HaveringLife magazine Summer 2013

MAGAZINE SUMMER 2013

Rise to Fame HaveringLife catches up with singer Pete Brame

Fit for

LIFE

Personal trainer Adam Sheekey shares his top tips for the perfect summer body

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Hello and welcome to the summer edition of HaveringLife magazine. We are very proud to bring you the best that Havering has to offer, from fashion and interiors, to local events and food.

This issue we have an exclusive interview with Essex singer Pete Brame, who appeared on Fame Academy.

He speaks with us about what he’s been up to in recent years and what the future holds.

Adam Sheekey tells us why keeping healthy this summer is so important and shares his top tips for feeling good, plus we investigate what’s happening at Raphael’s Park during its refurbishment.

It’s all sunshine and culture in the travel section, as HaveringLife travels to Paphos in Cyprus for some much needed rest and relaxation, and Gaudi-decorated Barcelona for a long weekend We hope you enjoy this latest issue and would love to hear your feedback, get in touch by emailing hello@haveringlife.co.uk.

With many thanks to: Pete Brame, Jenny Townsend, Sarah-Jane Lewis, Adam Sheekey, David Christie and Paul Wade

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FEATURES Top 3 party dresses 06 | Rise to Fame

HaveringLife meets ex-Fame Academy star and local solo and band singer Pete Brame 48 | Fit For Life

Adam Sheekey explains why a personal trainer might just give you that extra motivation to change for the better

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FASHION & BEAUTY 27 | Style Selection

Fashion for him and her from local retailers 34 | Beauty

HaveringLife takes on the taxing task of trying out a variety of spa options, from a local massage to a weekend of pampering

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1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Upminster, www.mandco.com

FOOD & DRINK 41 | Chef’s Corner 30

HaveringLife brings you all the foodie essentials for a perfect picnic in the sunshine 44 | Restaurant Review

We visit the Harold Wood gastro-pub The Shepherd and Dog 4

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REGULARS 14 | Events

Everything you need to keep abreast of local happenings, plus we report on some successful summer events 25 | Snapshot

We bring you another old photograph of Havering, courtesy of David Christie. This issue – Upminster Station, 1970 36 | The Secret Single

‘Secret Single’ Sarah tells readers the exciting story of buying her engagement ring – but all is not what it seems…

47 | Pets Corner HaveringLife’s resident sausage dogs Coco and Max share their experiences of boarding at the luxurious Essex Pooch Palace 53 | Interiors

Some of the most beautiful things to fill your home with this season, to suit all budgets OUT & ABOUT 56 | Park Life

We take a look at all the changes taking place in Raphael Park, Romford and explain why it is still a great place to visit TRAVEL 63 | Vacation To… …Paphos. HaveringLife takes a trip to Cyprus to experience sun, sea, sand and some tomb-shaped culture 68 | Mini Break

We enjoy a weekend away in Barcelona which has the best of both worlds and bring you a round-up of the must-see sites 5

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It was the year that he gave up a degree writing my own songs.

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Music which moves me band Broken Eyes. is the short answer. It comes in all different What inspired you musically growing up? forms and often surprises me – that’s Brit Pop had a huge the beauty. There’s effect on me as a teenager, looking to be always a song to express

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my mood. My music sounds like me – it’s me wearing my heart on my sleeve, an emotional

Photo: Johnathan Doyle

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Rise to Fame HaveringLife catches up with ex Fame Academy star and Broken Eyes singer, Pete Brame

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Photo: Danni Brooks Photography (www.facebook.com/dannibrooksphotography)

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musical map into the unknown.

What did you learn from your experiences on Fame Academy?

I learnt a lot, how to cope under pressure – and how not to. It was the start of an amazing journey, through the woods and out into the clearing. What I’ve learned is that we’ve all got to try try TRY for the things and people we really want in life.

How has your career progressed since then?

Since Fame Academy, I’ve played in numerous bands including Pete Brame and The Dolls, One Finger Zen, The Pete n Joe Show and of course Broken Eyes. I’ve been lucky enough to work with 9

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(Let www Loose), Lois Elliot My band Broken Eyes hm.com Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, recently won Clacton (Rialto), Joe Murphy House of Fraser, Lakeside, And your plans for (Koopa), Nic Gavrilovic Battle Of The Bandswww.houseoffraser.co.uk Top 3 party dresses the immediate future?

(The Libertines/Placebo) held at Westcliff Keep gigging. Stay and everyone in Broken Theatre, so we’re busy happy. Simple. at the moment doing Eyes, to name but a

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Photo: Danni Brooks Photography (www.facebook.com/dannibrooksphotography)

FOODFEATURE & DRINK

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

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CATCH PETE BRAME PLAYING IN ESSEX THIS SUMMER 18 July The Fatling And Firkin, Hornchurch (Solo) 20 July The Bull, Colchester (with Broken Eyes) 27 July Wick Lodge, Clacton (with Broken Eyes) 3 August Brightlingsea Festival (with Broken Eyes) 10 August Clacton Carnival (with Broken Eyes) 11 August Clacton Fun Day and Westcliff On Sea (Solo) Photo: Danni Brooks Photography (www.facebook.com/dannibrooksphotography)

17 August Hornchurch Community Fun Day for charity (Solo) 21 August Wick Lodge, Clacton (with Broken Eyes)

BOOKINGS To book Pete Brame, please contact: Jenny Townsend: justjenny.essex@gmail.com Wendy Davidson: wendyapuk@hotmail.co.uk

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

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Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

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The Collier Row Horticultural Association

20 July, 2pm-4pm Spend a couple of hours browsing the vegetable and floral art displays, enter the raffle, and 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, enjoy refreshments.

Free entry. www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, North Romford Community Upminster, www.mandco.com Centre, Clockhouse Lane

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HaveringLife brings you summer’s finest local events

EVENTS

POP UP CRAFT MARKET

3 August, 10am-3pm While away some time at Upminster Library browsing the stalls at a pop up craft market, which will include bags and jewellery for sale, homeware and plenty to keep the kids occupied.

Upminster Library

Bat and Moth Evening

16 August, 8.30pm-10pm Be at one with nature and find out more about local wildlife on this evening walk lead by the Essex Wildlife Trust. Suggested donation £2.

Meet at Parkland on Corbets Tey Road, Upminster for bats, then move to Cranham Marsh for moths

Film Night at the Old Chapel

21 July, 7pm-10.25pm The recently refurbished Old Chapel are hosting their first film night.

The viewing will be of Mrs Brown, starring Judi Dench and Billy Connolly, which tells the story of Queen Victoria beginning a scandalous relationship with servant Mr Brown after the death of her husband. Tickets are £5 per person or £4 for friends of the website, and include a drink.

Book on 01708 222660.

The Old Chapel, Upminster

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

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Summer Pamper Sequin stripe jumper, event £28, 17 August, 10am-3pm Head to Upminster Library for some ‘me’ time and indulge in relaxing treatments by a qualified therapist from just £6. Book treatments Gold skater

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Upminster Library

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Spooky Spider Cakes

11 September, 5.30pm-8.30pm A free inspiring networking event for women thinking of starting their own business, or already trading. Book on 01708 433602.

Havering College of Further and Higher Education, Hornchurch

61. August, 2.30pm-3.30pm Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www.newlook.com.

2.out Greytheir baroquelibrary peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, After picking Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Upminster,kids www.mandco.com books, aged 5-8 can spend an hour decorating some spooky 30 spider cakes to take home and enjoy with the family. £3 members, £3.50 non-members. Book in advance on 01708 434903.

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Decorate a Birdhouse

23 August, 2.30pm3.30pm Kids aged 4-8 can get creative and decorate a wooden birdhouse to use in the garden or as an ornament at Hornchurch Library. £6 members, £6.50 non-members, book on 01708 434 903.

Hornchurch Library

Havering Show

25 & 26 August, 11am-6pm The Havering Show returns for the bank holiday weekend, bringing with it musical acts, daring stunts, a circus, fun fair, classic cars and plenty of stalls and exhibitors. Arena events include the East Coast Freestyle Moto-x Display Team. Free entry, but car parking is £2.

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk

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Italian Food Market

8 September, 10am-4pm Enjoy a taste of Italy! Stock up on parmigiano reggiano, prosciutto, salame, olives, extra virgin olive oils and more at the market.

South Street, Romford

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The pop and rock stage 30 will showcase a whole host of talent.

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The Liberty Fashion Show Weekend

28 & 29 September, 11am-5pm The area outside River Island will be transformed into a showcase of fashion, with 4 catwalk shows a day, plus there will be exclusive offers, hair and beauty advice and samples for shoppers.

The Liberty, Romford

Zoo Lab Scary Creatures come to Gidea Park

13 August, 10.30am-11.30am Kids aged 5 and up will be entertained and educated by spiders, scorpions, snakes and lots more. £4 members, £4.50 non-members. Book on 01708 434978.

Gidea Park Library

Chocolate Tasting & Truffle Making

18 July, 6.30pm-8pm Indulge in tasting some great chocolate and also make some delicious truffles to take home with you. £12-£13, book early on 01708 434 933.

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk

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Over 6,000 residents acts took to the stage perfect (rare) summer’s day. from across Harold Hill to perform, including came together to enjoy several dance troops The sun shone and and Broadford school. a fun packed day at temperatures reached The event was Central Park. almost 30 degrees. organised by the The day included a A perfect day therefore, for guest appearance from committee which also 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Hill Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, volunteers included Harold mascot the Harold www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

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The wrist band system seemed to be a winner with parents whose little ones had unlimited access to everything for just £3. The arena was also packed with majorettes and a sports day organised by the Central Park Leisure Centre.

Local residents summed up the day best with their positive

feedback –“this was such a lovely day, well done to everyone who put this together.”

The sun shone all day and made the event the success it became.

The Festival committee would like to thank everyone that took part and made the event such a great success.

Julie Pocock, Harold Hill Festival Chair, said “It was amazing to look

around and see so many people and everyone looked so happy, the day went exactly to plan and I am so proud of the team that made this happen.” www.harold hillfestival.moon fruit.com

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Heath, Romford. and prize draws.

Top 3 party dresses The two day event The independent Staff member Lee, business has been traced saw the store dressed comments “It was an back over 100 years and with union jack enjoyable day for all the is active in bringing the bunting and flags, staff and also the local and customers were community together community who always treated to food, drink with events a couple of support us with our times a year. The display and sweets whilst events.” in question this time was they browsed the J I Partridge Opticians, 1106 High Road, “The independent business is active in Romford RM6 4AD bringing the community together” 020 8590 1762

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

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REGULARS: SNAPSHOT

Havering Snapshot

Upminster Station with London Transport Underground train and a BR diesel unit on the Romford branch.

Photo taken by David Christie in June 1970

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Turn up the heat with summer essentials Image: T-shirt, £6, Linen trousers from £5, H&M, Romford 27

STYLE GUIDE Blue stripe dip dye T-shirt, £20,

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30Photo print swimming 1. shorts, £10, George at Asda, Romford 2. Blue Harbour checked swim shorts, £22.50, M&S Romford 3. Swim shorts , £19.99, H&M, Romford 28

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Easy printed T-Shirt, £10, Matalan, Romford

Superdry vintage logo T-shirt, £22.99, Superdry, Romford

Stripe flip flops, £3, Matalan, Romford

Acid wash LA Athletics print denim jacket, £50, River Island, Romford

Panama hat, £10, M&Co, Upminster

Chambray Panel Lace up Trainers, £10, George at Asda, Romford

FINISHING TOUCHES Accessories to complete the look Orange woven ring skater belt, £7.99, New Look, Romford 7 pack pure cotton assorted handkerchiefs, £9.50, Marks and Spencer Romford

Men’s twisted soul khaki sunglasses, £12.99, Blue Inc. Romford Black woven beaded bracelet pack, £8, River Island, Romford

Navy Safari Hat, £12, BHS, Romford

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STEP BACK IN TIME… ROMFORDS BUSES 1967-‘70s

A book featuring photographs by David Christie

Browse the online store at www.blurb.com/user/store/crisdave

FASHION

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TOP LOOK FOR HER only £35 Your wardrobe …to the beach! must-haves

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Plain square sunglasses, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, £8, M&Co,www.mandco.com Upminster Upminster, 2. Large floppy hat, £5, TU at Sainsbury’s, Romford 30Butterfly Print Bikini, £8 and 3. £4, George at Asda, Romford 4. Loose fit kaftan, £6, Matalan, Romford 5. Raffia toepost flipflops, £4, Matalan, Romford

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Jade chain halterneck wrap top, £19.99, New Look, Romford Edge to edge shrug cardigan, £10, M&Co, Upminster

Pure cotton roll up chinos, £17.50, Marks and Spencer, Romford Puck bag, £45, Monsoon, Romford

Ladies printed swimsuit, £19.99, TK Maxx, Romford

FABULOUS FLATS Comfy summer shoes you can stay in all day long Pastel ankle strap sandals, £26, Next, Romford

Coral peep toe pumps, £20, Dorothy Perkins, Romford

Sandals, £14.99, H&M, Romford

Denim shorts £14.99, H&M, Romford

Lilley womens cream ruffle flower ballerina, pumps, £12.99, Shoe Zone, Hornchurch

Metallic woven flip flops, £3, George at Asda, Romford

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FOR HER PERFECT PAMPERING STYLE GUIDE

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

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www.houseoffraser.co.uk An hour or so away by train, tucked away on a quiet street in Covent Garden is the well known Sanctuary day spa. The venue has many different areas from a koi carp relaxation lounge where you can read a magazine and take cream tea, to the infra red room, exercise pool and several jacuzzis. It’s this, and the fact it’s women-only that sets it apart from the rest. A great way to while away a day – or afternoon in town, the experience doesn’t come cheap so is a 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Centre, Romford,occasion. realShopping treat for a special www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M FOR: & co, 55-57 Road, or IDEAL A Station hen party Upminster, www.mandco.com indulgent treat with a best mate 30 PRICES: From £55 half day, £75+ full day (treatments not included) 12 Floral Street, London WC2E 9DH. 0870 770 3350. www.sanctuary.com

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THE QUICK FIX

This white and magenta decorated salon offers the usuals – waxing, tanning, massages and manicures, but there are a few extras like fish pedicures or sessions in the sauna and jacuzzi.

Imperial Spa & Beauty is very reasonably priced plus the girls are all friendly and will make you feel welcome.

IDEAL FOR: A treat after a busy week PRICES: From £18 for a 20 minute massage.

2-4 Eastern Road, Romford, RM1 3PJ. 01708 745084 www.imperialspa andbeauty.co.uk

THE PAMPERING BREAK

If you can afford to get away for a couple of days, jump in the car and head to Kent.

The 4 star Ashford International Hotel has a fully equipped gym, 20m pool, sauna, steam room and heated loungers, and offers a range of treatments. The 1 night spa break is extremely good value as it includes everything you need

to truly relax. The food in the restaurant is worth noting as being very good, and the whole experience is really relaxing from check-in to check-out.

IDEAL FOR: A girls relaxing weekend away PRICES: From £99 for a 1 night spa break – includes dinner, bed, breakfast, lunch and 50 minutes of treatments.

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FOR Secret HER Single The Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Your wardrobe Our “secret single” girl Sarah (almost 36), from Romford takes matters must-haves into her own hands and goes engagement ring shopping… alone this party season Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

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straight face – no –a given to me with love, s my sincere face – uttered impending from the love of my life… Alas – I am more the words, “I thought 36th 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping youRomford, could use this.”

Bridget Jones these daysCentre, birthday www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch,I www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

Flockaspot £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Did I mention that but girlprom candress, dream. dawns, find myself Upminster, www.mandco.com this was on my 35th To give you a sense of perusing my favourite 30 birthday, all wrapped my life – my mother jewellery shop and up as a present? Not handed me the book wondering what it entitled How to Marry quite what a girl is would be like to open looking for, which is after 35, and with a something small and

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why I recently paid a visit to my favourite jewellery store. No – not to torture myself, but rather to imagine what it must be like to get engaged, to have the man you love (possibly) get down on one knee and tell you he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

I have yet to experience any of this for myself, so I decided it was time to take matters into my own hands.

And so I boldly go where (I assume) no 35-year-old single girl has gone before. I enter the shop. Instantly I feel like an imposter and start sweating like I’m about to rob the place. There is no time to turn and run as I’m welcomed by a cheery chap who invites me

to take a seat while he locates a sales associate.

It’s then that I realise I should probably get my story straight.

Too late – my sales associate Sally approaches.

“My boyfriend suggested I go ring shopping,” I hear myself say. “You know, to see what I like.” Nice one Sarah – NOT!

my fake boyfriend!

Sally and I then start to chat about life, love and engagements.

I’m surprised at how easily the details of my fake relationship come together. Why I couldn’t just say I wanted to try rings on for myself? Anyway, my new fiance’s name is Dave. We’ve been together almost two

“Over the next hour or so, Sally and I discuss ring shapes, sizes, colour and clarity” Over the next hour or so, Sally and I discuss ring shapes, sizes, colour and clarity.

Before I know it, there are dazzling diamonds being brought forth in various settings.

I’m mesmerised, and to be honest, a little excited for me and

years and he’s a builder.

One night, out of the blue, he suggested I go ring shopping.

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bubble bursts. about fake boyfriends. have. Oh dear.

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, “It was just a field My wish list created, They don’t snore or Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk trip”, I tell myself, whilst Sally arms me with hog remote. One Yourthe wardrobe thinking, actually, thing is for sure – sales a “Welcome to the must-haves this partyinseason perhaps I need therapy Family” packet and assistants wedding sections are the most “I’m whirlwind of emotions, enthusiastic people Top £19.99, H&M, LibertyI thrilled about the life I’ve created for Centre, Romford, haveShopping ever met.

I’m a www hm.com myself in my head” Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, whirlwind of emotions, House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk or a dating website! sends me on my way thrilled about the life Top 3 party dresses I’ve created for myself with a hug and a smile. Still – I have visions of my perfect engagement It isn’t until 15 in my head, yet sick ring, not to mention the minutes later, when that at any moment life I created for myself Sally will realise I’m a with “Dave”. complete liar!

It’s not that my But Sally doesn’t life right now catch on. is bad.

Instead, In fact, she takes most of me into the time, her office, it feels measures my 1. Melafinger dark red and shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, fabulous. ring www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station IRoad, have an helps mewww.dorothyperkins.com.3. create Upminster, www.mandco.com amazing circle of a wish list on the store’s I’m safely 30 friends who love and website. That way, Dave seated at my favourite can look at my selection sushi restaurant nursing support me (and vice versa), great family, some miso soup, that and call the store with the best football the fake boyfriend any questions he may

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team in the world to support and a career that I enjoy. But if I’m completely honest, there’s a part of me that wonders what it’s like to be that girl. The girl whose boyfriend is so enamoured of her that he goes out and buys a ring and asks her to spend the rest of her life with him. That could be fabulous, too.

For a moment, I contemplate buying the ring for myself just because – but can’t quite justify it and

frankly it’s a bit weird. After mulling over everything whilst watching the gorgeous sashimi going around and around the conveyor belt, I realise it’s not the ring I’m after. It’s what it represents. A commitment with the person I love and who loves me unequivocally.

That’s what makes ‘the engagement’ so exciting. Imagine what it’ll be like with Mr. Right, imperfections and all. For now, the ring will have to wait.

I think it’s worth it, holding out for the real deal.

So for tonight, I raise my glass to each and every “Bridget” out there and congratulate us all for holding out for “the one” and not just “anyone”.

“I realise it’s not the ring I’m after.

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FEASTING HaveringLife searches high and low for local picnic goodies, and reviews The Shepherd and Dog in Harold Wood

Deluxe 2 person hamper

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk

3 Chef’s corner 1 HaveringLife makes the most of the summer and prepares to picnic!

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Fruit kebabs

1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford,

www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, INGREDIENTS Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.METHOD Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Upminster, www.mandco.com ¼ pineapple, peeled 1. Cut the pineapple into 12 chunks.

3 x kiwis, peeled 2. Cut the kiwi into quarters.

30 6 x strawberries (110g) 3. Cut the strawberries in half.

12 x white grapes (70g) 4. Thread a piece of each fruit onto each cocktail stick to 12 x cocktail sticks make 12 mini kebabs, 3 per person.

Recipe courtesy of Aldi www.aldi.co.uk

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If you can’t face spending the morning making a huge variety of rolls to cater for all the fussy eaters – cheat! Head to Marks and Spencer and pick up this platter of 16 mini rolls, where there’s sure to be something to suit everyone Classic Mini Roll Platter (16 pieces), £12, Marks and Spencer, Romford

JJ Cole 5x5ft picnic mat, £22.99, Argos, Hornchurch

Botanical stripe print cool bag, £6, Matalan, Romford Plastic boat print platter, £5, Matalan, Romford

Essential Waitrose 20 piece snack-pack, £2.29, Waitrose, Upminster

SHOP LOCAL

Instead of automatically picking up your fruit and veg at the supermarket, spend your cash locally and head to Romford market where you can pick out the best offerings and get a more personal service.

Romford market is open Wednesdays, Friday and Saturdays 8.30am - 4.30pm

WANTS THESE! Pimms & lemonade 250ml £2 each, Sainsbury’s, Hornchurch

These seriously cute ice lolly moulds make home-made summer treats easy. Simply fill with juice, freeze, and away you go!

Ice lolly moulds, £4, BHS, Romford

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

RESTAURANT REVIEW Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

THE SHEPHERD & DOG Top 3 party dresses HAROLD HILL Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk

HaveringLife took the pink car over to Harold Wood to meet with friends and sample the best in pub dining

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area after meeting in alking anyone?) we look over the bar first. into the the menu. The old The menu is varied, Shepherd pub favourites such as catering for all of us and Dog, it’s clear prawn cocktail, fish and – one vegetarian, two this is no ordinary chips and burgers are pregnant ladies and two all present, but these pub. The interior is decorated neutrally and are joined by locally “The prawns are 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford,steaks from modern.

It somehow sourced plump and Perkins, 127-132 www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, balances perfectly the Essex, chicken dishes delicious, and Upminster, www.mandco.com atmosphere between and vegetarian options enormous!”

30 ‘dark and cosy’ and As starters arrive, ‘light and bright’ and is very fussy diners. After we see straight away very welcoming. We are sampling cocktails that as well as being seated in the restaurant (Porn Star Martini beautifully presented,

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we’re not going to go hungry. The prawns are plump and delicious, and enormous! One did make a bid for freedom off the wooden board on which it was presented, but was soon captured and devoured.

The steaks were cooked to perfection and the pork belly melt-in-the-mouth, complemented by the crispy crackling placed atop, and creamy mash.

Despite (as always) eyeing up the fabulous looking dessert menu beforehand, we had to admit defeat and left muttering to ourselves ‘next time’...

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COCO & MAX

HaveringLife’s resident sausage dogs keep their paws on the pulse, bringing you doggie facts, best buys and their top tweet

MAX COCO

We were lucky enough to spend a brilliant week at the Essex Pooch Palace recently in Wickford. We had a lovely time playing with all the other doggies who were all little like us. It was real luxury, we had our own bedroom with a view of the TV, underfloor heating to keep our paws toasty and were even given goodie bags with treats when we left.

Essex Pooch Palace, Smilers Farm, Pound Lane, Wickford SS12 9JS www.essexpoochpalace.co.uk

COCO: Max and I love these - we were kindly given one each by the Palace at the end of our stay. This one is modelled by a wire-haired sausage!

Dachshund linen neckerchief, from £16, buy online at www.muttsandhounds.co.uk

DOGGIE FACT Dachshun ds like us were bred to fi badgers in ght their dens

MAX: Us dogs must have something fabulous to eat out of! I just love these...

Medium silhouette dog bowl

by Mason Cash, £5, large dog father bowl, £7, buy online at www.petsathome.com

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

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1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Upminster, www.mandco.com

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Fit for life HaveringLife catches up with Adam Sheekey of Focused Intense Training to find out the benefits of working out with a personal trainer and why diet is just as important

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t seems people are exercising more these days.

Running clubs and boot camps are springing up over the borough and it’s hard to go a week without another link to sponsor a friend doing a marathon. There are always benefits to exercising regularly and it certainly helps to

be with others for that extra push.

However if you have specific goals and really need to change for good, a personal trainer might just be the answer. With one-on-one training there is nowhere to hide and results are gained quickly as Adam Sheekey, owner of Focused Intense

Training knows. He set up around five years ago in response to existing trainers after noticing they were using the same workout for each client, irrespective of that individual’s personal goals. “I wanted to make a difference to people, I wanted to change their lives, make them more confident, 49

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enhance their health Sequin stripe jumper, £28, and make them live Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk longer”, he says.

Your wardrobe Adam tailors all must-haves thissessions party season his to the individual’s personal goalsToprather using £19.99, than H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, a one-workout-fits-all www hm.com Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, approach, and stays House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk in touch constantly to Top 3 party dresses encourage – making a real life change possible.

His support does not simply end when the hour is up. Adam insists that “a good personal trainer should vary sessions to keep the body guessing, and push each individuals “I wanted to make a difference to people, boundaries in every I wanted to change their lives, make session.” Drawing them more confident, enhance their 1. Mela red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Romford, on hisdark extensive health andShopping makeCentre, them live longer” www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, knowledge, he helps Upminster, www.mandco.com gain quicker results for alone. He has a training the workout varied.

30 clients be it weight Exercising goes handhis studio in Collier Row loss or toning, much and also holds sessions in-hand with a good diet which Adam can more effectively than in local parks and at also help advise on. “I if they were exercising clients’ homes to keep

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Drink at least 2 litres of water per day they feel different and better about themselves immediately when training with Focused Intensed Training, and feel good about making a real lifestyle change.

“You only really appreciate your health when you lose it, so make time to look after don’t believe in quick fixes. I believe in eating your body”, says Adam. well and training hard We couldn’t agree more - where do we all year round. You sign up? can lose weight quite quickly by cutting Call Adam at Focused carbs and having a Intense Training on diet high protein and 07779 145 433. www. healthy fats.” focusedintensetraining.

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Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

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FOR HER Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk

Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www hm.com

Top 3 party dresses

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1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Upminster, www.mandco.com

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Park Life

HaveringLife heads off with sausage dogs Coco and Max to Raphael Park for a walk and to find out more about the big restoration project

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aphael Park in Romford has to be one of the most beautiful in the borough. With a history going back several hundred years, today

it also keeps several features from times gone by, such as Black’s Canal, the Pleasure Ground, the Spoon Canal, and the site of former Vineyards. A fountain now takes

pride of place within the canal, which is enjoyed by much wildlife, including great crested grebe, tufted duck, swans and geese, which children can enjoy feeding. The park is also very green with a large grass area ideal for picnics, and is home to several mature oak and

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Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, This summer there www hm.com Gold skater skirtmany

by Lashes, £45, going are works House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk on in order to further Top 3 party dresses improve the park, as part of a £2.2million “Raphael Park really does offer something restoration project for everyone and it is easy to spend a funded by the Heritage whole day there when weather permits” Lottery Fund, and £200,000 grant from the the summer, and the horse chestnut trees Veolia ES Cleanaway play area is large and which have stood the Havering Riverside ideal for children of test of time. Squirrels Trust. Sights are set on play above in the trees all ages, having been refurbished only a few obtaining Green Flag in the more shaded status (a benchmark years ago. wooded area. national standard Raphael Park really The Spoon canal 1. Mela dark shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, forRomford, parks and green does offer something existed inredthe 18th www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, and www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

Flock spot prom dress, Station Road, spaces). everyone and£49, it Mis& co, 55-57 century is now dry, for Upminster, www.mandco.com The park has many and filled with sunken easy to spend a whole 30 historic structures, day there when weather tennis courts and a permits. The cafe offers and the work taking children’s playground. place aims to restore The courts have a pay- snacks, drinks and and improve the ice-cream, there is as-you go club and parking across the road condition of these and are very popular in

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are provided and it is a to enhance community watching the wildlife.

Sequin stripe jumper, £28, A community group great way to keep your involvement in the Jane Norman,buy online at www.janenorman.co.uk of volunteers called The local park clean and park. will be by Your This wardrobe Friends of Raphael Park tidy whilst meeting new introducing must-havesmore this partyevents season friends and keeping fit. & Lodge Farm Park activities, If you would like to work with the council, and volunteering find out more police and other bodies opportunities within Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, information on the to constantly improve the park. www hm.com Gold skater skirt by Lashes, project, £45, restoration the park, protect it and The bandstand House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.houseoffraser.co.uk contact Don Stewart on provide a safe and fun has undergone a Top 3 party dresses 01708 43377. The place for all to enjoy. refurbishment, as Friends of Raphael Park You can help out by well as the sports send out regular joining the litter pick pavilion. The play newsletters with on the first Tuesday area kiosk and toilets updates, visit their (meet at the cafe) and will be demolished, website at www.

3rd Sunday (meet at and throughout the friendsofraphaelpark. the playground) of summer, work will org.uk. each month. All tools be carried out on the footpaths, gates and railings. There will also be landscaping and planting for Autumn.

1. Raphael Mela dark redPark shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.

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Things to do at Raphael Park Visit the Cafe You’ll find the cafe on the top of the hill, by the bandstand. It’s open every day in the summer from 10am until 6pm or 7pm and offers hot food and snacks, drinks and ice-cream Help Out There is a Tuesday and Sunday mornings litter pick from 10 am where you can help keep the park tidy. The upcoming dates are: 21st July, 6th and 18th August, 3rd and 15th September, 1st and 20th October and 5th November.

Play Tennis Raphael Park has 12 tennis courts, and operates a pay as you play policy. Contact head coach David Hammond on 01708 733445 for more information or visit www.raphaelparktc.com Take the kids to the Play Area The play area was revamped just a few years ago and features many new nature-inspired pieces of equipment to play on, including a cableway, G-Force roundabout and Buccaneer Towers’ Netscape. There is also an area for younger children featuring musical and voice interactive play panels.

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Your wardrobe must-haves this party season

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better Your wardrobeplace must-haves to this party season catch the sun and experience the local culture than H&M, Aphrodite, Top £19.99, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, the Greek goddess www hm.com of love and beauty’s birthplace? Paphos Top lies on 3 theparty coast ofdresses southwest (Greek) Cyprus, and even in December can enjoy temperatures of up to 20 degrees.

An ideal base is the Louis King Jason Hotel.

Being within walking distance to Kato Paphos

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with its bars and restaurants, a stroll to the harbour, and less Your wardrobe than an hour from the must-haves this party season airport, the hotel is in a good location.

The spacious rooms Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, often have kitchen areas www hm.com Gold skater skirtof

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A leisurely walk will bring you to the harbour where there are several restaurants offering local cuisine – halloumi and calamari 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, being perfect for lunch www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress, £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3. Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, by the sea.

Upminster, www.mandco.com The harbour is also 30 where you can see Paphos Castle, which was originally a fort built to protect the Louis King Jason Hotel

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harbour, and has since been destroyed and rebuilt several times.

Well worth a visit are the Tombs of the Kings, located in Kato Paphos. The UNESCO world heritage site

consists of many tombs to explore, dating back to the 4th century, and some archaeological excavations are still taking place at the site.

The town itself has good shopping for

wandering during the day. By night there is an array of bars to enjoy as you reflect on the day, cocktail in hand watching the sun go down.

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Barcelona is a bustling city situated on the coast which means it offers the best of both worlds, as HaveringLife discovers…

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WHERE TO STAY The 3 star Soho Hotel is ideally located, situated in the heart of the Eixample. It has a terrace with pool and solarium, perfect for a summer break. www.hotelsoho barcelona.com.

a must to visit.

Gaudi’s enormous Sagrada Família church has been under construction since 1882, with completion pencilled in for 2026, and being funded by private donations.

Park Güell built in the early 1900s is a stunning garden FOOD AND DRINK complex with unusual Head to Las Ramblas architectural elements to sample tapas and also by Gaudi, situated Sangria. This is a on the hill of El Carmel busy area of central Barcelona popular with in the Gràcia district of tourists and locals alike, Barcelona.

For those interested with many restaurants in art, there are many and bars. museums, including Taking a class in The National Museum Spanish Flamenco of Art of Catalonia, and dancing is a great way Barcelona Museum of to work it off!

Contemporary Art to ART AND CULTURE name just a couple.

Barcelona is famous for its buildings by the RELAXING artist Gaudi, which are Barcelona has seven

beaches, and La Barceloneta is known for its sandy beach – perfect for relaxing after a busy day sightseeing.

FURTHER AFIELD Around 75km north of Barcelona lies the popular resort Lloret de Mar. Taking around an hour in the car, this is an ideal daytrip destination if you are spending a little longer in Barcelona. It offers many bars, restaurants and shops.

GETTING THERE You can now fly to Barcelona from Southend Airport (catch the C2C train from Upminster) with Easyjet. The flight is a couple of hours. www.easyjet.com.

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The Directory FOR HER Where to find all the lovely things featured in this issue…

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featured SHOPs HORNCHURCH Top £19.99, H&M, Liberty

Poundland 762651 www.poundland.co.uk Shopping Centre, Romford, River Island 0844 847 2627  Argoswww 0845 165 7274 hm.com www.riverisland.com 84-86 High Street, RM12 4UH Gold skater skirt by Lashes, £45, 738132 Wilkinson the BREWERY, romford www.argos.co.uk House of Fraser, Lakeside, www.wilkinsonplus.com www.houseoffraser.co.uk Sainsburys 761978 www.sainsburys.co.uk B&Q 734210 The Range 771790 Hornchurch Road, RM11 1PY www.therange.co.uk www.diy.com TK Maxx761978 The Brewery, RM1 1AU Boots 442089 www.tkmaxx.com M&Co 251280 126 High Street, RM12 4UH www.boots.com 57 Station Road, RM14 2SU the Liberty, romford www.mandco.com BHS 0844 488 5127 Sainsburys 475214 ww.bhs.co.uk 95-101 High Street, RM11 1TX Roomes 255300 Dorothy Perkins 760348 www.sainsburys.co.uk 22-24 Station Road, RM14 2UB www.dorothyperkins.com www.roomes.co.uk H&M 0844 736 9000 Shoe Zone 472180 www.hm.com 142 High Street, RM12 6QX Waitrose 224444 Marks & Spencer 766424 www.shoezone.com 218 St Mary’s Lane, RM14 3BT www.marksandspencer.com www.waitrose.com  New Look 760637  Tesco 0845 6779581 300 Hornchurch Road RM11 1PY www.newlook.com Next 0844 844 5235 www.tesco.com www.next.co.uk 1. Mela dark red shirred waist lace dress, £25, New Look, Liberty Shopping Centre, Romford, Superdry 760588 www.newlook.com. 2. Grey baroque peplum dress,  £39.50, Dorothy Perkins, 127-132 High Street, Hornchurch, www.dorothyperkins.com.3.www.superdry.com Flock spot prom dress, £49, M & co, 55-57 Station Road, Out of Doors Upminster, www.mandco.com www.outofdoors.co.uk THE MALL, romford  388700 Asda 30  Debenhams 0844 561 6161 Mutts and Hounds www.asda.com Market Place, RM1 3ET www.muttsandhounds.co.uk Blue INC 752847 www.debenhams.com www.blueinc.co.uk Matalan 0845 330 3330 Monsoon 747337 Pets at Home 117 North Street, RM1 1ES uk.monsoon.co.uk www.petsathome.com www.matalan.co.uk Tesco 0845 677 9589 Bryant Avenue, RM3 0LL www.tesco.com

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Gidea Park Library 434978 Balgores Lane, RM2 6BS www.havering.gov.uk

North Romford Community Centre 766308 Clockhouse Lane, RM5 3QJ www.nrca.co.uk

Cranham Marsh Nature Reserve 01621 862960 Corbets Tey Road RM14 www.essexwt.org.uk/reserves/ cranham-marsh

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Raphael Park Main Road, RM2 5EB www.friendsofraphaelpark.org.uk

Harrow Lodge Park 433855 Hornchurch Road, RM11 1JR www.havering.gov.uk Havering College of Further & Higher Education 455011 Ardleigh Green Road, RM11 2LL www.havering-college.ac.uk Hornchurch Library 434903 44 North Street, RM11 1TB www.havering.gov.uk

Romford Market 434112 (or 3) 07903 418324 Market Place, RM1 3ER www.romford-market.co.uk

Parklands Corbets Tey Road RM14 The Old Chapel 222660 Sacred Heart of Mary Girls’ School, St Mary’s Lane, RM14 2QR www.theoldchapel upminster.co.uk Upminster Library 434933 26 Corbets Tey Road, RM14 2BB www.havering.gov.uk

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