Writing from the Rectory

I have been reminded these past few weeks of the privileged role a vicar has, in joining families in some of the most significant times of their lives. I have visited a number of families recently to discuss the baptism of their children, or indeed their own baptism, and I look forward to launching our new course on exploring Christian faith which enables such individuals to enter baptism with a good understanding of all it means.

It was wonderful to preside over a wedding during the winter months, and the sound of the newly restored church bells will ring out more often in such celebration as we move into warmer seasons. Sadly, however, the winter months often witness more deaths, and this season has been no different. Whilst there has been a trend towards secular services (or perhaps no service at all), I believe a funeral service can play a key role in recognising the death of a loved one and then moving on in the grief process. I am glad to be able to support families in creating a service that reflects their family member and, in talking about it, help those individuals express their emotions and remember.

Addressing a different significant need, I met with trustees of two local charities last month, which provide financial support to local individuals and offer funds to assist with the high cost of living. These charities were set up three centuries ago, when wealthy philanthropists saw the need around them and offered some help. This imbalanced distribution of wealth goes back generation on generation, to well before the time of Jesus, and we have all entered a world that accepts the myth of scarcity. Jesus reminds us that God is a God of abundance. If only our world could look to share rather than hoard, we would all be blessed by the results. If you would like to learn more about the God of abundance I talk of, or are considering baptism at either All Saints’ or St Gregory’s Churches, do get in touch (parishsecretary@stgregspcc.co.uk).

Blessings, Revd Andrew Doarks