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Heaven and Hell

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Set our priorities right – Koshy Mathew Devotional

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Roman Centurion at The Cross

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Stress Management: A Biblical Preview – Raju M. Koshy Kidz

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EDITORIAL

Set our priorities right Shine for the Lord in a secular world

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od created man and "put him into the garden of Eden to till it and keep it" (Gen.2:15). God never intended man to remain idle. A blessed man shall eat the labour of his hands, will be happy and prosperous (Ps.128:2). Bible holds laziness in contempt and instructs such sluggard to learn from ants (Prov.6:6). A man who is not willing to work is not worthy to eat and is considered walking in a disorderly manner (2 Th. 3:10). But the fall of man brought drastic changes in working condition. God cursed the ground because of man and said, ....."in the sweat of thy face shall thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground" (Gen.3:19).

As man progressed, revolutionary changes occurred in the work culture. Slavery prevailed for a long period. Industrial revolution, brought in multiple issues related to employee - employer relationship.

Communism was the by-product of this labour crisis. As a result of Marxian philosophy, employees became more powerful than the employer. The fall of communism brought in new labour culture.

The above mentioned philosophy, brought about a new work culture in the corporate world, exploiting the resources in the best possible way. Today you are no more appointed for eight hours, but for 24*7 (a new term). Probably they may provide you with all what you need at the cost of your time and energy. You may not get time even to meet all your personal needs. No time for family, quiet time, prayer meetings and Bible studies, and some times even worship meetings.

Today you may not realize the damage it can cause to your spiritual and personal life.

A man had a good car but the accessories he desired were very expensive. He still wanted them. So he sold his car to buy the accessories. So also is one who behaves like Esau and sells his birthright to get a bowl of lintel.

(Gen.47:14,26). In modern terms we can call Joseph a 'workaholic'. He never did 'eye service' but he served his masters as unto the Lord.

Finally what Egyptians rewarded him for his service. There arose a Pharaoh who knew not Joseph (Exo. 1:8). But sad to say, all this services were forgotten.

Dear brethren the world will forget our services, but our Lord will never forget our services to Him (Heb.6:10). After working for your company, spending best of your vigor and time, for 30 - 35 years, have you ever felt to step into your office again after your retirement ?

In case if you go, do you get the same warmth and welcome there?

We read of another man in the Bible, who rose to the highest office in Babylon. Daniel, he too was fully committed to his work and boss. In the midst of his secular work he found time for God. He found time for prayer and quiet time. At the end of his life heaven addressed him, " O Daniel a man greatly Beloved". What a commendation from Heaven! We need to balance our secular and spiritual life, imbalance is dangerous. Beware when the world is trying to rob our time and energy.

In fact there is no significant difference between secular and spiritual, all that matters is our priorities.

Joseph is a classical example of a man who was faithful in his work place. Wherever he worked, he was fully committed to his work and he took 'extra time' to satisfy his masters. He did the hard labour in Potiphar's house, with the keeper of the prisoner and also in the palace Modern liberalization and of Pharaoh. He was a God fearing globalization has tremendously man (The Lord was with Joseph), changed the work culture. The and he was a prosperous man worth of man has degenerated to (Gen.39:2-3,23). Joseph worked the level of natural 'resources'. The with a single strategy, 'how can I term 'Human resource' unheard make my boss rich'. He achieved twenty years ago has become a Seek ye first the Kingdom of this goal at work place. "Joseph major part of the academic gathered up all the money that was God.....and all this things shall be curriculum today; probably fulfilling found in the land of Egypt and in the added unto you (Mat.6:33).

Bible prophecy (Rev.18:13). Man is land of Canaan.....and brought the not just a resource. God has created money into Pharaoh's house". He him as a trustee of all resources and levied huge tax upon the people to Guest Editor to enjoy it. generate money for Pharaoh

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DEVOTIONAL

OF THE CROSS

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Roman Centurion at The Cross – Koshy Mathew

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ne of the prime propellers of success of Roman Empire was it's well organized and disciplined military power.

Soldiers were posted in every nook and corner of the country to ensure absolute security. Legion was the highest unit of the army (Mark.5:9). It consisted of 6000 to 10,000 soldiers and was further divided into six; around thousand each. The Officer in charge of such a unit of thousand was called as chili-arch or chief Captain (Acts.21:37). A chili arch or Chief Captain was in charge of 600 to 1000 soldiers and this unit was called Cohort or Band. When Pilate delivered Jesus Christ to be crucified, the whole Band or Cohort's soldiers came (Mat.27:27).Like wild dogs six hundred soldiers surrounded the most innocent man ever walked on the surface of the earth. That was the fulfillment of Psalm.

22:16. "For dogs have compassed me: the assembly of the wicked have enclosed me". As it coincided with Jewish festival season, 4

additional army men were probably reinforced in Jerusalem.

Our Saviour stood like a lamb in the midst of wild beasts. We see him like a ram caught in a thicket by its horns.(Gen.22:13). Bands were named after a place or a person. For instance, Cornelius the centurion was belonging to Italian band (Acts.10:1). Julius was belonging to Augustus band(Act.27:1).One band or Cohort was further divided into six centuries, each comprising of around 100 soldiers. Centurion had liberty to exercise power and authority bestowed upon him by the Roman Government. (Mat.8:89;Lk.7:1:-10). One century was further divided into ten sub units each comprising of eight to ten soldiers.

Centurions mentioned in New Testament Generally centurions were supposed to be tough and arrogant, but most of the centurions mentioned in the New Testament have been generous

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and God fearing. The centurion in the city of Capernaum was a God fearing man. He loved the Jewish people and constructed a synagogue for them (Luke.7:5).

He was concerned for the health of his servant and sought healing from the Lord (Mat.8:1-10).

Cornelius of Italian band was another God fearing centurion mentioned in the New Testament (Acts 10:1-4). It was under the custody of Julius, a centurion of Augustus' band Paul was taken to Rome. It is mentioned that Julius courteously treated Paul and gave him liberty to go unto his friends to refresh himself. (Acts.27:3).

The chief Captain and the centurions who arrested Paul at Jerusalem were also courteous to him (Acts 22:24-29; 23:17-24).

Soldiers and John the Baptist John the Baptist the fore runner of Christ was a fiery preacher and a revivalist. His messages about Messiah and the Kingdom of God caused great impact on all strata of society. Pharisees, Sadducees, scribes, tax collectors even

soldiers were moved by his sermons. He exhorted them, "kingdom of God is at hand and bring forth fruits befitting repentance" (Mat.3:7-8). When soldiers likewise came to John the Baptist seeking his counsel and asking, "what shall we do?". John the Baptist instructed them three things 1. Do violence to no man 2.

Do not make any false accusation and 3. Be content with your wages. They violated all these three things And they never really repented. When Messiah came they treated him violently; he was the most innocent victim (Mat.27:27). They made false accusation against the disciples.

"His disciples came by night and stole him away while we slept""this saying is commonly reported among the Jews until this day" (Mat.28:13,15). Even after two thousand years, Jews believe this concocted lie spoken by soldiers(of course tutored by chief priests). Biggest lie in the human history in return for the bribe they received! (Mat.28:1215). Moreover, they parted his raiment among them, and for his vesture they did cast lots. "These things, therefore the soldiers did."

(John.19:24). They were not satisfied with their salary.

inscribed with black letters called "titilus" was posted above the cross. In the case of our Lord 'titilus' was written in Hebrew, Greek and Latin. (Mat.27:37,39; John.19:19-20) Crucifixion was a Roman form of capital punishment, reserved for criminals. And it served as a ghastly warning to all those who did not have the Roman citizenship. The entire process of crucifixion was executed under the supervision of a well trained centurion. The centurion orders his soldiers to clear a semi- circle near the place where the cross had to be planted. Soldiers would then bind and nail the victim on to the cross and carry out everything with precision. Finally at the centurion's orders the cross was lowered into deep hole already dug in the rock.

face with Jesus. "The centurion.... stood facing him"; he heard him committing his spirit to the father and an eye witness to his death.

Following are the highlights of his actions and utterance.

1. Centurion saw his death, it was unusual. He saw him giving up His spirit willingly. Mk.15:39 2. As a Centurion he need not fear anything, but the events associated with the death of Christ brought fear in him; the fear of God. He saw in the noontime sun became darkened, followed by earthquake and rocks started cracking. He was musing on the utterances of Christ. First and the last utterances challenged him most.

3. He acknowledged His innocence. "Certainly this was The execution on the cross was a a righteous man" Luke 23:47. symbol of Roman sun worship.

It was a reminiscence of They considered the victim on the Pilate's judgment; "I find no cross as a sacrifice to sun god. fault in this man" and repeated They carried out the crucifixion three times (Lk.23:4,14,22). before noon. At the noon time 4. He recognized him as the son when sun shines with its full of God and did not hide this strength they prayed somewhat fact in his heart but declared like this, " we cannot have mercy publicly.

As a person under on this criminal, oh sun god we Roman authority, he knew the commit his soul to you". consequences of such a public Centurion at the cross statement. This shows his real Roman Crucifixion conviction.

All three synoptic Gospel writers Available information indicates mention reaction of the centurion 5. "When the centurion saw what that Roman crucifixion was a after crucifixion of Lord was done, he Glorified God" form of punishment carried out (Mat. 27:54; Mk. 15:39; Luke 23:47. This Roman as a deterrent to criminals.

Lk. 23:47). John refers to what centurion was the first one to Authorities generally chose places soldiers did to Jesus. Matthew glorify God by looking at the close to highways/crossroads for summarizes centurion's reaction cross. What made him to crucifixion so that all travelling by as" the centurion, and they that glorify God? Probably the first can see and receive shocks that were with him, watching Jesus, utterance of Christ on the remain as lasting warnings and saw the earthquake, and those cross might have caused him send shivers down the spine. The things that were done, they feared to glorify God. "Father, forgive name of the condemned got greatly, saying, Truly this was the them; for they know not what posted for all passers by to read.

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FEATURE ARTICLE

The Balancing Act Balancing spiritual principles for life in a demanding secular world

– Thomson B Thomas

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racticing the principles given by the Lord for a Christian to live by has become challenging in a secular world with variant rules and values. When some wilt and give in others separate secular and spiritual to practice separate rules satiating their conscience.

Yet for a person who is serious of his relationship with His Master and Lord cannot sacrifice his beliefs for temporary gains. He would represent the Master anywhere knowing his presence in the society, work place or otherwise, not as an accident but as ordained of the Lord. Pleasing the Master will be his only goal, anywhere at any cost.

secular and the sacred is to balance life in this age while keeping an eye on the age to come. A Christian is not left without directions to lead a spiritual life in his secular surrounding. It is his duty to draw wisdom from the Scripture and apply them in each situation.

sacrificing biblical, spiritual, principles.

1. Acknowledging the Lord's authority.

When Jesus Christ is the Lord of the time, relationships, and wealth of a Christian the demands of the world on these are also immense. For example, In daily living the demands of the 'time-robbers' are several these world- work, friends, days. For many leaving the office in time has become a matter of "..a young Christian the past. Employers are for hired by an elastic people who are available for work round the clock, seven days. vendor as sales boy that when he was asked Students are inundated with regular and special classes to stretch the elastic leaving no time for them to while measuring for devote for matters for spiritual Being 'in the world' when one is progress. Media and myriads of customers, answered, not 'of the world' puts much modern gadgets also fritter away 'Sir, your elastic is pressure upon life. Great valuable time with their Christian thinkers from Apostle stretchable but my entertainments. These result in Paul through Augustine to Luther conscience is not'! family breakdowns, health and later have discovered that hazards and many social ills. As in overcoming such pressures are all other areas Jesus Christ must much easier said than done. For entertainments etc. - are high and be acknowledged as the Lord of the life in relationship with the increasing. Taking life as it comes one's time also. world the word 'secular' is often can only make one succumb to its One has divided people into four used. It comes from the Latin demands. In order to keep divisions according to their saeculum which means “age” or spiritual rules and values one relation with work; work-allergic, “period.” It is what pertains to needs to be forearmed with His work-a-little, workers and this age which Christ says “is word and divine grace. workaholics. The first group passing away”. The word 'sacred' hates work when the second does is used for life in relation with the Following are some of the essentials one should hold fast in as little as possible. The last ones spiritual realm, 'the world to are those who can't live without any situation to live without come'. Then, to balance the 6

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doing something always. But the 'workers' are those who do what is needed. When it is true that one should eat only if he works it is also important to remember that one should not eat only to work. A Christian must always remember that the time beyond his normal work-time doesn't belong to his employer. Those should be used for his personal and spiritual matters. Any regular demand on this time should be resisted even at the risk of being stamped noncompliant or idle (Exo. 5.17). It is also a matter of great concern to notice from many recent reports of personal abuses at work place that they occur mostly in extra hours of work, not in the normal times.

This was also true of Joseph. The temptation to fall in sin came while he was at work. The Scripture alerts us saying that it was when there was no one around (Gen. 39.11). Joseph seems to have been a workaholic.

If he had fled the temptation to work 'extra hours' he wouldn't have been in a situation where he had to pay dearly in fleeing from immorality!

2. Commitment to Biblical ethics at work.

should not be doing “eye service, as men pleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart” (Eph.6.6).

Similarly submission and obedience is called for at work (v.5). Good fidelity is demanded (Tit. 2.9, 10). Here the proper use of time, stationeries in office are all included. Matters like receiving bribes, swindling money, sexual sins and the likes should be shunned. It was this sense of responsibility that helped Nehemiah and Mordecai in Shushan and Daniel in Babylon to be faithful in their labor in strange lands. They used their offices for the good of the people of God in their lifetimes.

Obedience to human authorities should be rendered to the point beyond which it becomes disobedience to God's commands (Acts. 5.29). It is told of a young Christian hired by an elastic vendor as sales boy that when he was asked to stretch the elastic while measuring for customers, answered, 'Sir, your elastic is stretchable but my conscience is not'!

3. Withstanding temptations to compromise.

When corruption is pervading all The morals a Christian should levels of society a Christian keep in his secular life is laid should know that an error does down in the Scripture. In the not become right when it biblical times many were slaves becomes regular. These are days to well to do families (1 Cor.1.26- when one spends more time with 31). The NT epistles gave many colleagues than with spouse and guidelines to help them in their children. If this results in closer work. Those instructions are bonds in work place than at home applicable in the work place in it can only breed havoc in one's modern situations also. Notice life. Such dangers should be some of them. Paul says all our resisted at any cost. Paul says, works and words should be to the “Flee youthful lusts” (2 Tim.2.22). glory of God (1 Cor.10.31).

Joseph fled from sin when he Everything should be done as could have, humanly speaking, unto the Lord (Eph.6.7). One gained much influence in higher

echelons of power in Egypt by falling for it. God honors such fidelity. Joseph lost his servants robe for his faithfulness. But God gave him a royal robe in return!

4. Have a yardstick for success that is different from that of the world.

Many assumes standard for their lives looking at others' lives.

Having a six digit salary, 3BHK flat, four wheeler, good admissions for children etc. are seen as symbols of success. The attempt is to keep ahead in status, than his peers. When these are important for those who have only the 'secular' before them as their goal, for a Christian what pleases his Master would be of utmost importance. God's will, divine glory, fulfillment of life, preparing a generation for God and fulfilling God-given duties determines the measure of success for him. These don't mean that one should live isolated in this world of sin but it means one must be insulated from the contaminations around.

God expects his people to keep the spiritual principles in this age while at the same time having the legitimate enjoyment of all that God has prepared in the world for His own.

While living in a world of diverse values and goals, to have a different value system based on the Word of God and to resist the temptation to compromise, one needs strength that comes from reverence and obedience to the Word of God. Only those who possess these can balance their spiritual life successfully – Thomson B Thomas is an evangelist, a Bible Teacher and preacher based in Mumbai.

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BIBLE STUDY

Heaven and Hell – Richard Masih

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e need to consider the biblical teaching on heaven and hell for four reasons:

1. it's very much missing from the modern day preaching. In the bygone eras there was much hell-fire preaching.

'Repent and believe or else you will go to hell' was an integral part of the evangelistic preaching. Now a days, not only hell is missing but also repentance is missing from our preaching. Now it is just believe. Repentance and turning away from sinful life is the part of genuine conversion 2. Reverence to God in His fear is a must for our everyday living.

The Bible says to work out our salvation with fear and trembling (Phil.2:12). Very often 'fear and trembling' are missing because we forget hell.

From time to time reminder is needed.

3. It is a must for our evangelistic efforts and soul winning. We cannot reach out to people with the love of God and the 8

“William Booth,... said that the best training that he can give to his workers is to send them to hell for twenty four hours.....When they will come back they will never be the same... in their approach to soul winning."

The prison chaplain was there walking by his side giving him the comfortable, soothing words from the Scripture.

Finally the convict turned to him and asked, “Do you really believe that? If I believed, as you say you believe, I would crawl on the streets of London on my elbows on broken glass pieces and tell people the gospel.” I asked myself the same question. Do I really believe in heaven and hell?

Then what am I doing to save people and win them for the Lord?

gospel of Lord Jesus Christ unless we are convinced about 4. It is misunderstood very badly. the sordid existence of hell.

Some say that there is no William Booth, the founder heaven or hell and that they Director of Salvation Army, are to be experienced only on said that the best training that the earth. The God of love he can consider of giving to his cannot create hell to destroy workers is to send them to hell sinners in eternal fire. They for twenty four hours. When say that the moment the they will come back they will sinners will be thrown in hell never be the same – casual and they will burn to ashes. They carefree- in their approach to will cease to exist. They soul winning. advocate total annihilation.

Once, a convict was being taken to execution in England. But what does the Bible say?

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Hell 1. Hell is a 'place' of torment and agony or anguish (Luke 16:23, 24, 25, 28).

2. Hell is a 'place' of the lake of fire burning with sulfur (Rev.19:20; 20:10, 14, 15; 21:8).

3. Hell is a 'place' of conscious existence: a. The rich man could recognize Lazarus and Abraham (Luke 16:23). His mind was functioning effectively. b. The rich man could make two requests (Luke 16:24, 27). Both the requests were turned down. There is no answering of prayers in hell. c. The rich man could feel the burning flame and feel thirsty (Luke 16:24). His physical sensations were intact. d. The rich man could remember his five brothers on earth (Luke 16:28). His memory was working well. e. The rich man could reason with Abraham (Luke 16:30). His mental faculty was alert.

4. Hell is a 'place' of nontransference (Luke 16:26).

Once gone there, there is no way out, no matter how much prayers are offered, rituals and ceremonies are conducted on behalf of the dead. After death there is no salvation, but only the judgment (Heb.9:27).

5. Hell is a 'place' of eternal punishment (Mt. 25:46). If the eternal life is eternal, then the eternal punishment is also eternal. There will be no respite in hell.

6. Hell is a 'place' of weeping and

gnashing of teeth (Mt.8:12; 13:42, 50; 24:51; 25:30; Luke 13:28). I am sure these will not only be the tears and gnashing of teeth of the relentless pain and burning sensation but also of regrets of lost opportunities.

7. Hell is a 'place' where its worms do not die (Mk.9:48; Isaiah 66:24). Think of the worms crawling all over the body, repulsive and frightful!

8. Hell is a 'place' of darkness (Mt.22:13). Darkness is depressive and distressful, may lead to mental, emotional and physical breakdown.

Lk.22:69; Heb.1:3). He is interceding there for his saints (Romans 8:34). Only in Acts 7:55 he is seen standing, to welcome his first martyr Stephen home.

3. Heaven is a 'place' where there are the Old Testament saints (Mt.8:11). Just think of the excitement we will have in heaven when we meet all the Patriarchs, Prophets, and

“..beware of those who claim to have physically gone to heaven and hell.... had interviews and ... come back with some message....."

9. Hell is a 'place' which was created for devil and his angels (Mt.25:41). God of love had not originally created hell for mankind. Mankind has chosen to go there by following Satan.

Priests, godly kings and New Someone has said that God has Testament saints and apostles. placed many hurdles on the way to hell- the prayers of a 4. Heaven is a 'place' of myriads godly mother, the family of angels (cf. Lk.2:13). Heaven prayers, the teachings of the will be far from being a boring Sunday school, the teachings of place. It will be full of the church, revival meetings, excitement and enjoyment. It promptings of the conscience will be a real – and far from any and the convictions of the Holy – Shangri-La, imagined on Spirit, etc. Man goes to hell earth. only after deliberately jumping 5. Heaven is a 'place' of eternal over all these and other bliss: barriers. a. There is no hunger, no thirst, 10. Hell is a 'place' for the no tears, no curse, no death, unsaved (Rev.20:15; 21:8, 27). no mourning, no night and Heaven no sea –last two the symbols of chaos and confusion (Rev. 1. Heaven is 'place' of God's 7:16, 17; 21:1, 4; 22:3, 50). throne (Mt.5:34; 6:9; Rev.4:2; 7:9, 10, 11; 2011; Eccl.5:2). b. There are the tree of life God is seated on his throne, (Rev.22:2, 14, 19), the river sovereignly ruling over all his of life (Rev.7:17; 21:6; 22:1, creation.

17) and the book of life (Rev.20:15; 21:27).

2. Heaven is a 'place' where Lord Jesus is seated at the right 21 hand of God (Mk.16:19; Harvest Times for Your Family June 2014/Volume 11 Issue 06

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EXHORTATION

In the service of the LORD “Yet no man remembered that poor man" (Eccl.9:15).

– T G Benny

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he poor man whose name is not mentioned here by his wisdom saved the city from the sword of the great king. Yet no man remembered that same poor man. We do not know whether “ that poor man desired to be admired and remembered by all.

Remember them that had the rule over you, men that spake into you the word of God and considering the issue of their life, imitate their faith.(Heb.13:7).

God has raised gifted men time to time. They all were the gift of God to His Church.(Eph.4:8-11).They all did their ministry according to the gifts which God had given to them. Therefore we need to thank God for the wonderful service they did among God's people for the blessings and the edification of the Church. Some had the gift to preach, teach, write books, tracts or hymns, etc. They used all their gifts for the building up of the Church of God. Apostle Paul established many Churches and revealed God's truth to them by spoken words and his writings.

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But Paul said "but far be it from me to glory save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Gal.6:14).

Henry Morrison served The Lord in China for many years. He was returning home in his old age. In the ship he travelled there was William Carey came to India to Theodore Roosevelt the then serve The Lord. The Lord used President of America travelling.

There was a huge crowd waiting “When I am gone, say on the port to receive the President. Banners were flying nothing about Dr. high welcoming the President.

Carey; speak only of Henry was disappointed by Dr.Carey's Saviour." seeing all these, thinking that there is nobody to welcome me home though I served my Lord him to translate the word of God many years in a foreign land. All into many Indian languages. He the people got out of the ship. did many other things for the uplift meant of the society. Before Henry was getting out of the ship with much disappointment. his death, an young man named Suddenly he heard someone Alexander Duff came to meet speaking to him from behind.

Carey to appreciate him of his "Henry you are not yet home". He works. realised the grand welcome is Carey was happy to see the tall waiting for him when he reach his young Scottish man dedicating his home. All the disappointment life to serve The Lord in India. vanished in a moment.

When he was about to leave the The commander Titus returned room of Carey admiring Carey, after burning the temple of Carey said Mr. Duff, "you have Jerusalem and was received with been speaking about Dr. Carey, Dr. great joy by emperor Vespecian.

Carey, Dr. Carey! When I am gone, An arch was made in his memory say nothing about Dr. Carey; 16 speak only of Dr. Carey's Saviour."

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FAMILY

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n our last issue we looked at the example of Christ in leadership. We shall now look at some areas in which husbands should exercise leadership in the family.

As God has appointed man as the leader of the home, God holds him responsible for everything that happens in the family. He cannot escape by saying “I didn't do it or know it” nor can he blame his wife or children.

Husband is responsible for leading the family in worship, prayer and the study of God's Word.

The first area is the spiritual realm. The husband being the head of the family is the priest and is responsible for the spiritual wellbeing of the members of his household. He is responsible for leading the family in worship, prayer and the

study of God's Word. He is also responsible to maintain a godly atmosphere within the home. He has to be a spiritual person himself to perform his duty in this area. It is obvious that we cannot be of help to someone if we ourselves are not spiritual.

Otherwise it will be like “the blind leading the blind” (Mat.15:14). Unless the husband knows the truths and principles of God's word, he cannot teach or instruct others. Moreover he should be leading a godly life to lead others in to such a life. Only one who has given first place to God in his own life and spends

time with God and His word on a daily basis can lead his family spiritually. In speaking to Israel God demands: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength” before “teaching them diligently to your children”.

It is also mentioned there, that this teaching has to take place all the time through their very life style. (Deut. 6:5-7). In order to clear the doubts of the wives as mentioned in 1 Cor.14:35, the husband has to be well versed in the things of God. It is the responsibility of the husband to sanctify their wives by the

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washing of water by the word as Christ does to the Church (Eph.5:26).

The Spirit of God explains this truth as He talks about church leadership.“If a man does not know how to rule ('manage'Godly Christians have long NASV) his own house, how will he emphasized the importance of take care of the church of God?” regular, daily family worship (1 Tim. 3:5).This means that it is when all the members of the the husband's responsibility to family come together to praise see that everything is managed God, pray and read the Scriptures. well in his home, though he It is a great time to explain himself may not be doing biblical principles and their application in the lives of each member of the family.

Conflict management Husband should take leadership to lead the family to the right church (Scriptural) and maintain fellowship and attendance there which is essential for spiritual growth.

Another area where leadership of the husband is to be exercised is the arena of decision making.

Decision-making is one of the most difficult aspects of the husband-wife relationship. While it is true that wives can be consulted and their opinion sought in making decisions, the right and responsibility of making the final decision rests with the husbands. God holds him responsible for the decisions made. In the garden of Eden Adam was questioned by God and held accountable for what happened there in connection with the sin committed. Instead of jumping into a quick decision, a family must pray over the matter and weigh the implications in the light of the Word of God. However, after this process the husband has to take a decision as the Lord directs him.

Management of all family affairs is another area to be considered in leadership. This involves every area of a family.

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is an essential aspect of a husband's leadership role.He should act as the peace-maker in the family everything. In order to do this, he should have full knowledge of all that goes on in his home.

Planning of household activities, financial management etc. comes under the responsibility of the head. The husband is responsible for overall direction, vision, leadership, relationships of the family. He charts the course of their destination (in consultation with his wife).He who leads well can manage well.

It is a serious matter to be the head of a household. He needs lot of divine wisdom to carry out his God given responsibility to direct, guide and manage the home.

How encouraging it is to know that God has promised to give wisdom to those who ask for it.

“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not: and it shall be given him” (James 1:5)

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Conflict management is an essential aspect of a husband's leadership role. As human beings it is quite possible for conflicts to arise within a family with one's wife or children. Very often mishandling worsens the problem. It is not what happens, but how we handle them that matters. As the head of a family, husband should take the initiative to settle the problems that arise.

He should act as the peace-maker in the family. God has shown us a very good example in this matter of reconciliation. Though God was right and we sinners were wrong, He took the initiative to come down in the person of Christ and reconcile us to himself. A true leader will always be willing to take the lead in settling conflicts.

Husbands are exhorted to exercise leadership in bringing up children. God's instruction to raise children in a godly manner is directed to the fathers in Eph.6:4. “Ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Though mothers also have a responsibility to care for their children, fathers are the ones who are ultimately responsible here.

They should see that their children are taught and trained in the proper way. The children that God trusted them to care for are their responsibility. The safety and well-being of their children is in their hands. May the Lord grant us grace that we may become the husbands and fathers that God has called us to be.

– John Kurian is an evangelist, Bible teacher and preacher based in Kerala.

PRACTICAL

Relationships @ Workplace:

Timeless yet Timely Challenges!

In this article author is trying to explore the employer - employee relationship in the light of God's word.

– Oommen Philip The Prelude Once a young boy went to survey the war but took initiative and got the nod of king to fight with enemy's chosen warrior and won and lead the army back with great victory. The whole nation erupted in jubilation and welcomed their hero with pomp and pageantry.

As he marched the streets of the capital city, some of the girls in the community sang to felicitate him. They praised the victor and pictured his greatness to be ten times that of their king himself.

This invited jealousy and wrath from the king and irritated him greatly. The king couldn't put up with the high acceptance the new commander found among his countrymen so pushed him down to lower rank. But the commander had the grace to willingly accept the demotion and worked in the lower rank with humility. The commander in this story is David who later replaced the king himself (1 Samuel 18:6-13).

Bible characters like Daniel, the three Hebrew youth and Joseph also encountered such reprisals

at workplace, but they received abundant grace to handle the situations with humility. They exhibited their spiritually transformed personalities at the workplace and received acceptance from God. They never tried to seek after recognition from the world by surrendering their conscience as pawns to align with circumstances. We also find civil servants like Nehemiah placing the interest of God at the workplace above all and kept their testimony bright and powerful with humility and firmness.

Biblical perspective of any relationship, exhibited by attitudes and corresponding actions at workplace or elsewhere, is bound by the extent of grace enjoyed by God's children. They never bother about winning earthly wars, but would be keen to exhibit faith and trust in God to rule and overrule their situations for His glory. The Bible assures of adequate grace to resolve conflicts at the workplace and to take conflicts beyond human level. Relationships are

multidimensional and as such complex and thus prone to conflicts. There are resultant ego clashes and covert or overt encounters which make situations counterproductive and make individuals disillusioned.

Conflicts create undue stress in all who are directly and indirectly involved and make the work atmosphere cumbersome and cluttered. It leads to inefficiency and waste of resources. Workers lose their peace in such situations and will find it difficult to enjoy work atmosphere. But for all such puzzling scenarios, the Bible has answers to lead us to a satisfying work life.

Handling or getting subdued?

Christians are invariably both employers and employees.

Christian employers are executives in managerial cadre but are also employees in a general sense. But they are viewed as employers by their subordinates because they represent the owners or management. These Christian executives are bound to please their bosses by producing best

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possible results with the cooperation and support of their subordinates, which would include unbelievers. Subordinates normally expect undue considerations and favours from bosses. When executives can not meet such expectations, workplace relations become sour.

Such situations pose several practical and ethical questions which need to be addressed. Do the Christian employees have the responsibility to support, obey, pray and please the unbeliever boss? Are the demands and expectations of the Christian employees a reflection of their Biblical values? How would the Christian boss meet the challenging expectations of the subordinates who are unbelievers? How would the Christian boss handle Union tactics like strikes and work-torule? The Bible provides answers to such questions and demands total compliance (Ephesians 6:57). At the same time, these situations will have to be handled in its context with wisdom from God.

influence the work atmosphere to be one of mutual trust and support. When the atmosphere becomes less tense, people and organizations become more productive and lead to higher levels of performance and reduced cost. The Christian bosses and subordinates need to understand that they are called to exhibit Christ-likeness in actions and attitudes at the workplace and elsewhere (like home or church). It is true that heaven looks for spiritual behavior from the Christian at the workplace while the world looks for intellectual and emotional smartness. The devil is engaged for a battle in our minds so that we can fall into double life, one at workplace and a different one at religious and family circles. But this is resented by the Bible very strongly. We who are partakers of the divine nature and recipients of grace from God have no option to follow two masters at any time, but must acknowledge Jesus Christ as our sole Master in all spheres of our lives (Matthew 6:24). So our work behavior, as in other arenas of life, gives us the The Christian employer is opportunity to examine ourselves admonished by the Bible to avoid to determine to what extent we favouritism, bias and are controlled by the Spirit of God particularism of all sorts and and how much we excel in exhibit a spirit of friendliness and producing the fruit of the Spirit kindness rather than use tactics (Galatians 5:19-25). We are asked like threats, spying and to examine to see whether we are resentment. Negative strategies in faith or not (2 Corinthians will only invite suspicion, doubt 13:5) and to make amends. and confrontation which would tarnish Christian testimony at the It is interesting to see Apostle workplace (Ephesians 6:9). Such Paul admonishing Christian worldly tactics come from the employees and employers about flesh and are often a result of workplace relationships physical, emotional or immediately after speaking about organizational insecurity. The getting filled with the Spirit of Christian must avoid fleshly God (Ephesians 5:19-20). Soon tactics and instead try to after talking about workplace 14

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behavior, he goes on to warn Christians about spiritual warfare and the need to pray for spiritual energy to fight (Ephesians 6:1018).This pattern of divine instruction is somewhat repeated when Paul wrote to Colossians as well (Chapter 3). These instructions demand total allegiance from us in our behavior at the workplace as much as in all other spheres of activity. In other words, we are to handle all challenges in our work relationships with the fullness of the Spirit and exhibit the fruit of the Spirit in all dealings with our bosses and subordinates. It includes all our words and body language (1 John 4:17b). Christ likeness might invite ridicule from our co-workers and lead to failures at the work situation when we use Christian values and motives in all our relationships.

Yet we will be rewarded by our God for following the instructions in His Word that we ought to obey all authority at the work situation (Ephesians 6:7-8).

Handling Ungodly Demands Pressure to comply with ungodly instructions from the unbeliever boss can be highly intimidating and cause great concern. The believer's conscience is pricked when asked to compromise on quality, service, promotion and advertisement. The believer is often used as a channel or becomes a victim to nepotism, favouritism, corrupt practices, exaggeration, victimization and suppression of facts. If we stand for the truth and do not comply, it may affect our career prospects and even our job. But conceding to such acts is against the biblical

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CHALLENGERS

Stress Management, A Biblical Preview A JPMorgan employee jumped to death due to excessive stress. Photo: Reuters

– Raju M. Koshy

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he suicide of a J P Morgan it's a different story altogether. Be employee in Central Hong assured that He has a specific Kong was attributedto the plan for you. stressful environment of investment banking, which insiders say has worsened since ".. we live in a regulators tightened rules in the wake of the global financial crisis. period where Stress and strain in the job front progress is are also taking the toll even on demanded on an Christians when they cannot cope up with the increasing exponential scale expectations!

Have you ever felt that life is too hectic to be handled? Have you tried to organise your life with lists, calendars, day alarms, tasks etc. only to realise that they just add another field to an already over complicated life? Are you in the lookout for a deliverance from this entangled mesh?

against a time on a linear scale

He wants to guide each one of us to live strategically as per His purpose and provided we are willing to accept His control over us. Further, He motivates us to The fact of the matter is that the take cue from His life when He more you try to coordinate things, lived on this earth, two thousand the more complex they turn out years ago. Remember Jesus had for you. You finally realise that only about three and a half years our work culture is such that it to fulfill his public ministry on keeps adding overload to such an earth. Daily, He had a hectic extent that a stress free existence schedule before Him, but He went seems utopian. about it in a very calm and composed manner. He never As we live in a period where seemed to be in a hurry and His progress is demanded on an peace pervaded through the exponential scale against a time people around Him. Let us take a on a linear scale, we continue to counter various kinds of complex look into the life of our Lord and examine His approach to life in issues on a regular basis. general.

However, if you are a child of God,

His public life flowed out of times of solitude. In the face of every important decision, He connected Himself to the Father from whom He received specific guidance. His busy public ministry did not hinder quality time spent regularly with His Father.

Likewise, we too have to link up with our Lord time and time again to gain His peace and direction in our lives. God has given us His Sabbath in order to provide us with some much (Part 2) needed rest. We may have to realize that most things in our daily schedule take more time than we expect and therefore we need to plan accordingly. We also have to earmark quality time for our family amidst this entire whirlwind.

It may be noted that Jesus, in His life in this world, lived within his 'human limits' even though He was God incarnate. He did not try to meet every need of every person living in Palestine in His time. It was not that He was unconcerned about the needs of all the people, but He was showing us a model about the limitations of being a human. God has given us limits for our own protection but if we overdo, it is not mandatory that He will come to our rescue each time we take

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the baton into our own hands.

Very often, we may have to limit our commitments. If you are feeling undue stress and related problems on a regular basis, I believe the Lord is telling you to 'go slow'. Pray about everything you are asked to do before you reply in the affirmative. Make sure that it lines up with God's strategic plan for you.

6:34). One day at a time is all we need to focus on. If you are able to concentrate on today's concerns only, the Lord will deliver you from many of the unfounded worries about tomorrow.

Secondly, remember the biblical truth of the supernatural intervention in the life of a child of God. That is to repeatedly Another point to be noted as we remind yourself that you are not journey through the earthly life of alone, solely confined within the our Lord is that He gave His limitations of your own entire attention to the person resources in order to face each whom God brought before Him at day in your life. If your motives any point of time. Jesus cared for are honourable and you have people by giving His time received the confirmation that catering to their specific needs.

God is in your side, no power in this world can be against you (Romans 8:31). The innate If you are feeling tendency to double check all eventualities will cease if you undue stress and really believe this verse.

related problems on a regular basis, I believe the Lord is telling you to 'go slow'

The people whom God brings in to your path are brought for an exclusive purpose viz. to get to 'touch' Jesus through you. Be sure not to allow obstacles, whichever form they may be , to get in the way of God's precise opportunities for you.

Now, let me jot down a few biblical solutions in dealing with personal stress: First of all, limit your focus to the concerns of the day. Jesus said, “Do not worry about tomorrow.

For tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own” (Matthew 16

To conclude, instead of being cumbered by your problems which further accelerate your stress, the Bible recommends taking it 'all' ( which includes your stress ) to the Lord in prayer. This verse in Philippians offers the comforting promise that as we pray, our minds will be protected by a peace that goes beyond our ability to comprehend. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus”.

(Philippians 4:6-7).

– Raju M. Koshy was a Civil Servant working for Govt. of India and presently practicing as a Lawyer in the High Court of Kerala at Cochin.

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and was named as the "Arch of Titus. But The Lord Jesus Christ who came to save sinners and give them eternal life was given a cross by this world as a reward.

There are a number of witnesses for The Lord Jesus Christ who are serving The Lord without the knowledge of any one. There are many sisters who are serving The Lord unnoticed by their gifts given by The Lord.

Barnabas who introduced the great man of God Paul to the Church of God, Miriam who worked behind to give a great leader to Israel, Andrew who brought Peter the prominent among the disciples to The Lord and a few more may not have been praised by anyone.

"But after you have done these things that are commanded to you say we are unprofitable servants, we have done that which it was our duty to do" (Luke.17:10).

– Evangelist T G Benny lives in Bangalore

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1) Happy 2) Happy, Rejoicing 3) Fear, Worry 4) Sadness, Crying 5) Love, compassion Answers : – Susan Sam Joy, lives in Doha 18

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Relationships @ Workplace principles we hold. It is a greater challenge to communicate such convictions to the authorities. It is at this juncture that our hearts ought to dwell on fruit of the Spirit. Here we must stand firm and present our convictions with respect, humility and love and guard against the tendency to engage in covert or overt warfare with the boss or the organization in such circumstances, but show true Christian character. Daniel and the three Hebrew Youth stand out as prime example in the way they handled king's ungodly demands and politely and humbly stood their ground. They were driven by faith and trust in the Lord to look after their life and future while they stood strong in their faith. Joseph of Arimathea on the other hand did not want to take a public stand on his faith in Jesus until Jesus was crucified, thus lost the opportunity of 42 months to be with Jesus.

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bosses or subordinates, the Lord will deal with the unkind as appropriately (Colossians 3:25).

Ethical Issues @ Workplace The Christian employee should be above reproach in complying with rules and regulations and exhibit highest standards of work ethic.

He should comply with punctuality and promptness to meet deadlines. He should desist from pilferage of all kind and should not have shadow warfare with the boss. He should desist from the use of employers' resources for personal purposes, like telephone, transport, computer and the like. We are not expected to make personal gains at the expense of the employer and make people say that we are made rich by our employer (Genesis 14:22-24).

Word not to ill-treat employees, underpay and mistreat them because these will invite the wrath of God (James 5:4; Colossians 4:1).

We should not forget the fact that there is divine reward for genuine faithfulness and earning the trust of our employers (Ephesians 6:8).

We must be diligent and faithful and leave our future with God who will not forsake us (Colossians 3:24).

A Challenge to Respond!

The Bible guarantees honour and respect for a servant who looks after the affairs of the employer diligently (Proverbs 27:18). At the same time a Christian boss is like the shepherd of his employees to nourish, strengthen and develop them to reach the highest level of potential. In the unrighteous When we are called upon to suffer world, the Christian must draw under brutal and unkind upon God's power through His employers, we have the Submission vis-Ă -vis Word and Spirit to fight the prerogative to continue there Surrender of Faith battles of the workplace as he until the Lord opens another door serves God. May we take such a Dealing bosses who are harsh for us. It is a time for us to learn challenge and handle all the taskmasters and working under patience and to live above our oppression require extra grace. In circumstances. These difficult job ramifications through battles in prayer for strength, patience and authority-oriented cultures, situations will be used by God to prudence!

Remember! Your work working can be very frustrating. mold us to be strong and teach us situation is God's way to take But plenty of joy and peace for to live by faith and trust God to glory through you as you build up the asking as we employ the look after us. It is then that we your relationships at work to whole armor of God and fight the prove our righteousness as God's serve and to lead for eternal devil who pushes us into dirty children and live to comply with consequences. Your response warfare. Our motive in such work norms even when we are opens the doors for newer circumstances should not be to resented. We must desist from pathways filled with divine win at any cost by using dubious negligence and cause undue delay possibilities. means, but to use God's in work. These are tactics of the instruments and draw from His flesh which we should keep away energy to fight through prayer from. We should still be loyal, fair – Oommen Philip is a Christian Management Consultant, lives in (Ephesians 6:7-8). When we and considerate to the boss and Trivandrum. follow the instructions of the the organization. Employers are e-mail oommenphilip07@gmail.com Word in our dealings with our also strongly admonished by the Harvest Times for Your Family June 2014/Volume 11 Issue 06

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EXPLORERS

Rejoice in the Lord – Sanjay Udaypure

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he word “rejoice” means full of joy. It is a quality or attitude of delight and happiness. When we receive any gift then our heart gets filled with joy. More so, when we receive God in our hearts then our hearts are full of joy and happiness. The joy comes when someone experiences positive encounters. For example, when hearts are filled with peace people reach the stage of delight.

The Greek word for rejoice is chairo which occurs eight times in the Book of Philippians. The Book of Philippians is known as the book of joy in the New Testament. Apostle Paul urges believers to be happy all the time. Paul was in fact in prison when he wrote to the believers to rejoice as they faced trouble in the church from false teachings.

It is applicable to us too. We must comfort ourselves by rejoicing in the Lord. A person who rejoices in the Lord always, will not go off track. Our rejoicing will keep us in the will of God. Let us look at reasons for a Christian to rejoice every day.

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Rejoice because God is with us We must rejoice everyday because God is always with us.

He is the “Emmanuel” God who is always with His people. We must be happy and glad in Him. The Psalmist says; “I will be glad and rejoice in you” (Psa. 9:2). God's presence makes our hearts rejoice in Him. None can be happy without God in the heart.

As His people, let us be happy with God's presence with us.

Rejoice because our Names are Written in Heaven The Word of God says; “Rejoice because our names are written in heaven” (Lk.10: 20b). Heaven is God's resting place. It is the most holy place. What a privilege to have our names written in heaven. Christians have a wonderful hope of entering into heaven. It is the place where everyone in Christ alone can enter after death. No one can enter without being born again (John 3:3). We must rejoice because God has written our

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names in heaven. Share the Good News of Christ and bring many under the saving knowledge of God. Let us rejoice with others by making them taste the love of Christ and let the love of God rest in others lives too.

Rejoice because Christ gave us the Hope of His Second Advent The Word of God says; “Rejoice in the hope of the glory of God” (Rom.5: 2). Christians line with great expectation of His second coming. Christ's return is sure.

However, we do not know when our expectation will get fulfilled.

The word of God says; the gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come (Mt. 24:14).

Though we may not know exact time of His return yet fulfillment of all events of God's salvation plan so far, assure us of His coming again also and of taking us to be with Him forever. This is the great assurance that God has given to His people through His Word, The Bible. Let us prepare

will enable the believer to guard himself against the onslaught of trials and false teaching in the life.

By pressing on, the believer is assured of the presence of Christ, no matter what may confront in Christian life. We know that nothing can separate us from the love of God. Christ will give us

ourselves to go with Him. The hope of His second advent makes us happy. We must delight ourselves in the Word of God.

Conclusion The believers must walk by rejoicing in all that the Lord has done and is doing for them. This

Heaven and Hell 6. Heaven is a 'place' where the following will not go – nothing unclean, cowardly, faithless, detestable, murderers, sexually immoral, adulterers, homosexuals, sorcerers, idolaters, liars, impure, greedy, covetous, thieves, drunkards, revilers, swindlers, etc.

(Rev.21:8, 27; 1Cor.6:9, 19; Ephesians 5:5).

7. Heaven is a 'place' where those whose sins are washed in the blood of the Lamb, those who are redeemed by his precious blood, those whose names are written in the book of life, those who are saved by grace through faith will go (Rev.7:14; 6:9; 1Pet.1:18, 19; Rev.21:27; Eph. 2:5, 8).

8. Heaven is a 'place' where we will: a. Serve God day and night (Rev.7:15). b. See his face (Rev.22:4). c. Worship him (Rev.22:3). d. Reign forever and ever (Rev.22:5).

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in heaven? Has Jesus gone there to make literal 'place' for us?

These are the questions which are not answered. But we need not worry. Let us take the word of God at its face value. Whatever is not clear will be there for us to make new discoveries. If we are wrong in our understanding, we will get corrected.

But for the present let us take as they are given in the Scripture, believe and rejoice. Let us escape the fires of hell ourselves and help others- our family members, loved ones, relatives, friends, colleagues, fellow students, church members, neighbors and acquaintances, etc.- by our witnessing to escape.

At the same time beware of those who claim to have physically gone to heaven and hell, had interviews and audience with the Triune God, patriarchs, prophets and priests, saints and apostles and come back with some message from them. Let the revelation of heaven and hell, given in the Scripture, suffice for us. The It is difficult to tell how much of Revelation is a closed book and what we read in the book of we do not need any extra-biblical Revelation is literal and how much of it is figurative, how much revelation. of it is physical and how much of – Richard Masih, Rich Ministries, New it is spiritual. Are there literal Delhi, M- 09958747748, streets of gold and gates of pearls, email: richardmasih@gmail.com etc.? Are there literal many rooms

supernatural will power to overcome the difficulties.

Therefore, we must continue to rejoice in God. Let us rejoice no matter what confronts us. Be happy……………. and continue remaining so.

– Sanjay Udaypure Based in Bhopal

Poem

Mind Matters Blood, phlegm, choler and bile They are not what make man vile His inner being, oh e'en his soul Consist of things as black as coal How effortless it is indeed To tend the mind with rotten feed And then put up a saintly face, Like a veil to hide inner disgrace.

In your thought, what would I see?

Pride, hate may be jealousy?

No man, save One, has been born free From the curse of sin, it's monstrosity Jesus is the One, come try and find Any small speck in His spotless Mind None shall you find, no not one For He is God's well beloved Son! – Rebecca Rajan

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HER CORNER

Working Woman: A Biblical Perspective – Julie Varghese Mathew

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he home is where a woman can provide the best expressions of love. It is where she is the best help meet for her husband. It is where she teaches and guides and sets a godly example for her children. It is where she has special opportunity to show hospitality and devote herself to other good works. It is where she can find authentic and satisfying fulfillment, as a Christian and as a woman. Nevertheless, can a woman work only at home and not outside the comfort-zone of her home?

church (Ephesians 5:21-6:4). Our love for our families must be sacrificial, just as Christ's love is sacrificial. He left His throne and sacrificed His life for us and we better practise to emulate such humility and sacrifice in our homes. We are to submit to, exhort, and most importantly love one another (1 Corinthians 13, Ephesians 5:22, Hebrews 3:13).

This woman's motivation is important in that her business activities become the means to an end, not an end in themselves. She was providing for her family, not furthering her career, or working to keep up with the neighbors.

Her employment was secondary to her true calling—the stewardship of her husband, children, and home.

Proverbs 31 goes on to describe the activities of the godly wife, If working outside which include purchasing the home causes a materials and food, buying woman to neglect property, planting a vineyard, and doing business. Certainly these her children and The question is not to suggest take her outside the home husband, then it is women should work outside of physically a great deal. In such a the home. The question is “Are scenario, she is not strictly wrong for her to our homes shining well in the working at home or is confining work outside the Lord?” How can a woman keep to her house all the time. Her home." her home shining well in her faithfulness in and with the home Lord? A woman who follows is very significant towards the God's leading in her life, and uses well being of her family and most Love must guide our decisions as her talents and gifts for His importantly in the success of her we relate to God, our families, our ultimate glory is the Godhusband. work and the world around us. honoring woman. Variety of The Bible teaches what a events at home can weaken her Proverbs 31, speaks of “a wife of woman's priorities are to be. If testimony as a woman of God. A noble character.” Beginning at working outside the home causes home in a constant state of chaos verse 11, a virtuous woman is a woman to neglect her children and disarray, children under no portrayed as one who does and husband, then it is wrong for supervision or care, debts built everything in her power to care her to work outside the home. due to out-of-control spending, for her family. She works hard to Even if a Christian woman works great dissension with disrespect keep her house and her family in outside the home yet provides a to each other among husband and order. Further verses reveal that loving, caring environment for wife and children and so the list she is so industrious that she her children and husband, then it runs on. works late at night managing a cannot be wrong. There is God has established the family to cottage industry that provides freedom for her to work in Christ. reflect the union of Christ and the additional income for her family.

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home should not be condemned and women who focus on the stewardship of the home should not be treated with condescension.

Clearly there are women in the Bible who worked both inside and outside the home. To name a few, Deborah worked as a Judge in Israel (Judges 4,5), Anna worked in the Temple (Luke 2:36-38), Tabitha was a social worker who sewed clothes for the needy (Acts 9:36, 39), Phoebe was a deaconess and let's not forget Lydia the purple merchant and Priscilla the tent maker.

And what about women who have children at home? Let us consider what Paul has to say on the subject. In Titus 2:3-5, he says, 'Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips, nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, that the Word of God may not be dishonored'. The emphasis is on how women need to model themselves forgiving love to their children and to own husbands and for cultivating family culture for the glory of God and it does not seem to intend to prohibit women from working outside the home. This does neither suggest that it's a godly choice to work outside nor suggest staying at home mandatorily to become a godly mom. It is essential that a woman, as a mother understands her biblical responsibility before she decides to go out and work.

The woman has to own responsibility for the things

pertaining to the house whether it's children, food or clothes. If, therefore, any part of the household gets neglected because of her outside work, then she would not be fulfilling her obligation as a wife and a mother.

So, her responsibility as a wife and mother takes priority over any desire or need to have a job.

But if a woman has to work pressurized by her husband and consequently the condition of the children- spiritually, mentally and physically-suffers, then the husband will be held responsible.(2 Cor 5:10).

Many women today place too much emphasis on career and achievement outside the home.

Young women need to be taught to develop primarily lofty and admirable aspiration of becoming a godly wife and mother. The woman who chooses to marry needs to submit herself to the Lord and to her husband in her role as "helper" to him.

heart, then you are neglecting the tasks for which you were primarily created by God. Why was woman created?

According to Genesis 2:18, woman was created to be a helper to man.

She should therefore fulfill her primary responsibility faithfully, with respect to their children, while the husband is at work.

Another noteworthy factor in this case being that Scripturally, work is not optional for the husband (Genesis 3:19) and for the wife to support the family on her own while the husband is alive and able. She should guide the children and so assist husband with his job of teaching and training the children. The Bible nowhere forbids a woman from working outside the home.

Since God's Word does not prohibit women from working outside of home let us too stay with that. The bottom line is that each individual family needs a review keeping in view God's will for the family. God has set up the Each woman must therefore structure for the family, but His examine if working outside the detailed working plan may appear home is interfering with her different for each family, yet the responsibilities of a godly wife goal for all families is same. — to and mother or has come in the bring glory to the Lord. His plan way of providing for the for you may be to contribute to emotional and physical needs of the financial welfare of your her husband. Has it affected your family by working outside. His attitude to think as excessively independent and destroyed your plan may be that you find other employment so that you can submissive spirit toward your spend more time with your husband? Has work outside the children. Or God may be asking home taken you away from your you to quit from working outside responsibilities of not only in entirety. Be open to His leading becoming a mother but to raise, in your life and His will. Ask Him nurture and teach your children – for direction, strength, and especially during their most formative years. If your husband wisdom. Do your best with what you have and trust God for the and children have been pushed outcome. aside to a point where they no longer occupy the focus of your – Julie Varghese Mathew, attention and desires of your lives in Bangalore Harvest Times for Your Family June 2014/Volume 11 Issue 06

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BIOGRAPHY

E. P. Varghese Faithful in the Heavenly Father's business – E J Paily Varghese and his brothers who were doing business at this place thought of leaving the place and seeking shelter at Parur a nearby town. In the mean time, due to the intervention of missionary J. M. Davies and others, the enemies of the Gospel became weak and the Lord blessed the believers including Bro. Varghese and their business flourished. Regular open air meetings were held in the local market twice a week and Bible classes were held regularly

by Varghese and other believers.

The beginnings....

The lateBro. E.P. Varghese was born in a business family in the year 1897, at Angamally in Ernakulam District of Kerala state in South India. He was born of godly parents who were originally from a Syrian Orthodox (Jacobite) family. His house was adjacent to the eastern wall of the Jacobite church of Angamally. His father the late E.P.Paily was the Treasurer of the Jacobite church.

Brother Varghese was closely associated with that church in his childhood. There were two paintings on the inside walls of the church. These were large pictures of heaven and hell. The picture of souls being tortured by Satan in hell troubled the heart of Bro. Varghese and created a fear of judgment to come. The parents accepted the Lord and separated from the denomination. The late Bro. T D Lonappan, an evangelist who was a pioneer worker at Angamally was instrumental in Bro. Varghese coming to the Lord.

At the age of 16, Bro. Varghese accepted the Lord as his personal Saviour and from then onwards , he became a burning light to proclaim the Gospel in India and abroad .

Immersed in the Divine call‌.

After being saved, he began to testify for the Lord in and around Angamally. Angamally was a predominantly Christian village in those days and there were 24

three ancient churches within a distance of two furlongs (about 400 meters). Bro. Varghese's ancestral house was in the midst of these churches. RomanCatholics were in majority in Angamally. The nominal Christians in the village in those days were largely drunkards and of unruly behaviour. Soon after Bro. Varghese accepted the Lord, severe persecution was let loose by the Roman Catholics under the leadership of the local priest.

They wanted to kill Varghese, but the Lord wonderfully protected him. Bro. Lonappan and a few other brethren were beaten up A very strange persecution took place at Angamally which is unheard of in any other part of India. The dead body of the child of the evangelist Lonappan was exhumed from the cemetery overnight and kept in the compound of the House of evangelist Lonappan. Bro.

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Keen student of the scripture‌.

He studied the Bible in depth and he became an efficient preacher.

He travelled extensively to different towns in the area known as Malabar. He preached alone continuously for a period of 23 days in special meetings held in Cannanore. This is an outstanding ministry which was not repeated anywhere else later. Many people came forward to accept the Lord.

Bro. Varghese was an itinerant preacher, but he was also a good business man.As he had to travel all over India in connection with his business,and utilised such occasions for preaching the Gospel. He was a man of prayer and this accounted for his success in the ministry.

Bro. Varghese had an opportunity to go to Pakistan in connection with his business and stay there for a few weeks and preach the Word.

Borders of ministry being enlarged….

A tragic incident took place in his life in 1939. He was a passenger in the train that met with an accident which is known as the Ayyalur disaster. This happened near Trichy around 12:35 am, i.e. in the dead of night. Bro. Varghese was thrown out of the compartment, but he landed safely under the great protection of the Almighty. As the survivor of the train accident, he received much publicity all over India. A Punjabi Christian lady who was the wife of Delhi Police Commissioner wanted to meet him.

sound edifying books. He taught in many of our Bible schools. He was a good agriculturist and had a large family of three sons and eight daughters.

As a preacher and teacher of the word, Bro. Varghese was well known in Brethren circles in and out of India. Even in his old age, preaching of the Gospel was his great passion. His preaching was powerful and brought many to the Lord. He was a burning and shining light.

………towards the crown of righteousness

Bro. E P Varghese fought a good fight, finished his course and entered into his eternal rest on He arranged a tour of North India 31st May 1984 at the age of 87. for 3 months and visited places like Delhi, Lucknow, Kanpur, On the day of his funeral, Bro. Allahabad, Varanasi and Calcutta.

Justus Samuel of Bombay In memory of the wonderful happened to remember his deliverance from the train association with Bro. Varghese accident, Bro. Varghese started and said “He was a prince and a publishing a magazine in great man. As one who has had Malayalam, called occasion to listen to great Sathyaprakashini. In those days, preachers, it was Bro. Varghese's this was the only magazine sermons that were a great among the Brethren in Kerala and blessing to me. There was it served a great need of that originality in all his sermons and period. Bro. Varghese was the he was a “Prince of Preachers”. editor and he contributed articles Bro. Varghese used to visit regularly. Other eminent writers Bombay often and reside with his like Bro. K.G.Kurien also regularly Son- in –law, the late Bro. B.P. wrote in the magazine. This Thomas .He used to minister the magazine over the years became word in Fort Assembly on many a great blessing not only to the such occasions.

Brethren believers, but to other evangelicals also. The articles A few books he wrote in were edifying and doctrinally Malayalam are available including sound. his autobiography. May his zeal and devotion to the Lord Bro. Varghese took keen interest challenge us. All glory to the Lord. to start an -all India Christian Amen. book club, based at Angamally for distribution of good Christian books in Malayalam and thereby – E J Paily, Lives in Angamally, Kerala reach many Christian homes with

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they do". He realised that he too was included in that prayer as the one who did it ignorantly.

6. As it was a festival day Jewish authorities sought special permission from Pilate to break the legs in order to hasten the death. They have to dispose of the bodies before that evening. In all probability, it was this centurion who prevented the breaking of legs of Jesus Christ. He heard his last prayer, "father, unto thy hands I commend my spirit" Luke23:46. Yet one of the soldiers in his arrogance pierced His side with a spear.

Blood and water came out from his side; further confirming His death.

(John.19:31-34) 7. Joseph of Arimathae sought permission to get the body of Christ, in order to bury Him. Pilate received the news of the death of Christ with a great astonishment and so he got it ascertained with the centurion. It was this centurion who issued the death certificate of Jesus Christ.(John.19:38; Mk.15:4445) In the last three series of articles we could see how the cross impacts the whole humanity.

Words of Christ fulfilled on the day of crucifixion. " if I be lifted up from earth, will draw all men unto me" (John.12:32). A poor man, Simon of Cyrene a

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descendent of Ham got saved on that day. A perverted man(thief), descendent of Shem got touched by the love of Christ. Finally a powerful man, a descendent of Japheth was moved by the prayers of the dying Savior and acknowledged Him as the son of

God and an innocent man.

Dear reader, what about you? Are you touched by the Love of Christ? God so loved the world and sent His only begotten son so that you might be saved. Look at Him and listen as He calls you softly and tenderly.

Look , Look , Look and Live There is life for a look At the crucified one There is life at this moment for you!

– Koshy Mathew is an itinerant Bible Teacher based in Mumbai.

POEM

Roman Centurion: Musings at the Cross Summary of poem: The Roman Centurion who led the crucifixion of Jesus at Golgotha was one of the stellar soldiers who was trained to do execution every single day. He was trained to be cruel. Yet that day as he crucified Jesus, this man testified “Truly this was the son of God.” …what made him accept that? why did he say that? was he saved by saying that?

This poem is composition from the viewpoint of what the centurion would have felt.

The Appointed Hour draws nigh Another day, Another execution So usual of my day, yet I never realised Today was like no other day “A day of darkness” yet “A day of Light” The Appointed Hour arriveth at the cross I saw him – first time their in courtroom Something within me stirred He was like no other So calm, So beautiful, So heavenly Why was he here? I ask!

The crowds go berserk outside Straining my ears, I hear “Crucify Him” “A day of darkness” yet “A day of Light” The Appointed Hour arriveth at the cross Flogged, whipped was him Furrows made in his back Yet not a word of murmur nor regret I wonder standing afar off What manner of man was he ?

“A day of darkness” yet “A day of Light” The Appointed Hour arriveth at the cross On the Hill we climb, he labouriously Laid we him on the cross, the man named Jesus I look into his beautiful eyes, I look into his beautiful face 26

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More beautiful than all else Undescribable Joy, Mercy that is unpennable Shines forth from his face “A day of darkness” yet “A day of Light” The Appointed Hour arriveth at the cross As I beheld the crucified I hear him for the first time.

“Father forgive them…..”

My heart melts, spirit broken down.

I wonder-Can he – Forgive me??

A man who had done so many executions I strain my ear to him as I hear his whisper “IT IS FINISHED” Could he be the Son of God? Wondered my heart!

“A day of darkness” yet “A day of Light” The Appointed Hour had finally arrived at the cross Earth shook, Darkness engulfed My heart burnt in fear and shame Thunderous realisation struck me Crucified Jesus was truly the Son of God Heart metled, knees crumbled, Tears soaked my face, Testified I aloud!!

“TRULY THIS WAS THE SON OF GOD” It was a day of darkness but now a day of Light Truly The Appointed Hour had come and passed !

– Godly Abraham

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n the recent election season, an article appeared in one of the leading Newspapers, where the author, claiming to be a practising Christian, said that he has switched to another political party as he wanted his choice individual to be the PM. The reason cited: He will bring food to every table, send every child to school and create jobs for the young people. The article closed with the words: “for lots of people, that is the kingdom of god”.

sin and unrighteousness but in righteousness, holiness and in truth.

thorn upon His head and a reed in His right hand and in coarse mockery bowed the knee before Him and said, Hail, King of the The Lord Jesus Christ said that Jews! They spat upon Him and “except a man be born again, he took the reed and smote him on cannot see the Kingdom of God”. the head. Then they flogged Him To be 'born again' is the greatest and delivered Him to be crucified necessity of man while on this though Pilate found no fault in earth. Every man and woman Him. Such treatments were meted born into this world is absolutely out only to worst sinners- you corrupt, depraved and ruined and and I. The Lord Jesus chose our needed to undergo a thorough place and stood condemned in change altogether by way of a our stead, because He does not 'new birth'. Nothing less than a desire us to perish in hell. He was 'new birth' will save man from the buried, but rose again The Holy Bible says that the torments of eternal hell fire! The victoriously on the third day, Kingdom of God is not meat and flesh is powerless to cause a 'new ascended to heaven and seated on drink; but righteousness, and birth' to take place in us. Eternal the right hand of His Majesty on peace and joy in the Holy Ghost. life flows from the death of the high!

The Kingdom of God is a spiritual Lord Jesus Christ. He died on the kingdom governed by God, where cross in your place and my place If you confess your sins and righteousness, peace and joy to save you and me from the receive this risen and soon exist. The subjects of this punishment of our sins. coming Saviour, you will receive kingdom are different from the eternal life. Dear reader, are you The Roman soldiers stripped the subjects of the kingdoms of this born again?

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