#092, In Practice, Nov/Dec 2003

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HOLISTIC MANAGEMENT

IN PRACTICE

in this Issue

Providing the link between a healthy environment and a sound economy NOVEMBER / DECEMBER 2003

NUMBER 92

Exploring Families by Ann Adams

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here is an African saying that it takes a whole village to raise a child. The message behind this quote is that children flourish in an environment where there is healthy community dynamics with other children, extended family, and friends participating in the life of each child. From this diversity of interaction, action, and perception, the child has the opportunity to experience the richness of life and reaches adulthood with greater knowledge of how to contribute back to that community. One of the reasons that many families are attracted to Holistic Management and continue to manage holistically is because they are able to improve their family’s quality of life through better decision-making and planning. In a best-case scenario, both spouses or head of household are trained and have an interest in integrating Holistic Management into family “procedures” that are already in place like financial planning, decision-making, and communication. However, those who have been introduced to Holistic Management separately from their spouses or partners have found it challenging to bring these new ideas forward without feeling they are perceived as “preaching” a new path or knowing more than the other family members. Such a scenario can become fertile breeding grounds for conflict if care isn’t taken to respect differences while looking for common ground.

Every Head is a World A key to successfully creating the latter outcome rather than the former, is the willingness to explore life rather than assume that how we were raised is the only way to live life. In doing so, we encourage creativity and exploration, helping family members move beyond those assumptions. We create our new families believing we know what is “right” from our experiences with our biological family, but we have the opportunity of discovering what

best serves our family of choice through our willingness to explore life together. This is not to say that the families we grew up in did things wrong; rather, we must recognize life is dynamic and full of change. We meet people who were possibly raised in different ways or with different cultures. In creating new protocol, standards, or ground rules with our family of choice, it helps to have a way to explore the values that are important to them and create an environment where we can nurture those values for everyone in the family. Families practicing Holistic Management have consistently found the holistic goal setting to be immensely helpful in communicating those values and helping families make decisions toward the life they want. The articles in this issue demonstrate that heightened level of creativity, exploration, communication and respect. In managing holistically, these people have a greater understanding and appreciation for their families and what they have to offer to their families. In “Building A Tribal Legacy,” the story of the Colville tribe’s effort to better serve their children, we learn that we need to move beyond our own self-interest and comfort to look at how we can best serve the needs of children by more deeply integrating the traditions that have served us and examining the ones that haven’t. If we truly want to make decisions that are sustainable, then by definition we must consider and include children in those decisions. To do this effectively, we need to remember the dynamic nature of children and of life, adapt to the evolution of our families, question our own assumptions, and make decisions in which our children’s future is the top priority. And, if we develop such a policy based not on sacrifice, but on the philosophy or principle of abundance and regeneration, we will have moved a great deal closer to the future resource base that we desire.

As we create families of choice, we often must learn to integrate different cultures and traditions. Holistic Management can help us address that challenge with improved communication and creativity by providing us with an avenue for meaningful dialogue with our children and spouses.

We’re Doing It for the Children Steven Dahlberg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Holistic Management and the Whole Family Mark Gardner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4

Building a Tribal Legacy Ann Adams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6

Okay Dad, I Get It—Introducing Holistic Management to My Family Phil Metzger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8

LAND & LIVESTOCK—A special section of IN PRACTICE Into the Woods—Holistic Decisions in the Forest Jim Howell . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9 On the Circle Ranch—Nourishing Wilderness Jim Howell . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13 Savory Center Bulletin Board

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Savory Center Forum . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 Certified Educators . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17 Marketplace . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20


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