canal had swollen shut from the inflammation, consequently, leaving amputation as his best option. He is recovering quickly & is more than ready for his new home! As a shy guy, he would do best in a home with little commotion. We believe he is somewhat shy due to the pain he endured while in the “care” of his human.
old boy. I spent a whole month in a shelter and now I am here to win your heart. I get along with all the kitties and have adjusted well. I will require a small amount of surgery to repair some of my eye lashes but no worries, this procedure will all be taken care of before I get adopted. I love attention and will be one of the first kitties to greet you when you enter the room.
Mr. Mom is currently staying with
Samantha:
I was recently returned to P4E because I was digging out of my human’s back yard, whoopsies. So now I am settled back into the routine here at P4E. I have made lots of new doggie friends, and I guess kitties are OK. by me too. When I was in the home I lived with a small child and a new born, so I have very good manners with wee little ones, and not so wee little ones. I got to be a star at our summer camp for kids here, that was a lot of fun.
Mr. Pants in a foster home. Mr. Mom raised all her babies who all found loving homes. Mr. Pants loves to eat, now that she doesn’t have to share with all the babies. Her other favorite things in life are chin scratches and lounging on the bed with a full belly. If you were on the market for a mouser, she is your woman for the job. If you are interested in meeting Mr. Mom, send us an email or give us a call and her foster mom will be happy to make arrangemants for you to meet her.
CHATHAM ANIMAL RESCUE & EDUCATION : 919 542-5757 : www.chathamanimalrescue.org
Pedro : If you want a forever com-
Widget: What is small, unique,
panion who’s devoted, full of love, and always ready for a cuddle, Pedro is your guy. He’s a big dog in a little body, but what he lacks in stature he more than makes up for in character. Pedro is housetrained, full of personality, and gets along with other dogs. He positively loves cats. However, he will do best in a home without young children. This happy, healthy boy can brighten even the gloomiest day with his loving heart.
and a bit indescribable? Well, a Widget of course! This wee fellow is definitely one of a kind. With such a small physique, Widget is looking for a home that is knowledgeable about small dogs. He weighs in at only 4 lbs, but he still enjoys being a dog! He loves going for a walk or swimming, and he is definitely a true lap dog. He doesn’t mind being held, but he also likes to use his own legs to get where he is going.
Marley
needs a special adopter because he is a special cat with special needs! Marley is deaf. This is likely due to an inner ear infection when he was a tiny kitten. His hearing loss is bilateral and while he is being treated with antibiotics in hopes this will cure the problem, it is not likely that he will regain his hearing. Marley has adapted remarkably well to his surroundings in his foster home and is no different from any other cat except that he cannot hear. Page 4
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Pumpkin
is never far away. Whether sleeping on your feet or helping with computer tasks, Pumpkin is always engaged and social. She is also a water hog! Loves to swat water drops cascading down the shower curtain, lives to catch you at the sink to lap at the stream! Pumpkin is a playful cat and needs toys that allow her to interact with you. “Punky Poo” is a curious little clown who has to be in the “know” about everything! She and my boy cats run up and down the stairs, sounding like thunderbolts.
CAROLINA CARE BULLIES : www.carebullies.org
Sponge Bob is a two-year-
Persephone is a six-month-
old Lab/pit mix with an unwavering joy for life! Deaf since birth, the absence of sound is of no matter Sponge Bob. A light tap, or using your body to motion him, does just the trick to get him to you! Sponge Bob has graduated from dog training classes, and responds well to hand signals. He is also housetrained, crate-trained, and enjoys car rides. He gets along best with female dogs, and would be happiest in a home with someone to play with – human or canine!
old pup that has been around dogs her whole life and knows sit, stay, wait, come, and leave it. She is working hard on walking on a leash without pulling and is house and crate trained. She loves food and treats so she is easily trainable. Persephone loves playing outside in the yard with the other dogs and absolutely loves playing in water of any kind. She likes balls, squeaky toys and any stuffed animal. She likes to snuggle close to you when you are on the couch.
Willow is a sweet , playful, and peo-
Tyler
is a 40-lb, one-year-old pit bull mix that loves to play with other dogs. Tyler has been enrolled in Pupsi Dog Training where he has learned dog socialization and basic obedience. When Tyler gets adopted, he can go back to Pupsi and work on his training free of charge. Tyler is very affectionate and has a lot of love to give! He is housebroken, loves children, and walks well on a leash. Tyler loves to give kisses and loves to shake your paw.
ple-pleasing pit bull. She is very intelligent, listens well, loves treats, and will sit for them. Willow is great with other dogs, from big ones to tiny, furry Papillions. Willow is even cat-friendly! She recently completed a foster workshop with K9Solutions where she worked on basic obedience in a class setting and did wonderfully! Willow is a joy to bring out in public because she is so mild-mannered around lots of activity and will often settle down for a nap.
Hooch:
Jewel is a very even-tempered and
This beautiful, people-loving dog walks well on a leash; loves to fetch & retrieve; and is very intelligent & laid back! Hooch gets along with most dogs but would probably do best in a home with another female dog to cuddle with. Hooch is short in stature but weighs in at 58 lbs because of his wide barrel chest. He is very food motivated and will eat ANY treat you give him, which means he’s also be very obedient for food — training classes would be a breeze for him.
sociable girl. As you can see, she is very much a pit “mix”, even though her mama looked like a pit bull! What she loves best is playing with her doggie friends in the backyard. Jewel really enjoys having her neck and ears rubbed and will easily fall right asleep upon you. When offered a treat, she will take it very slowly and gently from your hand, a plus for training. Jewel is so smart and her foster family is helping her learn manners around cats too!
SECOND CHANCE PET ADOPTIONS : 919 851 8404 : www.secondchancenc.org
Smokey Joe:
Biggie:
I’m a one-yearold border collie mix. My foster family found me wandering and scavenging for food. I had been on my own for a while. I’m still a big puppy, and I love to play. I am a pretty handsome boy, if I do say so myself. I have the most gorgeous blue eyes! I would be happiest in a home with energetic people who will give me the exercise and love I deserve. I love to play fetch, and play with toys of all kinds! I love other dogs and am learning quickly about cats too.
Stella:
I am a one-year-old, spayed female DSH. I used to wander the streets searching for somewhere safe to stay and of course for some food. It wasn’t a fun way to live. When I came into program I was quite pregnant and just weeks later had four kittens. When I first came to Second Chance I was shy and untrusting. I didn’t know what humans wanted from me but I am learning to love attention! I am developing a lovely personality as the days go on and my confidence is building!
I am a two-year-old neutered male Lab mix. I’m not really that big, only about 50 lbs, but I have a BIG personality! I was dropped of in this nice lady’s backyard, and she brought me to Second Chance. I love to play! My favorite toy is a kong bunny – it makes loud squeaks and is fun to carry. I like to chase after balls, but I’m not sure why I’m supposed to bring them back. I’m high energy and need a high energy family! I am housebroken, and know basic house manners like sit, down and stay.
Taffy:
I am a sweet four-monthold, spayed female DHS, Calico kitten that LOVES to lay on laps! I can keep up at playtime with my brothers, no problem at all, so I’d be a great companion for another energetic cat. I have beautiful markings, if I do say so myself! I have excellent litter box skills too. Come in and meet me! You won’t be disappointed!
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Heaven and Earth Animal Rescue Team (HEART) : www.HEARTpetrescue.org
Riley
is a sweet five-year-old miniature pinscher! He is such an affectionate dog! He loves to sit in his foster dad’s lap and nap in the afternoons- and he’s content to nap all morning, too! He likes everyone and is looking for just the right home to call his own!
Bitty Bear
is a happy older gentleman of the Yorkie persuasion! He is a contented little dog with few demands. He enjoys naps on HIS bed (the laundry basket) and short walks around the neighborhood. Our little old man lost an eye a few years ago and lost the sight in his other eye. This, however, does not stop him from running with the other dogs to discover who has dared to walk up to the back fence (deer) or to discuss the weather with the neighbor’s dog!
Albus
is a two year old Maltese that has lived in a commercial breeding facility until he was given to rescue. He did not have a great deal of human contact and does not appear to have enjoyed his time with other dogs. He is learning to trust people, live in a home, and to interact with other dogs in a normal manner! He now walks on a leash, so he can enjoy walks on area trails! Albus is looking for a very special experienced home!
Rita is a young Rat Terrier who
adores her people once she gets to know them. Wary at first, she quickly turns into the glue that keeps your lap together! Daily walks and weekly adventures help Rita build her confidence and courage! This little girl is looking for an older family that is still rather active and that is also experienced with dogs and able to offer her the quiet guidance she needs to continue her path to greatness!
Sid Notso is a silly dog with
a big personality! He ADORES his people! Once you enter his “circle of trust” he will be your enduring fan forever! He is a happy little dog that wants to be near his people. He is also nervous around strangers and still building his confidence!
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Loving, Losing and the Possibilities of Ritual by Charisse Coleman, MS, NCC, LPCA despite all the human encourageHEN, ANNIE, our 13-yearment (“Look, Annie! Look! Middy old toy poodle died suddenly Rainbow Bridge wants to be friends!”) and unexpectedly last January, my We stood in a semi-circle and lisJust this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. husband and I felt such a numbed When an animal dies that has been especially close to sometened to poems as we gazed at sense of disbelief. We never planned one here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows Annie, so small and still, and gently to have a funeral for her. We couldn’t and hills for all our special friends so they can run and scattered pink tulip petals over her. have planned a trip to the grocery play together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine We closed the lid and everyone store, much less a service honoring and our friends are warm and comfortable. walked around to the backyard our loss and one of the brightest All the animals who have been ill and old are restored to health where my husband had already dug sparks in our lives. Fortunately, our and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and a grave. He lowered her into the having to go out of town two days strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days ground, and when I asked if anyone after she died meant putting a hold on and timesgone by. The animals are happy and content, except wanted to share a memory, every all decisions. Decisions including for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to person there told of one favorite whether or not to have Annie’s body them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play togeth“Annie moment” that they had with cremated or whether we’d rather bury er, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into her. After we each poured a small her, and where. Our vet generously the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body begins to quiver. Suddenly, he begins to run from the group, flying trowel full of earth onto the lid of agreed to keep her for us until we over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. her box, we repaired to the house for were ready. food, drink, storytelling. Just as you Even before the eventual funeral we You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend would at any good southern funeral. had unwittingly begun to engage in, a finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your When I say that none of this was kind of formalized notice that helped hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more planned, what I mean is: we never us mourn. The day she died, when we into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your decided, “Let’s have a funeral service arrived at the vet’s to pick her up, we life but never absent from your heart. for Annie” and then worked out how were taken into a small, quiet, softly lit Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together... to achieve it. You could almost say room furnished with loveseat, end the ceremony created itself, one urge, tables, lamps. Annie lay on the one desire at a time. Each gesture we loveseat, wrapped in a sky blue hospital blanket. When I lifted her into my arms, she her before closing the lid for good. So “tulips” chose spoke to us, in some small way, of our heartbreak, our love, our aching desire to treat Annie was still warm. The vet, my husband, and I spent went on the shopping list that weekend. We did it all. A funeral in the front yard in the with a tenderness she could no longer feel. It was the next hour taking turns holding her, crying, speaking our lament to one another, reminiscing. gazebo with the next door neighbors who had our hearts that were tender, that needed expression. As weddings and funerals so often do, this one The terrible journey of coming to terms with our spent six years delighted by Annie’s never-walkloss was underway in a manner that it would not when-you-can-dash antics, her love of racing up went by in a partial blur. If I had it to do over have been if we had simply gotten a box with onto their stoop as if she were expected compa- again, there are things I would have done much ny, her habit of wriggling ecstatically all over the more slowly, to make sure I allowed myself to Annie’s body inside and gone home with it. We did bring Annie home overnight because tops of their shoes when they leaned down to pet experience all moments. Yet, however impromy husband and I both believe that the body is a her. A funeral with my mom, who had kept Annie visatory, those rituals helped us make the reality shell containing what is “us,” and that once the as an eight-week-old, two-and-a-half pound of Annie’s death, and our relinquishment of her life spirit departs, the body left behind isn’t “us” puppy, carrying her around in her purse most of dear little body, a more lived event. And, because anymore. It surprised me to draw such comfort her first day home, the friend who had let me our little homegrown ceremony did give us such from having her home. To be able to see, pet, and bury my cat in her English garden when I first a felt experience of our loss, it also, somewhat hold Annie’s lifeless, but deeply familiar, furry moved to Durham because my house was a miraculously, gave us a way, briefly, to have one six pounds that evening. In the morning, I bathed rental, and Another neighbor, whose sweet last moment to really be with her, rather than simand brushed her, again surprised that this ritual dachshund had an unquenchable, and, alas, unre- ply enduring something that had happened to us. Sorrow deserves to take its place and be given preparation for burial was not macabre or disits voice in whatever ways feel right: simple or turbing, but reassuring. How many times, in 13 elaborate, noisy or quiet, once-only or repeated years, had I done these very things for Annie? over time. It might mean including others who Was there a joint, a hollow, a rib, a contour of this feel the loss, too, as my friends did when they little body that I did not know almost as intiinvited us and another family to join them in mately as my own? sharing a picnic and scattering a beloved I suppose we wound up having a funeral for Aussie’s ashes at the river she loved so much. Annie for many reasons. First, the recognition Even putting photos on the mantel and lighting a that there were others who wanted to see and say candle, for one night — or a hundred. Or scrapgoodbye to her. Then my husband’s desire to “do books, websites, rituals on the anniversary of the right” by his little girl led him to create a lovely death, or putting flowers on a grave. casket in his wood shop. His dedication inspired Rituals done by rote can be discouragingly me to decorate the lid. I envisioned the funeral: empty. But rituals can be created from the heart. Songs sung and a couple of Langston Hughes And, when truly lived, they can help us express, poems read aloud. She lay in her box, white fluff enact, and embody our experiences. By paying against a brilliant red blanket, and each of us tossing a handful of pink flower petals in with quited love for this toy poodle up the block, continued ... see Ritual on page 26
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Breed Spotlight The Great Dane
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RIGINATING IN GERMANY, the Great Dane came to the US in the 1800s. Danes were originally used for hunting boar and their ears were cropped to prevent injury during a hunt. Today cropping is done for cosmetic purposes in the US, but is banned in many European countries. The most impressive characteristic of a Great Dane is its size. Great Danes grow rapidly. Fully grown males generally weigh between 120 and 180 lbs and fully grown females weigh between 100 and 160 lbs. They are very slow to mature, however, and take 18 months to two years to settle down. The Great Dane also has an impressive coat. Standard coat colors include: black, brindle, fawn, mantle, harlequin, merle and blue. Great Danes require very little grooming. They do not have much doggie odor and hardly shed. A bath from time to time will keep them clean, along with a brushing to Six-year-old keep the coat shiny. Many times, just a wipe Pearl is one down with a damp cloth will do the job. of the adoptable Most adult Great Danes can be real Great Danes from couch potatoes and do just fine in small MAGDRL on page 20. houses, apartments or townhomes if properly exercised. Great Danes are content to lie in the same room as the family goes about its business. They are also apt to lie in the middle of the traffic pattern. Great Danes are also usually outgoing, friendly and reasonably stable. They are adaptable and can easily live with other dogs, cats or children if properly socialized. They will play and roughhouse with each other, using their feet, mouths and bodies to slam and bat each other. They are most happy to play with a human. Some enjoy hide and seek and can play for hours. When playing however, keep in mind that the Great Dane is not a weather-resistant dog and do not tolerate extreme temperatures well.
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REAT DANES need a special commitment. Vet bills can be expensive due to some underlying genetic problems and any treatment rendered is costly because it is priced based on their size. Even if you are attracted to the looks or size of the Great Dane, realize that living with one on a full time basis is not for everyone. Danes do not eat as much as people think, generally a little more than a Lab or Doberman. However, bone and growth problems are unfortunately common in Great Danes and high quality food is a necessity. Bloat is another serious health problem for Danes. The lifetime risk of a Dane bloating is close to 40 percent. Bloat is treatable if caught early, but can be fatal so all Dane owners need to be aware of the signs and symptoms of this disease. Although they are fairly easy to train, their size makes it necessary to start early. They are good watch dogs because of their size and deep bark; however, their guarding instincts involve a waitand-see attitude before they decide if any other action is necessary. Danes are gentle giants. Their natural, good dispositions make Great Danes wonderful therapy dogs or participants in other community visitation programs. They also make great additions to a loving and supportive family. Contributed by Brittany Dail West, a volunteer with the Mid-Atlantic Great Dane Rescue Leauge.
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THE GOATHOUSE REFUGE : 919 542-6815 : www.goathouserefuge.org
Moon:
Raggedy Ann is a beauti-
Meet Moon, one of the orange boys! Four adorable and fun-loving kittens: Moon, Solo, Miro, and Felix. Two are champagne-colored, the other two are classic dark orange tabby. All of them are wonderful kittens ready to find their forever homes and families. Come visit them soon. The Goathouse kitten room is THE fun place to be this summer! DOB May 2011
ful and fluffy teenage calico girl who would love to be adopted with her orange tabby brother, Teddy Ruxpin. The two of them were found when they were tiny kittens living as outdoor strays, and were rescued and brought to the refuge. They are playful, sweet, and gentle kitties who would really like to find a home where they can be loved. Approx DOB July 2010.
Salem: What a charming fellow
Alex:
If you come to visit the Goathouse Refuge, you are sure to meet Alex. He’s an out-going and curious guy who wants to make friends with everyone he meets. Alex is a handsome orange and white boy who was rescued from a kill shelter. He’s happy to be alive and is ready to find a family to call his very own. A playful fellow, it’s a lot of fun to watch Alex chase his toys. He loves catnip mice! Approx. DOB March 2008.
this is! Salem is simply an all-around great cat....personable, friendly, and a bit of a flirt. An easy-going guy who loves making new friends, Salem is ready and willing to come home with you and provide unconditional kitty love. And did we mention handsome? Look at him ... he’s a beautiful cat in all ways. Come meet him soon! Approx. DOB May 2009
Angelica & Jack :
Snappy: Our Flickr friends think
Angelica and her brother Jack are our youngest kittens. Favorite things include each other, people hugs, and running around the room on little toothpick legs. These babies are adorable, mostly white with grey markings. They are regular domestic house cats, but they have short, soft hair and big ears, characteristics of the Cornish rex breed, which give them an interesting, exotic look. Sweet sweet kitties. DOB May 2011.
this little guy looks like actor Antonio Banderas with Cindy Crawford’s beauty mark. We just think he’s very very cute! Snappy would love to be adopted with his solid white brother, Button. These boys will bring lots of kitten fun and love to your home. DOB March 2010.
ALL BREED ANIMAL RESCUE OF THE CAROLINAS : www.allbreedanimalrescue.com
Cliff is a young adult male Aussie
Gypsy: I am a four-five-year-old,
mix that was rescued from a neglect situation in rural NC. He has battled several untreated ear infections but those will be taken care of very soon. He is a very sweet, submissive boy that would love a home of his own to teach him that life is pretty fantastic. He is very new to the rescue so check back for more updates.
10-lb toy poodle that was found wandering the streets wearing a horribly matted coat. My poor feet were so matted that I had to be sedated just to shave the mats off. They were like casts on my poor little feet. I feel like a million bucks now that I am clean and mat free! I have just arrived at my foster home so I am still adjusting to pack life. I am learning the dog door and get along fine with all the dogs here, as well as the reside feline.
Jack
is an eight-month-old Australian shepherd male. Jack and his sister, Jill, came from a neglectful situation in rural NC. Both puppies are blind but extremely sweet and will do just fine in a loving home. Blind dogs learn their surroundings and make great pets. Jack and Jill are new to the rescue so check back for more updates.
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Squiggles
is an adorable six-month-old mix breed pup. She is an incredibly sweet, submissive, and wonderful little pup. She is about 25 lbs and was found as a stray. She loves all dogs, cats, people she meets and is quite the little character. You can’t help but chuckle when Squiggles is around, as she seems to enjoy being the class clown. She is new to our rescue so please check back for more updates. Page 9
ALLEY CATS AND ANGELS : 919 303-3500 : www.alleycatsandangels.org
Athens
Percy
is a petite, pretty Siamese mix who is right around four months old. She started life in a big colony of feral cats with lots of other kittens. Since moving to her foster home, Athens has blossomed into a perfect little lady with great housecat manners. She is a very sweet girl and just loves to play with her foster mom and other kittens. Athens can sometimes be just the tiniest bit shy, but she has a ton of potential and is super excited to find her forever home.
Texas is a majestic adult, declawed
is a very handsome grey tabby and white boy with the cutest pink nose. He loves to be with you all the time and wants to be your best friend. He is a total love bug and loves to be carried like a baby – but he also likes to play. Percy loves all kinds of toys and is great at playing hide and seek, especially if you are hiding from him. Percy is a member of the Lonely Hearts Club and has a reduced adoption fee of only $50
Martini is a soft little grey kitten
orange tabby, but don’t let his distinguished look fool you – he’s an incredibly loving and playful cat. Texas likes to sleep in bed with his foster parents and especially loves his foster dad and jumping up in his lap. He wants to be beside you and involved with whatever you’re doing around the house, so he can soak up as much attention as possible. He’s a real love bug and purrs very easily. Texas gets along with dogs and is a very adaptable cat.
with white paws and tummy, plus a little white beauty mark on her face. If you look closely, you’ll see faint tabby markings along her sides. Martini is a great allaround kitten. She’s confident enough to explore on her own, but not aloof; she’s sweet and loving without being needy; she loves to play, but will settle down to sleep on the pillow next to you. Martini just needs someone to take a chance on her and find out how wonderful she is!
Mojito
Midori
is a rough-and-tumble, very talkative kitten who is just a few months old. He likes to follow his foster mom around the house, as well as make sure she knows when he needs attention – which is most of the time! While he will snuggle up next to you at bedtime, during the day, he spends his time getting you to play-fight with him. Several people who have seen Mojito think he looks like a tough little tom cat, but he’s really a very sweet kitten with a big heart.
is a black kitten, about 14 weeks old. Midori is just a little guy, the smallest from his litter. But he’s also the bravest – he was the very first to venture outside the bedroom at his foster mom’s house to go exploring through the house. Midori is also incredibly sweet and loving, though. When he first arrived at his foster mom’s house, he immediately toodled out of his carrier and crawled into her lap and started purring. Whoever is lucky enough to adopt Midori is getting one amazing kitten!
BEST FRIEND PET ADOPTION : 919 661-1722 : www.bfpa.org
Freddie
Hudson
is a happy, mediumenergy and loving dog. He would love to play with you, teens in the home or your other dogs in this safe environment. He also knows basic commands: sit, stay, lay down, shake, roll over, off, etc. Freddie also loves being part of the family. Freddie very much enjoys getting a good belly rub from his foster parents. At the same time, he can curl up and go to sleep while you are watching TV. This loyal and affectionate boy needs a home with pack leadership and lots of love.
is a gorgeous, gentle, sweet and loving dog. Hudson is very smart and very trainable. He has learned basic commands very quickly. He loves to play and run. When it is time to relax, Hudson wants nothing more than to curl up at your feet or snuggle down beside you on the couch (if you’ll allow it) and have his head scratched or his belly rubbed. If you’re searching for a dog to love and a dog that will in return be devoted to you, Hudson’s your guy!
Petey
is full of love and energy. He would be a great exercise mate. He is constantly playing with his foster siblings (three dogs) and is very submissive when these dogs let him know thats enough. Petey loves to cuddle, and he doesnt shed!! He truly is an amazing dog! We think Petey will be forever grateful to anyone who wants to love and protect him for the rest of his life. Petey was found as a stray one night on Hwy. 210 just standing on the side of the road. Page 10
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Thorn: Will you please rub my
belly? I’m very smart and lovable. In fact, I love to sleep on my back so I will never miss an opportunity to get my belly rubbed. I have a very unique coat collar and I look like a Timber Wolf. I love being around people and get along with all dogs. Thorn and his doggie pal Beau are victims of the economy and a broken marriage. They have been together for six years before they had to pack their bags.
2PAWSUP : www.2pawsup.org
Faith
Jack
is a super sweet, gentle girl who loves her humans and other kitties. Faith is blind in one eye and has to take a supplement to prevent infections, but that doesn’t slow her down! She is easygoing and loves to look out the windows and talk to the birds. Faith was declawed by her previous owners. She is looking for her forever home now!
Scout :
is an adolescent hound mix around seven months old. He is a strong boy with lots of energy and tons of play left in him. He loves ALL his foster siblings and wants to be near them every chance he gets. He will chase a cat that runs by but doesn’t seem interested in the ones laying next to him. He needs to learn good manners and how to calm down inside but we’re working on that. He would really love a home with a big yard and active lifestyle that enjoys training and interacting with a true hound! Can you help him find that home?
Roxy :
Hop Kitten:
Lab Lovers Dream! This is Roxy, an older lab mix pup, that’s been with us for her whole puppyhood after being found in the middle of the road when she was a few weeks old. It’s time for this girl to find her forever home. Do you know someone who’s been looking for a sweet, sassy girl to add to their family?
Don’t overlook the sweet charm of this three-footed gal, meet Hop Kitten! She has all fourlegs but was most likely born without one of her feet! She is looking for a forever home.
Attention all Chihuahua lovers: Adorable, blue Chihuahua mix puppy in need of a forever home. Scout came to 2PawsUp after being picked up, with a broken leg, by animal control. He has recovered well and is ready to move on to his happy ending. Pass him along to anyone you know that may be interested.
Cebu
is a sweet and playful young kitty, still looking for his forever home! If you are looking for a very social, interactive kitty that is good with dogs, cats AND kids then Cebu is your man!
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CHATHAM COUNTY ANIMAL SHELTER : 919 542-7203
Scrunchi:
Dempsey: Hello, my name is
Breed: American bulldog/boxer mix Sex: Female (spayed)
Breed: DMH Sex: Male (neutered)
Hello, my name is Scrunchi and I am looking for a forever home to call my own. I am currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new pooch to spend your days with, please come to meet me!
Demsey and I am looking for a forever home to call my own. I am currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new Kitty to spend your days with, please come to meet me!
Macy: Hello, my name is Macy
Charlie:
Beatrice:
and I am looking for a forever home to call my own. I am currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new kitty to spend your days with, please come to meet me!
Hello, my name is Beatrice and I am looking for a forever home to call my own. I am currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new pooch to spend your days with, please come to meet me!
Breed: DSH Sex: Female (spayed)
Breed: Labrador retriever/bloodhound mix Sex: Female
Sienna:
Hello, my name is Charlie and I am looking for a forever home to call my own. I am currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new pooch to spend your days with, please come to meet me!
Hello, my name is Sienna and I am looking for a forever home to call our own. We are currently at the Chatham County Animal Shelter waiting to meet my new humans! If you are looking for a new pooch to spend your days with, please come to meet us!
Breed: boxer/shepherd mix Sex: Male
Breed: German shepherd dog mix Sex: Female
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INDEPENDENT ANIMAL RESCUE : www.animalrescue.net
Watson is a handsome, sturdy
Collie is a lovely small, round
guy who loves the excitement of his ‘new’ life in rescue: meeting people, playing games, eating good food, and just plain running around. His ideal situation would be in a home with no other pets, a fenced-in backyard to run around in during the day, and a nice bed indoors to sleep in at night. His new family would walk and/or jog him frequently. This boy loves exercise and excitement! He will respond with undying devotion
tuxedo girl. As a kitten living on her own, she lost her eye due to an infection. But you’d never know it to watch her. She is entertaining, social, and wants to play, play, play. Her favorite activities are burrowing through a pile of tissue paper, and pouncing on your hand moving under the tissue paper. Collie would enjoy being an only cat, and will be a really interesting companion for someone able to appreciate her complex personality.
Henry
has the unique attributes of a corgi/Lab mix: short legs, curly tail, long body, and floppy ears. His unknown first life ended at a rural shelter, and now he’s working through a bit of shyness, especially with men. But with encouragement and patience he’s learning to trust all kinds of people. He loves to run and play, walks well on a leash, and listens closely to your every word – he’s as smart as they come! He loves cats and dogs, and would do very well in a quiet home with adults.
Kiki
is a beautifully marked tortie tabby with white feet, chest and belly, and luminous green eyes. She was rescued as a kitten, along with her mother and siblings, after their owner moved away and left them behind. She and her mother have been together in foster care for two years, and would love to find their new home together. They are both sweet cats, very well-behaved and playful. And they’re both beautiful!
is so named because he is so very, very friendly! He greets everyone at the door, even strangers, and follows them in order to get some attention. He even follows repairmen and plumbers around the house ‘supervising’ their work. He likes to go outside (on a leash) and explore the yard. This small kitty with shiny black medium-length fur gets along with all cats and dogs and would do best in a home with another young cat to play with
Momma Kitty
, a young Russian blue, was living on the streets with her three black kittens, trying to take care of her little family. Fortunately for all of them, they were brought into the safety of IAR fostercare. Momma is just a year old herself, and has a lot of living to do after her kids ‘leave home.’ She is sweet-natured and petite, a very nice kitty to have around. Right now she takes seriously her job of entertaining and disciplining her little brood. Photo courtesy of Abernocket Photography.
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A Pet Chaplain Rob Gierka What is Pet Chaplain? Pet Chaplain is a not-for-profit service for people who are grieving the loss of an animal and is a referral support program for veterinarians and their staff. Pet Chaplain also provides training programs for those who want to learn about veterinary pastoral care. A question I often get from people who hear about Pet Chaplain for the first time is, “Does your service provide a chaplain for the pet?” The question is understandable. The name seems to imply that. My role, however, is chaplain to the pet owner.
I Feel so Isolated and Alone. “It is just a pet, you can get a new one”; “I’ve had big losses in my life but this feels so much bigger.” These are words I often hear spoken among choked sobs and tears of grieving pet owners at the SPCA of Wake County’s pet-loss support group. This support group is the primary service of the Association for Veterinary Pastoral Education, a faith-based community organization. It has served the local community in person and online for more than seven years.
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ET CHAPLAIN extends veterinary pastoral support to people who have lost an animal, or have animals facing difficult circumstances, such as serious illness and euthanasia. The work is done with shelters, rescue groups, and veterinary hospitals to serve animal owners, doctors, and staff. The primary goals of this work are to help strengthen a person’s ability to manage their grief and to provide resources. A pet chaplain can address feelings of guilt, helplessness and sadness when there is little choice but to euthanize a pet. We support pet owners in processing feelings of impatience and frustration due to sacrifices including time away from their jobs and overwhelming medical costs. While veterinarians do their best to console pet owners, the time demands of their profession and a lack of training in anthrozoological bereavement make it difficult for them to assist owners in dealing with these issues. In fact, doctors and staff may also feel grief or compassion fatigue and can benefit from emotional support. A pet chaplain is uniquely qualified to respond to questions regarding animals and spirituality and upon request, are trained to conduct appropriate rituals, prayer, and memorial services, which some people find comforting. Unfortunately, many people in society do not acknowledge the depth of grief they feel for the loss of an animal. This is why researcher Kenneth Doka identified pet loss as a category of disenfranchised grief in 1989. A person’s experience of incurring a loss may involve no acknowl-
P
edgement, support or public mourning. A lack of social support can make it difficult for pet owners to receive honest attention of their feelings. Grief, left unattended or unacknowledged, can worsen feelings of isolation and alienation. A pet chaplain can assist pet owners and veterinary staff members at a time when many other support networks fail, or offer little sympathy or understanding for their loss. Why is it helpful to talk about prayer with regard to animal loss? Most people I talk with seem to appreciate the special type of spiritual support that a pet chaplain can provide. However, there can be some resistance from those who question the connection between prayer and animal loss. One day while doing pastoral rounds in a veterinary hospital I had a conversation with a woman who was waiting for her cat. I sat down to speak with her. I asked her how her pet was doing. She said he wasn’t doing well and that he had esophageal cancer and the doctor was recommending euthanasia. Before she brought her cat in that day her young son prayed that God would heal their beloved pet. She explained the boy and the cat were very close in age and that the cat is like a sibling to him. She was planning to take the cat home for his final time with the family over the weekend and would bring him in to be euthanized that Monday. She wanted to know if she should bring her son or leave him at home and was also concerned that her son would think that prayers do not get answered. I told the woman that she should
Rob Gierka participates in The Blessing of the Animals at Duke Chapel tell her son the medical facts, that the cat has a terminal illness, that he is no longer able to enjoy his food free of pain, and that it will only get worse unless the veterinarian does something to help. However, the woman’s question went deeper; they were theological. Beyond the medical facts, serious illness and death raise questions that we cannot easily answer. Death forces us to face our mortality, powerlessness, and the mystery of life. More significantly, illness and death refer us outward toward others and inward to self-reflection. We question life, death, and a possibility of an afterlife. This is also usually the case for children. The death of a pet is often the first time a child may ask these questions. My advice to the woman was that she should be ready to engage her son in this conversation as far as she thought he wanted to go, but to perhaps explain that believers feel that God does not intentionally cause injury, pain, disease, and death. These things are a natural part of living in the world. Do we need prayer relative to animal loss? In my experience, this question is moot. We have it whether we think we need it or not. The truth is, we often pray for loved ones, and call on God in times of pain and trouble, so it is only natural to call upon prayer or reflection when dealing with the loss of a beloved pet. Rob Gierka is a doctoral student and researcher with NC State University Dept of Leadership, Policy, and Adult and Higher Education. Contact Rob at rob@petchaplain.org
Pet Chaplain Services Pet Chaplain provides services in advocacy, resources, and education including: • Veterinary pastoral care to people who need assistance in processing loss. • Grief resources to clients and veterinary staff including grief workbooks, support groups, online and telephone support. • Educational opportunities like workshops and lectures on anthrozoological bereavement, veterinary pastoral care, and active listening. These core services offer many options to match personal needs with solutions that best meet those needs. The level of service is flexible, offering personal contact with an experienced pet chaplain or less personal forms of support like printed and online materials. In addition, Pet Chaplain provides veterinary pastoral support through the SPCA of Wake County. The support group meets once per month at the SPCA facility off Tryon Road in Raleigh. This is a free service sponsored by Pet Chaplain in cooperation with the SPCA. To sign up for the next group, see the SPCA website (spcawake.org/petloss). The group eets on the third Sunday of each month from 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm.
Upcoming Event A pet memorial service is being planned for this fall, in September or October. The community will gather at the SPCA of Wake County to memorialize our pets, share stories and offer support to one another. The service will be informal and you may use your own words of loving remembrance in this ceremony along with photographs, poems, prayers, books or other mementos. If you would like more information about the upcoming pet memorial service, contact Rob Gierka at rob@petchaplain.org, or call Pet Chaplain at (919) 858-6240. If you want to learn more about Pet Chaplain, see the website: petchaplain.org. Pet Chaplain does not provide psychological services or counseling. Pet Chaplain provides nondenominational spiritual support for the loss of an animal. If you feel that you need psychological counseling, I encourage you to contact a counselor of your choice. You may find some listed on the pet loss support page of the NC State College of Veterinary Medicine Veterinary Teaching Hospital website: http://www.cvm.ncsu.edu/vhc/pet_loss.html — R. G.
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312 Buckland Mills Court in Cary
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FRANKLIN COUNTY HUMANE SOCIETY : 919 990-1045 : www.fchsnc.org
Annie : I am as sweet as can be! I
Hope
was pulled from a high kill shelter along with her new born kitten. She is a sweet little girl that loves attention. She would be great with children. She is very affectionate. She even nursed two orphaned kittens who were abandoned at the shelter without their mother. Please consider adopting Hope. You will be glad you did!
am a little under a year old and weigh about 30 lbs. I think I am a hound mix, maybe with a little beagle in me. I was rescued from a local animal shelter and I am enjoying my foster home, but my dream is to find a family I can call my own! I live with a little dog right now and I love to play with her. I also get along with big dogs too. I am crate-trained too! If you would like to learn more about me, please email my foster Mom at allisonreneemills@gmail.com.
Radar is our miracle cat! For
Sweetie was pulled from a
unknown reasons, Radars previous owner left him at an animal control facility where animals are euthanized. FC Humane Society rescued him, but Radar had become jaundice and critically ill with a condition called liver lipidosis and was not eating. It didnt look like he was going to make it. Radar got weeks of injections, pills, and was force fed while horribly sick. The good news is that Radar completely recovered and he is now a super healthy and playful cat!
Buffy
and his sister Natalie were pulled from a high kill shelter. They were so young that a sweet Calico with one kitten accepted them as her own. He is now in foster care looking for his forever home. If you are looking for a kitten with high energy but very loving Buffy is your man. He has been neutered and ready to go to his new home. He would be great with children.
high kill shelter with her brother Night Night. Sweetie is a very affectionate little girl that loves to be held and get kisses. She purrs so loud that your heart just melts. She is very playful and can make a toy out of anything. Please consider adding her to your family!
Boo : I want to be your new best
friend. I am a pointer/hound mix and am about one-and-a-half years old. I was surrendered to a local animal control facility and was lucky enough to be rescued and taken to the best foster home ever! There are lots of dogs around and I play with them all. I like big dogs and small dogs, and I get along great with them all. There is also a cat living here, but I don’t pay any attention to him at all. I love to snuggle and be loved on and I will even crawl up in your lap if you let me!
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ANIMAL PROTECTION SOCIETY OF DURHAM : 919 560-0640 : www.apsofdurham.org
Winnie: This happy girl is WIN-
Sophie is a lovely border collie
NIE, a lovely Lab/pit mix who’s two-three years old. If you had to pick one word to describe Winnie, it would be “joyful” – just seeing her big smile and happy wiggle is guaranteed to brighten your day! She loves everyone she meets, is playful and excellent with other dogs (she would be a wonderful second dog and/or dog park dog). Winnie has come a long way since she first arrived at the shelter, thin and with extreme hair loss due to a combination of poor nutrition and neglect.
Arnold
mix who is about a year old. Though she’s sweet, gentle and tries very hard, she also has a very sensitive, submissive side so will need kind handling as she builds her confidence. She’s quite foodmotivated which will help with training. Sophie is looking for a calm, low-stress home where she can continue to come out of her shell.
Morey:
is a smaller-size, very cute beagle who is about two years old. He’s a rather worried little guy who perks up very quickly for food treats (which will be a big help with confidence-building!). He does well with other dogs. Arnold is looking for a calm, kind, Beagle-loving home.
As you know, MORE means EXTRA and MOREY is EXTRAspecial. Such a handsome and mature gentleman. He is simply irresistible when he stares at you with those big, brown eyes. He loves to sit in your lap and he will let you brush his beautiful hair forever. Morey is like most other men; he really enjoys a good meal and lots of attention. Hours of pleasure await you when you make Morey part of your family.
Chrissy
is a short-haired tortie with a sociable personality. This gentle, bright-eyed girl makes both feline and human friends quickly. She readily settled in with her roommate, and continues to happily share her space. Take Chrissy into your lap, and non-stop purrs of contentment immediately begin. The only difficulty you’ll have with this good-natured kitty is saying good-bye when it’s time to end your visit!
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Simon: Hello! I’m SIMON the
Explorer. I just love to investigate and I’ll give you a little meow letting you know how curious I am! I don’t want to miss a beat. I’ll look around at everything with my big, green eyes, but if you give my soft gray coat a brush, I’ll curl up in your lap and purr contentedly.
SAFE HAVEN FOR CATS : 919 872-7233 : www.safehavenforcats.org
Misty Grey:
Harley:
Young at heart with a sweet meow. I love to have a special corner to call my own but I also love to sit on laps and “make biscuits.” I’m proud of my beautiful gray coat and appreciate brushing to keep it looking its best. I also like to keep fit and have been known to bound around the house with pure exuberance.
One special dude. Like the bike I’m named for, I may look tough on the outside but I’m oh-so-easy to handle. Despite having just one eye, I can take on almost anything but a tornado – that’s why my person had to ask SAFE Haven to find me a new place. But I know when you meet me, you’re going to find room in your heart for a big, ole cat like me. Everyone here will tell you I just can’t get enough love.
Isabela: Lovely as my name.
Juno:
Ready to be your buddy. Don’t my eyes say it all? I’m a very attractive tabby with Maine coon good looks. I was found in a subdivision close to SAFE Haven and although it’s clear I have lived with people before, a search for my family turned up nothing. Now I’m ready to find my forever home and people who will value me for the sweet cat I am.
I’m a frisky, yet sweet, kitten who loves batting a toy around or curling up for a little nap with my sister Adelina. There is a calm about me that says I’ve weathered some trouble (being abandoned with my sister) but come through it just fine. I’m just as confident that the right person or family for me is going to come through the door very soon. And could you please consider keeping my little family together and find it in your heart to adopt Adelina, too?
Brendel:
Strikingly beautiful, still a bit shy. I’m a special young cat who’s looking for just the right place where I can settle down forever. There are so many new sights and sounds to take in that I’m a bit overwhelmed. But your soft voice and gentle touches will win me over and I’ll make you so glad that you decided that I, above all the others, should be your friend.
Brightheart:
Siamese mix sweetie. Striking markings, no doubt , but also a fine personality to match. I’m inquisitive, smart and look forward to meeting new people. I’m so glad I now get my chance to be adopted into a forever home. Could it be yours?
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Tails in the Kitchen Mid Atlantic Great Dane Rescue League : 252 566-8934 : www.magdrl.org
Tuna Tidbits
Duke is a beautiful 13-month-old
brindle male with natural ears and a heart of gold. He came to rescue from a shelter. Duke is living with both male and female large and medium dogs. He is the sweetest boy ever and aims to please his foster parents. He knows sit and loves to shake! He enjoys playing hard with his foster brothers and sisters. Duke was living outside before coming into rescue. He is now housebroken and he is learning house manners and doing amazing!
I
RECEIVED A LOT OF POSITIVE FEEDBACK regarding my last article on foods that can be hazardous to your pooch. But I was often asked, “What about the cats?” So I did a little research and this is what I discovered. Just as with dogs, onions and garlic, whether raw, cooked or powdered, contain sulfoxides and disulfides, which can damage red blood cells and cause anemia in cats. Felines are more susceptible to this than dogs. And garlic is less toxic to cats than onions. Did you know that baby food can also contain onion powder? Cats fed baby food for an extended period of time can become anemic and/or can become nutritionally deficient, if fed large amounts. Canned tuna (for human consumption) when fed to a cat in large amounts can also by Susan cause malnutrition, since it lacks proper levels of vitamins and minerals. Graff Specifically it can lead to thiamine deficiency. Thiamine deficiency can lead to loss of appetite, seizures, and in severe cases, death. Now remember, this is tuna in large amounts. Also be careful with bones from fish, poultry, or other meat sources for they can cause obstruction or laceration of the digestive system. Interesting enough, for those outdoor cats who may cruise your garden bed, rhubarb leaves contain oxalates, which can affect the digestive, nervous, and urinary systems. And persimmon seeds can cause intestinal obstruction and enteritis. What to do if your cat has ingested something it shouldn’t have? It is a good idea to call the Animal Poison Control Center (888-426-4435). It is important to keep your vet’s number and the emergency vet’s number in a safe place where they can be found quickly in case of an emergency. Remember that a little tuna, in moderation, is safe for cats. Here’s a cat treat recipe that contains tuna and has been a big hit with my kitty clients. It found it on the website: Petplace.com Enjoy!
s Tuna Tidbit ) ce.com (from petpla
Chloe
is a one-year-old fawn female with natural ears. Unfortunately she has demodectic mange and cherry eye on her left side. She was surrendered by her previous owners due to the increasing cost of her treatment. Chloe is being treated for her demodex with mitaban dips and has been on Cephalexin for infection. We are trying to raise the money to continue paying for her demodex care and to get her Cherry eye fixed, the surgery for the Cherry eye is going to cost approx $375.
Pearl
is a beautiful six-year-old merle female with natural ears. You would never know that this girl is six years old, she has a wonderful bounce to her step and is a very happy girl. Pearl has a wonderful temperament, and is great with children and all animals. Pearl is a big leaner she just loves to lean against you to get all kinds of pets. Pearl gets along great with everything. She is in a foster home now with four other dogs of various sizes, from a Chihuahua to a Greyhound.
Kracken
is a one-and-a-halfyear-old black male with natural ears. He came to rescue because he got too big for his owner. Kracken came to his foster home with need of a few corrections and some training but huge potential! In a very short period of time he has made great strides with his training. He was once a pretty wild guy unsure of what to do with all of his energy, and had some mild separation anxiety, but is now a very gentle and loving soul who is eager to please.
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and-a-half-year-old harlequin male with cropped, but not standing, ears. He came back to rescue for economic reasons. We suspect that Romeo got his name because he is quite the lover. He loves companionship and he rarely leaves your side unless he needs to. When his foster family is not home he is very trustworthy in the house and has never had an accident or torn anything up.
SPCA OF WAKE COUNTY : 919 772-2326 : www.spcawake.org
Snickerdoodle:
Mack:
I’m looking for my forever home. My previous family could not keep me, so I’m back at the SPCA looking for my forever home. I would love nothing more than to spend my time running and playing with you! Obedience classes would be an excellent way to help me perfect my canine skills and give me a chance to make some new friends. I’m looking forward to spending the rest of my days with someone who will give me all the love and attention I deserve. I am full grown at 57 lbs.
I’m one handsome pup who’s motivated to find my new home! I’m ready to play at any moment and will be happy to show you how enthusiastic I am. I must go to a feline free home since I can’t help but chase them. I’m a smart guy and I already know sit, down, and I’m learning shake! I’m crate trained too! I also love belly rubs! We could play fetch together and I can show you how nicely I sit and wait for you to throw the toy. So come to the SPCA and meet me!
Rufus :
Hemi: Woosh! Zoom! Zing! No,
My name’s Rufus, but it might as well be lovey, dovey, cuddlebug! I’m one of the most loving cats that has ever graced the halls of the SPCA. Spend a little time with me and you won’t be able to leave me behind. I love to be held and get my chin scratched – I’ll even stretch my neck out to ask for attention. Don’t you think a sweet boy like me would make a great addition to your home? I am FIV positive (feline immunodeficiency virus) but there’s good news, I can still live a long normal cat life!
Jasper :
I’m pleased to meet you! It’s been awhile since I’ve had a home of my own. Do you think you could make a little room for a handsome guy like me? Maybe you could even splurge and get me one of those neat cat perches – that way I can comfortably lounge and observe all the fun activities that happen around our house! Even though I enjoy a nice warm cat bed, I still like to run and romp around for my daily exercise. Laser pointers are so intriguing-I can chase the little beam of light forever!
that’s not a tornado swirling through your living room – it’s me, Hemi. I’m an energetic kitten who can’t wait to play all day! Playing is what kittens do best, you know, so get ready to be entertained. Scratching posts, cardboard scratchers, feather wands, laser pointers, fuzzy mice - these are all things I hope my new family will provide for me. I really enjoy the company of the other kittens I’ve met here, so wouldn’t it be awesome if one of my new friends went to my new home as well.
Keith:
I’m waiting for an opportunity to show a fun family what a great fit I’d be for their newest friend! If I had to choose a few words to describe me, I’d say I was fun-loving, smart and full of life. I ride well in a car and think it would be most awesome if I could come with you on vacations, to the park or a camping trip. I’ll be happy as long as we’re together. Getting the exercise I need is key to keeping me happy and healthy – no couch potatoes for me!
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Healing the Loss of an Animal submitted by By Tracie Barton-Barrett, MS, NCC, LPC
I Jessica’s Story (all names are changed)
Jessica never wanted to make this decision. As she gazed with loving and tender eyes upon Rusty, her very sick Golden Retriever, she knew that that the tumor had grown, and that pain had enveloped Rusty’s limp body. Although his tail still gave a quick, uncoordinated wag when Rusty saw his beloved caretaker, Jessica’s heart felt extremely heavy seeing Rusty lay on his side, no longer interested in food or his beloved squeaky toy. The tears streamed down Jessica’s face as the numerous memories of Rusty flooded her mind. He had been her life-long companion; serving as her “rock,” years before Jessica met her husband, or had children. Now, Jessica was faced with the decision she never allowed to enter her mind, much less make: euthanasia. After a great deal of emotional turmoil and tears, Jessica knew that she needed to make the dreadful call to the veterinarian. What she did not anticipate was the deluge of emotions that, for a while, removed her from her normal activities, forcing her to take time off of work.
T IS UNFORTUNATE, that Jessica’s situation is all too common and implores us to ask: How does a person truly know when the time is “right” for euthanasia? It often comes down to quality of life for our pet. However, the thought of having to make this awful decision can sometimes be too much to bear, though we know well ahead of time our animals will not live as long as we will. Animals are valued family members, more than just pets. We love the way our fur-babies greet Tracie Barton-Barrot and friend us when we walk through the door, the quirky way they eat, the interaction as they al understanding of grief can further compliengage us through play, the times they have cate this process. One of the most common statements I hear as a counselor is “I cannot licked our tears away. Our animals serve as living treasure-troves believe I feel this way. My mother died, my of memories. These experiences and memo- father died, and I did not react in nearly the ries are irreplaceable and they do not simply same way. Is there something wrong with vanish when our animal dies. Even when a me?” Failing to acknowledge grief around one loss can sometimes beloved animal dies naturally, be a trigger for previous the pain can be extremely agounresolved losses. Until one has nizing and confusing. It can feel hurtful when well-intentioned loved an animal, Bless the Children people offer “He was just an ania part of one’s OR MANY mal. Why don’t you just get children, the loss soul remains another one?” The grief we of an animal is the experience around the loss of unawakened. first time they our pet is real and should be recAnatole France experience death and ognized as such. they often do not have the According to the American life experience or vocabPet Products Manufacturing Association’s yearly survey, in 2010 alone, US ulary to deal with their feelings. Grief is most pet owners spent $48.35 billion on pet food, likely a new phenomenon to them and chilpet care and supplies. It is predicted to be dren need to be able to look to the adults in $50.84 billion for 2011. In contrast, the 2007 their lives to better understand how to total for expenses was $41.2 billion. Today, process this new emotion. You may feel dogs or cats reside in one out of three continued ... see healing on page 26 American households. Why are we so attached to our animals? Due to the mobility of our society, coupled with the most common emotional general inaccessibility of extended family members, dogs and cats and physical reactions to losing a pet: in particular, make wonderful • Shock/disbelief/numbness/denial companions on the journey of life. • Anger at pet; at others; at God It is a natural response to grieve • Sadness/depression the loss of any family member, • Anxiety, guilt, loneliness regardless of whether they have two or four legs. • Embarrassment and confusion • Headaches or stomachaches; The Normalcy of Grief Chest pain/heaviness • Increase or decrease in eating RIEVING is a normal reaction or sleeping habits to the loss of something or someone for which there If there is any increase in intensity or a sudden is an attachment or a onset of new painful feelings, it is important value. Our society, in parto take the necessary measures to maintain ticular, is not known for grieving physical and emotional health such as seeking in healthy ways and our personthe help of a grief counselor or a support group.
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ORANGE COUNTY ANIMAL SERVICES : 919 942-7387 : www.co.orange.c.us/animalservices
Sherri: This sweet pit bull mix
Toby:
If you are thinking about adding to your family and appreciate a well-adjusted, gentle and affectionate personality, look no further! He is a three-year-old grey tabby & white kitty whose owners moved and couldn’t take him or his three pals with him. Toby (and his buddies) are all friendly and social, but not pushy. They wait patiently for attention and are respectful of each other and their visitors. Those who take a moment to notice Toby and his mellow roommates will certainly be glad they did.
is around a year-and-a-half-old. Sherri is an affectionate and sweet pup that can be a little shy at first, but is gentle and enjoys being around people. She has a medium activity level and does well with other dogs! This smart girl likes treats and is eager to please, so a gentle handler should have no problem training her easily! And best of all, Sherri is so loved that she has a sponsor who will pay the adoption fee so that this adorable girl can find a great new family and place to call home!
Jenna:
Mario &Luigi:
This gorgeous calico & white kitty is around four years old and super lovable. Jenna came into the shelter as a stray, but has made herself right at home. She is fine spending her days lounging and people watching, and especially loves a little one on one attention when it’s offered to her. This easygoing girl adapts quickly to new situations and will have no trouble making herself right at home with a new lucky family!
These fourmonth-old basset mixes are hilariously goofy and sure to keep you laughing and smiling. These cute brothers love people, but have just enough shyness in them to make them avoid rushing toward you. Instead, they wait for you to invite them over. While they wait, they wiggle, dance, make noises of excitement and frustration, and do just about every other adorably funny thing you can imagine! There is sure to never be a dull moment with these sweet babies!
Parsnip:
If the term Purr Machine is appealing to you, come meet Parsnip! This adorable four-month-old kitten is all purrs and loves nothing more than to spend a little quality time with you. This gentle boy isn’t invasive and won’t beg for attention, but will definitely take and appreciate it once its offered! And when he’s not busy purring your ear off or sitting in your lap, this silly boy is probably lounging or napping. That’s right, Parsnip knows the meaning of taking it easy and isn’t afraid to show it!
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Aladin
is an eight-month-old lab mix. He is playful and goofy, and sure to keep you entertained. He came to the shelter as a stray, so we don’t have much history on him, but he’s been nothing but loveable and charming since his arrival. This silly boy loves people and is always up for an adventure or just some quality time together. Aladin would make an excellent travel buddy or a good second dog for a family looking for a canine buddy! All in all, this beautiful boy is sure to bring lots of fun and happiness into a lucky new family!
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Shelter & Rescue Organizations DURHAM COUNTY
ORANGE COUNTY
Animal Protection Society of Durham
Orange County Animal Services
Durham : 919 560 0640 www.apsofdurham.org
Chapel Hill : 919 942 7387 www.co.orange.nc.us/animalservices
Independent Animal Rescue
Paws4Ever
Durham : 919 403 2221 www.animalrescue.net
CHATHAM COUNTY
All Breed Animal Rescue of the Carolinas
Best Buddies Companion Rescue
Cary: www.allbreedrescue.org
Alley Cats and Angels Apex : 919 303 3500 www.alleycatsandangels.org
Best Friend Pet Adoption Cary : 919 661 1722 www.bfpa.org
Cat Angels Pet Adoptions Cary : 919 463 9586 www.catangelsnc.org
Chatham Animal Rescue & Education Pittsboro : 919 542 5757 www.chathamanimalrescue.org
Chatham County Animal Shelter Pittsboro : 919 542 7203 www.chathamnc.org
The Goathouse Cat Refuge Pittsboro : 919 542 6815 www.goathouserefuge.org
Garner : 919 802 3948 www.feralcatfriends.org
FRANKLIN COUNTY
Hobbes House Feline Rescue
Franklin County Humane Society
Wake Forest : 919 562 0697 www.hobbeshouse.org
919 990 1045 www.fchsnc.org
Marley’s Cat Tales
HEART
Cary : www.marleyscattales.org
Youngsville www.heartpetrescue.org
Wake Forest : 919 788 3633 www.anewleashonlifedogrescue.org
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Pittsboro : 919 882 0001 www.bbcra.org
Feral Cat Friends
New Leash on Life Dog Rescue
Annie
Mebane : 919 304 2300 www.paws4ever.org
WAKE COUNTY
SPCA of Franklin County 919 556 0954 www.spcafc.org
Paw Prints Animal Rescue Garner : 919 772 9107 www.pawprintsrescue.org
SPAY/NEUTER SERVICES
Pawfect Match Rescue
Animal Kind/The $20 Fix
Holly Springs : 919 522 1307 www.pawfectmatch.org
Raleigh : 919 870 1660 www.animalkind.org/fix.html
SAFE Haven for Cats
SAFE Care Feline Spay/Neuter Clinic
Raleigh : 919 872 7233 www.safehavenforcats.org
Raleigh : 919 872 1128
Saving Grace Animals for Adoption Wake Forest: www.savinggracenc.org
Operation Catnip
Second Chance Pet Adoptions
Raleigh www.operationcatnip.org
Raleigh : 919 851 8404 www.secondchancenc.org
Pet Overpopulation Patrol
Snowflake Animal Rescue
919 942 2250 www.pop-nc.org
Raleigh : 919 990 2478 www.snowflakerescue.org
Saving Lives
SPCA of Wake County
SPCA Wake County 919 772 0211
Raleigh : 919 772 2326 www.spcawake.org
2 Paws Up Raleigh : www.2pawsup.org
Rainbow Bridge OW IS THAT, IN AUGUST, a loss occurring the previous January can seem as if it happened only a moment ago, and also as if it has been years, already? What accounts for this sense of time’s simultaneous collapse and expansion? What I’ve noticed is this: when measured by the distance she is from my heart, no time at all has passed; when measured by her absence in my life, the time is a gulf that stretches long, deep, and wide. Annie was our 13-year-old, white, toy poodle. Smart and sassy, she weighed a little more than a sack of sugar. She’d rather be with people than dogs. She slept curled behind my knees when I lay on my side. She could spot a squirrel at a hundred paces. She kept a continual vigil from the sill of our nine-foot wide living room window, gazing out over the top of the hedge, alert for any sight or sound of movement on the street. Or, as my husband and I thought of it, Her Street. Her Universe, really, since she took personal offense at slamming car doors, shouts of hello and goodbye, deliveries and pickups trucks of all kinds, cyclists, walkers, other dogs, the aforementioned squirrels, birds, kids on skateboards, Jehovah’s witnesses, and pretty much anyone who approached our door, which she could see from her watchtower. Annie hated going to the vet, seeing rain, getting a bath, having her nails clipped. Also, having her teeth brushed, after which she always trotted away with a growl, never giving me a backward glance (so there). She knew her basic obedience commands and, after pausing just long enough to let me know who’s idea this was, she would comply (mostly.) Annie met people who adamantly claimed a blanket dislike of small dogs, and promptly turned them into people who crooned her name across two octaves and four syllables when they saw her. She liked to be held against your chest, one hand scooped under her hindquarters, forelegs and paws hugging your shoulder and arm, her sliver of a jawbone resting in the crook of your neck. She liked to be close, and she liked to be up high, where she could see whatever there was to see. We’re pretty sure Annie has had a time of it in heaven, explaining to everyone that she is not a dog, she is a poodle, and don’t they understand the difference that makes? And surely, her heaven is the place where she, at long last, has caught a squirrel. (In squirrel heaven, of course, that is a different story.) Now, the little dynamo who cranked her energy into the approximately 123,000 hours of the 5,000 plus days she was in my life has been stilled. And, even though I am the one who has been telling people all along not to be fooled by her lack of stature, her thundering absence still astonishes me. No tool can take the measure of a space carved out by loss. So we pour reminiscence into the space, and listen to the echoes there, and wait for the sharpness of the pain to ebb from our hearts. In the end, Langston Hughes may have said it simplest and best: I loved my friend [S]he went away from me There’s nothing more to say The poem ends, Soft as it began — I loved my friend. I miss my friend.
SNAP Raleigh : 919 783 7627 www.snap-nc.org
Wake County Animal Control Shelter Raleigh : 919 212 7387 www.wakegov.com/pets/shelter
SNIF Franklin County : 919 990 1047
submitted by Charrise Coleman. Read more about Annie on page 7 For more shelter and rescue info visit: www.heart2homemagazine.com Page 24
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Pet Events Snowflake Animal Rescue: 919 990-2478 : www.snowflakerescue.org
Zumba loves to zoom around
the house! He is a sweet, active little guy who was rescued from the back of a truck. He loves people, other cats and attention. Kittens don’t come much cuter!
CCB’s 2nd Anniversary Bully Ball Saturday, August 20 : 7:30 - 10:30 pm Carolina Care Bullies event at the Creekside Hills Clubhouse, 1000 Creekside Hills Drive in Apex. Tickets are $20 advance/$25 at the door; formal attire; DJ music from iDJNC; food and silent auction. Contact: www.carebullies.org
5th Annual Music for Fences Saturday, August 27 : gates open at 4 pm A benefit for Coalition to Unchain Dogs at Durham Central Park, 534 Foster Street featuring music, food and drink, vendor booths and a raffle. Bring a blanket and lawn chairs. $12 advance, $15 at door, kids under 12 are Free. Contact: http://musicforfences.org/
CARA Run For Their Lives Saturday, August 27
Tequila is a big, hunky kitty.
A 5K and 10K run to benefit Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption of Sanford at Kiwanis Park on Wicker Street. The run is coursed through the streets of Sanford. There is also a 1/2-mile walk. Registration begins at 8:00 am. There will also be music, kid’s games, food and a raffle. More information: www.cara-nc.org
He is a sweet boy who lived many years on the streets before being rescued and learning all about the good life the indoors hold. Now he knows this is the life for him. Watching birds out the window is as close to the outdoors as he cares to get. Tequila is a great boy who deserves to be pampered and loved. He can work his way into your heart very easily and he’s done so with all the Snowflake volunteers he’s met.
3rd Annual Celebrity Paws for C.O.P.E Saturday, September 10 : 10:00 am - 2:00 pm
Keeley: Meet Keeley, a long-
haired beauty with a cuddly personality. All that hair makes her look much bigger than she really is. She loves to give head butts and cuddle in your arms. Keeley is very sweet and affectionate and would do best in a quite home. If you are looking for a special someone to keep you company on this upcoming cool fall evenings, pick Keeley!!
Annual event celebrates the service of therapy and service dogs through demonstrations, music, and art. Live performing celebrity canines are featured throughout the day. Vendors include caninefriendly artists, trainers, animal rescues, mobile vets, eldercare service organizations, and senior health related providers. The event is free and open to the public, and dogs are welcome. Event is held at Laurel Hills Park, 3808 Edwards Mill Road in North West Raleigh. Contact: www.celebritypawsforcope.org or Sabrina Simon at simonevents@hotmail.com
10th Annual Woof-A-Palooza Saturday, September 17 : 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Dog walk benefiting C.A.R.E. Chatham Animal Rescue & Education (rain or shine). There will be a one-mile walk, contests, food and fun. Pre-registration is $25 with t-shirt and $35 at the event with shirt. Event location is the Central Carolina Community College at 764 West Street in Pittsboro. For more information: call 919-542-5757 or email woofapalooza@chathamanimalrescue.org
Holly Springs Dog Day in the Park Saturday, September 24 : 10:00 am - 4:00 pm
Sherman:
He’s a super friendly boy who just has loads of love to share. Sherman loves to play with a feather wand toy (It’s a definite favorite of his.) and is happy to perch on the highest spot on the cat tree. He loves treats and is playful and very sweet. Sherman really wants to be a part of someone’s family. Come meet this sweet hunk of a boy and see if you can resist taking him home with you. Sherman is FIV+.
Day of fun for the whole family, including your canine companions at Womble Park in Holly Springs. Contact: www.hollyspringsnc.us
16th Annual SPCA Fur Ball Sunday, October 2 Fur Ball tickets will be available online in late August at a cost of $125 per person. The “unstuffy” black-tie event includes live and silent auctions, heavy hors d’oeuvres, beer and wine, live music and will be held at the Park Alumni Center at NC State. Contact: 919 533 2082
The Woofstock Experience Sunday, October 2 : 2:00 - 5:00 pm
Baxter is a big, gorgeous boy
who is sweet as can be. From his shiny coat to his stunning green eyes Baxter is just so handsome. He was rescued from the cold outdoors during a snowstorm and was grateful to be inside. He knows the good life and he wants to keep on staying warm and safe. If this big, sweet boy could be the boy for you fill out an application today!
Free canine event with demonstrations, pet related vendors, music & K9 fun at Durham Central Park, 501 Foster Street. Contact: durhamdogpark@durhamnc.gov, www.thewoofstockexperience.wordpress.com
Annual German Shepherd Rescue & Adoptions Reunion Picnic Fundraiser Sunday, October 2 : 12:00 - 4:00 pm An afternoon of fun and games for the whole family at Montague’s Lake in Cary benefits German Shepherd Rescue & Adoptions. Contact: www.gsdrescue.org
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uncomfortable with or doubt the value of addressing this loss with your children, but it is important to be honest with them. In many cases, children experience grief with bodily reactions, usually with stomachaches or headaches. Since young children usually interpret statements literally, it is important to tell them specifically that your pet has died; not that he has “gone to sleep.” Children also need to know you are available should they need to talk. They may not feel like talking right away, but eventually they may want to understand better why their pet is gone. Ritual and ceremony can also be very helpful to children. They are incredibly imaginative and creative and their rituals may help to serve as a model to help you deal with your grief. Bless the Elderly Animals are often trusted compan-
ions for the elderly, especially for those who have lost a spouse or whose children do not live nearby. Taking care of an animal can provide purpose and in some cases, a reason to get up out of bed in the morning. Pets help all of us, especially those without a lot of human interaction, feel connected to life. Elderly folks may not be able to communicate the impact animals have on their lives or may dismiss the idea they cared deeply, but if there was a true bond or their pet was one of the only daily connections they had to a living being, the grief can be extremely intense. Commemorating Our Beloved Pets Through Ceremony or Ritual Rituals can be very powerful when dealing with the loss of a pet. One can be as creative as they desire, but common examples are attending prayer services or burials, spreading the ashes of a cremated pet in a favorite place, having
moments of silence, drawing, writing and creating scrapbooks or photo albums. You and your family are only limited by your imaginations in symbolizing your loss and commemorating your pet’s life. Wait to Make a Trip to the Animal Shelter Usually after the loss of an animal, the thought of getting another animal is not far behind, but it is best to think before acting hastily to fill the void. One can easily forget all the time, energy and costs involved with a new pet. With puppies and kittens, there may be separation anxiety either from its own mother or you when you leave the house; vaccinations; spaying or neutering can be costly and early morning wake-ups, accidents in the house and potential scratching or chewing on household items can be frustrating. Depending on the age of the animal you adopt, you may be looking at a 10-15 year commitment. Your new pet will also have its own personality and there may be disappointment if your new pet is not at all like your beloved old pet. Be certain you feel ready to share your love and compassion no matter what the personality of your new pet is. Your Beloved Pet Will Not Be Forgotten
Strange Pets I wonder if other dogs think poodles are members of a weird religious cult — Rita Rudner
We wonder sometimes what the attraction is when someone has an odd pet. See how many of these strange pets you can find in this puzzle: Bearded Dragon Crocodile Hedgehog Hermit Crab Stick Insect Hippopotamus
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The extraordinary connection you have with your animal will never be forgotten. You need to give yourself time and energy to grieve so your spirit can feel strong again. You will know you have processed some of your grief when you do not cry as often or when an hour has passed and you have not thought about your beloved companion. This is a good sign as it means you have found a new and sacred place in your heart for your beloved ani-
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gentle attention to what wells up inside at a time of loss and taking note of the responses we are having to those feelings and thoughts, we may find we have more desires, impulses, and ideas for ceremonial gestures than we realized. “Doing” our grief in these symbolic, ceremonial ways, can be the first, uncertain steps we take toward a future where
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resources The Fall of Freddie the Leaf (especially good for children) Buscaglia, L. (1982) Grieving the Death of A Pet Carmack, B. (2003) Goodbye, Friend Kowalski, G. (1998) The Loss of a Pet Sife, W. (1997) www.aplb.org Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement mal to reside. Smiles will replace the tears when you reminisce of your animal’s life and when the time is right, you can make room for a new furry family member to enter your home. WE ENTER INTO relationship with our animals knowing we will probably see the end of their lives, and might need to make the painful decision Jessica had to make. But, even in the end, our lives are much sweeter, richer, and fuller because of the paw prints they leave on our souls. Tracie Barton-Barrett is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Psychology instructor and founder of her private practice, Animals Connect Us. She has been featured on “The Signal,” a Baltimore NPR program as an expert on animal loss and bereavement. Contact Tracie at: AnimalsConnectUs@yahoo.com www.AnimalsConnectUs.com
remembrance outshines sorrow, where the hole left in our hearts has softer, less jagged edges, and reminders of our beloved friend bring more joy than anguish. Ritual can be made into a shape that will hold our sorrow, and our love. Charisse Coleman is a writer and counselor who resides in Durham. She has a general therapy practice with an emphasis in life transitions and grief and loss issues (lifeinmotiontherapy.com).
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Barnes Supply . . . . . . . . .Durham 919 266 2750 774 Ninth St www.barnessupplydurham.com Phydeaux . . . . . . . . . . Chapel Hill 919 833 9216 400 A-1 S Elliott Rd www.phydeauxpets.com Phydeaux . . . . . . . . . . . . Raleigh 919 960 3606 10 W Franklin St www.phydeauxpets.com Sunny Acres Pet Resort . . Durham 919 383 4238 5908 US 70 www.sunnyacrespetresort.com
BOARDING Sunny Acres Pet Resort . . Durham 919 383 4238 5908 US 70 www.sunnyacrespetresort.com CONSIGNMENT / THRIFT The Stock Exchange . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 403 9977 6120 Farrington Rd - Chapel Hill www.chapelhillstockexchange.com Cat Angels Thrift Store . . . . Cary 2466 SW Cary Parkway www.facebook.com/catangelsthriftstore DAYCARE-DOGS Lucky Dogs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 301 4476 1408 Christian Ave - Durham www.luckydogsnc.com
SUPPLIES/PET FOOD
TRAINING Good Dog . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 260 7564 www.gooddognc.com VETERINARIAN - MOBILE Heal Pet Laser Therapy . . . . . . . . 919 904 HEAL www.healpetlaser.com
FENCING Dog Guard Out Of Sight Fencing . . 919 781 1213 www.dogguardnc.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 800 490 9193 Sean McCarthy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 302 3442
GROOMING
Paws At Your Doorstep . . . . . . . . 919 247 2670 www.pawsatyourdoorstep.com VETERINARIAN Cat Clinic of Cary . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 481 4259 2464 SW Cary Pkwy - Cary www.catclinicofcary.com
Lucky Dogs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 301 4476 1408 Christian Ave - Durham www.luckydogsnc.com Sunny Acres Pet Resort . . Durham 919 383 4238 5908 US 70 www.sunnyacrespetresort.com
Animal Hospital at Brier Creek . . . 919 544 2226 10500 Little Brier Creek Ln - Raleigh www.ah-bc.com
Companion Chi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 919 244 1264 www.companionchi.com LOSS/GRIEVING Animals Connect Us animalsconnectus@yahoo.com www.animalsconnectus.com Life In Motion Counseling . Durham 919 649 2109 www.lifeinmotiontherapy.com
Great Dane
nc-airedalerescue.com airedalerescuegroup.com
magdrl.org greatdanerescue.org
Alaskan Malamute
Great Pyrenees
malamuterescue.org
carolinapyrrescue.com
American Pit Bull
Greyhound
fugeesrescue.org carebullies.org secondchancepitbullrescue.webs.com thepositivepitbull.org
trianglegreyhound.org greyhoundfriends.com
Bassett Hound barcse.org cbhr.com bassetcare.org
Beagle tribeagles.org
Border Collie cbcr.org
Boston Terrier btrnc.org
Boykin Spaniel boykinrescue.org
Pet Sound Animal Hospital . . Cary 919 851 4114 305 Ashville Ave Suite C www.petsoundah.com Southpoint Animal Hospital Durham 919 226 0043 5601 Fayetteville Rd. www.southpointpets.com WALKING/ PET SITTING A Whole Lotta Love . . . . Durham 919 491 3567 www.awholelottalovedogwalking.com WORKING CATS Alley Cats and Angels info@alleycatsandangels.org Barn/Garden Cats www.alleycatsandangels.org
Italian Greyhound tigresq.tripod.com
Labrador Retriever labrescuenc.org labrescuenc.org savealabnc.com
Mastiff sosmastiffrescue.org
Old English Sheepdog coesr.org
Pinscher (Mini) rescueminpins.com
Poodle
Boxer
carolinapoodlerescue.org centralcarolinapoodleclub.org
blueridgeboxerrescue.com cbr.homestead.com
Pug
Chihuahua
www.midatlanticpugrescue.org pugrescuenc.org
petfinder.com/shelters/NC438.html
Rottweiler
Collie
arrfnc.com ncrottierescue.net ssrr.org
Dachshund
Animal Hospital at Brier Creek . . . 919 544 2226 10500 Little Brier Creek Ln - Raleigh www.ah-bc.com
HEALING
Airedale Terrier
collierescue.net
GROCERS Whole Food Market . . . . . Chapel Hill 919 968 1983 81 S Elliott Rd www.wholefoodsmarket.com
Breed Rescue Organizations Serving the Triangle and NC
almosthomerescue.org
Samoyed
Dalmatian
petfinder.com/shelters/NC364.html
dalpals.org
Schnauzer
Doberman
ncschnauzers.org
doberman-rescue.com
Sheltie
English Springer Spaniel
triangleshelties.com
springerrescue.org
Siberian Husky
German Shepherd
southernsiberian.com
southeastgsdrescue.org gsdrescue.org southeastgsdrescue.org
Siamese Cat
German Shorthaired Pointer
maessr.org
segsprescue.org
Yorkshire Terrier
Golden Retriever
yorkie-rescue.org ncyorkierescue.org
goldenrescuenc.org
siameserescue.org
Springer Spaniel
For more shelter and rescue info visit: www.heart2homemagazine.com AUGUST 2011
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HappilyEverAfter I by Myra Smith
HAD NO IDEA when I met this little guy on the side of the street, how big a part of my life he would become. I was living in Brazil at the time and several of my friends and I were at our favorite neighborhood watering hole. We became taken by this little black bundle of cuteness that stumbled upon our party. Man he was cute! He was a special viralata, the Portuguese word for “can-kicker”, their version of a mutt. My friend Tara decided she wanted to take this little guy back to her apartment with her. She was homesick for her dogs as she had left her two chocolate Labs in a friend’s care while she spent a year in Brazil. We borrowed some twine from the bar and made him a string leash so she could get him home. She named him Ollie, after Oliver Twist. While I was in Canada for the holidays, I received a surprising email from Tara asking if I wanted Ollie. It seems her husband had developed an allergic reaction to him. I hadn’t had a dog since child-
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hood, but I agreed to take Ollie. He was certainly cute and small; I couldn’t imagine he would be any trouble. When I returned to Brazil I brought him upstairs to my apartment. He was so little and scared. One of my first memories of him was him charging my feet, growling, and then tightening up into a tiny ball in the kitchen. I realized he didn’t like shuffling feet or brooms. He had probably been shooed from too many storefronts! I took him to a vet to get all of his shots and I was informed that Ollie was probably about one-and-a-half to two years old. Ollie adjusted quickly to his new home. It didn’t take too long before he was laying on my stomach and chest whenever I would watch TV or relax. When I felt homesick, Ollie seemed to make everything OK. In the spring, I decided I would return to North Carolina that summer. I did some research to find out what I needed to do to get Ollie home. All I needed was proof of a rabies vaccination, which I already had. I also made Ollie a little ID card with a photograph and some text (in Portuguese and English) for the pilot that said, “Hi, my name is Ollie and I am flying with you today. Could you please let my Mother know I am OK and take really good care of me?” We flew into Canada, made it through Agricultural Customs without any problems and crossed the USA border by car. We stopped in Virginia to meet Aunt Jewell and then made it to our final destination in North Carolina. That happened over 10 years ago. Little did I know then what a special gift I had
Ollie
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Rescued in Brazil, Ollie’s Oddysey found a Home in North Carolina. brought home with me. Ollie is a handful, though an absolutely hilarious one. He loves to eat. Papaya, mango, watermelon, pistachios – it must be his Brazilian roots. He definitely rules the home. He has his Daddy (and Mama) wrapped around his paw; basically anyone he meets falls in love with him. He gets carried to the truck every morning and goes to work at Aardvark Screenprinting with his Daddy where he commands the attention of everyone in his presence. He is spoiled rotten, bossy, funny, demanding, sweet, hip, cute and loving. He is our best friend, and definitely the coolest dog ever.