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ACE advice, culture & entertainment for tomorrow’s gentleman
tomorrow’s gentleman Jake Cook shares his story and proves chivalry isn’t dead.
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ACE Advice, Culture ,& Entertainment for tomorrow’s gentleman
EDITOR Kate Gray CREATIVE DIRECTOR Holly Cook WRITERS Jama Cook Holly Cook Richard Cook STYLISTS Hillary Mcbride Deja Turner Holly Cook PHOTOGRAPHERS Liz Detzel Holly Cook MODELS Mars Howard Evan Rogers Jacob Cook 4 ACE.COM FALL 2013
Contents August 2013
DEPARTMENTS
EDITOR’S LETTER 10 ADVICE ALL ABOUT THE SHOES 6 ASK SCARLETT 12 GAME DAY DO’S & DON’TS 14
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CULTURE FALL SEMESTER TO DO LIST 16 NOW THAT’S A COMEBACK 20 NATURAL DEVISTATION 24 ENTERTAINMENT FINDING YOUR SIGNATURE DRINK 28 LOLLAPALOOZA LIFESTYLE 34
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CELEBRITY STYLE ICONS 36 TOMORROW’S GENTLEMAN 42 ACE LADY 46 ALL THE SAME 50
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hoes reveal whether a man takes prides in the details of his outfit. If he pairs a nice suit with cheap pair of tacky lace ups, he’s not going to give off a very positive image. There are several different styles of shoes, but one good thing about being a guy is that you can have a wide-ranging wardrobe that consists of just a few staple styles of shoes. There’s no need to have every style in every color. Just stick to these staple shoe styles to complete your wardrobe.
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>>The
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ALDO ‘Degrass’ Boot
A rugged congac leather boot trimmed in contrasting canvas gives a vintage twist to the classic workman’s boot.
$75
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Timberland ‘Newmarket’ Boot
The design of this smartly constructed boot merges a strong-featured rugged boot with a traditional moccasin toe.
$87
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Sebago ‘Spinnaker’ Boat Shoe
Complementary leather colors distinguish a moccasin-stitched boat shoe with a slip resistant rubber sole.
$100
Sperry ‘Authentic Original’ Boat
Complementary leather colors distinguish a moccasin-stitched boat shoe with a slip resistant rubber sole.
$100
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1901 ‘Saddle up’ Oxford
The cheerful style of a classic saddle shoe is modernized with a suede upper trim supported by a sturdy rubber sole.
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1901 ‘Saddle up’ Oxford
The cheerful style of a classic saddle shoe is modernized with a suede upper trim supported by a sturdy rubber sole.
$90
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Aldo ‘Caratauc’ Wingtip Oxford
Aged beige leather crafts a topstitched oxford with classic wingtip style.
Kenneth Cole New York Suede Loafer
A Silver Technology™ footbed grounds a low-profile loafer constructed from smooth grey suede.
$92
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Scarlett Ask
My girlfriend of almost 2 years has gained a litle weight since turning 21. She is always complaining about it, even though I tell her she looks great and that I love her just the way she is. How can I convince her that she’s still beautiful?
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-Jon, 22
irst of all, put down the posters and XL sharpie, and call of the campaign right now. As sweet as it is to be telling her she’s beautiful and that you will love her no matter her size, there’s not a chance in hell you’ll get her to agree. We’re girls, and with that come insecurities, we will never be entirely happy with our bodies, even if we were to drop down to a size 1. That said, you should still compliment her and make her feel important, but be careful, too much can sound insincere. It’s also important that you don’t under any circumstances compliment what has changed. Saying, “I love your curves,” translates to, “Babe, even though you’ve gotten fat, I still love you.” On another note, if she is serious about making changes, say something like, “I love you the way you are, but if it would make you feel better, I’ll work out with you, that way we could spend some more time together too.” All in all, it is important to reassure her that she doesn’t in any way turn you off, but that if she wants help you are there for support.
I met this girl about 4 months ago, and we both agreed to just have “casual fun.” For the first couple months we spent a lot of time together, but it was mainly out at parties or bars. I think she’s starting to want something more serious, but honestly I don’t. I don’t want to hurt her and end things, but I don’t want to lead her on either. What do I do? -Jared, 21
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ll right Jared, I have a few things to say that you’re probably not going to like, so just be prepared. I want to start out by saying, agreements like this never last forever, and they always end with someone getting hurt, and in your case it seems like its going be her. The moment you notice her developing an attachment, you need to go all in or back out for good. Whether or not this agreement was shook on, feelings have changed therefore the deal changes, and things must end. You cannot, I repeat cannot have the best of both worlds, and the relationship must end, or move on to the next level. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s the truth. I hope it helps.
My girlfriend & I are taking a break in order to concentrate more on our first semester of college. What are the do’s and don’ts of a break, and how do I know if it’s time for us to move on?
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-Bret, 18
o communicate, don’t hide anything. Every relationship and every “break” is different but I suggest talking to her. It’s important to find out what this break means according to the two of you, and no one else. I’ve had breaks where we were seeing other people, and I’ve had breaks that were just that a break, we spent time apart, but other people were entirely out of the picture. As far as moving on goes, there’s no real answer. But when you know, you’ll know. It’s likely that the reason you asked for a break has more to do with just wanting to concentrate on school. Once you discover that, you’ll be able to see more into the situation and answer your own questions. get your questions answered by Scarlett at FALL 2013 www.acemag.com/scarlett
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game day parties Playing the role of party host for a football watch party is a huge responsibility for all fans and unless you are fully prepared, the party could be a disaster. Of course, the game is the main attraction, but watching the action on the screen can be completely changed by the right—or wrong—party. Follow this short list of Do’s and Don’ts to ensure that your friends won’t be looking for a different party for next weekend’s game.
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DON’T BE A POOR SPORT Whether your team is wining or losing, be a good sport about it. Being a good sport is especially important if people in your group are cheering for the opposing team. How would you feel if your friends were throwing it in your face that their team beat yours. Not cool.
DO MAKE INTRODUCTIONS Most likely a lot of your guests will already know each other, however if you are inviting people from different areas of your life, more than likely there will be people at your event who have never met. In this situation it is your responsibility to be the proper host and make sure no one feels awkward or uncomfortable. Introduce people as they come and find common interests between the groups, such as which team they are rooting for, or where they are from, in order to give them things to talk about while you’re entertaining other guests.
DON’T BE SKEET WITH THE FOOD Food is expensive, but you did choose to host the party. If your guests show up and notice no food, they may feel un-appreciated. and do you really want to be making 50 Taco Bell runs during crucial points of the game? Didn’t think so. Food is just as synonymous with a watch party as the game itself. If the party is lacking in the food department, don’t expect too many guests to be returning next weekend. DON’T DRINK TOO MUCH Yes, everyone at the party wants to have a good time, however one guest’s excessive drinking can easily ruin the party. This isn’t to say that everyone needs a limit that results in a padlock on the fridge, however maybe instead, set an example by taking the drinking slowly yourself. Being sloppy drunk can only impede your ability to be a great host.
DO MAKE IT A POTLUCK If you are overwhelmed with the responsibilities of planning and catering your event feel free to hold a potluck. Ask each guest to bring their favorite dish or drink, to help take the burden off your shoulders. It also helps ensure that every guest has something to snack on that they enjoy. Potlucks are common, and they most likely will not dissuade your friends from attending the party. DO PLAN FOR RIDES HOME. In order to be a proper host, not only is it extremely important, it is your responsibility to have plans for those who have had too much to drink. If you live in an urban areas arrange for taxis, or other driving services. If that wouldn’t work for your area or group make sure to have plenty of blankets and pillows for your guests to sleep over if need be. FALL 2013 ACE.COM 13
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fall semester to do LIST The 2013 fall semseter will fly by faster than you think. You’ve got five short months to do these 3 things to have your semester in culture covered. Starting with...
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WATCH EVERYTHING FEATURING KAT DENNINGS
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ou’ve seen her all over ABC as the co-star of the sitcom, 2 Broke Girls, but maybe she wowed you as Darcy Lewis, the short tempered assistant of Jane Foster in Kenneth Branagh’s Thor of 2011. Or maybe your first wow was hearing her voice over in American Dad or Robot Chicken. Either way, it stands to reason that 27-year-old Kat Dennings, only started to catch everyone’s attention in the past couple of years. In 2012 she was voted #30 on Ask Men’s top 90 ‘Most Desirable women’, #97 on Maxim’s List of the World’s Most Beautiful women, and was most recently once again named as one of the ‘most desirable women’ for 2013 by Askmen.com Kat Dennings is quickly rising to fame, and becoming a lady to watch.
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load your hulu que with these 5 Series picks
2. Chicago Fire
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1. The Walking Dead
4. The Following
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5. The Game of Thrones
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Road trip to one of these FIVE locations The perfect road trip isn’t only about where; IT’S ABOUT WHY. So before you get behind the wheel and start driving to the first destination Siri is willing to take you. ask yourself: WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT OUT OF THIS ROADTRIP? Now, read further to learn about varios party scenes, beach escapes and adventure filled trips.
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CHICAGO
Why Chicago? It’s a cultural dynasty. The city features magnificent architecture, 40 topnotch museums, more than 200 theaters, and over 200 art galleries. However, the most intriguing reason to road trip to Chicago, is the 7000 plus restaurants that serve award-winning food. You will certainly never have concern when it comes to finding food. Actually, the only challenge you may have is figuring out how to stuff all the food into your plans.
new Orleans
Why New Orleans? The city is a breathtaking atmosphere with a mix of American and French culture. The old neighborhood, French Quarter is without a doubt the first place to begin when visiting New Orleans. When visiting the French Quarter you can expect to view old colonialstyle houses, with the iconic iron balconies. FALL 2013 ACE.COM 17
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Colorado Why Colorado? The options and are endless, and the occurrences are never predictable, and it is the perfect place to experience many activities. The array of options includes many different vineyards, the Western Slope, the Great Sand Dunes, and much more. Speaking of options, Colorado has a variety of different types of dining. Colorado has something for everyone, and peaks interests of all.
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Why Panama City Beach? Better known as PCB, panama City Beach is one of the best places for all college students to road trip for Spring Break. In PCB, the party never stops, nightclubs are crazy, and the beach is always packed. During your trip to Panama City Beach you can experience things that you would never get to do or see anywhere else. It’s the perfect get-away, and your best opportunity to take a break from school.
Why Las Vegas? Well honestly, it’s just a good time, and an extremely interesting atmosphere. On top of that it is actually pretty cost effective, many activities are free, or cheap to enter. While in Vegas you can experience many different cultures and countries within one city, including Asia, Egypt, Paris, and many others. The gambling is a bucket list experience that everyone should try. Yes, I’m sure you gambled a little on your 21st birthday, but Vegas casinos are a much different experience, and something everyone should experience at least once.
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et’s face it, you do not want to belly up to the bar and order a drink that will leave the bartender wondering if it was really meant for your girlfriend or if you are going to be drinking the girly drink all night. Make sure you leave no doubt and order yourself one of these top 3 guaranteed to put hair on your chest drinks. Men will admire you and women will definitely be intrigues. Don’t leave any room for doubt, and who knows, one of these might become your signature drink!
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SCOTCH ON THE ROCKS
Simple as that! And every man out there needs to learn to love scotch. It’s the ultimate hair-on-thechest whiskey. This is truly one that separates the men from the boys.
MANHATTAN
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This was the choice of Frank Sinatra and the Rat Pack. Can’t go wrong with this classic! Nothing says manly like Frank! ¾ oz. Vermouth 1 ½ oz. Blended Whiskey Stir with ice and strain into a cocktail glass. Serve with an orange slice.
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CAPTAIN AND COKE
Even though this classic combination would be great with any type of Cola or Rum, the spiciness of Captain Morgan is sure to please. Substitute with a diet cola and shave a few calories. 1 ½ oz Captain Morgan 4 oz Coke Pour over ice and serve 24 ACE.COM FALL 2013
This makes for a great winter and holiday drink as the liqueur takes the bite out of the scotch without totally diluting its flavor. And nothing is manlier than scotch.
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THE GODFATHER
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1 ½ oz Scotch ž oz Amaretto Serve over ice
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Gary Clark Junior Performs at Lollapalooza 2012
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is one of the greatest things to happen to the Midwest is musical history, a super-charged version of any other typical concert or festival, and it has been growing in popularity for 22 years. The event is Lollapalooza, a three-day event that has everyone preparing as well as reminiscing. Ace contributor reports on the event, sharing personal stories from young fans who attended Lollapalooza in 2012
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he 2013 Lollapalooza festival will be held on over 155 acres of land in Grant Park, boarding Michigan Avenue, and Monroe Street of Chicago, IL. Over the span of three days, Friday August 2nd, through Sunday August 4th the festival will be filled with non-stop action and have the streets filled with booths, exhibits, an estimated 70 artists, 5 elaborate stages and crowded with a myriad of more than 160,000 fans. This year makes for the 22nd annual Lollapalooza festival, but to many fans it is much more than a festival. “It’s so much more than that [a festival] it’s all about lifestyle and tradition. If you come once you’ll always go back,” says Peter Jackson, a 21-year old College junior, and religious attendee of Lollapalooza. “It’s a massive event, and words cannot do it justice, you would have to actually experience it yourself to understand,” says Jackson.
story in particular was about Jules Jackson, Peter Jackson’s younger brother, who had a very intriguing story about the crowd surf he completed during The Red Hot Chili Peppers performance. “I didn’t even know what was happening,” said Jules, “One second I was on the ground, and the next second someone had lifted me up and I was surfing the crowd, it’s something I never could have imagined, and never will forget.” Jules shared that he had never thought he would be the one fan out of thousands to be crowd surfing during any concert, but he was especially surprised to be doing it at Lollapalooza, “It’s definitely something I can check off my bucket list,” he said.
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Jackson attended the 2012 Lollapalooza festival with his younger brother and two close friends he met his freshman year of high school. “The four of us have been going ever since our junior year [of high school], and every year we have a story to tell better than the last,” Jackson said.
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Marshal Lansford, one of Jackson’s close friends explains the details of their most recent trip to Grant Park for Lollapalooza 2012, “During the 6 hour car ride from St. Louis, all we wanted to do was check into the hotel and nap. But, once we got there and saw the setting up of the stages we immediately changed our minds. We just sat there for hours taking it all in, drinking a couple of beers. We couldn’t wait for the festival to begin.” Jackson chuckled and said, “He’s not even exaggerating, we just sat on a hill and didn’t speak a word, we were in complete awe.” The 4 young men quickly started snow-balling off each other’s stories, and told their accounts of the festival that were unimaginable, and surprisingly shocking. One FALL 2013 ACE.COM 27
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Welcome to the Style Icon series. The point of this series is for all of our readers to find a famous male who appeals to their personal style as someone to aspire to. Some men may be very well known, while others are under the radar a bit. Either way your bound to find someone’s wardrobe to replicate.
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anye West is widely regarded as a style icon by his fans and peers because of his keen sense of visual arts as well as fashion. Even with his drama craved life, love him or hate him, you can always look to Kanye to draw fashion inspiration from. He creatively and instinctively throws simple pieces together in order to create a personalized look.
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is no surprise that Chase Crawford is being spotted on our style radar. As a perfect example of progressing style, he is one young male who definitely knows how to put together a sharp look. Crawford’s casual looks typically consist of clean lines, fitted garments, and simple timeless colors such as navy, black, white, greys brown, and beige. This style is especially appealing because it transcends all seasons and can be worn year round. These basic pieces can also be built in many different ways for a magnitude of outfits.
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Reggie Yates
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just a few short years Reggie Yates has gone from children’s television presenter to a well-established style icon, as a model for catwalk shows, and presented as ‘Most Stylish Men of the Week’ by GQ. Will.i.am has even gone as far as to refer to Yates as the “fashion Obama” because of his interesting flare for men’s fashion. He is known for raising the bar, and dressing appropriately for any occasion, whether it be a suit and tie, or laid back denim vest and khakis.
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wan McGregor can be described as one of Britain’s finest style icons, and has been slowly starting to influence Americans as well. Best know for his role in Star Wars, McGregor and has recently established himself as one of Hollywood’s leading men.
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McGregor has shown up on screen less and less throughout his 19-year career, but his style has been noticed more and more on the red carpet and in the streets. McGregor’s style consists of very masculine, dark and neutral looks and he does a great job of portraying current style trends as well as exhibiting his personality, which issomething we can all look to imitate.
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A known stereotype of our current generation is that the art of being a gentleman has become archaic for young men. The concept of “The gentleman” has been around for hundreds of years, and men who follow the gentleman lifestyle have lived happy, healthy, and successful lives. The core of being a gentleman is all about respect, style, courtesy, decency, and last but definitely not least chivalry. These traits are so admirable, and any man who holds them will have everyone will look up to him and women will find him irresistibly attractive. However, with the lifestyle fading, young men in current generations are not being taught about the skills needed to fulfill this particular life style. “Guys usually think being a gentleman means being the “nice guy”, and being the nice guy makes you a push-over,” said Jake Cook. He continued to explain why this is far from the truth. Being a gentleman means so much more than saying please and thank you, using appropriate table manners, and being the one who tries to please everyone. “It means carrying yourself with confidence and making sure there is respect and care in every decision you make, and every action you take” The word confidence can be interpreted in many ways, but the type of confidence Cook is trying to drill in your brain doesn’t mean you have to be the bad boy, or the boy who is too good for every girl in the bar. He is trying to portray the confidence one has when they are perfectly fine with themselves, and others around them, this man in not the one to pass judgment or belittle others. “In all situations you should always be the better person, judging anyone only causes pain for everyone involved,” Cook said.
“I always get so aggravated when someone says Chivalry is dead,” Cook says, “Its not, its just rare. I hate that the ass-holes can ruin it for the rest of us good guys.” Two years ago at a house party, Cook was engaged in a conversation with a group of people. During this interatction there was one guy in particular who was acting boastful, arrogant, and extremely insensitive to others around him. Cook took it upon himself to direct the focus of the group away from the man. “There were moments where I wanted to deck this guy, but instead I walked the guy to the kitchen and distracted him by asking him to make the ladies some drinks.” After returning to the group, Cook found out that the man was an ex-boyfriend of Erin, one of the girls in the group, who was feeling really uncomfortable by the situation her ex was causing. “She thanked me for helping diverse the situation and not making it worse, we’ve been together for 2 years now.” This was the point in Cook’s life where he realized being the gentleman in all situations actually does pay off. “If gave me the upper hand, and was a complete disadvantage for the other guy to be crude”, says Cook. Being a gentleman doesn’t happen overnight, it takes practice, and it takes serious learning and it is not something you can research. There is no way any one person can know before hand how to act like a gentleman in every situation life may throw him. “There is no true ‘guide’, being a gentleman is something that has to become second nature, it just has to become a part of who you are.” Said, Cook.
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My mind's warped faster than light speed. On a flash drive hittin’ delete repeatedly, with such frequency that it feeds back onto itself infinitely. With so much knowledge that I can grow the tree with THE Pomme in my palm I drop bombs and send ya runnin to yo mom's Stay calm people and don't riot. I'm bout to put this into a noose but I don't tie it. AKA I hang the game And as I sway, I surf the fame. ‘Cause everywhere I go they know my name. But everywhere I been still stays the same.
ALL THE SAME By: Ricky Cook
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